WEBVTT - The One Where It's Okay To Bite 0:00:05.960 --> 0:00:08.240 Hello, my loves and welcome back to give them while 0:00:08.240 --> 0:00:12.600 a podcast. I'm hyped as it gets today because it 0:00:12.720 --> 0:00:15.480 is a rare occasion that I can get my mom 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:19.480 and little brother into the same room to record a podcast, 0:00:20.200 --> 0:00:23.720 and because today is that day, we get to do 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:27.120 it all right, So not only do we get to 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:31.520 celebrate the holidays that are coming up, but it's also 0:00:32.680 --> 0:00:37.640 a time that we get to celebrate my mama's birthday. 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:45.680 To you, this is so exciting. I love. I always 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:49.680 ask people on their birthdays. Is there anything that you've 0:00:49.760 --> 0:00:51.440 learned about yourself this past year? 0:00:51.760 --> 0:00:53.440 Ooh, I love this question. 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:56.160 You know what, I think I've learned a lot about 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:59.000 this entire family and how strong we are, how we 0:00:59.040 --> 0:01:02.240 cope with things. Yeah, and how blessed I am to 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:05.000 have these little munchkins in my life and my new 0:01:05.040 --> 0:01:07.959 little grand baby that I'm just smitten. 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.919 With the best gig in the world. 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:14.800 This morning, she was so cute. She says happy, and 0:01:14.840 --> 0:01:17.880 we're working on birthday, but she was so stinking cute 0:01:17.880 --> 0:01:18.480 this morning. 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:20.720 Did she say happy? Would she say like happy? 0:01:21.760 --> 0:01:21.960 Yeah? 0:01:22.000 --> 0:01:27.000 She goes happy and then she had the rail. But 0:01:27.160 --> 0:01:31.000 we woke up to her this morning, went into her 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:35.160 bedroom and she knows how to zip her little pajamas. 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:35.360 Now. 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:37.280 She was zipping them up and down, and she was 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.039 so enthralled that she didn't even realize that we were 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:46.400 in the room. Melts my heart, melts my Oh. 0:01:46.440 --> 0:01:48.880 I love that, Mama. I'm so happy that I brought 0:01:48.880 --> 0:01:51.040 that little gift into the world. 0:01:51.240 --> 0:01:54.520 She's the best. I was just saying, may, I was 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:57.720 just saying, how I have anxiety today or like sadness. 0:01:57.920 --> 0:02:01.040 It might honestly be because I us see Ocean on 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:02.800 Mondays and I didn't get to see her yesterday. 0:02:03.080 --> 0:02:05.720 That might be it. It's okay, I'll see her soon. 0:02:06.040 --> 0:02:08.560 Oh, I know the best thing that's ever happened to us. 0:02:08.639 --> 0:02:09.160 For sure. 0:02:09.280 --> 0:02:12.360 She really is. Mom. I'm very curious because as we 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:16.160 were walking to get breakfast and I told my mom, like, bitch, 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:17.720 I got to get you on the podcast. And she 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:20.200 was like, well, I have a story for you that 0:02:20.240 --> 0:02:22.640 I heard on the radio. And I was like, tell me. 0:02:23.040 --> 0:02:25.120 She said, I'm waiting for the podcast. I said, you're 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.040 going to tell me now because I need to make 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:30.240 sure it's approved one podcast, And she goes, it's approved, 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:32.520 trust me, So tell me what you heard on the radio. 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:34.720 Okay, So I was listening to the radio this morning 0:02:34.720 --> 0:02:37.160 when I was in the car, and this cute little 0:02:37.200 --> 0:02:41.400 DJ was talking about this story about this man that 0:02:41.560 --> 0:02:44.560 was walking across the street on Librea and Sixth Street 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:51.760 and two people like totally jumped him for his watch. What, Yes, 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.800 and they got his watch. But there were citizens arrest 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:57.880 whatever you want to call it. They caught the two 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:01.920 culprits and arrested them. And now obviously you know they've 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:04.600 got all burglary whatever you want to call it, but 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.600 they've traumatized this man. And the thing I want to 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:10.639 put out there is it's the time of year, it's 0:03:10.720 --> 0:03:14.200 Christmas holidays, and people need to be aware of their surroundings. 0:03:14.480 --> 0:03:17.240 Don't take nice bags out, don't take nice jewelry out 0:03:17.240 --> 0:03:19.880 if you're walking, and just be aware. 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:21.840 But you should also take that advice. 0:03:21.960 --> 0:03:24.720 I'm going to heed my own advice today after hearing 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:25.240 that story. 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:28.960 Yes, because Lisa, you have beautiful. 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:30.600 Bags, yes, and I like to and I like to 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:31.440 use my bag. 0:03:31.360 --> 0:03:34.600 Of course, but right now you just throw on your 0:03:34.600 --> 0:03:37.840 little crocheted bag and you like, I was actually thinking 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:40.560 today when we were walking, I have these earrings in 0:03:40.800 --> 0:03:44.960 and their cubics are conna all right, Like you want them, thief, 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.480 I'll just give them to you. They're like a hundred bucks. 0:03:47.480 --> 0:03:48.520 They don't look at though. 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.840 But that's what worries me is if someone were to 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:55.120 see me, yeah, and they thought, like I think about 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:59.480 this all the time. My engagement ring, you know, it 0:03:59.520 --> 0:04:02.280 was display is one hundred and fifty thousand, you know, 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:04.320 and it wasn't that what. 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:06.320 I lost still worth in the thousands. 0:04:06.320 --> 0:04:10.000 Is it's still very very excitive take. But a thief 0:04:10.040 --> 0:04:11.720 thinking they're going to take my hand off and get 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:13.600 one hundred and fifty thousand for it, they would be 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.680 very very upset and disappointed. And now I'm left without 0:04:16.680 --> 0:04:20.400 a hand. You have a ring that's not worth six figures, 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:22.400 and everyone's fucked in this situation. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:26.039 Was the guy that got jumped hurt? Did he have 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:26.520 to go to the house? 0:04:26.600 --> 0:04:29.640 I don't say that he was hurt, traumatized or aumatized, 0:04:31.080 --> 0:04:35.200 you would not be yes, absolutely, so yeah, you know, 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.800 just be aware of your surroundings, don't flash your stuff 0:04:37.839 --> 0:04:40.920 this time of year, and be giving. 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:43.679 You see somebody that needs help, give them some help. 0:04:43.960 --> 0:04:45.880 You see someone who wants to jump, you just give 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:46.480 him the watch. 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:49.320 Well, you should give them what they want because you 0:04:49.320 --> 0:04:49.840 don't want to lose. 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:52.040 No, lie, I know. Can I tell you before we 0:04:52.120 --> 0:04:54.920 started this, it's all about stay in the light. If 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:57.120 I don't make jokes, I will crawl in a hole 0:04:57.200 --> 0:04:59.520 and be in the fetal position until I die. 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:02.680 Yes, holidays make people go a little nuts. 0:05:02.680 --> 0:05:05.200 No, it is scary, I told I told my family, like, 0:05:05.640 --> 0:05:08.600 we got it kind of hunger down because it's scary 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:10.920 out here. So just be safe, everybody. 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:12.960 Well, even when we were in Palm Springs and we 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:14.920 went to that nice steakhouse and we had all those 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:16.960 leftovers because there were so many of us, and that 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:20.080 cute man kind of said something to me under his breath, 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:21.720 and I said, excuse me, what did you say? And 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:24.080 he said, do you have any food? So what did 0:05:24.080 --> 0:05:26.080 we do? We gave him all of our leftovers and 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:27.000 he was thrilled. 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.240 He was like he was so you know, even that 0:05:30.360 --> 0:05:33.960 was the night we had been ransacked the same night. 0:05:35.000 --> 0:05:36.040 How does that work? 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:39.320 Yeah, So karma, ebbs and flows. 0:05:39.360 --> 0:05:43.240 I think they stole my bobble ring. It looked like 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:45.839 my little It was a ring I got in Puerto Rico, 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:48.200 and it looked literally like one of those sucker rings. 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:49.400 Okay, big it was. 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:53.560 This is exciting. You're on, Lisa, because give your your 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:57.720 encounter or your memory of what happened when you were ransacked, 0:05:57.760 --> 0:06:00.279 because it sounded like you came in and you are 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.320 just upset. 0:06:02.560 --> 0:06:04.880 I was because I went to the car, I opened 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:09.880 the door. Everything was askew in the car ran sick open, Yes, 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:15.600 it was ran sick. The arm like, the center console 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:19.240 was up, everything was thrown everywhere. Well, my biggest fear 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:21.520 was is we had the diaper bag in the car. 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:24.839 My wallet was in the car Lauren's whilet was in 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:29.240 the diaper bag with my wallet, and I had stupidly 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:33.080 put two thousand, two hundred dollars in my wallet rich 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:41.800 because I bank to pay my property taxes Saint George, Utah. 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:43.440 But it wasn't right. 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:47.200 No, but my car also, so I don't. 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:49.320 Be carrying cash around these times. 0:06:49.160 --> 0:06:53.480 That's everyone be careful twenty two hundred dollars in your 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.640 wallet at all times and make sure you leave it 0:06:55.680 --> 0:06:57.080 in the car that's unlocked. 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.320 So I really thought when I came back in, because 0:07:00.400 --> 0:07:02.880 the backpack was gone and I had gone through the house, 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:04.920 the diaper bag I should say I had gone through 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:06.120 the house and it wasn't there. 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:09.520 And a week it was just where it was in 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:12.440 plain view, right where i'd been the night before. The 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:17.520 when you walk in, it was literally right there, just 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:21.920 why I looked. I looked Lauren, and I was like, okay, 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:26.800 everyone calmed down anyway. 0:07:27.080 --> 0:07:29.840 So then, but my bobblery got left in the car 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:31.840 because Ocean wanted to play with it, and I was 0:07:31.880 --> 0:07:34.640 worried she'd somehow swallow it. So I gave it to 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:38.120 Lauren to put in the side door. And then I 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:39.560 didn't get out of the side door. 0:07:39.720 --> 0:07:43.040 But he took that, took it. 0:07:43.600 --> 0:07:45.280 That's all they took. 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.240 Really, I had my ray bands in there. They took it. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:55.840 She's talking the way we always did. Had my wallet, Nope, didn't. 0:07:55.600 --> 0:08:03.880 Even when she came in my roam. What happened? 0:08:04.720 --> 0:08:06.120 We have got to get video. 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:10.320 I was just gonna say, do you guys do so well? 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.560 It's incredible, all right? 0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:17.520 Well, on the note of us being ransacked and only 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:21.760 a ring being stolen, what are they get that ring? Memories? 0:08:23.720 --> 0:08:26.440 But lots of my memories. I found out Lauren like 0:08:26.560 --> 0:08:30.200 she was pregnant and we were on the beach in 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:33.240 Puerto Rico. Honestly, we found out in North Carolina that 0:08:33.320 --> 0:08:34.920 she was pregnant, but she was pregnant on that trip 0:08:35.000 --> 0:08:36.560 doing a movie, and. 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.240 It just that was like six months pregnant doing a movie. 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:40.920 You know what I think you guys should do. I 0:08:40.960 --> 0:08:43.640 think that means you should do another trip to Puerto 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.640 Rico at some point, because you can make even better memories. 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:51.600 We get me another gunball ring exactly, Amensis. So, because 0:08:51.920 --> 0:08:55.920 you are sixty two today, fucking hot and an icon 0:08:56.200 --> 0:09:02.599 so hot, let's talk about this exp back in the 0:09:02.679 --> 0:09:06.000 day because my mom obviously hot now bombshell back in 0:09:06.040 --> 0:09:10.560 the day, and there was a man who was her 0:09:10.600 --> 0:09:15.520 boss at the time who brought yes and I always 0:09:15.520 --> 0:09:17.920 and I was young, but like I'm a smart motherfucker, 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:20.920 right even at that age. Like, I don't like the 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.840 way you be looking at my mama. All right, So 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:25.640 Lisa's what was it your mom? 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.400 There was some loss. I think your. 0:09:28.280 --> 0:09:30.559 Mom or your dad had passed. I think it was 0:09:30.679 --> 0:09:32.920 your dad because I was young. It was your dad. Yeah, 0:09:33.760 --> 0:09:37.440 he brought you flowers. I don't like this. I don't 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:40.360 like this one bit. Why he bringing you flowers? Bitch? 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:43.520 All right, So Lisa tell the story how you remember? 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.080 And then from my seven year old mind, I'm going 0:09:45.120 --> 0:09:45.760 to tell the story. 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:49.000 So he delivers the flowers personally, He tells me sorry, 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:51.160 gives me a hug. I put him on the table. 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:54.240 I go upstairs, come back down, and all the petals 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:56.079 are missing on all the flowers. 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.640 Yeah. Stop? Wait? 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.880 Why why are the petals missing on the flowers? 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:02.720 I'll tell you why. 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.800 Well, first of all, she said he bought cheap flowers. 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:08.480 They're already dead. 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:13.160 She did say that, Wait, you ripped the petals off. 0:10:14.760 --> 0:10:20.600 He was cheap, mom, he bought cheap flowers. Every missing 0:10:21.360 --> 0:10:24.520 that is the or was it the cushions? 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:29.600 This was my first savage, you know, like my mom 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:31.880 goes to work and you're there. Now you're coming to 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:35.480 my house and hugging on my mam always flowers. I 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:38.959 don't like the optics. I was doing God's work, all right. 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:49.240 I feel he liked my mom. 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:51.320 Who wouldn't though. 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:54.240 He was like a little Mormon boy and Lisa was fun, 0:10:55.760 --> 0:10:58.600 hot and blonde. Yeah we're over. 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.000 Did you or were you like Lauren? 0:11:02.520 --> 0:11:03.800 I didn't get mad at her at all? 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:08.400 Okay, I strategically she like went upstairs, and I immediately tiptoed, 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.880 got the garbage, pluck pluckuck, throw him in the trash, 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.560 under the endo, the bin again, and then I laid 0:11:14.600 --> 0:11:15.959 back down on the heater. 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.440 And he had not moved an inch. That's how she acted, 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.400 and they just magically disappeared. 0:11:22.520 --> 0:11:24.360 That is the funniest thing I've ever heard. You know, 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:27.520 who's going to be like that Ocean Kent, I guarantee it. 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:28.520 No. 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:32.480 She just there's like little attitude things that I'm like, like, well, 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:35.360 I'm going to show her, like I totally exactly how 0:11:35.360 --> 0:11:36.120 Ocean is gonna be. 0:11:36.200 --> 0:11:37.840 Yes, hilarious. 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:45.520 We also talked about how Dad would cover for me, 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:48.240 because yesterday I called you because I don't recall Easton 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.079 ever getting hot sauce in his mouth or so, so 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:51.520 I remember the soap. 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:56.160 I do remember this, and it wasn't I remember soap, 0:11:56.200 --> 0:11:59.080 but it was almost like we were talking about my dad. 0:11:59.200 --> 0:12:01.880 He would cover up. And I probably said something because 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:04.480 I brought up Walter Hogan because I'd always go over. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:07.760 There and then your naughty words from his top brother brother. 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.960 And so I came home and I probably said fuck 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.240 or something like that, and I think Dad not wanting 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:15.520 to tell you washed my mouth out, because that was 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:16.640 better than letting you know. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:22.760 Had I learned it right? Always go to Dad. He 0:12:22.880 --> 0:12:25.240 keeps it kosher. And then by the time you tell 0:12:25.240 --> 0:12:27.960 Lisa you've let it like sink in, she doesn't need 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:29.720 to go to dad. Dad already knows this is having 0:12:29.760 --> 0:12:33.560 Like two months ago. However, Easton was a biter. And 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:37.520 this is what scares me about Ocean, because Ocean, when 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:41.920 that girl is tired, she will fuck you up. She turns, 0:12:42.360 --> 0:12:45.679 she turns, all right, I'll sit there and I'll be 0:12:45.760 --> 0:12:48.360 loving her, and it's quick, all right, and then she 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:52.960 turns into grabbing your face, pulling your hair, biting. 0:12:52.720 --> 0:12:59.040 And she doesn't like with a smile, Oh lovely, it's 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:01.920 like I'm tired now. But it's is it like a 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.360 frustration because yeah, you're right, I've seen her do it 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:06.120 before and it's almost like a silliness. 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:10.160 But also unless you're on the receiving end of it, 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.120 it is not. I mean, I've never had someone so 0:13:13.160 --> 0:13:17.280 strong ever, she's the incredible hult all right. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:19.080 But can I defend her really quick? 0:13:19.120 --> 0:13:19.280 Yes? 0:13:19.520 --> 0:13:20.760 Defend her so sweet? 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:23.080 Because after she like does. 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:27.319 That need she beats out of you, she kisses. 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:30.079 Out sweet, is so caring? 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:33.480 Let her bite you? Well, you know, but now now 0:13:33.600 --> 0:13:35.520 I know what to do because it happens so quickly 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:38.800 that when I see her turning into tired, I put 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:44.040 her in her crib with her bubba before before I 0:13:44.080 --> 0:13:47.719 get you know, that's what it is. Did Easton do that? So? 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:51.240 Easton was a bier? All right? And Lisa, tell me 0:13:51.240 --> 0:13:54.640 if you remember this, what did you have because Bob 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:56.079 your dad, my grandfather. 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.280 Well, no, I have to tell you. So Easton was 0:13:58.320 --> 0:14:01.240 such a bier and la La would hold him by 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:06.000 his forehead and he'd just do these chomming tarn tying 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:10.520 to get at her. It was hysterical. Anyway, he did 0:14:10.600 --> 0:14:16.079 the unfortunate thing of biting Lauren when my dad was babysitting. 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:18.360 And I had told my dad that I had heard 0:14:19.040 --> 0:14:21.120 that when they bite, you're supposed to bite him back. 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:25.000 So my cute dad did what I had said, bit 0:14:25.080 --> 0:14:26.600 him back, and it broke my dad's heart. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:29.360 Oh no, I scream and cried. 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:32.440 I can't remember, but I remember, but guess what, Oh 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:34.000 I remember everything? 0:14:34.200 --> 0:14:35.520 Yeah, but he never bid again. 0:14:35.640 --> 0:14:43.680 There's the face again. No, I remember. We were down 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:48.560 in the basement, and he literally my index finger bits 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:51.000 so hard that it almost went all the way through. 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.160 All Right, it was not good, And maybe I'm exaggerating, 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:56.600 but I do remember it being pretty intense. Yeah, So 0:14:56.640 --> 0:15:00.600 I run upstairs and I get Bob. Bob goes down stairs. 0:15:01.640 --> 0:15:06.360 I hear the attack, and. 0:15:06.320 --> 0:15:08.480 I'm at the top of the stairs and I see 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:11.520 Bob come around the corner to come up the stairs. 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:16.760 Eastern's sad little face trailing freshly bitten. 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:21.840 No, No, Bob. 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:25.640 Was just heartbroken for the listeners. Bob who was on 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:28.840 fire at one point. Okay, keep going, that's yeah, you did. 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:33.200 Bob's my dad, your grandfather, and he was sad. 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.160 He wasn't like ha ha, because that would have. 0:15:35.120 --> 0:15:38.200 Been No, it looked like he had seen a ghost. No, 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:40.040 he was deflated. 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:41.960 Where did he bite you on your arm? 0:15:42.120 --> 0:15:43.760 Probably, I can't remember. 0:15:44.000 --> 0:15:47.400 I don't know. I was just really but he hasn't 0:15:47.400 --> 0:15:49.080 bit everyone, including the neighbor's dog. 0:15:50.760 --> 0:15:53.520 The dog he left gum in one of the neighbor's dogs. 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:55.520 Gum. Yeah, because he bit the. 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:58.120 Dog with his gum and the gum got attached to them. 0:15:58.000 --> 0:15:59.800 And he tried to say he didn't bite the dog. 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:01.240 How the gum get there, bro. 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:06.560 You guys are the funniest kids ever. When did you 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.720 stop biting? Because that's when Ocean, I bet will stop. 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:10.240 Well, I think I still kind of do. 0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.560 Bite you to hear that, ladies. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:16.080 No, I don't know when did I stop? Probably right 0:16:16.080 --> 0:16:20.360 after Bob bit me, as. 0:16:19.120 --> 0:16:19.840 Last year. 0:16:21.640 --> 0:16:24.560 You stopped after Actually he stopped after Bob. 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:25.840 Oh yeah he never did. 0:16:25.880 --> 0:16:28.520 Like I don't remember. I don't have a thought of 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:30.560 me like getting in trouble for biting. 0:16:30.760 --> 0:16:36.400 Yeah, so your baby, I will ever bite my baby 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:37.240 like to. 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:38.040 Get them to stop. 0:16:38.080 --> 0:16:41.280 I'm not promoting that, Lisa, We're just telling what happened. 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:42.920 And it was a different day and age back then. 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:45.320 But also it was just. 0:16:45.440 --> 0:16:49.320 But also Lisa Listeners wrote in a few months ago 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:51.720 when Lalla was first talking about ocean biting, and there 0:16:51.720 --> 0:16:55.080 were many, many, many people who said you're supposed to 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:56.680 bite them back. So people still do it. 0:16:56.800 --> 0:16:59.720 Yeah, yeah, but can I tell you you also, it's 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:02.800 not it's that weird age right like Ocean right now, 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:06.760 she can't she can't talk, you know, so things that 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:11.800 she say words, no, but she can't when I tell correct, 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:14.480 When I tell Ocean, when you bite Mama, it hurts, 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:17.440 I would appreciate you not doing that, or else I'm 0:17:17.480 --> 0:17:20.000 going to do it to you, or because you wouldn't 0:17:20.040 --> 0:17:21.959 like it if I did it to you. She doesn't 0:17:22.520 --> 0:17:25.800 know what I'm saying. So when she gets to the age, 0:17:25.840 --> 0:17:27.200 I know she's going to grow out of things. My 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:29.760 child's not going to be in the sixth grade rolling, 0:17:29.960 --> 0:17:32.840 I hope bit biting people. She's gonna grow out of it, 0:17:33.160 --> 0:17:34.880 or I'll be able to sit her down and say, 0:17:35.280 --> 0:17:38.440 if you bite, you're going to time out with. 0:17:38.480 --> 0:17:39.720 A bite on you. 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:42.560 No, I'm not biting her, but I mean, I'm telling 0:17:42.560 --> 0:17:44.360 you what. That kid will take your head off. 0:17:44.400 --> 0:17:48.600 I mean, she's just really she's our genius baby for sure. 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:49.760 She's so smart. 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:51.879 Look when she's tired, she's tired and she needs to 0:17:51.960 --> 0:17:52.280 let you know. 0:17:53.240 --> 0:17:56.240 Yeah, I mean I get very aggressive when I get 0:17:56.280 --> 0:17:56.760 tired too. 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:57.760 She's such amazing. 0:17:57.840 --> 0:17:59.680 So like you get very angry too. 0:18:00.080 --> 0:18:04.840 Oh see, that's probably because there's probably aggression or like frustration, 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:07.600 but she doesn't yet know how to let it out. 0:18:07.640 --> 0:18:10.360 And she's not a screamer. She's not a screamer. 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:12.080 You know what else it could be? Though? What did 0:18:12.080 --> 0:18:13.840 we learn from Courtney Berman the other day. 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.480 It was something yeah, because I was. 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:20.600 Telling Courtney at Thanksgiving dinner about this feeling like when 0:18:20.680 --> 0:18:24.560 I see ocean, like I get it's called cute. No, 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:28.920 it's called cute aggression. There it is okay. And she said, 0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:32.800 when you're hungry, you do something to cure hunger. When 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:35.359 you're tired, you go to sleep. It cures you being tired. 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:38.040 But when you see something that's so cute, there is 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:41.640 nothing to cure that, so you go into like a well. 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:46.399 But can I tell you? I ask her that because 0:18:46.400 --> 0:18:49.359 it's like she loves her mom so much. I've witnessed this. 0:18:49.680 --> 0:18:51.600 She loves her so much that it's just like she 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:52.880 wants to consumer. 0:18:52.760 --> 0:18:55.920 Because the turn doesn't make sense. All right, She'll give 0:18:55.960 --> 0:18:59.560 me she'll like squeeze my body and then she'll grab 0:18:59.600 --> 0:19:01.360 my face really tight, and then she grabs my hair 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:02.600 and closes it towards her, And I'm like. 0:19:03.560 --> 0:19:09.399 I'm so into you that I just wanted like, yes, it's. 0:19:12.480 --> 0:19:14.760 Well her look of excited that you posted on your 0:19:14.760 --> 0:19:15.480 Instagram story. 0:19:17.560 --> 0:19:21.719 Yes, and she always like she by like we just 0:19:21.800 --> 0:19:24.200 decided as a family, the three of us. The other day, 0:19:25.720 --> 0:19:28.840 you don't have to like, listen to this podcast every 0:19:28.840 --> 0:19:32.000 episode to know like me likes the funk word, all right, 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:35.800 it just flies out of my mouth. There's nothing like it. 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:39.960 So we decided as a family, because she's getting older, 0:19:40.880 --> 0:19:45.000 we have to watch our mouths because she is just 0:19:45.040 --> 0:19:47.560 so good. But she picks. 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:52.920 I hear you have you guys ever though, and this 0:19:52.960 --> 0:19:54.480 is how it was. I don't know if you knew 0:19:54.480 --> 0:19:57.520 people like this. Growing up for me and my siblings, 0:19:57.760 --> 0:19:59.800 we were not allowed to swear, not allowed to say 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:03.040 hate or stupid. So by the time we got to 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:06.399 like fifteen six, we all have like sailor mouths, me 0:20:06.440 --> 0:20:09.160 and all of my siblings, but all of the friends 0:20:09.200 --> 0:20:12.639 I knew, including Kyle, whose parents would swear and then 0:20:12.680 --> 0:20:14.720 when they were kids, like if Kyle said a swear word, 0:20:14.720 --> 0:20:16.760 they'd be like, oh no, no, no, those are adult words. 0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:19.800 You don't say that until you're a certain age. Never swear, 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:20.560 you know what. 0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:21.000 Never. 0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:24.359