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Speaker 1: went to Florida. We kind of talked about that last week.
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Speaker 1: but we're gonna start in Florida since Florid already talked
Speaker 1: about Florida, because you'll know we're gonna close, we're gonna
Speaker 1: start there. Well we might as well because you see
Speaker 1: in Florida. That's fine. We can start in Florida. And
Speaker 1: so what happened in Florida recently? What didn't there, Well,
Speaker 1: there's two things that happened. We can start with what
Speaker 1: happened today and then we can backtrack to what happened
Speaker 1: last week with you know their dear old Governor Rohn
Speaker 1: de Santis um a k A. Patrick from Yeah, So,
Speaker 1: rohnd de Santis today officially signed um the controversial Don't
Speaker 1: Say Gay bill. He signed it into law and tell
Speaker 1: the press conference around it and had preschool children and
Speaker 1: um like kindergarten children surrounded him and making them clap
Speaker 1: and applaud this bill being signed into law. So um,
Speaker 1: and that is from kindergarten to third grade? Great, yes,
Speaker 1: kindergarten to third grade, which is utterly preponderous, just preposterous,
Speaker 1: It's just ridiculous. It is just not going to be
Speaker 1: a safe space for young kids who identify as something
Speaker 1: different from uh what you what we considered a normal
Speaker 1: So if they han't strange feelings and they have nobody
Speaker 1: to talk to, they have no outlet at the school
Speaker 1: it is, or or or a counsel or what have you,
Speaker 1: it's just gonna be fucked up. I'm laughing at Bobby
Speaker 1: Quiver said they had them with bodyguards. That was funny.
Speaker 1: It's just ridiculous. But well, last week he also signed
Speaker 1: a bill into law requiring high school students to complete
Speaker 1: a financial literacy class before they can graduate, which I
Speaker 1: actually think is a good thing. Um, And that's why
Speaker 1: I'm a little concerned, like what's the real intention behind it?
Speaker 1: Or maybe it's a smoke screen because it's still Rhonda Santis,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So Um, although I think
Speaker 1: the bill is going to be great. I think financial
Speaker 1: literacy should definitely be taught in school to talk talked
Speaker 1: excuse me. It teaches you about investments and how to
Speaker 1: balance a checkbook, even though we don't really use check
Speaker 1: books anymore, but just how to balance, you know, it's
Speaker 1: accounting different things like that teaches you how to invest.
Speaker 1: So financial literacy is very important and I think that great.
Speaker 1: He's gonna it's a statewide thing that he did um,
Speaker 1: but I don't know if maybe he looked at some
Speaker 1: demographics in terms of you know, black and brown folks
Speaker 1: and realize that maybe you know all these people. This
Speaker 1: this demo is not going to really pass. I don't
Speaker 1: I don't know what the intention behind it is. It's
Speaker 1: something good, so it's got me a little weary with
Speaker 1: his track record and how scam artists he is. He
Speaker 1: just gave out something good to try to smoke screen.
Speaker 1: Is something bad that he did because that passing signing
Speaker 1: that Bill said don't say gay Bill. That's kind of
Speaker 1: sucked up, kind of he just trying to balance it off.
Speaker 1: I believe that I do agree with you about financial
Speaker 1: literacy because I wish I had known more about financing
Speaker 1: when I was young. But like you, you can't do
Speaker 1: nothing for me now because everything I think now that
Speaker 1: you do has a plot or employ there's a there's
Speaker 1: an overplay for the underplay. I don't trust you, so
Speaker 1: you fun my trust issues up, so I don't believe
Speaker 1: in you. And Florida I need you to follow suit.
Speaker 1: Don't believe it. But they don't say gay Bill. It's very,
Speaker 1: very scary because I know Texas is trying to do.
Speaker 1: But they stopped it in Texas, right, No, no, no,
Speaker 1: they stopped it in Georgia. Okay, And I mean and
Speaker 1: most we'll see how things play out, because most legislative
Speaker 1: sessions are like coming to an end anyway right now,
Speaker 1: at least in the Southern States. Um. But it did
Speaker 1: not get any traction. In Georgia. They said basically said, hell, no,
Speaker 1: we're not doing this. I say, do y'all know how
Speaker 1: many gazes in Georgia? Good God? Well or that to ship? Um,
Speaker 1: it is tragic. And I'm telling you, if we're gonna march,
Speaker 1: if my compunity gonna march on that against that, I'm
Speaker 1: all in for that. I marched against that. So there's
Speaker 1: been several protests, but those are people from Florida. I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. When the big wigs get involved and say
Speaker 1: let's have a rally, everybody come from here and there,
Speaker 1: from near and far, I'll go and march for that
Speaker 1: because that is near and dear to my heart, because
Speaker 1: that's the youth. And we need to try to really
Speaker 1: do as much as we can for Generation Z because
Speaker 1: you do know that Z is the last letter alphabet. Okay,
Speaker 1: what are we going after that. Well, no, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to tell you, like those marches have they've been happening
Speaker 1: like but just for people in no, like across the country. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I ain't got the especially because you know Disney's CEO,
Speaker 1: Bob Chapac, I think that's how you say his last name.
Speaker 1: He came under scrutiny for his remarks. Okay, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: my volume is a little low. Is that better? Well,
Speaker 1: because you'd be complaining to this too loud? See that,
Speaker 1: do be loud in my ear what I'm saying. That's okay,
Speaker 1: that's better. I can hear me. Can you guys hear me?
Speaker 1: But no, the Disney ceo was has come under fire,
Speaker 1: and Gabrielle Union has actually come out and because she
Speaker 1: just did the Cheaper by the Dozen movie, she spoke
Speaker 1: out publicly against the Disney ceo. Help Raven Simone hurt.
Speaker 1: She had her whole cast and crew walk off um
Speaker 1: set filming behind because you know, basically, the Disney CEO
Speaker 1: said this isn't my problem kind of thing, and the
Speaker 1: Disney actually backed a lot of Republicans that sponsored the bill.
Speaker 1: Well here's the thing. I said this before. There are
Speaker 1: some things that we should be fighting over, and some
Speaker 1: things that just as important to me as a part
Speaker 1: of the LGBT community. Uh, that is very something that
Speaker 1: we should be fighting for because it's going to help
Speaker 1: the youth. All that what bad froom. I can use
Speaker 1: a baby, if I gotta pee in you in a way,
Speaker 1: yeah I will. You will be a pissy as hell
Speaker 1: fucking with me. So those are not that big to me,
Speaker 1: but this is very important because the youth need an
Speaker 1: outlet or the suicide rate is already high, especially during
Speaker 1: the pandemic when people really had nowhere to go and
Speaker 1: nobody to talk to. This is younger just gonna make
Speaker 1: it explode. And in kindergarten you may not know how
Speaker 1: you identify how you feel, but by the third grade,
Speaker 1: you can know that you feel different from other little
Speaker 1: boys or little girls and you need somebody to talk
Speaker 1: to it, just in case you can't talk to somebody
Speaker 1: in your family or somebody your mother father. Because I
Speaker 1: hate to say this, but in the black name, in
Speaker 1: the black household, I only know black. Sometimes it's safe
Speaker 1: for you to say that your ax murder or rapist
Speaker 1: than it is for you to say that you're gay
Speaker 1: or trance and that's screwed up, but it's the truth.
Speaker 1: I think it's a matter too of just have allowing
Speaker 1: kids to have outlets, you know, I think all kids
Speaker 1: should have, like a creative outlet. Kids should also feel
Speaker 1: like they can have a safe space outside of their
Speaker 1: house if they don't feel as so, it's a safe space.
Speaker 1: So if you don't give you know, kids ways to
Speaker 1: express themselves creative outlets, different things like that comes out,
Speaker 1: setting them to fail, and you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: they explode. Speaking of explosions. Speaking of explosions, did we
Speaker 1: watch how fantastic those oscars was last night? We wanted
Speaker 1: the black Oscars and god damn it, we got it.
Speaker 1: I am not making jokes about it, because, you know what,
Speaker 1: we all see something different. Let me start with the
Speaker 1: good before we get to all the other ship. Can
Speaker 1: I just say that Amy Schumer and Regina Hall and
Speaker 1: Wan the Psykes did a great job hosting UM and
Speaker 1: that Amy Shuman was just funny as hell to me,
Speaker 1: she really was the one that she was talking. I
Speaker 1: was like, we was a little shaky bout, but she
Speaker 1: really delivered as every gene. Oh my god, that joke
Speaker 1: that she did about the pandemic was She's pending all
Speaker 1: the fan being down. I thought that was hilarious. It
Speaker 1: was good. I always knew Regina. I mean, like I said,
Speaker 1: I've seen Regina Hall do other award shows hosting them.
Speaker 1: She's a phenomenal host. She's funny, she's authentic, she's genuine.
Speaker 1: It always she always lands and whatever she's doing. But
Speaker 1: overall it was really good. Though it was it was
Speaker 1: over quest Love Want Oscar Listen. I was so happy
Speaker 1: for him. The events leading up to his Oscar win
Speaker 1: was you know, a little wild. Um, I'm just happy
Speaker 1: he won an Oscar for a documentary feel about you know,
Speaker 1: the Summer of Soul, which was about this historic festival
Speaker 1: that happened in Harlem for black people, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. This was probably one of the more diverse
Speaker 1: Oscars that I've seen in terms of award wins and
Speaker 1: overall representation. Just the you know, actual run of show
Speaker 1: was just beautifully done. So kudos to Will Packer. Um,
Speaker 1: it was really good. Was a really good and that's
Speaker 1: who we cannot site put to the side on this.
Speaker 1: Will Packer produced this and this was the second time
Speaker 1: a black man actually produced the Oscars. The first one
Speaker 1: was in I think this was the first time. No,
Speaker 1: it was actually a second. I mentioned the guy's name,
Speaker 1: but it just didn't get a bunch of hoopla like
Speaker 1: Will Packers got a bunch of hooplah. And so we
Speaker 1: want to just acknowledge that Will Packer put on the
Speaker 1: great show. It ran pretty much smoothly until the until
Speaker 1: the slap her around the world. But let's talk about
Speaker 1: the fashions. Lauren, who was your favorite dress? So my
Speaker 1: I have actually two favorites. My my top two was
Speaker 1: Beyonce and Laverne Cox. Those were my favorites. Beyonce, oh
Speaker 1: in the yellow. Okay, so my top two last night
Speaker 1: was not actually a lady who was not part of
Speaker 1: the Oscars, but she was on the red carpet. She
Speaker 1: was interviewing. She had on a black tulball down and
Speaker 1: had like the ruising over the show. I thought that
Speaker 1: that was absolutely beautiful. And you know who else surprised
Speaker 1: me last night and I loved her dress, Rosie Perez
Speaker 1: in the Red. I've never seen Rosie so beautifully done
Speaker 1: because she usually you know, you been dressed though, but
Speaker 1: Rosie was beautiful in that readdress. I didn't I didn't
Speaker 1: see it, but I mean, I'm not surprised Rosie could
Speaker 1: always dress. I mean she was a little you know, um,
Speaker 1: she was a little bit of a thug missus, but
Speaker 1: you know, she could always put an out. Last night,
Speaker 1: she was very classic lady. I did like the youth
Speaker 1: of Zendia with the shirt and the skirt because she
Speaker 1: had always come dressed. Because she's so young, and you know,
Speaker 1: she looks like a very young me when I was
Speaker 1: like like ten years ago. Don't say ship, just why
Speaker 1: she always got to say something. You know, they passed
Speaker 1: out slaps. I'm aboutready right now, speaking of slaps. So
Speaker 1: Chris Rock came to the microphone last night to introduce
Speaker 1: or to present for somebody he was. He was the
Speaker 1: presenter for that segment of and he made a joke
Speaker 1: which was not very offensive towards what well, it wasn't
Speaker 1: very offensive, but I think it was the build up
Speaker 1: that he kept attacking it was very offensive. You thought
Speaker 1: it was very offencive. I thought that Chris, because I
Speaker 1: know Chris's record, and Chris can go there with material.
Speaker 1: But the joke was we'll see you at the next
Speaker 1: g I Jane movie. I didn't think that that was
Speaker 1: very offensive. But if he has been making and jabs
Speaker 1: at Will and Jada for so long, and I think
Speaker 1: that it was a build up and Will just got
Speaker 1: up walked on the stage and I'm telling you, I
Speaker 1: had hit me a love lounge, lovely, So I was
Speaker 1: with God. So I'm looking at it in real Tamlin,
Speaker 1: and I'm looking at him like, wait a minute, am
Speaker 1: I tripping? Because I think I was really enacting it
Speaker 1: in my head. I didn't think that I was actually
Speaker 1: watching Will Smith slap Chris Rock, but he actually slapped
Speaker 1: Chris Rock on Lave TV on at the Oscars and
Speaker 1: like to keep my wife's name out your mouth, And
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa. So when I was watching the Lab,
Speaker 1: they you know, they muted it and then they had
Speaker 1: a little interruption or whatever. They also had an interruption
Speaker 1: on Venus Williams because her nipple was showing. Whoever dressed
Speaker 1: Venus Williams, your stylus should be fired because that's the
Speaker 1: double side of tape. That's real easy. As a star,
Speaker 1: you should know that. Uh, And everybody has their own
Speaker 1: segway about it. Everybody saying this, everybody saying that. Let
Speaker 1: me tell you how I feel about it for Lauren,
Speaker 1: because Lauren coming there a whole different way from me.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you how I felt about the situation.
Speaker 1: As a black person that is not his woman, that
Speaker 1: is not his baby mama, that ain't one of his
Speaker 1: sad pieces or his dips, that is his wife for
Speaker 1: twenty years and the mother of his children. I understand
Speaker 1: how he felt. And Will Smith, as much as we
Speaker 1: want to make him a superhero and I am legend
Speaker 1: and all these movies that he played Muhammad Ali, He's
Speaker 1: an actor, but he's also a man. He is flesh
Speaker 1: and bone, and I think he had just had enough.
Speaker 1: And we don't know what kind of day he had
Speaker 1: had the pressure of the oscars. We don't know what
Speaker 1: Jada was going through with alopecia that day. I don't
Speaker 1: I'm not familiar with how alopecia affects people period, so
Speaker 1: we don't know what was going on. But the fact
Speaker 1: that black people keep saying or why he had to
Speaker 1: do it at the oscars, why he had to do
Speaker 1: that they do it at the BT was if we're
Speaker 1: gonna hold each other accountable for the ship that we do,
Speaker 1: we gotta hold each other kind of before wherever we
Speaker 1: do it. And like your mama would tell you, if
Speaker 1: you show out on me, wherever you show it on
Speaker 1: me at I'm gonna show out on you. Baby will
Speaker 1: have had enough and he went to slept out of
Speaker 1: Chris Rock. Chris Rock was professional, he kept his composure,
Speaker 1: He did keep his composure. But I love the fact
Speaker 1: that he defended his wife. He stood up for his wife.
Speaker 1: Now do I promote the violence? No? I do not.
Speaker 1: And as a comedian it makes me like, damn bitch,
Speaker 1: what can I or can I not say? But as
Speaker 1: a comic, you don't stick on one person. You stick
Speaker 1: and move, stick and move, stick and move. Uh. Chris
Speaker 1: Rock wrote Jada and will for years starting with we
Speaker 1: know public if we don't know anything that happened privately.
Speaker 1: But I do think this will play out. And what
Speaker 1: what spoke volumes to me was had idea that because
Speaker 1: in my d lists they would have escorted me out
Speaker 1: the building, the mean fact that we will stay. And
Speaker 1: when they called his name to win the Oscar, which
Speaker 1: he did win the Oscar, they gave him a standing ovation.
Speaker 1: That spoke volumes to me. And I know Lauren has
Speaker 1: a different opinion. I don't condone it. But I reached
Speaker 1: as a man, as a as a man who does
Speaker 1: not have a wife. That's why I never get mere
Speaker 1: because I want to defend nobody but the girl. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm never offend nobody else, just me. I get it. Uh,
Speaker 1: come on, lawyd um. I think that Chris Rock's joke
Speaker 1: was highly insensitive and very disrespectful. Jada Pinkett has said
Speaker 1: publicly that she has alopecia, And for any of you
Speaker 1: guys that are confused, it's not old age. She's not balding.
Speaker 1: That's not the situation. She has alopecia, which is the disease.
Speaker 1: I have family members that also have alopecia. It wasn't funny,
Speaker 1: It really wasn't. It was not funny, and for him
Speaker 1: to say that it was, like I said, it was
Speaker 1: highly disrespectful. He was wrong. However, at the same time,
Speaker 1: I don't agree with Will Smith walking up on stage
Speaker 1: and slapping him in the middle of the oscars. And
Speaker 1: truth be told, Will laughed at first when the joke
Speaker 1: came out. I think when he looked at his wife
Speaker 1: and saw that she was offended by it and it
Speaker 1: hurt her feelings. And I'm sure they've had conversations about
Speaker 1: what she's going through in the insecure already's behind losing
Speaker 1: her hair because she said it publicly on the Red
Speaker 1: Table Talk. I'm sure when he saw her face, that's
Speaker 1: probably what enraged him and he was like, don't do
Speaker 1: that to my wife. I don't think that it was
Speaker 1: necessary for him to go up and slap him. One
Speaker 1: thing that I learned is that saying nothing sometimes is
Speaker 1: much more loud than doing something. He could have given
Speaker 1: him the death stare of his life, and Chris Rock
Speaker 1: would have known when we get backstage, me and will
Speaker 1: about to have words. That's how he could have handled
Speaker 1: that instead of it wasn't It was a night for
Speaker 1: him too, But he was also representing the Williams family,
Speaker 1: and for you to do that, not only did it
Speaker 1: discredit the work that they were a part of and
Speaker 1: their family legacy, but you also put yourself in a
Speaker 1: position not only to be sued for a civil lawsuit
Speaker 1: for assault because l A. P D Is now involved.
Speaker 1: I know Chris Rock declined to supposedly press charges, but
Speaker 1: you just tarnished a really good night. It wasn't necessary
Speaker 1: at all. There's a time and place to to do
Speaker 1: everything want to talk about you mentioned will BET Awards,
Speaker 1: blah bla blah blah. Sorry, BT Awards and the Oscars.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. It's a different audience. And it's not
Speaker 1: even about oh, don't show out in front of white folks.
Speaker 1: That's not what it's about. It's not It's about the
Speaker 1: narrative and the stereotype and the stigma that's related to
Speaker 1: the black community and the fact that we can't act
Speaker 1: right in certain places. That's what it comes down to.
Speaker 1: And there's a time and place to do everything. That
Speaker 1: was not the time and place. He could have had
Speaker 1: a conversation backstage and cussed Chris Rocks ass out behind
Speaker 1: that and given him the biggest death stare from sending
Speaker 1: his seat, and it wouldn't have taken away. It would
Speaker 1: have just added to his credibility as and asked um
Speaker 1: an actor. It would have added to the fact that
Speaker 1: he knew how to keep his composure, and it would
Speaker 1: have just simple simply highlighted his work in West Philadelphia,
Speaker 1: born and raised on the playground was West and most
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, and I've seen reports to that they're
Speaker 1: talking about trying to strip him from his oscar now, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you can never take the glory back. He's still one.
Speaker 1: Even if they take the Oscar. You can never take
Speaker 1: the glory back of that night, and the ratings will
Speaker 1: be the best Oscars they had in aus I don't agree.
Speaker 1: That's the same situation when they stripped Reggie Bush from
Speaker 1: his Husman Trophy. I'm sorry there. That's they're still talking
Speaker 1: about that we can take wards away from people and
Speaker 1: that causes you to discredit your career. I think this
Speaker 1: will forever be a stain on his career. Will Smith
Speaker 1: is worth of a four hundred million dollars. I'm sure
Speaker 1: he don't give a damn. And the fact that the
Speaker 1: the the fact that they still stood up for him
Speaker 1: when they call his name after the fact, I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: Hollywood is not down with Wheel and I think that
Speaker 1: this will be a great launching pad to reintroduce um
Speaker 1: Chris Rock's career. It's not like his career had win anywhere,
Speaker 1: but he had been a little low key for a while.
Speaker 1: This will be great for him because they may end
Speaker 1: up Hollywood gonna bank off for this. They may make
Speaker 1: a movie in the next two or three months. They
Speaker 1: make made Bad Boys four and Chris Rock gets to
Speaker 1: smack Will Smith in the movie and all this forgiven.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Lauren, think you know how Hollywood.
Speaker 1: You work behind the scenes in Hollywood. I know I
Speaker 1: get that, But I'm just saying there's a time and
Speaker 1: place for everything. Like I said, this Rock was wrong
Speaker 1: and so was Will. They were both wrong. They both were. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I still think Chris Rock should apologize to Jada
Speaker 1: because I'm not trying to pull the black women card,
Speaker 1: but I'm about tom. It would be nice if we
Speaker 1: stopped going after black women's appearances in public spaces. And
Speaker 1: it was a black man, black man's wife in the
Speaker 1: room for the white folks, it was not appropriate. But
Speaker 1: do you think that Will should apologize to Chris No? See,
Speaker 1: now we agree on that because everybody was like what
Speaker 1: he apologized to the Academy exactly, But why don't he
Speaker 1: apologize to Chris Chris an apologize after he got slapped.
Speaker 1: Chris could have said, oh my god, I'll stay off
Speaker 1: your wife. I'm sorry. He didn't. I think he was
Speaker 1: a little shook up. He was a little dazed, real talk,
Speaker 1: But if he would, he should have apologized publicly first,
Speaker 1: and then you know, but he had already went. I
Speaker 1: don't think that he needs to apologize. I just think
Speaker 1: that he and he showed his ass. I'm sorry. I
Speaker 1: just he was not necessary for him to do that.
Speaker 1: You know, we woman in that audience and including the game,
Speaker 1: me and baby, everybody, Pennies in the underwear was so
Speaker 1: away because I've seen a lot of people supporting him
Speaker 1: and saying that you know, they've and and I will
Speaker 1: definitely acknowledge that them as a couple, they have been
Speaker 1: through a lot. They've been through a lot, and I'm
Speaker 1: sure they're like, we are tired of it. We're at
Speaker 1: the end of our rope. So he might have just
Speaker 1: lashed out, you know, emotions might have been running high.
Speaker 1: But still, dude, like you even told when we talked
Speaker 1: about this last night, he was like, you know, he
Speaker 1: is one of those prominent black figures in Hollywood. You
Speaker 1: still not to say, you have an image to protect,
Speaker 1: but you're still a role model to a lot of people.
Speaker 1: And it's not to take away from the fact that
Speaker 1: he's human. Yes, we are all human. And I know, men,
Speaker 1: when it comes to your wives or your kids, y'all
Speaker 1: are the brigade. Like when when some jumps. You just
Speaker 1: know it's about to be a problem. Same thing with
Speaker 1: my dad. My dad mild done the same thing had
Speaker 1: he been in the situation. But still, like you, just
Speaker 1: there's a time and place for everything. And it just
Speaker 1: wasn't it just it wasn't necessary. You can say so
Speaker 1: much without saying anything. I love the Will was bothered.
Speaker 1: Will went to several parties after the fact with his
Speaker 1: wife and hung out and to his own music at
Speaker 1: the Vanity Fair after party. It was I thought that
Speaker 1: Antifoty had it. She gave the greatest statement. She she
Speaker 1: thought a lot of women, a lot of women black,
Speaker 1: white or indifferent. Well, we will look at that like
Speaker 1: I wish my man, my husband will stand up for
Speaker 1: me like that. I agree with you. It could have
Speaker 1: went a different way at a different venue, and it
Speaker 1: could have been handled a different way. But you just
Speaker 1: said it again. Lord, nobody knows what they went through.
Speaker 1: They've been publicly out. The Verne just put him on
Speaker 1: blasts a few weeks ago. They've been all over the media. Right,
Speaker 1: if the connection that would have been her, she might
Speaker 1: have got we Will. She about biggest Will, but we
Speaker 1: all had took baby. He went straight Muhammad Ali Ali boom.
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now. I went live immediately because
Speaker 1: I was, however, edible, and it just I wasn't shocked,
Speaker 1: So I only imagine because when we was walking to
Speaker 1: Chris Well almost had like a smile smirk on his face.
Speaker 1: He didn't look mad, like I'm walking up to you
Speaker 1: to punch. That's the worst kind. Yeah, that was a
Speaker 1: sneak attack. Oh that was you ain't see it coming, YEA. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I would have been okay if he sat in his chair,
Speaker 1: looked at him crazy and then proceeded together, keep my
Speaker 1: wife's name out you, I would have been That would
Speaker 1: have almost been acceptable. You didn't have to put your
Speaker 1: hands on Chris Rock. Oh lord Jesus, I want to
Speaker 1: host the Oxcars next year. They had three women this year.
Speaker 1: They need the he she wee. That's three people next year.
Speaker 1: But I promise you I might opening joke gonna be Oh,
Speaker 1: I ain't said that about nobody's wife my boxing skills,
Speaker 1: ain't you know? My ignorant is gonna say some offense
Speaker 1: but fun and I'm not. I'm not holding christ Speed
Speaker 1: to the fire now that in my holding wheel. I
Speaker 1: hate that this played out as us as a black people.
Speaker 1: Well I'm I'm not hating on this as black people,
Speaker 1: but Chris Rock, as a comedian, you got to know
Speaker 1: you have to stick and move like a boxer. You
Speaker 1: can't just rad one person all the time like you
Speaker 1: in the room. You never know what somebody's day is like,
Speaker 1: what somebody is going through in their personal So even
Speaker 1: when I'm on stage in the room, for if I
Speaker 1: get one joke in with one person, I'm going to
Speaker 1: turn around and make it funny because I don't want
Speaker 1: you to be offended and run up on me. Now,
Speaker 1: as a comedian, this scares me because now what can
Speaker 1: we or can we not say that's going to trigger somebody? No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that because it's about being a comedian.
Speaker 1: Do your research. I'm so sorry. That's party all's jobs. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm good at self deprecation, so I don't even go
Speaker 1: at the audience. I'm better with me. But I'm not
Speaker 1: saying you specifically, But I'm just saying being a comedian,
Speaker 1: part of your job is to read the room and
Speaker 1: to know you know, if you want to go after somebody,
Speaker 1: do your research. You know what I mean. That's part
Speaker 1: of you guys job so Crispin in the game too
Speaker 1: long and y'all got past history with the Smiths of
Speaker 1: you coming for them even in it was a click
Speaker 1: where he came for both Will and Jada talking about Will.
Speaker 1: You wasn't even invited to the Oscar So Jada, you
Speaker 1: need to shut up like it's been brewing. I think
Speaker 1: it was the twenty million dollars statement that got Will Well.
Speaker 1: I summarized that there was a couple of digs, you know,
Speaker 1: in his some of his past commentary. But I'm just saying,
Speaker 1: you got to do your research and if you won't,
Speaker 1: and I would assume that there's acquaintances, maybe friends. Chris
Speaker 1: was on Fresh Prince of bel Air, shure, they've known
Speaker 1: each other for a while, So why are you coming
Speaker 1: for her? Why you've been off the scene for a minute.
Speaker 1: It's so much more that you could have talked about.
Speaker 1: You love to say that you politically savvy. You could
Speaker 1: have went politics, you could have did something anything, But
Speaker 1: she had to go for Jada really and her hair
Speaker 1: being bold, and I mean, I'm sorry, I can't look beautiful.
Speaker 1: Let's say that she did. She looked gorgeous because everybody
Speaker 1: can't shave their head and look cute. Let me tell you,
Speaker 1: I was having very back backflashes of stony. Remember she
Speaker 1: was just who I was in the house, rubbing on myself. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean. And people want to say, like, you know,
Speaker 1: he's not watching Red Table Talk. Okay, sure, but I
Speaker 1: also don't believe that he lives under a rock and
Speaker 1: don't know that she got issues, and I'm assuming that
Speaker 1: their acquaintances friends something like, I can't believe that. I'm sorry, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you get information about celebrities. You're not even looking forward, right,
Speaker 1: And I don't like the fact that people everybody is
Speaker 1: attacking Will. Baby. Will is flesh and bone. He is
Speaker 1: only a man. He is not a guy. We have
Speaker 1: seen him and be the Hollywood black Golden boy and
Speaker 1: making all these great movies. He says the right things,
Speaker 1: he does the right thing his career. You never hear
Speaker 1: much scandal about him. But he is still just a man.
Speaker 1: He's human, and he has emotions. And we don't know
Speaker 1: what this pandemic has how this pandemic has affected everybody differently.
Speaker 1: We don't know what his life was like in them
Speaker 1: two years that he was stuck in a house or
Speaker 1: whatever he was doing, we don't know. We saw him
Speaker 1: out vacation and all that before the pandemic, but we
Speaker 1: don't really know. And this pandemic has affected everybody different.
Speaker 1: He could have been at an emotional balling point and
Speaker 1: last night was just the ice and on the cake
Speaker 1: and he snapped. I think this is just my opinion.
Speaker 1: I think he probably saw the hurt and disgust and
Speaker 1: Jada after the joke was made, and that's what set
Speaker 1: him off. I think that's what it was, because he,
Speaker 1: like I said, he laughed at first. I saw the
Speaker 1: camera when the joke came out, Will laughed, and then
Speaker 1: when he saw he looked at Jada and he was like,
Speaker 1: she rolled her eyes and was like she gave you
Speaker 1: the black woman at the welfare of We're gonna that
Speaker 1: she did and it's like once that happened, Will was like,
Speaker 1: oh no, like you heard her feelings, I gotta go
Speaker 1: say something or better yet, I gotta go do something.
Speaker 1: And I'm telling you I was so taken aback because
Speaker 1: because how we know Will Smith's character is and who
Speaker 1: he is as an acting where he portrayed publicly to us,
Speaker 1: I never thought he would have just went who the girl?
Speaker 1: What he did? I was like, oh, the words of
Speaker 1: t J. And I clutched my pearls, the ones at
Speaker 1: the top and the ones at the bottom because I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie to Chris Rock doesn't have a strong chin.
Speaker 1: Can we address that too? Because I thought that Will
Speaker 1: Smith punched at first, and I was like, there's no
Speaker 1: way that he punched him and he didn't even like
Speaker 1: lose any part of his equilibrium. But then everybody's like
Speaker 1: it was a slap, and I was like, okay, because
Speaker 1: I was like this, whoops, but just not punched because
Speaker 1: the words was a little twisted at the day he
Speaker 1: slapped the personality that let's go on to he was,
Speaker 1: he was definitely a little disheveled and discombibulated. I think
Speaker 1: he was like felt like I felt because I was
Speaker 1: in disbelief, Like you actually slapped me, like I couldn't
Speaker 1: believe what I was watching, and then for it to
Speaker 1: happened to you from this person at this venue, went
Speaker 1: in front of all these millions of people. That was
Speaker 1: probably shocking to him, but he did handle itself. Well.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say that I would have did that.
Speaker 1: I let me just be honest. I'm yeah, oh, I know,
Speaker 1: that's what everybody's saying to I'm surprised that, like the
Speaker 1: whole fight didn't break out on stage because I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know about you, but I feel like it's
Speaker 1: a little more disrespectful if you slap me. I almost
Speaker 1: rather you punched me, because the slap just feels like
Speaker 1: you're just calling me a bit, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Do you feel the same way. Just don't touch me
Speaker 1: at all. Just don't put your hand ends on me,
Speaker 1: because I'm telling you, I don't care where we are,
Speaker 1: who we're in front of, and who's watching. This is
Speaker 1: only a job. I am a person. Do not put
Speaker 1: your hands on me because and and the gangster Pat,
Speaker 1: let's talk about the gangster part? Was it? When he
Speaker 1: did it? He turned around, adjusted his vest and walked
Speaker 1: away like I dare you do something? Turned this back
Speaker 1: to him, but he almost like smiled though who will Smith?
Speaker 1: He had a little smirk on his face and walking
Speaker 1: up and walking back. But anyway, let's bring in some
Speaker 1: of the good old flamets and see what they think.
Speaker 1: Very bad? Uh, where's Bobby Clifford? That's what I want
Speaker 1: to talk to hey, Cassie, Cassie, you want to get slapped?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not, absolutely not. And I feel like that was
Speaker 1: it was a gangster move. Um, you know, like you're
Speaker 1: not gonna keep talking mess about my wife. But I
Speaker 1: also feel like there was a time and a place
Speaker 1: for everything. So I'm kind of like stuck in the middle.
Speaker 1: Hey mommy, Hi, guys, I want the white woman's opinion.
Speaker 1: We need the white woman's opinion because Bobby, Bobby, did
Speaker 1: you get turned on? Because I know dame what's the
Speaker 1: old broad named? The actress name? What's her name? She
Speaker 1: needs h what's her name? Yeah, she missed a few teeth,
Speaker 1: but I know she was turned on, like hey, because
Speaker 1: good guy. It was so gangster when he did. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I never looked at well like that.
Speaker 1: But damn I was disappointed. I mean I really was disappointed.
Speaker 1: I thought it it took away from what what was
Speaker 1: going to accomplish. It took away from the night. This
Speaker 1: was our most diverse Oscars ever. We had LGBT, we
Speaker 1: had deaf people winning, we had it was a wonderful night.
Speaker 1: And I don't think it was an instant. I don't
Speaker 1: know if his wife kind of prodded him on because
Speaker 1: it wasn't That was a long ass five seconds to
Speaker 1: get from his seat to get all the way to
Speaker 1: Chris Rock. The whole time he could have been thinking
Speaker 1: of something. I would have got him in the BA
Speaker 1: from later. I would have, but to go up in
Speaker 1: front of thirty million witnesses now, so I'm like he
Speaker 1: could say, oh, I didn't know I was. I was
Speaker 1: disappointed because I also feel like we um lead by example,
Speaker 1: and I think so many people look up to Will
Speaker 1: Smith because he is um, you know, the gold standard.
Speaker 1: I was a little disappointed. We teach our children not
Speaker 1: to put their hands on people when they're frustrated, and well,
Speaker 1: we know, but that's what we teach them when we right,
Speaker 1: I would agree with that. My mother taught me to
Speaker 1: never lose a fight and if somebody touches you, to
Speaker 1: whoop their ask. But yes, I'm sorry that so that
Speaker 1: would have been Chris Rock's position, and he handled himself.
Speaker 1: I thought, like the consummate professional, because if anybody slapped me,
Speaker 1: I don't think he thought that was I don't think
Speaker 1: any of us. I thought it was fake at first, right,
Speaker 1: I thought you just stated um, And then when I
Speaker 1: saw him get kir fluffled, you know, trying to do
Speaker 1: the next but just for a pause. Then he made
Speaker 1: a joke of it, so I thought he handled it beautifully.
Speaker 1: That's just girls the pan. You've got two other girls. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 1: So first of all, this screen name Extra Crispy and
Speaker 1: Extra Wet. What is your name? My name is Kirby.
Speaker 1: I'm one of the Aunties and I'm one of the
Speaker 1: hosts of Crispy Extra Wet. So it's a it's a
Speaker 1: wing reference. I'm from Atlanta, b You know, flames followers
Speaker 1: be a little nasty, so I gotta verifying double. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think it's about you know, lady parts, and I
Speaker 1: mean that could be extra Crispy or extra wet, but
Speaker 1: I'm talking about my wing order, which is typically money
Speaker 1: Guard ten brand sprinkles. I might have to stop buying
Speaker 1: some food absolutely, I'm making right now. What do you
Speaker 1: what do you think about the situation? Well, while you know,
Speaker 1: we don't condone violence or anything like that over here,
Speaker 1: are definitely not doing that. But they're just some realities
Speaker 1: around respectability politics that we have in white spaces. Respectfully,
Speaker 1: um could have been have handled, could have been handled differently,
Speaker 1: could he have taken you know, Chris to the back
Speaker 1: and had a conversation and had a deeper situation. I
Speaker 1: know for me, if it was my husband, I would
Speaker 1: have rather him got on the mic and embarrassed Chris.
Speaker 1: That way, I would have dug into the fact that
Speaker 1: Number one, you couldn't protect your marriage or your wife,
Speaker 1: which is why you're divorced, because you didn't have the
Speaker 1: discipline to keep you dick to yourself. Number one. That's
Speaker 1: the first thing that I would want it will to
Speaker 1: say on your number two talking about that history of
Speaker 1: the conversations of you joking with us and messing with
Speaker 1: us since sixteen. I'm pretty sure these people have relationships
Speaker 1: outside of these particular spaces. Hey, y'all, we had to
Speaker 1: come back. Instagram doesn't like us, so it'd be a problem.
Speaker 1: They give us an hour and Jan yeah, c Jan
Speaker 1: love her. She's been so consistent with Joe. Oh there,
Speaker 1: you are, all right, finish your point. Yeah. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I was saying, but I think you know,
Speaker 1: it was exciting, and I do people do believe that
Speaker 1: people need to hold something in your secret drawer, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? You got everybody telling everything and
Speaker 1: I'm like, why, you know, I don't even know what
Speaker 1: useful information that is to share. And oh, Regina did
Speaker 1: get a joke off on them earlier that evening about
Speaker 1: possibly having Will checked. But Regina, but Regina is a woman,
Speaker 1: and Regina didn't constantly and consistently go after no, no, no.
Speaker 1: I wasn't saying it was a bad thing. I'm saying
Speaker 1: every time they go somewhere, I'm sure they get this
Speaker 1: gut feeling we're getting ready to be the butt end
Speaker 1: of somebody's especially at the Laverne Cox weren't there, and
Speaker 1: she shouldn't have wanted to do that. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: think too though, like with Regina joke, though it was
Speaker 1: more I think it was more lighthearted. It didn't come
Speaker 1: across as like I'm trying to take a jab at you, Chris. Chris. Yeah,
Speaker 1: rehosts were wonderful. I had no about what Regina said whatsoever.
Speaker 1: But I do think that, you know, when she said that,
Speaker 1: sometimes then everybody feels like my joke is gonna be
Speaker 1: equally as funny. And I can say this and I'm
Speaker 1: Regina was very tasteful. Yeah, and it was funny. She
Speaker 1: was just admiring Will as a man. That's just saying
Speaker 1: how attractive people was as a man. Just like when
Speaker 1: Amy Shelling made the joke about Jennifer Lawrence and said
Speaker 1: she gained a couple of pounds. Ain't nobody in in
Speaker 1: a frenzy about that because it wasn't offensive Chris Rock
Speaker 1: like like like Lawrence said, like Kirby had said, you
Speaker 1: have to read the room, and it was it's too
Speaker 1: much for Chris Rock is politically savvy. He's known for
Speaker 1: his political savvatiness. You could have went you could have
Speaker 1: went at all. You could have went to politics. You
Speaker 1: could have went to something else, to the state of
Speaker 1: the world. You could have joan, don't bite anything. You
Speaker 1: could have talked about how black the awards was in
Speaker 1: a positive way. But I chose to go low. And
Speaker 1: Michelle Obama said, when they go low, we're gonna hid
Speaker 1: and she should have said, when they go low, we
Speaker 1: slapped the shot out you. Yeah, that's what happened. That's
Speaker 1: just what happened. I don't have a I don't have like,
Speaker 1: I don't sit in a comfortable spot where I can say, oh,
Speaker 1: that was so bad. Will has already recovered. Um, Chris
Speaker 1: has already recovered. I do like um Will's team because
Speaker 1: they immediately started rewriting his acceptance speech and they had
Speaker 1: him pulled together. Do you hear me? So? I mean
Speaker 1: the money to do and that's all that was. As
Speaker 1: soon as as soon as he went up there and
Speaker 1: slapped that man, they didn't wait for a phone call
Speaker 1: and say do damage control. They immediately went into, well,
Speaker 1: well that's what they get paid for, that's what for. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm applauding, don't pay the phone call. I tell anybody,
Speaker 1: you're being a self starter. That's that's what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to do. So I it's it's uncomfortable, um but you
Speaker 1: gotta qut sham. That is true too. That is true too.
Speaker 1: People were talking about, well, Denzel would have never done it.
Speaker 1: I was like Denzel fifteen years ago, y'all say it
Speaker 1: someth about Pauletta. He would have aired that whole entire
Speaker 1: building out. And please don't play like that, you know that.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was a blemish for black folks
Speaker 1: at all. Uh. It was. It was an incident, just
Speaker 1: like other things that happened. They don't carry any major
Speaker 1: weight in the black community. It was an incident. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean. If I see somebody acting a
Speaker 1: fool in the grocery store and don't have nothing to
Speaker 1: do with me, and half the time, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: lie tell you the status that the smisson on. I
Speaker 1: don't know if Hollywood perceives them as black anymore all
Speaker 1: the time, Well maybe not, not sure he did. He
Speaker 1: does get that, he does get the past. But if
Speaker 1: he approached to pay us as being too cocky, they
Speaker 1: deal with him too. M hm. You know, all these
Speaker 1: comparisons have been somebody white. It wasn't somebody white, it
Speaker 1: was it was or something all that. What he he
Speaker 1: has slapped the white man, the white man tried to
Speaker 1: kiss them in the mouth. He was, oh, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is not actually, this is not actually behavior we
Speaker 1: shouldn't expect out of Willard Smith. You know what. And
Speaker 1: I don't have any preconceived notions because I don't see
Speaker 1: these people as personal friends. That they're there entertainers. They're
Speaker 1: supposed to project what they want me to see to
Speaker 1: keep them in their money making roles. So I don't know,
Speaker 1: you know, that's just tim you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And I don't know because I was raised wherever you actor.
Speaker 1: That's where my mother dealt what you with. So you know,
Speaker 1: I definitely have been dropped through out three a couple
Speaker 1: of times at Sam's clubs. I want you this is
Speaker 1: This will play out though, on the on the other
Speaker 1: side for Chris Rock, because Chris Rock has been low,
Speaker 1: real quiet with his career, Lady, this will be something
Speaker 1: major for him. This is going to turn into dollars nonsense.
Speaker 1: But I think I think he actually just released a
Speaker 1: special on Netflix. Well this is gonna ratings, right. I
Speaker 1: think he literally just released another special on Netflix. They
Speaker 1: popped up in my little Can somebody slap me please?
Speaker 1: I need a new Netflix special list that I got
Speaker 1: into my purse. I remember flying from Chicago, you know,
Speaker 1: round to get real windy Benn slapped all the way
Speaker 1: around the world six degree well the world and yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: I can't find my comments since I've just I don't
Speaker 1: know as human beings as as as just people not
Speaker 1: know not even color. Everybody has a breaking point. It's
Speaker 1: it's only so much that anybody can take. And this
Speaker 1: has played out publicly for such a long time that
Speaker 1: it just it erupted. And I hate the way that erupted.
Speaker 1: I hated it happened at the Oscars. I hate that
Speaker 1: we finally wanted the black Oscars, and like Herby said,
Speaker 1: it was so diverse. I love that Arian came on,
Speaker 1: what's her name came on and she wanted. She talked
Speaker 1: about being a woman of queer experience and being accepted
Speaker 1: and woo, and we are making such huge strides. And
Speaker 1: I agree with you, Kirby. I don't think this was
Speaker 1: not a blemit sh on black people. I just think
Speaker 1: that it showed that some people are human. Will Smith
Speaker 1: is fucking human. Everybody has emotions, everybody has feelings, and
Speaker 1: I think he was offended that his wife's feelings were
Speaker 1: hurt again publicly, and he just feel like he had
Speaker 1: to do something about it. You can hear the Carl
Speaker 1: Thomas in the background. I'm emotion hate that. Go hey.
Speaker 1: You know for the Music Awards, rockers have got up
Speaker 1: there and and purposely as the group accepted there uh
Speaker 1: in their acceptance speech and done very damaging things with
Speaker 1: the intent of doing and saying damnaging things. So making Gervais, Yes,
Speaker 1: soot wild things. We'll shoot. The Grammys is next weekend,
Speaker 1: so I guess we might have an exciting show too.
Speaker 1: So who's hosting Trevor Trevor Noah is that's why Kanye
Speaker 1: has been banned respectfully, that's probably not gonna be that funny.
Speaker 1: I love you, Trevor. I love you, baby. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I like Trevor Noah. He has political he's humor. He
Speaker 1: doesn't make me goose. He makes me laugh though with
Speaker 1: his political commentary, especially when it comes to race and
Speaker 1: ignorance when it comes to white people. Oh, he makes
Speaker 1: me laugh. That's that's what I'm excited for. Yeah. Actually,
Speaker 1: I think he's gonna do a job. Can we talk
Speaker 1: about my boss, Tiffany had who was bombed on the
Speaker 1: three carpet? Did you see her? Check that reporter? She said,
Speaker 1: this is a gown, this is this is do and gabana.
Speaker 1: This is what's successfully. I say, get that bitch said,
Speaker 1: how would you feel? What would you want your husband
Speaker 1: to do? That little lady student answer her question, I
Speaker 1: was I told you every woman and gay men in
Speaker 1: that audience pennies and underwear was soyots and man I
Speaker 1: was at home. Man, both my drawers and my pantis
Speaker 1: was with I had to hang up on flame. He
Speaker 1: was getting a little too graphic. Baby, we all head
Speaker 1: did it for me. I was like, oh, I may
Speaker 1: not be legie, but that damn sure you want to
Speaker 1: be in that bedroom, good guy. I love what you
Speaker 1: said jenn and about it's not a blemish on the
Speaker 1: black community and we have to stop accepting everything that
Speaker 1: somebody else does because they're part of our nationality. That
Speaker 1: was that has no responsibility on me. That has no
Speaker 1: responsibility on me. And if I get the opportunity to
Speaker 1: do that, I would hope that if I'm put in
Speaker 1: that situation that I would not react the same. But
Speaker 1: I am a person, I am a human, I am
Speaker 1: flesh and blood. I am not a god, So I
Speaker 1: don't know how I would feel. So every everybody given
Speaker 1: a coming of what you would have done, you don't
Speaker 1: know what you would have done because you don't know
Speaker 1: what he was up against with the emotion of the oscars.
Speaker 1: We don't know what jay. I don't know the effects
Speaker 1: of alopecia. Maybe she had a bad day, maybe they
Speaker 1: had an argument before, maybe he was in a bad place.
Speaker 1: Who knows. But like Laurence said, read the room and something,
Speaker 1: you got to know it's off limits or you're gonna
Speaker 1: get your handed to. Chris is not the one that's
Speaker 1: got to hold Jada when she was crying about that
Speaker 1: at every night. Chris is not the one that I
Speaker 1: had him long conversations or deal with Jada coming out
Speaker 1: of therapy some days crying about the fact that I'm
Speaker 1: losing my hair. And this has been something that has
Speaker 1: been a part of two flames point my beauty and
Speaker 1: my vanue throughout my life. Chris ain't got to deal
Speaker 1: with the possibility that Jada may lose her libido sometimes
Speaker 1: because she is feeling insecure and so down about that situation,
Speaker 1: and her and Will can't even get to the business
Speaker 1: when they want to be what I'm saying, you gotta
Speaker 1: be thoughtful about those things. There's nothing wrong with making
Speaker 1: Joe said, nothing wrong with the comedy, but you've got
Speaker 1: to be thoughtful about those types of things. And maybe, again,
Speaker 1: like I said earlier, because Chris couldn't protect his own
Speaker 1: family and marriage and the sanctity of that and didn't
Speaker 1: have the discipline for it, maybe he don't understand so
Speaker 1: that he didn't he didn't quite catch the memo in
Speaker 1: that particular moment, I will I will say one thing
Speaker 1: that might be good for for comedians across the board
Speaker 1: is maybe just stop attacking black women's beauty and y'all
Speaker 1: wos just don't we have to get the rappers for
Speaker 1: court talking about us in the meaning ways. I don't
Speaker 1: know those people listen on one step at a time,
Speaker 1: one seven time. First of all, let's talk about the
Speaker 1: fact that most of the rappers can't handle the women
Speaker 1: that they think that they want in the black community.
Speaker 1: Let's say that, let's go ahead and have that conversation
Speaker 1: the women, y'all think that you can handle that, you
Speaker 1: won't a ride or die somebody who's independent, who got
Speaker 1: their own money. Blah blah blah blah. Most of you
Speaker 1: all can't handle us anyway. So that's by the time,
Speaker 1: I don't even listen to what we're talking about. And
Speaker 1: the other thing is that they're emotionally unaware and immature,
Speaker 1: So halfy time, if you check them about some foolish
Speaker 1: this in real life, they get all them teenage emotions
Speaker 1: and start acting up on you. So I don't as
Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned, those types of famous black men
Speaker 1: that rap about the foolishes and the white boys do
Speaker 1: the same thing. They don't exist to me. They're not
Speaker 1: a part of the community. I don't know those people.
Speaker 1: That's why all mymy and gavaginas. I'm just gonna call
Speaker 1: all my Mey and gavaginas. It's just easier to deal with. Well.
Speaker 1: On that note, this has been a robust conversation. Yes,
Speaker 1: and before we leave, ladies, before we leave, I just
Speaker 1: want to give a prayer for Will and for Chris
Speaker 1: Rock and for Jada and for any comedians out there
Speaker 1: that I know. We sad with this way that way,
Speaker 1: but we have to be a little more leery about
Speaker 1: what we're doing on stage because as you can see,
Speaker 1: they're not patting people down when they come to the
Speaker 1: comedy clubs. They're not patting me. They're not going through
Speaker 1: mental detectives. You might mess with the wrong person and
Speaker 1: this could be very, very bad. So we have to
Speaker 1: be just to thank you, more cautious. And I'm saying
Speaker 1: that with my mouth. But if you ever see me laugh,
Speaker 1: I discredit me before I discredit anybody. I am self
Speaker 1: deprecating because I make it fun for me. Um some ship.
Speaker 1: Yeah you you you gotta rewrite or you gotta re
Speaker 1: say in a different way. Because I would have been like, oh, girl,
Speaker 1: you're giving me stoney from him so hard. He looked
Speaker 1: like Pookie from New Jack City. It was bad. Did
Speaker 1: you see those girls? You remember the cartoons where the
Speaker 1: stars and the moments were girl, I saw all. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I still thought his chin was strong with his chin
Speaker 1: was strong. But what helped hide that is because he's dark, complexed.
Speaker 1: Believe father, God, we come to your body, Ben, but
Speaker 1: not broken. That sounded very racist. Jay'st Maybe it's the
Speaker 1: color is comming. You know, he's dark, and we didn't
Speaker 1: get the visual with that. But believe me, just slightly
Speaker 1: swogling as well. I was like, yeah, you've been shook.
Speaker 1: You know. It's a bad thing, but I'll never want
Speaker 1: to get hit that hole. Great but outside of that,
Speaker 1: great job, willpack wonderful oscar. It ran smoothly. I love
Speaker 1: that they over to see everywhere, of course, but I
Speaker 1: love that they had a host that they had hosted
Speaker 1: segue and control and drive the train because I hate
Speaker 1: when they don't have a host. I like when they
Speaker 1: have a host to drive the train. And I thought
Speaker 1: the ladies were good. I thought Schumer, who I didn't
Speaker 1: want to be there, she did the next same, same, same.
Speaker 1: She was great when she when she came down and
Speaker 1: that Spider Man suit. I was like, oh girl, you
Speaker 1: got some you know, a little funny today all babies,
Speaker 1: but that was that was the biggest Spider Man I
Speaker 1: ever seen. Good sper Man she w was talking about
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lawrence had a couple of pounds, she lost some weight.
Speaker 1: You know, life be hard. But she had a baby.
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lawrence, Yeah, she did have a baby. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about uh, be sure had a two year old. I
Speaker 1: didn't know that. He's close to three. He's that was
Speaker 1: I didn't even know she had a baby. Had what
Speaker 1: I do with congratulationship. She made a joke about it.
Speaker 1: She did look good for one year too, well almost
Speaker 1: three years. But hey, next year, Oscars, you need a
Speaker 1: person that's fair, that's on both sides of the fence,
Speaker 1: and that is inclusive. Guest, Yes, yea for the Oscars
Speaker 1: y'all campaign. Yes, wait till you see the gowns I wear.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you have to cover some things up.
Speaker 1: You have to cover This is why I don't work
Speaker 1: with her. Y'all took her. I gotta cover some things up.
Speaker 1: You can all on my shoulder just flame. Don't wait
Speaker 1: that you can't do it? But am I helpful? Am
Speaker 1: I not helpful? Exactly said it was? No? Thank you?
Speaker 1: Thank you. If I slap Lauren, can I a woman,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm not gonna lae to you. I've seen
Speaker 1: some of those beautiful heels that more aware. You better
Speaker 1: be careful, you might. I never lost the fight, okay never,
Speaker 1: and you know she car shotguns. I ain't. Points will
Speaker 1: fly tonight, ladies, thank you you have all made this
Speaker 1: a great show. Thank you so much. Thank you everyone
Speaker 1: for joining. Thank you man. We appreciate you joining us
Speaker 1: at Laugh and Learn, because here at laugh and Learn,
Speaker 1: what is our model, Lauren Hogan? Here and Laugh and Learn?
Speaker 1: We have a saying that we are not trying to
Speaker 1: get anybody to change your mind. We are simply trying
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Speaker 1: order to use your mind, you have to have your mind.
Speaker 1: And if your mind don't work, a good slap don't
Speaker 1: do thet No I'm not. I'm making jokes about it,
Speaker 1: but I promise you please don't go promote violence because
Speaker 1: anything could happen. No, something could happen. But tragically it's bad,
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