WEBVTT - EP 443: The MF Read 

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<v Speaker 1>My response was, and I'm gonna further iterate on it

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<v Speaker 1>because I want you bitches to stop playing in my

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<v Speaker 1>motherfucking face. I'm not toxic, I'm not crazy, and what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the woman

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<v Speaker 1>you wish you was. Pusass. So this is actually this episode.

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<v Speaker 2>This is gonna be my read. Okay, so this it's

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get dark. But it also kind of has to

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<v Speaker 2>do with this prostituting. Niggas got to take.

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<v Speaker 1>Care of me.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring okay, okay, Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded

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<v Speaker 1>like you was talking to this person.

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<v Speaker 2>You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>You want to say together, Decisions Decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Desisiones Disisions. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>your girl, Mandy baka that bitch. Hey, everybody, welcome back

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<v Speaker 1>to another episode. My name is Weezy, and we're in

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<v Speaker 1>Atlanta today.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that if you're a YouTube watcher, sometimes things

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<v Speaker 2>look different. We record everywhere. At this point, we record everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>We record everywhere, y'all. So right now we're in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right where I live now and I love it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm glad that I get to spend more time

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<v Speaker 1>at home. How's your time at home? Oh? No, it's

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<v Speaker 1>been great. It's been great. I'm looking forward to the holidays.

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't decided where I want to go. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been doing Aruba last year, I did Saint Croix.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm just I'm just loving it. I'm loving it.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought I would be like rushing super back to

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<v Speaker 1>New York, and I'm not. I'll be here, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>probably like another three to five years. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm giving myself. No clue I've talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like any other really city. I don't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like you would want to stay. No, I'm not staying

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<v Speaker 1>here forever. I feel like I'm just a nomad anyways.

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<v Speaker 1>Like maybe I go back to New York if I

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<v Speaker 1>can afford my penthouse in overlooking Central Park, I will.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'd like I have. No, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that's the joy of not having no fucking kids. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I genuinely feel like whatever my mood feels like in

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<v Speaker 1>three to five years is where I'll go. Like my

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<v Speaker 1>mood was pushing me back here. I manifested a radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. I've been spending a lot of time

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<v Speaker 1>with my friends. I love it. I have the space.

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<v Speaker 1>I have the exact space that I wanted, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted a two story loft, That's what I even wanted

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<v Speaker 1>in New York. So I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>where I'll want to be in three to five years

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<v Speaker 1>after the pandemic. A bitch, don't even try to think

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<v Speaker 1>or guess what the fuck the world has for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just really happy, like so happy to where

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<v Speaker 1>like I've pushed off like my last two therapy like sessions,

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<v Speaker 1>because I did like two sessions where I just felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I was bragging about life and I was like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna pay you what I pay you to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how I'm not dealing with anything mentally and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not crying and I'm not worried and I'm not anxious,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, whoo, I have a breather. This time

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<v Speaker 1>of year, for the last five years, has been the

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<v Speaker 1>year that I crash, whether I'm just miserable, I'm crashing

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<v Speaker 1>out from work, I'm deplete, I'm exhausted, I'm not happy,

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<v Speaker 1>and so maybe that's why, like this year just feels

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<v Speaker 1>different because I'm not in that space. So I feel good.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel great. All my niggas are still showing up

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<v Speaker 1>being great. Nos. Three out now it's three, it's three.

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<v Speaker 1>One fell off just natural them. No, he had another

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<v Speaker 1>relationship that I just felt like was making him not

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<v Speaker 1>show up for me enough. But and that's fine. I

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<v Speaker 1>got the other three and welcoming another one if anyone

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<v Speaker 1>comes in my life. Uh No, I'm great, Like my

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<v Speaker 1>partners are great, they show up. I'm just doing really good.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm excited for the holidays and the break that

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<v Speaker 1>we normally get at the end of the year, and

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<v Speaker 1>just seeing what next year has like. I'm really excited

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<v Speaker 1>about next year outside of the orange Cheeto fucking up

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<v Speaker 1>the world, but I'm like in a good place. I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. I'm happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like the sun the South can do that

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<v Speaker 2>for you too. So I'm trying to think, well, you

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<v Speaker 2>will be hearing this after my Brazil trip, which I

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<v Speaker 2>would have loved to talk about live in real time.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully we can do that on a town hall with y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>because I've been hearing fans and people talk about Brazil.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like my whole life and like recently I

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<v Speaker 2>did something called cartography.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard this? Yeah, let me try to

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<v Speaker 1>pull up. My friend Andre did it for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's basically based on where you're born, your time,

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<v Speaker 2>like your horoscope a little bit, but where your body

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<v Speaker 2>should be, where your happiest. Okay, mine, here's the short one.

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<v Speaker 2>This one's crazy and when he sent it to me,

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, Nigga, Yours is actually wild. Summary of potential

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<v Speaker 2>soul homes California Coast spiritual growth and resonance, Spain and

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<v Speaker 2>Portugal for expansion, fortune and cultural alignment which I love,

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<v Speaker 2>Spain into Portugal, New York City career magnetism, artistic and

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<v Speaker 2>social recognition and love. And then India for karmic and

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<v Speaker 2>spiritual soul home. Once it like kind of branches out

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<v Speaker 2>because it gets bigger. Another line that I run through,

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<v Speaker 2>this one is crazy. Where do I go all the time? Mexico,

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<v Speaker 2>Mexico and Brazil.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>It says strong sense of belonging, energizing home base, keeping

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<v Speaker 2>you emotionally event adventurous, feeling at home when traveling to

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<v Speaker 2>this place.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch, I thought that should I said this might.

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<v Speaker 2>Be real, brokay the fact that like I just always

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<v Speaker 2>end up in Mexico, always, always, always. So it's funny

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<v Speaker 2>you mentioned penthouse. I have been looking to buy. My

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend and I have been looking most of you know

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<v Speaker 2>that listen to Horrible. He's real, he's a real estate investor,

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<v Speaker 2>and so some of the rates are going down ish

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<v Speaker 2>in New York. Not crazy, but but you know, talking

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<v Speaker 2>about living together, He's like, I'd.

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<v Speaker 1>Rather own, I'd rather own, I'd rather own.

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<v Speaker 2>So this, this is how crazy New York real estate is.

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<v Speaker 2>This is also probably my fault for not knowing what

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<v Speaker 2>I should be doing. But find a penthouse. Not even

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<v Speaker 2>my style as far as where it is. And it's

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<v Speaker 2>funny because you said overlooking Central Park. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>live below twenty first Street. I love the West Village.

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<v Speaker 2>I love downtown. Rather be in the East Village. But

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<v Speaker 2>whatever found an apartment that I'm like, this is perfect

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<v Speaker 2>for a kid to too with a parking garage. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a car. He wants to make sure he

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<v Speaker 2>can always park. And I was like, this is perfect,

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<v Speaker 2>Jim Doorman. Whatever, It's not at budget, but it's like

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<v Speaker 2>right there, put in an offer, offer gets accepted. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>holy shit, So start going over paperwork with the real

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<v Speaker 2>estate agent that I have.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, hit up Matt the mortgage guy.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys, hit him up, Matt mortgage guy Ian Dumblas.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like they're all in that ethos. But he

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<v Speaker 2>was super helpful when him and I were looking for

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<v Speaker 2>mortgage loans. So the agent is like, ar's your common

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<v Speaker 2>charges or eleven hundred super low monthlyes. That's great for

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<v Speaker 2>New York. I was like, yeay, great, and then your

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<v Speaker 2>taxes monthly are thirteen hundred dollars. I was like, wait, wait, wait, nigga,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought the monthly was eleven hundred because I put

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<v Speaker 2>in an offer for New York for before. She's like,

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<v Speaker 2>that was a co op. A co op includes the taxes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>a condo in New York City has your common charges

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<v Speaker 2>and your taxes. I would have been paying twenty three

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<v Speaker 2>hundred dollars a month on top of the mortgage.

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really sitting there like, nigga, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want hold ownership that bad. I'm tired of

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<v Speaker 2>people forcing me and it's hard because my man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm giving up on that I'm not gonna lie so

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<v Speaker 1>hard like next year, I have talked to say friends

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<v Speaker 1>an agent, Now Crystal, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna get one,

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<v Speaker 1>but not that I want to live in. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>know what I want to live in is above what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to pay to live anywhere. Like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>home enough. But I literally am thinking of next year

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<v Speaker 1>having my three and I'll say I have three and

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<v Speaker 1>a half because one of my own sugar Daddy's back

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<v Speaker 1>in in fiction. He's not getting no sugar, but he's

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<v Speaker 1>still daddy. What's wrong here? And sugar he's not giving

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<v Speaker 1>he's not getting sugar. But no, no, no, no, no, well no,

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<v Speaker 1>I would buy here in Atlanta, I wouldn't buy in

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<v Speaker 1>New York. But literally that's I'm going to have all

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<v Speaker 1>of them combined to buy me a house next year

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm getting Teddy Is, my thirty six inch watch

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<v Speaker 1>and my luggage, like I have all the things I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting for my birthday and Christmas this year. Next year,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody got to combine to get me an adopt payment

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<v Speaker 1>for a house. But same thing I've been talking about,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, taxa sucks, renovations suck, like having to

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<v Speaker 1>be like in charge of everything when it happens. Bro,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't sound like fun.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm trying to I'm trying to get in the comments.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to think about what people say. Well, they

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<v Speaker 2>still say that real estate is the way to go.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's where I'm like, I think as millennials, bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>When I look and see what them motherfucking fifty year

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<v Speaker 2>olds got to pay like twenty years ago, thirty years

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<v Speaker 2>ago on a motherfucker house, bitch, it is like triple

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<v Speaker 2>quadruple that price.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm not seeing specifically in Atlanta anything go up, Bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>I get notifications every day, property dropped by twenty five k,

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<v Speaker 1>property drop by fifty K. I know me too. Every

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<v Speaker 1>day Zillo is just alert in media. Do you want

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<v Speaker 1>to know? Prices drop? And when I wanted was my apartment?

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<v Speaker 2>And now I realize why my apartment that I put

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<v Speaker 2>the offer in on the escrow is when you fully

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<v Speaker 2>go through the right, So you put your offer, your

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<v Speaker 2>offer gets accepted, then you put the money and then

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<v Speaker 2>it goes into escrow. So I didn't get to that

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<v Speaker 2>process yet because we started to talk about the monthly taxes,

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<v Speaker 2>et cetera.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to bullshit.

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to put that offer in so under a

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<v Speaker 2>million for two bedroom in New York City below I'd

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<v Speaker 2>say fifty fourth Street, Upper east.

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<v Speaker 1>Side to see to hold you shit sounds crazy, It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds crazy. No, no, no, but no, now that I have

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<v Speaker 1>left New York, bitch, New York is fucking dumb. No,

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<v Speaker 1>New York's not dumb. If you want to suck dick

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<v Speaker 1>and an alley, have your late nights out like New

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<v Speaker 1>York gives you exactly what you would want New York

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<v Speaker 1>to give you. Accept quality of life. Now what I realized.

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<v Speaker 1>How you can suck. You could suck. You could jack

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<v Speaker 1>somebody off in a uber. I'll show you to what

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<v Speaker 1>you will go to a sex club. You can end

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<v Speaker 1>up in a dungeon. You could literally. I shared it

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<v Speaker 1>on one of I don't know if it was this

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<v Speaker 1>episode or need to know bitch. Last time I was

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<v Speaker 1>in New York, I fell into a goddamn bar and

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<v Speaker 1>had shots with Mary J. Blige. New York offers amazing experiences,

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<v Speaker 1>but in terms of the quality of life, bitch, it

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<v Speaker 1>is the fucking show. This apartment, right, this was the one. Bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Guess how much the offer got accepted for eight thirty.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you see how high that price is? So that

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<v Speaker 2>got me worried because.

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<v Speaker 1>I said, this visits me off because this would be

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<v Speaker 1>two fifty in Atlanta, I could show you apartment. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I can show, but that would be two d Then

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<v Speaker 1>I loved about this apartment is it was a seven

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<v Speaker 1>minute walk to Central Park, and I thought, whoa, my

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<v Speaker 1>nigga lives up state. I call west Chester, up states.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like, listen, I need outside, I need nature, I

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<v Speaker 2>need quiet. I can't deal with this bullshit. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>handle this shit. You want to walk outside and we

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<v Speaker 2>see niggas. I don't want to see nobody. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>this is perfect. Maybe I'm going back to my roots.

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<v Speaker 2>You know when my sugar daddy got me that apartment

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<v Speaker 2>on fifty fourth and eighth.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I'm going back. We won't go back.

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<v Speaker 2>Bitch for the apartment to get accepted that well, So

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<v Speaker 2>then my Asian and I are like both saying, She's like, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we need to do deep dive on this shit. We

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<v Speaker 2>got to figure out if the building is about to put.

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<v Speaker 1>A I don't know the word.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not an abatement, but there's something they put on

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<v Speaker 2>top of homeowners. Let's just say, for example, for anyone listening,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you find a homeowner's association feed that's three hundred bucks,

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<v Speaker 2>but for the next five years, it's eleven hundred because

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<v Speaker 2>maybe they want to install an elevator or something else.

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<v Speaker 2>Right oka, She's like, something gotta be off, bitch, because

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<v Speaker 2>how the fuck they accept the offer two hundred one

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<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars less. Come to find out, it's the taxes

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<v Speaker 2>and the monthlies. So Hear and I are freaking out that.

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<v Speaker 2>We also started thinking, well, maybe they're building something else

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<v Speaker 2>on top to obstruct the views.

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<v Speaker 1>Who knows.

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<v Speaker 2>But what I did learn through this is like, and

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<v Speaker 2>I've said this over the years, I feel like the

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<v Speaker 2>last two or three years, I do feel like somebody's

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<v Speaker 2>pushing me. It's not even just him. I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>the world is pushing. When you have money, or you're

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<v Speaker 2>at a certain age or credit score, bye bye bye.

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<v Speaker 2>But I really am happy, and I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>buy bye bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is the faith that I'm talking about, wanting to buy,

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<v Speaker 1>to steal, rent something else. Like to me, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>pressure of and that's the thing. So I've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it with a lot of my friends, and in

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<v Speaker 1>terms of hold on, actually, let me read, let me

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<v Speaker 1>read this. I'm gonna read this quote. I just screenshot

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<v Speaker 1>it today because it was fattabulous and I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>it's what we're dealing with, right, said girls, I understand

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<v Speaker 1>why they advise us to get married and have kids

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<v Speaker 1>before twenty five, because after that our brain starts working

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<v Speaker 1>and the decision won't seem so reasonable anymore. That's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>This is what I think about as being a millennial

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<v Speaker 1>is being a woman in your fucking thirties. We've been

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<v Speaker 1>pushed to think that all of these certain things are

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<v Speaker 1>how we're supposed to exist. Okay, be an independent woman,

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<v Speaker 1>get your degree, bitch, got that. And now they just

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<v Speaker 1>sitting on my shelf not worth a goddamn and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sitting on forty two thousand dollars worth of loans. Then

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<v Speaker 1>they talk about have kids. Bitch, everybody with kids is miserable.

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<v Speaker 1>They won't say it out loud, but bitch they do

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<v Speaker 1>when they group chat, and they do today. Friends with

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<v Speaker 1>no kids, I will say.

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<v Speaker 2>This the only caveat do you know what I really

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<v Speaker 2>believe it is? What fucked up y'all and it's elitist.

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<v Speaker 2>What my only friends that are happy with kids have

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<v Speaker 2>fucking money.

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<v Speaker 1>Well no, I still have friends with money and they

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<v Speaker 1>still and my friends with babe. Can they shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to Britt and her husband. They is dope as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like a nurse and nesissist. She's a fucking celebrity

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<v Speaker 1>makeup artist that live fucking beautifully. They were my neighbors

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<v Speaker 1>in l C. Bretted and when I tell you every

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<v Speaker 1>day she'd be like, bitch, I love my kids, but

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<v Speaker 1>there's always a butt like the way that sometimes she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, girl, I don't already spent eight hundred dollars

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<v Speaker 1>on the set of This Week. Not finna go out

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm not paying that bitch no more money. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's unhappy. But the fact is a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of you bitches, if you could take it back, you

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't have had the bests. That's all I'm finna say.

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<v Speaker 1>You wouldn't have had them if you knew how beautiful

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<v Speaker 1>life would be without. I don't think that's okay. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying this speaking for me and my thoughts and

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<v Speaker 1>beliefs on life, because this is what I see. This

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<v Speaker 1>is what I hear in every single person where the

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<v Speaker 1>baby loves their fucking kids but would also love to

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<v Speaker 1>not have them in certain instances of life. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>just the fact of the matter, whether you have fucking

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<v Speaker 1>money or not. Secondly, Thirdly, Fourthly, I'm off the Fourthly,

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<v Speaker 1>they tell us that we had to have the white

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<v Speaker 1>pick of fence, the husband, and yes, the mortgage homeowner ownership.

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<v Speaker 1>It's tricky right now, baby, it is seven to eight

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<v Speaker 1>percent in interest right now, all of the homes are

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<v Speaker 1>priced over. And now what's happening, especially in Atlanta, you

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<v Speaker 1>have a higher supply than demand. So now all the

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<v Speaker 1>people that invested all this money hoping for whatever get

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<v Speaker 1>back they was gonna get back, ain't get back nothing

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<v Speaker 1>they about to see here, neither break even or all

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<v Speaker 1>the things. I just want y'all to know, the American

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<v Speaker 1>dream is gone. Everything they told us was a lie.

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<v Speaker 1>And now we got a Cheeto in office trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make it to where me and Weezie can't even say

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<v Speaker 1>what we want to say whenever we want a motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>say it. They're taking away our rights, they're taking away

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<v Speaker 1>our freedoms. And so just so you know, whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>thought life should be bitch, live for you. That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in an individualistic society any motherfucking way, So live

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<v Speaker 1>for you, and that's where I'm gonna go with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't talk to enough people. I talk all day

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<v Speaker 1>every day between here and between my radio show to

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<v Speaker 1>select the Big Nurse, between us, talking about the book,

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<v Speaker 1>everything else. Bitch, this is an assimilation. The aliens is

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<v Speaker 1>watching us. They got a new producer that like the

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<v Speaker 1>drama and so the way that we are living life

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<v Speaker 1>right now, bitch, the aliens watching it us laughing. Bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>You you used to call me love and hip hop. Bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>we we are worse than Love and hip hop. America

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<v Speaker 1>is ZEUS Network and the aliens are laughing at us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine. Everybody making money on us. That's why fucking

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<v Speaker 1>Trump then became a goddamn billionaire while being a president.

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<v Speaker 1>No one has goddamn president's salary, ain't but two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>thousand doesn't he donate it? They have no even if

0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:33.320
<v Speaker 1>he donates his fucking presidency salary. It is noted that

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<v Speaker 1>now the Trumps have made damn near a billion dollars

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<v Speaker 1>in the fucking ten months. The nigga them been in

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<v Speaker 1>office because he's getting all these contracts for his his shit,

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<v Speaker 1>his friends. That's why the fucking goddamn planes, they're not

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<v Speaker 1>going to reimbarrase you for cancelations, delayed luggage anymore because

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<v Speaker 1>he in bed with the goddamn people taking over them

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<v Speaker 1>goddamn airlines. All I know is hopefully we're seven minutes in,

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<v Speaker 1>because that was a lot of fucking bleeping. If y'all

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<v Speaker 1>are on YouTube, you got to hear all of that ship.

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<v Speaker 1>But yet, the way I've just been living right now

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<v Speaker 1>is just a fucking dump. It's a fucking mess, and

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that. I am proud to bring an American

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not that proud. I mean, I ain't gonna hold

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<v Speaker 1>you when I go to other countries, maybe because I

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<v Speaker 1>ain't been in Tokyo yet, because they've seen worlds above us.

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<v Speaker 1>I just still be happy to be here sometimes, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, because I like African American dick,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna go anywhere else and really find African

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<v Speaker 1>American dick like I find it here in the States.

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<v Speaker 1>You got African dick, and then you have darker complexion

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<v Speaker 1>everything else, dick. But bitch, I love me some African

0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:45.520
<v Speaker 1>American dick, especially like the African dick, the black dick elsewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>They spoiled, they're they're also the turtlenecks. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I like saying I like African American dick. You

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<v Speaker 1>like the little skin skin bag. I like African American dicks.

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<v Speaker 1>Them is those are my favorite mans. Don't circumcise my niggas.

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<v Speaker 1>I never had an African that wasn't okay. My experience

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<v Speaker 1>and my experience only yours wasn't. No. African dicks just

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<v Speaker 1>weren't good. They were small, they didn't fuck good. They

0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:15.880
<v Speaker 1>like small. Science literally tells us that's no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>There's only one country, Congo, only Congo, bitch. And all

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<v Speaker 1>I had was Nigerians and Cameronia one Goodand I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to say who I've had. I'm saying back in

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<v Speaker 1>the days, y'all know, I used to have a diplomat.

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<v Speaker 1>I used to have the little nigga who brought me

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<v Speaker 1>to Dubai. Like I had my share of Africans. The

0:18:37.680 --> 0:18:39.719
<v Speaker 1>dicks weren't hitting and they were so like. They were

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<v Speaker 1>much more respectful in the bedroom. Remember the one African

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<v Speaker 1>I had, he only wanted missionary. He didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>fuck me from the back and wait, let me suck

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<v Speaker 1>a dick, which was great for me, Like bitch, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do work, but it wasn't enjoyable.

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<v Speaker 2>If I could speak for a moment, I would like

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<v Speaker 2>to talk talk about Africans actually in a.

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<v Speaker 1>Way that we didn't be going. Uh, just so y'all

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<v Speaker 1>know we both adhere to our own thoughts, views and opinions.

0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:13.600
<v Speaker 1>They are separate of each other, and so whatever y'all

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<v Speaker 1>here moving forward, y'all roast me on the African American dick,

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<v Speaker 1>and y'all can talk about how that is. And I

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<v Speaker 1>guess we gotta bleep that because that's not a word

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<v Speaker 1>we allowed to say. Morning. Just have the floor.

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<v Speaker 2>They get me, but here go let me chat for

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<v Speaker 2>a moment. Please, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>You got the floor. I ain't saying nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're online, right and we get to see everybody

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<v Speaker 2>complaining about the hairstylists and their rules. The rules are necessary.

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<v Speaker 2>I will now shut the fuck up and relinquish all

0:19:45.320 --> 0:19:49.399
<v Speaker 2>I decided. Now, many of you know one of my hairstylists, Didge,

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<v Speaker 2>rest in peace to Shade.

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<v Speaker 1>She was amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>If I wanted to touch up on these braids. I

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<v Speaker 2>would have went to Shay. She's been my hairstylist for

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<v Speaker 2>eight years, and I've been going to a.

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<v Speaker 1>New girl for the the better looking braids.

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<v Speaker 2>We can say they're providing human here. They have a

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<v Speaker 2>certain style of braiding. So I said, let me get

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<v Speaker 2>a touch up before we go to this shell. Oh bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>I decided to go to Flatbush. I should have took

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<v Speaker 2>that five train right background. Not only did I try

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<v Speaker 2>hard first, because I don't even be in the comments

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<v Speaker 2>like you should have went here, You should have went

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<v Speaker 2>to hear Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>You bitches lied. You bitches lied. You bitches lied when

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<v Speaker 1>you posted the TikTok to the two one dollar braids.

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<v Speaker 1>Your bitch is lied when you said you were getting

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<v Speaker 1>a deal. You bitches lied when you said why g

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<v Speaker 1>Wiggs had the best human bundle hair.

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<v Speaker 2>I have had this sin for six days. I had

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<v Speaker 2>to look at my ring. I had to flat iron it,

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<v Speaker 2>I had to comb it. I had to deep condition

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<v Speaker 2>brand new human hair. I want to start off by

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<v Speaker 2>saying I went into three places Mandy before I decided

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<v Speaker 2>this would be the one. The only reason I went

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<v Speaker 2>into the one that I went into is because it's

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<v Speaker 2>singed cleaner.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me show you a photo of this bathroom. I

0:20:56.080 --> 0:20:58.520
<v Speaker 1>want to show you this bathroom because my hair was

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<v Speaker 1>already taken out at this point and there was nothing

0:21:00.560 --> 0:21:02.520
<v Speaker 1>I could do. Just tell me what you see when

0:21:02.560 --> 0:21:05.200
<v Speaker 1>you look at it. I would never I would never

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<v Speaker 1>judge a brating spot by their bathroom. You wouldn't judge that. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>this looks way cleaner the should I've been into Where

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<v Speaker 1>to God looks way cleaner than should I've been in.

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<v Speaker 1>I lived in the Bronx, though, I'm sorry, bitch, the

0:21:20.920 --> 0:21:26.360
<v Speaker 1>floor is filled with piss. Okay, well, or maybe it's

0:21:26.440 --> 0:21:29.360
<v Speaker 1>water dripping from the braids after they got their their

0:21:29.400 --> 0:21:31.920
<v Speaker 1>brain much damn water, bitch, But maybe it's But maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's not fitness, bro. I'm not gonna lie whatever for

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<v Speaker 1>the African shops that I used to go into over

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<v Speaker 1>on Hunter Hunter. Goddamn, that's how long I've been out

0:21:42.400 --> 0:21:46.800
<v Speaker 1>the Bronx, bitch. But there was there was something Hunts Point, bitch,

0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:49.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying Hunter Hunts Point. And then once twenty fifth

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<v Speaker 1>I used to go to two shops in one on

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<v Speaker 1>Elder Avenue. Elder Avenue used to do the straight backs.

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<v Speaker 1>When I tell you it was that that's a luxury bathroom, well,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is nice. It was half the size of

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<v Speaker 1>that and you just go in and you're pissing next

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<v Speaker 1>to a mop. You're pissing next to I don't care

0:22:05.359 --> 0:22:07.280
<v Speaker 1>about that, but I don't say you prayer about the

0:22:07.320 --> 0:22:11.240
<v Speaker 1>back ad next to you. But people's hair gets wet.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that was it. I think that this

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<v Speaker 1>was just flooding. It was filth.

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<v Speaker 2>It was nasty, so boom, I go in there. Someone

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<v Speaker 2>didn't want to put that on a video, y'all. We gotta,

0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:21.560
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna put it. We're gonna put that on the

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<v Speaker 2>video because it wasn't that bad.

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<v Speaker 1>That was want y'all to see it. What was in

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<v Speaker 1>that bad? To me?

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<v Speaker 2>I posted on I g live and like, you know

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<v Speaker 2>how you could talk with the live them holes was gagging, okay, okay,

0:22:29.840 --> 0:22:33.200
<v Speaker 2>walk in boo. I'm like, hey, I show them the photo, Mandy.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, this is what I'm looking for, do you know?

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<v Speaker 2>And you can't take bo boho braids.

0:22:37.440 --> 0:22:38.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't do boho braids.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, this is the gypsy board of Ward, whatever

0:22:39.960 --> 0:22:41.879
<v Speaker 2>these bitches called them. I'm like, can you start it

0:22:41.880 --> 0:22:45.640
<v Speaker 2>from here. Yes, yes, yeah, tit, tit, tit. I'm like, okay,

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:48.440
<v Speaker 2>how much she said? Forty dollars. I already knew that

0:22:48.520 --> 0:22:51.040
<v Speaker 2>price was too low. I said, give me somebody more experienced,

0:22:51.160 --> 0:22:54.040
<v Speaker 2>dude for seventy five. That actually made her say, okay,

0:22:54.080 --> 0:22:56.560
<v Speaker 2>I'll do it. So the shop owner started to want

0:22:56.560 --> 0:22:57.880
<v Speaker 2>to do my hair, and I was like, thank god,

0:22:57.960 --> 0:23:00.920
<v Speaker 2>because you know you gotta let him. Like, bitch, I'm serious, girl,

0:23:01.000 --> 0:23:03.879
<v Speaker 2>I show them what I wanted, and what I wanted

0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:06.679
<v Speaker 2>was not what I got. They start taking out my

0:23:06.720 --> 0:23:12.320
<v Speaker 2>hair with a comb that was number one filthy. I said, no,

0:23:12.720 --> 0:23:14.159
<v Speaker 2>that's not gonna work. I need you to put it

0:23:14.200 --> 0:23:17.560
<v Speaker 2>in that barber side whatever, huffing and puffing at me

0:23:17.600 --> 0:23:18.280
<v Speaker 2>now like I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Fucking saying something crazy.

0:23:19.560 --> 0:23:21.359
<v Speaker 2>Then she start trying to comb my hair out with

0:23:21.440 --> 0:23:23.880
<v Speaker 2>the fucking super tight rattail comb.

0:23:24.080 --> 0:23:25.800
<v Speaker 1>Don't comb my hair out with that, You're gonna pull

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<v Speaker 1>my hair.

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<v Speaker 2>Out, And you know, you feel like you can't say

0:23:28.160 --> 0:23:28.959
<v Speaker 2>nothing to the aunties.

0:23:29.000 --> 0:23:30.320
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't be disrespectful.

0:23:32.440 --> 0:23:34.440
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, you know what, let me just let

0:23:34.440 --> 0:23:36.680
<v Speaker 2>this happen. So I start taking my hair out. Then

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:38.400
<v Speaker 2>her baby come over I don't give a fuck.

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:39.400
<v Speaker 1>Sit on my lap.

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<v Speaker 2>If that's gonna make your mom un comfortable, We're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>get through this. So I said, you know what, I'm

0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:44.520
<v Speaker 2>a type of person. I'm sure you are too.

0:23:44.760 --> 0:23:46.520
<v Speaker 1>You're getting your hair done or something like that, make up,

0:23:46.560 --> 0:23:48.199
<v Speaker 1>someone comes to your home. I'm ordering you smooth. I'm

0:23:48.359 --> 0:23:50.680
<v Speaker 1>whenever i'm ordering something. Yeah, you nice to me. Oh

0:23:50.720 --> 0:23:52.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't do that, Okay, I don't.

0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:54.480
<v Speaker 2>If I'm getting a service and i'm gonna order something,

0:23:54.480 --> 0:23:56.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna order you something. So I said, you want

0:23:56.600 --> 0:23:59.320
<v Speaker 2>to s yeah, tune the sandwich cool, fir'st all. The

0:23:59.320 --> 0:24:01.280
<v Speaker 2>sandwich gets it. The lady has to bite of the

0:24:01.320 --> 0:24:05.880
<v Speaker 2>sandwich and goes, oh, I don't eat Maennace, bitch, what

0:24:05.920 --> 0:24:07.160
<v Speaker 2>the fuck is the tuna sandwich?

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:11.200
<v Speaker 1>Then? What is that tuna? Where you at? So I'll

0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:11.760
<v Speaker 1>say nothing.

0:24:13.240 --> 0:24:15.560
<v Speaker 2>Someone come over to me and I was like, this

0:24:15.640 --> 0:24:18.920
<v Speaker 2>bitch is like, do you do a TV show? I said, no,

0:24:19.600 --> 0:24:22.040
<v Speaker 2>I seen you before on the YouTube show.

0:24:23.040 --> 0:24:26.480
<v Speaker 1>She famous show. I hate I hate that. I don't

0:24:26.800 --> 0:24:31.119
<v Speaker 1>give I hate that. So then they start seeing my

0:24:31.280 --> 0:24:35.000
<v Speaker 1>hair as I'm asking for it. She goes, this is good.

0:24:35.119 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Now that's the number one problems, bitch. Now you compliment

0:24:37.680 --> 0:24:40.399
<v Speaker 1>the nother braid of bitch. You do good, Mandy.

0:24:42.160 --> 0:24:46.120
<v Speaker 2>These braids that this bitch gave me were so terrible.

0:24:46.480 --> 0:24:47.520
<v Speaker 2>I started his tear up.

0:24:48.320 --> 0:24:50.960
<v Speaker 1>I started his tear up. She said everything okay. I said, no,

0:24:51.520 --> 0:24:53.520
<v Speaker 1>this isn't what I asked. I had no choice. I

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:55.560
<v Speaker 1>had to go to this fucking event. She's like, it's okay,

0:24:55.560 --> 0:24:59.000
<v Speaker 1>it's okay, I'm gonna fix it. Now.

0:24:59.000 --> 0:25:01.560
<v Speaker 2>We got three ladies in my one lady pulled a

0:25:01.640 --> 0:25:04.479
<v Speaker 2>comb out of her own head to start fixing what

0:25:04.520 --> 0:25:05.280
<v Speaker 2>I had going on.

0:25:05.800 --> 0:25:08.359
<v Speaker 1>And I was really just like, what am I gonna do?

0:25:08.359 --> 0:25:09.280
<v Speaker 1>Do I take the whole thing out?

0:25:09.320 --> 0:25:10.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't have time to go to this event and

0:25:10.520 --> 0:25:13.199
<v Speaker 2>take the whole thing out. She's like, don't worry, I'll

0:25:13.200 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 2>give you a discount. Now it's only seventy dollars.

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Bro. We have got to stop going for the cheap shit.

0:25:19.840 --> 0:25:21.520
<v Speaker 1>I ain't saying I was going for the cheap shit.

0:25:21.680 --> 0:25:24.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying my one breaker pass and the other

0:25:24.240 --> 0:25:27.119
<v Speaker 1>one's on vacation. What am I to do? I almost

0:25:27.119 --> 0:25:28.720
<v Speaker 1>cut my hair off and did blonde like Mandy.

0:25:29.320 --> 0:25:31.520
<v Speaker 2>When you see the PDF and it says leave your

0:25:31.560 --> 0:25:33.920
<v Speaker 2>kids at home, make sure your hair is blow dry,

0:25:34.240 --> 0:25:34.720
<v Speaker 2>make sure.

0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:37.120
<v Speaker 1>It's calmed out. Don't bring any other people to the appointment.

0:25:37.200 --> 0:25:40.159
<v Speaker 1>Just fucking listen. I am never.

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:43.479
<v Speaker 2>Again walking into a shop where I gotta sit my

0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:46.639
<v Speaker 2>feet up on the goddamn chair and wait for the roaches.

0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:48.440
<v Speaker 2>If I have to pick up my bag and make

0:25:48.440 --> 0:25:50.800
<v Speaker 2>sure bugs don't get in it, I'm not doing this shit.

0:25:50.680 --> 0:25:52.840
<v Speaker 1>No more now. Bugs is a hard that's my heart

0:25:52.840 --> 0:25:55.560
<v Speaker 1>limit job. Buck the back. I can't do no bug.

0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:58.359
<v Speaker 1>They ain't there like that. I'm not gonna sit there

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:01.359
<v Speaker 1>and deal with bugs invisible bugs. The bugs can be

0:26:01.400 --> 0:26:02.560
<v Speaker 1>in the wall. I don't want to see the bug.

0:26:02.640 --> 0:26:05.479
<v Speaker 2>But this culture of this, these type of breaking shops

0:26:05.480 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 2>just being like little shops da da da, da da whatever.

0:26:08.160 --> 0:26:10.160
<v Speaker 2>People that semi know how to do braids, they really

0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 2>only know how to do one type of braid, and

0:26:11.760 --> 0:26:13.280
<v Speaker 2>it's at the night and all the way down.

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:14.680
<v Speaker 1>They can't do none of this other shit.

0:26:14.800 --> 0:26:16.440
<v Speaker 2>They sitting here trying to figure it out because every

0:26:16.440 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 2>bitch bitch on Instagram does it. But at the end

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:20.879
<v Speaker 2>of the day, these braiders are charging one thousand dollars

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:22.640
<v Speaker 2>because they do a good fucking job.

0:26:23.400 --> 0:26:26.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm never again, bitch, I'm wearing natural heir. I'm so glad.

0:26:26.440 --> 0:26:28.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm a ball aheaded bitch. I know you are. Because

0:26:28.600 --> 0:26:30.840
<v Speaker 1>one thousand dollars for some braids, bitch, I wish a

0:26:30.880 --> 0:26:33.280
<v Speaker 1>bitch would these. Seventy is what I used to pay

0:26:33.320 --> 0:26:36.439
<v Speaker 1>before I chopped it off. And that's it. Were you doing? No,

0:26:36.480 --> 0:26:39.679
<v Speaker 1>you were doing like the knot list one to seventy

0:26:40.119 --> 0:26:43.879
<v Speaker 1>in the Bronx Hunts Point and it was fine. The braids.

0:26:43.960 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 1>When I tell you, the break prices can suck my dick,

0:26:48.160 --> 0:26:50.920
<v Speaker 1>like how break prices went up and cushie prices went down.

0:26:51.320 --> 0:26:54.880
<v Speaker 1>I just don't understand what's happening with our economy. It's

0:26:54.920 --> 0:27:00.000
<v Speaker 1>not making sens, bitch, it's not making human hairs being high.

0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:04.280
<v Speaker 1>The skills set is changing. And then Nigga is she

0:27:04.280 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 1>wanted to be mad at me when he was like,

0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:07.679
<v Speaker 1>well what she brings the table, bitch as a woman

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:11.399
<v Speaker 1>to come out looking like anything, it's fucking expensive. You're

0:27:11.400 --> 0:27:14.960
<v Speaker 1>talking about what it was. We talked about the lady

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:19.119
<v Speaker 1>from the tennis player who said I charge one thousand

0:27:19.160 --> 0:27:21.480
<v Speaker 1>dollars just to take me out on a date. She's

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:24.120
<v Speaker 1>some tennis player who was in the World Cup, and

0:27:24.320 --> 0:27:28.360
<v Speaker 1>is she a prostitute? No, I said, bitches's operating like prostitute.

0:27:28.400 --> 0:27:31.280
<v Speaker 1>So that was my sentiment. So his thing was, well,

0:27:32.000 --> 0:27:33.520
<v Speaker 1>if a man is supposed to pay for the date,

0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:38.160
<v Speaker 1>what does a woman? What is her financial investment? I hate? Well,

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:41.480
<v Speaker 1>the conversation was, nigga, y'all want us to look a

0:27:41.480 --> 0:27:44.800
<v Speaker 1>certain way? Did she is expective? Like, bitch? Just why

0:27:44.840 --> 0:27:46.720
<v Speaker 1>I stop getting the lashes? Because the last is the

0:27:46.720 --> 0:27:49.159
<v Speaker 1>way I sleep is rough? Apparently, so one I be

0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:53.000
<v Speaker 1>gone before the next. I can't do it. And she's joking.

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:56.800
<v Speaker 1>She really charges a thousand, No, she charges You didn't

0:27:56.800 --> 0:27:59.920
<v Speaker 1>see the girl, the tennis match girl who she said,

0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:03.800
<v Speaker 1>charge one thousand dollars to be taken on a date,

0:28:04.119 --> 0:28:06.240
<v Speaker 1>not to fuck. If you want to take me on

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:08.280
<v Speaker 1>a date, it's going to cost you a thousand dollars,

0:28:08.280 --> 0:28:13.000
<v Speaker 1>which so you don't you cannot be shady as if

0:28:13.040 --> 0:28:15.399
<v Speaker 1>we wasn't all what's your price? What's your price? Was?

0:28:15.440 --> 0:28:17.439
<v Speaker 1>It's not because I was acting like a sex worker.

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:20.120
<v Speaker 1>I was, but that's what So that was my sentiment.

0:28:20.359 --> 0:28:24.359
<v Speaker 1>I would hope that women would just admit to being prostitute.

0:28:24.800 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 1>This is the pro because that's what they are. If

0:28:26.760 --> 0:28:28.119
<v Speaker 1>you are charging and they get to take you on

0:28:28.119 --> 0:28:30.720
<v Speaker 1>a date, if on the first date you're bringing up

0:28:30.760 --> 0:28:33.160
<v Speaker 1>how you need help with bills, if you're bringing up

0:28:33.400 --> 0:28:35.800
<v Speaker 1>that your son need a babysitter. In order for this

0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:38.120
<v Speaker 1>nigga to take you on a date, whether you fuck

0:28:38.320 --> 0:28:42.400
<v Speaker 1>or not, I need you to know you are at prostus.

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:43.720
<v Speaker 1>You know why I hate this time?

0:28:44.200 --> 0:28:47.880
<v Speaker 2>Why something I was also saying, right, I'm talking about homegirls.

0:28:48.320 --> 0:28:50.520
<v Speaker 2>I think it was Josie. It was Josie in her

0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:52.320
<v Speaker 2>forty first dage. She flies in from London. We're just

0:28:52.320 --> 0:28:55.560
<v Speaker 2>like talking about how the world works. So Josie Les

0:28:55.960 --> 0:28:59.200
<v Speaker 2>get her corporate job to start a new company where

0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 2>she's working with black female founders only only, and her

0:29:03.000 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 2>husband's holding it down while she's exploring her new business

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:08.280
<v Speaker 2>and her entrepreneurial side, and she's like, yo, I don't

0:29:08.280 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 2>think I would have been able to do this single,

0:29:10.360 --> 0:29:11.480
<v Speaker 2>Like I have a kid.

0:29:11.680 --> 0:29:13.120
<v Speaker 1>I was believe it because she got a kid. She

0:29:13.120 --> 0:29:15.040
<v Speaker 1>could have done it single without a kid, she couldn't

0:29:15.040 --> 0:29:17.080
<v Speaker 1>have probably done it as a single mother. Yeah, I

0:29:17.120 --> 0:29:20.640
<v Speaker 1>mean maybe that is not different. Maybe not doing something

0:29:21.240 --> 0:29:24.760
<v Speaker 1>single and doing something as a single mother. There's there's

0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:28.240
<v Speaker 1>drastic parallels between the two, and there is a difference

0:29:28.240 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 1>between entrepreneurship as a woman who's just single and navigating

0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:36.040
<v Speaker 1>life and maybe dating and having to run a business

0:29:36.440 --> 0:29:39.120
<v Speaker 1>and be the primary caretaker of a child.

0:29:39.240 --> 0:29:42.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I can't speak for what it would look like,

0:29:42.080 --> 0:29:44.959
<v Speaker 2>but either way, like, it's still hard to support yourself

0:29:44.960 --> 0:29:46.960
<v Speaker 2>while trying a new venture, right and just trying it

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:49.400
<v Speaker 2>out there and being able and growing. I just hired

0:29:49.400 --> 0:29:51.520
<v Speaker 2>her too for Trap. So one of the things we

0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 2>were talking about. I was like, you know, bitch has

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:56.719
<v Speaker 2>got the world so fucked up that like, when I

0:29:56.720 --> 0:30:00.560
<v Speaker 2>get this home, if I buy it, whatever, there's gonna

0:30:00.600 --> 0:30:06.280
<v Speaker 2>be a woman somewhere saying, oh, teamwork, they split the

0:30:06.360 --> 0:30:07.120
<v Speaker 2>down payment.

0:30:07.800 --> 0:30:10.960
<v Speaker 1>That's crazy. He ain't taking care of you. Oh I

0:30:11.000 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 1>already know. That's how fucking weird. I believe the world

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:19.920
<v Speaker 1>is now the world. Yeah, but because you could hear it, it's.

0:30:19.760 --> 0:30:22.959
<v Speaker 2>Like that echo chamber of girls thinking, but it's an

0:30:22.960 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 2>echo chamber of again a reality show, because the reality

0:30:27.640 --> 0:30:31.040
<v Speaker 2>is that you bitches are fucking niggas that aren't helping

0:30:31.080 --> 0:30:33.760
<v Speaker 2>you with bills, that y'all are fucking your baby daddy

0:30:33.760 --> 0:30:35.320
<v Speaker 2>who's not paying child support.

0:30:35.520 --> 0:30:38.720
<v Speaker 1>That y'all are with men and still navigating life. However,

0:30:38.760 --> 0:30:40.680
<v Speaker 1>it is like, I know so many girls who have

0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.840
<v Speaker 1>dated and who have partners who still feel the need

0:30:43.880 --> 0:30:45.760
<v Speaker 1>to go out and deal with other niggas because other

0:30:45.800 --> 0:30:47.800
<v Speaker 1>niggas do more for them than the guy that they chose.

0:30:47.880 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 1>This is the thing that's crazier, right, he's not on

0:30:52.280 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 1>top of that.

0:30:53.480 --> 0:30:56.040
<v Speaker 2>Yes, fine, And when Josie and I were talking about it,

0:30:56.040 --> 0:30:58.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, bitch, I know I agree with you. Someone's

0:30:58.200 --> 0:30:59.800
<v Speaker 2>gonna say, oh, she got this, she got that. She's

0:30:59.800 --> 0:31:01.360
<v Speaker 2>still those splitting bills with a nigga.

0:31:01.640 --> 0:31:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Now, I'll mind you. I'm not splitting bills. My man

0:31:03.400 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 1>is taking care of some my bils didn't even live together.

0:31:05.040 --> 0:31:07.280
<v Speaker 1>That part is kind of nice. But buying the home

0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:09.800
<v Speaker 1>is fucking huge purchase. Bro. Yeah, we're talking.

0:31:09.600 --> 0:31:12.560
<v Speaker 2>Six figure down payment. Like, of course we're gonna share

0:31:12.560 --> 0:31:14.920
<v Speaker 2>that now. Granted, is there.

0:31:14.800 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 1>A world where I would be dating a billionaire and

0:31:18.000 --> 0:31:20.640
<v Speaker 1>not even doing this podcast for you, bitch is sure,

0:31:20.880 --> 0:31:22.680
<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, dating someone normal,

0:31:23.040 --> 0:31:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I believe that I am normal. I'm definitely making more

0:31:26.720 --> 0:31:29.920
<v Speaker 1>than most of my peers, but at the same time, like,

0:31:30.280 --> 0:31:32.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to be living out a normal fucking life,

0:31:32.280 --> 0:31:33.520
<v Speaker 1>So what the fuck am I supposed to do?

0:31:34.160 --> 0:31:38.360
<v Speaker 2>Just be I don't know, like seeking this thing that

0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I see on Instagram, And I think it's very silly

0:31:40.840 --> 0:31:42.480
<v Speaker 2>to think that two people that are doing well in

0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:46.400
<v Speaker 2>life can't share that teamwork is bad. I'm so excited

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:48.360
<v Speaker 2>to have a partner that can put some money up

0:31:48.360 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 2>with me on a crib like this, what yeah like

0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:53.120
<v Speaker 2>to be able to have both of our incomes. If

0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:54.680
<v Speaker 2>it was just me, I would not be looking at

0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:57.000
<v Speaker 2>shit this expensive. But I know at the end of

0:31:57.040 --> 0:31:59.240
<v Speaker 2>the day that the judgment that we feel from others

0:31:59.280 --> 0:32:01.920
<v Speaker 2>just because of what they leave relationshipship look like it

0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:06.920
<v Speaker 2>sucks like it sucks because you can really have someone

0:32:07.040 --> 0:32:09.680
<v Speaker 2>keep you from your own happiness. And it goes back

0:32:09.720 --> 0:32:14.080
<v Speaker 2>to just like really really like the attitude of to me,

0:32:14.720 --> 0:32:17.640
<v Speaker 2>what is prostitution charging one thousand dollars for a date

0:32:17.880 --> 0:32:19.720
<v Speaker 2>when at the end of the day, most of you

0:32:19.800 --> 0:32:22.840
<v Speaker 2>want to find love, most of you want partnership or

0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:25.480
<v Speaker 2>even the benefits of a rich nigga, And now you're.

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:29.840
<v Speaker 1>Gonna charge and show up to that motherfucker anyway. Damn

0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I was about to I liked I liked that. Uh

0:32:34.320 --> 0:32:37.440
<v Speaker 1>that that vent so bad I cut someone out and

0:32:37.480 --> 0:32:39.720
<v Speaker 1>I want to lean into it real quick. Okay, because

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>we got fucking decision decisions. I'm gonna talk to you

0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:45.000
<v Speaker 1>little pussl assholds who're over on this in the decisions.

0:32:45.040 --> 0:32:52.600
<v Speaker 1>So this is a comment front on our YouTube. Oh boy,

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:56.640
<v Speaker 1>we're about to cut down. Her name is Alexis Barnes,

0:32:57.600 --> 0:33:00.960
<v Speaker 1>fifty four, fifty four, so maybe that helps with it

0:33:01.080 --> 0:33:04.600
<v Speaker 1>not being heard your name. And I didn't like this

0:33:04.800 --> 0:33:09.320
<v Speaker 1>because if you know me, you fucking know I believe

0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:13.720
<v Speaker 1>in accountability for both men and women, right. I believe

0:33:13.800 --> 0:33:16.680
<v Speaker 1>in women being delusional a lot of times, and I

0:33:16.760 --> 0:33:19.040
<v Speaker 1>believe that men sometimes ain't shit. But I'm not a

0:33:19.120 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 1>man hater. I also am in the best place of

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:25.840
<v Speaker 1>my life where I'm over communicating and demanding and getting

0:33:25.880 --> 0:33:29.080
<v Speaker 1>exactly what the fuck I want out of life, out

0:33:29.120 --> 0:33:32.719
<v Speaker 1>of partnership, out of friendship period, out of the bedroom too.

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>So let me read this motherfucking comment that I had

0:33:36.840 --> 0:33:39.720
<v Speaker 1>an issue with because it's given projection. Oh, Alexis, why'd

0:33:39.760 --> 0:33:43.440
<v Speaker 1>you do that? Now, Alexis? Oh I got one? Now? Oh,

0:33:43.480 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do it. Okay, this is this is hold on,

0:33:46.320 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 1>this is the decisions decisions bitch, you're in rap up

0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>you Pus the assholes. That what I had to say

0:33:50.680 --> 0:33:53.600
<v Speaker 1>about the goddamn rebrand. We two motherfucker knights wed ain't

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:56.280
<v Speaker 1>too motherfucker's sludy enough. Well anyway, Puss the asshole. We

0:33:56.400 --> 0:34:00.000
<v Speaker 1>coming for you bitches today. AnyWho, this is the common

0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:05.280
<v Speaker 1>By the way, Duane throws some fucking sounds behind this violin,

0:34:05.280 --> 0:34:07.719
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the fuck to throw, but soundscape

0:34:07.760 --> 0:34:13.480
<v Speaker 1>this shit shit Mandy toxic. I ain't gonna lie as

0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 1>a grown woman, I know what I want, slash expect,

0:34:17.360 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 1>and the people I deal with want the same thing.

0:34:21.040 --> 0:34:24.640
<v Speaker 1>It can become dangerous and messy if y'all are not

0:34:24.960 --> 0:34:29.480
<v Speaker 1>on the same pages. She basically said, if she's getting

0:34:29.480 --> 0:34:32.959
<v Speaker 1>what she needs from someone, she wouldn't cut them off.

0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:37.759
<v Speaker 1>If they want something else, that's messy. If she had

0:34:37.760 --> 0:34:40.000
<v Speaker 1>a dude who loved her in a room full of

0:34:40.120 --> 0:34:43.160
<v Speaker 1>dudes she having sex with, who's to say it wouldn't

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:47.320
<v Speaker 1>get dangerous. That's crazy to me. I don't know. It

0:34:47.480 --> 0:34:50.080
<v Speaker 1>just doesn't make any sense to me. I'm not dealing

0:34:50.160 --> 0:34:53.600
<v Speaker 1>with anyone who wants more or less than what I want.

0:34:54.000 --> 0:34:57.880
<v Speaker 1>We have to be on the same page. Now, pussays,

0:34:58.080 --> 0:35:00.960
<v Speaker 1>oh wait, she said, if you're getting what you want,

0:35:01.000 --> 0:35:05.240
<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't. Well, I'm crazy, I'm dangerous. I'm toxic because

0:35:05.239 --> 0:35:07.359
<v Speaker 1>I'm getting what I want from a person even if

0:35:07.440 --> 0:35:10.440
<v Speaker 1>they're not getting essentially what they want from me. And

0:35:10.600 --> 0:35:14.239
<v Speaker 1>maybe she's talking about is this scientiffe. Maybe she's talking

0:35:14.239 --> 0:35:17.000
<v Speaker 1>about my ex. There's a lot of niggas recently that

0:35:17.960 --> 0:35:20.160
<v Speaker 1>let's talk about what it is. I'm gonna be very,

0:35:20.680 --> 0:35:22.560
<v Speaker 1>very adamant in the things I'm not willing to do

0:35:22.640 --> 0:35:25.560
<v Speaker 1>and the things that I don't want. And if you

0:35:25.640 --> 0:35:28.000
<v Speaker 1>choose to stick around, I'm not gonna dead you, nigga.

0:35:28.120 --> 0:35:31.360
<v Speaker 1>We have it fun, we're enjoying each other, we're enjoying partnership.

0:35:31.440 --> 0:35:35.840
<v Speaker 1>So my response was, and I'm gonna further iterate on

0:35:35.920 --> 0:35:38.160
<v Speaker 1>it because I want you bitches to stop playing in

0:35:38.239 --> 0:35:41.759
<v Speaker 1>my motherfucking face. I'm not toxic, I'm not crazy, and

0:35:42.320 --> 0:35:44.800
<v Speaker 1>what I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the

0:35:44.840 --> 0:35:47.200
<v Speaker 1>woman you wish you was pus to ask. So I'm

0:35:47.239 --> 0:35:48.759
<v Speaker 1>the woman who knows how to talk to a man

0:35:48.840 --> 0:35:50.560
<v Speaker 1>and tell him exactly how I want, and if he

0:35:50.640 --> 0:35:52.480
<v Speaker 1>doesn't show up, how I need him to show up.

0:35:52.960 --> 0:35:58.600
<v Speaker 1>I have no shame in walking away. Okay, so this

0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:02.759
<v Speaker 1>was my response to her. I am vocal about the

0:36:02.840 --> 0:36:04.600
<v Speaker 1>things I want. I want to make that very clear.

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:08.520
<v Speaker 1>How powerful it is. You see voice right here, tat

0:36:08.680 --> 0:36:10.880
<v Speaker 1>it on me for a long time in all of

0:36:10.960 --> 0:36:12.919
<v Speaker 1>my twenties. If y'all read the book No Holds bard,

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:16.120
<v Speaker 1>I talked about taking crumbs. I talked about being in

0:36:16.200 --> 0:36:19.200
<v Speaker 1>a place where you know, I got whatever a man

0:36:19.280 --> 0:36:22.000
<v Speaker 1>would give me because that was enough. I was in

0:36:22.120 --> 0:36:24.920
<v Speaker 1>a place where I was fine being the side chick

0:36:24.960 --> 0:36:27.280
<v Speaker 1>because I didn't think I had the voice or wherewithal

0:36:27.400 --> 0:36:29.440
<v Speaker 1>or anything to bring to the quote unquote table to

0:36:29.480 --> 0:36:31.000
<v Speaker 1>make a nigga show up for me. That made me

0:36:31.080 --> 0:36:34.560
<v Speaker 1>feel validated, bitch, I do now, So let's be very clear.

0:36:34.640 --> 0:36:36.400
<v Speaker 1>I am vocal about the things I want out the

0:36:36.440 --> 0:36:38.480
<v Speaker 1>gate with a man. He will know what other partners

0:36:38.520 --> 0:36:40.319
<v Speaker 1>I have. He will know exactly how I expect him

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:42.440
<v Speaker 1>to show up. And if you cannot show up that way, boom,

0:36:42.600 --> 0:36:46.479
<v Speaker 1>bitch bye. I said, it's their job to walk away

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:50.280
<v Speaker 1>if they're not getting what they want from me. Again,

0:36:50.760 --> 0:36:53.480
<v Speaker 1>that's communicated. Whatever a nigga wants from me and how

0:36:53.520 --> 0:36:56.799
<v Speaker 1>we adhere to each other. Baby, he getting because maybe

0:36:56.880 --> 0:36:58.359
<v Speaker 1>what I can do is make a nigga feel real

0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 1>good in the bed, out the bed, a long distance whatever.

0:37:02.400 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 1>He gonna get what he need from me. So we're reciprocating, Bitch,

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm not wasting nobody's time. Secondly, I said, it's not dangerous,

0:37:09.080 --> 0:37:12.600
<v Speaker 1>it's life. You can literally be married and not be

0:37:12.719 --> 0:37:15.040
<v Speaker 1>on the same page with your husband. Does that mean

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna follow a divorce when y'all get off the

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:19.800
<v Speaker 1>same page? You can literally have friends that mean the

0:37:19.880 --> 0:37:22.480
<v Speaker 1>world to you, that matter to you, and y'all end

0:37:22.560 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 1>up not on the same page. Does that mean you

0:37:24.239 --> 0:37:27.560
<v Speaker 1>in those friendships? Know, as human beings, a lot of

0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:29.680
<v Speaker 1>times and a lot of different variants, we are on

0:37:29.920 --> 0:37:33.759
<v Speaker 1>different pages, coexisting at the same time, trying to make

0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:36.279
<v Speaker 1>it work. To me, you leave a man, or you

0:37:36.400 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 1>leave a partner, I'll put it as a partner because

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:41.840
<v Speaker 1>we have everybody from the alphabet community listening. It doesn't

0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:45.560
<v Speaker 1>matter what your partner like, where your partner is at

0:37:45.600 --> 0:37:48.960
<v Speaker 1>the very moment of where y'all might be at a crossroads.

0:37:49.360 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 1>A lot of people end up on different pages at

0:37:51.719 --> 0:37:55.040
<v Speaker 1>different times. Now, to me, I live with wanting to

0:37:55.239 --> 0:37:59.960
<v Speaker 1>enjoy the human experience, the human experience of partnership, a building,

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:03.920
<v Speaker 1>memories of having fun, of orgasming. Sorry, Alexis Barns if

0:38:03.920 --> 0:38:07.360
<v Speaker 1>you are not doing any of those things, But what

0:38:07.560 --> 0:38:09.879
<v Speaker 1>I want to be very clear and why I love

0:38:09.960 --> 0:38:12.239
<v Speaker 1>this platform so much, and where a shout out to

0:38:12.320 --> 0:38:15.080
<v Speaker 1>Barry if y'all go on Patreon, there's a story, he says,

0:38:15.120 --> 0:38:17.759
<v Speaker 1>what did you get from this goddamn podcast? It was

0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:20.399
<v Speaker 1>my voice and the power to be able to as

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:23.800
<v Speaker 1>a woman share exactly what I want in the bedroom

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:25.960
<v Speaker 1>and out the bedroom, how I want to show up

0:38:26.200 --> 0:38:29.240
<v Speaker 1>as a woman to you, not lean into the tropes

0:38:29.280 --> 0:38:32.960
<v Speaker 1>of patriarchy, and be exactly what makes me feel happy

0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:35.200
<v Speaker 1>in the one life I have to live because where yes,

0:38:35.280 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure we was here before, We're gonna be at

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.319
<v Speaker 1>to all of our souls, spirits and things that live

0:38:39.400 --> 0:38:42.080
<v Speaker 1>different lives. Bitch, I don't know them mother lives. I

0:38:42.200 --> 0:38:45.080
<v Speaker 1>be having deja vu, but I don't know what those

0:38:45.120 --> 0:38:47.960
<v Speaker 1>other lives are. And so Alexis Barnes, you put the asshole.

0:38:48.200 --> 0:38:52.120
<v Speaker 1>Ain't nothing dangerous or crazy about a woman being able

0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:54.759
<v Speaker 1>to live in her fucking truth. And when I tell y'all,

0:38:55.800 --> 0:38:58.239
<v Speaker 1>I've been so happy lately, that shit pissed me off

0:38:58.280 --> 0:39:00.960
<v Speaker 1>because I said, damn, bitch, dangerous is a big word,

0:39:01.120 --> 0:39:07.600
<v Speaker 1>dangerous as a and I okay, you see it was

0:39:07.640 --> 0:39:10.960
<v Speaker 1>the dangerous and crazy, which also how we live our

0:39:11.000 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 1>lives can be deemed crazy to someone, but to label

0:39:13.600 --> 0:39:16.640
<v Speaker 1>me as a dangerous person, and how I'm navigating these

0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:21.600
<v Speaker 1>relationships when I'm getting fed like affirmations from my partners

0:39:21.719 --> 0:39:24.759
<v Speaker 1>like this feels good. I didn't know these type of

0:39:24.840 --> 0:39:27.719
<v Speaker 1>relationships could exist with women like I love that I

0:39:27.760 --> 0:39:29.759
<v Speaker 1>could be honest with you, babe, I want to watch

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:31.839
<v Speaker 1>you suck a dick. I love watching you with other

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:35.200
<v Speaker 1>people like now we get a little horrible. They were like,

0:39:35.280 --> 0:39:38.400
<v Speaker 1>I want to watch you. It's like dick. And I

0:39:38.400 --> 0:39:39.719
<v Speaker 1>didn't know I could tell a woman I want to

0:39:39.719 --> 0:39:42.160
<v Speaker 1>see her suck another man, dick. But to be in

0:39:42.239 --> 0:39:45.320
<v Speaker 1>these spaces where like these men, it's not like the

0:39:45.360 --> 0:39:47.520
<v Speaker 1>buddhhole whisper anymore. It's not like I'm just dealing with

0:39:47.600 --> 0:39:49.200
<v Speaker 1>niggas that want to be paid and they so shamed.

0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:52.719
<v Speaker 1>It's men that are like WHOA, I didn't think I

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:57.319
<v Speaker 1>could have this fun, exciting relationship and feel safe where

0:39:57.520 --> 0:39:59.880
<v Speaker 1>I can express the things I want. It includes you

0:40:00.040 --> 0:40:02.680
<v Speaker 1>being with other men and we're just open and keep

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:05.080
<v Speaker 1>in mind being on the same page. Last night, I

0:40:05.200 --> 0:40:08.440
<v Speaker 1>was out with my man. We're having dinner. We were

0:40:08.440 --> 0:40:09.359
<v Speaker 1>in Mexico last night.

0:40:09.600 --> 0:40:13.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm my cartography and I said something to him along

0:40:13.520 --> 0:40:17.319
<v Speaker 2>the lines of we're not really sleeping with people, right.

0:40:18.200 --> 0:40:20.040
<v Speaker 2>So we just were doing to check in and I'm like,

0:40:20.880 --> 0:40:21.759
<v Speaker 2>where are we at with this?

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:22.080
<v Speaker 1>Like?

0:40:22.880 --> 0:40:24.439
<v Speaker 2>Who, what's up with the people you talked to? I'm

0:40:24.440 --> 0:40:27.520
<v Speaker 2>talking about me. He's like, where is this coming from?

0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:29.280
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like nothing.

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:31.799
<v Speaker 1>So he's asking me, like, what's wrong. I'm like, where

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:35.120
<v Speaker 1>did it come from? Nothing? I'm just making sure we're

0:40:35.160 --> 0:40:37.480
<v Speaker 1>on the same page. Okay, same page, Okay.

0:40:37.320 --> 0:40:39.480
<v Speaker 2>Because we're on the same page last time we talked

0:40:39.520 --> 0:40:41.000
<v Speaker 2>about it. Are we on the same page again?

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:42.919
<v Speaker 1>Day? Because yes, pages can flip.

0:40:43.000 --> 0:40:45.239
<v Speaker 2>And he literally said to me when we were leaving,

0:40:45.320 --> 0:40:49.839
<v Speaker 2>He's like, yo, like it's crazy. Being on the same

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:51.960
<v Speaker 2>page is what breaks people up. Not being on the

0:40:51.960 --> 0:40:53.840
<v Speaker 2>same page will break you up in the marriage, like

0:40:54.080 --> 0:40:55.520
<v Speaker 2>constantly checking are you on the same page?

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:58.040
<v Speaker 1>Are we good? Are we good? Like, just only for

0:40:58.160 --> 0:41:02.239
<v Speaker 1>people that don't believe in the power of communicating, we

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:05.359
<v Speaker 1>were possibly being on a different road. Monogamy brings up

0:41:05.480 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 1>that shit all the time, over over.

0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:10.440
<v Speaker 2>Time, because way, I didn't think about that, because at

0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:12.520
<v Speaker 2>one point he's like, think about it. If we weren't

0:41:12.520 --> 0:41:14.680
<v Speaker 2>having sex with other people, would we even talk about

0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:17.160
<v Speaker 2>this right now? We would just keep going through life

0:41:17.800 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 2>not checking to.

0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:22.640
<v Speaker 1>Be fair though if you were. If you were monogamous,

0:41:23.760 --> 0:41:25.960
<v Speaker 1>you live in the fear of what they're doing without

0:41:26.040 --> 0:41:28.680
<v Speaker 1>you knowing. So to me, it's honestly the same thing.

0:41:29.000 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 1>So him saying like, would we have this conversation if

0:41:31.040 --> 0:41:34.920
<v Speaker 1>we were monogamous, Probably because if anything shifted in your behavior,

0:41:35.400 --> 0:41:37.000
<v Speaker 1>my mind is going to go to thinking that you're

0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:40.000
<v Speaker 1>doing something with someone else. In non monogogy and in

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:43.440
<v Speaker 1>non monogamy, it's a constant check in because you're allowing

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:45.720
<v Speaker 1>all of these other energies, all of these other people

0:41:46.200 --> 0:41:49.440
<v Speaker 1>in existence within our relationship, and to be fair, in

0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:52.839
<v Speaker 1>non a monogamy, you risk every chance that maybe there's

0:41:52.840 --> 0:41:55.000
<v Speaker 1>a connection with someone else, or maybe you find a

0:41:55.000 --> 0:41:57.839
<v Speaker 1>connection with someone else, or maybe there's a connection where

0:41:58.280 --> 0:42:00.200
<v Speaker 1>you both want to bring someone else in to me,

0:42:00.280 --> 0:42:02.759
<v Speaker 1>it's actually the same thing. The thing is in non

0:42:02.840 --> 0:42:06.000
<v Speaker 1>monogamy you don't do as much communicating. You do more assumption.

0:42:07.239 --> 0:42:09.120
<v Speaker 1>You you do more assuming.

0:42:09.280 --> 0:42:11.239
<v Speaker 2>You're like sitting there thinking it's the last thing we

0:42:11.320 --> 0:42:14.840
<v Speaker 2>agreed on. So I think when I was saying it,

0:42:14.920 --> 0:42:16.239
<v Speaker 2>he's like, what is this bitch trying to bring to

0:42:16.280 --> 0:42:17.680
<v Speaker 2>the table. I'm like, bro, I'm really.

0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Trying to bring to the table. I swear nothing. You

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:24.000
<v Speaker 1>ain't want to throw up, okay, but like.

0:42:24.360 --> 0:42:26.319
<v Speaker 2>You know, we just haven't been doing it as much,

0:42:26.440 --> 0:42:29.200
<v Speaker 2>and I'm just like, where are we at? Like are

0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:31.440
<v Speaker 2>we good as far as like where we stand? Do

0:42:31.520 --> 0:42:33.920
<v Speaker 2>you not want to do have sex with other people anymore?

0:42:33.920 --> 0:42:35.759
<v Speaker 2>Because I know that he mentioned to me a few

0:42:35.800 --> 0:42:37.800
<v Speaker 2>weeks ago it was a lot of energy dealing with

0:42:37.840 --> 0:42:39.520
<v Speaker 2>other Yeah, And he was like, I kind of just

0:42:39.560 --> 0:42:40.320
<v Speaker 2>want to do this together.

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:42.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is that still? Like and if that happens,

0:42:42.880 --> 0:42:44.359
<v Speaker 1>is it both of us doing that? Like what does

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>it look like? But I say, don't have to say.

0:42:46.000 --> 0:42:48.240
<v Speaker 1>It's always just being on the same page.

0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:51.239
<v Speaker 2>Is literally when someone's off the page, that's how our

0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:52.040
<v Speaker 2>relationship ends.

0:42:52.120 --> 0:42:54.520
<v Speaker 1>Like you're on, you're on, you're off. Like that is

0:42:54.640 --> 0:42:55.319
<v Speaker 1>literally what it is.

0:42:55.520 --> 0:42:57.239
<v Speaker 2>When you're your relationship is good, you're on the same

0:42:57.239 --> 0:42:59.320
<v Speaker 2>page in your relationship, you got off the fucking page.

0:42:59.600 --> 0:43:01.759
<v Speaker 1>Maybe I don't like tables and pages being used in

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:05.000
<v Speaker 1>metaphors because this shit gets confusing, because if you and

0:43:05.080 --> 0:43:06.600
<v Speaker 1>I are reading the same book, we could be on

0:43:06.680 --> 0:43:09.160
<v Speaker 1>a different page, but in the same book. It just

0:43:09.280 --> 0:43:11.520
<v Speaker 1>means that either you got to catch up to where

0:43:11.560 --> 0:43:13.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm at or you know what, I'm gonna wait until

0:43:13.880 --> 0:43:16.080
<v Speaker 1>you catch up to me something with our book right now.

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<v Speaker 1>That is a little wait. What we want children, but

0:43:20.080 --> 0:43:22.400
<v Speaker 1>we both want children to live in different places. That

0:43:22.520 --> 0:43:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Nigga said that baby ain't about to be in no city.

0:43:25.440 --> 0:43:27.600
<v Speaker 2>Were going to Connecticut. We're going to west justin then

0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:29.560
<v Speaker 2>we know, we know that baby coming out. We'll know

0:43:29.960 --> 0:43:30.800
<v Speaker 2>where that baby don't go.

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is perfect for my podcast room

0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:37.399
<v Speaker 1>and the baby room. He's like, no, it's not, because

0:43:37.440 --> 0:43:39.799
<v Speaker 1>we could have a five bedroom house in Westchester where

0:43:39.800 --> 0:43:44.000
<v Speaker 1>your podcast room, side, bitch room, baby room, Jim and

0:43:44.200 --> 0:43:45.600
<v Speaker 1>our room. What the fuck are you talking? You're not

0:43:45.680 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 1>willing to give up the alare not even not even

0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:54.400
<v Speaker 1>a lawyer, hold on, not even a law It's the

0:43:54.640 --> 0:43:57.960
<v Speaker 1>fast paced access that New York City has that Upstate

0:43:58.000 --> 0:43:59.880
<v Speaker 1>doesn't have. Okay, this is because how could you want

0:43:59.920 --> 0:44:04.560
<v Speaker 1>to live in a seven figure, two bedroom home knowing

0:44:04.680 --> 0:44:07.360
<v Speaker 1>you have the option of living in a five bedroom

0:44:07.440 --> 0:44:10.320
<v Speaker 1>home and it's just a forty five minute longer commute.

0:44:10.320 --> 0:44:12.239
<v Speaker 1>I don't give I'm not getting in a car. Now.

0:44:12.320 --> 0:44:15.960
<v Speaker 2>Here's where I feel so, bro, you should see the

0:44:15.960 --> 0:44:17.600
<v Speaker 2>way he's like, are you bro, I'm not gonna lie.

0:44:17.640 --> 0:44:20.640
<v Speaker 1>You sound crazy. I don't care. Number one, you see,

0:44:20.640 --> 0:44:23.239
<v Speaker 1>I said she's crazy. There's a few South toxic, but

0:44:23.360 --> 0:44:26.719
<v Speaker 1>you know this sound dangerous? Call me, dang, just's fucking

0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:29.839
<v Speaker 1>go to Brooklyn. I said, I'll go to Brooklyn. Fuck

0:44:30.480 --> 0:44:34.560
<v Speaker 1>but but the main thing for me is actually which

0:44:34.760 --> 0:44:37.799
<v Speaker 1>he started to understand. Bro. We all if you read

0:44:37.840 --> 0:44:41.320
<v Speaker 1>the book, you've read that sass suicide chapter. Bleep bleep,

0:44:41.480 --> 0:44:44.880
<v Speaker 1>fucking Weezy was ready to go, and you know what

0:44:45.000 --> 0:44:46.560
<v Speaker 1>appened going on some walks.

0:44:46.719 --> 0:44:49.359
<v Speaker 2>He just don't put me in motherfucking Terrytown. We're having

0:44:49.400 --> 0:44:50.839
<v Speaker 2>a big ass Oh, I used to have a nigga

0:44:50.840 --> 0:44:53.719
<v Speaker 2>in Terrytown. No, every time I had a nigga from

0:44:53.760 --> 0:44:55.480
<v Speaker 2>park Chester, it was only like fifteen minute.

0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 1>He was trying to take men nice restaurants and shit

0:44:57.080 --> 0:44:59.040
<v Speaker 1>up there. I like Terrytown. I don't give a fuck.

0:44:59.239 --> 0:45:01.040
<v Speaker 1>That was cute. Now you know all the niggas that

0:45:01.120 --> 0:45:02.920
<v Speaker 1>played on the Knicks and the G League live up

0:45:02.960 --> 0:45:07.160
<v Speaker 1>the congratulations to that. I'm not a Terry girl. I

0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:21.000
<v Speaker 1>don't Terry tarry Town. All right, now we'll get into Yeah,

0:45:21.000 --> 0:45:23.120
<v Speaker 1>at this point, where are we at? This is this episode?

0:45:23.160 --> 0:45:24.880
<v Speaker 1>This is gonna be my read. Okay, I love it,

0:45:25.920 --> 0:45:28.040
<v Speaker 1>not the read. Look at you. Why don't we just

0:45:28.120 --> 0:45:31.440
<v Speaker 1>read it? Oh you're reading somebody by the way. Decisions decisions.

0:45:31.680 --> 0:45:34.319
<v Speaker 1>It's your decision to motherfucker supporters pullosed to ask how

0:45:34.640 --> 0:45:37.160
<v Speaker 1>and we you'all motherfucking supporters just know we're so horrible

0:45:37.200 --> 0:45:40.640
<v Speaker 1>over on Patreon, patreon dot com backslash horrible decisions. So

0:45:40.760 --> 0:45:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you're turned weezy.

0:45:41.960 --> 0:45:45.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so this it's gonna get dark, but it also

0:45:45.280 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 2>kind of has to do with this prostituting niggas.

0:45:47.200 --> 0:45:48.480
<v Speaker 1>Got to take care of me bring okay.

0:45:48.400 --> 0:45:51.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Oh this is long Ooh bitch, I'm here for this,

0:45:52.960 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 2>so I will try to make this quick.

0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:57.880
<v Speaker 1>No, we got Greg, you got the last twenty minutes

0:45:57.880 --> 0:46:00.279
<v Speaker 1>of the part let's not let's side part quick. The

0:46:00.360 --> 0:46:02.120
<v Speaker 1>person I used to do my hair that died. Her

0:46:02.200 --> 0:46:04.640
<v Speaker 1>name was Sha. Chay has two children, one and a half.

0:46:04.680 --> 0:46:06.280
<v Speaker 1>You've met she. She's done my hair on some sets.

0:46:06.719 --> 0:46:10.239
<v Speaker 1>One is five. Her the father her children woke up

0:46:11.120 --> 0:46:14.000
<v Speaker 1>next to her. She was not moving. Children were upstairs sleeping.

0:46:14.719 --> 0:46:15.800
<v Speaker 1>That's what happened to our grandpa.

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:19.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh and like that's the thing, you know, Like, well,

0:46:19.560 --> 0:46:21.960
<v Speaker 2>my grandma died. The only piece we have is they

0:46:22.000 --> 0:46:22.520
<v Speaker 2>lived a life.

0:46:22.880 --> 0:46:26.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Chae is our age breastfeeding age to one of

0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:29.720
<v Speaker 1>her kids. Okay, crazy.

0:46:30.120 --> 0:46:31.600
<v Speaker 2>A lot of you went to her because you found

0:46:31.640 --> 0:46:34.520
<v Speaker 2>her from my page. She's an amazing girl. Real fan

0:46:34.600 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 2>of the horror Hive for real. Watch every episode with

0:46:38.080 --> 0:46:41.480
<v Speaker 2>our clients was do or Die whore Hive IRP. Now

0:46:42.600 --> 0:46:45.920
<v Speaker 2>I post her baby daddy on her and her children

0:46:46.400 --> 0:46:48.440
<v Speaker 2>and to go fund me saying hey, this man is

0:46:48.480 --> 0:46:50.040
<v Speaker 2>left in the world with two small children.

0:46:50.440 --> 0:46:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Whatever you can do to help them would be great.

0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:57.400
<v Speaker 1>Lily Edwards, Oh I love it we calling these holes

0:46:57.400 --> 0:47:00.960
<v Speaker 1>out today. Oh Lily, it was fuck me up so bad.

0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:03.960
<v Speaker 2>I shed tears and my man I had to take

0:47:04.000 --> 0:47:06.320
<v Speaker 2>my phone for an hour because I couldn't believe a

0:47:06.360 --> 0:47:07.320
<v Speaker 2>black woman said this.

0:47:08.160 --> 0:47:11.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm sure Alexis was black too, based on her photo. Barnes,

0:47:11.360 --> 0:47:13.399
<v Speaker 1>can y'all not be doing that to us? Bitch?

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:18.439
<v Speaker 2>Okay, this is nasty, all right, but on a dead

0:47:18.520 --> 0:47:22.359
<v Speaker 2>girl's photo? Okay, this is so sad, like really sad.

0:47:23.480 --> 0:47:27.160
<v Speaker 2>But respectfully, how can the man student who stands next

0:47:27.239 --> 0:47:29.800
<v Speaker 2>her and not be able to afford a funeral? He

0:47:29.800 --> 0:47:32.920
<v Speaker 2>helped to make her mother twice? Great lesson on dating

0:47:32.960 --> 0:47:35.319
<v Speaker 2>and co creating with people that can stand on their

0:47:35.360 --> 0:47:37.480
<v Speaker 2>own two feet and provide for their children without you

0:47:37.560 --> 0:47:40.520
<v Speaker 2>having to be present. This is just all very sad,

0:47:40.640 --> 0:47:42.359
<v Speaker 2>especially for those two girls that don't have a mother.

0:47:42.680 --> 0:47:44.760
<v Speaker 2>Hope the father can do a great job in providing

0:47:44.840 --> 0:47:45.360
<v Speaker 2>and protecting.

0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:53.520
<v Speaker 1>Oh bitch, oh bitch that she shows to fix her

0:47:53.560 --> 0:47:57.200
<v Speaker 1>goddamn thumbs to type to somebody, Mandy.

0:47:57.280 --> 0:47:59.840
<v Speaker 2>So the tears that were coming out were like you, Like,

0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:03.040
<v Speaker 2>I just would never think a mom of two, a

0:48:03.160 --> 0:48:05.839
<v Speaker 2>black man, a black woman with two black babies living

0:48:05.920 --> 0:48:08.920
<v Speaker 2>in New York City a sudden death like that, you

0:48:08.960 --> 0:48:13.400
<v Speaker 2>would come out your stupid fucking mouth. Oh like what

0:48:14.880 --> 0:48:16.400
<v Speaker 2>I started to reply, I couldn't reply. I had a

0:48:16.400 --> 0:48:18.360
<v Speaker 2>blacker because I started to get so like rubbed up,

0:48:19.520 --> 0:48:21.680
<v Speaker 2>and a lot of friends donated. Leah McSweeney gave a

0:48:21.680 --> 0:48:23.040
<v Speaker 2>lot of money, by the way, just seeing it, so

0:48:23.160 --> 0:48:28.160
<v Speaker 2>many moms felt this shit. Average black family America makes

0:48:28.160 --> 0:48:29.560
<v Speaker 2>fifty six thousand dollars.

0:48:29.640 --> 0:48:33.120
<v Speaker 1>Bro, the average funeral is talk about the average funeral

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:37.000
<v Speaker 1>calls please ten thousand dollars And to me, I've heard

0:48:37.040 --> 0:48:40.359
<v Speaker 1>of more. Yeah, and you thought it was really came

0:48:40.440 --> 0:48:42.400
<v Speaker 1>out there to say a man that just lost the

0:48:42.440 --> 0:48:45.759
<v Speaker 1>second income in South God, baby's Mandy, do you know

0:48:45.800 --> 0:48:49.759
<v Speaker 1>how much babies costs in America? And you said a

0:48:50.280 --> 0:48:53.239
<v Speaker 1>great lesson? Who the fuck is the lesson for?

0:48:54.520 --> 0:48:59.919
<v Speaker 2>Systematically, Shaye and JD are a product of this fuck

0:49:00.160 --> 0:49:03.319
<v Speaker 2>up country. We're in this fucked up medical system. We're

0:49:03.360 --> 0:49:05.719
<v Speaker 2>in the same hospital that let this woman go. She

0:49:05.800 --> 0:49:08.040
<v Speaker 2>put a case out on them two days before she died,

0:49:08.440 --> 0:49:10.640
<v Speaker 2>that told her she was mentally ill for thinking she

0:49:10.840 --> 0:49:12.359
<v Speaker 2>had something wrong with her head and ended.

0:49:12.320 --> 0:49:15.959
<v Speaker 1>Up waking up dead. This same system that keeps us down.

0:49:16.360 --> 0:49:19.240
<v Speaker 2>And you got the nerve to say, you stupid bitch,

0:49:19.400 --> 0:49:22.520
<v Speaker 2>Lily Edwards, what a great lesson on? The whole co

0:49:22.760 --> 0:49:25.680
<v Speaker 2>parent with Oh, let's just say, let's Shay have found

0:49:25.760 --> 0:49:28.480
<v Speaker 2>a rich athlete that broke his fucking leg.

0:49:28.960 --> 0:49:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Then what let Shae have met a man that was

0:49:31.960 --> 0:49:35.400
<v Speaker 1>super rich and got addicted to drugs? Then what she

0:49:35.560 --> 0:49:42.000
<v Speaker 1>has a very loving, strong, fundy bitch, Shake my dog.

0:49:42.080 --> 0:49:43.560
<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, girl, come do my hair.

0:49:44.120 --> 0:49:46.920
<v Speaker 2>I'm talking about strong baby father. I've never heard her,

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:48.399
<v Speaker 2>and I'm not just saying this because she's gone.

0:49:48.640 --> 0:49:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Never heard her complain about the nigga always showed up

0:49:51.640 --> 0:49:54.440
<v Speaker 1>even when they weren't living together, and they finally made

0:49:54.440 --> 0:49:56.879
<v Speaker 1>themselves a home. And you really came out to say

0:49:56.880 --> 0:50:01.600
<v Speaker 1>that about a black family, you stupid bitch, Like it

0:50:01.800 --> 0:50:04.400
<v Speaker 1>just really was mind boggling to me because this is

0:50:04.920 --> 0:50:09.680
<v Speaker 1>a product of a nigga gotta do everything. And you

0:50:09.719 --> 0:50:12.680
<v Speaker 1>know what's crazier. Damn when I Shaye lasted my hair

0:50:12.760 --> 0:50:14.600
<v Speaker 1>and just sound like projection, I ain't gonna hold oh.

0:50:14.640 --> 0:50:16.000
<v Speaker 1>That was such a sick response to me.

0:50:16.600 --> 0:50:18.520
<v Speaker 2>I was seeing so much I couldn't even talk, and

0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:20.319
<v Speaker 2>then I wanted to post it and curse her out.

0:50:20.360 --> 0:50:21.719
<v Speaker 2>Then I didn't want her baby daddy to see it

0:50:21.719 --> 0:50:23.600
<v Speaker 2>at the time because I know he was fucking grieving,

0:50:23.600 --> 0:50:24.799
<v Speaker 2>and I just like I didn't know who was gonna

0:50:24.800 --> 0:50:26.360
<v Speaker 2>see what. So I'm talking to my man about it

0:50:26.360 --> 0:50:27.520
<v Speaker 2>and he's like, yo, this she's got this.

0:50:27.560 --> 0:50:30.560
<v Speaker 1>Fucking prostitute mysel Oh what the what the fuck?

0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:33.439
<v Speaker 2>And Shade, by the way, had to take some time

0:50:33.520 --> 0:50:35.480
<v Speaker 2>off for her health and guess who the fuck was

0:50:35.480 --> 0:50:36.560
<v Speaker 2>holding his bitch down.

0:50:36.719 --> 0:50:39.480
<v Speaker 1>Her baby daddy? What the fuck else can a man

0:50:39.560 --> 0:50:41.640
<v Speaker 1>do but be a talking about I hope he could

0:50:41.640 --> 0:50:43.440
<v Speaker 1>step up? So what so? What is he supposed to

0:50:43.440 --> 0:50:45.600
<v Speaker 1>be a future? Super rich? And then the kids going

0:50:45.600 --> 0:50:51.960
<v Speaker 1>to work hold on future not even paying child's I

0:50:51.960 --> 0:50:54.280
<v Speaker 1>thought about, but here what I was thinking rich Nigga

0:50:54.520 --> 0:50:56.520
<v Speaker 1>pays the bills. And then what this man is a

0:50:56.719 --> 0:50:57.279
<v Speaker 1>great father?

0:50:57.400 --> 0:50:59.360
<v Speaker 2>The last time she did my hair, he was in

0:50:59.440 --> 0:51:02.040
<v Speaker 2>there showing her five year old shabby how to fucking

0:51:02.880 --> 0:51:05.120
<v Speaker 2>do the alphabet, making sure, checking over her stuff, while

0:51:05.160 --> 0:51:09.359
<v Speaker 2>simultaneously doing a photo shoot downstairs. Bro, these kids were

0:51:09.400 --> 0:51:11.560
<v Speaker 2>so smart. She was telling me what kind of podcast

0:51:11.640 --> 0:51:13.040
<v Speaker 2>she wanted to make. Her daughter was like, I'm going

0:51:13.120 --> 0:51:15.680
<v Speaker 2>to be a podcast. So sweet, and I was just

0:51:15.800 --> 0:51:18.760
<v Speaker 2>thinking to myself, we are so jaded of the outside

0:51:18.840 --> 0:51:20.360
<v Speaker 2>view of what people have in their lives.

0:51:20.520 --> 0:51:24.040
<v Speaker 1>It's so crazy, so crazy, well, not only that, what

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:27.879
<v Speaker 1>I would have Lily Edwards puts the ass hoop. I'd

0:51:27.920 --> 0:51:31.800
<v Speaker 1>love to know what health insurance and life insurance you

0:51:31.960 --> 0:51:34.759
<v Speaker 1>have set up for when your ass passes, what your

0:51:34.880 --> 0:51:37.360
<v Speaker 1>family will have to pay for it. Like that's the

0:51:37.440 --> 0:51:40.560
<v Speaker 1>thing that bothers me. Like talk, there's a lot of

0:51:40.640 --> 0:51:44.440
<v Speaker 1>stones being thrown in glass houses, like unfortunately a lot

0:51:44.480 --> 0:51:47.640
<v Speaker 1>of us, specifically within our community, have not been educated

0:51:47.880 --> 0:51:50.240
<v Speaker 1>to what it means to have a life insurance policy

0:51:50.600 --> 0:51:52.960
<v Speaker 1>or what happens if we are not here right, it's

0:51:53.000 --> 0:51:56.880
<v Speaker 1>been so sad, like my friends are grieving. Uh, this

0:51:57.080 --> 0:52:00.520
<v Speaker 1>guy that CTE, a guy that just took is life.

0:52:00.920 --> 0:52:03.520
<v Speaker 1>We see everything that's happening or I don't even know

0:52:03.680 --> 0:52:06.600
<v Speaker 1>if at this point the case has been solved with

0:52:06.800 --> 0:52:09.440
<v Speaker 1>the nigga that might have killed the little fifteen year

0:52:09.440 --> 0:52:13.480
<v Speaker 1>old girl, the little there's just the song I had

0:52:13.560 --> 0:52:15.960
<v Speaker 1>in my phone from him was Romantic Home. Of course

0:52:16.000 --> 0:52:19.719
<v Speaker 1>it was. That's his biggest record, I'm saying, And so

0:52:19.840 --> 0:52:22.520
<v Speaker 1>when I think about like even it's it's funny because

0:52:22.520 --> 0:52:25.239
<v Speaker 1>if you guys go on Patreon and y'all listen to

0:52:27.080 --> 0:52:30.800
<v Speaker 1>my first day at Heato with my best friend. I

0:52:30.880 --> 0:52:32.479
<v Speaker 1>thought she left with a nigga, and I was gonna

0:52:32.480 --> 0:52:35.759
<v Speaker 1>find her body in the Jamaican ocean. Okay, I don't

0:52:35.760 --> 0:52:38.160
<v Speaker 1>know if Jamaica has an ocean, but it's the ocean

0:52:38.280 --> 0:52:41.640
<v Speaker 1>that's around here, Jamaica, Jamaica ocean. They got an ocean,

0:52:41.680 --> 0:52:47.160
<v Speaker 1>but it's not the Jamaican ocean. It's there. It's one

0:52:47.200 --> 0:52:49.320
<v Speaker 1>of the Atlantic. I'll see where you're going with this,

0:52:49.440 --> 0:52:51.440
<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean. So what I'm saying is

0:52:52.040 --> 0:52:55.160
<v Speaker 1>even in that moment, bitch, my best friend gonna get

0:52:55.160 --> 0:52:59.000
<v Speaker 1>that lit funeral. But I was like, bitch, shit, So

0:52:59.719 --> 0:53:03.560
<v Speaker 1>that conversation literally stem like my best friend beat cancer.

0:53:03.600 --> 0:53:05.080
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna be mad as fuck if she died

0:53:05.120 --> 0:53:08.040
<v Speaker 1>from a nigga. But but the fact of the matter

0:53:08.239 --> 0:53:10.760
<v Speaker 1>was was the conversation about we think about our parents,

0:53:10.800 --> 0:53:12.840
<v Speaker 1>We think about all these old people that should have

0:53:13.280 --> 0:53:15.680
<v Speaker 1>their funeral set out. Bitch, you got the nerve to

0:53:15.719 --> 0:53:18.200
<v Speaker 1>fix your fingers and say that do you haven't set

0:53:18.280 --> 0:53:21.600
<v Speaker 1>up to where your people connected to you don't know

0:53:22.719 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 1>and say, oh well, I can't like just just the

0:53:26.000 --> 0:53:28.920
<v Speaker 1>financial burden of your funeral. This is a family.

0:53:29.120 --> 0:53:31.200
<v Speaker 2>These are two people that decided to make a family,

0:53:31.239 --> 0:53:33.320
<v Speaker 2>whether they got married or not. They they built a

0:53:33.440 --> 0:53:34.759
<v Speaker 2>life together. They don't think about it.

0:53:34.760 --> 0:53:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I gotta call my person. I know I got life

0:53:36.600 --> 0:53:38.000
<v Speaker 1>the shows, but I don't know if I don't know

0:53:38.080 --> 0:53:41.360
<v Speaker 1>the funeral portion of it. But I know that lin shit. However,

0:53:41.440 --> 0:53:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I died, my mama and my sister get what they get.

0:53:43.560 --> 0:53:46.560
<v Speaker 1>Do you know who I put the money to? Who? Well,

0:53:46.680 --> 0:53:48.600
<v Speaker 1>I would change it now. I guess, like because I

0:53:48.880 --> 0:53:49.680
<v Speaker 1>don't get married.

0:53:49.560 --> 0:53:52.719
<v Speaker 2>Soon, but Enoch, because I'm like, oh, Enoch will know

0:53:52.760 --> 0:53:55.239
<v Speaker 2>how to delegate the mondy. Yeah, I write notes about

0:53:55.360 --> 0:53:57.719
<v Speaker 2>I put it to my mama because financially and only

0:53:57.760 --> 0:53:58.759
<v Speaker 2>one of my sisters.

0:53:58.520 --> 0:53:59.280
<v Speaker 1>Not both my sisters.

0:53:59.320 --> 0:54:01.200
<v Speaker 2>And by the way, it's gonna be a fight my

0:54:01.400 --> 0:54:03.759
<v Speaker 2>mom would be and my father be getting this money

0:54:03.840 --> 0:54:06.840
<v Speaker 2>and my god children. But he know, is just so

0:54:07.040 --> 0:54:09.440
<v Speaker 2>financially literate that I didn't want to give so much

0:54:09.520 --> 0:54:12.280
<v Speaker 2>money to just anybody.

0:54:12.400 --> 0:54:15.080
<v Speaker 1>I ain't gonna hold you. I wanted you sound a

0:54:15.120 --> 0:54:18.600
<v Speaker 1>little like what people say about reparations, But I ain't

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:22.279
<v Speaker 1>gonna say nothing. Only because conversation a lot shout out

0:54:22.280 --> 0:54:24.440
<v Speaker 1>to Ish. He came on, so he's had a hot

0:54:24.480 --> 0:54:29.560
<v Speaker 1>take that we as financially illiterate community, as a whole

0:54:29.920 --> 0:54:34.200
<v Speaker 1>because of system systemic oppressions. If we got reparations, we

0:54:34.239 --> 0:54:36.840
<v Speaker 1>would know how to spend it. And so I've just

0:54:36.960 --> 0:54:39.560
<v Speaker 1>talked about like that with him. So I was just

0:54:39.920 --> 0:54:41.960
<v Speaker 1>hearing you say you would give it to your financially

0:54:42.120 --> 0:54:45.080
<v Speaker 1>literally literate friend who also happens to be a white man.

0:54:45.440 --> 0:54:48.600
<v Speaker 1>It's interesting because you are very problit to have a

0:54:48.640 --> 0:54:50.719
<v Speaker 1>lot of black friends, but you're giving your money to

0:54:50.840 --> 0:54:53.960
<v Speaker 1>a white man. Like that's but the conversation that's to

0:54:54.320 --> 0:54:54.680
<v Speaker 1>call out.

0:54:55.120 --> 0:54:59.719
<v Speaker 2>But I will say this, When my parents lost their home,

0:55:00.480 --> 0:55:03.160
<v Speaker 2>Enoch was the person that would help me help pay

0:55:03.239 --> 0:55:03.759
<v Speaker 2>for their rent.

0:55:04.040 --> 0:55:06.040
<v Speaker 1>So basically my parents would get so security. At the

0:55:06.040 --> 0:55:06.880
<v Speaker 1>middle of the month, I.

0:55:06.880 --> 0:55:09.360
<v Speaker 2>Would have to pay my rent and theirs and do

0:55:09.480 --> 0:55:11.920
<v Speaker 2>their bills. So he would teach me what to do

0:55:12.040 --> 0:55:15.279
<v Speaker 2>with my money. And like I just had had so

0:55:15.360 --> 0:55:17.520
<v Speaker 2>many conversations with him, like if I die, will you

0:55:17.600 --> 0:55:19.880
<v Speaker 2>help me do x y Z. Like I said, now

0:55:19.920 --> 0:55:21.520
<v Speaker 2>with change, of course, I got a mind in my life.

0:55:21.520 --> 0:55:24.200
<v Speaker 2>But it's it's just sad because when you sit and

0:55:24.239 --> 0:55:27.320
<v Speaker 2>think about it, and Shay was so political, that's crazy.

0:55:27.400 --> 0:55:29.879
<v Speaker 1>She did you respond to her? Did your man take

0:55:29.920 --> 0:55:32.200
<v Speaker 1>your phone? Like you guys said, fuck you, this is

0:55:32.280 --> 0:55:34.400
<v Speaker 1>a I don't know what I was mad. I mean,

0:55:34.400 --> 0:55:36.200
<v Speaker 1>you could see it. I want to sell you blocked her.

0:55:36.400 --> 0:55:37.879
<v Speaker 1>Oh you blocked her. I don't know if I could

0:55:37.920 --> 0:55:39.279
<v Speaker 1>see it from the block lib, but this is a

0:55:39.320 --> 0:55:41.840
<v Speaker 1>screen shot. Okay, you said, I don't know. He was

0:55:41.880 --> 0:55:44.400
<v Speaker 1>like this, now, this is too much. And then because

0:55:44.800 --> 0:55:47.520
<v Speaker 1>that's something to where she probably would have continued and

0:55:47.600 --> 0:55:49.640
<v Speaker 1>you just got to cut that energy, I think off.

0:55:50.120 --> 0:55:52.560
<v Speaker 2>And then what he said to me was like, she

0:55:52.560 --> 0:55:54.040
<v Speaker 2>just posted her gofund me and let it go. And

0:55:54.080 --> 0:55:55.919
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, no, a lot of people love this girl,

0:55:56.080 --> 0:55:57.759
<v Speaker 2>like I want to be able to engage a laugh

0:55:57.840 --> 0:56:00.840
<v Speaker 2>about a memory. But I started looking at some of

0:56:00.880 --> 0:56:03.040
<v Speaker 2>the ship she would send me, and it's just crazy

0:56:03.120 --> 0:56:05.880
<v Speaker 2>someone had this common to her because she.

0:56:05.880 --> 0:56:08.719
<v Speaker 1>Would post it about politics and be like, bitch, they

0:56:08.800 --> 0:56:11.240
<v Speaker 1>trying to give us down and just knowing has happened

0:56:11.280 --> 0:56:12.720
<v Speaker 1>to you, just being.

0:56:14.080 --> 0:56:16.680
<v Speaker 2>A person's part of the system of just medical racism

0:56:17.160 --> 0:56:21.160
<v Speaker 2>and someone black saying you would think she must love

0:56:21.239 --> 0:56:21.719
<v Speaker 2>Charlie Kirk.

0:56:22.520 --> 0:56:26.560
<v Speaker 1>Now she must love Charlie Funeral. I'm sure you're happiest

0:56:26.640 --> 0:56:31.880
<v Speaker 1>covered huh, bitch, fuck asshole. Anyway, this is why do

0:56:31.920 --> 0:56:34.440
<v Speaker 1>you know what they're gonna be? Like? This was a

0:56:34.480 --> 0:56:37.799
<v Speaker 1>real Florida episode, Like I feel like, now we got

0:56:37.880 --> 0:56:40.200
<v Speaker 1>grievances and greens. I feel like, oh no, no, no,

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:43.120
<v Speaker 1>this episode shout out to Crystal and Fury. We have

0:56:43.200 --> 0:56:45.359
<v Speaker 1>to call this the read. That's all we did all

0:56:45.440 --> 0:56:50.400
<v Speaker 1>episode was read people for filter. This is the Braden Salon.

0:56:50.920 --> 0:56:55.960
<v Speaker 1>The goddamn uh interest rates for homes and mortgages in

0:56:56.000 --> 0:56:59.839
<v Speaker 1>the American drink has a problem about has a pop.

0:57:00.400 --> 0:57:04.000
<v Speaker 1>And by the way, one of my friends said to

0:57:04.080 --> 0:57:07.239
<v Speaker 1>me when I was bitching about the Brady Salon, and

0:57:07.360 --> 0:57:07.839
<v Speaker 1>she was right.

0:57:07.920 --> 0:57:10.279
<v Speaker 2>She's like, Bro, I can't imagine how depressing this is

0:57:10.360 --> 0:57:12.480
<v Speaker 2>because your homegirl died and she would have been want

0:57:12.480 --> 0:57:13.920
<v Speaker 2>to do that hair, and then you had to go

0:57:14.000 --> 0:57:16.000
<v Speaker 2>get fucked up hair and grieve your friend.

0:57:16.360 --> 0:57:19.560
<v Speaker 1>What the fuck? So if you do quiklys and ponytailing

0:57:19.600 --> 0:57:21.920
<v Speaker 1>New York, kid me up. Hold on, I just want

0:57:21.920 --> 0:57:23.680
<v Speaker 1>to actually add to that before we get out of here.

0:57:24.080 --> 0:57:26.960
<v Speaker 1>It's the dilemma. I had a therapy over the summer.

0:57:27.000 --> 0:57:34.200
<v Speaker 1>Actually it was standing as a woman for the movement

0:57:34.280 --> 0:57:36.680
<v Speaker 1>of sexual liberation when when I felt like we had

0:57:36.760 --> 0:57:40.560
<v Speaker 1>all of like the backsteps and lack of support for

0:57:40.880 --> 0:57:46.440
<v Speaker 1>our book. One of the things that my my therapists

0:57:47.000 --> 0:57:50.880
<v Speaker 1>suggest that I do, and I immediately, you know, pushed

0:57:50.920 --> 0:57:54.120
<v Speaker 1>back on, was to create content our whole spaces and

0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:59.760
<v Speaker 1>conversations about being a black woman and how we navigate

0:58:00.120 --> 0:58:03.960
<v Speaker 1>the system and how we show up as our sexually

0:58:04.040 --> 0:58:06.520
<v Speaker 1>liberated selves and demand that we get what we want

0:58:06.640 --> 0:58:10.000
<v Speaker 1>in an era of ro V Wade and just everything

0:58:10.080 --> 0:58:12.800
<v Speaker 1>that I had felt dumped on me. And in the

0:58:12.840 --> 0:58:15.120
<v Speaker 1>same moment, I was like, bitch, but to be black

0:58:15.160 --> 0:58:18.400
<v Speaker 1>women too, mm hmm. It looked and I found out

0:58:18.560 --> 0:58:21.160
<v Speaker 1>that you know, essence was a little bit to do

0:58:21.320 --> 0:58:24.720
<v Speaker 1>with uh, not essence best as it's best its good,

0:58:24.760 --> 0:58:26.880
<v Speaker 1>but the brand that we worked with. But that was

0:58:26.920 --> 0:58:28.880
<v Speaker 1>a black woman. In terms of every time I've had

0:58:28.920 --> 0:58:32.240
<v Speaker 1>to fight and like prove myself, it's been to black

0:58:32.320 --> 0:58:35.600
<v Speaker 1>women in corporate that had felt like it wasn't it.

0:58:36.000 --> 0:58:39.280
<v Speaker 1>So it's it sucks that she's someone who was just like,

0:58:39.480 --> 0:58:41.439
<v Speaker 1>we need this for black women, and it's black women

0:58:41.520 --> 0:58:43.400
<v Speaker 1>that fucking I got something a set.

0:58:43.840 --> 0:58:48.080
<v Speaker 2>I have had a black woman hit me up four

0:58:48.240 --> 0:58:52.840
<v Speaker 2>brand deals, two hour call doing all this shit.

0:58:52.960 --> 0:58:55.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh what you talked about on Patreon. Oh bitch, I

0:58:55.840 --> 0:58:58.160
<v Speaker 1>can't get over that because I'm just thinking to myself.

0:58:58.880 --> 0:59:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Call her daddy low jobs in four k bro. I

0:59:02.560 --> 0:59:05.520
<v Speaker 2>just don't know what you thought my image was. I

0:59:05.600 --> 0:59:07.880
<v Speaker 2>went through my ig for like thirty minutes that day

0:59:07.880 --> 0:59:11.720
<v Speaker 2>and like, do I look crazy here? And then I

0:59:11.800 --> 0:59:14.760
<v Speaker 2>look at another girl's IG and I'm just like, oh,

0:59:14.840 --> 0:59:17.040
<v Speaker 2>these white girls that have sex podcasts and they do

0:59:17.320 --> 0:59:20.320
<v Speaker 2>way wilder shit. But at the end of the day,

0:59:21.280 --> 0:59:23.080
<v Speaker 2>we have an a on our chest and I don't

0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:24.680
<v Speaker 2>give a fuck. Oh, I think this would be a

0:59:24.720 --> 0:59:27.640
<v Speaker 2>great opportunity to say I will make sure the family

0:59:27.760 --> 0:59:31.800
<v Speaker 2>creates it forget to go fundy, nice Amazon wish list,

0:59:31.880 --> 0:59:34.040
<v Speaker 2>whatever stuff they need at home, some.

0:59:34.160 --> 0:59:35.480
<v Speaker 1>Good toys for the kids.

0:59:35.760 --> 0:59:38.200
<v Speaker 2>If you want to support her girls, We'll make sure

0:59:38.240 --> 0:59:40.720
<v Speaker 2>to include that in here for sure, for sure, for sure.

0:59:42.120 --> 0:59:46.600
<v Speaker 2>And also yeah, think before you press, and think before

0:59:46.640 --> 0:59:48.200
<v Speaker 2>you press in I mean YouTube.

0:59:47.920 --> 0:59:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Comments, ask you for a lot.

0:59:49.480 --> 0:59:51.720
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, and honestly even to read this week

0:59:51.920 --> 0:59:55.160
<v Speaker 2>like or not this week, but a few months ago,

0:59:56.760 --> 1:00:00.240
<v Speaker 2>you know, I it's just three to so iconic. But

1:00:00.360 --> 1:00:02.680
<v Speaker 2>there were things that I heard that I was like, fuck,

1:00:02.760 --> 1:00:05.720
<v Speaker 2>this is this is hard for pregnant one to hear

1:00:05.840 --> 1:00:07.880
<v Speaker 2>like dying on the surgery table certain words, and I

1:00:08.040 --> 1:00:11.280
<v Speaker 2>was like, I don't believe either of them are bad people.

1:00:11.680 --> 1:00:13.240
<v Speaker 2>I've been listening to the read a long time and

1:00:13.280 --> 1:00:15.640
<v Speaker 2>I think they mean so much to podcasting. But you

1:00:15.760 --> 1:00:19.000
<v Speaker 2>just never know that, like the people that you're talking to.

1:00:19.200 --> 1:00:20.560
<v Speaker 2>And I know you might look at Mandy and I

1:00:20.720 --> 1:00:22.160
<v Speaker 2>that way, may read.

1:00:22.280 --> 1:00:24.240
<v Speaker 1>Ain't talking to you. I'm talking for me. Oh no, no, no,

1:00:24.360 --> 1:00:26.640
<v Speaker 1>I need you to know real quick. Hold on, Alexis

1:00:26.680 --> 1:00:30.920
<v Speaker 1>Brenz Old, bitch, fuck Alexis Barnes. I am speaking for

1:00:31.160 --> 1:00:34.160
<v Speaker 1>me and hopes to help you, but I'm not speaking

1:00:34.240 --> 1:00:37.960
<v Speaker 1>for you to you at you, Mitch, I promise you

1:00:38.080 --> 1:00:40.200
<v Speaker 1>I was speaking at Alexis barn supposed to ask so,

1:00:40.960 --> 1:00:43.360
<v Speaker 1>but when I hop on this mic, I'm speaking for me.

1:00:44.200 --> 1:00:46.320
<v Speaker 1>I share my experience. This has been one of the

1:00:46.400 --> 1:00:50.040
<v Speaker 1>most liberating experiences that I've got to feel live. I

1:00:50.200 --> 1:00:53.040
<v Speaker 1>am blessed that this has been a part of my existence.

1:00:53.480 --> 1:00:57.120
<v Speaker 1>But bitch, I share my experience. I share what I'm

1:00:57.160 --> 1:01:03.120
<v Speaker 1>dealing with and who I'm becoming. In four or MP three, however,

1:01:03.160 --> 1:01:03.840
<v Speaker 1>you fucking listen.

1:01:04.200 --> 1:01:07.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm also I mean, like when you're talking about someone

1:01:07.960 --> 1:01:10.960
<v Speaker 2>in a negative way to be fair yourself.

1:01:11.040 --> 1:01:13.560
<v Speaker 1>No, even that, I feel like that's a problem too.

1:01:14.160 --> 1:01:20.040
<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we want people to do better for themselves and

1:01:20.160 --> 1:01:22.680
<v Speaker 1>be better for themselves than they want for themselves, and

1:01:22.840 --> 1:01:26.400
<v Speaker 1>we we we internalize that and it could be projection.

1:01:27.120 --> 1:01:30.640
<v Speaker 1>It could be just our disappointment of someone else. So

1:01:30.760 --> 1:01:34.080
<v Speaker 1>when we talk about like public figures or celebrities or

1:01:34.120 --> 1:01:37.960
<v Speaker 1>people that we know, a lot of times our frustration

1:01:38.280 --> 1:01:41.400
<v Speaker 1>might come out and sound harsh. Delivery is always a thing,

1:01:41.680 --> 1:01:43.320
<v Speaker 1>y'all know. Delivery. I'd have made a bitch cry at

1:01:43.360 --> 1:01:47.040
<v Speaker 1>work during fucking busy season Black Friday at coach, I'd

1:01:47.160 --> 1:01:50.760
<v Speaker 1>shared the goddamn story. And sometimes it's more delivery than anything.

1:01:50.840 --> 1:01:54.000
<v Speaker 1>But intention is, bitch. We were all rooting for you

1:01:54.520 --> 1:01:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Tyra Banks voice. And I think sometimes we want more

1:01:58.360 --> 1:02:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and we see more in people than sometime they see

1:02:00.480 --> 1:02:02.240
<v Speaker 1>in themselves. I think that's.

1:02:02.200 --> 1:02:05.720
<v Speaker 2>Only true if it came to dating that person not

1:02:05.880 --> 1:02:08.240
<v Speaker 2>having children. And the reason I say that is because.

1:02:09.720 --> 1:02:11.680
<v Speaker 1>We get look at it like damn mission other baby.

1:02:12.440 --> 1:02:14.720
<v Speaker 2>A lot of people want more children, want to go

1:02:14.760 --> 1:02:16.520
<v Speaker 2>famim me, Rihanna want to do that more than she

1:02:16.600 --> 1:02:18.600
<v Speaker 2>want to give us an album, but we don't shade

1:02:18.640 --> 1:02:19.560
<v Speaker 2>her because.

1:02:19.280 --> 1:02:21.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I've shaded my friends for keeping certain kids.

1:02:21.760 --> 1:02:24.200
<v Speaker 1>But no, I'm saying I'm not gonna lie. We don't

1:02:24.200 --> 1:02:26.720
<v Speaker 1>shave Rihanna. The felic doesn't shave Rihanna because she's married. Right,

1:02:26.800 --> 1:02:29.000
<v Speaker 1>But again, let's go back to the group chat, bitch

1:02:29.280 --> 1:02:32.440
<v Speaker 1>in real life. Okay, Well, we have opinions on celebrities.

1:02:32.480 --> 1:02:35.040
<v Speaker 1>We don't know them. We sometimes speak about them in

1:02:35.120 --> 1:02:38.880
<v Speaker 1>a parasocial way. I absolutely and y'all know because I

1:02:39.000 --> 1:02:42.360
<v Speaker 1>told his ass. I have sent flowers to a friend

1:02:42.760 --> 1:02:45.200
<v Speaker 1>to champion and an abortion if I didn't feel like

1:02:45.360 --> 1:02:48.120
<v Speaker 1>a baby would make sense in a certain relationship. I've

1:02:48.160 --> 1:02:50.640
<v Speaker 1>had other friends where I was like, it's just too late.

1:02:50.720 --> 1:02:52.760
<v Speaker 1>I would have told you not to have it. Like

1:02:53.200 --> 1:02:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I've had those.

1:02:53.880 --> 1:02:57.080
<v Speaker 2>Conversations with friends brout back, man, I have too, but

1:02:58.880 --> 1:03:00.640
<v Speaker 2>some people want to have our children.

1:03:00.760 --> 1:03:03.960
<v Speaker 1>And you know what that butt is where we can't

1:03:04.040 --> 1:03:06.280
<v Speaker 1>have a butt when we want the First Amendment, bitch,

1:03:06.320 --> 1:03:06.919
<v Speaker 1>freedom of speech.

1:03:06.960 --> 1:03:08.880
<v Speaker 2>I'll be here for everyone sharing their because she's the

1:03:09.080 --> 1:03:12.280
<v Speaker 2>only really like hilarious thing that from that rent where

1:03:12.320 --> 1:03:13.800
<v Speaker 2>Crystal that I love that she said is you know,

1:03:13.960 --> 1:03:14.640
<v Speaker 2>not to use your butt.

1:03:14.760 --> 1:03:15.560
<v Speaker 1>That shit was funny.

1:03:16.320 --> 1:03:22.120
<v Speaker 2>But speaking of but I don't think we can place

1:03:22.600 --> 1:03:26.320
<v Speaker 2>our thoughts on more children being in the world as

1:03:26.400 --> 1:03:29.480
<v Speaker 2>like death sentenced to certain women, because no, I agree,

1:03:29.720 --> 1:03:32.200
<v Speaker 2>because that is kind of the thing of like choice, right,

1:03:32.480 --> 1:03:34.800
<v Speaker 2>you choosing not to have kids, me choosing to have kids.

1:03:34.800 --> 1:03:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so here's the thing. Someone's going to attack you.

1:03:36.720 --> 1:03:38.680
<v Speaker 1>But be like Mandy doesn't get it, the thing you

1:03:38.720 --> 1:03:40.760
<v Speaker 1>said earlier. She doesn't get it. She doesn't want kids.

1:03:40.840 --> 1:03:43.600
<v Speaker 1>And in me, oh, we saying that because she wants kids. Well,

1:03:43.680 --> 1:03:45.400
<v Speaker 1>and there could be but also we have to think

1:03:45.440 --> 1:03:47.960
<v Speaker 1>about it too, the things that we've said on the

1:03:48.040 --> 1:03:51.760
<v Speaker 1>sort of comedy, Like, I think sometimes, especially when we

1:03:51.800 --> 1:03:53.360
<v Speaker 1>have a mic in front of us and we want

1:03:53.400 --> 1:03:56.080
<v Speaker 1>things to be entertaining, bro, sometimes we drag people a

1:03:56.080 --> 1:03:57.920
<v Speaker 1>little more than we want to off the face of

1:03:58.080 --> 1:04:00.640
<v Speaker 1>entertainment and comedy, and we don't consider that person at

1:04:00.680 --> 1:04:03.240
<v Speaker 1>the time. We consider everyone who's listening, who we might

1:04:03.320 --> 1:04:06.000
<v Speaker 1>want to get a chuckle house by. Now, maybe Crystal

1:04:06.040 --> 1:04:08.480
<v Speaker 1>has a little bit of empathy toward some of the

1:04:08.560 --> 1:04:12.240
<v Speaker 1>things that we don't know. But when I was first

1:04:12.320 --> 1:04:14.480
<v Speaker 1>listening to it, I was like, and then I was like,

1:04:15.800 --> 1:04:19.440
<v Speaker 1>is you know what's crazy there? Read for Charlie Kirk

1:04:19.560 --> 1:04:21.600
<v Speaker 1>was way worse? Why wouldn't it be? But that's what

1:04:21.640 --> 1:04:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. But in our community, we're not gonna consider

1:04:24.960 --> 1:04:26.440
<v Speaker 1>it at all. That's not what you said about. Well,

1:04:26.560 --> 1:04:29.200
<v Speaker 1>we're talking about a woman. I get that, well, black

1:04:29.240 --> 1:04:32.160
<v Speaker 1>woman talking about another woman of color and pregnancy and

1:04:32.240 --> 1:04:34.600
<v Speaker 1>as a woman. But the things that they said about

1:04:34.640 --> 1:04:37.720
<v Speaker 1>Charlie Kirk was ten to fifty eleven times worse.

1:04:37.800 --> 1:04:41.160
<v Speaker 2>But the thing is in righteousness of women being able

1:04:41.200 --> 1:04:44.960
<v Speaker 2>to do what they want to do. Condemning having another

1:04:45.040 --> 1:04:48.680
<v Speaker 2>baby is the circular thing of it. Because I cannot

1:04:48.720 --> 1:04:52.080
<v Speaker 2>be someone that'll say you're fucked up again? I think

1:04:52.120 --> 1:04:53.800
<v Speaker 2>I said recently, I was reading it one of Kennedy

1:04:53.880 --> 1:04:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Ryan's books. Someone what book was?

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<v Speaker 1>It Can't Get Another A woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't want to have kids in the book, and she's like,

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<v Speaker 2>so interesting how everybody says to me, why not when

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<v Speaker 2>my homegirls want to have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>No one says, how come? It's always why not? Why not?

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<v Speaker 1>Why not? Right? And I'm sure you experienced this.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I cannot fight for a woman that

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to have kids and fight for the one

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<v Speaker 2>that wants to with that rhetoric.

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<v Speaker 1>We can't have that coming from other women. It just

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<v Speaker 1>sucks now. But I'm also let's definitely talk shout offs.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm a hippograde too. I feel like, not for Cardi,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think certain you shouldn't have babies if you broke,

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<v Speaker 1>like I have certain things to where I just deemed

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<v Speaker 1>to be completely irresponsible as an adult with decisions that

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<v Speaker 1>you can make enough time where I actually don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that's a bad one. Well, but so that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So if we can police a broke bitch having a baby,

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<v Speaker 1>we can talk about a multi millionaire having a baby

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<v Speaker 1>by a fuck nigga boy. She's still married and still

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<v Speaker 1>be questioning of the decision to do so at the

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<v Speaker 1>at now a new pinnacle of her career. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it was to me. Here's the thing. She's

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<v Speaker 1>talked so down on strippers and all the women that

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<v Speaker 1>offset cheated on her with, right to where she placed

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<v Speaker 1>herself on a pedestal to be a better woman than

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<v Speaker 1>those that her husband or ex husband cheated on her with.

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<v Speaker 1>So to me to show up as a project chick,

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<v Speaker 1>give me a hood, rent one that don't give up

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<v Speaker 1>to still show up as a bit from starlets. Ten

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<v Speaker 1>years into a career where you have multimillions, yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>have a community, you have this. To me, she's operating

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<v Speaker 1>as someone from the projects, and we all thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was no longer that girl. So Carni is my girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be very clear. She's a libra bitch. She got

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<v Speaker 1>the money, she has the I'm here for her house baby.

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<v Speaker 1>They wanted to the date. Maybe step Fine is worse

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<v Speaker 1>than the baby. The baby is not oh no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's who she had the baby with. But she did

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<v Speaker 1>say that on and I forgot what podcasts because she

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<v Speaker 1>did a whole lot dear her press friend, she did say, y'all, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>people thought that I should have left offset got with

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<v Speaker 1>a billionaire, a millionaire, a nigga from Dubai. Right, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not me. And so that's what I'm saying is a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of times, because of how someone excels in front

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<v Speaker 1>of us, whether it be in business, in monetary like means,

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<v Speaker 1>or in education, we feel like they should they should,

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<v Speaker 1>they should act differently than what their actions showed, when

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<v Speaker 1>in reality, she's still the bitch from the Bronx that

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<v Speaker 1>worked to start with.

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<v Speaker 2>People believe they shouldn't have a line. I'm one of

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<v Speaker 2>them that does, at least when it comes to women. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and my line is make fun of that, nigga. You

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<v Speaker 2>ain't about to be telling me how you know it's

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<v Speaker 2>crazy for me?

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<v Speaker 1>How good luck to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Not dying on a table like like that sounds crazy,

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<v Speaker 2>But that was great, I will say, crazy thing to

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<v Speaker 2>say to somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>So fine is an attractive man all on? And then

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<v Speaker 1>that song that she got on her album Laid Me

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<v Speaker 1>on my Back or whatever it is, which it made

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<v Speaker 1>me like it made me. I said that did gotta

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<v Speaker 1>be good because that song was so good. I said, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that did gotta be fire. That dick and he got

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<v Speaker 1>don't know anybody, which I know. I used to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him when I was back. Well he was on

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<v Speaker 1>the Vikings, but I thought he was short and you

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<v Speaker 1>know on like football players. We had a close stent

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<v Speaker 1>of talking. Never got flud out, never fucked him. I

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<v Speaker 1>know multiple bitches who have fucked him.

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<v Speaker 2>The girl that I know that fucked him said, well,

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<v Speaker 2>fucked him and said that she heard it was fired

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<v Speaker 2>from the current that you was fucking said, you gotta come.

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<v Speaker 1>Know the girl that I know fucked him, met him

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<v Speaker 1>at an event. I guess he was so like interested

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<v Speaker 1>in her, he like booked a flight and got the

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<v Speaker 1>seat right next to her just to talk on her.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk to her on the flight like he moved like that.

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<v Speaker 1>He's he's a demon and his brother the demon. They

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<v Speaker 1>both demon did. She also agreed the Diger spire yees.

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<v Speaker 1>She also almost had a baby by but apparently all

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<v Speaker 1>the bitches are having baby, so baby waivers swim bitch. Nonetheless,

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<v Speaker 1>this was a chaotic, toxic ass episode. Welcome if you

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<v Speaker 1>episode was, but you know what estate talk. If you

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