Speaker 1: My response was, and I'm gonna further iterate on it
Speaker 1: because I want you bitches to stop playing in my
Speaker 1: motherfucking face. I'm not toxic, I'm not crazy, and what
Speaker 1: I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the woman
Speaker 1: you wish you was. Pusass. So this is actually this episode.
Speaker 2: This is gonna be my read. Okay, so this it's
Speaker 2: gonna get dark. But it also kind of has to
Speaker 2: do with this prostituting. Niggas got to take.
Speaker 1: Care of me.
Speaker 2: Bring okay, okay, Welcome to Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 1: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded
Speaker 1: like you was talking to this person.
Speaker 2: You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 2: You want to say together, Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Desisiones Disisions. I'm
Speaker 1: your girl, Mandy baka that bitch. Hey, everybody, welcome back
Speaker 1: to another episode. My name is Weezy, and we're in
Speaker 1: Atlanta today.
Speaker 2: I know that if you're a YouTube watcher, sometimes things
Speaker 2: look different. We record everywhere. At this point, we record everyone.
Speaker 2: We record everywhere, y'all. So right now we're in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: That's right where I live now and I love it,
Speaker 1: and I'm glad that I get to spend more time
Speaker 1: at home. How's your time at home? Oh? No, it's
Speaker 1: been great. It's been great. I'm looking forward to the holidays.
Speaker 1: I haven't decided where I want to go. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I've been doing Aruba last year, I did Saint Croix.
Speaker 1: But I'm just I'm just loving it. I'm loving it.
Speaker 1: I thought I would be like rushing super back to
Speaker 1: New York, and I'm not. I'll be here, I think,
Speaker 1: probably like another three to five years. I feel like
Speaker 1: that's what I'm giving myself. No clue I've talked about.
Speaker 1: I don't like any other really city. I don't feel
Speaker 1: like you would want to stay. No, I'm not staying
Speaker 1: here forever. I feel like I'm just a nomad anyways.
Speaker 1: Like maybe I go back to New York if I
Speaker 1: can afford my penthouse in overlooking Central Park, I will.
Speaker 1: That's what I'd like I have. No, I feel like
Speaker 1: that's the joy of not having no fucking kids. Like
Speaker 1: I genuinely feel like whatever my mood feels like in
Speaker 1: three to five years is where I'll go. Like my
Speaker 1: mood was pushing me back here. I manifested a radio show.
Speaker 1: I got it. I've been spending a lot of time
Speaker 1: with my friends. I love it. I have the space.
Speaker 1: I have the exact space that I wanted, Like I
Speaker 1: wanted a two story loft, That's what I even wanted
Speaker 1: in New York. So I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 1: where I'll want to be in three to five years
Speaker 1: after the pandemic. A bitch, don't even try to think
Speaker 1: or guess what the fuck the world has for me.
Speaker 1: So I'm just really happy, like so happy to where
Speaker 1: like I've pushed off like my last two therapy like sessions,
Speaker 1: because I did like two sessions where I just felt
Speaker 1: like I was bragging about life and I was like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna pay you what I pay you to
Speaker 1: talk about how I'm not dealing with anything mentally and
Speaker 1: I'm not crying and I'm not worried and I'm not anxious,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, whoo, I have a breather. This time
Speaker 1: of year, for the last five years, has been the
Speaker 1: year that I crash, whether I'm just miserable, I'm crashing
Speaker 1: out from work, I'm deplete, I'm exhausted, I'm not happy,
Speaker 1: and so maybe that's why, like this year just feels
Speaker 1: different because I'm not in that space. So I feel good.
Speaker 1: I feel great. All my niggas are still showing up
Speaker 1: being great. Nos. Three out now it's three, it's three.
Speaker 1: One fell off just natural them. No, he had another
Speaker 1: relationship that I just felt like was making him not
Speaker 1: show up for me enough. But and that's fine. I
Speaker 1: got the other three and welcoming another one if anyone
Speaker 1: comes in my life. Uh No, I'm great, Like my
Speaker 1: partners are great, they show up. I'm just doing really good.
Speaker 1: So I'm excited for the holidays and the break that
Speaker 1: we normally get at the end of the year, and
Speaker 1: just seeing what next year has like. I'm really excited
Speaker 1: about next year outside of the orange Cheeto fucking up
Speaker 1: the world, but I'm like in a good place. I'm happy.
Speaker 1: That's good. I'm happy.
Speaker 2: I feel like the sun the South can do that
Speaker 2: for you too. So I'm trying to think, well, you
Speaker 2: will be hearing this after my Brazil trip, which I
Speaker 2: would have loved to talk about live in real time.
Speaker 2: Hopefully we can do that on a town hall with y'all,
Speaker 2: because I've been hearing fans and people talk about Brazil.
Speaker 2: I feel like my whole life and like recently I
Speaker 2: did something called cartography.
Speaker 1: Have you ever heard this? Yeah, let me try to
Speaker 1: pull up. My friend Andre did it for me.
Speaker 2: So it's basically based on where you're born, your time,
Speaker 2: like your horoscope a little bit, but where your body
Speaker 2: should be, where your happiest. Okay, mine, here's the short one.
Speaker 2: This one's crazy and when he sent it to me,
Speaker 2: he's like, Nigga, Yours is actually wild. Summary of potential
Speaker 2: soul homes California Coast spiritual growth and resonance, Spain and
Speaker 2: Portugal for expansion, fortune and cultural alignment which I love,
Speaker 2: Spain into Portugal, New York City career magnetism, artistic and
Speaker 2: social recognition and love. And then India for karmic and
Speaker 2: spiritual soul home. Once it like kind of branches out
Speaker 2: because it gets bigger. Another line that I run through,
Speaker 2: this one is crazy. Where do I go all the time? Mexico,
Speaker 2: Mexico and Brazil.
Speaker 1: Bitch.
Speaker 2: It says strong sense of belonging, energizing home base, keeping
Speaker 2: you emotionally event adventurous, feeling at home when traveling to
Speaker 2: this place.
Speaker 1: Bitch, I thought that should I said this might.
Speaker 2: Be real, brokay the fact that like I just always
Speaker 2: end up in Mexico, always, always, always. So it's funny
Speaker 2: you mentioned penthouse. I have been looking to buy. My
Speaker 2: boyfriend and I have been looking most of you know
Speaker 2: that listen to Horrible. He's real, he's a real estate investor,
Speaker 2: and so some of the rates are going down ish
Speaker 2: in New York. Not crazy, but but you know, talking
Speaker 2: about living together, He's like, I'd.
Speaker 1: Rather own, I'd rather own, I'd rather own.
Speaker 2: So this, this is how crazy New York real estate is.
Speaker 2: This is also probably my fault for not knowing what
Speaker 2: I should be doing. But find a penthouse. Not even
Speaker 2: my style as far as where it is. And it's
Speaker 2: funny because you said overlooking Central Park. I want to
Speaker 2: live below twenty first Street. I love the West Village.
Speaker 2: I love downtown. Rather be in the East Village. But
Speaker 2: whatever found an apartment that I'm like, this is perfect
Speaker 2: for a kid to too with a parking garage. I
Speaker 2: don't have a car. He wants to make sure he
Speaker 2: can always park. And I was like, this is perfect,
Speaker 2: Jim Doorman. Whatever, It's not at budget, but it's like
Speaker 2: right there, put in an offer, offer gets accepted. I'm like,
Speaker 2: holy shit, So start going over paperwork with the real
Speaker 2: estate agent that I have.
Speaker 1: By the way, hit up Matt the mortgage guy.
Speaker 2: You guys, hit him up, Matt mortgage guy Ian Dumblas.
Speaker 2: I feel like they're all in that ethos. But he
Speaker 2: was super helpful when him and I were looking for
Speaker 2: mortgage loans. So the agent is like, ar's your common
Speaker 2: charges or eleven hundred super low monthlyes. That's great for
Speaker 2: New York. I was like, yeay, great, and then your
Speaker 2: taxes monthly are thirteen hundred dollars. I was like, wait, wait, wait, nigga,
Speaker 2: I thought the monthly was eleven hundred because I put
Speaker 2: in an offer for New York for before. She's like,
Speaker 2: that was a co op. A co op includes the taxes. Okay,
Speaker 2: a condo in New York City has your common charges
Speaker 2: and your taxes. I would have been paying twenty three
Speaker 2: hundred dollars a month on top of the mortgage.
Speaker 1: Bitch.
Speaker 2: I was really sitting there like, nigga, I don't want
Speaker 2: I don't want hold ownership that bad. I'm tired of
Speaker 2: people forcing me and it's hard because my man.
Speaker 1: I'm giving up on that I'm not gonna lie so
Speaker 1: hard like next year, I have talked to say friends
Speaker 1: an agent, Now Crystal, I'm gonna go. I'm gonna get one,
Speaker 1: but not that I want to live in. Like I
Speaker 1: know what I want to live in is above what
Speaker 1: I want to pay to live anywhere. Like I'm not
Speaker 1: home enough. But I literally am thinking of next year
Speaker 1: having my three and I'll say I have three and
Speaker 1: a half because one of my own sugar Daddy's back
Speaker 1: in in fiction. He's not getting no sugar, but he's
Speaker 1: still daddy. What's wrong here? And sugar he's not giving
Speaker 1: he's not getting sugar. But no, no, no, no, no, well no,
Speaker 1: I would buy here in Atlanta, I wouldn't buy in
Speaker 1: New York. But literally that's I'm going to have all
Speaker 1: of them combined to buy me a house next year
Speaker 1: because I'm getting Teddy Is, my thirty six inch watch
Speaker 1: and my luggage, like I have all the things I'm
Speaker 1: getting for my birthday and Christmas this year. Next year,
Speaker 1: everybody got to combine to get me an adopt payment
Speaker 1: for a house. But same thing I've been talking about,
Speaker 1: I'm like, well, taxa sucks, renovations suck, like having to
Speaker 1: be like in charge of everything when it happens. Bro,
Speaker 1: that doesn't sound like fun.
Speaker 2: So I'm trying to I'm trying to get in the comments.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to think about what people say. Well, they
Speaker 2: still say that real estate is the way to go.
Speaker 2: But that's where I'm like, I think as millennials, bitch.
Speaker 2: When I look and see what them motherfucking fifty year
Speaker 2: olds got to pay like twenty years ago, thirty years
Speaker 2: ago on a motherfucker house, bitch, it is like triple
Speaker 2: quadruple that price.
Speaker 1: And I'm not seeing specifically in Atlanta anything go up, Bitch.
Speaker 1: I get notifications every day, property dropped by twenty five k,
Speaker 1: property drop by fifty K. I know me too. Every
Speaker 1: day Zillo is just alert in media. Do you want
Speaker 1: to know? Prices drop? And when I wanted was my apartment?
Speaker 2: And now I realize why my apartment that I put
Speaker 2: the offer in on the escrow is when you fully
Speaker 2: go through the right, So you put your offer, your
Speaker 2: offer gets accepted, then you put the money and then
Speaker 2: it goes into escrow. So I didn't get to that
Speaker 2: process yet because we started to talk about the monthly taxes,
Speaker 2: et cetera.
Speaker 1: I just want to bullshit.
Speaker 2: I wanted to put that offer in so under a
Speaker 2: million for two bedroom in New York City below I'd
Speaker 2: say fifty fourth Street, Upper east.
Speaker 1: Side to see to hold you shit sounds crazy, It
Speaker 1: sounds crazy. No, no, no, but no, now that I have
Speaker 1: left New York, bitch, New York is fucking dumb. No,
Speaker 1: New York's not dumb. If you want to suck dick
Speaker 1: and an alley, have your late nights out like New
Speaker 1: York gives you exactly what you would want New York
Speaker 1: to give you. Accept quality of life. Now what I realized.
Speaker 1: How you can suck. You could suck. You could jack
Speaker 1: somebody off in a uber. I'll show you to what
Speaker 1: you will go to a sex club. You can end
Speaker 1: up in a dungeon. You could literally. I shared it
Speaker 1: on one of I don't know if it was this
Speaker 1: episode or need to know bitch. Last time I was
Speaker 1: in New York, I fell into a goddamn bar and
Speaker 1: had shots with Mary J. Blige. New York offers amazing experiences,
Speaker 1: but in terms of the quality of life, bitch, it
Speaker 1: is the fucking show. This apartment, right, this was the one. Bitch.
Speaker 2: Guess how much the offer got accepted for eight thirty.
Speaker 2: Do you see how high that price is? So that
Speaker 2: got me worried because.
Speaker 1: I said, this visits me off because this would be
Speaker 1: two fifty in Atlanta, I could show you apartment. No,
Speaker 1: I can show, but that would be two d Then
Speaker 1: I loved about this apartment is it was a seven
Speaker 1: minute walk to Central Park, and I thought, whoa, my
Speaker 1: nigga lives up state. I call west Chester, up states.
Speaker 2: He's like, listen, I need outside, I need nature, I
Speaker 2: need quiet. I can't deal with this bullshit. I can't
Speaker 2: handle this shit. You want to walk outside and we
Speaker 2: see niggas. I don't want to see nobody. So I'm like,
Speaker 2: this is perfect. Maybe I'm going back to my roots.
Speaker 2: You know when my sugar daddy got me that apartment
Speaker 2: on fifty fourth and eighth.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm going back. We won't go back.
Speaker 2: Bitch for the apartment to get accepted that well, So
Speaker 2: then my Asian and I are like both saying, She's like, no, no,
Speaker 2: we need to do deep dive on this shit. We
Speaker 2: got to figure out if the building is about to put.
Speaker 1: A I don't know the word.
Speaker 2: It's not an abatement, but there's something they put on
Speaker 2: top of homeowners. Let's just say, for example, for anyone listening,
Speaker 2: maybe you find a homeowner's association feed that's three hundred bucks,
Speaker 2: but for the next five years, it's eleven hundred because
Speaker 2: maybe they want to install an elevator or something else.
Speaker 2: Right oka, She's like, something gotta be off, bitch, because
Speaker 2: how the fuck they accept the offer two hundred one
Speaker 2: thousand dollars less. Come to find out, it's the taxes
Speaker 2: and the monthlies. So Hear and I are freaking out that.
Speaker 2: We also started thinking, well, maybe they're building something else
Speaker 2: on top to obstruct the views.
Speaker 1: Who knows.
Speaker 2: But what I did learn through this is like, and
Speaker 2: I've said this over the years, I feel like the
Speaker 2: last two or three years, I do feel like somebody's
Speaker 2: pushing me. It's not even just him. I feel like
Speaker 2: the world is pushing. When you have money, or you're
Speaker 2: at a certain age or credit score, bye bye bye.
Speaker 2: But I really am happy, and I don't want to
Speaker 2: buy bye bye.
Speaker 1: Which is the faith that I'm talking about, wanting to buy,
Speaker 1: to steal, rent something else. Like to me, it's the
Speaker 1: pressure of and that's the thing. So I've been talking
Speaker 1: about it with a lot of my friends, and in
Speaker 1: terms of hold on, actually, let me read, let me
Speaker 1: read this. I'm gonna read this quote. I just screenshot
Speaker 1: it today because it was fattabulous and I feel like
Speaker 1: it's what we're dealing with, right, said girls, I understand
Speaker 1: why they advise us to get married and have kids
Speaker 1: before twenty five, because after that our brain starts working
Speaker 1: and the decision won't seem so reasonable anymore. That's fine.
Speaker 1: This is what I think about as being a millennial
Speaker 1: is being a woman in your fucking thirties. We've been
Speaker 1: pushed to think that all of these certain things are
Speaker 1: how we're supposed to exist. Okay, be an independent woman,
Speaker 1: get your degree, bitch, got that. And now they just
Speaker 1: sitting on my shelf not worth a goddamn and I'm
Speaker 1: sitting on forty two thousand dollars worth of loans. Then
Speaker 1: they talk about have kids. Bitch, everybody with kids is miserable.
Speaker 1: They won't say it out loud, but bitch they do
Speaker 1: when they group chat, and they do today. Friends with
Speaker 1: no kids, I will say.
Speaker 2: This the only caveat do you know what I really
Speaker 2: believe it is? What fucked up y'all and it's elitist.
Speaker 2: What my only friends that are happy with kids have
Speaker 2: fucking money.
Speaker 1: Well no, I still have friends with money and they
Speaker 1: still and my friends with babe. Can they shout out
Speaker 1: to Britt and her husband. They is dope as fuck.
Speaker 1: He's like a nurse and nesissist. She's a fucking celebrity
Speaker 1: makeup artist that live fucking beautifully. They were my neighbors
Speaker 1: in l C. Bretted and when I tell you every
Speaker 1: day she'd be like, bitch, I love my kids, but
Speaker 1: there's always a butt like the way that sometimes she'd
Speaker 1: be like, girl, I don't already spent eight hundred dollars
Speaker 1: on the set of This Week. Not finna go out
Speaker 1: because I'm not paying that bitch no more money. Like
Speaker 1: I think she's unhappy. But the fact is a lot
Speaker 1: of you bitches, if you could take it back, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't have had the bests. That's all I'm finna say.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't have had them if you knew how beautiful
Speaker 1: life would be without. I don't think that's okay. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm saying this speaking for me and my thoughts and
Speaker 1: beliefs on life, because this is what I see. This
Speaker 1: is what I hear in every single person where the
Speaker 1: baby loves their fucking kids but would also love to
Speaker 1: not have them in certain instances of life. And that's
Speaker 1: just the fact of the matter, whether you have fucking
Speaker 1: money or not. Secondly, Thirdly, Fourthly, I'm off the Fourthly,
Speaker 1: they tell us that we had to have the white
Speaker 1: pick of fence, the husband, and yes, the mortgage homeowner ownership.
Speaker 1: It's tricky right now, baby, it is seven to eight
Speaker 1: percent in interest right now, all of the homes are
Speaker 1: priced over. And now what's happening, especially in Atlanta, you
Speaker 1: have a higher supply than demand. So now all the
Speaker 1: people that invested all this money hoping for whatever get
Speaker 1: back they was gonna get back, ain't get back nothing
Speaker 1: they about to see here, neither break even or all
Speaker 1: the things. I just want y'all to know, the American
Speaker 1: dream is gone. Everything they told us was a lie.
Speaker 1: And now we got a Cheeto in office trying to
Speaker 1: make it to where me and Weezie can't even say
Speaker 1: what we want to say whenever we want a motherfucking
Speaker 1: say it. They're taking away our rights, they're taking away
Speaker 1: our freedoms. And so just so you know, whatever you
Speaker 1: thought life should be bitch, live for you. That's it.
Speaker 1: We're in an individualistic society any motherfucking way, So live
Speaker 1: for you, and that's where I'm gonna go with it.
Speaker 1: I don't talk to enough people. I talk all day
Speaker 1: every day between here and between my radio show to
Speaker 1: select the Big Nurse, between us, talking about the book,
Speaker 1: everything else. Bitch, this is an assimilation. The aliens is
Speaker 1: watching us. They got a new producer that like the
Speaker 1: drama and so the way that we are living life
Speaker 1: right now, bitch, the aliens watching it us laughing. Bitch.
Speaker 1: You you used to call me love and hip hop. Bitch,
Speaker 1: we we are worse than Love and hip hop. America
Speaker 1: is ZEUS Network and the aliens are laughing at us.
Speaker 1: That's fine. Everybody making money on us. That's why fucking
Speaker 1: Trump then became a goddamn billionaire while being a president.
Speaker 1: No one has goddamn president's salary, ain't but two hundred
Speaker 1: thousand doesn't he donate it? They have no even if
Speaker 1: he donates his fucking presidency salary. It is noted that
Speaker 1: now the Trumps have made damn near a billion dollars
Speaker 1: in the fucking ten months. The nigga them been in
Speaker 1: office because he's getting all these contracts for his his shit,
Speaker 1: his friends. That's why the fucking goddamn planes, they're not
Speaker 1: going to reimbarrase you for cancelations, delayed luggage anymore because
Speaker 1: he in bed with the goddamn people taking over them
Speaker 1: goddamn airlines. All I know is hopefully we're seven minutes in,
Speaker 1: because that was a lot of fucking bleeping. If y'all
Speaker 1: are on YouTube, you got to hear all of that ship.
Speaker 1: But yet, the way I've just been living right now
Speaker 1: is just a fucking dump. It's a fucking mess, and
Speaker 1: I hate that. I am proud to bring an American
Speaker 1: I'm not that proud. I mean, I ain't gonna hold
Speaker 1: you when I go to other countries, maybe because I
Speaker 1: ain't been in Tokyo yet, because they've seen worlds above us.
Speaker 1: I just still be happy to be here sometimes, and
Speaker 1: I don't know why, because I like African American dick,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna go anywhere else and really find African
Speaker 1: American dick like I find it here in the States.
Speaker 1: You got African dick, and then you have darker complexion
Speaker 1: everything else, dick. But bitch, I love me some African
Speaker 1: American dick, especially like the African dick, the black dick elsewhere.
Speaker 1: They spoiled, they're they're also the turtlenecks. I think that's
Speaker 1: why I like saying I like African American dick. You
Speaker 1: like the little skin skin bag. I like African American dicks.
Speaker 1: Them is those are my favorite mans. Don't circumcise my niggas.
Speaker 1: I never had an African that wasn't okay. My experience
Speaker 1: and my experience only yours wasn't. No. African dicks just
Speaker 1: weren't good. They were small, they didn't fuck good. They
Speaker 1: like small. Science literally tells us that's no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: There's only one country, Congo, only Congo, bitch. And all
Speaker 1: I had was Nigerians and Cameronia one Goodand I don't
Speaker 1: want to say who I've had. I'm saying back in
Speaker 1: the days, y'all know, I used to have a diplomat.
Speaker 1: I used to have the little nigga who brought me
Speaker 1: to Dubai. Like I had my share of Africans. The
Speaker 1: dicks weren't hitting and they were so like. They were
Speaker 1: much more respectful in the bedroom. Remember the one African
Speaker 1: I had, he only wanted missionary. He didn't want to
Speaker 1: fuck me from the back and wait, let me suck
Speaker 1: a dick, which was great for me, Like bitch, I
Speaker 1: don't want to do work, but it wasn't enjoyable.
Speaker 2: If I could speak for a moment, I would like
Speaker 2: to talk talk about Africans actually in a.
Speaker 1: Way that we didn't be going. Uh, just so y'all
Speaker 1: know we both adhere to our own thoughts, views and opinions.
Speaker 1: They are separate of each other, and so whatever y'all
Speaker 1: here moving forward, y'all roast me on the African American dick,
Speaker 1: and y'all can talk about how that is. And I
Speaker 1: guess we gotta bleep that because that's not a word
Speaker 1: we allowed to say. Morning. Just have the floor.
Speaker 2: They get me, but here go let me chat for
Speaker 2: a moment. Please, thank you.
Speaker 1: You got the floor. I ain't saying nothing.
Speaker 2: So we're online, right and we get to see everybody
Speaker 2: complaining about the hairstylists and their rules. The rules are necessary.
Speaker 2: I will now shut the fuck up and relinquish all
Speaker 2: I decided. Now, many of you know one of my hairstylists, Didge,
Speaker 2: rest in peace to Shade.
Speaker 1: She was amazing.
Speaker 2: If I wanted to touch up on these braids. I
Speaker 2: would have went to Shay. She's been my hairstylist for
Speaker 2: eight years, and I've been going to a.
Speaker 1: New girl for the the better looking braids.
Speaker 2: We can say they're providing human here. They have a
Speaker 2: certain style of braiding. So I said, let me get
Speaker 2: a touch up before we go to this shell. Oh bitch,
Speaker 2: I decided to go to Flatbush. I should have took
Speaker 2: that five train right background. Not only did I try
Speaker 2: hard first, because I don't even be in the comments
Speaker 2: like you should have went here, You should have went
Speaker 2: to hear Oh.
Speaker 1: You bitches lied. You bitches lied. You bitches lied when
Speaker 1: you posted the TikTok to the two one dollar braids.
Speaker 1: Your bitch is lied when you said you were getting
Speaker 1: a deal. You bitches lied when you said why g
Speaker 1: Wiggs had the best human bundle hair.
Speaker 2: I have had this sin for six days. I had
Speaker 2: to look at my ring. I had to flat iron it,
Speaker 2: I had to comb it. I had to deep condition
Speaker 2: brand new human hair. I want to start off by
Speaker 2: saying I went into three places Mandy before I decided
Speaker 2: this would be the one. The only reason I went
Speaker 2: into the one that I went into is because it's
Speaker 2: singed cleaner.
Speaker 1: Let me show you a photo of this bathroom. I
Speaker 1: want to show you this bathroom because my hair was
Speaker 1: already taken out at this point and there was nothing
Speaker 1: I could do. Just tell me what you see when
Speaker 1: you look at it. I would never I would never
Speaker 1: judge a brating spot by their bathroom. You wouldn't judge that. Actually,
Speaker 1: this looks way cleaner the should I've been into Where
Speaker 1: to God looks way cleaner than should I've been in.
Speaker 1: I lived in the Bronx, though, I'm sorry, bitch, the
Speaker 1: floor is filled with piss. Okay, well, or maybe it's
Speaker 1: water dripping from the braids after they got their their
Speaker 1: brain much damn water, bitch, But maybe it's But maybe
Speaker 1: it's not fitness, bro. I'm not gonna lie whatever for
Speaker 1: the African shops that I used to go into over
Speaker 1: on Hunter Hunter. Goddamn, that's how long I've been out
Speaker 1: the Bronx, bitch. But there was there was something Hunts Point, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm saying Hunter Hunts Point. And then once twenty fifth
Speaker 1: I used to go to two shops in one on
Speaker 1: Elder Avenue. Elder Avenue used to do the straight backs.
Speaker 1: When I tell you it was that that's a luxury bathroom, well,
Speaker 1: and this is nice. It was half the size of
Speaker 1: that and you just go in and you're pissing next
Speaker 1: to a mop. You're pissing next to I don't care
Speaker 1: about that, but I don't say you prayer about the
Speaker 1: back ad next to you. But people's hair gets wet.
Speaker 1: I don't think that was it. I think that this
Speaker 1: was just flooding. It was filth.
Speaker 2: It was nasty, so boom, I go in there. Someone
Speaker 2: didn't want to put that on a video, y'all. We gotta,
Speaker 2: we're gonna put it. We're gonna put that on the
Speaker 2: video because it wasn't that bad.
Speaker 1: That was want y'all to see it. What was in
Speaker 1: that bad? To me?
Speaker 2: I posted on I g live and like, you know
Speaker 2: how you could talk with the live them holes was gagging, okay, okay,
Speaker 2: walk in boo. I'm like, hey, I show them the photo, Mandy.
Speaker 2: I said, this is what I'm looking for, do you know?
Speaker 2: And you can't take bo boho braids.
Speaker 1: I don't do boho braids.
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is the gypsy board of Ward, whatever
Speaker 2: these bitches called them. I'm like, can you start it
Speaker 2: from here. Yes, yes, yeah, tit, tit, tit. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: how much she said? Forty dollars. I already knew that
Speaker 2: price was too low. I said, give me somebody more experienced,
Speaker 2: dude for seventy five. That actually made her say, okay,
Speaker 2: I'll do it. So the shop owner started to want
Speaker 2: to do my hair, and I was like, thank god,
Speaker 2: because you know you gotta let him. Like, bitch, I'm serious, girl,
Speaker 2: I show them what I wanted, and what I wanted
Speaker 2: was not what I got. They start taking out my
Speaker 2: hair with a comb that was number one filthy. I said, no,
Speaker 2: that's not gonna work. I need you to put it
Speaker 2: in that barber side whatever, huffing and puffing at me
Speaker 2: now like I'm.
Speaker 1: Fucking saying something crazy.
Speaker 2: Then she start trying to comb my hair out with
Speaker 2: the fucking super tight rattail comb.
Speaker 1: Don't comb my hair out with that, You're gonna pull
Speaker 1: my hair.
Speaker 2: Out, And you know, you feel like you can't say
Speaker 2: nothing to the aunties.
Speaker 1: No, I don't be disrespectful.
Speaker 2: So I'm like, you know what, let me just let
Speaker 2: this happen. So I start taking my hair out. Then
Speaker 2: her baby come over I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: Sit on my lap.
Speaker 2: If that's gonna make your mom un comfortable, We're gonna
Speaker 2: get through this. So I said, you know what, I'm
Speaker 2: a type of person. I'm sure you are too.
Speaker 1: You're getting your hair done or something like that, make up,
Speaker 1: someone comes to your home. I'm ordering you smooth. I'm
Speaker 1: whenever i'm ordering something. Yeah, you nice to me. Oh
Speaker 1: you don't do that, Okay, I don't.
Speaker 2: If I'm getting a service and i'm gonna order something,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna order you something. So I said, you want
Speaker 2: to s yeah, tune the sandwich cool, fir'st all. The
Speaker 2: sandwich gets it. The lady has to bite of the
Speaker 2: sandwich and goes, oh, I don't eat Maennace, bitch, what
Speaker 2: the fuck is the tuna sandwich?
Speaker 1: Then? What is that tuna? Where you at? So I'll
Speaker 1: say nothing.
Speaker 2: Someone come over to me and I was like, this
Speaker 2: bitch is like, do you do a TV show? I said, no,
Speaker 2: I seen you before on the YouTube show.
Speaker 1: She famous show. I hate I hate that. I don't
Speaker 1: give I hate that. So then they start seeing my
Speaker 1: hair as I'm asking for it. She goes, this is good.
Speaker 1: Now that's the number one problems, bitch. Now you compliment
Speaker 1: the nother braid of bitch. You do good, Mandy.
Speaker 2: These braids that this bitch gave me were so terrible.
Speaker 2: I started his tear up.
Speaker 1: I started his tear up. She said everything okay. I said, no,
Speaker 1: this isn't what I asked. I had no choice. I
Speaker 1: had to go to this fucking event. She's like, it's okay,
Speaker 1: it's okay, I'm gonna fix it. Now.
Speaker 2: We got three ladies in my one lady pulled a
Speaker 2: comb out of her own head to start fixing what
Speaker 2: I had going on.
Speaker 1: And I was really just like, what am I gonna do?
Speaker 1: Do I take the whole thing out?
Speaker 2: I don't have time to go to this event and
Speaker 2: take the whole thing out. She's like, don't worry, I'll
Speaker 2: give you a discount. Now it's only seventy dollars.
Speaker 1: Bro. We have got to stop going for the cheap shit.
Speaker 1: I ain't saying I was going for the cheap shit.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying my one breaker pass and the other
Speaker 1: one's on vacation. What am I to do? I almost
Speaker 1: cut my hair off and did blonde like Mandy.
Speaker 2: When you see the PDF and it says leave your
Speaker 2: kids at home, make sure your hair is blow dry,
Speaker 2: make sure.
Speaker 1: It's calmed out. Don't bring any other people to the appointment.
Speaker 1: Just fucking listen. I am never.
Speaker 2: Again walking into a shop where I gotta sit my
Speaker 2: feet up on the goddamn chair and wait for the roaches.
Speaker 2: If I have to pick up my bag and make
Speaker 2: sure bugs don't get in it, I'm not doing this shit.
Speaker 1: No more now. Bugs is a hard that's my heart
Speaker 1: limit job. Buck the back. I can't do no bug.
Speaker 1: They ain't there like that. I'm not gonna sit there
Speaker 1: and deal with bugs invisible bugs. The bugs can be
Speaker 1: in the wall. I don't want to see the bug.
Speaker 2: But this culture of this, these type of breaking shops
Speaker 2: just being like little shops da da da, da da whatever.
Speaker 2: People that semi know how to do braids, they really
Speaker 2: only know how to do one type of braid, and
Speaker 2: it's at the night and all the way down.
Speaker 1: They can't do none of this other shit.
Speaker 2: They sitting here trying to figure it out because every
Speaker 2: bitch bitch on Instagram does it. But at the end
Speaker 2: of the day, these braiders are charging one thousand dollars
Speaker 2: because they do a good fucking job.
Speaker 1: I'm never again, bitch, I'm wearing natural heir. I'm so glad.
Speaker 1: I'm a ball aheaded bitch. I know you are. Because
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars for some braids, bitch, I wish a
Speaker 1: bitch would these. Seventy is what I used to pay
Speaker 1: before I chopped it off. And that's it. Were you doing? No,
Speaker 1: you were doing like the knot list one to seventy
Speaker 1: in the Bronx Hunts Point and it was fine. The braids.
Speaker 1: When I tell you, the break prices can suck my dick,
Speaker 1: like how break prices went up and cushie prices went down.
Speaker 1: I just don't understand what's happening with our economy. It's
Speaker 1: not making sens, bitch, it's not making human hairs being high.
Speaker 1: The skills set is changing. And then Nigga is she
Speaker 1: wanted to be mad at me when he was like,
Speaker 1: well what she brings the table, bitch as a woman
Speaker 1: to come out looking like anything, it's fucking expensive. You're
Speaker 1: talking about what it was. We talked about the lady
Speaker 1: from the tennis player who said I charge one thousand
Speaker 1: dollars just to take me out on a date. She's
Speaker 1: some tennis player who was in the World Cup, and
Speaker 1: is she a prostitute? No, I said, bitches's operating like prostitute.
Speaker 1: So that was my sentiment. So his thing was, well,
Speaker 1: if a man is supposed to pay for the date,
Speaker 1: what does a woman? What is her financial investment? I hate? Well,
Speaker 1: the conversation was, nigga, y'all want us to look a
Speaker 1: certain way? Did she is expective? Like, bitch? Just why
Speaker 1: I stop getting the lashes? Because the last is the
Speaker 1: way I sleep is rough? Apparently, so one I be
Speaker 1: gone before the next. I can't do it. And she's joking.
Speaker 1: She really charges a thousand, No, she charges You didn't
Speaker 1: see the girl, the tennis match girl who she said,
Speaker 1: charge one thousand dollars to be taken on a date,
Speaker 1: not to fuck. If you want to take me on
Speaker 1: a date, it's going to cost you a thousand dollars,
Speaker 1: which so you don't you cannot be shady as if
Speaker 1: we wasn't all what's your price? What's your price? Was?
Speaker 1: It's not because I was acting like a sex worker.
Speaker 1: I was, but that's what So that was my sentiment.
Speaker 1: I would hope that women would just admit to being prostitute.
Speaker 1: This is the pro because that's what they are. If
Speaker 1: you are charging and they get to take you on
Speaker 1: a date, if on the first date you're bringing up
Speaker 1: how you need help with bills, if you're bringing up
Speaker 1: that your son need a babysitter. In order for this
Speaker 1: nigga to take you on a date, whether you fuck
Speaker 1: or not, I need you to know you are at prostus.
Speaker 1: You know why I hate this time?
Speaker 2: Why something I was also saying, right, I'm talking about homegirls.
Speaker 2: I think it was Josie. It was Josie in her
Speaker 2: forty first dage. She flies in from London. We're just
Speaker 2: like talking about how the world works. So Josie Les
Speaker 2: get her corporate job to start a new company where
Speaker 2: she's working with black female founders only only, and her
Speaker 2: husband's holding it down while she's exploring her new business
Speaker 2: and her entrepreneurial side, and she's like, yo, I don't
Speaker 2: think I would have been able to do this single,
Speaker 2: Like I have a kid.
Speaker 1: I was believe it because she got a kid. She
Speaker 1: could have done it single without a kid, she couldn't
Speaker 1: have probably done it as a single mother. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean maybe that is not different. Maybe not doing something
Speaker 1: single and doing something as a single mother. There's there's
Speaker 1: drastic parallels between the two, and there is a difference
Speaker 1: between entrepreneurship as a woman who's just single and navigating
Speaker 1: life and maybe dating and having to run a business
Speaker 1: and be the primary caretaker of a child.
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't speak for what it would look like,
Speaker 2: but either way, like, it's still hard to support yourself
Speaker 2: while trying a new venture, right and just trying it
Speaker 2: out there and being able and growing. I just hired
Speaker 2: her too for Trap. So one of the things we
Speaker 2: were talking about. I was like, you know, bitch has
Speaker 2: got the world so fucked up that like, when I
Speaker 2: get this home, if I buy it, whatever, there's gonna
Speaker 2: be a woman somewhere saying, oh, teamwork, they split the
Speaker 2: down payment.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. He ain't taking care of you. Oh I
Speaker 1: already know. That's how fucking weird. I believe the world
Speaker 1: is now the world. Yeah, but because you could hear it, it's.
Speaker 2: Like that echo chamber of girls thinking, but it's an
Speaker 2: echo chamber of again a reality show, because the reality
Speaker 2: is that you bitches are fucking niggas that aren't helping
Speaker 2: you with bills, that y'all are fucking your baby daddy
Speaker 2: who's not paying child support.
Speaker 1: That y'all are with men and still navigating life. However,
Speaker 1: it is like, I know so many girls who have
Speaker 1: dated and who have partners who still feel the need
Speaker 1: to go out and deal with other niggas because other
Speaker 1: niggas do more for them than the guy that they chose.
Speaker 1: This is the thing that's crazier, right, he's not on
Speaker 1: top of that.
Speaker 2: Yes, fine, And when Josie and I were talking about it,
Speaker 2: I'm like, bitch, I know I agree with you. Someone's
Speaker 2: gonna say, oh, she got this, she got that. She's
Speaker 2: still those splitting bills with a nigga.
Speaker 1: Now, I'll mind you. I'm not splitting bills. My man
Speaker 1: is taking care of some my bils didn't even live together.
Speaker 1: That part is kind of nice. But buying the home
Speaker 1: is fucking huge purchase. Bro. Yeah, we're talking.
Speaker 2: Six figure down payment. Like, of course we're gonna share
Speaker 2: that now. Granted, is there.
Speaker 1: A world where I would be dating a billionaire and
Speaker 1: not even doing this podcast for you, bitch is sure,
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, dating someone normal,
Speaker 1: I believe that I am normal. I'm definitely making more
Speaker 1: than most of my peers, but at the same time, like,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be living out a normal fucking life,
Speaker 1: So what the fuck am I supposed to do?
Speaker 2: Just be I don't know, like seeking this thing that
Speaker 2: I see on Instagram, And I think it's very silly
Speaker 2: to think that two people that are doing well in
Speaker 2: life can't share that teamwork is bad. I'm so excited
Speaker 2: to have a partner that can put some money up
Speaker 2: with me on a crib like this, what yeah like
Speaker 2: to be able to have both of our incomes. If
Speaker 2: it was just me, I would not be looking at
Speaker 2: shit this expensive. But I know at the end of
Speaker 2: the day that the judgment that we feel from others
Speaker 2: just because of what they leave relationshipship look like it
Speaker 2: sucks like it sucks because you can really have someone
Speaker 2: keep you from your own happiness. And it goes back
Speaker 2: to just like really really like the attitude of to me,
Speaker 2: what is prostitution charging one thousand dollars for a date
Speaker 2: when at the end of the day, most of you
Speaker 2: want to find love, most of you want partnership or
Speaker 2: even the benefits of a rich nigga, And now you're.
Speaker 1: Gonna charge and show up to that motherfucker anyway. Damn
Speaker 1: I was about to I liked I liked that. Uh
Speaker 1: that that vent so bad I cut someone out and
Speaker 1: I want to lean into it real quick. Okay, because
Speaker 1: we got fucking decision decisions. I'm gonna talk to you
Speaker 1: little pussl assholds who're over on this in the decisions.
Speaker 1: So this is a comment front on our YouTube. Oh boy,
Speaker 1: we're about to cut down. Her name is Alexis Barnes,
Speaker 1: fifty four, fifty four, so maybe that helps with it
Speaker 1: not being heard your name. And I didn't like this
Speaker 1: because if you know me, you fucking know I believe
Speaker 1: in accountability for both men and women, right. I believe
Speaker 1: in women being delusional a lot of times, and I
Speaker 1: believe that men sometimes ain't shit. But I'm not a
Speaker 1: man hater. I also am in the best place of
Speaker 1: my life where I'm over communicating and demanding and getting
Speaker 1: exactly what the fuck I want out of life, out
Speaker 1: of partnership, out of friendship period, out of the bedroom too.
Speaker 1: So let me read this motherfucking comment that I had
Speaker 1: an issue with because it's given projection. Oh, Alexis, why'd
Speaker 1: you do that? Now, Alexis? Oh I got one? Now? Oh,
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it. Okay, this is this is hold on,
Speaker 1: this is the decisions decisions bitch, you're in rap up
Speaker 1: you Pus the assholes. That what I had to say
Speaker 1: about the goddamn rebrand. We two motherfucker knights wed ain't
Speaker 1: too motherfucker's sludy enough. Well anyway, Puss the asshole. We
Speaker 1: coming for you bitches today. AnyWho, this is the common
Speaker 1: By the way, Duane throws some fucking sounds behind this violin,
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck to throw, but soundscape
Speaker 1: this shit shit Mandy toxic. I ain't gonna lie as
Speaker 1: a grown woman, I know what I want, slash expect,
Speaker 1: and the people I deal with want the same thing.
Speaker 1: It can become dangerous and messy if y'all are not
Speaker 1: on the same pages. She basically said, if she's getting
Speaker 1: what she needs from someone, she wouldn't cut them off.
Speaker 1: If they want something else, that's messy. If she had
Speaker 1: a dude who loved her in a room full of
Speaker 1: dudes she having sex with, who's to say it wouldn't
Speaker 1: get dangerous. That's crazy to me. I don't know. It
Speaker 1: just doesn't make any sense to me. I'm not dealing
Speaker 1: with anyone who wants more or less than what I want.
Speaker 1: We have to be on the same page. Now, pussays,
Speaker 1: oh wait, she said, if you're getting what you want,
Speaker 1: you wouldn't. Well, I'm crazy, I'm dangerous. I'm toxic because
Speaker 1: I'm getting what I want from a person even if
Speaker 1: they're not getting essentially what they want from me. And
Speaker 1: maybe she's talking about is this scientiffe. Maybe she's talking
Speaker 1: about my ex. There's a lot of niggas recently that
Speaker 1: let's talk about what it is. I'm gonna be very,
Speaker 1: very adamant in the things I'm not willing to do
Speaker 1: and the things that I don't want. And if you
Speaker 1: choose to stick around, I'm not gonna dead you, nigga.
Speaker 1: We have it fun, we're enjoying each other, we're enjoying partnership.
Speaker 1: So my response was, and I'm gonna further iterate on
Speaker 1: it because I want you bitches to stop playing in
Speaker 1: my motherfucking face. I'm not toxic, I'm not crazy, and
Speaker 1: what I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the
Speaker 1: woman you wish you was pus to ask. So I'm
Speaker 1: the woman who knows how to talk to a man
Speaker 1: and tell him exactly how I want, and if he
Speaker 1: doesn't show up, how I need him to show up.
Speaker 1: I have no shame in walking away. Okay, so this
Speaker 1: was my response to her. I am vocal about the
Speaker 1: things I want. I want to make that very clear.
Speaker 1: How powerful it is. You see voice right here, tat
Speaker 1: it on me for a long time in all of
Speaker 1: my twenties. If y'all read the book No Holds bard,
Speaker 1: I talked about taking crumbs. I talked about being in
Speaker 1: a place where you know, I got whatever a man
Speaker 1: would give me because that was enough. I was in
Speaker 1: a place where I was fine being the side chick
Speaker 1: because I didn't think I had the voice or wherewithal
Speaker 1: or anything to bring to the quote unquote table to
Speaker 1: make a nigga show up for me. That made me
Speaker 1: feel validated, bitch, I do now, So let's be very clear.
Speaker 1: I am vocal about the things I want out the
Speaker 1: gate with a man. He will know what other partners
Speaker 1: I have. He will know exactly how I expect him
Speaker 1: to show up. And if you cannot show up that way, boom,
Speaker 1: bitch bye. I said, it's their job to walk away
Speaker 1: if they're not getting what they want from me. Again,
Speaker 1: that's communicated. Whatever a nigga wants from me and how
Speaker 1: we adhere to each other. Baby, he getting because maybe
Speaker 1: what I can do is make a nigga feel real
Speaker 1: good in the bed, out the bed, a long distance whatever.
Speaker 1: He gonna get what he need from me. So we're reciprocating, Bitch,
Speaker 1: I'm not wasting nobody's time. Secondly, I said, it's not dangerous,
Speaker 1: it's life. You can literally be married and not be
Speaker 1: on the same page with your husband. Does that mean
Speaker 1: you're gonna follow a divorce when y'all get off the
Speaker 1: same page? You can literally have friends that mean the
Speaker 1: world to you, that matter to you, and y'all end
Speaker 1: up not on the same page. Does that mean you
Speaker 1: in those friendships? Know, as human beings, a lot of
Speaker 1: times and a lot of different variants, we are on
Speaker 1: different pages, coexisting at the same time, trying to make
Speaker 1: it work. To me, you leave a man, or you
Speaker 1: leave a partner, I'll put it as a partner because
Speaker 1: we have everybody from the alphabet community listening. It doesn't
Speaker 1: matter what your partner like, where your partner is at
Speaker 1: the very moment of where y'all might be at a crossroads.
Speaker 1: A lot of people end up on different pages at
Speaker 1: different times. Now, to me, I live with wanting to
Speaker 1: enjoy the human experience, the human experience of partnership, a building,
Speaker 1: memories of having fun, of orgasming. Sorry, Alexis Barns if
Speaker 1: you are not doing any of those things, But what
Speaker 1: I want to be very clear and why I love
Speaker 1: this platform so much, and where a shout out to
Speaker 1: Barry if y'all go on Patreon, there's a story, he says,
Speaker 1: what did you get from this goddamn podcast? It was
Speaker 1: my voice and the power to be able to as
Speaker 1: a woman share exactly what I want in the bedroom
Speaker 1: and out the bedroom, how I want to show up
Speaker 1: as a woman to you, not lean into the tropes
Speaker 1: of patriarchy, and be exactly what makes me feel happy
Speaker 1: in the one life I have to live because where yes,
Speaker 1: I'm sure we was here before, We're gonna be at
Speaker 1: to all of our souls, spirits and things that live
Speaker 1: different lives. Bitch, I don't know them mother lives. I
Speaker 1: be having deja vu, but I don't know what those
Speaker 1: other lives are. And so Alexis Barnes, you put the asshole.
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing dangerous or crazy about a woman being able
Speaker 1: to live in her fucking truth. And when I tell y'all,
Speaker 1: I've been so happy lately, that shit pissed me off
Speaker 1: because I said, damn, bitch, dangerous is a big word,
Speaker 1: dangerous as a and I okay, you see it was
Speaker 1: the dangerous and crazy, which also how we live our
Speaker 1: lives can be deemed crazy to someone, but to label
Speaker 1: me as a dangerous person, and how I'm navigating these
Speaker 1: relationships when I'm getting fed like affirmations from my partners
Speaker 1: like this feels good. I didn't know these type of
Speaker 1: relationships could exist with women like I love that I
Speaker 1: could be honest with you, babe, I want to watch
Speaker 1: you suck a dick. I love watching you with other
Speaker 1: people like now we get a little horrible. They were like,
Speaker 1: I want to watch you. It's like dick. And I
Speaker 1: didn't know I could tell a woman I want to
Speaker 1: see her suck another man, dick. But to be in
Speaker 1: these spaces where like these men, it's not like the
Speaker 1: buddhhole whisper anymore. It's not like I'm just dealing with
Speaker 1: niggas that want to be paid and they so shamed.
Speaker 1: It's men that are like WHOA, I didn't think I
Speaker 1: could have this fun, exciting relationship and feel safe where
Speaker 1: I can express the things I want. It includes you
Speaker 1: being with other men and we're just open and keep
Speaker 1: in mind being on the same page. Last night, I
Speaker 1: was out with my man. We're having dinner. We were
Speaker 1: in Mexico last night.
Speaker 2: I'm my cartography and I said something to him along
Speaker 2: the lines of we're not really sleeping with people, right.
Speaker 2: So we just were doing to check in and I'm like,
Speaker 2: where are we at with this?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: Who, what's up with the people you talked to? I'm
Speaker 2: talking about me. He's like, where is this coming from?
Speaker 2: And I'm like nothing.
Speaker 1: So he's asking me, like, what's wrong. I'm like, where
Speaker 1: did it come from? Nothing? I'm just making sure we're
Speaker 1: on the same page. Okay, same page, Okay.
Speaker 2: Because we're on the same page last time we talked
Speaker 2: about it. Are we on the same page again?
Speaker 1: Day? Because yes, pages can flip.
Speaker 2: And he literally said to me when we were leaving,
Speaker 2: He's like, yo, like it's crazy. Being on the same
Speaker 2: page is what breaks people up. Not being on the
Speaker 2: same page will break you up in the marriage, like
Speaker 2: constantly checking are you on the same page?
Speaker 1: Are we good? Are we good? Like, just only for
Speaker 1: people that don't believe in the power of communicating, we
Speaker 1: were possibly being on a different road. Monogamy brings up
Speaker 1: that shit all the time, over over.
Speaker 2: Time, because way, I didn't think about that, because at
Speaker 2: one point he's like, think about it. If we weren't
Speaker 2: having sex with other people, would we even talk about
Speaker 2: this right now? We would just keep going through life
Speaker 2: not checking to.
Speaker 1: Be fair though if you were. If you were monogamous,
Speaker 1: you live in the fear of what they're doing without
Speaker 1: you knowing. So to me, it's honestly the same thing.
Speaker 1: So him saying like, would we have this conversation if
Speaker 1: we were monogamous, Probably because if anything shifted in your behavior,
Speaker 1: my mind is going to go to thinking that you're
Speaker 1: doing something with someone else. In non monogogy and in
Speaker 1: non monogamy, it's a constant check in because you're allowing
Speaker 1: all of these other energies, all of these other people
Speaker 1: in existence within our relationship, and to be fair, in
Speaker 1: non a monogamy, you risk every chance that maybe there's
Speaker 1: a connection with someone else, or maybe you find a
Speaker 1: connection with someone else, or maybe there's a connection where
Speaker 1: you both want to bring someone else in to me,
Speaker 1: it's actually the same thing. The thing is in non
Speaker 1: monogamy you don't do as much communicating. You do more assumption.
Speaker 1: You you do more assuming.
Speaker 2: You're like sitting there thinking it's the last thing we
Speaker 2: agreed on. So I think when I was saying it,
Speaker 2: he's like, what is this bitch trying to bring to
Speaker 2: the table. I'm like, bro, I'm really.
Speaker 1: Trying to bring to the table. I swear nothing. You
Speaker 1: ain't want to throw up, okay, but like.
Speaker 2: You know, we just haven't been doing it as much,
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, where are we at? Like are
Speaker 2: we good as far as like where we stand? Do
Speaker 2: you not want to do have sex with other people anymore?
Speaker 2: Because I know that he mentioned to me a few
Speaker 2: weeks ago it was a lot of energy dealing with
Speaker 2: other Yeah, And he was like, I kind of just
Speaker 2: want to do this together.
Speaker 1: I'm like, is that still? Like and if that happens,
Speaker 1: is it both of us doing that? Like what does
Speaker 1: it look like? But I say, don't have to say.
Speaker 1: It's always just being on the same page.
Speaker 2: Is literally when someone's off the page, that's how our
Speaker 2: relationship ends.
Speaker 1: Like you're on, you're on, you're off. Like that is
Speaker 1: literally what it is.
Speaker 2: When you're your relationship is good, you're on the same
Speaker 2: page in your relationship, you got off the fucking page.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't like tables and pages being used in
Speaker 1: metaphors because this shit gets confusing, because if you and
Speaker 1: I are reading the same book, we could be on
Speaker 1: a different page, but in the same book. It just
Speaker 1: means that either you got to catch up to where
Speaker 1: I'm at or you know what, I'm gonna wait until
Speaker 1: you catch up to me something with our book right now.
Speaker 1: That is a little wait. What we want children, but
Speaker 1: we both want children to live in different places. That
Speaker 1: Nigga said that baby ain't about to be in no city.
Speaker 2: Were going to Connecticut. We're going to west justin then
Speaker 2: we know, we know that baby coming out. We'll know
Speaker 2: where that baby don't go.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is perfect for my podcast room
Speaker 1: and the baby room. He's like, no, it's not, because
Speaker 1: we could have a five bedroom house in Westchester where
Speaker 1: your podcast room, side, bitch room, baby room, Jim and
Speaker 1: our room. What the fuck are you talking? You're not
Speaker 1: willing to give up the alare not even not even
Speaker 1: a lawyer, hold on, not even a law It's the
Speaker 1: fast paced access that New York City has that Upstate
Speaker 1: doesn't have. Okay, this is because how could you want
Speaker 1: to live in a seven figure, two bedroom home knowing
Speaker 1: you have the option of living in a five bedroom
Speaker 1: home and it's just a forty five minute longer commute.
Speaker 1: I don't give I'm not getting in a car. Now.
Speaker 2: Here's where I feel so, bro, you should see the
Speaker 2: way he's like, are you bro, I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: You sound crazy. I don't care. Number one, you see,
Speaker 1: I said she's crazy. There's a few South toxic, but
Speaker 1: you know this sound dangerous? Call me, dang, just's fucking
Speaker 1: go to Brooklyn. I said, I'll go to Brooklyn. Fuck
Speaker 1: but but the main thing for me is actually which
Speaker 1: he started to understand. Bro. We all if you read
Speaker 1: the book, you've read that sass suicide chapter. Bleep bleep,
Speaker 1: fucking Weezy was ready to go, and you know what
Speaker 1: appened going on some walks.
Speaker 2: He just don't put me in motherfucking Terrytown. We're having
Speaker 2: a big ass Oh, I used to have a nigga
Speaker 2: in Terrytown. No, every time I had a nigga from
Speaker 2: park Chester, it was only like fifteen minute.
Speaker 1: He was trying to take men nice restaurants and shit
Speaker 1: up there. I like Terrytown. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 1: That was cute. Now you know all the niggas that
Speaker 1: played on the Knicks and the G League live up
Speaker 1: the congratulations to that. I'm not a Terry girl. I
Speaker 1: don't Terry tarry Town. All right, now we'll get into Yeah,
Speaker 1: at this point, where are we at? This is this episode?
Speaker 1: This is gonna be my read. Okay, I love it,
Speaker 1: not the read. Look at you. Why don't we just
Speaker 1: read it? Oh you're reading somebody by the way. Decisions decisions.
Speaker 1: It's your decision to motherfucker supporters pullosed to ask how
Speaker 1: and we you'all motherfucking supporters just know we're so horrible
Speaker 1: over on Patreon, patreon dot com backslash horrible decisions. So
Speaker 1: you're turned weezy.
Speaker 2: Okay, so this it's gonna get dark, but it also
Speaker 2: kind of has to do with this prostituting niggas.
Speaker 1: Got to take care of me bring okay.
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh this is long Ooh bitch, I'm here for this,
Speaker 2: so I will try to make this quick.
Speaker 1: No, we got Greg, you got the last twenty minutes
Speaker 1: of the part let's not let's side part quick. The
Speaker 1: person I used to do my hair that died. Her
Speaker 1: name was Sha. Chay has two children, one and a half.
Speaker 1: You've met she. She's done my hair on some sets.
Speaker 1: One is five. Her the father her children woke up
Speaker 1: next to her. She was not moving. Children were upstairs sleeping.
Speaker 1: That's what happened to our grandpa.
Speaker 2: Oh and like that's the thing, you know, Like, well,
Speaker 2: my grandma died. The only piece we have is they
Speaker 2: lived a life.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Chae is our age breastfeeding age to one of
Speaker 1: her kids. Okay, crazy.
Speaker 2: A lot of you went to her because you found
Speaker 2: her from my page. She's an amazing girl. Real fan
Speaker 2: of the horror Hive for real. Watch every episode with
Speaker 2: our clients was do or Die whore Hive IRP. Now
Speaker 2: I post her baby daddy on her and her children
Speaker 2: and to go fund me saying hey, this man is
Speaker 2: left in the world with two small children.
Speaker 1: Whatever you can do to help them would be great.
Speaker 1: Lily Edwards, Oh I love it we calling these holes
Speaker 1: out today. Oh Lily, it was fuck me up so bad.
Speaker 2: I shed tears and my man I had to take
Speaker 2: my phone for an hour because I couldn't believe a
Speaker 2: black woman said this.
Speaker 1: I'm sure Alexis was black too, based on her photo. Barnes,
Speaker 1: can y'all not be doing that to us? Bitch?
Speaker 2: Okay, this is nasty, all right, but on a dead
Speaker 2: girl's photo? Okay, this is so sad, like really sad.
Speaker 2: But respectfully, how can the man student who stands next
Speaker 2: her and not be able to afford a funeral? He
Speaker 2: helped to make her mother twice? Great lesson on dating
Speaker 2: and co creating with people that can stand on their
Speaker 2: own two feet and provide for their children without you
Speaker 2: having to be present. This is just all very sad,
Speaker 2: especially for those two girls that don't have a mother.
Speaker 2: Hope the father can do a great job in providing
Speaker 2: and protecting.
Speaker 1: Oh bitch, oh bitch that she shows to fix her
Speaker 1: goddamn thumbs to type to somebody, Mandy.
Speaker 2: So the tears that were coming out were like you, Like,
Speaker 2: I just would never think a mom of two, a
Speaker 2: black man, a black woman with two black babies living
Speaker 2: in New York City a sudden death like that, you
Speaker 2: would come out your stupid fucking mouth. Oh like what
Speaker 2: I started to reply, I couldn't reply. I had a
Speaker 2: blacker because I started to get so like rubbed up,
Speaker 2: and a lot of friends donated. Leah McSweeney gave a
Speaker 2: lot of money, by the way, just seeing it, so
Speaker 2: many moms felt this shit. Average black family America makes
Speaker 2: fifty six thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: Bro, the average funeral is talk about the average funeral
Speaker 1: calls please ten thousand dollars And to me, I've heard
Speaker 1: of more. Yeah, and you thought it was really came
Speaker 1: out there to say a man that just lost the
Speaker 1: second income in South God, baby's Mandy, do you know
Speaker 1: how much babies costs in America? And you said a
Speaker 1: great lesson? Who the fuck is the lesson for?
Speaker 2: Systematically, Shaye and JD are a product of this fuck
Speaker 2: up country. We're in this fucked up medical system. We're
Speaker 2: in the same hospital that let this woman go. She
Speaker 2: put a case out on them two days before she died,
Speaker 2: that told her she was mentally ill for thinking she
Speaker 2: had something wrong with her head and ended.
Speaker 1: Up waking up dead. This same system that keeps us down.
Speaker 2: And you got the nerve to say, you stupid bitch,
Speaker 2: Lily Edwards, what a great lesson on? The whole co
Speaker 2: parent with Oh, let's just say, let's Shay have found
Speaker 2: a rich athlete that broke his fucking leg.
Speaker 1: Then what let Shae have met a man that was
Speaker 1: super rich and got addicted to drugs? Then what she
Speaker 1: has a very loving, strong, fundy bitch, Shake my dog.
Speaker 1: I'd be like, girl, come do my hair.
Speaker 2: I'm talking about strong baby father. I've never heard her,
Speaker 2: and I'm not just saying this because she's gone.
Speaker 1: Never heard her complain about the nigga always showed up
Speaker 1: even when they weren't living together, and they finally made
Speaker 1: themselves a home. And you really came out to say
Speaker 1: that about a black family, you stupid bitch, Like it
Speaker 1: just really was mind boggling to me because this is
Speaker 1: a product of a nigga gotta do everything. And you
Speaker 1: know what's crazier. Damn when I Shaye lasted my hair
Speaker 1: and just sound like projection, I ain't gonna hold oh.
Speaker 1: That was such a sick response to me.
Speaker 2: I was seeing so much I couldn't even talk, and
Speaker 2: then I wanted to post it and curse her out.
Speaker 2: Then I didn't want her baby daddy to see it
Speaker 2: at the time because I know he was fucking grieving,
Speaker 2: and I just like I didn't know who was gonna
Speaker 2: see what. So I'm talking to my man about it
Speaker 2: and he's like, yo, this she's got this.
Speaker 1: Fucking prostitute mysel Oh what the what the fuck?
Speaker 2: And Shade, by the way, had to take some time
Speaker 2: off for her health and guess who the fuck was
Speaker 2: holding his bitch down.
Speaker 1: Her baby daddy? What the fuck else can a man
Speaker 1: do but be a talking about I hope he could
Speaker 1: step up? So what so? What is he supposed to
Speaker 1: be a future? Super rich? And then the kids going
Speaker 1: to work hold on future not even paying child's I
Speaker 1: thought about, but here what I was thinking rich Nigga
Speaker 1: pays the bills. And then what this man is a
Speaker 1: great father?
Speaker 2: The last time she did my hair, he was in
Speaker 2: there showing her five year old shabby how to fucking
Speaker 2: do the alphabet, making sure, checking over her stuff, while
Speaker 2: simultaneously doing a photo shoot downstairs. Bro, these kids were
Speaker 2: so smart. She was telling me what kind of podcast
Speaker 2: she wanted to make. Her daughter was like, I'm going
Speaker 2: to be a podcast. So sweet, and I was just
Speaker 2: thinking to myself, we are so jaded of the outside
Speaker 2: view of what people have in their lives.
Speaker 1: It's so crazy, so crazy, well, not only that, what
Speaker 1: I would have Lily Edwards puts the ass hoop. I'd
Speaker 1: love to know what health insurance and life insurance you
Speaker 1: have set up for when your ass passes, what your
Speaker 1: family will have to pay for it. Like that's the
Speaker 1: thing that bothers me. Like talk, there's a lot of
Speaker 1: stones being thrown in glass houses, like unfortunately a lot
Speaker 1: of us, specifically within our community, have not been educated
Speaker 1: to what it means to have a life insurance policy
Speaker 1: or what happens if we are not here right, it's
Speaker 1: been so sad, like my friends are grieving. Uh, this
Speaker 1: guy that CTE, a guy that just took is life.
Speaker 1: We see everything that's happening or I don't even know
Speaker 1: if at this point the case has been solved with
Speaker 1: the nigga that might have killed the little fifteen year
Speaker 1: old girl, the little there's just the song I had
Speaker 1: in my phone from him was Romantic Home. Of course
Speaker 1: it was. That's his biggest record, I'm saying, And so
Speaker 1: when I think about like even it's it's funny because
Speaker 1: if you guys go on Patreon and y'all listen to
Speaker 1: my first day at Heato with my best friend. I
Speaker 1: thought she left with a nigga, and I was gonna
Speaker 1: find her body in the Jamaican ocean. Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: know if Jamaica has an ocean, but it's the ocean
Speaker 1: that's around here, Jamaica, Jamaica ocean. They got an ocean,
Speaker 1: but it's not the Jamaican ocean. It's there. It's one
Speaker 1: of the Atlantic. I'll see where you're going with this,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So what I'm saying is
Speaker 1: even in that moment, bitch, my best friend gonna get
Speaker 1: that lit funeral. But I was like, bitch, shit, So
Speaker 1: that conversation literally stem like my best friend beat cancer.
Speaker 1: I was gonna be mad as fuck if she died
Speaker 1: from a nigga. But but the fact of the matter
Speaker 1: was was the conversation about we think about our parents,
Speaker 1: We think about all these old people that should have
Speaker 1: their funeral set out. Bitch, you got the nerve to
Speaker 1: fix your fingers and say that do you haven't set
Speaker 1: up to where your people connected to you don't know
Speaker 1: and say, oh well, I can't like just just the
Speaker 1: financial burden of your funeral. This is a family.
Speaker 2: These are two people that decided to make a family,
Speaker 2: whether they got married or not. They they built a
Speaker 2: life together. They don't think about it.
Speaker 1: I gotta call my person. I know I got life
Speaker 1: the shows, but I don't know if I don't know
Speaker 1: the funeral portion of it. But I know that lin shit. However,
Speaker 1: I died, my mama and my sister get what they get.
Speaker 1: Do you know who I put the money to? Who? Well,
Speaker 1: I would change it now. I guess, like because I
Speaker 1: don't get married.
Speaker 2: Soon, but Enoch, because I'm like, oh, Enoch will know
Speaker 2: how to delegate the mondy. Yeah, I write notes about
Speaker 2: I put it to my mama because financially and only
Speaker 2: one of my sisters.
Speaker 1: Not both my sisters.
Speaker 2: And by the way, it's gonna be a fight my
Speaker 2: mom would be and my father be getting this money
Speaker 2: and my god children. But he know, is just so
Speaker 2: financially literate that I didn't want to give so much
Speaker 2: money to just anybody.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I wanted you sound a
Speaker 1: little like what people say about reparations, But I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing. Only because conversation a lot shout out
Speaker 1: to Ish. He came on, so he's had a hot
Speaker 1: take that we as financially illiterate community, as a whole
Speaker 1: because of system systemic oppressions. If we got reparations, we
Speaker 1: would know how to spend it. And so I've just
Speaker 1: talked about like that with him. So I was just
Speaker 1: hearing you say you would give it to your financially
Speaker 1: literally literate friend who also happens to be a white man.
Speaker 1: It's interesting because you are very problit to have a
Speaker 1: lot of black friends, but you're giving your money to
Speaker 1: a white man. Like that's but the conversation that's to
Speaker 1: call out.
Speaker 2: But I will say this, When my parents lost their home,
Speaker 2: Enoch was the person that would help me help pay
Speaker 2: for their rent.
Speaker 1: So basically my parents would get so security. At the
Speaker 1: middle of the month, I.
Speaker 2: Would have to pay my rent and theirs and do
Speaker 2: their bills. So he would teach me what to do
Speaker 2: with my money. And like I just had had so
Speaker 2: many conversations with him, like if I die, will you
Speaker 2: help me do x y Z. Like I said, now
Speaker 2: with change, of course, I got a mind in my life.
Speaker 2: But it's it's just sad because when you sit and
Speaker 2: think about it, and Shay was so political, that's crazy.
Speaker 1: She did you respond to her? Did your man take
Speaker 1: your phone? Like you guys said, fuck you, this is
Speaker 1: a I don't know what I was mad. I mean,
Speaker 1: you could see it. I want to sell you blocked her.
Speaker 1: Oh you blocked her. I don't know if I could
Speaker 1: see it from the block lib, but this is a
Speaker 1: screen shot. Okay, you said, I don't know. He was
Speaker 1: like this, now, this is too much. And then because
Speaker 1: that's something to where she probably would have continued and
Speaker 1: you just got to cut that energy, I think off.
Speaker 2: And then what he said to me was like, she
Speaker 2: just posted her gofund me and let it go. And
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, a lot of people love this girl,
Speaker 2: like I want to be able to engage a laugh
Speaker 2: about a memory. But I started looking at some of
Speaker 2: the ship she would send me, and it's just crazy
Speaker 2: someone had this common to her because she.
Speaker 1: Would post it about politics and be like, bitch, they
Speaker 1: trying to give us down and just knowing has happened
Speaker 1: to you, just being.
Speaker 2: A person's part of the system of just medical racism
Speaker 2: and someone black saying you would think she must love
Speaker 2: Charlie Kirk.
Speaker 1: Now she must love Charlie Funeral. I'm sure you're happiest
Speaker 1: covered huh, bitch, fuck asshole. Anyway, this is why do
Speaker 1: you know what they're gonna be? Like? This was a
Speaker 1: real Florida episode, Like I feel like, now we got
Speaker 1: grievances and greens. I feel like, oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: this episode shout out to Crystal and Fury. We have
Speaker 1: to call this the read. That's all we did all
Speaker 1: episode was read people for filter. This is the Braden Salon.
Speaker 1: The goddamn uh interest rates for homes and mortgages in
Speaker 1: the American drink has a problem about has a pop.
Speaker 1: And by the way, one of my friends said to
Speaker 1: me when I was bitching about the Brady Salon, and
Speaker 1: she was right.
Speaker 2: She's like, Bro, I can't imagine how depressing this is
Speaker 2: because your homegirl died and she would have been want
Speaker 2: to do that hair, and then you had to go
Speaker 2: get fucked up hair and grieve your friend.
Speaker 1: What the fuck? So if you do quiklys and ponytailing
Speaker 1: New York, kid me up. Hold on, I just want
Speaker 1: to actually add to that before we get out of here.
Speaker 1: It's the dilemma. I had a therapy over the summer.
Speaker 1: Actually it was standing as a woman for the movement
Speaker 1: of sexual liberation when when I felt like we had
Speaker 1: all of like the backsteps and lack of support for
Speaker 1: our book. One of the things that my my therapists
Speaker 1: suggest that I do, and I immediately, you know, pushed
Speaker 1: back on, was to create content our whole spaces and
Speaker 1: conversations about being a black woman and how we navigate
Speaker 1: the system and how we show up as our sexually
Speaker 1: liberated selves and demand that we get what we want
Speaker 1: in an era of ro V Wade and just everything
Speaker 1: that I had felt dumped on me. And in the
Speaker 1: same moment, I was like, bitch, but to be black
Speaker 1: women too, mm hmm. It looked and I found out
Speaker 1: that you know, essence was a little bit to do
Speaker 1: with uh, not essence best as it's best its good,
Speaker 1: but the brand that we worked with. But that was
Speaker 1: a black woman. In terms of every time I've had
Speaker 1: to fight and like prove myself, it's been to black
Speaker 1: women in corporate that had felt like it wasn't it.
Speaker 1: So it's it sucks that she's someone who was just like,
Speaker 1: we need this for black women, and it's black women
Speaker 1: that fucking I got something a set.
Speaker 2: I have had a black woman hit me up four
Speaker 2: brand deals, two hour call doing all this shit.
Speaker 1: Oh what you talked about on Patreon. Oh bitch, I
Speaker 1: can't get over that because I'm just thinking to myself.
Speaker 2: Call her daddy low jobs in four k bro. I
Speaker 2: just don't know what you thought my image was. I
Speaker 2: went through my ig for like thirty minutes that day
Speaker 2: and like, do I look crazy here? And then I
Speaker 2: look at another girl's IG and I'm just like, oh,
Speaker 2: these white girls that have sex podcasts and they do
Speaker 2: way wilder shit. But at the end of the day,
Speaker 2: we have an a on our chest and I don't
Speaker 2: give a fuck. Oh, I think this would be a
Speaker 2: great opportunity to say I will make sure the family
Speaker 2: creates it forget to go fundy, nice Amazon wish list,
Speaker 2: whatever stuff they need at home, some.
Speaker 1: Good toys for the kids.
Speaker 2: If you want to support her girls, We'll make sure
Speaker 2: to include that in here for sure, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 2: And also yeah, think before you press, and think before
Speaker 2: you press in I mean YouTube.
Speaker 1: Comments, ask you for a lot.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, and honestly even to read this week
Speaker 2: like or not this week, but a few months ago,
Speaker 2: you know, I it's just three to so iconic. But
Speaker 2: there were things that I heard that I was like, fuck,
Speaker 2: this is this is hard for pregnant one to hear
Speaker 2: like dying on the surgery table certain words, and I
Speaker 2: was like, I don't believe either of them are bad people.
Speaker 2: I've been listening to the read a long time and
Speaker 2: I think they mean so much to podcasting. But you
Speaker 2: just never know that, like the people that you're talking to.
Speaker 2: And I know you might look at Mandy and I
Speaker 2: that way, may read.
Speaker 1: Ain't talking to you. I'm talking for me. Oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I need you to know real quick. Hold on, Alexis
Speaker 1: Brenz Old, bitch, fuck Alexis Barnes. I am speaking for
Speaker 1: me and hopes to help you, but I'm not speaking
Speaker 1: for you to you at you, Mitch, I promise you
Speaker 1: I was speaking at Alexis barn supposed to ask so,
Speaker 1: but when I hop on this mic, I'm speaking for me.
Speaker 1: I share my experience. This has been one of the
Speaker 1: most liberating experiences that I've got to feel live. I
Speaker 1: am blessed that this has been a part of my existence.
Speaker 1: But bitch, I share my experience. I share what I'm
Speaker 1: dealing with and who I'm becoming. In four or MP three, however,
Speaker 1: you fucking listen.
Speaker 2: I'm also I mean, like when you're talking about someone
Speaker 2: in a negative way to be fair yourself.
Speaker 1: No, even that, I feel like that's a problem too.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we want people to do better for themselves and
Speaker 1: be better for themselves than they want for themselves, and
Speaker 1: we we we internalize that and it could be projection.
Speaker 1: It could be just our disappointment of someone else. So
Speaker 1: when we talk about like public figures or celebrities or
Speaker 1: people that we know, a lot of times our frustration
Speaker 1: might come out and sound harsh. Delivery is always a thing,
Speaker 1: y'all know. Delivery. I'd have made a bitch cry at
Speaker 1: work during fucking busy season Black Friday at coach, I'd
Speaker 1: shared the goddamn story. And sometimes it's more delivery than anything.
Speaker 1: But intention is, bitch. We were all rooting for you
Speaker 1: Tyra Banks voice. And I think sometimes we want more
Speaker 1: and we see more in people than sometime they see
Speaker 1: in themselves. I think that's.
Speaker 2: Only true if it came to dating that person not
Speaker 2: having children. And the reason I say that is because.
Speaker 1: We get look at it like damn mission other baby.
Speaker 2: A lot of people want more children, want to go
Speaker 2: famim me, Rihanna want to do that more than she
Speaker 2: want to give us an album, but we don't shade
Speaker 2: her because.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I've shaded my friends for keeping certain kids.
Speaker 1: But no, I'm saying I'm not gonna lie. We don't
Speaker 1: shave Rihanna. The felic doesn't shave Rihanna because she's married. Right,
Speaker 1: But again, let's go back to the group chat, bitch
Speaker 1: in real life. Okay, Well, we have opinions on celebrities.
Speaker 1: We don't know them. We sometimes speak about them in
Speaker 1: a parasocial way. I absolutely and y'all know because I
Speaker 1: told his ass. I have sent flowers to a friend
Speaker 1: to champion and an abortion if I didn't feel like
Speaker 1: a baby would make sense in a certain relationship. I've
Speaker 1: had other friends where I was like, it's just too late.
Speaker 1: I would have told you not to have it. Like
Speaker 1: I've had those.
Speaker 2: Conversations with friends brout back, man, I have too, but
Speaker 2: some people want to have our children.
Speaker 1: And you know what that butt is where we can't
Speaker 1: have a butt when we want the First Amendment, bitch,
Speaker 1: freedom of speech.
Speaker 2: I'll be here for everyone sharing their because she's the
Speaker 2: only really like hilarious thing that from that rent where
Speaker 2: Crystal that I love that she said is you know,
Speaker 2: not to use your butt.
Speaker 1: That shit was funny.
Speaker 2: But speaking of but I don't think we can place
Speaker 2: our thoughts on more children being in the world as
Speaker 2: like death sentenced to certain women, because no, I agree,
Speaker 2: because that is kind of the thing of like choice, right,
Speaker 2: you choosing not to have kids, me choosing to have kids.
Speaker 1: Okay, so here's the thing. Someone's going to attack you.
Speaker 1: But be like Mandy doesn't get it, the thing you
Speaker 1: said earlier. She doesn't get it. She doesn't want kids.
Speaker 1: And in me, oh, we saying that because she wants kids. Well,
Speaker 1: and there could be but also we have to think
Speaker 1: about it too, the things that we've said on the
Speaker 1: sort of comedy, Like, I think sometimes, especially when we
Speaker 1: have a mic in front of us and we want
Speaker 1: things to be entertaining, bro, sometimes we drag people a
Speaker 1: little more than we want to off the face of
Speaker 1: entertainment and comedy, and we don't consider that person at
Speaker 1: the time. We consider everyone who's listening, who we might
Speaker 1: want to get a chuckle house by. Now, maybe Crystal
Speaker 1: has a little bit of empathy toward some of the
Speaker 1: things that we don't know. But when I was first
Speaker 1: listening to it, I was like, and then I was like,
Speaker 1: is you know what's crazy there? Read for Charlie Kirk
Speaker 1: was way worse? Why wouldn't it be? But that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But in our community, we're not gonna consider
Speaker 1: it at all. That's not what you said about. Well,
Speaker 1: we're talking about a woman. I get that, well, black
Speaker 1: woman talking about another woman of color and pregnancy and
Speaker 1: as a woman. But the things that they said about
Speaker 1: Charlie Kirk was ten to fifty eleven times worse.
Speaker 2: But the thing is in righteousness of women being able
Speaker 2: to do what they want to do. Condemning having another
Speaker 2: baby is the circular thing of it. Because I cannot
Speaker 2: be someone that'll say you're fucked up again? I think
Speaker 2: I said recently, I was reading it one of Kennedy
Speaker 2: Ryan's books. Someone what book was?
Speaker 1: It Can't Get Another A woman.
Speaker 2: Doesn't want to have kids in the book, and she's like,
Speaker 2: so interesting how everybody says to me, why not when
Speaker 2: my homegirls want to have kids?
Speaker 1: No one says, how come? It's always why not? Why not?
Speaker 1: Why not? Right? And I'm sure you experienced this.
Speaker 2: I feel like I cannot fight for a woman that
Speaker 2: doesn't want to have kids and fight for the one
Speaker 2: that wants to with that rhetoric.
Speaker 1: We can't have that coming from other women. It just
Speaker 1: sucks now. But I'm also let's definitely talk shout offs.
Speaker 1: But I'm a hippograde too. I feel like, not for Cardi,
Speaker 1: but I think certain you shouldn't have babies if you broke,
Speaker 1: like I have certain things to where I just deemed
Speaker 1: to be completely irresponsible as an adult with decisions that
Speaker 1: you can make enough time where I actually don't know
Speaker 1: that's a bad one. Well, but so that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So if we can police a broke bitch having a baby,
Speaker 1: we can talk about a multi millionaire having a baby
Speaker 1: by a fuck nigga boy. She's still married and still
Speaker 1: be questioning of the decision to do so at the
Speaker 1: at now a new pinnacle of her career. I didn't
Speaker 1: feel like it was to me. Here's the thing. She's
Speaker 1: talked so down on strippers and all the women that
Speaker 1: offset cheated on her with, right to where she placed
Speaker 1: herself on a pedestal to be a better woman than
Speaker 1: those that her husband or ex husband cheated on her with.
Speaker 1: So to me to show up as a project chick,
Speaker 1: give me a hood, rent one that don't give up
Speaker 1: to still show up as a bit from starlets. Ten
Speaker 1: years into a career where you have multimillions, yes, you
Speaker 1: have a community, you have this. To me, she's operating
Speaker 1: as someone from the projects, and we all thought she
Speaker 1: was no longer that girl. So Carni is my girl.
Speaker 1: Let's be very clear. She's a libra bitch. She got
Speaker 1: the money, she has the I'm here for her house baby.
Speaker 1: They wanted to the date. Maybe step Fine is worse
Speaker 1: than the baby. The baby is not oh no, no, no,
Speaker 1: it's who she had the baby with. But she did
Speaker 1: say that on and I forgot what podcasts because she
Speaker 1: did a whole lot dear her press friend, she did say, y'all, y'all,
Speaker 1: people thought that I should have left offset got with
Speaker 1: a billionaire, a millionaire, a nigga from Dubai. Right, that's
Speaker 1: not me. And so that's what I'm saying is a
Speaker 1: lot of times, because of how someone excels in front
Speaker 1: of us, whether it be in business, in monetary like means,
Speaker 1: or in education, we feel like they should they should,
Speaker 1: they should act differently than what their actions showed, when
Speaker 1: in reality, she's still the bitch from the Bronx that
Speaker 1: worked to start with.
Speaker 2: People believe they shouldn't have a line. I'm one of
Speaker 2: them that does, at least when it comes to women. Okay,
Speaker 2: and my line is make fun of that, nigga. You
Speaker 2: ain't about to be telling me how you know it's
Speaker 2: crazy for me?
Speaker 1: How good luck to me?
Speaker 2: Not dying on a table like like that sounds crazy,
Speaker 2: But that was great, I will say, crazy thing to
Speaker 2: say to somebody.
Speaker 1: So fine is an attractive man all on? And then
Speaker 1: that song that she got on her album Laid Me
Speaker 1: on my Back or whatever it is, which it made
Speaker 1: me like it made me. I said that did gotta
Speaker 1: be good because that song was so good. I said, oh,
Speaker 1: that did gotta be fire. That dick and he got
Speaker 1: don't know anybody, which I know. I used to talk
Speaker 1: to him when I was back. Well he was on
Speaker 1: the Vikings, but I thought he was short and you
Speaker 1: know on like football players. We had a close stent
Speaker 1: of talking. Never got flud out, never fucked him. I
Speaker 1: know multiple bitches who have fucked him.
Speaker 2: The girl that I know that fucked him said, well,
Speaker 2: fucked him and said that she heard it was fired
Speaker 2: from the current that you was fucking said, you gotta come.
Speaker 1: Know the girl that I know fucked him, met him
Speaker 1: at an event. I guess he was so like interested
Speaker 1: in her, he like booked a flight and got the
Speaker 1: seat right next to her just to talk on her.
Speaker 1: Talk to her on the flight like he moved like that.
Speaker 1: He's he's a demon and his brother the demon. They
Speaker 1: both demon did. She also agreed the Diger spire yees.
Speaker 1: She also almost had a baby by but apparently all
Speaker 1: the bitches are having baby, so baby waivers swim bitch. Nonetheless,
Speaker 1: this was a chaotic, toxic ass episode. Welcome if you
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