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Speaker 2: This is gonna be my read. Okay, so this it's

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Speaker 2: gonna get dark. But it also kind of has to

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Speaker 2: do with this prostituting. Niggas got to take.

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Speaker 1: Care of me.

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Speaker 2: Bring okay, okay, Welcome to Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 1: I don't think you should say decision decisions. It sounded

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Speaker 2: You definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.

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Speaker 2: You want to say together, Decisions Decisions.

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Desisiones Disisions. I'm

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Speaker 1: your girl, Mandy baka that bitch. Hey, everybody, welcome back

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Speaker 1: to another episode. My name is Weezy, and we're in

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Speaker 1: Atlanta today.

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Speaker 2: I know that if you're a YouTube watcher, sometimes things

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Speaker 2: We record everywhere, y'all. So right now we're in Atlanta.

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Speaker 1: That's right where I live now and I love it,

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Speaker 1: been great. It's been great. I'm looking forward to the holidays.

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Speaker 1: I haven't decided where I want to go. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't like any other really city. I don't feel

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Speaker 1: That's what I'd like I have. No, I feel like

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Speaker 1: three to five years is where I'll go. Like my

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Speaker 1: I got it. I've been spending a lot of time

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Speaker 1: So I'm just really happy, like so happy to where

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Speaker 2: So it's basically based on where you're born, your time,

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Speaker 2: This one's crazy and when he sent it to me,

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Speaker 2: he's like, Nigga, Yours is actually wild. Summary of potential

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Speaker 1: Bitch.

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Speaker 2: It says strong sense of belonging, energizing home base, keeping

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Speaker 1: Bitch, I thought that should I said this might.

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Speaker 2: Be real, brokay the fact that like I just always

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Speaker 2: that listen to Horrible. He's real, he's a real estate investor,

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Speaker 2: So this, this is how crazy New York real estate is.

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Speaker 2: This is also probably my fault for not knowing what

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Speaker 2: Jim Doorman. Whatever, It's not at budget, but it's like

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Speaker 1: By the way, hit up Matt the mortgage guy.

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Speaker 2: I feel like they're all in that ethos. But he

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Speaker 2: charges or eleven hundred super low monthlyes. That's great for

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Speaker 2: a condo in New York City has your common charges

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Speaker 2: and your taxes. I would have been paying twenty three

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Speaker 2: I was really sitting there like, nigga, I don't want

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Speaker 2: I don't want hold ownership that bad. I'm tired of

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Speaker 1: I'm giving up on that I'm not gonna lie so

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Speaker 1: because I'm getting Teddy Is, my thirty six inch watch

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Speaker 1: everybody got to combine to get me an adopt payment

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Speaker 2: So I'm trying to I'm trying to get in the comments.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to think about what people say. Well, they

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Speaker 2: But that's where I'm like, I think as millennials, bitch.

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Speaker 2: When I look and see what them motherfucking fifty year

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Speaker 1: And I'm not seeing specifically in Atlanta anything go up, Bitch.

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Speaker 1: I get notifications every day, property dropped by twenty five k,

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Speaker 1: day Zillo is just alert in media. Do you want

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Speaker 1: to know? Prices drop? And when I wanted was my apartment?

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Speaker 2: And now I realize why my apartment that I put

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Speaker 2: the offer in on the escrow is when you fully

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Speaker 2: go through the right, So you put your offer, your

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Speaker 2: it goes into escrow. So I didn't get to that

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Speaker 1: I just want to bullshit.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to put that offer in so under a

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Speaker 2: million for two bedroom in New York City below I'd

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Speaker 2: say fifty fourth Street, Upper east.

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Speaker 1: Side to see to hold you shit sounds crazy, It

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Speaker 1: sounds crazy. No, no, no, but no, now that I have

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Speaker 1: left New York, bitch, New York is fucking dumb. No,

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Speaker 1: New York's not dumb. If you want to suck dick

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Speaker 1: and an alley, have your late nights out like New

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Speaker 1: York gives you exactly what you would want New York

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Speaker 1: to give you. Accept quality of life. Now what I realized.

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Speaker 1: How you can suck. You could suck. You could jack

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Speaker 1: somebody off in a uber. I'll show you to what

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Speaker 1: you will go to a sex club. You can end

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Speaker 1: up in a dungeon. You could literally. I shared it

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Speaker 1: on one of I don't know if it was this

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Speaker 1: episode or need to know bitch. Last time I was

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Speaker 1: had shots with Mary J. Blige. New York offers amazing experiences,

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Speaker 1: but in terms of the quality of life, bitch, it

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Speaker 1: is the fucking show. This apartment, right, this was the one. Bitch.

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Speaker 2: Guess how much the offer got accepted for eight thirty.

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Speaker 2: Do you see how high that price is? So that

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Speaker 1: But yet, the way I've just been living right now

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Speaker 2: So we're online, right and we get to see everybody

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Speaker 2: I decided. Now, many of you know one of my hairstylists, Didge,

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Speaker 1: You bitches lied. You bitches lied. You bitches lied when

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Speaker 2: I have had this sin for six days. I had

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Speaker 1: Let me show you a photo of this bathroom. I

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Speaker 1: this looks way cleaner the should I've been into Where

429
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 1: to God looks way cleaner than should I've been in.

430
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 1: I lived in the Bronx, though, I'm sorry, bitch, the

431
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:26,360
Speaker 1: floor is filled with piss. Okay, well, or maybe it's

432
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 1: water dripping from the braids after they got their their

433
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,920
Speaker 1: brain much damn water, bitch, But maybe it's But maybe

434
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,720
Speaker 1: it's not fitness, bro. I'm not gonna lie whatever for

435
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,360
Speaker 1: the African shops that I used to go into over

436
00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:42,400
Speaker 1: on Hunter Hunter. Goddamn, that's how long I've been out

437
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:46,800
Speaker 1: the Bronx, bitch. But there was there was something Hunts Point, bitch,

438
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 1: I'm saying Hunter Hunts Point. And then once twenty fifth

439
00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,679
Speaker 1: I used to go to two shops in one on

440
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: Elder Avenue. Elder Avenue used to do the straight backs.

441
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:59,400
Speaker 1: When I tell you it was that that's a luxury bathroom, well,

442
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:01,199
Speaker 1: and this is nice. It was half the size of

443
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,320
Speaker 1: that and you just go in and you're pissing next

444
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: to a mop. You're pissing next to I don't care

445
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 1: about that, but I don't say you prayer about the

446
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:11,240
Speaker 1: back ad next to you. But people's hair gets wet.

447
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: I don't think that was it. I think that this

448
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,639
Speaker 1: was just flooding. It was filth.

449
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 2: It was nasty, so boom, I go in there. Someone

450
00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 2: didn't want to put that on a video, y'all. We gotta,

451
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 2: we're gonna put it. We're gonna put that on the

452
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 2: video because it wasn't that bad.

453
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: That was want y'all to see it. What was in

454
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: that bad? To me?

455
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:26,520
Speaker 2: I posted on I g live and like, you know

456
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:29,640
Speaker 2: how you could talk with the live them holes was gagging, okay, okay,

457
00:22:29,840 --> 00:22:33,200
Speaker 2: walk in boo. I'm like, hey, I show them the photo, Mandy.

458
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 2: I said, this is what I'm looking for, do you know?

459
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:37,400
Speaker 2: And you can't take bo boho braids.

460
00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:38,400
Speaker 1: I don't do boho braids.

461
00:22:38,400 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, this is the gypsy board of Ward, whatever

462
00:22:39,960 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 2: these bitches called them. I'm like, can you start it

463
00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 2: from here. Yes, yes, yeah, tit, tit, tit. I'm like, okay,

464
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 2: how much she said? Forty dollars. I already knew that

465
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 2: price was too low. I said, give me somebody more experienced,

466
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: dude for seventy five. That actually made her say, okay,

467
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:56,560
Speaker 2: I'll do it. So the shop owner started to want

468
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:57,880
Speaker 2: to do my hair, and I was like, thank god,

469
00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 2: because you know you gotta let him. Like, bitch, I'm serious, girl,

470
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 2: I show them what I wanted, and what I wanted

471
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:06,679
Speaker 2: was not what I got. They start taking out my

472
00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 2: hair with a comb that was number one filthy. I said, no,

473
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: that's not gonna work. I need you to put it

474
00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 2: in that barber side whatever, huffing and puffing at me

475
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 2: now like I'm.

476
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 1: Fucking saying something crazy.

477
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:21,359
Speaker 2: Then she start trying to comb my hair out with

478
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,880
Speaker 2: the fucking super tight rattail comb.

479
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: Don't comb my hair out with that, You're gonna pull

480
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: my hair.

481
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,120
Speaker 2: Out, And you know, you feel like you can't say

482
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:28,959
Speaker 2: nothing to the aunties.

483
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 1: No, I don't be disrespectful.

484
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:34,440
Speaker 2: So I'm like, you know what, let me just let

485
00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 2: this happen. So I start taking my hair out. Then

486
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,400
Speaker 2: her baby come over I don't give a fuck.

487
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 1: Sit on my lap.

488
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 2: If that's gonna make your mom un comfortable, We're gonna

489
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 2: get through this. So I said, you know what, I'm

490
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 2: a type of person. I'm sure you are too.

491
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:46,520
Speaker 1: You're getting your hair done or something like that, make up,

492
00:23:46,560 --> 00:23:48,199
Speaker 1: someone comes to your home. I'm ordering you smooth. I'm

493
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 1: whenever i'm ordering something. Yeah, you nice to me. Oh

494
00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: you don't do that, Okay, I don't.

495
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:54,480
Speaker 2: If I'm getting a service and i'm gonna order something,

496
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna order you something. So I said, you want

497
00:23:56,600 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: to s yeah, tune the sandwich cool, fir'st all. The

498
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 2: sandwich gets it. The lady has to bite of the

499
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 2: sandwich and goes, oh, I don't eat Maennace, bitch, what

500
00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 2: the fuck is the tuna sandwich?

501
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:11,200
Speaker 1: Then? What is that tuna? Where you at? So I'll

502
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: say nothing.

503
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: Someone come over to me and I was like, this

504
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:18,920
Speaker 2: bitch is like, do you do a TV show? I said, no,

505
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 2: I seen you before on the YouTube show.

506
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 1: She famous show. I hate I hate that. I don't

507
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 1: give I hate that. So then they start seeing my

508
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: hair as I'm asking for it. She goes, this is good.

509
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: Now that's the number one problems, bitch. Now you compliment

510
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,399
Speaker 1: the nother braid of bitch. You do good, Mandy.

511
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 2: These braids that this bitch gave me were so terrible.

512
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: I started his tear up.

513
00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:50,960
Speaker 1: I started his tear up. She said everything okay. I said, no,

514
00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 1: this isn't what I asked. I had no choice. I

515
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: had to go to this fucking event. She's like, it's okay,

516
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 1: it's okay, I'm gonna fix it. Now.

517
00:24:59,000 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: We got three ladies in my one lady pulled a

518
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,479
Speaker 2: comb out of her own head to start fixing what

519
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 2: I had going on.

520
00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: And I was really just like, what am I gonna do?

521
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: Do I take the whole thing out?

522
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:10,480
Speaker 2: I don't have time to go to this event and

523
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,199
Speaker 2: take the whole thing out. She's like, don't worry, I'll

524
00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 2: give you a discount. Now it's only seventy dollars.

525
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: Bro. We have got to stop going for the cheap shit.

526
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 1: I ain't saying I was going for the cheap shit.

527
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm just saying my one breaker pass and the other

528
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 1: one's on vacation. What am I to do? I almost

529
00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 1: cut my hair off and did blonde like Mandy.

530
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 2: When you see the PDF and it says leave your

531
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: kids at home, make sure your hair is blow dry,

532
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 2: make sure.

533
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 1: It's calmed out. Don't bring any other people to the appointment.

534
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,159
Speaker 1: Just fucking listen. I am never.

535
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:43,479
Speaker 2: Again walking into a shop where I gotta sit my

536
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,639
Speaker 2: feet up on the goddamn chair and wait for the roaches.

537
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 2: If I have to pick up my bag and make

538
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 2: sure bugs don't get in it, I'm not doing this shit.

539
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 1: No more now. Bugs is a hard that's my heart

540
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 1: limit job. Buck the back. I can't do no bug.

541
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:58,359
Speaker 1: They ain't there like that. I'm not gonna sit there

542
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,359
Speaker 1: and deal with bugs invisible bugs. The bugs can be

543
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: in the wall. I don't want to see the bug.

544
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,479
Speaker 2: But this culture of this, these type of breaking shops

545
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: just being like little shops da da da, da da whatever.

546
00:26:08,160 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 2: People that semi know how to do braids, they really

547
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 2: only know how to do one type of braid, and

548
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,280
Speaker 2: it's at the night and all the way down.

549
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,680
Speaker 1: They can't do none of this other shit.

550
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,440
Speaker 2: They sitting here trying to figure it out because every

551
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 2: bitch bitch on Instagram does it. But at the end

552
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,879
Speaker 2: of the day, these braiders are charging one thousand dollars

553
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:22,640
Speaker 2: because they do a good fucking job.

554
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: I'm never again, bitch, I'm wearing natural heir. I'm so glad.

555
00:26:26,440 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: I'm a ball aheaded bitch. I know you are. Because

556
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: one thousand dollars for some braids, bitch, I wish a

557
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: bitch would these. Seventy is what I used to pay

558
00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 1: before I chopped it off. And that's it. Were you doing? No,

559
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 1: you were doing like the knot list one to seventy

560
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: in the Bronx Hunts Point and it was fine. The braids.

561
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: When I tell you, the break prices can suck my dick,

562
00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: like how break prices went up and cushie prices went down.

563
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: I just don't understand what's happening with our economy. It's

564
00:26:54,920 --> 00:27:00,000
Speaker 1: not making sens, bitch, it's not making human hairs being high.

565
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:04,280
Speaker 1: The skills set is changing. And then Nigga is she

566
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 1: wanted to be mad at me when he was like,

567
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 1: well what she brings the table, bitch as a woman

568
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 1: to come out looking like anything, it's fucking expensive. You're

569
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 1: talking about what it was. We talked about the lady

570
00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 1: from the tennis player who said I charge one thousand

571
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: dollars just to take me out on a date. She's

572
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 1: some tennis player who was in the World Cup, and

573
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 1: is she a prostitute? No, I said, bitches's operating like prostitute.

574
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: So that was my sentiment. So his thing was, well,

575
00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: if a man is supposed to pay for the date,

576
00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:38,160
Speaker 1: what does a woman? What is her financial investment? I hate? Well,

577
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 1: the conversation was, nigga, y'all want us to look a

578
00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: certain way? Did she is expective? Like, bitch? Just why

579
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 1: I stop getting the lashes? Because the last is the

580
00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 1: way I sleep is rough? Apparently, so one I be

581
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: gone before the next. I can't do it. And she's joking.

582
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 1: She really charges a thousand, No, she charges You didn't

583
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 1: see the girl, the tennis match girl who she said,

584
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: charge one thousand dollars to be taken on a date,

585
00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: not to fuck. If you want to take me on

586
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,280
Speaker 1: a date, it's going to cost you a thousand dollars,

587
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: which so you don't you cannot be shady as if

588
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: we wasn't all what's your price? What's your price? Was?

589
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,439
Speaker 1: It's not because I was acting like a sex worker.

590
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: I was, but that's what So that was my sentiment.

591
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: I would hope that women would just admit to being prostitute.

592
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: This is the pro because that's what they are. If

593
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 1: you are charging and they get to take you on

594
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: a date, if on the first date you're bringing up

595
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,160
Speaker 1: how you need help with bills, if you're bringing up

596
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: that your son need a babysitter. In order for this

597
00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: nigga to take you on a date, whether you fuck

598
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: or not, I need you to know you are at prostus.

599
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:43,720
Speaker 1: You know why I hate this time?

600
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 2: Why something I was also saying, right, I'm talking about homegirls.

601
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 2: I think it was Josie. It was Josie in her

602
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 2: forty first dage. She flies in from London. We're just

603
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 2: like talking about how the world works. So Josie Les

604
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 2: get her corporate job to start a new company where

605
00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 2: she's working with black female founders only only, and her

606
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 2: husband's holding it down while she's exploring her new business

607
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,280
Speaker 2: and her entrepreneurial side, and she's like, yo, I don't

608
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: think I would have been able to do this single,

609
00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: Like I have a kid.

610
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: I was believe it because she got a kid. She

611
00:29:13,120 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: could have done it single without a kid, she couldn't

612
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: have probably done it as a single mother. Yeah, I

613
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 1: mean maybe that is not different. Maybe not doing something

614
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: single and doing something as a single mother. There's there's

615
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: drastic parallels between the two, and there is a difference

616
00:29:28,240 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: between entrepreneurship as a woman who's just single and navigating

617
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: life and maybe dating and having to run a business

618
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: and be the primary caretaker of a child.

619
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 2: I mean, I can't speak for what it would look like,

620
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,959
Speaker 2: but either way, like, it's still hard to support yourself

621
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,960
Speaker 2: while trying a new venture, right and just trying it

622
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: out there and being able and growing. I just hired

623
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: her too for Trap. So one of the things we

624
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 2: were talking about. I was like, you know, bitch has

625
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 2: got the world so fucked up that like, when I

626
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 2: get this home, if I buy it, whatever, there's gonna

627
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 2: be a woman somewhere saying, oh, teamwork, they split the

628
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 2: down payment.

629
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: That's crazy. He ain't taking care of you. Oh I

630
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: already know. That's how fucking weird. I believe the world

631
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 1: is now the world. Yeah, but because you could hear it, it's.

632
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:22,959
Speaker 2: Like that echo chamber of girls thinking, but it's an

633
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 2: echo chamber of again a reality show, because the reality

634
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:31,040
Speaker 2: is that you bitches are fucking niggas that aren't helping

635
00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: you with bills, that y'all are fucking your baby daddy

636
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 2: who's not paying child support.

637
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: That y'all are with men and still navigating life. However,

638
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,680
Speaker 1: it is like, I know so many girls who have

639
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: dated and who have partners who still feel the need

640
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 1: to go out and deal with other niggas because other

641
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: niggas do more for them than the guy that they chose.

642
00:30:47,880 --> 00:30:52,200
Speaker 1: This is the thing that's crazier, right, he's not on

643
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 1: top of that.

644
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,040
Speaker 2: Yes, fine, And when Josie and I were talking about it,

645
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, bitch, I know I agree with you. Someone's

646
00:30:58,200 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: gonna say, oh, she got this, she got that. She's

647
00:30:59,800 --> 00:31:01,360
Speaker 2: still those splitting bills with a nigga.

648
00:31:01,640 --> 00:31:03,360
Speaker 1: Now, I'll mind you. I'm not splitting bills. My man

649
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: is taking care of some my bils didn't even live together.

650
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: That part is kind of nice. But buying the home

651
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,800
Speaker 1: is fucking huge purchase. Bro. Yeah, we're talking.

652
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 2: Six figure down payment. Like, of course we're gonna share

653
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 2: that now. Granted, is there.

654
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: A world where I would be dating a billionaire and

655
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: not even doing this podcast for you, bitch is sure,

656
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, dating someone normal,

657
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,640
Speaker 1: I believe that I am normal. I'm definitely making more

658
00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 1: than most of my peers, but at the same time, like,

659
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: I'm going to be living out a normal fucking life,

660
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 1: So what the fuck am I supposed to do?

661
00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 2: Just be I don't know, like seeking this thing that

662
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 2: I see on Instagram, And I think it's very silly

663
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 2: to think that two people that are doing well in

664
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 2: life can't share that teamwork is bad. I'm so excited

665
00:31:46,400 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: to have a partner that can put some money up

666
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 2: with me on a crib like this, what yeah like

667
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,120
Speaker 2: to be able to have both of our incomes. If

668
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 2: it was just me, I would not be looking at

669
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 2: shit this expensive. But I know at the end of

670
00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 2: the day that the judgment that we feel from others

671
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 2: just because of what they leave relationshipship look like it

672
00:32:02,040 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 2: sucks like it sucks because you can really have someone

673
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 2: keep you from your own happiness. And it goes back

674
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: to just like really really like the attitude of to me,

675
00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 2: what is prostitution charging one thousand dollars for a date

676
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 2: when at the end of the day, most of you

677
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 2: want to find love, most of you want partnership or

678
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 2: even the benefits of a rich nigga, And now you're.

679
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 1: Gonna charge and show up to that motherfucker anyway. Damn

680
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 1: I was about to I liked I liked that. Uh

681
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 1: that that vent so bad I cut someone out and

682
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 1: I want to lean into it real quick. Okay, because

683
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: we got fucking decision decisions. I'm gonna talk to you

684
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: little pussl assholds who're over on this in the decisions.

685
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 1: So this is a comment front on our YouTube. Oh boy,

686
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: we're about to cut down. Her name is Alexis Barnes,

687
00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,960
Speaker 1: fifty four, fifty four, so maybe that helps with it

688
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: not being heard your name. And I didn't like this

689
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:09,320
Speaker 1: because if you know me, you fucking know I believe

690
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 1: in accountability for both men and women, right. I believe

691
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: in women being delusional a lot of times, and I

692
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:19,040
Speaker 1: believe that men sometimes ain't shit. But I'm not a

693
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 1: man hater. I also am in the best place of

694
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 1: my life where I'm over communicating and demanding and getting

695
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 1: exactly what the fuck I want out of life, out

696
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:32,719
Speaker 1: of partnership, out of friendship period, out of the bedroom too.

697
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: So let me read this motherfucking comment that I had

698
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: an issue with because it's given projection. Oh, Alexis, why'd

699
00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: you do that? Now, Alexis? Oh I got one? Now? Oh,

700
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna do it. Okay, this is this is hold on,

701
00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 1: this is the decisions decisions bitch, you're in rap up

702
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: you Pus the assholes. That what I had to say

703
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:53,600
Speaker 1: about the goddamn rebrand. We two motherfucker knights wed ain't

704
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 1: too motherfucker's sludy enough. Well anyway, Puss the asshole. We

705
00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: coming for you bitches today. AnyWho, this is the common

706
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 1: By the way, Duane throws some fucking sounds behind this violin,

707
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,719
Speaker 1: I don't know what the fuck to throw, but soundscape

708
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: this shit shit Mandy toxic. I ain't gonna lie as

709
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 1: a grown woman, I know what I want, slash expect,

710
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: and the people I deal with want the same thing.

711
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 1: It can become dangerous and messy if y'all are not

712
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 1: on the same pages. She basically said, if she's getting

713
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,959
Speaker 1: what she needs from someone, she wouldn't cut them off.

714
00:34:33,440 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 1: If they want something else, that's messy. If she had

715
00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: a dude who loved her in a room full of

716
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: dudes she having sex with, who's to say it wouldn't

717
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 1: get dangerous. That's crazy to me. I don't know. It

718
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 1: just doesn't make any sense to me. I'm not dealing

719
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 1: with anyone who wants more or less than what I want.

720
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:57,880
Speaker 1: We have to be on the same page. Now, pussays,

721
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,960
Speaker 1: oh wait, she said, if you're getting what you want,

722
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:05,240
Speaker 1: you wouldn't. Well, I'm crazy, I'm dangerous. I'm toxic because

723
00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,359
Speaker 1: I'm getting what I want from a person even if

724
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,440
Speaker 1: they're not getting essentially what they want from me. And

725
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 1: maybe she's talking about is this scientiffe. Maybe she's talking

726
00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: about my ex. There's a lot of niggas recently that

727
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: let's talk about what it is. I'm gonna be very,

728
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: very adamant in the things I'm not willing to do

729
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: and the things that I don't want. And if you

730
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 1: choose to stick around, I'm not gonna dead you, nigga.

731
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: We have it fun, we're enjoying each other, we're enjoying partnership.

732
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: So my response was, and I'm gonna further iterate on

733
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: it because I want you bitches to stop playing in

734
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 1: my motherfucking face. I'm not toxic, I'm not crazy, and

735
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 1: what I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the

736
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 1: woman you wish you was pus to ask. So I'm

737
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:48,759
Speaker 1: the woman who knows how to talk to a man

738
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: and tell him exactly how I want, and if he

739
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,480
Speaker 1: doesn't show up, how I need him to show up.

740
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: I have no shame in walking away. Okay, so this

741
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,759
Speaker 1: was my response to her. I am vocal about the

742
00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 1: things I want. I want to make that very clear.

743
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: How powerful it is. You see voice right here, tat

744
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: it on me for a long time in all of

745
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,919
Speaker 1: my twenties. If y'all read the book No Holds bard,

746
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: I talked about taking crumbs. I talked about being in

747
00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: a place where you know, I got whatever a man

748
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 1: would give me because that was enough. I was in

749
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: a place where I was fine being the side chick

750
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,280
Speaker 1: because I didn't think I had the voice or wherewithal

751
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,440
Speaker 1: or anything to bring to the quote unquote table to

752
00:36:29,480 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: make a nigga show up for me. That made me

753
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,560
Speaker 1: feel validated, bitch, I do now, So let's be very clear.

754
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 1: I am vocal about the things I want out the

755
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: gate with a man. He will know what other partners

756
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 1: I have. He will know exactly how I expect him

757
00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:42,440
Speaker 1: to show up. And if you cannot show up that way, boom,

758
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:46,479
Speaker 1: bitch bye. I said, it's their job to walk away

759
00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:50,280
Speaker 1: if they're not getting what they want from me. Again,

760
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,480
Speaker 1: that's communicated. Whatever a nigga wants from me and how

761
00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 1: we adhere to each other. Baby, he getting because maybe

762
00:36:56,880 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 1: what I can do is make a nigga feel real

763
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 1: good in the bed, out the bed, a long distance whatever.

764
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 1: He gonna get what he need from me. So we're reciprocating, Bitch,

765
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm not wasting nobody's time. Secondly, I said, it's not dangerous,

766
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: it's life. You can literally be married and not be

767
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: on the same page with your husband. Does that mean

768
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: you're gonna follow a divorce when y'all get off the

769
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,800
Speaker 1: same page? You can literally have friends that mean the

770
00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: world to you, that matter to you, and y'all end

771
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 1: up not on the same page. Does that mean you

772
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: in those friendships? Know, as human beings, a lot of

773
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,680
Speaker 1: times and a lot of different variants, we are on

774
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: different pages, coexisting at the same time, trying to make

775
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: it work. To me, you leave a man, or you

776
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: leave a partner, I'll put it as a partner because

777
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,840
Speaker 1: we have everybody from the alphabet community listening. It doesn't

778
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: matter what your partner like, where your partner is at

779
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: the very moment of where y'all might be at a crossroads.

780
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: A lot of people end up on different pages at

781
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: different times. Now, to me, I live with wanting to

782
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 1: enjoy the human experience, the human experience of partnership, a building,

783
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 1: memories of having fun, of orgasming. Sorry, Alexis Barns if

784
00:38:03,920 --> 00:38:07,360
Speaker 1: you are not doing any of those things, But what

785
00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:09,879
Speaker 1: I want to be very clear and why I love

786
00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:12,239
Speaker 1: this platform so much, and where a shout out to

787
00:38:12,320 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 1: Barry if y'all go on Patreon, there's a story, he says,

788
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: what did you get from this goddamn podcast? It was

789
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,399
Speaker 1: my voice and the power to be able to as

790
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 1: a woman share exactly what I want in the bedroom

791
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 1: and out the bedroom, how I want to show up

792
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:29,240
Speaker 1: as a woman to you, not lean into the tropes

793
00:38:29,280 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: of patriarchy, and be exactly what makes me feel happy

794
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 1: in the one life I have to live because where yes,

795
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure we was here before, We're gonna be at

796
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: to all of our souls, spirits and things that live

797
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 1: different lives. Bitch, I don't know them mother lives. I

798
00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 1: be having deja vu, but I don't know what those

799
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,960
Speaker 1: other lives are. And so Alexis Barnes, you put the asshole.

800
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing dangerous or crazy about a woman being able

801
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 1: to live in her fucking truth. And when I tell y'all,

802
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: I've been so happy lately, that shit pissed me off

803
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,960
Speaker 1: because I said, damn, bitch, dangerous is a big word,

804
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: dangerous as a and I okay, you see it was

805
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: the dangerous and crazy, which also how we live our

806
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: lives can be deemed crazy to someone, but to label

807
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 1: me as a dangerous person, and how I'm navigating these

808
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: relationships when I'm getting fed like affirmations from my partners

809
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 1: like this feels good. I didn't know these type of

810
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:27,719
Speaker 1: relationships could exist with women like I love that I

811
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,759
Speaker 1: could be honest with you, babe, I want to watch

812
00:39:29,800 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 1: you suck a dick. I love watching you with other

813
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: people like now we get a little horrible. They were like,

814
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: I want to watch you. It's like dick. And I

815
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:39,719
Speaker 1: didn't know I could tell a woman I want to

816
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 1: see her suck another man, dick. But to be in

817
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,320
Speaker 1: these spaces where like these men, it's not like the

818
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: buddhhole whisper anymore. It's not like I'm just dealing with

819
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: niggas that want to be paid and they so shamed.

820
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: It's men that are like WHOA, I didn't think I

821
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 1: could have this fun, exciting relationship and feel safe where

822
00:39:57,520 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 1: I can express the things I want. It includes you

823
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,680
Speaker 1: being with other men and we're just open and keep

824
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,080
Speaker 1: in mind being on the same page. Last night, I

825
00:40:05,200 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: was out with my man. We're having dinner. We were

826
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: in Mexico last night.

827
00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 2: I'm my cartography and I said something to him along

828
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 2: the lines of we're not really sleeping with people, right.

829
00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 2: So we just were doing to check in and I'm like,

830
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:21,759
Speaker 2: where are we at with this?

831
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:22,080
Speaker 1: Like?

832
00:40:22,880 --> 00:40:24,439
Speaker 2: Who, what's up with the people you talked to? I'm

833
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 2: talking about me. He's like, where is this coming from?

834
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 2: And I'm like nothing.

835
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: So he's asking me, like, what's wrong. I'm like, where

836
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 1: did it come from? Nothing? I'm just making sure we're

837
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: on the same page. Okay, same page, Okay.

838
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 2: Because we're on the same page last time we talked

839
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: about it. Are we on the same page again?

840
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,919
Speaker 1: Day? Because yes, pages can flip.

841
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 2: And he literally said to me when we were leaving,

842
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:49,839
Speaker 2: He's like, yo, like it's crazy. Being on the same

843
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:51,960
Speaker 2: page is what breaks people up. Not being on the

844
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,840
Speaker 2: same page will break you up in the marriage, like

845
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: constantly checking are you on the same page?

846
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,040
Speaker 1: Are we good? Are we good? Like, just only for

847
00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:02,239
Speaker 1: people that don't believe in the power of communicating, we

848
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,359
Speaker 1: were possibly being on a different road. Monogamy brings up

849
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 1: that shit all the time, over over.

850
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 2: Time, because way, I didn't think about that, because at

851
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 2: one point he's like, think about it. If we weren't

852
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: having sex with other people, would we even talk about

853
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 2: this right now? We would just keep going through life

854
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: not checking to.

855
00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: Be fair though if you were. If you were monogamous,

856
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 1: you live in the fear of what they're doing without

857
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 1: you knowing. So to me, it's honestly the same thing.

858
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: So him saying like, would we have this conversation if

859
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:34,920
Speaker 1: we were monogamous, Probably because if anything shifted in your behavior,

860
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: my mind is going to go to thinking that you're

861
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: doing something with someone else. In non monogogy and in

862
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,440
Speaker 1: non monogamy, it's a constant check in because you're allowing

863
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:45,720
Speaker 1: all of these other energies, all of these other people

864
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 1: in existence within our relationship, and to be fair, in

865
00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: non a monogamy, you risk every chance that maybe there's

866
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:55,000
Speaker 1: a connection with someone else, or maybe you find a

867
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 1: connection with someone else, or maybe there's a connection where

868
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:00,200
Speaker 1: you both want to bring someone else in to me,

869
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,759
Speaker 1: it's actually the same thing. The thing is in non

870
00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 1: monogamy you don't do as much communicating. You do more assumption.

871
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: You you do more assuming.

872
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 2: You're like sitting there thinking it's the last thing we

873
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 2: agreed on. So I think when I was saying it,

874
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,239
Speaker 2: he's like, what is this bitch trying to bring to

875
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 2: the table. I'm like, bro, I'm really.

876
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: Trying to bring to the table. I swear nothing. You

877
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: ain't want to throw up, okay, but like.

878
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,319
Speaker 2: You know, we just haven't been doing it as much,

879
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: and I'm just like, where are we at? Like are

880
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 2: we good as far as like where we stand? Do

881
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 2: you not want to do have sex with other people anymore?

882
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 2: Because I know that he mentioned to me a few

883
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 2: weeks ago it was a lot of energy dealing with

884
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 2: other Yeah, And he was like, I kind of just

885
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:40,320
Speaker 2: want to do this together.

886
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, is that still? Like and if that happens,

887
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 1: is it both of us doing that? Like what does

888
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 1: it look like? But I say, don't have to say.

889
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,240
Speaker 1: It's always just being on the same page.

890
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 2: Is literally when someone's off the page, that's how our

891
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 2: relationship ends.

892
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 1: Like you're on, you're on, you're off. Like that is

893
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 1: literally what it is.

894
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 2: When you're your relationship is good, you're on the same

895
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,320
Speaker 2: page in your relationship, you got off the fucking page.

896
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't like tables and pages being used in

897
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 1: metaphors because this shit gets confusing, because if you and

898
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:06,600
Speaker 1: I are reading the same book, we could be on

899
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:09,160
Speaker 1: a different page, but in the same book. It just

900
00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: means that either you got to catch up to where

901
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: I'm at or you know what, I'm gonna wait until

902
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 1: you catch up to me something with our book right now.

903
00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:19,840
Speaker 1: That is a little wait. What we want children, but

904
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,400
Speaker 1: we both want children to live in different places. That

905
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: Nigga said that baby ain't about to be in no city.

906
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 2: Were going to Connecticut. We're going to west justin then

907
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 2: we know, we know that baby coming out. We'll know

908
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 2: where that baby don't go.

909
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:35,279
Speaker 1: I was like, this is perfect for my podcast room

910
00:43:35,320 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 1: and the baby room. He's like, no, it's not, because

911
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,799
Speaker 1: we could have a five bedroom house in Westchester where

912
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: your podcast room, side, bitch room, baby room, Jim and

913
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 1: our room. What the fuck are you talking? You're not

914
00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: willing to give up the alare not even not even

915
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:54,400
Speaker 1: a lawyer, hold on, not even a law It's the

916
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 1: fast paced access that New York City has that Upstate

917
00:43:58,000 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 1: doesn't have. Okay, this is because how could you want

918
00:43:59,920 --> 00:44:04,560
Speaker 1: to live in a seven figure, two bedroom home knowing

919
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 1: you have the option of living in a five bedroom

920
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 1: home and it's just a forty five minute longer commute.

921
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,239
Speaker 1: I don't give I'm not getting in a car. Now.

922
00:44:12,320 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 2: Here's where I feel so, bro, you should see the

923
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: way he's like, are you bro, I'm not gonna lie.

924
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: You sound crazy. I don't care. Number one, you see,

925
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 1: I said she's crazy. There's a few South toxic, but

926
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: you know this sound dangerous? Call me, dang, just's fucking

927
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:29,839
Speaker 1: go to Brooklyn. I said, I'll go to Brooklyn. Fuck

928
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 1: but but the main thing for me is actually which

929
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: he started to understand. Bro. We all if you read

930
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:41,320
Speaker 1: the book, you've read that sass suicide chapter. Bleep bleep,

931
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 1: fucking Weezy was ready to go, and you know what

932
00:44:45,000 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: appened going on some walks.

933
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 2: He just don't put me in motherfucking Terrytown. We're having

934
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 2: a big ass Oh, I used to have a nigga

935
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 2: in Terrytown. No, every time I had a nigga from

936
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:55,480
Speaker 2: park Chester, it was only like fifteen minute.

937
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 1: He was trying to take men nice restaurants and shit

938
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: up there. I like Terrytown. I don't give a fuck.

939
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: That was cute. Now you know all the niggas that

940
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 1: played on the Knicks and the G League live up

941
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: the congratulations to that. I'm not a Terry girl. I

942
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:21,000
Speaker 1: don't Terry tarry Town. All right, now we'll get into Yeah,

943
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 1: at this point, where are we at? This is this episode?

944
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: This is gonna be my read. Okay, I love it,

945
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:28,040
Speaker 1: not the read. Look at you. Why don't we just

946
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 1: read it? Oh you're reading somebody by the way. Decisions decisions.

947
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: It's your decision to motherfucker supporters pullosed to ask how

948
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: and we you'all motherfucking supporters just know we're so horrible

949
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: over on Patreon, patreon dot com backslash horrible decisions. So

950
00:45:40,760 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: you're turned weezy.

951
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:45,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so this it's gonna get dark, but it also

952
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 2: kind of has to do with this prostituting niggas.

953
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 1: Got to take care of me bring okay.

954
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh this is long Ooh bitch, I'm here for this,

955
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 2: so I will try to make this quick.

956
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: No, we got Greg, you got the last twenty minutes

957
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 1: of the part let's not let's side part quick. The

958
00:46:00,360 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 1: person I used to do my hair that died. Her

959
00:46:02,200 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: name was Sha. Chay has two children, one and a half.

960
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,280
Speaker 1: You've met she. She's done my hair on some sets.

961
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:10,239
Speaker 1: One is five. Her the father her children woke up

962
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: next to her. She was not moving. Children were upstairs sleeping.

963
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: That's what happened to our grandpa.

964
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 2: Oh and like that's the thing, you know, Like, well,

965
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:21,960
Speaker 2: my grandma died. The only piece we have is they

966
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 2: lived a life.

967
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: Yeah. Chae is our age breastfeeding age to one of

968
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: her kids. Okay, crazy.

969
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 2: A lot of you went to her because you found

970
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 2: her from my page. She's an amazing girl. Real fan

971
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: of the horror Hive for real. Watch every episode with

972
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,480
Speaker 2: our clients was do or Die whore Hive IRP. Now

973
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:45,920
Speaker 2: I post her baby daddy on her and her children

974
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 2: and to go fund me saying hey, this man is

975
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:50,040
Speaker 2: left in the world with two small children.

976
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: Whatever you can do to help them would be great.

977
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: Lily Edwards, Oh I love it we calling these holes

978
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,960
Speaker 1: out today. Oh Lily, it was fuck me up so bad.

979
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 2: I shed tears and my man I had to take

980
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 2: my phone for an hour because I couldn't believe a

981
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 2: black woman said this.

982
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,240
Speaker 1: I'm sure Alexis was black too, based on her photo. Barnes,

983
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 1: can y'all not be doing that to us? Bitch?

984
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,439
Speaker 2: Okay, this is nasty, all right, but on a dead

985
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:22,359
Speaker 2: girl's photo? Okay, this is so sad, like really sad.

986
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: But respectfully, how can the man student who stands next

987
00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,800
Speaker 2: her and not be able to afford a funeral? He

988
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 2: helped to make her mother twice? Great lesson on dating

989
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:35,319
Speaker 2: and co creating with people that can stand on their

990
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:37,480
Speaker 2: own two feet and provide for their children without you

991
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:40,520
Speaker 2: having to be present. This is just all very sad,

992
00:47:40,640 --> 00:47:42,359
Speaker 2: especially for those two girls that don't have a mother.

993
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,760
Speaker 2: Hope the father can do a great job in providing

994
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 2: and protecting.

995
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: Oh bitch, oh bitch that she shows to fix her

996
00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: goddamn thumbs to type to somebody, Mandy.

997
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 2: So the tears that were coming out were like you, Like,

998
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 2: I just would never think a mom of two, a

999
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 2: black man, a black woman with two black babies living

1000
00:48:05,920 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 2: in New York City a sudden death like that, you

1001
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:13,400
Speaker 2: would come out your stupid fucking mouth. Oh like what

1002
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 2: I started to reply, I couldn't reply. I had a

1003
00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 2: blacker because I started to get so like rubbed up,

1004
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,680
Speaker 2: and a lot of friends donated. Leah McSweeney gave a

1005
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:23,040
Speaker 2: lot of money, by the way, just seeing it, so

1006
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:28,160
Speaker 2: many moms felt this shit. Average black family America makes

1007
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 2: fifty six thousand dollars.

1008
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: Bro, the average funeral is talk about the average funeral

1009
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: calls please ten thousand dollars And to me, I've heard

1010
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 1: of more. Yeah, and you thought it was really came

1011
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 1: out there to say a man that just lost the

1012
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: second income in South God, baby's Mandy, do you know

1013
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:49,759
Speaker 1: how much babies costs in America? And you said a

1014
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: great lesson? Who the fuck is the lesson for?

1015
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:59,919
Speaker 2: Systematically, Shaye and JD are a product of this fuck

1016
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 2: up country. We're in this fucked up medical system. We're

1017
00:49:03,360 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: in the same hospital that let this woman go. She

1018
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:08,040
Speaker 2: put a case out on them two days before she died,

1019
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 2: that told her she was mentally ill for thinking she

1020
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:12,359
Speaker 2: had something wrong with her head and ended.

1021
00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:15,959
Speaker 1: Up waking up dead. This same system that keeps us down.

1022
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:19,240
Speaker 2: And you got the nerve to say, you stupid bitch,

1023
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 2: Lily Edwards, what a great lesson on? The whole co

1024
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 2: parent with Oh, let's just say, let's Shay have found

1025
00:49:25,760 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 2: a rich athlete that broke his fucking leg.

1026
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:31,600
Speaker 1: Then what let Shae have met a man that was

1027
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: super rich and got addicted to drugs? Then what she

1028
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: has a very loving, strong, fundy bitch, Shake my dog.

1029
00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:43,560
Speaker 1: I'd be like, girl, come do my hair.

1030
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 2: I'm talking about strong baby father. I've never heard her,

1031
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:48,399
Speaker 2: and I'm not just saying this because she's gone.

1032
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:51,640
Speaker 1: Never heard her complain about the nigga always showed up

1033
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: even when they weren't living together, and they finally made

1034
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 1: themselves a home. And you really came out to say

1035
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 1: that about a black family, you stupid bitch, Like it

1036
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: just really was mind boggling to me because this is

1037
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 1: a product of a nigga gotta do everything. And you

1038
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,680
Speaker 1: know what's crazier. Damn when I Shaye lasted my hair

1039
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 1: and just sound like projection, I ain't gonna hold oh.

1040
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: That was such a sick response to me.

1041
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 2: I was seeing so much I couldn't even talk, and

1042
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:20,319
Speaker 2: then I wanted to post it and curse her out.

1043
00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:21,719
Speaker 2: Then I didn't want her baby daddy to see it

1044
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 2: at the time because I know he was fucking grieving,

1045
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 2: and I just like I didn't know who was gonna

1046
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 2: see what. So I'm talking to my man about it

1047
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:27,520
Speaker 2: and he's like, yo, this she's got this.

1048
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 1: Fucking prostitute mysel Oh what the what the fuck?

1049
00:50:30,680 --> 00:50:33,439
Speaker 2: And Shade, by the way, had to take some time

1050
00:50:33,520 --> 00:50:35,480
Speaker 2: off for her health and guess who the fuck was

1051
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 2: holding his bitch down.

1052
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: Her baby daddy? What the fuck else can a man

1053
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: do but be a talking about I hope he could

1054
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 1: step up? So what so? What is he supposed to

1055
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: be a future? Super rich? And then the kids going

1056
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:51,960
Speaker 1: to work hold on future not even paying child's I

1057
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,280
Speaker 1: thought about, but here what I was thinking rich Nigga

1058
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: pays the bills. And then what this man is a

1059
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:57,279
Speaker 1: great father?

1060
00:50:57,400 --> 00:50:59,360
Speaker 2: The last time she did my hair, he was in

1061
00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 2: there showing her five year old shabby how to fucking

1062
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: do the alphabet, making sure, checking over her stuff, while

1063
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:09,359
Speaker 2: simultaneously doing a photo shoot downstairs. Bro, these kids were

1064
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 2: so smart. She was telling me what kind of podcast

1065
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 2: she wanted to make. Her daughter was like, I'm going

1066
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 2: to be a podcast. So sweet, and I was just

1067
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,760
Speaker 2: thinking to myself, we are so jaded of the outside

1068
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: view of what people have in their lives.

1069
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: It's so crazy, so crazy, well, not only that, what

1070
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 1: I would have Lily Edwards puts the ass hoop. I'd

1071
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:31,800
Speaker 1: love to know what health insurance and life insurance you

1072
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,759
Speaker 1: have set up for when your ass passes, what your

1073
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,360
Speaker 1: family will have to pay for it. Like that's the

1074
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: thing that bothers me. Like talk, there's a lot of

1075
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 1: stones being thrown in glass houses, like unfortunately a lot

1076
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: of us, specifically within our community, have not been educated

1077
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,240
Speaker 1: to what it means to have a life insurance policy

1078
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: or what happens if we are not here right, it's

1079
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,880
Speaker 1: been so sad, like my friends are grieving. Uh, this

1080
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: guy that CTE, a guy that just took is life.

1081
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 1: We see everything that's happening or I don't even know

1082
00:52:03,680 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: if at this point the case has been solved with

1083
00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:09,440
Speaker 1: the nigga that might have killed the little fifteen year

1084
00:52:09,440 --> 00:52:13,480
Speaker 1: old girl, the little there's just the song I had

1085
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:15,960
Speaker 1: in my phone from him was Romantic Home. Of course

1086
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:19,719
Speaker 1: it was. That's his biggest record, I'm saying, And so

1087
00:52:19,840 --> 00:52:22,520
Speaker 1: when I think about like even it's it's funny because

1088
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: if you guys go on Patreon and y'all listen to

1089
00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: my first day at Heato with my best friend. I

1090
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,479
Speaker 1: thought she left with a nigga, and I was gonna

1091
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 1: find her body in the Jamaican ocean. Okay, I don't

1092
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: know if Jamaica has an ocean, but it's the ocean

1093
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,640
Speaker 1: that's around here, Jamaica, Jamaica ocean. They got an ocean,

1094
00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: but it's not the Jamaican ocean. It's there. It's one

1095
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,320
Speaker 1: of the Atlantic. I'll see where you're going with this,

1096
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So what I'm saying is

1097
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: even in that moment, bitch, my best friend gonna get

1098
00:52:55,160 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: that lit funeral. But I was like, bitch, shit, So

1099
00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 1: that conversation literally stem like my best friend beat cancer.

1100
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: I was gonna be mad as fuck if she died

1101
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: from a nigga. But but the fact of the matter

1102
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:10,760
Speaker 1: was was the conversation about we think about our parents,

1103
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: We think about all these old people that should have

1104
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,680
Speaker 1: their funeral set out. Bitch, you got the nerve to

1105
00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: fix your fingers and say that do you haven't set

1106
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:21,600
Speaker 1: up to where your people connected to you don't know

1107
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: and say, oh well, I can't like just just the

1108
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: financial burden of your funeral. This is a family.

1109
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,200
Speaker 2: These are two people that decided to make a family,

1110
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,320
Speaker 2: whether they got married or not. They they built a

1111
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 2: life together. They don't think about it.

1112
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: I gotta call my person. I know I got life

1113
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: the shows, but I don't know if I don't know

1114
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:41,360
Speaker 1: the funeral portion of it. But I know that lin shit. However,

1115
00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 1: I died, my mama and my sister get what they get.

1116
00:53:43,560 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: Do you know who I put the money to? Who? Well,

1117
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: I would change it now. I guess, like because I

1118
00:53:48,880 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 1: don't get married.

1119
00:53:49,560 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 2: Soon, but Enoch, because I'm like, oh, Enoch will know

1120
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 2: how to delegate the mondy. Yeah, I write notes about

1121
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 2: I put it to my mama because financially and only

1122
00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 2: one of my sisters.

1123
00:53:58,520 --> 00:53:59,280
Speaker 1: Not both my sisters.

1124
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 2: And by the way, it's gonna be a fight my

1125
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 2: mom would be and my father be getting this money

1126
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 2: and my god children. But he know, is just so

1127
00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 2: financially literate that I didn't want to give so much

1128
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:12,280
Speaker 2: money to just anybody.

1129
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:15,080
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna hold you. I wanted you sound a

1130
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: little like what people say about reparations, But I ain't

1131
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing. Only because conversation a lot shout out

1132
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 1: to Ish. He came on, so he's had a hot

1133
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: take that we as financially illiterate community, as a whole

1134
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: because of system systemic oppressions. If we got reparations, we

1135
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 1: would know how to spend it. And so I've just

1136
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 1: talked about like that with him. So I was just

1137
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:41,960
Speaker 1: hearing you say you would give it to your financially

1138
00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,080
Speaker 1: literally literate friend who also happens to be a white man.

1139
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: It's interesting because you are very problit to have a

1140
00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 1: lot of black friends, but you're giving your money to

1141
00:54:50,840 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: a white man. Like that's but the conversation that's to

1142
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:54,680
Speaker 1: call out.

1143
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:59,719
Speaker 2: But I will say this, When my parents lost their home,

1144
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 2: Enoch was the person that would help me help pay

1145
00:55:03,239 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 2: for their rent.

1146
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:06,040
Speaker 1: So basically my parents would get so security. At the

1147
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: middle of the month, I.

1148
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 2: Would have to pay my rent and theirs and do

1149
00:55:09,480 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 2: their bills. So he would teach me what to do

1150
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,279
Speaker 2: with my money. And like I just had had so

1151
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 2: many conversations with him, like if I die, will you

1152
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,880
Speaker 2: help me do x y Z. Like I said, now

1153
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 2: with change, of course, I got a mind in my life.

1154
00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,200
Speaker 2: But it's it's just sad because when you sit and

1155
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 2: think about it, and Shay was so political, that's crazy.

1156
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,879
Speaker 1: She did you respond to her? Did your man take

1157
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,200
Speaker 1: your phone? Like you guys said, fuck you, this is

1158
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 1: a I don't know what I was mad. I mean,

1159
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 1: you could see it. I want to sell you blocked her.

1160
00:55:36,400 --> 00:55:37,879
Speaker 1: Oh you blocked her. I don't know if I could

1161
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,279
Speaker 1: see it from the block lib, but this is a

1162
00:55:39,320 --> 00:55:41,840
Speaker 1: screen shot. Okay, you said, I don't know. He was

1163
00:55:41,880 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 1: like this, now, this is too much. And then because

1164
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: that's something to where she probably would have continued and

1165
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: you just got to cut that energy, I think off.

1166
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:52,560
Speaker 2: And then what he said to me was like, she

1167
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 2: just posted her gofund me and let it go. And

1168
00:55:54,080 --> 00:55:55,919
Speaker 2: I'm like, no, a lot of people love this girl,

1169
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 2: like I want to be able to engage a laugh

1170
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,840
Speaker 2: about a memory. But I started looking at some of

1171
00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,040
Speaker 2: the ship she would send me, and it's just crazy

1172
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 2: someone had this common to her because she.

1173
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,719
Speaker 1: Would post it about politics and be like, bitch, they

1174
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:11,240
Speaker 1: trying to give us down and just knowing has happened

1175
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:12,720
Speaker 1: to you, just being.

1176
00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,680
Speaker 2: A person's part of the system of just medical racism

1177
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:21,160
Speaker 2: and someone black saying you would think she must love

1178
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: Charlie Kirk.

1179
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: Now she must love Charlie Funeral. I'm sure you're happiest

1180
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 1: covered huh, bitch, fuck asshole. Anyway, this is why do

1181
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 1: you know what they're gonna be? Like? This was a

1182
00:56:34,480 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 1: real Florida episode, Like I feel like, now we got

1183
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:40,200
Speaker 1: grievances and greens. I feel like, oh no, no, no,

1184
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 1: this episode shout out to Crystal and Fury. We have

1185
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 1: to call this the read. That's all we did all

1186
00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 1: episode was read people for filter. This is the Braden Salon.

1187
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 1: The goddamn uh interest rates for homes and mortgages in

1188
00:56:56,000 --> 00:56:59,839
Speaker 1: the American drink has a problem about has a pop.

1189
00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: And by the way, one of my friends said to

1190
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:07,239
Speaker 1: me when I was bitching about the Brady Salon, and

1191
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 1: she was right.

1192
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,279
Speaker 2: She's like, Bro, I can't imagine how depressing this is

1193
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 2: because your homegirl died and she would have been want

1194
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:13,920
Speaker 2: to do that hair, and then you had to go

1195
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 2: get fucked up hair and grieve your friend.

1196
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: What the fuck? So if you do quiklys and ponytailing

1197
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,920
Speaker 1: New York, kid me up. Hold on, I just want

1198
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: to actually add to that before we get out of here.

1199
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: It's the dilemma. I had a therapy over the summer.

1200
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: Actually it was standing as a woman for the movement

1201
00:57:34,280 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: of sexual liberation when when I felt like we had

1202
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,560
Speaker 1: all of like the backsteps and lack of support for

1203
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: our book. One of the things that my my therapists

1204
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: suggest that I do, and I immediately, you know, pushed

1205
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: back on, was to create content our whole spaces and

1206
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: conversations about being a black woman and how we navigate

1207
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 1: the system and how we show up as our sexually

1208
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: liberated selves and demand that we get what we want

1209
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 1: in an era of ro V Wade and just everything

1210
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,800
Speaker 1: that I had felt dumped on me. And in the

1211
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: same moment, I was like, bitch, but to be black

1212
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:18,400
Speaker 1: women too, mm hmm. It looked and I found out

1213
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 1: that you know, essence was a little bit to do

1214
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: with uh, not essence best as it's best its good,

1215
00:58:24,760 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: but the brand that we worked with. But that was

1216
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: a black woman. In terms of every time I've had

1217
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: to fight and like prove myself, it's been to black

1218
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: women in corporate that had felt like it wasn't it.

1219
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 1: So it's it sucks that she's someone who was just like,

1220
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:41,439
Speaker 1: we need this for black women, and it's black women

1221
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 1: that fucking I got something a set.

1222
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 2: I have had a black woman hit me up four

1223
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 2: brand deals, two hour call doing all this shit.

1224
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: Oh what you talked about on Patreon. Oh bitch, I

1225
00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 1: can't get over that because I'm just thinking to myself.

1226
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:02,320
Speaker 2: Call her daddy low jobs in four k bro. I

1227
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 2: just don't know what you thought my image was. I

1228
00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:07,880
Speaker 2: went through my ig for like thirty minutes that day

1229
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 2: and like, do I look crazy here? And then I

1230
00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 2: look at another girl's IG and I'm just like, oh,

1231
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 2: these white girls that have sex podcasts and they do

1232
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:20,320
Speaker 2: way wilder shit. But at the end of the day,

1233
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 2: we have an a on our chest and I don't

1234
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 2: give a fuck. Oh, I think this would be a

1235
00:59:24,720 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 2: great opportunity to say I will make sure the family

1236
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:31,800
Speaker 2: creates it forget to go fundy, nice Amazon wish list,

1237
00:59:31,880 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 2: whatever stuff they need at home, some.

1238
00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 1: Good toys for the kids.

1239
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 2: If you want to support her girls, We'll make sure

1240
00:59:38,240 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 2: to include that in here for sure, for sure, for sure.

1241
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 2: And also yeah, think before you press, and think before

1242
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 2: you press in I mean YouTube.

1243
00:59:47,920 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: Comments, ask you for a lot.

1244
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 2: No, no, no, and honestly even to read this week

1245
00:59:51,920 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 2: like or not this week, but a few months ago,

1246
00:59:56,760 --> 01:00:00,240
Speaker 2: you know, I it's just three to so iconic. But

1247
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 2: there were things that I heard that I was like, fuck,

1248
01:00:02,760 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 2: this is this is hard for pregnant one to hear

1249
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 2: like dying on the surgery table certain words, and I

1250
01:00:08,040 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 2: was like, I don't believe either of them are bad people.

1251
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:13,240
Speaker 2: I've been listening to the read a long time and

1252
01:00:13,280 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 2: I think they mean so much to podcasting. But you

1253
01:00:15,760 --> 01:00:19,000
Speaker 2: just never know that, like the people that you're talking to.

1254
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 2: And I know you might look at Mandy and I

1255
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 2: that way, may read.

1256
01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 1: Ain't talking to you. I'm talking for me. Oh no, no, no,

1257
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 1: I need you to know real quick. Hold on, Alexis

1258
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:30,920
Speaker 1: Brenz Old, bitch, fuck Alexis Barnes. I am speaking for

1259
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: me and hopes to help you, but I'm not speaking

1260
01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 1: for you to you at you, Mitch, I promise you

1261
01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: I was speaking at Alexis barn supposed to ask so,

1262
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: but when I hop on this mic, I'm speaking for me.

1263
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: I share my experience. This has been one of the

1264
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:50,040
Speaker 1: most liberating experiences that I've got to feel live. I

1265
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:53,040
Speaker 1: am blessed that this has been a part of my existence.

1266
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:57,120
Speaker 1: But bitch, I share my experience. I share what I'm

1267
01:00:57,160 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 1: dealing with and who I'm becoming. In four or MP three, however,

1268
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: you fucking listen.

1269
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:07,880
Speaker 2: I'm also I mean, like when you're talking about someone

1270
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 2: in a negative way to be fair yourself.

1271
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: No, even that, I feel like that's a problem too.

1272
01:01:14,160 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: Sometimes we want people to do better for themselves and

1273
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 1: be better for themselves than they want for themselves, and

1274
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 1: we we we internalize that and it could be projection.

1275
01:01:27,120 --> 01:01:30,640
Speaker 1: It could be just our disappointment of someone else. So

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Speaker 1: when we talk about like public figures or celebrities or

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Speaker 1: people that we know, a lot of times our frustration

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Speaker 1: might come out and sound harsh. Delivery is always a thing,

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Speaker 1: y'all know. Delivery. I'd have made a bitch cry at

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Speaker 1: work during fucking busy season Black Friday at coach, I'd

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Speaker 1: shared the goddamn story. And sometimes it's more delivery than anything.

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Speaker 1: But intention is, bitch. We were all rooting for you

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Speaker 1: Tyra Banks voice. And I think sometimes we want more

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Speaker 1: and we see more in people than sometime they see

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Speaker 1: in themselves. I think that's.

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Speaker 2: Only true if it came to dating that person not

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Speaker 2: having children. And the reason I say that is because.

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Speaker 1: We get look at it like damn mission other baby.

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Speaker 2: A lot of people want more children, want to go

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Speaker 2: famim me, Rihanna want to do that more than she

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Speaker 2: want to give us an album, but we don't shade

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Speaker 2: her because.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I've shaded my friends for keeping certain kids.

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Speaker 1: But no, I'm saying I'm not gonna lie. We don't

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Speaker 1: shave Rihanna. The felic doesn't shave Rihanna because she's married. Right,

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Speaker 1: But again, let's go back to the group chat, bitch

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Speaker 1: in real life. Okay, Well, we have opinions on celebrities.

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Speaker 1: We don't know them. We sometimes speak about them in

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Speaker 1: a parasocial way. I absolutely and y'all know because I

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01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:42,360
Speaker 1: told his ass. I have sent flowers to a friend

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Speaker 1: to champion and an abortion if I didn't feel like

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Speaker 1: a baby would make sense in a certain relationship. I've

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Speaker 1: had other friends where I was like, it's just too late.

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Speaker 1: I would have told you not to have it. Like

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Speaker 1: I've had those.

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Speaker 2: Conversations with friends brout back, man, I have too, but

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Speaker 2: some people want to have our children.

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Speaker 1: And you know what that butt is where we can't

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01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 1: have a butt when we want the First Amendment, bitch,

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Speaker 1: freedom of speech.

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Speaker 2: I'll be here for everyone sharing their because she's the

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Speaker 2: only really like hilarious thing that from that rent where

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01:03:12,320 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 2: Crystal that I love that she said is you know,

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01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:14,640
Speaker 2: not to use your butt.

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Speaker 1: That shit was funny.

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Speaker 2: But speaking of but I don't think we can place

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Speaker 2: our thoughts on more children being in the world as

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01:03:26,400 --> 01:03:29,480
Speaker 2: like death sentenced to certain women, because no, I agree,

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01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 2: because that is kind of the thing of like choice, right,

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01:03:32,480 --> 01:03:34,800
Speaker 2: you choosing not to have kids, me choosing to have kids.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so here's the thing. Someone's going to attack you.

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01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:38,680
Speaker 1: But be like Mandy doesn't get it, the thing you

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01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:40,760
Speaker 1: said earlier. She doesn't get it. She doesn't want kids.

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Speaker 1: And in me, oh, we saying that because she wants kids. Well,

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01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 1: and there could be but also we have to think

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Speaker 1: about it too, the things that we've said on the

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Speaker 1: sort of comedy, Like, I think sometimes, especially when we

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Speaker 1: have a mic in front of us and we want

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01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 1: things to be entertaining, bro, sometimes we drag people a

1330
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: little more than we want to off the face of

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01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:00,640
Speaker 1: entertainment and comedy, and we don't consider that person at

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Speaker 1: the time. We consider everyone who's listening, who we might

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01:04:03,320 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: want to get a chuckle house by. Now, maybe Crystal

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01:04:06,040 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: has a little bit of empathy toward some of the

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01:04:08,560 --> 01:04:12,240
Speaker 1: things that we don't know. But when I was first

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01:04:12,320 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: listening to it, I was like, and then I was like,

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Speaker 1: is you know what's crazy there? Read for Charlie Kirk

1338
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 1: was way worse? Why wouldn't it be? But that's what

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01:04:21,640 --> 01:04:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying. But in our community, we're not gonna consider

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Speaker 1: it at all. That's not what you said about. Well,

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01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,200
Speaker 1: we're talking about a woman. I get that, well, black

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01:04:29,240 --> 01:04:32,160
Speaker 1: woman talking about another woman of color and pregnancy and

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01:04:32,240 --> 01:04:34,600
Speaker 1: as a woman. But the things that they said about

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01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 1: Charlie Kirk was ten to fifty eleven times worse.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is in righteousness of women being able

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01:04:41,200 --> 01:04:44,960
Speaker 2: to do what they want to do. Condemning having another

1347
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:48,680
Speaker 2: baby is the circular thing of it. Because I cannot

1348
01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 2: be someone that'll say you're fucked up again? I think

1349
01:04:52,120 --> 01:04:53,800
Speaker 2: I said recently, I was reading it one of Kennedy

1350
01:04:53,880 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 2: Ryan's books. Someone what book was?

1351
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Speaker 1: It Can't Get Another A woman.

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01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:03,720
Speaker 2: Doesn't want to have kids in the book, and she's like,

1353
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:07,919
Speaker 2: so interesting how everybody says to me, why not when

1354
01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:09,480
Speaker 2: my homegirls want to have kids?

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Speaker 1: No one says, how come? It's always why not? Why not?

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01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: Why not? Right? And I'm sure you experienced this.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I cannot fight for a woman that

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01:05:18,640 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 2: doesn't want to have kids and fight for the one

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Speaker 2: that wants to with that rhetoric.

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Speaker 1: We can't have that coming from other women. It just

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01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: sucks now. But I'm also let's definitely talk shout offs.

1362
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Speaker 1: But I'm a hippograde too. I feel like, not for Cardi,

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01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 1: but I think certain you shouldn't have babies if you broke,

1364
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 1: like I have certain things to where I just deemed

1365
01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 1: to be completely irresponsible as an adult with decisions that

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Speaker 1: you can make enough time where I actually don't know

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Speaker 1: that's a bad one. Well, but so that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So if we can police a broke bitch having a baby,

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Speaker 1: we can talk about a multi millionaire having a baby

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Speaker 1: by a fuck nigga boy. She's still married and still

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Speaker 1: be questioning of the decision to do so at the

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Speaker 1: at now a new pinnacle of her career. I didn't

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Speaker 1: feel like it was to me. Here's the thing. She's

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01:06:06,320 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 1: talked so down on strippers and all the women that

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01:06:09,560 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 1: offset cheated on her with, right to where she placed

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Speaker 1: herself on a pedestal to be a better woman than

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Speaker 1: those that her husband or ex husband cheated on her with.

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Speaker 1: So to me to show up as a project chick,

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Speaker 1: give me a hood, rent one that don't give up

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Speaker 1: to still show up as a bit from starlets. Ten

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Speaker 1: years into a career where you have multimillions, yes, you

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Speaker 1: have a community, you have this. To me, she's operating

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01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 1: as someone from the projects, and we all thought she

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Speaker 1: was no longer that girl. So Carni is my girl.

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Speaker 1: Let's be very clear. She's a libra bitch. She got

1386
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: the money, she has the I'm here for her house baby.

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Speaker 1: They wanted to the date. Maybe step Fine is worse

1388
01:06:51,960 --> 01:06:54,240
Speaker 1: than the baby. The baby is not oh no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: it's who she had the baby with. But she did

1390
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Speaker 1: say that on and I forgot what podcasts because she

1391
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:02,720
Speaker 1: did a whole lot dear her press friend, she did say, y'all, y'all,

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01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 1: people thought that I should have left offset got with

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Speaker 1: a billionaire, a millionaire, a nigga from Dubai. Right, that's

1394
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 1: not me. And so that's what I'm saying is a

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Speaker 1: lot of times, because of how someone excels in front

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Speaker 1: of us, whether it be in business, in monetary like means,

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01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:24,520
Speaker 1: or in education, we feel like they should they should,

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Speaker 1: they should act differently than what their actions showed, when

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Speaker 1: in reality, she's still the bitch from the Bronx that

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Speaker 1: worked to start with.

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Speaker 2: People believe they shouldn't have a line. I'm one of

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01:07:38,360 --> 01:07:41,280
Speaker 2: them that does, at least when it comes to women. Okay,

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01:07:41,800 --> 01:07:45,840
Speaker 2: and my line is make fun of that, nigga. You

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01:07:45,920 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 2: ain't about to be telling me how you know it's

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Speaker 2: crazy for me?

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01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 1: How good luck to me?

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Speaker 2: Not dying on a table like like that sounds crazy,

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01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 2: But that was great, I will say, crazy thing to

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Speaker 2: say to somebody.

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Speaker 1: So fine is an attractive man all on? And then

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Speaker 1: that song that she got on her album Laid Me

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Speaker 1: on my Back or whatever it is, which it made

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Speaker 1: me like it made me. I said that did gotta

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Speaker 1: be good because that song was so good. I said, oh,

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Speaker 1: that did gotta be fire. That dick and he got

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01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:23,760
Speaker 1: don't know anybody, which I know. I used to talk

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Speaker 1: to him when I was back. Well he was on

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01:08:26,920 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 1: the Vikings, but I thought he was short and you

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01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:32,000
Speaker 1: know on like football players. We had a close stent

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Speaker 1: of talking. Never got flud out, never fucked him. I

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Speaker 1: know multiple bitches who have fucked him.

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Speaker 2: The girl that I know that fucked him said, well,

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Speaker 2: fucked him and said that she heard it was fired

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Speaker 2: from the current that you was fucking said, you gotta come.

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Speaker 1: Know the girl that I know fucked him, met him

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Speaker 1: at an event. I guess he was so like interested

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01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:56,040
Speaker 1: in her, he like booked a flight and got the

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01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:57,880
Speaker 1: seat right next to her just to talk on her.

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Speaker 1: Talk to her on the flight like he moved like that.

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Speaker 1: He's he's a demon and his brother the demon. They

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01:09:03,560 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 1: both demon did. She also agreed the Diger spire yees.

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Speaker 1: She also almost had a baby by but apparently all

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01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:19,040
Speaker 1: the bitches are having baby, so baby waivers swim bitch. Nonetheless,

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Speaker 1: this was a chaotic, toxic ass episode. Welcome if you

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01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:25,960
Speaker 1: missed Horrible Decisions, this is a little bit of that

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01:09:26,160 --> 01:09:27,920
Speaker 1: with some real estate talk. I don't know what this

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01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:31,840
Speaker 1: episode was, but you know what estate talk. If you

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01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 1: guys want horrible decisions. Though we didn't go anywhere, we're

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01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 1: over on Patreon this patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't yet get our goddamn book, No Holds

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01:09:40,320 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 1: Barred doing Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power. We will

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Speaker 1: see you puss the ass holes next week.