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Speaker 1: My nephew looks too much like me, so my wife

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's that guy doing looking like you?

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Speaker 1: Huh? I mean you care slipping a bana any day?

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Speaker 2: What do you guys related are?

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Speaker 1: Where's that guy related?

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Speaker 2: Deal? Uh?

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Speaker 1: My wife and I have been married for ten years

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Speaker 1: and together for fourteen. We are child free. I also

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Speaker 1: have a nephew who's currently thirteen, and I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: He looks a lot like me and has a lot

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Speaker 3: We're gonna do a genetics crash course. Do we all

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Speaker 3: know what alleles are? Dollars sharing alieles? It's not a

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Speaker 3: big deal.

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Speaker 2: It don't let don't.

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Speaker 1: Don't ask him that question. We don't have time, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we don't have time.

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Speaker 2: Don't have time.

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Speaker 1: We have an hour and a half and we do

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Speaker 1: not have time for that. I am really proud of

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Speaker 1: him and we have a closed bond. So the DNA Bob,

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Speaker 1: I have played a fatherlike role in his life since

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Speaker 1: he was a kid. He has a deadbeat father and

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Speaker 1: my sister divorced him long ago. Okay, your sister, your sister,

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Speaker 1: your sister. I'm putting together the dots. I'm connecting them

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Speaker 1: with red string. By the way, this comes from Potential

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Speaker 1: twos on the art slash Okay story tom So bread So.

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Speaker 1: A couple of my family members have commented on how

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Speaker 1: much my nephew looks a lot like me, and while

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Speaker 1: I initially thought of it was wholesome, my wife for

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Speaker 1: some reason became very insecure and started getting doubts. She

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Speaker 1: was questioning why I needed to play some so much

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Speaker 1: of a prominent role in my nephew's life, why my

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Speaker 1: nephew had autism, etc. The insinuations just became weird and

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Speaker 1: made me uncomfortable.

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Speaker 3: Then, nefew having autism have anything to do with it.

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Speaker 1: Well, if it's inbread, if the kid is inbread, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's your sister. Yeah that's the wife.

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Speaker 2: Saying that about her own husband. That's so weird that

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Speaker 1: God, I do agree that my sister has played some

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Speaker 1: part in my wife's insecurity because of her dry humor

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Speaker 1: during I see you, I see you. During family gatherings,

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Speaker 1: my sister jokes a lot about how wholesome it is

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Speaker 1: that her son looks a lot like me, and that

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Speaker 1: she couldn't be happier. It's obviously a joke, but I

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Speaker 1: spoke to my sister and asked she could tone it

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Speaker 1: down a bit because it was making my wife a

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Speaker 1: bit crazy insane. However, last night, my wife asked if

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Speaker 1: I could take a paternity test just for her peace

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Speaker 1: of mind.

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Speaker 3: Dude, Dad is like, I okay, okay, okay, whole principle, dude.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm messing with my wife so hard.

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Speaker 1: After this, do we take proternity tests or na pull

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Speaker 1: because if you take the paturnity test, she has no way,

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Speaker 2: Anything after that.

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Speaker 3: I would get like a fake paternity test that says

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Speaker 3: like the mom is like Angelina Jolie or something, you

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Speaker 1: Like, I would just get siting. It's so funny you

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Speaker 1: say that name that she's like fake. That is so

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Speaker 1: funny you say that name.

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Speaker 3: Why I she's popping in my head.

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Speaker 2: But I put her in.

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Speaker 1: Community chat because whenever I was dating Angelina, my girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: who's this new? And I put her name in there.

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Speaker 3: It, angel Ah mind meld.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, test or nor think you kihan, what are we

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Speaker 1: doing here? I'm seeing a lot of nose right now, okay,

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Speaker 1: and people are saying leave, we'll pull that later.

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Speaker 2: Hot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: However, last night I asked my wife if I could

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Speaker 2: Uh oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: However, my wife asked if I could take a paternity

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Speaker 1: test just for her peace of mind. That's when I

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Speaker 2: Dude, whoop there it is?

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Speaker 3: How did you literally time that to the moment I said, whoop,

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Speaker 3: there it is? And one hundred bucks came in from

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Speaker 3: Bree Breeze seventy nine.

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Speaker 1: To five say it, say it.

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Speaker 3: Happy the Early Christmas to my favorite boys and of

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Speaker 3: course Sophia love you lots wowsers.

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Speaker 2: Bree breathe, Coppy Holidays, bree breathe.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 3: This is a ten hour stream, boys, I hope we're

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Speaker 3: get the catherters ready. I'm not someone might have to

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Speaker 1: Cap that's I'll do it if I get the Cathers

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Speaker 1: ready to get the Ivy's ready because we're gonna be

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Speaker 1: here for Wow needs rest.

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Speaker 3: Guys, don't hate Keon, but he's probably gonna have to

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Speaker 1: No, we need a stra no rest stream only we'll

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Speaker 2: F i'd we need you strong. He's strong. Look at him,

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Speaker 1: I did immediately regret saying it because I meant none

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Speaker 1: of it. My wife is the love of my life.

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Speaker 1: My wife, so was my sister choking? Dude?

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Speaker 3: You want to say?

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Speaker 2: You know what I say?

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Speaker 1: We choke on my honey lemon water. Oh, by the way, wheelspin.

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Speaker 1: We got the Wilson Congratulations everybody, but my wife got

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Speaker 2: I had to console her. Was I the a hole?

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Speaker 1: We'll get another poll in a second. We got relevant

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Speaker 2: An update. But I mean, is he the a hole

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know it was no. I guess I

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Speaker 3: think for your wife to really insinuate that you had

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Speaker 3: an incestuous child, yeah, and had enough of it, Like

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Speaker 3: she gets upset after You're like, you know what I'm

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like I I don't know. I gotta assume that.

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Speaker 3: I would just be like, that's a joke, right, and

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to dig into that. What the

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Speaker 1: hell's Joe anonymous? Anonymous? Just anonymous just tipped it one

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna sit my tea on that one and say

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Speaker 2: thank you for the hundred US dollars.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's just get some a's in the chat. Since

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Speaker 1: we don't even have a name, put some for anonymous,

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Speaker 3: We need the guy box mask for like, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: welcome drama, masks, welcome story, slurp, my my slavery tea.

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Speaker 2: My gosh.

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Speaker 1: All right, everyone add that, add that thirty minutes, get

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Speaker 1: some a's in the chat. Wow, everyone said, nor nor nor,

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Speaker 1: all right, and we'll read the other donuts it a

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Speaker 3: It's way it's way, way, way too far. It's it's

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Speaker 3: it's just this blood relative. Dude, are you crazy?

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Speaker 2: Are you okay?

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Speaker 1: Relevant comments beginning of Lemon forty six oh seven says

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Speaker 1: your wife new homework is putting squares. Nope, punnet squares.

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Speaker 1: This is all going back to alleles. Thanks man, Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: Punnett squares.

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Speaker 3: Okay, we're gone. We don't worry.

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 1: That's about I love you so much. Need to stop

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Speaker 1: because so much. User name's all taken sixty nine for real,

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Speaker 1: My nephew looks exactly like me, and I never even

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Speaker 3: Whoa, I feel like that's a play on drop near,

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Speaker 3: and that's sleep near. So you can't get away with sphincter.

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Speaker 1: Don't know words. I memorize them. Okay, freaking okay eighty two.

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Speaker 1: My sister and I look a lot like our cousins.

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Speaker 1: Usual name's all taking sixty nine. Some people don't understand

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Speaker 1: how hard genetics go. Loll Trixy Goose says, totally, I

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Speaker 1: at conception or at birth.

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Speaker 1: I'm told it was in court. Actually, okay, it's a

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Speaker 1: It's so common for children to resemble your siblings, since

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Speaker 1: Brothers, my kids are gonna look like my brothers. Don't know,

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Speaker 1: my baby is four months right now. It looks like me,

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Speaker 1: I don't think so bit so why you're pretty crazy? Husband?

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Speaker 3: Mean to be to be fair, that is a pretty

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Speaker 3: from you because what you what? What?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Who are you?

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Speaker 3: Do?

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Speaker 1: You know what this reminds me of?

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Speaker 3: And I'm very I'm sorry if you're watching this, I'm

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Speaker 3: were two world wars.

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Speaker 1: That was the moment I need.

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Speaker 3: I realized, I do I know them, nobody knows them.

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Speaker 1: Nobody knows them.

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Speaker 1: Because that was the moment I realized, like, this is

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Okay, sorry dude, Riley Dakota Kambo going

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Speaker 1: So I break my paper skin, Riley, you made that rule.

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Speaker 1: I don't think there's any universe in which you stay

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Speaker 2: This woman's crazy.

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Speaker 1: What like, keon, if you and I are dating and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, why the heck are you spending so much

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Speaker 2: What's her brain? Yeah? Like he's doing that? How much

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Speaker 1: How much Bridgerton have we watched? How much of Downtown

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Speaker 2: We already know what it is.

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Speaker 1: But it's crazy that he that he I know now

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Speaker 3: She is going crazy, Like if she doesn't make it

445
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Speaker 3: up to the family members who she is disparaging with

446
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Speaker 3: these insinuations. I don't think that there's any way you

447
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Speaker 3: could keep her within that sort of unit, you know

448
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Speaker 3: what I mean?

449
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Speaker 1: Like what, okay, last thing. I also told her to

450
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Speaker 1: look into individual therapy, like many people in my last

451
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Speaker 1: post recommended. My wife was surprisingly very open to it

452
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Speaker 1: and she accepted she was being irrational, but she was

453
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Speaker 1: afraid of losing me. So anyways, that's my final update.

454
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Speaker 1: I think we're making good progress and therapy should be

455
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Speaker 1: hopefully resolve whatever issue my wife is going through. Yeah,

456
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Speaker 1: she needs therapy hopefully.

457
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Speaker 3: That last bit, that the infertility bit, has really pulled

458
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Speaker 3: the entire thing together, picture together, and it's like, now

459
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Speaker 3: this is like a I don't know if I you know,

460
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Speaker 3: I'm not a professional. I can't like label this as

461
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Speaker 3: mental illness, but it's like she's going through something related

462
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Speaker 3: to like her ideation of having children, and it's getting

463
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Speaker 3: all mixed up in her head and she's getting you know,

464
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Speaker 3: this is about it's not really about the sister. It

465
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Speaker 3: is like, now it's about her, and she's like, am

466
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Speaker 3: I a good enough woman for my husband?

467
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Speaker 1: And guys? I know we love to just like go divorce, right,

468
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 1: but see this is.

469
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Speaker 3: Why sometimes it's not because we don't always have the

470
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Speaker 3: entire context someone to high your relationship in life with

471
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Speaker 3: another person, and when things get hard, sometimes.

472
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Speaker 1: It's hard, yeah, but you gotta stick to it and

473
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Speaker 1: grow through it together. Your partner that you married and

474
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Speaker 1: it seems like they've been together for about fifteen years,

475
00:23:22,480 --> 00:23:27,600
Speaker 1: is accusing you of alabamaing your sister over and over

476
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Speaker 1: and over and.

477
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Speaker 2: You proved her wrong.

478
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Speaker 1: Okay, yes, and you proved her wrong and she's still

479
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Speaker 1: going back on it. It's mental illness therapy, okay, something

480
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Speaker 1: going on with the infertility. There's something going on with

481
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Speaker 1: the fact she can't. She should have brought that up first.

482
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Speaker 1: I understand that she had to go through a lot

483
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Speaker 1: to figure that out.

484
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Speaker 3: We're not all perfect names, We're complicated.

485
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Speaker 1: As she is accusing him of not only cheating, but

486
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Speaker 1: cheating on her with her sister. Disgusting accusation.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, man, that I think you have to

488
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 3: be in a very strange place mentally to even levy

489
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Speaker 3: at someone, especially someone you're married. But even after she

490
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Speaker 3: was proven wrong, she kept saying their their has and

491
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 3: the update there she says that she literally admitted she's like,

492
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Speaker 3: I know I'm being irrational, but I'm afraid of losing it.

493
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 3: So it's it's there's there's there's something going on, and

494
00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 3: I would applaud you know, relationships, and when you're married

495
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:17,080
Speaker 3: to somebody for a long time, you have a relationship

496
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 3: with somebody for a long time, things are not always good.

497
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Speaker 1: Things go good, and they don't stay perfect all the time.

498
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Speaker 3: And this is a really weird thing that you know,

499
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Speaker 3: if it can be worked through, it need I mean,

500
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Speaker 3: it's gonna be work.

501
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 1: It's not just gonna fix. They are going through a

502
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Speaker 1: couples therapy, but it's like we're okay. The second they

503
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 1: go on vacation with the sister, she's gonna go on.

504
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Speaker 2: I don't think I.

505
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Speaker 3: Don't think that's on the table right now until Op's

506
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 3: wife goes to the sister and can fully wholeheartedly apology

507
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,640
Speaker 3: without expecting a single thing in return, just being like, hey,

508
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 3: I was in a real messed up place. You know.

509
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,760
Speaker 3: It has nothing to do with you, and I really

510
00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 3: wholeheartedly apologize and I understand if you don't. If you

511
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 3: still don't want me around because of what I said, Yeah, understand,

512
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Speaker 3: and I'm sorry.

513
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 2: Boom.

514
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,600
Speaker 1: That's and then you gotta just your hair. That's all

515
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 1: you can do at that point.

516
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 3: And it's up to the sister to forgive you and

517
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 3: move on, yeah, or forgive you and still be like, hey,

518
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 3: I'm setting a boundary with you.

519
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Does it say that they lost a baby.

520
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 2: I don't think they did.

521
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,439
Speaker 1: They just had some they're having problems getting pregnant.

522
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

523
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 1: Also, just comment real quick, divorce or not divorce? Everyone

524
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Speaker 1: comment real quick, no, dude, because we're about to go

525
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: to the next stort. This is one comment divorce or

526
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Speaker 1: couples therapy real quick.

527
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Speaker 3: Without that update, I would have been like divorce one

528
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,320
Speaker 3: hundred percent on thousand percent. But with that update, it

529
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 3: that one piece of information is making me go like, Okay,

530
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 3: everything makes sense and.

531
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Speaker 1: We're gonna read some donos. Lily U, Lalia thanks for

532
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Speaker 1: the five bucks. Love you guys, We freaking love you.

533
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Speaker 1: And Haley Bail again thanks for the five hundred and

534
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Speaker 1: twenty dollars donation. I don't think we had a donation

535
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Speaker 1: that big before in one sum. We've had like a

536
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Speaker 1: lot of sums together like throughout, but like that one,

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Speaker 1: all that wants holy cow. Thank you for that, Anonymous,

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Speaker 1: Thanks for one hundred bucks. Oh my gosh, bre Breeze

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Speaker 1: first crush name is Megan, no second crush. Thanks for

543
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Speaker 1: the shout out. I've been listening to you guys on

544
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Speaker 1: my twelve hour shifts for months now. Love and each

545
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Speaker 1: and every one of you. You need to freaking subscribe

546
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Speaker 1: to Okay clips because we're gonna have so many well

547
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Speaker 1: it's not okay clips, Okay story time clips, Okay story

548
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Speaker 1: time clotes, because there's so many stories there that you

549
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Speaker 1: probably haven't seen yet.

550
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:35,040
Speaker 3: Although I think okay clips is cleaner if we can

551
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Speaker 3: get that, I think, But there's other stuff, and.

552
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Speaker 1: Keep scrolling down a little bit and then Hayley Bell,

553
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Speaker 1: thanks for the two hundred bucks on that one. Hannah,

554
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Speaker 1: thank you for the fifty bucks.

555
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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got, we got, We caught up.

556
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Speaker 1: We heard that one, okay and then on the YouTube

557
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Speaker 1: donos if you want to read those chib Lee, thank

558
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Speaker 1: you for being a member.

559
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Speaker 2: For five months.

560
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Speaker 3: Love you all, my only membership watching watching I Night

561
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Speaker 3: the a real one.

562
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Speaker 2: Uh.

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Speaker 3: Josephine, thank you for the twenties savings. Fiedishcronerh Keon gets.

564
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Speaker 2: Some rest, I demand it. I can keep going you though, Okay,

565
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 2: that's it, That's all I got. You just need some water.

566
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 3: You need water too, with salt and eat salt water

567
00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:20,080
Speaker 3: for your electrolyz. Let's just go to the ocean and

568
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 3: start coca go, run to the ocean, come back.

569
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Speaker 2: Got hurt my throat actually really stupid. One more we

570
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Speaker 2: got more.

571
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Speaker 3: Jen Thompson, member for seven months. Poor gang has been

572
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Speaker 3: so sick. So I ordered you guys some good tea

573
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Speaker 3: to send you. You will love it. Thank you Jen Thompson, Thank.

574
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Speaker 2: You Jen, Thank you, Carla Woods.

575
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Speaker 1: Thanks for being remember from us. Hi everyone, Hello you

576
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: watching whiching oh and Jess Josephine, thanks for the twenty

577
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Speaker 1: seven sec because you don't wanna, because you don't want

578
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,440
Speaker 1: to let my baby Keon rest.

579
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 3: That that's she's gonna use her karate over working our

580
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 3: boy well, too bad.

581
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 1: He's got to handle it. That's the life of being

582
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 1: a producer.

583
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 2: I can do this. Look at your eyes are a

584
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:10,920
Speaker 2: little droopy er.

585
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 3: Now we need to get you some emergency you need

586
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Speaker 3: at Orange Juice.

587
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 2: We need to get you a little warm that's what

588
00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 2: they are.

589
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 1: We'll see we can get you some that come in

590
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:26,840
Speaker 1: and then Hannah for the sixty bucks guys, put some

591
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: silent in the chant.

592
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 3: Thank you, Hannah. And do you guys?

593
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:35,439
Speaker 2: We got a will spin and package to open and package.

594
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 2: I'm going to wash my face.

595
00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm gonna I am getting pretty hot in here. Belton, Actually, Belton,

596
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 1: can you tell me if I can open this package

597
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: real quick?

598
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:46,240
Speaker 2: I will have here?

599
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Speaker 3: Can you are you do we want air?

600
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:50,720
Speaker 2: Are you hot?

601
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: I'm feeling great toasty? Everyone but we hear them is

602
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 1: the mother.

603
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 3: Don't touch the thermostat Kant, He'll get it sick.

604
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 2: Hard What is hard mode? Oh? Thanks for asking?

605
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: Uh, Kirsten, do you do do? You'll have to YouTube it?

606
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 1: Just see how you can renew your membership. Hard mode?

607
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 1: Is that the next story we read? You take a side,

608
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: You take a side, and you have to stick to

609
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,360
Speaker 1: that side. So you read the title and you're like,

610
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take one side and I have to take

611
00:29:25,800 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: the other side, and you have to stick to that

612
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 1: side for the rest of the story.

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00:29:28,800 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 2: You will. We have to make sure because I what

614
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 2: Sam told me is like we have to full disclosure.

615
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: It full disclosure. This is hard mode. This is hard mode.

616
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,120
Speaker 2: We are picking sides right at the beginning of it

617
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 2: because apparently you guys didn't do in the past, and

618
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 2: when they edited it, it was like it.

619
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Speaker 1: Was like, this guy's an a hole, but we got views,

620
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Speaker 1: so I don't mind.

621
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Speaker 2: Yeah, this guy, this guy's the worst piece of trash.

622
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: And someone is like, I agree with him. Yeah, yeah, So.

623
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna do hard mode.

624
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 2: Who gets to decide which side to pick first? We'll

625
00:29:56,280 --> 00:29:58,840
Speaker 2: paper scissors, do our paper scisors? Note ready.

626
00:30:00,160 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 1: Of one, best of three, best of three? Coward okay,

627
00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: best the one?

628
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 2: Do it ready? Rock paper scissors? Shoot, how he knew me?

629
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Speaker 1: He knew I was too good for scissors? Takes all baby,

630
00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: All right, you get a big first. Uh, but do

631
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: we get to hear the story? Do we do we

632
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: get to see anything about the store, We get to

633
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Speaker 1: read the title, and then you get to pick if

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Speaker 1: you want to do hard Moor?

635
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Speaker 3: Is this it?

636
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: Uh?

637
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,720
Speaker 1: And then Belton has been waiting one hundred years? Oh yeah,

638
00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: let's first, let's get I love life again.

639
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: Belton?

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Speaker 3: Are you can you scroll up and see belts and

641
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,960
Speaker 3: said we could open belt. We're good, Belt, Belton, we're good.

642
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 3: Package package, package, Yeah, we're good.

643
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 2: Go down.

644
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 3: Can you can we open it? Yes?

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00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 2: Please, we're good.

646
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:48,680
Speaker 1: Sophia, my hero, I've never opened a package on streaming.

647
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, make sure you don't. I did, I really did.

648
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:58,040
Speaker 1: Okay, we got Keon? What oh were you?

649
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 2: What did I get? Okay? Be Keon? We got you

650
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 2: this one.

651
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 1: Dakota whoa?

652
00:31:07,240 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 3: Who's this?

653
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 2: Dakota whoop?

654
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,480
Speaker 1: And Sophia Slash Team.

655
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: I will open this for Sophia Slash Team.

656
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

657
00:31:14,480 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: Wait, these are ornaments, yes, Belton says, open it. Thank

658
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: you flip swits for the five bucks. I will open it.

659
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 3: It's chain mail.

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00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 1: Oh it's chain man, it's ornaments, Chaine mail.

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00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 2: These are okay story time?

662
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 3: Uh?

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00:31:30,160 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: Thanks, and a little note.

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Speaker 1: And there's a Pokemon card in here, a Pokemon too.

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00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: No way, all right, here we go. This is I'm

666
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:43,160
Speaker 1: gonna read the note for for from Belton.

667
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 2: The ray.

668
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: Uh, the ornament didn't come out quite how I envisioned,

669
00:31:47,360 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 1: but it's handmade for your tree.

670
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: Uhuh.

671
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:52,440
Speaker 1: I hope you get many more. Yes, love Belton, Belton,

672
00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 1: we love you.

673
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 2: It's true. That's so cool.

674
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,000
Speaker 1: Open show us.

675
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: Hold on because I just unraveled. It's a Sandrew chain

676
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 2: mil No.

677
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: Wait, so it's gonna match our Pokemon.

678
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 2: It's oh no, this a slash show us fan slash

679
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 2: a Standsrew for sure. That is so awesome. Okay, this

680
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,480
Speaker 2: is so cool. I'm freaking out right now, Belton, this

681
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 2: is so cool to Sandrew. Oh my god, I'm freaking out,

682
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 2: freaking out, losing my voice, Okay, freaking out at the

683
00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 2: same time.

684
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 1: So you gotta gotta pogy.

685
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 3: My card is a reverse hollow clad a puss, which

686
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 3: oh my god, oh my god, Jesus, Okay, we need

687
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 3: to put a I'm flustered. Hold on, I gotta get my.

688
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,959
Speaker 1: Phone out, freaking out, freaking out because I gotta show him.

689
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: You see this card.

690
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 3: It's on the back of my phone already. So this

691
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 3: was a perfect card.

692
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,800
Speaker 2: Dude. I'm so happy right now.

693
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,760
Speaker 1: And then I'm Belton. You're a legend.

694
00:33:06,000 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Belton, this is so, this is

695
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 2: like I'm genuinely like smiling so from like, Ah, I got.

696
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 3: A chain mail bracelet, dude, yes, yes, immediately, yes, look

697
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 3: at that he's wearing it.

698
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 2: Belton. Do you want me to read Do you want

699
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 2: me to read your uh your your card or not?

700
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 2: I can just I can keep it here. Yeah.

701
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 3: Do you want us to read cards out loud? Wrist swag?

702
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 3: Oh man, that is awesome, dude, yes, yeah, read the

703
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: card real quick.

704
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 2: Read the card.

705
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: Yep, we gotta we gotta get back into the store.

706
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:50,960
Speaker 2: I got it, I got it. I gotta I do Pokemon.

707
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: I don't do u gh anymore. You see you as

708
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 2: a kid. Read the card? Uh so the card? Mm hmm.

709
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 2: Let me clear out my throat. Now that you're a

710
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 2: full time remember you need a Belton original too. I

711
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 2: can send you plenty more if you accept my Pogo

712
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:10,399
Speaker 2: friend request. Love Belton and Hubby, thank you both so much,

713
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:11,680
Speaker 2: and I will accept it.

714
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:14,360
Speaker 1: And look at that.

715
00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:25,120
Speaker 2: This is amazing. Oh my god, I love it amazing.

716
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 3: Here.

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00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 1: Let me yeah, I'll read your card right now.

718
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 3: Since I don't know your wrist size, the bracelet may

719
00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:33,920
Speaker 3: be a bit too big if so I can either

720
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 3: walk you through how to shorten it, or you can

721
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: send it back with a measurement and I'll fix it regardless.

722
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,320
Speaker 3: I'm so genuinely honored at how much you seem to

723
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 3: like the logo I made, so I couldn't resist making

724
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,000
Speaker 3: you your own personal piece. I hope you enjoy, and

725
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 3: I hope it keeps away future sicknesses hopefully ironicrazy, I'm

726
00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:00,640
Speaker 3: giving you the anti sickness Belton Mojo off of my bracelet,

727
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 3: which I love the bracelet and it might be a

728
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:06,240
Speaker 3: little big, and you could walk me through out it shortening,

729
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,360
Speaker 3: but honestly it's perfect the way it is.

730
00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:12,839
Speaker 2: Wow, I'm so happy right now.

731
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 3: Thank you Belton and husband of Belton and Belton's husband,

732
00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 3: thank you.

733
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:18,360
Speaker 2: This is amazing.

734
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:21,399
Speaker 1: And Sophia's gonna love this because she absolutely loves her tree.

735
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: The guys community ever, we you guys are going into

736
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 1: hard mode. Thank you Belton, and we are going into

737
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:35,960
Speaker 1: hard mode. And I and we got some doughnuts. I'll

738
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: read them real quick. Can you show the YouTube job?

739
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 2: Yes?

740
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: Uh Lally could you blow that up? Uh Lally Fairy,

741
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 1: thanks for the five New Zealand buckerunos. She's grieving the

742
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: kid she can't have, but she can see what they

743
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 1: could look like in the nephew. She needs therapy. Yes,

744
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 1: and Tina, thank you for becoming a member. And Philip swish,

745
00:35:55,800 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: thank you, she says, open it. And Chibi Lee thank

746
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,520
Speaker 1: you my only membership? Yes, everyone. I think most people

747
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 1: here were their only membership.

748
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 2: That's why I like to hear.

749
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: And we are gonna go into hard mode, Dakota, So

750
00:36:07,520 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: I won the rocks yep. So you're gonna read it

751
00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 1: and then after that you're gonna say, this is hard mode.

752
00:36:13,200 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm picking that OPI is the a hole or OPI

753
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 1: is not the a whole, and you're gonna have to

754
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 1: stick with that throughout the whole thing. Don't have to

755
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: pick the opposite, Okay, I just.

756
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 2: Say like I'm picking, we're picking. Yep. So here we

757
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 2: got who we're siding with it before we read the story.

758
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: The title is my wife one second?

759
00:36:29,719 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 2: You got it? Keilly, Yeah, you're good, you're good.

760
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 3: My wife is a pet hoarder. She got CPS called

761
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 3: on us because of it. So I'm gonna go on

762
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 3: a limb and.

763
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: Say, OPI, who is the husband, not the ale? So

764
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: this is hard mode. Everyone, This is hard mode. I

765
00:36:51,080 --> 00:36:54,080
Speaker 1: am gonna say that OPI is the a hole, and

766
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 1: this is hard mode, and I have to defend OPI.

767
00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:01,560
Speaker 1: You have to have to dec the pet hoarder saying

768
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 1: that they are not the a hole.

769
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 2: So here we go. This hard mode, op is the mode.

770
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 1: Everything to do is a So here we go.

771
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 3: It's six am and the roosters have been crowing NonStop

772
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 3: for the last two hours in our sunroom adjacent to

773
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 3: our bedroom.

774
00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 1: Just get up, Just get up, the rooster call. Why

775
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:21,800
Speaker 1: do you have roosters in the sunroom?

776
00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, just get up, OPI.

777
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,760
Speaker 3: I'm now sitting in the basement as flies swarm around

778
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 3: me and I've given up swatting them because there's too

779
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 3: many to bother.

780
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're in like you're like a horse at this point.

781
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 3: By the way, this comes from user not animal person

782
00:37:38,080 --> 00:37:43,240
Speaker 3: on the r slash okay storytime subreddit. So the basement

783
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 3: is the area of the house with the least amount

784
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 3: of flies. On top of the rooster noise is the

785
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:52,759
Speaker 3: cackle of mail quail that reside in our living room.

786
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: Mail Quail.

787
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 4: Uh.

788
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:01,359
Speaker 3: They live in the base of three cages that are

789
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 3: filled with budgies and cockatiel and budgies for that's Australian

790
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 3: for parrot or parakeets. When I wake up, I remember

791
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,600
Speaker 3: to put on my slippers and I hope I get

792
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 3: to them before stepping in dog urine or fresh dog crap.

793
00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:20,839
Speaker 3: Our carpet in our master bedroom is saturated with dog urine,

794
00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:23,319
Speaker 3: with many spots that haven't dried out yet.

795
00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: Maybe you should clean sometime, op.

796
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 2: Buld take yes, love it so much.

797
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 1: Yesterday my wife bought our daughter a new tortoise and

798
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 1: a frog.

799
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 2: That's so nice of her.

800
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: The tortoise will be added to the aquarium with our

801
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:44,760
Speaker 3: bearded dragons. The bearded dragon is often the bearded dragon,

802
00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 3: which is often free to roam the house because my

803
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 3: wife feels like it will be happier. It is free

804
00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 3: to poop on our furniture or floor or where it

805
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 3: was left last. As I sit here in my basement,

806
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:59,840
Speaker 3: the one place where I do not allow any pets,

807
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 3: I'm listening to a rabbit thumping its paws on the

808
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 3: floor above me, or it's the sound of it biting

809
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 3: and ripping apart our wall or furniture. Did you marry

810
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 3: like Eddie Murphy from that movie where he could talk

811
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 3: to am. Did you marry doctor Dolittle?

812
00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,360
Speaker 1: No, he married snow White. Snow White, they could do

813
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:16,839
Speaker 1: no wrong.

814
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 3: Uh, oh, okay, you married doctor Doolittle. But she can't

815
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,759
Speaker 3: talk to animals. I'm not sure which noise it is,

816
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 3: but I really don't care anymore. We have at least

817
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 3: six rabbits. Their little claws make a loud, scraping and

818
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:34,280
Speaker 3: tapping noise as they scurry and hop across our laminate floors.

819
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 3: The main level of our home is littered in rabbit droppings.

820
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: The droppings get pushed to the side as our four

821
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:43,799
Speaker 3: children and us inadvertently kick them around while walking through

822
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 3: the main level of our home. The dogs won't likely

823
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,400
Speaker 3: get let out this morning to go to the bathroom.

824
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,600
Speaker 3: The smaller dog doesn't even obey the command to go

825
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 3: out anymore. He just stares at you, confused by her directive.

826
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:56,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should try to train it.

827
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:03,320
Speaker 2: Oh, b I'm gonna love this one. I love this

828
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:04,760
Speaker 2: one already. The hard one's crazy.

829
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 3: If he does go outside, he just comes back in

830
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 3: to find a place to crap and pee in one

831
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 3: of our bedrooms. Our backyard doesn't have much dog crap

832
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 3: because it's mostly in our bedrooms. It will stay there

833
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,440
Speaker 3: for days on end because there's no expectation that it

834
00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 3: shouldn't be there. The new smell from the giant rug

835
00:40:23,760 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: I bought for the basement has worn off. It smelled

836
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 3: like glue and dye, and it drowned out the odors

837
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 3: from the dozen chicken that reside in our family and

838
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 3: living room. They live in a couple thirty six inch

839
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 3: fabric pop up enclosures filled with pine shavings. It is

840
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,439
Speaker 3: saturated with chicken crap and urine and has soaked into

841
00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 3: our oak hardwood floors, permanently damaging them. This stench is eyewatering. Look,

842
00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 3: Op is just too overwhelmed to do any anything here, right, Yeah.

843
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 1: Op's so overwhelmed, right.

844
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 3: All he can do is sit in the basement covered

845
00:40:57,000 --> 00:41:00,840
Speaker 3: in flies, and you know his wife is just like

846
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 3: you know, his wife is like an mma fighter, and

847
00:41:06,880 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 3: there's nothing he could do about it because she'll put

848
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:09,720
Speaker 3: him in a full nelson.

849
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: Well, maybe he should like take his head down in

850
00:41:11,719 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 1: the in the urine floor harpet.

851
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 2: This is his house too.

852
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: He should take some initiative because he lives with his

853
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 1: wife to clean up a bit. Hey, he's not cleaning

854
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 1: up at all. Happy wife, happy life, that's true. Maybe

855
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 1: he's just doing this to keep his wife happy.

856
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:24,240
Speaker 2: But he's not doing anything.

857
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,800
Speaker 3: He is the husband of the year for allowing this

858
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:28,319
Speaker 3: Shenanigan read to take place.

859
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:29,920
Speaker 1: He would be if he cleaned up a little bit

860
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 1: and it helped out.

861
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 3: Well, maybe his wife likes it messy. I think we're

862
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:40,799
Speaker 3: all disregarding that this is a wonderful husband. Uh no, yeah,

863
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 3: he's just completely perfectly fine.

864
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: This is just a ram.

865
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 3: He's fine, He's done nothing wrong. It's hard mode. We

866
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 3: have a lot of feathered friends here in our master bedroom.

867
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:55,880
Speaker 3: There are three more cages with a variety of exotic

868
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 3: birds that sing loudly all day long and leave a

869
00:41:58,880 --> 00:41:59,560
Speaker 3: permanent mess of.

870
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 1: Seeds on the floor around the cages.

871
00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 3: They are free to roam, and so our room has

872
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:08,040
Speaker 3: droppings along our beds, headboard, on our pillows, along the

873
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 3: sides of the doors where they perch, in our bathroom mirrors,

874
00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:16,800
Speaker 3: and down our shower curtains. Our sunroom has thirty plus chickens,

875
00:42:16,960 --> 00:42:19,239
Speaker 3: and about eight or ten of them are roosters, and

876
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 3: the roosters crow all day. This is where the flies breed.

877
00:42:25,040 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 3: They come in through the forty year old sliding door

878
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:31,120
Speaker 3: that is often left open. This door separates the sunroom

879
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 3: from our living area and our kitchen. The flies swarm in.

880
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 3: At any given time, there are dozens of flies in

881
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 3: our living space. The heat and humidity bake the sunroom floor,

882
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 3: which is covered in chicken crap and urine, and the

883
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 3: odor spreads through the house.

884
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 1: Do you have anything to say, Ryley, he's just not cleaning, Like, yeah,

885
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: there are a lot of animals, but you need to

886
00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: take initiative. That's I mean what I've been saying. You're wrong,

887
00:42:58,200 --> 00:42:58,600
Speaker 1: You're wrong.

888
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 3: Our house is in a suburban neighborhood. I wonder if

889
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 3: this house is in accordance with the HOA.

890
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 2: Uh.

891
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 1: Probably because they keep all their pets inside so they

892
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: can be you know what.

893
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, actually, Opie's just following the HOA rules. If your

894
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 3: wife adopts almost one hundred different animals, you have to

895
00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 3: let them do whatever they want. You can look me

896
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 3: up if you think I'm joking. Our house is in

897
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,640
Speaker 3: a suburban neighborhood. We do not live on a farm.

898
00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 2: In addition to these animals, we have two pet rats.

899
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:38,760
Speaker 3: They are sweet but as you would expect, their cage

900
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 3: is not well maintained and it stinks ninety percent of

901
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:44,839
Speaker 3: the time. Our boys room has a snake and an

902
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 3: axe lotel aquarium. It's a little blind cave salamander.

903
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 2: I have a fun story for that one that I'm

904
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 2: not gonna say. It is because there's an nda. Never mind,

905
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:56,320
Speaker 2: I can't say it. Okay.

906
00:43:57,160 --> 00:43:59,920
Speaker 3: One of our daughters has an algae covered fish aquare

907
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 3: that we fill with water whenever we hear the filter

908
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 3: screech because the water has evaporated too low. She also

909
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,720
Speaker 3: has an unkept cage with a hamster that is rarely

910
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:13,120
Speaker 3: played with. Guys, this is really hard.

911
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: This is really hard to be on hard mode right

912
00:44:17,840 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: now for this story.

913
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 2: Guys, you picked, you picked your side. You want?

914
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 3: You have to pick this side right now. I'm listening

915
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 3: to the mice eat through the foam board insulation in

916
00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 3: my basement. I want to get rid of them, but

917
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 3: it's challenging with all the access to feed throughout the house.

918
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:36,560
Speaker 2: You know.

919
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 3: I think the reason, Ope, he isn't able to do

920
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:45,239
Speaker 3: anything about this. I think it's because of his job. Nope,

921
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 3: he has to provide for his family, so he can't.

922
00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:52,799
Speaker 3: He can't take time to to to to address any

923
00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 3: of these problems.

924
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:58,520
Speaker 1: So you're saying he's too focused on working that he's

925
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 1: not even able to focus on his family and help

926
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: out around the house.

927
00:45:02,160 --> 00:45:02,919
Speaker 2: That's what you just said.

928
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, he's he's providing. Yeah, providing.

929
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 3: He's got a lot of mouths, Riley, He's got a

930
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 3: lot of mouths to feed. It's just the chickens alone

931
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 3: are over three dozen.

932
00:45:15,080 --> 00:45:17,919
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Hidie, Vincent, thank you for the twenty

933
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:18,800
Speaker 1: gifted membership.

934
00:45:18,800 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 2: Wow, where was that?

935
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: Another thirty minutes? Everyone, if you've got a membership, say

936
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 1: thank you to Heidi and Heidi tell me what emoji

937
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: want and spam that emoji when the first person you

938
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: see it.

939
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 3: Wow, thank you.

940
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:32,640
Speaker 2: Hide Vincent, holy cow, thank you, Heidi.

941
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:36,680
Speaker 1: Wow holy almost said we have two hours everyone.

942
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 3: Heid you could calm down. So, oh my god, it

943
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 3: sounded like an animal scream yup. Sounded like one of

944
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 3: the roosters.

945
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 2: Yep.

946
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 1: I was actually there and I saw how Baddie maintained everything.

947
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,040
Speaker 3: Someone edit that to be a rooster's call. Please, can

948
00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 3: someone click that and make it a rooster call? Please

949
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: be doing the lord's work.

950
00:45:57,080 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 2: Oh man.

951
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, so anyway to continue for everyone who's just hopping in.

952
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 3: By the way, we're on hard mode, and Kean will

953
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,879
Speaker 3: write something to explain what that means.

954
00:46:08,280 --> 00:46:10,879
Speaker 2: Won't Okay, he won't, but it helps me help you'll

955
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 2: learn eventually. Go ahead.

956
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:16,479
Speaker 3: They seem to be breeding and entering through the home

957
00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 3: and at a faster pace than they can be exterminating.

958
00:46:20,760 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 3: So two rats are now an unknown number of rats.

959
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 3: And again Opie is just busy with work. I am

960
00:46:30,640 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 3: not a pet person and this life is driving me nuts.

961
00:46:34,080 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 3: My wife is a pet hoarder and has adhd Our

962
00:46:37,640 --> 00:46:43,359
Speaker 3: backyard is a got our backyard, Wow, our backyard. Our

963
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 3: backyard is a ghost town full of quail cages from

964
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,920
Speaker 3: last year when she was really into quail breeding. And

965
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 3: we had over one hundred and fifty living in our backyard.

966
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: And we have one hundred and fifty minutes basically left

967
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,879
Speaker 1: on the stream because Kristin full hat just got us over.

968
00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: Thank you for the five to memberships. We are here

969
00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:09,360
Speaker 1: for another thirty shout out Kristin Foyle Hat, way to go, Kristin.

970
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 3: We're on hard mode right now.

971
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we broke the fifteen minute mark. Now it's fifteen minutes.

972
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,520
Speaker 1: Fifteen minutes. Everyone, Oh my gosh, wow.

973
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 2: See the day I get sick for you guys is

974
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 2: a great day.

975
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,439
Speaker 1: Huh oh boy.

976
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: All right, So.

977
00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 3: We just paused at one hundred and fifty quails in

978
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,800
Speaker 3: the backyard. Now there remains broken and half built cages,

979
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 3: and mounds of shavings in wood chips that she intended

980
00:47:37,560 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 3: to use as betting, scattered in random places in our backyard,

981
00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 3: our household garbage bags of chicken crap. When you try

982
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 3: to lift them, they fall apart because they weigh thirty

983
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,879
Speaker 3: to forty pounds and the bags have deteriorated from the sun.

984
00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 3: When challenged, she seems to delight in the frustration it

985
00:47:54,719 --> 00:47:57,760
Speaker 3: causes me because she is not happy in our marriage.

986
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 3: It's that accumulating animals is bringing her little bits of

987
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:04,799
Speaker 3: dopamine with each acquisition.

988
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 1: I am cooking up something right here. Good, I have

989
00:48:09,760 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 1: a good one.

990
00:48:10,239 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 2: Good. That that is what I needed.

991
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,640
Speaker 3: I'm tired of living like this, and I don't know

992
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 3: what to do. Our children think this behavior is acceptable,

993
00:48:19,040 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 3: and they often chied at me for not being on

994
00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 3: board with the animals. They say, I'm not a pet person.

995
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 3: It's true that I'm actually not a pet person, but

996
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:34,320
Speaker 3: what we have going on here is irresponsible, unsanitary, and illegal.

997
00:48:35,000 --> 00:48:38,400
Speaker 3: This is pet cruelty and normalizing neglect of animals. And

998
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 3: we have an edit and yeah everything ohp just said

999
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 3: right there is one hundred percent accurate.

1000
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 1: Yep, you are neglecting animals. Yeah right, Yeah, Opie is

1001
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:50,360
Speaker 1: a neglecting animal.

1002
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:56,920
Speaker 3: No, his wife keeps confiscating animals from the world, neglects them.

1003
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 1: We'll take a set backwork word. Okay, all right, Opie

1004
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 1: has failed as a husband. Opc a huyer because let

1005
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,160
Speaker 1: me say my point and then you can say port Oh,

1006
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 1: he has failed as a husband. Their marriage is in shambles.

1007
00:49:07,440 --> 00:49:12,520
Speaker 1: If op would have taken some initiative at any point

1008
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: with any of these animals, saying, hey, you know what, babe,

1009
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: we have three quail animals in the backyard and he

1010
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: well maintained them three. If they three, I said, fifty, listen, listen, listen, listen,

1011
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:27,399
Speaker 1: whenever they had three at the beginning, If he well

1012
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:29,799
Speaker 1: maintained those three in the backyard and said, hey, we're

1013
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: gonna get in the new cages. Hey, we're gonna get

1014
00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:34,719
Speaker 1: them new Hey, Hey, we're gonna maintain them. The wife

1015
00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: would have been like, you know what, I'm having a

1016
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:39,280
Speaker 1: dopamine hint, just having three quills in the backyard.

1017
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't need any more.

1018
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:41,919
Speaker 1: But you know what he did. He was too busy

1019
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 1: with work, like you said, and he has not put

1020
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 1: his family first. So what does his wife have to

1021
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: do to make herself feel seen is to buy more animals,

1022
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,359
Speaker 1: get more quails in the backyard, get more rats in there,

1023
00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:54,719
Speaker 1: get more chickens in there, so maybe he will see

1024
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 1: me when he comes home instead of the animals. But

1025
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 1: he only sees the animals. And I was have a

1026
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,520
Speaker 1: stinch because he has no help the family at all

1027
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 1: and has not prior towards his family whatsoever. So the

1028
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,520
Speaker 1: wife has to do this in order to do that,

1029
00:50:06,280 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: and good on her. You know what, OPI is the

1030
00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: a hole because he has not made any initiative around

1031
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 1: the house to his family or his wife.

1032
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:18,239
Speaker 3: I hate how you just cooked with that. I how

1033
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:19,640
Speaker 3: did you just cook right there?

1034
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 1: Because OPI is the a hole and he's blaming.

1035
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:24,399
Speaker 2: It on other people.

1036
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 3: How about this, Let me flip it back on you, Riley.

1037
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 3: When you well maintain three quails.

1038
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 2: Do they multiply? Yes? Yes?

1039
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 3: So the quails were actually maintained so well by Opie

1040
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 3: that they turned into one hundred and fifty quails.

1041
00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 1: But coming from a guy that has goats, you know

1042
00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,799
Speaker 1: what happens when you multiply goats and you have too

1043
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 1: many goats, you sell them, give.

1044
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 2: Them the same thing.

1045
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 1: Fucking animals, farm animals. So whenever you have more goats,

1046
00:50:55,520 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 1: you know we do, we sell them.

1047
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,839
Speaker 3: You just give them away because you don't care about them,

1048
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:03,280
Speaker 3: although you have no love for your goats. No single

1049
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 3: one of those quails had a name Riley, and if

1050
00:51:05,560 --> 00:51:08,160
Speaker 3: you cared enough you would have known them. But instead

1051
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 3: you're sitting there not James, Tim Tom, Tammy, Bessie. That's

1052
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 3: five right off, it's award. This is great, okay, every time.

1053
00:51:17,560 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 1: Coming from a guy that had goats and had an

1054
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 1: answer all those goats after a while, you know what

1055
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: we did with the males so they wouldn't breed and

1056
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:27,680
Speaker 1: have more like inbread, you know, quails there, we would

1057
00:51:27,760 --> 00:51:29,960
Speaker 1: sell them. And if the husband knew that, and if

1058
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,560
Speaker 1: the husband put in time and effort to understand that,

1059
00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:35,080
Speaker 1: he could talk to the wife in order.

1060
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 3: To do that.

1061
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: But now they have a lot of inbread quails in

1062
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 1: the backyard that he does not care about, and he's like,

1063
00:51:39,160 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: this is all her fault, woe and not taking any instative.

1064
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:47,320
Speaker 2: Paul, oh, p a hole, not the pole, We'll do

1065
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 2: the pull. We'll do this at the very end. Who

1066
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 2: is more justified here? They or Dakota?

1067
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 3: All right?

1068
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 2: Cool?

1069
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:55,759
Speaker 3: Cool?

1070
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 2: Who do you side with? I like that? I like democracy.

1071
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:03,200
Speaker 2: Look if also this is clearly.

1072
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:07,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, if there's one hundred and fifty of those, there'd

1073
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:12,000
Speaker 3: be no problem with anything but that thing. What is so?

1074
00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: I'd like to just say that clearly there's like a

1075
00:52:16,120 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 1: somewhat Cold War divorce situation going on here.

1076
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:20,600
Speaker 2: And I think.

1077
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 3: The reason that Op can't clean any of this stuff

1078
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: up is because that means he would be losing the

1079
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 3: Cold War.

1080
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: This is her responsibilit it's all. They're all of hers,

1081
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,799
Speaker 1: they're all heart And I think it's because he want

1082
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:36,960
Speaker 1: thirty six quails. I didn't want thirty six roosters. I

1083
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,800
Speaker 1: didn't want an unknown amount of rats. Maybe she just

1084
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 1: wanted a few form animals they want.

1085
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 4: They live in a suburban suburb, bae, there is no farm.

1086
00:52:49,000 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 4: Maybe be on my side here, Oh my gosh, come on, hi,

1087
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:58,800
Speaker 4: Edgy yep, okay, one of those quails.

1088
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 2: Uh toyo, bumgoing? Are you my cousin?

1089
00:53:03,160 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: But all right, let's keep going, let's keep going, let's

1090
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: kep going. There's an edit, there's an adit and you're

1091
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 1: sunk after this.

1092
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:12,240
Speaker 2: This is hard mode.

1093
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:16,479
Speaker 3: People think this is a fake post, but it's real.

1094
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 3: I'm not uploading picks for privacy, but it's genuine. I

1095
00:53:23,200 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 3: wrote it in this style just to express everything, because

1096
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 3: it's distressing and aggravating, and I haven't expressed it to anyone.

1097
00:53:30,200 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 2: See.

1098
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: Oh, he is just an artist.

1099
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,680
Speaker 3: Oh he's expressing himself via prose, which do you even

1100
00:53:36,719 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 3: know what prose is?

1101
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: That's what I thought.

1102
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 2: Go ahead, I know what it is. I just want

1103
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 2: to see what we have to.

1104
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 3: Teach ourselves things, Riley, go ahead, times, we have to

1105
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 3: teach ourselves what things are.

1106
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 2: Stop making me laugh.

1107
00:53:53,360 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 3: I am seriously here asking for advice. I'm sorry. My

1108
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,920
Speaker 3: brain just completely turned off because a comment said, let

1109
00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,440
Speaker 3: the quails grow into turkeys?

1110
00:54:06,000 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: Is that where turkeys come from?

1111
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:09,279
Speaker 3: Yes?

1112
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:11,560
Speaker 1: To go no, no, no, that's true. Do we know

1113
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:15,040
Speaker 1: that's true? Have you ever whales turn into turkey? Yesils

1114
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:15,760
Speaker 1: or baby turkeys?

1115
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:15,880
Speaker 3: No?

1116
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 1: Did you not know you're getting me.

1117
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 3: Now, you actually the one's conspiring against me and my

1118
00:54:22,760 --> 00:54:24,560
Speaker 3: perfect op who's done nothing wrong.

1119
00:54:24,960 --> 00:54:28,959
Speaker 2: He's sitting in a basement full of fly artistic soul

1120
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 2: on the Reddit from us.

1121
00:54:30,640 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: So you're telling me you did not know that quails

1122
00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: were actually baby turkey. I'm not acknowledging you. I'm not

1123
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:36,759
Speaker 1: acknowledging that.

1124
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 2: Nope, Nope, I'm not acknowledging that.

1125
00:54:39,360 --> 00:54:41,320
Speaker 3: No, God, Nope, you're still trying to get me.

1126
00:54:41,680 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 2: I don't believe you.

1127
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: I don't believe you.

1128
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 3: You're still trying to get me. You're still trying to

1129
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 3: get Also, you said a bad word. Five more minutes.

1130
00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 1: No, one woman, don't tell No. One's one woman. It's

1131
00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 1: one woman.

1132
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,719
Speaker 2: Six, keep going ten.

1133
00:55:04,040 --> 00:55:19,000
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm seriously at reset. Okay, I'm seriously asking for advice.

1134
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,440
Speaker 3: It slipped out of my control. The amount of pushback

1135
00:55:23,480 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 3: from my wife when I address the problems create a

1136
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,399
Speaker 3: lot of tension and distress the children. Yeah, Riley, think

1137
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,919
Speaker 3: of the children, which you're not doing. She just keeps

1138
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:37,480
Speaker 3: bringing home animals. The last time I threatened to rehome

1139
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,640
Speaker 3: the chickens that she was keeping in the house, she

1140
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 3: became extremely angry and combative. She re homed them, but

1141
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: not after a slew of insults and claiming I was

1142
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 3: being totally unreasonable. Then she just slips back into the

1143
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 3: same behaviors because she never believed it was a problem

1144
00:55:58,040 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 3: in the first place.

1145
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:01,560
Speaker 1: We've had company come to our house.

1146
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 3: That's the wildest thing I've read so far. Honestly, on

1147
00:56:05,880 --> 00:56:08,720
Speaker 3: top of all of that, you've had company in this place.

1148
00:56:10,080 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 2: Are they more animals?

1149
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,880
Speaker 1: I would hope so farm animal farm.

1150
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:20,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, we've had company come over to our house, but

1151
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:25,440
Speaker 3: no one has called CPS or animal control yet. Seeing

1152
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 3: all these reactions has me realizing just how bad it

1153
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 3: is from an outside perspective, and a CPS call is

1154
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:36,280
Speaker 3: a serious possibility, and that is terrified.

1155
00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:36,879
Speaker 2: Go ahead and call.

1156
00:56:36,880 --> 00:56:38,640
Speaker 1: CPS, because you're gonna shot yourself in the foot because

1157
00:56:38,680 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 1: this is your house that you have let this happen to.

1158
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 1: You're shooting yourself in the foot. You're actually giving yourself

1159
00:56:45,840 --> 00:56:48,480
Speaker 1: a fine when you do that. Instead, communicate to your

1160
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 1: freaking wife, say hey, I love you. Hey, I'm not

1161
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: the biggest animal person, but I'm gonna help out around here.

1162
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna actually do something for once. I'm gonna take

1163
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 1: my family first, and I'm gonna help clean up.

1164
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:06,359
Speaker 3: Maybe he's too busy, uh doing secret missions to keep

1165
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 3: CPS from exploding their family.

1166
00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:11,040
Speaker 1: He just said he's gonna call CPS.

1167
00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 3: No, he said someone might and it's very scary. That's

1168
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:16,520
Speaker 3: why he's constantly working, because that's why he's not gonna

1169
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 3: say he's constantly.

1170
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:25,280
Speaker 1: Working on the low to I can't even keep that

1171
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: one going. I just gonna go in the update. Okay, Damn,

1172
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:35,720
Speaker 1: Riley spitt Bars you you gave up after I thought

1173
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 1: I was gonna be like, on the wrong side of this,

1174
00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: but thank god.

1175
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 2: I'm not.

1176
00:57:41,120 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 1: Okay whatever you are, I.

1177
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 3: Think we both might be. But it's not something that's

1178
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 3: not something I would ever say because it's hard mode.

1179
00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:51,640
Speaker 3: Because this is hard mode and is done. He did

1180
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,360
Speaker 3: nothing wrong except he married the wrong woman. No OPI

1181
00:57:54,920 --> 00:57:55,160
Speaker 3: had a.

1182
00:57:55,240 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: Choice to marry someone, he married her, and he did

1183
00:57:57,200 --> 00:57:59,600
Speaker 1: the wrong thing by not actually giving anything to this

1184
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:02,439
Speaker 1: well update number one.

1185
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 3: Some of you may remember my post venting and looking

1186
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 3: for advice on what to do in regards to an

1187
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 3: extreme animal warning situation with my.

1188
00:58:18,480 --> 00:58:21,480
Speaker 2: How how long was the gap?

1189
00:58:23,600 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 3: Now? Dis it's not funny, but we're breaking our brains

1190
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 3: because it's hard mode. Dozens of chickens residing in the

1191
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 3: home and a variety of animals roaming outside of cages

1192
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:44,200
Speaker 3: in the home, feces, and a rampant mice infestation.

1193
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: Oh they're mice now and not rats. You said they

1194
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 1: were rats.

1195
00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 3: After posting, I sought therapy and started getting my bearing

1196
00:58:55,160 --> 00:58:55,840
Speaker 3: straightened out.

1197
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,160
Speaker 1: Can I drop the hard mode facade for five seconds? No,

1198
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:01,320
Speaker 1: you have to stay on this hard mode. If you don't,

1199
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:02,800
Speaker 1: then you are losing the hard mode.

1200
00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 2: It just for one moment. No, nor side. Do you

1201
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 2: know how to play hard mode? Okay? You literally picked

1202
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 2: your side. Okay, you had first pick.

1203
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 3: Did it think it would be this hard?

1204
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:20,040
Speaker 2: You literally have won the battle, but not the war

1205
00:59:20,320 --> 00:59:21,439
Speaker 2: you're posting.

1206
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 3: I sought therapy and started getting my bearings straightened out.

1207
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 3: In the midst of setting firm boundaries and beginning the

1208
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:34,160
Speaker 3: work to clean up literally two tons of chicken crap,

1209
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:39,160
Speaker 3: sand and pine shavings and resolving the rodent problem, a

1210
00:59:39,320 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 3: call to CPS was made by a third party and

1211
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 3: an investigations.

1212
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:49,040
Speaker 1: He's actually doing something for once, he said, I'm gonna

1213
00:59:49,040 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 1: work on myself and work on doing the house. Yet

1214
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 1: he has never had a conversation with his wife.

1215
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 3: Not only is he working literally ninety hours a week,

1216
00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:01,520
Speaker 3: we don't know that he's never working ninety hours. He's

1217
01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:04,480
Speaker 3: running up how he has a twitch stream where he

1218
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:07,720
Speaker 3: sits in a basement, all of the size, all assumptions,

1219
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 3: and he mimics that scene from Constantine in the Bowling

1220
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:13,160
Speaker 3: Alley when Constantine's friend gets got.

1221
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 2: He's just singing by uh what is his name?

1222
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 3: I can't remember, I don't know, but he said he's

1223
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 3: just bad. Right now now, he's doing the work, the hard,

1224
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 3: backbreaking work that no one else in the house and

1225
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 3: is doing but him, And he's doing this alone. The

1226
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:31,600
Speaker 3: soldiers on the kids aren't on his side, the wife's

1227
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,000
Speaker 3: not on his side, the animals aren't on his side.

1228
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 3: He's forging a path through fire and flames for a.

1229
01:00:40,560 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: Better life for his family. You know, because he's a

1230
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: good guy. Nope, because he has he has a wet

1231
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 1: toast spine. He has not stand up to his kids

1232
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:49,680
Speaker 1: or his wives, and they have gotten out of control,

1233
01:00:50,000 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 1: and he has should have shown some oh you know.

1234
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 2: What that sounds like to me?

1235
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: Leading leading by example action speed.

1236
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 3: He's leading by example right now, cleaning up thank you.

1237
01:01:01,560 --> 01:01:06,080
Speaker 3: This is ug, Balthazar, Yes, this is ug and slightly

1238
01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:09,400
Speaker 3: tovas for knowing Constantine's a great movie.

1239
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,880
Speaker 1: Back to the story, CPS has now.

1240
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:17,320
Speaker 3: Been called believe it or not. By that time, much

1241
01:01:17,360 --> 01:01:22,680
Speaker 3: of the situation was resolved. Animals re homed, house clean, sanitized.

1242
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 3: Nothing came of the CPS investigation, and it was quickly

1243
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 3: closed out. Because my man is the hardest worker this side.

1244
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:34,800
Speaker 1: He was just trying to save himself. He was just

1245
01:01:34,840 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: trying to save himself from a fine.

1246
01:01:36,240 --> 01:01:36,800
Speaker 2: That's all it was.

1247
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,720
Speaker 3: He was just trying to say he saved his entire

1248
01:01:40,840 --> 01:01:42,200
Speaker 3: family single handedly.

1249
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:43,000
Speaker 2: Hey, reed.

1250
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,800
Speaker 3: Nothing came of the CPS investigation, and it was pretty

1251
01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 3: quickly closed out. However, the relationship was essentially permanently damaged.

1252
01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 3: As my wife continued to deny the problem was out

1253
01:01:56,200 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 3: of hand. Deep resentment developed towards each other. Fast forward

1254
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 3: nearly twelve months and my wife requested a divorce. Well, well, well, lone,

1255
01:02:06,800 --> 01:02:08,080
Speaker 3: who's calling it quit?

1256
01:02:08,240 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1257
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 1: I wonder why because you've never even had a conversation

1258
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: with her about any of this. You just started cleaning,

1259
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: and I'll be like, babe, I want to work on

1260
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:14,560
Speaker 1: a relationship. Just started cleaning.

1261
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:18,040
Speaker 3: Think's husband for cleaning the entire house and re homing

1262
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 3: two hundred quails.

1263
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and not talking to me.

1264
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:23,120
Speaker 2: Also, I want a divorce.

1265
01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 3: Sounds like she was real appreciative of that. Did he

1266
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 3: looks like someone's not thinking of the children either.

1267
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, hear me out, here, me out, Just let

1268
01:02:32,480 --> 01:02:33,920
Speaker 1: me speak for fifteen seconds.

1269
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 3: Sign, go ahead, go ahead and speak.

1270
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he didn't even think about the children or the

1271
01:02:37,000 --> 01:02:38,600
Speaker 1: wife because he didn't even explain this to him. He

1272
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,440
Speaker 1: just started cleaning up and rehoming the animals left and right,

1273
01:02:41,760 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: and didn't even say a plan. He just started doing

1274
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: it right. I have just a little quick hypothetical for you.

1275
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 1: You're at a party.

1276
01:02:51,640 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 2: You're at a party.

1277
01:02:52,800 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 3: You're at a party. You are kind of there towards

1278
01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:00,760
Speaker 3: the end, people start cleaning up at the party. What

1279
01:03:00,920 --> 01:03:03,720
Speaker 3: do you do, Riley? Do you sit there on your

1280
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:07,439
Speaker 3: hands and do absolutely nothing? Do you just watch while

1281
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 3: everyone around you cleans up the party? Do you say, oh,

1282
01:03:11,160 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 3: there's a mess over there, why don't you go get

1283
01:03:12,760 --> 01:03:16,160
Speaker 3: that too. There's some problems over next to my feet,

1284
01:03:16,240 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 3: right over you. I want to just sweep that out.

1285
01:03:17,560 --> 01:03:19,960
Speaker 1: If I was the host of the party, as I'm

1286
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: cleaning up, like, hey, Dakota, thanks for coming. Would you

1287
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,400
Speaker 1: mind I would communicate this? Would you mind helping me

1288
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:26,840
Speaker 1: clean up? If you having a good time? Hey, would

1289
01:03:26,840 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 1: you mind taking the cops communicating that? Not just like me?

1290
01:03:30,520 --> 01:03:34,520
Speaker 3: Oh oh, so you're like a little drone who needs

1291
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:36,480
Speaker 3: to be told exactly what to do at all times.

1292
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, Is that what I hear? I'm just

1293
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:40,080
Speaker 1: saying a little communication goes a long ways.

1294
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:44,800
Speaker 3: We're input not recognized, need more input feet up.

1295
01:03:44,840 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: Instead of just me as a host cleaning everything up,

1296
01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:50,000
Speaker 1: Like hey, Dakota, I love you, thanks for coming. Would

1297
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 1: you mind like putting up the food for me?

1298
01:03:53,080 --> 01:03:55,320
Speaker 2: Thanks? Man? See how nice I was?

1299
01:03:55,760 --> 01:03:57,840
Speaker 1: Did Opie do that? Did Opie do that at all?

1300
01:03:57,880 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 2: Oh?

1301
01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 3: Yeah? Remember how Opie said every time time he brought

1302
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 3: up the situation, his wife just got me nasty and

1303
01:04:02,920 --> 01:04:03,520
Speaker 3: angry about it?

1304
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he felt at it long time ago. He

1305
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:08,720
Speaker 1: waited for the house of his house to be infested

1306
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 1: with poop and crap before he decided to actually do

1307
01:04:11,200 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: anything about it.

1308
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 2: He had he had leagues of time. He had leagues

1309
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:15,000
Speaker 2: of time.

1310
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 3: Sorry, it was making his wife upset when he would

1311
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 3: clean because you're saying you would rather him upset his

1312
01:04:21,440 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 3: wife perpetually.

1313
01:04:22,560 --> 01:04:24,160
Speaker 1: I wonder how many quills I had in the freaking

1314
01:04:24,200 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 1: backyard before he even said anything. I just want to

1315
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:30,400
Speaker 1: know that this, this man clearly loved his wife. Don't

1316
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 1: you did not love this?

1317
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,880
Speaker 3: Sorry? How much do you have to love somebody to

1318
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:37,320
Speaker 3: put up with this? Not even this isn't even a

1319
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 3: bit right now? He straight up? How much do you

1320
01:04:40,760 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 3: have to love this woman to put up with this?

1321
01:04:42,520 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 3: For literally more than he said twelve months.

1322
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say one week, all right, I'm gonna say

1323
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:50,919
Speaker 1: one word and then we're gonna get to the story.

1324
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 2: Negligence. Spell that for me. Use it in a sentence so.

1325
01:04:59,080 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: I can't smell it, but I you know what it is.

1326
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:04,280
Speaker 1: He he neglected his wife and just slid or do whatever.

1327
01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 1: Oh read, well, we'll read at the next object. This

1328
01:05:07,800 --> 01:05:09,040
Speaker 1: is a long time, all right.

1329
01:05:10,040 --> 01:05:13,760
Speaker 3: Fast forward nearly twelve months and my quitter wife requested

1330
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:18,680
Speaker 3: a divorce. We are now separated, awaiting an official legal divorce.

1331
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 3: I have moved into a very nice home and have

1332
01:05:21,560 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 3: the kids fifty to fifty. Yeah, I'm shocked to how

1333
01:05:27,160 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 3: we got fifty of these kids my physical and mental

1334
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 3: health has dramatically improved. My kids now have and organized

1335
01:05:40,160 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 3: and clean safe haven, and they seem happy. It seems

1336
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 3: inevitable that she may lose custody of the kids at

1337
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,200
Speaker 3: some point altogether. Oh does it now?

1338
01:05:49,400 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 2: That's funny that you think that.

1339
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,520
Speaker 3: I'm hoping she can keep things in check, because I'm

1340
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 3: such a good guy who really wants nothing but the

1341
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:58,400
Speaker 3: best for my wife, even though she's deranged and you're

1342
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 3: not animals, and wants all of the poop and urine

1343
01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 3: to just cake the walls and carpets and floors of

1344
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 3: our home.

1345
01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:07,000
Speaker 1: See how he didn't say anything on the story going.

1346
01:06:07,280 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 3: Anyway, objection. I'm hoping she can keep things in check.

1347
01:06:12,040 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 3: But due to the constant denial that was a pup

1348
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:18,440
Speaker 3: that there was a problem, it will most likely repeat.

1349
01:06:19,840 --> 01:06:23,520
Speaker 3: She didn't think she did anything wrong. I may have

1350
01:06:23,640 --> 01:06:26,760
Speaker 3: no choice but to take steps to ensure the children's

1351
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 3: safety at some point, further disrupting the children's lives from

1352
01:06:30,760 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 3: their otherwise loving mother.

1353
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 2: She's got nothing but.

1354
01:06:34,480 --> 01:06:36,720
Speaker 1: Good things to say about her, He cares.

1355
01:06:37,640 --> 01:06:40,600
Speaker 3: Limitations on pet quantities in Glenlin Hiss standards are written

1356
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:47,440
Speaker 3: into the divorce settlement Uh, dude, it's part of the divorce.

1357
01:06:47,520 --> 01:06:50,920
Speaker 3: You gotta keep your pets clean. By the way, wife

1358
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 3: has been in therapy for a couple of years in

1359
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:56,600
Speaker 3: the midst of the hoarding. Needs a new therapist. I

1360
01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,040
Speaker 3: guess you could say the therapist was either not savvy

1361
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 3: to the situation or enabling to an irresponsible level. I'm

1362
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:06,360
Speaker 3: leaning towards the latter. She became more and more impoltant

1363
01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:09,720
Speaker 3: that I was causing her problems, as opposed to looking inward.

1364
01:07:10,160 --> 01:07:12,600
Speaker 3: Her therapist seemed to fuel the delusions as far as

1365
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:15,720
Speaker 3: I could tell. Anyway, thanks for all your advice and

1366
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:18,600
Speaker 3: getting me to wake up to the madness I contributed

1367
01:07:18,640 --> 01:07:20,200
Speaker 3: to through inaction.

1368
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:24,439
Speaker 1: Okay, oh kind of everything Opus said. I was about

1369
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:27,400
Speaker 1: to say two things. One, I was like, he has

1370
01:07:27,520 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: not made any he has not seen anything that he's

1371
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 1: done wrong and explained it. He finally did for once

1372
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:34,680
Speaker 1: in his freaking post that he finally was like, no,

1373
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 1: what I did something wrong here?

1374
01:07:36,080 --> 01:07:36,520
Speaker 2: Good for you?

1375
01:07:37,120 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 1: And two, well, you know what, go on, I'll do

1376
01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 1: my point. You can do your point.

1377
01:07:41,320 --> 01:07:43,160
Speaker 3: Sorry, he was inactive. He was just trying to make

1378
01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:46,880
Speaker 3: his wife happy. I thought I thought you were a

1379
01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:47,440
Speaker 3: good partner.

1380
01:07:47,520 --> 01:07:47,760
Speaker 2: Riley.

1381
01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 3: But now I'm having doubts. Well, it sounds like you

1382
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:51,840
Speaker 3: don't want to have a happy wife.

1383
01:07:51,920 --> 01:07:54,000
Speaker 1: The only thing he has talked about with his wife

1384
01:07:54,160 --> 01:07:59,840
Speaker 1: is the divorce. He has not talked about anything else,

1385
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:05,120
Speaker 1: not even entertaining that. I'm not even entertaining that because

1386
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 1: you're not gonna do it.

1387
01:08:06,400 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do it. I'm not gonna do it.

1388
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:12,160
Speaker 1: I only talked about on this second up there and

1389
01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 1: complaining that's all he's done this second up two.

1390
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:18,600
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's update number two. Here we go.

1391
01:08:19,960 --> 01:08:22,439
Speaker 3: My soon to be ex wife has a bit of

1392
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:26,720
Speaker 3: an animal obsession, but otherwise is a loving and attentive mother.

1393
01:08:27,000 --> 01:08:27,200
Speaker 2: Wow.

1394
01:08:27,320 --> 01:08:29,879
Speaker 1: We share fifty to fifty custody of four children.

1395
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:33,360
Speaker 3: When we split up last year, I had worked really

1396
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 3: hard to get the house cleaned up, helped to re

1397
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:40,080
Speaker 3: home dozens of animals and eradicate a mice infestation before

1398
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 3: moving out. I I me me.

1399
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 2: Since then, she.

1400
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:49,799
Speaker 3: Has collected dozens of animals again, and the home reeks

1401
01:08:49,880 --> 01:08:50,759
Speaker 3: of animal urine.

1402
01:08:50,960 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: My oldest child has reported that the mice have returned.

1403
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 2: Return of the King.

1404
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,360
Speaker 3: There is so much animal feet around the property and

1405
01:09:01,439 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 3: inside the home that wild mice have endless food supplies,

1406
01:09:06,400 --> 01:09:09,719
Speaker 3: the dogs are not potty trained, and every caged animal

1407
01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 3: cannot be cleaned regularly enough to keep the odors at bay.

1408
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:15,600
Speaker 3: When I got the kids for the week, all of

1409
01:09:15,640 --> 01:09:19,360
Speaker 3: their belongings and clothing had the strongest pungent odor of

1410
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:23,559
Speaker 3: dirt and urine. My home is clean and smells fresh,

1411
01:09:23,880 --> 01:09:27,960
Speaker 3: and the kid's belongings made my whole house stink. Two

1412
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 3: of my kids are wearing the same clothes day and

1413
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:31,560
Speaker 3: night for multiple.

1414
01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:35,360
Speaker 1: Days at a time. I called CPS based on my

1415
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 1: attorney's advice, and I feel awful about it, as you should.

1416
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:44,839
Speaker 1: You wreaking a whole Well, look at my gentle perfect opie.

1417
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 3: Even when he has to make the right call, he

1418
01:09:48,960 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 3: loves his wife so much that it torments his beautiful,

1419
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 3: gentle soul.

1420
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 2: No, he's not doing that at all.

1421
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:59,519
Speaker 3: He's still like, she's not a gentle butterfly guy.

1422
01:10:00,200 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 1: And he tried his best. No, he can make it work,

1423
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 1: and she quit on him. No, no, no, he gave

1424
01:10:06,280 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 1: up on the marriage. He never once had a conversation. Hey, babe,

1425
01:10:09,320 --> 01:10:11,519
Speaker 1: I've been in therapy. Let's talk about this, let's work

1426
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:13,479
Speaker 1: through this. You you be him and I'll be her.

1427
01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 2: Let's go go ahead, I be him. I'm the a hole.

1428
01:10:16,800 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 1: You know, I'm the a hole here. But like like,

1429
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 1: if you talk to me, I'm the wife. Try to

1430
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 1: talk to me like he talks. Okay, Uh, I think

1431
01:10:25,960 --> 01:10:27,760
Speaker 1: we should get divorce. You're the worst ever and I

1432
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 1: hate you. Oh I'm are you getting your characters mixed up?

1433
01:10:30,600 --> 01:10:33,960
Speaker 1: Because that's what the wife did. The wife is the

1434
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 1: one who initiated divorce because he didn't talk at all

1435
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:38,880
Speaker 1: about redoing anything.

1436
01:10:39,120 --> 01:10:42,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, you're you're actually playing the wife perfectly because

1437
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:45,400
Speaker 3: she's like completely in her own universe she has she's

1438
01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:48,760
Speaker 3: like on fu, you're sounding like I didn't finish that,

1439
01:10:48,920 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 3: and that was that started and didn't finish.

1440
01:10:51,560 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 1: Sounded like the husband, dude, because he But actually you're

1441
01:10:55,920 --> 01:10:56,519
Speaker 1: talking more than.

1442
01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:59,920
Speaker 3: Hudbred ever to be on right now, dude, she's flow

1443
01:11:00,080 --> 01:11:03,559
Speaker 3: and in space with a bunch of green goolies because

1444
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 3: she's in a different universe. You know what.

1445
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,720
Speaker 1: I agree with that, And this is why it's O

1446
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:10,920
Speaker 1: peace fault because he has not talked to her or

1447
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 1: tried to figure this out. Whether he just gave up again,

1448
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:14,760
Speaker 1: let me try one more time.

1449
01:11:14,880 --> 01:11:16,960
Speaker 3: She just gave up on him. You're you're ope, I'm

1450
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 3: the wife. Try to talk to me about taking getting

1451
01:11:19,160 --> 01:11:19,719
Speaker 3: rid of the animals.

1452
01:11:19,800 --> 01:11:21,040
Speaker 1: I would, but he never talks to her.

1453
01:11:21,880 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 2: He just does it.

1454
01:11:22,680 --> 01:11:23,799
Speaker 3: Time to use our imagination.

1455
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 2: He just does it.

1456
01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 1: He doesn't talk to her, he just does it. Yes,

1457
01:11:27,160 --> 01:11:29,720
Speaker 1: and Tessy, have we ever seen him say I've talked

1458
01:11:29,720 --> 01:11:30,479
Speaker 1: to my wife about this?

1459
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 2: No, we haven't.

1460
01:11:32,240 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 3: We did, We literally did, and you know what happened here,

1461
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 3: I'll just do it since she won't do it, because

1462
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:40,320
Speaker 3: you're a coward. She goes, don't you dare touch Rudy

1463
01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 3: or Julie or Donnie or Timmy or Tommy or Paul

1464
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:47,920
Speaker 3: or Jenkins because I love every last one of them,

1465
01:11:47,920 --> 01:11:50,559
Speaker 3: and if you touch them, I will light your bad

1466
01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:51,320
Speaker 3: on five.

1467
01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:55,080
Speaker 1: Unreliable narrator right here, because we're not getting anything from

1468
01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:57,479
Speaker 1: the wife side, and we're just getting what he's saying.

1469
01:11:59,040 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 1: This guy is a hole and he's not taking any responsibility.

1470
01:12:03,280 --> 01:12:05,599
Speaker 1: He gave up on his marriage. He's just did whatever

1471
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:08,559
Speaker 1: he did to save himself and now he's blaming everything

1472
01:12:09,120 --> 01:12:11,720
Speaker 1: on his wife. Go ahead, we'll just good to the

1473
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 1: other update. My wife's still worse.

1474
01:12:16,200 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, okay.

1475
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:26,400
Speaker 3: Ah ah, he looks I'm gonna take the cobba puss

1476
01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 3: out of my hat because it's starting to get sweaty.

1477
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 3: I wanted to get damaged by water. It's okay, okay, okay,

1478
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:42,880
Speaker 3: I'm pissing myself. So it feels and looks vindictive enough,

1479
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 3: even though that's not my intent. I feel like garbage

1480
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:50,360
Speaker 3: and like I'm betraying my kid's mom's trust. I want

1481
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 3: to co parent amicably, and I feel like this will

1482
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:57,080
Speaker 3: take away from that. At the same time, she has

1483
01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:00,160
Speaker 3: a problem that is interfering with raising our childre in

1484
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 3: a safe and sanitary environment. She she heard her Dude

1485
01:13:04,320 --> 01:13:07,680
Speaker 3: not only does op want like want the best for

1486
01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 3: his wife, but he also looks after the kids. What

1487
01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 3: an't absolutely because he has five stars because he sorry?

1488
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:26,960
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Also, my kids love having.

1489
01:13:26,760 --> 01:13:28,679
Speaker 2: All the animals. Wow.

1490
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:30,040
Speaker 1: And you don't have any animals at your house?

1491
01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:32,920
Speaker 2: Crazy? And your kids.

1492
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 3: Granted they love them, but they don't recognize the amount

1493
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:40,080
Speaker 3: of time and cost to property uh and cost to

1494
01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:43,959
Speaker 3: properly care for them because you're just like the excitement

1495
01:13:44,280 --> 01:13:47,000
Speaker 3: of having a bunch of pets and animals and you

1496
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,680
Speaker 3: know what, Oh, he's such as sweetie. He doesn't bring

1497
01:13:49,800 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 3: them down by explaining reality to them. He just lets

1498
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:53,120
Speaker 3: them enjoy animals.

1499
01:13:53,200 --> 01:13:55,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't have a backbone and explains reality to

1500
01:13:55,320 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: them exactly.

1501
01:13:56,120 --> 01:14:03,240
Speaker 3: Anyways, back to the story, Stop talking. This is going

1502
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:06,759
Speaker 3: to also strain my relationship with the kids to a degree.

1503
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 3: They don't realize that one the animals cannot possibly be

1504
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,799
Speaker 3: cared for adequately, two that they are going to school

1505
01:14:15,240 --> 01:14:18,519
Speaker 3: stinking to high heaven, and three that the home is

1506
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:23,519
Speaker 3: a health concern for them. Four they see me as

1507
01:14:23,680 --> 01:14:25,559
Speaker 3: the mean dad that wants to take away all their

1508
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 3: precious animals which are a part of the family. Part

1509
01:14:28,920 --> 01:14:32,760
Speaker 3: of me is just scared of my soon to be

1510
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:36,640
Speaker 3: ex wife, Like actually afraid for my safety. L O

1511
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:40,280
Speaker 3: L look at look at look at op finding humor

1512
01:14:40,360 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 3: in dark times. He's laughing out loud. What a champion,

1513
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:47,120
Speaker 3: This fool's laughing out loud. This kuy I thought he

1514
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 3: couldn't get any better. He just keeps getting better.

1515
01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not getting better. Stop talking. Uh, go ahead.

1516
01:14:59,400 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: I don't know if she knows yet.

1517
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:04,400
Speaker 3: And a part of me wants to go over to

1518
01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:06,920
Speaker 3: her house and help her clean up and tell her

1519
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:10,720
Speaker 3: again to rehome. The animal while save your complex much.

1520
01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:14,519
Speaker 3: I'll allow that one. I'll allow that one because he

1521
01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 3: is a savior. Sorry, he can't help it, his wife,

1522
01:15:21,240 --> 01:15:26,040
Speaker 3: my children. Actually, I'm going he didn't you know, when

1523
01:15:26,080 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 3: Jay Cole said, don't save her, he didn't listen. He

1524
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:33,360
Speaker 3: didn't listen. He's saving her anyway, he didn't. She doesn't

1525
01:15:33,400 --> 01:15:35,200
Speaker 3: want to be saved. He doesn't care he's saving her.

1526
01:15:35,680 --> 01:15:39,519
Speaker 2: You're preaching, you're preaching ahead, Yeah, go ahead and read preacher.

1527
01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 3: I know this is not realistic, as it was the

1528
01:15:44,880 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 3: primary source of our arguing in our home when we

1529
01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 3: were together, and in reference to that, he's talking about

1530
01:15:49,800 --> 01:15:53,720
Speaker 3: cleaning up the entire stinky peepee poo poo house.

1531
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: I told her, I told her. I told her before.

1532
01:16:03,280 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 3: Moving out that I would always expect that her home

1533
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 3: be sanitary and not overrun by pets again, but that

1534
01:16:09,000 --> 01:16:11,760
Speaker 3: I would be amicable, amicable and fair in.

1535
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:12,919
Speaker 2: Our divorce process.

1536
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:15,439
Speaker 3: And now it just feels like I'm being petty in

1537
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:18,680
Speaker 3: the process of a difficult divorce, even though logically it's

1538
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:21,479
Speaker 3: not true. But I can't help shake a yucky feeling

1539
01:16:21,720 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 3: about calling CPS. Look how sweet he is, even though

1540
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:25,960
Speaker 3: he knows.

1541
01:16:26,080 --> 01:16:29,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's gonna manipulate full custody of his kids

1542
01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:32,679
Speaker 1: because he doesn't want to put any effort into the ops.

1543
01:16:32,800 --> 01:16:35,400
Speaker 3: Literally, Spider Man, with great power comes great responsibility. You know,

1544
01:16:35,560 --> 01:16:38,240
Speaker 3: sometimes sometimes you have to call CPS on your wife

1545
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,200
Speaker 3: because she's got a peepee poopoo house. You can't and

1546
01:16:41,360 --> 01:16:43,479
Speaker 3: you can't let you can't if you're a good father,

1547
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:45,599
Speaker 3: you can't let your kids be staying fifty to fifty

1548
01:16:45,600 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 3: at a pepe poo poo house. So he's gonna manipulate

1549
01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 3: it so they can manipulate. He's gonna manipulate. If he's

1550
01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:53,120
Speaker 3: gonna do anything, he's gonna manipulate it so that he takes.

1551
01:16:52,960 --> 01:16:56,080
Speaker 1: All he's doing is talk about how bad the wife is,

1552
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:58,680
Speaker 1: how messed up it is, and nothing about like what

1553
01:16:58,760 --> 01:17:00,679
Speaker 1: he could have done better. He has no regrets about

1554
01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:02,519
Speaker 1: any of this. He's like, this is all her fault,

1555
01:17:03,000 --> 01:17:04,840
Speaker 1: This is all her fault, and not like I should

1556
01:17:04,840 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 1: have done more as a husband. I should have done

1557
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:09,600
Speaker 1: more for the kids. I should have a freaking backbone

1558
01:17:09,760 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 1: instead of letting my wife do whatever she wants, and

1559
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 1: I should have like, you know, poured into my relationship.

1560
01:17:14,280 --> 01:17:16,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, keep digging, go ahead, He neglected.

1561
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:18,240
Speaker 2: Their relationship keeps to this point.

1562
01:17:18,280 --> 01:17:20,240
Speaker 1: This is what neglection does. He did not sit here.

1563
01:17:20,320 --> 01:17:20,640
Speaker 3: This is you.

1564
01:17:22,560 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 1: Guys.

1565
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:26,240
Speaker 3: Did he not still the listeners. I'm digging up dirt

1566
01:17:26,240 --> 01:17:28,200
Speaker 3: because I'm digging this hole deeper and deeper. Well, he

1567
01:17:28,280 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 3: did not do anything. I'm digging a deep, deep hole.

1568
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:32,800
Speaker 3: And now he's making like I could save her again

1569
01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:35,040
Speaker 3: if I wanted to, but I'm not. I'm just gonna

1570
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:35,719
Speaker 3: call CPS.

1571
01:17:35,840 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 2: But I could say the.

1572
01:17:37,120 --> 01:17:39,400
Speaker 3: First million is the hardest. He's already done it once.

1573
01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 2: He can do it again. What what save his own tail?

1574
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:43,439
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1575
01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:45,320
Speaker 2: Picking on tail once.

1576
01:17:45,439 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 3: Metric tons of feces I think was not metric tons.

1577
01:17:50,479 --> 01:17:51,800
Speaker 3: He's done it once, he could do it again.

1578
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:52,720
Speaker 2: He's not gonna do it.

1579
01:17:53,080 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 3: He did it to only save his own Probably do

1580
01:17:55,160 --> 01:17:57,320
Speaker 3: it twice as fast too, because he's the best anyway.

1581
01:17:58,160 --> 01:18:03,439
Speaker 3: Op in the comments. I continued feeling uneasy all day

1582
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:06,679
Speaker 3: and a bit panicked that before CPS came, she would

1583
01:18:06,680 --> 01:18:08,360
Speaker 3: be able to conceal, hide.

1584
01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:11,240
Speaker 1: Or talk her way out of the situation. I started

1585
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:13,800
Speaker 1: feeling like I would come out looking worse and the

1586
01:18:13,920 --> 01:18:16,960
Speaker 1: kids would not get a clean home. Out of the call,

1587
01:18:17,720 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 1: CPS talked to all of my kids while at school today.

1588
01:18:21,680 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 3: My three little ones all reported that they are all

1589
01:18:24,520 --> 01:18:27,360
Speaker 3: fine from what I could tell. I didn't pry or

1590
01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:30,879
Speaker 3: ask for more details of their conversation, but just generally

1591
01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:33,759
Speaker 3: asked if the interview was okay and how they felt

1592
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:36,600
Speaker 3: about it. They all seemed fine and like it was

1593
01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:40,679
Speaker 3: discreet and no big deal. However, my oldest child's visit

1594
01:18:40,760 --> 01:18:43,519
Speaker 3: from the agent was separate, as he goes to middle school.

1595
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:47,160
Speaker 3: He spilled all the beans and complained heavily about the

1596
01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 3: unsanitary conditions in great detail. Oh God, I I did

1597
01:18:57,040 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 3: not tell him, warn him, or coach him in any

1598
01:19:00,520 --> 01:19:03,519
Speaker 3: way whatsoever. In fact, I try not to even complain

1599
01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 3: about the home to them, as there's nothing they can

1600
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:10,320
Speaker 3: do about it and therefore would not be helpful being aware,

1601
01:19:10,560 --> 01:19:11,760
Speaker 3: emotionally aware.

1602
01:19:11,600 --> 01:19:13,720
Speaker 1: While just like covering, not trying to put his kids

1603
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:15,679
Speaker 1: in a hard spot, covering the truth like he always does.

1604
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:18,800
Speaker 1: What would the truth be, Riley, Can you elucidate that

1605
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:22,240
Speaker 1: to me? Yeah, Hey, your mother is not doing well

1606
01:19:22,360 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 1: mentally and you live in a really bad situation in

1607
01:19:26,680 --> 01:19:28,519
Speaker 1: stud He's like, I'm not gonna explain it. They'll they'll

1608
01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: figure it out when they're wrong. I'm just trying to

1609
01:19:30,479 --> 01:19:32,880
Speaker 1: help them, you know, emotionally figure this out. So you

1610
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:35,639
Speaker 1: want so you want him to turn the children against

1611
01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:37,160
Speaker 1: their mother. Great, let's move on.

1612
01:19:41,800 --> 01:19:46,600
Speaker 3: It would only cause them stress if I elucidated to

1613
01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:48,720
Speaker 3: them that they live in the Pepe poop Poo house.

1614
01:19:49,000 --> 01:19:50,240
Speaker 1: Yep, still be beta, you got.

1615
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:54,519
Speaker 3: He detailed that he asked his mom to buy a

1616
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:57,360
Speaker 3: new ten dollars shirt and she told him no, she

1617
01:19:57,520 --> 01:20:02,080
Speaker 3: doesn't have the money. He then told the CPS agent

1618
01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:05,479
Speaker 3: that two days later he saw her come home with

1619
01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 3: tons of new chickens and animal supplies.

1620
01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 2: Ouch.

1621
01:20:10,280 --> 01:20:12,840
Speaker 3: I'm saddened that he has been living in those conditions.

1622
01:20:13,400 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 3: I feel bad that their mom was probably humiliated by

1623
01:20:16,479 --> 01:20:21,720
Speaker 3: that story being retold to her. My son corroborated every complaint,

1624
01:20:22,080 --> 01:20:25,920
Speaker 3: and by the way, you can corroborate with us every

1625
01:20:26,320 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 3: weekday at three pm PST when we go live on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok,

1626
01:20:33,720 --> 01:20:42,080
Speaker 3: and Twitch. But sorry, I was watching Riley lip sync

1627
01:20:42,160 --> 01:20:46,080
Speaker 3: me and my brain actually turned off and we might

1628
01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:47,800
Speaker 3: even be live right now, so you can go check

1629
01:20:47,840 --> 01:20:48,080
Speaker 3: that out.

1630
01:20:48,160 --> 01:20:48,360
Speaker 2: Hello.

1631
01:20:48,760 --> 01:20:51,360
Speaker 3: However, we are not finished with this story yet, so

1632
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:53,760
Speaker 3: before you go check that out, wait a second, because

1633
01:20:53,800 --> 01:21:00,400
Speaker 3: we're gonna consolidate our thoughts here. Hey, Ry, can you

1634
01:21:00,520 --> 01:21:03,320
Speaker 3: still hear me down there in that deep hole that

1635
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:04,479
Speaker 3: you've dug yourself?

1636
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:07,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, because this guy has so much dirt on him

1637
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:08,679
Speaker 1: and I'm digging up the truth.

1638
01:21:09,280 --> 01:21:13,000
Speaker 3: Oh nice, nice one, nice. Now you're digging up the truth?

1639
01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:15,320
Speaker 1: Is that why you've dug one hundred feet down and

1640
01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: you still found nothing but dirt?

1641
01:21:17,760 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 2: There's nothing there? Yeah?

1642
01:21:19,120 --> 01:21:21,280
Speaker 1: Because this is how filthy this guy is as a human.

1643
01:21:21,760 --> 01:21:25,040
Speaker 3: Oh, the filthy human who's tormented about calling CPS on

1644
01:21:25,120 --> 01:21:26,360
Speaker 3: his Pepe poop poo housewife.

1645
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:31,519
Speaker 2: Oh no, I don't want to child's life to call.

1646
01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:34,439
Speaker 1: I might just call so I can have full custody

1647
01:21:34,479 --> 01:21:37,400
Speaker 1: of my kids. Oh oh, I'm gonna call all right,

1648
01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:40,560
Speaker 1: you know what, do you want my actual and do

1649
01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:43,920
Speaker 1: you want my actual opinion on this? I mean we've

1650
01:21:43,960 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 1: been hearing it the whole time, So go ahead continue continue. Okay,

1651
01:21:46,720 --> 01:21:48,760
Speaker 1: this is a cry for help. This has always been

1652
01:21:48,760 --> 01:21:52,080
Speaker 1: a cry for help. He's still not at all talk

1653
01:21:52,160 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 1: to the wife about any of this.

1654
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 3: Was it a cry for help? When again, you keep

1655
01:21:56,160 --> 01:21:58,640
Speaker 3: saying that when every time he tried to talk to

1656
01:21:58,720 --> 01:22:01,680
Speaker 3: his wife about it, she just goes no, no, no, no,

1657
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:03,040
Speaker 3: you know blah black.

1658
01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 1: That was at the beginning of the story. That was

1659
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:08,439
Speaker 1: at the beginning of the storry. He said, every time

1660
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:10,719
Speaker 1: I try to bring this up, she would always complain.

1661
01:22:10,960 --> 01:22:11,719
Speaker 2: He's been a therapy.

1662
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,439
Speaker 3: Not that she would always complain. She would yell and

1663
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:16,120
Speaker 3: stream and he would always yell, scream, angry and aggress.

1664
01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:18,920
Speaker 1: Then he's been to therapy. He's been working on himself.

1665
01:22:19,320 --> 01:22:21,400
Speaker 1: I'll give him that. He's been. He's been trying to

1666
01:22:21,800 --> 01:22:24,320
Speaker 1: make a better life for his kids. But he has

1667
01:22:24,479 --> 01:22:26,800
Speaker 1: still not talked to his wife. With all of the

1668
01:22:26,880 --> 01:22:28,880
Speaker 1: tools he has now to try and figure out what

1669
01:22:29,000 --> 01:22:31,400
Speaker 1: is going on. He's letting her spill out. Yes, she

1670
01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:34,120
Speaker 1: letting her He's letting her burn out. Are you sure

1671
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:34,400
Speaker 1: about that?

1672
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:34,720
Speaker 2: Yes?

1673
01:22:34,800 --> 01:22:36,280
Speaker 1: He has forces agreement.

1674
01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:39,519
Speaker 3: There was literally a sub section that said you have

1675
01:22:39,840 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 3: to keep the house clean and then you can have

1676
01:22:43,120 --> 01:22:44,000
Speaker 3: split custody.

1677
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:48,040
Speaker 1: He literally was like, I'm putting it in legal.

1678
01:22:48,120 --> 01:22:50,880
Speaker 3: Documentation because he knew she was going to sell not

1679
01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:52,920
Speaker 3: become people house two point.

1680
01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: Zero, because he manipulated that he needs to talk to

1681
01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:56,960
Speaker 1: her and figure this out. Because this is a cry

1682
01:22:57,000 --> 01:22:59,840
Speaker 1: for up. All these animals are like, please give me attention.

1683
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: Please just stand up for me. He is not standing

1684
01:23:02,200 --> 01:23:04,200
Speaker 1: up at all. He's not putting up anything.

1685
01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 3: Animals are crying.

1686
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:07,439
Speaker 1: No, she's crying out. She's like every animal she gets

1687
01:23:07,479 --> 01:23:09,679
Speaker 1: is to cry for help. Oh, every animals she gets.

1688
01:23:09,920 --> 01:23:12,360
Speaker 1: I mean, the animals are probably there. If they could,

1689
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:15,519
Speaker 1: they'd be like, please help us. There's a hundred up here.

1690
01:23:15,640 --> 01:23:17,680
Speaker 1: Because he didn't take care of anything at all. Now

1691
01:23:17,800 --> 01:23:20,280
Speaker 1: she's spiraling because he wasn't there for her at all.

1692
01:23:21,120 --> 01:23:22,920
Speaker 1: And he and he said, I talked to her.

1693
01:23:23,040 --> 01:23:24,280
Speaker 2: She yells at me. So I'm not gonna talk to

1694
01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:24,679
Speaker 2: her anymore.

1695
01:23:24,720 --> 01:23:26,559
Speaker 1: So I'm just gonna fall for divorce, clean my house

1696
01:23:26,640 --> 01:23:28,439
Speaker 1: to save my butt, and just you know, let her

1697
01:23:28,479 --> 01:23:30,439
Speaker 1: fall again, inspiral again, so I can have full custody

1698
01:23:30,439 --> 01:23:30,800
Speaker 1: in my cans.

1699
01:23:30,840 --> 01:23:32,439
Speaker 2: This is a manipulation written all over.

1700
01:23:32,560 --> 01:23:37,080
Speaker 1: It's finish the story in the dupole. I'm excited to

1701
01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:37,840
Speaker 1: see what this poll is.

1702
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:41,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, true, I don't even think you've dug your hole

1703
01:23:41,439 --> 01:23:43,680
Speaker 3: so deep. I don't even need to add anything. It

1704
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:46,200
Speaker 3: would almost be like, yeah, it's you know how they

1705
01:23:46,240 --> 01:23:48,640
Speaker 3: call it punching down, but you're so far down, I

1706
01:23:48,640 --> 01:23:48,880
Speaker 3: don't know.

1707
01:23:48,920 --> 01:23:52,120
Speaker 1: I would I'd have to skydiving. Like you're not saying

1708
01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:54,280
Speaker 1: anything about the story. You're just saying that you think

1709
01:23:54,320 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 1: you were beating me right now? I mean, am I wrong?

1710
01:23:58,840 --> 01:24:01,000
Speaker 2: I'm not saying anything story. Can I tell the truth?

1711
01:24:01,040 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 1: All you do is reading and just saying every point

1712
01:24:03,320 --> 01:24:03,720
Speaker 1: that I make.

1713
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:06,200
Speaker 3: You just are like, No, he never talked to He

1714
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:10,000
Speaker 3: did talk to his wife at first, not with all

1715
01:24:10,040 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 3: the tools and the therapy.

1716
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 1: And it's been years. It's been years since he's actually

1717
01:24:13,120 --> 01:24:14,240
Speaker 1: talking a lot about the conversation.

1718
01:24:14,360 --> 01:24:16,040
Speaker 3: You want them to be codependent, attached to the hip,

1719
01:24:16,080 --> 01:24:17,439
Speaker 3: and he's just constantly no codependent.

1720
01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:20,639
Speaker 1: I want him to take responsibility and try to figure

1721
01:24:20,680 --> 01:24:20,960
Speaker 1: this out.

1722
01:24:21,680 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 2: Was it was it?

1723
01:24:22,320 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 1: It was pretty responsible of him when he cleaned up

1724
01:24:24,080 --> 01:24:25,120
Speaker 1: the entire first house by.

1725
01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 2: Because he's saving his own bike.

1726
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 1: Like I've said twice and Tom again on to the

1727
01:24:29,600 --> 01:24:38,920
Speaker 1: end of the story. Uh look at that one. Yeah, Hey,

1728
01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:42,160
Speaker 1: I'm no, we're in hard mode. Keep finished this and

1729
01:24:42,200 --> 01:24:42,920
Speaker 1: then we can have five.

1730
01:24:49,520 --> 01:24:52,360
Speaker 3: The only reason I know what he told the agent

1731
01:24:52,800 --> 01:24:55,479
Speaker 3: was that their mom called him tonight and was quizzing

1732
01:24:55,560 --> 01:25:00,519
Speaker 3: him on his interview. I overheard everything he said. I

1733
01:25:00,600 --> 01:25:03,519
Speaker 3: was cleaning the kitchen, and he was right there, boldly

1734
01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 3: telling his mom all the things he told the agent.

1735
01:25:06,840 --> 01:25:09,280
Speaker 3: I didn't even know he was interviewed today as we

1736
01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:12,439
Speaker 3: had a full afternoon of driving to kids' activities and

1737
01:25:12,680 --> 01:25:16,519
Speaker 3: making dinner, rushing to do all the parenting things. Anyway,

1738
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:21,960
Speaker 3: I am relieved that there was corroboration, and it sounds

1739
01:25:22,160 --> 01:25:25,000
Speaker 3: like this may light a fire under their mom to

1740
01:25:25,160 --> 01:25:28,760
Speaker 3: again make some changes. I feel like this could end

1741
01:25:28,880 --> 01:25:31,200
Speaker 3: up being a regular cycle in the years to come.

1742
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:34,360
Speaker 3: I hope she hangs in there, finds the courage to

1743
01:25:34,439 --> 01:25:37,840
Speaker 3: recognize there is a legitimate issue and work to get better.

1744
01:25:39,840 --> 01:25:40,920
Speaker 2: Just the best guy.

1745
01:25:42,640 --> 01:25:45,240
Speaker 3: I haven't been reached out to by CPS yet, but

1746
01:25:45,360 --> 01:25:47,439
Speaker 3: I suspect to get a call soon, and I hope

1747
01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:50,120
Speaker 3: they are able to convince her that changes have to

1748
01:25:50,200 --> 01:25:50,639
Speaker 3: be made.

1749
01:25:51,520 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 2: And that is the end that story.

1750
01:25:59,080 --> 01:26:07,639
Speaker 1: Ooj bjb ooh not communicating again, not communicating.

1751
01:26:07,439 --> 01:26:15,439
Speaker 3: So not only does he wish his wife the best,

1752
01:26:16,080 --> 01:26:18,599
Speaker 3: he just says that to be He understands that at

1753
01:26:18,680 --> 01:26:22,400
Speaker 3: this point he's done all that he can. He's cleaned

1754
01:26:22,479 --> 01:26:24,760
Speaker 3: up one pee poop poo house. He can't clean up

1755
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:28,120
Speaker 3: two pee poo poo houses. He didn't even call and

1756
01:26:28,280 --> 01:26:32,519
Speaker 3: talk to CPS. It was his oldest child. The always

1757
01:26:32,680 --> 01:26:35,200
Speaker 3: child is now old enough to recognize he's in a

1758
01:26:35,240 --> 01:26:37,920
Speaker 3: pepe poo poo house and does not want to be.

1759
01:26:38,880 --> 01:26:42,639
Speaker 3: So husband didn't pit his children against the wife. Doesn't

1760
01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:46,200
Speaker 3: even like hate or resent his wife. He just wishes

1761
01:26:46,280 --> 01:26:49,519
Speaker 3: her the best. She needs to get better. She's got problems.

1762
01:26:49,560 --> 01:26:53,320
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna deny it. She's got problems. Yeah, this

1763
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:55,479
Speaker 3: woman does some problems, you know what. She also needs

1764
01:26:55,520 --> 01:26:59,360
Speaker 3: to change her therapist. I don't know if people are

1765
01:26:59,360 --> 01:27:03,559
Speaker 3: gonna give me flat for this, but the patient therapist

1766
01:27:03,680 --> 01:27:07,640
Speaker 3: relationship is extremely important, and there are some context and

1767
01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:12,080
Speaker 3: situations where the therapist can unknowingly a lot of the times,

1768
01:27:12,400 --> 01:27:14,800
Speaker 3: because again, it all comes back to the individual work

1769
01:27:14,960 --> 01:27:18,479
Speaker 3: we do as people in therapy. A therapist might end

1770
01:27:18,560 --> 01:27:21,240
Speaker 3: up enabling this kind of behavior, which it sounds like

1771
01:27:21,400 --> 01:27:25,760
Speaker 3: from op, this is what's happening with her therapist. She

1772
01:27:26,080 --> 01:27:28,599
Speaker 3: was going to therapy the entire time during pee pee

1773
01:27:28,600 --> 01:27:31,760
Speaker 3: poopoo house one point zero. She's probably seen the same

1774
01:27:31,840 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 3: therapist during this peepe poo poo house relapse that she's

1775
01:27:35,200 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 3: going through, and I think she needs help.

1776
01:27:38,400 --> 01:27:42,519
Speaker 1: All right, So she needs help Number one op tried

1777
01:27:42,560 --> 01:27:44,559
Speaker 1: to talk to his wife at the beginning, but stopped

1778
01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:47,720
Speaker 1: and was like, you know what, she's just the worst ever,

1779
01:27:48,600 --> 01:27:50,720
Speaker 1: and did not try to use this tool to talk

1780
01:27:50,760 --> 01:27:51,160
Speaker 1: to her again.

1781
01:27:51,439 --> 01:27:53,000
Speaker 2: That happened in the beginning. What about the tool.

1782
01:27:53,000 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 1: Second is to clean up the second, Yeah, he cleaned it.

1783
01:27:55,880 --> 01:27:58,080
Speaker 1: Just say okay, I like to speak, I.

1784
01:27:59,640 --> 01:28:00,000
Speaker 3: Like to speak.

1785
01:28:00,320 --> 01:28:01,599
Speaker 2: Thank you, lazy dude.

1786
01:28:01,640 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 1: He basically neglected this, did not have it, did not

1787
01:28:05,240 --> 01:28:07,639
Speaker 1: have a backbone to say, wife, let's have a conversation,

1788
01:28:08,080 --> 01:28:09,960
Speaker 1: let's dive deep. Why do we think we need all

1789
01:28:10,000 --> 01:28:13,719
Speaker 1: these animals? He just sat back and let it all happen.

1790
01:28:13,800 --> 01:28:15,679
Speaker 1: And then when he had an inkling that the CPS

1791
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:17,880
Speaker 1: is gonna come around, he started cleaning up and actually

1792
01:28:17,920 --> 01:28:21,000
Speaker 1: doing work in his relationship, not his relationship, sorry, on

1793
01:28:21,120 --> 01:28:26,000
Speaker 1: his house. Third, while the divorce was happening, yes, he

1794
01:28:26,120 --> 01:28:28,320
Speaker 1: puts something in the contract to manipulate that he could

1795
01:28:28,320 --> 01:28:33,719
Speaker 1: get full custody of his child and his children. That's

1796
01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:35,760
Speaker 1: kind of way because he knew she was gonna spiral again.

1797
01:28:35,760 --> 01:28:39,439
Speaker 1: Because he has not went through and tried to figure

1798
01:28:39,479 --> 01:28:40,800
Speaker 1: out what is going on with his wife, he gave

1799
01:28:40,880 --> 01:28:43,479
Speaker 1: up on his relationship with his wife. Thus, now he's

1800
01:28:43,479 --> 01:28:46,000
Speaker 1: gonna be like he and he's saying, oh, she's doing this,

1801
01:28:46,200 --> 01:28:46,599
Speaker 1: or she's.

1802
01:28:46,479 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 2: Doing that, or she's doing that.

1803
01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:50,519
Speaker 1: All she's doing not taking anything like I felt as

1804
01:28:50,560 --> 01:28:53,400
Speaker 1: a father, I felt as a man. He's not taking

1805
01:28:53,800 --> 01:28:56,120
Speaker 1: any of that into account. He just let it all happen.

1806
01:28:56,160 --> 01:28:58,320
Speaker 1: And he's like, well it looks like, uh, you know,

1807
01:28:59,000 --> 01:29:01,160
Speaker 1: I hope the bast I hope the best for my kids.

1808
01:29:01,200 --> 01:29:03,160
Speaker 1: But she's not doing anything right. Blah blah blah blah.

1809
01:29:03,560 --> 01:29:08,560
Speaker 1: He's taking everything out on her. She's not taking accountability

1810
01:29:08,600 --> 01:29:12,600
Speaker 1: for anything. He maybe he took one small inkling of

1811
01:29:12,640 --> 01:29:13,960
Speaker 1: accountability on her on him.

1812
01:29:14,160 --> 01:29:14,439
Speaker 2: That's it.

1813
01:29:14,600 --> 01:29:17,200
Speaker 3: Sorry, it's just my impression of Riley digging that hole man.

1814
01:29:17,400 --> 01:29:23,080
Speaker 1: Just no, I'm just saying, well, you are moving some earth, man,

1815
01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 1: you are moving that earth.

1816
01:29:25,040 --> 01:29:25,720
Speaker 2: That's what he did.

1817
01:29:26,200 --> 01:29:29,280
Speaker 1: He has not tried to help out with this relationship whatsoever.

1818
01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:33,439
Speaker 1: Riley did some bad takes, but I hate op. He's

1819
01:29:33,479 --> 01:29:35,760
Speaker 1: whining haha, and he's whining. This is all rat This

1820
01:29:35,840 --> 01:29:38,920
Speaker 1: is old whining. He's not actually doing anything. He's just complaining.

1821
01:29:41,040 --> 01:29:43,920
Speaker 2: So chat, we have a poll. Do we have res

1822
01:29:44,320 --> 01:29:47,160
Speaker 2: who do you side with on this one? Like Riley

1823
01:29:47,400 --> 01:29:54,320
Speaker 2: or Dakota. Wow. One for Riley to is the.

1824
01:29:54,400 --> 01:29:56,680
Speaker 1: A hole for not trying to do anything and just

1825
01:29:56,840 --> 01:29:58,639
Speaker 1: letting this happen. He has let this happen, and he's

1826
01:29:58,680 --> 01:29:59,880
Speaker 1: a beta male.

1827
01:30:00,520 --> 01:30:03,880
Speaker 2: He is a beta again for also, those who just

1828
01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:08,719
Speaker 2: joined were doing hard mode where both readers take aside

1829
01:30:08,760 --> 01:30:10,680
Speaker 2: in the story before you read it.

1830
01:30:10,800 --> 01:30:13,840
Speaker 1: Yes, all over the place, Riley the wife initiated mode.

1831
01:30:14,160 --> 01:30:17,800
Speaker 1: The wife did initiate divorce because she was fed up

1832
01:30:17,920 --> 01:30:20,400
Speaker 1: with someone that would not stand up for her or

1833
01:30:20,439 --> 01:30:23,519
Speaker 1: stand up for their home at all. Oh, the home

1834
01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:26,240
Speaker 1: she was ruining, the home shooting because he would not

1835
01:30:26,560 --> 01:30:27,000
Speaker 1: listen to it.

1836
01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:29,040
Speaker 2: He was trying to get his attention and he would

1837
01:30:29,040 --> 01:30:30,519
Speaker 2: not listen to her. He was just like, oh whatever,

1838
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:31,200
Speaker 2: I'm just sitting here.

1839
01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:34,840
Speaker 1: Have we ever heard of the phrase were you raised

1840
01:30:34,880 --> 01:30:35,439
Speaker 1: in a barn?

1841
01:30:37,880 --> 01:30:38,040
Speaker 3: Right?

1842
01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:41,519
Speaker 1: He? And yeah, he was the one who leaving the

1843
01:30:41,600 --> 01:30:43,800
Speaker 1: door open once. A lot of times you leave the

1844
01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:44,760
Speaker 1: door open at the barn.

1845
01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:51,920
Speaker 3: But literally she created an entire extended family of barn animals,

1846
01:30:53,200 --> 01:30:54,719
Speaker 3: mice and rats included.

1847
01:30:54,880 --> 01:30:56,599
Speaker 1: Okay, you know who could have stopped this and actually

1848
01:30:56,720 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 1: done something about it, Op, But he didn't. He just

1849
01:30:59,600 --> 01:31:01,479
Speaker 1: let her do whatever he wanted. You know whatever, should have.

1850
01:31:01,479 --> 01:31:04,120
Speaker 3: Immediately called CPS and probably gotten her like a couple

1851
01:31:04,160 --> 01:31:06,599
Speaker 3: of felonies, probably made sure that she could never see

1852
01:31:06,640 --> 01:31:09,479
Speaker 3: her children again, you know, gotten full soul custody of

1853
01:31:09,520 --> 01:31:11,200
Speaker 3: the children and made sure they never could see their

1854
01:31:11,200 --> 01:31:11,559
Speaker 3: mom again.

1855
01:31:11,600 --> 01:31:12,639
Speaker 1: But you know what he did, he didn't do any

1856
01:31:12,640 --> 01:31:12,800
Speaker 1: of that.

1857
01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:15,040
Speaker 2: Instead, he he.

1858
01:31:15,520 --> 01:31:18,559
Speaker 1: He gave Sally put in the contract that he could

1859
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:20,080
Speaker 1: get his children, and he's like, oh, if you keep

1860
01:31:20,120 --> 01:31:20,599
Speaker 1: a house clean.

1861
01:31:20,600 --> 01:31:21,920
Speaker 2: He did not try to understand her, help out.

1862
01:31:22,000 --> 01:31:23,439
Speaker 3: What did he What was the sneaky thing he put

1863
01:31:23,439 --> 01:31:23,960
Speaker 3: in the contract?

1864
01:31:24,040 --> 01:31:26,280
Speaker 1: He said, he said, what you can't have, what you

1865
01:31:26,320 --> 01:31:31,479
Speaker 1: can't have and have a peepee poo poo house. So

1866
01:31:31,560 --> 01:31:33,840
Speaker 1: she's gonna have farmanous because she's trying to figure out

1867
01:31:33,880 --> 01:31:37,479
Speaker 1: herself and he's not helping out at all. Dango, is

1868
01:31:37,520 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 1: this done?

1869
01:31:38,080 --> 01:31:41,120
Speaker 2: Are we done with that? It looks like it's a landslide.

1870
01:31:41,240 --> 01:31:41,759
Speaker 4: I win.

1871
01:31:44,760 --> 01:31:45,439
Speaker 2: Sucks in that.

1872
01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:50,519
Speaker 3: Story, especially at the beginning. That is the most passive

1873
01:31:50,640 --> 01:31:59,760
Speaker 3: man I have ever What put up the ax Lottel? Right?

1874
01:31:59,840 --> 01:32:05,320
Speaker 3: Now look at that one in the middle.

1875
01:32:07,400 --> 01:32:09,160
Speaker 1: Oh, and the one next day looks so happy.

1876
01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:11,960
Speaker 3: Look there's three they're like hanging out ooh, Ai, I

1877
01:32:12,000 --> 01:32:13,000
Speaker 3: don't like the ai one.

1878
01:32:13,200 --> 01:32:16,920
Speaker 2: That's not cool. Uh yeah, I look.

1879
01:32:16,760 --> 01:32:17,639
Speaker 1: At that one's smiling.

1880
01:32:17,720 --> 01:32:19,160
Speaker 2: Go up, go up?

1881
01:32:19,280 --> 01:32:22,880
Speaker 1: The yeah, the black one in between those two. Can

1882
01:32:22,920 --> 01:32:23,799
Speaker 1: you make him bigger?

1883
01:32:25,400 --> 01:32:28,840
Speaker 3: He always kind of bigger. He's off the side. Oh,

1884
01:32:29,040 --> 01:32:31,400
Speaker 3: there's some new stars. But that one looks like the

1885
01:32:31,439 --> 01:32:34,400
Speaker 3: color of a goldfish. It's a gold one. I've never

1886
01:32:34,520 --> 01:32:41,240
Speaker 3: seen a gold one. Wow, Holy crap, dude.

1887
01:32:41,080 --> 01:32:44,080
Speaker 1: The amount of effort it took for me to not

1888
01:32:45,080 --> 01:32:48,680
Speaker 1: call him out on his bs like you need to.

1889
01:32:49,880 --> 01:32:52,280
Speaker 3: Well no, I mean, look, clearly, the issue is the

1890
01:32:52,320 --> 01:32:55,880
Speaker 3: woman who cannot stop bringing home dozens of chickens at

1891
01:32:55,880 --> 01:32:59,080
Speaker 3: a time and refuses to give their children money. When

1892
01:32:59,360 --> 01:33:01,400
Speaker 3: can I have ten bucks for a new shirt? This

1893
01:33:01,520 --> 01:33:04,599
Speaker 3: one smells like peepee poo pooh. She's like, sorry, kid,

1894
01:33:04,680 --> 01:33:06,599
Speaker 3: I don't have it. I got I spent my lash

1895
01:33:06,680 --> 01:33:10,000
Speaker 3: money on chicken feed. Yeah, I got Bertha binga bing

1896
01:33:10,120 --> 01:33:11,600
Speaker 3: bong ting tong ching. No.

1897
01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:18,080
Speaker 1: No, I almost I almost made a oopsie there. We

1898
01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:18,760
Speaker 1: talked about this.

1899
01:33:18,920 --> 01:33:21,960
Speaker 3: I almost made a noopsy. Just my brain was trying

1900
01:33:22,000 --> 01:33:23,599
Speaker 3: to rhyme. It wasn't like anyway.

1901
01:33:23,800 --> 01:33:24,559
Speaker 1: I think it was just good.

1902
01:33:26,439 --> 01:33:28,439
Speaker 3: But he did come back around in the end like

1903
01:33:28,560 --> 01:33:30,800
Speaker 3: he did everything right. He wasn't trying to like you know,

1904
01:33:30,920 --> 01:33:33,080
Speaker 3: slam dunkin ruin his wife's life. He clearly knew that

1905
01:33:33,120 --> 01:33:35,960
Speaker 3: she had an issue. Like but truly, I don't know

1906
01:33:36,280 --> 01:33:41,560
Speaker 3: how on earth you allow that situation to persist for

1907
01:33:41,800 --> 01:33:44,000
Speaker 3: any amount of time, especially when you have kids. Dude,

1908
01:33:44,000 --> 01:33:46,680
Speaker 3: If I'm not letting my kids live in that at all,

1909
01:33:47,200 --> 01:33:49,439
Speaker 3: I don't care. If my wife has a problem, she's

1910
01:33:49,479 --> 01:33:52,400
Speaker 3: got a problem. If it's affecting our kids. Now, no,

1911
01:33:53,760 --> 01:33:55,840
Speaker 3: no way, the kids go out, me and the kids

1912
01:33:55,880 --> 01:34:00,160
Speaker 3: are gone immediately. I'm ready to get done like immediate us.

1913
01:34:00,160 --> 01:34:03,080
Speaker 3: Some don't knows, shot Lie digrats.

1914
01:34:03,120 --> 01:34:05,000
Speaker 2: Guys, that was an hour. You guys did in an hour.

1915
01:34:05,520 --> 01:34:08,920
Speaker 1: We debated for a freaking hour. That's crazy, all hard mode.

1916
01:34:09,200 --> 01:34:12,960
Speaker 1: All right, Shilah, thank you for that really deal over time,

1917
01:34:13,240 --> 01:34:16,559
Speaker 1: shi Lea, yeah, shut shay Lie.

1918
01:34:17,760 --> 01:34:18,599
Speaker 2: Sure, shay Lie.

1919
01:34:18,680 --> 01:34:20,800
Speaker 1: Thanks for the five bucks. I love the whole Okay

1920
01:34:20,880 --> 01:34:23,599
Speaker 1: storytime crew, But I would be lying if I say

1921
01:34:23,680 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 1: I didn't staying this throule, if I didn't stand this

1922
01:34:29,760 --> 01:34:30,320
Speaker 1: didn't stand.

1923
01:34:30,360 --> 01:34:31,880
Speaker 2: Wait what are you talking? Which one?

1924
01:34:33,520 --> 01:34:38,519
Speaker 1: Uh? It was a rhyme, guys, there's no, there's nothing

1925
01:34:38,680 --> 01:34:39,120
Speaker 1: over here.

1926
01:34:39,439 --> 01:34:41,000
Speaker 3: No hr, nothing about that.

1927
01:34:42,000 --> 01:34:46,240
Speaker 1: All right, we'll talk to Anonymous. Thanks for the twenty bucks.

1928
01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:48,880
Speaker 1: Get some a's in the chat for Anonymous, and then

1929
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:52,479
Speaker 1: I love you guys, We love you. Brandy Lou thanks

1930
01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:54,640
Speaker 1: for the five bucks. All right, we got those, and

1931
01:34:54,680 --> 01:34:55,800
Speaker 1: then we go to the YouTube linker.

1932
01:34:56,520 --> 01:34:58,080
Speaker 2: You just go on presh okay.

1933
01:34:59,400 --> 01:35:01,679
Speaker 1: Uh, Amy, thanks for the five bucks, Thanks for being

1934
01:35:01,760 --> 01:35:04,800
Speaker 1: on today. Work stress has been boiling over recently, hoping

1935
01:35:04,920 --> 01:35:08,320
Speaker 1: I can find something new soon. Yeah, let's get some

1936
01:35:08,920 --> 01:35:13,120
Speaker 1: hopes in the chat for Amy. Sassy sign LPC, thanks

1937
01:35:13,160 --> 01:35:16,519
Speaker 1: for the seven dollars. Canadian Uh that was my first

1938
01:35:16,760 --> 01:35:19,599
Speaker 1: go hard. This is the perfect story for it. I'm

1939
01:35:19,720 --> 01:35:24,160
Speaker 1: dying up here in Canada. That was pretty glad that

1940
01:35:24,240 --> 01:35:26,200
Speaker 1: that was That format was a little bit of my

1941
01:35:26,360 --> 01:35:29,360
Speaker 1: background and like you know, his crazy mind that just

1942
01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:30,360
Speaker 1: works with everything.

1943
01:35:30,600 --> 01:35:31,479
Speaker 3: That was such a fun time.

1944
01:35:31,920 --> 01:35:32,639
Speaker 2: M mix five bucks.

1945
01:35:32,760 --> 01:35:36,439
Speaker 1: Riley, I thought you were a Minecraft since the one

1946
01:35:36,880 --> 01:35:42,360
Speaker 1: seven one. There are what are they called axilatos in Minecraft?

1947
01:35:42,439 --> 01:35:45,280
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I did not know that. I don't haven't

1948
01:35:45,280 --> 01:35:49,280
Speaker 1: played in a while. And then Josephine, thanks for the

1949
01:35:49,320 --> 01:35:54,120
Speaker 1: twenty seven seck. Riley is like a dollar meeting orders

1950
01:35:54,680 --> 01:35:59,920
Speaker 1: show and Josephine says hard mode on everyone's day. Whole

1951
01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:03,880
Speaker 1: story is hilarious, Yeah, everyone will say, and thank again

1952
01:36:04,200 --> 01:36:06,880
Speaker 1: Christopher will Have for the twenty Gifted memberships, and Haidie

1953
01:36:06,920 --> 01:36:10,280
Speaker 1: Vincent again for the twenty Gifted memberships. Holy Cow and Sammy,

1954
01:36:10,720 --> 01:36:13,559
Speaker 1: day two of the breakup not easier yet and Okay,

1955
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:16,639
Speaker 1: storytime being worked on, very eventful. We want to see

1956
01:36:16,640 --> 01:36:19,599
Speaker 1: it and everyone hearts in the chat for Sammy and Tina,

1957
01:36:19,640 --> 01:36:22,400
Speaker 1: thanks for being in the nights And we're gonna read

1958
01:36:22,479 --> 01:36:24,280
Speaker 1: another freaking story.

1959
01:36:24,880 --> 01:36:25,160
Speaker 2: Tina.

1960
01:36:25,320 --> 01:36:27,479
Speaker 1: I can't believe think I didn't see you during the night.

1961
01:36:30,080 --> 01:36:31,280
Speaker 3: You are now a night and.

1962
01:36:31,560 --> 01:36:35,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna read another story coming up in a sec.

1963
01:36:35,640 --> 01:36:38,760
Speaker 1: And wow, that was maybe the most fun I've had

1964
01:36:38,840 --> 01:36:41,759
Speaker 1: reading this story. Yeah, dall stars, thanks for the five bugs,

1965
01:36:42,120 --> 01:36:45,040
Speaker 1: super chatted. Oh the sticker going wow, But yeah, that

1966
01:36:45,240 --> 01:36:47,960
Speaker 1: was pretty heated. I was supposed we did I need

1967
01:36:48,200 --> 01:36:49,680
Speaker 1: I got you in a few of them, but like

1968
01:36:50,880 --> 01:36:52,519
Speaker 1: a couple of points, I was like, damn, did you

1969
01:36:52,600 --> 01:36:55,719
Speaker 1: really just cook right there? But I'm like so short

1970
01:36:55,760 --> 01:36:57,479
Speaker 1: circuited that that guy was a whole hold.

1971
01:36:57,520 --> 01:36:59,200
Speaker 3: Look at the beginning of the story, it was like

1972
01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:01,360
Speaker 3: I didn't have as much of a foundation to stand

1973
01:37:01,439 --> 01:37:03,320
Speaker 3: on because it really was like.

1974
01:37:03,320 --> 01:37:03,960
Speaker 2: Bro, what are you doing?

1975
01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:06,479
Speaker 3: But the wife spiraled out and it was like he's

1976
01:37:06,600 --> 01:37:08,719
Speaker 3: he wrote in prose. Thank god, I mean that really

1977
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:11,120
Speaker 3: that really saved me. He was just like, I'm sitting

1978
01:37:11,160 --> 01:37:13,880
Speaker 3: here in my basement covered in flies and it's the

1979
01:37:14,280 --> 01:37:15,439
Speaker 3: area with the least amount.

1980
01:37:16,320 --> 01:37:16,960
Speaker 2: Oh god.

1981
01:37:17,920 --> 01:37:20,200
Speaker 3: He was on his Hemingway type type beat at the

1982
01:37:20,240 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 3: beginning of that story. He's just trying to get it

1983
01:37:22,560 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 3: all out. Yeah man, what a what a just you

1984
01:37:28,080 --> 01:37:29,160
Speaker 3: did so much? Yeah?

1985
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:31,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, I can still go on. I

1986
01:37:31,920 --> 01:37:33,760
Speaker 1: can only argue that this guy is like the worst

1987
01:37:33,760 --> 01:37:35,439
Speaker 1: guy ever. I can't like actually give anything.

1988
01:37:35,520 --> 01:37:38,920
Speaker 2: Oh it's over now. Was hard mode?

1989
01:37:39,080 --> 01:37:42,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, hard mode got fighting like divorced couple? Is that

1990
01:37:42,840 --> 01:37:44,080
Speaker 1: help divorced couple of fights?

1991
01:37:44,439 --> 01:37:44,719
Speaker 2: Dude?

1992
01:37:45,240 --> 01:37:47,000
Speaker 1: My favorite part was when I was like, actually to

1993
01:37:47,000 --> 01:37:50,720
Speaker 1: stop talking. You like read, and I say one thing

1994
01:37:50,880 --> 01:37:52,559
Speaker 1: like stop talking, and then you say your points.

1995
01:37:52,320 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 3: In the.

1996
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:57,400
Speaker 1: Sorry, I mean I'm too quiet. I don't know sammy things.

1997
01:37:57,479 --> 01:37:57,679
Speaker 3: Guys.

1998
01:37:57,720 --> 01:37:59,960
Speaker 1: I started talking it off and then my brain went blow.

1999
01:38:00,240 --> 01:38:02,120
Speaker 1: I'll work on it when I can't actually focus. Yeah,

2000
01:38:02,280 --> 01:38:03,760
Speaker 1: wait for some updates. To happen and then you can

2001
01:38:03,880 --> 01:38:05,600
Speaker 1: update it, but just take your time with it and

2002
01:38:06,280 --> 01:38:08,080
Speaker 1: ebbs and flows, valleys and highs.

2003
01:38:09,000 --> 01:38:11,840
Speaker 3: That we got it, Amber, I did really. Once I

2004
01:38:12,000 --> 01:38:14,599
Speaker 3: dropped the bar peepee poop poo house, I really held

2005
01:38:14,640 --> 01:38:16,120
Speaker 3: on to it for as long as I could.

2006
01:38:17,600 --> 01:38:21,360
Speaker 2: Now, thanks for reading that long one. I need a

2007
01:38:21,640 --> 01:38:23,880
Speaker 2: I need hot liquid. Okay, you can get hot.

2008
01:38:23,800 --> 01:38:24,479
Speaker 1: Liquid and I'll read.

2009
01:38:24,520 --> 01:38:26,360
Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, read the start at the beginning and have

2010
01:38:26,479 --> 01:38:28,160
Speaker 2: like a response and then get out of here or not.

2011
01:38:28,720 --> 01:38:29,120
Speaker 2: I'll get it.

2012
01:38:29,120 --> 01:38:29,439
Speaker 1: I'll get it.

2013
01:38:29,479 --> 01:38:31,640
Speaker 2: It's got it. Yep, here we go.

2014
01:38:32,880 --> 01:38:34,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna read the next story.

2015
01:38:34,040 --> 01:38:34,360
Speaker 2: Everyone.

2016
01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:39,360
Speaker 1: You might have My wife, my wife, my wife, all right, brest.

2017
01:38:40,479 --> 01:38:43,200
Speaker 1: My wife and I have been together for ten wait

2018
01:38:43,240 --> 01:38:43,679
Speaker 1: are you ready?

2019
01:38:44,240 --> 01:38:46,040
Speaker 2: Okay? Sorry, yes, please you can.

2020
01:38:46,240 --> 01:38:47,479
Speaker 1: Could you give me some water too, if you know

2021
01:38:47,560 --> 01:38:51,360
Speaker 1: one me regular water or a Lacroix that's in the

2022
01:38:51,400 --> 01:38:54,000
Speaker 1: fridge of mine. If you can give me a Lacroix,

2023
01:38:54,000 --> 01:38:56,120
Speaker 1: that would be awesome. You can just give me a

2024
01:38:56,160 --> 01:38:57,200
Speaker 1: can of Laquori in my fridge.

2025
01:38:57,200 --> 01:39:01,960
Speaker 2: It'd be awesome. And he's honestly honey water, all right, honeywater.

2026
01:39:03,120 --> 01:39:05,519
Speaker 1: My wife and I have been together for ten years.

2027
01:39:06,040 --> 01:39:08,280
Speaker 1: And now she wants to open our marriage.

2028
01:39:09,720 --> 01:39:12,240
Speaker 2: Open it. Nothing could go wrong there. I think you

2029
01:39:12,280 --> 01:39:12,880
Speaker 2: should open it.

2030
01:39:14,360 --> 01:39:15,560
Speaker 1: Because Keon wants to get in it.

2031
01:39:15,880 --> 01:39:16,000
Speaker 3: Uh.

2032
01:39:16,240 --> 01:39:16,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2033
01:39:16,680 --> 01:39:19,439
Speaker 1: My wife thirty seven female, and I thirty six male,

2034
01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:22,840
Speaker 1: are married for ten plus years. We have two kids

2035
01:39:22,880 --> 01:39:26,240
Speaker 1: who are of school age now, and so far everything

2036
01:39:26,360 --> 01:39:29,840
Speaker 1: was perfect in our relationship. We're together, we've been together

2037
01:39:29,960 --> 01:39:33,640
Speaker 1: since college. We have good communication, I think, and we

2038
01:39:33,720 --> 01:39:38,160
Speaker 1: could always talk openly about our struggles, desires, et cetera,

2039
01:39:38,520 --> 01:39:41,760
Speaker 1: and solve them together. Recently, my wife told me that

2040
01:39:41,920 --> 01:39:44,439
Speaker 1: a guy was hitting on her in the gym, which

2041
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:46,080
Speaker 1: surprised me and scared me.

2042
01:39:47,120 --> 01:39:47,880
Speaker 2: I asked her.

2043
01:39:48,400 --> 01:39:51,040
Speaker 1: I asked her how this made her feel, and she

2044
01:39:51,280 --> 01:39:55,200
Speaker 1: admitted that it turned her light switch on.

2045
01:39:55,960 --> 01:39:58,600
Speaker 2: Ooh, I don't like that. That's what turned it on.

2046
01:39:58,760 --> 01:40:02,160
Speaker 1: And just like oh, big Buffy God with some nice

2047
01:40:02,320 --> 01:40:05,559
Speaker 1: traps comes up to He says, hey, baby, the legs

2048
01:40:05,640 --> 01:40:06,439
Speaker 1: looking fine.

2049
01:40:08,680 --> 01:40:11,200
Speaker 2: Don't ever do that again. I'm not I'm trying to

2050
01:40:11,240 --> 01:40:14,000
Speaker 2: be that guy. I know, but don't ever do that again. Okay.

2051
01:40:15,200 --> 01:40:18,680
Speaker 1: We have had that openness talk to about each other.

2052
01:40:19,840 --> 01:40:24,080
Speaker 1: We have that openness to talk about other people we like.

2053
01:40:24,320 --> 01:40:28,880
Speaker 1: I can say I find a particular actress or person attractive,

2054
01:40:28,960 --> 01:40:32,960
Speaker 1: for example, and she will just smile, and she does

2055
01:40:33,000 --> 01:40:36,479
Speaker 1: the same. We like to know what the other person likes.

2056
01:40:36,800 --> 01:40:39,639
Speaker 1: We think it brings us closer together. By the way,

2057
01:40:39,800 --> 01:40:42,920
Speaker 1: this comes from throwaway much maybe on the R side

2058
01:40:42,920 --> 01:40:46,439
Speaker 1: show okay story Tom Sabrenet. So this comes from But

2059
01:40:46,760 --> 01:40:50,200
Speaker 1: this time I start feeling that this was coming from

2060
01:40:50,280 --> 01:40:54,400
Speaker 1: a different place. A month went by and this topic

2061
01:40:54,600 --> 01:40:57,679
Speaker 1: was never mentioned again. But then a few days ago

2062
01:40:57,800 --> 01:41:00,800
Speaker 1: she wanted to talk. She asked how I would feel

2063
01:41:00,960 --> 01:41:03,240
Speaker 1: if we would try non monogamy.

2064
01:41:04,960 --> 01:41:09,240
Speaker 2: Great? I would feel great. Uh, especially when when when

2065
01:41:09,400 --> 01:41:11,720
Speaker 2: what was you'd got triggered because a guy told you

2066
01:41:12,320 --> 01:41:14,840
Speaker 2: you're hot? Coincidence?

2067
01:41:15,720 --> 01:41:17,920
Speaker 1: I was shocked. I didn't know what to say. I

2068
01:41:18,040 --> 01:41:19,680
Speaker 1: asked her if it was because of the guy in

2069
01:41:19,720 --> 01:41:24,320
Speaker 1: the gym, and she said no, she hadn't seen him since,

2070
01:41:25,000 --> 01:41:30,240
Speaker 1: but that is, but that is, but that it's something

2071
01:41:30,720 --> 01:41:33,439
Speaker 1: that was growing aside of her for quite some time,

2072
01:41:34,000 --> 01:41:38,760
Speaker 1: and maybe this encounter now ignited it. I asked how

2073
01:41:38,880 --> 01:41:42,400
Speaker 1: she imagines it, and she didn't have any specific scenario,

2074
01:41:42,800 --> 01:41:44,920
Speaker 1: which I felt, which I felt was a good sign.

2075
01:41:45,320 --> 01:41:47,439
Speaker 1: I was afraid she already had a person in mind.

2076
01:41:48,000 --> 01:41:50,840
Speaker 1: She said we would talk more and find it out together.

2077
01:41:51,360 --> 01:41:55,200
Speaker 1: How we would want to do it, she asked. She

2078
01:41:55,360 --> 01:41:59,760
Speaker 1: said she is missing some excitement and she thinks she

2079
01:42:00,080 --> 01:42:03,320
Speaker 1: would and she thinks we could do it together in

2080
01:42:03,400 --> 01:42:07,400
Speaker 1: a way that's good for our marriage. I wonder where

2081
01:42:07,520 --> 01:42:08,880
Speaker 1: she found some more excitement.

2082
01:42:09,640 --> 01:42:09,880
Speaker 2: Yep.

2083
01:42:10,240 --> 01:42:15,000
Speaker 1: Has she gone somewhere else and started making something happen?

2084
01:42:15,080 --> 01:42:17,320
Speaker 1: Also real quick BJB thanks for the ten dollars on

2085
01:42:17,439 --> 01:42:23,439
Speaker 1: the story timelink. But I conspiracy theory. She found some

2086
01:42:24,160 --> 01:42:27,439
Speaker 1: mind blowing, sparsely sleep somewhere and she wants more.

2087
01:42:27,320 --> 01:42:29,920
Speaker 2: Of it, or she's just it's planted in her brain

2088
01:42:30,040 --> 01:42:32,439
Speaker 2: and she's like, oh, I'm not getting it spicy sleep

2089
01:42:32,479 --> 01:42:34,720
Speaker 2: with my partner. Maybe I can get spicy sleep with

2090
01:42:34,800 --> 01:42:37,679
Speaker 2: somebody else who thinks I'm hot. Yeah, sexy.

2091
01:42:38,080 --> 01:42:40,679
Speaker 1: And it seems like they've been together for since college

2092
01:42:40,720 --> 01:42:42,559
Speaker 1: and they've only known each other and they've only been

2093
01:42:42,640 --> 01:42:43,160
Speaker 1: with each other.

2094
01:42:43,160 --> 01:42:46,919
Speaker 2: So yep, and it's planted in the brain, and yep.

2095
01:42:47,720 --> 01:42:49,880
Speaker 1: She is ninety thirty one, says, then go to arcade

2096
01:42:49,880 --> 01:42:51,559
Speaker 1: with wife. She wants more excitement.

2097
01:42:52,640 --> 01:42:53,040
Speaker 3: I like that.

2098
01:42:54,240 --> 01:42:55,920
Speaker 2: I was gonna say, if you are really missing out

2099
01:42:56,000 --> 01:42:59,880
Speaker 2: in the bedroom, guess what you should communicate what's going

2100
01:42:59,920 --> 01:43:00,559
Speaker 2: on between.

2101
01:43:00,439 --> 01:43:03,160
Speaker 1: Because your partner would probably want to, like, I don't know,

2102
01:43:03,360 --> 01:43:04,040
Speaker 1: figure that out with.

2103
01:43:04,080 --> 01:43:07,320
Speaker 2: You, yeah, rather than let's let's skip a couple beats

2104
01:43:07,320 --> 01:43:08,960
Speaker 2: here and let's just open it up.

2105
01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:13,800
Speaker 1: I didn't know what I could say, so I asked

2106
01:43:13,840 --> 01:43:16,800
Speaker 1: for some time to reflect. I don't want to be

2107
01:43:16,960 --> 01:43:19,479
Speaker 1: with other women. For me, my wife is the love

2108
01:43:19,520 --> 01:43:21,800
Speaker 1: of my life and I don't want to lose her.

2109
01:43:22,040 --> 01:43:24,200
Speaker 1: On the other hand, I'm afraid that if I don't

2110
01:43:24,200 --> 01:43:26,840
Speaker 1: agree to it, she might resent it later and it

2111
01:43:27,040 --> 01:43:30,240
Speaker 1: maybe would have even led to her cheating behind my back.

2112
01:43:31,640 --> 01:43:34,400
Speaker 1: Has anyone been in such a situation, and we have

2113
01:43:34,479 --> 01:43:38,320
Speaker 1: some relevant comments. Harvey Snake says read it is a vast,

2114
01:43:38,560 --> 01:43:42,320
Speaker 1: unending graveyard for relationships where one partner wants to open

2115
01:43:42,760 --> 01:43:46,640
Speaker 1: and the other begrudgingly goes along with it, only to

2116
01:43:46,840 --> 01:43:50,920
Speaker 1: find their life turned into a nightmare of epic proportions.

2117
01:43:51,080 --> 01:43:54,280
Speaker 1: These situations always end very badly for the partner that

2118
01:43:54,360 --> 01:43:56,840
Speaker 1: didn't want it. Yes, we have read countless stories where

2119
01:43:56,880 --> 01:44:01,439
Speaker 1: this happens. Oh my gosh, if you don't want this,

2120
01:44:02,200 --> 01:44:04,920
Speaker 1: say no and make it and make it the hill

2121
01:44:05,160 --> 01:44:08,800
Speaker 1: to die on. Agreeing will not save your relationship. You

2122
01:44:08,920 --> 01:44:12,320
Speaker 1: can go to comfortables counseling to work things out, and

2123
01:44:12,439 --> 01:44:15,679
Speaker 1: maybe your wife should go to individual counseling. Oh my gosh,

2124
01:44:15,720 --> 01:44:18,160
Speaker 1: I'll read that in a second. Uh to find out

2125
01:44:18,240 --> 01:44:21,479
Speaker 1: why she needs to get validation from men outside of

2126
01:44:21,560 --> 01:44:26,200
Speaker 1: her marriage, op says, I agree, if I agree that

2127
01:44:26,280 --> 01:44:31,559
Speaker 1: if one agrees to unwillingly to it unwillingly, it's never

2128
01:44:31,680 --> 01:44:34,960
Speaker 1: a good thing. I am an analytical person. I am

2129
01:44:35,080 --> 01:44:38,639
Speaker 1: trying to understand why she wants it. I was always

2130
01:44:38,640 --> 01:44:42,040
Speaker 1: supportive with everything she wanted career, study, move et cetera.

2131
01:44:42,439 --> 01:44:45,320
Speaker 1: And she always did everything with good intention and with

2132
01:44:45,600 --> 01:44:48,840
Speaker 1: our marriage and mind. This is now a big one, though,

2133
01:44:49,000 --> 01:44:51,679
Speaker 1: and I don't know where to go with this. And Hannah,

2134
01:44:52,320 --> 01:44:56,439
Speaker 1: thank you so much for the seventy bucks. Holy cow,

2135
01:44:57,200 --> 01:44:59,479
Speaker 1: can we send you guys fun gifts? Of course, send

2136
01:44:59,560 --> 01:45:03,160
Speaker 1: us fun g the boys from Pelsmon look at this

2137
01:45:03,600 --> 01:45:06,080
Speaker 1: to Sanchru, Yeah, it goes with my water bottle.

2138
01:45:06,479 --> 01:45:08,320
Speaker 2: You think I didn't have a water bottle here? There

2139
01:45:08,320 --> 01:45:08,560
Speaker 2: it is.

2140
01:45:08,960 --> 01:45:10,360
Speaker 1: That's the other way.

2141
01:45:10,400 --> 01:45:14,400
Speaker 2: Flip the other way. The uh uh, you're that's so

2142
01:45:14,600 --> 01:45:17,120
Speaker 2: cute that I was really actually really I was really loud.

2143
01:45:17,160 --> 01:45:19,760
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. If I yelled in your ear. But I'm

2144
01:45:19,800 --> 01:45:23,920
Speaker 2: so excited. Thank you Belton again, I appreciate you, you

2145
01:45:24,240 --> 01:45:27,519
Speaker 2: and your hubby. Thank you guys, so cute. Thanks. She's

2146
01:45:27,560 --> 01:45:28,320
Speaker 2: my favorite Pokemon.

2147
01:45:28,880 --> 01:45:31,880
Speaker 1: Marnie Tina case Swoop says she needs some toys in

2148
01:45:32,160 --> 01:45:33,040
Speaker 1: the bedroom.

2149
01:45:33,120 --> 01:45:36,200
Speaker 2: See what I'm saying before you jump to another person,

2150
01:45:36,479 --> 01:45:38,760
Speaker 2: how about you get some? I got it.

2151
01:45:38,840 --> 01:45:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, sir, sir, Yeah, sorry, buddy, Thank you forgetting that.

2152
01:45:50,040 --> 01:45:50,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2153
01:45:50,320 --> 01:45:53,160
Speaker 1: She made it to a live stream. Jessica, it's night.

2154
01:45:53,280 --> 01:45:56,240
Speaker 1: Someone using my photos with my school background to cash

2155
01:45:56,640 --> 01:45:58,880
Speaker 1: scam people. Oh my gosh, okay, story jump you can

2156
01:45:58,880 --> 01:46:03,040
Speaker 1: come through ear for me to I'm gonna slur real quick.

2157
01:46:03,120 --> 01:46:05,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, go for it. What I was saying is when

2158
01:46:06,120 --> 01:46:08,120
Speaker 2: when it comes to the spicy sleep in the bedroom

2159
01:46:08,240 --> 01:46:10,400
Speaker 2: with your partners, the best thing you can do is

2160
01:46:10,400 --> 01:46:12,519
Speaker 2: communicate what we can do to make it better for

2161
01:46:12,600 --> 01:46:14,880
Speaker 2: the both of us, rather than like, let's add a

2162
01:46:14,960 --> 01:46:16,320
Speaker 2: third person or let's open this.

2163
01:46:16,600 --> 01:46:18,799
Speaker 1: Last time you talked about this, you said toys.

2164
01:46:19,520 --> 01:46:24,640
Speaker 2: Toys. Yeah, I say toys or again, the healthiest thing

2165
01:46:25,040 --> 01:46:28,320
Speaker 2: is say what you want in the bedroom, what you like,

2166
01:46:28,439 --> 01:46:29,200
Speaker 2: what you don't like.

2167
01:46:29,840 --> 01:46:32,880
Speaker 1: Cut you off, Opie and his wife. I've been to

2168
01:46:32,960 --> 01:46:35,600
Speaker 1: go for ten years. The wife wants to open up

2169
01:46:35,600 --> 01:46:38,560
Speaker 1: the marriage because she might have got the gym. But

2170
01:46:38,840 --> 01:46:41,720
Speaker 1: now she's saying that. But now she's saying it's not

2171
01:46:41,800 --> 01:46:43,320
Speaker 1: because of the guy in the gym, and she's trying

2172
01:46:43,360 --> 01:46:44,760
Speaker 1: to work on it, and he's like, should I do

2173
01:46:44,840 --> 01:46:45,960
Speaker 1: it or should I not? I don't want her to

2174
01:46:46,040 --> 01:46:47,720
Speaker 1: cheat maham my back or resent me later.

2175
01:46:48,760 --> 01:46:49,360
Speaker 2: They're trying to do.

2176
01:46:49,960 --> 01:46:51,680
Speaker 1: She's trying to open up the marriage and he's like,

2177
01:46:51,720 --> 01:46:53,280
Speaker 1: should I do it or not? It's not because of

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Speaker 1: the guy at the gym. It's like deeper than that.

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Speaker 1: She said they brought up the conversation because the guy

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Speaker 1: at the gym, and then a couple months after that

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Speaker 1: deep she yeah, she's she wants to she's lost.

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Speaker 2: Excitement in the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: And then uh, Lorie Hart for the five bucks.

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Speaker 2: Thanks. I love you all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all are the only thing I watch. Wow, And we

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Speaker 1: have a lot of content you can watch. Guys, go

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Speaker 1: to Okay storytime clips you want to watch more content.

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Speaker 1: We are popping off over there. Our channel is actually

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Speaker 1: doing really well over there, getting it going.

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Speaker 2: It's in gear.

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01:47:21,720 --> 01:47:24,000
Speaker 3: It's only in first gear. Guys, imagine when that thing

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Speaker 3: gets into fifth gear. Oh my gosh, it's gonna be screaming.

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Speaker 1: Close to another fifteen minutes. You don't have to say that.

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01:47:31,880 --> 01:47:37,120
Speaker 1: But we have another in our stream. We have another update.

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01:47:38,360 --> 01:47:41,320
Speaker 1: I want to give an update on our situation. After

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01:47:41,439 --> 01:47:45,280
Speaker 1: my wife dropped the bomb of opening up our relationship,

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01:47:45,360 --> 01:47:49,599
Speaker 1: we had a long talk, but it was probably too short.

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Speaker 3: I told her, sorry, I'm sorry, I'm I just I

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Speaker 3: just hopped in. I don't mean to derail I just

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01:47:56,800 --> 01:47:58,759
Speaker 3: saw a comment that said, yeah, she wants to cheat.

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Speaker 3: Going back to what Kean said, where you can do

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Speaker 3: things besides opening the marriage, not a.

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01:48:03,800 --> 01:48:09,760
Speaker 1: Little role playing. Maybe maybe if you pretender someone else,

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01:48:09,800 --> 01:48:10,200
Speaker 1: it'll do.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. You see what your partner wants and

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01:48:13,000 --> 01:48:16,400
Speaker 2: listen to their needs, make them feel good.

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01:48:16,600 --> 01:48:19,960
Speaker 1: That's also literally that can't watch your advice, watch some

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Speaker 1: spicy videos and be like, do.

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Speaker 2: That to me now right now.

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Speaker 3: No, I don't know about that.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know how this goes. I'm just trying

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01:48:27,040 --> 01:48:29,360
Speaker 1: to figure it out. What the Guys'm sorry, I don't

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01:48:29,360 --> 01:48:31,120
Speaker 1: have it together like you guys. Okay, sorry, you guys

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01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:32,240
Speaker 1: way more experience.

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Speaker 2: Than I am.

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01:48:32,640 --> 01:48:33,719
Speaker 1: Well, guys, really quick.

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Speaker 3: Just to harp on why we laughed right there, it's

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01:48:36,240 --> 01:48:39,080
Speaker 3: because spicy videos are never a realistic expectation of what

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Speaker 3: to bring to the bedroom.

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Speaker 1: Well, she wants excitement, so I don't know if you're

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01:48:44,520 --> 01:48:47,360
Speaker 1: into that, and then you're both into that. Anyways, back

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Speaker 1: to the story we have derailed.

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Speaker 3: Realistic is the right word. I'm sorry, I'm just trying

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01:48:51,320 --> 01:48:54,320
Speaker 3: to say myself. Whatever, realistic is the way. It's not

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Speaker 3: the median, it's not the middle.

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Speaker 2: It's that's it's unrealistic.

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Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, I'll fine, Thanks.

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01:48:59,200 --> 01:49:04,439
Speaker 2: Ken saying not really? Yeah? All right? Oh great?

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Speaker 1: Some more North Carolina family members. Bitsy with theutism.

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Speaker 2: That's so funny your name? Okay.

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01:49:09,200 --> 01:49:11,160
Speaker 1: I want to give an update on a situation. After

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01:49:11,240 --> 01:49:13,679
Speaker 1: my wife dropped the bomb of opening up our relationship.

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01:49:13,720 --> 01:49:15,559
Speaker 1: We had a long talk but probably was too short.

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01:49:16,240 --> 01:49:18,640
Speaker 1: I told her it really surprised me and scared me

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01:49:18,760 --> 01:49:22,639
Speaker 1: that she brought this up, but that I do want

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01:49:22,720 --> 01:49:25,320
Speaker 1: to discuss it and understand what she means and where

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Speaker 1: she's coming from. As all this happened after mentioning a

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Speaker 1: guy who hit on her at the gym, I told

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Speaker 1: her that it made me insecure and I want to

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Speaker 1: like to get reassurance that she didn't do anything with him.

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01:49:38,520 --> 01:49:41,680
Speaker 1: It surprised her that I assume so, but she was

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01:49:41,760 --> 01:49:43,080
Speaker 1: more than willing to reassure me.

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01:49:43,200 --> 01:49:43,479
Speaker 2: Okay.

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01:49:44,120 --> 01:49:46,679
Speaker 1: She showed me her phone and told me more details

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01:49:46,720 --> 01:49:49,280
Speaker 1: about what happened in the gym. She talked with the

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01:49:49,360 --> 01:49:53,240
Speaker 1: guy just briefly, and he complimented her look a few times.

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01:49:53,880 --> 01:49:57,639
Speaker 1: She'd been having lots of work in the past few weeks.

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01:49:57,720 --> 01:50:00,680
Speaker 1: She was bringing work home and couldn't go to the

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Speaker 1: gym as regularly. So I believe her. So I believe

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Speaker 1: her that she didn't meet with him, since she said

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01:50:09,080 --> 01:50:12,160
Speaker 1: she had no intention at all of starting an affair

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01:50:12,520 --> 01:50:15,720
Speaker 1: or going any further with that guy, but she did

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01:50:15,840 --> 01:50:19,160
Speaker 1: feel energized by getting attention and it scared her too.

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Speaker 1: She wanted to tell me. She said that the idea

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Speaker 1: of nominogamy is just a curiosity on her side and

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Speaker 1: not something that she pushes for.

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01:50:28,479 --> 01:50:30,160
Speaker 2: Do we believe her? Yes or no?

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Speaker 1: Real quick in the chat, Just say yes or no

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Speaker 1: if you believe.

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Speaker 2: Her, yes, yes, yes. I don't think I believe her,

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01:50:35,840 --> 01:50:37,240
Speaker 2: not believe her, but she's misguided.

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01:50:37,520 --> 01:50:41,920
Speaker 1: I believe her she understands it and accepts it if

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do it. But she thought, as

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01:50:44,600 --> 01:50:48,360
Speaker 1: we can discuss everything openly, maybe we could discuss this too.

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Speaker 1: I've been bringing in different things in the bedroom over

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Speaker 1: the years, like toys and roleplay, so he's already.

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Speaker 2: Been doing that. Guys.

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Speaker 1: I noticed that the scenarios were imagined other people turned

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01:51:01,040 --> 01:51:03,840
Speaker 1: her on the most, and I'm not saying it didn't

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01:51:03,880 --> 01:51:06,959
Speaker 1: turn me on too, but it was just a fantasy.

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01:51:07,560 --> 01:51:12,559
Speaker 1: Now she's proposing the fantasy a reality. She thinks if

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Speaker 1: we explored this together, just like the fantasies, it could

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01:51:16,240 --> 01:51:19,320
Speaker 1: be good for us. I asked her if what she

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Speaker 1: really is after is a whole pass or essentially to

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01:51:22,600 --> 01:51:25,439
Speaker 1: meet that guy, but she said not at all. She

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01:51:25,560 --> 01:51:27,800
Speaker 1: wants to do something together, or at least in a

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Speaker 1: way that I'm fully on board with. She wants to

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Speaker 1: party three.

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Speaker 2: So uh, I just.

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Speaker 3: I just think, man, it's like you're playing with fire

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01:51:43,600 --> 01:51:46,599
Speaker 3: that's oh, really, say you're playing with fire man.

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01:51:47,880 --> 01:51:48,720
Speaker 1: You can be interested in that.

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01:51:48,880 --> 01:51:53,320
Speaker 3: There's not necessarily anything explicitly or implicitly rather wrong with it.

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01:51:54,040 --> 01:52:02,320
Speaker 3: But like if one miscommunication happens, if one screw up happens, goodbye,

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01:52:02,439 --> 01:52:03,880
Speaker 3: it's over one.

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Speaker 2: Discimunic very hard to come back if we said this, Dakota,

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01:52:06,080 --> 01:52:09,280
Speaker 2: it's literally like you're like tiptoeing on like a fine

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01:52:09,479 --> 01:52:13,000
Speaker 2: line here, and once you fall, it's good. And this

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01:52:13,120 --> 01:52:15,160
Speaker 2: is the marriage pretty much. Yeah, it's good a fall

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01:52:15,320 --> 01:52:18,320
Speaker 2: and like you're tiptoeing on a fine line. Yeah.

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01:52:18,760 --> 01:52:21,920
Speaker 1: I will leave it at that, even though I still

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01:52:22,040 --> 01:52:25,080
Speaker 1: don't see how this would work. Her intention didn't seem

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01:52:25,120 --> 01:52:28,439
Speaker 1: to be selfish or pushy, so I decided not to

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01:52:28,520 --> 01:52:31,519
Speaker 1: shut the conversation down completely. We need to talk a

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01:52:31,600 --> 01:52:34,680
Speaker 1: lot more, and I suggested going to counseling, if only

2297
01:52:34,760 --> 01:52:37,439
Speaker 1: for a few times, to help us navigate our feelings

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01:52:37,479 --> 01:52:39,920
Speaker 1: around this. She agreed, and I hope you can agree

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01:52:39,960 --> 01:52:41,920
Speaker 1: to join us live every weekday at three pmpsdo when

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01:52:41,960 --> 01:52:44,680
Speaker 1: we go live on TikTok, YouTube, Twitch, and Facebook, just

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01:52:44,760 --> 01:52:46,479
Speaker 1: to have her profile it even check if we're going

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Speaker 1: live right now before we leave. We have a little

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01:52:48,800 --> 01:52:51,840
Speaker 1: bit more left of this story. I think this is

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01:52:51,880 --> 01:52:55,280
Speaker 1: a really well conversation. They're actually talking this through.

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01:52:56,200 --> 01:52:57,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, and I have all the context.

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01:53:00,040 --> 01:53:01,680
Speaker 1: I don't think you needed the other optating No, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, like literally though this is a I mean from

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01:53:04,800 --> 01:53:07,160
Speaker 3: what I've heard, it's like, yeah, this is you know.

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01:53:07,640 --> 01:53:10,120
Speaker 3: The worst reaction would be just like getting upset about

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01:53:10,120 --> 01:53:13,000
Speaker 3: it and with withdrawing and just being mad. But it

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01:53:13,080 --> 01:53:15,240
Speaker 3: sounds like you guys are actually trying to have a

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01:53:15,280 --> 01:53:18,760
Speaker 3: conversation about it. She is also being like, hey, look, look,

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01:53:18,800 --> 01:53:20,160
Speaker 3: it's not just this one guy. It's not like I

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01:53:20,280 --> 01:53:21,639
Speaker 3: just want to like go cheat on you with this guy.

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01:53:21,680 --> 01:53:23,439
Speaker 3: I don't know. The reason I'm talking to you about

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01:53:23,439 --> 01:53:26,479
Speaker 3: it is because I felt this thing. A lot of

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01:53:26,520 --> 01:53:29,880
Speaker 3: times in relationships, when people feel difficult things that might

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01:53:29,960 --> 01:53:33,360
Speaker 3: be hard to talk about or might be upsetting the equilibrium,

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01:53:33,560 --> 01:53:36,400
Speaker 3: uh equilibrium of the relationship.

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01:53:36,439 --> 01:53:37,800
Speaker 1: They just decide not to talk about it.

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Speaker 2: Got it?

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01:53:38,400 --> 01:53:41,519
Speaker 3: And that's always gonna end up. It's just gonna like

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01:53:41,640 --> 01:53:43,759
Speaker 3: bubble up at some point from underneath the surface.

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01:53:43,800 --> 01:53:47,760
Speaker 1: And now there it is, and it's now you gotta

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01:53:47,800 --> 01:53:48,840
Speaker 1: deal with it spontaneously.

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Speaker 3: Problem.

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01:53:49,280 --> 01:53:51,639
Speaker 1: Nicole h says clearly, Oh, he's just not doing enough

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01:53:52,479 --> 01:53:55,120
Speaker 1: at in the bedroom. According to her, yeah, he needs

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01:53:55,160 --> 01:53:57,880
Speaker 1: to stop being bottom and start being on top. Literally,

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01:53:57,960 --> 01:54:00,160
Speaker 1: somebody said, read the kamasudrup.

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01:54:01,880 --> 01:54:03,120
Speaker 2: The Kama or the Book of Love.

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01:54:04,400 --> 01:54:06,679
Speaker 3: So I don't know if y'all know this, but human

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01:54:06,720 --> 01:54:10,240
Speaker 3: beings have been around for a minute, and the things

2334
01:54:10,280 --> 01:54:13,479
Speaker 3: we're talking about right now are not necessarily secrets. So

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01:54:14,400 --> 01:54:17,439
Speaker 3: at some point, a long time ago, uh, the Kamma

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01:54:17,479 --> 01:54:20,519
Speaker 3: Sutra is I think it was it Hindu or Hindu

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01:54:20,880 --> 01:54:21,120
Speaker 3: it was.

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01:54:21,840 --> 01:54:22,599
Speaker 2: It was in India.

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01:54:22,920 --> 01:54:27,160
Speaker 3: Yes, I'm not sure what the predominant. Yeah, theology was

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01:54:27,240 --> 01:54:29,840
Speaker 3: over there at the time. But it's basically a book

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01:54:29,920 --> 01:54:32,680
Speaker 3: on how to not have this scenario happen to you.

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01:54:33,280 --> 01:54:35,560
Speaker 2: Or try something else, try something new. It's it. It's it.

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01:54:35,720 --> 01:54:36,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a handbook.

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01:54:37,680 --> 01:54:39,360
Speaker 2: The thing is, before we get back to the story,

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01:54:39,480 --> 01:54:42,680
Speaker 2: this is a lose lose situation because one the husband

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01:54:42,760 --> 01:54:44,680
Speaker 2: doesn't want to do it, the wife is going to

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01:54:44,720 --> 01:54:47,040
Speaker 2: resent it because she wants to do it, or two

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01:54:47,400 --> 01:54:49,160
Speaker 2: the white Uh, the husband is going to go with it,

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01:54:49,200 --> 01:54:51,400
Speaker 2: and he's gonna hate himself and is going to worruin

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01:54:51,400 --> 01:54:54,200
Speaker 2: their marriage. It's a lose lose. Yeah, this is not good.

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01:54:55,280 --> 01:55:00,440
Speaker 1: I know people and relationships are. I know people and

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01:55:00,560 --> 01:55:04,240
Speaker 1: relationships are in continuous change. If they can change together,

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01:55:04,680 --> 01:55:07,760
Speaker 1: they can stay together. If they can change in different directions,

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01:55:07,800 --> 01:55:11,080
Speaker 1: they grow apart. I'm scared of the change, but I

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01:55:11,240 --> 01:55:14,120
Speaker 1: know that I don't want to lose her nor our family,

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01:55:14,400 --> 01:55:17,160
Speaker 1: and I'm willing to put hard work into our relationship.

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Speaker 1: That's where we are. More talk and clounseling next, which

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01:55:20,560 --> 01:55:22,360
Speaker 1: I think is the best thing you could have done.

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01:55:23,200 --> 01:55:26,320
Speaker 1: W story, W story me See, this is a guy

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01:55:26,400 --> 01:55:28,240
Speaker 1: that actually cares about his wife and is putting in

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01:55:28,280 --> 01:55:32,440
Speaker 1: hard work and communicating with her, just like the last guy. Nope,

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01:55:32,600 --> 01:55:36,320
Speaker 1: you ask guy didn't do that. But thank god we're

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01:55:36,360 --> 01:55:37,680
Speaker 1: done with that mega episode.

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01:55:37,760 --> 01:55:41,000
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, and.

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01:55:41,040 --> 01:55:43,040
Speaker 3: Shout out one done Millennial for being the one who

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01:55:43,080 --> 01:55:44,160
Speaker 3: brought up the Kama Sutra.

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Speaker 2: Ye, editors are gonna love this one. That's all I

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01:55:47,080 --> 01:55:49,000
Speaker 2: gotta say. Oh God, po guys,