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Speaker 1: second DAO date. It's always nice to have fond memories
Speaker 1: after a first date. Like I remember our first date
Speaker 1: we had pasta overlooking the water. It was beautiful, or
Speaker 1: it went for a long hike to the top of
Speaker 1: a beautiful mountain and saw the sunset a lovely memory.
Speaker 1: Or I remember when I got physically assaulted by them
Speaker 1: on a first date. That's always a great memory to have.
Speaker 1: And that's sort of what happened to Harry, who's on
Speaker 1: the phone right now and wants to do a second
Speaker 1: date update. His date physically assaulted him on their first date,
Speaker 1: but he still wants to call her back. You'll understand
Speaker 1: why he wants to call her back in a second Harry,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Hey, I'm doing all right. How
Speaker 1: are you doing? Pretty good? Man? Thank you for your email,
Speaker 1: and thank you for agreeing to do a second date
Speaker 1: update with us today. Before we get into how you
Speaker 1: were physically a salted on your first date, tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit about the girl you want to call today,
Speaker 1: all right, Um, her name is Famantha. We met at
Speaker 1: a club. I was out for my one of my
Speaker 1: best friend's birthdays. We had in pre gaming parting in
Speaker 1: the early evening. We went out and it was like
Speaker 1: an amazing night and then I met her and she
Speaker 1: had the most beautiful eyes, amazing legs, and we started talking.
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, I have to interrupt. You're making it
Speaker 1: sound like the moment was just beautiful at she had
Speaker 1: beautiful eyes. You're at a club, you just thought she
Speaker 1: was hot. I think that's what he was saying. Beautiful eyes.
Speaker 1: I think that's exactly what he was saying. Right there.
Speaker 1: You said he was attracted to her. Yeah, I thought
Speaker 1: she was hot. That's exactly what I'm saying. Yeah, there
Speaker 1: you go. Okay, So how did you approach her at
Speaker 1: the bar? I kind of just walked up to her
Speaker 1: and just struck up a conversation. I was feeling really
Speaker 1: confident because I had been drinking and yeah, it does
Speaker 1: help a lot. So how long were you guys hanging
Speaker 1: out together at the club. Um, we were probably at
Speaker 1: the club for like two hours, drinking and dancing and
Speaker 1: hanging out. So were you hour that thing? Were you
Speaker 1: semi sober when you met her? I mean we were
Speaker 1: drinking pretty much the whole time, so I was I
Speaker 1: was pretty tipsy. Do you remember much of the conversation
Speaker 1: with her or you don't really care? At the time,
Speaker 1: it seemed like we were having such a brilliant conversation,
Speaker 1: but I couldn't tell you. I've had many of those. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what always happens. You're like, oh man, we were
Speaker 1: breaking down everything. Somebody shows you a video and you drunk.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I hadn't no idea what I was
Speaker 1: talking about? All right, So how did the rest of
Speaker 1: the evening go with her? It was going really good.
Speaker 1: We went back to my place, and you know, things
Speaker 1: started to get a little intimate, which was nice. Um,
Speaker 1: and that's kind of when things took a turn for
Speaker 1: the worst, and that's when the assault happened. Do I
Speaker 1: have to say it? Yeah, you do have to say that,
Speaker 1: all right? Well, how do I put it? But we
Speaker 1: were being intimate, um, while she was having her moment.
Speaker 1: Somehow I got kneed in the face, so she kneed
Speaker 1: him in the face while they were doing it. Did
Speaker 1: you scream or what I mean? That had to ruin everything.
Speaker 1: I was so shocked. I like I literally fell off
Speaker 1: the bed um. It was really hard, and I'm not
Speaker 1: sure if it's from her knee or to fall off
Speaker 1: the bed, but I had like a cut on like
Speaker 1: kind of the like edge of drug sex is the best,
Speaker 1: isn't it? Just flailing around on the bed, she knees
Speaker 1: you in the head and you fall off and then
Speaker 1: get a cut on your head. Yeah, I guess it's
Speaker 1: funny now, but it wasn't so great at the time.
Speaker 1: What did she say to you after that? From what
Speaker 1: I remember, she just came right over and like was
Speaker 1: really apologetic and trying to take care of me. You know,
Speaker 1: I was kind of blacked out a bit. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: gets gas and bandage up your head, like you had
Speaker 1: a huge head wound. Well, she took me in the
Speaker 1: bad room and she was putting like cold water on
Speaker 1: my forehead and like she got she got a little
Speaker 1: like a towel and put it over my forehead, like
Speaker 1: she was doing what she could. She injured you, of
Speaker 1: course she's going to try to help you out. I
Speaker 1: wouldn't call you back after a night like that either,
Speaker 1: that sounds horrible. That's exactly what I'm worried about. I
Speaker 1: think she's embarrassed because we're having a great I mean,
Speaker 1: this is like I'm embarrassed. I can't imagine what she
Speaker 1: feels like, like the most bizarre thing that's ever happened
Speaker 1: to me. Have you sent her any text messages or
Speaker 1: call her being like, hey, I think it's funny what happened.
Speaker 1: It's okay, don't be embarrassed now. I've been texting her,
Speaker 1: like I texted her like a bunch of time, trying
Speaker 1: to make her feel better, and you know, kind of
Speaker 1: like to like play it down like it's a joke,
Speaker 1: like you know, she doesn't she I don't want to
Speaker 1: just see the bandage on my forehead, you know. And
Speaker 1: as she said anything back to you at all. No,
Speaker 1: my guess is she probably is embarrassed and doesn't want
Speaker 1: to call you back after that. I can understand that.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm thinking, because you know, in the morning,
Speaker 1: she wasn't there. She just laughed like that's That's exactly
Speaker 1: what I'm thinking. When you give your date a concussion
Speaker 1: on the first date during sex, you might be a
Speaker 1: little scared to call them back. Yeah, So, I mean
Speaker 1: that's why I think you gets an email. All right, well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna play a song, come back, call her, hear
Speaker 1: her side of the story, and get your second date update.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, fucking jubil in the morning. Today's second
Speaker 1: date update should be a lesson to all of the
Speaker 1: ladies listening right now. If you want a guy to
Speaker 1: be interested in you so much so that he's willing
Speaker 1: to call a radio station to get a hold of you,
Speaker 1: all you have to do is knee him in the
Speaker 1: head during sexual relations. That's all. That's all it takes
Speaker 1: for a guy to really want to call you back.
Speaker 1: Harry is on the phone with us, and today he
Speaker 1: wants to call a girl named Samantha. Samantha and him
Speaker 1: had a drunken night at his place. They were hammered.
Speaker 1: They were doing the things that people do when they're hammered,
Speaker 1: and in the middle of it, she kneed him in
Speaker 1: the head and then he fell off the bed and
Speaker 1: cut his head, and when he woke up in the morning,
Speaker 1: she was gone. So he's assuming that she was just
Speaker 1: a little embarrassed about the situation and isn't calling him back. Harry,
Speaker 1: before we make your phone call. How long ago did
Speaker 1: this happen? The actual incident was probably like a month ago.
Speaker 1: That long that you've been trying to get a hold
Speaker 1: of her. Do you have it worked out in your
Speaker 1: head what you're gonna say once you get her on
Speaker 1: the phone. That's what you guys are here to help,
Speaker 1: far right? And how many text messages have you sent
Speaker 1: her telling her that it's okay what she did? Too?
Speaker 1: Many a bunch? All right, Well, I'm gonna dial the
Speaker 1: phone number, see if we can get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and get your second day update. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi, is Samantha there?
Speaker 1: Oh no, she's in the shower. Can I take a message? Sure?
Speaker 1: Who am I speaking with? This? Is? Is this stuff office?
Speaker 1: Maybe I'd really like to speak to Samantha. Please, I'm
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. I can speak for It's fun. You're her boyfriend? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Are you calling us back about the appointment? Yes? I am,
Speaker 1: And the results are all back. What are you talking about.
Speaker 1: We haven't been in yet. Oh no, I got all
Speaker 1: the results right here. No, I'm sure we haven't been
Speaker 1: in yet. We were coming into the pregnancy test. Oh,
Speaker 1: those are the results. You're looking for. Yeah, yes it is.
Speaker 1: And you say that you haven't been in for the
Speaker 1: pregnancy test yet. No, we haven't been into the pregnancy
Speaker 1: test day. All right, what I'm looking at is wrong,
Speaker 1: then I'm sorry. My notes say that you guys went in,
Speaker 1: so you need an appointment. Yeah, that's where we were
Speaker 1: waiting on. Okay, at it cool? Well I should talk
Speaker 1: to her about this. I mean, she's in the shower,
Speaker 1: but I guess you could call it back. All right,
Speaker 1: I'll do that. How about that. I'll check my notes
Speaker 1: because I'm obviously something I gotta screwed up. It says
Speaker 1: that you've already been in and you haven't, so I'll
Speaker 1: check my notes and then i'll give her a call. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, thanks so much. Yeah, thank you. What was
Speaker 1: your name again? Oh I'm Kevin, Kevin. Looking forward to
Speaker 1: seeing you. All right, thank you? Yep? Bye bye? Oh wow, Harry,
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. What the Oh
Speaker 1: my god? I hope you don't mind me letting that
Speaker 1: guy go. I felt like I felt like I shouldn't
Speaker 1: have revealed to him that this was a big thing.
Speaker 1: There's that. Yeah, I felt like this as soon as
Speaker 1: he started talking about doctor's office. I was screwing with him,
Speaker 1: and then as soon as he said the pregan thing,
Speaker 1: I was like, I can't do it. Man, Man, what
Speaker 1: are you gonna do? Are you going to content? I'm
Speaker 1: not going to do anything to look at the timing.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I know I shouldn't jump to conclusions, but
Speaker 1: if you're talking about you hooked up a month ago
Speaker 1: and she's just now going to a doctor's office, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, I use protection definitely, sometimes it can fail you. Now,
Speaker 1: that's not I just can't believe that happened. Yeah, neither
Speaker 1: to say. I mean like, it's nothing like this has
Speaker 1: ever happened to me before. This is I can still,
Speaker 1: you know, try to call back and get her on
Speaker 1: the phone at some point and see if no, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, no no no. I don't want to
Speaker 1: get involved anyway. Do you think that there's any way
Speaker 1: that maybe this is like a new boyfriend. I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to look at like some sort of positive out
Speaker 1: of this that she wants to have a baby with.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it's pretty obvious, Harry, she
Speaker 1: was at the bar drunk, hooked up with you realized
Speaker 1: that she made a mistake, probably feeling guilty not calling
Speaker 1: you back because she has a boyfriend who she thinks
Speaker 1: may have gotten her pregnant. Oh man, oh this is
Speaker 1: so insane. Yeah, I mean I had no idea she
Speaker 1: seems single. Yeah? Did she ever say to you throughout
Speaker 1: your date? Did she seemed like she had a boyfriend
Speaker 1: or anything at all? Not at all? Did she seem
Speaker 1: like she had a bunt in the omen at all? No? No, Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Some guys are attracted to that. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Drinking all night, do you, boy? I think
Speaker 1: that's a pretty indication, good indication. I just can't believe
Speaker 1: that's happened. Well, this is normally the time where I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: do you want to go out a second date? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it. I don't really know how to handle
Speaker 1: this one at all. Um. I guess I can send
Speaker 1: you out on a date with a text messager somebody
Speaker 1: texts into the show? Do you want to date with
Speaker 1: just a random person from the show? You know? I
Speaker 1: think I think I should be more cautious until I
Speaker 1: go out with Yeah, exactly, because trust me, you don't
Speaker 1: want to date with anybody that's texting into our show
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five nine two. All right, well, at
Speaker 1: least you got your answer. Yeah. Yeah. I hope for
Speaker 1: you that, like seventeen years from now, some kid doesn't
Speaker 1: show up and go, hey, we have the same nose
Speaker 1: he poked up with my mom years ago. Oh god,
Speaker 1: that is not funny at all. I think it is
Speaker 1: a little bit. I want to address something. I'll text
Speaker 1: message Bard right now at seven eighty five nine too. No,
Speaker 1: I am not calling that girl back. I am not
Speaker 1: doing it. It's broken jewel in the morning, I'm moving
Speaker 1: ninety two point five. If you don't know what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about, I'm talking about the second date update that
Speaker 1: we just played. Wow, this guy Harry wanted us to
Speaker 1: call this girl. I'm not using her name. We actually
Speaker 1: beeped it out in the second day update when we
Speaker 1: taped it because I don't want to blow up her
Speaker 1: spot too much. But a guy named Kevin answered the phone.
Speaker 1: We left that name in there because there's lots of
Speaker 1: Kevin's whatever. But anyway, a guy named Kevin answered the phone,
Speaker 1: and I was joking with him because he's like, oh,
Speaker 1: is this a doctor's office? And I was kind of
Speaker 1: doing my thing like good, it is a doctor's office,
Speaker 1: like an idiot, like I do. And then it came
Speaker 1: out that apparently they are trying to make an appointment
Speaker 1: for a pregnancy test. Harry hooked up with this girl.
Speaker 1: They had a wild night. She ended up kneeing him
Speaker 1: in the face while they were doing it, which is funny,
Speaker 1: and then she left the next day. He thought maybe
Speaker 1: she was embarrassed. Turns out she probably was embarrassed and
Speaker 1: a little bit upset her herself that she cheated on
Speaker 1: her boyfriend, because this guy sounded like they lived together
Speaker 1: and they've probably been together a long time. Anyway, I
Speaker 1: decided to stop it and not continue to go on
Speaker 1: with it anymore. And thank you, by the way, thank
Speaker 1: you everybody on Twitter who has tweeted me and everybody
Speaker 1: texting in at seven, eight, five and nine two saying
Speaker 1: I did the right thing for once in my life.
Speaker 1: I was so worried that you were gonna like say something.
Speaker 1: I was going to it. I really was. I really
Speaker 1: was like on the fence. I'm like, all right, I can't.
Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't put them on blast like that,
Speaker 1: Like if if this girl cheated on the dude, that's
Speaker 1: one thing, but if there's an unborn kid involved, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be the guy to ruin that whole thing.
Speaker 1: Like I'll let them figure that's that out on their own.
Speaker 1: And there's no there's no way you make a doctor
Speaker 1: appointment for a pregnancy test unless you've already taken a
Speaker 1: pregnancy test and it's come back positive. Yeah, like that's
Speaker 1: this is real life. It's not a joke. Yeah, have
Speaker 1: been awesome just to do it. Like they're just like,
Speaker 1: what you cheated on me? And now this might be
Speaker 1: that guy's kid and we're just like Jose's in the
Speaker 1: background just going crazy. This is nuts. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: your lives are ruined. Yeah, we hit the big like
Speaker 1: Brook and Jubele in the morning Sweeper out of the
Speaker 1: Week coming up next. Ye, as a matter of fact
Speaker 1: that it's coming up next. That's the guys that day.
Speaker 1: Want to go on a date and talk about it? Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: you guys want to go out. Yeah, it would just
Speaker 1: have all been terrible. So for the first time in
Speaker 1: my life, I thought it'd make the appropriate decision and
Speaker 1: be like, nah, I can't do it. If you missed it,
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