1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: But speaking of doomsday prepping and the fact that a 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: lot of us would die if anything ever happened, because 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: we wouldn't have a nourishment of any kind. You, Kiki, 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,680 Speaker 1: oh God, have advocated for a long time from stealing 5 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: from your relatives as opposed to go into the grocery 6 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: store or permanently borrowing. 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, I wouldn't call the stealing. 8 00:00:20,280 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 1: So like, you go to your sister's house who raised you, absolutely, 9 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,680 Speaker 1: and you do your shopping there. Yeah, you know, any 10 00:00:26,720 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: sort of like paper goods. 11 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,160 Speaker 3: Toilet paper, paper towels, paper plates, forks, for breeze, spray, 12 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:37,240 Speaker 3: laundry detergent. Yeah, that don't have regular to be pleasant 13 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 3: because I don't like washing dish. 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: Oh my god, you don't even know. Here here come 15 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: the environmental that's on air, Kiki, for everybody who wants 16 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 1: to reach out. I don't want to read your text 17 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:53,720 Speaker 1: about that, but it's to the point where you commented 18 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 1: that you you would actually just live there if they'd 19 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: let you. 20 00:00:57,920 --> 00:00:59,920 Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yes, and. 21 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: You a grown ass woman and you would prefer to 22 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 1: just live in your sister's house. 23 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 4: Still, would Big Tim live there too? 24 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: Yes, she loves Big Tim. We would be great together. 25 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: I don't think she's like opposed to this. 26 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,319 Speaker 3: I think her plan maybe like as she gets older, 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 3: we'll all just come back in one house and yeah, 28 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 3: we'll all be together. But she's a nurturer, she's a nurse, 29 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:23,320 Speaker 3: she's raised everybody's kids in the neighborhood. She would take 30 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 3: anybody in. So I think it's a great idea for 31 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 3: us to move back in. She like, she likes to 32 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:30,119 Speaker 3: cook and clean and fold our laundry. 33 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: In So there's nothing there's no aspect of freedom of 34 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 1: having your own home, walking around naked, freak them on 35 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: the kitchen table, you know, whatever you're trying to do. 36 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: There's no aspect of that that you would missy by 37 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 1: gaining cooking and having your laundry done. 38 00:01:45,600 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 3: No, the only thing I would miss is like she's 39 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 3: very much one of those parents that checks your mail. 40 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 3: Like she doesn't you know, the whole you shouldn't open 41 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 3: people's mails. She doesn't go by that at all. She'll 42 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 3: open my mail and then she's like, why do you 43 00:01:55,800 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 3: have why do you owe the city this much money? 44 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 3: Why haven't you paid the mom? Why is your like 45 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,840 Speaker 3: So that's the only part. Then I would be like. 46 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: Your Milcoat goes there. 47 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 5: Yes, she should open my mail. You guys are crazy. 48 00:02:14,600 --> 00:02:16,639 Speaker 1: I want to know if you're a grown up who 49 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: genuinely wishes you could move back in with your parents, 50 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:21,880 Speaker 1: genuinely because I go to my parents' house all the time. 51 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: I love them and I love being around them. Okay, 52 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:27,680 Speaker 1: but there's just certain there's and when I go home, 53 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm lonely because I'm alone. Sometimes I get lonely. But 54 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:34,360 Speaker 1: the truth is, I'll I'll trade the ability to visit 55 00:02:34,400 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: them and then leave and go back to my space 56 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: and live my life and do whatever it is that 57 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:41,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to do without wondering if somebody is watching. 58 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 4: I value that so but. 59 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: Like and you guys even had the luxury of being 60 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: able to drive to these people's homes, I have to 61 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: go across the country to see my family, you know. 62 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,919 Speaker 4: So it's like that would be. 63 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:55,320 Speaker 1: Even better if I had my own house and I 64 00:02:55,320 --> 00:02:56,000 Speaker 1: could go over there. 65 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:56,799 Speaker 2: I would love that. 66 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't trade that, you know, I'd go visit, I 67 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: get all good stuff, and then when I got annoyed, 68 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,480 Speaker 1: I'd be like whoop, or like when I'm like yes, 69 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 1: like kinder match, growing back to my house now, we wants. 70 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:07,919 Speaker 2: To pay bills. 71 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: Bro, Like, when you live there, they pay all the bills, 72 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:13,120 Speaker 3: They take care of all the responsibilities. You don't have 73 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,840 Speaker 3: to worry about anybody cutting grass. Like it's already done. 74 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 3: You just live your life. You I go shop by, 75 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 3: buy whatever I want, you know, go out to dinner, 76 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: I go on vacations. 77 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 2: Oh it was beautiful. 78 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 3: I moved back in during the pandemic and I enjoyed it. 79 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 3: I did not want to leave that lady's house, and 80 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 3: it was great. 81 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: I can't understand that the cost savings, but like, at 82 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,079 Speaker 1: what at what cost to your life? 83 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: Well, she's a cool lady, Like she cool, we cool, 84 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 3: you know, honestly her business on my man. 85 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 2: Great, she's really cool. Is you're just spending your money 86 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: not contributing anything to the house. 87 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 4: What a little bill? 88 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: Little like something, a little something to wet a. 89 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 6: Whistle, you know, comment be like yo, your past do 90 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 6: on your payments? Money? 91 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: Yet I can tell you right now, if I move 92 00:03:57,480 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: back into my parents' house, my dad would come down 93 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 1: with a bill like that's fine, I know how much 94 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:01,400 Speaker 1: you make. 95 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 4: That's fine, you're paying us. 96 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 7: He'd also be naked with a gun, right, he would 97 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 7: he would. 98 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 4: He would. 99 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: I love him, he would. That's a true story that's 100 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: scarring from my upbringing. You want to talk about it. 101 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: There's a few visions of my childhood that that will 102 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: never ever ever leave my head, and that's one of them. 103 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: My my dad's standing in my doorway with a gun. 104 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: I'll have to tell that story another side, please, But 105 00:04:27,640 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 1: I will say this much, even as a forty two 106 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: year old man, when I go stay with my parents, 107 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: it used to be like respect the house rules still 108 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: kind of like don't show up here at four in 109 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,159 Speaker 1: the morning, and don't bring girls here, and don't be 110 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: having section your room or whatever. And I think my 111 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: mom at this point is so desperate for me to 112 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: find somebody and impregnate somebody and have a kid. I 113 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: think at this point she knock on would. I think 114 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,800 Speaker 1: she's just like, you know what, I don't care. I'll 115 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: make him breakfast. I don't care. 116 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. And the thing about our. 117 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: House too is that like my room is on one 118 00:04:56,800 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: side of the house and theirs is on the other. 119 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: So it's not like when I bring so if your 120 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 1: west wing, if I bring somebody home, it's not like 121 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: I'm like creeping and you know, like, yeah, passing the 122 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 1: family photo and my parents are at the end of 123 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: the hall, and I'm like, you know, you know, our 124 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: floor's creeks hard night, so it's a little easier for 125 00:05:16,000 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 1: me to get away with it. But I just can't 126 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 1: imagine why, especially people who live so close to their 127 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 1: family and can moderate, why would you not want to 128 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: have your own space as well? 129 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 8: Paulina, being a homeowner has tested me in ways I 130 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 8: never thought i'd be tested. If I'm being completely honest, 131 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 8: like you said, like cutting the grass, these little chores, 132 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 8: like my husband and I fight the most because of dishes, 133 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 8: Like it's the stupidest thing ever. 134 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: Goes back to my theory about I don't use my 135 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: trauma the same I didn't use this watch growing up either. 136 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 2: But generational curse. I broke the curse rights. I'm just saying, 137 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: if my mom could handle all of that and. 138 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,279 Speaker 8: I can just focus on my marriage, it would be 139 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:56,359 Speaker 8: really nice, Sea. 140 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 2: But the question is would your parents let you come back? 141 00:05:58,880 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? 142 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 1: And at what cost? Like, yeah, so your mom does 143 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: your laundry and cooks for you, okay, but like what 144 00:06:07,960 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 1: what else? She's also going to comment on your life, 145 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:12,559 Speaker 1: and she's gonna comment on your marriage, and she's gonna 146 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 1: comment on your clothing, and she's gonna comment on how 147 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,159 Speaker 1: you live. And because you're in her house and she 148 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: has every right to do that. 149 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 2: She does. 150 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,479 Speaker 1: So do you guys, have no excuse, no excuse. You 151 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: can have your own house and your own stuff. You 152 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: can still drive over there at any time, get your 153 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 1: family feel steal their crap, and then go back to 154 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: your house. 155 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 4: I can't do that. 156 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry for that. I am. I'm sorry for you, 157 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 2: but I plan to do this. 158 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 3: And kids that are like in that age range of eighteen, like, 159 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:43,840 Speaker 3: don't rush right to get house, right as long as possible, 160 00:06:44,120 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 3: don't rush to get a job. 161 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 2: Just be a be a student. I'm telling you. 162 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:49,640 Speaker 4: I will say this much. 163 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: If you're gonna go to school and you're gonna go 164 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: to school in the same place where your parents live, 165 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: I would say, if they're willing to let you stay there, 166 00:06:56,920 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 1: stay there and pretend like you're paying around. 167 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 4: Like save you know what I mean. 168 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 1: If you're gonna live with your parents for school or 169 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:04,720 Speaker 1: as you get your life started or whatever, or before 170 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: you get married, I get all of that, but like 171 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: make sure that you're at not what Kiki says, not 172 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: like I, not like Paulina says, not like I'm gonna 173 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:13,920 Speaker 1: live in their house, not pay rent, and then I 174 00:07:13,920 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: have a bunch of money to do other crap. If 175 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: you're gonna be young and you're gonna like try and 176 00:07:17,280 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: get your life started, and you're gonna take advantage of 177 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 1: your family, then pretend like you've got a rent payment 178 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:26,560 Speaker 1: and pay yourself so that when you do move out, 179 00:07:26,600 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: your set or you know, if you're gonna live at 180 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 1: the house, then put more towards your student loans or whatever. 181 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,320 Speaker 1: Because no, what you should not do is a grown 182 00:07:34,400 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: up is hang out in your parents' house, live like 183 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: you're a millionaire. We've had these people all waiting by 184 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: the phone before, and then you don't have any money 185 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: when it's time to move out. 186 00:07:43,040 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 4: That doesn't make any sense. 187 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 3: Ye save your money, save your money, but don't don't 188 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 3: be in a rush to leave, is what I'm saying. 189 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. Hey Sydney, Hey, Hi Sydney, good morning. 190 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: So you live with your parents right now? 191 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 9: Yeah, so I live with my parents right now, and 192 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:01,000 Speaker 9: I because I just graduated college, so I'm twenty four, 193 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,119 Speaker 9: So I don't necessarily know if like I'm a full 194 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 9: grown adult yet, but I feel like a full grown adult. 195 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 9: But I am ready to like move out. And I 196 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 9: know Peki was saying, like live with your parents as 197 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 9: long as you can, but like, I'm also at a 198 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,880 Speaker 9: point in my life where like I don't want to 199 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 9: live with my parents anymore. Like I'm in my twenties, 200 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 9: I want to be living like my life. 201 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 2: No, no, no, don't do it. Don't it. 202 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: But here's my thing, and I'm not judging in any way, 203 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,480 Speaker 1: but what have you been doing with the money that 204 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: you're saving? Like at what point will you have enough 205 00:08:30,080 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: savings that you can move out because you're not having 206 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:32,680 Speaker 1: to pay bills? 207 00:08:33,880 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 9: Well, I mean I have student loan debt that I 208 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 9: still you know, some top but you're. 209 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: Paying that down right, Like you're you're making payments towards 210 00:08:43,760 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: that because you're not spending money on rent. I assume exactly. Okay, 211 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 1: Well that's good, that's great, that's what you should be doing. 212 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 9: I feel like I'm doing the right thing, but like 213 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 9: I still definitely have these feelings of like I am 214 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 9: I'm ready to move out. I don't want to live 215 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 9: with my parents anymore. But like at the same time, 216 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 9: I am like genuinely grateful for you know, them allowing 217 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 9: me to be back home. 218 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,200 Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's all a trade off, right, Like, Yeah, 219 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: the plumbing brakes or the toilet breaks, you got to 220 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 1: pay someone to come do it. But then that's your 221 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: toilet and it's your space, and you can do whatever 222 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 1: you want in that space, and there's there's a price 223 00:09:18,080 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: to be paid for that. But I think it's also 224 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: part of growing up, you know, and and it's all 225 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 1: good Sydney, thank you. 226 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 5: Of course. 227 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: Look at you, Pauline over here. You've been trying to 228 00:09:27,480 --> 00:09:29,240 Speaker 1: move back in Marty's house for as long. 229 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 4: As I've known you. 230 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,439 Speaker 8: Every day I ask her every day and then I 231 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:34,679 Speaker 8: have to like compromise. So that's why I won't do it. 232 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 8: But at the end of the day, I always say, 233 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 8: like if I if I wasn't married or with somebody, 234 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 8: I'd be her roommate for life, Yes, for life, and 235 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 8: I would pay my bill. My share wasn't wasn't much, 236 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,199 Speaker 8: but I'll pay you know what I'm saying. 237 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, but Kiki's over here in Bermuda, you know, she 238 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: over here in Tahiti, you know, with toilet papers she 239 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,959 Speaker 1: stole from from her sister's house. I mean she over 240 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: here driving a rolls Royce. I know, like how you 241 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:00,439 Speaker 1: bawing like that? Well, I don't have to pay for anything. 242 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,160 Speaker 4: Hey, hi, so do you still live at home? 243 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 9: I don't that I want to move back. 244 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: How old are you, Bianca? Your mid thirties? Are you single? 245 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: I'm not asking for me, just asking so you're single? 246 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,760 Speaker 1: So you're just like, hey, look I'm a single thirty 247 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 1: five year old woman or whatever, and I just why 248 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,680 Speaker 1: am I paying for all this for just for me? 249 00:10:22,720 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 4: I'm moving back in. That's your thought process exactly. 250 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 9: And I got the grandchild, the only grandchild, so love 251 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 9: that exactly. 252 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:36,959 Speaker 2: Take care where. 253 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 9: They live in fourteen acres, middle of nowhere. 254 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 10: I work from home. 255 00:10:41,240 --> 00:10:44,319 Speaker 9: Usually, so okay, I don't think there's nothing I have 256 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 9: to do. 257 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 2: There's nothing other than to contribute. 258 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: Ka what about when the when the moment strikes and 259 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: it's time for your you know, your situationship you're from 260 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,040 Speaker 1: with benefits to come over and do what mama needs? 261 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:55,080 Speaker 4: Where is that going to happen? 262 00:10:55,120 --> 00:10:57,120 Speaker 10: That's called a hotel. 263 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:02,160 Speaker 1: They mama has met fourteen acres disappeared. 264 00:11:04,040 --> 00:11:05,360 Speaker 4: Were doing it in the forest. 265 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:10,480 Speaker 2: So are we getting rightie? What's the text? 266 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 4: I was gonna say, what do we got poison? Ivy 267 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,880 Speaker 4: all this? We got rashes all over the place. 268 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,680 Speaker 6: You gotta get it in. You know, I'm saying fourteen acres, 269 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 6: you could do it everywhere. Oh my god, girl, feeling 270 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 6: about it. 271 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 1: Thank you, Bianca, have a the day. 272 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 2: Love you guys too. 273 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 1: My mom did say to me the other day last week. 274 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: She said, you know I still pay for your sister's 275 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:32,320 Speaker 1: cell phone bill because they owned a business. 276 00:11:32,360 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 4: She's like, do you want me? Do you want to 277 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 4: go get back on our plan? 278 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? 279 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 4: No, The answer is no, Fred, I need to pay 280 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 4: my own bills. I'm a grown ass individual. 281 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 2: Hey, why to brag? Like, what do you mean, cool guy? 282 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 4: I'm a grown ass man. 283 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: Hey, ladies, I pay my own self. Yeah yeah, drop. 284 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,560 Speaker 4: Whie as we pass. Momsm Okay, don't make too much noise. 285 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 2: More Fred show next right here? 286 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, they talk better than they. 287 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:09,840 Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the frend Show. 288 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:11,719 Speaker 1: Okay, it's like running in our diaries, except we say 289 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: them a loud. We call them blogs. 290 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 4: Rufeo. You got to get people the. 291 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 1: Backstory if they don't know, yes, and then let's go 292 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 1: ahead and get them updated. 293 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 4: On what's going on with you. 294 00:12:19,640 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: Now, please go ahead this er yeah. 295 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 6: Thank you, dear blog. So earlier this week, I did 296 00:12:27,720 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 6: pass out on the radio. I hit my chin on 297 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 6: the table. Here this R the R. 298 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,319 Speaker 2: This sounds like one of the movies we don't be. 299 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 4: That's what was hoping would happen if the doctor. 300 00:12:43,160 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 1: When the nurse walked in, he was like, hello, exactly, yeah, 301 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 1: but I something wrong with radio. 302 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 6: I've had this call for a long time, and uh, 303 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:56,560 Speaker 6: this cough sometimes will not go away, and I get 304 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 6: this coughing spell where I can't stop coughing, and then 305 00:12:58,880 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 6: I'll pass out. 306 00:12:59,640 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 2: And it happened on the on the radio. 307 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 6: No, we're not going to post a video for all 308 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 6: of you asking, but I did go to the doctor yesterday. 309 00:13:13,120 --> 00:13:14,120 Speaker 4: No, this is foreign music. 310 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 2: Okay, where's dookie howser? 311 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 1: At least this is this is porn is getting I'm 312 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: not going to say what it says. Sounds of the 313 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 1: seventies adult cinema. There's a whole vinyl you can buy 314 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: with this Saturday, I guess. 315 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: Okay, I appreciate our blog music. 316 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: If it's a tight Wait what is this? Okay, I'm sorry, 317 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,800 Speaker 1: hold on right, I'm scared. I'm scared to click on 318 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: some of these. Yeah, you should be your story very serious. 319 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. 320 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 6: I did go to the doctor yesterday, a very nice woman. 321 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 6: She she I told my situation. You know, I was 322 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,679 Speaker 6: like this, I've had this call for ten plus years. 323 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 6: It comes every time I get sick in the winter 324 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 6: time or the fall, and it goes away when the 325 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 6: weather gets. 326 00:14:00,480 --> 00:14:03,199 Speaker 2: Nice in the springtime. And she's just like, you got asthma. 327 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:05,680 Speaker 2: And I was like, that's it, Like I got asthma. 328 00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 2: Oh okay. So she gave me the hailer. 329 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 6: Two inhalers actually, so I have to take one every 330 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,480 Speaker 6: day and then I carry another one. I have to 331 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 6: carry another one with me in case I get the 332 00:14:14,520 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 6: coughing spell. 333 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:16,080 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. 334 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, so I do have two inhalers now, but I 335 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,200 Speaker 6: still have to go get today. I'm going to get 336 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 6: a blood test and allergy test and X rays so 337 00:14:26,560 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 6: and then they're going to go from there and look 338 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:28,400 Speaker 6: at everything. 339 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 2: And then I got to go back in a month. 340 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 2: If then haler's not working. 341 00:14:31,200 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 6: If I don't think it's working, and then they'll do 342 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 6: more respiratory tests like the you blow the in the 343 00:14:37,200 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 6: tube or whatever, and then I the goal from there. 344 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 6: But right now, that's where we're at right now. 345 00:14:42,440 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: And so I was gonna say, I'm genuinely proud of 346 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: you because I know you didn't want to do that. 347 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 1: You didn't want to go to the doctor, especially when 348 00:14:48,800 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 1: you know there's to be something wrong, but you have 349 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: to because you know maybe they can help you, maybe 350 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: maybe it's something that's preventative or they can fix or what. 351 00:14:56,440 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, So the moral of the stories, go see the doctor, yep, 352 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 6: Like even if you're if you feel if you're not sick, 353 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 6: or you don't feel sick, go see your docular on 354 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 6: a regular basis. 355 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: Because please, don't wait until you're live on the radio 356 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 1: in multiple cities right and you make yourself laugh so 357 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: hard that you collapse hit your chin and then we 358 00:15:12,800 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 1: have to call the paramedics and go to emergency. Audio, 359 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: Please don't wait until that point in your life. 360 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,600 Speaker 2: We love you, Audio, We are scary. We are proud 361 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 2: of making an appointment right now. 362 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 7: Yes, I need to tune up of everything, just sure, Yeah, 363 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 7: I did an oil change. 364 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, let's just get in there. 365 00:15:34,520 --> 00:15:37,160 Speaker 1: And wins your wife or fluid whatever, just filler up 366 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:41,080 Speaker 1: the waiting by the phone is two minutes away. How 367 00:15:41,080 --> 00:15:43,200 Speaker 1: did you get on the top of kailin of funny 368 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 1: trauma that you cause your your younger sister who's thirteen 369 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 1: years younger, right years thirteen years younger eight five five 370 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: five nine three five. If something comes to mind of 371 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 1: some sort of funny trauma that you caused your younger 372 00:15:56,640 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: sibling or what I suppose that was caused to you 373 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 1: by an older sibling, right, But how did this come up? 374 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:05,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, so we were doing our we try at least 375 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 7: weekly to debrief. She is in college at Michigan State, 376 00:16:07,920 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 7: Go Green, and you know, she's having a great time. 377 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:14,600 Speaker 7: So we just were talking and she casually slid in 378 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 7: something that I used to make her do for me 379 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 7: that I completely forgot, and she was like, yeah, that's 380 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 7: not normal. I used to have I used to have 381 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,960 Speaker 7: her put on the self tanning mit and tan my 382 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 7: whole body because you know, you can't reach areas. 383 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 2: So the poor kid was this, this little. 384 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 11: Toddler like tanning my whole body so I could get 385 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 11: my back, you know, I mean I had to get 386 00:16:38,320 --> 00:16:39,800 Speaker 11: my back and then she brought up how I used 387 00:16:39,800 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 11: to drag her to my laser hair removal appointments, my 388 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 11: spray tan appointments. 389 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 7: And she just was sitting there thinking like, am I 390 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 7: gonna have to do all this when I grow up? 391 00:16:48,600 --> 00:16:50,920 Speaker 7: And you probably never get the vision of your older 392 00:16:50,960 --> 00:16:54,720 Speaker 7: sister just you know, naked, getting something you know, removed 393 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 7: or put on. So I scarred her a little bit 394 00:16:58,240 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 7: and I'm so sorry, Isabella. 395 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:00,120 Speaker 2: I love you. 396 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: I feel like Amanda seven and a half years younger. 397 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 1: I feel like she just never wanted anything. I never 398 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: let her win it anything, you know. 399 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah there's probably something there. 400 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I never never let her win. No, 401 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: Like she's just a little girl, and I would just 402 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: whoop her ass in every sport or whatever. 403 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:17,359 Speaker 9: It was. 404 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 4: Like we played basketball, I just block every shot. I 405 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 4: mean I was six foot. 406 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:22,520 Speaker 9: Yeah. 407 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:24,879 Speaker 2: That's my big brother right here. Yeah that's me. 408 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 4: Yeah. Can you think of anything with your brother? 409 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:28,399 Speaker 3: Oh? 410 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:29,640 Speaker 2: We used to fight it all the time. 411 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,840 Speaker 6: I mean I got well, I was like like the 412 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:33,440 Speaker 6: test dummy. 413 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:34,680 Speaker 2: First off, he's two years older than me. 414 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 6: But like we used to do dumb things as kids, 415 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 6: like let's go down the sleeping bag, down the stairs, 416 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, or in a laundry basket 417 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 6: down the stairs, but let's send Let's send Kevin down first, 418 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying, to make sure it's okay, 419 00:17:45,960 --> 00:17:46,919 Speaker 6: and then I'll go do it. 420 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 2: So I was, I was a test dummy for everything. 421 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 422 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:53,680 Speaker 8: So, like I had a phase like in my teens 423 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 8: where I would like not really be allowed to go 424 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 8: out after a certain time, but I wanted to everyone 425 00:17:57,840 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 8: else was out, so I would make Sylvia pillows under 426 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 8: my blanket and stuff like that, and then like make 427 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:05,120 Speaker 8: sure nobody comes upstairs, or if they did they call 428 00:18:05,200 --> 00:18:07,480 Speaker 8: my name, like Paulina, she would just be like she's sleeping, 429 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 8: and she tells me that the bothers her. 430 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:14,040 Speaker 2: To this day. Yeah, the anxiety had a life for me. Yes. 431 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 8: And then one time she snitched on me because I 432 00:18:16,880 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 8: took her funions because like she thought funniess and I 433 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,639 Speaker 8: took them like with me on the road, and she 434 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 8: got so upset that she snitched on me that I 435 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:25,560 Speaker 8: wasn't home. Wow, her friend had to sleep over, but 436 00:18:25,560 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 8: I took the funians then, damn. 437 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:29,320 Speaker 2: So that's how I got caught. 438 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 4: Kiki. 439 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 3: Just I had a brother who would just he just 440 00:18:33,600 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 3: got off on scaring people. So he thought it was 441 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 3: so cool to like pop out of places like boo. Like, 442 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 3: you know, he would be hiding in the shower boo, 443 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 3: he would be under the bed boo, and like so 444 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 3: for years, especially like when I moved into my own apartment, 445 00:18:45,640 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 3: I would always walk in from work, pull the shower, 446 00:18:48,040 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 3: curtain bag, check under the bed, check the closet because 447 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 3: he just really thought it was hilarious to like pop 448 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,639 Speaker 3: out of places to scare people. 449 00:18:55,920 --> 00:18:57,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that was. 450 00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:00,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody checks one O three five. Will you tell 451 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: my little sister she was adopted, that we found her 452 00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:06,240 Speaker 1: in the McDonald's bathroom and then she started to believe it. 453 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: My brother convinced me that the downstairs bathroom was haunted 454 00:19:10,040 --> 00:19:12,400 Speaker 1: when I was six. He was eleven. I never used 455 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 1: that bathroom. My sister would refuse to drive me to school, 456 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:17,160 Speaker 1: even though we were going to the same school, because 457 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: she thought I would she should have to ride the 458 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:20,240 Speaker 1: bus like I did. 459 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 4: That's right, I mean, yeah, the only reason I got 460 00:19:24,600 --> 00:19:25,120 Speaker 4: a car. 461 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: Was that I could drive my sister to school, which 462 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 1: is brilliant on my parents' part. Oh yeah, Adrian, Adrian, 463 00:19:34,080 --> 00:19:38,480 Speaker 1: I mean you call it radio, and then adrianbe okay, 464 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: I don't understand, like you call it radio, and then 465 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm talking to you. 466 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 4: You don't want to talk to me. 467 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:47,439 Speaker 7: She also has severe trauma because she I borrowed one 468 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 7: of her coats. I think I told you guys this, 469 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 7: and she went to middle school and pulled out a 470 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 7: mini airplane bottle of liquor at school. At middle school 471 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 7: and she was traumatized, like, oh my god, it's not mine. 472 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Well, my sister was ten and I would 473 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:01,679 Speaker 1: it was fourteen. We were jumping on the trampoline with 474 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:06,600 Speaker 1: all my friends. She oh my friends. Back then. She 475 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: hated to shower, so we bounced her around chanting greaseball, greaseball, 476 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 1: come alive, greaseball, greaseball, touch the sky. She never forgave me. 477 00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: She's twenty seven and I feel bad to this day. 478 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:23,359 Speaker 1: Oh my god. We had a pool grow There's just 479 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: a bunch of tax We had a pool growing up. 480 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: My older brother used to make me lay flat on 481 00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,480 Speaker 1: the bottom of it and then use me as a surfboard. 482 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: Oh I know I can hold my breath for a 483 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:43,159 Speaker 1: long time. I bet you can. I have an older 484 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: sister by two years and sometimes we would get mad. 485 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: One of us we're watching the TV. The other one 486 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 1: Wait what, I don't understand this. It doesn't make sense. 487 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: This is the problem when you try and read these 488 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:54,640 Speaker 1: sext real time, because I'm like, it doesn't make sense. 489 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 1: My siblings convinced me when I was younger that my 490 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: hand got caught in the card door and that's why 491 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 1: my fingers were uneven. Hey Amanda, Hi, Hi Amanda. So 492 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 1: how did what is the trauma from your older siblings? 493 00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:15,440 Speaker 10: So I am the youngest, the only girl of two 494 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:19,440 Speaker 10: older brothers, and my mom always collected My mom is 495 00:21:19,480 --> 00:21:23,280 Speaker 10: from Scotland. She always collected foreign dolls from all over 496 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 10: the world. So I had hundreds of dolls in my room. 497 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 10: Creepy They used to go in and they would move 498 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:32,879 Speaker 10: the dolls. I would wake up in the dow. The 499 00:21:32,920 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 10: creepiest doll from Poland ever in my life would be 500 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:38,439 Speaker 10: at the bottom of my the bed. And that was 501 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 10: during the you know height of the you know chucky 502 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 10: era too, so of course they found a chucky dow 503 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 10: put it in my bed. 504 00:21:46,320 --> 00:21:47,440 Speaker 2: So it was just dolls. 505 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,919 Speaker 10: And so to this day now I'm a mess with dolls. 506 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,919 Speaker 10: I'm I'm traumatized. But yeah, I would wake up and 507 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 10: there would just be different dolls. But I got my 508 00:21:55,440 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 10: revenge as I got older, and uh, you know, you 509 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 10: got a little older, you experimented with some stuff and 510 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 10: I remember my mom finding it one day, and oh, 511 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 10: the first thing I did was blame it on my 512 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 10: older brother for him. Oh yeah, I was holding it 513 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 10: for him. He was always the bad child and I 514 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 10: was an angel, so it was just easy to blame. 515 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, my sister would try that too. The problem was, 516 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: by the time she was old enough to be doing stuff, 517 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: I didn't live in the house anymore, so she'd be like, well, 518 00:22:23,560 --> 00:22:27,520 Speaker 1: that's Bubba's And it's like, Baba doesn't live here, can't 519 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 1: big Bubba's because he doesn't. 520 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 4: He lives in another state now. But she still tried it. 521 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: Thank you, Amanda, have a good day. I love you too. 522 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:38,120 Speaker 1: A good time for one more? Hey, Matt, Yeah, Matt, 523 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 1: what your older sister did this to you? What's the trauma? 524 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 4: Tell me? 525 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 10: She used to lock me in the closet and play 526 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 10: Michael Jackson's thriller. 527 00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 1: Is that end of it? 528 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 4: When the guy? 529 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? 530 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:54,320 Speaker 4: And did you just play that the whole time? 531 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 3: Over? 532 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 4: And over over and over again. 533 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,439 Speaker 2: I can never listen to Michael Jackson. 534 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, probably every time that song comes 535 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,280 Speaker 1: on that you do it reminded of being in the closet, 536 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: like physically your traumatizing. 537 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:07,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you, Matt. Have a good day. Let's do 538 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:12,120 Speaker 4: the fun fac next, more Fresh show next. 539 00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:22,239 Speaker 1: Okay, tell them you have a list. You have a 540 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:23,879 Speaker 1: written list of the things that he can do to 541 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 1: make your life better. 542 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,800 Speaker 3: It's not written, It's in my mind and I add 543 00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 3: to it every five minutes. 544 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 1: Oh good, well, there's your blog. Go ahead, Kiki, take 545 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:32,640 Speaker 1: it away. Go ahead. I'd like to hear the list 546 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,360 Speaker 1: of the things that are on the top of your 547 00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: mind that your man can do to make your life better. 548 00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,359 Speaker 3: All the things, watch the cars, fill them up with gas, 549 00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 3: pay all my tickets, pay my student debt. 550 00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 2: But you don't live here. Don't live I actually don't 551 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:47,280 Speaker 2: live here at all. 552 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,680 Speaker 1: You will like this man be at a higher risk 553 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:50,719 Speaker 1: for prostate cancer. 554 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 4: Unbelievable. 555 00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,359 Speaker 2: It's terrible to stretch my back out, scratch yours. 556 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:58,080 Speaker 4: But you can do your blog. I just I was curious, 557 00:23:58,080 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 4: dear blog. 558 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 3: This is just as a society, I feel like we 559 00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 3: do not respect our SVP. We just don't respect it 560 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:08,919 Speaker 3: like we need to. 561 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,560 Speaker 2: And I'm sick of it. And I'm sure. 562 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 3: Paulino maybe went through some of this with having a 563 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 3: wedding recently. 564 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:15,000 Speaker 2: True. 565 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 3: But I just threw a little brunch, Just a little brunch, Okay, 566 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:20,119 Speaker 3: I want to feed you. I'm going to give you 567 00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 3: a little cocktail, and I want to have a good 568 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 3: time with you. And the instructions in the invite specifically 569 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 3: said our SVP to attend, right, So, oh good to attend. 570 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: Because I wasn't in town so I didn't have to 571 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:37,959 Speaker 1: RMVPAT to not attend. 572 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 4: I thought, at me. 573 00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I assume that you're not coming, you 574 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. So I'm like, okay, great. And 575 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,600 Speaker 3: I cannot tell you how many people waited until literally 576 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,879 Speaker 3: the day before my event or the day of to 577 00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,919 Speaker 3: text me and like, oh, I'm trying to RSVP and 578 00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 3: the link isn't working. Yeah, bro, it's the day before. 579 00:24:59,880 --> 00:25:02,479 Speaker 3: I I've already ordered the bacon, Like you're not coming, 580 00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 3: my man, you're. 581 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 2: Not supposed to be there. Where were you? Yeah? 582 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 6: It was a long day and I went to meet Yeah, 583 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 6: I went to I went to my knees. 584 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 2: My brother in law just had a baby. I meant 585 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 2: to I meant I went to meet my past. 586 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't hold it against anyone who doesn't show up. 587 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 2: I'm cool with that. 588 00:25:24,440 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 3: My thing is for people who call me the within 589 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 3: the forty eight hours of my event with their concerns 590 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,439 Speaker 3: and questions. You had two weeks to figure that out, bro, Like, 591 00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 3: why why do people wait until you're like, I can't 592 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,399 Speaker 3: imagine when I get married or you know, if that 593 00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 3: ever happens. 594 00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 2: That Like, if somebody at. 595 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 3: Forty out forty eight hours before my wedding and tell 596 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 3: me anything about like their issue. 597 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 2: I would lose it, like lose it. 598 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:55,960 Speaker 3: And I just I feel like, as a society, we 599 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:57,920 Speaker 3: all need to start respecting rs vps. 600 00:25:58,200 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 1: Did people didn't want show up to your wedding. It 601 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:00,720 Speaker 1: wasn't supposed to be there. 602 00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,399 Speaker 8: No, No, I thought that was gonna happen. So I 603 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 8: like left a little wiggle room because I'm like, it's Vegas. 604 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:12,360 Speaker 8: What if you bring someone? Everybody had like the chapel God, you. 605 00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 2: Guys were like laughing, and I felt bad. You just 606 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 2: run lasts, Okay, I'm like, no, I was told to 607 00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 2: go on this bus, and that's the bus I. 608 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 8: Was Jason had yet he came around. 609 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:26,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, but the chapel, yeah name, I just changed it. 610 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:28,920 Speaker 2: Thank god for the chapel as long as they didn't 611 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,920 Speaker 2: count my people. They are real ones. 612 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,480 Speaker 1: Were that they were supposed to count. How many people 613 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:32,880 Speaker 1: were there? 614 00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, we were way over capacity, so scared the whole time. 615 00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,000 Speaker 2: I'm like, how do I explain to someone you can't 616 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:40,800 Speaker 2: come in because we're over sixty people? 617 00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 4: Oh? Wow, I know. 618 00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 2: So I'm very grateful for that. But I did have 619 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:44,520 Speaker 2: three people who did it. 620 00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,920 Speaker 8: They were coming and didn't not say they were comings, 621 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:48,560 Speaker 8: you know what I'm saying. 622 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 2: They just didn't show rude. 623 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 4: Did they ever say anything to you? And like since then? 624 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 2: No? No. 625 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 8: The one person I actually went out to her and 626 00:26:56,640 --> 00:26:58,399 Speaker 8: I was like, where were you? And she was like, oh, 627 00:26:58,440 --> 00:27:00,480 Speaker 8: I'm so sick with COVID, but she said Instagram like 628 00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:02,080 Speaker 8: outside playing tennis. 629 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 3: You gotta respect the rsv P, Like just just yes 630 00:27:08,480 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 3: or no. It's a simple yes or no, Like and 631 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,960 Speaker 3: don't call somebody around the time of their event thinking 632 00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 3: that they should answer your forty eight questions like that 633 00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 3: is the most annoying thing ever. 634 00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 2: And if I ever get married. 635 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,639 Speaker 3: I will have an automatic reply set, so like if 636 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 3: you even text me, it's gonna reply like, sorry you 637 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 3: missed the window. Maybe you can come to my next wedding. Yes, 638 00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 3: passes away from. 639 00:27:34,720 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 5: That. 640 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 2: Take care of the man.