WEBVTT - The IT Factor

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<v Speaker 1>My younger years. I was just like doing too much.

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<v Speaker 2>Why because, like I said, doing like a reference, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know when you faced own ass up, You just doing

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<v Speaker 3>too much, throwing that ass back and like, yeah nothing

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<v Speaker 3>knowing I'm not, I don't feel nothing. I'm not. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>it just.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the herbal essences coming. Yes, that used to be

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<v Speaker 1>me and what they used to be doing. L I'm

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<v Speaker 1>meant nothing.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm beating it up and I used to be I

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<v Speaker 2>would be like you actually not you actually not be nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a performer, was it because you wanted them

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<v Speaker 2>to go around to like go tell people like.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, but go brag about that time? How a week?

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<v Speaker 4>Go brag about it?

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<v Speaker 3>What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all's show girl Alex Pete and it's your girl draining

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<v Speaker 2>the cold And you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are tuned in to another episode of poor.

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<v Speaker 1>Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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<v Speaker 3>We ain't got no gifts today, we ain't got no

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<v Speaker 3>guests today. You know that in their seats jumping up

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<v Speaker 3>and down because they love to hear that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, And lately we've been having a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>guests we have. Don't blame them, but it's a blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. I love having guests I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's great to get other people's perspective, you know, hear

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<v Speaker 2>their thoughts and it's just a good time. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like we have rarely ever had guests on Poor

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<v Speaker 2>Minds where it was like not goodbye, like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>mean a few that I wasn't that fond of.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely, okay, okay, but it's way.

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<v Speaker 2>More people that I loved and then people that I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that that's probably only like two. I was

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<v Speaker 2>just about that we had on the show that I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you ain't never got to worry about coming,

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<v Speaker 2>You ain't got the word bout be, you ain't got

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<v Speaker 2>to worry about me, baby.

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<v Speaker 3>I can agree, because I was about to say there's

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<v Speaker 3>probably like one or two because I yeah, yeah, what

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, Like, I just feel this show is

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<v Speaker 3>just so different because we just bring people out. They

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<v Speaker 3>shall and they always have them all. So it's very rare.

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<v Speaker 1>People come here and don't have a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's always good vibes in a great time. I

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<v Speaker 2>can't honestly state it.

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<v Speaker 3>So we can do a little catch up, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>what do we know you on y'all what you're doing hard?

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<v Speaker 1>Seventy five? Seventy five? Are I am? I am still

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<v Speaker 1>going at I am. I'm one day forty one. Good job.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, so I got thirty four more days. I'll

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<v Speaker 2>be done, really so are we?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Oh yeah, I'm excited. That's really it though.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I said, I feel like when you be doing

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<v Speaker 2>challenges and detoxes and stuff, your life's just be pretty born, like,

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<v Speaker 2>cause what are you doing? Like, I don't really go

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<v Speaker 2>out to eat because I'm eating really clean, so I

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<v Speaker 2>can't really go and if I'm just gonna eat salmon

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<v Speaker 2>and broccoli everywhere I go every That's what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 2>I could just cook that at home and eat it

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<v Speaker 2>at home. So I don't really go out to eat.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not drinking, so I haven't really went to like

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<v Speaker 2>any social events or anything recently. I did see this

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<v Speaker 2>list though, for the month of March, like of all

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<v Speaker 2>the things that's kind of going on in Atlanta, and

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<v Speaker 2>it was a few things on.

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<v Speaker 1>There that I was like, Oh, maybe I'll go do that.

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<v Speaker 3>Talk to like Bloggie, there's a Tacos and tequila coming

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<v Speaker 3>up in Atlanta.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in that hole.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, see and I would go to there, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>like I can't eat the tacos or drink.

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<v Speaker 3>You canna have a chicken taco.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't eat cheeky. You can have a salmon taco.

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<v Speaker 1>Salmon tacos is all going for me. You can have

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<v Speaker 1>a fish choco. You like fish tacos. You like fish

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<v Speaker 1>tacos be ordered.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't really like them though, Like I'll order it

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<v Speaker 2>if that's all that's on the meaning. And I go

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<v Speaker 2>to like a Mexican restaurant, but I prefer steak or

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<v Speaker 2>cheek okay or something like you know, maybe what's something

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<v Speaker 2>back eating steak?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we can, we can hit it well, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>hit it up for you. I'll get some footage for you.

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<v Speaker 3>Get you know what I'm saying, Okayer, Because I'm Finnna go.

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<v Speaker 3>I have been seeing that, like little events pop up

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<v Speaker 3>on like my timeline. I just have a feeling it's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be a really great summer. I have gotten my

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<v Speaker 3>holiday weight off of me. I'm just feeling good. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>back outside and yeah, I'm just looking really forward to

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<v Speaker 3>the summer and everything we have coming up. And I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know, I just have a good my spirit.

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<v Speaker 1>Is high again. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know what it is about them fall and

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<v Speaker 3>winter months, but I'll be struggling so bad, and then

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<v Speaker 3>I'm kind of like I'm starting to get out of

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<v Speaker 3>my little funk, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>But because you know, when that sun's out, buns up,

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<v Speaker 1>I love the song.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know, like I always say, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>it's just because I was born in the spring, so

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<v Speaker 2>like I be waiting for day like saving like I

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<v Speaker 2>cannot wait for day like saving times when it hit

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<v Speaker 2>and E known he had already, so we all saw.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we all saw for sure. It's gonna be a

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<v Speaker 3>fun summer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm excited and I'm gonna be done with my detop.

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<v Speaker 1>That's but I'm only on girl. I'm only drinking.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm not drinking shots and stuff no more, Like

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to be fine for I want to be

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<v Speaker 2>like fifty sixty and fine as fuck.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just feel like, you know, a.

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<v Speaker 3>Little shots for a celebration, it's cool, but you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>stick to the champagne one.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm really gonna try to like just stick to champagne. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be a champagne wine girl.

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<v Speaker 3>So before we get into the topics, it was crazy

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<v Speaker 3>because we had somebody's tweet about us that we want

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<v Speaker 3>on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Were gonna get him on the show?

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<v Speaker 3>Raymonds tweeted he said poor Minds is the best podcast

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<v Speaker 3>out and it's not up for debate, and he.

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<v Speaker 1>Know what the fuck going on?

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<v Speaker 2>Shout out to Raymond, say, I love I always say that,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Dun you know what I think it is though, because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been on a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>Of people's podcasts and I'm gonna tell y'all, this energy

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<v Speaker 3>is just different.

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<v Speaker 1>It is.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really real conversation and it's just like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I always say conversation is a skill, and a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people don't have that skill, like just like playing

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<v Speaker 3>football is a skill. Yeah, we really, we really shocking

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<v Speaker 3>Kobe and this motherfucker bag.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying. I'm not lying, tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I just you know, it's given what what was the

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<v Speaker 1>other one? MJ is got it. That's a good one.

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<v Speaker 1>That's they used to play together. That was before my time.

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<v Speaker 1>But it don't matter. At all. It was. It was.

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<v Speaker 1>But what I'm saying is, when it all is said and.

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<v Speaker 3>Done, I was a kid, you was a tiny tode,

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<v Speaker 3>you were a tiny toach. But what I'm saying, when

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<v Speaker 3>it's all said and done, they're gonna remember on name

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<v Speaker 3>m hm because we deserve it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, you you lie here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, time was into it to what you've been up to,

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<v Speaker 2>and you deserve it all. She I'm on that same tip, though,

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<v Speaker 2>I deserve it all and more, don't it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, that's the mission. That's the motive. My Dodgers Blue.

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<v Speaker 3>What's up?

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<v Speaker 1>Gas? Set up our girl? You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>We flourishing this year. It's a it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Gonna be a good year. Like we definitely have a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of exciting things coming up. I feel like we

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<v Speaker 2>say that every episode. They probably like b she spitted out,

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<v Speaker 2>what is au easy? Y'all say this ship everybody episode.

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<v Speaker 2>But the great thing is every episode, y'all getting closer

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<v Speaker 2>and closer to us telling.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all what it is.

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<v Speaker 4>Look that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the gag. We're getting closer and closes.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, closer too much?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my fucking guy, Bro, that's literally five worst songs

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<v Speaker 2>ever created?

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<v Speaker 4>So much.

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<v Speaker 1>Get it like girl, give me a fucking break.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, I told you somebody on Twitter I

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<v Speaker 2>called me a demon because I said I didn't like

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<v Speaker 2>this song. Okay, I'm like, you are a fucking demon

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<v Speaker 2>who doesn't like this.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't like it either. But can I make a confession?

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<v Speaker 3>Why there's a song said not my intrusive thoughts coming out?

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<v Speaker 1>I beat your ass?

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<v Speaker 3>I have wait, I have a song that I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, and I thought it was a safe space to

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<v Speaker 1>say it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I don't even know why I'm admitting this right now.

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<v Speaker 3>I hate this song.

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<v Speaker 1>When they played in the club at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night, I get pissed.

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<v Speaker 3>What I won't a dance?

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<v Speaker 2>I love that song? Oh my god, now you wildin

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<v Speaker 2>with it? I hate that's a class.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate it? Yeah, baby, yeah, that's all. That is?

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<v Speaker 1>Such a song, you know what? Just for that?

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<v Speaker 2>Were singing it for carry OUs Please don't sing it

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<v Speaker 2>for carry Out, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate and I love him.

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<v Speaker 3>I love him down yes, and we saw him in

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<v Speaker 3>concert and let me tell you, yes in New Orleans

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<v Speaker 3>for essence.

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<v Speaker 1>Where the It's like I be there, But where do

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<v Speaker 1>I be but I'm not here.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm there, but I'm not there because I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>or maybe I was just drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>We was drunk.

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<v Speaker 2>We was drunk. Remember when Sha was drunk. Shane says,

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<v Speaker 2>she ain't drank nothing since Noor.

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<v Speaker 3>No, I have not seen Shane put up She said,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not losing my job. Shane has not put a

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<v Speaker 3>piece of liquor, not even a piece of liquor to

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<v Speaker 3>her mouth in front of me since New Orleans. But

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<v Speaker 3>we had a time we didn't remember. Thad called us

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<v Speaker 3>to yell, but we had a ball that was like, hey, ladies.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to get y'all both on the phone because yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we had people show up for y'all, and you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying, y'all.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all said y'all was gonna be there. He did try

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<v Speaker 1>to shut that we was, but we need that. We

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<v Speaker 1>do need it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we missed the j Jackson concert. I know we

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<v Speaker 2>was drunk. Everybody just was over New Orleans. You have

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<v Speaker 2>to be drunk in New Orleans.

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<v Speaker 1>So like as Marty Gra going on right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Rodeo going on, Marty Gra going on, I missed the

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<v Speaker 3>cookout because I had to do some work with my homegirl.

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<v Speaker 3>I've been helping her with her project, so I couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>go to the cookout, which I was really sad about.

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<v Speaker 1>It'll be another one. It's one every year, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just really wanted to go this year the.

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<v Speaker 2>Cook I'll be fun though, but I'm definitely gonna go

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<v Speaker 2>to the rodeo before it end.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm going to the rodeo for sure. I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>missing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Houston Ticks.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out to Houston Htown. Okay, go ahead with the

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<v Speaker 3>first top of the little dryer. What's up y'all at

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<v Speaker 2>Thanks for the first topic. I really wanted to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about lucky gross syndrome. You know, like, have you ever

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<v Speaker 2>had something fall in your lap with no effort and

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't really have to go hard to giddy? I

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<v Speaker 2>think some people think that, Like I think people probably

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<v Speaker 2>could look at us and probably think we're just lucky.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that's not true though, I mean it might

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<v Speaker 2>not be true, but you know, everything is about perception.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's the perception that people can have, and

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<v Speaker 2>I think in life some people really feel like some

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<v Speaker 2>people are just lucky, and others feel like they're just unlucky,

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<v Speaker 2>like they were just built bad cards.

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<v Speaker 1>Life isn't there.

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<v Speaker 2>So how do you feel about the concept of being lucky,

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<v Speaker 2>because then you have people who don't even believe luck

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<v Speaker 2>is a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you have people who believe.

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<v Speaker 2>That everything you get in life is a result of

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<v Speaker 2>the work that you put in.

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<v Speaker 1>So I believe in look I do, Okay, I believe

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<v Speaker 1>in luck.

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<v Speaker 3>I believe sometimes the chance happening. Things happen, right, I

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<v Speaker 3>think sometimes, like I'll use social media for example, right,

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of times somebody will have a viral moment,

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<v Speaker 3>like the Hawk Tour girl will use her for example,

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<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm talking about? Probably not, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know, AUNTI gonna cat you. Well, Auntie

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<v Speaker 3>gonna catch you up. So the Hawk Tour girl, or

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<v Speaker 3>it's a girl that had did a random interview, you

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<v Speaker 3>know how them YouTubers be on the street interviewing people,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was like he asked her some question and

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<v Speaker 3>she was like talking about giving head and she's like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know when I do it, I just hoped to

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<v Speaker 3>spit on that thing and it went crazy, right, it

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<v Speaker 3>went viral. It was literally you could not scroll TikTok

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<v Speaker 3>without seeing the hop to a clip.

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<v Speaker 1>So this girl had.

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<v Speaker 3>This viral moment and she started a podcast, got all

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<v Speaker 3>these brand deals. I mean, she's at these festivals, hosting,

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<v Speaker 3>doing interviews, you know what I'm saying. So I think

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<v Speaker 3>that luck is a real thing, because who in that moment,

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<v Speaker 3>like you know you do. We do funny shit all

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<v Speaker 3>the time, and some things go viral and sometimes they don't.

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<v Speaker 3>But sometimes things just hit. So I do think that

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<v Speaker 3>is what luck is like, sometimes things just hit and

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<v Speaker 3>it's funny. But I think luck is cool. But it's

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<v Speaker 3>a difference between luck and really having longevity with it.

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<v Speaker 3>Cause how lucky are you if you have a moment

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<v Speaker 3>that doesn't do nothing? Like it's cool to go viral

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<v Speaker 3>and make a little money. But I feel like anytime

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<v Speaker 3>you see somebody that is in a successful position, it's

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<v Speaker 3>not luck. It's maybe luck mixed with hard work and opportunity.

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<v Speaker 3>But those three mixed together, that's when you get some

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<v Speaker 3>real shit. But luck can only go so far.

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<v Speaker 1>So luck is cool.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I might get lucky and hit the lottery

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<v Speaker 3>and get five million dollars, But what's luck if I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know how to keep that five million dollars? So

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<v Speaker 3>luck is cool, But what you're gonna do with that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fair.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I definitely feel like, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like it's a.

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<v Speaker 1>Mixture of both.

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<v Speaker 2>To me, it's definitely like what you said, it's some

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<v Speaker 2>people just kind of happen to be in the right

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<v Speaker 2>place at the right time. But it's about what you're

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<v Speaker 2>going to do with it, because yeah, you got this opportunity,

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<v Speaker 2>but if you didn't maximize it, it just doesn't really matter, right.

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<v Speaker 3>And a lot of people, I hate to say this,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's no shade, no see, but a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people like they really aren't talented. So y'all have somebody

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<v Speaker 3>who has like a little viral moment or somebody who

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<v Speaker 3>are not even talented, I'll say, or have the skills skills.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll use the word skills because I want to use

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<v Speaker 3>other examples, like somebody who come up on some money.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I had a friend, one of my best friends

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<v Speaker 3>from high school, right, and she had started a job

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<v Speaker 3>and it was one of those jobs that like give

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<v Speaker 3>you stocks whenever you first start the job with one

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<v Speaker 3>of the benefits. Right, something happened with the stock market

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<v Speaker 3>and they all got a whole bunch of money. Like,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, she hit like a million dollars or something crazy, right,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was going trips, buying bags, partying, and when

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<v Speaker 3>I tell you she has nothing now, and it was

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<v Speaker 3>like a stop, Like you know what I'm saying, Like

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<v Speaker 3>that could have been something that could have lasted you

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<v Speaker 3>a lifetime. So that's why I say luck is cool.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's why I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not that lucky of a person. I am not a

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<v Speaker 3>lucky person. She do not be hitting for me. My shit,

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<v Speaker 3>do not slap, I think so my shit do not

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<v Speaker 3>slap at all. But I think I have an amazing

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<v Speaker 3>life because I know how to take advantage of my

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<v Speaker 3>skills and the opportunity. So I think you can make

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<v Speaker 3>things like Okay, it's like the triangle, right, you got luck,

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<v Speaker 3>you got skill, and you got opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>So luck is cool.

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<v Speaker 3>But I would rather have the skill and the opportunity

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<v Speaker 3>if I had to choose out of that three, if

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<v Speaker 3>you got to choose one out of the three or

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<v Speaker 3>two out of the three, luck, I don't need luck

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<v Speaker 3>to make shit happen. Luck is cool, but so lucky

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<v Speaker 3>girl syndrome is a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that you definitely should want to have the

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<v Speaker 2>skill and the opportunity for sure over having Look, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I don't know, I think I have. I

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<v Speaker 2>think I'm kind of lucky when I really think about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>because I feel like a lot of stuff that be

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<v Speaker 2>happening to me, or that has happened to me, it

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't happen to like every average person, or it doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>happen to like people on a normal basis. Like I

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<v Speaker 2>could look at a lot of instances in my life

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<v Speaker 2>and be like, Okay, that was probably look, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just being in the right place at the right time,

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<v Speaker 2>meeting the right person at the right time. But I

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<v Speaker 2>think that you I think that even with me being lucky,

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<v Speaker 2>having skill and opportunity and knowing when to take advantage

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<v Speaker 2>of opportunity is what has gotten me to the places

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm at, Because I do think you could be

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<v Speaker 2>lucky and not know how to take advantage of the opportunity,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's where a lot of people fall short, or

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<v Speaker 2>like you said, mismanaging the opportunity when you get it,

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<v Speaker 2>so I e. Getting a million dollars and not knowing

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<v Speaker 2>what to do with it. Now you broken. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think that could happen to me. I don't like, could

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<v Speaker 2>they never. I do believe in never saying never though,

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<v Speaker 2>I do believe in that because you just never know

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<v Speaker 2>where life will take you and what will happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything could happen to anybody at any moment.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think I would ever be a person

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<v Speaker 2>who gets a million dollars and ends up broken just

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<v Speaker 2>because I know what to do with I'm gonna figure

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<v Speaker 2>out what to do with it. Yeah, even if I don't,

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I'm gonna figure out what to do with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think people people don't realize. And it's not to

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<v Speaker 2>say that a million dollars is not a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 2>because it is a lot of money. But I think

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<v Speaker 2>that when people see that kind of money in their

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<v Speaker 2>bank account and they've never seen that before, they be like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>let me go buy everything I ever wanted. And that's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you should definitely go buy you a house,

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<v Speaker 2>should definitely go buy you a practical car. But going

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<v Speaker 2>spend crazy amounts of money.

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<v Speaker 1>Like taking fifty dollar vacation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, taking fifty thousand dollar vacations, going to Louis, going

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<v Speaker 2>to Chaneill's, splurgeing, buying like two hundred thousand dollars worth

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<v Speaker 2>of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>That's craziness. You need to figure. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, and nothing and even with that for example,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's like do nice things for yourselff. If you

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<v Speaker 2>get a million dollars, Yeah, buy yourself a barking that's

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen thou twenty thousand, maybe thirty thousand dollars one. No,

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<v Speaker 2>don't go by teams. Yeah, you get what I'm saying. Like,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just all about what you do when you have opportunities.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think people be thinking, oh, I got this money,

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<v Speaker 2>I ain't never going I ain't gonna never go back now,

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<v Speaker 2>but you will if you don't know how to handle

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<v Speaker 2>the blessings there.

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<v Speaker 1>God right, I agree. Do you remember a song Lucky

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<v Speaker 1>by Britney Spears. She's lucky, she's a star.

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<v Speaker 3>See talking about that.

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<v Speaker 1>As soon as she asked the question, I was over

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<v Speaker 1>here singing it.

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<v Speaker 3>She akes up, there's a knock, knock knock on the do.

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<v Speaker 2>And see we could do we But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I cannot believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Lucky Lucky was a story and I think it was

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<v Speaker 3>like Britney Spear, the girl's name was Lucky and she

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<v Speaker 3>was like a Hollywood star. Yeah, like Brittany played the

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<v Speaker 3>character in the music video and the girl's name was Lucky,

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<v Speaker 3>and she was like a Hollywood star. But you know

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<v Speaker 3>all that glitters that ain't gold. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a it's such a good song.

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<v Speaker 2>Shout out to my girl, brit Yeah, they don't you

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<v Speaker 2>know she likes to dance.

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<v Speaker 3>In them panties And we're gonna talk about it every week,

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<v Speaker 3>But she really gave us some box do we not

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<v Speaker 3>gonna talk about it every week?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, this probably would be the last time, if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>being completely hony. What you think about lucky girl syndrome, Well,

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<v Speaker 2>to quote the great Queen Oki manad period, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not lucky. I'm blessed, yes, but no, for real, I

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<v Speaker 2>agree with you on the three categories. I would change

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<v Speaker 2>blessed to lucky for me because that's just me and

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<v Speaker 2>my spirituality. But I do agree that opportunity meets preparation

0:22:28.000 --> 0:22:30.520
<v Speaker 2>and that leads to like everything that you need, but

0:22:30.600 --> 0:22:32.879
<v Speaker 2>also what you put into the universe comes back to

0:22:32.920 --> 0:22:37.119
<v Speaker 2>you putting out that good energy, setting those manifestations, affirmations

0:22:37.119 --> 0:22:40.200
<v Speaker 2>and intentions. That is really the motivation to kind of

0:22:40.280 --> 0:22:43.359
<v Speaker 2>keep going through it, right, Yeah, I agree with that.

0:22:43.480 --> 0:22:46.080
<v Speaker 2>I definitely think that what you get, like, what you

0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:48.399
<v Speaker 2>get out of life is a product of like what

0:22:48.480 --> 0:22:51.200
<v Speaker 2>you put in like depending on what type of partson

0:22:51.280 --> 0:22:53.840
<v Speaker 2>you are. I feel like sometimes that's why people be

0:22:53.880 --> 0:22:56.280
<v Speaker 2>feeling unlucky if I'm being honest, like you feel like

0:22:56.280 --> 0:22:58.440
<v Speaker 2>fucked up shit always happening to you, or you feel

0:22:58.440 --> 0:23:00.600
<v Speaker 2>like you don't have good look because what are you

0:23:00.640 --> 0:23:01.160
<v Speaker 2>putting out?

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean?

0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:06.000
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I'm always going out into the world

0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:08.000
<v Speaker 2>treating people how I want to be treated, right.

0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:10.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't do bad by people.

0:23:10.200 --> 0:23:12.320
<v Speaker 2>I always try to do good by everybody, even if

0:23:12.359 --> 0:23:15.000
<v Speaker 2>situations don't work out. I'm not even like a getback person.

0:23:15.000 --> 0:23:17.560
<v Speaker 2>I feel like life's gonna get you back. God gonna

0:23:17.560 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 2>get you bad. God be doing all of my Yeah,

0:23:20.920 --> 0:23:22.520
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to worry about those things.

0:23:22.560 --> 0:23:23.760
<v Speaker 1>I just move on with my life.

0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:25.800
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like, because I've always been that type

0:23:25.800 --> 0:23:29.760
<v Speaker 2>of person, that's why blessings look as you know, some

0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:31.920
<v Speaker 2>people might want to call it flows into my life

0:23:31.920 --> 0:23:34.160
<v Speaker 2>all the time because it's about what you put out.

0:23:34.240 --> 0:23:35.959
<v Speaker 1>Some people are terrible fucking people.

0:23:36.240 --> 0:23:39.760
<v Speaker 2>And then they wonder why, and if I'm really being honest,

0:23:40.000 --> 0:23:42.640
<v Speaker 2>people who bad stuff always be happening too, I kind

0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:45.600
<v Speaker 2>of just do always look at them and be like I.

0:23:45.520 --> 0:23:46.680
<v Speaker 1>Stupumping at myself.

0:23:46.800 --> 0:23:49.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because why is something bad always happening?

0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:52.879
<v Speaker 1>And why are you always going through it? Why?

0:23:53.200 --> 0:23:55.760
<v Speaker 2>And especially when it be situations that I feel like

0:23:55.840 --> 0:23:58.280
<v Speaker 2>sometimes are like avoidable, you know what I mean? But

0:23:58.359 --> 0:24:02.040
<v Speaker 2>you always going through something? You the common denominator. You're

0:24:02.080 --> 0:24:05.040
<v Speaker 2>not unlucky. It's just about the decisions and actions that

0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:05.640
<v Speaker 2>you be making.

0:24:05.680 --> 0:24:07.440
<v Speaker 1>That's why your life is going the way.

0:24:07.720 --> 0:24:09.560
<v Speaker 3>So I do want to make a point to what

0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:12.480
<v Speaker 3>Ta said, because she said she will change lucky and blessed,

0:24:12.880 --> 0:24:15.400
<v Speaker 3>cause I feel like, no, I'm not lucky because when

0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:17.520
<v Speaker 3>I look at luck, I look at like a once

0:24:17.560 --> 0:24:20.760
<v Speaker 3>in a lifetime opportunity happening that don't happen to me.

0:24:20.840 --> 0:24:23.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm not lucky, Like I'm not lucky at all, a

0:24:23.080 --> 0:24:27.600
<v Speaker 3>lottery Yeah, stuff like I never just like walk across

0:24:27.640 --> 0:24:29.440
<v Speaker 3>the mall, the man be like, oh, let me come

0:24:29.440 --> 0:24:33.080
<v Speaker 3>by you with you now. I'm not lucky, Like I'm

0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:35.359
<v Speaker 3>not lucky. My shit be fucked up. It's never me,

0:24:36.000 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 3>It's never me. But when it comes to blessings. Now,

0:24:39.080 --> 0:24:45.360
<v Speaker 3>now I am extremely blessed, like my blessings literally overflow.

0:24:45.720 --> 0:24:48.959
<v Speaker 3>So I do think it is I don't think you can, Like,

0:24:49.000 --> 0:24:51.399
<v Speaker 3>I see what you're saying about interchanging lucky and blessed,

0:24:51.400 --> 0:24:53.840
<v Speaker 3>but I don't think that that's the same thing, because

0:24:53.840 --> 0:24:56.480
<v Speaker 3>I feel like luck is something like it's a chance happening,

0:24:56.480 --> 0:24:58.720
<v Speaker 3>and it can happen to anybody. It can happen to

0:24:58.760 --> 0:25:02.320
<v Speaker 3>the worst fucking person in the world. Blessings don't happen

0:25:02.359 --> 0:25:05.160
<v Speaker 3>to good people. That's how I feel. Luck can happen

0:25:05.240 --> 0:25:06.159
<v Speaker 3>to the fucking level.

0:25:06.240 --> 0:25:07.480
<v Speaker 1>Blessings don't happen to bed.

0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:10.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm sorry. Blessings don't happen to bad people. Luck

0:25:10.880 --> 0:25:13.520
<v Speaker 3>can happen to the worst person. The worst person you

0:25:13.560 --> 0:25:16.199
<v Speaker 3>know can hit the lottery tomorrow, the worst person you

0:25:16.280 --> 0:25:19.879
<v Speaker 3>know could get something like a random viral moment and

0:25:19.920 --> 0:25:22.120
<v Speaker 3>you see them on TV everywhere and see.

0:25:22.119 --> 0:25:25.280
<v Speaker 2>That's why I do feel like they're interchangeable. Because blessings

0:25:25.280 --> 0:25:27.600
<v Speaker 2>don't always come from God neither. It depends on if

0:25:27.640 --> 0:25:29.720
<v Speaker 2>you really want to get deep into the spiritual bag.

0:25:30.920 --> 0:25:33.520
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes blessings don't be coming from Him, they coming from

0:25:33.560 --> 0:25:34.160
<v Speaker 2>other places.

0:25:34.240 --> 0:25:34.520
<v Speaker 1>Yep.

0:25:34.680 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 2>I think everybody can get blessings. I do feel like

0:25:37.000 --> 0:25:39.800
<v Speaker 2>they're interchangeable. I agree with you. I think look and

0:25:39.840 --> 0:25:43.320
<v Speaker 2>blessings are interchangeable because I think even with blessings, people

0:25:43.400 --> 0:25:45.560
<v Speaker 2>can sometimes look at your blessings and be like, oh

0:25:45.600 --> 0:25:48.080
<v Speaker 2>my god, that's a once in a lifetime opportunity. I

0:25:48.080 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 2>could never see something like that happening for me. It

0:25:50.680 --> 0:25:55.119
<v Speaker 2>just depends on people's perspective in their religious background, because

0:25:55.160 --> 0:25:57.159
<v Speaker 2>some people are not religious, so they gonna look at

0:25:57.200 --> 0:25:59.840
<v Speaker 2>it like, oh, this person is just lucky. But I

0:26:00.080 --> 0:26:03.560
<v Speaker 2>definitely think that they're interchangeable. And I think for those

0:26:03.640 --> 0:26:07.320
<v Speaker 2>that feel like, like, think about blessings more than luck,

0:26:07.359 --> 0:26:09.919
<v Speaker 2>they're not really worried about luck either, because we're not

0:26:10.000 --> 0:26:12.639
<v Speaker 2>searching for that once in a life right because everything

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:14.480
<v Speaker 2>we know that everything that's gonna come to us is

0:26:14.520 --> 0:26:16.920
<v Speaker 2>far better good and it's alignment, you know what I mean.

0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.399
<v Speaker 2>So I feel like it's kind of people look at

0:26:19.440 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 2>it both ways, right, right. I think for me, I'm

0:26:22.119 --> 0:26:25.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm blessed. I feel that way too. I definitely feel

0:26:25.760 --> 0:26:29.200
<v Speaker 2>like it be blessings and look though. That's why I said,

0:26:29.240 --> 0:26:31.359
<v Speaker 2>I do feel like they're interchangeable because certain stuff that

0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:34.480
<v Speaker 2>have happened to me is definitely just it was a

0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:36.800
<v Speaker 2>blessing from God because I feel this way. I feel

0:26:36.840 --> 0:26:39.199
<v Speaker 2>like nothing in your life is going to happen unless

0:26:39.200 --> 0:26:42.200
<v Speaker 2>God wants it to happen. You a believer, if you

0:26:42.359 --> 0:26:44.919
<v Speaker 2>really believe in God, then it's like everything that you

0:26:45.000 --> 0:26:47.560
<v Speaker 2>get is coming from him. It's all coming from Him,

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:49.480
<v Speaker 2>and it wouldn't have happened if He wanted to happen.

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:53.640
<v Speaker 2>So I definitely feel like, Okay, this was a blessed,

0:26:53.720 --> 0:26:57.720
<v Speaker 2>it was luck, but it only happened because God allowed.

0:26:57.320 --> 0:27:00.560
<v Speaker 3>It to happen, right, And I agree with you on

0:27:00.600 --> 0:27:04.320
<v Speaker 3>that because because God will really try to guide you

0:27:04.600 --> 0:27:07.800
<v Speaker 3>if you pay attention, because like you said, blessings cannot

0:27:07.840 --> 0:27:12.000
<v Speaker 3>all blessings can be something that comes coming from another place. Yeah,

0:27:12.040 --> 0:27:15.760
<v Speaker 3>so if you're not right, so if you pay attention

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:18.880
<v Speaker 3>to God's guidance, he gonna guide you the right way

0:27:18.920 --> 0:27:22.679
<v Speaker 3>that you're supposed to be going every time, so you'll know, Okay,

0:27:22.760 --> 0:27:26.119
<v Speaker 3>is this a blessing or is this something that's you know,

0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:28.719
<v Speaker 3>shit covered and glitter a lesson, a lesson?

0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

0:27:30.119 --> 0:27:32.439
<v Speaker 3>So I definitely do agree with you on that. But

0:27:32.520 --> 0:27:34.879
<v Speaker 3>like I said, I feel like when I think about

0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:39.640
<v Speaker 3>like me being unlucky, like I said, I just don't

0:27:39.680 --> 0:27:43.280
<v Speaker 3>feel like things happen for me like oh, a viral moment,

0:27:43.320 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 3>and it's just like, oh, I'm on TV because you

0:27:46.040 --> 0:27:47.720
<v Speaker 3>see some people who go viral. Next thing, you know,

0:27:47.760 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 3>they on the red carpet at the Oscars doing interviews

0:27:50.359 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 3>like the stuff like that.

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:53.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, don't really like if.

0:27:53.440 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 3>We get on the Oscars and we interview and it's because, nigga,

0:27:55.640 --> 0:27:58.280
<v Speaker 3>we've been fucking working for six years to get there,

0:27:58.760 --> 0:27:59.360
<v Speaker 3>you know what I mean.

0:27:59.560 --> 0:28:01.080
<v Speaker 1>So I guess that's what I mean.

0:28:01.200 --> 0:28:04.239
<v Speaker 3>But I can't. I can say I'm blessed. But that's

0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.200
<v Speaker 3>an interesting that wasn't even the topic.

0:28:06.280 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 2>But yeah, I mean because the way I look at

0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 2>it too, is like sometimes a person will do something

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:13.400
<v Speaker 2>and it will go viral, but they've been.

0:28:13.359 --> 0:28:14.879
<v Speaker 1>Hustling for a long time.

0:28:15.240 --> 0:28:17.440
<v Speaker 2>So I feel like sometimes even with these people who

0:28:17.440 --> 0:28:20.199
<v Speaker 2>will finally go viral, they've been doing that shit for

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 2>a long time, Like that that influencer that had that

0:28:24.520 --> 0:28:31.760
<v Speaker 2>classy very classy. Yes, they Lebron had been doing content

0:28:31.920 --> 0:28:34.119
<v Speaker 2>for a really, really long time. So it's kind of like,

0:28:34.400 --> 0:28:37.240
<v Speaker 2>is that look like, yeah, it took him out of

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:38.200
<v Speaker 2>there or her out of there.

0:28:38.240 --> 0:28:39.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what they go by.

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:42.920
<v Speaker 2>But like it took them out of there, but they

0:28:42.920 --> 0:28:44.040
<v Speaker 2>have been putting the work in.

0:28:44.240 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and so it's like, can you really call that look?

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 3>Well, not with that person particularly, but like if you

0:28:49.120 --> 0:28:50.880
<v Speaker 3>think of like a bad baby, but she.

0:28:50.800 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 1>Said catch me outside.

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:54.160
<v Speaker 3>How about that she was on Doctor Phild being a

0:28:54.160 --> 0:28:56.800
<v Speaker 3>badass white girl and then she but what she did,

0:28:57.400 --> 0:29:00.840
<v Speaker 3>but it took that look and she turn it into

0:29:00.880 --> 0:29:03.280
<v Speaker 3>an opportunity. So you know, that's what I'm saying. It's

0:29:03.280 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 3>a difference between that versus the hot tour girl. She

0:29:05.960 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 3>had the opportunity to make it into something that she

0:29:08.160 --> 0:29:10.920
<v Speaker 3>didn't because she didn't have the skill to me personally,

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 3>you know what I'm saying.

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:15.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's why I don't. I don't know who

0:29:15.400 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 1>that is. Yeah, exactly, exactly, That's what I'm saying, Like.

0:29:18.520 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 3>That, what do these people know who she is? If

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:23.320
<v Speaker 3>they watching? Yeah, you know, I like to get into

0:29:23.320 --> 0:29:25.040
<v Speaker 3>this news sometimes.

0:29:24.520 --> 0:29:28.240
<v Speaker 2>Because sometimes I feel like, yeah, if no, if it

0:29:28.320 --> 0:29:31.080
<v Speaker 2>was a big moment like that, everybody should know about it.

0:29:31.640 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 3>Well this is the thing though, so what's crazy about it?

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:39.560
<v Speaker 3>Is that be the difference between like mainstream media because

0:29:39.560 --> 0:29:41.880
<v Speaker 3>it was very mainstream, but the.

0:29:41.760 --> 0:29:43.720
<v Speaker 1>Things that get mainstream.

0:29:43.280 --> 0:29:45.760
<v Speaker 3>Is this like they gonna talk about it all Like

0:29:45.800 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm not kidding. It was everywhere and when

0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:52.920
<v Speaker 3>was this was this? Like yeah, it was like what

0:29:53.040 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 3>last year or maybe the year before last? And then

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 3>she started a podcast, she signed with barstool.

0:29:58.920 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 1>It was like a whole big fiend. What happened to

0:30:01.800 --> 0:30:02.320
<v Speaker 1>her pocket?

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:05.120
<v Speaker 3>I think she just stopped it because something happened where

0:30:05.160 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 3>she started, not a bitcoin. She got into something with

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.240
<v Speaker 3>bitcoin and told what everybody to invest and then she

0:30:10.320 --> 0:30:12.320
<v Speaker 3>ended up pulling out. So it's like a whole bunch

0:30:12.320 --> 0:30:13.240
<v Speaker 3>of legal stuff she's.

0:30:13.120 --> 0:30:14.040
<v Speaker 1>Going through right now.

0:30:14.360 --> 0:30:18.600
<v Speaker 3>But she's like in hiatus right now basically, So either

0:30:18.640 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 3>way it goes, like I said, But a lot of

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:25.680
<v Speaker 3>that blessing and opportunity and luck stuff that we go into,

0:30:26.200 --> 0:30:28.520
<v Speaker 3>that's another topic that we talked about before. It's different

0:30:28.520 --> 0:30:30.840
<v Speaker 3>for this than it is for this too. At the

0:30:30.880 --> 0:30:33.040
<v Speaker 3>same time, you know what I'm saying.

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:36.440
<v Speaker 1>That's that's definitely a fair argument, because I mean, it

0:30:36.520 --> 0:30:37.200
<v Speaker 1>is what it is.

0:30:37.280 --> 0:30:39.760
<v Speaker 2>We just have to work a little harder for things

0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:41.880
<v Speaker 2>that they don't have to work as hard.

0:30:41.640 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 1>For right, right, right.

0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:46.000
<v Speaker 3>But I do think lucky girl syndrome is a thing.

0:30:46.040 --> 0:30:47.920
<v Speaker 3>I think some people really just are lucky.

0:30:50.880 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know, because I just.

0:30:56.600 --> 0:30:58.520
<v Speaker 2>You know, how I be feeling about these topics. I

0:30:58.640 --> 0:31:02.960
<v Speaker 2>just always kind of feel like sometimes it just really

0:31:03.000 --> 0:31:06.120
<v Speaker 2>be about what you do, though, like what you do

0:31:06.240 --> 0:31:08.240
<v Speaker 2>with your life and the type of person that you are,

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 2>because I don't necessarily think that I believe that anybody

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:14.320
<v Speaker 2>just gets anything because they're looking.

0:31:14.240 --> 0:31:16.120
<v Speaker 3>Well, that's what I'm saying. That's the difference for me.

0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:19.120
<v Speaker 3>I think if somebody has blessings in their life, that's

0:31:19.160 --> 0:31:21.640
<v Speaker 3>because they're putting good in the world and they're getting

0:31:21.640 --> 0:31:24.880
<v Speaker 3>good back. Luck can happen to anybody. Blessings happen to

0:31:24.880 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 3>the good people. That's the difference for me, That's what

0:31:27.280 --> 0:31:29.440
<v Speaker 3>I was saying. Yeah, so I do think lucky girl

0:31:29.480 --> 0:31:31.640
<v Speaker 3>syndrome is a thing because luck can happen to anybody.

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:33.800
<v Speaker 1>I feel like blessings only.

0:31:33.600 --> 0:31:37.640
<v Speaker 3>Happen to the blessed. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:44.360
<v Speaker 2>Like chance, yes, like yes, fifty chance whatever, right, right.

0:31:44.240 --> 0:31:46.480
<v Speaker 3>So I guess that's what I'm saying. Like, like I said,

0:31:46.520 --> 0:31:48.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't feel I'm lucky at all, because not because

0:31:48.600 --> 0:31:50.360
<v Speaker 3>I'm a bad person, just because I don't.

0:31:50.400 --> 0:31:52.000
<v Speaker 1>Luck don't be on my side for some reason.

0:31:52.000 --> 0:31:55.000
<v Speaker 3>But blessings, oh baby, God don't show up for me

0:31:55.040 --> 0:31:59.480
<v Speaker 3>every time when it comes to the blessing time. All right,

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:01.800
<v Speaker 3>drinking today while we drank.

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:04.720
<v Speaker 1>It's good. I'm almost good. I'm glad you like it. So,

0:32:04.760 --> 0:32:08.160
<v Speaker 1>since we're like into the spring, spring gets sprung.

0:32:08.360 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 2>We're talking about blessings and luck and opportunity. This one

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 2>is gonna be called Everything's coming up roses, okay, And

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:17.240
<v Speaker 2>so what we have in it. We have some grapefruit,

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 2>We have some lemons, some lime, some lavender syrup, and

0:32:20.120 --> 0:32:21.960
<v Speaker 2>then I have some high biscuits syrup.

0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Floated at the bottom.

0:32:22.920 --> 0:32:26.800
<v Speaker 2>And then we garnish it with three dehydrated rosebuds, a

0:32:26.920 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 2>very floral, very light, very spring.

0:32:29.720 --> 0:32:32.800
<v Speaker 1>And this is Everything's coming up roses. Cheer. I love

0:32:32.880 --> 0:32:34.000
<v Speaker 1>that rosebud.

0:32:34.040 --> 0:32:36.440
<v Speaker 3>That used to be the the cheek cold for SAMs

0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:37.480
<v Speaker 3>to get a lot of money.

0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:39.960
<v Speaker 2>It did because I used to play some I love

0:32:40.040 --> 0:32:43.880
<v Speaker 2>sims girl. I used to play all the time on

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<v Speaker 1>Eight, on the People Who keep everything.

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<v Speaker 3>My sister is like that, and she had a time

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<v Speaker 3>capsule from high school. Real I wish I would have

0:35:01.320 --> 0:35:03.640
<v Speaker 3>had something like that, a time capsule.

0:35:03.760 --> 0:35:05.360
<v Speaker 1>My best friend Jazmine is like that.

0:35:05.680 --> 0:35:10.160
<v Speaker 2>She has like photo albums, like ten photo albums full

0:35:10.239 --> 0:35:14.680
<v Speaker 2>of like pictures of us from high school, from colleague,

0:35:15.520 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 2>like literally and like I'm talking about y'all, like.

0:35:18.640 --> 0:35:19.799
<v Speaker 1>Books and books and books.

0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:23.200
<v Speaker 2>She'd still be wearing her high school t shirts period

0:35:23.360 --> 0:35:23.680
<v Speaker 2>when she.

0:35:23.719 --> 0:35:24.600
<v Speaker 1>Go to sleep and stuff.

0:35:24.600 --> 0:35:26.000
<v Speaker 2>Like when I'll get on FaceTime with her, she'd be

0:35:26.040 --> 0:35:29.120
<v Speaker 2>having on our two thousand and five homecoming in two

0:35:29.360 --> 0:35:30.800
<v Speaker 2>I mean not two thousand and five, two thousand and

0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:33.040
<v Speaker 2>six homecoming T shirt, and I'd be like, how do

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 2>you still have that? Like get rid of so much stuff?

0:35:36.840 --> 0:35:39.080
<v Speaker 2>And I wish that I kept stuff too, But like

0:35:39.160 --> 0:35:40.600
<v Speaker 2>that's why I'd be glad I got her, because I'd

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:43.360
<v Speaker 2>be like, if anything grew up copy there.

0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:46.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, my sister's like that. She's like a pack ride.

0:35:46.920 --> 0:35:49.040
<v Speaker 3>She keeps everything. But I'm so happy that she's like

0:35:49.080 --> 0:35:51.880
<v Speaker 3>that because she has so much stuff. Like my mom

0:35:52.400 --> 0:35:54.960
<v Speaker 3>was good with pictures too, so we have like so

0:35:55.080 --> 0:35:57.359
<v Speaker 3>many pictures of when I was little. Now what I

0:35:57.440 --> 0:36:00.000
<v Speaker 3>wish I had a video camera when I was little

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:03.399
<v Speaker 3>and I used to record everything. I wish I had

0:36:03.440 --> 0:36:06.600
<v Speaker 3>those videos. I don't know where they are because I

0:36:06.680 --> 0:36:10.160
<v Speaker 3>used to record. I was vlogging before vlogging was a fiend.

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<v Speaker 1>Imagine we had I cloud makes. Oh your food, yes.

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<v Speaker 3>I would have all of it. Talk, how are you

0:36:18.040 --> 0:36:18.640
<v Speaker 3>a pack rad?

0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:19.360
<v Speaker 1>Are you?

0:36:20.239 --> 0:36:22.360
<v Speaker 2>I've been getting rid of a lot of stuff, like

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:25.200
<v Speaker 2>kept a lot of my mom's stuff and actually pastations

0:36:25.200 --> 0:36:26.840
<v Speaker 2>helping me get rid of a lot of stuff.

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:28.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh.

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:30.200
<v Speaker 2>But I'm getting better because now I want to be

0:36:30.360 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 2>a little bit just more minimalistic instead of holding everything.

0:36:34.080 --> 0:36:36.239
<v Speaker 2>But I remember we had like those digital cameras with

0:36:36.280 --> 0:36:37.000
<v Speaker 2>the floppy disk.

0:36:37.400 --> 0:36:41.719
<v Speaker 1>Yes, like we had those. Yes, everything used to be there.

0:36:42.640 --> 0:36:44.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wish I still had my old digital camera

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.600
<v Speaker 2>from like high school and stuff. But I don't know

0:36:47.600 --> 0:36:49.160
<v Speaker 2>where they said, because what was the name of that

0:36:49.280 --> 0:36:52.200
<v Speaker 2>little website where everybody used to upload their pictures? I

0:36:52.239 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 2>cannot remember what it was called. Remember, yes, I cannot

0:36:55.880 --> 0:37:03.800
<v Speaker 2>remember what it was called. But huh no, tumbler it No,

0:37:04.200 --> 0:37:06.600
<v Speaker 2>it was just like a website where you could just

0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 2>upload all of your camera files. But I can't remember

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:13.200
<v Speaker 2>what the wind site was called, and if I'd be

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:15.480
<v Speaker 2>wondering if it's still up, and I be wishing I

0:37:15.520 --> 0:37:19.680
<v Speaker 2>could remember my log in. I'm about to def still

0:37:19.680 --> 0:37:22.160
<v Speaker 2>on there because like my Space is still upright, right,

0:37:22.200 --> 0:37:27.319
<v Speaker 2>but Flicker, yes, a Flicker account. But I couldn't even

0:37:27.320 --> 0:37:30.239
<v Speaker 2>tell y'all what email I was using, what password I

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:32.160
<v Speaker 2>was using, anything. But I used to upload all my

0:37:32.239 --> 0:37:34.480
<v Speaker 2>pictures on there when I was in middle school, in

0:37:34.560 --> 0:37:37.839
<v Speaker 2>high school, and I just just gone memory.

0:37:37.520 --> 0:37:39.719
<v Speaker 3>Right, that's all saying about my space. My Space is

0:37:39.719 --> 0:37:42.040
<v Speaker 3>still up, but I had deleted my mos space. I remember,

0:37:42.400 --> 0:37:43.600
<v Speaker 3>but I'm like, why did I do that?

0:37:43.840 --> 0:37:45.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? That could have been like something I just kept

0:37:46.239 --> 0:37:48.160
<v Speaker 1>up when we be young. You just don't be thinking

0:37:48.200 --> 0:37:48.480
<v Speaker 1>about that.

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<v Speaker 2>You got the people who do, like your sister, yes,

0:37:51.680 --> 0:37:53.920
<v Speaker 2>and like me, because I wish I was thinking like

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<v Speaker 2>that big then.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, I have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Friend she literally has all of our yearbooks from kindergarten

0:37:58.760 --> 0:38:02.080
<v Speaker 3>until we graduated, every single year.

0:38:03.040 --> 0:38:06.880
<v Speaker 2>Now I do have all my yearbooks from high school.

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah I don't have I have like two from high school.

0:38:09.320 --> 0:38:09.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah they had.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, all my stuff is at my mom house, but

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:15.800
<v Speaker 2>she have all my well, she has all my pictures

0:38:15.800 --> 0:38:19.919
<v Speaker 2>from like kindergarten up until I graduated from college. And

0:38:19.960 --> 0:38:23.040
<v Speaker 2>then she has all of my yearbooks from high school.

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:25.640
<v Speaker 2>And then my mom even have all her yearbooks from

0:38:25.680 --> 0:38:26.160
<v Speaker 2>high school.

0:38:26.239 --> 0:38:27.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's the see my mom had her I think

0:38:27.920 --> 0:38:30.480
<v Speaker 3>I have one or two yearbooks from my mom's high school.

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<v Speaker 1>Babe.

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<v Speaker 3>They used to love them afros.

0:38:34.040 --> 0:38:36.120
<v Speaker 2>See when my mama was in high school, they used

0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:38.359
<v Speaker 2>to do it a little silk prissy, she ain't they

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<v Speaker 2>had afros.

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:41.360
<v Speaker 3>It was like, so when my mom was in high school,

0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:43.799
<v Speaker 3>it was when they were trance. They were doing they

0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:47.240
<v Speaker 3>were doing afros, but they started doing the Jerry curls. Okay,

0:38:47.360 --> 0:38:49.919
<v Speaker 3>so like half of the yearbook got afros and half

0:38:49.960 --> 0:38:52.400
<v Speaker 3>of them got Jerry curls. So they were making that

0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:55.760
<v Speaker 3>transition to ooh, my mama, shit used.

0:38:55.600 --> 0:38:56.320
<v Speaker 1>To be juicy.

0:38:57.200 --> 0:39:00.319
<v Speaker 2>What that's the only thing about Jerry curls. I'm like,

0:39:00.400 --> 0:39:02.600
<v Speaker 2>how did people used to wear their hell like they like?

0:39:02.760 --> 0:39:08.960
<v Speaker 1>Every juice? Everything you lean on something you lean mark juicy.

0:39:09.320 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 1>You know what let your song blow? I guess and

0:39:12.320 --> 0:39:12.759
<v Speaker 1>what it is.

0:39:12.840 --> 0:39:14.919
<v Speaker 3>It's like my mom, I don't think she ever grew

0:39:14.920 --> 0:39:16.440
<v Speaker 3>out of it, because she still used to make her

0:39:16.520 --> 0:39:21.239
<v Speaker 3>hair real, Yes, because my mom, like she had like

0:39:21.360 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 3>really curly hair. Like my hair is like I have

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:26.960
<v Speaker 3>like four C hair. My mom had like four A

0:39:27.239 --> 0:39:29.840
<v Speaker 3>four B, so hers is a little curlier than mine.

0:39:30.560 --> 0:39:34.200
<v Speaker 1>But I mean she loved it juice down. I mean

0:39:34.239 --> 0:39:35.280
<v Speaker 1>she would have a little dripping.

0:39:35.400 --> 0:39:38.919
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I do feel like you gotta keep it moisturized, girl,

0:39:39.080 --> 0:39:40.320
<v Speaker 2>to keep your hair moisturized.

0:39:40.440 --> 0:39:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Nobody want to know dry.

0:39:42.200 --> 0:39:44.960
<v Speaker 3>I used to call a juicy crab chap all of that.

0:39:45.160 --> 0:39:50.279
<v Speaker 3>Why juicy crab? Because it was juicy hen you met? No,

0:39:50.360 --> 0:39:55.759
<v Speaker 3>that's not the right song to sing. Talking another shot, Yes,

0:39:56.160 --> 0:39:57.400
<v Speaker 3>all right, we're gonna move on.

0:39:57.239 --> 0:39:58.239
<v Speaker 1>To the topic too.

0:39:58.880 --> 0:40:02.520
<v Speaker 3>So the second today, and this kind of ties into

0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:05.640
<v Speaker 3>what we were just talking about. It's cloud more important

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:09.759
<v Speaker 3>than talent and how social media has changed success. So

0:40:10.040 --> 0:40:13.799
<v Speaker 3>do you think the industry still respects real talent or

0:40:13.920 --> 0:40:17.560
<v Speaker 3>is it all about engagement in numbers now? So I

0:40:17.600 --> 0:40:19.719
<v Speaker 3>do want to give an example because I saw this

0:40:19.800 --> 0:40:21.480
<v Speaker 3>when I was kind of like doing a little research

0:40:21.520 --> 0:40:22.120
<v Speaker 3>on this topic.

0:40:22.640 --> 0:40:25.040
<v Speaker 1>Somebody said, nowadays you have.

0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:31.560
<v Speaker 3>People like like an Addison Ray or a what's her

0:40:31.640 --> 0:40:35.640
<v Speaker 3>name Charlie d'millio, and they're extremely popular on teeps talking.

0:40:35.640 --> 0:40:38.280
<v Speaker 3>They're in movies and I'm not talking about regular movies,

0:40:38.320 --> 0:40:41.040
<v Speaker 3>like they're in like these A list movies, right because

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:43.640
<v Speaker 3>of their audience that can bring in. But they're not

0:40:43.719 --> 0:40:48.279
<v Speaker 3>necessarily talented. So they feel like if Halle Berry was

0:40:48.320 --> 0:40:51.120
<v Speaker 3>coming up in twenty twenty five, would she be Halle

0:40:51.160 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 3>Berry in twenty twenty five because maybe she doesn't have

0:40:53.200 --> 0:40:54.760
<v Speaker 3>a following, you know what I'm saying.

0:40:55.000 --> 0:40:56.280
<v Speaker 1>So, how do you feel this cloud?

0:40:57.120 --> 0:41:00.000
<v Speaker 3>Is cloud more important than talent in twenty twenty five?

0:41:02.040 --> 0:41:05.000
<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think so, because it's so many people

0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:07.319
<v Speaker 2>who have blown up over the past few years and

0:41:07.360 --> 0:41:09.680
<v Speaker 2>they didn't have a following, you know what I mean.

0:41:09.719 --> 0:41:12.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't think talent matters, okay.

0:41:12.400 --> 0:41:15.759
<v Speaker 2>Necessarily, but I don't think it's about cloud because, like

0:41:15.800 --> 0:41:18.440
<v Speaker 2>I said, a lot of people don't have that huge

0:41:18.520 --> 0:41:21.600
<v Speaker 2>following and then oh you got discovered.

0:41:21.640 --> 0:41:23.280
<v Speaker 1>Now you do have the people like that.

0:41:23.560 --> 0:41:25.319
<v Speaker 2>But a lot of the time, for me, it's more

0:41:25.440 --> 0:41:28.520
<v Speaker 2>a lack of talent, Like people just are not talented

0:41:29.040 --> 0:41:30.959
<v Speaker 2>and they just be blowing up for doing the bare

0:41:31.000 --> 0:41:36.080
<v Speaker 2>minimum so in the career path that they choose, and like,

0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 2>your music not that great, but you still blew up

0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:41.680
<v Speaker 2>on kind of way. Your accent not that great, but

0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:44.160
<v Speaker 2>you're fine? Are you attractive? Like the thing about halle

0:41:44.239 --> 0:41:46.879
<v Speaker 2>Berry that nobody could discredit her for she can really

0:41:46.960 --> 0:41:50.600
<v Speaker 2>ask like, yeah, she's beautiful, and I do think that

0:41:50.600 --> 0:41:53.320
<v Speaker 2>that may have something to do with her success.

0:41:53.400 --> 0:41:55.479
<v Speaker 1>But halle Berry is a great action. Yeah.

0:41:55.680 --> 0:41:58.080
<v Speaker 3>Well she said that that hindered her, her beauty hindered

0:41:58.120 --> 0:41:58.399
<v Speaker 3>her back.

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:00.440
<v Speaker 2>I can believe that because people probably you didn't take

0:42:00.480 --> 0:42:02.520
<v Speaker 2>her series rights. I think people don't never look at

0:42:02.560 --> 0:42:05.440
<v Speaker 2>beauty from that standpoint, Like people look at beautiful people

0:42:05.760 --> 0:42:07.279
<v Speaker 2>kind of like what we were just talking about in

0:42:07.320 --> 0:42:09.600
<v Speaker 2>the first topic, Oh, they so lucky because you're beautiful,

0:42:09.600 --> 0:42:12.160
<v Speaker 2>But people don't never think how think about how sometimes

0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:16.040
<v Speaker 2>being overly attractive can like hinder you because people won't

0:42:16.080 --> 0:42:18.040
<v Speaker 2>take you serious and certain positions.

0:42:18.600 --> 0:42:20.560
<v Speaker 3>So I one hundred percent agree with you, But I

0:42:20.560 --> 0:42:23.719
<v Speaker 3>also think, like y'all just be complaining and y'all not

0:42:23.760 --> 0:42:26.799
<v Speaker 3>working hard enough, because a lot of times people be like, oh,

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:28.480
<v Speaker 3>I don't have a following, so I'm not gonna get

0:42:28.520 --> 0:42:31.240
<v Speaker 3>cast for this movie. No you're not getting cast before

0:42:31.239 --> 0:42:34.880
<v Speaker 3>the movie, because yeah, you're probably not. I mean, I

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:36.960
<v Speaker 3>told y'all I took, I'm taking acting classes.

0:42:37.040 --> 0:42:37.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm big, not good.

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:40.280
<v Speaker 3>Ain't nobody finna put me in a movie just because

0:42:40.320 --> 0:42:42.919
<v Speaker 3>poor mind's be doing one point three million views a month.

0:42:43.000 --> 0:42:45.959
<v Speaker 1>I mean they might, though it ain't happen yet.

0:42:46.080 --> 0:42:47.879
<v Speaker 2>I mean it haven't happened yet, but they it might

0:42:48.000 --> 0:42:49.760
<v Speaker 2>because it's a lot of people who have got cast

0:42:49.800 --> 0:42:52.400
<v Speaker 2>it in right and cast it in TV rolls just

0:42:52.440 --> 0:42:55.520
<v Speaker 2>because they have a following, a following on social media.

0:42:55.680 --> 0:42:58.120
<v Speaker 3>So I do agree that that does happen, Like people

0:42:58.160 --> 0:42:59.920
<v Speaker 3>get cast it for roles just because they're, like, I

0:43:00.160 --> 0:43:01.000
<v Speaker 3>want their fan base.

0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:02.799
<v Speaker 1>I say this all the time.

0:43:02.880 --> 0:43:06.080
<v Speaker 3>I truly believe, like Tyler Perry had put Kim Kardashian

0:43:06.120 --> 0:43:10.920
<v Speaker 3>in that movie what was it, Confessions of a Temptations, Like,

0:43:10.960 --> 0:43:13.000
<v Speaker 3>you know, Kim only had a few lines, and they

0:43:13.000 --> 0:43:15.400
<v Speaker 3>were advertising it like she's gonna be in a whole

0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.560
<v Speaker 3>movie and she had like a few lines.

0:43:17.760 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 1>She didn't do bad.

0:43:19.120 --> 0:43:20.880
<v Speaker 3>It wasn't like she was terrible, but she didn't have

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:23.239
<v Speaker 3>much to carry or much to do. But he did

0:43:23.239 --> 0:43:26.200
<v Speaker 3>that as a strategy because Kim Kardashian, her star was

0:43:26.239 --> 0:43:28.759
<v Speaker 3>going up at the time. So I do believe that

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:31.520
<v Speaker 3>people get casted in certain movies because of their fan base.

0:43:31.880 --> 0:43:34.520
<v Speaker 3>But for the people who feel like they're not getting

0:43:34.560 --> 0:43:36.879
<v Speaker 3>casted because they don't have a following or their song

0:43:37.000 --> 0:43:38.880
<v Speaker 3>is not blowing up because they don't have a following.

0:43:39.280 --> 0:43:42.960
<v Speaker 3>Do these industry people care about a following, Yes, they do.

0:43:43.080 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 1>But I truly believe that if you were talented and.

0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:48.920
<v Speaker 3>You got that it factor and you have that work ethic,

0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:52.640
<v Speaker 3>it's gonna happen for you. So I don't like when

0:43:52.640 --> 0:43:54.680
<v Speaker 3>people be like, I don't have a following, so I'm

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:56.760
<v Speaker 3>not it's not gonna it's not happening for me because

0:43:57.239 --> 0:43:59.560
<v Speaker 3>I'm good and I'm great, but I don't have a following,

0:43:59.600 --> 0:44:00.720
<v Speaker 3>so I'm not gonna get.

0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:02.320
<v Speaker 1>Picked, or maybe it's just not in your path.

0:44:03.120 --> 0:44:05.480
<v Speaker 2>I feel like people be feeling to realize that stuff too,

0:44:05.640 --> 0:44:10.279
<v Speaker 2>Like sometimes just because it's top faith over here yet

0:44:10.440 --> 0:44:13.360
<v Speaker 2>I mean for real though, Like I think it's so

0:44:13.480 --> 0:44:17.360
<v Speaker 2>many people in this world who want to do things

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:20.840
<v Speaker 2>that don't align with the plan for them, you know

0:44:20.920 --> 0:44:22.440
<v Speaker 2>what I mean? And especially kind of because I know

0:44:22.480 --> 0:44:24.920
<v Speaker 2>everybody is not a believer. But going back to like

0:44:25.440 --> 0:44:30.640
<v Speaker 2>spirituality religion, there is a plan for your life, and

0:44:30.680 --> 0:44:32.840
<v Speaker 2>like if you're doing things that are not on the

0:44:32.880 --> 0:44:35.759
<v Speaker 2>plan for your life, it might not work out even

0:44:35.800 --> 0:44:38.360
<v Speaker 2>if it's not. And again, outside of being a believer,

0:44:38.719 --> 0:44:42.000
<v Speaker 2>I still feel like the universe kind of conspires to

0:44:42.040 --> 0:44:44.840
<v Speaker 2>make things work in your favor when it's supposed to work,

0:44:45.320 --> 0:44:49.040
<v Speaker 2>when it's supposed to happen, And if it's not supposed

0:44:49.040 --> 0:44:51.960
<v Speaker 2>to happen, sweetie, it's just never gonna happen. And sometimes

0:44:51.960 --> 0:44:54.239
<v Speaker 2>he just doesn't have anything to do with luck. It's

0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:57.160
<v Speaker 2>just maybe you putting your focus on something that's not

0:44:58.320 --> 0:45:01.480
<v Speaker 2>you're purpose, or it's not what you're supposed to be doing.

0:45:01.560 --> 0:45:04.480
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you might want to be an actress, but being

0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:06.600
<v Speaker 2>in actresses not your calling, right.

0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:09.000
<v Speaker 3>Even like a lot of times we'll see people who

0:45:09.640 --> 0:45:13.600
<v Speaker 3>are amazing singers. You'll see people who sting back up

0:45:13.600 --> 0:45:16.040
<v Speaker 3>for somebody and they sing better than the actual singer.

0:45:16.440 --> 0:45:19.279
<v Speaker 3>But what y'all have to realize too, is like we

0:45:19.360 --> 0:45:22.439
<v Speaker 3>don't know what that it factor is, but you either

0:45:22.560 --> 0:45:25.440
<v Speaker 3>have it or you don't. That's why we see a

0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:27.840
<v Speaker 3>lot of people. People can say all day up and down,

0:45:27.920 --> 0:45:31.560
<v Speaker 3>use again, Britney Spears cannot sing, but she had that

0:45:31.719 --> 0:45:34.520
<v Speaker 3>it factor, you know what I'm saying. Like people say

0:45:34.560 --> 0:45:37.279
<v Speaker 3>the same. They say who else they be saying that

0:45:37.320 --> 0:45:38.160
<v Speaker 3>about who can't sing?

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:40.319
<v Speaker 1>They say that about Beyonce, which I think is out.

0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:45.000
<v Speaker 3>Now that's a little different. J Lo can't sing. But

0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:46.480
<v Speaker 3>let me tell you what she can do. She can

0:45:46.480 --> 0:45:48.640
<v Speaker 3>make a mom calm out her mother ass.

0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:52.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah she can because that was more of her calling, right,

0:45:53.239 --> 0:45:53.759
<v Speaker 1>But you can't.

0:45:54.640 --> 0:45:58.080
<v Speaker 3>But at the same time, but you can't say wedding bulgn.

0:46:01.280 --> 0:46:01.360
<v Speaker 2>No.

0:46:01.560 --> 0:46:05.080
<v Speaker 1>My song was if you my loving that day? Do

0:46:05.160 --> 0:46:11.960
<v Speaker 1>y'all remember what I mean? She made head ellie.

0:46:13.120 --> 0:46:15.480
<v Speaker 2>Remember she started off at the backup dancer on in

0:46:15.520 --> 0:46:16.200
<v Speaker 2>Living Color.

0:46:17.000 --> 0:46:18.960
<v Speaker 1>So she worked her way up.

0:46:18.880 --> 0:46:22.280
<v Speaker 2>Into each of these different dancing to singing to acting.

0:46:22.360 --> 0:46:26.759
<v Speaker 3>Yes she did, because her breakout thing was Selena and

0:46:26.840 --> 0:46:29.080
<v Speaker 3>the lady that they were trying to cast for Selena.

0:46:29.200 --> 0:46:31.360
<v Speaker 3>Something had happened with her. She didn't get casted, so

0:46:31.560 --> 0:46:32.960
<v Speaker 3>it wasn't even supposed to be j Lo.

0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:37.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and she ate that up. She that Selena rolled up.

0:46:37.680 --> 0:46:39.359
<v Speaker 3>You know, they made a list of people who should

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:43.640
<v Speaker 3>have gotten oscars who didn't. They did no, no, they

0:46:43.719 --> 0:46:47.960
<v Speaker 3>just didn't win. So Jyl was on there for Selena.

0:46:48.160 --> 0:46:51.680
<v Speaker 3>Angela Bassett was on there for Tina Turner, Heath Ledger

0:46:51.760 --> 0:46:53.120
<v Speaker 3>was on there for Broke Back Mountain.

0:46:53.400 --> 0:46:54.279
<v Speaker 1>It was actually a.

0:46:54.200 --> 0:46:56.240
<v Speaker 3>Really good list and I was surprised that these people

0:46:56.239 --> 0:46:59.640
<v Speaker 3>didn't win. Yeah, Oscar for the role, but Jaylo definitely

0:46:59.680 --> 0:47:01.080
<v Speaker 3>deserved Oscar for Selena.

0:47:01.640 --> 0:47:04.279
<v Speaker 1>No, she ate that up. She really did.

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:06.120
<v Speaker 2>She did her because that was probably one of my

0:47:06.239 --> 0:47:11.440
<v Speaker 2>faceite dude, hell, why are you making asks?

0:47:11.440 --> 0:47:13.320
<v Speaker 1>That's what she would do because that's how so listen.

0:47:14.280 --> 0:47:17.800
<v Speaker 3>They talked about j Loo doing that with her lips

0:47:18.160 --> 0:47:19.600
<v Speaker 3>and poking her lips out like that.

0:47:19.600 --> 0:47:21.080
<v Speaker 1>They're like she was doing too much.

0:47:21.480 --> 0:47:24.400
<v Speaker 3>If you look up Selena singing, Selena used to do

0:47:24.440 --> 0:47:28.520
<v Speaker 3>the same thing. I mean, Jlo studied down for that role.

0:47:29.080 --> 0:47:30.799
<v Speaker 2>I mean it was like that was one of her

0:47:30.800 --> 0:47:35.480
<v Speaker 2>best acting ms and made in Manhattan. Yeah, but I

0:47:35.520 --> 0:47:37.680
<v Speaker 2>also liked enough. I feel like she did a really

0:47:37.719 --> 0:47:38.880
<v Speaker 2>good job and enough.

0:47:38.840 --> 0:47:41.560
<v Speaker 1>She was whooping up boy else she did.

0:47:41.400 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 2>A really good job, like that was a very serious role,

0:47:43.800 --> 0:47:46.560
<v Speaker 2>and I feel like she cuted like Jlo can really

0:47:46.600 --> 0:47:48.760
<v Speaker 2>act to me, I feel like, and I don't feel

0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:50.640
<v Speaker 2>like she can't sing, like I hate.

0:47:50.760 --> 0:47:52.640
<v Speaker 3>She can catch a note, yeah, like I hate, but she.

0:47:52.560 --> 0:47:54.120
<v Speaker 1>Can't say she can't sing.

0:47:54.280 --> 0:47:56.160
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, yeah, she can hold a little now,

0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:57.800
<v Speaker 2>but it's a lot of people who just can hold

0:47:57.800 --> 0:48:00.399
<v Speaker 2>an out. But I feel like that's where a lot

0:48:00.440 --> 0:48:02.640
<v Speaker 2>of other things go into it as far as just

0:48:02.680 --> 0:48:04.560
<v Speaker 2>having an eat factor, because I feel like even with

0:48:04.600 --> 0:48:07.880
<v Speaker 2>her that was probably like okay, like she can't just sing,

0:48:08.920 --> 0:48:11.520
<v Speaker 2>but she can hold, but she can hold a no,

0:48:12.239 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 2>she beautiful, she can dim. She had so many other

0:48:16.080 --> 0:48:18.000
<v Speaker 2>factors that it's like, Okay, this.

0:48:17.920 --> 0:48:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Is a start.

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 3>What do y'all think the IT factor is? Because nobody

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:24.000
<v Speaker 3>has ever defined it? What do y'all think it is?

0:48:24.840 --> 0:48:26.880
<v Speaker 3>Because I don't think it could be defined, right.

0:48:27.120 --> 0:48:30.399
<v Speaker 2>I think it's about your aura though, like people say,

0:48:30.400 --> 0:48:32.400
<v Speaker 2>like if I come in a room, dang, you just

0:48:32.480 --> 0:48:35.040
<v Speaker 2>like you change the energy and the energy, and I

0:48:35.080 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 2>think it has a lot to do with that, and yeah,

0:48:37.600 --> 0:48:41.960
<v Speaker 2>combining that with your skill, with like your motivation and stuff.

0:48:41.719 --> 0:48:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Like that, I think it's yeah.

0:48:44.040 --> 0:48:45.920
<v Speaker 3>I mean some people, like you just view them and

0:48:45.960 --> 0:48:50.600
<v Speaker 3>you're like wow, yeah, like you're just mesmerized by their presence.

0:48:50.680 --> 0:48:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Like some people, you know, just have that.

0:48:52.640 --> 0:48:55.040
<v Speaker 3>And I see that a lot when I see people perform,

0:48:55.200 --> 0:48:58.000
<v Speaker 3>and I'm just not an easily impressed person, but it

0:48:58.080 --> 0:48:59.640
<v Speaker 3>be some people. I look at I'm like, oh, yeah,

0:48:59.680 --> 0:49:02.520
<v Speaker 3>she got like and I don't know what it is.

0:49:02.560 --> 0:49:04.960
<v Speaker 3>I can never explain it. I can never explain it.

0:49:05.000 --> 0:49:05.400
<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

0:49:05.760 --> 0:49:08.400
<v Speaker 2>But y'all have it, like I would say, y'all have

0:49:08.520 --> 0:49:10.600
<v Speaker 2>it like when I first met y'all, was like, oh okay,

0:49:10.640 --> 0:49:15.080
<v Speaker 2>Like yeah, yeah, I just think you know what I

0:49:15.120 --> 0:49:17.960
<v Speaker 2>always say because I hate to be the bereau of

0:49:18.000 --> 0:49:22.200
<v Speaker 2>bad news, but sometimes I just always feel like it

0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:27.040
<v Speaker 2>just goes back into life just not being fair. I

0:49:27.040 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 2>think that be like a tough reality that a lot

0:49:29.440 --> 0:49:32.840
<v Speaker 2>of people don't want to accept. And that's why you

0:49:32.920 --> 0:49:36.200
<v Speaker 2>can't really put a finger on what it is sometimes

0:49:37.440 --> 0:49:39.680
<v Speaker 2>because it's just kind of like it was meant to

0:49:39.719 --> 0:49:42.440
<v Speaker 2>be that way, like it was ordained, it was orchestrated

0:49:42.480 --> 0:49:42.799
<v Speaker 2>that way.

0:49:42.880 --> 0:49:46.520
<v Speaker 1>That's why it happened that way, versus I don't know.

0:49:46.800 --> 0:49:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Some people, it just don't never happened for them, and

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:52.120
<v Speaker 2>I feel like, no matter how hard they try, how

0:49:52.200 --> 0:49:54.799
<v Speaker 2>much work they put in, it just don't happen, and

0:49:54.840 --> 0:49:59.560
<v Speaker 2>it just be you know, unfortunate, insad because life just

0:49:59.719 --> 0:49:59.880
<v Speaker 2>is in.

0:50:01.160 --> 0:50:04.960
<v Speaker 3>But I do feel like real talent always finds its way.

0:50:06.040 --> 0:50:08.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to be funny, No, because let me

0:50:08.160 --> 0:50:10.520
<v Speaker 3>tell you why. Real talent finds its way. This is

0:50:10.520 --> 0:50:13.359
<v Speaker 3>why I say this. Y'all know I always talk about bitch.

0:50:13.400 --> 0:50:17.600
<v Speaker 3>I thought I was finna be the biggest rapper singer out.

0:50:18.400 --> 0:50:21.439
<v Speaker 3>I used to go to the studio.

0:50:21.920 --> 0:50:23.320
<v Speaker 1>I used to really be in the studio.

0:50:23.760 --> 0:50:26.600
<v Speaker 3>Like we laughing because it's funny now, but I really

0:50:26.680 --> 0:50:28.680
<v Speaker 3>thought I was finna be baby Beyonce.

0:50:28.880 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 1>You couldn't tell me.

0:50:29.760 --> 0:50:31.719
<v Speaker 3>I was like, this is what I'm supposed to do,

0:50:32.280 --> 0:50:35.680
<v Speaker 3>and that was not my But I'm talented in other avenues,

0:50:36.000 --> 0:50:37.800
<v Speaker 3>so I knew I was gonna be on stage. I

0:50:37.840 --> 0:50:39.400
<v Speaker 3>don't know what I was gonna be on stage, No,

0:50:40.160 --> 0:50:41.400
<v Speaker 3>I just didn't know what doing what.

0:50:41.600 --> 0:50:42.279
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

0:50:42.360 --> 0:50:45.799
<v Speaker 3>So I feel like real talent, if you're talented and

0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:51.600
<v Speaker 3>whatever that may be, singing, dancing, writing, producing, you gonna find.

0:50:51.320 --> 0:50:53.239
<v Speaker 1>Your way to where you need to be.

0:50:53.719 --> 0:50:56.399
<v Speaker 3>So even though I wasn't on stage, I'm telling y'all,

0:50:56.440 --> 0:50:58.200
<v Speaker 3>when I was little, me and my friend Jazmine.

0:50:58.200 --> 0:50:59.279
<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Jazmine.

0:50:59.480 --> 0:51:01.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to her last name because y'all be

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:02.880
<v Speaker 3>looking up people on Facebook and stuff. So me and

0:51:02.960 --> 0:51:05.680
<v Speaker 3>Jazz and literally we used to sit in her living room,

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:08.160
<v Speaker 3>me and her and Lindsey, and they used to play

0:51:08.200 --> 0:51:10.160
<v Speaker 3>like they were e news reporters and they used to

0:51:10.200 --> 0:51:13.279
<v Speaker 3>interview me. Literally every time we would play this game,

0:51:13.320 --> 0:51:16.040
<v Speaker 3>I would always be the star. So since I was little,

0:51:16.080 --> 0:51:18.640
<v Speaker 3>I always would see myself on stage, but I didn't

0:51:18.640 --> 0:51:20.439
<v Speaker 3>know what I was doing. Every time we would play

0:51:20.440 --> 0:51:23.000
<v Speaker 3>this game, I would be like, oh, thank you so much,

0:51:23.080 --> 0:51:24.440
<v Speaker 3>like I would always be thanking.

0:51:24.200 --> 0:51:26.399
<v Speaker 1>Them for my work. I'm like, what am I doing?

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:29.640
<v Speaker 3>Though, But I'm saying I always saw myself on stage.

0:51:29.680 --> 0:51:32.239
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know necessarily was gonna be a podcast, yeah,

0:51:32.280 --> 0:51:33.680
<v Speaker 1>but I ended up on stage.

0:51:33.719 --> 0:51:36.320
<v Speaker 3>So that's why I feel like, when you're really talented

0:51:36.320 --> 0:51:38.759
<v Speaker 3>and it's ordained for you to share who you are

0:51:38.840 --> 0:51:41.160
<v Speaker 3>with the world. Like one thing I take pride is

0:51:41.160 --> 0:51:43.360
<v Speaker 3>that we make people feel good. Y'all can say what

0:51:43.440 --> 0:51:45.479
<v Speaker 3>y'all want about our topics and what we talk about

0:51:45.480 --> 0:51:47.640
<v Speaker 3>and what we do, but we make people feel good,

0:51:47.640 --> 0:51:51.360
<v Speaker 3>and we needed to spread that to the world and

0:51:51.360 --> 0:51:53.600
<v Speaker 3>give it to the world. So if your talent is

0:51:53.640 --> 0:51:55.600
<v Speaker 3>supposed to be seen by the world, God gonna make

0:51:55.640 --> 0:51:57.600
<v Speaker 3>sure that. That's why I said, real talent always gonna

0:51:57.600 --> 0:51:58.160
<v Speaker 3>find his way.

0:51:58.640 --> 0:52:03.160
<v Speaker 1>That's fair. You feel me, I feel you, okay, just

0:52:03.160 --> 0:52:07.560
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0:52:07.560 --> 0:52:10.480
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0:52:10.800 --> 0:52:11.600
<v Speaker 1>feel me out now.

0:52:11.760 --> 0:52:14.480
<v Speaker 2>I do have a different perspexive, but I do. I

0:52:14.480 --> 0:52:15.640
<v Speaker 2>feel like that's fair.

0:52:16.120 --> 0:52:19.279
<v Speaker 1>That's fair. Okay, okay, all right, let us know what

0:52:19.360 --> 0:52:19.719
<v Speaker 1>y'all think.

0:52:19.760 --> 0:52:22.600
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0:52:23.160 --> 0:52:26.600
<v Speaker 3>and our people with real talent, you know, often looked

0:52:26.640 --> 0:52:28.200
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<v Speaker 1>Okay, the only.

0:53:29.120 --> 0:53:33.840
<v Speaker 3>Reason I want to bring this up, it's because I

0:53:33.840 --> 0:53:36.560
<v Speaker 3>got that licking me first of all, And I'm gonna

0:53:36.600 --> 0:53:38.759
<v Speaker 3>take this moment because you know what, We're gonna start

0:53:38.760 --> 0:53:46.160
<v Speaker 3>the time right now. Because this motherfucker is a low down, dirty, greasy,

0:53:46.800 --> 0:53:51.000
<v Speaker 3>thick ass bitch that nobody gives a fuck about. And

0:53:51.080 --> 0:53:54.239
<v Speaker 3>we are tired, and we are tired of logging on

0:53:54.520 --> 0:53:56.799
<v Speaker 3>to X and seeing the shit that you have to say,

0:53:57.320 --> 0:54:00.480
<v Speaker 3>and the day that your mouth is closed forever, it's

0:54:00.680 --> 0:54:03.720
<v Speaker 3>too soon, because I cannot.

0:54:03.360 --> 0:54:07.080
<v Speaker 1>Wait till we never have to hear your thoughts again.

0:54:11.440 --> 0:54:14.320
<v Speaker 1>Came her you around, Kanye, Yes.

0:54:15.360 --> 0:54:15.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm tired.

0:54:18.280 --> 0:54:18.880
<v Speaker 4>I'm tired.

0:54:19.920 --> 0:54:24.359
<v Speaker 3>I have had enough, and he said something about Slim Thug.

0:54:24.400 --> 0:54:26.320
<v Speaker 3>He said, Slim Thug, the realist nigga, I know is

0:54:26.440 --> 0:54:28.640
<v Speaker 3>something like that. I know you watched Poor Mindes with

0:54:28.719 --> 0:54:31.120
<v Speaker 3>your thick ass. I know you did.

0:54:31.160 --> 0:54:33.560
<v Speaker 1>He probably not gonna see these studies, you not, but

0:54:34.160 --> 0:54:35.400
<v Speaker 1>you never know what he gonna do.

0:54:35.840 --> 0:54:37.640
<v Speaker 3>Because he got mad because I sat on the couch

0:54:37.680 --> 0:54:40.000
<v Speaker 3>and said, you know you lost the Kim Kardashian. You're

0:54:40.000 --> 0:54:40.840
<v Speaker 3>not getting that again.

0:54:41.040 --> 0:54:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I said what I said talking about Slim duff. Slim

0:54:46.200 --> 0:54:50.680
<v Speaker 1>is a real nigga. I fuck with slimm Kanye.

0:54:50.800 --> 0:54:57.160
<v Speaker 2>But I so now it's time to get into the w.

0:54:57.440 --> 0:55:05.560
<v Speaker 1>A bow A bow. I cannot wait to talk to

0:55:05.600 --> 0:55:06.839
<v Speaker 1>you about something when we in this.

0:55:09.280 --> 0:55:09.560
<v Speaker 3>Girl.

0:55:09.640 --> 0:55:10.279
<v Speaker 1>It's just some tea.

0:55:10.320 --> 0:55:12.920
<v Speaker 3>I forgot to tell you, but it just came to

0:55:13.000 --> 0:55:15.360
<v Speaker 3>mind when when we was talking.

0:55:16.400 --> 0:55:20.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, so I can't wait. I'm excited. Okay.

0:55:20.920 --> 0:55:24.360
<v Speaker 3>So the bad topic for today is the wildest excuse

0:55:24.760 --> 0:55:26.160
<v Speaker 3>you've used.

0:55:25.800 --> 0:55:28.200
<v Speaker 1>To get out of bad sex.

0:55:29.880 --> 0:55:34.520
<v Speaker 3>Now mm hmm. Have you ever been like mid stroke

0:55:35.080 --> 0:55:38.239
<v Speaker 3>and you was thinking like how the hell do I

0:55:38.239 --> 0:55:43.120
<v Speaker 3>get out of here? Or you know, like you take

0:55:43.200 --> 0:55:48.600
<v Speaker 3>a phone call pretend like, you know, your period just hit.

0:55:49.280 --> 0:55:49.799
<v Speaker 1>What do you do?

0:55:49.920 --> 0:55:51.640
<v Speaker 3>Like, have you ever been like mid stroke? Would have

0:55:51.640 --> 0:55:54.399
<v Speaker 3>me and you're like, this is not good, This is

0:55:54.480 --> 0:55:55.000
<v Speaker 3>not good.

0:55:55.320 --> 0:55:58.319
<v Speaker 2>I haven't never been midstroke and felt that way. But

0:55:58.440 --> 0:56:03.880
<v Speaker 2>I definitely have had to lie to leave just because

0:56:03.920 --> 0:56:05.440
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to be here no more, like I'm

0:56:05.480 --> 0:56:08.319
<v Speaker 2>ready to go really go home. So I feel like, yeah,

0:56:08.360 --> 0:56:11.399
<v Speaker 2>I definitely have had to lie to leave and act

0:56:11.440 --> 0:56:12.520
<v Speaker 2>like I had to go do something.

0:56:12.560 --> 0:56:14.160
<v Speaker 1>I've lied and said I've had emergency.

0:56:15.400 --> 0:56:18.719
<v Speaker 2>I done lie on my mama, sorry.

0:56:18.440 --> 0:56:21.399
<v Speaker 3>Mine, damn. I So you know what, for me, I've

0:56:21.440 --> 0:56:24.320
<v Speaker 3>never made it like an excuse like get out of sex,

0:56:24.719 --> 0:56:27.000
<v Speaker 3>but back in the day, I haven't done this in

0:56:27.000 --> 0:56:28.600
<v Speaker 3>a very long time. But that's when I used to

0:56:28.680 --> 0:56:31.680
<v Speaker 3>fake so he would hurry up and nut like I

0:56:31.760 --> 0:56:33.799
<v Speaker 3>used to pretend like it was just feeling so good,

0:56:33.800 --> 0:56:34.440
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, oh my.

0:56:34.360 --> 0:56:36.880
<v Speaker 1>Gosh, I'm about to come, oh.

0:56:37.320 --> 0:56:39.200
<v Speaker 3>Just so it would make him hurry up so it

0:56:39.200 --> 0:56:40.120
<v Speaker 3>would end quicker.

0:56:40.719 --> 0:56:40.919
<v Speaker 4>Like.

0:56:41.360 --> 0:56:42.120
<v Speaker 1>So, I've never.

0:56:41.960 --> 0:56:44.480
<v Speaker 3>Actually made an excuse, but I feel like a lot

0:56:44.520 --> 0:56:46.840
<v Speaker 3>of women do that. That goes into like the faking

0:56:47.000 --> 0:56:48.560
<v Speaker 3>orgasms and faking conversations.

0:56:48.600 --> 0:56:51.319
<v Speaker 1>I feel like people be faking so it can end.

0:56:51.600 --> 0:56:54.920
<v Speaker 1>And see that's the thing, like, nah, I'm not doing it.

0:56:55.000 --> 0:56:57.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm not doing that now, but in my younger years,

0:56:57.160 --> 0:56:58.600
<v Speaker 3>in my early twenties.

0:56:58.480 --> 0:57:00.759
<v Speaker 2>Even when I was younger. No, if it's bad, we're

0:57:00.800 --> 0:57:02.560
<v Speaker 2>not having sex on my own. I'm not about to

0:57:02.560 --> 0:57:04.879
<v Speaker 2>be faking like you need to figure this shit out

0:57:05.440 --> 0:57:07.560
<v Speaker 2>or you need to go fuck with somebody else. I'm

0:57:07.560 --> 0:57:09.400
<v Speaker 2>not about to be laying in bed faking with you

0:57:09.560 --> 0:57:11.479
<v Speaker 2>the whole time over and over, like oh.

0:57:11.440 --> 0:57:12.160
<v Speaker 1>No, not over.

0:57:12.440 --> 0:57:15.000
<v Speaker 2>It's like if you went through it one time, then

0:57:15.080 --> 0:57:17.880
<v Speaker 2>that's understandable. But it's like if you keep having bad

0:57:17.920 --> 0:57:20.360
<v Speaker 2>sex with somebody and faking, that's what t is.

0:57:20.560 --> 0:57:22.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, now I would say I've never done it to

0:57:22.560 --> 0:57:24.960
<v Speaker 3>where it's like I keep doing it over and over again.

0:57:25.320 --> 0:57:27.680
<v Speaker 3>But I can definitely remember times I had sex with

0:57:27.720 --> 0:57:29.680
<v Speaker 3>somebody and I was faking it just so we would end.

0:57:30.080 --> 0:57:31.760
<v Speaker 3>Why you ain't just tell them the moment because I

0:57:31.760 --> 0:57:33.320
<v Speaker 3>didn't want to do I didn't want to do it

0:57:33.320 --> 0:57:34.919
<v Speaker 3>no more, and I'm not gonna talk to you no more.

0:57:36.400 --> 0:57:38.600
<v Speaker 1>That's even better. That's why it's like, move, get off me.

0:57:39.680 --> 0:57:41.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm not a vibe killer. Now.

0:57:41.880 --> 0:57:45.320
<v Speaker 1>The vibe already bad. Right, you're right, you're right.

0:57:45.360 --> 0:57:48.520
<v Speaker 2>I mean, like was never there that clos into me

0:57:48.680 --> 0:57:51.120
<v Speaker 2>just being young, like to be I'm not.

0:57:54.120 --> 0:57:56.080
<v Speaker 3>He was, but that was me going into like you

0:57:56.120 --> 0:58:00.200
<v Speaker 3>know back. I always talk about this, y'all. When we

0:58:00.320 --> 0:58:03.120
<v Speaker 3>used to grow up. It would be magazines, Cosmopolitan magazine,

0:58:03.200 --> 0:58:06.880
<v Speaker 3>how to make him come, how to make orgasm, how

0:58:06.880 --> 0:58:08.240
<v Speaker 3>to be sexy in the bedroom.

0:58:08.320 --> 0:58:11.040
<v Speaker 1>So growing up and viewing sex.

0:58:10.920 --> 0:58:13.520
<v Speaker 3>I always looked at it like it's about the man

0:58:13.680 --> 0:58:16.800
<v Speaker 3>and it's for the man. I never viewed sex as

0:58:17.000 --> 0:58:20.000
<v Speaker 3>it's for me as well. So every time I was

0:58:20.000 --> 0:58:21.960
<v Speaker 3>in the bedroom in my younger years, this is why

0:58:22.000 --> 0:58:24.080
<v Speaker 3>I always say young people don't need to be having

0:58:24.120 --> 0:58:25.960
<v Speaker 3>sex because.

0:58:25.760 --> 0:58:26.880
<v Speaker 1>Y'all not teaching things.

0:58:26.920 --> 0:58:31.520
<v Speaker 2>You don't properly understand what we're doing and what we're doing,

0:58:31.600 --> 0:58:32.480
<v Speaker 2>what it really is.

0:58:32.520 --> 0:58:34.600
<v Speaker 3>So yeah, absolutely, in my younger years, I used to

0:58:34.600 --> 0:58:37.680
<v Speaker 3>feel like I have to perform. I was thinking, like,

0:58:37.760 --> 0:58:40.960
<v Speaker 3>mister Elli a pussy, don't fail me. Now, I'm trying

0:58:41.000 --> 0:58:44.160
<v Speaker 3>to turn this nigga out so he don't want nobody

0:58:44.200 --> 0:58:45.480
<v Speaker 3>else but me and Nolan.

0:58:45.560 --> 0:58:47.840
<v Speaker 1>Me. That's beautiful.

0:58:48.000 --> 0:58:48.520
<v Speaker 3>No, it's not.

0:58:49.080 --> 0:58:51.680
<v Speaker 1>That is no, it's not because you should not.

0:58:52.440 --> 0:58:55.760
<v Speaker 2>I know, I agree, but I'm staying that's good kinda

0:58:56.000 --> 0:58:57.920
<v Speaker 2>that you wanted to be a pleaser like that. I

0:58:57.920 --> 0:59:01.960
<v Speaker 2>have personally always been a pillow o princess. I have

0:59:02.160 --> 0:59:06.080
<v Speaker 2>always been a pillow princess. As I've gotten older, now

0:59:06.200 --> 0:59:08.440
<v Speaker 2>I be like performing because I feel like, if you

0:59:08.520 --> 0:59:11.120
<v Speaker 2>were in a relationship with your men, you should want

0:59:11.160 --> 0:59:13.000
<v Speaker 2>to show out for your men, like I should want

0:59:13.000 --> 0:59:15.320
<v Speaker 2>to go above and beyond for him. When I was

0:59:15.400 --> 0:59:18.480
<v Speaker 2>younger in my relationships, it was like, no, what you

0:59:18.520 --> 0:59:19.480
<v Speaker 2>gonna do for Big Mama?

0:59:19.520 --> 0:59:19.840
<v Speaker 3>For real?

0:59:20.080 --> 0:59:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Exactly?

0:59:20.720 --> 0:59:20.800
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:59:20.920 --> 0:59:26.560
<v Speaker 3>I was never like I I'm like that now, my

0:59:26.680 --> 0:59:30.240
<v Speaker 3>hands behind my head, like I'm like that now. But

0:59:30.280 --> 0:59:31.640
<v Speaker 3>in my younger years, I.

0:59:31.640 --> 0:59:36.919
<v Speaker 1>Was just like doing too much? Why because, like I said,

0:59:38.000 --> 0:59:41.800
<v Speaker 1>doing like a reference, you know when.

0:59:41.640 --> 0:59:45.240
<v Speaker 3>You faced down, ass up, you just doing too much,

0:59:45.280 --> 0:59:48.520
<v Speaker 3>throwing that ass back and like, yeah, not knowing, I'm not,

0:59:48.640 --> 0:59:52.720
<v Speaker 3>I don't feel nothing, I'm not. Oh it just.

0:59:54.800 --> 1:00:00.520
<v Speaker 1>Like the herbal essences coming yes used to be me

1:00:01.080 --> 1:00:04.040
<v Speaker 1>and what they used to be doing, like yeah, I'm

1:00:04.040 --> 1:00:07.680
<v Speaker 1>meant nothing, I'm beating it up. And I used to

1:00:07.720 --> 1:00:11.760
<v Speaker 1>be I would be like you actually not you actually

1:00:11.800 --> 1:00:12.200
<v Speaker 1>not be.

1:00:12.880 --> 1:00:17.520
<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying I was a performer, and that's

1:00:17.560 --> 1:00:20.400
<v Speaker 3>what I'm saying. I used to just make excuses.

1:00:19.760 --> 1:00:22.120
<v Speaker 2>And was it because you wanted them to go around

1:00:22.200 --> 1:00:23.560
<v Speaker 2>and like go tell people like.

1:00:25.040 --> 1:00:28.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but go brag about that thing. How a week,

1:00:29.200 --> 1:00:30.560
<v Speaker 1>go brag about it.

1:00:30.760 --> 1:00:32.520
<v Speaker 3>Let me show you, Let me show you what that

1:00:32.600 --> 1:00:35.680
<v Speaker 3>thing do. But now I don't care about that because

1:00:35.720 --> 1:00:38.400
<v Speaker 3>if if you going around saying my coochie bag, it's

1:00:38.480 --> 1:00:39.480
<v Speaker 3>because you didn't give.

1:00:39.360 --> 1:00:41.320
<v Speaker 1>Me what it is. Yes, it's because you didn't do

1:00:41.360 --> 1:00:43.919
<v Speaker 1>what you needed to do, right right, that's getting here.

1:00:44.480 --> 1:00:47.800
<v Speaker 3>In my younger years, I used to going to love

1:00:47.880 --> 1:00:49.000
<v Speaker 3>and beyond my means.

1:00:49.120 --> 1:00:51.400
<v Speaker 1>But you know, I was a waitress at TGI Friday.

1:00:51.640 --> 1:00:55.439
<v Speaker 1>What does that mean? Let me tell you, you got

1:00:55.520 --> 1:00:56.800
<v Speaker 1>to give good service.

1:00:57.320 --> 1:01:00.680
<v Speaker 3>Okay, they take two cents to they struck the lemonade.

1:01:00.680 --> 1:01:03.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm back with a ref Yeah. You know what I'm saying. Okay,

1:01:03.680 --> 1:01:04.720
<v Speaker 1>they potato.

1:01:04.400 --> 1:01:06.880
<v Speaker 3>Skins could be warm, but they're not hot.

1:01:07.640 --> 1:01:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

1:01:07.920 --> 1:01:10.200
<v Speaker 3>Instead of going take the ones away and just giving

1:01:10.240 --> 1:01:12.040
<v Speaker 3>you four more, I'm giving you a whole new batch.

1:01:13.720 --> 1:01:14.480
<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm saying.

1:01:14.520 --> 1:01:17.200
<v Speaker 2>That's great, though, but I feel like that speaks volumes

1:01:17.240 --> 1:01:20.080
<v Speaker 2>about you know, you as a person, because that's it's

1:01:20.120 --> 1:01:21.919
<v Speaker 2>just so funny to me when you tell me these stuff,

1:01:21.920 --> 1:01:24.200
<v Speaker 2>because I just think about how how we were in

1:01:24.240 --> 1:01:25.560
<v Speaker 2>the same settings and how.

1:01:25.480 --> 1:01:26.800
<v Speaker 1>It was just so different.

1:01:27.480 --> 1:01:30.000
<v Speaker 2>When I used to wait trees, I used to be

1:01:30.080 --> 1:01:34.120
<v Speaker 2>checking on people every thirty minis, oh.

1:01:33.400 --> 1:01:36.240
<v Speaker 1>Right up, facts, because I hated that job.

1:01:37.080 --> 1:01:40.440
<v Speaker 2>I had one real waitressing job, like working at like

1:01:40.560 --> 1:01:42.920
<v Speaker 2>a restaurant and bar wire. I used to actually have

1:01:42.960 --> 1:01:45.240
<v Speaker 2>to serve food, you know, Foxing Hounding.

1:01:45.440 --> 1:01:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I remember when you worked there.

1:01:47.040 --> 1:01:49.280
<v Speaker 2>Me and my best friend Jazzmine, we had just got

1:01:49.320 --> 1:01:52.640
<v Speaker 2>like some little temp jobs in the summer, like temporary

1:01:52.680 --> 1:01:56.600
<v Speaker 2>little jobs working as waitresses at these popping sports bar

1:01:56.760 --> 1:02:01.160
<v Speaker 2>in Houston, and I just hated it old fucking much. Yes,

1:02:01.200 --> 1:02:04.320
<v Speaker 2>I used to be in a bag eating fries on

1:02:04.360 --> 1:02:08.160
<v Speaker 2>my phone, just babing, come check on people every thirty mens,

1:02:08.520 --> 1:02:09.320
<v Speaker 2>And I feel like.

1:02:09.320 --> 1:02:12.720
<v Speaker 1>You know, it was the same thing. Get me, well,

1:02:12.880 --> 1:02:13.920
<v Speaker 1>I was not trying.

1:02:13.640 --> 1:02:16.200
<v Speaker 2>To be I was not trying to go I was

1:02:16.280 --> 1:02:18.240
<v Speaker 2>not trying to go above and be on because even

1:02:18.480 --> 1:02:20.680
<v Speaker 2>not to be funny, but even when I was younger,

1:02:20.720 --> 1:02:23.600
<v Speaker 2>I will say these like I felt like when I.

1:02:23.520 --> 1:02:25.360
<v Speaker 1>Was younger, I was like I just know my coochie good.

1:02:25.360 --> 1:02:27.200
<v Speaker 2>I could just stay, I could just lay here like

1:02:27.280 --> 1:02:29.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't have to do nothing because I know it's good,

1:02:30.160 --> 1:02:32.720
<v Speaker 2>and I'm not gonna do the most unless you make

1:02:32.800 --> 1:02:33.600
<v Speaker 2>me feel.

1:02:33.280 --> 1:02:34.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I gotta do them all right right.

1:02:35.040 --> 1:02:39.280
<v Speaker 3>I feel like, like I said, it was just me

1:02:39.360 --> 1:02:41.320
<v Speaker 3>just doing the moment. Yeah, And then, like I said,

1:02:41.320 --> 1:02:43.480
<v Speaker 3>I would make excuses, but I would not one thing.

1:02:43.520 --> 1:02:47.000
<v Speaker 3>I was good at my younger years. I would cut

1:02:47.480 --> 1:02:50.360
<v Speaker 3>them off. Yeah, I wasn't like always let me go

1:02:50.440 --> 1:02:51.640
<v Speaker 3>back and let me try to.

1:02:51.760 --> 1:02:52.400
<v Speaker 2>No, we not.

1:02:53.040 --> 1:02:54.520
<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna get out of it. I'm gonna I'm gonna

1:02:54.520 --> 1:02:55.920
<v Speaker 3>do the most and I'm performing because I know I

1:02:55.960 --> 1:02:56.360
<v Speaker 3>did my.

1:02:56.360 --> 1:02:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Part, and then I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna lie.

1:02:59.200 --> 1:03:01.320
<v Speaker 3>But you know what, I do kind of regret that

1:03:01.440 --> 1:03:04.680
<v Speaker 3>because I feel like there's men still to this day

1:03:05.840 --> 1:03:08.640
<v Speaker 3>that be talking to people and be like, oh, yeah,

1:03:08.680 --> 1:03:09.520
<v Speaker 3>I used to talk to her.

1:03:10.280 --> 1:03:12.680
<v Speaker 1>I was nineteen. I'm forty six.

1:03:12.800 --> 1:03:15.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm weak because I know somebody that you was talking about.

1:03:15.440 --> 1:03:18.200
<v Speaker 2>It's one person that came to mind when you said it. Oh,

1:03:18.400 --> 1:03:21.760
<v Speaker 2>we always talk about him. One person that be still

1:03:21.800 --> 1:03:23.400
<v Speaker 2>telling people that he used to fuck with you.

1:03:23.720 --> 1:03:26.360
<v Speaker 3>I don't know who it is, but maybe they burning heir.

1:03:27.120 --> 1:03:34.960
<v Speaker 1>Who Oh my god, and he won't stop.

1:03:35.880 --> 1:03:39.320
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, bro, especially when them clips went viral recently.

1:03:39.960 --> 1:03:42.160
<v Speaker 1>Oh for real, Yes, how.

1:03:42.000 --> 1:03:42.440
<v Speaker 4>Do you know?

1:03:42.680 --> 1:03:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Because they told me somebody said so.

1:03:45.520 --> 1:03:49.640
<v Speaker 3>He said yes, and it was around a girl that

1:03:50.560 --> 1:03:52.160
<v Speaker 3>he didn't even know that I knew.

1:03:53.800 --> 1:03:59.200
<v Speaker 1>He was like, Oh, that's my old bitch. You go

1:03:59.400 --> 1:04:02.400
<v Speaker 1>to school. Oh my god.

1:04:02.760 --> 1:04:05.680
<v Speaker 2>Now it really be disgusting, though serious, when you really

1:04:05.680 --> 1:04:07.720
<v Speaker 2>see like and think about some of the people that

1:04:07.760 --> 1:04:09.440
<v Speaker 2>she used to date, like people that.

1:04:11.040 --> 1:04:12.720
<v Speaker 1>Dudes that I dated when I was like.

1:04:12.760 --> 1:04:16.600
<v Speaker 2>Eighteen and twenty and twenty three, I just be like,

1:04:16.800 --> 1:04:19.880
<v Speaker 2>what my god, I am repulsed.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's why we always tell the younger girls that

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<v Speaker 3>are like least the lengthy that are going through a breakup.

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<v Speaker 3>I promise you, if you're watching this show and you're

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<v Speaker 3>between the ages of eighteen to twenty eight, your type

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<v Speaker 3>is going to change. By the time you hit thirty one,

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<v Speaker 3>thirty two, thirty three, your type is going to change.

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<v Speaker 1>That heartbreak. You are literally going to laugh and you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna look back at them niggas and be like, y'all

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<v Speaker 1>are some loser.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh why was I there? I was not saying about one.

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<v Speaker 2>And don't get me wrong, not everyone, because I have

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<v Speaker 2>some guys that I used to Yeah, I have some

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<v Speaker 2>guys that I used to date. They they cool and

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<v Speaker 2>they doing great things.

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<v Speaker 1>But like.

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<v Speaker 2>I just be like, what the fuck was I thinking?

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<v Speaker 2>And what the fuck was I doing?

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<v Speaker 1>That one? I wasn't even thinking about him.

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<v Speaker 2>That's who I always think about because I know he

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<v Speaker 2>be still doing it. She he lame, all right, let's

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<v Speaker 2>meet me acting like a hy n He looked.

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<v Speaker 3>Like one too. I don't know about why is being

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<v Speaker 3>skinny and teddy? Oh I told you mean he's still young.

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<v Speaker 3>I was just saying.

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<v Speaker 1>I just say all that he's as.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how I know I'm blessed God, don't play everybody

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<v Speaker 3>who did me wrong?

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<v Speaker 1>What's slim said? Color purple curse. I feel like that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I still look good too.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody who did me wrong. I sucked up all, sucked

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<v Speaker 2>it up, fucked that youth out. And that's why I

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<v Speaker 2>say I love being a good woman.

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<v Speaker 3>I love being a good woman and the woman who

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<v Speaker 3>can walk away. It's always gonna be me moving on

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<v Speaker 3>okay them other week.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, I'm sorry, y'all. I was trying to sit

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<v Speaker 2>my little drink. You drink you would think it, I know,

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<v Speaker 2>you would think it's a liquid. Well, this is the

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<v Speaker 2>thing for me. I feel like all I do is

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<v Speaker 2>drink water. Like with me doing my challenge, all I'm

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<v Speaker 2>all I drink every single day is water. And like myself,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll do a protein smoothie, but I really.

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<v Speaker 1>As like a meal though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I'll do a protein smoothie, but outside of

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<v Speaker 2>the smoothie, all I drink is water. So I think

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<v Speaker 2>when I come here and then's hobby making me these drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's just be delightful for my palette. You

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<v Speaker 2>got a little something Nelson it too, and it does

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<v Speaker 2>little liquid in there.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think I'll be trying to come to my stoothie.

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<v Speaker 2>Get your product get your business sponsored, and yeah, make

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<v Speaker 2>now and a black business said that, but I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Diminade. Any businesses welcome. So now it's time.

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<v Speaker 3>To get into the about about.

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<v Speaker 1>To please over there? What was that dance called the shoulder?

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<v Speaker 1>What is this rock with it?

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I was over there and my white gh.

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<v Speaker 1>Look at way back. My bop of the week is Lucky.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm just playing my bop of the week this week.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I was very skeptical about this artist when she first

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<v Speaker 3>came out, because I was like, mm, Now I'm still

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<v Speaker 3>a little skeptical because I'm like, is she kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like biting off of Sizza and biting off of the

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<v Speaker 3>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>The community. But I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>She dropped another song and it's actually for her so

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<v Speaker 3>sailor do y'all remember she had that song I Hope

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<v Speaker 3>You're happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Got you a menie me? Bet you mean yes?

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<v Speaker 3>But she has another song called cut up Okay, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's so good.

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<v Speaker 1>It is so good I.

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<v Speaker 3>Am the The jury is still out on her, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I said, I want to see if she's in it

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<v Speaker 3>to win it, because a lot of times we see

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<v Speaker 3>these artists, they come out, they sound like another artist,

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<v Speaker 3>and they don't last too long. But I will say,

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<v Speaker 3>for me, this is really the second song by her

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<v Speaker 3>that I've jammed and I've listened to.

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<v Speaker 1>She's two for two of me. I'm not mad, so

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<v Speaker 1>cut up by Sailor. That's my bop. Go ahead.

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<v Speaker 2>My bop this week is Pushed to Start by Tyler.

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<v Speaker 2>By Tyler, So, I've already really really liked that song

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<v Speaker 2>ever since he came out. But she just came out

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<v Speaker 2>with a remix feature in Sean Shanda Paul and shout

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<v Speaker 2>out to Sean Paul as a sun falling Okay, exp

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<v Speaker 2>is Sean Paul and Tyler. This song Seana and Tyler.

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<v Speaker 2>So that is my vibe. I love this song, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all should check it out if y'all haven't heard it.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like Tyala has done a really good job.

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<v Speaker 1>She's a start, she is. I agree. I think she

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<v Speaker 1>just needs a little word. May be saying she the next.

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<v Speaker 2>Riana, Hold your horses that but too early, hold your

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<v Speaker 2>that's fair, it's too early.

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<v Speaker 1>But I do think she's very talented, and I do

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<v Speaker 1>think she's a start.

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<v Speaker 3>So now you know they used to do that with

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<v Speaker 3>Arianna Grande and Mariah Darry you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 2>So I ain't mad at that comparison though, but I

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<v Speaker 2>will say Tyler is a star. I think she needs

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<v Speaker 2>to work a little bit on her public speaking because

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes she I think she gets nervous in situations when

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<v Speaker 2>people ask her something crazy. I mean, she still she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't know how to respond, like Meghan. There was a

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<v Speaker 2>recent incident where the lady on the Oscar carpet was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I listened.

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<v Speaker 3>To Meghan the Stallions music, and it makes me want

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<v Speaker 3>to fight.

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<v Speaker 1>What song of Megan's makes you want to fight? You know?

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<v Speaker 3>They always look at black women like we just going

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<v Speaker 3>around punching.

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<v Speaker 1>People in the face.

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<v Speaker 3>So everybody has been on her ass about it, but

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<v Speaker 3>Meghan just carried it with such great She was like,

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<v Speaker 3>no girl, bad, YadA yadi. It makes you feel cute,

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<v Speaker 3>it makes you feel beautiful. Now, if she would have

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<v Speaker 3>said Mona Leo, Mona Leo will make you smack a beach,

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<v Speaker 3>she do. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>If it would have been.

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<v Speaker 3>Car Yeah, if it would have been a Mona Leo,

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<v Speaker 3>I would have said, you know what, yeah, Mona Leo

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<v Speaker 3>music do make you want to fight a little bit,

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<v Speaker 3>But Meghan, Meghan is not a fighter. Turn up, get

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<v Speaker 3>cute you a baddie.

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<v Speaker 1>I got good.

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<v Speaker 3>Kouchie music, so I think Megan is good at handling

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<v Speaker 3>awkward situations on the carpet.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want Tyler to get there. But Tala is

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<v Speaker 1>a star body tea.

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<v Speaker 3>She can wear high fashion, cute girl, he can sing. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>she has all the factors. So that's a good it is,

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<v Speaker 3>that's a good bob shunned up all, come sing with

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<v Speaker 3>them on the list.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all is never settled.

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<v Speaker 2>And if you're an avid listener of poor minds, then

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<v Speaker 2>you probably have heard me say these numerous times. Like

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<v Speaker 2>I say these all the time, I've always felt this way.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't ever settle for anything in life if it's not

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<v Speaker 2>exactly what you want. Don't let people tell you that

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<v Speaker 2>you cannot get what you want out of these life

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<v Speaker 2>because it's absolutely possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I had so many people when I was in my twenties.

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<v Speaker 2>Telling me that the things that I wanted was unreleased, unreasonable.

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<v Speaker 2>And if I have listened to those people, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>be where I am today. It's not for anybody else

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<v Speaker 2>to understand that as long as you know what it

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<v Speaker 2>is and you willing to put work in to get

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<v Speaker 2>the things that you want, you don't have to settle,

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<v Speaker 2>and don't let people convince you that you have to settle.

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<v Speaker 2>It's usually people that are settling in their own life

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<v Speaker 2>that try to, you know, make other people feel like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you can't do this, or you can't make that happen.

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<v Speaker 2>You're thinking too far outside the box. How you gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do that?

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<v Speaker 1>Up?

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<v Speaker 2>Now, boo, you can't do it. I could do whatever

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<v Speaker 2>I want to do, Okay, and I will so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>don't ever.

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<v Speaker 3>Ever, since I was a little girl, I've loved being

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<v Speaker 3>on camera, entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing

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<v Speaker 3>my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture. For the

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<v Speaker 3>past few years, I've heard your requests.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's finally time to deliver.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, y'all, let's get into the teeth with love lexp.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl Anyways.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, now it's time to get into our favorite segment

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<v Speaker 2>of the show. Y'all know, if y'all have any questions,

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<v Speaker 2>any testimony, you'll send them to ask poor Minds at

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<v Speaker 2>gmail dot com. That's ask poure in my nbs at

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<v Speaker 2>gmail dot com. Okay, I got a question of too,

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<v Speaker 2>so oh, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Gotta start sorry, all right. I dated this guy I

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<v Speaker 3>met at work for four months. He understood me and

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<v Speaker 3>loved things about me that I never imagined a guy

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<v Speaker 3>would be so attentive to. I admired him a lot too.

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<v Speaker 3>From the beginning. He was honest that he was a

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<v Speaker 3>few months out of a long relationship with his kid's

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<v Speaker 3>mother and that he wasn't in.

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<v Speaker 1>A place to date seriously. But he really liked me.

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<v Speaker 3>It got to a point to where he felt it

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<v Speaker 3>was irresponsible to keep going because our feelings were progressing

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<v Speaker 3>and he didn't want to hurt me more. Later on,

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<v Speaker 3>we stopped talking, and when I see him around, he

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<v Speaker 3>does not speak to me. I know it's not personal personal,

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<v Speaker 3>he just doesn't want to drag this along. We can't

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<v Speaker 3>talk casually without wanting more. We had a special connection

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<v Speaker 3>and I never felt like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Before, and that Dick was so fire. How can I

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<v Speaker 1>move on?

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<v Speaker 3>I feel heartbroken even though it was a short amount

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<v Speaker 3>of time.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this should make it even easier to

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<v Speaker 2>move on because it was a short amount of time.

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<v Speaker 1>And then she said he don't speak to her when

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<v Speaker 1>she sees him.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, move on, because I feel like the least somebody

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<v Speaker 2>could do is speak to you. I agree, like, so

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<v Speaker 2>this is what I don't say, and he just act

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<v Speaker 2>like you don't exist. I feel like he doesn't care,

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<v Speaker 2>Like the feelings for you are still there, but the

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<v Speaker 2>feelings for him are not there. And that would be

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<v Speaker 2>enough for me to just be like, good readings, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>done with you because you you not worried about me.

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<v Speaker 2>I think sometimes you have to force yourself to move

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<v Speaker 2>on when you realize that somebody is not worried about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Not worried about because also, I will say this, men

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<v Speaker 3>will say men are hot and cold, right, so they'll be.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh, I love you, you mean so much to me.

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<v Speaker 3>We have feelings. And then they'll be like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to hurt you. I'm not the man for you.

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<v Speaker 3>We need to separate.

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<v Speaker 1>But guess what.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't listen to nothing, they say, Listen to their actions.

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<v Speaker 1>Are his actions matching.

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<v Speaker 3>That he loves you and that he feels you and

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<v Speaker 3>that he wants to be with you? Are his actions

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<v Speaker 3>matching that he don't want to be with you, He's

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<v Speaker 3>not ready for a relationship. He told you what it was,

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<v Speaker 3>and not only that, his actions are matching what's on

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<v Speaker 3>this side. So pay attention to the action. Do not

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<v Speaker 3>listen to words when it comes to men. I'm telling

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<v Speaker 3>you that, and this is me being honest. Do not

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<v Speaker 3>listen to words, because a man will drag you through

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<v Speaker 3>the dirt and then he'll come back and be like, oh, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I love you, I love you, I care about you,

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<v Speaker 3>I care about you. Then two days later he acting

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<v Speaker 3>an ass. Show me I need to see it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not listening. I don't care because the words sounds

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<v Speaker 3>so good. Look at William Shakespeare what he did to

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<v Speaker 3>be or.

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<v Speaker 2>Not to be, and well, if we being completely honest,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even think that applies any situation because it

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<v Speaker 2>ain't no words.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not saying nothing to you. He not even saying

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<v Speaker 1>high worse.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I'm saying. The actions match, but I was

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<v Speaker 3>saying the words because of what he told her prior. Oh,

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<v Speaker 3>our feelings are progressing too much.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't do this. I can't listen to that. A'm

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<v Speaker 1>paying attention to that.

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<v Speaker 2>But the thing is his actions is following that, right,

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like he giving you mixed signals. Like he said,

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<v Speaker 2>he feels like it's progressing too quickly, and now he

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<v Speaker 2>acting like you don't exist. I think that you should

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<v Speaker 2>just move on. It would be different if he said

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<v Speaker 2>that and then when he see you, y'all are still

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<v Speaker 2>gazing yeah eyes or he's giving you any type of

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<v Speaker 2>hope that you know it could be something, but he

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<v Speaker 2>not giving you no hope.

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<v Speaker 1>He giving you nothing. And I always say, do a

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<v Speaker 1>thirty day. De talks thirty days.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't look at his social media, don't look at his stories,

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<v Speaker 3>don't call him, don't text him, completely no contact for

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<v Speaker 3>thirty days. You will literally not know the exis this

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<v Speaker 3>anymore fiercely? So do a full detox chap all right, Drea?

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<v Speaker 1>Question number two?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, question number two, Hey, Drea and Lex, I love

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<v Speaker 2>y'all so much and hope y'all see this. I'm twenty

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<v Speaker 2>one and I've been with my boyfriend for six years.

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<v Speaker 2>We're high school sweethearts and he's my first for everything

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<v Speaker 2>over the years. I've naturally gained some weight since high school,

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<v Speaker 2>but he constantly brings it up in a negative way

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<v Speaker 2>during arguments. He makes comments that make me feel insecure

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<v Speaker 2>and it hurts because I've never made him feel bad

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<v Speaker 2>about his appearance.

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<v Speaker 1>Lately, he's been mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Starts fights out of nowhere, and acts like he doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>care about my feelings.

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<v Speaker 1>I do everything for him, but he never acknowledges it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't nag or hold things in, I communicate, but

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<v Speaker 2>he still makes me feel unappreciated. I know he's not cheating,

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<v Speaker 2>I've checked, but sometimes I wonder if he wants to

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<v Speaker 2>step out and see what's out there. He wasn't always

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<v Speaker 2>like this, but after high school he changed. Honestly, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>tired of getting I'm tired of feeling disrespected and unvalued.

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<v Speaker 1>Should I leave or keep trying? Please help God, don't

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<v Speaker 1>bless no mess. I feel like you should leave. You

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<v Speaker 1>should leave.

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<v Speaker 3>You're too young. And one thing about it, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 3>like I always say, I am a strong believer, believer

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<v Speaker 3>in the let them theory.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta let people do them. So sometimes you have

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<v Speaker 1>to walk away from.

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<v Speaker 3>A situation and you'll see what a person really wants.

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<v Speaker 3>If you walk away from a person, man or a woman,

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<v Speaker 3>and they fight for you, they're doing the effort, they're

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<v Speaker 3>getting the they're changing, they're really showing up for you.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a person that really wants to.

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<v Speaker 1>Be with you.

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<v Speaker 3>But if you walk away from somebody and they just

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<v Speaker 3>they're okay with it, they're okay with your absence, that

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<v Speaker 3>ain't the person for you. I truly believe that one

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<v Speaker 3>day all the good men and all the good women

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<v Speaker 3>will find each other and just be together.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how old the earth is. Come on now,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if this okay. Come on now. We

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<v Speaker 1>gotta keep it positive. But we've been here for a while.

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<v Speaker 3>And but I will say that it's okay to walk

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<v Speaker 3>away from things that no longer serve you.

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<v Speaker 1>And if you're what are.

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<v Speaker 3>Sometimes we have to ask ourselves, like what are what

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<v Speaker 3>am I walking away from? You're walking away from somebody

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<v Speaker 3>who makes you feel unattractive, who makes you feel unloved?

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<v Speaker 1>Walk away because you know what.

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<v Speaker 3>I was in a relationship before a while, a long

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<v Speaker 3>time ago, and I was gaining a weight, and we

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<v Speaker 3>started going to the gym together. That's what a real

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<v Speaker 3>man gonna do. Hey, baby, let's go work out together.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, we both gained a little way. I always say,

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<v Speaker 3>it's not about what you say, it's how you say it.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think that this is a young man who

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<v Speaker 3>probably does want to be outside because if y'all, y'all

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<v Speaker 3>are probably the same age. But she said six years

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<v Speaker 3>y'all were high school sweethearts, So y'all are the same age.

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<v Speaker 1>Girl, that man gotta grow and so do you. Yeah, Sez,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should just let he go.

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<v Speaker 2>Y'all are young, you gonna find somebody else, And I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like that's unhealthy, Like no matter what age.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, y'all are young.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like if he always peeking at you

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<v Speaker 2>and saying niggaive stuff about your appearance, that's not something

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<v Speaker 2>that I see changing, you know, I feel like it's

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<v Speaker 2>just gonna get worse and progress as y'all get older,

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<v Speaker 2>because that's not the way to motivate somebody to want

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<v Speaker 2>to lose weight. If he wants you to lose weight,

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<v Speaker 2>or if he feel like, oh, you don't put on

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<v Speaker 2>a few pounds, like Lick said, maybe go Maybe y'all

1:23:18.280 --> 1:23:20.200
<v Speaker 2>should go to the gym together. Maybe he should offer

1:23:20.280 --> 1:23:22.760
<v Speaker 2>to go on walks and stuff with you. Maybe he

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<v Speaker 2>should offer for y'all to like meal prep together and

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<v Speaker 2>eat healthier and y'all be accountability partners.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's something that he's good at and you're not.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like picking at somebody and talking shit about

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<v Speaker 2>they appearance is not the way to motivate them to

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<v Speaker 2>do anything. And if he doing it now is twenty one,

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<v Speaker 2>he gonna keep doing it as y'all relationship continues to

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<v Speaker 2>go on, because that's just a negative characteristic that a

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<v Speaker 2>person has. Yeah, I think you young. I'm sure you're beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a lot ahead of you in life, because

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<v Speaker 2>twenty one is so young, so young, So yeah, he

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<v Speaker 2>o high school, sweet Harbor girl. It's more out there,

1:24:00.680 --> 1:24:02.240
<v Speaker 2>and it's men out there that are gonna love you

1:24:02.280 --> 1:24:04.320
<v Speaker 2>the way you are currently. And if you do want

1:24:04.320 --> 1:24:06.400
<v Speaker 2>to lose weight, is men out there that are going

1:24:06.479 --> 1:24:09.160
<v Speaker 2>to motivate you in a much more positive and loving

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<v Speaker 2>way to do so.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I agree with one thousand percent.

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<v Speaker 3>All right now, So make sure y'all tune in every Friday,

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<v Speaker 3>close off, y'all. There is one Twitter account that is

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<v Speaker 3>connected to poor Minds. It's p oh, you are underscore

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<v Speaker 3>in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page.

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<v Speaker 3>If you see at poor Minds with no underscore that

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<v Speaker 3>is at fake page, do not follow that page.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay they block.

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<v Speaker 3>Me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both so

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<v Speaker 3>we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>It is p O you are underscore in my nds.

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<v Speaker 2>I and we got a hell a fake Facebook page on.

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<v Speaker 1>The Facebook page our face.

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<v Speaker 2>The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

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<v Speaker 2>least amount of follow.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you want to face, the one that's hours

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<v Speaker 3>got the least amount.

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<v Speaker 1>Of but one that's not us got like two hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and fifty.

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<v Speaker 3>Make if you actually look at the content, because the

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<v Speaker 3>caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, because

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<v Speaker 3>their catches are like bumba clade?

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<v Speaker 1>Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Check answer below block block, Like that's literally what the caption.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like you what that DG is bumba claude, bumba claude.

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<v Speaker 3>I was forced into this, but we're gonna make it work.

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<v Speaker 2>Dance tonight. I wonna chust tonight. I spend my money tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>I spend my money tonight, my money, yeah tonight. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to toast tonight, my money tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted it freak tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>Baby, Yeah, we need to do It's fine, brand new,

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<v Speaker 2>it's for you. Make sure that you look good, make

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<v Speaker 2>sure that I smell good. Let's purchase to New Bentley.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that, so glad it's not that windy. Here

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<v Speaker 2>comes there girl named Donnie.

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<v Speaker 1>As if she wants to go.

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<v Speaker 2>Tonight's gonna we havet fuzz show, big dancing on the floor,

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<v Speaker 2>folk shripping, I don't know, money feeding everywhere, Champagne, we

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<v Speaker 2>won't go there, Bottles popping in the yeah, the screaming.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't can dance tonight. I want to so tonight.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll spend my.

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<v Speaker 2>Money tonight, my money, money tonight, spend my.

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<v Speaker 1>Money, yes tonight. I wanna tonight free tonight, baby yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of eight man shout out to Lucy power.

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<v Speaker 1>This weekends so long.

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<v Speaker 3>This I was.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of fresh Yeah. I don't need to settle down.

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<v Speaker 1>My body don't know how right there. I see you

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<v Speaker 1>looking sure, hope that you're not took in. Don't get

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<v Speaker 1>lost in the crowd. This place is.

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<v Speaker 2>So damn wild. Go ahead and fly show ice, go

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<v Speaker 2>ahead to what you like. I'm feeling just as flies.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you hear your sons, and I.

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<v Speaker 3>Wonna dance tonight. I wonna toast tonight. I'll spend my

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<v Speaker 3>money tonight. I spend my money tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>I spend my bonny, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Tonight, I wanna toast tonight, tonight money tonight, freaky tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>Freaking you was already, but my money said my money,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah man, What thing about us? Y'all eating karaoke? Motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>here ah y'all