Speaker 1: My younger years. I was just like doing too much.
Speaker 2: Why because, like I said, doing like a reference, you.
Speaker 3: Know when you faced own ass up, You just doing
Speaker 3: too much, throwing that ass back and like, yeah nothing
Speaker 3: knowing I'm not, I don't feel nothing. I'm not. Oh
Speaker 3: it just.
Speaker 1: Like the herbal essences coming. Yes, that used to be
Speaker 1: me and what they used to be doing. L I'm
Speaker 1: meant nothing.
Speaker 2: I'm beating it up and I used to be I
Speaker 2: would be like you actually not you actually not be nothing.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I was a performer, was it because you wanted them
Speaker 2: to go around to like go tell people like.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but go brag about that time? How a week?
Speaker 4: Go brag about it?
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 2: Y'all's show girl Alex Pete and it's your girl draining
Speaker 2: the cold And you.
Speaker 3: Are tuned in to another episode of poor.
Speaker 1: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.
Speaker 3: We ain't got no gifts today, we ain't got no
Speaker 3: guests today. You know that in their seats jumping up
Speaker 3: and down because they love to hear that.
Speaker 1: I mean, And lately we've been having a lot of
Speaker 1: guests we have. Don't blame them, but it's a blessing.
Speaker 1: It is. I love having guests I'm doing.
Speaker 2: It's great to get other people's perspective, you know, hear
Speaker 2: their thoughts and it's just a good time. Like I
Speaker 2: feel like we have rarely ever had guests on Poor
Speaker 2: Minds where it was like not goodbye, like you don't
Speaker 2: mean a few that I wasn't that fond of.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, okay, okay, but it's way.
Speaker 2: More people that I loved and then people that I didn't.
Speaker 2: I think that that's probably only like two. I was
Speaker 2: just about that we had on the show that I
Speaker 2: was like, you ain't never got to worry about coming,
Speaker 2: You ain't got the word bout be, you ain't got
Speaker 2: to worry about me, baby.
Speaker 3: I can agree, because I was about to say there's
Speaker 3: probably like one or two because I yeah, yeah, what
Speaker 3: I would say, Like, I just feel this show is
Speaker 3: just so different because we just bring people out. They
Speaker 3: shall and they always have them all. So it's very rare.
Speaker 1: People come here and don't have a good time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's always good vibes in a great time. I
Speaker 2: can't honestly state it.
Speaker 3: So we can do a little catch up, you know,
Speaker 3: what do we know you on y'all what you're doing hard?
Speaker 1: Seventy five? Seventy five? Are I am? I am still
Speaker 1: going at I am. I'm one day forty one. Good job.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, so I got thirty four more days. I'll
Speaker 2: be done, really so are we?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah, I'm excited. That's really it though.
Speaker 2: Like I said, I feel like when you be doing
Speaker 2: challenges and detoxes and stuff, your life's just be pretty born, like,
Speaker 2: cause what are you doing? Like, I don't really go
Speaker 2: out to eat because I'm eating really clean, so I
Speaker 2: can't really go and if I'm just gonna eat salmon
Speaker 2: and broccoli everywhere I go every That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 2: I could just cook that at home and eat it
Speaker 2: at home. So I don't really go out to eat.
Speaker 2: I'm not drinking, so I haven't really went to like
Speaker 2: any social events or anything recently. I did see this
Speaker 2: list though, for the month of March, like of all
Speaker 2: the things that's kind of going on in Atlanta, and
Speaker 2: it was a few things on.
Speaker 1: There that I was like, Oh, maybe I'll go do that.
Speaker 3: Talk to like Bloggie, there's a Tacos and tequila coming
Speaker 3: up in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: I'm in that hole.
Speaker 2: Yeah, see and I would go to there, but it's
Speaker 2: like I can't eat the tacos or drink.
Speaker 3: You canna have a chicken taco.
Speaker 1: I don't eat cheeky. You can have a salmon taco.
Speaker 1: Salmon tacos is all going for me. You can have
Speaker 1: a fish choco. You like fish tacos. You like fish
Speaker 1: tacos be ordered.
Speaker 2: I don't really like them though, Like I'll order it
Speaker 2: if that's all that's on the meaning. And I go
Speaker 2: to like a Mexican restaurant, but I prefer steak or
Speaker 2: cheek okay or something like you know, maybe what's something
Speaker 2: back eating steak?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we can, we can hit it well, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: hit it up for you. I'll get some footage for you.
Speaker 3: Get you know what I'm saying, Okayer, Because I'm Finnna go.
Speaker 3: I have been seeing that, like little events pop up
Speaker 3: on like my timeline. I just have a feeling it's
Speaker 3: gonna be a really great summer. I have gotten my
Speaker 3: holiday weight off of me. I'm just feeling good. I'm
Speaker 3: back outside and yeah, I'm just looking really forward to
Speaker 3: the summer and everything we have coming up. And I
Speaker 3: don't know, I just have a good my spirit.
Speaker 1: Is high again. I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know what it is about them fall and
Speaker 3: winter months, but I'll be struggling so bad, and then
Speaker 3: I'm kind of like I'm starting to get out of
Speaker 3: my little funk, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But because you know, when that sun's out, buns up,
Speaker 1: I love the song.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know, like I always say, maybe
Speaker 2: it's just because I was born in the spring, so
Speaker 2: like I be waiting for day like saving like I
Speaker 2: cannot wait for day like saving times when it hit
Speaker 2: and E known he had already, so we all saw.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we all saw for sure. It's gonna be a
Speaker 3: fun summer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited and I'm gonna be done with my detop.
Speaker 1: That's but I'm only on girl. I'm only drinking.
Speaker 2: But I'm not drinking shots and stuff no more, Like
Speaker 2: I can't do it.
Speaker 1: It's not for me.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to be fine for I want to be
Speaker 2: like fifty sixty and fine as fuck.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like, you know, a.
Speaker 3: Little shots for a celebration, it's cool, but you're gonna
Speaker 3: stick to the champagne one.
Speaker 2: But I'm really gonna try to like just stick to champagne. Wow,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a champagne wine girl.
Speaker 3: So before we get into the topics, it was crazy
Speaker 3: because we had somebody's tweet about us that we want
Speaker 3: on the show.
Speaker 1: Were gonna get him on the show?
Speaker 3: Raymonds tweeted he said poor Minds is the best podcast
Speaker 3: out and it's not up for debate, and he.
Speaker 1: Know what the fuck going on?
Speaker 2: Shout out to Raymond, say, I love I always say that,
Speaker 2: but yeah, like.
Speaker 3: Dun you know what I think it is though, because
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: We've been on a lot.
Speaker 3: Of people's podcasts and I'm gonna tell y'all, this energy
Speaker 3: is just different.
Speaker 1: It is.
Speaker 3: It's really real conversation and it's just like, I don't know.
Speaker 3: I always say conversation is a skill, and a lot
Speaker 3: of people don't have that skill, like just like playing
Speaker 3: football is a skill. Yeah, we really, we really shocking
Speaker 3: Kobe and this motherfucker bag.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm not lying, tell you,
Speaker 1: I just you know, it's given what what was the
Speaker 1: other one? MJ is got it. That's a good one.
Speaker 1: That's they used to play together. That was before my time.
Speaker 1: But it don't matter. At all. It was. It was.
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is, when it all is said and.
Speaker 3: Done, I was a kid, you was a tiny tode,
Speaker 3: you were a tiny toach. But what I'm saying, when
Speaker 3: it's all said and done, they're gonna remember on name
Speaker 3: m hm because we deserve it.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, you you lie here.
Speaker 2: Okay, time was into it to what you've been up to,
Speaker 2: and you deserve it all. She I'm on that same tip, though,
Speaker 2: I deserve it all and more, don't it.
Speaker 3: Okay, that's the mission. That's the motive. My Dodgers Blue.
Speaker 3: What's up?
Speaker 1: Gas? Set up our girl? You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: We flourishing this year. It's a it's.
Speaker 2: Gonna be a good year. Like we definitely have a
Speaker 2: lot of exciting things coming up. I feel like we
Speaker 2: say that every episode. They probably like b she spitted out,
Speaker 2: what is au easy? Y'all say this ship everybody episode.
Speaker 2: But the great thing is every episode, y'all getting closer
Speaker 2: and closer to us telling.
Speaker 1: Y'all what it is.
Speaker 4: Look that.
Speaker 1: That's the gag. We're getting closer and closes.
Speaker 3: Okay, closer too much?
Speaker 2: Oh my fucking guy, Bro, that's literally five worst songs
Speaker 2: ever created?
Speaker 4: So much.
Speaker 1: Get it like girl, give me a fucking break.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I told you somebody on Twitter I
Speaker 2: called me a demon because I said I didn't like
Speaker 2: this song. Okay, I'm like, you are a fucking demon
Speaker 2: who doesn't like this.
Speaker 3: I don't like it either. But can I make a confession?
Speaker 3: Why there's a song said not my intrusive thoughts coming out?
Speaker 1: I beat your ass?
Speaker 3: I have wait, I have a song that I don't.
Speaker 1: Like, and I thought it was a safe space to
Speaker 1: say it.
Speaker 3: So I don't even know why I'm admitting this right now.
Speaker 3: I hate this song.
Speaker 1: When they played in the club at the end of
Speaker 1: the night, I get pissed.
Speaker 3: What I won't a dance?
Speaker 2: I love that song? Oh my god, now you wildin
Speaker 2: with it? I hate that's a class.
Speaker 1: I hate it? Yeah, baby, yeah, that's all. That is?
Speaker 1: Such a song, you know what? Just for that?
Speaker 2: Were singing it for carry OUs Please don't sing it
Speaker 2: for carry Out, bro.
Speaker 1: I hate and I love him.
Speaker 3: I love him down yes, and we saw him in
Speaker 3: concert and let me tell you, yes in New Orleans
Speaker 3: for essence.
Speaker 1: Where the It's like I be there, But where do
Speaker 1: I be but I'm not here.
Speaker 2: I'm there, but I'm not there because I don't know,
Speaker 2: or maybe I was just drunk.
Speaker 1: We was drunk.
Speaker 2: We was drunk. Remember when Sha was drunk. Shane says,
Speaker 2: she ain't drank nothing since Noor.
Speaker 3: No, I have not seen Shane put up She said,
Speaker 3: I'm not losing my job. Shane has not put a
Speaker 3: piece of liquor, not even a piece of liquor to
Speaker 3: her mouth in front of me since New Orleans. But
Speaker 3: we had a time we didn't remember. Thad called us
Speaker 3: to yell, but we had a ball that was like, hey, ladies.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 3: I wanted to get y'all both on the phone because yeah,
Speaker 3: we had people show up for y'all, and you know
Speaker 3: what I'm saying, y'all.
Speaker 1: Y'all said y'all was gonna be there. He did try
Speaker 1: to shut that we was, but we need that. We
Speaker 1: do need it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we missed the j Jackson concert. I know we
Speaker 2: was drunk. Everybody just was over New Orleans. You have
Speaker 2: to be drunk in New Orleans.
Speaker 1: So like as Marty Gra going on right now.
Speaker 3: Rodeo going on, Marty Gra going on, I missed the
Speaker 3: cookout because I had to do some work with my homegirl.
Speaker 3: I've been helping her with her project, so I couldn't
Speaker 3: go to the cookout, which I was really sad about.
Speaker 1: It'll be another one. It's one every year, I know.
Speaker 1: I just really wanted to go this year the.
Speaker 2: Cook I'll be fun though, but I'm definitely gonna go
Speaker 2: to the rodeo before it end.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to the rodeo for sure. I'm not
Speaker 3: missing it.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Houston Ticks.
Speaker 3: Shout out to Houston Htown. Okay, go ahead with the
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Speaker 2: Thanks for the first topic. I really wanted to talk
Speaker 2: about lucky gross syndrome. You know, like, have you ever
Speaker 2: had something fall in your lap with no effort and
Speaker 2: you didn't really have to go hard to giddy? I
Speaker 2: think some people think that, Like I think people probably
Speaker 2: could look at us and probably think we're just lucky.
Speaker 2: You know that's not true though, I mean it might
Speaker 2: not be true, but you know, everything is about perception.
Speaker 2: I think that's the perception that people can have, and
Speaker 2: I think in life some people really feel like some
Speaker 2: people are just lucky, and others feel like they're just unlucky,
Speaker 2: like they were just built bad cards.
Speaker 1: Life isn't there.
Speaker 2: So how do you feel about the concept of being lucky,
Speaker 2: because then you have people who don't even believe luck
Speaker 2: is a real thing.
Speaker 1: Like you have people who believe.
Speaker 2: That everything you get in life is a result of
Speaker 2: the work that you put in.
Speaker 1: So I believe in look I do, Okay, I believe
Speaker 1: in luck.
Speaker 3: I believe sometimes the chance happening. Things happen, right, I
Speaker 3: think sometimes, like I'll use social media for example, right,
Speaker 3: a lot of times somebody will have a viral moment,
Speaker 3: like the Hawk Tour girl will use her for example,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm talking about? Probably not, I know,
Speaker 3: I know, I know, AUNTI gonna cat you. Well, Auntie
Speaker 3: gonna catch you up. So the Hawk Tour girl, or
Speaker 3: it's a girl that had did a random interview, you
Speaker 3: know how them YouTubers be on the street interviewing people,
Speaker 3: and she was like he asked her some question and
Speaker 3: she was like talking about giving head and she's like,
Speaker 3: you know when I do it, I just hoped to
Speaker 3: spit on that thing and it went crazy, right, it
Speaker 3: went viral. It was literally you could not scroll TikTok
Speaker 3: without seeing the hop to a clip.
Speaker 1: So this girl had.
Speaker 3: This viral moment and she started a podcast, got all
Speaker 3: these brand deals. I mean, she's at these festivals, hosting,
Speaker 3: doing interviews, you know what I'm saying. So I think
Speaker 3: that luck is a real thing, because who in that moment,
Speaker 3: like you know you do. We do funny shit all
Speaker 3: the time, and some things go viral and sometimes they don't.
Speaker 3: But sometimes things just hit. So I do think that
Speaker 3: is what luck is like, sometimes things just hit and
Speaker 3: it's funny. But I think luck is cool. But it's
Speaker 3: a difference between luck and really having longevity with it.
Speaker 3: Cause how lucky are you if you have a moment
Speaker 3: that doesn't do nothing? Like it's cool to go viral
Speaker 3: and make a little money. But I feel like anytime
Speaker 3: you see somebody that is in a successful position, it's
Speaker 3: not luck. It's maybe luck mixed with hard work and opportunity.
Speaker 3: But those three mixed together, that's when you get some
Speaker 3: real shit. But luck can only go so far.
Speaker 1: So luck is cool.
Speaker 3: You know, I might get lucky and hit the lottery
Speaker 3: and get five million dollars, But what's luck if I
Speaker 3: don't know how to keep that five million dollars? So
Speaker 3: luck is cool, But what you're gonna do with that.
Speaker 1: That's fair.
Speaker 2: I mean, I definitely feel like, I don't know, I
Speaker 2: feel like it's a.
Speaker 1: Mixture of both.
Speaker 2: To me, it's definitely like what you said, it's some
Speaker 2: people just kind of happen to be in the right
Speaker 2: place at the right time. But it's about what you're
Speaker 2: going to do with it, because yeah, you got this opportunity,
Speaker 2: but if you didn't maximize it, it just doesn't really matter, right.
Speaker 3: And a lot of people, I hate to say this,
Speaker 3: and it's no shade, no see, but a lot of
Speaker 3: people like they really aren't talented. So y'all have somebody
Speaker 3: who has like a little viral moment or somebody who
Speaker 3: are not even talented, I'll say, or have the skills skills.
Speaker 3: I'll use the word skills because I want to use
Speaker 3: other examples, like somebody who come up on some money.
Speaker 3: Like I had a friend, one of my best friends
Speaker 3: from high school, right, and she had started a job
Speaker 3: and it was one of those jobs that like give
Speaker 3: you stocks whenever you first start the job with one
Speaker 3: of the benefits. Right, something happened with the stock market
Speaker 3: and they all got a whole bunch of money. Like,
Speaker 3: I mean, she hit like a million dollars or something crazy, right,
Speaker 3: and she was going trips, buying bags, partying, and when
Speaker 3: I tell you she has nothing now, and it was
Speaker 3: like a stop, Like you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 3: that could have been something that could have lasted you
Speaker 3: a lifetime. So that's why I say luck is cool.
Speaker 3: But that's why I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm
Speaker 3: not that lucky of a person. I am not a
Speaker 3: lucky person. She do not be hitting for me. My shit,
Speaker 3: do not slap, I think so my shit do not
Speaker 3: slap at all. But I think I have an amazing
Speaker 3: life because I know how to take advantage of my
Speaker 3: skills and the opportunity. So I think you can make
Speaker 3: things like Okay, it's like the triangle, right, you got luck,
Speaker 3: you got skill, and you got opportunity.
Speaker 1: So luck is cool.
Speaker 3: But I would rather have the skill and the opportunity
Speaker 3: if I had to choose out of that three, if
Speaker 3: you got to choose one out of the three or
Speaker 3: two out of the three, luck, I don't need luck
Speaker 3: to make shit happen. Luck is cool, but so lucky
Speaker 3: girl syndrome is a thing.
Speaker 2: I think that you definitely should want to have the
Speaker 2: skill and the opportunity for sure over having Look, but
Speaker 2: you know, I don't know, I think I have. I
Speaker 2: think I'm kind of lucky when I really think about it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: because I feel like a lot of stuff that be
Speaker 2: happening to me, or that has happened to me, it
Speaker 2: doesn't happen to like every average person, or it doesn't
Speaker 2: happen to like people on a normal basis. Like I
Speaker 2: could look at a lot of instances in my life
Speaker 2: and be like, Okay, that was probably look, you know,
Speaker 2: just being in the right place at the right time,
Speaker 2: meeting the right person at the right time. But I
Speaker 2: think that you I think that even with me being lucky,
Speaker 2: having skill and opportunity and knowing when to take advantage
Speaker 2: of opportunity is what has gotten me to the places
Speaker 2: that I'm at, Because I do think you could be
Speaker 2: lucky and not know how to take advantage of the opportunity,
Speaker 2: and that's where a lot of people fall short, or
Speaker 2: like you said, mismanaging the opportunity when you get it,
Speaker 2: so I e. Getting a million dollars and not knowing
Speaker 2: what to do with it. Now you broken. I don't
Speaker 2: think that could happen to me. I don't like, could
Speaker 2: they never. I do believe in never saying never though,
Speaker 2: I do believe in that because you just never know
Speaker 2: where life will take you and what will happen.
Speaker 1: Anything could happen to anybody at any moment.
Speaker 2: But I don't think I would ever be a person
Speaker 2: who gets a million dollars and ends up broken just
Speaker 2: because I know what to do with I'm gonna figure
Speaker 2: out what to do with it. Yeah, even if I don't,
Speaker 2: I know, I'm gonna figure out what to do with it.
Speaker 2: I think people people don't realize. And it's not to
Speaker 2: say that a million dollars is not a lot of money,
Speaker 2: because it is a lot of money. But I think
Speaker 2: that when people see that kind of money in their
Speaker 2: bank account and they've never seen that before, they be like, Oh,
Speaker 2: let me go buy everything I ever wanted. And that's cool.
Speaker 2: You know, you should definitely go buy you a house,
Speaker 2: should definitely go buy you a practical car. But going
Speaker 2: spend crazy amounts of money.
Speaker 1: Like taking fifty dollar vacation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, taking fifty thousand dollar vacations, going to Louis, going
Speaker 2: to Chaneill's, splurgeing, buying like two hundred thousand dollars worth
Speaker 2: of stuff.
Speaker 1: That's craziness. You need to figure. Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: I mean, and nothing and even with that for example,
Speaker 2: because it's like do nice things for yourselff. If you
Speaker 2: get a million dollars, Yeah, buy yourself a barking that's
Speaker 2: fifteen thou twenty thousand, maybe thirty thousand dollars one. No,
Speaker 2: don't go by teams. Yeah, you get what I'm saying. Like,
Speaker 2: it's just all about what you do when you have opportunities.
Speaker 2: And I think people be thinking, oh, I got this money,
Speaker 2: I ain't never going I ain't gonna never go back now,
Speaker 2: but you will if you don't know how to handle
Speaker 2: the blessings there.
Speaker 1: God right, I agree. Do you remember a song Lucky
Speaker 1: by Britney Spears. She's lucky, she's a star.
Speaker 3: See talking about that.
Speaker 1: As soon as she asked the question, I was over
Speaker 1: here singing it.
Speaker 3: She akes up, there's a knock, knock knock on the do.
Speaker 2: And see we could do we But I don't know.
Speaker 2: I cannot believe.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Lucky Lucky was a story and I think it was
Speaker 3: like Britney Spear, the girl's name was Lucky and she
Speaker 3: was like a Hollywood star. Yeah, like Brittany played the
Speaker 3: character in the music video and the girl's name was Lucky,
Speaker 3: and she was like a Hollywood star. But you know
Speaker 3: all that glitters that ain't gold. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: It was a it's such a good song.
Speaker 2: Shout out to my girl, brit Yeah, they don't you
Speaker 2: know she likes to dance.
Speaker 3: In them panties And we're gonna talk about it every week,
Speaker 3: But she really gave us some box do we not
Speaker 3: gonna talk about it every week?
Speaker 2: Actually, this probably would be the last time, if I'm
Speaker 2: being completely hony. What you think about lucky girl syndrome, Well,
Speaker 2: to quote the great Queen Oki manad period, no, I'm
Speaker 2: not lucky. I'm blessed, yes, but no, for real, I
Speaker 2: agree with you on the three categories. I would change
Speaker 2: blessed to lucky for me because that's just me and
Speaker 2: my spirituality. But I do agree that opportunity meets preparation
Speaker 2: and that leads to like everything that you need, but
Speaker 2: also what you put into the universe comes back to
Speaker 2: you putting out that good energy, setting those manifestations, affirmations
Speaker 2: and intentions. That is really the motivation to kind of
Speaker 2: keep going through it, right, Yeah, I agree with that.
Speaker 2: I definitely think that what you get, like, what you
Speaker 2: get out of life is a product of like what
Speaker 2: you put in like depending on what type of partson
Speaker 2: you are. I feel like sometimes that's why people be
Speaker 2: feeling unlucky if I'm being honest, like you feel like
Speaker 2: fucked up shit always happening to you, or you feel
Speaker 2: like you don't have good look because what are you
Speaker 2: putting out?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm always going out into the world
Speaker 2: treating people how I want to be treated, right.
Speaker 1: I don't do bad by people.
Speaker 2: I always try to do good by everybody, even if
Speaker 2: situations don't work out. I'm not even like a getback person.
Speaker 2: I feel like life's gonna get you back. God gonna
Speaker 2: get you bad. God be doing all of my Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about those things.
Speaker 1: I just move on with my life.
Speaker 2: And I feel like, because I've always been that type
Speaker 2: of person, that's why blessings look as you know, some
Speaker 2: people might want to call it flows into my life
Speaker 2: all the time because it's about what you put out.
Speaker 1: Some people are terrible fucking people.
Speaker 2: And then they wonder why, and if I'm really being honest,
Speaker 2: people who bad stuff always be happening too, I kind
Speaker 2: of just do always look at them and be like I.
Speaker 1: Stupumping at myself.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because why is something bad always happening?
Speaker 1: And why are you always going through it? Why?
Speaker 2: And especially when it be situations that I feel like
Speaker 2: sometimes are like avoidable, you know what I mean? But
Speaker 2: you always going through something? You the common denominator. You're
Speaker 2: not unlucky. It's just about the decisions and actions that
Speaker 2: you be making.
Speaker 1: That's why your life is going the way.
Speaker 3: So I do want to make a point to what
Speaker 3: Ta said, because she said she will change lucky and blessed,
Speaker 3: cause I feel like, no, I'm not lucky because when
Speaker 3: I look at luck, I look at like a once
Speaker 3: in a lifetime opportunity happening that don't happen to me.
Speaker 3: I'm not lucky, Like I'm not lucky at all, a
Speaker 3: lottery Yeah, stuff like I never just like walk across
Speaker 3: the mall, the man be like, oh, let me come
Speaker 3: by you with you now. I'm not lucky, Like I'm
Speaker 3: not lucky. My shit be fucked up. It's never me,
Speaker 3: It's never me. But when it comes to blessings. Now,
Speaker 3: now I am extremely blessed, like my blessings literally overflow.
Speaker 3: So I do think it is I don't think you can, Like,
Speaker 3: I see what you're saying about interchanging lucky and blessed,
Speaker 3: but I don't think that that's the same thing, because
Speaker 3: I feel like luck is something like it's a chance happening,
Speaker 3: and it can happen to anybody. It can happen to
Speaker 3: the worst fucking person in the world. Blessings don't happen
Speaker 3: to good people. That's how I feel. Luck can happen
Speaker 3: to the fucking level.
Speaker 1: Blessings don't happen to bed.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry. Blessings don't happen to bad people. Luck
Speaker 3: can happen to the worst person. The worst person you
Speaker 3: know can hit the lottery tomorrow, the worst person you
Speaker 3: know could get something like a random viral moment and
Speaker 3: you see them on TV everywhere and see.
Speaker 2: That's why I do feel like they're interchangeable. Because blessings
Speaker 2: don't always come from God neither. It depends on if
Speaker 2: you really want to get deep into the spiritual bag.
Speaker 2: Sometimes blessings don't be coming from Him, they coming from
Speaker 2: other places.
Speaker 1: Yep.
Speaker 2: I think everybody can get blessings. I do feel like
Speaker 2: they're interchangeable. I agree with you. I think look and
Speaker 2: blessings are interchangeable because I think even with blessings, people
Speaker 2: can sometimes look at your blessings and be like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, that's a once in a lifetime opportunity. I
Speaker 2: could never see something like that happening for me. It
Speaker 2: just depends on people's perspective in their religious background, because
Speaker 2: some people are not religious, so they gonna look at
Speaker 2: it like, oh, this person is just lucky. But I
Speaker 2: definitely think that they're interchangeable. And I think for those
Speaker 2: that feel like, like, think about blessings more than luck,
Speaker 2: they're not really worried about luck either, because we're not
Speaker 2: searching for that once in a life right because everything
Speaker 2: we know that everything that's gonna come to us is
Speaker 2: far better good and it's alignment, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's kind of people look at
Speaker 2: it both ways, right, right. I think for me, I'm
Speaker 2: I'm blessed. I feel that way too. I definitely feel
Speaker 2: like it be blessings and look though. That's why I said,
Speaker 2: I do feel like they're interchangeable because certain stuff that
Speaker 2: have happened to me is definitely just it was a
Speaker 2: blessing from God because I feel this way. I feel
Speaker 2: like nothing in your life is going to happen unless
Speaker 2: God wants it to happen. You a believer, if you
Speaker 2: really believe in God, then it's like everything that you
Speaker 2: get is coming from him. It's all coming from Him,
Speaker 2: and it wouldn't have happened if He wanted to happen.
Speaker 2: So I definitely feel like, Okay, this was a blessed,
Speaker 2: it was luck, but it only happened because God allowed.
Speaker 3: It to happen, right, And I agree with you on
Speaker 3: that because because God will really try to guide you
Speaker 3: if you pay attention, because like you said, blessings cannot
Speaker 3: all blessings can be something that comes coming from another place. Yeah,
Speaker 3: so if you're not right, so if you pay attention
Speaker 3: to God's guidance, he gonna guide you the right way
Speaker 3: that you're supposed to be going every time, so you'll know, Okay,
Speaker 3: is this a blessing or is this something that's you know,
Speaker 3: shit covered and glitter a lesson, a lesson?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So I definitely do agree with you on that. But
Speaker 3: like I said, I feel like when I think about
Speaker 3: like me being unlucky, like I said, I just don't
Speaker 3: feel like things happen for me like oh, a viral moment,
Speaker 3: and it's just like, oh, I'm on TV because you
Speaker 3: see some people who go viral. Next thing, you know,
Speaker 3: they on the red carpet at the Oscars doing interviews
Speaker 3: like the stuff like that.
Speaker 1: You know, don't really like if.
Speaker 3: We get on the Oscars and we interview and it's because, nigga,
Speaker 3: we've been fucking working for six years to get there,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So I guess that's what I mean.
Speaker 3: But I can't. I can say I'm blessed. But that's
Speaker 3: an interesting that wasn't even the topic.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean because the way I look at
Speaker 2: it too, is like sometimes a person will do something
Speaker 2: and it will go viral, but they've been.
Speaker 1: Hustling for a long time.
Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes even with these people who
Speaker 2: will finally go viral, they've been doing that shit for
Speaker 2: a long time, Like that that influencer that had that
Speaker 2: classy very classy. Yes, they Lebron had been doing content
Speaker 2: for a really, really long time. So it's kind of like,
Speaker 2: is that look like, yeah, it took him out of
Speaker 2: there or her out of there.
Speaker 1: I don't know what they go by.
Speaker 2: But like it took them out of there, but they
Speaker 2: have been putting the work in.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so it's like, can you really call that look?
Speaker 3: Well, not with that person particularly, but like if you
Speaker 3: think of like a bad baby, but she.
Speaker 1: Said catch me outside.
Speaker 3: How about that she was on Doctor Phild being a
Speaker 3: badass white girl and then she but what she did,
Speaker 3: but it took that look and she turn it into
Speaker 3: an opportunity. So you know, that's what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 3: a difference between that versus the hot tour girl. She
Speaker 3: had the opportunity to make it into something that she
Speaker 3: didn't because she didn't have the skill to me personally,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: I mean that's why I don't. I don't know who
Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, exactly, exactly, That's what I'm saying, Like.
Speaker 3: That, what do these people know who she is? If
Speaker 3: they watching? Yeah, you know, I like to get into
Speaker 3: this news sometimes.
Speaker 2: Because sometimes I feel like, yeah, if no, if it
Speaker 2: was a big moment like that, everybody should know about it.
Speaker 3: Well this is the thing though, so what's crazy about it?
Speaker 3: Is that be the difference between like mainstream media because
Speaker 3: it was very mainstream, but the.
Speaker 1: Things that get mainstream.
Speaker 3: Is this like they gonna talk about it all Like
Speaker 3: I said, I'm not kidding. It was everywhere and when
Speaker 3: was this was this? Like yeah, it was like what
Speaker 3: last year or maybe the year before last? And then
Speaker 3: she started a podcast, she signed with barstool.
Speaker 1: It was like a whole big fiend. What happened to
Speaker 1: her pocket?
Speaker 3: I think she just stopped it because something happened where
Speaker 3: she started, not a bitcoin. She got into something with
Speaker 3: bitcoin and told what everybody to invest and then she
Speaker 3: ended up pulling out. So it's like a whole bunch
Speaker 3: of legal stuff she's.
Speaker 1: Going through right now.
Speaker 3: But she's like in hiatus right now basically, So either
Speaker 3: way it goes, like I said, But a lot of
Speaker 3: that blessing and opportunity and luck stuff that we go into,
Speaker 3: that's another topic that we talked about before. It's different
Speaker 3: for this than it is for this too. At the
Speaker 3: same time, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: That's that's definitely a fair argument, because I mean, it
Speaker 1: is what it is.
Speaker 2: We just have to work a little harder for things
Speaker 2: that they don't have to work as hard.
Speaker 1: For right, right, right.
Speaker 3: But I do think lucky girl syndrome is a thing.
Speaker 3: I think some people really just are lucky.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, because I just.
Speaker 2: You know, how I be feeling about these topics. I
Speaker 2: just always kind of feel like sometimes it just really
Speaker 2: be about what you do, though, like what you do
Speaker 2: with your life and the type of person that you are,
Speaker 2: because I don't necessarily think that I believe that anybody
Speaker 2: just gets anything because they're looking.
Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm saying. That's the difference for me.
Speaker 3: I think if somebody has blessings in their life, that's
Speaker 3: because they're putting good in the world and they're getting
Speaker 3: good back. Luck can happen to anybody. Blessings happen to
Speaker 3: the good people. That's the difference for me, That's what
Speaker 3: I was saying. Yeah, so I do think lucky girl
Speaker 3: syndrome is a thing because luck can happen to anybody.
Speaker 1: I feel like blessings only.
Speaker 3: Happen to the blessed. Okay, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: Like chance, yes, like yes, fifty chance whatever, right, right.
Speaker 3: So I guess that's what I'm saying. Like, like I said,
Speaker 3: I don't feel I'm lucky at all, because not because
Speaker 3: I'm a bad person, just because I don't.
Speaker 1: Luck don't be on my side for some reason.
Speaker 3: But blessings, oh baby, God don't show up for me
Speaker 3: every time when it comes to the blessing time. All right,
Speaker 3: drinking today while we drank.
Speaker 1: It's good. I'm almost good. I'm glad you like it. So,
Speaker 1: since we're like into the spring, spring gets sprung.
Speaker 2: We're talking about blessings and luck and opportunity. This one
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Speaker 2: so what we have in it. We have some grapefruit,
Speaker 2: We have some lemons, some lime, some lavender syrup, and
Speaker 2: then I have some high biscuits syrup.
Speaker 1: Floated at the bottom.
Speaker 2: And then we garnish it with three dehydrated rosebuds, a
Speaker 2: very floral, very light, very spring.
Speaker 1: And this is Everything's coming up roses. Cheer. I love
Speaker 1: that rosebud.
Speaker 3: That used to be the the cheek cold for SAMs
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Speaker 2: my little desktop computer. That and I used to be
Speaker 2: barning CDs online mark Ooh.
Speaker 1: I wish I still had them CDs. I'm sure somewhere
Speaker 1: at my mama house.
Speaker 2: I could probably find mine because my mama keeps everything,
Speaker 2: so I'm sure they in some box.
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Speaker 1: Eight, on the People Who keep everything.
Speaker 3: My sister is like that, and she had a time
Speaker 3: capsule from high school. Real I wish I would have
Speaker 3: had something like that, a time capsule.
Speaker 1: My best friend Jazmine is like that.
Speaker 2: She has like photo albums, like ten photo albums full
Speaker 2: of like pictures of us from high school, from colleague,
Speaker 2: like literally and like I'm talking about y'all, like.
Speaker 1: Books and books and books.
Speaker 2: She'd still be wearing her high school t shirts period
Speaker 2: when she.
Speaker 1: Go to sleep and stuff.
Speaker 2: Like when I'll get on FaceTime with her, she'd be
Speaker 2: having on our two thousand and five homecoming in two
Speaker 2: I mean not two thousand and five, two thousand and
Speaker 2: six homecoming T shirt, and I'd be like, how do
Speaker 2: you still have that? Like get rid of so much stuff?
Speaker 2: And I wish that I kept stuff too, But like
Speaker 2: that's why I'd be glad I got her, because I'd
Speaker 2: be like, if anything grew up copy there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, my sister's like that. She's like a pack ride.
Speaker 3: She keeps everything. But I'm so happy that she's like
Speaker 3: that because she has so much stuff. Like my mom
Speaker 3: was good with pictures too, so we have like so
Speaker 3: many pictures of when I was little. Now what I
Speaker 3: wish I had a video camera when I was little
Speaker 3: and I used to record everything. I wish I had
Speaker 3: those videos. I don't know where they are because I
Speaker 3: used to record. I was vlogging before vlogging was a fiend.
Speaker 1: Imagine we had I cloud makes. Oh your food, yes.
Speaker 3: I would have all of it. Talk, how are you
Speaker 3: a pack rad?
Speaker 1: Are you?
Speaker 2: I've been getting rid of a lot of stuff, like
Speaker 2: kept a lot of my mom's stuff and actually pastations
Speaker 2: helping me get rid of a lot of stuff.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: But I'm getting better because now I want to be
Speaker 2: a little bit just more minimalistic instead of holding everything.
Speaker 2: But I remember we had like those digital cameras with
Speaker 2: the floppy disk.
Speaker 1: Yes, like we had those. Yes, everything used to be there.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish I still had my old digital camera
Speaker 2: from like high school and stuff. But I don't know
Speaker 2: where they said, because what was the name of that
Speaker 2: little website where everybody used to upload their pictures? I
Speaker 2: cannot remember what it was called. Remember, yes, I cannot
Speaker 2: remember what it was called. But huh no, tumbler it No,
Speaker 2: it was just like a website where you could just
Speaker 2: upload all of your camera files. But I can't remember
Speaker 2: what the wind site was called, and if I'd be
Speaker 2: wondering if it's still up, and I be wishing I
Speaker 2: could remember my log in. I'm about to def still
Speaker 2: on there because like my Space is still upright, right,
Speaker 2: but Flicker, yes, a Flicker account. But I couldn't even
Speaker 2: tell y'all what email I was using, what password I
Speaker 2: was using, anything. But I used to upload all my
Speaker 2: pictures on there when I was in middle school, in
Speaker 2: high school, and I just just gone memory.
Speaker 3: Right, that's all saying about my space. My Space is
Speaker 3: still up, but I had deleted my mos space. I remember,
Speaker 3: but I'm like, why did I do that?
Speaker 1: Yeah? That could have been like something I just kept
Speaker 1: up when we be young. You just don't be thinking
Speaker 1: about that.
Speaker 2: You got the people who do, like your sister, yes,
Speaker 2: and like me, because I wish I was thinking like
Speaker 2: that big then.
Speaker 1: Like, I have a.
Speaker 3: Friend she literally has all of our yearbooks from kindergarten
Speaker 3: until we graduated, every single year.
Speaker 2: Now I do have all my yearbooks from high school.
Speaker 1: Yeah I don't have I have like two from high school.
Speaker 1: Yeah they had.
Speaker 2: Well, all my stuff is at my mom house, but
Speaker 2: she have all my well, she has all my pictures
Speaker 2: from like kindergarten up until I graduated from college. And
Speaker 2: then she has all of my yearbooks from high school.
Speaker 2: And then my mom even have all her yearbooks from
Speaker 2: high school.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the see my mom had her I think
Speaker 3: I have one or two yearbooks from my mom's high school.
Speaker 1: Babe.
Speaker 3: They used to love them afros.
Speaker 2: See when my mama was in high school, they used
Speaker 2: to do it a little silk prissy, she ain't they
Speaker 2: had afros.
Speaker 3: It was like, so when my mom was in high school,
Speaker 3: it was when they were trance. They were doing they
Speaker 3: were doing afros, but they started doing the Jerry curls. Okay,
Speaker 3: so like half of the yearbook got afros and half
Speaker 3: of them got Jerry curls. So they were making that
Speaker 3: transition to ooh, my mama, shit used.
Speaker 1: To be juicy.
Speaker 2: What that's the only thing about Jerry curls. I'm like,
Speaker 2: how did people used to wear their hell like they like?
Speaker 1: Every juice? Everything you lean on something you lean mark juicy.
Speaker 1: You know what let your song blow? I guess and
Speaker 1: what it is.
Speaker 3: It's like my mom, I don't think she ever grew
Speaker 3: out of it, because she still used to make her
Speaker 3: hair real, Yes, because my mom, like she had like
Speaker 3: really curly hair. Like my hair is like I have
Speaker 3: like four C hair. My mom had like four A
Speaker 3: four B, so hers is a little curlier than mine.
Speaker 1: But I mean she loved it juice down. I mean
Speaker 1: she would have a little dripping.
Speaker 2: I mean, I do feel like you gotta keep it moisturized, girl,
Speaker 2: to keep your hair moisturized.
Speaker 1: Nobody want to know dry.
Speaker 3: I used to call a juicy crab chap all of that.
Speaker 3: Why juicy crab? Because it was juicy hen you met? No,
Speaker 3: that's not the right song to sing. Talking another shot, Yes,
Speaker 3: all right, we're gonna move on.
Speaker 1: To the topic too.
Speaker 3: So the second today, and this kind of ties into
Speaker 3: what we were just talking about. It's cloud more important
Speaker 3: than talent and how social media has changed success. So
Speaker 3: do you think the industry still respects real talent or
Speaker 3: is it all about engagement in numbers now? So I
Speaker 3: do want to give an example because I saw this
Speaker 3: when I was kind of like doing a little research
Speaker 3: on this topic.
Speaker 1: Somebody said, nowadays you have.
Speaker 3: People like like an Addison Ray or a what's her
Speaker 3: name Charlie d'millio, and they're extremely popular on teeps talking.
Speaker 3: They're in movies and I'm not talking about regular movies,
Speaker 3: like they're in like these A list movies, right because
Speaker 3: of their audience that can bring in. But they're not
Speaker 3: necessarily talented. So they feel like if Halle Berry was
Speaker 3: coming up in twenty twenty five, would she be Halle
Speaker 3: Berry in twenty twenty five because maybe she doesn't have
Speaker 3: a following, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So, how do you feel this cloud?
Speaker 3: Is cloud more important than talent in twenty twenty five?
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so, because it's so many people
Speaker 2: who have blown up over the past few years and
Speaker 2: they didn't have a following, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I don't think talent matters, okay.
Speaker 2: Necessarily, but I don't think it's about cloud because, like
Speaker 2: I said, a lot of people don't have that huge
Speaker 2: following and then oh you got discovered.
Speaker 1: Now you do have the people like that.
Speaker 2: But a lot of the time, for me, it's more
Speaker 2: a lack of talent, Like people just are not talented
Speaker 2: and they just be blowing up for doing the bare
Speaker 2: minimum so in the career path that they choose, and like,
Speaker 2: your music not that great, but you still blew up
Speaker 2: on kind of way. Your accent not that great, but
Speaker 2: you're fine? Are you attractive? Like the thing about halle
Speaker 2: Berry that nobody could discredit her for she can really
Speaker 2: ask like, yeah, she's beautiful, and I do think that
Speaker 2: that may have something to do with her success.
Speaker 1: But halle Berry is a great action. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Well she said that that hindered her, her beauty hindered
Speaker 3: her back.
Speaker 2: I can believe that because people probably you didn't take
Speaker 2: her series rights. I think people don't never look at
Speaker 2: beauty from that standpoint, Like people look at beautiful people
Speaker 2: kind of like what we were just talking about in
Speaker 2: the first topic, Oh, they so lucky because you're beautiful,
Speaker 2: But people don't never think how think about how sometimes
Speaker 2: being overly attractive can like hinder you because people won't
Speaker 2: take you serious and certain positions.
Speaker 3: So I one hundred percent agree with you, But I
Speaker 3: also think, like y'all just be complaining and y'all not
Speaker 3: working hard enough, because a lot of times people be like, oh,
Speaker 3: I don't have a following, so I'm not gonna get
Speaker 3: cast for this movie. No you're not getting cast before
Speaker 3: the movie, because yeah, you're probably not. I mean, I
Speaker 3: told y'all I took, I'm taking acting classes.
Speaker 1: I'm big, not good.
Speaker 3: Ain't nobody finna put me in a movie just because
Speaker 3: poor mind's be doing one point three million views a month.
Speaker 1: I mean they might, though it ain't happen yet.
Speaker 2: I mean it haven't happened yet, but they it might
Speaker 2: because it's a lot of people who have got cast
Speaker 2: it in right and cast it in TV rolls just
Speaker 2: because they have a following, a following on social media.
Speaker 3: So I do agree that that does happen, Like people
Speaker 3: get cast it for roles just because they're, like, I
Speaker 3: want their fan base.
Speaker 1: I say this all the time.
Speaker 3: I truly believe, like Tyler Perry had put Kim Kardashian
Speaker 3: in that movie what was it, Confessions of a Temptations, Like,
Speaker 3: you know, Kim only had a few lines, and they
Speaker 3: were advertising it like she's gonna be in a whole
Speaker 3: movie and she had like a few lines.
Speaker 1: She didn't do bad.
Speaker 3: It wasn't like she was terrible, but she didn't have
Speaker 3: much to carry or much to do. But he did
Speaker 3: that as a strategy because Kim Kardashian, her star was
Speaker 3: going up at the time. So I do believe that
Speaker 3: people get casted in certain movies because of their fan base.
Speaker 3: But for the people who feel like they're not getting
Speaker 3: casted because they don't have a following or their song
Speaker 3: is not blowing up because they don't have a following.
Speaker 3: Do these industry people care about a following, Yes, they do.
Speaker 1: But I truly believe that if you were talented and.
Speaker 3: You got that it factor and you have that work ethic,
Speaker 3: it's gonna happen for you. So I don't like when
Speaker 3: people be like, I don't have a following, so I'm
Speaker 3: not it's not gonna it's not happening for me because
Speaker 3: I'm good and I'm great, but I don't have a following,
Speaker 3: so I'm not gonna get.
Speaker 1: Picked, or maybe it's just not in your path.
Speaker 2: I feel like people be feeling to realize that stuff too,
Speaker 2: Like sometimes just because it's top faith over here yet
Speaker 2: I mean for real though, Like I think it's so
Speaker 2: many people in this world who want to do things
Speaker 2: that don't align with the plan for them, you know
Speaker 2: what I mean? And especially kind of because I know
Speaker 2: everybody is not a believer. But going back to like
Speaker 2: spirituality religion, there is a plan for your life, and
Speaker 2: like if you're doing things that are not on the
Speaker 2: plan for your life, it might not work out even
Speaker 2: if it's not. And again, outside of being a believer,
Speaker 2: I still feel like the universe kind of conspires to
Speaker 2: make things work in your favor when it's supposed to work,
Speaker 2: when it's supposed to happen, And if it's not supposed
Speaker 2: to happen, sweetie, it's just never gonna happen. And sometimes
Speaker 2: he just doesn't have anything to do with luck. It's
Speaker 2: just maybe you putting your focus on something that's not
Speaker 2: you're purpose, or it's not what you're supposed to be doing.
Speaker 2: Maybe you might want to be an actress, but being
Speaker 2: in actresses not your calling, right.
Speaker 3: Even like a lot of times we'll see people who
Speaker 3: are amazing singers. You'll see people who sting back up
Speaker 3: for somebody and they sing better than the actual singer.
Speaker 3: But what y'all have to realize too, is like we
Speaker 3: don't know what that it factor is, but you either
Speaker 3: have it or you don't. That's why we see a
Speaker 3: lot of people. People can say all day up and down,
Speaker 3: use again, Britney Spears cannot sing, but she had that
Speaker 3: it factor, you know what I'm saying. Like people say
Speaker 3: the same. They say who else they be saying that
Speaker 3: about who can't sing?
Speaker 1: They say that about Beyonce, which I think is out.
Speaker 3: Now that's a little different. J Lo can't sing. But
Speaker 3: let me tell you what she can do. She can
Speaker 3: make a mom calm out her mother ass.
Speaker 1: Yeah she can because that was more of her calling, right,
Speaker 1: But you can't.
Speaker 3: But at the same time, but you can't say wedding bulgn.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: My song was if you my loving that day? Do
Speaker 1: y'all remember what I mean? She made head ellie.
Speaker 2: Remember she started off at the backup dancer on in
Speaker 2: Living Color.
Speaker 1: So she worked her way up.
Speaker 2: Into each of these different dancing to singing to acting.
Speaker 3: Yes she did, because her breakout thing was Selena and
Speaker 3: the lady that they were trying to cast for Selena.
Speaker 3: Something had happened with her. She didn't get casted, so
Speaker 3: it wasn't even supposed to be j Lo.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she ate that up. She that Selena rolled up.
Speaker 3: You know, they made a list of people who should
Speaker 3: have gotten oscars who didn't. They did no, no, they
Speaker 3: just didn't win. So Jyl was on there for Selena.
Speaker 3: Angela Bassett was on there for Tina Turner, Heath Ledger
Speaker 3: was on there for Broke Back Mountain.
Speaker 1: It was actually a.
Speaker 3: Really good list and I was surprised that these people
Speaker 3: didn't win. Yeah, Oscar for the role, but Jaylo definitely
Speaker 3: deserved Oscar for Selena.
Speaker 1: No, she ate that up. She really did.
Speaker 2: She did her because that was probably one of my
Speaker 2: faceite dude, hell, why are you making asks?
Speaker 1: That's what she would do because that's how so listen.
Speaker 3: They talked about j Loo doing that with her lips
Speaker 3: and poking her lips out like that.
Speaker 1: They're like she was doing too much.
Speaker 3: If you look up Selena singing, Selena used to do
Speaker 3: the same thing. I mean, Jlo studied down for that role.
Speaker 2: I mean it was like that was one of her
Speaker 2: best acting ms and made in Manhattan. Yeah, but I
Speaker 2: also liked enough. I feel like she did a really
Speaker 2: good job and enough.
Speaker 1: She was whooping up boy else she did.
Speaker 2: A really good job, like that was a very serious role,
Speaker 2: and I feel like she cuted like Jlo can really
Speaker 2: act to me, I feel like, and I don't feel
Speaker 2: like she can't sing, like I hate.
Speaker 3: She can catch a note, yeah, like I hate, but she.
Speaker 1: Can't say she can't sing.
Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, she can hold a little now,
Speaker 2: but it's a lot of people who just can hold
Speaker 2: an out. But I feel like that's where a lot
Speaker 2: of other things go into it as far as just
Speaker 2: having an eat factor, because I feel like even with
Speaker 2: her that was probably like okay, like she can't just sing,
Speaker 2: but she can hold, but she can hold a no,
Speaker 2: she beautiful, she can dim. She had so many other
Speaker 2: factors that it's like, Okay, this.
Speaker 1: Is a start.
Speaker 3: What do y'all think the IT factor is? Because nobody
Speaker 3: has ever defined it? What do y'all think it is?
Speaker 3: Because I don't think it could be defined, right.
Speaker 2: I think it's about your aura though, like people say,
Speaker 2: like if I come in a room, dang, you just
Speaker 2: like you change the energy and the energy, and I
Speaker 2: think it has a lot to do with that, and yeah,
Speaker 2: combining that with your skill, with like your motivation and stuff.
Speaker 1: Like that, I think it's yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean some people, like you just view them and
Speaker 3: you're like wow, yeah, like you're just mesmerized by their presence.
Speaker 1: Like some people, you know, just have that.
Speaker 3: And I see that a lot when I see people perform,
Speaker 3: and I'm just not an easily impressed person, but it
Speaker 3: be some people. I look at I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: she got like and I don't know what it is.
Speaker 3: I can never explain it. I can never explain it.
Speaker 3: I don't know.
Speaker 2: But y'all have it, like I would say, y'all have
Speaker 2: it like when I first met y'all, was like, oh okay,
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, I just think you know what I
Speaker 2: always say because I hate to be the bereau of
Speaker 2: bad news, but sometimes I just always feel like it
Speaker 2: just goes back into life just not being fair. I
Speaker 2: think that be like a tough reality that a lot
Speaker 2: of people don't want to accept. And that's why you
Speaker 2: can't really put a finger on what it is sometimes
Speaker 2: because it's just kind of like it was meant to
Speaker 2: be that way, like it was ordained, it was orchestrated
Speaker 2: that way.
Speaker 1: That's why it happened that way, versus I don't know.
Speaker 2: Some people, it just don't never happened for them, and
Speaker 2: I feel like, no matter how hard they try, how
Speaker 2: much work they put in, it just don't happen, and
Speaker 2: it just be you know, unfortunate, insad because life just
Speaker 2: is in.
Speaker 3: But I do feel like real talent always finds its way.
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be funny, No, because let me
Speaker 3: tell you why. Real talent finds its way. This is
Speaker 3: why I say this. Y'all know I always talk about bitch.
Speaker 3: I thought I was finna be the biggest rapper singer out.
Speaker 3: I used to go to the studio.
Speaker 1: I used to really be in the studio.
Speaker 3: Like we laughing because it's funny now, but I really
Speaker 3: thought I was finna be baby Beyonce.
Speaker 1: You couldn't tell me.
Speaker 3: I was like, this is what I'm supposed to do,
Speaker 3: and that was not my But I'm talented in other avenues,
Speaker 3: so I knew I was gonna be on stage. I
Speaker 3: don't know what I was gonna be on stage, No,
Speaker 3: I just didn't know what doing what.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: So I feel like real talent, if you're talented and
Speaker 3: whatever that may be, singing, dancing, writing, producing, you gonna find.
Speaker 1: Your way to where you need to be.
Speaker 3: So even though I wasn't on stage, I'm telling y'all,
Speaker 3: when I was little, me and my friend Jazmine.
Speaker 1: Shout out to Jazmine.
Speaker 3: I don't want to her last name because y'all be
Speaker 3: looking up people on Facebook and stuff. So me and
Speaker 3: Jazz and literally we used to sit in her living room,
Speaker 3: me and her and Lindsey, and they used to play
Speaker 3: like they were e news reporters and they used to
Speaker 3: interview me. Literally every time we would play this game,
Speaker 3: I would always be the star. So since I was little,
Speaker 3: I always would see myself on stage, but I didn't
Speaker 3: know what I was doing. Every time we would play
Speaker 3: this game, I would be like, oh, thank you so much,
Speaker 3: like I would always be thanking.
Speaker 1: Them for my work. I'm like, what am I doing?
Speaker 3: Though, But I'm saying I always saw myself on stage.
Speaker 1: I didn't know necessarily was gonna be a podcast, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I ended up on stage.
Speaker 3: So that's why I feel like, when you're really talented
Speaker 3: and it's ordained for you to share who you are
Speaker 3: with the world. Like one thing I take pride is
Speaker 3: that we make people feel good. Y'all can say what
Speaker 3: y'all want about our topics and what we talk about
Speaker 3: and what we do, but we make people feel good,
Speaker 3: and we needed to spread that to the world and
Speaker 3: give it to the world. So if your talent is
Speaker 3: supposed to be seen by the world, God gonna make
Speaker 3: sure that. That's why I said, real talent always gonna
Speaker 3: find his way.
Speaker 1: That's fair. You feel me, I feel you, okay, just
Speaker 1: making sure you feel me, you feel you know I
Speaker 1: I do have feel me out now, feel me out,
Speaker 1: feel me out now.
Speaker 2: I do have a different perspexive, but I do. I
Speaker 2: feel like that's fair.
Speaker 1: That's fair. Okay, okay, all right, let us know what
Speaker 1: y'all think.
Speaker 3: Do y'all feel like cloud is more important than talent,
Speaker 3: and our people with real talent, you know, often looked
Speaker 3: over for people.
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Speaker 3: So the bad topic for today is the wildest excuse
Speaker 3: you've used.
Speaker 1: To get out of bad sex.
Speaker 3: Now mm hmm. Have you ever been like mid stroke
Speaker 3: and you was thinking like how the hell do I
Speaker 3: get out of here? Or you know, like you take
Speaker 3: a phone call pretend like, you know, your period just hit.
Speaker 1: What do you do?
Speaker 3: Like, have you ever been like mid stroke? Would have
Speaker 3: me and you're like, this is not good, This is
Speaker 3: not good.
Speaker 2: I haven't never been midstroke and felt that way. But
Speaker 2: I definitely have had to lie to leave just because
Speaker 2: I don't want to be here no more, like I'm
Speaker 2: ready to go really go home. So I feel like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I definitely have had to lie to leave and act
Speaker 2: like I had to go do something.
Speaker 1: I've lied and said I've had emergency.
Speaker 2: I done lie on my mama, sorry.
Speaker 3: Mine, damn. I So you know what, for me, I've
Speaker 3: never made it like an excuse like get out of sex,
Speaker 3: but back in the day, I haven't done this in
Speaker 3: a very long time. But that's when I used to
Speaker 3: fake so he would hurry up and nut like I
Speaker 3: used to pretend like it was just feeling so good,
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my.
Speaker 1: Gosh, I'm about to come, oh.
Speaker 3: Just so it would make him hurry up so it
Speaker 3: would end quicker.
Speaker 4: Like.
Speaker 1: So, I've never.
Speaker 3: Actually made an excuse, but I feel like a lot
Speaker 3: of women do that. That goes into like the faking
Speaker 3: orgasms and faking conversations.
Speaker 1: I feel like people be faking so it can end.
Speaker 1: And see that's the thing, like, nah, I'm not doing it.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not doing that now, but in my younger years,
Speaker 3: in my early twenties.
Speaker 2: Even when I was younger. No, if it's bad, we're
Speaker 2: not having sex on my own. I'm not about to
Speaker 2: be faking like you need to figure this shit out
Speaker 2: or you need to go fuck with somebody else. I'm
Speaker 2: not about to be laying in bed faking with you
Speaker 2: the whole time over and over, like oh.
Speaker 1: No, not over.
Speaker 2: It's like if you went through it one time, then
Speaker 2: that's understandable. But it's like if you keep having bad
Speaker 2: sex with somebody and faking, that's what t is.
Speaker 3: Yeah, now I would say I've never done it to
Speaker 3: where it's like I keep doing it over and over again.
Speaker 3: But I can definitely remember times I had sex with
Speaker 3: somebody and I was faking it just so we would end.
Speaker 3: Why you ain't just tell them the moment because I
Speaker 3: didn't want to do I didn't want to do it
Speaker 3: no more, and I'm not gonna talk to you no more.
Speaker 1: That's even better. That's why it's like, move, get off me.
Speaker 3: I'm not a vibe killer. Now.
Speaker 1: The vibe already bad. Right, you're right, you're right.
Speaker 2: I mean, like was never there that clos into me
Speaker 2: just being young, like to be I'm not.
Speaker 3: He was, but that was me going into like you
Speaker 3: know back. I always talk about this, y'all. When we
Speaker 3: used to grow up. It would be magazines, Cosmopolitan magazine,
Speaker 3: how to make him come, how to make orgasm, how
Speaker 3: to be sexy in the bedroom.
Speaker 1: So growing up and viewing sex.
Speaker 3: I always looked at it like it's about the man
Speaker 3: and it's for the man. I never viewed sex as
Speaker 3: it's for me as well. So every time I was
Speaker 3: in the bedroom in my younger years, this is why
Speaker 3: I always say young people don't need to be having
Speaker 3: sex because.
Speaker 1: Y'all not teaching things.
Speaker 2: You don't properly understand what we're doing and what we're doing,
Speaker 2: what it really is.
Speaker 3: So yeah, absolutely, in my younger years, I used to
Speaker 3: feel like I have to perform. I was thinking, like,
Speaker 3: mister Elli a pussy, don't fail me. Now, I'm trying
Speaker 3: to turn this nigga out so he don't want nobody
Speaker 3: else but me and Nolan.
Speaker 1: Me. That's beautiful.
Speaker 3: No, it's not.
Speaker 1: That is no, it's not because you should not.
Speaker 2: I know, I agree, but I'm staying that's good kinda
Speaker 2: that you wanted to be a pleaser like that. I
Speaker 2: have personally always been a pillow o princess. I have
Speaker 2: always been a pillow princess. As I've gotten older, now
Speaker 2: I be like performing because I feel like, if you
Speaker 2: were in a relationship with your men, you should want
Speaker 2: to show out for your men, like I should want
Speaker 2: to go above and beyond for him. When I was
Speaker 2: younger in my relationships, it was like, no, what you
Speaker 2: gonna do for Big Mama?
Speaker 3: For real?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 3: I was never like I I'm like that now, my
Speaker 3: hands behind my head, like I'm like that now. But
Speaker 3: in my younger years, I.
Speaker 1: Was just like doing too much? Why because, like I said,
Speaker 1: doing like a reference, you know when.
Speaker 3: You faced down, ass up, you just doing too much,
Speaker 3: throwing that ass back and like, yeah, not knowing, I'm not,
Speaker 3: I don't feel nothing, I'm not. Oh it just.
Speaker 1: Like the herbal essences coming yes used to be me
Speaker 1: and what they used to be doing, like yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: meant nothing, I'm beating it up. And I used to
Speaker 1: be I would be like you actually not you actually
Speaker 1: not be.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying I was a performer, and that's
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I used to just make excuses.
Speaker 2: And was it because you wanted them to go around
Speaker 2: and like go tell people like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but go brag about that thing. How a week,
Speaker 1: go brag about it.
Speaker 3: Let me show you, Let me show you what that
Speaker 3: thing do. But now I don't care about that because
Speaker 3: if if you going around saying my coochie bag, it's
Speaker 3: because you didn't give.
Speaker 1: Me what it is. Yes, it's because you didn't do
Speaker 1: what you needed to do, right right, that's getting here.
Speaker 3: In my younger years, I used to going to love
Speaker 3: and beyond my means.
Speaker 1: But you know, I was a waitress at TGI Friday.
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Let me tell you, you got
Speaker 1: to give good service.
Speaker 3: Okay, they take two cents to they struck the lemonade.
Speaker 1: I'm back with a ref Yeah. You know what I'm saying. Okay,
Speaker 1: they potato.
Speaker 3: Skins could be warm, but they're not hot.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Instead of going take the ones away and just giving
Speaker 3: you four more, I'm giving you a whole new batch.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: That's great, though, but I feel like that speaks volumes
Speaker 2: about you know, you as a person, because that's it's
Speaker 2: just so funny to me when you tell me these stuff,
Speaker 2: because I just think about how how we were in
Speaker 2: the same settings and how.
Speaker 1: It was just so different.
Speaker 2: When I used to wait trees, I used to be
Speaker 2: checking on people every thirty minis, oh.
Speaker 1: Right up, facts, because I hated that job.
Speaker 2: I had one real waitressing job, like working at like
Speaker 2: a restaurant and bar wire. I used to actually have
Speaker 2: to serve food, you know, Foxing Hounding.
Speaker 1: Yes, I remember when you worked there.
Speaker 2: Me and my best friend Jazzmine, we had just got
Speaker 2: like some little temp jobs in the summer, like temporary
Speaker 2: little jobs working as waitresses at these popping sports bar
Speaker 2: in Houston, and I just hated it old fucking much. Yes,
Speaker 2: I used to be in a bag eating fries on
Speaker 2: my phone, just babing, come check on people every thirty mens,
Speaker 2: And I feel like.
Speaker 1: You know, it was the same thing. Get me, well,
Speaker 1: I was not trying.
Speaker 2: To be I was not trying to go I was
Speaker 2: not trying to go above and be on because even
Speaker 2: not to be funny, but even when I was younger,
Speaker 2: I will say these like I felt like when I.
Speaker 1: Was younger, I was like I just know my coochie good.
Speaker 2: I could just stay, I could just lay here like
Speaker 2: I don't have to do nothing because I know it's good,
Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna do the most unless you make
Speaker 2: me feel.
Speaker 1: Like I gotta do them all right right.
Speaker 3: I feel like, like I said, it was just me
Speaker 3: just doing the moment. Yeah, And then, like I said,
Speaker 3: I would make excuses, but I would not one thing.
Speaker 3: I was good at my younger years. I would cut
Speaker 3: them off. Yeah, I wasn't like always let me go
Speaker 3: back and let me try to.
Speaker 2: No, we not.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna get out of it. I'm gonna I'm gonna
Speaker 3: do the most and I'm performing because I know I
Speaker 3: did my.
Speaker 1: Part, and then I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: But you know what, I do kind of regret that
Speaker 3: because I feel like there's men still to this day
Speaker 3: that be talking to people and be like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: I used to talk to her.
Speaker 1: I was nineteen. I'm forty six.
Speaker 2: I'm weak because I know somebody that you was talking about.
Speaker 2: It's one person that came to mind when you said it. Oh,
Speaker 2: we always talk about him. One person that be still
Speaker 2: telling people that he used to fuck with you.
Speaker 3: I don't know who it is, but maybe they burning heir.
Speaker 1: Who Oh my god, and he won't stop.
Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, especially when them clips went viral recently.
Speaker 1: Oh for real, Yes, how.
Speaker 4: Do you know?
Speaker 1: Because they told me somebody said so.
Speaker 3: He said yes, and it was around a girl that
Speaker 3: he didn't even know that I knew.
Speaker 1: He was like, Oh, that's my old bitch. You go
Speaker 1: to school. Oh my god.
Speaker 2: Now it really be disgusting, though serious, when you really
Speaker 2: see like and think about some of the people that
Speaker 2: she used to date, like people that.
Speaker 1: Dudes that I dated when I was like.
Speaker 2: Eighteen and twenty and twenty three, I just be like,
Speaker 2: what my god, I am repulsed.
Speaker 3: And that's why we always tell the younger girls that
Speaker 3: are like least the lengthy that are going through a breakup.
Speaker 3: I promise you, if you're watching this show and you're
Speaker 3: between the ages of eighteen to twenty eight, your type
Speaker 3: is going to change. By the time you hit thirty one,
Speaker 3: thirty two, thirty three, your type is going to change.
Speaker 1: That heartbreak. You are literally going to laugh and you
Speaker 1: gonna look back at them niggas and be like, y'all
Speaker 1: are some loser.
Speaker 2: Oh why was I there? I was not saying about one.
Speaker 2: And don't get me wrong, not everyone, because I have
Speaker 2: some guys that I used to Yeah, I have some
Speaker 2: guys that I used to date. They they cool and
Speaker 2: they doing great things.
Speaker 1: But like.
Speaker 2: I just be like, what the fuck was I thinking?
Speaker 2: And what the fuck was I doing?
Speaker 1: That one? I wasn't even thinking about him.
Speaker 2: That's who I always think about because I know he
Speaker 2: be still doing it. She he lame, all right, let's
Speaker 2: meet me acting like a hy n He looked.
Speaker 3: Like one too. I don't know about why is being
Speaker 3: skinny and teddy? Oh I told you mean he's still young.
Speaker 3: I was just saying.
Speaker 1: I just say all that he's as.
Speaker 3: That's how I know I'm blessed God, don't play everybody
Speaker 3: who did me wrong?
Speaker 1: What's slim said? Color purple curse. I feel like that's
Speaker 1: why I still look good too.
Speaker 2: Everybody who did me wrong. I sucked up all, sucked
Speaker 2: it up, fucked that youth out. And that's why I
Speaker 2: say I love being a good woman.
Speaker 3: I love being a good woman and the woman who
Speaker 3: can walk away. It's always gonna be me moving on
Speaker 3: okay them other week.
Speaker 2: Of course, I'm sorry, y'all. I was trying to sit
Speaker 2: my little drink. You drink you would think it, I know,
Speaker 2: you would think it's a liquid. Well, this is the
Speaker 2: thing for me. I feel like all I do is
Speaker 2: drink water. Like with me doing my challenge, all I'm
Speaker 2: all I drink every single day is water. And like myself,
Speaker 2: I'll do a protein smoothie, but I really.
Speaker 1: As like a meal though.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'll do a protein smoothie, but outside of
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Speaker 1: To please over there? What was that dance called the shoulder?
Speaker 1: What is this rock with it?
Speaker 2: That's what I was over there and my white gh.
Speaker 1: Look at way back. My bop of the week is Lucky.
Speaker 1: But I'm just playing my bop of the week this week.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: I was very skeptical about this artist when she first
Speaker 3: came out, because I was like, mm, Now I'm still
Speaker 3: a little skeptical because I'm like, is she kind of
Speaker 3: like biting off of Sizza and biting off of the
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 1: The community. But I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 3: She dropped another song and it's actually for her so
Speaker 3: sailor do y'all remember she had that song I Hope
Speaker 3: You're happy?
Speaker 1: Got you a menie me? Bet you mean yes?
Speaker 3: But she has another song called cut up Okay, and
Speaker 3: it's so good.
Speaker 1: It is so good I.
Speaker 3: Am the The jury is still out on her, Like
Speaker 3: I said, I want to see if she's in it
Speaker 3: to win it, because a lot of times we see
Speaker 3: these artists, they come out, they sound like another artist,
Speaker 3: and they don't last too long. But I will say,
Speaker 3: for me, this is really the second song by her
Speaker 3: that I've jammed and I've listened to.
Speaker 1: She's two for two of me. I'm not mad, so
Speaker 1: cut up by Sailor. That's my bop. Go ahead.
Speaker 2: My bop this week is Pushed to Start by Tyler.
Speaker 2: By Tyler, So, I've already really really liked that song
Speaker 2: ever since he came out. But she just came out
Speaker 2: with a remix feature in Sean Shanda Paul and shout
Speaker 2: out to Sean Paul as a sun falling Okay, exp
Speaker 2: is Sean Paul and Tyler. This song Seana and Tyler.
Speaker 2: So that is my vibe. I love this song, y'all.
Speaker 2: Y'all should check it out if y'all haven't heard it.
Speaker 2: I feel like Tyala has done a really good job.
Speaker 1: She's a start, she is. I agree. I think she
Speaker 1: just needs a little word. May be saying she the next.
Speaker 2: Riana, Hold your horses that but too early, hold your
Speaker 2: that's fair, it's too early.
Speaker 1: But I do think she's very talented, and I do
Speaker 1: think she's a start.
Speaker 3: So now you know they used to do that with
Speaker 3: Arianna Grande and Mariah Darry you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2: So I ain't mad at that comparison though, but I
Speaker 2: will say Tyler is a star. I think she needs
Speaker 2: to work a little bit on her public speaking because
Speaker 2: sometimes she I think she gets nervous in situations when
Speaker 2: people ask her something crazy. I mean, she still she
Speaker 2: doesn't know how to respond, like Meghan. There was a
Speaker 2: recent incident where the lady on the Oscar carpet was like,
Speaker 2: I listened.
Speaker 3: To Meghan the Stallions music, and it makes me want
Speaker 3: to fight.
Speaker 1: What song of Megan's makes you want to fight? You know?
Speaker 3: They always look at black women like we just going
Speaker 3: around punching.
Speaker 1: People in the face.
Speaker 3: So everybody has been on her ass about it, but
Speaker 3: Meghan just carried it with such great She was like,
Speaker 3: no girl, bad, YadA yadi. It makes you feel cute,
Speaker 3: it makes you feel beautiful. Now, if she would have
Speaker 3: said Mona Leo, Mona Leo will make you smack a beach,
Speaker 3: she do. Now.
Speaker 1: If it would have been.
Speaker 3: Car Yeah, if it would have been a Mona Leo,
Speaker 3: I would have said, you know what, yeah, Mona Leo
Speaker 3: music do make you want to fight a little bit,
Speaker 3: But Meghan, Meghan is not a fighter. Turn up, get
Speaker 3: cute you a baddie.
Speaker 1: I got good.
Speaker 3: Kouchie music, so I think Megan is good at handling
Speaker 3: awkward situations on the carpet.
Speaker 1: So I want Tyler to get there. But Tala is
Speaker 1: a star body tea.
Speaker 3: She can wear high fashion, cute girl, he can sing. Yes,
Speaker 3: she has all the factors. So that's a good it is,
Speaker 3: that's a good bob shunned up all, come sing with
Speaker 3: them on the list.
Speaker 1: Y'all is never settled.
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Speaker 2: so oh, I.
Speaker 3: Gotta start sorry, all right. I dated this guy I
Speaker 3: met at work for four months. He understood me and
Speaker 3: loved things about me that I never imagined a guy
Speaker 3: would be so attentive to. I admired him a lot too.
Speaker 3: From the beginning. He was honest that he was a
Speaker 3: few months out of a long relationship with his kid's
Speaker 3: mother and that he wasn't in.
Speaker 1: A place to date seriously. But he really liked me.
Speaker 3: It got to a point to where he felt it
Speaker 3: was irresponsible to keep going because our feelings were progressing
Speaker 3: and he didn't want to hurt me more. Later on,
Speaker 3: we stopped talking, and when I see him around, he
Speaker 3: does not speak to me. I know it's not personal personal,
Speaker 3: he just doesn't want to drag this along. We can't
Speaker 3: talk casually without wanting more. We had a special connection
Speaker 3: and I never felt like this.
Speaker 1: Before, and that Dick was so fire. How can I
Speaker 1: move on?
Speaker 3: I feel heartbroken even though it was a short amount
Speaker 3: of time.
Speaker 2: I feel like this should make it even easier to
Speaker 2: move on because it was a short amount of time.
Speaker 1: And then she said he don't speak to her when
Speaker 1: she sees him.
Speaker 2: Girl, move on, because I feel like the least somebody
Speaker 2: could do is speak to you. I agree, like, so
Speaker 2: this is what I don't say, and he just act
Speaker 2: like you don't exist. I feel like he doesn't care,
Speaker 2: Like the feelings for you are still there, but the
Speaker 2: feelings for him are not there. And that would be
Speaker 2: enough for me to just be like, good readings, I'm
Speaker 2: done with you because you you not worried about me.
Speaker 2: I think sometimes you have to force yourself to move
Speaker 2: on when you realize that somebody is not worried about it.
Speaker 3: Not worried about because also, I will say this, men
Speaker 3: will say men are hot and cold, right, so they'll be.
Speaker 1: Like, oh, I love you, you mean so much to me.
Speaker 3: We have feelings. And then they'll be like, hey, I
Speaker 3: don't want to hurt you. I'm not the man for you.
Speaker 3: We need to separate.
Speaker 1: But guess what.
Speaker 3: Don't listen to nothing, they say, Listen to their actions.
Speaker 1: Are his actions matching.
Speaker 3: That he loves you and that he feels you and
Speaker 3: that he wants to be with you? Are his actions
Speaker 3: matching that he don't want to be with you, He's
Speaker 3: not ready for a relationship. He told you what it was,
Speaker 3: and not only that, his actions are matching what's on
Speaker 3: this side. So pay attention to the action. Do not
Speaker 3: listen to words when it comes to men. I'm telling
Speaker 3: you that, and this is me being honest. Do not
Speaker 3: listen to words, because a man will drag you through
Speaker 3: the dirt and then he'll come back and be like, oh, no,
Speaker 3: I love you, I love you, I care about you,
Speaker 3: I care about you. Then two days later he acting
Speaker 3: an ass. Show me I need to see it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I'm not listening. I don't care because the words sounds
Speaker 3: so good. Look at William Shakespeare what he did to
Speaker 3: be or.
Speaker 2: Not to be, and well, if we being completely honest,
Speaker 2: I don't even think that applies any situation because it
Speaker 2: ain't no words.
Speaker 1: He's not saying nothing to you. He not even saying
Speaker 1: high worse.
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. The actions match, but I was
Speaker 3: saying the words because of what he told her prior. Oh,
Speaker 3: our feelings are progressing too much.
Speaker 1: I can't do this. I can't listen to that. A'm
Speaker 1: paying attention to that.
Speaker 2: But the thing is his actions is following that, right,
Speaker 2: It's not like he giving you mixed signals. Like he said,
Speaker 2: he feels like it's progressing too quickly, and now he
Speaker 2: acting like you don't exist. I think that you should
Speaker 2: just move on. It would be different if he said
Speaker 2: that and then when he see you, y'all are still
Speaker 2: gazing yeah eyes or he's giving you any type of
Speaker 2: hope that you know it could be something, but he
Speaker 2: not giving you no hope.
Speaker 1: He giving you nothing. And I always say, do a
Speaker 1: thirty day. De talks thirty days.
Speaker 3: Don't look at his social media, don't look at his stories,
Speaker 3: don't call him, don't text him, completely no contact for
Speaker 3: thirty days. You will literally not know the exis this
Speaker 3: anymore fiercely? So do a full detox chap all right, Drea?
Speaker 1: Question number two?
Speaker 2: Okay, question number two, Hey, Drea and Lex, I love
Speaker 2: y'all so much and hope y'all see this. I'm twenty
Speaker 2: one and I've been with my boyfriend for six years.
Speaker 2: We're high school sweethearts and he's my first for everything
Speaker 2: over the years. I've naturally gained some weight since high school,
Speaker 2: but he constantly brings it up in a negative way
Speaker 2: during arguments. He makes comments that make me feel insecure
Speaker 2: and it hurts because I've never made him feel bad
Speaker 2: about his appearance.
Speaker 1: Lately, he's been mean.
Speaker 2: Starts fights out of nowhere, and acts like he doesn't
Speaker 2: care about my feelings.
Speaker 1: I do everything for him, but he never acknowledges it.
Speaker 2: I don't nag or hold things in, I communicate, but
Speaker 2: he still makes me feel unappreciated. I know he's not cheating,
Speaker 2: I've checked, but sometimes I wonder if he wants to
Speaker 2: step out and see what's out there. He wasn't always
Speaker 2: like this, but after high school he changed. Honestly, I'm
Speaker 2: tired of getting I'm tired of feeling disrespected and unvalued.
Speaker 1: Should I leave or keep trying? Please help God, don't
Speaker 1: bless no mess. I feel like you should leave. You
Speaker 1: should leave.
Speaker 3: You're too young. And one thing about it, I feel like,
Speaker 3: like I always say, I am a strong believer, believer
Speaker 3: in the let them theory.
Speaker 1: You gotta let people do them. So sometimes you have
Speaker 1: to walk away from.
Speaker 3: A situation and you'll see what a person really wants.
Speaker 3: If you walk away from a person, man or a woman,
Speaker 3: and they fight for you, they're doing the effort, they're
Speaker 3: getting the they're changing, they're really showing up for you.
Speaker 3: That's a person that really wants to.
Speaker 1: Be with you.
Speaker 3: But if you walk away from somebody and they just
Speaker 3: they're okay with it, they're okay with your absence, that
Speaker 3: ain't the person for you. I truly believe that one
Speaker 3: day all the good men and all the good women
Speaker 3: will find each other and just be together.
Speaker 1: You know how old the earth is. Come on now,
Speaker 1: I don't know if this okay. Come on now. We
Speaker 1: gotta keep it positive. But we've been here for a while.
Speaker 3: And but I will say that it's okay to walk
Speaker 3: away from things that no longer serve you.
Speaker 1: And if you're what are.
Speaker 3: Sometimes we have to ask ourselves, like what are what
Speaker 3: am I walking away from? You're walking away from somebody
Speaker 3: who makes you feel unattractive, who makes you feel unloved?
Speaker 1: Walk away because you know what.
Speaker 3: I was in a relationship before a while, a long
Speaker 3: time ago, and I was gaining a weight, and we
Speaker 3: started going to the gym together. That's what a real
Speaker 3: man gonna do. Hey, baby, let's go work out together.
Speaker 3: You know, we both gained a little way. I always say,
Speaker 3: it's not about what you say, it's how you say it.
Speaker 3: So I think that this is a young man who
Speaker 3: probably does want to be outside because if y'all, y'all
Speaker 3: are probably the same age. But she said six years
Speaker 3: y'all were high school sweethearts, So y'all are the same age.
Speaker 1: Girl, that man gotta grow and so do you. Yeah, Sez,
Speaker 1: I feel like you should just let he go.
Speaker 2: Y'all are young, you gonna find somebody else, And I
Speaker 2: feel like that's unhealthy, Like no matter what age.
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all are young.
Speaker 2: But I feel like if he always peeking at you
Speaker 2: and saying niggaive stuff about your appearance, that's not something
Speaker 2: that I see changing, you know, I feel like it's
Speaker 2: just gonna get worse and progress as y'all get older,
Speaker 2: because that's not the way to motivate somebody to want
Speaker 2: to lose weight. If he wants you to lose weight,
Speaker 2: or if he feel like, oh, you don't put on
Speaker 2: a few pounds, like Lick said, maybe go Maybe y'all
Speaker 2: should go to the gym together. Maybe he should offer
Speaker 2: to go on walks and stuff with you. Maybe he
Speaker 2: should offer for y'all to like meal prep together and
Speaker 2: eat healthier and y'all be accountability partners.
Speaker 1: If that's something that he's good at and you're not.
Speaker 2: I feel like picking at somebody and talking shit about
Speaker 2: they appearance is not the way to motivate them to
Speaker 2: do anything. And if he doing it now is twenty one,
Speaker 2: he gonna keep doing it as y'all relationship continues to
Speaker 2: go on, because that's just a negative characteristic that a
Speaker 2: person has. Yeah, I think you young. I'm sure you're beautiful.
Speaker 2: You have a lot ahead of you in life, because
Speaker 2: twenty one is so young, so young, So yeah, he
Speaker 2: o high school, sweet Harbor girl. It's more out there,
Speaker 2: and it's men out there that are gonna love you
Speaker 2: the way you are currently. And if you do want
Speaker 2: to lose weight, is men out there that are going
Speaker 2: to motivate you in a much more positive and loving
Speaker 2: way to do so.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I agree with one thousand percent.
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Speaker 1: I don't can dance tonight. I want to so tonight.
Speaker 3: I'll spend my.
Speaker 2: Money tonight, my money, money tonight, spend my.
Speaker 1: Money, yes tonight. I wanna tonight free tonight, baby yeah,
Speaker 1: I kind of eight man shout out to Lucy power.
Speaker 1: This weekends so long.
Speaker 3: This I was.
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Speaker 1: My body don't know how right there. I see you
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Speaker 1: lost in the crowd. This place is.
Speaker 2: So damn wild. Go ahead and fly show ice, go
Speaker 2: ahead to what you like. I'm feeling just as flies.
Speaker 2: Oh you hear your sons, and I.
Speaker 3: Wonna dance tonight. I wonna toast tonight. I'll spend my
Speaker 3: money tonight. I spend my money tonight.
Speaker 1: I spend my bonny, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Tonight, I wanna toast tonight, tonight money tonight, freaky tonight.
Speaker 1: Freaking you was already, but my money said my money,
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