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Speaker 2: I'm beating it up and I used to be I

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Speaker 4: Go brag about it?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Y'all's show girl Alex Pete and it's your girl draining

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Speaker 3: Are tuned in to another episode of poor.

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Speaker 1: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: We ain't got no gifts today, we ain't got no

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Speaker 1: I mean, And lately we've been having a lot of

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Speaker 3: what do we know you on y'all what you're doing hard?

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Speaker 1: Seventy five? Seventy five? Are I am? I am still

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Speaker 3: Of people's podcasts and I'm gonna tell y'all, this energy

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Speaker 1: That's they used to play together. That was before my time.

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 1: Gas? Set up our girl? You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: I have wait, I have a song that I don't.

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Speaker 2: I think that's the perception that people can have, and

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Speaker 1: Life isn't there.

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Speaker 2: So how do you feel about the concept of being lucky,

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Speaker 2: To me, it's definitely like what you said, it's some

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Speaker 3: And a lot of people, I hate to say this,

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Speaker 3: But that's why I'm not gonna lie to you. I'm

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Speaker 3: But I would rather have the skill and the opportunity

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Speaker 2: they never. I do believe in never saying never though,

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Speaker 2: I do believe in that because you just never know

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Speaker 2: But I don't think I would ever be a person

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Speaker 2: because I know what to do with I'm gonna figure

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Speaker 1: God right, I agree. Do you remember a song Lucky

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Speaker 3: See talking about that.

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00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,520
Speaker 1: As soon as she asked the question, I was over

440
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:18,080
Speaker 1: here singing it.

441
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: She akes up, there's a knock, knock knock on the do.

442
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,880
Speaker 2: And see we could do we But I don't know.

443
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 2: I cannot believe.

444
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:29,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

445
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,479
Speaker 3: Lucky Lucky was a story and I think it was

446
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 3: like Britney Spear, the girl's name was Lucky and she

447
00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 3: was like a Hollywood star. Yeah, like Brittany played the

448
00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 3: character in the music video and the girl's name was Lucky,

449
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 3: and she was like a Hollywood star. But you know

450
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,920
Speaker 3: all that glitters that ain't gold. You know what I'm saying.

451
00:21:48,560 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 3: It was a it's such a good song.

452
00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 2: Shout out to my girl, brit Yeah, they don't you

453
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,560
Speaker 2: know she likes to dance.

454
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 3: In them panties And we're gonna talk about it every week,

455
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:58,840
Speaker 3: But she really gave us some box do we not

456
00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 3: gonna talk about it every week?

457
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 2: Actually, this probably would be the last time, if I'm

458
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 2: being completely hony. What you think about lucky girl syndrome, Well,

459
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 2: to quote the great Queen Oki manad period, no, I'm

460
00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:16,639
Speaker 2: not lucky. I'm blessed, yes, but no, for real, I

461
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:19,680
Speaker 2: agree with you on the three categories. I would change

462
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:23,199
Speaker 2: blessed to lucky for me because that's just me and

463
00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:27,840
Speaker 2: my spirituality. But I do agree that opportunity meets preparation

464
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 2: and that leads to like everything that you need, but

465
00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:32,879
Speaker 2: also what you put into the universe comes back to

466
00:22:32,920 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 2: you putting out that good energy, setting those manifestations, affirmations

467
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,200
Speaker 2: and intentions. That is really the motivation to kind of

468
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 2: keep going through it, right, Yeah, I agree with that.

469
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 2: I definitely think that what you get, like, what you

470
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 2: get out of life is a product of like what

471
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 2: you put in like depending on what type of partson

472
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 2: you are. I feel like sometimes that's why people be

473
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 2: feeling unlucky if I'm being honest, like you feel like

474
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,440
Speaker 2: fucked up shit always happening to you, or you feel

475
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:00,600
Speaker 2: like you don't have good look because what are you

476
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:01,160
Speaker 2: putting out?

477
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

478
00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:06,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I'm always going out into the world

479
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,000
Speaker 2: treating people how I want to be treated, right.

480
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 1: I don't do bad by people.

481
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,320
Speaker 2: I always try to do good by everybody, even if

482
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 2: situations don't work out. I'm not even like a getback person.

483
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 2: I feel like life's gonna get you back. God gonna

484
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: get you bad. God be doing all of my Yeah,

485
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 2: I don't have to worry about those things.

486
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:23,760
Speaker 1: I just move on with my life.

487
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 2: And I feel like, because I've always been that type

488
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:29,760
Speaker 2: of person, that's why blessings look as you know, some

489
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 2: people might want to call it flows into my life

490
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 2: all the time because it's about what you put out.

491
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:35,959
Speaker 1: Some people are terrible fucking people.

492
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,760
Speaker 2: And then they wonder why, and if I'm really being honest,

493
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,640
Speaker 2: people who bad stuff always be happening too, I kind

494
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: of just do always look at them and be like I.

495
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 1: Stupumping at myself.

496
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, because why is something bad always happening?

497
00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,879
Speaker 1: And why are you always going through it? Why?

498
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 2: And especially when it be situations that I feel like

499
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: sometimes are like avoidable, you know what I mean? But

500
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:02,040
Speaker 2: you always going through something? You the common denominator. You're

501
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: not unlucky. It's just about the decisions and actions that

502
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 2: you be making.

503
00:24:05,680 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 1: That's why your life is going the way.

504
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 3: So I do want to make a point to what

505
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,480
Speaker 3: Ta said, because she said she will change lucky and blessed,

506
00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 3: cause I feel like, no, I'm not lucky because when

507
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 3: I look at luck, I look at like a once

508
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 3: in a lifetime opportunity happening that don't happen to me.

509
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 3: I'm not lucky, Like I'm not lucky at all, a

510
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 3: lottery Yeah, stuff like I never just like walk across

511
00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:29,440
Speaker 3: the mall, the man be like, oh, let me come

512
00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 3: by you with you now. I'm not lucky, Like I'm

513
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 3: not lucky. My shit be fucked up. It's never me,

514
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,560
Speaker 3: It's never me. But when it comes to blessings. Now,

515
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 3: now I am extremely blessed, like my blessings literally overflow.

516
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:48,959
Speaker 3: So I do think it is I don't think you can, Like,

517
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 3: I see what you're saying about interchanging lucky and blessed,

518
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:53,840
Speaker 3: but I don't think that that's the same thing, because

519
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: I feel like luck is something like it's a chance happening,

520
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 3: and it can happen to anybody. It can happen to

521
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 3: the worst fucking person in the world. Blessings don't happen

522
00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 3: to good people. That's how I feel. Luck can happen

523
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 3: to the fucking level.

524
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 1: Blessings don't happen to bed.

525
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry. Blessings don't happen to bad people. Luck

526
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 3: can happen to the worst person. The worst person you

527
00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 3: know can hit the lottery tomorrow, the worst person you

528
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 3: know could get something like a random viral moment and

529
00:25:19,920 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 3: you see them on TV everywhere and see.

530
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:25,280
Speaker 2: That's why I do feel like they're interchangeable. Because blessings

531
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 2: don't always come from God neither. It depends on if

532
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 2: you really want to get deep into the spiritual bag.

533
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:33,520
Speaker 2: Sometimes blessings don't be coming from Him, they coming from

534
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 2: other places.

535
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: Yep.

536
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: I think everybody can get blessings. I do feel like

537
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,800
Speaker 2: they're interchangeable. I agree with you. I think look and

538
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 2: blessings are interchangeable because I think even with blessings, people

539
00:25:43,400 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: can sometimes look at your blessings and be like, oh

540
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: my god, that's a once in a lifetime opportunity. I

541
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 2: could never see something like that happening for me. It

542
00:25:50,680 --> 00:25:55,119
Speaker 2: just depends on people's perspective in their religious background, because

543
00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 2: some people are not religious, so they gonna look at

544
00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: it like, oh, this person is just lucky. But I

545
00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 2: definitely think that they're interchangeable. And I think for those

546
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: that feel like, like, think about blessings more than luck,

547
00:26:07,359 --> 00:26:09,919
Speaker 2: they're not really worried about luck either, because we're not

548
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 2: searching for that once in a life right because everything

549
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: we know that everything that's gonna come to us is

550
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:16,920
Speaker 2: far better good and it's alignment, you know what I mean.

551
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's kind of people look at

552
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: it both ways, right, right. I think for me, I'm

553
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 2: I'm blessed. I feel that way too. I definitely feel

554
00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 2: like it be blessings and look though. That's why I said,

555
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 2: I do feel like they're interchangeable because certain stuff that

556
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 2: have happened to me is definitely just it was a

557
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:36,800
Speaker 2: blessing from God because I feel this way. I feel

558
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,199
Speaker 2: like nothing in your life is going to happen unless

559
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 2: God wants it to happen. You a believer, if you

560
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,919
Speaker 2: really believe in God, then it's like everything that you

561
00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 2: get is coming from him. It's all coming from Him,

562
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,480
Speaker 2: and it wouldn't have happened if He wanted to happen.

563
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 2: So I definitely feel like, Okay, this was a blessed,

564
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 2: it was luck, but it only happened because God allowed.

565
00:26:57,320 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 3: It to happen, right, And I agree with you on

566
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 3: that because because God will really try to guide you

567
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 3: if you pay attention, because like you said, blessings cannot

568
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 3: all blessings can be something that comes coming from another place. Yeah,

569
00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,760
Speaker 3: so if you're not right, so if you pay attention

570
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,880
Speaker 3: to God's guidance, he gonna guide you the right way

571
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,679
Speaker 3: that you're supposed to be going every time, so you'll know, Okay,

572
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,119
Speaker 3: is this a blessing or is this something that's you know,

573
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,719
Speaker 3: shit covered and glitter a lesson, a lesson?

574
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

575
00:27:30,119 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 3: So I definitely do agree with you on that. But

576
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 3: like I said, I feel like when I think about

577
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:39,640
Speaker 3: like me being unlucky, like I said, I just don't

578
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 3: feel like things happen for me like oh, a viral moment,

579
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 3: and it's just like, oh, I'm on TV because you

580
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:47,720
Speaker 3: see some people who go viral. Next thing, you know,

581
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 3: they on the red carpet at the Oscars doing interviews

582
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 3: like the stuff like that.

583
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: You know, don't really like if.

584
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 3: We get on the Oscars and we interview and it's because, nigga,

585
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 3: we've been fucking working for six years to get there,

586
00:27:58,760 --> 00:27:59,360
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

587
00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: So I guess that's what I mean.

588
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,239
Speaker 3: But I can't. I can say I'm blessed. But that's

589
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 3: an interesting that wasn't even the topic.

590
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean because the way I look at

591
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,600
Speaker 2: it too, is like sometimes a person will do something

592
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,400
Speaker 2: and it will go viral, but they've been.

593
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:14,879
Speaker 1: Hustling for a long time.

594
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:17,440
Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes even with these people who

595
00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:20,199
Speaker 2: will finally go viral, they've been doing that shit for

596
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: a long time, Like that that influencer that had that

597
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: classy very classy. Yes, they Lebron had been doing content

598
00:28:31,920 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 2: for a really, really long time. So it's kind of like,

599
00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: is that look like, yeah, it took him out of

600
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 2: there or her out of there.

601
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:39,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what they go by.

602
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 2: But like it took them out of there, but they

603
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:44,040
Speaker 2: have been putting the work in.

604
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so it's like, can you really call that look?

605
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 3: Well, not with that person particularly, but like if you

606
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:50,880
Speaker 3: think of like a bad baby, but she.

607
00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 1: Said catch me outside.

608
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 3: How about that she was on Doctor Phild being a

609
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 3: badass white girl and then she but what she did,

610
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: but it took that look and she turn it into

611
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 3: an opportunity. So you know, that's what I'm saying. It's

612
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 3: a difference between that versus the hot tour girl. She

613
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 3: had the opportunity to make it into something that she

614
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: didn't because she didn't have the skill to me personally,

615
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

616
00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: I mean that's why I don't. I don't know who

617
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: that is. Yeah, exactly, exactly, That's what I'm saying, Like.

618
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 3: That, what do these people know who she is? If

619
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 3: they watching? Yeah, you know, I like to get into

620
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,040
Speaker 3: this news sometimes.

621
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 2: Because sometimes I feel like, yeah, if no, if it

622
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 2: was a big moment like that, everybody should know about it.

623
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 3: Well this is the thing though, so what's crazy about it?

624
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 3: Is that be the difference between like mainstream media because

625
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: it was very mainstream, but the.

626
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: Things that get mainstream.

627
00:29:43,280 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 3: Is this like they gonna talk about it all Like

628
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: I said, I'm not kidding. It was everywhere and when

629
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 3: was this was this? Like yeah, it was like what

630
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 3: last year or maybe the year before last? And then

631
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 3: she started a podcast, she signed with barstool.

632
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 1: It was like a whole big fiend. What happened to

633
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: her pocket?

634
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,120
Speaker 3: I think she just stopped it because something happened where

635
00:30:05,160 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 3: she started, not a bitcoin. She got into something with

636
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 3: bitcoin and told what everybody to invest and then she

637
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 3: ended up pulling out. So it's like a whole bunch

638
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 3: of legal stuff she's.

639
00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: Going through right now.

640
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 3: But she's like in hiatus right now basically, So either

641
00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 3: way it goes, like I said, But a lot of

642
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: that blessing and opportunity and luck stuff that we go into,

643
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 3: that's another topic that we talked about before. It's different

644
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 3: for this than it is for this too. At the

645
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 3: same time, you know what I'm saying.

646
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,440
Speaker 1: That's that's definitely a fair argument, because I mean, it

647
00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:37,200
Speaker 1: is what it is.

648
00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: We just have to work a little harder for things

649
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 2: that they don't have to work as hard.

650
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 1: For right, right, right.

651
00:30:43,360 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 3: But I do think lucky girl syndrome is a thing.

652
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:47,920
Speaker 3: I think some people really just are lucky.

653
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, because I just.

654
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 2: You know, how I be feeling about these topics. I

655
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 2: just always kind of feel like sometimes it just really

656
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 2: be about what you do, though, like what you do

657
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 2: with your life and the type of person that you are,

658
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Speaker 2: because I don't necessarily think that I believe that anybody

659
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Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm saying. That's the difference for me.

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Speaker 3: I think if somebody has blessings in their life, that's

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Speaker 3: because they're putting good in the world and they're getting

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Speaker 1: I feel like blessings only.

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Speaker 3: Happen to the blessed. Okay, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Like chance, yes, like yes, fifty chance whatever, right, right.

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Speaker 3: So I guess that's what I'm saying. Like, like I said,

671
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Speaker 3: I don't feel I'm lucky at all, because not because

672
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Speaker 3: I'm a bad person, just because I don't.

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Speaker 1: Luck don't be on my side for some reason.

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Speaker 3: But blessings, oh baby, God don't show up for me

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Speaker 3: every time when it comes to the blessing time. All right,

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Speaker 1: It's good. I'm almost good. I'm glad you like it. So,

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Speaker 1: since we're like into the spring, spring gets sprung.

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Speaker 2: We're talking about blessings and luck and opportunity. This one

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686
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Speaker 1: Eight, on the People Who keep everything.

742
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Speaker 3: My sister is like that, and she had a time

743
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Speaker 3: capsule from high school. Real I wish I would have

744
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Speaker 3: had something like that, a time capsule.

745
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Speaker 1: My best friend Jazmine is like that.

746
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 2: She has like photo albums, like ten photo albums full

747
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: of like pictures of us from high school, from colleague,

748
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 2: like literally and like I'm talking about y'all, like.

749
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Speaker 1: Books and books and books.

750
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Speaker 2: She'd still be wearing her high school t shirts period

751
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 2: when she.

752
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 1: Go to sleep and stuff.

753
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: Like when I'll get on FaceTime with her, she'd be

754
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: having on our two thousand and five homecoming in two

755
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:30,800
Speaker 2: I mean not two thousand and five, two thousand and

756
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:33,040
Speaker 2: six homecoming T shirt, and I'd be like, how do

757
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 2: you still have that? Like get rid of so much stuff?

758
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:39,080
Speaker 2: And I wish that I kept stuff too, But like

759
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,600
Speaker 2: that's why I'd be glad I got her, because I'd

760
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Speaker 2: be like, if anything grew up copy there.

761
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Speaker 3: Yeah, my sister's like that. She's like a pack ride.

762
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 3: She keeps everything. But I'm so happy that she's like

763
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 3: that because she has so much stuff. Like my mom

764
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 3: was good with pictures too, so we have like so

765
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 3: many pictures of when I was little. Now what I

766
00:35:57,440 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 3: wish I had a video camera when I was little

767
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,399
Speaker 3: and I used to record everything. I wish I had

768
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Speaker 3: those videos. I don't know where they are because I

769
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 3: used to record. I was vlogging before vlogging was a fiend.

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Speaker 1: Imagine we had I cloud makes. Oh your food, yes.

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Speaker 3: I would have all of it. Talk, how are you

772
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Speaker 3: a pack rad?

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Speaker 1: Are you?

774
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Speaker 2: I've been getting rid of a lot of stuff, like

775
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 2: kept a lot of my mom's stuff and actually pastations

776
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 2: helping me get rid of a lot of stuff.

777
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh.

778
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 2: But I'm getting better because now I want to be

779
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Speaker 2: a little bit just more minimalistic instead of holding everything.

780
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 2: But I remember we had like those digital cameras with

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Speaker 2: the floppy disk.

782
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: Yes, like we had those. Yes, everything used to be there.

783
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wish I still had my old digital camera

784
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 2: from like high school and stuff. But I don't know

785
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Speaker 2: where they said, because what was the name of that

786
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 2: little website where everybody used to upload their pictures? I

787
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Speaker 2: cannot remember what it was called. Remember, yes, I cannot

788
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Speaker 2: remember what it was called. But huh no, tumbler it No,

789
00:37:04,200 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 2: it was just like a website where you could just

790
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Speaker 2: upload all of your camera files. But I can't remember

791
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Speaker 2: what the wind site was called, and if I'd be

792
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 2: wondering if it's still up, and I be wishing I

793
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 2: could remember my log in. I'm about to def still

794
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 2: on there because like my Space is still upright, right,

795
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:27,319
Speaker 2: but Flicker, yes, a Flicker account. But I couldn't even

796
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Speaker 2: tell y'all what email I was using, what password I

797
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,160
Speaker 2: was using, anything. But I used to upload all my

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Speaker 2: pictures on there when I was in middle school, in

799
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,839
Speaker 2: high school, and I just just gone memory.

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Speaker 3: Right, that's all saying about my space. My Space is

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00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 3: still up, but I had deleted my mos space. I remember,

802
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 3: but I'm like, why did I do that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? That could have been like something I just kept

804
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: up when we be young. You just don't be thinking

805
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Speaker 1: about that.

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Speaker 2: You got the people who do, like your sister, yes,

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00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:53,920
Speaker 2: and like me, because I wish I was thinking like

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Speaker 2: that big then.

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Speaker 1: Like, I have a.

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Speaker 3: Friend she literally has all of our yearbooks from kindergarten

811
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Speaker 3: until we graduated, every single year.

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Speaker 2: Now I do have all my yearbooks from high school.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't have I have like two from high school.

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Speaker 1: Yeah they had.

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Speaker 2: Well, all my stuff is at my mom house, but

816
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,800
Speaker 2: she have all my well, she has all my pictures

817
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:19,919
Speaker 2: from like kindergarten up until I graduated from college. And

818
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Speaker 2: then she has all of my yearbooks from high school.

819
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 2: And then my mom even have all her yearbooks from

820
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Speaker 2: high school.

821
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's the see my mom had her I think

822
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Speaker 3: I have one or two yearbooks from my mom's high school.

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Speaker 1: Babe.

824
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Speaker 3: They used to love them afros.

825
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 2: See when my mama was in high school, they used

826
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 2: to do it a little silk prissy, she ain't they

827
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Speaker 2: had afros.

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Speaker 3: It was like, so when my mom was in high school,

829
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 3: it was when they were trance. They were doing they

830
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,240
Speaker 3: were doing afros, but they started doing the Jerry curls. Okay,

831
00:38:47,360 --> 00:38:49,919
Speaker 3: so like half of the yearbook got afros and half

832
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 3: of them got Jerry curls. So they were making that

833
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 3: transition to ooh, my mama, shit used.

834
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Speaker 1: To be juicy.

835
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Speaker 2: What that's the only thing about Jerry curls. I'm like,

836
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 2: how did people used to wear their hell like they like?

837
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 1: Every juice? Everything you lean on something you lean mark juicy.

838
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: You know what let your song blow? I guess and

839
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Speaker 1: what it is.

840
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 3: It's like my mom, I don't think she ever grew

841
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 3: out of it, because she still used to make her

842
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 3: hair real, Yes, because my mom, like she had like

843
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 3: really curly hair. Like my hair is like I have

844
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 3: like four C hair. My mom had like four A

845
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 3: four B, so hers is a little curlier than mine.

846
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 1: But I mean she loved it juice down. I mean

847
00:39:34,239 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 1: she would have a little dripping.

848
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:38,919
Speaker 2: I mean, I do feel like you gotta keep it moisturized, girl,

849
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 2: to keep your hair moisturized.

850
00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: Nobody want to know dry.

851
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 3: I used to call a juicy crab chap all of that.

852
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:50,279
Speaker 3: Why juicy crab? Because it was juicy hen you met? No,

853
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 3: that's not the right song to sing. Talking another shot, Yes,

854
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 3: all right, we're gonna move on.

855
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 1: To the topic too.

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00:39:58,880 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 3: So the second today, and this kind of ties into

857
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 3: what we were just talking about. It's cloud more important

858
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:09,759
Speaker 3: than talent and how social media has changed success. So

859
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 3: do you think the industry still respects real talent or

860
00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 3: is it all about engagement in numbers now? So I

861
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 3: do want to give an example because I saw this

862
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 3: when I was kind of like doing a little research

863
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 3: on this topic.

864
00:40:22,640 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: Somebody said, nowadays you have.

865
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Speaker 3: People like like an Addison Ray or a what's her

866
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 3: name Charlie d'millio, and they're extremely popular on teeps talking.

867
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Speaker 3: They're in movies and I'm not talking about regular movies,

868
00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 3: like they're in like these A list movies, right because

869
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 3: of their audience that can bring in. But they're not

870
00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:48,279
Speaker 3: necessarily talented. So they feel like if Halle Berry was

871
00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 3: coming up in twenty twenty five, would she be Halle

872
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 3: Berry in twenty twenty five because maybe she doesn't have

873
00:40:53,200 --> 00:40:54,760
Speaker 3: a following, you know what I'm saying.

874
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:56,280
Speaker 1: So, how do you feel this cloud?

875
00:40:57,120 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 3: Is cloud more important than talent in twenty twenty five?

876
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,000
Speaker 2: No, I don't think so, because it's so many people

877
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:07,319
Speaker 2: who have blown up over the past few years and

878
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 2: they didn't have a following, you know what I mean.

879
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,480
Speaker 1: I don't think talent matters, okay.

880
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 2: Necessarily, but I don't think it's about cloud because, like

881
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,440
Speaker 2: I said, a lot of people don't have that huge

882
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 2: following and then oh you got discovered.

883
00:41:21,640 --> 00:41:23,280
Speaker 1: Now you do have the people like that.

884
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:25,319
Speaker 2: But a lot of the time, for me, it's more

885
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 2: a lack of talent, Like people just are not talented

886
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:30,959
Speaker 2: and they just be blowing up for doing the bare

887
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: minimum so in the career path that they choose, and like,

888
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:38,799
Speaker 2: your music not that great, but you still blew up

889
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: on kind of way. Your accent not that great, but

890
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 2: you're fine? Are you attractive? Like the thing about halle

891
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:46,879
Speaker 2: Berry that nobody could discredit her for she can really

892
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:50,600
Speaker 2: ask like, yeah, she's beautiful, and I do think that

893
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 2: that may have something to do with her success.

894
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:55,479
Speaker 1: But halle Berry is a great action. Yeah.

895
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:58,080
Speaker 3: Well she said that that hindered her, her beauty hindered

896
00:41:58,120 --> 00:41:58,399
Speaker 3: her back.

897
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,440
Speaker 2: I can believe that because people probably you didn't take

898
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 2: her series rights. I think people don't never look at

899
00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: beauty from that standpoint, Like people look at beautiful people

900
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 2: kind of like what we were just talking about in

901
00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 2: the first topic, Oh, they so lucky because you're beautiful,

902
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,160
Speaker 2: But people don't never think how think about how sometimes

903
00:42:12,400 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 2: being overly attractive can like hinder you because people won't

904
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 2: take you serious and certain positions.

905
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 3: So I one hundred percent agree with you, But I

906
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,719
Speaker 3: also think, like y'all just be complaining and y'all not

907
00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,799
Speaker 3: working hard enough, because a lot of times people be like, oh,

908
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 3: I don't have a following, so I'm not gonna get

909
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 3: cast for this movie. No you're not getting cast before

910
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 3: the movie, because yeah, you're probably not. I mean, I

911
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:36,960
Speaker 3: told y'all I took, I'm taking acting classes.

912
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 1: I'm big, not good.

913
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,280
Speaker 3: Ain't nobody finna put me in a movie just because

914
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:42,919
Speaker 3: poor mind's be doing one point three million views a month.

915
00:42:43,000 --> 00:42:45,959
Speaker 1: I mean they might, though it ain't happen yet.

916
00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:47,879
Speaker 2: I mean it haven't happened yet, but they it might

917
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:49,760
Speaker 2: because it's a lot of people who have got cast

918
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,400
Speaker 2: it in right and cast it in TV rolls just

919
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 2: because they have a following, a following on social media.

920
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 3: So I do agree that that does happen, Like people

921
00:42:58,160 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 3: get cast it for roles just because they're, like, I

922
00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 3: want their fan base.

923
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:02,799
Speaker 1: I say this all the time.

924
00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 3: I truly believe, like Tyler Perry had put Kim Kardashian

925
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:10,920
Speaker 3: in that movie what was it, Confessions of a Temptations, Like,

926
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 3: you know, Kim only had a few lines, and they

927
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 3: were advertising it like she's gonna be in a whole

928
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 3: movie and she had like a few lines.

929
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: She didn't do bad.

930
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 3: It wasn't like she was terrible, but she didn't have

931
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 3: much to carry or much to do. But he did

932
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 3: that as a strategy because Kim Kardashian, her star was

933
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 3: going up at the time. So I do believe that

934
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 3: people get casted in certain movies because of their fan base.

935
00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,520
Speaker 3: But for the people who feel like they're not getting

936
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,879
Speaker 3: casted because they don't have a following or their song

937
00:43:37,000 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 3: is not blowing up because they don't have a following.

938
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 3: Do these industry people care about a following, Yes, they do.

939
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: But I truly believe that if you were talented and.

940
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 3: You got that it factor and you have that work ethic,

941
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 3: it's gonna happen for you. So I don't like when

942
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 3: people be like, I don't have a following, so I'm

943
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 3: not it's not gonna it's not happening for me because

944
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 3: I'm good and I'm great, but I don't have a following,

945
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 3: so I'm not gonna get.

946
00:44:00,520 --> 00:44:02,320
Speaker 1: Picked, or maybe it's just not in your path.

947
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:05,480
Speaker 2: I feel like people be feeling to realize that stuff too,

948
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 2: Like sometimes just because it's top faith over here yet

949
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 2: I mean for real though, Like I think it's so

950
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,360
Speaker 2: many people in this world who want to do things

951
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 2: that don't align with the plan for them, you know

952
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 2: what I mean? And especially kind of because I know

953
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,920
Speaker 2: everybody is not a believer. But going back to like

954
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 2: spirituality religion, there is a plan for your life, and

955
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,840
Speaker 2: like if you're doing things that are not on the

956
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 2: plan for your life, it might not work out even

957
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 2: if it's not. And again, outside of being a believer,

958
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 2: I still feel like the universe kind of conspires to

959
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 2: make things work in your favor when it's supposed to work,

960
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:49,040
Speaker 2: when it's supposed to happen, And if it's not supposed

961
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:51,960
Speaker 2: to happen, sweetie, it's just never gonna happen. And sometimes

962
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 2: he just doesn't have anything to do with luck. It's

963
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 2: just maybe you putting your focus on something that's not

964
00:44:58,320 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 2: you're purpose, or it's not what you're supposed to be doing.

965
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: Maybe you might want to be an actress, but being

966
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 2: in actresses not your calling, right.

967
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 3: Even like a lot of times we'll see people who

968
00:45:09,640 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 3: are amazing singers. You'll see people who sting back up

969
00:45:13,600 --> 00:45:16,040
Speaker 3: for somebody and they sing better than the actual singer.

970
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,279
Speaker 3: But what y'all have to realize too, is like we

971
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:22,439
Speaker 3: don't know what that it factor is, but you either

972
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 3: have it or you don't. That's why we see a

973
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 3: lot of people. People can say all day up and down,

974
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 3: use again, Britney Spears cannot sing, but she had that

975
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 3: it factor, you know what I'm saying. Like people say

976
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 3: the same. They say who else they be saying that

977
00:45:37,320 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 3: about who can't sing?

978
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,319
Speaker 1: They say that about Beyonce, which I think is out.

979
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 3: Now that's a little different. J Lo can't sing. But

980
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 3: let me tell you what she can do. She can

981
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:48,640
Speaker 3: make a mom calm out her mother ass.

982
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:52,359
Speaker 1: Yeah she can because that was more of her calling, right,

983
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: But you can't.

984
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 3: But at the same time, but you can't say wedding bulgn.

985
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 2: No.

986
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:05,080
Speaker 1: My song was if you my loving that day? Do

987
00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:11,960
Speaker 1: y'all remember what I mean? She made head ellie.

988
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 2: Remember she started off at the backup dancer on in

989
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 2: Living Color.

990
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,960
Speaker 1: So she worked her way up.

991
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,280
Speaker 2: Into each of these different dancing to singing to acting.

992
00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 3: Yes she did, because her breakout thing was Selena and

993
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 3: the lady that they were trying to cast for Selena.

994
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 3: Something had happened with her. She didn't get casted, so

995
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 3: it wasn't even supposed to be j Lo.

996
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and she ate that up. She that Selena rolled up.

997
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 3: You know, they made a list of people who should

998
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:43,640
Speaker 3: have gotten oscars who didn't. They did no, no, they

999
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 3: just didn't win. So Jyl was on there for Selena.

1000
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 3: Angela Bassett was on there for Tina Turner, Heath Ledger

1001
00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 3: was on there for Broke Back Mountain.

1002
00:46:53,400 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 1: It was actually a.

1003
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 3: Really good list and I was surprised that these people

1004
00:46:56,239 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 3: didn't win. Yeah, Oscar for the role, but Jaylo definitely

1005
00:46:59,680 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 3: deserved Oscar for Selena.

1006
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:04,279
Speaker 1: No, she ate that up. She really did.

1007
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 2: She did her because that was probably one of my

1008
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:11,440
Speaker 2: faceite dude, hell, why are you making asks?

1009
00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:13,320
Speaker 1: That's what she would do because that's how so listen.

1010
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 3: They talked about j Loo doing that with her lips

1011
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,600
Speaker 3: and poking her lips out like that.

1012
00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 1: They're like she was doing too much.

1013
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 3: If you look up Selena singing, Selena used to do

1014
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 3: the same thing. I mean, Jlo studied down for that role.

1015
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 2: I mean it was like that was one of her

1016
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 2: best acting ms and made in Manhattan. Yeah, but I

1017
00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:37,680
Speaker 2: also liked enough. I feel like she did a really

1018
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 2: good job and enough.

1019
00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 1: She was whooping up boy else she did.

1020
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 2: A really good job, like that was a very serious role,

1021
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 2: and I feel like she cuted like Jlo can really

1022
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:48,760
Speaker 2: act to me, I feel like, and I don't feel

1023
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 2: like she can't sing, like I hate.

1024
00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 3: She can catch a note, yeah, like I hate, but she.

1025
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: Can't say she can't sing.

1026
00:47:54,280 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, she can hold a little now,

1027
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 2: but it's a lot of people who just can hold

1028
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 2: an out. But I feel like that's where a lot

1029
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 2: of other things go into it as far as just

1030
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 2: having an eat factor, because I feel like even with

1031
00:48:04,600 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 2: her that was probably like okay, like she can't just sing,

1032
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,520
Speaker 2: but she can hold, but she can hold a no,

1033
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 2: she beautiful, she can dim. She had so many other

1034
00:48:16,080 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 2: factors that it's like, Okay, this.

1035
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 1: Is a start.

1036
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 3: What do y'all think the IT factor is? Because nobody

1037
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 3: has ever defined it? What do y'all think it is?

1038
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 3: Because I don't think it could be defined, right.

1039
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:30,399
Speaker 2: I think it's about your aura though, like people say,

1040
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,400
Speaker 2: like if I come in a room, dang, you just

1041
00:48:32,480 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 2: like you change the energy and the energy, and I

1042
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 2: think it has a lot to do with that, and yeah,

1043
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:41,960
Speaker 2: combining that with your skill, with like your motivation and stuff.

1044
00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,000
Speaker 1: Like that, I think it's yeah.

1045
00:48:44,040 --> 00:48:45,920
Speaker 3: I mean some people, like you just view them and

1046
00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 3: you're like wow, yeah, like you're just mesmerized by their presence.

1047
00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: Like some people, you know, just have that.

1048
00:48:52,640 --> 00:48:55,040
Speaker 3: And I see that a lot when I see people perform,

1049
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 3: and I'm just not an easily impressed person, but it

1050
00:48:58,080 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 3: be some people. I look at I'm like, oh, yeah,

1051
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,520
Speaker 3: she got like and I don't know what it is.

1052
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 3: I can never explain it. I can never explain it.

1053
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1054
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 2: But y'all have it, like I would say, y'all have

1055
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 2: it like when I first met y'all, was like, oh okay,

1056
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, I just think you know what I

1057
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 2: always say because I hate to be the bereau of

1058
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 2: bad news, but sometimes I just always feel like it

1059
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 2: just goes back into life just not being fair. I

1060
00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 2: think that be like a tough reality that a lot

1061
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,840
Speaker 2: of people don't want to accept. And that's why you

1062
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 2: can't really put a finger on what it is sometimes

1063
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 2: because it's just kind of like it was meant to

1064
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 2: be that way, like it was ordained, it was orchestrated

1065
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 2: that way.

1066
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 1: That's why it happened that way, versus I don't know.

1067
00:49:46,800 --> 00:49:49,480
Speaker 2: Some people, it just don't never happened for them, and

1068
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 2: I feel like, no matter how hard they try, how

1069
00:49:52,200 --> 00:49:54,799
Speaker 2: much work they put in, it just don't happen, and

1070
00:49:54,840 --> 00:49:59,560
Speaker 2: it just be you know, unfortunate, insad because life just

1071
00:49:59,719 --> 00:49:59,880
Speaker 2: is in.

1072
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 3: But I do feel like real talent always finds its way.

1073
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 3: I'm not trying to be funny, No, because let me

1074
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 3: tell you why. Real talent finds its way. This is

1075
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,359
Speaker 3: why I say this. Y'all know I always talk about bitch.

1076
00:50:13,400 --> 00:50:17,600
Speaker 3: I thought I was finna be the biggest rapper singer out.

1077
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:21,439
Speaker 3: I used to go to the studio.

1078
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 1: I used to really be in the studio.

1079
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 3: Like we laughing because it's funny now, but I really

1080
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 3: thought I was finna be baby Beyonce.

1081
00:50:28,880 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: You couldn't tell me.

1082
00:50:29,760 --> 00:50:31,719
Speaker 3: I was like, this is what I'm supposed to do,

1083
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 3: and that was not my But I'm talented in other avenues,

1084
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:37,800
Speaker 3: so I knew I was gonna be on stage. I

1085
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 3: don't know what I was gonna be on stage, No,

1086
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,400
Speaker 3: I just didn't know what doing what.

1087
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:42,279
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1088
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 3: So I feel like real talent, if you're talented and

1089
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 3: whatever that may be, singing, dancing, writing, producing, you gonna find.

1090
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 1: Your way to where you need to be.

1091
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,399
Speaker 3: So even though I wasn't on stage, I'm telling y'all,

1092
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Speaker 3: when I was little, me and my friend Jazmine.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to Jazmine.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to her last name because y'all be

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Speaker 3: looking up people on Facebook and stuff. So me and

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Speaker 3: Jazz and literally we used to sit in her living room,

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Speaker 3: me and her and Lindsey, and they used to play

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Speaker 3: like they were e news reporters and they used to

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Speaker 3: interview me. Literally every time we would play this game,

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Speaker 3: I would always be the star. So since I was little,

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Speaker 3: I always would see myself on stage, but I didn't

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Speaker 3: know what I was doing. Every time we would play

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Speaker 3: this game, I would be like, oh, thank you so much,

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Speaker 3: like I would always be thanking.

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Speaker 1: Them for my work. I'm like, what am I doing?

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Speaker 3: Though, But I'm saying I always saw myself on stage.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know necessarily was gonna be a podcast, yeah,

1108
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Speaker 1: but I ended up on stage.

1109
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Speaker 3: So that's why I feel like, when you're really talented

1110
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Speaker 3: and it's ordained for you to share who you are

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00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 3: with the world. Like one thing I take pride is

1112
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Speaker 3: that we make people feel good. Y'all can say what

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Speaker 3: y'all want about our topics and what we talk about

1114
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Speaker 3: and what we do, but we make people feel good,

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Speaker 3: and we needed to spread that to the world and

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Speaker 3: give it to the world. So if your talent is

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Speaker 3: supposed to be seen by the world, God gonna make

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Speaker 3: sure that. That's why I said, real talent always gonna

1119
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Speaker 3: find his way.

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Speaker 1: That's fair. You feel me, I feel you, okay, just

1121
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Speaker 1: making sure you feel me, you feel you know I

1122
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Speaker 1: I do have feel me out now, feel me out,

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Speaker 1: feel me out now.

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Speaker 2: feel like that's fair.

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Speaker 1: That's fair. Okay, okay, all right, let us know what

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Speaker 1: y'all think.

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Speaker 3: Do y'all feel like cloud is more important than talent,

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Speaker 3: and our people with real talent, you know, often looked

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Speaker 3: Reason I want to bring this up, it's because I

1156
00:53:33,840 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 3: got that licking me first of all, And I'm gonna

1157
00:53:36,600 --> 00:53:38,759
Speaker 3: take this moment because you know what, We're gonna start

1158
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 3: the time right now. Because this motherfucker is a low down, dirty, greasy,

1159
00:53:46,800 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 3: thick ass bitch that nobody gives a fuck about. And

1160
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1161
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1162
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Speaker 3: and the day that your mouth is closed forever, it's

1163
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Speaker 3: too soon, because I cannot.

1164
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Speaker 1: Wait till we never have to hear your thoughts again.

1165
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Speaker 1: Came her you around, Kanye, Yes.

1166
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Speaker 3: I'm tired.

1167
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Speaker 4: I'm tired.

1168
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Speaker 3: I have had enough, and he said something about Slim Thug.

1169
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:26,320
Speaker 3: He said, Slim Thug, the realist nigga, I know is

1170
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 3: something like that. I know you watched Poor Mindes with

1171
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Speaker 3: your thick ass. I know you did.

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Speaker 1: He probably not gonna see these studies, you not, but

1173
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:35,400
Speaker 1: you never know what he gonna do.

1174
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 3: Because he got mad because I sat on the couch

1175
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:40,000
Speaker 3: and said, you know you lost the Kim Kardashian. You're

1176
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:40,840
Speaker 3: not getting that again.

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Speaker 1: I said what I said talking about Slim duff. Slim

1178
00:54:46,200 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 1: is a real nigga. I fuck with slimm Kanye.

1179
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 2: But I so now it's time to get into the w.

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Speaker 1: A bow A bow. I cannot wait to talk to

1181
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:06,839
Speaker 1: you about something when we in this.

1182
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Speaker 3: Girl.

1183
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 1: It's just some tea.

1184
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 3: I forgot to tell you, but it just came to

1185
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 3: mind when when we was talking.

1186
00:55:16,400 --> 00:55:20,840
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so I can't wait. I'm excited. Okay.

1187
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 3: So the bad topic for today is the wildest excuse

1188
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:26,160
Speaker 3: you've used.

1189
00:55:25,800 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: To get out of bad sex.

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00:55:29,880 --> 00:55:34,520
Speaker 3: Now mm hmm. Have you ever been like mid stroke

1191
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 3: and you was thinking like how the hell do I

1192
00:55:38,239 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 3: get out of here? Or you know, like you take

1193
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 3: a phone call pretend like, you know, your period just hit.

1194
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 1: What do you do?

1195
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 3: Like, have you ever been like mid stroke? Would have

1196
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,399
Speaker 3: me and you're like, this is not good, This is

1197
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:55,000
Speaker 3: not good.

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00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 2: I haven't never been midstroke and felt that way. But

1199
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Speaker 2: I definitely have had to lie to leave just because

1200
00:56:03,920 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 2: I don't want to be here no more, like I'm

1201
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,319
Speaker 2: ready to go really go home. So I feel like, yeah,

1202
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 2: I definitely have had to lie to leave and act

1203
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:12,520
Speaker 2: like I had to go do something.

1204
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 1: I've lied and said I've had emergency.

1205
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 2: I done lie on my mama, sorry.

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00:56:18,440 --> 00:56:21,399
Speaker 3: Mine, damn. I So you know what, for me, I've

1207
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,320
Speaker 3: never made it like an excuse like get out of sex,

1208
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,000
Speaker 3: but back in the day, I haven't done this in

1209
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 3: a very long time. But that's when I used to

1210
00:56:28,680 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 3: fake so he would hurry up and nut like I

1211
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 3: used to pretend like it was just feeling so good,

1212
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:34,440
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh my.

1213
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:36,880
Speaker 1: Gosh, I'm about to come, oh.

1214
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 3: Just so it would make him hurry up so it

1215
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 3: would end quicker.

1216
00:56:40,719 --> 00:56:40,919
Speaker 4: Like.

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00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: So, I've never.

1218
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 3: Actually made an excuse, but I feel like a lot

1219
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:46,840
Speaker 3: of women do that. That goes into like the faking

1220
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 3: orgasms and faking conversations.

1221
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 1: I feel like people be faking so it can end.

1222
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: And see that's the thing, like, nah, I'm not doing it.

1223
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not doing that now, but in my younger years,

1224
00:56:57,160 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 3: in my early twenties.

1225
00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,759
Speaker 2: Even when I was younger. No, if it's bad, we're

1226
00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 2: not having sex on my own. I'm not about to

1227
00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,879
Speaker 2: be faking like you need to figure this shit out

1228
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 2: or you need to go fuck with somebody else. I'm

1229
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 2: not about to be laying in bed faking with you

1230
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:11,479
Speaker 2: the whole time over and over, like oh.

1231
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 1: No, not over.

1232
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 2: It's like if you went through it one time, then

1233
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,880
Speaker 2: that's understandable. But it's like if you keep having bad

1234
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,360
Speaker 2: sex with somebody and faking, that's what t is.

1235
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, now I would say I've never done it to

1236
00:57:22,560 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 3: where it's like I keep doing it over and over again.

1237
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 3: But I can definitely remember times I had sex with

1238
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 3: somebody and I was faking it just so we would end.

1239
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 3: Why you ain't just tell them the moment because I

1240
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 3: didn't want to do I didn't want to do it

1241
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:34,919
Speaker 3: no more, and I'm not gonna talk to you no more.

1242
00:57:36,400 --> 00:57:38,600
Speaker 1: That's even better. That's why it's like, move, get off me.

1243
00:57:39,680 --> 00:57:41,160
Speaker 3: I'm not a vibe killer. Now.

1244
00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 1: The vibe already bad. Right, you're right, you're right.

1245
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,520
Speaker 2: I mean, like was never there that clos into me

1246
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 2: just being young, like to be I'm not.

1247
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 3: He was, but that was me going into like you

1248
00:57:56,120 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 3: know back. I always talk about this, y'all. When we

1249
00:58:00,320 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 3: used to grow up. It would be magazines, Cosmopolitan magazine,

1250
00:58:03,200 --> 00:58:06,880
Speaker 3: how to make him come, how to make orgasm, how

1251
00:58:06,880 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 3: to be sexy in the bedroom.

1252
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,040
Speaker 1: So growing up and viewing sex.

1253
00:58:10,920 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 3: I always looked at it like it's about the man

1254
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 3: and it's for the man. I never viewed sex as

1255
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 3: it's for me as well. So every time I was

1256
00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 3: in the bedroom in my younger years, this is why

1257
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 3: I always say young people don't need to be having

1258
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 3: sex because.

1259
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: Y'all not teaching things.

1260
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 2: You don't properly understand what we're doing and what we're doing,

1261
00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:32,480
Speaker 2: what it really is.

1262
00:58:32,520 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 3: So yeah, absolutely, in my younger years, I used to

1263
00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 3: feel like I have to perform. I was thinking, like,

1264
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 3: mister Elli a pussy, don't fail me. Now, I'm trying

1265
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 3: to turn this nigga out so he don't want nobody

1266
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 3: else but me and Nolan.

1267
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: Me. That's beautiful.

1268
00:58:48,000 --> 00:58:48,520
Speaker 3: No, it's not.

1269
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:51,680
Speaker 1: That is no, it's not because you should not.

1270
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 2: I know, I agree, but I'm staying that's good kinda

1271
00:58:56,000 --> 00:58:57,920
Speaker 2: that you wanted to be a pleaser like that. I

1272
00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:01,960
Speaker 2: have personally always been a pillow o princess. I have

1273
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 2: always been a pillow princess. As I've gotten older, now

1274
00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 2: I be like performing because I feel like, if you

1275
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 2: were in a relationship with your men, you should want

1276
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:13,000
Speaker 2: to show out for your men, like I should want

1277
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 2: to go above and beyond for him. When I was

1278
00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 2: younger in my relationships, it was like, no, what you

1279
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:19,480
Speaker 2: gonna do for Big Mama?

1280
00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:19,840
Speaker 3: For real?

1281
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 1: Exactly?

1282
00:59:20,720 --> 00:59:20,800
Speaker 4: No.

1283
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 3: I was never like I I'm like that now, my

1284
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:30,240
Speaker 3: hands behind my head, like I'm like that now. But

1285
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:31,640
Speaker 3: in my younger years, I.

1286
00:59:31,640 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 1: Was just like doing too much? Why because, like I said,

1287
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,800
Speaker 1: doing like a reference, you know when.

1288
00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 3: You faced down, ass up, you just doing too much,

1289
00:59:45,280 --> 00:59:48,520
Speaker 3: throwing that ass back and like, yeah, not knowing, I'm not,

1290
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:52,720
Speaker 3: I don't feel nothing, I'm not. Oh it just.

1291
00:59:54,800 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 1: Like the herbal essences coming yes used to be me

1292
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 1: and what they used to be doing, like yeah, I'm

1293
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: meant nothing, I'm beating it up. And I used to

1294
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: be I would be like you actually not you actually

1295
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:12,200
Speaker 1: not be.

1296
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:17,520
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying I was a performer, and that's

1297
01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,400
Speaker 3: what I'm saying. I used to just make excuses.

1298
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 2: And was it because you wanted them to go around

1299
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 2: and like go tell people like.

1300
01:00:25,040 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but go brag about that thing. How a week,

1301
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:30,560
Speaker 1: go brag about it.

1302
01:00:30,760 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 3: Let me show you, Let me show you what that

1303
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 3: thing do. But now I don't care about that because

1304
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 3: if if you going around saying my coochie bag, it's

1305
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 3: because you didn't give.

1306
01:00:39,360 --> 01:00:41,320
Speaker 1: Me what it is. Yes, it's because you didn't do

1307
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Speaker 1: what you needed to do, right right, that's getting here.

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Speaker 3: In my younger years, I used to going to love

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Speaker 3: and beyond my means.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I was a waitress at TGI Friday.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? Let me tell you, you got

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Speaker 1: to give good service.

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Speaker 3: Okay, they take two cents to they struck the lemonade.

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Speaker 1: I'm back with a ref Yeah. You know what I'm saying. Okay,

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Speaker 1: they potato.

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Speaker 3: Skins could be warm, but they're not hot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Instead of going take the ones away and just giving

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Speaker 3: you four more, I'm giving you a whole new batch.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: That's great, though, but I feel like that speaks volumes

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Speaker 2: about you know, you as a person, because that's it's

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Speaker 2: just so funny to me when you tell me these stuff,

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Speaker 2: because I just think about how how we were in

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Speaker 2: the same settings and how.

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Speaker 1: It was just so different.

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Speaker 2: When I used to wait trees, I used to be

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Speaker 2: checking on people every thirty minis, oh.

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Speaker 1: Right up, facts, because I hated that job.

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Speaker 2: I had one real waitressing job, like working at like

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Speaker 2: a restaurant and bar wire. I used to actually have

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Speaker 2: to serve food, you know, Foxing Hounding.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I remember when you worked there.

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Speaker 2: Me and my best friend Jazzmine, we had just got

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Speaker 2: like some little temp jobs in the summer, like temporary

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01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,600
Speaker 2: little jobs working as waitresses at these popping sports bar

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Speaker 2: in Houston, and I just hated it old fucking much. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I used to be in a bag eating fries on

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01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:08,160
Speaker 2: my phone, just babing, come check on people every thirty mens,

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Speaker 2: And I feel like.

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Speaker 1: You know, it was the same thing. Get me, well,

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Speaker 1: I was not trying.

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Speaker 2: To be I was not trying to go I was

1344
01:02:16,280 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: not trying to go above and be on because even

1345
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 2: not to be funny, but even when I was younger,

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Speaker 2: I will say these like I felt like when I.

1347
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: Was younger, I was like I just know my coochie good.

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Speaker 2: I could just stay, I could just lay here like

1349
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 2: I don't have to do nothing because I know it's good,

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Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna do the most unless you make

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Speaker 2: me feel.

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01:02:33,280 --> 01:02:34,840
Speaker 1: Like I gotta do them all right right.

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Speaker 3: I feel like, like I said, it was just me

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01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 3: just doing the moment. Yeah, And then, like I said,

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Speaker 3: I would make excuses, but I would not one thing.

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01:02:43,520 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: I was good at my younger years. I would cut

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01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:50,360
Speaker 3: them off. Yeah, I wasn't like always let me go

1358
01:02:50,440 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 3: back and let me try to.

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01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 2: No, we not.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get out of it. I'm gonna I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: do the most and I'm performing because I know I

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01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 3: did my.

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Speaker 1: Part, and then I'm not gonna. I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, I do kind of regret that

1365
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 3: because I feel like there's men still to this day

1366
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,640
Speaker 3: that be talking to people and be like, oh, yeah,

1367
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 3: I used to talk to her.

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01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 1: I was nineteen. I'm forty six.

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01:03:12,800 --> 01:03:15,200
Speaker 2: I'm weak because I know somebody that you was talking about.

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Speaker 2: It's one person that came to mind when you said it. Oh,

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Speaker 2: we always talk about him. One person that be still

1372
01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:23,400
Speaker 2: telling people that he used to fuck with you.

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Speaker 3: I don't know who it is, but maybe they burning heir.

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Speaker 1: Who Oh my god, and he won't stop.

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01:03:35,880 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, especially when them clips went viral recently.

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01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: Oh for real, Yes, how.

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Speaker 4: Do you know?

1378
01:03:42,680 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: Because they told me somebody said so.

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01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:49,640
Speaker 3: He said yes, and it was around a girl that

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01:03:50,560 --> 01:03:52,160
Speaker 3: he didn't even know that I knew.

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01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:59,200
Speaker 1: He was like, Oh, that's my old bitch. You go

1382
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Speaker 1: to school. Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Now it really be disgusting, though serious, when you really

1384
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:07,720
Speaker 2: see like and think about some of the people that

1385
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:09,440
Speaker 2: she used to date, like people that.

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Speaker 1: Dudes that I dated when I was like.

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Speaker 2: Eighteen and twenty and twenty three, I just be like,

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01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,880
Speaker 2: what my god, I am repulsed.

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Speaker 3: And that's why we always tell the younger girls that

1390
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Speaker 3: are like least the lengthy that are going through a breakup.

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Speaker 3: I promise you, if you're watching this show and you're

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Speaker 3: between the ages of eighteen to twenty eight, your type

1393
01:04:34,720 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 3: is going to change. By the time you hit thirty one,

1394
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 3: thirty two, thirty three, your type is going to change.

1395
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Speaker 1: That heartbreak. You are literally going to laugh and you

1396
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,120
Speaker 1: gonna look back at them niggas and be like, y'all

1397
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: are some loser.

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Speaker 2: Oh why was I there? I was not saying about one.

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Speaker 2: And don't get me wrong, not everyone, because I have

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Speaker 2: some guys that I used to Yeah, I have some

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01:04:58,960 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 2: guys that I used to date. They they cool and

1402
01:05:01,560 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 2: they doing great things.

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01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 1: But like.

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Speaker 2: I just be like, what the fuck was I thinking?

1405
01:05:07,640 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 2: And what the fuck was I doing?

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01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: That one? I wasn't even thinking about him.

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01:05:12,440 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 2: That's who I always think about because I know he

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01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 2: be still doing it. She he lame, all right, let's

1409
01:05:21,160 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 2: meet me acting like a hy n He looked.

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Speaker 3: Like one too. I don't know about why is being

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Speaker 3: skinny and teddy? Oh I told you mean he's still young.

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Speaker 3: I was just saying.

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Speaker 1: I just say all that he's as.

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Speaker 3: That's how I know I'm blessed God, don't play everybody

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Speaker 3: who did me wrong?

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Speaker 1: What's slim said? Color purple curse. I feel like that's

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Speaker 1: why I still look good too.

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Speaker 2: Everybody who did me wrong. I sucked up all, sucked

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01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:51,400
Speaker 2: it up, fucked that youth out. And that's why I

1420
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Speaker 2: say I love being a good woman.

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Speaker 3: I love being a good woman and the woman who

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01:05:57,400 --> 01:06:01,360
Speaker 3: can walk away. It's always gonna be me moving on

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Speaker 3: okay them other week.

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Speaker 2: Of course, I'm sorry, y'all. I was trying to sit

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Speaker 2: my little drink. You drink you would think it, I know,

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Speaker 2: you would think it's a liquid. Well, this is the

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Speaker 2: thing for me. I feel like all I do is

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Speaker 2: drink water. Like with me doing my challenge, all I'm

1429
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Speaker 2: all I drink every single day is water. And like myself,

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Speaker 2: I'll do a protein smoothie, but I really.

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Speaker 1: As like a meal though.

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01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:30,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'll do a protein smoothie, but outside of

1433
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Speaker 2: the smoothie, all I drink is water. So I think

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Speaker 2: when I come here and then's hobby making me these drinks.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just be delightful for my palette. You

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Speaker 2: got a little something Nelson it too, and it does

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Speaker 2: and it does have the CBB or thhc uh a

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Speaker 2: little liquid in there.

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Speaker 1: So I think I'll be trying to come to my stoothie.

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Speaker 2: I think you're right. Plus bowl, it's all right, that's

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Speaker 2: all right. But yeah, so of course muse Beauty Collection

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Speaker 1: nothing to crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I have on chestnut lust and glaze.

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Speaker 3: how because y'all not using good hair, proper hair. You

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Speaker 1: To please over there? What was that dance called the shoulder?

1522
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: What is this rock with it?

1523
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:57,440
Speaker 2: That's what I was over there and my white gh.

1524
01:10:56,800 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 1: Look at way back. My bop of the week is Lucky.

1525
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:06,040
Speaker 1: But I'm just playing my bop of the week this week.

1526
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:07,679
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

1527
01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 3: I was very skeptical about this artist when she first

1528
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:14,320
Speaker 3: came out, because I was like, mm, Now I'm still

1529
01:11:14,320 --> 01:11:16,320
Speaker 3: a little skeptical because I'm like, is she kind of

1530
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,040
Speaker 3: like biting off of Sizza and biting off of the

1531
01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 3: you know.

1532
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 1: The community. But I'm not gonna lie.

1533
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:23,559
Speaker 3: She dropped another song and it's actually for her so

1534
01:11:23,680 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 3: sailor do y'all remember she had that song I Hope

1535
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:26,960
Speaker 3: You're happy?

1536
01:11:27,240 --> 01:11:31,040
Speaker 1: Got you a menie me? Bet you mean yes?

1537
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 3: But she has another song called cut up Okay, and

1538
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:35,639
Speaker 3: it's so good.

1539
01:11:36,800 --> 01:11:39,240
Speaker 1: It is so good I.

1540
01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 3: Am the The jury is still out on her, Like

1541
01:11:41,800 --> 01:11:43,680
Speaker 3: I said, I want to see if she's in it

1542
01:11:43,680 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 3: to win it, because a lot of times we see

1543
01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 3: these artists, they come out, they sound like another artist,

1544
01:11:47,680 --> 01:11:50,120
Speaker 3: and they don't last too long. But I will say,

1545
01:11:50,479 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 3: for me, this is really the second song by her

1546
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:54,519
Speaker 3: that I've jammed and I've listened to.

1547
01:11:54,680 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 1: She's two for two of me. I'm not mad, so

1548
01:11:57,280 --> 01:12:00,480
Speaker 1: cut up by Sailor. That's my bop. Go ahead.

1549
01:12:01,200 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 2: My bop this week is Pushed to Start by Tyler.

1550
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:08,920
Speaker 2: By Tyler, So, I've already really really liked that song

1551
01:12:09,000 --> 01:12:11,120
Speaker 2: ever since he came out. But she just came out

1552
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 2: with a remix feature in Sean Shanda Paul and shout

1553
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 2: out to Sean Paul as a sun falling Okay, exp

1554
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: is Sean Paul and Tyler. This song Seana and Tyler.

1555
01:12:29,560 --> 01:12:32,720
Speaker 2: So that is my vibe. I love this song, y'all.

1556
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 2: Y'all should check it out if y'all haven't heard it.

1557
01:12:35,120 --> 01:12:37,240
Speaker 2: I feel like Tyala has done a really good job.

1558
01:12:38,600 --> 01:12:42,240
Speaker 1: She's a start, she is. I agree. I think she

1559
01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 1: just needs a little word. May be saying she the next.

1560
01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:50,080
Speaker 2: Riana, Hold your horses that but too early, hold your

1561
01:12:50,240 --> 01:12:51,360
Speaker 2: that's fair, it's too early.

1562
01:12:51,400 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 1: But I do think she's very talented, and I do

1563
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:54,200
Speaker 1: think she's a start.

1564
01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 3: So now you know they used to do that with

1565
01:12:56,120 --> 01:12:59,439
Speaker 3: Arianna Grande and Mariah Darry you know what I'm saying.

1566
01:12:59,520 --> 01:13:03,840
Speaker 2: So I ain't mad at that comparison though, but I

1567
01:13:03,880 --> 01:13:06,160
Speaker 2: will say Tyler is a star. I think she needs

1568
01:13:06,200 --> 01:13:08,800
Speaker 2: to work a little bit on her public speaking because

1569
01:13:08,800 --> 01:13:12,639
Speaker 2: sometimes she I think she gets nervous in situations when

1570
01:13:12,640 --> 01:13:16,120
Speaker 2: people ask her something crazy. I mean, she still she

1571
01:13:16,120 --> 01:13:18,400
Speaker 2: doesn't know how to respond, like Meghan. There was a

1572
01:13:18,400 --> 01:13:21,160
Speaker 2: recent incident where the lady on the Oscar carpet was like,

1573
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:22,160
Speaker 2: I listened.

1574
01:13:21,880 --> 01:13:23,840
Speaker 3: To Meghan the Stallions music, and it makes me want

1575
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:24,200
Speaker 3: to fight.

1576
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,439
Speaker 1: What song of Megan's makes you want to fight? You know?

1577
01:13:27,479 --> 01:13:29,240
Speaker 3: They always look at black women like we just going

1578
01:13:29,240 --> 01:13:30,080
Speaker 3: around punching.

1579
01:13:29,840 --> 01:13:30,599
Speaker 1: People in the face.

1580
01:13:31,439 --> 01:13:33,519
Speaker 3: So everybody has been on her ass about it, but

1581
01:13:33,560 --> 01:13:35,280
Speaker 3: Meghan just carried it with such great She was like,

1582
01:13:35,360 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 3: no girl, bad, YadA yadi. It makes you feel cute,

1583
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:39,400
Speaker 3: it makes you feel beautiful. Now, if she would have

1584
01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:42,519
Speaker 3: said Mona Leo, Mona Leo will make you smack a beach,

1585
01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:43,439
Speaker 3: she do. Now.

1586
01:13:43,439 --> 01:13:44,040
Speaker 1: If it would have been.

1587
01:13:46,040 --> 01:13:48,120
Speaker 3: Car Yeah, if it would have been a Mona Leo,

1588
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 3: I would have said, you know what, yeah, Mona Leo

1589
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 3: music do make you want to fight a little bit,

1590
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:57,080
Speaker 3: But Meghan, Meghan is not a fighter. Turn up, get

1591
01:13:57,120 --> 01:13:58,080
Speaker 3: cute you a baddie.

1592
01:13:58,080 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 1: I got good.

1593
01:13:58,560 --> 01:14:02,599
Speaker 3: Kouchie music, so I think Megan is good at handling

1594
01:14:02,600 --> 01:14:03,920
Speaker 3: awkward situations on the carpet.

1595
01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:05,680
Speaker 1: So I want Tyler to get there. But Tala is

1596
01:14:05,720 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 1: a star body tea.

1597
01:14:07,520 --> 01:14:11,800
Speaker 3: She can wear high fashion, cute girl, he can sing. Yes,

1598
01:14:11,920 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 3: she has all the factors. So that's a good it is,

1599
01:14:15,000 --> 01:14:18,280
Speaker 3: that's a good bob shunned up all, come sing with

1600
01:14:18,320 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 3: them on the list.

1601
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:21,879
Speaker 1: Y'all is never settled.

1602
01:14:22,360 --> 01:14:25,559
Speaker 2: And if you're an avid listener of poor minds, then

1603
01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:29,640
Speaker 2: you probably have heard me say these numerous times. Like

1604
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:32,920
Speaker 2: I say these all the time, I've always felt this way.

1605
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:35,640
Speaker 2: Don't ever settle for anything in life if it's not

1606
01:14:35,720 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 2: exactly what you want. Don't let people tell you that

1607
01:14:39,000 --> 01:14:41,400
Speaker 2: you cannot get what you want out of these life

1608
01:14:41,439 --> 01:14:43,120
Speaker 2: because it's absolutely possible.

1609
01:14:43,439 --> 01:14:46,360
Speaker 1: I had so many people when I was in my twenties.

1610
01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 2: Telling me that the things that I wanted was unreleased, unreasonable.

1611
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:53,839
Speaker 2: And if I have listened to those people, I wouldn't

1612
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 2: be where I am today. It's not for anybody else

1613
01:14:56,360 --> 01:14:58,519
Speaker 2: to understand that as long as you know what it

1614
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:00,920
Speaker 2: is and you willing to put work in to get

1615
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:03,719
Speaker 2: the things that you want, you don't have to settle,

1616
01:15:03,760 --> 01:15:05,880
Speaker 2: and don't let people convince you that you have to settle.

1617
01:15:05,920 --> 01:15:08,479
Speaker 2: It's usually people that are settling in their own life

1618
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:13,000
Speaker 2: that try to, you know, make other people feel like, oh,

1619
01:15:13,040 --> 01:15:15,759
Speaker 2: you can't do this, or you can't make that happen.

1620
01:15:16,320 --> 01:15:19,200
Speaker 2: You're thinking too far outside the box. How you gonna

1621
01:15:19,240 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 2: do that?

1622
01:15:20,080 --> 01:15:20,240
Speaker 1: Up?

1623
01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:23,799
Speaker 2: Now, boo, you can't do it. I could do whatever

1624
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:26,679
Speaker 2: I want to do, Okay, and I will so yeah,

1625
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:27,439
Speaker 2: don't ever.

1626
01:15:30,439 --> 01:15:33,639
Speaker 3: Ever, since I was a little girl, I've loved being

1627
01:15:33,680 --> 01:15:39,679
Speaker 3: on camera, entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing

1628
01:15:39,720 --> 01:15:44,680
Speaker 3: my thoughts and opinions on anything pop culture. For the

1629
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,960
Speaker 3: past few years, I've heard your requests.

1630
01:15:47,479 --> 01:15:49,960
Speaker 1: But now it's finally time to deliver.

1631
01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all, let's get into the teeth with love lexp.

1632
01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:05,320
Speaker 1: Girl Anyways.

1633
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:09,120
Speaker 2: Okay, now it's time to get into our favorite segment

1634
01:16:09,160 --> 01:16:11,480
Speaker 2: of the show. Y'all know, if y'all have any questions,

1635
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,639
Speaker 2: any testimony, you'll send them to ask poor Minds at

1636
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. That's ask poure in my nbs at

1637
01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:23,760
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. Okay, I got a question of too,

1638
01:16:23,960 --> 01:16:24,800
Speaker 2: so oh, I.

1639
01:16:24,800 --> 01:16:28,760
Speaker 3: Gotta start sorry, all right. I dated this guy I

1640
01:16:28,800 --> 01:16:31,640
Speaker 3: met at work for four months. He understood me and

1641
01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 3: loved things about me that I never imagined a guy

1642
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 3: would be so attentive to. I admired him a lot too.

1643
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,479
Speaker 3: From the beginning. He was honest that he was a

1644
01:16:40,520 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 3: few months out of a long relationship with his kid's

1645
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 3: mother and that he wasn't in.

1646
01:16:44,920 --> 01:16:47,720
Speaker 1: A place to date seriously. But he really liked me.

1647
01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:50,240
Speaker 3: It got to a point to where he felt it

1648
01:16:50,280 --> 01:16:54,240
Speaker 3: was irresponsible to keep going because our feelings were progressing

1649
01:16:54,520 --> 01:16:56,680
Speaker 3: and he didn't want to hurt me more. Later on,

1650
01:16:57,479 --> 01:17:00,360
Speaker 3: we stopped talking, and when I see him around, he

1651
01:17:00,400 --> 01:17:03,879
Speaker 3: does not speak to me. I know it's not personal personal,

1652
01:17:04,120 --> 01:17:06,880
Speaker 3: he just doesn't want to drag this along. We can't

1653
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:11,000
Speaker 3: talk casually without wanting more. We had a special connection

1654
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:12,519
Speaker 3: and I never felt like this.

1655
01:17:12,439 --> 01:17:15,880
Speaker 1: Before, and that Dick was so fire. How can I

1656
01:17:15,960 --> 01:17:16,280
Speaker 1: move on?

1657
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:19,759
Speaker 3: I feel heartbroken even though it was a short amount

1658
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:20,120
Speaker 3: of time.

1659
01:17:21,600 --> 01:17:24,080
Speaker 2: I feel like this should make it even easier to

1660
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:26,479
Speaker 2: move on because it was a short amount of time.

1661
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:29,840
Speaker 1: And then she said he don't speak to her when

1662
01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:30,679
Speaker 1: she sees him.

1663
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:33,719
Speaker 2: Girl, move on, because I feel like the least somebody

1664
01:17:33,720 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 2: could do is speak to you. I agree, like, so

1665
01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:41,200
Speaker 2: this is what I don't say, and he just act

1666
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:43,479
Speaker 2: like you don't exist. I feel like he doesn't care,

1667
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:45,600
Speaker 2: Like the feelings for you are still there, but the

1668
01:17:45,600 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 2: feelings for him are not there. And that would be

1669
01:17:48,080 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 2: enough for me to just be like, good readings, I'm

1670
01:17:50,400 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 2: done with you because you you not worried about me.

1671
01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 2: I think sometimes you have to force yourself to move

1672
01:17:57,160 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 2: on when you realize that somebody is not worried about it.

1673
01:17:59,439 --> 01:18:02,639
Speaker 3: Not worried about because also, I will say this, men

1674
01:18:02,800 --> 01:18:05,200
Speaker 3: will say men are hot and cold, right, so they'll be.

1675
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 1: Like, oh, I love you, you mean so much to me.

1676
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:08,960
Speaker 3: We have feelings. And then they'll be like, hey, I

1677
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 3: don't want to hurt you. I'm not the man for you.

1678
01:18:10,720 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 3: We need to separate.

1679
01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:12,600
Speaker 1: But guess what.

1680
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:15,880
Speaker 3: Don't listen to nothing, they say, Listen to their actions.

1681
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:18,360
Speaker 1: Are his actions matching.

1682
01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 3: That he loves you and that he feels you and

1683
01:18:20,040 --> 01:18:22,360
Speaker 3: that he wants to be with you? Are his actions

1684
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 3: matching that he don't want to be with you, He's

1685
01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,000
Speaker 3: not ready for a relationship. He told you what it was,

1686
01:18:27,040 --> 01:18:30,000
Speaker 3: and not only that, his actions are matching what's on

1687
01:18:30,040 --> 01:18:33,880
Speaker 3: this side. So pay attention to the action. Do not

1688
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:37,960
Speaker 3: listen to words when it comes to men. I'm telling

1689
01:18:38,000 --> 01:18:40,800
Speaker 3: you that, and this is me being honest. Do not

1690
01:18:41,120 --> 01:18:43,720
Speaker 3: listen to words, because a man will drag you through

1691
01:18:43,760 --> 01:18:46,000
Speaker 3: the dirt and then he'll come back and be like, oh, no,

1692
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:47,800
Speaker 3: I love you, I love you, I care about you,

1693
01:18:47,840 --> 01:18:50,160
Speaker 3: I care about you. Then two days later he acting

1694
01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:54,280
Speaker 3: an ass. Show me I need to see it. Yeah,

1695
01:18:54,320 --> 01:18:56,840
Speaker 3: I'm not listening. I don't care because the words sounds

1696
01:18:56,920 --> 01:18:59,560
Speaker 3: so good. Look at William Shakespeare what he did to

1697
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:00,639
Speaker 3: be or.

1698
01:19:00,680 --> 01:19:03,880
Speaker 2: Not to be, and well, if we being completely honest,

1699
01:19:03,960 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 2: I don't even think that applies any situation because it

1700
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:07,320
Speaker 2: ain't no words.

1701
01:19:07,400 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 1: He's not saying nothing to you. He not even saying

1702
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:10,479
Speaker 1: high worse.

1703
01:19:10,880 --> 01:19:13,080
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. The actions match, but I was

1704
01:19:13,120 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 3: saying the words because of what he told her prior. Oh,

1705
01:19:17,040 --> 01:19:18,880
Speaker 3: our feelings are progressing too much.

1706
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:22,519
Speaker 1: I can't do this. I can't listen to that. A'm

1707
01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:23,280
Speaker 1: paying attention to that.

1708
01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 2: But the thing is his actions is following that, right,

1709
01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:29,200
Speaker 2: It's not like he giving you mixed signals. Like he said,

1710
01:19:29,240 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 2: he feels like it's progressing too quickly, and now he

1711
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:34,200
Speaker 2: acting like you don't exist. I think that you should

1712
01:19:34,240 --> 01:19:36,320
Speaker 2: just move on. It would be different if he said

1713
01:19:36,360 --> 01:19:38,719
Speaker 2: that and then when he see you, y'all are still

1714
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 2: gazing yeah eyes or he's giving you any type of

1715
01:19:42,360 --> 01:19:44,760
Speaker 2: hope that you know it could be something, but he

1716
01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 2: not giving you no hope.

1717
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:48,600
Speaker 1: He giving you nothing. And I always say, do a

1718
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 1: thirty day. De talks thirty days.

1719
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:54,200
Speaker 3: Don't look at his social media, don't look at his stories,

1720
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:57,680
Speaker 3: don't call him, don't text him, completely no contact for

1721
01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,160
Speaker 3: thirty days. You will literally not know the exis this

1722
01:20:00,200 --> 01:20:05,280
Speaker 3: anymore fiercely? So do a full detox chap all right, Drea?

1723
01:20:05,479 --> 01:20:06,280
Speaker 1: Question number two?

1724
01:20:06,479 --> 01:20:09,400
Speaker 2: Okay, question number two, Hey, Drea and Lex, I love

1725
01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:11,799
Speaker 2: y'all so much and hope y'all see this. I'm twenty

1726
01:20:11,840 --> 01:20:14,479
Speaker 2: one and I've been with my boyfriend for six years.

1727
01:20:14,680 --> 01:20:17,479
Speaker 2: We're high school sweethearts and he's my first for everything

1728
01:20:18,120 --> 01:20:21,000
Speaker 2: over the years. I've naturally gained some weight since high school,

1729
01:20:21,240 --> 01:20:23,439
Speaker 2: but he constantly brings it up in a negative way

1730
01:20:23,520 --> 01:20:27,040
Speaker 2: during arguments. He makes comments that make me feel insecure

1731
01:20:27,160 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 2: and it hurts because I've never made him feel bad

1732
01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:30,360
Speaker 2: about his appearance.

1733
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:32,960
Speaker 1: Lately, he's been mean.

1734
01:20:33,120 --> 01:20:35,479
Speaker 2: Starts fights out of nowhere, and acts like he doesn't

1735
01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:36,720
Speaker 2: care about my feelings.

1736
01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:39,680
Speaker 1: I do everything for him, but he never acknowledges it.

1737
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 2: I don't nag or hold things in, I communicate, but

1738
01:20:43,240 --> 01:20:46,719
Speaker 2: he still makes me feel unappreciated. I know he's not cheating,

1739
01:20:46,840 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 2: I've checked, but sometimes I wonder if he wants to

1740
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:52,360
Speaker 2: step out and see what's out there. He wasn't always

1741
01:20:52,479 --> 01:20:56,280
Speaker 2: like this, but after high school he changed. Honestly, I'm

1742
01:20:56,280 --> 01:20:59,800
Speaker 2: tired of getting I'm tired of feeling disrespected and unvalued.

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01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:06,040
Speaker 1: Should I leave or keep trying? Please help God, don't

1744
01:21:06,040 --> 01:21:08,200
Speaker 1: bless no mess. I feel like you should leave. You

1745
01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:08,639
Speaker 1: should leave.

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01:21:08,680 --> 01:21:13,400
Speaker 3: You're too young. And one thing about it, I feel like,

1747
01:21:13,400 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 3: like I always say, I am a strong believer, believer

1748
01:21:16,200 --> 01:21:17,360
Speaker 3: in the let them theory.

1749
01:21:17,840 --> 01:21:20,680
Speaker 1: You gotta let people do them. So sometimes you have

1750
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:21,559
Speaker 1: to walk away from.

1751
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:24,200
Speaker 3: A situation and you'll see what a person really wants.

1752
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:26,960
Speaker 3: If you walk away from a person, man or a woman,

1753
01:21:27,000 --> 01:21:29,759
Speaker 3: and they fight for you, they're doing the effort, they're

1754
01:21:29,800 --> 01:21:32,519
Speaker 3: getting the they're changing, they're really showing up for you.

1755
01:21:32,600 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 3: That's a person that really wants to.

1756
01:21:33,960 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 1: Be with you.

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01:21:34,680 --> 01:21:36,680
Speaker 3: But if you walk away from somebody and they just

1758
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:39,360
Speaker 3: they're okay with it, they're okay with your absence, that

1759
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:43,519
Speaker 3: ain't the person for you. I truly believe that one

1760
01:21:43,600 --> 01:21:46,439
Speaker 3: day all the good men and all the good women

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01:21:46,479 --> 01:21:49,080
Speaker 3: will find each other and just be together.

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01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 1: You know how old the earth is. Come on now,

1763
01:21:53,600 --> 01:21:55,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if this okay. Come on now. We

1764
01:21:55,360 --> 01:21:57,719
Speaker 1: gotta keep it positive. But we've been here for a while.

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01:21:57,760 --> 01:22:01,000
Speaker 3: And but I will say that it's okay to walk

1766
01:22:01,040 --> 01:22:03,200
Speaker 3: away from things that no longer serve you.

1767
01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:06,639
Speaker 1: And if you're what are.

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01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:08,360
Speaker 3: Sometimes we have to ask ourselves, like what are what

1769
01:22:08,400 --> 01:22:10,840
Speaker 3: am I walking away from? You're walking away from somebody

1770
01:22:10,840 --> 01:22:13,679
Speaker 3: who makes you feel unattractive, who makes you feel unloved?

1771
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:15,800
Speaker 1: Walk away because you know what.

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01:22:16,720 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 3: I was in a relationship before a while, a long

1773
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:21,519
Speaker 3: time ago, and I was gaining a weight, and we

1774
01:22:21,560 --> 01:22:24,400
Speaker 3: started going to the gym together. That's what a real

1775
01:22:24,439 --> 01:22:26,360
Speaker 3: man gonna do. Hey, baby, let's go work out together.

1776
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:28,280
Speaker 3: You know, we both gained a little way. I always say,

1777
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 3: it's not about what you say, it's how you say it.

1778
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:33,760
Speaker 3: So I think that this is a young man who

1779
01:22:33,760 --> 01:22:36,880
Speaker 3: probably does want to be outside because if y'all, y'all

1780
01:22:36,920 --> 01:22:38,920
Speaker 3: are probably the same age. But she said six years

1781
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 3: y'all were high school sweethearts, So y'all are the same age.

1782
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:46,880
Speaker 1: Girl, that man gotta grow and so do you. Yeah, Sez,

1783
01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: I feel like you should just let he go.

1784
01:22:48,520 --> 01:22:51,640
Speaker 2: Y'all are young, you gonna find somebody else, And I

1785
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 2: feel like that's unhealthy, Like no matter what age.

1786
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:56,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all are young.

1787
01:22:56,960 --> 01:22:59,040
Speaker 2: But I feel like if he always peeking at you

1788
01:22:59,200 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 2: and saying niggaive stuff about your appearance, that's not something

1789
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:04,960
Speaker 2: that I see changing, you know, I feel like it's

1790
01:23:05,000 --> 01:23:08,320
Speaker 2: just gonna get worse and progress as y'all get older,

1791
01:23:08,640 --> 01:23:11,280
Speaker 2: because that's not the way to motivate somebody to want

1792
01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 2: to lose weight. If he wants you to lose weight,

1793
01:23:14,200 --> 01:23:15,760
Speaker 2: or if he feel like, oh, you don't put on

1794
01:23:15,840 --> 01:23:18,240
Speaker 2: a few pounds, like Lick said, maybe go Maybe y'all

1795
01:23:18,280 --> 01:23:20,200
Speaker 2: should go to the gym together. Maybe he should offer

1796
01:23:20,280 --> 01:23:22,760
Speaker 2: to go on walks and stuff with you. Maybe he

1797
01:23:22,840 --> 01:23:25,680
Speaker 2: should offer for y'all to like meal prep together and

1798
01:23:26,160 --> 01:23:29,439
Speaker 2: eat healthier and y'all be accountability partners.

1799
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 1: If that's something that he's good at and you're not.

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01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:34,880
Speaker 2: I feel like picking at somebody and talking shit about

1801
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:37,600
Speaker 2: they appearance is not the way to motivate them to

1802
01:23:37,640 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 2: do anything. And if he doing it now is twenty one,

1803
01:23:40,680 --> 01:23:43,720
Speaker 2: he gonna keep doing it as y'all relationship continues to

1804
01:23:43,760 --> 01:23:46,360
Speaker 2: go on, because that's just a negative characteristic that a

1805
01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:51,559
Speaker 2: person has. Yeah, I think you young. I'm sure you're beautiful.

1806
01:23:51,600 --> 01:23:53,679
Speaker 2: You have a lot ahead of you in life, because

1807
01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:57,200
Speaker 2: twenty one is so young, so young, So yeah, he

1808
01:23:57,280 --> 01:24:00,679
Speaker 2: o high school, sweet Harbor girl. It's more out there,

1809
01:24:00,680 --> 01:24:02,240
Speaker 2: and it's men out there that are gonna love you

1810
01:24:02,280 --> 01:24:04,320
Speaker 2: the way you are currently. And if you do want

1811
01:24:04,320 --> 01:24:06,400
Speaker 2: to lose weight, is men out there that are going

1812
01:24:06,479 --> 01:24:09,160
Speaker 2: to motivate you in a much more positive and loving

1813
01:24:09,240 --> 01:24:11,280
Speaker 2: way to do so.

1814
01:24:11,280 --> 01:24:13,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, I agree with one thousand percent.

1815
01:24:15,000 --> 01:24:20,200
Speaker 3: All right now, So make sure y'all tune in every Friday,

1816
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:25,400
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1817
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1818
01:24:29,320 --> 01:24:36,120
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1819
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1820
01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:44,320
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1821
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1822
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1823
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1824
01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:56,400
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1825
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1826
01:25:00,000 --> 01:25:03,160
Speaker 2: To drop the new blog a few days ago, and yeah,

1827
01:25:03,160 --> 01:25:06,240
Speaker 2: they drop every week. It's blogs, beauty content. I kind

1828
01:25:06,280 --> 01:25:08,080
Speaker 2: of try to switch it up. It's not blogs every

1829
01:25:08,080 --> 01:25:10,759
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1830
01:25:11,000 --> 01:25:12,960
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1831
01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:16,160
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1832
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1833
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:22,519
Speaker 3: that good stuff. And let me say this before we

1834
01:25:22,560 --> 01:25:26,600
Speaker 3: close off, y'all. There is one Twitter account that is

1835
01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:30,560
Speaker 3: connected to poor Minds. It's p oh, you are underscore

1836
01:25:31,000 --> 01:25:34,639
Speaker 3: in my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page.

1837
01:25:34,960 --> 01:25:37,479
Speaker 3: If you see at poor Minds with no underscore that

1838
01:25:37,560 --> 01:25:39,479
Speaker 3: is at fake page, do not follow that page.

1839
01:25:39,520 --> 01:25:41,040
Speaker 1: Okay they block.

1840
01:25:40,840 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 3: Me Andrea and the poor Minds page on both so

1841
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:49,840
Speaker 3: we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one TikTok.

1842
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 2: It is p O you are underscore in my nds.

1843
01:25:53,080 --> 01:25:56,599
Speaker 2: I and we got a hell a fake Facebook page on.

1844
01:25:56,600 --> 01:25:58,599
Speaker 1: The Facebook page our face.

1845
01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:01,600
Speaker 2: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

1846
01:26:01,720 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 2: least amount of follow.

1847
01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 3: So if you want to face, the one that's hours

1848
01:26:05,320 --> 01:26:06,600
Speaker 3: got the least amount.

1849
01:26:06,280 --> 01:26:09,000
Speaker 1: Of but one that's not us got like two hundred

1850
01:26:09,040 --> 01:26:09,400
Speaker 1: and fifty.

1851
01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,200
Speaker 3: Make if you actually look at the content, because the

1852
01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:15,320
Speaker 3: caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, because

1853
01:26:15,360 --> 01:26:17,360
Speaker 3: their catches are like bumba clade?

1854
01:26:17,360 --> 01:26:21,639
Speaker 1: Should men? Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes?

1855
01:26:21,720 --> 01:26:21,760
Speaker 3: No?

1856
01:26:23,080 --> 01:26:29,400
Speaker 1: Check answer below block block, Like that's literally what the caption.

1857
01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 3: I'm like you what that DG is bumba claude, bumba claude.

1858
01:26:34,080 --> 01:26:38,479
Speaker 3: I was forced into this, but we're gonna make it work.

1859
01:26:40,360 --> 01:26:46,280
Speaker 2: Dance tonight. I wonna chust tonight. I spend my money tonight.

1860
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:51,680
Speaker 2: I spend my money tonight, my money, yeah tonight. I

1861
01:26:51,760 --> 01:26:55,920
Speaker 2: want to toast tonight, my money tonight.

1862
01:26:56,320 --> 01:26:58,320
Speaker 1: I wanted it freak tonight.

1863
01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 2: Baby, Yeah, we need to do It's fine, brand new,

1864
01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:07,439
Speaker 2: it's for you. Make sure that you look good, make

1865
01:27:07,479 --> 01:27:11,519
Speaker 2: sure that I smell good. Let's purchase to New Bentley.

1866
01:27:12,080 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 2: I know that, so glad it's not that windy. Here

1867
01:27:17,120 --> 01:27:19,439
Speaker 2: comes there girl named Donnie.

1868
01:27:19,320 --> 01:27:21,000
Speaker 1: As if she wants to go.

1869
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 2: Tonight's gonna we havet fuzz show, big dancing on the floor,

1870
01:27:26,479 --> 01:27:32,160
Speaker 2: folk shripping, I don't know, money feeding everywhere, Champagne, we

1871
01:27:32,240 --> 01:27:36,920
Speaker 2: won't go there, Bottles popping in the yeah, the screaming.

1872
01:27:37,240 --> 01:27:41,920
Speaker 1: I don't can dance tonight. I want to so tonight.

1873
01:27:42,240 --> 01:27:43,080
Speaker 3: I'll spend my.

1874
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:47,320
Speaker 2: Money tonight, my money, money tonight, spend my.

1875
01:27:47,439 --> 01:27:58,000
Speaker 1: Money, yes tonight. I wanna tonight free tonight, baby yeah,

1876
01:27:59,439 --> 01:28:02,639
Speaker 1: I kind of eight man shout out to Lucy power.

1877
01:28:02,760 --> 01:28:04,600
Speaker 1: This weekends so long.

1878
01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:06,920
Speaker 3: This I was.

1879
01:28:10,720 --> 01:28:14,439
Speaker 1: A couple of fresh Yeah. I don't need to settle down.

1880
01:28:15,000 --> 01:28:18,600
Speaker 1: My body don't know how right there. I see you

1881
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:22,759
Speaker 1: looking sure, hope that you're not took in. Don't get

1882
01:28:22,800 --> 01:28:25,479
Speaker 1: lost in the crowd. This place is.

1883
01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:29,599
Speaker 2: So damn wild. Go ahead and fly show ice, go

1884
01:28:29,640 --> 01:28:33,879
Speaker 2: ahead to what you like. I'm feeling just as flies.

1885
01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:36,080
Speaker 2: Oh you hear your sons, and I.

1886
01:28:35,880 --> 01:28:41,080
Speaker 3: Wonna dance tonight. I wonna toast tonight. I'll spend my

1887
01:28:41,280 --> 01:28:45,000
Speaker 3: money tonight. I spend my money tonight.

1888
01:28:44,680 --> 01:28:46,880
Speaker 1: I spend my bonny, Yeah.

1889
01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:54,760
Speaker 2: Tonight, I wanna toast tonight, tonight money tonight, freaky tonight.

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01:28:54,600 --> 01:29:03,439
Speaker 1: Freaking you was already, but my money said my money,

1891
01:29:04,560 --> 01:29:09,480
Speaker 1: yeah man, What thing about us? Y'all eating karaoke? Motherfucking

1892
01:29:09,560 --> 01:29:10,840
Speaker 1: here ah y'all