WEBVTT - Howdy Farmers! 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:07.360 Hey there, folks, send this episode of Amy and TJ. 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:11.360 You know, we love our reality dating shows, but at 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:15.880 some point Love Island, merit It First Sight gets a 0:00:15.920 --> 0:00:17.760 little old. So we were looking for something new and 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:23.280 we have found our new obsession. Farmer wants a wife. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.840 It's so and with that, welcome to this episode. We 0:00:25.920 --> 0:00:27.760 got the Farmers in the room right now. But Robes, 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:30.800 we are for real here. We have been very disappointed 0:00:30.880 --> 0:00:33.360 lately with some merit at First Sight and the other 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:37.040 season of Love is Blind because they start to manipulate 0:00:37.360 --> 0:00:39.640 the process and it's not authentic. So we were looking 0:00:39.680 --> 0:00:42.839 for some authenticity somewhere and maybe we found it out. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:44.720 We found it because you are correct. 0:00:44.760 --> 0:00:46.559 We have You have said I don't think I can 0:00:46.600 --> 0:00:48.839 watch some of these shows anymore, because what happens is 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:52.319 they become such a storied franchise that people who then 0:00:52.400 --> 0:00:56.520 become casts, I guess cast members of the next season 0:00:56.760 --> 0:00:59.639 you're famous, try and manipulate and say, oh, I don't 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:01.360 want to look bad here and I want to make 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:04.360 this look like that. And they're not actually just dating 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:06.880 or there for the experience. They're there for their Instagram 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:09.480 followings or to you know, and that's always going to 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:10.720 be a part of a reality show. 0:01:10.760 --> 0:01:11.240 I get it. 0:01:11.680 --> 0:01:15.240 But if you're actually watching people who are truly looking 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:16.800 for love, you can tell, right. 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:18.760 I feel like at this point we can tell. 0:01:18.880 --> 0:01:21.320 I feel like we've been manipulated through a couple of 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:23.720 seasons to some of these shows. But we have just 0:01:23.760 --> 0:01:25.760 started Farmer Once a White. Now we've only gone through 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.720 two episodes. It's just starting up. It's third season. 0:01:28.720 --> 0:01:28.880 Though. 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:35.320 Yep, I was blown away at how much I immediately 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:37.720 got into the show. You me and Sabine sitting down 0:01:38.520 --> 0:01:40.760 as soon as we saw the guy's faces, we just say, hey, 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:42.559 who's your favorite? 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:46.000 And we picked and we had our favorites. 0:01:46.880 --> 0:01:49.440 You want to tell them, no, of course, not no, 0:01:49.560 --> 0:01:51.680 but we just it was fun because you're rooting for 0:01:52.560 --> 0:01:56.440 different farmers, and then you're rooting for different girls who 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.160 are competing for the farmer's hearts. 0:01:58.240 --> 0:02:00.160 Let's get to the fellas. Now we got farmers Jo, 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:04.120 Farmer Jay, farmer Colton, and who am I missing? Farmer Matt. 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.840 Now Colton's not in the room because Colton just couldn't 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:08.919 make you here today, but love you brother, We will 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:11.360 talk to you later. But the fellas are in the room. Now, 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.240 tell me, first of all, how has your life changed 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:18.079 since this first episode of Farmer Wants a Wife Night 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:19.000 and day? 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:22.080 Well, I guess on the social media front night and day, 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:25.560 but back home, nothing's changed. Everybody's still the same, real 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:28.119 close and I love being outside and everything. 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.240 But yeah, while we were filming. 0:02:31.360 --> 0:02:33.240 Talk about a night and day difference that was like 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:34.560 Hollywood at our doorstep. 0:02:35.080 --> 0:02:38.560 Wow, not something you're used to, not at all, Matt Jay, 0:02:38.560 --> 0:02:40.720 How how's life been different for you? 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:43.480 Guys? It was funny because this show, I always tell 0:02:43.480 --> 0:02:45.639 everyone is different because it's in our homes. Like the 0:02:45.680 --> 0:02:48.560 girls moved into our houses. It's filmed on our ranches 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:50.160 nearest to our families, and a lot of stuff orre'sus. 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:51.840 All these other shows are like at these you know, 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:54.600 third party locations. So you're literally just like hanging out 0:02:54.600 --> 0:02:57.440 at home one day and all these like big box 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:00.280 trucks show up and camera equipment and crews and all stuff, 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:02.600 and you're like, what's overwhelming because we're just like regular guys. 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:04.760 You know, it's all of a sudden this all shows up, 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:06.640 and like the girls show up and it's like you know, 0:03:06.760 --> 0:03:09.480 mayhem for like five weeks or whatever it was, and 0:03:09.480 --> 0:03:11.720 then they pack up one day and then gone, wow, 0:03:12.280 --> 0:03:15.880 there yourself again. Such an experience. 0:03:16.360 --> 0:03:17.680 Farmer Jay, What was it like for you? 0:03:17.840 --> 0:03:20.160 Yeah, kind of like they said, you go from, especially 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:22.639 being from a small town like Florence, Alabama. You got 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.880 all these box trucks and camera crew following you all 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:27.680 around Florence, and everybody like, what's going on now? I 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:30.400 got all these cousins popping up texting my phone like 0:03:30.680 --> 0:03:35.680 oh congratulations, come yeah. So but you know, it's a 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:38.560 great experience for sure, and you usually soak it all lean, so. 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:41.280 You don't seem to be soaking it in. We were 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.080 joking a little bit at the top, and I'm serious. 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.240 I think before we ever heard any of one of 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.000 you will speak, and we do this at our house. 0:03:47.040 --> 0:03:51.320 We watched these, uh these dating shows and I said, boom, 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:55.360 that's my guy, farmer John me and my daughter, that's 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:58.360 my before you said a word, before anything happened, I said, 0:03:58.400 --> 0:04:01.160 that's what. You just had an energy of vibe, a swagger. 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:03.360 Yeah right, And it was a it was a confidence. 0:04:03.400 --> 0:04:05.480 It was a quiet confidence in the swagger. But I 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:07.760 will tell you by the end of the episode, oh boy, 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:11.560 So I'm done with that, dude. We'll explain why in 0:04:11.600 --> 0:04:11.960 a second. 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:19.200 But why because if he was your guy, she was. 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:20.040 Not your girl. 0:04:20.160 --> 0:04:23.640 Yeah no, no, no no, I was judging you on 0:04:23.720 --> 0:04:24.320 your choices. 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:26.839 I'm sure you want to really tune in for episode 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:27.760 two though she did. 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:28.680 Though we did did. 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:32.159 We've seen episode two as well. We can't wait for three. 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:39.160 We are because your your amazing publicists sent us episode 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:42.479 ahead of everyone else, so we actually the one that's 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:44.520 going to be airing this week, for the for the country, 0:04:44.600 --> 0:04:46.679 for the world, we've actually already seen. 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:50.920 So yes, yeah, we have not so really, it seems 0:04:51.400 --> 0:04:52.160 we just lived it. 0:04:53.880 --> 0:04:55.600 So let me tell you what you did, fellows. 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:58.120 I forgot it so. 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:01.800 And that is interesting. What's it like to watch you? 0:05:01.839 --> 0:05:03.400 I guess you've only seen the first one. 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:06.000 Back now, yeah, only the first one. It's you know, 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.359 weird seeing yourself on camera for the first time, listening 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:09.839 to your own voice. I don't really like it that 0:05:09.960 --> 0:05:12.000 much personally, I'm like, that kind of makes me cringe. 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:14.360 But the other part of it is we would film 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:17.720 like long days, like ten twelve hour days for over 0:05:17.760 --> 0:05:20.080 a month. It felt like an eternity, and then you 0:05:20.080 --> 0:05:22.039 know they have to cut it in do whatever to 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:24.360 get the important parts, but so you don't really know 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:25.880 what it's going to end up like for us at all. 0:05:25.960 --> 0:05:29.080 We're watching it like we really know what it's going 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:30.839 to look like at all. So it's pretty interesting. 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:34.839 Farmer Jay, we had a field day watching. I think 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:36.159 was it the first at least. 0:05:35.960 --> 0:05:37.520 The way they edited it. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:40.440 It was the first girl who came up to you, 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:44.520 and she was a model with the pitch she Julia, 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:45.400 thank you. 0:05:45.440 --> 0:05:48.480 Oh yeah, yeah, I still to forget right there. 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:49.760 Huh. 0:05:49.680 --> 0:05:53.839 We're kind of flown away that she seemed so taken 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:56.600 aback by what life was like on a farm when 0:05:56.640 --> 0:05:59.559 she got on a show called Farmer Wants a Wife 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:05.039 and she and did you a signed autographed yes, very 0:06:05.440 --> 0:06:08.800 very sexy yourself. What did you really think? 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:10.800 Yeah, what I really thought was what I said in 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:12.839 that moment, Like I thought this was a family, so 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:14.599 I didn't know it was gonna just be all the 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:15.560 way out there like that. 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:16.840 But uh, you. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:19.840 Know, it's definitely a very beautiful woman, very beautiful picture 0:06:19.880 --> 0:06:22.240 and uh, you know got my attention enough to bring 0:06:22.240 --> 0:06:23.360 it back to the farm so. 0:06:25.640 --> 0:06:27.800 Where she loved all the bugs and hardware. 0:06:27.880 --> 0:06:30.159 Oh yeah, ready to pick up some horse poop and everything. 0:06:31.040 --> 0:06:33.839 Did you help us with the how the show goes 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:34.880 at first? 0:06:34.920 --> 0:06:35.080 Right? 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:37.560 You all? Were you all recruited? Did you sign up? 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:39.040 How does it go with us? 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.240 It's kind of a mix. I personally was recruited. 0:06:42.600 --> 0:06:45.000 I got a DM on Instagram and sent it to 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:47.119 my family, and my mom and sister are huge fans 0:06:47.120 --> 0:06:48.880 of the show, you know, prior to me send it 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.320 and they said you have to, so of course I 0:06:51.320 --> 0:06:54.680 had to. There's also, you know, a creative way to 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:55.599 find love and stuff. 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:59.880 So yeah, why would you say you hadn't found love yet? 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:01.440 Were you looking for it? Well? 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.640 See, Saint Louis is like it's a big city. 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:05.680 I lived different eight years. 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:07.560 Oh yeah, so you get. It's a big small town. 0:07:07.600 --> 0:07:10.200 Everybody knows everybody, you grew up with everybody, and then 0:07:10.520 --> 0:07:12.320 you know, people who you dated in the past are 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:15.240 dating your friends and so on and so forth. So 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:17.160 you know, I just kind of wanted to find a 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:19.679 different way to spice it up, meet people from around 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:21.880 the country and have a fun way of doing it. 0:07:22.600 --> 0:07:26.520 How about you, Matt, Yeah, same thing. I never planned 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:29.520 on doing something like this, and I even said no 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.880 several times. They reached out to me on Instagram as well, 0:07:31.920 --> 0:07:32.960 and I was like, I don't think that's for me, 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:34.840 but all my friends were like, you know, what else 0:07:34.880 --> 0:07:36.800 are you doing? Like you got to do this for us, 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:37.040 you know. 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:41.520 I was like, all right, we would like to live 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:42.720 vicariously through. 0:07:42.760 --> 0:07:44.360 We're going to talk to you. Don't do it? Oh well, 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:46.920 But after I got to talk to the producers more, 0:07:46.960 --> 0:07:48.880 I started and like learn more about their shows, like 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:52.440 this actually is pretty legit, Like they really dive into 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.360 like what you're looking for, and like get to learn 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:56.960 you You talk to them a lot on the phone, 0:07:57.080 --> 0:07:58.720 and then they go when they you know, go through 0:07:58.720 --> 0:08:01.640 all the women like first day one, like all the 0:08:01.720 --> 0:08:03.640 eight were pretty close to like what I'm looking for. 0:08:03.680 --> 0:08:06.360 They checked over boxes, all you know, pretty and all 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:06.920 that kind of stuff. 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:10.200 So yeah, Jay, how did the same thing? 0:08:10.320 --> 0:08:12.400 Yeah? They slayd in my DMS. Wow. 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:17.360 So it's funny story. Actually, So my sister was getting married, 0:08:17.400 --> 0:08:19.600 had a wedding shower and one of her coworkers like, 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.400 is your brother single? She was like, yeah, and he'd 0:08:22.400 --> 0:08:24.400 be perfect for this one show. I never heard her 0:08:24.400 --> 0:08:26.440 show at this point in time. Next thing, I know, 0:08:26.480 --> 0:08:28.440 like a day or two later in the DM. So 0:08:28.760 --> 0:08:30.640 that's the only reason I kind of responded right there 0:08:30.640 --> 0:08:32.360 because I had a heads up, I guess. And then, 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:36.319 you know, like they said, just being from a small town, 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:40.080 especially like Florence, Alabama, either related to everybody or everybody 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.920 already off the market, so it's hard to find, you know, 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:45.560 true love down there if you mighty, So I had 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:47.360 to find an unconventional way of doing that. 0:08:48.120 --> 0:08:51.360 But okay, so you all get selected that way. How 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:54.120 does it work? How did it go about getting down 0:08:54.120 --> 0:08:56.120 to the eight women that you will hit? 0:08:56.200 --> 0:08:56.480 You will? 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.080 They gave you a list? How did that work that 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.120 the eight women end up being your eight women at 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:00.840 the beginning of the show? 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:02.600 Yeah, like Matt said, we spent a lot of time 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:05.360 on the phone basically explaining our preferences and like what 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.440 we see in an ideal wife. So they I don't 0:09:08.440 --> 0:09:10.679 know how they did it, but they somehow found a 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:15.079 massive list of women that basically met all of those standards. 0:09:15.640 --> 0:09:17.440 And yeah, so that's why it was really hard on 0:09:17.440 --> 0:09:22.319 the first day to facause everybody was like perfect, well, yeah. 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:24.840 The conversations were almost tough because it's like, you know, 0:09:24.920 --> 0:09:26.480 do you have faith? Yes, Like, do you care about 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:29.360 your family, Yes, like do you like it was? Yeah, 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.440 everything was already checked day one, so yeah, then you're 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:34.160 just really looking for more of like a connection, I 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:36.320 guess you could say, right, so you're not you know, 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:38.320 it's hard to weed them out by based off like 0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:39.040 basic stuff. 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:42.760 Right, So we got a list of like forty two 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:44.720 I think more than that. 0:09:44.840 --> 0:09:46.080 Yeah, it was like it was. 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:48.200 It was on a rolling basis. You get more every 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:49.680 week or whatever, and then you rank. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:52.480 It's a bad word to use, but unfortunate. There's nothing else, 0:09:52.520 --> 0:09:54.240 but you'd rank your preferences like. 0:09:54.840 --> 0:09:55.520 Favorite to leave. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:59.000 Basically, here's ideally, here's like my top ten. Oun't He's like, 0:09:59.040 --> 0:09:59.800 these would be my. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:01.880 So they had a photo and then like a resume 0:10:01.960 --> 0:10:02.600 next to the photo. 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:07.040 Yeah yeah, but they had to rank us too though, Yes, 0:10:07.120 --> 0:10:11.360 so like they ranked the farmers, So you know thought, that's. 0:10:11.200 --> 0:10:12.600 What I thought. That makes a lot of sense. So 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:16.000 we were saying that one of our favorite parts about 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:18.040 the show is just how authentic it seems, and just 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.160 seeing you all here and meeting you all in person, 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:24.160 it's so genuine and that's what makes the show so good. 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:25.960 Y'all are the real deal. 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:29.600 You're actually farmers, you're actually looking for love's and so 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:32.280 I think that's what translated for us immediately when we 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:36.080 started watching the show. What about the women, I'm curious 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:38.080 what it's like for you to try to figure out 0:10:38.200 --> 0:10:41.360 who's here for the real reasons for actually wanting to 0:10:41.400 --> 0:10:44.840 find a husband, and who's here to become insta famous. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:46.320 Did you guys have a hard time with that or 0:10:46.360 --> 0:10:47.200 was it easy to spot? 0:10:47.400 --> 0:10:47.679 Well? 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:50.800 I think I said this in another interview not too 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:53.320 long ago, that you could kind of tell just by 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:55.600 little things they said, like this is my good side 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:57.680 or whatever like that, Like you know what I'm saying, 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:59.200 And like, and I get it, you do you know 0:10:59.240 --> 0:11:00.760 you're on TV even get eybody see it. 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.600 But like, is you're really here for the right reason? 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:04.000 Are here for me? Are you worried about how you 0:11:04.000 --> 0:11:04.240 look on? 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:05.880 You don't want to hear that when you're trying to 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:07.160 know why? Yes, that's so? 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:07.920 Yeah? 0:11:08.080 --> 0:11:11.280 But you all can you all? Who was it which 0:11:11.320 --> 0:11:13.240 one of you had? The women had to do a long, 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.000 like high hill walk on the gravel? 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:16.280 That was it? 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:19.760 He goes, is it hard to walk in heels and gravel? 0:11:19.800 --> 0:11:21.440 I said, absolutely? 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:25.000 It is hot out yeah, And it was way farther 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:28.400 than you even think, and I would like, couldn't stand 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:29.920 up till they got there. So I just had to 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.000 sit there and like watch watch some struggle down this 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:35.680 path and then like, you know, try not to be 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:36.319 too awkward. 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:38.680 Jay and I and Golden Rup they're sitting in the 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:42.000 air conditioning just watching Matt suffer in this blaze, wearing 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:42.880 all black. 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:48.239 Sweating in Alabama, that Alabama heating, no jokes. 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.760 But you all could tell as they're making their way, 0:11:51.160 --> 0:11:55.440 could you? You? You you didn't lead let on necessarily 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.360 in front of the cameras, but did you all know 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.240 as soon as someone came up, as soon as they 0:11:59.280 --> 0:12:03.079 sat down? All almost that. Nah, this isn't gonna. 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.120 Work for some of them some yeah, not majority of no, 0:12:06.240 --> 0:12:07.679 but yes, yeah, yeah. 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.000 To see a photo was one thing, but to see 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:12.320 someone in person is a completely rather a thing. 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:15.840 Yeah, yeah, it's an interesting one. 0:12:16.280 --> 0:12:22.280 Yeah, Farmer John, Can we talk about mean flirting? 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:22.960 Sure? 0:12:23.240 --> 0:12:24.880 Yeah, what's the allure? 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:31.040 I don't know, it's I guess I do it sometimes, 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:32.920 so it's like, I don't know, it's. 0:12:32.800 --> 0:12:37.320 Just I mean, I love a fun back and forth. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:41.040 That's just a little edgy, But like, mean is a 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:43.120 whole other level. I didn't see you being mean. 0:12:44.200 --> 0:12:46.600 No, I didn't do it on the right the show. 0:12:46.760 --> 0:12:46.920 No. 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:51.559 Oh okay, but but you know, obviously you're with these 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:54.000 girls more than you're just on the camera. So it's 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:57.960 like there are relationships also off the camera, but mainly 0:12:58.000 --> 0:12:59.760 the camera ones are the most important and the ones 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:04.640 that I actually show the relationship flourishing. So I mean you, 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:06.560 I assume we're talking about Samantha. 0:13:06.760 --> 0:13:09.880 We are talking about yes, and for those who haven't 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.040 watched yet, just wait for it. 0:13:12.120 --> 0:13:16.920 Yes, Yeah, Samantha is the reason you will question farmer John. Yeah, 0:13:17.760 --> 0:13:20.360 we'll love him at the beginning. At the end, you're like, 0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:21.280 is this the guy for me? 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:23.520 Just we'll find out. 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:25.680 But you know what that was part of I said, 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:28.480 that is cool. You never got worked up when I 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:30.720 thought it was plenty of times that she was clearly 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:32.720 in the wrong, and some of her behavior was like, 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:35.800 are you serious, young lady? Right now? You were cool 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:39.079 and chill the whole time, but you never necessarily playcated. 0:13:39.120 --> 0:13:42.640 You never necessarily caved. And I watched that go down, 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:45.839 and I'm sure I was impressed. My love here recognized 0:13:45.880 --> 0:13:49.439 some of that in the same way. So I loved it. 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:55.040 But still I will say this, when they're talking to 0:13:55.040 --> 0:13:56.400 the camera, that's called an OTF. 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:58.560 Okay, we don't see that. 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.120 So whatever she's saying to the camera is what's happening 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:04.199 in her head. So I don't see that. The only 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:05.760 thing I saw was our ten minute date. 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:06.080 That we had. 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:08.400 We still don't know what we still don't do it 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:10.440 like up until the end of the show, we're not 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:11.480 going to know what they were thinking. 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:14.960 How fun is that for y'all to see what they 0:14:15.000 --> 0:14:19.120 say to the camera versus what you experienced. 0:14:18.600 --> 0:14:19.480 With them in personally. 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.240 I can assure you I'm very interested. 0:14:21.280 --> 0:14:23.560 Now I'm trying to think. I'm trying to remember some 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:24.760 of those did they. 0:14:24.520 --> 0:14:26.440 We have seen the second episode and they. 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:28.640 Have not, But did some of the women say these things? 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:29.640 They might be surprised. 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:34.200 Yes, it was like a other level. She said things 0:14:34.240 --> 0:14:35.880 to you, But then what she said to the camera, 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:38.640 I mean, I don't know. As a woman. My jaw dropped. 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.480 I think have some more sympathy for me. 0:14:45.640 --> 0:14:46.280 Oh my goodness. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.280 Our producer Sydney and I were back and forth texting saying, 0:14:49.400 --> 0:14:52.800 can you believe Oh, yes, there was some of that 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.400 going on already on episode two. 0:14:54.480 --> 0:14:57.520 Yeah, yeah, I mean I was gonna say I think 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:59.840 I know what happens on episode two the first date. 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:03.960 But for you all just and again, I know you 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.640 said the friends, some of them said it sounded fun 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:08.080 and you have to do it and it sounds cool, 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:10.240 and you said even that you know this is a 0:15:10.280 --> 0:15:12.720 better or different way maybe to date. But did you 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:16.280 all all go into this process absolutely thinking you were 0:15:16.280 --> 0:15:18.240 going to come out of this process with a wife. 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:30.360 I would say I didn't like expect it all. I 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.400 was very open to it. I was like, man, this 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:34.840 ends up working out, this could be crazy. So, you know, 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:37.400 it was definitely open to the you know, but also 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:40.200 at the same time, it's like, I'm not gonna be like, oh, 0:15:40.240 --> 0:15:42.040 I'm coming out of this thing with a wife. I 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:43.360 don't know who these girls are going to be. I 0:15:43.400 --> 0:15:45.120 can only you know, I'm just meeting them. I can't 0:15:45.240 --> 0:15:49.400 say that. So uh, definitely really open to it. And after, 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.240 you know, like I said, after meeting the girls, that 0:15:51.280 --> 0:15:53.280 were all wonderful, so I was like, Okay, maybe this 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:56.560 is could work. You know, it was my initial thoughts, 0:15:56.560 --> 0:15:58.200 But then you know, I didn't go into being like, yeah, 0:15:58.200 --> 0:15:59.360 I'm not leaving here with that one. 0:16:00.160 --> 0:16:00.320 Yeah. 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:02.560 Personally, didn't want to put a lot of pressure on it, 0:16:02.640 --> 0:16:04.480 you know, because then you just kind of start, you know, 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:08.040 forcing things, and you're not your authentic self. And in 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:10.080 all honesty, I think some of the girls came into 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:13.520 it maybe forcing it a little bit, really expecting to 0:16:13.640 --> 0:16:15.280 like find your prince charming, your. 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:15.960 Soulmate and stuff. 0:16:16.000 --> 0:16:18.400 So you know, as the season goes on, I think 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:19.640 you'll pick up on some of that stuff. 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:21.840 Girls were crying on your first episode. 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:24.120 Well, I mean, granted, they put a lot on the line. 0:16:24.520 --> 0:16:27.080 I mean, they weren't crying because we broke up. They're 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:28.120 crying because they. 0:16:28.320 --> 0:16:31.160 Don't they felt rejected, right, Yeah, I mean that makes sense. 0:16:31.760 --> 0:16:33.920 It's a lot like you're traveling, you leave your home, 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:35.600 you tell all your friends and your family that you're 0:16:35.680 --> 0:16:39.480 going to do this, and then the one you're gone. 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:42.760 The girls thinking they could be potentially gone for the 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:45.520 entire time, they're all that top for them over a month, 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:47.160 but they might go home the next day. 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:47.920 That makes more sense. 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:49.080 It's a total of mind Like. 0:16:49.240 --> 0:16:52.520 It's expectations, right, You've got this expectation of what could be, 0:16:52.560 --> 0:16:54.480 and then all of a sudden within less than twenty 0:16:54.520 --> 0:16:55.000 four hours. 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:58.880 It's woh, we said that fifty times and watching the 0:16:58.880 --> 0:17:01.200 two episodes, rejection sucks. 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:05.000 Yeahssion sucks. How hard was that for y'all? I mean, 0:17:05.080 --> 0:17:05.960 was that the hardest part? 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:07.720 I don't know what the hardest part was, but I 0:17:07.720 --> 0:17:12.960 would imagine having to reject people would be at the 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.080 top of the list. 0:17:13.920 --> 0:17:14.600 The hardest part. 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:17.879 So, like, after we did all that stuff, I realized, like, 0:17:17.960 --> 0:17:20.000 so on The Bachelor, you know, for saying that comes 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:22.080 down like a ceremony and you you know, the rose 0:17:22.119 --> 0:17:26.560 ceremony that's as ours that ours is a random It 0:17:26.560 --> 0:17:28.720 could be you could let two girls go the first week, 0:17:28.800 --> 0:17:30.440 or you could keep you know, all four or five 0:17:30.480 --> 0:17:32.760 of them till the last week. So it's completely up 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:34.800 to what we want to do, which makes it harder 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:36.359 because you know, you have to let someone go, and 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:37.840 then I would like put it off, you know, I 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:39.879 don't want to do it today, I'll do it tomorrow. 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:41.720 And then like that's a good point. 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:44.840 You're not required to send someone home, so if you do, 0:17:45.000 --> 0:17:47.440 that's voluntary and they know that, Oh. 0:17:47.200 --> 0:17:49.640 That makes so much sense if they're if you're told, hey, 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:51.080 you have to let someone go. 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:52.199 That would have been easier. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:54.200 Each week, for instance, I had that one girl I 0:17:54.240 --> 0:17:56.920 knew it was gonna let go. Meanwhile, all the girls are, 0:17:57.040 --> 0:17:58.560 you know, making dinner to get this one night and 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:00.359 drinking wine. They're having like a black It's like all 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:02.720 the girls are getting along. Finally everything's good, and I'm thinking, 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:04.359 I'm had. I got to send this girl home tonight, 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:06.280 Like yeah, so I have to pull her aside in 0:18:06.280 --> 0:18:08.000 front of all the other girls, like can I talk 0:18:08.040 --> 0:18:08.640 to you over here? 0:18:09.600 --> 0:18:10.720 Well it's also too it's like. 0:18:10.680 --> 0:18:12.720 Well then they know of course, and immediately yeah. 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:14.439 You can, just like in The Bachelor, you can just 0:18:14.520 --> 0:18:16.000 I'm not going to give you a rose and that's it. 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:18.720 We'll hug and say goodbye. This we actually have to 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:22.040 think up a breakup speech, and like actually break up 0:18:22.080 --> 0:18:24.600 with these girls multiple times a month. 0:18:25.200 --> 0:18:26.000 It's insane. 0:18:26.119 --> 0:18:29.440 And once you get one down, they're like, you. 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:31.399 Know, I haven't seen do they tell you? It is 0:18:31.480 --> 0:18:33.440 built up as a moment, like as an event, and 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:35.800 you got to have something ready to say yeah, wow. 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:38.520 If you don't, you're a scumbag. Oh my god. 0:18:38.520 --> 0:18:40.840 I mean, honestly, breaking up is the hardest thing to 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:43.400 do in life, Like so many people can totally relate. 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:46.240 You'll do anything to avoid it because you're just like, yeah, 0:18:46.240 --> 0:18:46.639 I don't. 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:48.399 Want to hurt your feelings. This is going to be 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:51.520 really rough and really tough. I can't even imagine having it. 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:53.720 How so you had to do it four times? 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:54.000 You know? 0:18:54.040 --> 0:18:54.119 You? 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:55.480 Yeah, because you end up with five. 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:58.359 Well technically started eight, so you have the first three, but. 0:18:58.440 --> 0:19:06.560 Those are easy. Come on, you have the Bachelor ceremony 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:07.960 type thing. And that's what I'm meant. 0:19:07.880 --> 0:19:11.800 For those of you listening. That was farmer John. That 0:19:12.119 --> 0:19:13.200 was farmer John. 0:19:13.680 --> 0:19:15.159 Back down to the lower time. 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:20.680 I was about to say that to say. 0:19:19.800 --> 0:19:21.760 I know, take one for the team. Birthday boy. 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:25.200 But what is the expectation at the end of the show. 0:19:25.680 --> 0:19:28.480 Is it that all these shows have some ceremony the 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:31.480 Bachelor expect to get engaged and love is blind you 0:19:31.600 --> 0:19:33.800 to say I'm gonna get married or not. Whatever it is. 0:19:34.160 --> 0:19:36.720 What's the climax of the show at the end, You're 0:19:36.760 --> 0:19:37.760 supposed to do what? 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:41.399 Well, you get down to the two Yeah, families come 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:44.000 into play and so that's a huge part of it. 0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:47.080 And then you know, basically you get down last day, 0:19:47.160 --> 0:19:50.320 last episode, you choose one if you want a big guy. 0:19:50.400 --> 0:19:53.880 Last year didn't choose anybody, So it's really like who 0:19:53.920 --> 0:19:56.159 knows what's gonna happen if you're watching. But for me, 0:19:56.440 --> 0:19:58.040 one of the first questions I asked was like, do 0:19:58.119 --> 0:19:59.840 I have to like get married at the end of this, 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:03.240 you know, because let's you know, be realistic connections. Let's 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:05.400 be realistic, and you're dating a bunch of the girls 0:20:05.400 --> 0:20:07.840 at the same time, I'm not marrying anyone in five weeks. 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:10.199 Yeah, and cameras are rolling, so you don't know if 0:20:10.200 --> 0:20:12.440 you're getting the real version of somebody or somebody who's 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:13.879 actually putting their best self forward. 0:20:14.080 --> 0:20:16.639 For me, it was like, what's my all these girls 0:20:16.680 --> 0:20:19.359 is there's somebody here that I do want to, you know, 0:20:19.440 --> 0:20:20.560 go down that road with. 0:20:21.160 --> 0:20:22.920 And it's really a two way street too, so they 0:20:22.920 --> 0:20:25.239 got to biit a connection with us because they could say, hey, 0:20:25.320 --> 0:20:26.000 I want to lead a. 0:20:25.920 --> 0:20:27.639 Farm now or whatever forever reason. 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:30.680 So that's what I think made it really unique going 0:20:30.720 --> 0:20:32.000 into the process. 0:20:32.480 --> 0:20:36.000 I'm curious what the experience actually was like for each 0:20:36.000 --> 0:20:38.119 of you versus what you thought it was going to be, Like, 0:20:38.160 --> 0:20:41.080 what were the what were the big moments where you 0:20:41.200 --> 0:20:43.440 thought I was not prepared for this. 0:20:44.240 --> 0:20:46.920 I don't think there were any big moments, but generally speaking, 0:20:47.800 --> 0:20:51.160 I did not think to actually develop real serious feelings 0:20:51.160 --> 0:20:54.000 for these girls, like I actually cared for them, and uh, 0:20:54.359 --> 0:20:56.280 you know, sending them home really did hurt. I mean 0:20:56.320 --> 0:20:58.320 it was tough, especially seeing them cry and having to 0:20:58.359 --> 0:20:59.720 leave their friends and all that stuff. 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:00.520 It was it was tough. 0:21:01.320 --> 0:21:03.000 So I think that was the biggest thing, is it 0:21:03.000 --> 0:21:06.000 was a true authentic experience of dating somebody. 0:21:06.920 --> 0:21:07.879 Yeah, definitely. 0:21:08.200 --> 0:21:11.080 I think getting that fast burned. You know, you most 0:21:11.160 --> 0:21:13.199 time in the relationship is kin to start slow. You 0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:15.600 kind of start surface level questions, but you're dipping at 0:21:15.560 --> 0:21:18.160 those deeper questions like in that ten minute speed date, 0:21:18.480 --> 0:21:20.520 and you starting to realize that, Wow, this is a 0:21:20.560 --> 0:21:22.520 great person. I'm really starting to feel this person and 0:21:22.560 --> 0:21:25.600 build that connection. And I wasn't going in and expecting 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:28.240 any of that at all, but it kind of happens. 0:21:28.280 --> 0:21:33.479 So yeah, uh, you know basically what they said too. Second, 0:21:33.520 --> 0:21:37.520 I'm not that but uh, I think just the sheer 0:21:37.560 --> 0:21:40.119 like amount that goes into all this is insane, and 0:21:40.160 --> 0:21:41.800 like we were kind of touched on earlier, like you 0:21:41.840 --> 0:21:44.160 see some of the girls crying, like episode one, there's 0:21:44.160 --> 0:21:46.080 a lot you don't see it, and I'm you know, 0:21:46.119 --> 0:21:49.160 I'm not a huge reality fan or anything, but I've 0:21:49.200 --> 0:21:51.040 seen some of those shows and those girls crying and 0:21:51.040 --> 0:21:52.639 it's like, come on, you just met this person and 0:21:52.680 --> 0:21:55.720 stuff like that. But then once you live it, you realize, 0:21:55.720 --> 0:21:58.119 like how much stress. And I'm like very even keeled, 0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:00.000 you know, a levelheaded person, and I was like a rollercoat. 0:22:00.359 --> 0:22:02.480 I was all over the place. I lost like fifteen 0:22:02.520 --> 0:22:06.040 pounds during that. Yeah, Like I was stressed out traveling 0:22:06.080 --> 0:22:09.520 and everyone's exhausted. You're staying in hotels where you can't 0:22:09.520 --> 0:22:11.240 really leave your room for a couple of days because 0:22:11.280 --> 0:22:13.960 you can't run into other cast. You're not with your 0:22:14.000 --> 0:22:16.080 family of friends, you're away from work, Like it's a lot. 0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:17.879 Give me the time on the phone. You didn't have 0:22:17.960 --> 0:22:18.680 your phone a lot. 0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:21.000 So I was going to you said you lost fifteen pounds. 0:22:21.240 --> 0:22:24.320 Was it the stress of the environment, you have to 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:25.920 go here, you gotta do this press event, you gotta 0:22:25.960 --> 0:22:28.800 do this interview, or was it the stress of finding 0:22:28.840 --> 0:22:31.000 a mate? I mean, which one was leading the way? 0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:32.000 Really that was stressing you out? 0:22:32.040 --> 0:22:32.159 Well? 0:22:32.200 --> 0:22:35.080 Yeah, more so letting the girls go is tough, yeah, 0:22:35.119 --> 0:22:37.840 because you really like get into the moment and they're 0:22:38.560 --> 0:22:41.080 you know, at least for me, my girls were very serious. 0:22:41.760 --> 0:22:43.359 I think I'm the oldest one in the other groups. 0:22:44.000 --> 0:22:45.720 My group of girls were older too, and I think 0:22:45.720 --> 0:22:48.240 they were really there, you know, for the right reasons. 0:22:48.680 --> 0:22:51.280 So everyone's like very invested in it. And they're living 0:22:51.320 --> 0:22:52.960 in your house. I mean, you're not like at a hope, 0:22:53.119 --> 0:22:55.720 you know, yeah whatever event like that one girl was 0:22:55.800 --> 0:22:59.320 living in my room. I wasn't there, Like, you know, 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:00.800 they're making food in your kitchen. 0:23:01.240 --> 0:23:02.280 It's deeply personal. 0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:05.600 Oh yeah, yeah, it's not just a random guy you met, 0:23:05.720 --> 0:23:07.359 you know, in some vacation spot. 0:23:08.000 --> 0:23:11.080 It interested me when you said you had to stay separate. 0:23:11.160 --> 0:23:13.520 I was curious, did you have any idea what was 0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:15.600 going on with the other farmers when you were in 0:23:15.640 --> 0:23:19.600 your bubble, in your world with your girls. I was 0:23:19.880 --> 0:23:23.119 curious because the first episode, we won't give anything away, 0:23:23.640 --> 0:23:27.000 but you all were given the option, as you mentioned, 0:23:27.000 --> 0:23:29.399 it wasn't mandatory to send someone home if you realized 0:23:29.440 --> 0:23:31.520 there wasn't a connection. And I thought, did they get 0:23:31.560 --> 0:23:33.119 to talk to each other and say. 0:23:32.960 --> 0:23:35.000 Are you sending in one home? Are you sending it. 0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.400 Like, I just didn't know if you could compare experiences 0:23:37.400 --> 0:23:38.320 at all with one another. 0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:42.080 Go ahead, Yah, Well, like you know, when we were 0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:44.000 together at the mixers, we were able to do that, 0:23:44.040 --> 0:23:46.119 but when we were in our separate farms, we weren't. 0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:47.480 You know, we didn't have that communication. 0:23:47.640 --> 0:23:49.520 So it was tough while we were there, But every 0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:51.360 time we went back and met at a mixer, were 0:23:51.359 --> 0:23:54.560 able to kind of debrief invent to each other about everything. 0:23:54.640 --> 0:23:56.240 So that made anything easier for sure. 0:23:56.320 --> 0:23:57.480 One of the best parts of the show. 0:23:57.600 --> 0:23:59.440 Yeah, because we've gone through all the stuff all week 0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:02.399 and you meet up, it's like a camera like, what 0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:03.040 the heck's going on? 0:24:05.400 --> 0:24:09.600 Crack open, a few cold ones start talking about it. 0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:12.080 That was I don't know if you're the bachelorette, Trista 0:24:12.119 --> 0:24:16.240 and Ryan, right, we talked to them Ry. Ryan said 0:24:16.280 --> 0:24:18.440 something interesting to me that when you're in that environment, 0:24:18.640 --> 0:24:21.320 you get kind of caught up and you're convinced that 0:24:21.520 --> 0:24:24.040 this is your soulmate or this is the level of 0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:26.000 my life because you're set up in a space where 0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:28.760 you're supposed to think that. Did you all have to 0:24:28.800 --> 0:24:30.320 battle that a little bit? I think you might have 0:24:30.400 --> 0:24:33.200 mentioned that some of the women. Clearly they were going 0:24:33.240 --> 0:24:35.560 a little more down that route after just a month, 0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:37.960 and maybe you all had, But did you have to 0:24:38.000 --> 0:24:40.920 fight that urge to go, wow, this is my soulmate. 0:24:40.920 --> 0:24:41.480 A little bit. 0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:44.360 I mean, not the fact that this is my soulmate, 0:24:44.400 --> 0:24:46.600 because quite frankly, I don't really believe in soulmates. 0:24:47.720 --> 0:24:52.840 Like time, Okay, I know I like this guy, but you. 0:24:53.240 --> 0:24:55.720 Got caught up in the feeling that you had to 0:24:55.760 --> 0:24:57.760 pick somebody at the end, and it's like, you, you 0:24:57.880 --> 0:25:00.399 really need to date this person after the show and everything. 0:25:00.440 --> 0:25:02.399 But I think it was tough for the girls because 0:25:02.440 --> 0:25:05.480 they only had each other or knowing at all. But 0:25:05.560 --> 0:25:07.440 luckily for us, we got to go home every night 0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:09.680 and see our families and really just kind of debrief 0:25:09.720 --> 0:25:12.480 and get back to reality. So I think it was 0:25:12.520 --> 0:25:14.960 easier for us to kind of, you know, not fall 0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:17.960 into that trap, whereas the girls didn't have that luxury, 0:25:18.320 --> 0:25:20.159 so they may have slipped through it a few times. 0:25:21.080 --> 0:25:22.960 All they talk about is, yeah. 0:25:23.440 --> 0:25:27.040 That was rough. Yeah, Oh wait, what was rough? Just 0:25:27.160 --> 0:25:31.280 I'm staying the five women in one house, yeah, share ather. 0:25:31.240 --> 0:25:33.120 Rooms, are together, twenty four to seven. 0:25:32.920 --> 0:25:34.920 The same guy, yeah, robes, how does that. 0:25:34.920 --> 0:25:37.600 Usually go, oh, well, when you're not dating the same guy, 0:25:37.600 --> 0:25:38.080 that's tough. 0:25:39.720 --> 0:25:41.160 And when you're dating the same guy. 0:25:41.359 --> 0:25:44.440 I haven't had that experience, but I can't even imagine 0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:46.920 what that would be like in any. 0:25:46.720 --> 0:25:49.199 Way, shape or form. Got to be a little bit 0:25:49.240 --> 0:25:52.760 chaotic there, did Were you surprised at all by the 0:25:52.840 --> 0:25:55.800 dynamics of the women or were you anticipating how five 0:25:55.840 --> 0:25:58.800 women might behave in your home competing for your heart? 0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:01.639 That was actually we've all talked about this, but I 0:26:01.680 --> 0:26:03.800 started to realize for the process, it was nice to 0:26:03.800 --> 0:26:06.399 see how they interacted with each other because it's a 0:26:06.400 --> 0:26:08.840 good show character. So you have like a mean girl 0:26:08.840 --> 0:26:10.879 in the house not getting along with the other girls 0:26:11.000 --> 0:26:13.000 or for whatever reason. It's like, all right, it's good 0:26:13.000 --> 0:26:14.840 to know. But then you read some of the other ones, 0:26:14.880 --> 0:26:18.359 who are you know, diplomatic and they're reaching out to 0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:20.040 all the girls, making each other okay and all that. 0:26:20.119 --> 0:26:21.719 So that's it was kind of cool to see that too, 0:26:21.720 --> 0:26:24.080 because you kind of learn off that, Yeah, did you 0:26:24.560 --> 0:26:24.919 fake that? 0:26:25.080 --> 0:26:27.240 Did that happen in every house? There was a breakdown? Okay, 0:26:27.280 --> 0:26:28.640 there's the mean girl, there's this guy. 0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:30.960 I think I don't know. 0:26:30.960 --> 0:26:35.240 If it maybe mean girl's not the right word. Yeah, problems, Yeah. 0:26:34.400 --> 0:26:35.680 I think mean girls the right world. 0:26:36.040 --> 0:26:38.200 Yeah, thank you for Yeah. 0:26:37.880 --> 0:26:39.159 I actually do. I actually do. 0:26:39.400 --> 0:26:41.840 I do think that that usually does happen. You know, 0:26:41.840 --> 0:26:44.480 you get into this hierarchy and you always say y'all 0:26:44.560 --> 0:26:47.919 like you women, but it's you know, there is I 0:26:47.920 --> 0:26:49.320 don't know what it is, but there is. 0:26:49.560 --> 0:26:52.600 You kind of fill the dynamics get filled out, and 0:26:52.640 --> 0:26:55.119 you kind of get one of each year. It seems 0:26:55.200 --> 0:26:56.120 like a lot of ways. 0:26:57.080 --> 0:26:58.560 That's part of the fun in watching it though, too, 0:26:58.600 --> 0:27:00.920 because it's a social experience. I mean you're really seeing 0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:03.359 people their true colors come out when they're put into 0:27:03.359 --> 0:27:04.520 stressful situations. 0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:06.400 Cameras are on. You'd think that. 0:27:06.359 --> 0:27:09.760 People would be on their best behavior, but that doesn't. 0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:10.040 Yeah. 0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:12.119 I think people start to get, you know, comfortable, and 0:27:12.119 --> 0:27:13.320 then their true colors shine. 0:27:13.760 --> 0:27:16.200 Was alcohol a big part of the filming. 0:27:15.880 --> 0:27:20.520 Because obviously, when you know people have their little glasses, 0:27:20.600 --> 0:27:22.080 it tends to get a little more dramatic. 0:27:22.440 --> 0:27:24.960 We have a little bit more sometimes, but they probably 0:27:25.119 --> 0:27:26.840 thought it was an alcoholic I was asking for drinks 0:27:26.880 --> 0:27:27.280 all the time. 0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:27.520 Yeah. 0:27:27.560 --> 0:27:30.560 No, it it was very, very very limited, not like 0:27:30.600 --> 0:27:32.520 what years some of these shows are liquering people out 0:27:32.560 --> 0:27:33.800 and it was not matter whatsoever. 0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:36.560 Have a couple of the mass one might have been 0:27:37.160 --> 0:27:39.040 yeahs at a little more. 0:27:39.440 --> 0:27:44.080 What happened in that's the dancing mixer? Yeah, barn dance. 0:27:43.920 --> 0:27:45.760 Barn dance, that barn dance. 0:27:46.520 --> 0:27:48.360 Look forward to. I can't wait to see the Barn dance. 0:27:49.400 --> 0:27:50.240 The drinks, well, I. 0:27:50.280 --> 0:27:53.120 Will say episode two. The drinks had a little play 0:27:53.160 --> 0:27:58.679 in that. I think that's pretty pretty evident. 0:28:00.200 --> 0:28:01.080 Was so good. 0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.399 I can't wait for people to see episode two, and 0:28:04.400 --> 0:28:05.719 then I can't wait to keep I can't wait. 0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:09.159 You know, what is that like having five strangers in 0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:11.560 your house? Did you all have to adjust in certain ways? 0:28:11.560 --> 0:28:13.760 Did you stock up on tole of the paper? I 0:28:13.760 --> 0:28:15.040 don't know what did you did you prepare the. 0:28:14.960 --> 0:28:17.440 House with production kind of handled all. That's all handle 0:28:17.480 --> 0:28:20.399 all the provisions. But it was kind of nice, you know, 0:28:20.560 --> 0:28:22.600 I mean for me. My family's living there too. My 0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:24.800 sister loves to cook, so she was bringing them pasta 0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:26.159 and cookies and you name it. 0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:26.880 Yeah, it was great. 0:28:26.920 --> 0:28:29.679 Yeah, it was awesome, Like my crew was great. Couldn't 0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:32.119 you know better about them? So it's a positive experience, 0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:34.600 But at the same time, it is pretty invasive. You've 0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:36.960 got like a crew of twenty five people in and 0:28:36.960 --> 0:28:39.320 out of your house on your property. You know, a 0:28:39.360 --> 0:28:41.600 ton of cars, and you know where you start our 0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:43.479 privacy on the ranch. So it's it's a lot. At 0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:46.080 the end of the five weeks for like, all right, 0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:46.520 you know. 0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:49.479 Matt your property, I have to say. I was like, 0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:51.960 can I see more? It was like real estate peorn composition. 0:28:53.800 --> 0:28:57.000 I was like, avocado and rare fruit farm. Where is 0:28:57.040 --> 0:28:58.560 it with the view of the Pacific Ocean? 0:28:59.080 --> 0:28:59.280 Yeah? 0:28:59.280 --> 0:29:01.360 It was Yeah, all welcome a new time. 0:29:02.160 --> 0:29:06.080 I'll take you up. You know how much you love avocados. 0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:09.840 It'll be one ticket and it'll be one way. If 0:29:09.840 --> 0:29:11.920 you're going to go hang out on the birthday boys 0:29:12.480 --> 0:29:14.640 gorgeous land like yourself out. 0:29:15.560 --> 0:29:18.480 I'm curious did your experience I know we can't you 0:29:18.680 --> 0:29:21.160 obviously can't say, and we wouldn't even ask about the 0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:24.840 outcome of any of this, But did it alter your 0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:31.760 your impression of wanting love, of what love is, wanting 0:29:31.800 --> 0:29:34.240 to be married? Did have any impact on your overall 0:29:34.480 --> 0:29:46.760 feelings about relationships and what you want out of them? 0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:47.080 Yeah? 0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:49.320 I mean for me, going in my head was completely 0:29:49.360 --> 0:29:51.040 scrambled when it came to that stuff, you know, I 0:29:51.080 --> 0:29:54.160 didn't know which way was left. But with this show, 0:29:55.360 --> 0:29:57.840 I was saying those ot apps, it's basically a free therapy. 0:29:57.880 --> 0:29:59.320 You sit there and you talk to a camera and 0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:01.880 you basically talk out how you're feeling and stuff, and 0:30:01.920 --> 0:30:03.680 it's able to kind of narrow it down and really 0:30:03.760 --> 0:30:05.920 kind of get it a little bit uniform in your 0:30:05.960 --> 0:30:08.760 own head, so you're easily able to navigate that type 0:30:08.800 --> 0:30:09.440 of stuff better. 0:30:10.200 --> 0:30:12.360 Yeah, I think for me, you know, playing football, I 0:30:12.440 --> 0:30:14.320 like to compare a lot of things to that and 0:30:14.360 --> 0:30:17.000 it's almost like that team that looks good on paper, 0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:18.840 but it might not always work out when it's time 0:30:18.920 --> 0:30:21.400 to play the game, you know. And you know with 0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:23.640 some of the ladies, especially like the ladies we had 0:30:23.640 --> 0:30:27.120 at first, everything looked good from you know, their personality, 0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:29.719 their values, the way they look, things like that, but 0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:31.520 when you actually got in front of them in person, 0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:33.920 you just didn't feel that connection. So let me know, 0:30:33.960 --> 0:30:36.000 that's a lot deeper than just those checkboxes. 0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:39.400 So yeah, I think for me, I haven't changed it 0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:41.560 all or anything like that, or you know, I knew 0:30:41.560 --> 0:30:44.440 what I wanted before and that all remains the same. 0:30:44.440 --> 0:30:45.760 But for me. I think I just realized, like I 0:30:45.760 --> 0:30:49.000 don't want to date anymore. Like I'm I'm either gonna 0:30:49.720 --> 0:30:52.480 like do something or just not at all. So I 0:30:52.480 --> 0:30:54.680 don't want to like candually date and like waste time. 0:30:55.640 --> 0:30:59.760 Especially the other side or yeah, yeah, coming. 0:30:59.520 --> 0:31:04.120 Out right, Yeah I'm serious. 0:31:03.720 --> 0:31:08.520 Here, farmer wants or whatever. 0:31:12.200 --> 0:31:13.840 Yeah, I think that was just all I've dated. I'm 0:31:13.880 --> 0:31:15.560 the oldest out of the group. I've dated, you know, 0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:18.000 plenty of girls in the past, and then after that experience, 0:31:18.040 --> 0:31:20.280 like all right, i think I'm done with just casually 0:31:20.360 --> 0:31:22.280 dating all this stuff. I'm more like, look, I'm looking 0:31:22.280 --> 0:31:25.080 for a wife, so I'm either like my next relationship 0:31:25.200 --> 0:31:27.040 is like I think that's can it be it? I'm 0:31:27.080 --> 0:31:28.280 not gonna go fulling around. 0:31:28.360 --> 0:31:31.120 Okay, you had eight, it went down to five. That's 0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:32.800 where we are on the show. Of the five that 0:31:32.880 --> 0:31:37.040 each of you had, how many of those five, given 0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:41.920 only what we've seen, did you all we're actually marriage 0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:45.960 wife material for you? Did you actually see out of 0:31:46.000 --> 0:31:48.320 that five? And we only what we've seen so far, 0:31:48.400 --> 0:31:50.160 so don't want to go too far in the show, 0:31:50.200 --> 0:31:54.000 but out of that five, like, yep, yep, yep, yep, yet, 0:31:54.040 --> 0:31:56.800 how many of those could you actually see as a 0:31:56.840 --> 0:31:57.680 wife to you. 0:31:58.800 --> 0:32:01.880 I think there was definitely at least three for me 0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:04.360 that right off the bat, I was like, very interested 0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:06.800 in that in that way. I took it pretty seriously. 0:32:06.840 --> 0:32:10.800 And then the other two, you know, it's definitely still 0:32:10.800 --> 0:32:14.440 interested in. But the top three definitely. 0:32:14.640 --> 0:32:18.120 I think all five they definitely had the potential in 0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:21.640 different ways, but some just had a little bit stronger, 0:32:21.680 --> 0:32:24.160 a little bit you know, more potential, if that makes sense. 0:32:24.240 --> 0:32:27.280 So I think the five that I picked, I definitely 0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:29.280 saw the potential to. 0:32:29.240 --> 0:32:30.520 Come back to Alabama live with me. 0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:33.000 But there's also some red flags, some things you got 0:32:33.040 --> 0:32:35.040 to adopt deeper into which we would get too in 0:32:35.080 --> 0:32:35.920 the show for sure. 0:32:36.400 --> 0:32:38.000 Any red flags with Julia. 0:32:38.200 --> 0:32:43.640 Oh definitely definitely, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:44.560 She knows you live in Alabama. 0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:45.360 Yeah. 0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:47.480 Something she told me about the bugs and you know, 0:32:47.520 --> 0:32:49.360 the poop and stuff like that. I said, well, you 0:32:49.480 --> 0:32:51.960 might be some of that when we get to the forum. 0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:55.440 But a princess multiple times I think said been. TJ's 0:32:55.480 --> 0:32:56.240 daughter was like, did she. 0:32:56.240 --> 0:32:58.440 Just call herself a princess? I was like, yes she did. 0:32:58.680 --> 0:33:01.320 My twelve year olds turned off, Uh wait, do we 0:33:01.480 --> 0:33:05.000 which episode had them shoveling. Which one was that? Did 0:33:05.040 --> 0:33:05.520 we see that? 0:33:05.640 --> 0:33:06.960 It was? It was? It was a clip. 0:33:07.000 --> 0:33:07.640 It was a clip. 0:33:08.360 --> 0:33:09.960 Oh no, so we saw it though because we saw 0:33:10.000 --> 0:33:12.640 episode two. I haven't mentioned that something. 0:33:12.640 --> 0:33:18.160 You exactly exactly what we didn't get your answer? 0:33:18.280 --> 0:33:20.960 Yeah, out of the five, I think I would answer 0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.600 the same way Jay did. The only caveat I would 0:33:23.600 --> 0:33:27.720 say is that throughout the season it definitely changed. You know, 0:33:27.880 --> 0:33:30.440 you'd go from I'd say, all five, then you maybe 0:33:30.440 --> 0:33:32.080 go to four, then maybe back to five. 0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:35.240 Yeah, it's all over the place. 0:33:35.480 --> 0:33:38.920 I mean, obviously, when you're dating and you're and you're 0:33:38.960 --> 0:33:41.560 looking for love, you know, looks and physical appearance are 0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:43.800 is usually the first thing that you notice, and it's 0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:46.200 a part of the attraction that has to be there. 0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:47.480 I would say to have. 0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:51.280 A sustainable relationship, But did you at all, going through 0:33:51.280 --> 0:33:56.520 this process process shift the importance of like personality, Like 0:33:56.520 --> 0:33:58.440 you know, I'm just like so many people focus on 0:33:58.440 --> 0:34:01.040 one thing and then if you had the experience which 0:34:01.080 --> 0:34:03.800 most people have, not a dating five girls at the 0:34:03.840 --> 0:34:07.200 same time, do other things become much more important than 0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:08.800 they were before in your life? 0:34:09.480 --> 0:34:11.440 Well, Luckily for me, all five of my women that 0:34:11.480 --> 0:34:13.480 I pick are very beautiful. So that physical part was 0:34:13.520 --> 0:34:15.200 kind of you know, already checked there, and then it 0:34:15.280 --> 0:34:17.720 really just boiled down to the personality and how fast 0:34:17.719 --> 0:34:19.560 we could build that you know flame. I like to 0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:21.520 use a flame a lotuse that's what the producers talked 0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:24.440 about a lot, so that fast burn or that slow burn. 0:34:24.560 --> 0:34:29.439 So yeah, one thing I learned throughout this too is that, 0:34:29.640 --> 0:34:32.719 like the producers would always say, don't necessarily spend time 0:34:32.800 --> 0:34:34.879 with who you like right off the bat, Maybe spend 0:34:34.920 --> 0:34:37.040 time with the ones that you're not sure about to 0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:39.799 get to figure out like what's going on there. Maybe 0:34:40.080 --> 0:34:42.640 maybe you're right about your feelings, maybe you weren't. Yeah, 0:34:42.719 --> 0:34:45.120 So I think that was kind of like the biggest 0:34:45.120 --> 0:34:47.960 thing is it's more so like looking at who you 0:34:48.080 --> 0:34:49.480 think you don't want to be with that other group 0:34:49.560 --> 0:34:52.279 versus like looking for that one that you do, because 0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:55.880 that really helped narrow down during the process. So I 0:34:55.880 --> 0:34:57.719 would pick girls sometimes to go on these dates and 0:34:57.760 --> 0:34:59.200 it would look like, oh, he wants to go take 0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:00.839 her on the date first, But maybe it was because 0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:02.919 I was not sure a better and I really wanted 0:35:02.920 --> 0:35:04.680 to just figure out if I'm letting to go next. 0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:06.640 So I think when you watch some of the stuff 0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.480 and you see us pig dates and it might not 0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:10.279 be what you think it is. 0:35:10.640 --> 0:35:13.640 Ah, yeah, that's right, And it lifted the veil of 0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:16.200 that you know, uncertainty that you had with other girls. 0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:19.000 But for me personally, I think the one thing that 0:35:19.080 --> 0:35:22.200 I ended up narrowing down on was whether or not 0:35:22.239 --> 0:35:24.319 you just get along with the person because they had 0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:26.120 all the they checked all the box. Like Jay was 0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:29.200 talking about, on paper, everybody is perfect. You know, they 0:35:29.239 --> 0:35:31.680 all look great, they have the qualities that you want, 0:35:31.760 --> 0:35:34.160 they share the same values. But in the end, to me, 0:35:34.239 --> 0:35:36.319 it was just who you just got along with and 0:35:36.320 --> 0:35:38.920 who you could see yourself just hanging out with a lot. 0:35:39.280 --> 0:35:43.759 Well, isn't that truly the key to a successful relationship. 0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:48.400 We went through some divorces to find that out, but actually, truly, 0:35:48.560 --> 0:35:50.279 if you can find that person you can just do 0:35:50.320 --> 0:35:54.200 anything with, that's that's that's the person you want, And 0:35:54.200 --> 0:35:56.640 it's not necessarily how we're taught to think about it, right, 0:35:57.040 --> 0:35:58.759 But that's cool that you all learned that along the 0:35:58.760 --> 0:36:01.120 way doing the show. Maybe you learned it beforehand, but 0:36:01.200 --> 0:36:03.560 I imagine it would be reiterated doing a show like this 0:36:03.800 --> 0:36:04.640 right exactly. 0:36:04.719 --> 0:36:07.480 You all talk about how supportive friends and family were. 0:36:07.920 --> 0:36:10.760 Who was the voice saying, don't do this, this is silly, 0:36:10.800 --> 0:36:12.920 this is ridiculous. She never going to find somebody, she's 0:36:12.960 --> 0:36:15.480 going to be crazy. Who was kind of turned off 0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:17.279 and was hesitant for you all to put yourself out 0:36:17.280 --> 0:36:17.680 there like this. 0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:21.120 Not many people, I might say my dad a little bit, 0:36:21.440 --> 0:36:24.719 which is funny because my parents wants the show and 0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:27.799 he loves it, I think secretly, but I think he 0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:30.640 was just worried that it wasn't going to be a 0:36:30.640 --> 0:36:34.520 genuine relationship. But I will say later on when our 0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:36.960 families come into play, I think he kind of changed 0:36:37.000 --> 0:36:39.240 his mind because he did get to meet the girls 0:36:39.320 --> 0:36:42.040 in their families, and I think after that he was 0:36:42.120 --> 0:36:44.160 kind of sold on it because he saw what I saw, 0:36:44.200 --> 0:36:46.440 like these girls are actually here for the real reason. 0:36:46.480 --> 0:36:48.120 So yeah, he's a big fan. 0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:50.879 Yeah, I definitely would say my best friend, his name 0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:54.080 is Diaijan call him Poppy though that's his nickname, pop Poppy. 0:36:54.239 --> 0:36:56.000 Yeah. 0:36:56.080 --> 0:36:58.799 Yeah, he's super real with me all the time, like, man, 0:36:58.880 --> 0:37:00.440 are you sure you're gonna find on this? 0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:00.759 Man? 0:37:01.280 --> 0:37:03.960 You know how to go sometimes and even being from Florence, 0:37:04.000 --> 0:37:06.440 you know, we got robbed from Love Island from Florence too, 0:37:06.480 --> 0:37:09.120 so like we got that you know type of reality, 0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:11.480 you know, connection and stuff like that. So you see, 0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:13.120 like you said, some of this stuff not being as 0:37:13.160 --> 0:37:15.840 genuine as things like that, but uh, you know he 0:37:15.920 --> 0:37:17.279 was going to always keep it real with me. 0:37:17.360 --> 0:37:19.960 So yeah, I would say my dad too. 0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:22.680 He's a very business oriented guy, and he's just you know, 0:37:22.719 --> 0:37:24.560 worried about me getting up on stage and you know, 0:37:24.600 --> 0:37:25.360 peeing my pants in. 0:37:25.320 --> 0:37:27.120 Front of all these girls here nation. 0:37:28.239 --> 0:37:29.480 But in the end, I think he was the one 0:37:29.480 --> 0:37:32.000 who's actually the most into it, Like Matt's that funny 0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:34.520 because yeah, he's the one who definitely immersed himself the 0:37:34.600 --> 0:37:36.759 most and was asking all these questions and smile and 0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:39.120 ear to ear after every day wanting to hear about it. 0:37:39.160 --> 0:37:41.440 So and we kind of mentioned it in the beginning, 0:37:41.719 --> 0:37:45.120 or at least you reference to social media, how like, 0:37:46.760 --> 0:37:49.959 how have you managed that and navigated that? Because yes, 0:37:50.040 --> 0:37:52.360 it's all fun and great when people like you, but 0:37:52.360 --> 0:37:54.960 then if someone doesn't like what you said or doesn't 0:37:55.080 --> 0:37:58.280 like how you broke up with someone, have you seen 0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:00.400 or experienced any backlash yet? 0:38:00.480 --> 0:38:03.040 And how are you preparing yourself for what's to come. 0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:06.880 Honestly, I just like laugh at that stuff, especially in 0:38:06.920 --> 0:38:08.520 Saint Louis. I mean that's where I get the most 0:38:08.560 --> 0:38:09.360 negative comments. 0:38:09.360 --> 0:38:11.400 It's people from Saint Louis. I mean they just they 0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:14.160 know who. Yeah, it's like I'll see you in a 0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:15.480 grocery store, like you want. 0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:18.040 To say, why don't you say it when you're in 0:38:18.160 --> 0:38:19.040 schnooks or something? 0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:20.440 But what I remember? 0:38:21.520 --> 0:38:24.239 Goodness, what issue can they take with you after one 0:38:24.320 --> 0:38:26.600 two episodes? I mean it's me, really, what are the 0:38:26.640 --> 0:38:29.040 I'm curious what are they saying? What negativity is there? 0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:31.759 It's really not been too bad about us, more so 0:38:31.840 --> 0:38:32.360 the girls. 0:38:32.680 --> 0:38:35.000 I think it's more about like our decisions though, like 0:38:35.040 --> 0:38:37.920 even bringing Julia back to the farm and you Samantha, 0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:38.960 like some of the girls. 0:38:39.000 --> 0:38:43.399 I apologize that was my message. Sorry, Sorry I sent 0:38:43.440 --> 0:38:44.799 that note. I wish I could take it back. 0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:51.319 No, you know what good point we started off right 0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:53.280 off the bat, What. 0:38:53.120 --> 0:38:53.880 Were you thinking? 0:38:54.000 --> 0:38:55.759 You're an idiot moving on? 0:38:56.080 --> 0:38:58.920 That was what TJ basically said. 0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:01.960 I just wanted what was best for you and I 0:39:02.000 --> 0:39:04.560 didn't think she was it. Okay, That's what I'm saying. 0:39:06.320 --> 0:39:09.040 The biggest thing with like those opinions though, of people 0:39:09.400 --> 0:39:11.560 like I said, I'll bring it always back to football. 0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:13.840 It's just like the fan paying their ten dollars for 0:39:13.880 --> 0:39:15.640 the game. They can say whatever they want to because 0:39:15.680 --> 0:39:17.600 that's what they did. So you've got to take it 0:39:17.680 --> 0:39:19.960 and have that, you know, mentality. Just move on from it, 0:39:20.120 --> 0:39:23.600 know the opinion. So yeah, all. 0:39:23.560 --> 0:39:26.920 Right, Well we're all excited about the episodes that are 0:39:26.960 --> 0:39:30.000 about to be dropping. So final question, do you think 0:39:30.840 --> 0:39:32.480 you've only seen the first episode but you do know 0:39:32.520 --> 0:39:34.960 how it ends? What do fans have in store for 0:39:35.040 --> 0:39:38.080 them over the next several weeks as these episodes drop. 0:39:40.719 --> 0:39:45.560 Oh boy, Like I was mentioning, there's a lot of stuff. 0:39:45.560 --> 0:39:47.880 I y, I was mentioning it is just keep in 0:39:47.880 --> 0:39:49.719 mind like when you're watching us pick these dates and 0:39:50.120 --> 0:39:52.399 say or do different things, it may not always be 0:39:52.640 --> 0:39:54.040 you know, we may be doing it for different reason 0:39:54.080 --> 0:39:56.240 than you think, too, might be trying to do little research. 0:39:57.160 --> 0:39:59.359 I think you could expect unexpected. 0:39:59.560 --> 0:40:02.080 You know, it might look like things line up, but 0:40:02.239 --> 0:40:03.560 it'd be a twist here and there. 0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:09.680 So yeah, I think I mean they said it kill me. 0:40:10.360 --> 0:40:12.600 I mean episode two, you'll have some fun. You guys 0:40:12.640 --> 0:40:13.120 already know. 0:40:13.080 --> 0:40:21.960 That my favorite episode. It will be everybody's yeah, correct. 0:40:23.520 --> 0:40:26.719 Well okay, so thank you all. We cannot wait. 0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:30.040 We are so excited. It was so incredible to see 0:40:30.040 --> 0:40:31.880 you guys in person. We almost let to be in 0:40:31.920 --> 0:40:32.680 skipped school. 0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:32.960 But she's scared. 0:40:33.280 --> 0:40:36.120 Almost, but she really wanted to skip school to meet 0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:39.640 you all. You have been so genuine, so real. It's 0:40:39.680 --> 0:40:42.640 been so fun and we cannot wait to watch you 0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:43.279 find love. 0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:45.799 Yes, and we're sincere. I mean we joke around here 0:40:45.800 --> 0:40:47.440 a little bit, but we watch enough of these shows 0:40:47.440 --> 0:40:48.960 and there's a lot you can get out of a relationship, 0:40:48.960 --> 0:40:51.320 even a love Island. Right, you learned something about communication, 0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.319 couple something and we're kind of turned off by them 0:40:54.400 --> 0:40:57.480 lately because people manipulate. It's not an authentic experience. We 0:40:57.800 --> 0:41:00.480 tune in to see you guys in studio here right now. 0:41:00.640 --> 0:41:02.960 This is as real and authentic you aill are exactly 0:41:02.960 --> 0:41:05.120 what you are on television, and I do believe it's 0:41:05.160 --> 0:41:07.680 coming from a right and authentic place. And that's cool 0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:09.319 and it feels good. It feels good to be able 0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:10.719 to root for you all and root for the show 0:41:10.760 --> 0:41:13.600 now that for we are experienced. I can't believe I'm 0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:17.799 your experience the show dating, reality show watching that is. 0:41:18.080 --> 0:41:21.680 That is a factual statement, and I'm not embarrassed about 0:41:21.680 --> 0:41:23.839 it at all, because I have learned a lot and 0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:26.839 I look forward to learning more from watching Farmer Wants 0:41:26.880 --> 0:41:31.000 a Wife every Thursday on Fox. Episodes, new episode every week, 0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:33.880 so we'll be watching. We might rewatch episode two. It 0:41:33.920 --> 0:41:34.439 was that good. 0:41:34.719 --> 0:41:37.880 Oh well, in that case, we're on our Dabby Gosh. 0:41:38.120 --> 0:41:40.320 The reality Kings and Queens alright, really felt it was 0:41:40.320 --> 0:41:41.960 good to meet you. Good luck on everything.