Speaker 1: Hey there, folks, send this episode of Amy and TJ.
Speaker 1: You know, we love our reality dating shows, but at
Speaker 1: some point Love Island, merit It First Sight gets a
Speaker 1: little old. So we were looking for something new and
Speaker 1: we have found our new obsession. Farmer wants a wife.
Speaker 1: It's so and with that, welcome to this episode. We
Speaker 1: got the Farmers in the room right now. But Robes,
Speaker 1: we are for real here. We have been very disappointed
Speaker 1: lately with some merit at First Sight and the other
Speaker 1: season of Love is Blind because they start to manipulate
Speaker 1: the process and it's not authentic. So we were looking
Speaker 1: for some authenticity somewhere and maybe we found it out.
Speaker 2: We found it because you are correct.
Speaker 3: We have You have said I don't think I can
Speaker 3: watch some of these shows anymore, because what happens is
Speaker 3: they become such a storied franchise that people who then
Speaker 3: become casts, I guess cast members of the next season
Speaker 3: you're famous, try and manipulate and say, oh, I don't
Speaker 3: want to look bad here and I want to make
Speaker 3: this look like that. And they're not actually just dating
Speaker 3: or there for the experience. They're there for their Instagram
Speaker 3: followings or to you know, and that's always going to
Speaker 3: be a part of a reality show.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 3: But if you're actually watching people who are truly looking
Speaker 3: for love, you can tell, right.
Speaker 2: I feel like at this point we can tell.
Speaker 1: I feel like we've been manipulated through a couple of
Speaker 1: seasons to some of these shows. But we have just
Speaker 1: started Farmer Once a White. Now we've only gone through
Speaker 1: two episodes. It's just starting up. It's third season.
Speaker 4: Though.
Speaker 1: Yep, I was blown away at how much I immediately
Speaker 1: got into the show. You me and Sabine sitting down
Speaker 1: as soon as we saw the guy's faces, we just say, hey,
Speaker 1: who's your favorite?
Speaker 2: And we picked and we had our favorites.
Speaker 3: You want to tell them, no, of course, not no,
Speaker 3: but we just it was fun because you're rooting for
Speaker 3: different farmers, and then you're rooting for different girls who
Speaker 3: are competing for the farmer's hearts.
Speaker 1: Let's get to the fellas. Now we got farmers Jo,
Speaker 1: Farmer Jay, farmer Colton, and who am I missing? Farmer Matt.
Speaker 1: Now Colton's not in the room because Colton just couldn't
Speaker 1: make you here today, but love you brother, We will
Speaker 1: talk to you later. But the fellas are in the room. Now,
Speaker 1: tell me, first of all, how has your life changed
Speaker 1: since this first episode of Farmer Wants a Wife Night
Speaker 1: and day?
Speaker 5: Well, I guess on the social media front night and day,
Speaker 5: but back home, nothing's changed. Everybody's still the same, real
Speaker 5: close and I love being outside and everything.
Speaker 6: But yeah, while we were filming.
Speaker 5: Talk about a night and day difference that was like
Speaker 5: Hollywood at our doorstep.
Speaker 1: Wow, not something you're used to, not at all, Matt Jay,
Speaker 1: How how's life been different for you?
Speaker 7: Guys? It was funny because this show, I always tell
Speaker 7: everyone is different because it's in our homes. Like the
Speaker 7: girls moved into our houses. It's filmed on our ranches
Speaker 7: nearest to our families, and a lot of stuff orre'sus.
Speaker 7: All these other shows are like at these you know,
Speaker 7: third party locations. So you're literally just like hanging out
Speaker 7: at home one day and all these like big box
Speaker 7: trucks show up and camera equipment and crews and all stuff,
Speaker 7: and you're like, what's overwhelming because we're just like regular guys.
Speaker 7: You know, it's all of a sudden this all shows up,
Speaker 7: and like the girls show up and it's like you know,
Speaker 7: mayhem for like five weeks or whatever it was, and
Speaker 7: then they pack up one day and then gone, wow,
Speaker 7: there yourself again. Such an experience.
Speaker 2: Farmer Jay, What was it like for you?
Speaker 8: Yeah, kind of like they said, you go from, especially
Speaker 8: being from a small town like Florence, Alabama. You got
Speaker 8: all these box trucks and camera crew following you all
Speaker 8: around Florence, and everybody like, what's going on now? I
Speaker 8: got all these cousins popping up texting my phone like
Speaker 8: oh congratulations, come yeah. So but you know, it's a
Speaker 8: great experience for sure, and you usually soak it all lean, so.
Speaker 1: You don't seem to be soaking it in. We were
Speaker 1: joking a little bit at the top, and I'm serious.
Speaker 1: I think before we ever heard any of one of
Speaker 1: you will speak, and we do this at our house.
Speaker 1: We watched these, uh these dating shows and I said, boom,
Speaker 1: that's my guy, farmer John me and my daughter, that's
Speaker 1: my before you said a word, before anything happened, I said,
Speaker 1: that's what. You just had an energy of vibe, a swagger.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, And it was a it was a confidence.
Speaker 1: It was a quiet confidence in the swagger. But I
Speaker 1: will tell you by the end of the episode, oh boy,
Speaker 1: So I'm done with that, dude. We'll explain why in
Speaker 1: a second.
Speaker 2: But why because if he was your guy, she was.
Speaker 4: Not your girl.
Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, no no, I was judging you on
Speaker 3: your choices.
Speaker 6: I'm sure you want to really tune in for episode
Speaker 6: two though she did.
Speaker 1: Though we did did.
Speaker 2: We've seen episode two as well. We can't wait for three.
Speaker 3: We are because your your amazing publicists sent us episode
Speaker 3: ahead of everyone else, so we actually the one that's
Speaker 3: going to be airing this week, for the for the country,
Speaker 3: for the world, we've actually already seen.
Speaker 2: So yes, yeah, we have not so really, it seems
Speaker 2: we just lived it.
Speaker 1: So let me tell you what you did, fellows.
Speaker 7: I forgot it so.
Speaker 3: And that is interesting. What's it like to watch you?
Speaker 3: I guess you've only seen the first one.
Speaker 7: Back now, yeah, only the first one. It's you know,
Speaker 7: weird seeing yourself on camera for the first time, listening
Speaker 7: to your own voice. I don't really like it that
Speaker 7: much personally, I'm like, that kind of makes me cringe.
Speaker 7: But the other part of it is we would film
Speaker 7: like long days, like ten twelve hour days for over
Speaker 7: a month. It felt like an eternity, and then you
Speaker 7: know they have to cut it in do whatever to
Speaker 7: get the important parts, but so you don't really know
Speaker 7: what it's going to end up like for us at all.
Speaker 7: We're watching it like we really know what it's going
Speaker 7: to look like at all. So it's pretty interesting.
Speaker 3: Farmer Jay, we had a field day watching. I think
Speaker 3: was it the first at least.
Speaker 2: The way they edited it.
Speaker 3: It was the first girl who came up to you,
Speaker 3: and she was a model with the pitch she Julia,
Speaker 3: thank you.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah, I still to forget right there.
Speaker 4: Huh.
Speaker 3: We're kind of flown away that she seemed so taken
Speaker 3: aback by what life was like on a farm when
Speaker 3: she got on a show called Farmer Wants a Wife
Speaker 3: and she and did you a signed autographed yes, very
Speaker 3: very sexy yourself. What did you really think?
Speaker 8: Yeah, what I really thought was what I said in
Speaker 8: that moment, Like I thought this was a family, so
Speaker 8: I didn't know it was gonna just be all the
Speaker 8: way out there like that.
Speaker 4: But uh, you.
Speaker 8: Know, it's definitely a very beautiful woman, very beautiful picture
Speaker 8: and uh, you know got my attention enough to bring
Speaker 8: it back to the farm so.
Speaker 2: Where she loved all the bugs and hardware.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, ready to pick up some horse poop and everything.
Speaker 1: Did you help us with the how the show goes
Speaker 1: at first?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 1: You all? Were you all recruited? Did you sign up?
Speaker 1: How does it go with us?
Speaker 6: It's kind of a mix. I personally was recruited.
Speaker 5: I got a DM on Instagram and sent it to
Speaker 5: my family, and my mom and sister are huge fans
Speaker 5: of the show, you know, prior to me send it
Speaker 5: and they said you have to, so of course I
Speaker 5: had to. There's also, you know, a creative way to
Speaker 5: find love and stuff.
Speaker 3: So yeah, why would you say you hadn't found love yet?
Speaker 2: Were you looking for it? Well?
Speaker 6: See, Saint Louis is like it's a big city.
Speaker 2: I lived different eight years.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, so you get. It's a big small town.
Speaker 5: Everybody knows everybody, you grew up with everybody, and then
Speaker 5: you know, people who you dated in the past are
Speaker 5: dating your friends and so on and so forth. So
Speaker 5: you know, I just kind of wanted to find a
Speaker 5: different way to spice it up, meet people from around
Speaker 5: the country and have a fun way of doing it.
Speaker 7: How about you, Matt, Yeah, same thing. I never planned
Speaker 7: on doing something like this, and I even said no
Speaker 7: several times. They reached out to me on Instagram as well,
Speaker 7: and I was like, I don't think that's for me,
Speaker 7: but all my friends were like, you know, what else
Speaker 7: are you doing? Like you got to do this for us,
Speaker 7: you know.
Speaker 2: I was like, all right, we would like to live
Speaker 2: vicariously through.
Speaker 7: We're going to talk to you. Don't do it? Oh well,
Speaker 7: But after I got to talk to the producers more,
Speaker 7: I started and like learn more about their shows, like
Speaker 7: this actually is pretty legit, Like they really dive into
Speaker 7: like what you're looking for, and like get to learn
Speaker 7: you You talk to them a lot on the phone,
Speaker 7: and then they go when they you know, go through
Speaker 7: all the women like first day one, like all the
Speaker 7: eight were pretty close to like what I'm looking for.
Speaker 7: They checked over boxes, all you know, pretty and all
Speaker 7: that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: So yeah, Jay, how did the same thing?
Speaker 4: Yeah? They slayd in my DMS. Wow.
Speaker 8: So it's funny story. Actually, So my sister was getting married,
Speaker 8: had a wedding shower and one of her coworkers like,
Speaker 8: is your brother single? She was like, yeah, and he'd
Speaker 8: be perfect for this one show. I never heard her
Speaker 8: show at this point in time. Next thing, I know,
Speaker 8: like a day or two later in the DM. So
Speaker 8: that's the only reason I kind of responded right there
Speaker 8: because I had a heads up, I guess. And then,
Speaker 8: you know, like they said, just being from a small town,
Speaker 8: especially like Florence, Alabama, either related to everybody or everybody
Speaker 8: already off the market, so it's hard to find, you know,
Speaker 8: true love down there if you mighty, So I had
Speaker 8: to find an unconventional way of doing that.
Speaker 1: But okay, so you all get selected that way. How
Speaker 1: does it work? How did it go about getting down
Speaker 1: to the eight women that you will hit?
Speaker 4: You will?
Speaker 1: They gave you a list? How did that work that
Speaker 1: the eight women end up being your eight women at
Speaker 1: the beginning of the show?
Speaker 5: Yeah, like Matt said, we spent a lot of time
Speaker 5: on the phone basically explaining our preferences and like what
Speaker 5: we see in an ideal wife. So they I don't
Speaker 5: know how they did it, but they somehow found a
Speaker 5: massive list of women that basically met all of those standards.
Speaker 5: And yeah, so that's why it was really hard on
Speaker 5: the first day to facause everybody was like perfect, well, yeah.
Speaker 7: The conversations were almost tough because it's like, you know,
Speaker 7: do you have faith? Yes, Like, do you care about
Speaker 7: your family, Yes, like do you like it was? Yeah,
Speaker 7: everything was already checked day one, so yeah, then you're
Speaker 7: just really looking for more of like a connection, I
Speaker 7: guess you could say, right, so you're not you know,
Speaker 7: it's hard to weed them out by based off like
Speaker 7: basic stuff.
Speaker 6: Right, So we got a list of like forty two
Speaker 6: I think more than that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like it was.
Speaker 6: It was on a rolling basis. You get more every
Speaker 6: week or whatever, and then you rank.
Speaker 5: It's a bad word to use, but unfortunate. There's nothing else,
Speaker 5: but you'd rank your preferences like.
Speaker 6: Favorite to leave.
Speaker 7: Basically, here's ideally, here's like my top ten. Oun't He's like,
Speaker 7: these would be my.
Speaker 2: So they had a photo and then like a resume
Speaker 2: next to the photo.
Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, but they had to rank us too though, Yes,
Speaker 8: so like they ranked the farmers, So you know thought, that's.
Speaker 2: What I thought. That makes a lot of sense. So
Speaker 2: we were saying that one of our favorite parts about
Speaker 2: the show is just how authentic it seems, and just
Speaker 2: seeing you all here and meeting you all in person,
Speaker 2: it's so genuine and that's what makes the show so good.
Speaker 2: Y'all are the real deal.
Speaker 3: You're actually farmers, you're actually looking for love's and so
Speaker 3: I think that's what translated for us immediately when we
Speaker 3: started watching the show. What about the women, I'm curious
Speaker 3: what it's like for you to try to figure out
Speaker 3: who's here for the real reasons for actually wanting to
Speaker 3: find a husband, and who's here to become insta famous.
Speaker 2: Did you guys have a hard time with that or
Speaker 2: was it easy to spot?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 8: I think I said this in another interview not too
Speaker 8: long ago, that you could kind of tell just by
Speaker 8: little things they said, like this is my good side
Speaker 8: or whatever like that, Like you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 8: And like, and I get it, you do you know
Speaker 8: you're on TV even get eybody see it.
Speaker 4: But like, is you're really here for the right reason?
Speaker 4: Are here for me? Are you worried about how you
Speaker 4: look on?
Speaker 1: You don't want to hear that when you're trying to
Speaker 1: know why? Yes, that's so?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: But you all can you all? Who was it which
Speaker 1: one of you had? The women had to do a long,
Speaker 1: like high hill walk on the gravel?
Speaker 4: That was it?
Speaker 3: He goes, is it hard to walk in heels and gravel?
Speaker 3: I said, absolutely?
Speaker 7: It is hot out yeah, And it was way farther
Speaker 7: than you even think, and I would like, couldn't stand
Speaker 7: up till they got there. So I just had to
Speaker 7: sit there and like watch watch some struggle down this
Speaker 7: path and then like, you know, try not to be
Speaker 7: too awkward.
Speaker 5: Jay and I and Golden Rup they're sitting in the
Speaker 5: air conditioning just watching Matt suffer in this blaze, wearing
Speaker 5: all black.
Speaker 4: Sweating in Alabama, that Alabama heating, no jokes.
Speaker 1: But you all could tell as they're making their way,
Speaker 1: could you? You? You you didn't lead let on necessarily
Speaker 1: in front of the cameras, but did you all know
Speaker 1: as soon as someone came up, as soon as they
Speaker 1: sat down? All almost that. Nah, this isn't gonna.
Speaker 7: Work for some of them some yeah, not majority of no,
Speaker 7: but yes, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: To see a photo was one thing, but to see
Speaker 2: someone in person is a completely rather a thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, it's an interesting one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Farmer John, Can we talk about mean flirting?
Speaker 6: Sure?
Speaker 2: Yeah, what's the allure?
Speaker 5: I don't know, it's I guess I do it sometimes,
Speaker 5: so it's like, I don't know, it's.
Speaker 3: Just I mean, I love a fun back and forth.
Speaker 3: That's just a little edgy, But like, mean is a
Speaker 3: whole other level. I didn't see you being mean.
Speaker 6: No, I didn't do it on the right the show.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, but but you know, obviously you're with these
Speaker 5: girls more than you're just on the camera. So it's
Speaker 5: like there are relationships also off the camera, but mainly
Speaker 5: the camera ones are the most important and the ones
Speaker 5: that I actually show the relationship flourishing. So I mean you,
Speaker 5: I assume we're talking about Samantha.
Speaker 2: We are talking about yes, and for those who haven't
Speaker 2: watched yet, just wait for it.
Speaker 1: Yes, Yeah, Samantha is the reason you will question farmer John. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll love him at the beginning. At the end, you're like,
Speaker 1: is this the guy for me?
Speaker 6: Just we'll find out.
Speaker 1: But you know what that was part of I said,
Speaker 1: that is cool. You never got worked up when I
Speaker 1: thought it was plenty of times that she was clearly
Speaker 1: in the wrong, and some of her behavior was like,
Speaker 1: are you serious, young lady? Right now? You were cool
Speaker 1: and chill the whole time, but you never necessarily playcated.
Speaker 1: You never necessarily caved. And I watched that go down,
Speaker 1: and I'm sure I was impressed. My love here recognized
Speaker 1: some of that in the same way. So I loved it.
Speaker 5: But still I will say this, when they're talking to
Speaker 5: the camera, that's called an OTF.
Speaker 6: Okay, we don't see that.
Speaker 5: So whatever she's saying to the camera is what's happening
Speaker 5: in her head. So I don't see that. The only
Speaker 5: thing I saw was our ten minute date.
Speaker 6: That we had.
Speaker 5: We still don't know what we still don't do it
Speaker 5: like up until the end of the show, we're not
Speaker 5: going to know what they were thinking.
Speaker 3: How fun is that for y'all to see what they
Speaker 3: say to the camera versus what you experienced.
Speaker 2: With them in personally.
Speaker 6: I can assure you I'm very interested.
Speaker 1: Now I'm trying to think. I'm trying to remember some
Speaker 1: of those did they.
Speaker 2: We have seen the second episode and they.
Speaker 1: Have not, But did some of the women say these things?
Speaker 1: They might be surprised.
Speaker 2: Yes, it was like a other level. She said things
Speaker 2: to you, But then what she said to the camera,
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know. As a woman. My jaw dropped.
Speaker 6: I think have some more sympathy for me.
Speaker 7: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 3: Our producer Sydney and I were back and forth texting saying,
Speaker 3: can you believe Oh, yes, there was some of that
Speaker 3: going on already on episode two.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I mean I was gonna say I think
Speaker 5: I know what happens on episode two the first date.
Speaker 1: But for you all just and again, I know you
Speaker 1: said the friends, some of them said it sounded fun
Speaker 1: and you have to do it and it sounds cool,
Speaker 1: and you said even that you know this is a
Speaker 1: better or different way maybe to date. But did you
Speaker 1: all all go into this process absolutely thinking you were
Speaker 1: going to come out of this process with a wife.
Speaker 7: I would say I didn't like expect it all. I
Speaker 7: was very open to it. I was like, man, this
Speaker 7: ends up working out, this could be crazy. So, you know,
Speaker 7: it was definitely open to the you know, but also
Speaker 7: at the same time, it's like, I'm not gonna be like, oh,
Speaker 7: I'm coming out of this thing with a wife. I
Speaker 7: don't know who these girls are going to be. I
Speaker 7: can only you know, I'm just meeting them. I can't
Speaker 7: say that. So uh, definitely really open to it. And after,
Speaker 7: you know, like I said, after meeting the girls, that
Speaker 7: were all wonderful, so I was like, Okay, maybe this
Speaker 7: is could work. You know, it was my initial thoughts,
Speaker 7: But then you know, I didn't go into being like, yeah,
Speaker 7: I'm not leaving here with that one.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Personally, didn't want to put a lot of pressure on it,
Speaker 5: you know, because then you just kind of start, you know,
Speaker 5: forcing things, and you're not your authentic self. And in
Speaker 5: all honesty, I think some of the girls came into
Speaker 5: it maybe forcing it a little bit, really expecting to
Speaker 5: like find your prince charming, your.
Speaker 6: Soulmate and stuff.
Speaker 5: So you know, as the season goes on, I think
Speaker 5: you'll pick up on some of that stuff.
Speaker 2: Girls were crying on your first episode.
Speaker 5: Well, I mean, granted, they put a lot on the line.
Speaker 5: I mean, they weren't crying because we broke up. They're
Speaker 5: crying because they.
Speaker 2: Don't they felt rejected, right, Yeah, I mean that makes sense.
Speaker 7: It's a lot like you're traveling, you leave your home,
Speaker 7: you tell all your friends and your family that you're
Speaker 7: going to do this, and then the one you're gone.
Speaker 7: The girls thinking they could be potentially gone for the
Speaker 7: entire time, they're all that top for them over a month,
Speaker 7: but they might go home the next day.
Speaker 1: That makes more sense.
Speaker 7: It's a total of mind Like.
Speaker 3: It's expectations, right, You've got this expectation of what could be,
Speaker 3: and then all of a sudden within less than twenty
Speaker 3: four hours.
Speaker 1: It's woh, we said that fifty times and watching the
Speaker 1: two episodes, rejection sucks.
Speaker 2: Yeahssion sucks. How hard was that for y'all? I mean,
Speaker 2: was that the hardest part?
Speaker 3: I don't know what the hardest part was, but I
Speaker 3: would imagine having to reject people would be at the
Speaker 3: top of the list.
Speaker 4: The hardest part.
Speaker 7: So, like, after we did all that stuff, I realized, like,
Speaker 7: so on The Bachelor, you know, for saying that comes
Speaker 7: down like a ceremony and you you know, the rose
Speaker 7: ceremony that's as ours that ours is a random It
Speaker 7: could be you could let two girls go the first week,
Speaker 7: or you could keep you know, all four or five
Speaker 7: of them till the last week. So it's completely up
Speaker 7: to what we want to do, which makes it harder
Speaker 7: because you know, you have to let someone go, and
Speaker 7: then I would like put it off, you know, I
Speaker 7: don't want to do it today, I'll do it tomorrow.
Speaker 7: And then like that's a good point.
Speaker 1: You're not required to send someone home, so if you do,
Speaker 1: that's voluntary and they know that, Oh.
Speaker 3: That makes so much sense if they're if you're told, hey,
Speaker 3: you have to let someone go.
Speaker 2: That would have been easier.
Speaker 7: Each week, for instance, I had that one girl I
Speaker 7: knew it was gonna let go. Meanwhile, all the girls are,
Speaker 7: you know, making dinner to get this one night and
Speaker 7: drinking wine. They're having like a black It's like all
Speaker 7: the girls are getting along. Finally everything's good, and I'm thinking,
Speaker 7: I'm had. I got to send this girl home tonight,
Speaker 7: Like yeah, so I have to pull her aside in
Speaker 7: front of all the other girls, like can I talk
Speaker 7: to you over here?
Speaker 6: Well it's also too it's like.
Speaker 7: Well then they know of course, and immediately yeah.
Speaker 5: You can, just like in The Bachelor, you can just
Speaker 5: I'm not going to give you a rose and that's it.
Speaker 5: We'll hug and say goodbye. This we actually have to
Speaker 5: think up a breakup speech, and like actually break up
Speaker 5: with these girls multiple times a month.
Speaker 1: It's insane.
Speaker 7: And once you get one down, they're like, you.
Speaker 1: Know, I haven't seen do they tell you? It is
Speaker 1: built up as a moment, like as an event, and
Speaker 1: you got to have something ready to say yeah, wow.
Speaker 6: If you don't, you're a scumbag. Oh my god.
Speaker 3: I mean, honestly, breaking up is the hardest thing to
Speaker 3: do in life, Like so many people can totally relate.
Speaker 2: You'll do anything to avoid it because you're just like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't.
Speaker 3: Want to hurt your feelings. This is going to be
Speaker 3: really rough and really tough. I can't even imagine having it.
Speaker 3: How so you had to do it four times?
Speaker 4: You know?
Speaker 3: You?
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you end up with five.
Speaker 7: Well technically started eight, so you have the first three, but.
Speaker 5: Those are easy. Come on, you have the Bachelor ceremony
Speaker 5: type thing. And that's what I'm meant.
Speaker 1: For those of you listening. That was farmer John. That
Speaker 1: was farmer John.
Speaker 6: Back down to the lower time.
Speaker 7: I was about to say that to say.
Speaker 6: I know, take one for the team. Birthday boy.
Speaker 1: But what is the expectation at the end of the show.
Speaker 1: Is it that all these shows have some ceremony the
Speaker 1: Bachelor expect to get engaged and love is blind you
Speaker 1: to say I'm gonna get married or not. Whatever it is.
Speaker 1: What's the climax of the show at the end, You're
Speaker 1: supposed to do what?
Speaker 7: Well, you get down to the two Yeah, families come
Speaker 7: into play and so that's a huge part of it.
Speaker 7: And then you know, basically you get down last day,
Speaker 7: last episode, you choose one if you want a big guy.
Speaker 7: Last year didn't choose anybody, So it's really like who
Speaker 7: knows what's gonna happen if you're watching. But for me,
Speaker 7: one of the first questions I asked was like, do
Speaker 7: I have to like get married at the end of this,
Speaker 7: you know, because let's you know, be realistic connections. Let's
Speaker 7: be realistic, and you're dating a bunch of the girls
Speaker 7: at the same time, I'm not marrying anyone in five weeks.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and cameras are rolling, so you don't know if
Speaker 3: you're getting the real version of somebody or somebody who's
Speaker 3: actually putting their best self forward.
Speaker 7: For me, it was like, what's my all these girls
Speaker 7: is there's somebody here that I do want to, you know,
Speaker 7: go down that road with.
Speaker 8: And it's really a two way street too, so they
Speaker 8: got to biit a connection with us because they could say, hey,
Speaker 8: I want to lead a.
Speaker 4: Farm now or whatever forever reason.
Speaker 8: So that's what I think made it really unique going
Speaker 8: into the process.
Speaker 3: I'm curious what the experience actually was like for each
Speaker 3: of you versus what you thought it was going to be, Like,
Speaker 3: what were the what were the big moments where you
Speaker 3: thought I was not prepared for this.
Speaker 5: I don't think there were any big moments, but generally speaking,
Speaker 5: I did not think to actually develop real serious feelings
Speaker 5: for these girls, like I actually cared for them, and uh,
Speaker 5: you know, sending them home really did hurt. I mean
Speaker 5: it was tough, especially seeing them cry and having to
Speaker 5: leave their friends and all that stuff.
Speaker 6: It was it was tough.
Speaker 5: So I think that was the biggest thing, is it
Speaker 5: was a true authentic experience of dating somebody.
Speaker 4: Yeah, definitely.
Speaker 8: I think getting that fast burned. You know, you most
Speaker 8: time in the relationship is kin to start slow. You
Speaker 8: kind of start surface level questions, but you're dipping at
Speaker 8: those deeper questions like in that ten minute speed date,
Speaker 8: and you starting to realize that, Wow, this is a
Speaker 8: great person. I'm really starting to feel this person and
Speaker 8: build that connection. And I wasn't going in and expecting
Speaker 8: any of that at all, but it kind of happens.
Speaker 7: So yeah, uh, you know basically what they said too. Second,
Speaker 7: I'm not that but uh, I think just the sheer
Speaker 7: like amount that goes into all this is insane, and
Speaker 7: like we were kind of touched on earlier, like you
Speaker 7: see some of the girls crying, like episode one, there's
Speaker 7: a lot you don't see it, and I'm you know,
Speaker 7: I'm not a huge reality fan or anything, but I've
Speaker 7: seen some of those shows and those girls crying and
Speaker 7: it's like, come on, you just met this person and
Speaker 7: stuff like that. But then once you live it, you realize,
Speaker 7: like how much stress. And I'm like very even keeled,
Speaker 7: you know, a levelheaded person, and I was like a rollercoat.
Speaker 7: I was all over the place. I lost like fifteen
Speaker 7: pounds during that. Yeah, Like I was stressed out traveling
Speaker 7: and everyone's exhausted. You're staying in hotels where you can't
Speaker 7: really leave your room for a couple of days because
Speaker 7: you can't run into other cast. You're not with your
Speaker 7: family of friends, you're away from work, Like it's a lot.
Speaker 4: Give me the time on the phone. You didn't have
Speaker 4: your phone a lot.
Speaker 1: So I was going to you said you lost fifteen pounds.
Speaker 1: Was it the stress of the environment, you have to
Speaker 1: go here, you gotta do this press event, you gotta
Speaker 1: do this interview, or was it the stress of finding
Speaker 1: a mate? I mean, which one was leading the way?
Speaker 1: Really that was stressing you out?
Speaker 8: Well?
Speaker 7: Yeah, more so letting the girls go is tough, yeah,
Speaker 7: because you really like get into the moment and they're
Speaker 7: you know, at least for me, my girls were very serious.
Speaker 7: I think I'm the oldest one in the other groups.
Speaker 7: My group of girls were older too, and I think
Speaker 7: they were really there, you know, for the right reasons.
Speaker 7: So everyone's like very invested in it. And they're living
Speaker 7: in your house. I mean, you're not like at a hope,
Speaker 7: you know, yeah whatever event like that one girl was
Speaker 7: living in my room. I wasn't there, Like, you know,
Speaker 7: they're making food in your kitchen.
Speaker 2: It's deeply personal.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, yeah, it's not just a random guy you met,
Speaker 7: you know, in some vacation spot.
Speaker 3: It interested me when you said you had to stay separate.
Speaker 3: I was curious, did you have any idea what was
Speaker 3: going on with the other farmers when you were in
Speaker 3: your bubble, in your world with your girls. I was
Speaker 3: curious because the first episode, we won't give anything away,
Speaker 3: but you all were given the option, as you mentioned,
Speaker 3: it wasn't mandatory to send someone home if you realized
Speaker 3: there wasn't a connection. And I thought, did they get
Speaker 3: to talk to each other and say.
Speaker 2: Are you sending in one home? Are you sending it.
Speaker 3: Like, I just didn't know if you could compare experiences
Speaker 3: at all with one another.
Speaker 8: Go ahead, Yah, Well, like you know, when we were
Speaker 8: together at the mixers, we were able to do that,
Speaker 8: but when we were in our separate farms, we weren't.
Speaker 4: You know, we didn't have that communication.
Speaker 8: So it was tough while we were there, But every
Speaker 8: time we went back and met at a mixer, were
Speaker 8: able to kind of debrief invent to each other about everything.
Speaker 4: So that made anything easier for sure.
Speaker 6: One of the best parts of the show.
Speaker 7: Yeah, because we've gone through all the stuff all week
Speaker 7: and you meet up, it's like a camera like, what
Speaker 7: the heck's going on?
Speaker 5: Crack open, a few cold ones start talking about it.
Speaker 1: That was I don't know if you're the bachelorette, Trista
Speaker 1: and Ryan, right, we talked to them Ry. Ryan said
Speaker 1: something interesting to me that when you're in that environment,
Speaker 1: you get kind of caught up and you're convinced that
Speaker 1: this is your soulmate or this is the level of
Speaker 1: my life because you're set up in a space where
Speaker 1: you're supposed to think that. Did you all have to
Speaker 1: battle that a little bit? I think you might have
Speaker 1: mentioned that some of the women. Clearly they were going
Speaker 1: a little more down that route after just a month,
Speaker 1: and maybe you all had, But did you have to
Speaker 1: fight that urge to go, wow, this is my soulmate.
Speaker 6: A little bit.
Speaker 5: I mean, not the fact that this is my soulmate,
Speaker 5: because quite frankly, I don't really believe in soulmates.
Speaker 4: Like time, Okay, I know I like this guy, but you.
Speaker 5: Got caught up in the feeling that you had to
Speaker 5: pick somebody at the end, and it's like, you, you
Speaker 5: really need to date this person after the show and everything.
Speaker 5: But I think it was tough for the girls because
Speaker 5: they only had each other or knowing at all. But
Speaker 5: luckily for us, we got to go home every night
Speaker 5: and see our families and really just kind of debrief
Speaker 5: and get back to reality. So I think it was
Speaker 5: easier for us to kind of, you know, not fall
Speaker 5: into that trap, whereas the girls didn't have that luxury,
Speaker 5: so they may have slipped through it a few times.
Speaker 5: All they talk about is, yeah.
Speaker 4: That was rough. Yeah, Oh wait, what was rough? Just
Speaker 4: I'm staying the five women in one house, yeah, share ather.
Speaker 7: Rooms, are together, twenty four to seven.
Speaker 6: The same guy, yeah, robes, how does that.
Speaker 3: Usually go, oh, well, when you're not dating the same guy,
Speaker 3: that's tough.
Speaker 2: And when you're dating the same guy.
Speaker 3: I haven't had that experience, but I can't even imagine
Speaker 3: what that would be like in any.
Speaker 2: Way, shape or form. Got to be a little bit
Speaker 2: chaotic there, did Were you surprised at all by the
Speaker 2: dynamics of the women or were you anticipating how five
Speaker 2: women might behave in your home competing for your heart?
Speaker 7: That was actually we've all talked about this, but I
Speaker 7: started to realize for the process, it was nice to
Speaker 7: see how they interacted with each other because it's a
Speaker 7: good show character. So you have like a mean girl
Speaker 7: in the house not getting along with the other girls
Speaker 7: or for whatever reason. It's like, all right, it's good
Speaker 7: to know. But then you read some of the other ones,
Speaker 7: who are you know, diplomatic and they're reaching out to
Speaker 7: all the girls, making each other okay and all that.
Speaker 7: So that's it was kind of cool to see that too,
Speaker 7: because you kind of learn off that, Yeah, did you
Speaker 7: fake that?
Speaker 1: Did that happen in every house? There was a breakdown? Okay,
Speaker 1: there's the mean girl, there's this guy.
Speaker 4: I think I don't know.
Speaker 7: If it maybe mean girl's not the right word. Yeah, problems, Yeah.
Speaker 2: I think mean girls the right world.
Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you for Yeah.
Speaker 2: I actually do. I actually do.
Speaker 3: I do think that that usually does happen. You know,
Speaker 3: you get into this hierarchy and you always say y'all
Speaker 3: like you women, but it's you know, there is I
Speaker 3: don't know what it is, but there is.
Speaker 2: You kind of fill the dynamics get filled out, and
Speaker 2: you kind of get one of each year. It seems
Speaker 2: like a lot of ways.
Speaker 3: That's part of the fun in watching it though, too,
Speaker 3: because it's a social experience. I mean you're really seeing
Speaker 3: people their true colors come out when they're put into
Speaker 3: stressful situations.
Speaker 2: Cameras are on. You'd think that.
Speaker 3: People would be on their best behavior, but that doesn't.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I think people start to get, you know, comfortable, and
Speaker 3: then their true colors shine.
Speaker 2: Was alcohol a big part of the filming.
Speaker 3: Because obviously, when you know people have their little glasses,
Speaker 3: it tends to get a little more dramatic.
Speaker 7: We have a little bit more sometimes, but they probably
Speaker 7: thought it was an alcoholic I was asking for drinks
Speaker 7: all the time.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 7: No, it it was very, very very limited, not like
Speaker 7: what years some of these shows are liquering people out
Speaker 7: and it was not matter whatsoever.
Speaker 8: Have a couple of the mass one might have been
Speaker 8: yeahs at a little more.
Speaker 5: What happened in that's the dancing mixer? Yeah, barn dance.
Speaker 1: Barn dance, that barn dance.
Speaker 2: Look forward to. I can't wait to see the Barn dance.
Speaker 7: The drinks, well, I.
Speaker 6: Will say episode two. The drinks had a little play
Speaker 6: in that. I think that's pretty pretty evident.
Speaker 2: Was so good.
Speaker 3: I can't wait for people to see episode two, and
Speaker 3: then I can't wait to keep I can't wait.
Speaker 1: You know, what is that like having five strangers in
Speaker 1: your house? Did you all have to adjust in certain ways?
Speaker 1: Did you stock up on tole of the paper? I
Speaker 1: don't know what did you did you prepare the.
Speaker 5: House with production kind of handled all. That's all handle
Speaker 5: all the provisions. But it was kind of nice, you know,
Speaker 5: I mean for me. My family's living there too. My
Speaker 5: sister loves to cook, so she was bringing them pasta
Speaker 5: and cookies and you name it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was great.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it was awesome, Like my crew was great. Couldn't
Speaker 7: you know better about them? So it's a positive experience,
Speaker 7: But at the same time, it is pretty invasive. You've
Speaker 7: got like a crew of twenty five people in and
Speaker 7: out of your house on your property. You know, a
Speaker 7: ton of cars, and you know where you start our
Speaker 7: privacy on the ranch. So it's it's a lot. At
Speaker 7: the end of the five weeks for like, all right,
Speaker 7: you know.
Speaker 3: Matt your property, I have to say. I was like,
Speaker 3: can I see more? It was like real estate peorn composition.
Speaker 2: I was like, avocado and rare fruit farm. Where is
Speaker 2: it with the view of the Pacific Ocean?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 7: It was Yeah, all welcome a new time.
Speaker 2: I'll take you up. You know how much you love avocados.
Speaker 1: It'll be one ticket and it'll be one way. If
Speaker 1: you're going to go hang out on the birthday boys
Speaker 1: gorgeous land like yourself out.
Speaker 2: I'm curious did your experience I know we can't you
Speaker 2: obviously can't say, and we wouldn't even ask about the
Speaker 2: outcome of any of this, But did it alter your
Speaker 2: your impression of wanting love, of what love is, wanting
Speaker 2: to be married? Did have any impact on your overall
Speaker 2: feelings about relationships and what you want out of them?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean for me, going in my head was completely
Speaker 5: scrambled when it came to that stuff, you know, I
Speaker 5: didn't know which way was left. But with this show,
Speaker 5: I was saying those ot apps, it's basically a free therapy.
Speaker 5: You sit there and you talk to a camera and
Speaker 5: you basically talk out how you're feeling and stuff, and
Speaker 5: it's able to kind of narrow it down and really
Speaker 5: kind of get it a little bit uniform in your
Speaker 5: own head, so you're easily able to navigate that type
Speaker 5: of stuff better.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I think for me, you know, playing football, I
Speaker 8: like to compare a lot of things to that and
Speaker 8: it's almost like that team that looks good on paper,
Speaker 8: but it might not always work out when it's time
Speaker 8: to play the game, you know. And you know with
Speaker 8: some of the ladies, especially like the ladies we had
Speaker 8: at first, everything looked good from you know, their personality,
Speaker 8: their values, the way they look, things like that, but
Speaker 8: when you actually got in front of them in person,
Speaker 8: you just didn't feel that connection. So let me know,
Speaker 8: that's a lot deeper than just those checkboxes.
Speaker 7: So yeah, I think for me, I haven't changed it
Speaker 7: all or anything like that, or you know, I knew
Speaker 7: what I wanted before and that all remains the same.
Speaker 7: But for me. I think I just realized, like I
Speaker 7: don't want to date anymore. Like I'm I'm either gonna
Speaker 7: like do something or just not at all. So I
Speaker 7: don't want to like candually date and like waste time.
Speaker 6: Especially the other side or yeah, yeah, coming.
Speaker 7: Out right, Yeah I'm serious.
Speaker 1: Here, farmer wants or whatever.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think that was just all I've dated. I'm
Speaker 7: the oldest out of the group. I've dated, you know,
Speaker 7: plenty of girls in the past, and then after that experience,
Speaker 7: like all right, i think I'm done with just casually
Speaker 7: dating all this stuff. I'm more like, look, I'm looking
Speaker 7: for a wife, so I'm either like my next relationship
Speaker 7: is like I think that's can it be it? I'm
Speaker 7: not gonna go fulling around.
Speaker 1: Okay, you had eight, it went down to five. That's
Speaker 1: where we are on the show. Of the five that
Speaker 1: each of you had, how many of those five, given
Speaker 1: only what we've seen, did you all we're actually marriage
Speaker 1: wife material for you? Did you actually see out of
Speaker 1: that five? And we only what we've seen so far,
Speaker 1: so don't want to go too far in the show,
Speaker 1: but out of that five, like, yep, yep, yep, yep, yet,
Speaker 1: how many of those could you actually see as a
Speaker 1: wife to you.
Speaker 7: I think there was definitely at least three for me
Speaker 7: that right off the bat, I was like, very interested
Speaker 7: in that in that way. I took it pretty seriously.
Speaker 7: And then the other two, you know, it's definitely still
Speaker 7: interested in. But the top three definitely.
Speaker 8: I think all five they definitely had the potential in
Speaker 8: different ways, but some just had a little bit stronger,
Speaker 8: a little bit you know, more potential, if that makes sense.
Speaker 8: So I think the five that I picked, I definitely
Speaker 8: saw the potential to.
Speaker 4: Come back to Alabama live with me.
Speaker 8: But there's also some red flags, some things you got
Speaker 8: to adopt deeper into which we would get too in
Speaker 8: the show for sure.
Speaker 1: Any red flags with Julia.
Speaker 8: Oh definitely definitely, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: She knows you live in Alabama.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 8: Something she told me about the bugs and you know,
Speaker 8: the poop and stuff like that. I said, well, you
Speaker 8: might be some of that when we get to the forum.
Speaker 3: But a princess multiple times I think said been. TJ's
Speaker 3: daughter was like, did she.
Speaker 2: Just call herself a princess? I was like, yes she did.
Speaker 1: My twelve year olds turned off, Uh wait, do we
Speaker 1: which episode had them shoveling. Which one was that? Did
Speaker 1: we see that?
Speaker 4: It was? It was? It was a clip.
Speaker 1: It was a clip.
Speaker 2: Oh no, so we saw it though because we saw
Speaker 2: episode two. I haven't mentioned that something.
Speaker 1: You exactly exactly what we didn't get your answer?
Speaker 5: Yeah, out of the five, I think I would answer
Speaker 5: the same way Jay did. The only caveat I would
Speaker 5: say is that throughout the season it definitely changed. You know,
Speaker 5: you'd go from I'd say, all five, then you maybe
Speaker 5: go to four, then maybe back to five.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's all over the place.
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, when you're dating and you're and you're
Speaker 2: looking for love, you know, looks and physical appearance are
Speaker 2: is usually the first thing that you notice, and it's
Speaker 2: a part of the attraction that has to be there.
Speaker 2: I would say to have.
Speaker 3: A sustainable relationship, But did you at all, going through
Speaker 3: this process process shift the importance of like personality, Like
Speaker 3: you know, I'm just like so many people focus on
Speaker 3: one thing and then if you had the experience which
Speaker 3: most people have, not a dating five girls at the
Speaker 3: same time, do other things become much more important than
Speaker 3: they were before in your life?
Speaker 8: Well, Luckily for me, all five of my women that
Speaker 8: I pick are very beautiful. So that physical part was
Speaker 8: kind of you know, already checked there, and then it
Speaker 8: really just boiled down to the personality and how fast
Speaker 8: we could build that you know flame. I like to
Speaker 8: use a flame a lotuse that's what the producers talked
Speaker 8: about a lot, so that fast burn or that slow burn.
Speaker 7: So yeah, one thing I learned throughout this too is that,
Speaker 7: like the producers would always say, don't necessarily spend time
Speaker 7: with who you like right off the bat, Maybe spend
Speaker 7: time with the ones that you're not sure about to
Speaker 7: get to figure out like what's going on there. Maybe
Speaker 7: maybe you're right about your feelings, maybe you weren't. Yeah,
Speaker 7: So I think that was kind of like the biggest
Speaker 7: thing is it's more so like looking at who you
Speaker 7: think you don't want to be with that other group
Speaker 7: versus like looking for that one that you do, because
Speaker 7: that really helped narrow down during the process. So I
Speaker 7: would pick girls sometimes to go on these dates and
Speaker 7: it would look like, oh, he wants to go take
Speaker 7: her on the date first, But maybe it was because
Speaker 7: I was not sure a better and I really wanted
Speaker 7: to just figure out if I'm letting to go next.
Speaker 7: So I think when you watch some of the stuff
Speaker 7: and you see us pig dates and it might not
Speaker 7: be what you think it is.
Speaker 5: Ah, yeah, that's right, And it lifted the veil of
Speaker 5: that you know, uncertainty that you had with other girls.
Speaker 5: But for me personally, I think the one thing that
Speaker 5: I ended up narrowing down on was whether or not
Speaker 5: you just get along with the person because they had
Speaker 5: all the they checked all the box. Like Jay was
Speaker 5: talking about, on paper, everybody is perfect. You know, they
Speaker 5: all look great, they have the qualities that you want,
Speaker 5: they share the same values. But in the end, to me,
Speaker 5: it was just who you just got along with and
Speaker 5: who you could see yourself just hanging out with a lot.
Speaker 3: Well, isn't that truly the key to a successful relationship.
Speaker 3: We went through some divorces to find that out, but actually, truly,
Speaker 3: if you can find that person you can just do
Speaker 3: anything with, that's that's that's the person you want, And
Speaker 3: it's not necessarily how we're taught to think about it, right,
Speaker 3: But that's cool that you all learned that along the
Speaker 3: way doing the show. Maybe you learned it beforehand, but
Speaker 3: I imagine it would be reiterated doing a show like this
Speaker 3: right exactly.
Speaker 1: You all talk about how supportive friends and family were.
Speaker 1: Who was the voice saying, don't do this, this is silly,
Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. She never going to find somebody, she's
Speaker 1: going to be crazy. Who was kind of turned off
Speaker 1: and was hesitant for you all to put yourself out
Speaker 1: there like this.
Speaker 7: Not many people, I might say my dad a little bit,
Speaker 7: which is funny because my parents wants the show and
Speaker 7: he loves it, I think secretly, but I think he
Speaker 7: was just worried that it wasn't going to be a
Speaker 7: genuine relationship. But I will say later on when our
Speaker 7: families come into play, I think he kind of changed
Speaker 7: his mind because he did get to meet the girls
Speaker 7: in their families, and I think after that he was
Speaker 7: kind of sold on it because he saw what I saw,
Speaker 7: like these girls are actually here for the real reason.
Speaker 7: So yeah, he's a big fan.
Speaker 8: Yeah, I definitely would say my best friend, his name
Speaker 8: is Diaijan call him Poppy though that's his nickname, pop Poppy.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 8: Yeah, he's super real with me all the time, like, man,
Speaker 8: are you sure you're gonna find on this?
Speaker 4: Man?
Speaker 8: You know how to go sometimes and even being from Florence,
Speaker 8: you know, we got robbed from Love Island from Florence too,
Speaker 8: so like we got that you know type of reality,
Speaker 8: you know, connection and stuff like that. So you see,
Speaker 8: like you said, some of this stuff not being as
Speaker 8: genuine as things like that, but uh, you know he
Speaker 8: was going to always keep it real with me.
Speaker 6: So yeah, I would say my dad too.
Speaker 5: He's a very business oriented guy, and he's just you know,
Speaker 5: worried about me getting up on stage and you know,
Speaker 5: peeing my pants in.
Speaker 6: Front of all these girls here nation.
Speaker 5: But in the end, I think he was the one
Speaker 5: who's actually the most into it, Like Matt's that funny
Speaker 5: because yeah, he's the one who definitely immersed himself the
Speaker 5: most and was asking all these questions and smile and
Speaker 5: ear to ear after every day wanting to hear about it.
Speaker 3: So and we kind of mentioned it in the beginning,
Speaker 3: or at least you reference to social media, how like,
Speaker 3: how have you managed that and navigated that? Because yes,
Speaker 3: it's all fun and great when people like you, but
Speaker 3: then if someone doesn't like what you said or doesn't
Speaker 3: like how you broke up with someone, have you seen
Speaker 3: or experienced any backlash yet?
Speaker 2: And how are you preparing yourself for what's to come.
Speaker 5: Honestly, I just like laugh at that stuff, especially in
Speaker 5: Saint Louis. I mean that's where I get the most
Speaker 5: negative comments.
Speaker 6: It's people from Saint Louis. I mean they just they
Speaker 6: know who. Yeah, it's like I'll see you in a
Speaker 6: grocery store, like you want.
Speaker 5: To say, why don't you say it when you're in
Speaker 5: schnooks or something?
Speaker 2: But what I remember?
Speaker 1: Goodness, what issue can they take with you after one
Speaker 1: two episodes? I mean it's me, really, what are the
Speaker 1: I'm curious what are they saying? What negativity is there?
Speaker 7: It's really not been too bad about us, more so
Speaker 7: the girls.
Speaker 8: I think it's more about like our decisions though, like
Speaker 8: even bringing Julia back to the farm and you Samantha,
Speaker 8: like some of the girls.
Speaker 1: I apologize that was my message. Sorry, Sorry I sent
Speaker 1: that note. I wish I could take it back.
Speaker 2: No, you know what good point we started off right
Speaker 2: off the bat, What.
Speaker 1: Were you thinking?
Speaker 6: You're an idiot moving on?
Speaker 2: That was what TJ basically said.
Speaker 1: I just wanted what was best for you and I
Speaker 1: didn't think she was it. Okay, That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 8: The biggest thing with like those opinions though, of people
Speaker 8: like I said, I'll bring it always back to football.
Speaker 8: It's just like the fan paying their ten dollars for
Speaker 8: the game. They can say whatever they want to because
Speaker 8: that's what they did. So you've got to take it
Speaker 8: and have that, you know, mentality. Just move on from it,
Speaker 8: know the opinion. So yeah, all.
Speaker 3: Right, Well we're all excited about the episodes that are
Speaker 3: about to be dropping. So final question, do you think
Speaker 3: you've only seen the first episode but you do know
Speaker 3: how it ends? What do fans have in store for
Speaker 3: them over the next several weeks as these episodes drop.
Speaker 7: Oh boy, Like I was mentioning, there's a lot of stuff.
Speaker 7: I y, I was mentioning it is just keep in
Speaker 7: mind like when you're watching us pick these dates and
Speaker 7: say or do different things, it may not always be
Speaker 7: you know, we may be doing it for different reason
Speaker 7: than you think, too, might be trying to do little research.
Speaker 4: I think you could expect unexpected.
Speaker 8: You know, it might look like things line up, but
Speaker 8: it'd be a twist here and there.
Speaker 5: So yeah, I think I mean they said it kill me.
Speaker 6: I mean episode two, you'll have some fun. You guys
Speaker 6: already know.
Speaker 7: That my favorite episode. It will be everybody's yeah, correct.
Speaker 2: Well okay, so thank you all. We cannot wait.
Speaker 3: We are so excited. It was so incredible to see
Speaker 3: you guys in person. We almost let to be in
Speaker 3: skipped school.
Speaker 2: But she's scared.
Speaker 3: Almost, but she really wanted to skip school to meet
Speaker 3: you all. You have been so genuine, so real. It's
Speaker 3: been so fun and we cannot wait to watch you
Speaker 3: find love.
Speaker 1: Yes, and we're sincere. I mean we joke around here
Speaker 1: a little bit, but we watch enough of these shows
Speaker 1: and there's a lot you can get out of a relationship,
Speaker 1: even a love Island. Right, you learned something about communication,
Speaker 1: couple something and we're kind of turned off by them
Speaker 1: lately because people manipulate. It's not an authentic experience. We
Speaker 1: tune in to see you guys in studio here right now.
Speaker 1: This is as real and authentic you aill are exactly
Speaker 1: what you are on television, and I do believe it's
Speaker 1: coming from a right and authentic place. And that's cool
Speaker 1: and it feels good. It feels good to be able
Speaker 1: to root for you all and root for the show
Speaker 1: now that for we are experienced. I can't believe I'm
Speaker 1: your experience the show dating, reality show watching that is.
Speaker 3: That is a factual statement, and I'm not embarrassed about
Speaker 3: it at all, because I have learned a lot and
Speaker 3: I look forward to learning more from watching Farmer Wants
Speaker 3: a Wife every Thursday on Fox. Episodes, new episode every week,
Speaker 3: so we'll be watching. We might rewatch episode two. It
Speaker 3: was that good.
Speaker 6: Oh well, in that case, we're on our Dabby Gosh.
Speaker 1: The reality Kings and Queens alright, really felt it was
Speaker 1: good to meet you. Good luck on everything.