1 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: Hey guys. 2 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: Sunday Sampler time on the Sore Losers. They talk about 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 2: stories from their vacation. We'll get to that. On the 4 00:00:14,480 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 2: Bobby Cast, I talked with the Legend Americana and Texas 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: Legend Robert Earl Keene. He opened up about why he 6 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,320 Speaker 2: decided to retire from the road after forty one years 7 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 2: of touring. But we have a new podcast on the network. 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,280 Speaker 2: It's so good. It's called In the Vets Office with 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 2: Doctor Josie. Abby Smyers. She is Dan Smyers, his wife 10 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 2: from Dan and Jay. They talked about their dog and 11 00:00:34,479 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 2: how their dog was sick. So they took the dog 12 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 2: to the vet. The vet was like, no, dog's fine, 13 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 2: and so I took the dog to another vet, which 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 2: was doctor Josie. Doctor Josie was like, no, the dog 15 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 2: guess cancer and they're going through chemo. They talk about 16 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 2: animals and Dan and Shay and they talk about rescue. 17 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 2: It's a really great episode. Here's a clip of In 18 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,320 Speaker 2: the Vets Office with Doctor Josie. 19 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 3: Help. 20 00:00:56,720 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 4: Welcome to in the Vets Office, Abby Smiers. Hi, I'm 21 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 4: so excited to have you here. 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 3: So happy to be here. Thanks for having me. 23 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 1: You're welcome Anne today. 24 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 4: As everyone knows perfect, she sat right on cue. This 25 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 4: podcast is biod and she brought with her the lovely Macaroni. 26 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 3: This is Macaroni. She's so good. Yes, yes, Macaroni. We 27 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: call her mac. She has the best ear. She's perfect 28 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 3: in every way. Yeah, one ear, crazy straight up. 29 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: One year down. You actually have attached to it her 30 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:26,800 Speaker 1: little years. I love that. 31 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:29,959 Speaker 3: My friend Andrew drew it for me and then I 32 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:31,279 Speaker 3: got it tattooed because I love. 33 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 4: Her ears so much. It's so cute. So we have 34 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:36,720 Speaker 4: a lot of ground to cover today. Before we dive in, 35 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 4: I have to tell one of my favorite stories about you. 36 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 4: Abby and I really like to walk our dogs together. 37 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,680 Speaker 4: And I think it was last summer, whatever, last year 38 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 4: sometime you text me about twenty minutes before we're supposed 39 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:49,960 Speaker 4: to go on our walk and you're like, I'm so sorry, 40 00:01:50,000 --> 00:01:51,120 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna be able to come over. 41 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 1: Here's why. 42 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 4: And you send me a picture and it's this tiny 43 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 4: newborn baby deer, the. 44 00:01:56,200 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: Cutest thing that's ever existed. It was so cute, it was. 45 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 4: So cute, and I'm like, whatever you do, do not 46 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 4: come on this walk. 47 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 1: You must stand vigil safe over this deer. 48 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 3: It did not need any saving, and I learned, Yeah, 49 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 3: but I thought I needed saving. 50 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 4: But you stayed in your house all day, yeah, watching 51 00:02:13,720 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 4: this baby deer. 52 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 3: Yes, because I was so concerned something was gonna happen 53 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:18,799 Speaker 3: to it. And it's the cutest thing you've ever seen. Yeah, 54 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 3: I also am so I love deer. I think they're 55 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 3: just really magical. 56 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 4: And Abby has a water bowl out you guys in 57 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 4: her front yard for deer. 58 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 3: We're in a drought. 59 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: We're in a drought. We're in a drought. 60 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 3: How are they gonna find? 61 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:34,119 Speaker 4: And honestly, the last night, one of the last times 62 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:37,360 Speaker 4: I was over your ring doorbell camera, your outdoor camera 63 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 4: picked up a deer drinking out of the water bowl. 64 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 3: You were the first person to ever see them because 65 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:43,680 Speaker 3: they never use it. They just like look at it 66 00:02:43,720 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: and consider drinking it and never do. And then finally 67 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 3: my hard work paid off. 68 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: I was kind of like laughing at you in my head. 69 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 4: I'm like, yeah, all right, like a deer's gonna drink 70 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,839 Speaker 4: out of this bowl and then sure enough it did. 71 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: Okay, anyways, back to the baby deer, and you're like, 72 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 1: what do I do? I'm like, I don't know. They 73 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: don't cheach us this in bet school. 74 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 3: I'm recognizing that we're going to be talking about animals 75 00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 3: and I'm like automatically using this like way higher voice. 76 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:13,760 Speaker 1: And when I'm talking to animals and it's I love it. 77 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,160 Speaker 1: So you called a wildlife person. 78 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 3: I did because I had never been around a baby deer. 79 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 3: I love them, but I and it was I don't know. 80 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 3: It was just in a very strange spot where our 81 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 3: house was situated. There wasn't anywhere for the mom to 82 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,240 Speaker 3: really go, so I didn't know why I would have 83 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 3: left the baby there. It was a very weird spot 84 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 3: to leave it, and so I thought it was abandoned. 85 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 3: But lo and behold called a wonderful wild deer wildlife rehab. 86 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 3: Her name is Deborah. It lest you first, I have 87 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 3: her contact now in my phone and it has her birthday, 88 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 3: so I always know when her birthday is too. 89 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 1: I never talked to her again, but I know when 90 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: her birthday is and. 91 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 3: It says like what age too, that's amazing, But love 92 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: her and she told me so. Now that everyone knows 93 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 3: this about baby deer, if they are laying still, which 94 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 3: this one was completely silent and with their head down. 95 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 3: They're doing exactly by nature what they were born to do. 96 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 3: So when they're born, they are born odorless and silent, 97 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 3: and mom is obviously not so she leaves to go feed, 98 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 3: and they are protected because predators cannot find them. I mean, 99 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 3: my dogs had no idea that it was there. The 100 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 3: whole day I did. 101 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, of course, I've never set a camera. 102 00:04:27,040 --> 00:04:29,480 Speaker 3: I ustar Ferbo camera and moved it from the dog's 103 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 3: room and so I could like watch them outside. 104 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,240 Speaker 4: I got an update like every forty five minutes. It 105 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 4: was amazing and it was so cute, and so then 106 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 4: later that evening you're happy you let your dogs out, 107 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,720 Speaker 4: is when it goes down. You let your dogs out 108 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 4: into the front yard. 109 00:04:45,520 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: Yep, do you use the restroom. They had no idea 110 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:49,840 Speaker 3: the deer was there. The deer was on the sideyard. 111 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 3: No big deal. I have been watching this thing all 112 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 3: day like my own child. 113 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 4: And it's mother, Yeah, I was its mother. And then 114 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 4: and then you found out that it had a clearly. 115 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:01,840 Speaker 1: Do not trust me. 116 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:07,359 Speaker 3: Yes, Mom came flying out of nowhere, truly out of nowhere. 117 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:12,320 Speaker 4: Jumps yours do jumps your massive fence, You guys, this 118 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 4: is caught on her camera her front house, like security footage. 119 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:20,080 Speaker 4: You're out there and then all of a sudden you 120 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 4: can see Dan come running outside. 121 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 3: Well, I was in the living room and I could 122 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 3: hear him yelling no, no, no, and I thought the 123 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 3: dogs are going after something, because they've been known to 124 00:05:30,600 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: chase a bunny or two. And he I can just 125 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,400 Speaker 3: hear him screaming. I look out the window and I 126 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: see the mom in the front yard chasing the dogs. 127 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 3: He's chasing the deer. And it's I mean, it's the funniest. 128 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 4: It was like he kind of already looks like Vince 129 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 4: Palm and he's a Steelers fan. He was like going left, 130 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 4: fake and right. The deer's like juking him. It's like 131 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,200 Speaker 4: steps on ghosts. At one point, deer steped on ghosts. 132 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,280 Speaker 3: So then I of course called Josie and because you're 133 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 3: gonna be okay under different but yeah, and so, but 134 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,919 Speaker 3: the funniest thing is, I'm like, what was your plan? 135 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:06,800 Speaker 3: And that's what everyone wanted to know when they saw 136 00:06:06,839 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: the video, like were you going after the dogs? Are 137 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 3: you going after the deer? He's just like one or 138 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 3: the other, because he at one point dives takes a. 139 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 4: Fall, he took a hot mess, took one for the team, 140 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 4: and I just want to say he won dog Dad 141 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 4: of the Century for me. It was amazing. I'm gonna 142 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:24,720 Speaker 4: have to post this video so everyone can see. 143 00:06:24,880 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 3: But also I'm like, how rude that I protected. 144 00:06:27,600 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 4: Your child all day and then you're trying to tack 145 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 4: my own. I know all that to say, if you 146 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 4: ever find a baby deer and just leave it alone, 147 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 4: leave it alone, get alone, go about your wife, your 148 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 4: dogs inside. 149 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 1: And keep your dogs inside. 150 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 4: Mac so Abby and I first met because she's super 151 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 4: duper involved here in the dog rescue community. How did 152 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:47,960 Speaker 4: you get involved? Like, have you always been involved in 153 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 4: dog rescue? How did that come to be? 154 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 3: So it's been ten years almost exactly. I was working 155 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 3: at Warner Music Nashville, which is right down the road 156 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 3: from us, and someone was cooing in the hallway and 157 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 3: I was like, what's out there? And there was this 158 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 3: puppy and my coworker, Rebecca was fostering this little puppy 159 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 3: named Kathy, Sweet Kathy. And I don't know what it 160 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 3: was about this dog. I just had. I guess had 161 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 3: rescue dogs growing up. My dad rescued a couple dogs, 162 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 3: but I just wasn't super well versed in the rescue world, 163 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 3: and my mom had had little be Shawn's. I had 164 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:27,040 Speaker 3: a lab at the time that I got from a breeder, 165 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 3: and I just didn't really know anything. But this fairal 166 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 3: brown dog just stole my heart. And I Textan was like, 167 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 3: should we get this dog? He was like, bring her home, 168 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 3: and so brought her home that day and as a foster, 169 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 3: and two days later we texted the organization and said 170 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 3: we were going to keep her. But it was actually 171 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 3: the very first ever Pimp and Joy Week that the 172 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:56,200 Speaker 3: Bobby Bones Show has done with Amy and honoring her mom, 173 00:07:56,520 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 3: and so it was like the very first one ever. 174 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 3: There were signs all Overshville about Pimp and Joy and 175 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 3: so we when we adopted this dog, I was like, 176 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 3: I think we need to name her Joy. We did 177 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 3: this amazing thing. We rescued a dog, and so that 178 00:08:10,720 --> 00:08:13,720 Speaker 3: is Joy and Joy, I always say, is just the 179 00:08:13,760 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 3: reason that I am who I am and what I do, 180 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 3: because from there I got involved with the rescue that 181 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 3: she was at Proverbs twelve ten Animal Rescue here locally, 182 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 3: they're a wonderful organization. That's right. 183 00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 1: I'm Biggie from yeaes Sweet. 184 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're wonderful, and so I just started volunteering and 185 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 3: then from there Dan and I probably fostered about forty 186 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 3: dogs and I just really fell in love with rescue 187 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:41,960 Speaker 3: and rescue animals. And now we have four and I 188 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:43,559 Speaker 3: would have one hundred more if I could. 189 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,480 Speaker 2: How many people do you think found you? Learned you 190 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: from the Road Goes On Forever? Wait that percentage? That's 191 00:08:57,360 --> 00:09:00,160 Speaker 2: how I found you. The live version, which I didn't know, oh, 192 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,920 Speaker 2: was like also the main version. I was like, man, 193 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:04,720 Speaker 2: this dude, and I think I saw you at ACL 194 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 2: like like I have a history. I have a history 195 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,959 Speaker 2: of like watching you play and listen to your music. 196 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: But I was like, dang, those live records are this good? 197 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:16,840 Speaker 2: But then that was the version when you recorded that 198 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 2: or did you know that? Did you have a feeling 199 00:09:20,360 --> 00:09:21,839 Speaker 2: that that song was going to be the one that 200 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:23,559 Speaker 2: pop so hard? 201 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,760 Speaker 5: It's a really good question about it, because I really 202 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 5: don't know. I can't assess my own songs early very well. 203 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:34,440 Speaker 5: I mean, when I wrote that song, I thought, you know, 204 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:37,319 Speaker 5: it's up tempo, cool, got you know, some drama in 205 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 5: and stuff like that. 206 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:40,200 Speaker 6: But I didn't know to do that. 207 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 5: I didn't know, like that Christmas song would like give 208 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 5: me fourteen years on the road of Christmas shows I had. 209 00:09:46,559 --> 00:09:47,720 Speaker 6: I just have a hard time. 210 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 5: And I'll say this by contrast, there are songs that 211 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 5: I think are really great and they never catch fire. 212 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 6: People know that don't hear them. 213 00:09:56,160 --> 00:09:58,080 Speaker 5: But I love them and I think they're great, and 214 00:09:58,120 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 5: I keep doggedly trying to go, you're gonna like this 215 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 5: song if you listen to it, but it just doesn't happen. 216 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 5: So I don't really have any idea of what really 217 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 5: is a hit for some reason. 218 00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:14,680 Speaker 2: Do you have songs that were poems that you were like, 219 00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 2: I got to turn this now into a song? 220 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 6: Uh? Something like that. 221 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 5: One time, I did this exercise where I wanted to 222 00:10:22,120 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 5: write a song that had absolutely no rhyme at all, 223 00:10:27,160 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 5: So I really pretty much wrote it as a poem 224 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 5: and then but the end goal was to make it 225 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,040 Speaker 5: in a song, So then then I added the music. 226 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 5: So that was that's about it close. 227 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 2: But nothing rhymed the whole song. 228 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:38,200 Speaker 6: Nothing. 229 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:39,240 Speaker 7: How'd that do? 230 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 6: It's great, it's fantastic. 231 00:10:42,080 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 5: As a matter of fact, I got this guy, guy 232 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 5: Baptiste Harman from France to sing it in French. 233 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 6: While I while I narrated it. 234 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,920 Speaker 5: In English with the music, and he's, you know that 235 00:10:56,960 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 5: great French thing. It's just it makes it so sexy 236 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 5: when he sings it, you know, and I'm under there, 237 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:05,120 Speaker 5: you know, with this under and the girl did this 238 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:08,960 Speaker 5: and this, and it's so fantastic. So yeah, it was. 239 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,680 Speaker 5: It was I've never really played for anybody. It's just 240 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 5: somewhere and you. 241 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 7: Know, you just have it, ya. 242 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 6: I just I never number one I wanted to do 243 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 6: with it. 244 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 5: I just it's kind of it kind of doesn't fit 245 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 5: unless you were like this some kind of deep cuts. 246 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:25,679 Speaker 6: But it's beautiful. 247 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:29,400 Speaker 2: The I have the box set, so I have the 248 00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 2: whole the whole thing beautifully packaged. Yes, a lot of 249 00:11:34,200 --> 00:11:36,840 Speaker 2: different things. There's a DVD. There's a song book. I 250 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 2: was talking, there's just a lot. There's a lot there. 251 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 7: Why that. 252 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 6: It started, it just became that. 253 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 5: It It was like we started with just music and 254 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 5: recording it, and we did record the d v D 255 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 5: at the same time we recorded the audio so that 256 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 5: all matches, uh, And after that, you know, it was like, well, 257 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 5: we've got to have a song book because it's all new. 258 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 6: I'm thinking people should see that. 259 00:12:01,360 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 5: So we did the so and then I think Claria 260 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 5: started talking about like somebody was doing a graphic novel, 261 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 5: and I said, well, that would be fun to do. 262 00:12:11,360 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 5: So we started to get into that, and that was 263 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 5: the one that nearly killed us because I never that's 264 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 5: it's a lot of work, a lot of work people. 265 00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:20,760 Speaker 2: The drawing of it. 266 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I didn't, you know, I didn't draw that. I 267 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 5: I hired that out. But I managed the whole thing, 268 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 5: in the storyline and everything. But I even had to 269 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 5: get at a dialogue guy to write the dialogue because 270 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 5: I because I couldn't be as I wasn't as clever 271 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 5: as this guy was. 272 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:35,680 Speaker 6: He was really clever. 273 00:12:35,840 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 5: So I got so I had the storyline, the whole 274 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 5: the whole visual concept, but I had to get that 275 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:43,600 Speaker 5: somebody I can't draw that. 276 00:12:43,640 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 6: Well, So no, I get that. 277 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 2: I wrote a kid's book and I can't draw it all. 278 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: And you know, you have to go and find somebody 279 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,960 Speaker 2: who kind of represents what your texture is, right, which 280 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:53,760 Speaker 2: is a hard thing to do. 281 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: I would say it would be as if you. 282 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 2: Were an artist and you're not talking about you, but 283 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 2: any artist who songs but finds a song that they 284 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 2: didn't write but still speaks for them. Like that's rare 285 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 2: that that can actually happen. But I have friends that 286 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 2: are really great songwriters, but sometimes there's a song that 287 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 2: pops into their world that they didn't write, and they're like, 288 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 2: this represents who I am and it's odd. And I 289 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 2: felt that way with finding somebody who to draw my 290 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 2: words and thoughts, that this person has to draw what 291 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 2: I'm feeling and how what I'm saying, and that was 292 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 2: a more difficult process than I would have thought. 293 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's grabbing that feeling. That's that's that's the magic. 294 00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:30,079 Speaker 8: There. 295 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 2: You're going and you're doing more shows, but you're not retired. 296 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 9: I guess I never thought you were retired. 297 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 5: Well, I retired. I'm retired really from touring. So I 298 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 5: don't have a bus. The band that I put together 299 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 5: is the same band that I have, but it's just 300 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 5: because I was it's going. 301 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:47,680 Speaker 6: Incidentially they were. 302 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 5: It was I'm lucky that they still have some space 303 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 5: in the calendar and then but you know, the thing 304 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:58,040 Speaker 5: is was the the grind of touring, you know, just 305 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,360 Speaker 5: getting off a tour and then preparing for the next tour. 306 00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 6: It never stopped it never did stop. 307 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:06,120 Speaker 5: I mean, it's just like kept going, kept going, and 308 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 5: I just got to a point where I thought I 309 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,679 Speaker 5: was wearing everybody out. So I didn't think in terms 310 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,599 Speaker 5: about like just taking a year off, you know, and 311 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,760 Speaker 5: that kind of thing. I always wondered why those people 312 00:14:14,800 --> 00:14:17,199 Speaker 5: take a year off. They're like twenty five years old 313 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 5: and they said, I'm going to take a year off. 314 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 5: I said, that's because you don't have any gigs. Man, 315 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 5: don't tell me that. I mean, you don't have to 316 00:14:23,560 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 5: take a year off. 317 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 6: But I don't know why. That didn't really cross my mind. 318 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 5: I just saw it at that time, and I did 319 00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 5: feel a certain amount of burnout going on with me. 320 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 5: I just felt like I was blazing through a lot 321 00:14:33,880 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 5: of stuff. I wasn't really phoning it in, but I was. 322 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,920 Speaker 5: I was definitely a little bit muddled, and I really 323 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 5: felt like I was losing and I did not want 324 00:14:44,400 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 5: which is the irony years like, I'm still beat up, 325 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 5: but I did not want to be one of those 326 00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 5: people that are all beat up and you know, they're 327 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,160 Speaker 5: pushing them up on the stage or getting the ladder 328 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:55,640 Speaker 5: for them or whatever they're doing. 329 00:14:56,240 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 6: I wanted to go in. 330 00:14:57,480 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 5: The best I could go out, but well came in, 331 00:15:01,120 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 5: you know, and that was really part of that was 332 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:04,280 Speaker 5: a big part of the decision. 333 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: Kind good level, cast up, little food for yourself life, ain't. 334 00:15:34,320 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 10: Oh it's pretty behaved, it's pretty beautiful thing laugh, a 335 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 10: little more exciting because man said he can't cut your 336 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 10: kicking with full Thing with Amy Brown. 337 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 11: Hey it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown. 338 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,880 Speaker 11: And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. 339 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:58,640 Speaker 11: So just to wrap up the you know, mental health 340 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 11: piece and being unhappy at our job or in I 341 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:05,120 Speaker 11: feel like it could apply to work or if you're 342 00:16:05,360 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 11: happy in a certain environment and you're in maybe your 343 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 11: group of friends or something like that. But just taking 344 00:16:11,600 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 11: that assessment, what are some signs that we look out for. Okay, 345 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 11: this is not healthy because sometimes we're just in the motion, 346 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 11: especially when we show up for work. I feel like 347 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:22,480 Speaker 11: you show up, you do the job, you're sort of 348 00:16:22,520 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 11: detached in a way, which maybe that's a sign. 349 00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 12: One hundred percent. There's a theory on this called flow, 350 00:16:29,240 --> 00:16:31,400 Speaker 12: and I always like to give it outside resource, in 351 00:16:31,520 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 12: my own resource. And there's this legendary psychologist named Mihai 352 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 12: Cheek sent me high you can never never spell it 353 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 12: in a million years, but he's got millions of views 354 00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 12: on a Ted talk and he described the theory of flow, 355 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,600 Speaker 12: and he was thirty years in his study of flow. 356 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 12: You've probably heard of it, and he basically says that 357 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 12: flow is where we get to a place where we 358 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 12: have equal parts challenge, meaning it's a challenging task and 359 00:16:55,800 --> 00:16:59,400 Speaker 12: equal parts ecstasy, and ecstasy in its purest form is 360 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 12: the enjoyment because it is equal parts challenging and I 361 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:06,399 Speaker 12: can meet the challenge, so I have enough skill to 362 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 12: actually do it. And so those are some signs if 363 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:14,560 Speaker 12: I'm in the workplace and I'm not challenged, like I've 364 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 12: mastered this thing, and there's not a new challenge, and 365 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:20,639 Speaker 12: what we do every show is a different challenge, so 366 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,639 Speaker 12: we have that, you know. But if we get to 367 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,120 Speaker 12: a point where we're just on cruise control and there's 368 00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 12: no challenge, that's a sign. The other thing is is 369 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 12: that I just don't enjoy it. And it's okay. By 370 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:34,640 Speaker 12: the way, you're not a bad person if you evolve. 371 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:38,560 Speaker 12: Many times we do evolve. Our passions evolve. You know. 372 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 12: The root word of passion is peti and it means 373 00:17:41,240 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 12: to suffer. So I would suffer for my kids. 374 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 6: And I know you would too. 375 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 12: You know, the people we love in our life, we 376 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,879 Speaker 12: would suffer for it. We would suffer for certain causes. 377 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,960 Speaker 12: And so that's passion, Like it's not a romantic thing here, 378 00:17:54,040 --> 00:17:58,399 Speaker 12: this is a conviction like I will suffer. And for me, 379 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 12: I realized that broadcasting was something I was willing to 380 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 12: suffer for, and I made less money for several years. 381 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 12: I didn't contribute to my retirement. I suffered just to 382 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:09,600 Speaker 12: get the shot to do what I do now because 383 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:11,879 Speaker 12: I know that that's what I was put on this 384 00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 12: planet to do. And so if you don't have that joy, 385 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 12: like even on a really bad day, if you're not 386 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 12: ready to get up the next day and get back 387 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 12: after it because you actually love the role itself or 388 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 12: the task itself, that's a sign. And then we've been 389 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 12: talking about the other sign, and that's the people part 390 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:34,680 Speaker 12: of this deal. You can absolutely do something in your 391 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 12: assessment that says this is my purpose statement. 392 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: You could be using what you do best, to do 393 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 1: what you love, to produce. 394 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 12: Results of matter in a sucky environment and be miserable 395 00:18:43,520 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 12: because of the people side of it. So if the 396 00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 12: people are dragging you down. That's a sign get out 397 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:48,880 Speaker 12: of there. 398 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:49,720 Speaker 7: It's not your place. 399 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,960 Speaker 11: But then it's just not as simple as that. You 400 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 11: may have to have gratitude and be patient. 401 00:18:54,680 --> 00:18:56,600 Speaker 12: Yes, sorry, I always want to point out I never 402 00:18:56,640 --> 00:18:59,680 Speaker 12: want people to jump without a boat to jump into. 403 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:00,439 Speaker 7: But my point is. 404 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:03,920 Speaker 12: That's your sign it's gonna kill you emotionally. We did 405 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 12: this simple little post amy I don't know, about a 406 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,480 Speaker 12: year or two ago, and I saw some data and 407 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:10,360 Speaker 12: I just posted it. I was sitting in a chair 408 00:19:10,480 --> 00:19:12,960 Speaker 12: like this and I was just like, research shows that 409 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,199 Speaker 12: your boss has more impact on your mental health than 410 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:18,400 Speaker 12: your doctor. And we posted it. It's like ten million views, 411 00:19:18,440 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 12: like because everybody in the comments on it is what 412 00:19:21,520 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 12: it was just heartbreaking, Like I wasn't excited about the 413 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:27,040 Speaker 12: amount of views. I was honestly heartbroken by so many 414 00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 12: people resonating with that statement. And I'm just bringing that 415 00:19:29,960 --> 00:19:32,720 Speaker 12: up to say, because you've been talking about mental health 416 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 12: on this people thing to the extent that you can 417 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 12: hang in there just long enough to get out of there, 418 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:43,880 Speaker 12: get out, get out, get into something else. Because you're 419 00:19:43,880 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 12: in a negative environment, it will absolutely crush you. And 420 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,960 Speaker 12: as you know, the mental health piece. You're spending eight 421 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 12: to ten hours a day with a jerk boss or 422 00:19:51,560 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 12: jerk coworkers, that's gonna affect you physically, spiritually, emotionally. You're 423 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 12: gonna drag that home with you. Your life cannot be 424 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:01,639 Speaker 12: a dumpster fire at work and then you just go 425 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:06,359 Speaker 12: home and be like, hey, flip a switch. Impossible. And 426 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 12: that's why I'm passionate about helping men so many times, 427 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 12: because it's like, dude, your marriage is failing and you're 428 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 12: set up for an affair or substance or any other 429 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 12: temptation if you don't have this contribution during the day 430 00:20:18,800 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 12: or you go I did it. And I'm speaking to 431 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,040 Speaker 12: men here because I'm a man, but I'm just saying 432 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:25,919 Speaker 12: I think a lot of the ills and marriages are 433 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:28,919 Speaker 12: are because men don't have any meaning or purpose in 434 00:20:28,960 --> 00:20:31,320 Speaker 12: their work during the day, and so they're trying to 435 00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 12: find it somewhere else and they can't come home with 436 00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 12: all that on them and be. 437 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:37,199 Speaker 7: Who they're supposed to be. 438 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 12: They just can't. 439 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: I'm not making excuses for them. 440 00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:42,240 Speaker 11: Well, and you're miserable in certain areas, like it's like 441 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 11: that self assessment of am I likable? You actually talked 442 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,920 Speaker 11: about this on your show too of am I likable? 443 00:20:49,080 --> 00:20:53,120 Speaker 11: And asking yourself that question, and that just stood out 444 00:20:53,119 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 11: to me, and it just talks if. 445 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 12: You're not likable, you should you should probably figure out 446 00:20:57,000 --> 00:20:59,280 Speaker 12: why because the rest of your life is going to 447 00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 12: unravel if you stay unlikable. Because I'm just telling you're 448 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,439 Speaker 12: the problem if somebody did something to you inevitably and 449 00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:09,560 Speaker 12: somebody said something to you, and I acknowledge that. But 450 00:21:09,760 --> 00:21:11,800 Speaker 12: there's an old phrase in the church role called hurting 451 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 12: people hurt people, and it just couldn't be any more true, 452 00:21:14,480 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 12: you know, So I'm passionate about that. From the work standpoint, 453 00:21:18,000 --> 00:21:19,920 Speaker 12: I'm hitting it again because it's the same as true 454 00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 12: for women. 455 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 6: You know. 456 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 12: If you're a working professional woman and that's your gym 457 00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 12: and that's what you want. 458 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,560 Speaker 6: To do, I love it. 459 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 12: If you want to be a stay at home mom, 460 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,399 Speaker 12: go for it. 461 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,359 Speaker 1: It's a crazy job in the world. No judgement either way. 462 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,680 Speaker 7: But you better have that meaning and what that role. 463 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 12: Is like, this is who I'm supposed to be at 464 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 12: this season of my life. If not, I'm telling you 465 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,280 Speaker 12: your physical health and the data bakes backs me up 466 00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 12: on this. Your physical health, your mental health, your emotional 467 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,040 Speaker 12: health is going to tank. 468 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: We're going to do it live. 469 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 8: Oh, the one, two, three, Sore Losers. 470 00:21:56,040 --> 00:21:58,320 Speaker 7: What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most 471 00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 7: about sports. I'll give you the sports my sports opinions, 472 00:22:02,240 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 7: because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all. 473 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 8: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 474 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,800 Speaker 8: I live on the north side of Nashville with Bayser, 475 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:10,240 Speaker 8: my wife. 476 00:22:10,240 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 1: We do have a farm. 477 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 8: It's beautiful, a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot 478 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 8: of crops. Hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe 479 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 8: a little fescue to be determined. Over to you, coach. 480 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 7: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The 481 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 7: Sore Losers. And here's a clip from one of And 482 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 7: here's a clip from one of the episodes this week 483 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 7: on The Sore Losers. Take this clip and play it. 484 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,720 Speaker 7: How do you guys always flood? You flooded the last 485 00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 7: time when Billy was here. That's right, dude, That's why 486 00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:46,960 Speaker 7: I need a co host. 487 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:47,200 Speaker 12: Man. 488 00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 8: Hell of a connection. We get there and we read 489 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:52,399 Speaker 8: the guest book a couple of drinks one night. It 490 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,879 Speaker 8: was a lot of downtimes that we're playing Domino's Chicken 491 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 8: leg watching Wimbledon Round one. 492 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,919 Speaker 7: Now we're into the semis. Hey, I mean joker got 493 00:23:00,160 --> 00:23:02,200 Speaker 7: walk over. Well I don't know what happened to the 494 00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:03,760 Speaker 7: other guy. He got hurt ast hip man. 495 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 8: But anyways, we're reading the guest book and it says stuff, Oh, 496 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:10,439 Speaker 8: love the Airbnb. It was so funnier. We had a 497 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:10,920 Speaker 8: great time. 498 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:12,320 Speaker 1: Love the Airbnb. 499 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 7: A lot of rain. 500 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 1: Weren't able to. 501 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 8: Use First Avenue. Huh, love the Airbnb. Man careful when 502 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 8: it rains. Another comment, Love the Airbnb. It was nuts, 503 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:25,360 Speaker 8: except for you can't go on First. 504 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:27,639 Speaker 6: Avenue if it rains. Oh, it's weird. 505 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 1: Love the Airbnb. 506 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:32,760 Speaker 8: It was beautiful, gorgeous, gorgeous, really nice back patio, perfect 507 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 8: for the fall weather. But that storm that came in 508 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 8: really caught us by surprise. We were stuck inside. That's funny, 509 00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:41,320 Speaker 8: that's so so weird. And then we got all drunk 510 00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,040 Speaker 8: and we right in there. We're like, we're fucking celebrities, dude. 511 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,399 Speaker 8: We wrote a bunch of drunks. It was like the 512 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,679 Speaker 8: most beautiful guest book and then we just demolished it 513 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:52,240 Speaker 8: with our We like all signed it. Though Ali's signature 514 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 8: might be worth something sometime. And so then we're uh. 515 00:23:57,760 --> 00:23:58,119 Speaker 3: F warre. 516 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 8: We we're on King Street and we're drinking it uptown. 517 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:04,400 Speaker 8: Uptown ended up being one of the favorites. 518 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 7: That was one of your spots drink deals, and they 519 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 7: you're you're like McKitty, you go to the same bar 520 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 7: over and over again. 521 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 8: They're a decent amount of time because it was a 522 00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,240 Speaker 8: block from the place that's smart and they would play 523 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 8: Ali's song that she's releasing in two weeks over the 524 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,639 Speaker 8: speakers and so we'd see if people were vibe into it. 525 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:21,159 Speaker 8: And so we leave uptown. 526 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 7: We get into the weed store, but we didn't buy 527 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,280 Speaker 7: weed a weed legal there or is it one of 528 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,400 Speaker 7: the other ones? Non THHC got it. 529 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:33,840 Speaker 8: But they also have agent Asian candies, so you don't 530 00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:35,119 Speaker 8: even have to get the THHC. 531 00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:35,879 Speaker 6: Got it. 532 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,960 Speaker 8: Yeah, there's like non they're just normal candies from Asia. 533 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:40,240 Speaker 8: But you can only get him at the weed store. 534 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 7: I've never been Charleston. Sounds like a heck of a place. Man, crazy. 535 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:45,199 Speaker 8: So we're in the weed store, all right, girls are 536 00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 8: running in from the water. Dude, there's girls in bikini tops. 537 00:24:47,800 --> 00:24:49,160 Speaker 1: So oh my gosh, it's raining. 538 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,280 Speaker 8: We get in there there, Ali gets some Asian candies, 539 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 8: sucking them down. 540 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 7: I'm like, are you guys getting high? 541 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,600 Speaker 8: And they said no, there's no whatever it's called in it. 542 00:24:58,680 --> 00:24:59,119 Speaker 6: I don't know. 543 00:24:59,160 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 8: That's what confused me. 544 00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:01,920 Speaker 7: Explain it to me. So we're trapped in the store 545 00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:02,280 Speaker 7: an hour. 546 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 8: Dude, the biggest drentio comes through people floating by on 547 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 8: the water in front of the King Street no less, 548 00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 8: and so we finally stops, and then we're able to leave. 549 00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 8: We're stuck in there in the store forever. And I 550 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 8: go up to the one dude we'd spent money with 551 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 8: and I go, hey, man, I've got to go. I've 552 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:18,840 Speaker 8: had to go for an hour. Can I please use 553 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:20,200 Speaker 8: ther restroom? And he looks at me dead in the 554 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,200 Speaker 8: eye and he goes, no, man, we don't have one here. 555 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,359 Speaker 8: So you're an employee and for a nine hours, you 556 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:26,360 Speaker 8: guys are on one restroom. 557 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,440 Speaker 7: Okay, so you shut down the store when you got 558 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,400 Speaker 7: to go pee, you lock the doors and go next door. 559 00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 8: I thought we were on a pretty common ground where 560 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:33,920 Speaker 8: were all cool. That's all good, man, I'll just piss 561 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,399 Speaker 8: myself while I'm waiting. So it finally clears up, we 562 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 8: go home. We're going home. We get an uber because 563 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:40,760 Speaker 8: it's a decent amount of little jog, So we get 564 00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,080 Speaker 8: into uber and we're all just in the bag kind of. 565 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 8: We hadn't been drinking in hours because the weed shop 566 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 8: had no alcohol, so we're just kind of like sobering up. 567 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 8: And then we get to second avenue and they dry 568 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 8: and none of us even saw it. And the driver goes, 569 00:25:54,359 --> 00:26:02,240 Speaker 8: oh no, oh, oh shit, oh you me, And we 570 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 8: all look up. Dude, we thought he got in a 571 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 8: car accident. The entire first avenue flooded. Our apartment house 572 00:26:11,680 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 8: was underwater. What And we go, I get now why 573 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:20,199 Speaker 8: the guest book said it sucks when it rains. And 574 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 8: so the driver goes, I can't go any farther. I 575 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 8: cannot go any farther. So dude drops us two blocks up. 576 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 8: So now you need a canoe to get to the place. 577 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 8: We're able to go on the sidewalk far enough and 578 00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 8: then get into our house. And at our front door 579 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:37,760 Speaker 8: is a barricade because the floods get up so high 580 00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 8: on the door that you need this little thing that 581 00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:42,200 Speaker 8: you stick in front where it's there's like an Allen 582 00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 8: ranch and a Jimmy ranch and you stick it in 583 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 8: there and you suck it off, and you keep turning 584 00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 8: it and jacking it. So we had this thing on 585 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 8: our door so our house wouldn't flood, and so we're 586 00:26:50,920 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 8: both all laughing, like man reading that guest book. They 587 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 8: should have said, hey, guys, if you're reading this, the 588 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:59,720 Speaker 8: entire fucking first floor floods, not first avenue. 589 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:01,720 Speaker 7: I think you guys said it wrong. 590 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,320 Speaker 8: And dude, so then the whole time, sorry, go ahead, 591 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,479 Speaker 8: So then the whole I'm like, we get inside safely. 592 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 8: I believe the girls took their shoes off. I was 593 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:10,600 Speaker 8: fine with mine on my own care. 594 00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 7: I'm gonna say shirts damn no. 595 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, the girls getting naked, I'm I was like, all right, cool, 596 00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,880 Speaker 8: all right. So dude, I sit there, I grab a beer. 597 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,240 Speaker 8: I'm sitting on the barricade, just watching people. I mean 598 00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,440 Speaker 8: it's like, guy orders pizza, pizza, gar won't go any farther. 599 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,920 Speaker 8: Guy in the pizza. He's wading through water to get 600 00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 8: his pizza. Guy and girl come home from work. The 601 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 8: chick is like in her nice dress thing. She's like, 602 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,639 Speaker 8: fuck it, I don't know what else to do. So 603 00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:35,679 Speaker 8: she's walking across the in the water. The dude decides 604 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 8: to scale his whole first floor of his house could 605 00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 8: have fallen and broken his back to get into the house. 606 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 8: I'm like, buddy, there was probably a better route, dude, 607 00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 8: So nobody's able to go, and that the cars are stopping, people. 608 00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 7: Are like, what the I mean, what the how did 609 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 7: this flood? What the dude? 610 00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:53,879 Speaker 8: Apparently anytime it rains where we were Charleston, half of 611 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 8: it is under seawater level, so it floods. So if 612 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:02,520 Speaker 8: if there's a rainstorm, you're a foot underwater, why don't. 613 00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:02,960 Speaker 6: They fix that? 614 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,120 Speaker 7: I mean, dude, so your boy. 615 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,760 Speaker 8: I mean, I am just sitting drinking Wimbled and playing 616 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 8: co Co Coda and it's just one after another. Pizza guy, 617 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,920 Speaker 8: a couple coming home from work. You got, dude, people 618 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 8: abandoning their cars. There was three cars in the middle 619 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:18,360 Speaker 8: of the road. 620 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 7: I took pictures. We can put them all up. It 621 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 7: was nuts. 622 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 8: I've never actually been part of a flood, Hurricane Katrina style. 623 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,359 Speaker 8: And it happened in a flash, one one hour. It 624 00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 8: was flooded out. 625 00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:30,680 Speaker 7: That's unbelievable. But then, so did you go to the 626 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 7: guest book and be like Hey, people weren't lying about 627 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,280 Speaker 7: that first avenue. 628 00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,840 Speaker 8: Yeah, guys, when you said first avenue, you can also 629 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,240 Speaker 8: say first avenue slash flooded. 630 00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,320 Speaker 7: Were not one person. 631 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 8: In the guest book used the terminology can hurricane flood 632 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 8: like paunch a train breach. 633 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:56,360 Speaker 7: And then like the mosquitoes? How long does it take 634 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:57,480 Speaker 7: to get Ford to go down? 635 00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: Oh we're flooded for about three four hours. 636 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 8: Girls were just inside. You can't gotta go out. Just 637 00:29:03,160 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 8: let the girls are napping. I'm like, ladies, it's getting 638 00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 8: a little higher. 639 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,880 Speaker 7: Call line. 640 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:36,520 Speaker 8: She's a queen and talking and so you know, she's 641 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,680 Speaker 8: getting really not afraid to feed the episode, So just 642 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 8: let it blow. 643 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 10: No one can do we quiet cary Line. 644 00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:49,560 Speaker 7: It's time of Caroline. 645 00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,760 Speaker 1: We're gonna get real podcast again. 646 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:57,000 Speaker 3: Than who doesn't what it is? 647 00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 13: Lick you do you feel about a lot? 648 00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:02,040 Speaker 1: Do people just want to touch you? 649 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 14: Okay, you know what's funny and okay and not I 650 00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 14: feel a lady, but like you're you just people want 651 00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 14: to touch you. Well, I feel very thankful that, like 652 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 14: I've been in this business for like since I was 653 00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 14: seventeen quote unquote professionally, and I feel very lucky that 654 00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 14: I've never been touched inappropriately by a man. 655 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 1: A man. 656 00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:25,240 Speaker 3: Heck, yeah by a man. 657 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: So you're holding you? 658 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:27,400 Speaker 3: Do you know? 659 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:31,160 Speaker 14: You the amount of women that will just come up 660 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 14: to me and grab my boobs and I'm like, since 661 00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:34,640 Speaker 14: when is this okay? 662 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,520 Speaker 3: You guys? Like I'm I'm. 663 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 14: Kind of like one of those girls that like, I 664 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 14: don't hug my girlfriends. It's kind of it's like, are 665 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 14: we gonna hut? Like it's just weird. I grew up 666 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:47,520 Speaker 14: with sisters and it's like, dude, like, yeah, we hug 667 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,479 Speaker 14: and we we love each other, but it's kind of like, 668 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 14: I don't know, we don't coddle and freaking. 669 00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 3: Touch each other. Like it's just kind of I don't know. 670 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:58,239 Speaker 14: But there's been a couple of times where I'm like, 671 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:03,000 Speaker 14: is there this new phenomenon with girlfriends just like coming 672 00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,560 Speaker 14: up to you and just grabbing your boobs and your 673 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,680 Speaker 14: butt And that's just like the greeting now, because it's 674 00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 14: it's odd to me. 675 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,680 Speaker 9: How do you feel I would never strangers dying this year? 676 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: No, it's it's. 677 00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 14: Like, oh, they're not friends friends, but they're like acquaintances. 678 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:19,400 Speaker 14: I'm like, I don't know you well enough for you to, 679 00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:23,280 Speaker 14: and sometimes it embarrasses me because it's like we're in 680 00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 14: front of a bunch of people. It'll be in like 681 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 14: a circle of people and it's like this girl, they'll 682 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 14: just like come up and. 683 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:32,640 Speaker 3: Be like, give me those kitties. 684 00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,960 Speaker 14: I'm like, what the heck you guys like it's it's 685 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,760 Speaker 14: kind of embarrassing, and I'm just I get I feel 686 00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 14: really uncomfortable, and I'm like, okay. 687 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 13: To kind of circle back around, like a conversation that's 688 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:47,760 Speaker 13: going on in the world right now, like Taylor Swift 689 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,800 Speaker 13: talking about Lady Gaga. Everyone's asking she's pregnant, and Taylor 690 00:31:50,800 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 13: Swift lays it, oh wait. 691 00:31:52,240 --> 00:31:54,120 Speaker 3: I'm unfamiliar with the Lady Gaga. 692 00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:56,760 Speaker 13: Oh well, she like posted a picture and she must 693 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:58,440 Speaker 13: have had like a pooch or something or just you know, 694 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 13: just a picture where you know, we're not in line exactly, 695 00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:04,920 Speaker 13: we're not none of us have a flat flow, and 696 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 13: people are like, oh my god, she's pregnant. And then 697 00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 13: she posted down bad just at the gym or something 698 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 13: like or something that she quoted Taylor Swift, and then 699 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,320 Speaker 13: Taylor Swift waded in and was like, can we just 700 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:19,000 Speaker 13: like agree that it's uh what you say like inappropriate 701 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 13: and insensitive to talk about women's bodies. 702 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 3: Also, what if she was pregnant? Who cares? I know, 703 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 3: So it's like we'll be pregnant, I know. 704 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 13: But see, the thing is, you have one of these 705 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 13: bodies though, that is so beautiful that it's hard not 706 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,480 Speaker 13: to notice it because you're just such a. 707 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 1: Vision when you walk in. 708 00:32:38,760 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 13: Honestly, I mean really, you are like a vision to 709 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 13: see and so it's like hard not to stare at you. 710 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:47,080 Speaker 14: You know, well, I think you know me well enough 711 00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:48,880 Speaker 14: to know I don't mind people staring at me, and 712 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 14: I don't I want to be in this business if 713 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:55,160 Speaker 14: I didn't like that. Like I enjoy attention, of course, 714 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 14: I totally enjoy that, but it's I get a I 715 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,560 Speaker 14: don't how to articulate it very well. 716 00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 13: It's an interesting line though, because yes, people are looking 717 00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 13: are beautiful. It's like, you know, celebrities are to be seen. 718 00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 13: But it's like, where is that line where everyone feels 719 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:13,440 Speaker 13: like they have the right to have full access to 720 00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:19,280 Speaker 13: talking about engaging about maybe even touching someone's body. Who 721 00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:20,760 Speaker 13: is putting themselves out there? 722 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:21,160 Speaker 1: What is that? 723 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 3: Maybe it's because I'm putting myself out. 724 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 1: There, like, I don't think you deserved it. 725 00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 14: I don't know, I don't know, you know, but at 726 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 14: least with like girlfriends. 727 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 1: Again, it's very interesting. 728 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,400 Speaker 14: This is an interesting science, like I want to I 729 00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 14: was honestly talking to my husband about this. 730 00:33:35,160 --> 00:33:37,880 Speaker 3: I was like, what is this thing about? 731 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 14: Like, Okay, I've been touched more unwelcomed, you know, women 732 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:45,360 Speaker 14: touching me and grabbing me. 733 00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 3: Then I've never had a man do that. 734 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:49,200 Speaker 9: That's freaking amazing. 735 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 1: You must have laundry, though. 736 00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,840 Speaker 13: You must put off some vibes that say, like I 737 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 13: think to be respected, which is amazing, I think so. 738 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:00,400 Speaker 14: Yeah, I'd like to think like I'm I'm I'm a 739 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 14: flirt and I know I love men, I love people, 740 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:06,760 Speaker 14: I love engaged in conversation, getting to know people. But 741 00:34:06,800 --> 00:34:09,240 Speaker 14: I'd like to think I don't put off that vibe 742 00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,440 Speaker 14: like you're not crossing the line with me. Yeah, buddy, yeah, buddy, Yeah, 743 00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 14: you can think about it. 744 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 3: Don't tell me. 745 00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 14: You know, you do whatever you want in that brain 746 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:20,920 Speaker 14: of yours. But you know, I like to think I 747 00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 14: carry myself with that apparently not around girls. 748 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,560 Speaker 3: So I'm like, apparently I'm just like, yeah, just come 749 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:28,320 Speaker 3: home and touch me. Yeah, go ahead. 750 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,040 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you. 751 00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,200 Speaker 14: Know, it's just kind of I really want to understand 752 00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 14: what the science is there. 753 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,840 Speaker 9: Have you trying to think about this because. 754 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:42,360 Speaker 13: I I totally agree with like I don't think women's 755 00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,600 Speaker 13: body should be discussed, but okay when Taylor Swift said 756 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 13: women's body should not be discussed. 757 00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:47,800 Speaker 1: It's also hard. 758 00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 13: Tough because like the worst thing I do when I. 759 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 9: See when I see someone, I'll be like, man, you 760 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 9: look good. 761 00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:55,160 Speaker 3: What is that you have to compliments? 762 00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,440 Speaker 14: And that makes me feel good, like when my girlfriends 763 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 14: say like, oh my gosh, like when I'm actually taking 764 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 14: care myself and they're like, oh you're you look amazed 765 00:35:02,640 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 14: and like thank you. 766 00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 9: I think it's just so much as focused on women's looks, 767 00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:06,759 Speaker 9: you know. 768 00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: I think that that's. 769 00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,680 Speaker 14: Like I think, because we're fun to look at, so 770 00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 14: I think it is natural, and I think I do 771 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,319 Speaker 14: think there is a natural. The natural man, you know 772 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,280 Speaker 14: and woman is we're physical beings, we're sexual beings, we're funtal. 773 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,439 Speaker 14: I probably check out women way more than I check 774 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:23,759 Speaker 14: out men. 775 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,839 Speaker 1: Apparently if you look at. 776 00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 9: If you look at boobs, it like increases your exciting. 777 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 14: Yeah, I know that's always having your show who doesn't 778 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 14: like looking out a nice parent. 779 00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I do know, ye do. 780 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 3: I mean, it's just you know. 781 00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 14: And then but then you could go into the science 782 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 14: of like why what makes us think one thing is 783 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,120 Speaker 14: nice to look at and one's not? Like is that 784 00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 14: because of our programming in society? Is there something natural? 785 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,440 Speaker 14: And it's just very interesting. 786 00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:55,480 Speaker 9: All that is very interesting to me, I know, I know. 787 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 1: And why do we think the way we think? 788 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 13: I don't know, well, because we're all driven by set ultimately, 789 00:36:01,280 --> 00:36:04,799 Speaker 13: you know, yeah, yeah, I don't know. I mean, it's 790 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,600 Speaker 13: such a fine line because like, you want to be sexy, 791 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 13: you put yourself out there, but then it's like, what's 792 00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 13: too sexy when people start like invading your privacy. 793 00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 14: It's very interesting because I've always looked at like, look, 794 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,399 Speaker 14: I'm the first to admit, like, the costumes I wear 795 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 14: on stage aren't smartest hot, and I love them, but. 796 00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 1: I look like but not. 797 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 13: I'm not to compare each another artists. I hate that 798 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:25,520 Speaker 13: when you compare so much another artist. But like I'm 799 00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 13: telling you, I'm gonna like Selena. 800 00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:28,439 Speaker 3: I'm totally ripping her off. 801 00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:31,719 Speaker 14: Oh god, you are so sexy. No, she's like one 802 00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:34,799 Speaker 14: of my biggest inspirations. And for so long I've been 803 00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:38,000 Speaker 14: I've been thinking about like what actually makes me feel good? 804 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,000 Speaker 3: What do I want to wear? 805 00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 14: And I've always loved her style always I'm like, I 806 00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:44,400 Speaker 14: need something to dance in. I need something I can 807 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,160 Speaker 14: jump around in or be dazzling bras. 808 00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:52,040 Speaker 13: I don't feel because I know you've come into owning 809 00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:57,160 Speaker 13: your yourself, owning your body, owning your image, owning your music, 810 00:36:57,280 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 13: owning your artistry like this has been a last time 811 00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,160 Speaker 13: we talked was like a year ago, and you had 812 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 13: just you had left your label. You had come out 813 00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 13: of a season that was pretty like confusing and lost, 814 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:13,720 Speaker 13: and you're coming out of like understanding your bodies orders. 815 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,480 Speaker 1: I mean, me too, struggle with so many to eating disorders. 816 00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 13: And then you had you were coming into this full 817 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 13: just embracing of yourself. 818 00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to the Sunday Sampler. So many episodes, 819 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 2: so many Thanks for listening to the Sunday Sampler. All 820 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:40,040 Speaker 2: these podcasts have new episodes weekly, so hopefully you find 821 00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 2: one or two that you like and go subscribe. 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