WEBVTT - I’d Leave it Open (S2, E16 "There's the Rub") 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:18.440 I am all in. I am all in with Scott 0:00:18.440 --> 0:00:23.960 Patterson and I Hurt Radio podcast. Everybody, We're back and uh, 0:00:24.120 --> 0:00:27.160 Scott Patterson, I am all in podcast. I Hurt Radio 0:00:27.240 --> 0:00:32.400 one eleven Productions. We are joined by Riley pelusis h 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:38.600 Danielle Romo, and we have a bathing a person who's 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:43.839 sunning right now. Sound normal, you sound like you're far away, 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.840 you sound like you're a country. It's okay, It's okay. 0:00:46.880 --> 0:00:49.280 But I love this episode. Did you love it? Did 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:53.720 you love it? I? Um? I did? I did. It 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:57.280 made me uncomfortable in many places, but you know, here again, 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:02.320 I'm being reformed by the witchcraft and the artistry of 0:01:02.520 --> 0:01:06.600 the creators here because I'm coming around to Paris. I'm 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:11.880 really sympathizing with hers. And yes, this is Harris is shining. Yes, 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:14.280 And I thought she had a wonderful Liza had a 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.759 wonderful performance in this and she had some very funny, 0:01:16.880 --> 0:01:21.480 daring and endearing moments. Um and the kids stuff I 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:25.720 thought took over the show. And uh, and I like 0:01:25.840 --> 0:01:29.040 the kids stuff as much as I didn't like it before. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:32.160 And I thought it was just two kids heavy. I 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:38.319 liked this episodeft to me it's not like attify kids 0:01:38.319 --> 0:01:42.800 stuff loraa lyon Emily and I think, you know, we 0:01:43.000 --> 0:01:45.160 get you know, it was a full circle thing, but 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:48.160 it's like, could you just, you know, be a little 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:51.760 nicer to your mom. She's just, you know, she's getting 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:55.400 older now and she's trying, at least she's trying. Let's 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:59.600 start with okay stuff because we'll do the kids stuff later, 0:01:59.640 --> 0:02:02.400 because I think that was for me so major the 0:02:02.480 --> 0:02:05.640 things that happened. So let's let's go with the spot. 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:08.400 What do you think about Emily buying it up, the auction, 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:11.160 inviting lore La Laurel I thinks it's just for her. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:13.560 What did you think of the whole whole set up 0:02:13.600 --> 0:02:18.320 and premise of that. I think I think Emily is 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:20.400 looking for an excuse to get out of the house, 0:02:20.440 --> 0:02:24.040 to get away from Richard A. I think she wants 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:27.360 to have Obviously, she was thinking about and been ruminating 0:02:27.400 --> 0:02:31.200 about having a real relationship and being jealous of Laurelized 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:34.080 relationship with Rory as it turns out, and she wanted 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:38.160 to have a closer relationship with her daughter and probably 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:42.920 had all of the same recurring thoughts, uh that anybody 0:02:42.960 --> 0:02:45.080 in that situation would have. Is it's too late to 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:47.360 have a relationship with somebody after so many years, and 0:02:47.400 --> 0:02:50.360 we didn't establish this thing young. And how did Laurela 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.120 I do it with Rory, you know, I know how 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:53.760 she did it, and it's my fault, and I pushed 0:02:53.760 --> 0:02:55.800 her out. So I've got to try extra hard to 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.760 get close to my own daughter. And it's just they're 0:02:57.800 --> 0:03:00.679 so alienated from one another, and they're just look, it's 0:03:00.760 --> 0:03:04.000 just old school versus new school. It's you know, it's 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:07.480 my my daughter's my best friend versus I'm a role 0:03:07.560 --> 0:03:10.480 model for my daughter. You know, it's it's it's important 0:03:10.520 --> 0:03:12.920 how we behave in front of our children because they 0:03:12.919 --> 0:03:16.040 look up to us. So you know, it's it's half 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:19.120 of half a dozen, six of another, right, So what 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:22.320 was Yeah, what was telling for me was I agree 0:03:22.320 --> 0:03:28.000 with you. And for the first you know, of the episode, 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:33.040 I really was like Laura La is being just not sweet, 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:38.840 like not it's not polite even But I was team 0:03:38.840 --> 0:03:43.360 Emily the whole time until the end when I felt like, 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:47.680 and I'm no armchair therapist, her narcissism really came out 0:03:48.080 --> 0:03:53.000 because Laura I did nothing wrong and Emily turned it 0:03:53.320 --> 0:03:59.120 and blamed that whole dance her Emily getting all stressed 0:03:59.120 --> 0:04:02.880 out about that on Laura Lia and I thought, wow, 0:04:02.920 --> 0:04:06.600 that was gnarly and that's why Lorela has so many 0:04:06.640 --> 0:04:12.120 issues with Emily. Woy Wow, um, that was gnarly. I 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:18.400 just thought, whoa to add on to Amy's point, also, 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:21.719 she was kind of tricked into this weekend getaway. It 0:04:21.800 --> 0:04:26.360 was very much positioned as a massage. You know, like Laura, 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:27.839 I do you wanna do you want to take it? 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:30.720 And she was like, yeah, of course, Well the gift 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:34.200 certificates for two, you know, and then she like was like, 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:38.920 so I'm coming, and so you know, it's not what 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:41.839 Laura I signed up for. She kind of got tricked 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:45.039 into it a little bit. Man, I don't know, what 0:04:45.080 --> 0:04:46.920 do you think that didn't bother me as much as 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:53.320 the end? Scott, what do you think it bothered me? 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:57.680 Everything about how Laurel I was reacting before they got 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:59.480 to the spa, and even when they got to the 0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:03.000 spa was bugging me. You know. It certainly hit its 0:05:03.040 --> 0:05:06.080 stride when they look it's always better to watch two 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.919 people coming together than it is for people to be 0:05:09.000 --> 0:05:12.359 in conflict, unless it's you know, it's just you know, 0:05:12.720 --> 0:05:17.839 for me, conflict in film and television, there's a place 0:05:17.920 --> 0:05:21.640 for real conflict, and that is, you know, deep into 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:24.720 the second act if it's in film, and that's where 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:28.360 the real conflict is. It was an interesting trajectory because 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:32.320 first I completely agree with you that lorel I was 0:05:32.360 --> 0:05:36.160 taking it too far, like just stop being so bratty 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:38.520 and enjoy this even if your mom is talking your 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:42.279 ear off. Then I thought, okay, Phase two was Wow, 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:45.000 they were jamming, you know what I mean. They decided 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:46.960 to get out of there and go to the stake 0:05:47.080 --> 0:05:52.280 dinner and they're getting along and you know, the the 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:55.200 vicious trollop Lips said, the whole thing these two are. Now, 0:05:55.400 --> 0:05:58.960 these two are really getting along, and I love the 0:05:59.040 --> 0:06:01.440 sitting at the bar, they're enjoying their meal, and they 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:06.200 were just besties. It was. It was a great camaraderie 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:08.839 they had. And then I thought, oh wow, that took 0:06:08.880 --> 0:06:13.680 a very strange turn that Emily blamed Laureli for something 0:06:13.760 --> 0:06:16.800 that Lorelei had nothing to do with, which just reeks 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.560 of narcissism to me, Like I was like, whoa, which 0:06:19.640 --> 0:06:24.160 brought me full circle of why Lorelai is so mm 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:30.720 hmm towards Emily. That was But I don't know that 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:36.120 Emily is holding out hope that that Laurela turns more 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:39.039 into a person that she can relate to, like somebody 0:06:39.120 --> 0:06:41.960 that's like her, right, And I think she holds this 0:06:42.040 --> 0:06:43.600 hope out because this is my daughter. She had the 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:46.040 country club life until she was sixteen and made the 0:06:46.120 --> 0:06:48.520 quote unquote mistake and the decision of her life that 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.680 altered her whole life. But she's still very lovable and 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:55.080 still a great character whole thing. But you know, and 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:57.240 then you have on the other the other side of 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:59.360 the coin is you've got Laureli trying to pull the 0:06:59.400 --> 0:07:02.160 steel rod out of Emily's butt. And that's really what 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:05.200 that episode was about. It's like, I'm going to reverse 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:09.560 the psychology here. I'm not my mom. My mom manipulated 0:07:09.600 --> 0:07:11.520 me into this, and now I'm gonna now I'm gonna, 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:17.040 you know, de steal rod my mom here, and she's 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:21.240 everything just got taken too far. I was very uncomfortable. 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:23.720 I loved I loved all the bonding. I love that 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:26.360 they were getting together. I love that they were enjoying 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.960 each other's company. I love that they were you know, 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:31.320 you saw that they really were a mother daughter in 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:33.920 those moments, they don't seem like mother and daughter. They 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:39.960 seemed like complete strangers when they are in conflict. I 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:42.640 really want to hear what your opinion was of the 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:47.880 final moments, you know, really where after she dances with 0:07:48.560 --> 0:07:52.280 the amazing by the way, wasn't he great? Wasn't he 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:56.320 just smooth and cool and great? Yeah? Our friend, that 0:07:56.440 --> 0:08:01.360 was our friend, Bernie Miller just there, Yes, he was. 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:05.560 He was perfect. And I believe I don't want to misspeak, 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:08.360 but it might have been an uncredited appearance. I'm not 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:10.720 sure he was in the credits at the beginning, so 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.240 we need to fact check that maybe, Riley. But I'd 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:17.560 love to hear what I think he might have just 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:19.920 I don't know, let's fact check that because I tried 0:08:19.960 --> 0:08:22.120 to figure it out. So but I really want to 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:24.840 hear from the three of you what you thought at 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:30.000 the end when Emily freaked out. Obviously she suddenly felt 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:33.600 uncomfortable because he was sort of charming her, and then 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:37.719 there was the sort of more slow dance romantic, and 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.480 she freaked And I just thought it was so fascinating 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:42.920 that she blamed Laura Lae, And I just want to 0:08:42.960 --> 0:08:44.800 hear what you guys say, because for me, that was 0:08:44.920 --> 0:08:48.719 just so jarring and just reeked creaked of narcissism. I 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:54.599 was like, what is happening? Yeah, I would say I 0:08:54.720 --> 0:08:57.280 definitely it was definitely jarring when she blamed Laura Lae. 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:00.320 But I do think there was something behind it. Here 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:03.760 she is, like, you know, dancing, this guy has her cheek, 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:07.000 his cheek right up next to hers. She felt a 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:12.160 sense of not love, that's but like yearning for that. 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:14.520 Like I like, when I was watching that, I was like, 0:09:14.960 --> 0:09:19.520 Emily wants that so bad. He made her feel young. Yeah, 0:09:19.679 --> 0:09:22.719 he made her feel young and and special, you know 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:26.040 what I mean. And and I think Emily was craving 0:09:26.120 --> 0:09:29.679 that so in that in that specific scene, I felt 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:32.280 kind of bad. I was just kind of like, she 0:09:32.440 --> 0:09:34.920 wants is so bad. She wants to feel this way 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:37.920 and she's not. And here she is as Rando is 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:41.719 making her feel this way, and she she you know, 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:45.400 is uncomfortable because of it because it's some somebody she's 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:49.400 not close to um well and of her era, her 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:55.040 era totally, it's not very taboo. She's like, I practically 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:59.319 cheated on him for the world she comes from. That 0:09:59.520 --> 0:10:05.679 is for absolutely perfect word for it, right, whereas our 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:10.960 our eras like, yeah, it was just a little polarizing 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:14.800 of a scene for me because I hated the reaction afterwards, 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:17.640 But prior to her yelling at Lorela, I was kind 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:21.800 of like, oh, Emily, I think that excuse me. I 0:10:21.920 --> 0:10:25.240 think a lot of that reaction at the end, with 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:27.920 her blaming Laurea La and getting angry at Lorela was 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:35.120 less narcissism and more PTSD from the entire the entire relationship, 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:40.800 because you could, in some fashion say, and I'm not 0:10:40.840 --> 0:10:45.079 trying to be Dr kim here Um, that that relationship 0:10:45.480 --> 0:10:52.360 from Emily's perspective is abusive. She's she's absorbing abuse and 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:58.400 she just I totally see that. But I felt Emily 0:10:58.520 --> 0:11:00.439 was abusive to Lorelai at the end. I was like, 0:11:01.720 --> 0:11:04.440 I literally don't know why I'm so barn she take 0:11:05.080 --> 0:11:09.800 how much can she take? But I thought, I don't 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:12.240 mean to interrupt, And I know this upsets fans and 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:16.680 and you're and you're making it very valid, but it's 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:20.880 just that you know how much abuse can Emily take 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:23.280 from her daughter, who she's trying to give a wonderful 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:30.800 weekend too, And then realizing that I Emily am overbearing, overbearing, right, 0:11:31.480 --> 0:11:34.319 and Laureli is making me feel like I'm overbearing. It's 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:36.400 like she throws her out of the room, pushes her 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:38.040 out of the room, smacks on the door and says 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:42.160 silent room or quiet room. It's just it's so rude. 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:46.360 And I think she popped at the end because of 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:51.199 all the accumulated snippy comments and condescending quips and and 0:11:51.320 --> 0:11:54.160 the lack of appreciation coming from her own daughter. And 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:57.119 not that I expect Laurel I to be in lockstep 0:11:57.240 --> 0:12:02.240 with Emily's world and be comfortable with it. Uh, but 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:07.199 just show a little respect for God's sake. She's taking 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:10.959 you out on a weekend. I think you're right, but 0:12:11.040 --> 0:12:13.160 I still have the butt. I still have the butt 0:12:13.240 --> 0:12:16.760 because for me, it was like, okay, you're completely right, 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:19.480 how Lord I was asking at the spot, but I 0:12:19.600 --> 0:12:23.439 felt like they resolved it in the bedroom of the 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:27.839 you know, in or spa whatever it is, whether you know, 0:12:28.360 --> 0:12:33.040 put it on the lipsticks and all that and now 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.880 so wait, I forgive me. Was the stealing of the 0:12:36.000 --> 0:12:40.920 rogues after the melt down. Okay, so she melts down 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.880 and they decided to leave early and they kind of 0:12:43.960 --> 0:12:49.439 have have a resolution again by stealing, so they you know, 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:51.880 I guess my thing is they have so many ups 0:12:51.920 --> 0:12:54.480 and downs, just like their relationship. It's like, first you're right, 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:58.800 lordly was inappropriate. Then they resolved it vicious Trollope, let's 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:00.760 go get the steak. We're gonna eat the nuts. She's 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:05.360 eating the peanuts by the way, sidebar, did anybody other 0:13:05.440 --> 0:13:09.240 than me think about the fact that you're never supposed 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:13.560 to eat the peanuts at a bar? I did the bowl? 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:17.560 Did you think about you see one of my favorite pastimes? 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:20.640 And how longer? Well? Yeah, in this day and age, 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:22.679 you don't want to go anywhere or do anything right 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:28.959 but her medically sealed suit on. Supposedly, the peanuts in 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:33.480 a bar are like the gernyest, dirtiest thing, and I 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:35.480 don't can I can I have permission to be like 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:40.640 totally gross? Of course? Of course? People, yes, Danielle, where 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.679 did we see this? Because people go to the bathroom 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:44.960 getting a lot of emails now saying could you people 0:13:45.040 --> 0:13:48.360 be more vile and gross? Please? Thank you. Here's so 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:50.280 I'm not okay with the peanuts because you track and 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:56.800 eat the inside. Those were already shelled, and she was 0:13:56.840 --> 0:13:59.640 just reaching her hand and eating them, and so they 0:14:00.320 --> 0:14:03.800 that what happens is it's a shared bowl and people 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:05.679 go to the bathroom and come back and stick their 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:10.199 hand in the pan and you get peanuts. That's what 0:14:10.400 --> 0:14:16.760 this podcast was missing. Thank you, thank you, I you 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:20.560 there you go. This is exactly this is. You've just 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:22.880 hit a home run. This is let's do a whole 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:27.080 section on this. Let's do a new segment. We'll do 0:14:27.280 --> 0:14:29.840 filthy public places. Why don't we do that. The whole 0:14:29.960 --> 0:14:32.040 time she was eating the peanuts, I wanted to be 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:36.280 like Emily, I don't think you should be eating those peanuts. 0:14:36.360 --> 0:14:46.080 There's poopy peanuts in there. Don't do it. Here's a 0:14:46.200 --> 0:14:49.840 thought that just popped into my little head. Uh. I 0:14:49.880 --> 0:14:52.640 don't think Emily was yelling at Laurel. I. I think 0:14:52.720 --> 0:14:56.080 she was yelling at a younger version of herself. I 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:58.960 think she was. I think Laurel I held a mirror 0:14:59.840 --> 0:15:03.880 up to her own mother, and Emily didn't like it. 0:15:04.880 --> 0:15:09.000 And I think that to me, that was like of 0:15:09.160 --> 0:15:12.800 the years lost with my daughter, of the way that 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:17.360 I am. I think she regretted every single part of 0:15:17.480 --> 0:15:22.440 how she was raised. Her her marriage with how her 0:15:22.560 --> 0:15:27.280 marriage has probably deteriorated with Richard because they don't really 0:15:27.320 --> 0:15:29.240 they used to. They used to go skinny dipping in 0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:33.600 Thailand after eating spicy food and getting drunk when they 0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:35.720 were young and having great sex and all. That's that's 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:39.240 not her life anymore now. She had a little reminder 0:15:39.360 --> 0:15:43.120 of that through the very charismatic and smooth how Lindon 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.480 and who could resist? Right? What? What a what a 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:50.000 smooth character? Um? And I think she was more upset 0:15:50.120 --> 0:15:53.280 with how her life has become and was taking it 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:55.800 out on Laureli. But Laurel I kind of deserved it 0:15:56.480 --> 0:16:00.640 after after absorbing so many blows from Lorela in the 0:16:00.720 --> 0:16:04.880 beginning of that whole episode. Um, I like what you're saying, 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:09.200 because I think that was lost. That was her anger 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:12.440 towards Laurela. What it was just the loss of her life. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.320 It's just a person getting older and missing how she 0:16:15.480 --> 0:16:18.800 used to be. There was definitely more to it. The 0:16:18.880 --> 0:16:23.960 meltdown was way too extreme for it to just be her. 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:25.880 It wasn't too extreme for it to just be like 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:31.080 how London freaked me out or I'm I'm like residually 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:34.640 mad at Lorelai wait now I have won more how London? 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:38.480 But wait before you do that. It's like maybe the 0:16:38.600 --> 0:16:42.320 situation and an upset her so much has something to 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:46.640 do with it. Factor in this uh made her realize 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:52.160 that she didn't love Richard as much anymore because if 0:16:52.200 --> 0:16:56.520 she did that dance never would have happened. She would 0:16:56.560 --> 0:17:00.560 not have been in that situation. That's an interesting question. Like, Danielle, 0:17:00.600 --> 0:17:04.680 you're married, So if a man came up to you 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:08.760 like that, like you, you, Riley and me are out 0:17:09.760 --> 0:17:12.520 and a man, a Debonair man comes up and asked 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:15.800 you to dance? Would you do it? Look, I think 0:17:15.960 --> 0:17:18.880 everyone has a different marriage, right, But like if you're 0:17:18.880 --> 0:17:21.680 asking me what I would do, I'm cool to do 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:24.879 a little dance, you a little tal sure, why not? 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:27.879 But I do think it depends on who you are. 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:31.160 And Emily Gilmore that does not fly. So I think 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:36.240 it just, you know, kind of depends. But what is 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:40.760 your take on that accepted the dance? M hmm. That's 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:48.280 not her, that's not her character. That's that's laurelize evil influence. 0:17:51.000 --> 0:17:54.160 That's like laurel I manipulated into a bar eating peanuts, 0:17:55.520 --> 0:17:58.399 a martini, eating steak at the bar and then a 0:17:58.480 --> 0:18:02.399 smooth guy comes and he was sitting with another woman 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:08.840 while he was scoping out Emily. Okay, thank you Scott, Yes, 0:18:09.359 --> 0:18:11.560 thank you for mentioning that. That was what I wanted 0:18:11.600 --> 0:18:14.920 to ask you guys, did like did he did a 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:18.359 girl for Emily? And I thought they almost were holding 0:18:18.440 --> 0:18:20.200 hands in the background because I kept my eye on 0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:23.399 that holendon and was like, what is happening? And then 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:24.800 I thought maybe he was going to say, like, oh, 0:18:24.920 --> 0:18:28.560 that's my daughter, Like he didn't even acknowledge that woman 0:18:29.040 --> 0:18:34.000 and he that blew my mind. He's either a bar fly, 0:18:34.640 --> 0:18:36.760 right because he said he's that's you know, his name 0:18:36.880 --> 0:18:38.960 is on that bar stool, or he owns the place. 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:40.399 I thought. The next thing out of his mouth was 0:18:40.440 --> 0:18:44.600 gonna I'm the owner of the bar. Oh I thought 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:45.879 he was. I thought he was going to be the 0:18:45.920 --> 0:18:47.399 owner of the bar. Maybe he's the owner of the bar, 0:18:47.520 --> 0:18:51.159 that's why he's there so much. Quick tidbit, it was 0:18:51.240 --> 0:18:56.960 an uncredited did that? Just can you explain that quickly 0:18:57.040 --> 0:18:58.960 before we take a break? Will you explain like what 0:18:59.200 --> 0:19:02.960 that means credited? Like is that sometimes a big name 0:19:03.040 --> 0:19:05.600 does it because they're friends with somebody like what would 0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:09.200 what would uncredited mean? Just just he didn't want to 0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:11.639 be appear in the credits. He didn't. He just wanted 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:13.320 to do it, just to do it and have fun. 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:16.320 I don't know. Different actors, you know, they're different. And 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:19.720 do you get paid if you're uncredited? Of course? Of course, Okay, 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:21.439 so you would still get paid. You just are like, hey, 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.720 I'm gonna be like it's almost like being anonymous because 0:19:23.720 --> 0:19:26.720 because credits, you know, that's a whole separate negotiation in 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:30.359 the in the in the back and forth, it's money 0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:32.960 and then credit and how your name is going to appear, 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:38.840 and how Lindon or what number in the order name 0:19:38.880 --> 0:19:41.080 says they appear, how large the name is going to 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:45.760 be in relation to the series regularism. I guess you 0:19:45.920 --> 0:19:47.600 kind of like it because if you do watch credits, 0:19:47.640 --> 0:19:49.560 which I'm a person that does, you would have seen 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:51.879 like special guests how Lindon, and then you would have 0:19:51.880 --> 0:19:53.440 been sort of waiting for him where it was such 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:57.160 a nice surprise for You're like, oh my god, that's 0:19:57.200 --> 0:20:00.280 Bernie Miller. I'm getting that right, right, how Lindes Bernie Miller? Yeah, 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:04.960 I think he was. Yeah, um, but yeah, so I 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:10.359 I wasn't so I was really taken with I mean, 0:20:10.480 --> 0:20:12.920 Emily really sucked me in with the great acting while 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:15.080 she was dancing with him, and then especially slow dancing. 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:17.800 But when he grabbed her hand and pulled her, she 0:20:17.960 --> 0:20:21.000 went to him. It wasn't just him pulling her. She 0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:24.600 did go to him and she put her arm when 0:20:24.680 --> 0:20:27.280 she was a little drunk. Right, let's just say she 0:20:27.400 --> 0:20:29.960 had a couple of drinks. She was having a good time, 0:20:30.080 --> 0:20:32.320 she was feeling good, she was vibing with her daughter 0:20:32.520 --> 0:20:34.639 for the first time in a long time. That's like 0:20:34.920 --> 0:20:38.520 totally unexpected, right, And here she was with this this 0:20:38.800 --> 0:20:44.119 this attractive smooth gentleman um and and you know, dancing 0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:46.960 a nice twirlie dance, you know, and you know he 0:20:47.119 --> 0:20:49.600 did this, he did the thing to her that you know, 0:20:49.840 --> 0:20:53.240 those those bar flies do. They pick on a somebody 0:20:53.280 --> 0:20:54.800 who's had a couple of drinks and then they get 0:20:54.880 --> 0:20:56.520 him in a fast dance and twirl them around and 0:20:56.520 --> 0:20:58.320 get them all dizzy and then do a slow dance 0:20:58.400 --> 0:21:04.920 and moving for the kill. Right. So unfortunately, Oh, it's 0:21:04.960 --> 0:21:06.960 it's it's a move. Yeah, it's a it's it's a 0:21:07.040 --> 0:21:08.959 it's a chess game. Out there in the bars. It's 0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:11.280 a chess game. I wouldn't know that. I didn't freaquent 0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:16.800 them um after the age of five. But I mean, 0:21:16.840 --> 0:21:19.320 I love that that Lore like gave the bar a 0:21:19.440 --> 0:21:21.600 name I've never heard before, because I've heard cougar bar 0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:24.959 and obviously like singles bar, but that it was a sixty. 0:21:29.720 --> 0:21:32.880 It's more like a right, let's let's let's be real. 0:21:35.080 --> 0:21:39.639 But it's a l A you know, I mean, what 0:21:39.760 --> 0:21:41.400 an episode. I know we have to take a break, 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:43.680 but it's like, I could talk about this half of 0:21:43.760 --> 0:21:46.960 the episode. Do you know how any bar managers and 0:21:47.240 --> 0:21:50.080 restaurant managers there are in l A that instruct their 0:21:50.119 --> 0:21:55.800 staff not to say your granddaughter is lovely because they say, listen, 0:21:56.040 --> 0:22:00.440 that's their girlfriend. Don't say it because the because your 0:22:01.920 --> 0:22:06.399 tips will go Danielle. Okay, you guys. I gotta tell you, 0:22:06.440 --> 0:22:10.119 guys one story. I won't name the celebrity, but we 0:22:10.240 --> 0:22:13.440 were at a concert with a bunch of celebrities and 0:22:13.840 --> 0:22:17.639 a very famous celebrity was with his girlfriend now wife 0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:22.399 at the time, and another celebrity we saw it happen 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:25.600 literally went up to him and was like, oh, is 0:22:25.800 --> 0:22:30.800 this your daughter? And he's like, no, that's my girlfriend, Danielle. 0:22:30.880 --> 0:22:35.280 Do you remember it? I'm I'm jogging my memory. It 0:22:35.440 --> 0:22:38.119 was at festival in Vegas, and I love I mean, 0:22:38.160 --> 0:22:42.919 this is a famous act. Yeah, you gotta be careful 0:22:42.960 --> 0:22:50.120 with that. At the break, I'll tell you people will 0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:53.880 there are lip readers that that that they'll they'll pick 0:22:53.960 --> 0:22:55.520 up on it and then won't be in trouble. It 0:22:55.680 --> 0:22:59.080 was so amazingly uncomfortable but yet amazing. And then somebody 0:22:59.119 --> 0:23:00.960 else was like, oh my god, did you hear that? 0:23:01.240 --> 0:23:02.960 Did you hear what just happened? And I just was like, 0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:06.000 you know the emoji where the guy's hand is a 0:23:07.840 --> 0:23:15.920 but listen, you know it's She was completely um. She 0:23:15.960 --> 0:23:17.720 wouldn't have done it unless she was open to it, 0:23:18.200 --> 0:23:20.760 unless she had some deep feelings about her own marriage 0:23:20.760 --> 0:23:22.639 and her own life. She would not have done that, 0:23:23.400 --> 0:23:26.720 you know. But she was happy, She was vulnerable, she 0:23:26.960 --> 0:23:29.639 was she was happy. And I had a couple of 0:23:29.680 --> 0:23:31.240 drinks in her and she's with her daughter and the 0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:34.480 first time there, you know, they're in a long time. 0:23:34.560 --> 0:23:37.760 They're really enjoying each other's company, genuinely enjoying each other. 0:23:39.080 --> 0:23:42.840 You're right, they really were. Then it just took a 0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:46.639 weird boy. They just toyed with us on that one. Right, 0:23:47.960 --> 0:23:51.840 that whole thing was so complicated and so interested. I'm 0:23:51.880 --> 0:23:54.840 so interested, you know. I love hearing your perspective because 0:23:55.000 --> 0:23:59.359 I was so like, wow, what is this? We just 0:23:59.440 --> 0:24:02.359 went on a roll? Are close to ride with these two? Yeah? 0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:06.040 And then the ultimate end, which I do think, you know, 0:24:06.119 --> 0:24:07.680 at least we have some peace at the end with 0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:10.399 the Robes feeling and Lorela agrees to leave because obviously 0:24:10.480 --> 0:24:14.720 Emily was just feeling so guilty. I think too. But 0:24:14.840 --> 0:24:18.200 look now we now we have somewhere to go in 0:24:18.280 --> 0:24:20.879 the next episode, right, that's what they want to They 0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:22.679 don't want to tie it up. They want to keep 0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:27.520 it loose man um. So that that was very, very compelling. 0:24:27.600 --> 0:24:31.920 I I was uncomfortable, but maybe you were supposed to be. 0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:34.480