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Speaker 1: Let's do Moraley Monday on a Tuesday? Shall we?

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Speaker 2: A husband is uncomfortable with his wife's sister seemingly having

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Speaker 2: a front row seat to every flaw that he has

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Speaker 2: in his marriage. So a thirty eight year old man

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Speaker 2: wins to Reddit and this was then published by People magazine.

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Speaker 2: So People Magazine is now the next time you get

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Speaker 2: mad in me were pulling stuff off of Reddit and

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Speaker 2: saying that I pull it off of Reddit. Why don't

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Speaker 2: you call the people at People? Like call the people

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Speaker 2: at people Okay, and ask him. But that's what they're

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Speaker 2: up to now. But apparently this guy's upset because his

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Speaker 2: thirty five year old spouse has been sharing every argument

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Speaker 2: that they have, big or small with her sibling whenever

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Speaker 2: he's not around to defend himself. We're not constantly fighting

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Speaker 2: or anything, but like an a couple, we have our moments,

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Speaker 2: stuff like me forgetting to take out the trash, getting

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Speaker 2: she's talking. Her sister used to be super warm with me,

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Speaker 2: but lately she's been cold, even passive aggressive. And he

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Speaker 2: didn't click until I realized that she's been getting a

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Speaker 2: running commentary of our marriage from my wife's side only,

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Speaker 2: so he asked if she could keep his private life

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Speaker 2: their private life between the two of them. I wasn't

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Speaker 2: minor stuff that gets retold out of context. She said

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Speaker 2: So the question is how much can you share about

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Speaker 2: your relationship with other people outside of your relationship, because

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Speaker 2: I feel like, no matter what you do, you're going

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Speaker 2: to share your perspective.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's very rare.

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Speaker 2: It's very rare that any of my friends call me

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Speaker 2: to tell me something that's happening in their relationship and

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Speaker 2: they start with, well, here's what I did wrong. To

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Speaker 2: this is what happened, and it's from their perspective, right,

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Speaker 2: And that's the perspective that I always hear because I'm

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Speaker 2: situation where I get to hear both perspective because I'm

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Speaker 2: close with both of them. But the truth is, you're

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Speaker 2: going to tell things from your perspective. You're going to

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Speaker 2: tell things with your viewpoint and your emotion, and then

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Speaker 2: you may resolve those things quickly potentially, and then the

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Speaker 2: person who you told will never not have that perspective.

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Speaker 2: They'll never not know those things right right, and it's

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Speaker 2: the other person, at least temporarily. So is it fair? Five? Five, one,

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Speaker 2: one oh three five context the same number. I'm curious,

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Speaker 2: and how do you handle this? Is it fair in

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Speaker 2: your relationship to be really getting into the nitty gritty

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Speaker 2: of what's happening with other people who also know the

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Speaker 1: Who are you supposed to talk to?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Who are you supposed to end to? You know what

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Speaker 3: Your mom.

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Speaker 1: I might know what you say, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: everybody knows what you say.

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Speaker 3: But because I just feel like in a relationship, you

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Speaker 3: cannot tell your friends and family everything that's happening in

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Speaker 3: brothers don't tell me anything because to me, they can't

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Speaker 3: you're gonna have ups and downs. You're gonna forgive your

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's certain people that will be unforgiving forever,

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Speaker 1: And so there's almost no chance. Yeah. But but but again,

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Speaker 1: then where are you supposed to go?

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Speaker 2: Like if you can't go to your friends, and you

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Speaker 2: can't go to your family, lady to the therapist, which

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Speaker 2: one yes yes and no Paully in it she had

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Speaker 2: GPT is not you can't do it. Try to go,

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Speaker 2: but it's already been determined that you shouldn't do that,

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Speaker 4: I have nowhere else left to go because I am

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Speaker 4: the girls who tells.

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Speaker 1: My friends, right.

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Speaker 4: But the thing is like mine is it's lighthearted, right,

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Speaker 4: And I tell Caylen all the time, and she's like,

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Speaker 4: you guys roast each other and it's true, like my

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Speaker 4: if things ever get tough tough like and sometimes they do,

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Speaker 4: I will threaten Hobby like I'm gonna tell your parents.

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Speaker 1: Like that's just what I do. I'm gonna call my

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Speaker 4: And he told me share it to my face, like

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Speaker 4: if you get our families involved, Like this isn't going

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Speaker 4: to be good, like not a threat, it's just like

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Speaker 4: warning me like that that's not a good idea because

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Speaker 4: with me, I'm like a child to get to like

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Speaker 4: tell me think step by step here, and that's what

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Speaker 1: And I have taken the phone.

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Speaker 4: You know, and gently placed it down because I'm like,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to make a mistake. But there's moments

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Speaker 4: I want to go somewhere I don't His mom is

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Speaker 4: probably not that no, no, I mean that's that's strategic.

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Speaker 2: It is you're going to her because that that will

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Speaker 2: sting him because he loves her and respects her opinion.

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Speaker 2: And it's essentially like a child telling on telling on someone.

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Speaker 1: I turned into a snitch.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 4: I haven't done that in a very long time, a

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Speaker 4: But then I've noticed this is this is the tricky part.

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Speaker 4: And he does this often. He'll turn things and kind

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Speaker 4: it's like that like why are you turning that against me?

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Speaker 4: Or like, why are you using that? Is that supposed

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Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't like that, So I don't go to my

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Speaker 2: Kelly says, uh, so she shouldn't be sharing with anybody. Kelly, Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: you Hi, you're Kelly.

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Speaker 1: You shouldn't be sharing with anyone.

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Speaker 7: You're saying, yes, I believe so from my experience, maybe

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Speaker 7: accept a therapist. It just it's to me, it's like

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Speaker 7: scapegoing and talking about the other person. I can get

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Speaker 7: around to the other person, and it just hurts people.

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Speaker 2: I think parents should be excluded. I mean best friends,

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Speaker 2: best friends. I feel like you should be able touch

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Speaker 2: to your best friends and they should be able to

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Speaker 2: moderate between you know, what you're telling me and then

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Speaker 2: how they act around the other person. I guess I

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Speaker 2: really don't know where you're supposed Where are you supposed

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Speaker 2: to go a therapist? Only, Kelly, I got to go

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Speaker 2: find a therapist now.

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Speaker 7: I actually I can change my mind. Now, I do

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Speaker 7: change my mind. I do agree.

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Speaker 5: I do from my own personal experience.

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Speaker 7: I do have a best friend to talk to, but

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Speaker 7: I don't. I don't talk to many people.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so don't be talking unless it's the best friend, kell,

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Speaker 2: he says, But that's okay, Kelly, Kelly, You're allowed to

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Speaker 2: You're allowed to be moved by somebody with this show.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Kelly, had a good day, Kelly is right?

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Speaker 1: Lets you call okay? Sure?

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Speaker 2: I love you, Kelly. I love you, Kelly. But when

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Speaker 2: you call, you gotta talk. Okay, when you call this show,

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Speaker 2: we gotta it's a dialogue, you know what I'm saying, like,

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Speaker 2: we gotta, we gotta go back. I love that it's early.

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Speaker 2: It's early, Okay, you know it's it's a fluid argument. Hey, Vanessa,

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Speaker 2: good morning, Good morning, I Vanessa. So the sister is

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Speaker 6: You're saying, yes, because you have to be able to

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Speaker 6: talk to your family, and especially with your sister if

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Speaker 6: you're really close like me, I'm really close with my sister.

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Speaker 6: So if she can't tell me stuff about her marriage,

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Speaker 6: you have to be able to differentiate and understand that

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Speaker 6: your sister can also be the problem, you know, like

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Speaker 6: it's not necessarily him the bad guy, but you should

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Speaker 6: be able to bend and that the sister can't distinguish,

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Speaker 6: but between you know, her relationship, you know, it not

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Speaker 2: So when someone tells you something about like like a

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Speaker 2: family member or a close friend about their significant other,

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Speaker 2: are you able to differentiate? Can you really just say,

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Speaker 2: like when you see him the next time, you forgot

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Speaker 8: You don't necessarily forget. I mean from what it sounds

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Speaker 8: like though, he hasn't really done anything terrible. I mean,

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Speaker 8: it's just venting like any other you know, marriage, you know,

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Speaker 8: small little issue. So I mean my brother in law,

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Speaker 8: she does crap like that all the time. But it's

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Speaker 8: not like I hate him for it or I'm going

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Speaker 8: to give him a could shoulder for it, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, right right? Makes sense? Thank you have a good day,

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Speaker 1: you too, Glad you called. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean I've been in relationships before where people they

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Speaker 2: go to their friends and then hang out with the

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Speaker 2: friends and it's like they only but you only heard

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Speaker 2: what that You only heard what she said, all right,

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Speaker 2: you know, and there's probably another side to it or

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Speaker 2: or where you get into it with somebody and then

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Speaker 2: you know another that their their tribe takes out on you,

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Speaker 2: and it's like, but but I got into it with

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Speaker 2: that person and that you know that person has a

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Speaker 2: role in this too, So why am I being punished

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Speaker 2: by everybody? I mean, I get that there's loyalty, but

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Speaker 2: I mean, are you if you're not able to discern

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Speaker 2: that the person who you care about could have also

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Speaker 2: screwed up, then maybe you shouldn't have an opinion, you

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Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like, if everything is always somebody

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Speaker 2: else's fault, then that's that you're enabling the behavior, and

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Speaker 2: then that's not good for that person.

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Speaker 1: But maybe you don't care. Hey Laura, how you doing? Hey?

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Speaker 5: How are you for?

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Speaker 7: Good morning?

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Speaker 4: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Good morning.

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Speaker 2: So this this guy is upset because his wife is

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Speaker 2: going to his sister about every argument they have in

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Speaker 2: their relationship, and he feels like, now it's making that

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Speaker 2: awkward because she's getting a front row sipt from her

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Speaker 2: perspective about the relationship. But he's asking her to stop

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Speaker 2: going to a sister her about everything because he wants,

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Speaker 2: you know, I guess he wants to be respected in

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Speaker 2: the family, and she's saying that's controlling.

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Speaker 1: What do you think I.

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Speaker 5: Think there's got to be a fine line because there's

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Speaker 5: that boundary level. Like you guys were talking about, I

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Speaker 5: feel like I know my own marriage. There's things I

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Speaker 5: go to my friends about, things I go to my

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Speaker 5: failing about. But then there's also something I think you

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Speaker 5: just kind of save for, like a therapist, because it's

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Speaker 5: more of a neutral party. And then you don't want

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Speaker 5: those people close to you to kind of have a

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Speaker 5: preconceived notion like well, why are you still in that

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Speaker 5: relationship if it's so negative or if this is going on.

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Speaker 5: I think there's certain things you kind of have to

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Speaker 5: keep private and remain sacred because I don't want my

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Speaker 5: friends and family to have a preconceived notion like, oh

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Speaker 5: my gosh, this is detrimental to your relationship, or why

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Speaker 5: are you still with this person it's so terrible, or

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Speaker 5: you're dealing with these things. So I think there has

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Speaker 5: to be like kind of a neutral party too that

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Speaker 5: you refer to, Well, you need to.

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Speaker 2: Have vent, yes, because yeah, also, you know, to your point,

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Speaker 2: if you're talking to your friends about how terrible the

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Speaker 2: person is who you're with and then you decide to

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Speaker 2: forgive them, or maybe you overplayed it, or maybe you

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Speaker 2: were just venting and you were telling, you know, more

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Speaker 2: dramatic version of the story. Now you've got it backtracked

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Speaker 2: because now people are gonna start to think something about you,

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Speaker 2: because it's like, oh, you took that person back. I

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Speaker 2: thought they were the worst person ever. Well it wasn't

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Speaker 2: that bad. And it was like, wait a minute, wait

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Speaker 2: which story was it? Exactly what it did? Was it

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Speaker 2: with the two strippers or no strippers? Like what happened?

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Laura, I have a good day, you're What

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Speaker 2: happened to the strippers?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I guess I got the story wrong. It wasn't strippers.

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Speaker 2: It turned out he was just that the doctor was

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Speaker 2: a nurse. It was a real nurse. He was dressed

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Speaker 2: like a nurse.

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Speaker 1: But I