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Speaker 1: This is the almost Famous podcast with iHeart Radio. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Trista Sutter, Nate Wren.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you need to stop that, Bob Guinea,

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Speaker 2: because I don't have a name for you.

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Speaker 1: You have to have you. When have you literally ever

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Speaker 1: read an article about yourself that didn't have that in there?

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Speaker 1: Because every time I am mentioned alongside of you, a lot.

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Speaker 3: People don't here. We have gotten past my last name, Bob.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, maybe because they didn't know you then

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Speaker 1: like I did, and so I you know, I'm still

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Speaker 1: hung up in the past.

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Speaker 2: Well parents have even gotten past it, and they're the ones.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my dad have gotten past it. I need I

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Speaker 1: need to let it go. I guess exactly.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, Hi, Bob, how are you welcome to the Almost

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Speaker 2: Famous og podcast people?

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Speaker 1: Yay the podcast and we are podcast people here in

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Speaker 1: the podcast podcast people. I love your hat. Oh thanks, that's.

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Speaker 2: Really it's actually I got it at a at a

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Speaker 2: triathlon and Hannah just told me she just did a

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Speaker 2: triathlon in Hawaii.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, so proud of you.

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Speaker 1: What doesn't Hannah do honestly?

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Speaker 4: I know? Right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, So ten Lee's in the waiting room. Our

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Speaker 2: next guest is coming. So let's bring in se Yay.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, how are you both?

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Speaker 1: We are late? How are you great? So nice to

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Speaker 1: see you. It's been too long.

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Speaker 4: I know both of you.

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Speaker 3: I was just going to say, Trista, you look as

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Speaker 3: beautiful as ever, and Bobula Cansom too, shocks this whole thing,

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Speaker 3: I feel this whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Asley now, you are always just such a rare sunshine.

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Speaker 1: It's always so great to see you. And I will

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Speaker 1: tell you that here at the iHeartRadio podcast Family you

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Speaker 1: you are universally adored. Trista, am I lying?

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Speaker 3: He's not lying?

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Speaker 2: And everyone was so excited, like the behind the scenes people,

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Speaker 2: the producers and everyone, sugarman, everyone I love, I mean,

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Speaker 2: as does anyone who's ever met you. So and anyway, yes,

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Speaker 2: of course, I just love.

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Speaker 3: Seeing your face. Is rel in the house, she's she's

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Speaker 3: taking an app but she's actually singing right now I can.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, maybe we'll get to talk to you

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Speaker 2: long enough to where she'll is.

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Speaker 3: She's sleeping in a big girl bed. She is. But

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Speaker 3: you know what we did. And I was so afraid

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Speaker 3: of mom shamers and parental judgments out there, But what

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Speaker 3: we did because we just read we just moved her.

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Speaker 3: She was she's such a great sleeper and she is

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Speaker 3: three and a half. But she loved her crib so

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Speaker 3: much that I was like, oh no, this is going

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Speaker 3: to just destroy everything. But we moved the crib to

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Speaker 3: the baby, the baby that we're that's coming soon baby's room.

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Speaker 3: And we got her a big girl bed, but like

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Speaker 3: a day bed, and we turned it to face the wall.

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Speaker 1: Huh, so she can't.

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Speaker 3: Get in and out and she loves it. It's so

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Speaker 3: she's in a big girl bed. But we for the

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Speaker 3: transitional time while she gets used to like this bigger bed.

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Speaker 3: She's not just getting up in and out of her

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Speaker 3: she usually actually me a nap until it's two here

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Speaker 3: See why I didn't want to disturb anything.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, especially so Blake are our youngest. Blake, who's two

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Speaker 1: and a half, just basically stopped napping this weekend. It's

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Speaker 1: and man, we are just we're just not feeling so

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Speaker 3: No, it flips everything. But I don't know, maybe it's

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Speaker 3: not over because when Real turned two and a half,

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Speaker 3: like two weeks just because of her everything. Behavior, sleep, yeah,

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Speaker 3: So maybe don't give up.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what, maybe I will. I will take

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Speaker 1: that to heart because he uh, when you said the behavior,

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Speaker 1: I was literally just talking to a friend of mine.

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Speaker 1: He's a huge Disney fan and I and I am

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Speaker 1: as well. I mean all parents probably are, but my son,

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Speaker 1: our youngest, has picked up on a few key words

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Speaker 1: that I've noticed show up in a lot of Disney movies.

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Speaker 1: One is Fool, where they'll be like, you know, you fool, like,

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Speaker 1: in the movie Cars, you know, where Lightning McQueen will

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Speaker 1: his diaper this morning. It's like six am, and he's like,

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Speaker 1: And then he's like, you're a fool, and I'm like what.

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Speaker 1: I must be the worst parent alive, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, little sponges.

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Speaker 2: I think it could be worse bo a little bit

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Speaker 2: worse than idiot and fool.

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Speaker 1: It's funny. I do have a couple of examples that

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Speaker 1: what my son said to me at that age, you know,

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Speaker 1: so yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 3: Well we also hit the three and a half mark,

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Speaker 3: you know, so she I think that at these half marks,

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Speaker 3: I'll all of a sudden, they're doing like speaking in

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Speaker 3: it's just like a ride to say.

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Speaker 2: I wish I could like relate to you both. I'm

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Speaker 2: sure I could back then, but I don't remember anything,

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Speaker 2: So there will be one day when you don't. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I remember the good stuff, but I just don't remember

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so one of these days. Can't be believe

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Speaker 3: Blakesley has a birthday coming up, doesn't she?

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Speaker 1: She just did.

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Speaker 3: She just had her birthday.

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Speaker 2: And Henley, she has a driver's permit.

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Speaker 3: No, how is that even possible? They still give them

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Speaker 2: I took her for a drive around the neighborhood and

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Speaker 2: she's really anxious. Max could have cared less to drive.

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Speaker 2: Blakesley is so excited And I was driving around the

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Speaker 3: And I'm like, Blakesley, what was that.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't looking. I don't know, And all of.

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Speaker 2: A sudden, I look down and I see that her

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Speaker 5: No, this is not what's supposed to be happening.

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Speaker 3: Take your foot off of wonder Oh my goodness, should

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Speaker 3: I should I share a really really bad moment in

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Speaker 3: my life when I was okay, so why I had

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I could have killed my mom's friend.

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Speaker 3: Thank god I did not, and or kept driving it

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Speaker 3: Yeah bad. Those petals are important. I still get years later,

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, yes, I will I will share. I

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Speaker 2: will share, like the Disney Princess even makes those mistakes. Yes,

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Speaker 2: oh yes, oh yes, I did a few, But I

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Speaker 1: All for now.

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Speaker 3: You don't have to worry about it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So how is pregnancy going the second time around?

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Well, my body hates being pregnant. Maybe

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Speaker 3: And then add the toddler. I can't decide which pregnancy

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Speaker 1: My wife went through that on the second pregnancy, especially

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Speaker 1: the second time, it was just like she had a

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Oh my gosh. So she wouldn't like

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Speaker 1: so I basically became like I would always say, like, well,

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Speaker 1: because you know, so I would just like come home

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Speaker 1: just so in so much pain all the time. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: Definitely up the stakes.

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Speaker 3: It's so hard, but Dealer's been amazing about it. Like,

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Speaker 3: I have a lot of guilt. I'm definitely dealing with

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Speaker 3: that guilt of not being the best mom or wife

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Speaker 3: She was probably four fifteen, nine years ago. Okay, so

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Speaker 2: Thing like to see those cute little girls beepopping around

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Speaker 3: It's fun to know, huh. I'm sure it's fun to

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Speaker 3: Emotions.

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Speaker 3: I mean for you, yes, but your wife.

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Speaker 2: I can't even imagine the emotions she's going through, Like, gosh,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you know she yeah, she's like what I

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Speaker 5: Yeah, baby names?

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Speaker 3: Do you have baby names?

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Speaker 2: And you're probably not going to share, but do you

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Speaker 3: We do? We have. We definitely have a up contender

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Speaker 3: they'll probably be like huh. And I'll just say, but

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Speaker 3: you named me Tanley. So and then it's also a

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Speaker 1: Interest, I love it now, you love it like a

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Speaker 1: it first, it was like a hot boy name. I'm

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Speaker 3: That's cute. That is cute. Actually, I love for girls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we went to Blake for our son, and we

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, Tenley and Trista are both such, you know,

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Speaker 2: I'm going to go back and look at your instagrams

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Speaker 3: I don't think there's anything out there. My like my

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Speaker 3: like you saw your baby name list at one point,

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Speaker 3: what was on there? What was on there? But it's unique.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you have do you have your room ready?

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Speaker 2: It is the nursery ready to go.

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Speaker 3: There's furniture in there, there's decas on the wall. We're

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Speaker 1: That's so exciting. Yeah, So today we posted this picture.

437
00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:04,199
Speaker 1: We had Easter this weekend with our family because we

438
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: were out of town the week before, and we took

439
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 1: a family picture and we don't get a bunch of them,

440
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 1: like we try, but they're always ruined. And so we

441
00:23:13,440 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 1: have one and my young my oldest son is holding

442
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 1: a pink egg. And I realized no one reads my

443
00:23:20,119 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: captions because I think my captions are kind of funny.

444
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 1: Apparely no one reads them because they're all like, little girl,

445
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 1: are you announcing a girl?

446
00:23:27,720 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, oh, that's funny.

447
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 1: They're like, well, look at in the second picture. Why

448
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: is Grayson got an angry face? Because my son is

449
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,639
Speaker 1: like this. Everyone else is smiling, and he's like you,

450
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 1: I thank you, trist at least someone paying attention to

451
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:43,040
Speaker 1: what I say around here. And I'm like, you know,

452
00:23:43,480 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 1: no read the thing. I took his iPad away to

453
00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 1: get a picture taken and he was he was angry,

454
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:48,639
Speaker 1: and they're like, oh, we thought he was mad. He

455
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,239
Speaker 1: was getting a sister. Like my mom, I thought he's man,

456
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 1: he's getting a sister. So uh, I'm like mom, I'm

457
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,040
Speaker 1: like eighty, Like what do you I don't want to

458
00:23:57,040 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 1: do this to a child. Like honestly, I'm gonna be like,

459
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 1: if I had a kid, right if we got pregnant

460
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,600
Speaker 1: right now, I would be seventy one when that little

461
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: rugrat turned eighteen. What a disservice that I'm gonna be

462
00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:12,240
Speaker 1: like an old seventy one.

463
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 3: You're young at heart, Yeah, you're young at heart. And

464
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 3: also somebody there was this statistic going around maybe it's

465
00:24:19,680 --> 00:24:23,199
Speaker 3: not a statistic, but like something was going around Instagram

466
00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 3: saying the older parents actually live longer.

467
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: Oh, that's probably true.

468
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,239
Speaker 3: And so I mean, I'm gonna live till I'm one

469
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 3: hundred my children right now, I'm gonna be forty when

470
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 3: this baby, well, this baby's do dates around my birthday.

471
00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 1: That's all.

472
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 3: So are you high risk?

473
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:47,000
Speaker 2: Because I was like thirty six, I feel like and

474
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:48,080
Speaker 2: I was high risk?

475
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 3: Are you? Are you high risk? No, I'm not high risk,

476
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:51,880
Speaker 3: but I am geriatric.

477
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 1: Yeah that's a nice number, right, you're thirty two? Is

478
00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: it thirty two or thirty three? When they say you're

479
00:24:58,080 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 1: geriatric thirty five? I think fine.

480
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 3: Okay, so I think and I was that when I

481
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 3: was pregnant with Roll too, but yeah, they you know,

482
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 3: my doctor's office is so sweet about it. I think

483
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 3: it's pretty common now, like that people are getting pregnant

484
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,479
Speaker 3: later in life. And I have a couple of friends

485
00:25:15,520 --> 00:25:18,679
Speaker 3: that had babies in their forties and so, you know,

486
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:23,479
Speaker 3: and thankfully I have no like other complications or anything

487
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 3: that would cause me to be high risk. But they

488
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 3: they do treat you differently, and maybe they've changed how

489
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 3: they call what they call it and how they treated

490
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 3: you sixteen years ago. But yeah, now I can't believe that.

491
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 3: But now, yeah, they I just a couple more like

492
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,760
Speaker 3: anatomy scans, which obviously you don't have to do them,

493
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 3: but I'm like might as well.

494
00:25:50,600 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: And then anatomy scans.

495
00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 3: So they look at the baby like I have to

496
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 3: go to a specialty doctor to like see the baby

497
00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:01,040
Speaker 3: in like they do the three D. And then they

498
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: look at all the like the blood and like the

499
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 3: the valves of their little chambers of their hearts and

500
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:15,320
Speaker 3: like brain and just like really watching growth. Yeah, basically

501
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 3: checking like checking on baby a little bit more. Yeah,

502
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:21,119
Speaker 3: so far, so good.

503
00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:27,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, And he's loving getting ready for baby.

504
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:32,360
Speaker 3: She's really excited. And she keeps saying, it's almost May,

505
00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:35,480
Speaker 3: and May my sister comes, Mom, is it May? Is

506
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 3: Grandma Beth coming yet? My mom's going to come down.

507
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:39,880
Speaker 3: My parents will both come down, but my mom will

508
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: be here hopefully in time for I want baby to

509
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 3: come early, so I have my mom coming early enough

510
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 3: so she'll be here to hang out with L. But yeah,

511
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 3: so LL's kind of like focused on those things. But

512
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 3: I think her world's going to be rocked quite a bit.

513
00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 3: But I'm doing the best I can and kind of

514
00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 3: like talking to her already about like, you know, mommy's

515
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:03,399
Speaker 3: going to hold the baby a lot, but you and

516
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,120
Speaker 3: I'm going to take care of the baby. She's gonna

517
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 3: need mommy a lot. You're gonna share mommy, but just

518
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 3: let me know if you need special mommy in real time.

519
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:15,480
Speaker 3: And obviously I'm trying to already tell her that she

520
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 3: can ask, even though I'm going to need to probably

521
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:21,880
Speaker 3: make sure I'm doing it just as much because she's

522
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:22,880
Speaker 3: not going to know to ask.

523
00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's very mindful of you. That's really thoughtful.

524
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,560
Speaker 3: Well, I'm the oldest child in my family. My sister

525
00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 3: came five years after me, so I think that there

526
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:39,639
Speaker 3: must be some scars there. Yeah, I had five years

527
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 3: of my parents to myself, so I think my world

528
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 3: was rocked a little bit. So I am very sensitive

529
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 3: to becoming an older That's really great, that's really sweet.

530
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 2: I think just being cognizant of it and making sure

531
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 2: that you still make time for just you and rel

532
00:27:58,240 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 2: is really special.

533
00:27:59,520 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 3: We've had like really just like she's been my best pal.

534
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 3: Like I love our routine and I love just how

535
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,479
Speaker 3: we do life and the things that we do together

536
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 3: and just I don't know what's she's me being a

537
00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 3: mom really fun besides those half markers, those really hard

538
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:22,160
Speaker 3: parenting days. But yeah, I am prepared for her world

539
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 3: to be rocked a little bit, but she's excited. I

540
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:27,080
Speaker 3: think she yeah, gets it pretty much.

541
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 2: Does she have their friends who have little babies in

542
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 2: their house?

543
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and cousins too, Like her youngest cousin is one

544
00:28:37,119 --> 00:28:40,280
Speaker 3: and a half, so she saw her aunt being pregnant

545
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 3: and when he was new, although she was still younger

546
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 3: at that point, but she kind of gets it.

547
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's awesome.

548
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, other than us, I want to shift gears

549
00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: a little here. Other than us, how often are you

550
00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: keeping up with the Bachelor World? Do you keep your

551
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: like a toe in the pool at all? And like

552
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: watch the show or where are you at with all

553
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: that stuff?

554
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 3: Of course I watched the show. I'm still a fan

555
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 3: of watching the show, probably not as diligently like on

556
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 3: top of it, as like I once was without a child.

557
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,600
Speaker 3: But Taylor watches it with me. But he's still never

558
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:24,560
Speaker 3: seen any of my shows, which is fine with me.

559
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, Canyon claims my wife claims she never saw my

560
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: season either yet her mom will be like, oh, you

561
00:29:30,880 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: were my favorite Bachelor of course. Yeah, so I'm interesting.

562
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 1: So Jessica never watched it yet she lived at home

563
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: at that time.

564
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 2: Yeah.

565
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: Interesting, But I was gonna say, like, did Taylor ever,

566
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 1: so he's never been curious enough to dig through the archives?

567
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 3: Well, so he actually like, he doesn't remember it, but

568
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:54,480
Speaker 3: he did watch like the first night of my season

569
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 3: because there was a girl that had gone to his school,

570
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 3: Christina McCaslin, who went to Ranch. What school did they

571
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 3: go to anyway, Santa Fe. Christian and Christina had been

572
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 3: like in Taylor's sisters year or something, and so they

573
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 3: did watch the first night. But he doesn't remember. Taylor's

574
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 3: actually on me so he was quite young when I

575
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 3: was on. But so he yeah, and then he he

576
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: hasn't really shown any curiosity. I'm like, if the only

577
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: one I'd actually feel comfortable with him watching is the

578
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 3: very first on The Bachelor with Jake, because I just

579
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 3: I am such a different person from that when I

580
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 3: was on that, and I just grew so much from

581
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 3: then on, and then that was it was it was

582
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 3: an important part of my life. But I turned it

583
00:30:54,320 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 3: on because it was on Hulu and I had seen

584
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 3: it and he was like on a call to China

585
00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 3: for work, sitting on the couch, and so I started

586
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 3: kind of watching it out of curiosity, and all of

587
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,360
Speaker 3: a sudden, I saw myself kiss Jake and I was like, well,

588
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 3: never mind, I don't feel comfortable watching this, so so yeah,

589
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 3: so I turned it off. But he's never He's seen

590
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 3: little clips here and there, and.

591
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, would you show the girls when they get older?

592
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: Yeaheah, I think it's kind of uh. I think it's cool.

593
00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 3: I think to see those moments of me having like

594
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 3: affection with other men. Yeah, not Bachelor Pad. I'd be okay,

595
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 3: Bachelor and Bachelor in Paradise, but Bachelor Pad, like there

596
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 3: was a kissing contest and I participated in it, and

597
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 3: it's just like stupid. So I like the thought of

598
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 3: the Bachelor or Bachelor in Paradise were some of my

599
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 3: very very like there was a lot of growth and

600
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 3: positive stuff that came from all that. But yeah, I

601
00:31:53,040 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 3: would let the girls watch it someday, but maybe not.

602
00:31:55,480 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: The affection with other men. How do you handle that stress?

603
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:00,479
Speaker 3: You know, it's it's funny.

604
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,320
Speaker 2: I just got asked this question again. I feel like

605
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:08,200
Speaker 2: we used to get asked the question what is the secret?

606
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 3: You know?

607
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 2: That was our number one, and now I feel like

608
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 2: it is what would you know? Yeah, something about the kids?

609
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,200
Speaker 2: Would you let them be on the show? And I

610
00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 2: always say it would be super hypocritical if I didn't

611
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: support them because of how I met their father, But

612
00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,720
Speaker 2: I feel like it's just for me. It's very different because,

613
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 2: you know, there was so much controversy when they announced

614
00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 2: that I was going to be the first bachelorette, and

615
00:32:36,920 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 2: people thought that I was going to look like a

616
00:32:38,520 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: slut and they were calling me all, you know, all

617
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 2: these names without even knowing who I was. So I

618
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 2: went into it really kind of really thoughtful about who,

619
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 2: you know, what I looked like, to my grandma, to

620
00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:58,360
Speaker 2: you know, to to all of these people, to the

621
00:32:58,400 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 2: people who were clearly to be judging me right. And

622
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: so I think that I mean, I've shared this. I

623
00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:09,479
Speaker 2: just did Chris Harrison's podcast and we were talking about it,

624
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: and like Jamie Blight, on one of the dates which

625
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 2: Bob was on, he asked me for a kiss, and

626
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: I was like, well, how about on the cheek?

627
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: Can we tell the backstory to this? So I First

628
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: of all, I think.

629
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 3: Tristan, they've heard this story before.

630
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I said this to Tristan before. You handled yourself

631
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 1: masterfully on that show, and I think that you were

632
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: always like you were such a lady and so just

633
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, perfect, Yeah, very intentional, and it was like,

634
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: you know, she really set the tone I think for

635
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 1: for my season and for seasons after that. Like I

636
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: remember saying to the thirty women on the first lame like, look,

637
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: you guys, I just came off the best experience, and

638
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: I want you all to have this as well, So

639
00:33:51,320 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: don't fight with each other because this is no prize here.

640
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: This is a disaster, So you don't want this just

641
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,800
Speaker 1: I never had to say that, but I'll never forget.

642
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 1: So they came up to me and Trista you might

643
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: remember this. We were at the beach and they came

644
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: up to me and they're like, it was Jason Carbone

645
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 1: and he goes he hands me two coronas and he's here,

646
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 1: go buddy. Uh, Trista is waiting for you on the

647
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: beach and she's excited to kiss you. And I'm like really,

648
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: He's like, yeah, I go on a group date with

649
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: eight dudes she just walked up to you and said, man,

650
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: I can't wait to kiss Bob. And he's like, yeah,

651
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:26,839
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, nice, try try somebody else.

652
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:27,000
Speaker 3: Bro.

653
00:34:27,160 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, like, I got a sister. If someone tried to

654
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,120
Speaker 1: mac on my sister on a group date, I would

655
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 1: kill that guy. And so anyway, I go and grabbed

656
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 1: myself a beer and come back to find Jamie to

657
00:34:38,080 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: tell him this ridiculous story that Carbon just tried to

658
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: talk me into. And I look and there's Jamie on

659
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: the beach with trist To going in for it. Just

660
00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 1: was like, oh, not a chance. And so afterwards we're

661
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 1: in the limo and I'll never forget it, and we're

662
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: all toasting, you know, and I'm the one, of course

663
00:34:54,520 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: who's like, you know, everyone's raise a glass to Trista,

664
00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 1: and now I'm like trying to protect myself. So I'm like, Trista,

665
00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 1: I just want to say, you know, this has to

666
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: be really difficult for you to be on a group

667
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 1: day like this with a bunch of people. And I

668
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: hope you don't think that if someone doesn't try to

669
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,359
Speaker 1: kiss you on the beach, that you know that means

670
00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,480
Speaker 1: they're not interested in you. Or find you Lovely and wonderful,

671
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: and Jamie Blie looked at me one I'm like, just like,

672
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:21,919
Speaker 1: if someone does try to kiss you on the beach,

673
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that they're you know, the total leach.

674
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: You know, we're all but it was like so funny

675
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 1: because Tristy, you just handled it so great. You would

676
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:33,280
Speaker 1: just giggle and make it all nice and we'd be like, Okay,

677
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: now we're moving on, you know.

678
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:39,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, I feel like that's that's totally different from

679
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 2: like back those days. You know, I was very intentional

680
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,280
Speaker 2: about not being physical with people or at least giving

681
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 2: into it when I really truly felt it. And now

682
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 2: it's like everyone kisses their everyone, like everyone.

683
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 1: Is the first night right want So.

684
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 3: It's hard to watch.

685
00:35:56,920 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 2: So I knowing that it's changed a lot, it's evolved,

686
00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 2: the show has evolved a lot. If my friends are

687
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 2: my kids ever wanted to see it, at least I

688
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: can preface preface things, and then also like if they

689
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 2: ever wanted to go on the show, I would just

690
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:14,279
Speaker 2: have some conversations.

691
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, guiding conversations.

692
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:17,440
Speaker 3: Yeah.

693
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 4: Yeah.

694
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 1: I always thought Tenley was going to be a bachelorette.

695
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 1: I remember after watching Jake's season and then especially after

696
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 1: watching the post season interview that the two of them

697
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: did remember that yeah, And I remember watching that going,

698
00:36:46,760 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: oh my god, like who would do? Who? I mean,

699
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: I was just blown away. But I remember literally from

700
00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:56,160
Speaker 1: watching like night one of that show, I remember thinking,

701
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,359
Speaker 1: Tenley is going to be the next bachelorette. There's no

702
00:36:58,760 --> 00:36:59,080
Speaker 1: ask you.

703
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, the conversation not like not like a proposal, but

704
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 3: Alan definitely was kind of I felt like he was

705
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:12,120
Speaker 3: kind of pursuing me because he would come to my

706
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:15,520
Speaker 3: house in Huntington Beach and he'd hang out with my

707
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,319
Speaker 3: family and stuff. I felt like they were still kind

708
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:21,880
Speaker 3: of keeping close, Like I mean, I wanted to believe

709
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 3: that he was a true friend and he was. But

710
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,960
Speaker 3: at the same time, I felt like once it was

711
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:34,360
Speaker 3: offered to Ali that then I things changed. So but

712
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 3: they definitely had dangled some stars in my eyes, Like

713
00:37:39,680 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 3: I remember coming home from Saint Lucia after being dumped

714
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 3: and not being proposed to, which you know, I know

715
00:37:48,800 --> 00:37:51,839
Speaker 3: was just definitely the best way for me to go.

716
00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 3: But anyways, they were like, oh, Dancing with the Stars

717
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 3: and maybe the Bachelor Wrette, like all of these things

718
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:01,399
Speaker 3: that were definitely sounded really cool. But you know what,

719
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 3: I for sure would have been a horrible bachelorette. I

720
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 3: don't think that I, my heart could have handled it.

721
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 3: It is Oh, it is hard, and I think I

722
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 3: would have. I mean, how do you, like, I know

723
00:38:16,760 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 3: that you just have to you have to put it

724
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,239
Speaker 3: in the work and stuff because I watched them, But

725
00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 3: I think I would have picked out a guy within

726
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 3: the first like my top guy, like I really could

727
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 3: and my heart beat, like I'd let my heart go

728
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 3: all into him. How do you fake it and put

729
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 3: on a show like I don't know that I could

730
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 3: have had for me too.

731
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I get that, But you just, I guess

732
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 2: you just compartmentalize, you know, you you try to keep

733
00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: it separate for every person.

734
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: I know it's tough.

735
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 3: I can't even imagine. So, but yeah, life obviously went

736
00:38:54,719 --> 00:38:57,200
Speaker 3: the right way for me. It was kind of until

737
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 3: I finally met the one. But here we are, okay,

738
00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 3: that's okay. I love those kind of stories.

739
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 2: It didn't matter when because you have the rest of

740
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: your lives together.

741
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:08,879
Speaker 1: So yes, and you know what I think too, it's

742
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 1: like one of those things too. I mean, I can

743
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: say this from my my Bachelor, my Bescherett and bachelor

744
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: experience of course, but as long as it ends up

745
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 1: in the right place, you know, all of those experiences

746
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: are what got you there, right, So, Like, I mean,

747
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: I think about that, and I hate to ask this question,

748
00:39:24,800 --> 00:39:26,359
Speaker 1: but I you know, it's on a list of questions

749
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,320
Speaker 1: to ask, so I hope you don't mind me asking it.

750
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: But uh, most recently one of your ex'es showed up

751
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 1: on Instagram with uh, with his new partner, right, So,

752
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:42,839
Speaker 1: Kifton and Angela kind of went public on Instagram? And

753
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: do you keep up with any of that stuff? And

754
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: you know, is that something that you saw happening or

755
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,399
Speaker 1: you thought you could see happening if you knew both

756
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: obviously new Kipton, but if you knew Angela as well

757
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: from seeing her on TV, did you kind of see

758
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: that happening? And you know, what are your thoughts on that? Well?

759
00:39:58,320 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 3: From Okay, So we live kind of in a small

760
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 3: town and he's the reason why I ended up where

761
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 3: I live and then I ended up meeting my husband

762
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,439
Speaker 3: because I lived here, so that that all worked out great.

763
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 3: And I'm very happy for them because I think I

764
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:16,520
Speaker 3: think he's you know, it's been years since we were together.

765
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 3: This is the first like real public relationship he's had

766
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 3: besides the mother of his child, and that was after

767
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 3: close after we had broken up. But yeah, so I

768
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 3: think that this is a big deal. But what I

769
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 3: have seen it coming between the two of them. I

770
00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 3: do not know how they met. But what's funny is

771
00:40:36,800 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 3: our little small town I don't even need to get

772
00:40:41,680 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 3: into the details, but yeah, I had heard like he

773
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,720
Speaker 3: had a girlfriend and who she was because of another

774
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 3: one of my friends who's in the franchise too, Crystal Nielsen.

775
00:40:52,600 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 3: We're now. She was taking plot's at our girlfriend's plate

776
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,759
Speaker 3: studio and there was Kip and she's like, oh, hey,

777
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 3: weren't you Tellley's X, you know, And they started talking

778
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 3: and Angela used to be friends with Crystal and so she,

779
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 3: oh my god, what And then I'm like, wait, the

780
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 3: rest of my circle was yeah, no, KIVI and I

781
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,439
Speaker 3: run into each other not very often, but we do,

782
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 3: and and it's always cordial and fine and wonderful. But

783
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 3: I mean, my church is across the street from his house.

784
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:27,920
Speaker 1: Over seen each.

785
00:41:27,760 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 3: Other, but it's just like there, you know, there there's

786
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,720
Speaker 3: lots of ties and stuff, but Yeah. It's so funny

787
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,960
Speaker 3: how small the world it is, because I think it

788
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 3: was like three weeks ago that I kind of got

789
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 3: the news that he was in a relationship with somebody

790
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:46,280
Speaker 3: from the show or the franchise, and I was like, oh,

791
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,959
Speaker 3: that's how did they meet? You know? So I don't

792
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 3: know the story, but happy for them, especially because if

793
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 3: they've gone public with it, and I think it's been

794
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:57,480
Speaker 3: like over a year that they've been together, so oh wow,

795
00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 3: that's what it's heard the public. Wow. Yeah, I mean

796
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,959
Speaker 3: I think it's a big deal. So I'm happy for it,

797
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 3: especially if this is the one for him or for her.

798
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 1: So funny, You're so you're so sweet, isn't it nice?

799
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,000
Speaker 1: Like I think about a lot of time, like when

800
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,000
Speaker 1: someone you know, like for example, with my season, when

801
00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:22,680
Speaker 1: Estella finally got married and I was like, oh she,

802
00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,480
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she's so good, right, I love her studio,

803
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 1: but I was so happy for her because she's so

804
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:33,680
Speaker 1: sweet and wonderful and kind, and it was like people were,

805
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 1: you know, people are like, well are you are you

806
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: excited for her? I'm like, what do you think? Of

807
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 1: course I am. I mean I loved her, so I'm

808
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:41,440
Speaker 1: very excited for her and I want her to be

809
00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: as happy as I am. And you know, when you

810
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: see someone who hasn't found that person, when you know

811
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: what's inside of them and you know it's like to

812
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: then when they finally do, you're just sort of like, Okay,

813
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: it's not like it's your responsibility for them to be

814
00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:55,840
Speaker 1: happy in their lives. But once they finally are, you

815
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:58,040
Speaker 1: can kind of go, Okay, I can get back to

816
00:42:58,080 --> 00:42:59,600
Speaker 1: my life now or something. I don't even know you.

817
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 3: But and then for me also like my life is

818
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 3: established and I finally found the person that I was

819
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 3: actually meant to be with and stuff, and he was

820
00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 3: and Kip was definitely a part of my journey and

821
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: getting there and growing up and learning things about myself

822
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 3: and just you know, past relationships are a big part

823
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 3: of your life. But at the same time, like you know,

824
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 3: it's not something I think about on a daily basis,

825
00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,600
Speaker 3: but when it came up the great news And also

826
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 3: just really funny how like actually tied into my there's

827
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 3: details of it all that are just so funny of

828
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 3: how small my world is that is funny. But yeah, Stella,

829
00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 3: I love her, She's I love.

830
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 1: That you go with it that you're doing her class

831
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: Like I love.

832
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 3: That when I'm not pregnant. Yeah, but she is so

833
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:49,319
Speaker 3: sweet and then she actually, long time ago, when I

834
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 3: was dating Kip, she briefly went on a few dates

835
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 3: with one of Kip's friends, so we all know, way

836
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 3: back when.

837
00:43:56,760 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

838
00:43:58,040 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, the.

839
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I would like.

840
00:44:01,760 --> 00:44:04,359
Speaker 2: To see a tree of all of us, like how

841
00:44:04,520 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 2: you know how they connect everyone, because there are a

842
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 2: lot of connections that I think that.

843
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 3: We don't even know about. I bet there's tons of connections.

844
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I had a few other little things, but together,

845
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 3: we don't need to go there. But yeah, it's it's

846
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:28,439
Speaker 3: so funny, but there should be some sort of like yeah,

847
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 3: family tree, just out of just for comedic or out

848
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 3: of curiosity, some sort of like intertwining or like Oprah

849
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 3: special of.

850
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,720
Speaker 1: Yes, what is it that has like a billion branches?

851
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 1: Because that would be my tree and I don't even

852
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: want to look at that, no desire. I just need

853
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 1: to see that.

854
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,240
Speaker 3: It would take forever.

855
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:58,719
Speaker 7: It would take, Yeah, it would take forever. Bob, you're

856
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 7: that old. That's I know you weren't saying it that way.

857
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:11,480
Speaker 2: I just like to I just like to harass him

858
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 2: because he's just that much older than me.

859
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: I I'm an ancient, I'm a fossil, like we always

860
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 1: say that. You know, Trista's like the fairy godmother of

861
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 1: the franchise, and I'm the grandfather, like the great great

862
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 1: grandfather of the franchise. You're the bob father, the bob father.

863
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: There we go, Oh my gosh.

864
00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:38,200
Speaker 3: Okay, Well, we have loved seeing you.

865
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 2: I love seeing you like I wish he was just

866
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:40,760
Speaker 2: in person.

867
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 5: Please give ral.

868
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 2: A humongous hug, and thank Taylor for letting us borrow

869
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Speaker 2: you for a minute.

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Speaker 3: And good luck with delivery.

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00:45:50,080 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 5: I can't wait to see beautiful baby girl. Thank you.

872
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, prayers, and if you don't mind, just put in

873
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:00,479
Speaker 3: an extra like request with God that this baby will come,

874
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 3: you know, maybe two weeks early. That would be lovely.

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Speaker 1: There you go. When is the When is the You

876
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:11,000
Speaker 1: said May? When is it? Okay? So two weeks early

877
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: would be May eighth, which is a magical day. That's

878
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,359
Speaker 1: my birthday. There we go, babies, all right.

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00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 3: Not too early because my mom doesn't get here until

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00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 3: the tenth and I need my mom to be here

881
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 3: for us.

882
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 1: Eleven.

883
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 2: I love you, Thank you.

884
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:31,440
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, so.

885
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 3: Happy to have seen both of you, and hope everything's

886
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 3: well for both of you two.

887
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,680
Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Bye guys, Bye Trista.

888
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 2: She is so lovely Jesus as she's one of my

889
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:48,280
Speaker 2: all time daves, like one of my probably closest friends

890
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 2: from the franchise that you know that's not a lead

891
00:46:51,719 --> 00:46:52,240
Speaker 2: or whatever.

892
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:55,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, you two have a lot. I've always thought

893
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 1: when I the couple times that I got to spend

894
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 1: time with her, she reminds me of you a lot

895
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,520
Speaker 1: of ways, like you guys have similar similar characters.

896
00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 2: A huge compliment.

897
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: I need it as one, I sincerely do, I think

898
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:08,719
Speaker 1: for both of you. I mean, I think it's a

899
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 1: nice compliment. You guys are both like very you pay

900
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:14,319
Speaker 1: attention to the people you're talking to, and you know,

901
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: it's just it's nice. You like engage and you listen

902
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,800
Speaker 1: and you laugh and you you know, share parallels and

903
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 1: stuff like that. And she's just I mean, only she

904
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: would Obviously I was feeling so awkward to ask her

905
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: the Kipton question, and only she can make me feel

906
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 1: good about it, you know, I was like, oh, thank God,

907
00:47:30,719 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: she's so sweet about it.

908
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 2: You know, he is sweetest. I mean, she truly won

909
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:42,239
Speaker 2: the Disney Princess, so like, yeah, she's sugar, sugar from

910
00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 2: the cane, like sugar from the cane.

911
00:47:44,360 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 1: Amen. Well, we've got a lot of great stuff coming up.

912
00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 1: Obviously having ten Leon is just the tip of the iceberg,

913
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:55,319
Speaker 1: but a beautiful tip of the iceberg, of course. And

914
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,799
Speaker 1: I'm so excited because we've got We've got so much

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00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 1: lined up over the coming weeks. So you know, thank

916
00:48:01,360 --> 00:48:04,400
Speaker 1: you guys so much for listening in and for requesting

917
00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 1: more of the ogs. We'd love it.

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00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 2: And I actually, with that note, I would love to

919
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,320
Speaker 2: hear from people. If there's anyone that you just wonder

920
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:18,760
Speaker 2: what's going on in their lives from early seasons, someone

921
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 2: that you really liked, I'd love to hear from you.

922
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 2: I'm sure Bob would too. So if you want to

923
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:27,759
Speaker 2: reach out to the almost famous Instagram page and just

924
00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 2: DM them and give them some requests, we would love that.

925
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 1: We would. And you know, it's funny after hearing Tenley talk,

926
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Speaker 1: I mean, someone I haven't even thought to reach out

927
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 1: to is Jake Vivalca.

928
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Speaker 2: So okay, I have a story, Yes, and when you

929
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,919
Speaker 2: first mentioned it or when his name was brought up.

930
00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my gosh, you just reminded me.

931
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 2: He reached out to me on Instagram like last week,

932
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:58,880
Speaker 2: and I forgot that. I like like text messages and dms.

933
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 2: I swear if I don't write back right that second,

934
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,120
Speaker 2: then I forget or it gets buried or whatever. So

935
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 2: I am going to write him right now. He wrote

936
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Speaker 2: me and just said, hey, how is everything. I just

937
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 2: wanted to check in and say hi.

938
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Speaker 1: I was like that, we've got to have him on,

939
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 1: and you know, I want to give a special shout

940
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:20,000
Speaker 1: out to one of our one of our listeners, Angela.

941
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:25,040
Speaker 1: You know Angela. After every one of our podcasts, will

942
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: you know, she'll reach out and she'll write something and

943
00:49:27,280 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: she'll be like, you know, I was listening to the show,

944
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: and you know, it's just always like she's really just

945
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 1: very sweet, and you know she listened to our last

946
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: podcast with Avan. Yeah, she she reached out listened to

947
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: our last podcast with Avan and reached out about that

948
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,840
Speaker 1: and just was like talking about how sweet he seems

949
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: to be, and she loves how compassionate you are, and

950
00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: just you know, how funny we are together. And I

951
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 1: just I love her recaps because it makes me feel like,

952
00:49:54,360 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, it makes me feel like somebody's listening

953
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 1: and someone actually cares and you know, it's paying attention.

954
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: It's not just my mom. So that's yes, Like my

955
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 1: mom's like, oh, you guys have the best podcast. Like mom,

956
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 1: you don't even know how to listen to a podcast.

957
00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: I send it to you, I know, but I really

958
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: love it. I just really love it.

959
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,279
Speaker 7: Oh Okay, we love you, moms, We love you.

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00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:22,799
Speaker 3: Shout out to her moms and to angle.

961
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Speaker 2: Up and and then yeah to everyone out there. If

962
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 2: you have any request, just reach out on the Instagram

963
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 2: page or DMUs directly of course, but always fun chatting

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Speaker 2: and uh we'll talk to you next time.

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Speaker 3: Bye, everybody,