1 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: It's awkward. 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 3 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 3: Today, one of our listeners wanted our help reaching out 5 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 3: to a woman that he went out on. 6 00:00:12,080 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: A date with for a second date. 7 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: I know what you're all thinking. Shouldn't we be doing 8 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: a second date? I think for this, Jeff, what are 9 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 1: you some kind of idiot? 10 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 3: And I've already reported each of you to HR for 11 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:26,639 Speaker 3: trying to speak to me with that HR, So expect 12 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 3: to call from HR shortly. 13 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: But normally, yes, I. 14 00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 2: Feel like you're not listening to anyone in the road. 15 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 3: Normally we would do a second date, but in this 16 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:40,640 Speaker 3: particular case, it requires an awkward Tuesday call because his 17 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 3: date said that his date didn't happen in the last 18 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: week or two, or even in the last year or two. 19 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:51,520 Speaker 3: It happened almost three years ago, when Alexis still thought 20 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 3: working here was fun. 21 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: But our listener Joseph. 22 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 3: Did say he wanted to get our advice on this, 23 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 3: so let's talk to him real quick. 24 00:00:59,000 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: Joseph, how you doing? 25 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 4: Hey good? How are you guys? 26 00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: Hey? You sound sad, buddy. 27 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 4: Man, I'm be racking my brain on this one. 28 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 2: Okay, why are you so hung up on this person. 29 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,560 Speaker 4: Well, it's sort of a super cringe situation. 30 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 5: We love a good embarrassing story, ready to cring. We 31 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 5: live them every day, So it's fine. 32 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 4: Okay, So the last like three years or so, after 33 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 4: a first date, I'll ask the woman to take a survey. 34 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: Oh god, you're in the masochism. 35 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really funny. 36 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:43,479 Speaker 5: I say, is this an email survey you send them 37 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 5: or are you asking in person? 38 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 4: It's an email survey that they can't do it and 39 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:50,560 Speaker 4: get the results, and it is kind of fun. 40 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: Action take that. 41 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,320 Speaker 2: You really love Excel spreadsheets as well? 42 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 1: Well, what's the thinking behind doing that? 43 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 4: Well, so I'm kind of an awkward guy. I guess 44 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 4: you could, right, but I genuinely want to be a 45 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 4: better person. 46 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 2: Is it anonymous when they fill it out? Or do 47 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 2: you know who it is. 48 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: Alexis wants to take. 49 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 5: I have a feeling he's not going on enough date 50 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 5: probably to not know what. 51 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: Person just out. 52 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:21,320 Speaker 3: But I mean, I think I think it's a good 53 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 3: idea to try and get some feedback about how your 54 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,200 Speaker 3: dates are really going in their minds. 55 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: So what's feedback do you get? 56 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 4: So the best one is give me specifics. That's the 57 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 4: most helpful. For example, one woman said his dinner conversation 58 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 4: felt like a PowerPoint presentation. 59 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:42,760 Speaker 1: Okay, well that's a nice. 60 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:46,440 Speaker 3: PowerPoint is a very like advanced system. All the best 61 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 3: companies use it. 62 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: So I mean I could. 63 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 5: See maybe a little robotic like you've been going through 64 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 5: the motion, more literal. 65 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: Like you sit down and say, so, this is me, 66 00:02:56,600 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 3: this is my birthday, this is what I'm about. 67 00:02:58,440 --> 00:02:59,240 Speaker 1: It could seem like an. 68 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 3: Interview, but it's also have clipbard in them and animation. 69 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot of cool stuff. 70 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:09,760 Speaker 4: I like to think I'd have good transitions between slides 71 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:14,840 Speaker 4: and it. 72 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:17,520 Speaker 2: All right, what's another one? Have you got another example? 73 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? 74 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 4: I got one more. She said he had more gel 75 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 4: in his hair than I have in my bathroom. 76 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 2: But we slip back here a lot. 77 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 5: You guys, I think that you shouldn't take that as 78 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 5: a bad that's a fixable one, easily fixed. 79 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 4: I've been doing my hair the same way with the 80 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 4: same palmade for the last ten years, and so for me, 81 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 4: that kind of seemed like, all right, my personality is bad, 82 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 4: my looks aren't great. So I decided I was going 83 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 4: to go back over the surveys. 84 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so review them all. 85 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, that sounds like a trip down memory lane. 86 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: I wouldn't on a tail. 87 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: So how did that go? What was your experience? 88 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 4: Like? 89 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: Looking back? 90 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:06,760 Speaker 4: So I noticed the trend. It seems like I got 91 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 4: a little bit better and then things just sort of 92 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 4: took in those dives. But the first time I did 93 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 4: the survey after a date was this this woman named Angela, 94 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 4: and and honestly, like it was kind of a chaotic 95 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 4: like blind date set up. It is like a friend 96 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,840 Speaker 4: of a friend, like whatever. Paul I thought we had 97 00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 4: a really good time. I mean I particularly remember her 98 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 4: eyes and like that kind of like sears in my head. 99 00:04:32,200 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 4: She left like genuine compliments, so she'd say that it 100 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 4: was super weird. She was kind of witty about the 101 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 4: whole thing, which I loved. But the last question on 102 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 4: my survey is would you like to go on another date? 103 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:51,080 Speaker 4: And I think at the time I was just so 104 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 4: wrapped up in like setting up dates and trying this experiment, 105 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 4: if you will, I completely overlooked the fact that she 106 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 4: had said yes with exclamation point. Oh. 107 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,120 Speaker 3: It is a little bit over eager though, with the 108 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,559 Speaker 3: three exclamations, is soul made? 109 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:12,400 Speaker 2: Okay? First one dude. 110 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:14,679 Speaker 5: He's gone on thirty dates and all of the surveys 111 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 5: have been bad except for this woman, the first one. 112 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 2: It was meant for her and you missed it. You 113 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:20,599 Speaker 2: missed the sign. 114 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 3: God, do you want to dig the knife in a 115 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:24,240 Speaker 3: little bit deeper and tell how bad? 116 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 2: I'm excited to help him. 117 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 5: I mean, have you done any background research? Did you, like, 118 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 5: have her Insta or anything like that? 119 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,359 Speaker 4: Well, I looked up on social media. I didn't see 120 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 4: a husband that we're not friends. Obviously I can't see 121 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:39,559 Speaker 4: all this stuff. 122 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: But books stopped posting her husband on her recently too. 123 00:05:43,279 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 5: It's not a good but listen, if she had gotten 124 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 5: married in the last three years, her profile pick would 125 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,159 Speaker 5: be a wedding pick. You don't spend all that money 126 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,239 Speaker 5: on wedding picks and not use it as your profile 127 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 5: pick for at least a year and a half. 128 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: Totally. 129 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 3: So now, I mean, at this point, you want to 130 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 3: call Angela yourself and talk to her, but your wanted 131 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 3: vice from us exactly. 132 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't want to go into a blind This 133 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 4: is such an absurd sort of situation. 134 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 2: Yea. 135 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 3: Luckily you've got some love experts to step in and 136 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:13,239 Speaker 3: give you a little bit of advice. 137 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I've had many ex boyfriends that called me 138 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 5: later and be like, it turns out I couldn't find 139 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 5: anything better, So you want to go out again? 140 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:24,119 Speaker 1: And Brooke said yes every time, so there is hope. 141 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,160 Speaker 3: We're going to PowerPoint transition to the next part of 142 00:06:27,200 --> 00:06:31,200 Speaker 3: this when we come back to continue your awkward Tuesday phone. 143 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: Call right after this. It's awkward. 144 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. 145 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. If you're just joining us 146 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: for the awkward Tuesday call. 147 00:06:41,560 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 3: Our listener, Joseph has been sending women that he dates 148 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 3: an email survey after they go out, asking them to 149 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:51,159 Speaker 3: review him and how they think their night honestly went. 150 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 2: Okay, Now it sounds silly, but let it sink in. 151 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: It's actually kind of cool. 152 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: And especially when you talk to him. 153 00:06:56,160 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's just trying to learn more about himself if 154 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: he can make any improvements. 155 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, and he's gotten some pretty brutal feedback recently. 156 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,679 Speaker 3: I won't even repeat the mean things these women wrote 157 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 3: about him unless Joseph, do you want Brooke to say 158 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: them directly to you so you can. 159 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:14,840 Speaker 1: Relive the hurt. 160 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 4: No? 161 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: No, no, cause she'll do it with a smile. 162 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 4: You know. 163 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's. 164 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: What you guys are so brutal. Hey you're fine, you 165 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 2: know what we No, that was Joseph. I'm trying to help. 166 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I appreciate it. 167 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 3: Okay, we're not gonna we're not gonna say any of 168 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 3: the things. 169 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: Anyway. 170 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 3: It prompted him to look back through all of his 171 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,520 Speaker 3: date reviews and he came across the very first one 172 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 3: he did with a woman named Angela three years ago, 173 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 3: who gave him very positive feedback and even said in 174 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 3: the survey that she'd be willing to meet him again. 175 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,240 Speaker 3: The problem is, it kind of got buried and he 176 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,840 Speaker 3: moved on without doing anything. 177 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: Ted was in the data, Jeff, but he wasn't reading 178 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:56,559 Speaker 2: it very clearly. 179 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,240 Speaker 3: Well, the point is now he needs our help reaching 180 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 3: back out to any Jela three years later to try 181 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 3: and casually spark that romance back up. And jose I mean, 182 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 3: you still have feelings for women you dated years and 183 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 3: even decades ago, so we're single one. 184 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: Of them one for Joseph. 185 00:08:13,160 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 4: Here. Look, you're coming in at a deficit because remember 186 00:08:16,080 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 4: you already go see a girl that likes you, so 187 00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:19,800 Speaker 4: you need an icebreaker to get her in. 188 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: A good mood, and that's right. Come into play when 189 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: she answers. All right, just say hey, what's up. 190 00:08:25,560 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 3: I'm doing a follow up survey on the survey that 191 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 3: you took three years ago. 192 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 2: And just be quiet and she will laugh and we're 193 00:08:32,600 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: all I'll try not to laugh. 194 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:38,200 Speaker 1: It's gonna be good. Joseph, what do you think about 195 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: the three year callback joke? 196 00:08:40,440 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 4: I think it's it's in the farm. 197 00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 2: Uh okay, Yeah, remember the survey will not land. He's 198 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 2: a solicitor, hang up on him. 199 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 3: But I do think that the idea of an icebreaker 200 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 3: trying to make her laugh and lighten the mood is good. 201 00:08:56,800 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: Brook. 202 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 2: What do you think I agree with that? Yeah? 203 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 5: And like once you her to laugh and you guys 204 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 5: start a conversation. Yeah, here's the thing, Like you actually have. 205 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: To ask her out right. 206 00:09:07,400 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: Here's what you do. 207 00:09:08,520 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 5: It's not your choice that you're asking her out it's 208 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 5: what the research told you to do. 209 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: Yes, take away with choices. I like this. 210 00:09:17,360 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 5: It's like listen, listen. Sometimes the universe brings people together. 211 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 5: This time it's science and data that's bringing us together. 212 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 1: Science and data. 213 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 2: This is his deal, man, that's what he lives for all. 214 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: Right, Joseph. I don't know if any of that actually 215 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: helps you, but. 216 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 4: It does. 217 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: Okay, good and we got your back. 218 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 2: Man for you. 219 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 4: Thank you, all right. I don't want to come off 220 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 4: as creepy. 221 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,440 Speaker 3: You know, creepy is brook Hose and Alexis's job. They'll 222 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 3: still step in and deliver that part form. 223 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 2: You're creepy, super creepy what you're talking about. 224 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, we were going to do a research 225 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,080 Speaker 5: poll on who was the on this show. 226 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 1: You'd win. 227 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:04,119 Speaker 3: If I feel out of survey about you guys performance 228 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 3: after this, You're not gonna like what I write. 229 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: So let's just. 230 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 3: Call Angela here. Good luck, Joseph. We'll step in if 231 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 3: we feel like you need a little hell. 232 00:10:10,960 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: But here we go. 233 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:21,680 Speaker 6: Hello, this is Angela. 234 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:25,719 Speaker 4: Hey Angela, this is Joseph. How are you? 235 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:28,000 Speaker 6: I'm sorry? 236 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 4: Who is this? Yes, so, Joseph, we uh went on 237 00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 4: a date almost three years ago, and I suppose you 238 00:10:38,559 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 4: you remember? 239 00:10:41,200 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 6: Okay? 240 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 4: Can I help you what you know by the call? Yeh? So, 241 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 4: I'm I'm actually doing a follow up survey on the 242 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:56,120 Speaker 4: first survey I sent you. 243 00:10:58,400 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 6: What do you mean a survey on this? 244 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 4: Well, I'm interested to know kind of like how you've been, Uh, 245 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 4: what have you been doing for three years? 246 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 6: How I've been for three years? These are pretty personal questions. 247 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 6: I don't understand what you mean, like are you referring 248 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 6: to like work or my general life? 249 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 4: Like look, I just got to like, come, queen, I 250 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 4: should have called you three years ago and I didn't, 251 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 4: and uh, sorry, and I don't. I wouldn't. I wouldn't 252 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 4: be surprised if you don't remember me. I probably don't. 253 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 6: Well, yeah, of course I remember you. I mean I 254 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 6: feel about an Excel sheet for you, and you know. 255 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,440 Speaker 6: The last question asked if I would ever be interested 256 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 6: in seeing you again, and I said yes with an 257 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 6: exclamation point, and that I never. 258 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 4: Heard from you again. Yeah, I remember you left me 259 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 4: great feedback and I thought we had a really great 260 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 4: time and I just didn't notice that you were you 261 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 4: were okay with Gowan on a second date. 262 00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 6: I want you to know, like I thought it was 263 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,200 Speaker 6: pretty cool. So I started doing it myself on my 264 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 6: dates and yeah, it's been really cool just to see 265 00:12:24,440 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 6: how I'm doing on my dates, what I could do better? 266 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 4: Right? 267 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 6: And I really like that you did that. Are you 268 00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 6: still doing it? 269 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:41,920 Speaker 4: I am actually Honestly, they've not been great recently, and 270 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 4: unfortunately some some of the some people are just mean, 271 00:12:45,520 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 4: like they don't get Yeah, I mean, what's brutal. 272 00:12:51,040 --> 00:12:53,960 Speaker 6: Don't let the survey like bring you down too much 273 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 6: because you're a nice, really nice guy, and those people 274 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 6: are all missing out. 275 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 4: I really appreciate that you Actually you have no idea 276 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 4: what that means to me. 277 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 6: Actually, I mean it's true. I really feel that way 278 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 6: about you and I. You know, everyone in the world should. 279 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 4: Feel that way. Well. Thanks. Going back to the to 280 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 4: the survey, you know, because I'm I'm a numbers guy, 281 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 4: right uh, And according to the numbers, you know, it 282 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:34,760 Speaker 4: says you and I should probably go on another date. 283 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 4: And that's not just me. That's science and you can't 284 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 4: argue with science. 285 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:43,720 Speaker 6: Are you asking me out three years later? 286 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 4: Yes, that is That's exactly what I'm doing. I'm asking 287 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 4: you out three years later. 288 00:13:50,400 --> 00:13:52,680 Speaker 6: Will there be another survey at the end of our date? 289 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,560 Speaker 1: The guys, are are you a couple? 290 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 6: What? What is going on? 291 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 3: I hate to break in on this conversation, but you're 292 00:14:10,800 --> 00:14:12,680 Speaker 3: on the radio right now. We're a show called Brook 293 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 3: and Jeffrey in the Morning. 294 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:14,959 Speaker 1: We love breaking it on. 295 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,680 Speaker 5: This conversation and four out of four out of four 296 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 5: people in this room, thank you too. 297 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 2: Are adorable. 298 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, Joseph, what's happening? 299 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,480 Speaker 3: Well, this is a follow up on the follow up 300 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 3: to the follow up. 301 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:28,600 Speaker 1: Survey that we'd like to do. 302 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:29,960 Speaker 2: Joseph Teller. 303 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 3: Oh, sorry, Joseph, you take the lead on them. 304 00:14:33,160 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, so, I you know, I honestly I wasn't 305 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 4: really sure how to approach you, or if I even should, 306 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 4: or if that was going to be creepy or you know, 307 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 4: put off like creeper vibes, you know, if you think 308 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 4: of some sort of. 309 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: Serial killer or something. 310 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: I'm not. 311 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,080 Speaker 1: Crazy, I'm just kidding. 312 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 4: I just needed some help to ask you out again. 313 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 3: Where does your moral support because we think Joseph's a 314 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 3: great guy. 315 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 4: But once they started talking, I don't think he needed 316 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 4: our help. 317 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:08,120 Speaker 1: You guys have honestly good chemistry. 318 00:15:08,320 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 2: Angela, are you are you like excited? What are you 319 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 2: feeling right now? 320 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:16,920 Speaker 6: Well, my initial feeling was that Joseph is just very 321 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 6: brief to call someone after three years. I hope that 322 00:15:21,880 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 6: this is real, Like I would really like to go 323 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:24,800 Speaker 6: out with you again. 324 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, in that case, we would like to like 325 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 3: offer to send you guys on a date and pay 326 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:32,720 Speaker 3: for it. 327 00:15:33,280 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 4: I would love that, if that's okay with you, angel Yes, again, 328 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:37,960 Speaker 4: that sounds great. 329 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 1: And is it okay with you Brooke and Alexis are 330 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,040 Speaker 1: you signing off on this one. 331 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 2: Taking a survey? 332 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 3: Science says you guys are going out on another date, 333 00:15:52,960 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 3: and you can't argue with. 334 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:58,040 Speaker 4: Science and Angela. I promise you this will be a 335 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 4: survey list date, the first one in three years. 336 00:16:02,680 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 2: Please update us. 337 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, not with a survey though, No, no, no, the 338 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 3: listeners we all want to know. 339 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I definitely will. I'll update you guys, and I 340 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 4: really appreciate all your help. 341 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 2: Wow. 342 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:18,680 Speaker 1: I honestly wasn't sure that this was actually going to work. 343 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 2: Wow, now there truth comes out. 344 00:16:21,400 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 3: Yes, that's my honest review. 345 00:16:23,200 --> 00:16:25,080 Speaker 1: If there you. 346 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:25,920 Speaker 2: Know what I was wrong? 347 00:16:26,320 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 1: Look at that it's broken. Jeffrey in the 348 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 6: Morning brooking Jeffrey in the Morning