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Speaker 1: Here is my dilemma. One what do I do? Two

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Speaker 1: Let's start with number one. What do I do? I

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Speaker 1: Why because it's a brother's wife, or because the kid

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Speaker 3: That's why he wrote into this podcast. He needs that

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Speaker 1: Hell no, Like, you can't just fuck this bitch without

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Speaker 2: Hell no.

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Speaker 1: I really think like there's there should be no for me.

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Speaker 1: It's like my enemies, my colleagues and family, them.

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Speaker 2: Really, why is that.

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Speaker 1: Catching a friend's partner out doing something. If you were

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Speaker 1: And it was fucking hard, Jacob. When I tell you

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Speaker 1: But I rather you see it than you know they see.

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Speaker 3: You talk every we Okay, yeah, I was just leave

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Speaker 1: You know. This is the second time this happened to me,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh excuse me all the time money So you

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Speaker 2: I never been. I get invited, I never go.

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Speaker 3: Well, you go inside. This is most gay sex clubs.

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Speaker 3: There's like porn rooms and stuff like that. People have

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Speaker 1: How is the door open? How is there a bunch

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Speaker 3: No, it's for you, like if you can want to

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Speaker 3: A lot of men, straight men that have corporate jobs

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Speaker 3: that's my experience. I just saw there's snacks to an answer.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let me show you this gloryhole. I went to

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Speaker 1: go on sex Cells. Julie Ginger is her name. She's

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Speaker 1: oh she's instructing her. You know, talk, talk and spit

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Speaker 2: And that's what I need you to do. Okay, if

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Speaker 2: I needed anything to change off, I'll let you know.

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Speaker 1: Looks so crazy?

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Speaker 2: Right? I know I knew your camera man where it

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Speaker 1: Oh, I know it was. Wait, look at the guys

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Speaker 1: It was a little seedy in a sexy way. So

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Speaker 1: like when I get to it, there was come all

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Speaker 2: So do they not clean it up for the next

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Speaker 1: Like, oh, well you can you take the fabric off

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Speaker 1: and you clean them she She's like, but that's kind

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's the ship they hed. We listen and we

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Speaker 3: don't judge. Less you ask for an opinion.

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Speaker 1: No kink shaming, No kink shaming anyway, quick follow up

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Speaker 1: before we get out of here. If he decides to forget,

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Speaker 3: Okay, I would say, if you guys are going to

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Speaker 3: at this point. I mean six years, they're gonna find

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Speaker 3: a way. Just communicate. I'll bean communicating, let me know,

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Speaker 1: And keep sucking the sister law. Are you crazy?

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Speaker 2: He's not gonna stop doing it. She's been doing it

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Speaker 1: You think so when you start cheating and you really

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Speaker 1: you stop sucking that person.

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Speaker 3: Or you get more turned on because it's like, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, he knows, let me sneak into it.

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Speaker 2: People have that kind of turn Okay.

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Speaker 1: My boundary will be she can't y'all can't be alone together.

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Speaker 2: All yeah, yeah, I like that boundary.

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Speaker 1: Your t mobile minutes in night calls and see if

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Speaker 3: Phone right, somebody adult has to be president at all

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Speaker 1: I say, you guys got to be separated, and she

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Speaker 1: needs some therapy because that's really fucking crazy to be

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Speaker 1: doing with them kids. But if you decide to forgive,

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Speaker 1: put up a boundary. I already know y'all wanna be

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Speaker 3: They probably all go to have the benaj as well.

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Speaker 3: That's gonna be one of the boundaries. I gotta be

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Speaker 1: Brother's Wife, my wife dot com. Anyway, I don't know what,

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Speaker 1: but fuck town you guys live in. But I'm really

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Speaker 1: sorry that this is happening, and I really hope you

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Speaker 1: tell the whole off. Check us out next Wednesday for

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Speaker 1: more You've Got Decisions and check out Jacob's podcast, Just

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Speaker 3: Nope, on my way No, I did yes on my own,

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