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Speaker 2: Bam, what just one mill a second ago you were

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. What are you talking about, John?

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Speaker 2: Are you gas lamping me?

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Speaker 1: John? Is your memory acting up again? I knew it?

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Speaker 1: So moving day? Am I the a hole? Says My

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Speaker 1: But girlfriend's lease is up at the end of April,

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Speaker 1: Joe currently lives in a studio apartment, so he doesn't

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Speaker 1: have room for all her stuff, so they were going

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Speaker 2: I don't like where this is sating.

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Speaker 1: I'm sensing a little thing called.

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Speaker 2: I see you ah in the comment you.

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Speaker 1: So think gold I see you. A little over a

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Speaker 1: month ago, Joe had asked my wife if we would

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Speaker 1: My mother in law was supposed to watch her son

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Speaker 1: How much are you paying your babysitters? Yeah, I guess well,

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Speaker 1: I mean on you, and bringing a four year old

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Speaker 2: That you Hey, hey, Sophia, Hey, you know me I have.

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Speaker 2: I'm just so lousy at putting together this whole dinner

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Speaker 2: tragically terrible. You know how to cook. You know how

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Speaker 2: because you know how to cook. We don't know how

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Speaker 2: We're entitled to that, aren't we.

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Speaker 2: Wrong, absolutely wrong, unacceptable, unacceptable, unacceptable, and do better, do better,

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Speaker 2: quite frankly, John, quite frankly, you're right, Hey, me, do better?

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Speaker 1: Me from the past, do better. Rewind this video, do better.

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Speaker 2: You know what, I'm gonna kick myself out.

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Speaker 1: Now that we have that negative energy out of the studio,

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Speaker 1: I can keep reading this story. I told her that

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Speaker 1: She said she would be bringing her sons since her

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Speaker 1: So Opie's wife was like, Hey, my sister and her

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Speaker 1: This is your sister. And she was like, let's compromise

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Speaker 1: And wouldn't you know Joe never got a U haul

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Speaker 1: all the reasons I had to be pissed off. She volunteered.

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Speaker 1: No, OPI's definitely not the a whole if that was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Opie, his wife is the whole. Opie's wife is

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything wrong now with going around

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Speaker 2: no worries, We're going to figure it out. There's nothing

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Speaker 1: Someone teering someone else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, saying well, I've got a strong man right here,

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Speaker 2: He can do it, he can the hockey game. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because what he said he wanted them to do

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Speaker 2: At a minimum, the proper equipment you have to not

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Speaker 2: maybe not have to have, but like we'll make it

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Speaker 2: if Riley was was helping me move a sectional super quick. Okay,

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Speaker 2: story time, I'm pissed at him. We got this giant

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Speaker 2: It's who fully like over leg length, like you can

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Speaker 3: You can have four people sprawl out on that thing straight.

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Speaker 2: No, not really really when I think about any Well.

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Speaker 2: I remember so much eating in the courtyard, eating pizza,

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Speaker 2: My husband is out of town right now. His mom, however,

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Speaker 1: They been weed with the d GEN friends.

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Speaker 2: That's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: She's all my kids.

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Speaker 2: She's always vapor, always vaping everywhere. Something I can't see

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Speaker 2: Oh god, the reefa. But it's digital. I took away

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Speaker 1: Because computer, that's like, that's the main source.

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Speaker 2: Of everything online. You gotta like you gotta find another punishment, yeah,

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Speaker 2: oky Loki. My mother in law, Helen is usually a

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Speaker 2: She countered with the fact that she raised four children,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was sut to say. I was like, does

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Speaker 2: Dude, Honestly, smartphones and just like all all the stuff

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Speaker 1: I don't think I'm gonna have like iPads in my head.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but like having like a phone in a computer.

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Speaker 2: But honestly, by the time we have kids, it might

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Speaker 2: then you can't take it away. Here's what it could be.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna shut off your brain if you.

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Speaker 3: Straight to the dome.

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Speaker 2: But mom silenced. My daughter came into the room while

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Speaker 2: I'm leaving. Helen said that none of her kids ever

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Speaker 1: She must be God's gift to humanity.

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Speaker 2: WHOA, that's that's crazy? That is I asked her if

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Speaker 2: Your bluff, granny, She said, go for it. You think

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Speaker 1: He's actually great. I love that response because her daughter

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Speaker 1: the Grandma's like I could do better, and she's.

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, perfect, go ahead. Babysitter Tarama jumped at the

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Speaker 2: I drove her to Helen's house and said I would

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Speaker 2: grandma is going to crack under the Yeah. No, definitely,

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Speaker 2: the grandma doesn't know what it's like to raise a

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Speaker 1: That grandma doesn't know what it's like to raise a

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Speaker 2: That's right, is vap and weed vape in the Devil's lettuce.

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Speaker 2: I dropped her off on Saturday three days ago. Helen

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Speaker 1: I thought you were a better mom.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were literally the greatest mom on ears

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Speaker 2: worst mother ever. Sorry, Opie says, I can't. My son

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Speaker 2: hate these city slickers rally.

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Speaker 3: They don't really understand.

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Speaker 2: We know she hates the farm, going out by the farm,

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Speaker 2: she hates the farm.

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Speaker 3: She hates the slicker What good times are? Really?

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Speaker 1: They don't have wi fi at the farm.

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Speaker 3: You want to have fun, go shut corn.

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Speaker 1: Check corn. That don't get your you going.

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Speaker 3: You want to have fun, go pick green beans?

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Speaker 2: Hard work. That's why these girl needs handy crush. What

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Speaker 1: Back in mind, I was never smoking smoking weed. I

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Speaker 3: I was out there at the woodstoves, the wooden breaking

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Speaker 2: I was chewing tobacca.

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Speaker 1: I didn't have Djen and friends. I had cows.

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Speaker 2: The cows are my friends back of the day, and

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Speaker 1: They followed me everywhere until it was time.

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Speaker 2: And they were delicious. My parents are also the last

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Speaker 2: people on earth with dial up internet. Dude, there you go.

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Speaker 2: Now we're talking.

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Speaker 3: Remember that.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know. I thought you could get me.

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Speaker 2: You thought you got me, John right now. My son

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Speaker 2: It's a little early yet for fowls. Who knows bowls

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Speaker 2: like a horse?

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Speaker 1: Full thoul was a bird.

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Speaker 2: I'm allergic. I'm allergic to horses, so I wouldn't know

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Speaker 2: anything about that. Horrible okay, Oh my and my mom

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you should have taken allergy medication.

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Speaker 3: You got shots, dog.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I took shots all of my life.

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Speaker 2: Shaming me. Yeah, I would, I would now, I would

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Speaker 2: now I would now. Helen asked me to please please

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Speaker 2: He called me and I told him what was going on.

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Speaker 2: He said that if his mom had asked for it,

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Speaker 2: There we go, stay by lady. I also fielded calls

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Speaker 2: without suggesting I go get her.

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Speaker 1: Nice.

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Speaker 2: Tamara and Helen each have the reasons for thinking I

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Speaker 2: Am I the a hole? So is that saying they

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Speaker 1: And yeah, maybe she's just like, yeah, like, I don't

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Speaker 2: well let's let's answer the question. So first, is Opie

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 2: And why?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? No? Because the grandmother said she wanted to take

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Speaker 2: It's a match. Yeah, you guys both think I'm a

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Speaker 1: Go go for it, got far for it.

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Speaker 2: Have freaking have a freaking blast. Yeah. And do we

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Speaker 1: I think she's like a kid, a whole kid a hole. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: There's like it's the degree. We really got to get

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Speaker 2: the official like degrees of a whole.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh she got degree, but she got charged as a

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying a whole. Juvy Grandma Helen, she's an ale,

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Speaker 2: she's an a whole. She's gonna charge I'd be a

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Speaker 2: better mother than you. That's crazy. Yeah, come on, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: what are we doing here? Like I and you know,

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Speaker 2: I can empathize if you're like, Okay, I have a

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Speaker 1: That's different.

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Speaker 2: That's totally different. It's like, this is your responsibility. But

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Speaker 2: also you're like, uh, you you can parent your child

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Speaker 1: Yeah. In this case, it was like the grandma saying, hey,

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Speaker 2: Of t I'm better than you, Yeah, I can do

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Speaker 1: And I said, okay, you are watching her for this

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, be my guest. But you know who else

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Speaker 1: Who is our guests?

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Speaker 2: These people who drop these relevant comments a little bit funny,

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Speaker 2: twenty one says, not the ahole, Oh I cackled, this

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Speaker 2: is delicious. No, mother in law, you cannot undermine Opie's

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Speaker 2: parenting and then what's out enjoy your vacation. Then please

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Speaker 2: get your daughter evaluated or consider family therapy since this

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Speaker 2: level of problems sounds a bit excessive, and the fact

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Speaker 2: that your daughter is messing with drugs vaping is can

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Speaker 2: be a bad path. She needs professional guidance to come

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Speaker 2: back from. I will say I don't know if I

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Speaker 2: agree with that. I think this just might be just

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Speaker 2: being a teenager.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I will say that I knew people in freshman

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Speaker 1: year of high school who were vaping, which would have

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Speaker 1: been like fifteens.

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Speaker 2: Though, yeah, like I'm not And let me let me

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Speaker 2: refresh my memory a little bit on what Tammer's been doing.

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Speaker 2: So she's not doing her chores, it makes life harder

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Speaker 2: for her and her little brother. All she does is

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Speaker 2: argue she's vaping.

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Speaker 1: I feel like maybe there could be something going on.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's like medically evaluated something. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I mean better safe than sorry.

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Speaker 2: I guess they're it. Like, like I kind of feel like,

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Speaker 2: it's what are they yelling at you? If they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you're so annoying, door slam, Okay, this is just just

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Speaker 2: being a teen and whatever. Else. If she's like, like,

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Speaker 2: if it goes, if it's several like levels up from

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Speaker 2: that and it's constant and it's literally never anything civil,

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Speaker 2: then possibly I think it's possible. But I just from

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Speaker 2: what we've read so far, it's not super clear to

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Speaker 2: me that it's at that level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't think so quite yet.

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Speaker 2: And the like in the vaping come on, yeah, come on,

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Speaker 2: it's the kids will be will be doing to be

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Speaker 2: doing the things.

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Speaker 1: No, like so many kids, I don't think it's good.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, we're not saying it's good kids. Yeah, but

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Speaker 2: like a lot of people go through these little phases

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Speaker 2: and whatever and it's it's it's really not a big deal.

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Speaker 2: It's part of being a teenage or whatever. Doodling in

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Speaker 2: my opinion, Doodling Zebra says, agreed, I agree with all

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Speaker 2: the comments that mom is not the ahole, which is

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Speaker 2: op and totally sympathize with what a nightmare situation she's

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Speaker 2: in and what a nightmare parenting can be as a whole.

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Speaker 2: But I feel like Tamor's best interest are being left

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Speaker 2: out of the conversation a little. It sounds like she

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Speaker 2: needs some kind of help. So what I will say is,

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Speaker 2: like we always say on this podcast, go get therapy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like therapy couldn't hurt.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because like I think everyone, to me, therapy is

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Speaker 2: not like oh my god, like I'm not going to

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Speaker 2: go to the doctor until my leg is broken and

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Speaker 2: sticking straight up. It's like, hey, you know, I could

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Speaker 2: use some improvement and I want to learn more about myself,

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Speaker 2: and like just it's like going to see a nutritionist.

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Speaker 2: Like everyone can do a little better in their new

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Speaker 2: atrician and can you know, and can get some support.

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Speaker 2: Everyone deserves a little support. So like I would, it

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Speaker 2: sounds like Tamra would probably shoot down the idea of therapy.

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Speaker 2: I know, is is therapy cool to the kids these days?

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Speaker 1: I think?

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Speaker 2: So? I think so right, that's that's what I think.

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Speaker 2: So I would uh offer that and uh see if

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Speaker 2: she takes it, maybe that helps.

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Speaker 1: I think I think it could help. I think any

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Speaker 1: I think any sort of therapy is always a good

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Speaker 1: idea if you if you're sensing your no, your your

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Speaker 1: team becoming wiley.

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Speaker 2: You know what, Sophia, I agree, I do not disagree,

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Speaker 2: and I also agree that if you love us, you

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Speaker 2: should make sure to subscribe we love you and say tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. Time

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Speaker 2: for okop rewlash. My wife and I found a strange

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Speaker 2: man in our bed.

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Speaker 4: Dang so I'm literally s and in a public parking

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Speaker 4: lot right now with an angry sea than a wife.

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Speaker 4: Bad place to be. We decided to use Airbnb for

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Speaker 4: the first time while on a one day trip to

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Speaker 4: Kona to see a volcano. Where's ConA, I actually Hawaii? Okay,

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Speaker 4: that makes sense. We informed the host that would be

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Speaker 4: at arriving late, and he responded that it wouldn't be

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Speaker 4: a problem and gave us instructions for the self check in. Also,

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Speaker 4: the self check in sometimes with Airbnb sucks.

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Speaker 2: Yes.

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Speaker 4: When we arrived, he followed the instructions and entered in

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Speaker 4: the code to open the door and two hour.

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Speaker 2: Shock, someone was sleeping in the room. That's not what

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Speaker 2: you want to see.

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Speaker 4: He was as shocked as eye since he was sound

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Speaker 4: asleep when we opened the door. He apologized quickly closed

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Speaker 4: the door and went to look for the host. We

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Speaker 4: found sound asleep as well. We woke him up and

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Speaker 4: he started mumbling excuses about how the other person showed

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Speaker 4: up first so they got to book the room. He

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Speaker 4: then admitted to us they had accidentally double booked the

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Speaker 4: room on bookings dot com and offered us to crash

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Speaker 4: in his living room. When asked why he didn't tell

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Speaker 4: us earlier that he'd double booked it, he said, half

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Speaker 4: the people don't show up. My wife lost it, starts

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Speaker 4: yelling at the guy, and I can tell things are

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Speaker 4: going south, so I grab her to leave. All while

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Speaker 4: she's like yelling, so he's like just pulling her away.

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Speaker 4: We call Airbnb and get transferred to some help desk

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Speaker 4: in India and the guy asked if we want to

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Speaker 4: cancel the booking. At this point, I'm pissed and asked

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Speaker 4: if he was serious. He says he has to ask

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Speaker 4: and offers to refund the costs of the room and

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Speaker 4: give us a sixty dollars credit for a stay somewhere else.

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Speaker 4: We tried calling around to the other hotels and they're

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Speaker 4: completely booked. This host had seven hundred views and everything

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Speaker 4: looked on the up and up. Wow, and now we're

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Speaker 4: sleeping in our rental car for the night.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, that's absolutely insane.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, shitty airbnb hosts. Man. I love how they're both

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Speaker 4: sleeping though, But it's also like the happen that could

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Speaker 4: happen because I remember my Airbnb, Like, the key's just

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Speaker 4: under the mat.

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Speaker 2: A lot of these places we under the mat where

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Speaker 2: it's like, all right, here's this like twelve like here's

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Speaker 2: the twelve forests that you have to go through the

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Speaker 2: sea of swirly toorly gum.

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Speaker 4: Drops, And it's under the rock next to the nome.

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Speaker 4: If the gnome is facing south, you know you've gone

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Speaker 4: to the right place.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 4: Also, if you have a crazy story, go to our

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Speaker 4: subreddit r slash okop Show and submit your story.

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Speaker 2: We want to hear it, baby,