1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,239 Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot. 3 00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: They call me loupey, I'll be your new day. They 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 2: want to swell like me, they want my boo ku, 5 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: but they can't. They accented like the UK turn out 6 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 2: Oudei loupelpew went to pews pray uh flagrantly fragrant, and 7 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 2: they can't escape it. My perfew pursued them everywhere that 8 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 2: they went. And you don't want to lone leave my 9 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 2: colone alone. It's a little too strong for you to 10 00:00:27,240 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 2: be putting it on. Trust me and say this justly. 11 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,840 Speaker 2: I want it from Musty the musky, and y'all can't 12 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 2: mush me. I warn y'all cornballs, I hush puppies. The 13 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 2: swan in the pond called my duck ugly, but now 14 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,080 Speaker 2: they hug me cause it's lovely. 15 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 3: They love the aroma of aroma of the world. 16 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 2: Got the shakers and the skaters and the players and 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 2: the girls, keep the fakers and the flakers and the 18 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 2: haters in the twirld. Hey, welcome to the Blackoutes podcast 19 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: with your host Rod and Karen. We're in the house 20 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:02,959 Speaker 2: on Saturday morning. Means the Saturday morning feedback time. Uh, 21 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 2: that's what we respond to all the five star reviews 22 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 2: you guys left on iTunes and Stitcher. 23 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:08,199 Speaker 3: We have both this week. 24 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:13,679 Speaker 2: We also read all your comments that you left on 25 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: the website, play your voicemail as long as a three 26 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 2: minutes or less, and we read your emails. So that's 27 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 2: all the stuff that we do today to you know, 28 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 2: to really celebrate you guys, uh hooking us up. And 29 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 2: also it's a special treat. We have a bunch of 30 00:01:32,160 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 2: people that left us gifts from our Amazon wish list, 31 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 2: and people send us cards and stuff to the mailbox, 32 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:44,320 Speaker 2: so like we're gonna read all that stuff to as well, 33 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: so you know, you guys make it, make it awesome. 34 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 2: Of course, the first people we need to get props 35 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,320 Speaker 2: too are the people that donated to the show. 36 00:01:55,600 --> 00:02:08,639 Speaker 3: I went to high school with a recession depression. She's 37 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:09,519 Speaker 3: a pretty cool person. 38 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: David asked recurring donation, Thank you very much, David, Film 39 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,960 Speaker 2: Press Comics recurring donator, Well appreciate you. 40 00:02:18,200 --> 00:02:18,679 Speaker 1: Yes we do. 41 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 2: Swe got a one time donation from Brittany, who says 42 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:22,959 Speaker 2: Ryan and Karen, Merry. 43 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 3: Christmas, Happy Kwanza. I wish I could give y'all more. 44 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: But with all this Christmas shopping, I'm not gonna be 45 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 2: able to pay my bills. Thanks for everything you do 46 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 2: and the lovely holiday card I got in the. 47 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:34,919 Speaker 1: Mail, Brittany, Thank you, sweetie. 48 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 2: Well I'll tell you this, Brittany, if you can't pay 49 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 2: your bills but you still gave money to us, then 50 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 2: that's that's what. That's all I could ask for. You know, 51 00:02:44,400 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 2: I don't care if your kids got a roof over 52 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:50,000 Speaker 2: their head. I don't care if your kids don't get presents. 53 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 2: I don't care if he's not on in January. You 54 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 2: just send us the money, okay, because you know it's 55 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 2: gonna get hood the youth over here that didn't need 56 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 2: some new nineties, all right, Pete B says the current donation. 57 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 2: Hit us with the cord donations, steaky, Pete. Anthony van 58 00:03:06,400 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 2: de with the recurrent donation. Will appreciate you, Anthony, our 59 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 2: girl of course film underscore Esquire Olivia. She hooked us 60 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 2: up with the recurrent donation. Rnate hit us up with 61 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: that recurrent donation, Thank you very much. Joseph J recurrent 62 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: donator and he's a brand new recurrent donator. 63 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:26,040 Speaker 1: Thank you. Welcome to the fold. 64 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 3: That means you will be in the new members class. 65 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 2: Cot BONMANI Joanes part of Holly Questionable he he sending 66 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 2: another recurrent donation. 67 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: Man, thank you very much both. Cary G. Recurrent donator, 68 00:03:42,640 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Cary. 69 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 2: Riada may C recurrent donator, Jamar D recurring donator Naz 70 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 2: that's new niggas new. 71 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 3: Or Jamar Jamar's new? Right? I never, I don't know both. 72 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 3: Y'all might be yeah. Sometimes he doesn't tell me if 73 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 3: you knew or not, But recurrent donators either way, Thank you. 74 00:04:04,080 --> 00:04:07,680 Speaker 2: Pada Piata. I hope I pronounced that right. Recurrent donator. 75 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 3: I believe she's now. I don't think I said her 76 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 3: name for it uh. 77 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 2: Kenneth Right saying with his one time donation, Dark Gable 78 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 2: from Minneapolis New listening to your podcast and I'm really 79 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 2: enjoying your show. 80 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 3: Thank you, We appreciate you. 81 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:22,240 Speaker 1: Thank you, sweetie. 82 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 3: Damien Jackson, I am for real sent. 83 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 2: Us a special donation with a message what's up, fam, 84 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 2: Just hitting y'all up to say thanks for being here 85 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 2: and being a needed, needed distraction from a monster year 86 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 2: I lost family, baby Bro and first cousin. 87 00:04:38,480 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 3: Damn Man I feel I lost my grandma this year. 88 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 3: You know. 89 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: The shows a distraction for me as well. Man, Like 90 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 2: sometimes you just need to laugh and to release, you know. 91 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 2: And I gained family a baby boy, Ari Jordan all congratulations. 92 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 3: But the one constant thing was this podcast. You prolific 93 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: b uh. I think I think it cut him off 94 00:05:05,400 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 3: thinking of it to say like b whatever, like be 95 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,799 Speaker 3: well or something. 96 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: Oh he must hit whatever the cap limit there was, 97 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: Ellen Yeah, paper. 98 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 3: La Monica B. 99 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 2: Recurrent donator Rock from the Black Ashinout's podcast. Thank you, Sweetie, 100 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 2: Larry B. Recurrent donator, Connor Kay, Jason J. It's a 101 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 2: brand new recurring donator, Thank you, Jason J. Jonathan B. 102 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 2: Recurrent donator, Asia D Yes a D Candice H. 103 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 3: Justin J so like I just said his name. Uh, movies, music, 104 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 3: books and such. Recurrent donation. 105 00:05:47,640 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 1: Thank you. 106 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 3: Chrishelle M recurring donator. Got a one time donation. 107 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: From Jeremy uh W who says happy Holidays for the 108 00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 2: book from the Wilsons. Also, thank you Angelie for putting 109 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 2: up with me for these last six years. Love you, 110 00:06:01,440 --> 00:06:08,039 Speaker 2: angel Happy anniversary. Oh what and that's the last one? 111 00:06:09,839 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 3: That is awesome? 112 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:12,720 Speaker 1: Man? 113 00:06:14,600 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: You guys play me out, Kirk. People say the chapters 114 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 3: don't want you to be happy. I think you gotta 115 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 3: have something that happened. I want you to have joy 116 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:45,400 Speaker 3: because can't nobody to kick that. Then that's the first 117 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:51,000 Speaker 3: time we all played the entire song. All right, we 118 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 3: ain't go bullet bowl and bulletball extream. That's right and 119 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 3: unofficial the official weapon. That's right. 120 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 2: All right, So now everybody happy. We're all on the 121 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 2: same page, yes sir, all right, let's see. Let's start 122 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 2: with the five star reviews. Okay, we got some on 123 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 2: iTunes and we got some on Stitcher. 124 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: Let's do this. Thanks everybody to send us to Christmas. 125 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 3: Itune reviews one. 126 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 2: Of my favorite podcasts by Nicky Or I don't know 127 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 2: if she wants to say last name or not. She says, 128 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 2: I just started listening to this podcast about three months ago, 129 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 2: kicking myself for not discovering it earlier, and now it's 130 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 2: one of my fas. I love Rider Carri's discussions on 131 00:07:30,920 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 2: social issues and what's going on in the world of entertainment. 132 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 3: I especially love that Walking Dead recap episodes. 133 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 2: If you haven't watched the episode of Walking Down to 134 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 2: Day in your Life, listening to their recast makes you 135 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 2: want to go and watch the show Riding Camp. 136 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 3: Please keep you up the great work. We shall yes, 137 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 3: thank you, and y'all continue to send us these these reviews. 138 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 3: Man Karen tell them how to leave a five star 139 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 3: review on Itunese live. 140 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: A fole star review on to use any iOS device. 141 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:04,320 Speaker 1: Taping the black guy who tips up in the top 142 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 1: left hand corner. You'll see some stars. Click on it 143 00:08:06,840 --> 00:08:10,800 Speaker 1: and write us a review. We don't care what it says. 144 00:08:11,960 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: Put of this. We do care what this is. I 145 00:08:14,960 --> 00:08:17,800 Speaker 1: take that back. You can write whatever you want to write, 146 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,520 Speaker 1: but if it's not five stars and we don't approve 147 00:08:20,520 --> 00:08:23,040 Speaker 1: of the message, we won't read it. So you can 148 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: leave five stars. But if it's some shit that we 149 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 1: don't approve what, we won't read it. I want to 150 00:08:29,440 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 1: tell everybody thank you for leaving us five stars. We 151 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,120 Speaker 1: just continue to do that. If you do not have 152 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 1: an iOS device, download iTunes to your computer, create an account, 153 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 1: leave us a five star review. Not only leave us 154 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: a five star review, leave your other favorite podcasts a 155 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:49,439 Speaker 1: five star review that are on iTunes. Because if read 156 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: it really helps, it helps guys more than you will 157 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: know from our standpoint. It helps us in the rankings 158 00:08:56,200 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 1: to rankings, it helps us hit their list, it helps 159 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,400 Speaker 1: other peoples find us. Is help because you know, it 160 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:03,319 Speaker 1: helped spread the word because they use this in the 161 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: algorithm when they kind of determine who gets wear on 162 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,120 Speaker 1: their site and stuff like that. So I just want 163 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 1: to tell everybody thank you and continue to leave us 164 00:09:11,559 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: five star reviews. And I know that there's some people 165 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,720 Speaker 1: out there that's being lazy. You got what a few 166 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: more days in twenty fifteen, get on. 167 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 2: It, do it making your new Year's resolution before the 168 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 2: new year starts. Yes, you probably made it your new 169 00:09:25,800 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 2: Year's resolution for this year, and you still got a 170 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 2: few more days to do it. And this you do, 171 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 2: Ball Alert and sword Ratching is five stars by piece 172 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 2: of the hut. 173 00:09:33,480 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 3: It's like black people therapy. That's all you need to 174 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:38,559 Speaker 3: know at good point. 175 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 1: Thank you. 176 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 2: I loved it from Ariana from atl who says I've 177 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:46,199 Speaker 2: been listening to this podcast since the summer and someone in. 178 00:09:46,160 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 3: The group said, can will kick my ass? 179 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: While I didn't leave a review, I love singing along 180 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: the guests the race and the ball Alert theme sounds. 181 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 3: Keep up the great work. Thank you, Thank you and 182 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:57,640 Speaker 3: I can. 183 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 2: I literally cannot remember so one totally one from another 184 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 2: area this show. 185 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 3: Uh okay, yeah, I straight up can't remember guys. Sorry, 186 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 3: but we did have some from Stitcher or stitcher dot com, 187 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 3: so we had two. 188 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 2: Style Nash says five stars. I love this show. I've 189 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 2: been listening to roder Cairn for a year now, and 190 00:10:24,280 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 2: I have to say The Blackout Tips is my go 191 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,000 Speaker 2: to podcast. Knowing how hard it can be to pick 192 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 2: a good podcast and give it a chance, I compile 193 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 2: the top five reasons why you should check it out 194 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: check out this show. 195 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,839 Speaker 3: One this husband and wife team are hilarious. 196 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 2: They cover all of the craziness in the news in 197 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: an informative way that's also laugh out loud funny. 198 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 3: Two these hosts make you think. 199 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 2: You may not always agree with them, but you'll you'll 200 00:10:46,040 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 2: appreciate the discussion and you'll definitely be taking back like 201 00:10:50,480 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 2: Rod and Karen are speaking directly to you. Three they 202 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:57,320 Speaker 2: have great consistent content. The Blackout Tips is on Saturday 203 00:10:57,320 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 2: through Wednesday. This podcast can get you through a whole 204 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 2: week your crazy job, that is true. 205 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 3: Four they bring you out on amazing guests. 206 00:11:05,480 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 2: Rdan caron Our Avid Podcast listeners themselves, and they generously 207 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 2: introduce their audience to the shows they listen to, and 208 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 2: you'll learn about all the other good shows that you've 209 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: been missing. And last and not least, Rider Karron are 210 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 2: genuinely good people. If you're looking for a smart, witty, 211 00:11:18,520 --> 00:11:20,959 Speaker 2: thought brooking show to listen to, the Blackout Tips is 212 00:11:20,960 --> 00:11:21,959 Speaker 2: the podcast for you. 213 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 3: Wow, that's such a great review. Thank you like that. 214 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:29,560 Speaker 2: I feel like if I was just someone clicking on this, 215 00:11:29,720 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 2: like what should I you know? 216 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 3: Boom? This is right here in my face. 217 00:11:33,679 --> 00:11:37,800 Speaker 2: Adrian Ten says five stars News pop Culture, The Blackout 218 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 2: Tists is everything. 219 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 3: Need your news with a dos of comedy. 220 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:45,040 Speaker 2: Wants to learn about other awesome podcasts, want a community. 221 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 3: This podcast does all that and more. 222 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: With five free episodes every week and more if you 223 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 2: become a Premium member, The Blackout Tips will provide you 224 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 2: with as much content as you can handle. Warning, only 225 00:11:54,920 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 2: listen to public if you don't mind busting out in 226 00:11:56,920 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 2: the laughter and getting strange looks. 227 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 3: That's true. I was listening to the show myself the 228 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 3: other day and I was laughing and I was like, 229 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,199 Speaker 3: I said that, you know what I mean. 230 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 2: It's like like we were right here, and when that 231 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: was said, I was laughing at this stuff. Karen was 232 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 2: saying this stuff because I was going back and I 233 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,439 Speaker 2: had to listen to a certain segment of the show 234 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: because some troll l ass email or emailed us being 235 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:25,360 Speaker 2: like you said this, this and this, and I think 236 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 2: it was just the same troll dude, like either the 237 00:12:28,400 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 2: anonymous dude or you know, one of the m R 238 00:12:31,240 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 2: type dudes you know that emailed us. And I wouldn't 239 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 2: listen because I knew he didn't say what he said 240 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 2: we said anyway, but I wouldn't listen anyway, you know, 241 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 2: just because I like to be sure, like you know, 242 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:44,800 Speaker 2: and I listened, I'm like that that's not what the 243 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: fuck we said. And I was like I caught myself 244 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:49,679 Speaker 2: listening to like an extra like ten minutes. 245 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 3: Because I was just like, Oh, these people are these 246 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:52,280 Speaker 3: guys are good. 247 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,079 Speaker 1: And I was like, Oh, that's us, this. 248 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,160 Speaker 3: Is these people are hilarious. I should listen. I should 249 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 3: subscribe today for right. I was like, Oh, that's that's 250 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 3: us on that on that's that's on the radio. So uh, anyway, 251 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 3: I just thought that was uh, neither here nor there, 252 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 3: just kind of a cool moment. All right, let's do 253 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 3: the website. 254 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 2: Oh wait, no, let's do the people who sent us 255 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 2: stuff that now, yeah, why not? Okay, all right, so 256 00:13:22,760 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 2: people sent us stuff, we wanted to shout them out. 257 00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 1: And before you start, okay, when people send them, some 258 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: people actually had little things that had their names and 259 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: some people didn't. So if we left you out, it 260 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,840 Speaker 1: wasn't no purpose, just because when we received it, it 261 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: didn't tell us who exactly sent it. So I want 262 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: everybody to know. We thank everybody. So if you know 263 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:45,480 Speaker 1: you sent something, some people almost sent it like almost 264 00:13:45,480 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: like a secret Santa. So we because we didn't turn 265 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,880 Speaker 1: anything on to notify us who. 266 00:13:49,760 --> 00:13:51,640 Speaker 2: Sent Yeah, some of y'all might not wanted us to know. 267 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:52,960 Speaker 2: I don't know if that was an option. 268 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 3: But for those who said, like gift, the thing that 269 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 3: tells you, like this is a gift from so and so, 270 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:01,400 Speaker 3: we're going to read that. Also, we got so much shit. 271 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 1: Y'all got a lot of ship. 272 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 3: It was crazy, like we've been. 273 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:05,840 Speaker 2: Saying it all week, because you know, we had all 274 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 2: those boxes, but like really gave us stuff that I mean, 275 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: it was just crazy, man, Like, like I said, I 276 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: was about to cry up in here. 277 00:14:15,559 --> 00:14:18,679 Speaker 1: We at like midnight. I wanted to wait. I wanted 278 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:20,520 Speaker 1: to you know, act like I had a commiss like 279 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 1: a like a like a reasonable and dope and wait 280 00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: till the sun came up. I was like, fuck it, 281 00:14:24,760 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 1: I'm grown, I'm not a kid. I ain't got to 282 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:27,640 Speaker 1: wait till midnight. 283 00:14:27,960 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 3: I know, I can't wait to drink out of my 284 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:33,120 Speaker 3: hornets cup. Anyway, let's talk about it. 285 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 2: A gift for you, Rod and Karen, thanks for providing 286 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 2: endless hours of joy. 287 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 3: You guys are my friends in my head. Have a 288 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 3: very merry Christmas. 289 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:42,400 Speaker 1: Love. 290 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 2: Ashley and Ashley sent us this zoom h one handy 291 00:14:47,560 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 2: portal digital digital recorder. 292 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 3: And this also helps the podcast because. 293 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 2: One time sometimes when we go on like you know, 294 00:14:57,360 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 2: like we go to say a conference or we go 295 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 2: to you know, we have different culinary events here where 296 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 2: you know, you can go up there and like talk 297 00:15:05,720 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 2: to the people who are making the food and stuff. 298 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 2: And we would like to be able to record those things, 299 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 2: you know, not on like an iPhone, but on like 300 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 2: an actual professional recording right because. 301 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 1: It looks better. I know, you know, you could do 302 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: your iPhone YadA, YadA YadA, but you know, we want 303 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:22,040 Speaker 1: to be as professional as possible, you know, because that 304 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: actually makes a difference, because you know, when you look 305 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: at people from like a large news organization, they don't 306 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: hold a fucking iPhone in your face. They actually hold 307 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:30,120 Speaker 1: a microphone. 308 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 2: I mean some do, but I'm just saying, like the 309 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:39,560 Speaker 2: sound quality and then also just the professionalism of it, 310 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 2: it's just much better when you can do this. So 311 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,760 Speaker 2: it'll actually go to helping the show man. We can 312 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:46,600 Speaker 2: help hopefully do some own location interviews for some of 313 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:49,200 Speaker 2: our spin off shows and stuff. So thank you very much, 314 00:15:49,240 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 2: Ashley Man. You really you helped us out in the show. 315 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 3: Ebony. Oh this one nothing to say. 316 00:15:56,080 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: What it was? Hold on, I think I got them. 317 00:15:58,240 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, it's another room. 318 00:15:59,520 --> 00:16:02,680 Speaker 3: You want to say, Okay, all right, all right, so 319 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 3: I'll go to another person. Uh uh yeah, some mirror. 320 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 3: Speaking of the speaking of them glasses though, like send 321 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 3: us some Charlotte Horners glasses, some drinking glasses. 322 00:16:15,560 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 2: Them joints was fire too. They like I picked them up. 323 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 2: They like had some good weight to them. You know, 324 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:23,720 Speaker 2: like sometimes like in the dollar store, you see like 325 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 2: a big ass glass and you're like, I do I'm 326 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 2: gonna drink out this, and then you looked it up. 327 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 2: It's like as light as plastic because it's made out 328 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 2: of light cheap glass that you know was it's like 329 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 2: slave glass, like the slave shrump, and you know. 330 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 3: You have to drink out of it, and you're like, 331 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 3: I can't even put this in the dishwasher because it's 332 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:44,640 Speaker 3: gonna melt. So but nah, this is like really good 333 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 3: quality stuff. So we know we appreciate it. You know. 334 00:16:48,880 --> 00:16:50,440 Speaker 3: Let's see what else we got here. We got some 335 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 3: cards as well. Merry Christmas and uh wait, I can't 336 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 3: even read this signature. 337 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 2: It just says wishing you a wonderful, funderful second to 338 00:17:05,040 --> 00:17:06,040 Speaker 2: none before Christmas. 339 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:09,920 Speaker 3: Marry Christmas, Karen A. Rod And if you can read this, 340 00:17:10,080 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 3: thank you for sending this to us. Uh squiggly lined 341 00:17:13,880 --> 00:17:18,080 Speaker 3: long long circle. All right, thank you very much. Uh 342 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 3: uh Karen this one? Then this is actually what our 343 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:27,800 Speaker 3: This is actually from my friend Christian agent Christian. Guys 344 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 3: know I mask oh okay, well yeah, I don't know 345 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 3: how I'm gonna match these up, Karen, so I'll just 346 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,359 Speaker 3: have to tell people what they said. I and Karen 347 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:39,880 Speaker 3: may have accidentally ripped them off. 348 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:42,440 Speaker 1: And no, no, that said, if some of them came 349 00:17:42,480 --> 00:17:44,959 Speaker 1: along like that, and then some of them will actually separated. 350 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right, so I apologize. 351 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:51,919 Speaker 2: Cary got some Barber sponge brush for twist calls and dreads. 352 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 1: I like those. 353 00:17:53,080 --> 00:17:55,240 Speaker 2: M we started using them immediately, and they got like 354 00:17:55,240 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 2: a whole set, not just one. 355 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 3: I thought, you get one. 356 00:17:57,720 --> 00:17:59,959 Speaker 1: I ripped my head twelve o'clock at night. 357 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 3: Uh. Karen got a Panthers women's jerseys car. 358 00:18:04,440 --> 00:18:06,120 Speaker 1: Yes, and I love it. And it got a little 359 00:18:06,119 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: pocket in it. I was like, oh shit. 360 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 2: Now Karen got a Bluetooth portable wireless audio adapted for 361 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:14,639 Speaker 2: the car, you know, so you can listen to your 362 00:18:14,640 --> 00:18:17,560 Speaker 2: podcast and stuff on the go which in your car 363 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:19,440 Speaker 2: through your phone with. 364 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 3: Like a Bluetooth thing you put it into like the 365 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: audio port. I had one in my car for a while. 366 00:18:23,400 --> 00:18:23,560 Speaker 1: Now. 367 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:25,840 Speaker 3: Karen's been very jealous. 368 00:18:26,119 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 1: Yes I have, so thank you because I have been 369 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 1: looking at him sideways and I've been doing the old 370 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 1: school thing, and I've been looking like m h. I 371 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 1: got Bluetooth on my phone. I want to I want 372 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,520 Speaker 1: to upgrade too, So I thank you for upgradeing me. 373 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 3: Karen got some Panthers dangle ear rings and carry on 374 00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 3: a lot of stuff. 375 00:18:46,680 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 1: Yes, I like my ear rings. I put them on 376 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,159 Speaker 1: immediately with my Star Wars shit and didn't give a 377 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 1: fuck it. They did match. 378 00:18:55,440 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 3: Let's see, we got this one from Teresa, who said, 379 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,880 Speaker 3: as Hey, Rody, Karen sees his greetings from the Great 380 00:19:02,920 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 3: White North. 381 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 2: I wanted to let you both know how much I 382 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:07,919 Speaker 2: appreciate you on your show. You make the world a 383 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 2: better place and your listeners better people by sharing your thoughts, 384 00:19:10,520 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 2: opinions and jokes with us. 385 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:13,440 Speaker 3: We can never thank you enough. 386 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 2: I donated some cash to the show to show my appreciation. 387 00:19:16,960 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 3: Keep being you, Teresa. PS, give my thanks to Justin two. 388 00:19:22,119 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 3: We shall do no such thing. 389 00:19:24,160 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 1: I don't I know. He don't count. 390 00:19:26,080 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 3: He don't need anymore any of you guys. The praise 391 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 3: is going to his head. Okay ah. 392 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 2: I hate to be the one to tell you, Hey, 393 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:35,640 Speaker 2: dear Rod and Karen, I love the show. You both 394 00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,040 Speaker 2: helped me get through a stressful deployment. I'm a single 395 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,360 Speaker 2: black man who aspires for the type of love. 396 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: You to have. 397 00:19:41,160 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 2: I hope you like the scarf and earrings. As a 398 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,159 Speaker 2: forty nine er, I feel like a trader. Keep up 399 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 2: the good word. So he's the one who got you 400 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:48,520 Speaker 2: to scarfing the earrings. 401 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:51,560 Speaker 1: Karen, Thank you, baby. I appreciated that hell out of him, 402 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 1: because for those of you that don't know, I have 403 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 1: been a Panthers fan since they first came here. And 404 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,600 Speaker 1: this was like back in ten ninety six ninety seven 405 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 1: running there and my mama bought me a Carolina's Panthers coat, 406 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: a starter coach. So say, I'm telling y'all my age 407 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,879 Speaker 1: and my mama took very very good care of this coach. 408 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,360 Speaker 1: She owed school, so she got a dry clean and everything. 409 00:20:14,680 --> 00:20:17,280 Speaker 1: So the coat is twenty something years old and it 410 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 1: looked fucking brand new. I love that coat. I now 411 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,360 Speaker 1: wear that coat every single winter. So dog, I'm trying 412 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:24,960 Speaker 1: to tell you, I'm getta rep that scarfoot when it 413 00:20:25,000 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 1: get cold, if it shit, if it gets cold, and 414 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:30,760 Speaker 1: put my earrings out and I'm gonna stuck on them 415 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:32,760 Speaker 1: and my coat out. So I thank you. 416 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 3: That gift will definitely get some were in tear. 417 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 2: He sure will did riding Karen. Oh, yeah, so his 418 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,959 Speaker 2: name is Mario. I didn't get to say his name. Mario. PS, 419 00:20:41,000 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 2: thank you for the gift that is the Facebook group, 420 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 2: Hey man, they are the gift that keeps on giving. Yes, 421 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:50,959 Speaker 2: they do, and keeps on twerking apparently. Yes, Marry Christmas. 422 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,920 Speaker 2: And this one has a big black center on it 423 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: with a big old bed to riding. Karen made the 424 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,080 Speaker 2: gentle gifts of the season. Fill your heart with joy, 425 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 2: with peace and joy, married Christmas, A Happy New Year 426 00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 2: from Keith. 427 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,200 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Keith. We appreciate you. 428 00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 2: All right, we got this one. Congrats Rider Karen on 429 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:13,200 Speaker 2: everything with the show. I hope these gifts will keep 430 00:21:13,280 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 2: y'all compensated. I'm so pumped for Whatston store for the 431 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 2: Blackout Tips twenty sixteen Stepan and he gave us some 432 00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 2: pretzels and. 433 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 3: Some boom farm Man so total. 434 00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,840 Speaker 2: Stud like little mushroom things that actually go inside of 435 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 2: your wine bottles and plug them, which is something that 436 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 2: we needed anyway because were alcoholics. 437 00:21:34,440 --> 00:21:34,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 438 00:21:34,720 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, and we look at it. You're like, we don't 439 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:38,920 Speaker 1: want this go flat? 440 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:43,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I already use one. Yeah, we got another one. 441 00:21:43,280 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 2: This one is from Tanya W who says Rod and 442 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 2: Karen wishing you a very merry Christmas and a happy 443 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 2: New Year to the two of my favorite people, to 444 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,280 Speaker 2: two of my favorite people in podcasting. Hope you enjoy 445 00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 2: the enclosed bagel spice. That's right, she sent us everything 446 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 2: spice and we're gonna put it. 447 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 1: In everything, like, yeah, it's gonna get his work. 448 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 3: I hope you enjoyed their clothes. 449 00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:09,920 Speaker 2: Bagel spice is meant to be the spices that are 450 00:22:10,640 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 2: everything bagels. But even if you're not familiar with them, 451 00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:16,199 Speaker 2: I think you'll like it. The most impressive thing is 452 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,680 Speaker 2: how flavorful it is, even though it has no salt 453 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,399 Speaker 2: at all. Good for people like me that have lousy 454 00:22:21,400 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 2: blood pressure, it's great. Uh, it's great. Stirred into playing 455 00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 2: Greek yogurt on eggs or anything? 456 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 3: Really? Yes, someone told me they put it in mashed potatoes. 457 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,000 Speaker 3: Oh so interesting. 458 00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:38,040 Speaker 2: Trying to love the podcast and sorry for the lousy handwriting. 459 00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:40,679 Speaker 2: All the best, tiny W, but you're in luck, tiny W. 460 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 2: I can't write for shit either, too, so I read. 461 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,280 Speaker 2: I was able to read all that than you. 462 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 3: Calib Beauty says she sent us a happy holiday is 463 00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 3: the best switch for the coming year. Love the shell 464 00:22:55,240 --> 00:22:59,439 Speaker 3: hashtag tvg WT Tiffany at calib Beauty, thank you very 465 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 3: much to thank you. I think she's the person you 466 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 3: met in real life. I'm not mistaken. 467 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 1: It was funny. 468 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,800 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, So this one is from David, and 469 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,720 Speaker 2: he puts a note first, No, I'm not sure you 470 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:17,199 Speaker 2: should read this on the podcast or. 471 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 3: Even mention it. 472 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 2: It might provoke your repeat anonymous call to start calling 473 00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 2: you again. I wouldn't wish that on you, but if 474 00:23:23,119 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: you do want to read it, be my guest. 475 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,600 Speaker 3: Either way. I hope you enjoyed the joke and the 476 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 3: gift card. Hi, Rod and Karen. I wanted to respond 477 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 3: to the anonymous guy who used to call your show 478 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,159 Speaker 3: and accused you of selling out. 479 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 2: To the gay Jewish agenda and gay Jewish money. I 480 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,720 Speaker 2: don't happen to be gay, but I do listen to 481 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:44,520 Speaker 2: your podcast, and I am Jewish and I live right 482 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 2: here in Ju York. So today I wing got you 483 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 2: a twenty five dollars gift card at Big Gay ice Cream, 484 00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 2: which is an actual business with three locations, two. 485 00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 3: In New York City and one in Philadelphia. 486 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,840 Speaker 2: For the exact locations and to convince yourself that they 487 00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:02,400 Speaker 2: are truly exists, you can go to their website, Big 488 00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 2: Gay ice Cream dot com. 489 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:05,960 Speaker 3: I realize that you don't visit. 490 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:09,120 Speaker 2: You don't visit my degenerate jew and queer infested city 491 00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:12,479 Speaker 2: very often. But this gift card has no expiration date, 492 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 2: so sooner or later you should have a chance to 493 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:17,400 Speaker 2: use it. Who knows, maybe you'll like to ice cream 494 00:24:17,480 --> 00:24:18,920 Speaker 2: so much you'll decide to convert. 495 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,439 Speaker 3: Best regards. David in Brooklyn to. 496 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:25,920 Speaker 1: Call it out colorful too, it's pretty well, Davey. 497 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 3: You already know we some cid of mices, so I 498 00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 3: feel like we'll fit right in. 499 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: We will. 500 00:24:32,080 --> 00:24:35,320 Speaker 2: H Hey, Roan and Karen, it's from Leah. I love 501 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,320 Speaker 2: your show and I listened daily. On the Bulletball Reducts episode. 502 00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:41,200 Speaker 2: You mentioned how you are all natural hair product collectors 503 00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,719 Speaker 2: and I am as well. In fact, going naturally inspired 504 00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,400 Speaker 2: me to start my own business. First of all, that's dope. 505 00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 3: Congratulations, Yes it is. These are Karen? Where are the coasters? 506 00:24:51,720 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 4: Yeah? 507 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 3: Beautiful, we should have We need. I need these coasters. 508 00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,520 Speaker 2: These are actual things I need for my drinks because 509 00:24:58,560 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 2: we always hit my drink right on my desk, which 510 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:05,120 Speaker 2: is made of wood. Well, it's from Walmart, so it's 511 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,119 Speaker 2: probably made it like five percent wood. I don't know 512 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 2: what's really made of It's like probably like seventy five 513 00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: percent lead. 514 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:15,439 Speaker 3: And cancer. It's poisons and they're like twenty percent wood 515 00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:20,959 Speaker 3: and then five percent like human and like waste, you 516 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like, But. 517 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, so she made these coasters and you guys have 518 00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 2: to see them. I'm gonna put them on the camera. 519 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 2: But oh and if and if you're in the Facebook 520 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:33,199 Speaker 2: group camera made a post with all the stuff we 521 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,240 Speaker 2: got so you guys can see it for yourself. 522 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 3: But they're like hand design or whatever. She said. I 523 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 3: thought you would appreciate them. Happy holidays and happy podcast 524 00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 3: and I'll continue to be an avid listener. Rober Brother, 525 00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:45,440 Speaker 3: I'll have something for you soon from Leah. 526 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 2: First of all, Leah, I drink too, So I mean, 527 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 2: I feel like these are gifts that I can use, 528 00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 2: you know. But here's here's some pictures. Here's some some 529 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,400 Speaker 2: of the coasters if you guys don't see in the chat. 530 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:00,640 Speaker 3: Isn't it amazing? 531 00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: And they're good and heavy and sturdy. 532 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it's good quality stuff. Yeah. 533 00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:09,760 Speaker 2: This one says nappy hair runs in my family. Another 534 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 2: one said rock on curly girl. This one says afro check. 535 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 2: This one says big hair. 536 00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: And y'all they are pretty sweetie. Let us know where 537 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,600 Speaker 1: your stuff go up because it is worth every time. 538 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,119 Speaker 1: They're gorgeous and this. 539 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,720 Speaker 3: One says afro check. So yeah, it's it's dope, man. 540 00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 3: We appreciate it. And she would definitely be using it. 541 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 1: And she also sent two little refrigerator magnets, but I 542 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,320 Speaker 1: stuck them on the refrigerator. In fact, let me use 543 00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: one too. I forgot I'd be using it on that 544 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 1: leg stuff over here too. 545 00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 3: And this is the last one. How's it going right? 546 00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:52,480 Speaker 2: And Karen uh sending these by sending these over as 547 00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,480 Speaker 2: a thanks for all the work the both of you 548 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,000 Speaker 2: do for us listeners. 549 00:26:56,200 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 3: Hope you like them. 550 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,600 Speaker 2: Even let Justin have a few the it was good 551 00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:01,719 Speaker 2: on the show as well. 552 00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:02,840 Speaker 3: Thanks Wanga. 553 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,000 Speaker 1: We'll think about Justin. 554 00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 3: Also, who would have. 555 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:10,280 Speaker 2: Guessed a, uh, well, the modem box would perfectly fit 556 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 2: eight boxes of Tim Tams. 557 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,920 Speaker 3: That's right, guys, listen. 558 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:19,160 Speaker 2: Longa apparently exploited Australia's version of crack cocaine. 559 00:27:19,480 --> 00:27:23,679 Speaker 1: Oh they're delicious, y'all had Tim Tams? 560 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 3: Can you just like get these because like, I've never 561 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:26,960 Speaker 3: seen these in the store. 562 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:29,120 Speaker 1: I don't think they're sell them in the United States. 563 00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,320 Speaker 1: I want to hug you, sir, all go over here. 564 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,600 Speaker 1: They're delicious, so many flavors. 565 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 3: Uh, we ate the peanut butter ones. And I want 566 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,679 Speaker 3: to say four point three seconds. 567 00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:42,400 Speaker 2: Maybe it could It could have been four point four 568 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 2: because we you know, I had had a little snack before, 569 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 2: so maybe four point four to four point five seconds. 570 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:50,600 Speaker 2: What I what I'm saying is fastening storms can run 571 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 2: a forty times. We inhaled them fucking peanut butter tim tams. 572 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:55,080 Speaker 3: Uh. 573 00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,160 Speaker 2: And now I'm just eyeing them like I'm gonna try 574 00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,200 Speaker 2: not to. I don't even want to open the rest. 575 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:00,439 Speaker 3: I'm still scared. 576 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 1: Right we were gonna have to ration them out. So 577 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you right now, just am I not 578 00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: getting nothing? Yeah? Just don't listen to the show so 579 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:07,479 Speaker 1: he won't know they exists. 580 00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:08,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, and. 581 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 2: She does have a link for for her her sight, 582 00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:23,119 Speaker 2: but I it's god started. No, she didn't, you know, 583 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 2: because she I think she felt like awkward about promoting it. 584 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,160 Speaker 3: But listen, people gonna want this ship, so you need to. 585 00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:33,840 Speaker 2: Look if you gotta, if you got to write back 586 00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,600 Speaker 2: up here or whatever you need to do. I think 587 00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,719 Speaker 2: she may have I might have put a business card down. 588 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,960 Speaker 2: I think it's her business cards in there somewhere. I'll 589 00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 2: tell you what, guys, I'll either have it by the 590 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,160 Speaker 2: next show, or I'll make sure that people know. 591 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 1: Let us know, Sweaty because they are worth it. They 592 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: are gorgeous, y'all. Like they are very very very pretty. 593 00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:55,840 Speaker 2: Like she has one of those artsy you know, you 594 00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 2: know how where you get your earrings from. She has 595 00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,600 Speaker 2: like that artsy I forget the name of the websites, 596 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 2: but it's one of those. 597 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 3: Yeah. 598 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:03,680 Speaker 1: And then she got that sticker that went on top 599 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:04,360 Speaker 1: as a sticker. 600 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. So all right, now let's talk about. 601 00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:14,680 Speaker 2: Some some serious business before we get into the comments. Okay, yes, 602 00:29:14,800 --> 00:29:16,240 Speaker 2: because I kind of want to lead us up to 603 00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 2: the audience. All right, Okay, this is one of those 604 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 2: times I'm not hundred sure how to handle this, but uh, 605 00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:26,880 Speaker 2: it's not I really And also for you can I 606 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:30,400 Speaker 2: like to get your opinion on it. Okay, So in 607 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,960 Speaker 2: the Facebook group the other day, we had like, uh, 608 00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,200 Speaker 2: you know how in the group you can since me 609 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:38,520 Speaker 2: and you are moderator, someone can report or flag a 610 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: post to us to tell us like, hey, this person 611 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,160 Speaker 2: did so and. 612 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: So we can see it. 613 00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I need you to like, can you look 614 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 3: at this. 615 00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 1: It's so many posts, it's hard to keep up. 616 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, we gonna read every post and every topic and everything. 617 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 2: You know, it's just fifteen hundred of you guys. So 618 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:56,800 Speaker 2: this post got flagged. 619 00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 3: And it's a picture of wedding party where the groom 620 00:30:04,280 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 3: and the bride are, you know, obviously with the with 621 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 3: all the groomsmen taking a picture, and one of the 622 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 3: groomsmen has his hands on the waist of the dress 623 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 3: of the bride. Now I don't know what he was thinking, 624 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 3: but like it almost look like he has his hands 625 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 3: on her. So people were making jokes. People routinely do 626 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:27,520 Speaker 3: stuff like that. 627 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 1: That's my thing. I was like, oh, that's that's a joke. 628 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:31,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 629 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 2: And so people were comming, ain't no fun of the homie, 630 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 2: can't have none, you know, saying what the people look 631 00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:41,920 Speaker 2: like in the And so one person I'm not gonna 632 00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:43,840 Speaker 2: say her name because I don't want to, you know, 633 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 2: I don't, I'm not I'm not doing this to. 634 00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 3: Like embarrass her. 635 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 2: But she says, that's nice of the groom to let 636 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:59,120 Speaker 2: her side nigga participate in that special day to you know, which. 637 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:05,240 Speaker 3: She's not a black person. Like, you know, like she's 638 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,320 Speaker 3: she's some she is a woman of color, but she's 639 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 3: not black. So somebody asked. 640 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 2: Her, like, straight up, uh, might I ask why you 641 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 2: feel so comfortable saying nigga, especially considering this is a 642 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 2: group of predominantly black patrons, Like you know, which I 643 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:25,640 Speaker 2: feel is a fair question, you know, because you know, 644 00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,320 Speaker 2: I think, Uh, I don't know why anyone who would 645 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:34,120 Speaker 2: listen to this show would feel that we'd be okay 646 00:31:34,160 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 2: with that or foster that kind of environment, because we 647 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:45,160 Speaker 2: definitely don't. So after she was asked that, someone said, uh, 648 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 2: you know, are you always They were like, are you 649 00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,600 Speaker 2: Afro Latina or just Latina? 650 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:57,840 Speaker 3: She's like Spanish, Mexican, Sicilian, Tiano, so not black basically, Uh, 651 00:31:57,960 --> 00:32:00,040 Speaker 3: she says, you know why why you say that? 652 00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:03,640 Speaker 2: You know, why you're so comfortable saying nigga? Because anybody 653 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 2: that can opt out of being a nigga. I don't 654 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,720 Speaker 2: really want to hear the Well, I'd just like to 655 00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 2: say it, like, well, don't say it around me. 656 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:12,680 Speaker 3: She says, because I'm comfortable with it. 657 00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 2: I know what it means, where it comes from, I 658 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,280 Speaker 2: know the context it is used in. Now I'm not 659 00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 2: afraid of a word because I'm not the right skin tone. Besides, 660 00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:24,000 Speaker 2: that's correct usage for a part time lover of African heritage. 661 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 2: Now that is like the exact wrong way to answer 662 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 2: that question. 663 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 1: And to respond because nobody was nasty. Nobody, Well, no, 664 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't think she was nasty. No, but you know, 665 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 1: I don't think anyone's being nasty. I thought this was 666 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: a very civil discussion pretty much the whole time. Me too. 667 00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:46,680 Speaker 2: But why I say is the wrong way to respond 668 00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 2: is someone's like, yo, this is obviously offensive. Why do 669 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 2: you think you can do that? And then you go 670 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 2: because I'm comfortable with it. You know, I know what 671 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:58,480 Speaker 2: it means and where. 672 00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:58,880 Speaker 3: It comes from. 673 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 2: I know the context is you us in Now, I'm 674 00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 2: not afraid of a word, like we're not asking you 675 00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 2: to be afraid of a word. 676 00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 3: Like like this is kind of what privilege does. 677 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,440 Speaker 2: It makes it all about you, right, like, well you try, 678 00:33:11,720 --> 00:33:12,840 Speaker 2: I'm not afraid to say it. 679 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,640 Speaker 3: Like, nobody's telling you to be afraid of anything. 680 00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 2: It's about consideration, it's about empathy, you know, it's it's 681 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:24,920 Speaker 2: about you know, your your privilege. You know, it's about uh, 682 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:30,240 Speaker 2: you know, the offended party here. You know, and then 683 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:32,600 Speaker 2: she also the lead of the comment when she said, 684 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 2: you know, I'm one of y'all or something, and they 685 00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 2: was like one of us, like how. 686 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 3: Someone put to. 687 00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 2: Kanye not smiling meme in there. Then she said, sorry, 688 00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 2: I edited before I saw your apply. I met one 689 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,920 Speaker 2: of us, as in, a member of the group, a friend, 690 00:33:48,000 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 2: and a participant in the community. We have shared experiences, interest, memories, prejudices, 691 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:53,800 Speaker 2: and struggles across ethnicities. 692 00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:58,120 Speaker 3: I love you, guys. And someone said being one of. 693 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,000 Speaker 2: Us does not give you a pass since I see 694 00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 2: not gonna say I agree, but not gonna argue either, 695 00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:06,120 Speaker 2: which is kind of like the. 696 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 3: Uh, we're not asking you. This isn't about agree or disagree, 697 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:16,400 Speaker 3: It's about don't do this shit anymore. So someone else applies. 698 00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 2: Since you feel that you are one of us, then 699 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 2: surely you understand that not all black people take kindly 700 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:22,839 Speaker 2: the non black say in the N word. 701 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:24,680 Speaker 3: Honestly, I'm shocked at the audacity. 702 00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:26,879 Speaker 2: It seems clear that you feel you have some sort 703 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 2: of privilege to where you can get away with these things. 704 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 2: I'm not sure what black people, if any of you, 705 00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:33,279 Speaker 2: hang around in your personal life, but on this side 706 00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 2: of the web, this will not fly, and she goes, 707 00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:38,799 Speaker 2: this is an age old debate. I feel differently than 708 00:34:38,800 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 2: other people about it in this usage. I mean nothing 709 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,520 Speaker 2: negative by it, just like you don't. I'm not going 710 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:47,759 Speaker 2: to fight about it here like this so many times 711 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 2: when you could have just said, my bad won't happen again, sorry, 712 00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:58,800 Speaker 2: boom the end. But privilege doesn't do that because privilege 713 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:04,399 Speaker 2: can't be wrong, right as someone Uh so she said, 714 00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fight about. 715 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:08,960 Speaker 3: It here, and then uh the response was who's fighting? 716 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,000 Speaker 2: Don't go down that age old victim path right away, 717 00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:14,680 Speaker 2: as this conversation is quite civil. So how is it 718 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:16,600 Speaker 2: that you feel differently about a word that wasn't for 719 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,320 Speaker 2: you in the first place. You're being dismissive of our concerns. 720 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,440 Speaker 2: If you can't handle being questioned about something like this, 721 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 2: then just maybe you should stop saying it. That's valid, right, 722 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:27,959 Speaker 2: the fact that you already talk it is a fight. 723 00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:30,160 Speaker 3: I don't want to fight. Like if you don't want 724 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 3: to fight, don't say it, you know what I mean? 725 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:34,360 Speaker 3: Because that's the other thing, like. 726 00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 2: When I say nigga or any offensive term, I will 727 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:41,880 Speaker 2: fight about. 728 00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:47,680 Speaker 3: It, like like I actually do believe in what I'm saying, 729 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:48,800 Speaker 3: it's not just like. 730 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,560 Speaker 2: Oh, well, I know everybody's gonna get offended, and if 731 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 2: I'm not willing to fight about it, I don't say 732 00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,000 Speaker 2: it because it's not that fucking important to me, you 733 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:56,840 Speaker 2: know what I mean Like that. 734 00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:58,520 Speaker 3: I used to be a person that would be. 735 00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,479 Speaker 2: Like, oh, this person's being as like either a joke 736 00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,920 Speaker 2: or try to be an insult and the like. At 737 00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 2: sometimes just like I don't wanna fight about that, and 738 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,879 Speaker 2: I don't even care that much, and it's never gonna 739 00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,040 Speaker 2: hurt my feeling is the way it hurts somebody else's feelings. 740 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 2: So I'm not gonna say it again. Like it was 741 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,719 Speaker 2: a very simple math for me, you know what I 742 00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,640 Speaker 2: mean like it. And the thing is, maybe you don't get. 743 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:21,759 Speaker 3: It the first time you called out on it. 744 00:36:21,840 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 2: Whatever the idea of being telling somebody that they that 745 00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 2: I just disagree how I feel about it, Well, okay, 746 00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 2: you just disagree. 747 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 3: It's your right to disagree. That doesn't mean you get 748 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 3: to have any right to that space. 749 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:37,719 Speaker 1: Come on now, like you can just. 750 00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:42,879 Speaker 2: Go disagree with it by yourself. So then another person said, 751 00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 2: it's not a fight, it's very simple. A few people 752 00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 2: have expressed their concern about your use of this word, 753 00:36:46,880 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 2: and are asking you to stop, and you're ignoring the request. 754 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,839 Speaker 2: As someone who claims to know the history, then surely 755 00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,880 Speaker 2: you know the discomfort that some blacks would have with 756 00:36:53,960 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 2: none blocks blacks using the word. We even had a 757 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 2: post recently discussing this topic. I believe they tagged it 758 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 2: to that post. And she didn't respond, point blank, we 759 00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:05,080 Speaker 2: don't like you saying it and you should stop, especially 760 00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:05,359 Speaker 2: in here. 761 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:07,400 Speaker 3: It ain't no need in the back and forth about it, 762 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:13,920 Speaker 3: and uh yeah, and then someone had post a picture 763 00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:19,239 Speaker 3: of the thing that she deleted. What she said, b 764 00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 3: because I'm one of y'all. When someone said why are 765 00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,000 Speaker 3: you so comfortable saying it, she said, because I'm one 766 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 3: of y'all. And then yeah, and that and obviously that's 767 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,839 Speaker 3: a true Like what does that mean? You know, because 768 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,600 Speaker 3: you're a member of this group, you can just call 769 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,600 Speaker 3: you just say nigga left and right. 770 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:45,280 Speaker 2: You think that's what's happening? Uh, she says, agreed. She responded, agreed. 771 00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,000 Speaker 2: We are being very civil, but it's a debate. It's 772 00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,920 Speaker 2: not going to get solved ever, and we already derailed 773 00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:56,279 Speaker 2: this humorous thread enough. No, no, that's just a cop 774 00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:58,280 Speaker 2: out because we're not asking you to solve the debate. 775 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 3: We're talking about you individual. You can say I'm changing 776 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 3: my I'm changing my. 777 00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 2: Behavior, and that will solve this debate. We'll say, go 778 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:14,440 Speaker 2: on CNN and get everybody agree. We're saying you you 779 00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 2: want the privilege of the company of these people. 780 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,240 Speaker 3: You want to kick it in the group. 781 00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,680 Speaker 2: You don't get to fucking decide that nobody that you 782 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,760 Speaker 2: just do what the fuck you want. Because when dudes 783 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,960 Speaker 2: come into group and they're sending up that calling women 784 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,400 Speaker 2: holes and bitches. 785 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 3: And and and and. 786 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,719 Speaker 2: Posting means about all this like hotel shit, we get 787 00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:34,839 Speaker 2: them the fuck out of there. 788 00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:35,719 Speaker 1: We don't go. 789 00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:38,040 Speaker 3: Well, he doesn't. 790 00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,560 Speaker 2: He's not offended bar saying that all black women are 791 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:45,279 Speaker 2: hose And when he said that, you guys are all 792 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 2: just hood rap bitches, I had to you know, it's 793 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:49,560 Speaker 2: just some difference of opinion. 794 00:38:50,040 --> 00:38:52,160 Speaker 3: It's an argument that can never be solved. 795 00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 2: We'll never know guys who who whom to say? You like, 796 00:38:58,560 --> 00:39:02,360 Speaker 2: I wish I could pull that shit. H sir, do 797 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 2: you know you were doing you were doing? You're not 798 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 2: how fast you were going. I believe I was going 799 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,879 Speaker 2: fifty in the thirty five officer, that's right, that's fifteen. 800 00:39:10,520 --> 00:39:11,479 Speaker 3: Miles old speed limit. 801 00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,920 Speaker 2: I need to see your licensed registration for what, officer, 802 00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:19,439 Speaker 2: cause I'm gonna write your ticket. 803 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:23,399 Speaker 3: I mean, what is the speed limit really? Anyway, if 804 00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:26,439 Speaker 3: you think about it, it was the government to tell 805 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,720 Speaker 3: us what to do. I simply disagree with the thirty 806 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 3: five miles an hour. 807 00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:32,160 Speaker 1: You don't get that goddamn ticket. 808 00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:35,640 Speaker 3: No, I just listen. We won't solve it today. We 809 00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:38,960 Speaker 3: shall won't be so we might as well just let 810 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 3: me do what the fuck I want to do. 811 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:41,960 Speaker 1: You'll solve it with the judge. 812 00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:47,359 Speaker 2: Here you go, all right, Well, Ashley responds, it'll get 813 00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,800 Speaker 2: solved when people like you stop trying to make everything 814 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:51,439 Speaker 2: about you and what you want. 815 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:52,759 Speaker 3: Why do you want to say it? 816 00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,640 Speaker 2: Did you know that it's actually okay to not have 817 00:39:55,719 --> 00:40:00,759 Speaker 2: to not have to say the N word? Studies show 818 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:02,920 Speaker 2: that non blacks who don't say niggas still live long, 819 00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:03,720 Speaker 2: healthy lives. 820 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 1: They do. 821 00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,279 Speaker 2: Another person said, so, this is what I'm taking from 822 00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:11,080 Speaker 2: this entire change, black person, please stop using this word 823 00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:14,920 Speaker 2: that offends us. This other lady, well, I feel comfortable 824 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:17,120 Speaker 2: saying that I know about the history behind the word, 825 00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 2: and I like how cool you people are, but yeah, 826 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,880 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna stop using the word that you are 827 00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 2: offended by. 828 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:22,080 Speaker 3: Wow. 829 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 2: I didn't think it would be as complicated, just stop 830 00:40:24,280 --> 00:40:25,719 Speaker 2: using the word in the group. 831 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:30,200 Speaker 3: So she responded. The initial person responded back, Yeah, I 832 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,000 Speaker 3: edited it. 833 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:33,359 Speaker 2: Before I saw her reply because I wanted to say 834 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:33,840 Speaker 2: something different. 835 00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:35,520 Speaker 3: I should have left it and made another comment. 836 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,399 Speaker 2: Then she said to Ashley, I'm not quite sure how 837 00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:41,480 Speaker 2: I tried to make it all about me but obviously 838 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 2: affected you in a way. I didn't attend my apologies 839 00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:46,960 Speaker 2: on the side, I apologized about the many edits making 840 00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:51,080 Speaker 2: things confusing big thumbs on a small phone that was 841 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 2: on the nineteen, so I didn't get Oh, I was 842 00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:55,880 Speaker 2: not notified. 843 00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: This didn't get flagged for like five. 844 00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,000 Speaker 1: Days, right, so we didn't know. 845 00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:01,080 Speaker 3: So I read it. 846 00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:02,839 Speaker 2: And by the way, I didn't even know that it 847 00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 2: was old. I thought it was just happening and that's 848 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,759 Speaker 2: why someone flagged me. So I was farting to like, yeah, 849 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 2: that nigga shit not cool. It's all coming from non 850 00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,319 Speaker 2: black folks and just throwing it around haphazardly is gonna 851 00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,840 Speaker 2: lead to some interactions exactly like this. And if some 852 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,320 Speaker 2: white person was in here talking about understanding the culture 853 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:19,600 Speaker 2: while the people of that culture are telling you it's not. 854 00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:22,879 Speaker 3: Cool, what do you think will happen? They get kicked out. 855 00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,880 Speaker 2: If you do that among black people you know and 856 00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:28,200 Speaker 2: the friends you have, then keep it among them, because 857 00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:29,080 Speaker 2: it's not some shit. 858 00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:30,839 Speaker 3: We simply disagree about. 859 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,880 Speaker 2: The privilege is to frame it as a disagreement is 860 00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 2: really telling in the first place, you know like that 861 00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 2: that's a privilege to be It's just a disagreement. 862 00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:43,719 Speaker 1: You don't have any emotional connection to the. 863 00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:49,280 Speaker 2: It's exactly why you shouldn't be fucking saying it. Folks 864 00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,359 Speaker 2: reached out to you, and you don't seem to want 865 00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 2: to admit the shit is wrong. It won't happen again 866 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:57,120 Speaker 2: because you just disagree. Is that what I'm to take 867 00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,200 Speaker 2: from this? Your need to say it is more important 868 00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,239 Speaker 2: than your need to be part of the group. I 869 00:42:01,280 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 2: just want to be clear before us and taking the 870 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 2: next step. And I tagged her to some of these responses, 871 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 2: you know, and nobody got no response from her after that, 872 00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 2: right other people responded to after I said shit, But 873 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,640 Speaker 2: I don't want to pal on with that stuff because 874 00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 2: she just never came back that so, you know, and 875 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,640 Speaker 2: I thought about it a little further because once I 876 00:42:24,880 --> 00:42:28,240 Speaker 2: and plus I realized, oh, this is five days old, right. 877 00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 1: You had ample enough time to come back, hit the 878 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 1: post and be like, y'all know what I thought about it? 879 00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 1: My bad? I shouldn't. People people really would have been 880 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 1: cool with that, but you just disregarded YadA, YadA YadA, 881 00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:42,600 Speaker 1: didn't act like nothing happened. But you can't erase those actions, sweetie. 882 00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:44,520 Speaker 2: Right, And so the thing is, yeah, you could have 883 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:46,880 Speaker 2: come back and within those five days. Once I realized 884 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,840 Speaker 2: it's five days later, I was like, I'm not gonna 885 00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 2: wait for. 886 00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:53,759 Speaker 3: You to respond to me like I'm special. 887 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 2: All these other people already hit you up, so waiting 888 00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,440 Speaker 2: now at this point is just just exacerbating the situation. 889 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,279 Speaker 2: And like I said, if it was just a straight 890 00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 2: up white person, none person of color, I wouldn't even 891 00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,279 Speaker 2: be I'd just be like, oh, that person had to 892 00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:14,080 Speaker 2: go and they would know they had to go. So 893 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:16,799 Speaker 2: why would I do that for somebody that will they 894 00:43:16,880 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 2: their person of color but they're not black, Like you 895 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,960 Speaker 2: don't have a black experience, you know, I go to 896 00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:24,160 Speaker 2: your page. You're not saying nigga this and nigga that 897 00:43:24,239 --> 00:43:27,279 Speaker 2: on your page. You don't act like that, you know 898 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,680 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like, you know, you're like not that. 899 00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:33,040 Speaker 2: It would make it okay if you were, but you know, 900 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 2: it's you're not married to a black man. There's no like, 901 00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 2: there's no reason for you to be acting that way, 902 00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:42,200 Speaker 2: showing out for company. I guess I don't know, but 903 00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:46,520 Speaker 2: either way, there's no fucking reason to it. So, you know, 904 00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 2: when I thought about it, I was just like, you 905 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:53,200 Speaker 2: know what, you need to go because other people could have, Like, 906 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,120 Speaker 2: other people tried to reason with you. No one called 907 00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 2: you a name, everyone was civil. You frame it as 908 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,160 Speaker 2: just a dis agreement, Well, just disagree out of the group, 909 00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 2: like it's just not it's not worth it, you know, 910 00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:09,640 Speaker 2: to be quite honest, you know. And if I you know, 911 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,440 Speaker 2: if it would have been happening that night, I might 912 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,319 Speaker 2: have gave her some time to respond or whatever. Which, 913 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,120 Speaker 2: by the way, she did have some time to respond. 914 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,759 Speaker 2: It's not like I immediately did this. It took a 915 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,360 Speaker 2: while for me to be like, oh, yeah, well I 916 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:23,319 Speaker 2: guess you should go. But so so I kicked out 917 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 2: right and that was it for me. So I go 918 00:44:28,920 --> 00:44:31,839 Speaker 2: check my voice, the mail the email this morning and 919 00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 2: I got an email from her high Rod and Karen. 920 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 2: Ever since yesterday and perhaps even earlier, I've had no 921 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:40,680 Speaker 2: updates on my feet Facebook for you from the group. 922 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 2: When I searched for it, nothing comes up at all. 923 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,400 Speaker 2: It's like it just vanished. There's nothing in my messages 924 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,440 Speaker 2: of email saying that I've been blocked and kicked out 925 00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:49,680 Speaker 2: of the group. Everything's just gone. Can you tell me 926 00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,360 Speaker 2: I've been blocked and kicked out of the group. I 927 00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,399 Speaker 2: don't have anything on my end it tells me either way. 928 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:59,880 Speaker 2: Thanks Gush. Now part of me feels like you did 929 00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:04,840 Speaker 2: I know what you said. You didn't think that was 930 00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:09,000 Speaker 2: a possibility that that might have been what happened. You know, 931 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,279 Speaker 2: I'm allowing for her maybe not thinking of it because 932 00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 2: it happened five or six days out, so she might 933 00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 2: have thought, like I got away with it right. 934 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 1: She might cross the mind again, because that's the thing. 935 00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: When things aren't important to you, those things don't cross 936 00:45:21,640 --> 00:45:22,280 Speaker 1: your mind again. 937 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:24,319 Speaker 2: So I responded, Yeah, you are banned from the group 938 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,279 Speaker 2: because you got reported in flag for a thread when 939 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,680 Speaker 2: you side it was okay to use the N word 940 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:31,439 Speaker 2: despite being non black and people telling you it offends them. Short, 941 00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:34,520 Speaker 2: simple to the point. So then she responded, rod, no, 942 00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,360 Speaker 2: please don't ban me. I apologize to the offended member, 943 00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 2: and I knew to never use the term in the future. 944 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:44,239 Speaker 2: I recognized that it wasn't appropriate and self corrected. I 945 00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 2: didn't decide it was okay for me to say it. 946 00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:49,400 Speaker 2: I said I didn't want to argue such a sensitive 947 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:51,200 Speaker 2: topic in the thread that was supposed to for humor. 948 00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 2: It would derailing other members post away from this original intent. 949 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,239 Speaker 2: Please don't ban me for good. I have no I 950 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,879 Speaker 2: had no ill intent. It was a mistake. I've had 951 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,800 Speaker 2: no other controversy up till now. I've never been harassing 952 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,520 Speaker 2: or disrespectful. I don't know what to say. It was 953 00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,600 Speaker 2: an isolated slip and know it will never happen again. 954 00:46:07,239 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 2: I fully understand that you must be tough across the board, 955 00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:13,520 Speaker 2: but please don't bab me for good. That seems like 956 00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:17,840 Speaker 2: a gross misrepresentation of what I read, though, you know 957 00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:19,640 Speaker 2: what I mean, Like this part where she's like, I 958 00:46:19,680 --> 00:46:23,239 Speaker 2: apologize to defending member and I knew to never use 959 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 2: it in the future. That wasn't a proper way to 960 00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,640 Speaker 2: like if you first of all, you didn't apologize. You 961 00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:30,759 Speaker 2: you said something like I'm sorry if I offended you 962 00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 2: type shit, But you didn't apologize, right, Like, let's be clear, 963 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 2: you know, apology would would have been I'm sorry not 964 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:45,280 Speaker 2: to this one person, to all those. 965 00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:45,960 Speaker 3: People who told you. 966 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:49,319 Speaker 2: It was multiple people that was like, Yo, this is 967 00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:53,160 Speaker 2: fucked up, So you can't just pull the like, I 968 00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 2: apologize to that person all the people like you, Like 969 00:46:58,480 --> 00:47:02,680 Speaker 2: you owed everybody an apology that saw that shit, for one, 970 00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,319 Speaker 2: because a lot of people took offense to it. Two, 971 00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 2: not some half assed like if you got offended by 972 00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:12,480 Speaker 2: an apology, You owed everybody a heartfelt fucking apology where 973 00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:14,640 Speaker 2: you also said you wouldn't do it again. You never 974 00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:18,239 Speaker 2: said you wouldn't do it again in that thread. It 975 00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 2: was just a disagreement and you moved on. There was 976 00:47:21,640 --> 00:47:25,200 Speaker 2: never a male kopa of you know what. I see 977 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,360 Speaker 2: what y'all saying, and it won't happen. 978 00:47:27,120 --> 00:47:29,480 Speaker 1: Again, right because people are very reasonable. 979 00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just what I'm just saying the way she 980 00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:36,279 Speaker 2: framed it and the way it happened, because you know 981 00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:41,319 Speaker 2: I can read, they're not the same, you know, And 982 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:46,120 Speaker 2: I feel like your responsibility if you're genuine and sincere 983 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 2: about an apology. 984 00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:52,080 Speaker 3: Your responsibility is to be fully honest. 985 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 2: You know, I don't you can't like what about because 986 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,319 Speaker 2: I'm comfortable with it. I know what it means, where 987 00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 2: it comes from, I know the context it is using. Now, 988 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,440 Speaker 2: I'm not afraid of a word because I'm not the 989 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:07,440 Speaker 2: right skin tone, because besides, that's correct usage for a 990 00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:11,600 Speaker 2: part time lover of African heritage. What about that sounds 991 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 2: like I'm sorry, I won't do it again. That just 992 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,040 Speaker 2: sounds like I know what I'm doing, I know how 993 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 2: I'm using it. That's it, you know, Like I said, 994 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:27,399 Speaker 2: it's an age old debate. I feel differently than other 995 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,440 Speaker 2: people about it and it's usage. I mean nothing negative 996 00:48:30,480 --> 00:48:32,120 Speaker 2: by it, just like you don't. I'm not gonna fight 997 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,959 Speaker 2: about it here. That doesn't sound like I'm never gonna 998 00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:37,640 Speaker 2: say it again or I understand where you're coming from. 999 00:48:37,680 --> 00:48:42,040 Speaker 2: It sounds like I just I just disagree. That's what 1000 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,480 Speaker 2: it sounds like. And then the apology was I'm sorry 1001 00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,640 Speaker 2: if it offended you, and it was only the Actually 1002 00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:51,840 Speaker 2: a lot of people was like this is offensive and 1003 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:59,799 Speaker 2: you shouldn't do it, you know, So yeah, man, you know, 1004 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:03,520 Speaker 2: you apologize for making a lot of edits, but I 1005 00:49:03,560 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 2: didn't see that, so anyway, I respond, it's not just me. 1006 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 2: Many people were offended by your statement an overall nonchalant 1007 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:13,160 Speaker 2: approach to it. If you apologize or said you won't 1008 00:49:13,200 --> 00:49:15,879 Speaker 2: do it again, it certainly wasn't In that thread. All 1009 00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,919 Speaker 2: I saw was you saying you disagreed and then saying 1010 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,160 Speaker 2: you apologize if someone took a finish. You never said 1011 00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,520 Speaker 2: it wouldn't happen again. Our group was about a space 1012 00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 2: for black people to have a good time to hang out, 1013 00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:28,680 Speaker 2: first and foremost. If you're making this people uncomfortable like that, 1014 00:49:28,760 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 2: I can't let it go without saying something. 1015 00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 3: And that's the list we talked about it. 1016 00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:37,839 Speaker 2: Here's the thing, and I want to ask you first 1017 00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:39,880 Speaker 2: cause I don't really before I even put this up 1018 00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,239 Speaker 2: to anybody else, should I let her back in? 1019 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:51,960 Speaker 1: And I was like, that's a good question, because it's 1020 00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:55,160 Speaker 1: one of those things where to me, I kind of 1021 00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,000 Speaker 1: want to see how she's gonna respond to you not 1022 00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 1: trying to fund it, how she's gonna respond to your 1023 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,520 Speaker 1: last statement, and to me that we're determine a lot. 1024 00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,719 Speaker 1: But it's also one of those things too, where you 1025 00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:10,520 Speaker 1: actually need to apologize, Sweetie, I mean a sincere apology, 1026 00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:15,960 Speaker 1: because the apology non apology is a problem. And also, 1027 00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if you realize this or not, but 1028 00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 1: when you make statements like that, you're telling black people 1029 00:50:21,200 --> 00:50:23,439 Speaker 1: that I know how to be more blacker than you, 1030 00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,920 Speaker 1: and that's a false statement. You're disregarding their experiences and 1031 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 1: what they've been through. You're treating the word like we're 1032 00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:35,239 Speaker 1: talking about music, like we're talking about food purposes. You know, 1033 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,880 Speaker 1: when you have a debate about that shit, everybody can 1034 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 1: go their separays and nothing's going to matter. But when 1035 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,279 Speaker 1: you do stuff like this, this stuff offends people. It 1036 00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:49,720 Speaker 1: makes people mad, It makes people upset and even bigger. 1037 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:54,400 Speaker 1: There are people that are white and other ethnicities that 1038 00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 1: are in this group and they have no problem. They 1039 00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,719 Speaker 1: can hang with us, they can cheer with us, they 1040 00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:02,160 Speaker 1: can think with us. We all have a good time, 1041 00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,520 Speaker 1: we all interact with each other and that's not a problem. 1042 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,759 Speaker 1: So the problem here, Sweety, at the end of the 1043 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:14,080 Speaker 1: day is you. And that's something that people I've realized 1044 00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:19,520 Speaker 1: just in general, when people that have some type of privilege, 1045 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:23,160 Speaker 1: being male or female, just have privilege, they have a 1046 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:26,120 Speaker 1: tendency to be defensive when they're called out. Instead of 1047 00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,960 Speaker 1: listening to the offended party, it's easier to dismiss the 1048 00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:32,759 Speaker 1: offended party. You might not have felt like you dismissed 1049 00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:35,960 Speaker 1: the offended party, and you felt like, well, hey, us 1050 00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:41,399 Speaker 1: talking about this heavy topic will derail the comedy. But 1051 00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:45,360 Speaker 1: the thing is you derailed the comedy with that statement. 1052 00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 2: And defense of it, right, Your defense of it derailed it. Okay, 1053 00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:51,879 Speaker 2: I'm sorry. Did you want to keep going? 1054 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 3: Here's where I'm at with it, and maybe look, nobody 1055 00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,439 Speaker 3: want to be the bad guy, all right, Nobody wants 1056 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:03,480 Speaker 3: to be the bad guy. And I understand that, but 1057 00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:07,839 Speaker 3: I don't mind. Uh, let me ask you this. 1058 00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,720 Speaker 2: How would you feel about her if she was white, 1059 00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 2: not not not some make of four different races, none 1060 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:16,200 Speaker 2: of them being black, But just if she was just 1061 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:19,600 Speaker 2: a regular white person and that was the and the 1062 00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:21,400 Speaker 2: thread went the same way, how would you feel about that? 1063 00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:29,319 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm? Yeah, good? And and I guess for me, 1064 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,400 Speaker 1: color does matter. I'm not trying to be funny when 1065 00:52:32,440 --> 00:52:35,279 Speaker 1: I make this statement, because it's one of those things 1066 00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:37,239 Speaker 1: where if you're white and you said, I'm going, why 1067 00:52:37,239 --> 00:52:40,080 Speaker 1: the fuck are you over here? You know, it's like, 1068 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:42,640 Speaker 1: you listen to the show. You know, we used the 1069 00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 1: word nigger. You understand this concept. You you you you, 1070 00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,880 Speaker 1: you you're talking all the way from privilege one hundred 1071 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:54,960 Speaker 1: privilege and you you're you're talking from a complete disconnect. 1072 00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:59,160 Speaker 1: And it's just for the fact that from that perspective, 1073 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:01,319 Speaker 1: it's like, are you over here because you care about 1074 00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,600 Speaker 1: the community, or are you over here because it's quote 1075 00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 1: unquote cool to come over here and hang with the 1076 00:53:06,080 --> 00:53:08,960 Speaker 1: niggas and just kick it with us while you you know, 1077 00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 1: like like my thought process would be a little bit different. 1078 00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 1: But even with her, it's still a problem because for 1079 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,239 Speaker 1: some reason, you're not black enough to get up for 1080 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:23,520 Speaker 1: some reason, some black person gave you a quote unquote pass. 1081 00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,320 Speaker 3: For we don't know that she got a pass. 1082 00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:26,719 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. 1083 00:53:26,800 --> 00:53:27,359 Speaker 3: We don't know that. 1084 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:27,920 Speaker 1: I don't know. 1085 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:30,160 Speaker 3: That's an assumption. Like I said, I went on a page. 1086 00:53:30,160 --> 00:53:32,600 Speaker 2: I didn't see this whole bunch of like, oh, well, no, wonder, 1087 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 2: she's just she was raised in Brooklyn and some shit. 1088 00:53:35,040 --> 00:53:36,799 Speaker 2: Not that that would make it okay, right, but my 1089 00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,239 Speaker 2: point being that we can't I'm not assuming that you 1090 00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,799 Speaker 2: got a pass from somebody, but like this. 1091 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,399 Speaker 1: I might be wrong, but I'm making that assumption because 1092 00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,640 Speaker 1: you feel comfortable saying and if you feel comfortable saying it, 1093 00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,600 Speaker 1: you don't feel comfortable saying it's just because what. 1094 00:53:50,520 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 3: Do you mean? 1095 00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:54,120 Speaker 2: People listen to rap music, they watch TV shows, they 1096 00:53:54,120 --> 00:53:56,360 Speaker 2: listen to the podcasts. There's a lot of people that 1097 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,719 Speaker 2: just have the privilege to say what the fuck they want. 1098 00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 2: Like it's put it this way. Do you think men 1099 00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,239 Speaker 2: are hanging around women that allowed them to say women 1100 00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:06,320 Speaker 2: are bitches at holes? 1101 00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:07,360 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1102 00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:09,320 Speaker 3: You think that's what it is? That my mama just 1103 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:10,960 Speaker 3: lets me call her bitch and hoe and that's how 1104 00:54:11,000 --> 00:54:11,480 Speaker 3: I learned. 1105 00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:13,040 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, no no. 1106 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,279 Speaker 2: They do it because they can and it doesn't hurt 1107 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 2: their feelings because they're not gonna ever be associated with that, 1108 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,560 Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Like when dudes say call 1109 00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:26,399 Speaker 2: each other faggot because they're straight and there's no gay 1110 00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 2: people around as far as they're concerned, right, that's not 1111 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:30,600 Speaker 2: because I hung out with a bunch of gay people 1112 00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:32,600 Speaker 2: and I heard them say it, and I and then 1113 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:34,319 Speaker 2: I got the privilege to use it, and I know 1114 00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,600 Speaker 2: how to use it, so I use it too. No, 1115 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:41,080 Speaker 2: that's not what's happening. That's privilege at work. You decide 1116 00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,320 Speaker 2: you have a pass. 1117 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:45,160 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, from that point, I can, I can. I 1118 00:54:45,200 --> 00:54:48,080 Speaker 1: can understand that, yes, because sometimes you give yourself a 1119 00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:50,560 Speaker 1: pass and then in some instances you feel like somebody. 1120 00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,880 Speaker 2: Else we're talking about this instance, if this was one 1121 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:54,440 Speaker 2: of those, you think that wouldn't have come up in 1122 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:55,000 Speaker 2: her defense? 1123 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:56,919 Speaker 1: True, Yeah, that's yeah, Yes, that's true. 1124 00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:58,600 Speaker 3: The other shit she said was you, I just know 1125 00:54:58,600 --> 00:54:59,960 Speaker 3: how it's I just know how it's used. 1126 00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 2: You think like it would have come up, Like listen, 1127 00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:07,160 Speaker 2: I am a lot less forgiving about it, and sometimes 1128 00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:08,840 Speaker 2: I know I err on the side of being like 1129 00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:13,560 Speaker 2: fuck a person, right, And so I'm only asking as 1130 00:55:13,600 --> 00:55:20,960 Speaker 2: a sounding board to because my sincereous belief is that 1131 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 2: she shouldn't be back in a group and if she 1132 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:26,080 Speaker 2: learned something from it, learning with some new niggas, you 1133 00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:27,840 Speaker 2: know what I mean, like we're not the trial and 1134 00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:31,239 Speaker 2: run niggas, like we just not Like how the fuck 1135 00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:32,200 Speaker 2: did you not know that? 1136 00:55:32,960 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 3: And then the thing the other reason that the other 1137 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:39,320 Speaker 3: reason that kind of piss me off a lot. Several 1138 00:55:39,400 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 3: black women talk to her in a very sincere form 1139 00:55:43,719 --> 00:55:47,759 Speaker 3: and she pretty much just ignored them. So now you 1140 00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 3: get kicked out and to me, it's no, man, I'm 1141 00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:54,239 Speaker 3: sorry ya you should have been sorry then, you know 1142 00:55:54,280 --> 00:55:54,680 Speaker 3: what I mean? 1143 00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 2: Just because I have some authority over the group doesn't 1144 00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:01,239 Speaker 2: mean that you shouldn't be Uh, you can be contrite now, 1145 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:02,880 Speaker 2: Like I don't believe you anymore. 1146 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:06,600 Speaker 3: You had five days to be contrite, you know what 1147 00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:06,919 Speaker 3: I mean. 1148 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,280 Speaker 2: You say you apologize for the person, you say you 1149 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 2: you I just knew I wouldn't use it anymore. 1150 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:14,720 Speaker 3: You didn't say that shit then you had time. 1151 00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:17,759 Speaker 1: Because the thing is, this is something that everybody needs 1152 00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:19,600 Speaker 1: to see. And that's the thing. It's one of those 1153 00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,880 Speaker 1: things where if everybody doesn't see it, you know, you 1154 00:56:22,960 --> 00:56:25,239 Speaker 1: still have people that are offended in the party, and 1155 00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:28,160 Speaker 1: letting you back in will not erase them being offended, 1156 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:30,359 Speaker 1: and they will constantly give you a side eye. And 1157 00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,520 Speaker 1: it's one of those things where, uh, you know, and 1158 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:36,239 Speaker 1: like it's already fucked up. 1159 00:56:36,320 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 2: Like even if she came back, it's fucked up. I 1160 00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:41,239 Speaker 2: don't know if she realized it. It's fucked up. It's 1161 00:56:41,280 --> 00:56:44,120 Speaker 2: no like, it's no way it's going back to like, oh, yeah, 1162 00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,200 Speaker 2: you're cool, we were gonna always be like you that 1163 00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:50,319 Speaker 2: motherfucker that thought this shit was okay, you know, and 1164 00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:56,120 Speaker 2: not to mention, I'm I'm so sick of us having 1165 00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:59,160 Speaker 2: to be the people that fucking educate and forgive on 1166 00:56:59,239 --> 00:57:02,520 Speaker 2: this shit. We always gotta be the one the people 1167 00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:06,239 Speaker 2: that are the fucking that are right, always got to 1168 00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:10,080 Speaker 2: be the one to give always, you know, like we 1169 00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:12,440 Speaker 2: like it don't work the other way, Like like if 1170 00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 2: you say, hey, man, I'm uh, I'm gay, but I really, like, 1171 00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:18,800 Speaker 2: I really appreciate it. If I could go to this 1172 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:20,600 Speaker 2: this church of child, it'd be like, okay, but we 1173 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,800 Speaker 2: don't still be calling you all kinds of gay slurs 1174 00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:24,800 Speaker 2: and saying you're going to hell and all that shit okay, 1175 00:57:25,240 --> 00:57:26,120 Speaker 2: and you're like, no. 1176 00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:28,280 Speaker 3: I think that's kind of uncomfortable. I would like to 1177 00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,439 Speaker 3: know you guys not to do that. Yeah, well too bad. 1178 00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,800 Speaker 2: Don't don't bring your boyfriend here with you, and I 1179 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,200 Speaker 2: know you can't get mad like that. Like the root 1180 00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 2: for for marginalized groups are so fucking different. 1181 00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:42,880 Speaker 1: Right, yes they are, and I don't and I'm not. 1182 00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:44,840 Speaker 2: Saying I want to oticize this person for being different, 1183 00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:49,040 Speaker 2: because honestly, we don't do that, like, you know, but. 1184 00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,760 Speaker 3: If you're gonna purposely. 1185 00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:56,080 Speaker 2: Throw that shit out, defend that shit, lie about what 1186 00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,920 Speaker 2: you said to me, I don't see any reason to 1187 00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,520 Speaker 2: let her back in just because she's sorry she got caught. 1188 00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,040 Speaker 2: We sorry she out the group, and she's sorry, or 1189 00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 2: she's sorry she out the group, right, it's sorry, she's 1190 00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:07,560 Speaker 2: sorry she out the group. 1191 00:58:07,600 --> 00:58:09,800 Speaker 1: To me that that's the bigger problem, And it's one 1192 00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:13,640 Speaker 1: of those things where we would feel this way if 1193 00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:18,600 Speaker 1: it was, you know, you was coming at somebody from 1194 00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:22,200 Speaker 1: a sexual orientation and all that stuff, like like like this, 1195 00:58:22,200 --> 00:58:22,680 Speaker 1: this is this. 1196 00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:24,320 Speaker 3: Here's a thing. 1197 00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:27,000 Speaker 2: I don't know everything about her life, but let's just 1198 00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:31,720 Speaker 2: let's say she was lgbt Q so loud, right, and 1199 00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:36,040 Speaker 2: someone came in the group and they were using homophobic 1200 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:38,720 Speaker 2: slurs and then she called them out and said hey, 1201 00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:42,200 Speaker 2: are you gay? And that person was like no, And 1202 00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,600 Speaker 2: then she was like, well then why you feel like 1203 00:58:44,640 --> 00:58:47,760 Speaker 2: you can just slow these terms around? Well, you know, 1204 00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:52,240 Speaker 2: I know I watched you know, I watched enough TV, 1205 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:54,640 Speaker 2: and I know about the gay community, and I you know, 1206 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:57,640 Speaker 2: I just know how to use it. And they go, yeah, 1207 00:58:57,680 --> 00:59:00,760 Speaker 2: well it's still offensive, and it's offensive everybody in here. 1208 00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,360 Speaker 2: That's LGBTQ or just enough, not everybody, but enough people, 1209 00:59:04,840 --> 00:59:06,520 Speaker 2: could you please not use it? And then she goes 1210 00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:09,840 Speaker 2: and I just I just disagree, right, So then she 1211 00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,360 Speaker 2: flags the post and I see it. 1212 00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:16,000 Speaker 3: I'm gonna be the same fucking way, right. That person 1213 00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,480 Speaker 3: gotta go, Yes, they do. They got to go because 1214 00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:21,360 Speaker 3: like the group consider it. Yeah, the group, you got 1215 00:59:21,360 --> 00:59:21,680 Speaker 3: to go. 1216 00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,280 Speaker 2: Man, Like, this isn't this is I've been I cannot 1217 00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:27,480 Speaker 2: stress this enough. This ain't freedom of speech, niggas, this 1218 00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:29,120 Speaker 2: is not this is not your platform. 1219 00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:31,240 Speaker 1: This is not democracis dictatorship. 1220 00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, like, it's not. It's not about you coming first. 1221 00:59:34,800 --> 00:59:36,600 Speaker 2: It's not about well, I just want to say it. 1222 00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,360 Speaker 2: You can go with the other people and say shit 1223 00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:41,640 Speaker 2: where they want to say it. It's fucking it is 1224 00:59:41,800 --> 00:59:46,160 Speaker 2: really fucking frustrating, and I'm tired of us having to 1225 00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:49,000 Speaker 2: be the people that have to fucking always capitulate to 1226 00:59:49,080 --> 00:59:52,960 Speaker 2: this bullshit. You learned, Okay, so it hurt that you're 1227 00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:55,720 Speaker 2: not in the group. Cool, next time you in a group, 1228 00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,480 Speaker 2: you'll learn this ain't some shit that you can just 1229 00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:01,760 Speaker 2: do with everybody. You didn't want to learn it, people 1230 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,880 Speaker 2: try to teach you. Now, I got to be the 1231 01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 2: bad guy. I don't like kicking people out of the group. 1232 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,560 Speaker 1: I really do, right, that's the last thing we want 1233 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:10,840 Speaker 1: to do because we have we know that we have 1234 01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:12,720 Speaker 1: a bunch of cool people, bunch of funny people, a 1235 01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 1: bunch of people that love to interact. For a lot 1236 01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:17,000 Speaker 1: of people, this is their adupe place. For a lot 1237 01:00:17,000 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: of people, this is their their their place that they 1238 01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,520 Speaker 1: you know, they enjoyed their time, and we don't mind it. 1239 01:00:22,560 --> 01:00:24,880 Speaker 1: But we also want to be a cool place. We 1240 01:00:24,880 --> 01:00:26,840 Speaker 1: don't want to being harassed. Like there are a lot 1241 01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,480 Speaker 1: of places you can go if you want to be harassed, 1242 01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:30,240 Speaker 1: to be a troth. There's tons of places like that, 1243 01:00:30,280 --> 01:00:31,760 Speaker 1: and all they do is trow each other. Go have 1244 01:00:31,800 --> 01:00:32,680 Speaker 1: a good time over there. 1245 01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I saw. I mean. 1246 01:00:34,160 --> 01:00:36,560 Speaker 2: Now, there were some brothers that also said like, hey, 1247 01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:39,680 Speaker 2: this is fucked up, mostly after I said something, and 1248 01:00:39,720 --> 01:00:43,200 Speaker 2: definitely after some sisters said something first, you know what 1249 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:43,600 Speaker 2: I mean. 1250 01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:44,800 Speaker 3: But the point being. 1251 01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,720 Speaker 2: Like she ain't want to learn after all that shit, 1252 01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:49,800 Speaker 2: if she turned off her notifications for that thread and 1253 01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:56,240 Speaker 2: to stop responding cool, Just know that you can't be 1254 01:00:56,360 --> 01:01:00,200 Speaker 2: in the group acting like that period, you know. So 1255 01:01:00,480 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 2: I don't know, man, it's I just I wanted to 1256 01:01:03,280 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 2: run it, boy you But now the more I think 1257 01:01:04,680 --> 01:01:06,160 Speaker 2: about it, I'm not putting up a pole. I'm not 1258 01:01:06,200 --> 01:01:07,920 Speaker 2: asking anybody else. This is how I feel, and if 1259 01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,040 Speaker 2: people don't like it, then come at me. I don't 1260 01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:11,400 Speaker 2: give a fuck, you. 1261 01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,280 Speaker 3: Know, And anybody that doesn't like it in the group, 1262 01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:14,720 Speaker 3: you can feel free to lead a group. 1263 01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:18,600 Speaker 2: This is our space, and this is the space that 1264 01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:22,480 Speaker 2: I want to reflect our values. And one of those 1265 01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:24,680 Speaker 2: values is you're not just gonna come into group and 1266 01:01:24,800 --> 01:01:25,560 Speaker 2: show the fuck out. 1267 01:01:25,560 --> 01:01:26,760 Speaker 3: And then we got to sit back and. 1268 01:01:26,680 --> 01:01:32,480 Speaker 2: Take it all right. We had comments on episodes, and 1269 01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:34,480 Speaker 2: thank you, Karen. I just needed somebody to bounce. 1270 01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,480 Speaker 3: That off of no noble. I had to think about it. 1271 01:01:37,520 --> 01:01:39,920 Speaker 2: I appreciate you actually thinking through it with me, because 1272 01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:42,880 Speaker 2: you know, I went through all the same stages of like, 1273 01:01:42,960 --> 01:01:45,320 Speaker 2: well what about this sac because she is a person 1274 01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,960 Speaker 2: of color, and maybe it's niggas and wherever she's from. 1275 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,960 Speaker 2: It's like Misconsonance was like, maybe it's niggas in Wisconsonan. 1276 01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:53,160 Speaker 2: It is just letting this slide, you know. I was like, 1277 01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:56,080 Speaker 2: all those are bad reasons because other people told her 1278 01:01:56,160 --> 01:01:58,600 Speaker 2: it was not cool, and she just went I disagree 1279 01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:00,480 Speaker 2: and kept moving right. 1280 01:02:00,520 --> 01:02:02,520 Speaker 1: And like I said before, and I would continue to 1281 01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,480 Speaker 1: say this. With fifteen hundred people, we have people from 1282 01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:09,520 Speaker 1: all groups, all nationalities, all orientations, all religious backgrounds, and 1283 01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:11,760 Speaker 1: they have learned to get in this group and have 1284 01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:13,600 Speaker 1: a good time. And I had these problems. 1285 01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:16,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, people will wish and married Christmas to each other, 1286 01:02:16,240 --> 01:02:18,560 Speaker 2: and people were like, some people were like, I don't 1287 01:02:18,560 --> 01:02:22,280 Speaker 2: celebrate Christmas. And you know what, everybody figured the way out, right, 1288 01:02:22,400 --> 01:02:24,480 Speaker 2: everybody figured a way around and nobody was in there 1289 01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:26,240 Speaker 2: like you're gonna take this married Christmas? 1290 01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,240 Speaker 3: You know what I mean? Like it was none of that. 1291 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:30,720 Speaker 3: People figured it out, man. Like I think the. 1292 01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:34,800 Speaker 2: Group's pretty cool, pretty had some social norms that you know, 1293 01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:35,360 Speaker 2: I don't. 1294 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:37,040 Speaker 3: I'm not trying to make up perfect group. 1295 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,000 Speaker 2: People say shit all the time that I'm like, I 1296 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,800 Speaker 2: don't agree with that, or that's kind of fucked up, 1297 01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,880 Speaker 2: or that joke's a little racy or whatever, and I 1298 01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,480 Speaker 2: just let this lide, cause you know, I do want 1299 01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,240 Speaker 2: it to kind of have the same feel as the 1300 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:52,880 Speaker 2: show has, where it's not just trying to get everybody's 1301 01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:56,520 Speaker 2: you know, opinion on the same page, because it's not 1302 01:02:56,560 --> 01:02:59,000 Speaker 2: always gonna be that. But certain shit is just not 1303 01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,840 Speaker 2: gonna be tolerated, you know. And like I said, I 1304 01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,960 Speaker 2: wouldn't let somebody in there calling people homophobic slurs or 1305 01:03:05,320 --> 01:03:09,600 Speaker 2: other racial slurs for other races and shit women, yeah, 1306 01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:12,000 Speaker 2: coming at women. I wouldn't let that shit happen, just 1307 01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:13,600 Speaker 2: the same way I wouldn't let a white person come 1308 01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:15,760 Speaker 2: in the group and do that shit to people. I can't. 1309 01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:18,720 Speaker 2: I can't allow it just because it's so on. That's 1310 01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:24,840 Speaker 2: the Latina. It's sorry anyway. Episode ten ninety seven favorite 1311 01:03:24,920 --> 01:03:28,400 Speaker 2: show was our feedback episode Teresa Roda and sadly, I 1312 01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:31,600 Speaker 2: have already broken my pledge to not eat slave shrimp. 1313 01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:33,720 Speaker 3: We talked about them slave shriump show. 1314 01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 5: Ah. 1315 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:39,360 Speaker 2: I went to two different restaurants and had shrimp as 1316 01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:40,120 Speaker 2: part of my meal. 1317 01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:41,000 Speaker 3: Sniffles. 1318 01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:43,760 Speaker 2: I could almost taste the little child's hands and tears 1319 01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:44,720 Speaker 2: that harvested them. 1320 01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 3: Ah, that's what make it take. That's what gets the sweetness. 1321 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:55,080 Speaker 1: Some delicious salty slash. A little bit of sweet with 1322 01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,080 Speaker 1: a little bit of pepperrika, sprinkle down it a little 1323 01:03:57,080 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 1: bit of prosty slave tears. M. 1324 01:03:59,360 --> 01:04:05,160 Speaker 2: Little babies tis the younger to sweeten M. Making them 1325 01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:09,280 Speaker 2: women deliver babies own at work in the cage. The 1326 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,200 Speaker 2: baby come out, just start peeling shrimp. 1327 01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 3: I'm sad. Which is better, bullet ball or bulletball Extreme? 1328 01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 2: Twenty four percent of our audiences the original is better, 1329 01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:24,200 Speaker 2: which makes seventy five seventy six percent of our audience 1330 01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:28,320 Speaker 2: say bulletball Extreme is the way to go. I was 1331 01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:32,720 Speaker 2: kind of shocked by those jokes, but I'm glad you 1332 01:04:32,720 --> 01:04:36,880 Speaker 2: guys are honest. We had episode ten ninety eight R 1333 01:04:36,920 --> 01:04:41,840 Speaker 2: and Beef where we discussed a tanking I mean, wait, 1334 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:46,520 Speaker 2: no genuine and tyrese beefing and a bunch of other stuff, 1335 01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:48,800 Speaker 2: eve E writs, And I honestly wasn't that excited to 1336 01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:51,439 Speaker 2: see Star Wars when it was announced because the last 1337 01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:53,919 Speaker 2: three were so boring to me. I loved the original three, 1338 01:04:54,240 --> 01:04:56,560 Speaker 2: but the last ones just kind of made me lose 1339 01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:58,560 Speaker 2: interest in the series in general. 1340 01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:01,440 Speaker 3: But at the time time, I like the third one 1341 01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:02,360 Speaker 3: all the time. 1342 01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:04,240 Speaker 1: Which set we're talking about. 1343 01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:05,720 Speaker 3: The prequels is what she's talking about. 1344 01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:08,320 Speaker 1: The last The last one was she loved. 1345 01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:10,520 Speaker 3: The original three but not the prequels. 1346 01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:12,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I'm adverse of that, my bad. 1347 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:15,960 Speaker 3: Yeah no, no, I mean it's cool either way. It's 1348 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,840 Speaker 3: cool with me. I don't I'm not trying to tell 1349 01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:18,920 Speaker 3: people how to feel about. 1350 01:05:18,960 --> 01:05:19,960 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's my person. 1351 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:25,560 Speaker 2: I love Revenge of the seth I like I love Return, 1352 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:29,720 Speaker 2: not Return. I love Empire Strikes Back and a new Hope. 1353 01:05:29,720 --> 01:05:31,320 Speaker 2: I haven't watched it a long time. I really need 1354 01:05:31,320 --> 01:05:31,920 Speaker 2: to rewatch it. 1355 01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah you know what, me too. Yeah, some of that 1356 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:36,280 Speaker 1: stuff I had since I was ten. 1357 01:05:37,040 --> 01:05:38,960 Speaker 2: But as the time of the release came and the 1358 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:40,800 Speaker 2: marketing was everywhere, I decided to give it a shot. 1359 01:05:40,800 --> 01:05:42,320 Speaker 2: It didn't hurt that there was a black lead. 1360 01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 3: Boy. 1361 01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:44,480 Speaker 2: Am I glad I gave it a chance because I 1362 01:05:44,520 --> 01:05:45,840 Speaker 2: was on the edge of my seat. 1363 01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:49,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, we saw for the third time Thursday, I think, 1364 01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:52,080 Speaker 3: no Friday, Friday, Yeah, yesterday. Yeah. 1365 01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,400 Speaker 1: We had a really good time and it was so 1366 01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:57,160 Speaker 1: much fun watching people respond and react. And I was 1367 01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,360 Speaker 1: joking Roger. It was a lady. I think I was asuming 1368 01:06:00,320 --> 01:06:02,360 Speaker 1: she was black up in the top corner. 1369 01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:03,680 Speaker 3: Caught up. Are you about to spoil the movie? 1370 01:06:03,800 --> 01:06:04,920 Speaker 1: My bad? Go ahead? 1371 01:06:05,000 --> 01:06:05,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm sorry. 1372 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:07,560 Speaker 1: I forgot some of y'all ain't watched it yet, my bad? 1373 01:06:07,640 --> 01:06:10,240 Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry, y'all. 1374 01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:12,240 Speaker 3: It's all good. You didn't spoil it. You didn't spoil it. 1375 01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:15,800 Speaker 3: I just I've heard you tell the story before, so 1376 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:16,600 Speaker 3: I knew her it was gone. 1377 01:06:18,880 --> 01:06:21,720 Speaker 2: So yeah, I laughed the chairs on the edge of 1378 01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:23,320 Speaker 2: my I was laughed in our chair, and I even 1379 01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:24,400 Speaker 2: shard some nerd tears. 1380 01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:25,720 Speaker 3: This movie was terrific. 1381 01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:27,960 Speaker 2: All the new characters were fantastic, and I plan on 1382 01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,720 Speaker 2: seeing in theaters a game very soon. Yeah, I'm so 1383 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:33,520 Speaker 2: shocked by the number of people who've seen it multiple times. 1384 01:06:33,600 --> 01:06:35,600 Speaker 1: Yes, I've seen people. I've seen it twice. I've seen 1385 01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:38,120 Speaker 1: it three times. I've seen it. My mama going to 1386 01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:39,920 Speaker 1: see and I'm going to see it with huh, I've 1387 01:06:39,960 --> 01:06:42,840 Speaker 1: seen it, my brother going to see it. I think. 1388 01:06:43,120 --> 01:06:46,760 Speaker 1: You know, they probably statistically can't show it, but it 1389 01:06:46,760 --> 01:06:49,120 Speaker 1: wouldn't amaze me if they did a poll how many 1390 01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:52,360 Speaker 1: of y'all have seen this movie more than once? What 1391 01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:53,800 Speaker 1: the percentage of that number would be. 1392 01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:55,680 Speaker 3: It's the Titanic for nerds. 1393 01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I've seen it three. 1394 01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:01,640 Speaker 2: Times, and I could go back like I'm not like 1395 01:07:01,800 --> 01:07:04,800 Speaker 2: at this point, my rational adult brain is trying to 1396 01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,080 Speaker 2: take over and be like, come on, man, you think 1397 01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:08,560 Speaker 2: keep going back and see the same movie. 1398 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:11,040 Speaker 3: But I'm like, I kind of it's not on Blu 1399 01:07:11,120 --> 01:07:14,240 Speaker 3: ray yet, you know what I mean? Shit, just time 1400 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:16,160 Speaker 3: go back and see it in through the three d imax. 1401 01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,520 Speaker 3: We already did, but man, see it again. 1402 01:07:19,400 --> 01:07:22,520 Speaker 1: See if we can have somewhere where they ooh, if 1403 01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,240 Speaker 1: they're doing it. The one that Discovery place was like 1404 01:07:24,280 --> 01:07:24,680 Speaker 1: a dome. 1405 01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:27,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't watch it. I don't want to watch 1406 01:07:27,280 --> 01:07:29,720 Speaker 2: movies in that though. That's not a good setup for movies. 1407 01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,680 Speaker 2: Oh okay uh Anyway, At first, all I saw were 1408 01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:35,040 Speaker 2: rave reviews for this movie, But then I noticed people 1409 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:37,320 Speaker 2: in the reviews again and they picked the movie saying 1410 01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:39,200 Speaker 2: it was too much like the original ones, even though 1411 01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:40,080 Speaker 2: the main complained for the. 1412 01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:42,160 Speaker 3: Last one was that they weren't enough like the original ones. 1413 01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:44,680 Speaker 2: I began to read between the lines and those that 1414 01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:46,240 Speaker 2: a lot of criticism had to do with the fact 1415 01:07:46,280 --> 01:07:48,080 Speaker 2: that the cast is so diverse and they couldn't quote 1416 01:07:48,160 --> 01:07:50,640 Speaker 2: unquote connect right. Some even went as far as to 1417 01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:53,120 Speaker 2: say John Boyeger was an affirmative Action choice and he 1418 01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:56,640 Speaker 2: ruined the movie. Fuck those irrelevant motherfuckers. John Boyeger was 1419 01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:58,880 Speaker 2: one of the best parts of the movie. Haters are 1420 01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:01,320 Speaker 2: just going to have to stay mad, just like Basic 1421 01:08:01,360 --> 01:08:04,280 Speaker 2: gas Abby in the meantime Star Wars franchise with Gachi 1422 01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:07,240 Speaker 2: to get that paper mine included, Yes it will if. 1423 01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:11,520 Speaker 1: You haven't seen it, go see it, y'all. Is it 1424 01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:13,160 Speaker 1: is a very and you put like this, I'm gonna 1425 01:08:13,160 --> 01:08:16,400 Speaker 1: tell people now you don't have to see the other 1426 01:08:16,560 --> 01:08:20,800 Speaker 1: six to catch your own, Like it's a bonus, but 1427 01:08:20,840 --> 01:08:23,479 Speaker 1: you don't have to see it to catch you on anyway. 1428 01:08:23,479 --> 01:08:25,439 Speaker 3: It's the ship. I don't at this point, I'm not 1429 01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:29,599 Speaker 3: even defending the movie anymore, non awesome. Yeah, you don't 1430 01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 3: like it, you don't have to like it. I'm not 1431 01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:32,360 Speaker 3: telling everybody they have to like it. 1432 01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:36,200 Speaker 2: But I know I loved it, and I loved it 1433 01:08:36,240 --> 01:08:39,519 Speaker 2: every time I've seen it, and it was funny to me. 1434 01:08:39,720 --> 01:08:41,920 Speaker 2: I was just a fire starter at k Bass said 1435 01:08:41,920 --> 01:08:45,120 Speaker 2: it was just alright to him he saw twice already, 1436 01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:48,960 Speaker 2: so okay. But to be alright, how many alright movies 1437 01:08:48,960 --> 01:08:49,920 Speaker 2: you seen twice this year? 1438 01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:52,680 Speaker 3: None? Somebody was trying to compare Mad Max to say 1439 01:08:52,720 --> 01:08:54,320 Speaker 3: it was better. I was like, did you see Mad 1440 01:08:54,320 --> 01:08:55,679 Speaker 3: Max in the theater three times? 1441 01:08:55,960 --> 01:08:56,080 Speaker 1: Oh? 1442 01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:58,800 Speaker 3: Okay, Well must have been just okay to me. I 1443 01:08:58,800 --> 01:08:59,439 Speaker 3: still don't own that. 1444 01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:03,400 Speaker 2: No, Blu Ray anyway? Who's right in the beef Tyrese 1445 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:12,599 Speaker 2: Genuine a Tank? Uh? Twelve percent say Tyrese, eighteen percent 1446 01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:16,160 Speaker 2: say Genuine, which I think I spelled wrong, and seventy 1447 01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:17,200 Speaker 2: one percent say Tank. 1448 01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:20,960 Speaker 3: This counter I spelled it wrong. If he spelled it wrong. 1449 01:09:21,080 --> 01:09:24,439 Speaker 2: When he's brot his name genuine, feel like that shouldn't 1450 01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:27,680 Speaker 2: count anyway. B Touch says I need a none of 1451 01:09:27,680 --> 01:09:28,400 Speaker 2: the above option. 1452 01:09:28,560 --> 01:09:28,880 Speaker 3: Lol. 1453 01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:30,560 Speaker 2: All three of them act like sixteen year olds in 1454 01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:33,320 Speaker 2: public when they're each well on their way to being 1455 01:09:33,400 --> 01:09:34,599 Speaker 2: over the age of forty. 1456 01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:37,880 Speaker 3: Who did you think was right? 1457 01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:40,560 Speaker 1: Can Tank? Because Tank is like, I ain't gonna do it. 1458 01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:42,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, Tanking even said nothing, man, how did y'all put 1459 01:09:42,680 --> 01:09:43,640 Speaker 3: his name in that right? 1460 01:09:43,680 --> 01:09:45,880 Speaker 1: And that's how he won? To me? He was like, uh, 1461 01:09:46,040 --> 01:09:47,960 Speaker 1: is we torn or not? Doll, Just just let me 1462 01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:49,639 Speaker 1: know because if we ain't torn, I go be doing 1463 01:09:49,680 --> 01:09:50,200 Speaker 1: some other shit. 1464 01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:58,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. As Jobessy would say, nobody wins, yeah no no, no, no, no, no, no, 1465 01:09:58,400 --> 01:10:03,639 Speaker 3: no no no no when we I can't even remember 1466 01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:07,440 Speaker 3: the words fight for us, and I argue, nobody wins. 1467 01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:12,840 Speaker 1: When you threw that pan at me? Ha, nobody? 1468 01:10:14,320 --> 01:10:19,880 Speaker 3: Uh what was saying in R and B nobody uh 1469 01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:23,000 Speaker 3: ten ninety nine fit in the description was a title 1470 01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:28,720 Speaker 3: for this episode. We talked about DestinE even less, the 1471 01:10:29,000 --> 01:10:35,080 Speaker 3: uh miss uh something like either miss miss uh universe 1472 01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:40,640 Speaker 3: pat uh contestant that lost her spot because she was Islamophobic, 1473 01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:45,759 Speaker 3: And we talked about Bertie Sanders campaign still in Hillary's 1474 01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:47,439 Speaker 3: voter data and all this kind of stuff. 1475 01:10:47,439 --> 01:10:50,960 Speaker 2: Meet Mill in court, Steve Harvey crowning the wrong contestant. Yep, 1476 01:10:51,479 --> 01:10:54,680 Speaker 2: Damien Jackson says, nigga, the picture for this episode ended me. 1477 01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:58,120 Speaker 3: Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. There's a picture 1478 01:10:58,160 --> 01:11:05,600 Speaker 3: of the mugshot for that kid. Who who was. 1479 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:06,160 Speaker 1: Who was the person that drew that shit? 1480 01:11:06,760 --> 01:11:08,719 Speaker 3: You're right, they asked. 1481 01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:10,519 Speaker 1: They did not get the professional artists. 1482 01:11:10,640 --> 01:11:12,479 Speaker 3: That was the artist from bobs Burgers who. 1483 01:11:14,560 --> 01:11:18,919 Speaker 1: Was like Laylor Right, here's a description draw something. 1484 01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:24,320 Speaker 3: Baby, Yeah, Evie, He says, it comes as absolutely no 1485 01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:27,240 Speaker 3: surprise to me that Anthony Camilla is a woman beater. 1486 01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:30,000 Speaker 2: He seems like the type to prey on people weaker 1487 01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:31,720 Speaker 2: than him, but in typical keyboard. 1488 01:11:31,400 --> 01:11:33,599 Speaker 3: Warrior fashion, he won't say shit to someone's face. 1489 01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,760 Speaker 2: Noticed how he was going off in that rant about 1490 01:11:35,760 --> 01:11:38,559 Speaker 2: that woman who allegedly attacked him, and how he said 1491 01:11:38,600 --> 01:11:40,600 Speaker 2: he could have killed her if he wanted to, and 1492 01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,800 Speaker 2: he would have been justified. If he truly felt that way, 1493 01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,840 Speaker 2: he would have done it instead of ranting about it 1494 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:46,800 Speaker 2: on the internet. I met him shortly after he got 1495 01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:49,160 Speaker 2: kicked off of Terrest of Radio at a poker game. 1496 01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,880 Speaker 2: I had casually asked him about the shitty stuff he 1497 01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:54,679 Speaker 2: said on his radio show. That loser had absolutely nothing 1498 01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:57,000 Speaker 2: to say because he's a coward. And that's what keyboard 1499 01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:59,120 Speaker 2: warriors do. They back down in public with they have 1500 01:11:59,200 --> 01:12:01,880 Speaker 2: plenty to say online by the safety of that computer. 1501 01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:03,960 Speaker 2: I'd also like to point out, because I could be 1502 01:12:04,000 --> 01:12:07,000 Speaker 2: petty as hell, that he was also extremely unattractive. 1503 01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:10,519 Speaker 3: Yeah he is not. He's an unfortunate looking fellow. 1504 01:12:12,160 --> 01:12:14,080 Speaker 2: I like to feel more sympathy for the woman in 1505 01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:16,160 Speaker 2: that periscope video, but I noticed how quick she was 1506 01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,640 Speaker 2: to call him a bigot. If that really bothered her, 1507 01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:21,280 Speaker 2: then why take issue with it in that moment instead 1508 01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:22,040 Speaker 2: of just dumping him? 1509 01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:27,960 Speaker 3: Girl by right right? I caught that shit immediately. Oh yeah, 1510 01:12:28,000 --> 01:12:28,759 Speaker 3: he a racist? 1511 01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:30,120 Speaker 1: You been? 1512 01:12:30,320 --> 01:12:31,719 Speaker 3: That was one another year ago? 1513 01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:36,040 Speaker 1: The racist. So what are we talking about here, ma'am? 1514 01:12:36,400 --> 01:12:38,240 Speaker 3: I can't believe I'll let you put your racist dig 1515 01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:41,800 Speaker 3: inside of me, right you shocked and take me on 1516 01:12:41,920 --> 01:12:45,360 Speaker 3: dates and spending money and riding her cars. I'm disgusting 1517 01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:50,000 Speaker 3: with you. The poe was, will Meek Mill go back 1518 01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:50,400 Speaker 3: to jail? 1519 01:12:50,880 --> 01:12:56,600 Speaker 2: We gonna know until I think in February. But you 1520 01:12:56,640 --> 01:12:58,479 Speaker 2: know he made this case in front of judge. He's 1521 01:12:58,520 --> 01:13:02,960 Speaker 2: growing up, Nikki is helping I'm become an adult. Yes, 1522 01:13:03,000 --> 01:13:05,840 Speaker 2: he's going back. No, he's learned his lessons. Seventy eight 1523 01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,519 Speaker 2: percent and you think he's going back to jail, And 1524 01:13:08,800 --> 01:13:11,400 Speaker 2: twenty two percent said he has learned his lesson. So 1525 01:13:12,800 --> 01:13:14,800 Speaker 2: it might be talking about free Meek Meal this time 1526 01:13:14,880 --> 01:13:15,840 Speaker 2: next year, all right. 1527 01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:16,960 Speaker 1: Uh. 1528 01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:19,599 Speaker 2: We had no comments on the episode eleven hundred racial 1529 01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:23,320 Speaker 2: styling and profiling. Uh, and the poe we had no 1530 01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,080 Speaker 2: comments on. But it was like, which do you celebrate Christmas? 1531 01:13:26,840 --> 01:13:31,680 Speaker 3: Uh? What? What was it? What option? Make sure I 1532 01:13:31,720 --> 01:13:32,519 Speaker 3: got in the right order? 1533 01:13:33,439 --> 01:13:36,320 Speaker 2: Hanekah, Festivus, Christmas quans or something not listed? 1534 01:13:36,360 --> 01:13:37,080 Speaker 3: And nothing. 1535 01:13:38,400 --> 01:13:42,320 Speaker 2: And nobody left for comments. So if they clicked something 1536 01:13:42,360 --> 01:13:45,200 Speaker 2: not listed, that's fucked up because you could have told 1537 01:13:45,240 --> 01:13:45,840 Speaker 2: us what it was. 1538 01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:48,160 Speaker 3: Uh. 1539 01:13:49,520 --> 01:13:49,800 Speaker 1: People. 1540 01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:53,960 Speaker 2: Honiga got five percent festivals got three percent, Christmas got 1541 01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:58,160 Speaker 2: seventy percent, Quansa got eight percent, five percent got something 1542 01:13:58,160 --> 01:14:00,920 Speaker 2: not listed, and ten percent don't celebrate in thing the 1543 01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:03,080 Speaker 2: holiday time quote unquote of December. 1544 01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:09,599 Speaker 3: Uh. Lastly we had eleven oh one Making a Murderer, Uh, 1545 01:14:09,680 --> 01:14:13,280 Speaker 3: where we got two comments. We talked about that dot 1546 01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:16,840 Speaker 3: Crime True Trime documentary series Making a Murderer and the 1547 01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:21,040 Speaker 3: disconnect that we feel as black people. Uh. Steve Harvey 1548 01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:22,440 Speaker 3: got that contract extension. 1549 01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 1: Uh. 1550 01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:27,600 Speaker 3: Tasa Smith found out her husband was married already A 1551 01:14:27,600 --> 01:14:28,320 Speaker 3: bunch of stuff. 1552 01:14:28,880 --> 01:14:32,680 Speaker 2: Wanga says, I don't listen to much Kesha, so that's 1553 01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:33,240 Speaker 2: the thing. 1554 01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:35,639 Speaker 3: That you were. Okay, we talked about all that interesting 1555 01:14:35,640 --> 01:14:39,559 Speaker 3: stuff and everybody got stuck on cash. I don't listen 1556 01:14:39,600 --> 01:14:42,160 Speaker 3: to much Kesha. But I like that Die Young song 1557 01:14:42,240 --> 01:14:44,320 Speaker 3: mainly because of the clip of Russell Westbrook saying that 1558 01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:49,639 Speaker 3: during the NBA broadcast he was okay. Uh. 1559 01:14:49,960 --> 01:14:52,840 Speaker 2: Heroja Ship says Karen telling it like it like it? 1560 01:14:53,360 --> 01:14:55,599 Speaker 2: What Karen telling it like it is? 1561 01:14:55,920 --> 01:14:57,440 Speaker 3: With this Kesha nonsense? 1562 01:14:57,880 --> 01:15:00,479 Speaker 2: I too, like rod Herd Ketshaka sing years go before 1563 01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:02,479 Speaker 2: she popped out, but not a single person compare her 1564 01:15:02,479 --> 01:15:05,840 Speaker 2: to any other good or great singers. All they say 1565 01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:08,519 Speaker 2: is that the girl can really sing, which to me 1566 01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:10,679 Speaker 2: is something the singer should be doing already. 1567 01:15:10,720 --> 01:15:14,080 Speaker 3: It is the basic party doing your job. I feel you. 1568 01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,200 Speaker 3: I just think it's no longer the basic part. 1569 01:15:16,040 --> 01:15:19,200 Speaker 1: Of doing your job, and it's sad and it's almost 1570 01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,920 Speaker 1: uh and it's kind of not the same. It's almost 1571 01:15:22,960 --> 01:15:25,799 Speaker 1: similar to what they did to Monica, because Monica actually 1572 01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,880 Speaker 1: has a gorgeous voice and she can sing. But when 1573 01:15:28,920 --> 01:15:35,080 Speaker 1: her albums come out, you're like, girl, no, you know, 1574 01:15:35,200 --> 01:15:37,840 Speaker 1: it's like, what are they doing? How they're marketing you 1575 01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:40,880 Speaker 1: instead of just really allowing you to use your talents. 1576 01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:43,120 Speaker 1: That's that's that's the problem. I have put out an 1577 01:15:43,120 --> 01:15:45,559 Speaker 1: album where her talents are displayed without all of this 1578 01:15:47,080 --> 01:15:50,400 Speaker 1: ahead girl all in the background, which which you know, 1579 01:15:50,479 --> 01:15:52,439 Speaker 1: and I understand there are some pop shit that that 1580 01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:55,160 Speaker 1: does that and it bang. But and a lot of 1581 01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:57,559 Speaker 1: that too is because I'm not a big Catcher fan, 1582 01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:01,320 Speaker 1: so also I'm that's my bias coming through. It's one 1583 01:16:01,360 --> 01:16:03,639 Speaker 1: of those things where Okay, I want to see your 1584 01:16:03,640 --> 01:16:06,800 Speaker 1: talents on a record, now, on a YouTube clip, now, 1585 01:16:06,840 --> 01:16:09,080 Speaker 1: on the show that I'm not going to. I want 1586 01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:10,080 Speaker 1: to see it on an album. 1587 01:16:10,800 --> 01:16:11,240 Speaker 3: All right. 1588 01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:14,080 Speaker 2: Anyways, thanks for the two music in the news this week, 1589 01:16:14,120 --> 01:16:16,719 Speaker 2: one from each of you. The sweetness that is Adele 1590 01:16:16,840 --> 01:16:19,880 Speaker 2: and apparently the low key ratchet music that is mc hammer. 1591 01:16:20,320 --> 01:16:22,120 Speaker 2: I had no idea this was the case of him 1592 01:16:22,160 --> 01:16:26,200 Speaker 2: in fact one moment and then I guess she went back. 1593 01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:28,280 Speaker 2: I don't know, maybe she pumping the bumps. 1594 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:30,840 Speaker 3: I don't know. Can put it on repeat? 1595 01:16:31,120 --> 01:16:31,240 Speaker 1: Uh? 1596 01:16:31,360 --> 01:16:34,439 Speaker 3: And then the Paul was can catch the thing for real? Nah? 1597 01:16:34,520 --> 01:16:39,000 Speaker 3: I doubt it? Yes or yes? Forty three percent y'all 1598 01:16:39,000 --> 01:16:42,680 Speaker 3: say yes, and fifty percent said you doubt she can 1599 01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:46,240 Speaker 3: really sing. We had a couple of voicemails and we 1600 01:16:46,240 --> 01:16:49,160 Speaker 3: see if I can play those real quick. Here's the 1601 01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:49,639 Speaker 3: first one. 1602 01:16:50,640 --> 01:16:51,800 Speaker 4: Hey, guys, this is Shrey. 1603 01:16:52,640 --> 01:16:56,679 Speaker 5: I've been on vacation and haven't listened for about nine 1604 01:16:56,760 --> 01:17:01,799 Speaker 5: days and was catching up today and I cannot stress 1605 01:17:01,920 --> 01:17:05,719 Speaker 5: enough how much I missed you, guys. I so didn't 1606 01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:10,280 Speaker 5: realize how bad until I started listening. And I'm telling 1607 01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:13,679 Speaker 5: you what. Normally, when the song for Fucking with Black 1608 01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:18,720 Speaker 5: People comes on, I just hummet. But I got caught 1609 01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:21,720 Speaker 5: by a co worker aft like singing it, and she 1610 01:17:21,840 --> 01:17:24,640 Speaker 5: looked at me so strange and I just kind of 1611 01:17:24,680 --> 01:17:27,120 Speaker 5: like shrug my shoulders, like don't know what to tell you, 1612 01:17:27,800 --> 01:17:30,639 Speaker 5: and I was just waiting for Karen's but it don't 1613 01:17:30,640 --> 01:17:33,559 Speaker 5: both at the end. That's like one of my favorite 1614 01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:35,839 Speaker 5: parts of the show. I don't know why, but anyway, 1615 01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:38,519 Speaker 5: I was listened to that episode where you guys were 1616 01:17:38,520 --> 01:17:43,640 Speaker 5: talking about like Star Wars having a diverse calf and 1617 01:17:43,880 --> 01:17:50,639 Speaker 5: I could not agree more. I mean, you'll no, I'm white, 1618 01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:53,880 Speaker 5: But when I was listening to it, I was like, 1619 01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:59,280 Speaker 5: they're so right on, because like, let's just Hunger Games 1620 01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,160 Speaker 5: that trilogy. I mean, that's like futuristic. And the only 1621 01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:06,120 Speaker 5: black character in that whole movie is when he Kravits, 1622 01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,120 Speaker 5: and his role was to dress the white girl. 1623 01:18:09,240 --> 01:18:09,639 Speaker 1: That's it. 1624 01:18:09,680 --> 01:18:11,519 Speaker 5: And he doesn't even make it to the whole trilogy. 1625 01:18:12,000 --> 01:18:13,120 Speaker 4: They kill his ass off. 1626 01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:17,280 Speaker 5: And there are like two other futuristic movies that are 1627 01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:21,200 Speaker 5: along those same lines that I personally like the storyline 1628 01:18:21,240 --> 01:18:25,400 Speaker 5: of Divergent and The Maize. I just got through watching 1629 01:18:25,960 --> 01:18:28,200 Speaker 5: The Maids too. It just came out the other day 1630 01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:33,080 Speaker 5: and I actually remember thinking, are there no black kids 1631 01:18:33,760 --> 01:18:36,320 Speaker 5: anywhere ever in the future? 1632 01:18:36,680 --> 01:18:37,719 Speaker 4: The kids, like, they're. 1633 01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:42,559 Speaker 5: Not they don't exist in movies and anyway, I just 1634 01:18:42,600 --> 01:18:43,840 Speaker 5: want to let you know you're not the only one 1635 01:18:43,880 --> 01:18:48,120 Speaker 5: that notices. But anyway, it's really really good to hear 1636 01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:51,080 Speaker 5: you guys today. I'm actually looking forward to going back 1637 01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:54,360 Speaker 5: to work tomorrow. Oh that's why I haven't been listening 1638 01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:58,040 Speaker 5: on vacation nego see my husband's grandmother. But anyway, you guys, 1639 01:18:58,080 --> 01:18:58,720 Speaker 5: have a good day. 1640 01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:02,240 Speaker 1: By peace, be safe going up and down the roads. 1641 01:19:02,520 --> 01:19:06,679 Speaker 2: That's a superpower. Make people want to go back to work. Yeah, 1642 01:19:06,800 --> 01:19:11,080 Speaker 2: the show must be good. Yeah that and yeah, I remember, 1643 01:19:11,280 --> 01:19:13,479 Speaker 2: I don't think this was back in a long time ago, 1644 01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:16,960 Speaker 2: back when, back when we had one mic and all 1645 01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:19,559 Speaker 2: this shit. I remember I used to do my random 1646 01:19:19,600 --> 01:19:22,960 Speaker 2: thoughts and one time, I think maybe one of the 1647 01:19:22,960 --> 01:19:25,720 Speaker 2: first few episodes we started with the ones about my 1648 01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:28,160 Speaker 2: random thoughts about science fiction movies, and one of them 1649 01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:34,840 Speaker 2: was in science fiction, Uh, something awful happens to black 1650 01:19:34,880 --> 01:19:37,360 Speaker 2: people because there's never. 1651 01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:38,160 Speaker 3: Any in the movies. 1652 01:19:39,160 --> 01:19:42,040 Speaker 1: It just affected us. 1653 01:19:42,160 --> 01:19:44,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, any of them that actually take place like this 1654 01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:46,800 Speaker 2: in the distant future, you always. 1655 01:19:46,560 --> 01:19:49,880 Speaker 1: Have, y'all. We ain't gonna be right here too much longer. 1656 01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:52,559 Speaker 3: Yeah, like it might be one black person, but it's 1657 01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:55,040 Speaker 3: never like seven black people. It's never like a group 1658 01:19:55,040 --> 01:19:55,599 Speaker 3: of black people. 1659 01:19:56,479 --> 01:19:59,640 Speaker 1: We don't do a collective group of parently Yeah, I. 1660 01:19:59,640 --> 01:20:02,360 Speaker 2: Mean it's got years, but still there used to be 1661 01:20:02,400 --> 01:20:03,840 Speaker 2: a trope. 1662 01:20:04,240 --> 01:20:06,400 Speaker 3: Uh next wicemail. 1663 01:20:08,320 --> 01:20:12,360 Speaker 4: Hi guys, I saw you recently was it's bad because 1664 01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:18,040 Speaker 4: they's too bad and everything, and y'all are recently who 1665 01:20:18,800 --> 01:20:22,320 Speaker 4: y'all rased to talking about Cereal and how a lot 1666 01:20:22,360 --> 01:20:27,600 Speaker 4: of people when Fear grew up was to the podcasting 1667 01:20:27,640 --> 01:20:30,799 Speaker 4: was a very white thing. So with interns of Cereal, 1668 01:20:34,040 --> 01:20:36,240 Speaker 4: a lot of people who are people of coloring, especially 1669 01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:40,800 Speaker 4: black people, and especially see that I'm not said is 1670 01:20:41,200 --> 01:20:44,840 Speaker 4: a Middle Eastern man especial motherm. They really didn't like 1671 01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:48,479 Speaker 4: how Shurricane nick Hand just raised on the show because 1672 01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:53,640 Speaker 4: pretty much all your main players of the Percy we 1673 01:20:53,760 --> 01:20:58,400 Speaker 4: were talking about Percy were not white. You had Hay 1674 01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:02,320 Speaker 4: and Lee who was friend. You had Nay, there's no answering, 1675 01:21:02,439 --> 01:21:06,120 Speaker 4: you had Jay who's black. So when Sarah Kane is 1676 01:21:06,200 --> 01:21:10,040 Speaker 4: just talking about the case she founded face, it was 1677 01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:14,200 Speaker 4: a very white perspective of it. It was very white, 1678 01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:20,000 Speaker 4: very especially when she was talking about a nod and 1679 01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:23,920 Speaker 4: using basically the angry muzzle man who is dating an 1680 01:21:23,960 --> 01:21:30,240 Speaker 4: infidel and he was angry about everything. She was angry 1681 01:21:30,240 --> 01:21:32,160 Speaker 4: about the joy s with Hey that by killed her. 1682 01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:36,360 Speaker 4: The thing is, it's done from later in the series 1683 01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:40,639 Speaker 4: where she gets a high moment that and I'm pretty 1684 01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:46,360 Speaker 4: much at prin jail because it's pumaphobia, but she didn't 1685 01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:50,280 Speaker 4: realized it. So that's one thing I really think about 1686 01:21:50,320 --> 01:21:54,360 Speaker 4: Sial as a black woman listening to it. It's an 1687 01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:59,240 Speaker 4: interesting story, but it's told so white, and that's what 1688 01:21:59,280 --> 01:22:00,360 Speaker 4: I mean, y'all. 1689 01:22:02,120 --> 01:22:05,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, it's definitely told from a white perspective. And 1690 01:22:05,560 --> 01:22:07,000 Speaker 2: by the way, I couldn't hear all of that. Some 1691 01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:09,559 Speaker 2: of it was kind of mumble to me. I don't 1692 01:22:09,560 --> 01:22:11,400 Speaker 2: know if you had that same mess you can yeah. 1693 01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:15,080 Speaker 1: Okay, But overall sounded like she basically she talked about 1694 01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:18,200 Speaker 1: Cereal and she was talking about how Syria was told 1695 01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:22,960 Speaker 1: and how you know the lady who hosted Cereal, how 1696 01:22:23,160 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 1: she talked about at nine, and how when she first 1697 01:22:25,280 --> 01:22:27,640 Speaker 1: started talking about at nine, how it was more of 1698 01:22:27,800 --> 01:22:30,320 Speaker 1: he was an angry Muslim and then it would turn 1699 01:22:30,400 --> 01:22:33,200 Speaker 1: down to a well, oh, like she had a aha 1700 01:22:33,200 --> 01:22:35,200 Speaker 1: moment doing her you know, research and stuff, when all 1701 01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:37,439 Speaker 1: of a sudden, how it changed from that to it's 1702 01:22:37,520 --> 01:22:40,160 Speaker 1: momophobia and things like that, and talking about how you know, 1703 01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:42,439 Speaker 1: talking to him and talking to j and things like that. 1704 01:22:42,840 --> 01:22:47,719 Speaker 2: Well, my thing is the product is manipula. By its nature. 1705 01:22:48,360 --> 01:22:51,400 Speaker 2: They hold back certain information. They present certain information at 1706 01:22:51,400 --> 01:22:55,479 Speaker 2: crucial times for the narrative, but not necessarily how you 1707 01:22:55,520 --> 01:22:59,599 Speaker 2: would if you were analyzing this case yourself, you wouldn't 1708 01:22:59,760 --> 01:23:02,519 Speaker 2: do it this way. Like you wouldn't be like, I'm 1709 01:23:02,520 --> 01:23:04,400 Speaker 2: just gonna I don't want to find out that he 1710 01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:07,720 Speaker 2: stole money from the mosque until episode nine, Like in 1711 01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:10,799 Speaker 2: real life you'd be like you probably foul that information 1712 01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:14,720 Speaker 2: away early and be like, either this matters or it 1713 01:23:14,720 --> 01:23:17,080 Speaker 2: doesn't matter to me. But it would you know, it 1714 01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:19,000 Speaker 2: would just be something you dealt with to throw it 1715 01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:21,400 Speaker 2: at the end, to be like he did this and 1716 01:23:21,439 --> 01:23:23,720 Speaker 2: he wasn't the some people didn't like him. 1717 01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:26,559 Speaker 3: It manipulates you because then you go, well, guess he 1718 01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:27,160 Speaker 3: is guilty. 1719 01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:29,360 Speaker 2: I mean, he was capable of all this other shit 1720 01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:31,640 Speaker 2: and he got mad at her for bringing it up. 1721 01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:34,320 Speaker 3: You know, so, but that's actually. 1722 01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:37,160 Speaker 2: The narrative, Like that's the story of the show, not 1723 01:23:37,240 --> 01:23:39,280 Speaker 2: the story of what happened to him. 1724 01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:41,519 Speaker 3: Like it could really be non secuitary. 1725 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:43,400 Speaker 2: It could really have nothing to do with this crime 1726 01:23:43,439 --> 01:23:47,519 Speaker 2: in this case, and it doesn't anymore prove that he's 1727 01:23:47,560 --> 01:23:49,479 Speaker 2: capable of murder than anything else. 1728 01:23:50,120 --> 01:23:53,280 Speaker 3: But it's a manipulation of your emotions. 1729 01:23:53,320 --> 01:23:55,960 Speaker 2: And that's how I view these things, and that's why sometimes, 1730 01:23:56,600 --> 01:24:00,599 Speaker 2: you know, I tap out. But yeah, and I've heard 1731 01:24:00,760 --> 01:24:03,439 Speaker 2: more stuff like how she she talked about, Hey, I 1732 01:24:03,479 --> 01:24:06,360 Speaker 2: know this when she was like, she's just like any other. 1733 01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:10,120 Speaker 3: Girl, normal girl. She had a diary, she had this thing, 1734 01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:13,360 Speaker 3: and it felt like this voyeurism, it's just like white 1735 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:18,120 Speaker 3: voyeurism and tourism into these into this crime that's in 1736 01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:22,840 Speaker 3: this ethnic community, and it is off putting to me. 1737 01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:25,320 Speaker 2: I mean, it's you know, like I said, I'm not 1738 01:24:25,479 --> 01:24:28,080 Speaker 2: and I'm not saying this as a critique of the 1739 01:24:28,120 --> 01:24:31,000 Speaker 2: show as if like it's trash, don't watch it. I 1740 01:24:31,040 --> 01:24:32,400 Speaker 2: know a lot of people are gonna watch it and 1741 01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:36,760 Speaker 2: be fascinated by It's not that the case isn't genuinely fascinating. 1742 01:24:36,840 --> 01:24:41,040 Speaker 2: It's not that and justice might have been done to 1743 01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:44,960 Speaker 2: this person, so that's why it's genuinely fascinating. But at 1744 01:24:45,000 --> 01:24:47,360 Speaker 2: the same time, as a person that creates a podcast, 1745 01:24:47,439 --> 01:24:50,000 Speaker 2: I can't help, but think about the product part of it, 1746 01:24:50,160 --> 01:24:53,600 Speaker 2: and yeah, you know, it's a lot of manipulation in there, 1747 01:24:53,640 --> 01:24:56,640 Speaker 2: a lot of holding back information, a lot of you know, 1748 01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:59,080 Speaker 2: a lot of stuff they couldn't tell you for legal reasons, 1749 01:24:59,120 --> 01:25:01,840 Speaker 2: and it's like that, isn't that that's relevant that to 1750 01:25:01,880 --> 01:25:03,000 Speaker 2: how you feel about the thing. 1751 01:25:03,640 --> 01:25:06,439 Speaker 3: So anyway, we'll see what happens with the new season. 1752 01:25:06,479 --> 01:25:09,840 Speaker 3: I'm not listening, but maybe I'll get to change of 1753 01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:17,920 Speaker 3: Heart at some point. Who knows? Next voicemail and last one, Hey. 1754 01:25:17,840 --> 01:25:22,400 Speaker 6: Ryan, Karens just Jada. Just want of what you guys. 1755 01:25:23,120 --> 01:25:25,400 Speaker 6: So if you have a happy holiday, and I've been 1756 01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:28,720 Speaker 6: listening that's podcast on my way actually travel home for 1757 01:25:28,800 --> 01:25:32,000 Speaker 6: the holidays, So thank you to that. But yeah, I 1758 01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:34,600 Speaker 6: just want to hear comment about the things that I 1759 01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:38,760 Speaker 6: said about Cereal and the Netflix shows that I haven't 1760 01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:43,439 Speaker 6: got a chance to watch. I definitely share your sentiment, Rod, 1761 01:25:43,840 --> 01:25:47,880 Speaker 6: because I actually do like true crime things and so 1762 01:25:47,960 --> 01:25:50,800 Speaker 6: I'm like an ID junkie. I watched Snaps and Daily 1763 01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:54,639 Speaker 6: Women for their hours, Dayline all that stuff, and also 1764 01:25:54,720 --> 01:25:57,280 Speaker 6: I started to listen to true crime like podcasts like 1765 01:25:57,439 --> 01:26:01,800 Speaker 6: Generation Why and Sort and Scale things like that. But yeah, 1766 01:26:01,840 --> 01:26:05,839 Speaker 6: well all of those have in common. I'm a black woman, 1767 01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:10,920 Speaker 6: and I do realize that even on both sides, whether 1768 01:26:10,960 --> 01:26:15,160 Speaker 6: it be the victim or the perpetrator, using it's very 1769 01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:19,760 Speaker 6: like heavily like white people. And especially when I listen 1770 01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:22,240 Speaker 6: to the podcast, I was like, I mean, of course, 1771 01:26:22,280 --> 01:26:25,160 Speaker 6: I mean, granted it's their podcast or they can cover 1772 01:26:25,280 --> 01:26:29,120 Speaker 6: whatever story that they want to, but I did like realize, 1773 01:26:29,200 --> 01:26:32,280 Speaker 6: like I'm going down the list, and you know, some 1774 01:26:32,280 --> 01:26:34,280 Speaker 6: some of the names I didn't recognize, but some of 1775 01:26:34,280 --> 01:26:37,400 Speaker 6: the names are like pretty much if you say John B. A. Ramsey, 1776 01:26:37,520 --> 01:26:40,360 Speaker 6: like everybody that you image of that little girl pops 1777 01:26:40,360 --> 01:26:46,160 Speaker 6: in your mind, a Naturalie Holloway, Malan McCain. And of 1778 01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:48,960 Speaker 6: course I'm not rooting for like black women to be 1779 01:26:49,120 --> 01:26:52,479 Speaker 6: victims of like rape or murder, kidnap, anything like that, 1780 01:26:52,600 --> 01:26:54,840 Speaker 6: but it did cost my mind and I was like, 1781 01:26:55,120 --> 01:27:00,120 Speaker 6: I cannot think of a national case that has that 1782 01:27:00,280 --> 01:27:04,720 Speaker 6: same like stature to it of those cases, like I 1783 01:27:04,760 --> 01:27:08,400 Speaker 6: cannot think of a case with a black female, hell 1784 01:27:08,600 --> 01:27:12,840 Speaker 6: even Hispanic or whatever. Like I cannot think of like 1785 01:27:12,880 --> 01:27:16,200 Speaker 6: a woman of colored case where it was nationwide where 1786 01:27:16,200 --> 01:27:20,599 Speaker 6: people like know that girl's name and like everybody's out 1787 01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:22,880 Speaker 6: looking for her, and like there's like, you know, this 1788 01:27:23,040 --> 01:27:28,000 Speaker 6: nationwide book and there's been several documentaries and podcasts talked 1789 01:27:28,040 --> 01:27:31,920 Speaker 6: about it in several series about what happened, Like none 1790 01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:34,080 Speaker 6: of that is I just started thinking, I'm like, well, 1791 01:27:34,120 --> 01:27:36,000 Speaker 6: of course, just because it's not in the immedia doesn't 1792 01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:38,639 Speaker 6: mean that it's not happening. You know, oh two black 1793 01:27:38,680 --> 01:27:43,639 Speaker 6: women or black men as well. I mean, really, as 1794 01:27:43,640 --> 01:27:46,320 Speaker 6: far as black people go, the only cases I can 1795 01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:49,160 Speaker 6: really think about are not victims but the perpetrators, which 1796 01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:51,240 Speaker 6: is OJ and the E C. 1797 01:27:51,439 --> 01:27:51,839 Speaker 1: Cniper. 1798 01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:54,800 Speaker 6: It's kind of like some of the big cases come 1799 01:27:54,840 --> 01:27:58,960 Speaker 6: to mind. And also, you know, another example is just 1800 01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:03,639 Speaker 6: with the Who's on HBO that documentary called the Grim Sleeper. 1801 01:28:04,200 --> 01:28:07,320 Speaker 6: I think with that black man who was raping and 1802 01:28:07,400 --> 01:28:10,840 Speaker 6: killing all these black women that were in the neighborhood 1803 01:28:10,920 --> 01:28:14,599 Speaker 6: and the police didn't even let the neighborhood know that 1804 01:28:14,680 --> 01:28:17,360 Speaker 6: there was a serial kill her on the loop, and 1805 01:28:17,479 --> 01:28:21,800 Speaker 6: like he went unchecked for years because no one cared 1806 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:25,479 Speaker 6: about these black women, and some of them were drug 1807 01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:30,360 Speaker 6: addicts and or you know, sex workers, and so I mean, 1808 01:28:30,360 --> 01:28:34,519 Speaker 6: I definitely can see where you're coming from road that, Yeah, 1809 01:28:34,600 --> 01:28:38,639 Speaker 6: people like just don't care about us. And like I said, 1810 01:28:38,760 --> 01:28:41,280 Speaker 6: I know that there are crimes I mean that are 1811 01:28:41,360 --> 01:28:44,679 Speaker 6: I mean not telling that I'm grooting for this to happen, 1812 01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:48,120 Speaker 6: but I'm like on daylines there are always stories about 1813 01:28:48,240 --> 01:28:51,479 Speaker 6: a white woman who got killed or sexy to being 1814 01:28:51,560 --> 01:28:53,880 Speaker 6: killed by our husband, and I know that's happening in 1815 01:28:53,880 --> 01:28:56,360 Speaker 6: the black community too, but it's like our stories don't 1816 01:28:56,400 --> 01:29:01,840 Speaker 6: get told. You know that women doesn't get respected like 1817 01:29:01,920 --> 01:29:04,880 Speaker 6: you know her, Yeah, she's not made to be human 1818 01:29:05,040 --> 01:29:07,200 Speaker 6: and it's just another I guess a black on black 1819 01:29:07,200 --> 01:29:10,320 Speaker 6: home story or something. So I definitely agree guys that 1820 01:29:11,760 --> 01:29:14,280 Speaker 6: hoping that you'll have a good holiday, and thank you 1821 01:29:14,360 --> 01:29:15,880 Speaker 6: for the lovely podcast. 1822 01:29:15,520 --> 01:29:19,120 Speaker 1: As always, fine, thank you welcome. 1823 01:29:19,760 --> 01:29:22,040 Speaker 2: Uh And I would say before we move on out 1824 01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:24,360 Speaker 2: of the first thing I would say is hey is Asian. 1825 01:29:26,200 --> 01:29:28,760 Speaker 3: The woman who died the girl who died in the 1826 01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:34,280 Speaker 3: in the serial podcast. Okay, so she's a woman of 1827 01:29:34,320 --> 01:29:37,080 Speaker 3: color and there was no national hunt or anything, but 1828 01:29:37,200 --> 01:29:39,640 Speaker 3: just saying they did dedicate multiple shows and stuff. But 1829 01:29:39,680 --> 01:29:42,080 Speaker 3: at this point I feel like it's the thing is 1830 01:29:42,120 --> 01:29:44,960 Speaker 3: the center of the serial case isn't about finding who 1831 01:29:45,040 --> 01:29:48,679 Speaker 3: killed her. It's about freeing the person that is accused 1832 01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:51,280 Speaker 3: of killing her and convicted of killing her. So it's 1833 01:29:51,360 --> 01:29:53,960 Speaker 3: kind of a different you know, it's almost like even 1834 01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:57,080 Speaker 3: in this story, she's just cast it aside and seen 1835 01:29:57,160 --> 01:30:00,959 Speaker 3: as you know, not like this. This is not the priority, 1836 01:30:01,360 --> 01:30:03,720 Speaker 3: you know, which you know, I get it. It's makes 1837 01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:08,240 Speaker 3: compelling TV, compelling radio or whatever, but it is unfortunate, 1838 01:30:08,400 --> 01:30:10,360 Speaker 3: you know. I don't know any other way to say 1839 01:30:10,560 --> 01:30:12,760 Speaker 3: the grim Sweeper we talked about in detail on here. 1840 01:30:12,920 --> 01:30:15,919 Speaker 3: I watched that documentary. I remember that it was crazy, 1841 01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:20,960 Speaker 3: and you're right, we don't have the national case. So 1842 01:30:21,000 --> 01:30:23,479 Speaker 3: everybody's looking for a black woman because it's never happened. 1843 01:30:23,560 --> 01:30:25,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't have the man, we don't have people 1844 01:30:25,760 --> 01:30:28,599 Speaker 1: from coast to coast, we don't have it being breaking news. 1845 01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:31,240 Speaker 1: You know, it's not oh my god, you know, a 1846 01:30:31,280 --> 01:30:34,439 Speaker 1: black woman is gonna miss and you never never, ever 1847 01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:37,360 Speaker 1: ever get that. And it is one of those things too, 1848 01:30:37,400 --> 01:30:40,240 Speaker 1: where when crimes are committed against us, particularly if they're 1849 01:30:40,240 --> 01:30:42,800 Speaker 1: committed by a man of color, a lot of times 1850 01:30:42,840 --> 01:30:45,280 Speaker 1: it's just jumped in that black on black crime scenario, 1851 01:30:46,120 --> 01:30:49,240 Speaker 1: you know, like we quote unquote deserve to die versus 1852 01:30:49,360 --> 01:30:52,679 Speaker 1: actually being a true investigation and going on at slim Reaper. 1853 01:30:52,760 --> 01:30:55,519 Speaker 1: This dude went decades with killing women, and nobody took 1854 01:30:55,640 --> 01:30:57,960 Speaker 1: time to tell the community. Nobody to take time to 1855 01:30:58,479 --> 01:31:00,800 Speaker 1: be like, hey, there's something here. It took them years 1856 01:31:00,800 --> 01:31:03,080 Speaker 1: to fucking connect the goddamn dots on the crimes that 1857 01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:05,120 Speaker 1: he did, because nobody really wanted to take the time, 1858 01:31:05,160 --> 01:31:08,040 Speaker 1: because nobody cares about community where the bulk of the 1859 01:31:08,040 --> 01:31:11,800 Speaker 1: community couldn't vote, the bulk of the community was crime writing, 1860 01:31:11,840 --> 01:31:14,439 Speaker 1: the bulk of the community had drug houses and shit 1861 01:31:14,560 --> 01:31:16,240 Speaker 1: like that. So it's like, while waste our time in 1862 01:31:16,240 --> 01:31:17,840 Speaker 1: the community where we know we're not going to get 1863 01:31:17,840 --> 01:31:18,719 Speaker 1: into political game. 1864 01:31:19,240 --> 01:31:20,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'll take it. 1865 01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:23,240 Speaker 2: I'll say this, if you kill black women, you probably 1866 01:31:23,280 --> 01:31:24,120 Speaker 2: get away with it forever. 1867 01:31:26,280 --> 01:31:29,040 Speaker 3: And uh, that was the one more thing I wanted 1868 01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:32,160 Speaker 3: to say before we moved on and I lost it. 1869 01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:38,920 Speaker 2: But yeah, that, you know, that was it is unfortunate 1870 01:31:39,120 --> 01:31:43,800 Speaker 2: and you know the oh, I know I was gonna say. 1871 01:31:43,840 --> 01:31:46,880 Speaker 2: The one true crime series that does a great job 1872 01:31:46,920 --> 01:31:49,320 Speaker 2: with race Snapped. 1873 01:31:49,720 --> 01:31:50,720 Speaker 1: Mm. 1874 01:31:50,880 --> 01:31:53,920 Speaker 3: Snap has so many types of people on there. 1875 01:31:54,200 --> 01:31:56,400 Speaker 1: They're like, fuck it, if you committed a crime, we're 1876 01:31:56,400 --> 01:31:57,280 Speaker 1: gonna cover that shit. 1877 01:31:57,560 --> 01:32:00,000 Speaker 3: So many types of relationships like I don't know if 1878 01:32:00,040 --> 01:32:01,920 Speaker 3: they just got desperate for more and they was like, 1879 01:32:02,000 --> 01:32:05,400 Speaker 3: let's tap into the black vault. But like they do 1880 01:32:05,400 --> 01:32:07,760 Speaker 3: have had plenty of black stories. 1881 01:32:07,360 --> 01:32:11,800 Speaker 2: On snaps, Like I'll be sometimes I'm gonna tweet it 1882 01:32:11,840 --> 01:32:14,720 Speaker 2: and like it's just funny to me when it's a 1883 01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:18,000 Speaker 2: black couple because I'm always like, oh, I see the signs, 1884 01:32:18,040 --> 01:32:19,639 Speaker 2: you know, like I don't know why I can see 1885 01:32:19,640 --> 01:32:22,559 Speaker 2: the signs with black people. I be like that is true, 1886 01:32:22,600 --> 01:32:25,800 Speaker 2: but I mean it's just confirmation biased with black shit. 1887 01:32:26,479 --> 01:32:28,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, because like you know, they because I 1888 01:32:28,960 --> 01:32:31,360 Speaker 2: think what it is that the woman that's a narrator 1889 01:32:31,960 --> 01:32:35,120 Speaker 2: for for most of the snaps, it's such a like 1890 01:32:35,240 --> 01:32:38,800 Speaker 2: this white woman, like they wouldn't hire like the whitest woman. 1891 01:32:38,840 --> 01:32:40,920 Speaker 3: She does everything but an English accent. 1892 01:32:41,280 --> 01:32:44,439 Speaker 2: But you know she's but when she's talking about black people, 1893 01:32:44,439 --> 01:32:46,320 Speaker 2: it's just always funny to me because it's always like 1894 01:32:47,040 --> 01:32:54,559 Speaker 2: you know, on Saturday evening, Jerome decided not to call 1895 01:32:54,720 --> 01:32:59,960 Speaker 2: Latasha's phone number, and Latasha was furious. 1896 01:33:00,760 --> 01:33:02,640 Speaker 1: And then they interviewed somebody was like yeah, I was 1897 01:33:02,720 --> 01:33:05,160 Speaker 1: Dad and Nata she was talking. All of a sudden, 1898 01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:06,760 Speaker 1: she put her phone down. I was like, God, what's 1899 01:33:06,760 --> 01:33:08,880 Speaker 1: wrong with you because they interviewed like real people, so 1900 01:33:08,960 --> 01:33:11,719 Speaker 1: you get like real, I'm not trying to findy true 1901 01:33:11,760 --> 01:33:13,639 Speaker 1: responses for people, which makes it great. 1902 01:33:13,720 --> 01:33:16,040 Speaker 2: They had one black one with it's like she killed 1903 01:33:16,040 --> 01:33:19,000 Speaker 2: them over like some Twitter shit. Like it was like 1904 01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:21,200 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I know, she killed a girl 1905 01:33:21,439 --> 01:33:23,800 Speaker 2: and she got caught because she threatened her own Twitter, 1906 01:33:23,800 --> 01:33:25,400 Speaker 2: which is legally admissible in court. 1907 01:33:25,600 --> 01:33:25,920 Speaker 4: Wow. 1908 01:33:26,240 --> 01:33:28,640 Speaker 2: So they was like we went to her Twitter and 1909 01:33:28,680 --> 01:33:32,880 Speaker 2: it was, you know, so fine sixty nine chocolate dime, you. 1910 01:33:32,840 --> 01:33:35,519 Speaker 3: Know, like whatever it was. I was like, this the 1911 01:33:35,600 --> 01:33:38,280 Speaker 3: blackst shit ever, Like they got this white woman doing it. 1912 01:33:38,280 --> 01:33:38,960 Speaker 3: It's the best. 1913 01:33:39,000 --> 01:33:39,439 Speaker 1: I love it. 1914 01:33:40,200 --> 01:33:42,040 Speaker 3: And then she said nigga and they had to kick 1915 01:33:42,040 --> 01:33:42,439 Speaker 3: out the group. 1916 01:33:42,479 --> 01:33:46,519 Speaker 2: All right, phone lines are open seven O four five 1917 01:33:46,600 --> 01:33:47,960 Speaker 2: five seven zero one a six. 1918 01:33:48,000 --> 01:33:50,839 Speaker 3: That's seven O four five five seven zero one eight six. 1919 01:33:51,120 --> 01:33:52,960 Speaker 2: And I got a couple of emails and we're gonna 1920 01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:55,719 Speaker 2: get out of here, Layla says, go. 1921 01:33:55,680 --> 01:33:58,120 Speaker 3: Over and land. Hi, Rody, Karen. 1922 01:33:58,240 --> 01:34:00,360 Speaker 2: I have been listening to your podcast for a couple 1923 01:34:00,400 --> 01:34:03,080 Speaker 2: of years now and was so tickled to hear Oberlin 1924 01:34:03,120 --> 01:34:05,719 Speaker 2: College come up on the podcast. I graduated from Oberlin 1925 01:34:05,800 --> 01:34:11,080 Speaker 2: in two thousand and three. Go Yeah Yeoman, Yeoman, Go Yeomen. 1926 01:34:12,000 --> 01:34:15,559 Speaker 2: I returned to campus last spring to hear the flow 1927 01:34:15,640 --> 01:34:20,160 Speaker 2: tists give the commencement address. Oberlin is an incubator of 1928 01:34:20,200 --> 01:34:23,000 Speaker 2: progressive thought and activism since this was founded in eighteen 1929 01:34:23,080 --> 01:34:25,439 Speaker 2: thirty three. It was one of the first American colleges 1930 01:34:25,479 --> 01:34:27,960 Speaker 2: to enroll women and black people. Oberlin has a stop 1931 01:34:28,000 --> 01:34:30,760 Speaker 2: on was a stop on the Underground railroad, and was 1932 01:34:30,800 --> 01:34:34,040 Speaker 2: one of the first schools to have an Africana studies department. 1933 01:34:34,479 --> 01:34:36,599 Speaker 2: We even made the cover of Life magazine in nineteen 1934 01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:41,719 Speaker 2: seventy for having co ed gorge shit. When I attended, 1935 01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:44,400 Speaker 2: we had so many protests and petitions and arm bands 1936 01:34:44,400 --> 01:34:45,120 Speaker 2: of solidarity. 1937 01:34:45,160 --> 01:34:45,960 Speaker 3: I can go on and on. 1938 01:34:46,000 --> 01:34:49,599 Speaker 2: The faculty and administration cultivated our voices knowing that eighteen 1939 01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:52,880 Speaker 2: to twenty two year olds protesting about cafeteria foods today 1940 01:34:53,240 --> 01:34:56,000 Speaker 2: become the world leaders of tomorrow. The difference is that 1941 01:34:56,040 --> 01:34:58,840 Speaker 2: there wasn't any Facebook or Twitter back then. Our little 1942 01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:00,920 Speaker 2: letters to the editors never so outside of light of 1943 01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:03,000 Speaker 2: the day, and definitely didn't make it to the New 1944 01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:06,599 Speaker 2: York Times. I'm very proud of my current students, and 1945 01:35:06,680 --> 01:35:09,400 Speaker 2: if any are listening to this podcast, I want them 1946 01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:11,760 Speaker 2: to know that your alum not support you. Thanks for 1947 01:35:11,800 --> 01:35:17,800 Speaker 2: the awesome podcast. Happy holidays, layla oc three. Hey that's dope, man, 1948 01:35:18,439 --> 01:35:21,120 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. You know, I get worried that, 1949 01:35:21,600 --> 01:35:24,840 Speaker 2: you know, older people like and I think this happens 1950 01:35:24,880 --> 01:35:26,800 Speaker 2: a lot of people older. Once you get out of 1951 01:35:26,880 --> 01:35:30,639 Speaker 2: school or whatever the thing is, you become like more 1952 01:35:30,720 --> 01:35:34,080 Speaker 2: conservative and less like those you know, you're like those 1953 01:35:34,160 --> 01:35:37,280 Speaker 2: damn kids just eat their potatoes or whatever, and uh, 1954 01:35:37,320 --> 01:35:39,360 Speaker 2: that's dope that she's like, No, man, I was like 1955 01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:41,400 Speaker 2: that in college, and y'all need to do be that 1956 01:35:41,479 --> 01:35:41,840 Speaker 2: way too. 1957 01:35:41,840 --> 01:35:42,280 Speaker 3: That's cool. 1958 01:35:42,560 --> 01:35:44,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm like, you know, yeah, because it's one of 1959 01:35:44,520 --> 01:35:46,720 Speaker 1: those things where it's like hey, because that's the thing 1960 01:35:47,080 --> 01:35:49,240 Speaker 1: as you get older than it's the changing of the guard. 1961 01:35:49,320 --> 01:35:52,040 Speaker 1: So it's like, hey, I personally might not be out there, 1962 01:35:52,080 --> 01:35:54,240 Speaker 1: but if you want to go out there, I'll support you. 1963 01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:56,320 Speaker 1: And you can't be like nah, fuck that shit goes 1964 01:35:56,320 --> 01:35:58,080 Speaker 1: somewhere and sit down because you don't want to get shot. 1965 01:35:58,080 --> 01:35:59,880 Speaker 1: Well shit, you could have got shot out there protest. 1966 01:36:00,160 --> 01:36:02,320 Speaker 2: Also, like in a lot of these instances, the kids 1967 01:36:02,360 --> 01:36:05,040 Speaker 2: are right. It's just a matter of you don't think 1968 01:36:05,120 --> 01:36:07,439 Speaker 2: it's that big a deal. Now those are two different things. 1969 01:36:08,280 --> 01:36:10,280 Speaker 2: I don't stand in the way of somebody that's right. 1970 01:36:11,360 --> 01:36:12,880 Speaker 2: I think way too many people are trying to do 1971 01:36:12,880 --> 01:36:15,200 Speaker 2: that these days. Trying to fashion themselves is like some 1972 01:36:15,240 --> 01:36:18,320 Speaker 2: type of I'm standing up for the old guard man 1973 01:36:18,479 --> 01:36:21,680 Speaker 2: Shito ass down, like like if the kids are right, 1974 01:36:21,680 --> 01:36:25,639 Speaker 2: they're right. I remember we had that video from the 1975 01:36:25,720 --> 01:36:26,959 Speaker 2: kids in the Ivy League. 1976 01:36:26,760 --> 01:36:30,560 Speaker 3: Schools and they were black, and they were like, you know, given. 1977 01:36:30,360 --> 01:36:35,400 Speaker 2: Their issues with racial discrimination, where that and some of 1978 01:36:35,439 --> 01:36:39,840 Speaker 2: the problems sounded kind of nitpicky quote quote unquote skin 1979 01:36:40,160 --> 01:36:43,720 Speaker 2: uh you know, like you know uh, because they had 1980 01:36:43,800 --> 01:36:46,439 Speaker 2: signs for things microaggressions and things that dealt with and 1981 01:36:46,439 --> 01:36:48,760 Speaker 2: stuff people have said to them. And you know, some 1982 01:36:48,800 --> 01:36:54,240 Speaker 2: of them were like, you know, I'm not uh uh, 1983 01:36:54,640 --> 01:36:57,360 Speaker 2: you know, I'm not your slave or some shit like that. 1984 01:36:57,520 --> 01:37:00,320 Speaker 2: I didn't, you know, my parents were not from Forgot 1985 01:37:00,439 --> 01:37:02,679 Speaker 2: some ship. And then some of it would be stuff 1986 01:37:02,720 --> 01:37:05,920 Speaker 2: where you're like, you know, I will not have the 1987 01:37:06,000 --> 01:37:08,200 Speaker 2: extra fried chicken and all, and part of you wants 1988 01:37:08,200 --> 01:37:10,720 Speaker 2: to roll your eyes. You're like, nigga, you don't gotta 1989 01:37:10,760 --> 01:37:13,040 Speaker 2: have the fry, like, just don't take it so serious. 1990 01:37:13,360 --> 01:37:17,879 Speaker 3: But yeah, and Honestly, they're. 1991 01:37:17,720 --> 01:37:20,840 Speaker 2: Right, And why wouldn't it be a better experience if 1992 01:37:20,840 --> 01:37:21,720 Speaker 2: they got rid of that ship. 1993 01:37:21,800 --> 01:37:23,200 Speaker 3: I don't understand why. 1994 01:37:23,080 --> 01:37:26,960 Speaker 2: Anyone holds onto the old guard in this country, of 1995 01:37:26,960 --> 01:37:30,200 Speaker 2: our countries, the history we have, we want to hold 1996 01:37:30,240 --> 01:37:33,719 Speaker 2: onto the racial old garden ship. Nah, man, Like that's 1997 01:37:33,760 --> 01:37:35,519 Speaker 2: some ship in myself I had to fix. 1998 01:37:35,560 --> 01:37:35,720 Speaker 3: Well. 1999 01:37:35,720 --> 01:37:39,160 Speaker 2: I was like, you know what, maybe it's quote unquote 2000 01:37:39,240 --> 01:37:41,240 Speaker 2: sounds whiny, but this is their fight. 2001 01:37:42,040 --> 01:37:43,240 Speaker 3: This is the ship that. 2002 01:37:45,000 --> 01:37:47,840 Speaker 2: And if it's not something I can say why it's 2003 01:37:47,960 --> 01:37:50,840 Speaker 2: bad or why I disagree with it, then I need 2004 01:37:50,840 --> 01:37:53,080 Speaker 2: to shut the fuck up, because honestly, that's all. If 2005 01:37:53,120 --> 01:37:55,840 Speaker 2: all I got is but that's the way it always is, 2006 01:37:56,000 --> 01:38:00,880 Speaker 2: or you just isn't this other thing word that's wonna 2007 01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:03,719 Speaker 2: campus that we'll go to. Guess they're probably not okay 2008 01:38:03,760 --> 01:38:05,519 Speaker 2: with that either. They're probably working on both at the 2009 01:38:05,520 --> 01:38:06,439 Speaker 2: same time. I'm okay. 2010 01:38:06,880 --> 01:38:10,920 Speaker 3: I'll be okay. A Meal writ saying Christmas feedback. Hey, guys. 2011 01:38:11,160 --> 01:38:13,840 Speaker 2: First off, let me say hav a merry holidays, and 2012 01:38:13,920 --> 01:38:15,680 Speaker 2: I hope that the are twenty sixteen to fill with 2013 01:38:15,680 --> 01:38:16,840 Speaker 2: prosperity opportunities. 2014 01:38:17,000 --> 01:38:19,479 Speaker 3: YadA YadA, YadA. Brunching with kim Ye. 2015 01:38:21,600 --> 01:38:24,320 Speaker 2: This podcast has been my indispensable commute partner for at 2016 01:38:24,400 --> 01:38:25,840 Speaker 2: least three mornings each week. 2017 01:38:25,920 --> 01:38:27,000 Speaker 3: For this, I thank you. 2018 01:38:27,320 --> 01:38:29,160 Speaker 2: I'll listen to your discussion on making a murder and 2019 01:38:29,200 --> 01:38:30,400 Speaker 2: I totally agree with the sentiment. 2020 01:38:30,439 --> 01:38:31,000 Speaker 3: Every time I. 2021 01:38:30,920 --> 01:38:32,920 Speaker 2: Watch something like that, I wonder about whether or not 2022 01:38:32,960 --> 01:38:35,559 Speaker 2: our humanity will be seen to the extent that someone 2023 01:38:35,600 --> 01:38:37,840 Speaker 2: will produce a season of showing of a show trying 2024 01:38:37,840 --> 01:38:40,679 Speaker 2: to convince the world that a convicted murderer who looks 2025 01:38:40,720 --> 01:38:45,280 Speaker 2: like us isn't actually guilty. This is the same reason 2026 01:38:45,320 --> 01:38:48,080 Speaker 2: why I can't watch your average independent movie anymore, because 2027 01:38:48,080 --> 01:38:49,120 Speaker 2: they tend to be white. 2028 01:38:49,280 --> 01:38:50,599 Speaker 3: More specifically, they are all. 2029 01:38:50,720 --> 01:38:53,280 Speaker 2: They're usually about white people doing white people shit, no 2030 01:38:53,400 --> 01:38:59,160 Speaker 2: disrespect to quote Jay Gabbertt. I wonder when I can 2031 01:38:59,160 --> 01:39:02,240 Speaker 2: watch a movie with black people doing Monday black people shit. 2032 01:39:05,360 --> 01:39:12,160 Speaker 2: Those stories don't get financed because audiences have to empathize 2033 01:39:12,160 --> 01:39:15,000 Speaker 2: with the protagonists who was not doing something spectacular, who 2034 01:39:15,000 --> 01:39:16,960 Speaker 2: doesn't look like them. Don't get me wrong, I like 2035 01:39:17,000 --> 01:39:22,160 Speaker 2: the spectacular, but the mundane is the true chest to empathy, right, yep, exactly. 2036 01:39:22,280 --> 01:39:24,600 Speaker 2: You can't just to the black rom com But no, 2037 01:39:25,560 --> 01:39:27,599 Speaker 2: you know that I have to have some racial hook 2038 01:39:27,680 --> 01:39:28,160 Speaker 2: or element. 2039 01:39:28,200 --> 01:39:29,679 Speaker 3: It's just a black rom com. 2040 01:39:30,000 --> 01:39:31,679 Speaker 2: And people are like, I ain't gonna see this shit, 2041 01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,959 Speaker 2: Why aren't you going to You know, there's a podcast 2042 01:39:35,000 --> 01:39:36,200 Speaker 2: I actually stopped listening to. 2043 01:39:36,400 --> 01:39:39,360 Speaker 3: They used to review movies. No I don't. I mean 2044 01:39:39,400 --> 01:39:41,719 Speaker 3: they did review They review movies still, but I don't 2045 01:39:42,200 --> 01:39:44,640 Speaker 3: really listen to any reviews anymore since we started doing them. 2046 01:39:44,640 --> 01:39:49,640 Speaker 3: But I remember listening to it and there was a 2047 01:39:49,680 --> 01:39:51,519 Speaker 3: week where I was looking forward to this movie. 2048 01:39:51,600 --> 01:39:55,040 Speaker 2: I can't remember the movie. It might have been Pariah, 2049 01:39:55,560 --> 01:39:57,360 Speaker 2: but it might have been something else. It might have 2050 01:39:57,400 --> 01:39:58,240 Speaker 2: been Red Tales. 2051 01:39:58,280 --> 01:40:01,160 Speaker 3: Even whatever the movie was, it was the biggest movie 2052 01:40:01,160 --> 01:40:05,960 Speaker 3: that week. And you know, these motherfuckers review our house 2053 01:40:06,040 --> 01:40:09,280 Speaker 3: films and every little small Indian film that comes out, 2054 01:40:09,760 --> 01:40:12,400 Speaker 3: and they got to this black film and they skipped 2055 01:40:12,400 --> 01:40:14,320 Speaker 3: that week. On the podcast, they talked about something else, 2056 01:40:15,320 --> 01:40:17,360 Speaker 3: and I'm like, something else came out. 2057 01:40:17,320 --> 01:40:18,760 Speaker 1: Right, You're like, it's the number one movie. What are 2058 01:40:18,760 --> 01:40:19,320 Speaker 1: we talking about? 2059 01:40:19,400 --> 01:40:21,400 Speaker 2: And I went back and searched my mental ola decks 2060 01:40:21,439 --> 01:40:23,599 Speaker 2: and I was like, they do this all the time, right, 2061 01:40:24,080 --> 01:40:26,559 Speaker 2: And that's the thing. You know, this is a diverse 2062 01:40:26,720 --> 01:40:29,760 Speaker 2: quote unquote group. I think it was like an Indian dude, 2063 01:40:29,800 --> 01:40:31,400 Speaker 2: an Asian dude, the white dude, you know. 2064 01:40:31,960 --> 01:40:34,400 Speaker 3: But it was kind of interesting because I was like, 2065 01:40:35,200 --> 01:40:40,640 Speaker 3: that's really how shit perpetuates. It's not this active. I 2066 01:40:40,640 --> 01:40:43,320 Speaker 3: don't like black people. I don't want to see their movies. Fuck, 2067 01:40:43,479 --> 01:40:46,040 Speaker 3: why did they change this character to black? No, it's 2068 01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:49,400 Speaker 3: the I just didn't want to I wasn't interested in 2069 01:40:49,439 --> 01:40:50,120 Speaker 3: seeing that movie. 2070 01:40:50,439 --> 01:40:53,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's the I'm afraid the covers, because sometimes I 2071 01:40:53,360 --> 01:40:56,360 Speaker 1: think they're just pure afraid. Like nobody ever comes out 2072 01:40:56,479 --> 01:40:58,719 Speaker 1: and say, you know, when it could ticket this Tyler 2073 01:40:58,760 --> 01:40:59,680 Speaker 1: period movie wasn't shit. 2074 01:41:00,080 --> 01:41:00,800 Speaker 3: Well see I. 2075 01:41:00,800 --> 01:41:03,160 Speaker 2: Wouldn't say that, but then they they shoot on movies. 2076 01:41:03,200 --> 01:41:05,760 Speaker 2: They should on black movies before. It wasn't that in 2077 01:41:05,800 --> 01:41:09,080 Speaker 2: my opinion. It really was just they were like, I'm 2078 01:41:09,080 --> 01:41:10,920 Speaker 2: not gonna see this movie because I have no interest 2079 01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:11,160 Speaker 2: in it. 2080 01:41:11,680 --> 01:41:13,680 Speaker 1: Okay, but but yeah, you have few other shit then 2081 01:41:13,760 --> 01:41:14,680 Speaker 1: nobody else watch us? 2082 01:41:14,680 --> 01:41:15,360 Speaker 3: All right with you? 2083 01:41:15,520 --> 01:41:19,280 Speaker 2: You will review, Hannah, you know, you review, like even 2084 01:41:19,280 --> 01:41:21,080 Speaker 2: a movie that you think is gonna be bad but 2085 01:41:21,160 --> 01:41:23,680 Speaker 2: it's stars white people and this is Indie, you'll go 2086 01:41:23,800 --> 01:41:24,080 Speaker 2: do that. 2087 01:41:24,120 --> 01:41:26,320 Speaker 3: But if it's like Pariah's, like, I don't have anything 2088 01:41:26,320 --> 01:41:26,559 Speaker 3: to say. 2089 01:41:26,600 --> 01:41:30,600 Speaker 2: About that, you know, So it's so anyway all that 2090 01:41:30,720 --> 01:41:36,479 Speaker 2: to say, yes, it that subtle racism counts as racism, 2091 01:41:37,160 --> 01:41:39,519 Speaker 2: and people don't want to count it because it's not an. 2092 01:41:39,400 --> 01:41:42,599 Speaker 3: Active fuck these niggers racism, but. 2093 01:41:42,800 --> 01:41:47,160 Speaker 2: It action, but the action is and then inaction even 2094 01:41:47,840 --> 01:41:50,960 Speaker 2: it is still violently harming communities and still not making 2095 01:41:50,960 --> 01:41:55,360 Speaker 2: our stories get told the I don't like, first of all, 2096 01:41:55,400 --> 01:41:59,040 Speaker 2: someone should have been done a and I don't even 2097 01:41:59,040 --> 01:42:01,000 Speaker 2: care what they call it, but i'm black Lives Matter 2098 01:42:01,120 --> 01:42:04,160 Speaker 2: type of documentary series that should have been happening, like 2099 01:42:04,280 --> 01:42:06,360 Speaker 2: even just for the money, Like at this point, I'm 2100 01:42:06,400 --> 01:42:08,920 Speaker 2: being cynical, just for the fucking money. You should have 2101 01:42:08,920 --> 01:42:11,360 Speaker 2: done it because people would have tuned in every week 2102 01:42:11,400 --> 01:42:13,960 Speaker 2: to hear what the fuck you found out about the 2103 01:42:14,000 --> 01:42:19,600 Speaker 2: Mike Brown case just via Twitter, Like we could have 2104 01:42:19,640 --> 01:42:21,520 Speaker 2: done that. I didn't do it because I'm not voyeuristic 2105 01:42:21,680 --> 01:42:23,880 Speaker 2: like that, and I don't like, I don't have the 2106 01:42:23,920 --> 01:42:26,639 Speaker 2: callousis on my heart to fucking delve into black pain 2107 01:42:26,720 --> 01:42:31,040 Speaker 2: every week and sell it. But I literally could have 2108 01:42:31,120 --> 01:42:35,639 Speaker 2: just looked at Twitter and told you, guys, a collection, 2109 01:42:35,920 --> 01:42:39,760 Speaker 2: organized collection of this week. This is the things that 2110 01:42:39,840 --> 01:42:41,800 Speaker 2: were said in the Mike brown Case and the Newest 2111 01:42:41,800 --> 01:42:45,880 Speaker 2: Developments and our podcast. That podcast whatever that podcast will 2112 01:42:45,920 --> 01:42:48,160 Speaker 2: be called, would be doing well on. 2113 01:42:48,920 --> 01:42:51,679 Speaker 3: iTunes and shit, yes would it would be doing well. 2114 01:42:51,720 --> 01:42:53,200 Speaker 2: I don't think it would be doing as well as 2115 01:42:53,280 --> 01:42:55,920 Speaker 2: like Cereal because it wouldn't start black, it wouldn't start 2116 01:42:55,920 --> 01:42:58,400 Speaker 2: white people. But you know, it wouldn't be from NPR 2117 01:42:58,520 --> 01:43:01,280 Speaker 2: with NPR money and shit. But if I just privately 2118 01:43:02,120 --> 01:43:05,680 Speaker 2: found a way to like interview the reporters and the 2119 01:43:05,720 --> 01:43:09,599 Speaker 2: twitter the people tweet and get their stories and record 2120 01:43:09,640 --> 01:43:11,640 Speaker 2: it and put it organize it because there's a lot 2121 01:43:11,680 --> 01:43:13,880 Speaker 2: of work. But you organizing this stuff into a product, 2122 01:43:14,280 --> 01:43:16,800 Speaker 2: put it out every week and just go boom this 2123 01:43:16,800 --> 01:43:19,240 Speaker 2: this week we're covering, you know, this shooting with this 2124 01:43:19,280 --> 01:43:20,679 Speaker 2: other black person that got killed. 2125 01:43:21,560 --> 01:43:26,080 Speaker 3: People would listen because it's not just interesting the black people. 2126 01:43:26,640 --> 01:43:26,760 Speaker 1: Uh. 2127 01:43:27,000 --> 01:43:29,280 Speaker 2: The reason these things trend on the internet, the reason 2128 01:43:29,320 --> 01:43:31,679 Speaker 2: of these things get the most comments on the websites 2129 01:43:31,720 --> 01:43:36,400 Speaker 2: because a lot of people care, and so it would it. 2130 01:43:37,000 --> 01:43:42,680 Speaker 2: To me, the test is, why isn't a Netflix and Amazon, 2131 01:43:43,040 --> 01:43:49,200 Speaker 2: a HBO, uh NPR. Why aren't they spending the money 2132 01:43:49,960 --> 01:43:52,760 Speaker 2: to get this these series made? They're just sitting out 2133 01:43:52,800 --> 01:43:56,240 Speaker 2: there so yeah, I do you know, it's no follow 2134 01:43:56,320 --> 01:43:56,799 Speaker 2: the series. 2135 01:43:56,880 --> 01:44:00,280 Speaker 3: I can say this a million times, people probably won't me. 2136 01:44:00,320 --> 01:44:02,840 Speaker 2: And I'm not even blaming people for being interested, because 2137 01:44:02,840 --> 01:44:06,640 Speaker 2: I get why it's interested. And if you're listening to 2138 01:44:06,640 --> 01:44:09,639 Speaker 2: this show, you're also interested in these stories that we're 2139 01:44:09,640 --> 01:44:11,320 Speaker 2: talking about that aren't getting talked about. 2140 01:44:12,080 --> 01:44:14,200 Speaker 3: So I feel like we're on the same side here. 2141 01:44:14,200 --> 01:44:16,360 Speaker 3: I'm not telling anybody to stop listening to these shows 2142 01:44:16,400 --> 01:44:20,000 Speaker 3: and all that, but it's very interesting which stories get. 2143 01:44:19,840 --> 01:44:22,840 Speaker 1: Told that that's my point. Yeah. 2144 01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:25,320 Speaker 2: Uh, speaking of the spectacular, I saw The Force Awakens 2145 01:44:25,439 --> 01:44:28,280 Speaker 2: not once but twice. My biggest problem with it is 2146 01:44:28,280 --> 01:44:30,080 Speaker 2: that the next movie in the series doesn't come out. 2147 01:44:29,960 --> 01:44:33,439 Speaker 3: To twenty seventeen. No dog, I know, well I heard 2148 01:44:33,520 --> 01:44:35,920 Speaker 3: twenty sixteen You're gonna get Rogue one, but yeah, it's 2149 01:44:35,960 --> 01:44:38,760 Speaker 3: not in the series necessarily. I took my daughters the 2150 01:44:38,760 --> 01:44:39,439 Speaker 3: first time I went. 2151 01:44:39,520 --> 01:44:41,280 Speaker 2: The older one, who was eight, loved it and the 2152 01:44:41,320 --> 01:44:42,679 Speaker 2: five year old got a little scared. 2153 01:44:43,160 --> 01:44:43,760 Speaker 1: Haha. 2154 01:44:44,280 --> 01:44:47,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. I wonder if kylo Ren's gonna be Darth 2155 01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:51,040 Speaker 3: Vader for a whole other generation of people, because I 2156 01:44:51,040 --> 01:44:54,000 Speaker 3: bet I don't know if anyone can out Darth Rader 2157 01:44:54,080 --> 01:44:57,320 Speaker 3: Darth Vader because that motherfucker James Earl Jones building with 2158 01:44:57,400 --> 01:45:01,600 Speaker 3: voice everything and that tall why Like, yeah, that motherfucker 2159 01:45:01,680 --> 01:45:04,559 Speaker 3: was scary as fuck. A large part of. 2160 01:45:05,040 --> 01:45:07,320 Speaker 1: Well, one thing I can say about the new One 2161 01:45:07,880 --> 01:45:12,960 Speaker 1: is that whenever Kyloreen would walk him, his boots sound 2162 01:45:13,000 --> 01:45:16,120 Speaker 1: like they fucking suck to the porch like all like god, 2163 01:45:16,200 --> 01:45:17,519 Speaker 1: damn stop a hole in the float. 2164 01:45:17,560 --> 01:45:20,080 Speaker 3: When he slammed his helmet down, that also made a 2165 01:45:20,160 --> 01:45:21,120 Speaker 3: huge fucking sound. 2166 01:45:21,560 --> 01:45:24,439 Speaker 1: That's what I was, like, how much fucking weight does 2167 01:45:24,439 --> 01:45:24,800 Speaker 1: that thing? 2168 01:45:24,920 --> 01:45:25,120 Speaker 6: Wait? 2169 01:45:26,040 --> 01:45:28,080 Speaker 2: A large part of that love was her seeing a 2170 01:45:28,080 --> 01:45:29,960 Speaker 2: woman handling shit along with a dude. 2171 01:45:29,840 --> 01:45:31,400 Speaker 3: That looks like her and her family. 2172 01:45:31,840 --> 01:45:34,680 Speaker 2: So all the salty white man TM that want to 2173 01:45:34,800 --> 01:45:37,719 Speaker 2: nitpick and say it's not Lucas's vision when they hated 2174 01:45:38,080 --> 01:45:40,559 Speaker 2: that vision a decade and a half ago, can rest 2175 01:45:40,560 --> 01:45:44,559 Speaker 2: assured they still have Superman, Batman, Star Trek, Dadpool, Game 2176 01:45:44,600 --> 01:45:48,280 Speaker 2: of Thrones, you name it right, or the war Craft. 2177 01:45:48,320 --> 01:45:50,360 Speaker 1: Right getting ready to come out. You enjoy your shit. 2178 01:45:50,960 --> 01:45:53,719 Speaker 2: I have enjoyed another year worth of podcast. Keep it going. 2179 01:45:53,960 --> 01:45:55,519 Speaker 2: Thank you, Amel, We appreciate you. 2180 01:45:55,600 --> 01:45:55,840 Speaker 1: Man. 2181 01:45:56,720 --> 01:46:00,559 Speaker 3: We'll be back tomorrow, it's my assumption. And until then, 2182 01:46:01,280 --> 01:46:01,880 Speaker 3: I love you. 2183 01:46:02,000 --> 01:46:03,040 Speaker 1: I love you too, ah