Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who
Speaker 1: talked back and we're back. What's up, y'all? Is your
Speaker 1: girl a J? Welcome to a new episode that we
Speaker 1: talked back A and it's Tam bam y'all. Hey, y'all,
Speaker 1: I love y'all. Let's love a J. How was your weekend? Um? Saturday?
Speaker 1: I spent time with my family hanging out. I saw
Speaker 1: some family on the scene. Awhile debated about Christianity, the government, Uh,
Speaker 1: the vaccine sounds like a three hours, sounds like a
Speaker 1: good old AJ time for about three hours. Girl, I'm
Speaker 1: so sick of talking to people. I'm gonna just not
Speaker 1: talk to people no more. You're gonna talk to people
Speaker 1: on this show because we're under contract. Hey, Like, that's
Speaker 1: about it. Did if I getting paid, I'm not talking.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry because I'm is. I just want to be
Speaker 1: surrounded by like minded people. That's the way. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to listen. Here's here's who I am. I'm
Speaker 1: not the type of person who tries to force my
Speaker 1: point of view on people. My ego is just not
Speaker 1: that big. So I usually wait for people to come around,
Speaker 1: like I'll have a little random, littlebate, debates arguments, and like,
Speaker 1: I'm not talking about that ship no more. And then
Speaker 1: when that person then comes around, then we'll have a
Speaker 1: discussion about it. But I'm no longer interested in trying
Speaker 1: to make my fucking see the light. I'm just not. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like, I like being in the room of diverse
Speaker 1: opinions just because it's just helps with growth for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I already know I'm argumentative, right, so to avoid
Speaker 1: any unnecessary stress, I just don't want to debate. Speaking
Speaker 1: of stress, this weekend, one of my friends um almost
Speaker 1: had a stroke only forty years old. Blood pressure was
Speaker 1: two thousand over two thousands, something crazy like that. You know,
Speaker 1: he almost went into board the line. I don't know
Speaker 1: what it was, called borderline stroke or something like that.
Speaker 1: It had to be admitted to the hospitals. And he's
Speaker 1: trying to open the club. He's they got all these
Speaker 1: different businesses running at the same time, and I just
Speaker 1: want to talk to you guys about stress. Man, you
Speaker 1: can chase all the money in the world, but if
Speaker 1: you're dead, you can't have none of it. Exactly. Cut
Speaker 1: all that dumbass salt out of your diet. Start eating
Speaker 1: to live and not living to eat and minimize your stress. Guys,
Speaker 1: for real, that's that's my that was my weekend. I'm
Speaker 1: out here running around buying stress. I mean, heart monitors
Speaker 1: offer Amazon and all ship for this nigga because I'm
Speaker 1: worried about him. You know, it's forty medication or something
Speaker 1: he is now and he's not even fat. Did he
Speaker 1: not know he had high blood pressure? He was in
Speaker 1: the mall, going in the mall, going to buy him
Speaker 1: some ship and almost fainted and they had a health
Speaker 1: him with a glass of water. He went to the
Speaker 1: hospital and they his blood pressure and it was like
Speaker 1: astronomically high. So you guys, I'm just that's a word
Speaker 1: of advice. Take care of yourself because we can go
Speaker 1: up out of here. You know, I got a blood
Speaker 1: pressure cut because I can. That's what I bought him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can feel like I don't have high blood pressure
Speaker 1: per se, but if I get like upset, my should
Speaker 1: be elevated so quick like to why, I just gotta,
Speaker 1: you know, stop talking, completely shut down to come back,
Speaker 1: because man, I got multiple people in my family who
Speaker 1: had strokes like around my age. So y'all take care
Speaker 1: of yourself. So let's talk about a little bit of
Speaker 1: stupid internet ship right quick this week. You know what's
Speaker 1: the stupid ship? Oh um? Well, I don't really think
Speaker 1: this is stupid, but so a lot of people did.
Speaker 1: There is a video that was going around of Bernice
Speaker 1: Burgos and her daughter and they did like a TikTok
Speaker 1: about whiling out and ship. And then it was the
Speaker 1: video of them together in the club and the daughter
Speaker 1: was like rolling her hips to the music and Bernice
Speaker 1: was like, you know, cheering her own and ship. And
Speaker 1: it's people that feel a way about mother daughter duo
Speaker 1: being out playing together. My girl, people, so fu stupid.
Speaker 1: First of all, we're in our thirties and Granny's right now,
Speaker 1: are our age? You know what I'm saying, middles late
Speaker 1: thirties at this point. It is what it is. But
Speaker 1: people just did not just start having babies young. She
Speaker 1: had her child young, and she grew up with her kids,
Speaker 1: so I'm pretty sure they're really really close. Bernie says,
Speaker 1: she's in her forties now, the right. Yeah, but her
Speaker 1: daughter is like something like that, yeah, with the child.
Speaker 1: So this is the two grown ups, yeah, the two adults.
Speaker 1: It's not like her sixteen year old daughters, and my
Speaker 1: mom is My mom is sixty eight, and I definitely
Speaker 1: be tworking in the kitchen with her. I'm sorry. There's
Speaker 1: nothing wrong. There's nothing wrong with having a good relationship.
Speaker 1: Like I'm not your little friend. Okay, some moms don't
Speaker 1: have to be your little friend, but some mom's kids,
Speaker 1: it's okay. It's not a big deal to me. I
Speaker 1: didn't see nothing wrong with it. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: guess they feel like Bernice needs to grow up because
Speaker 1: she's a grandmother. Like no ship, you only as old
Speaker 1: as you feel. Who defines what that looks like? You know?
Speaker 1: I definitely don't. I don't know. That's just not one
Speaker 1: of the things I give a funk about to even
Speaker 1: comment on. My fingers don't allow me to be a hater.
Speaker 1: So yeah, my mom is a lot of fun. I
Speaker 1: don't know if she'll go to a stripple up with me,
Speaker 1: but she'll she'll do just about anything or any drugs
Speaker 1: with me either. Now I think about, she really ain't
Speaker 1: gonna do ship. She's still a ton of fun, still
Speaker 1: a ton of fun. Look now you see how they're
Speaker 1: trying to cancel Dave Chappelle Now that's some real bullshit.
Speaker 1: And I don't know who the hell is organization is,
Speaker 1: the National Black Coalition whatever, Like y'are not speaking for me,
Speaker 1: You don't represent me. Why why I'm scared to talk
Speaker 1: about this ship many because the elves g bt Q
Speaker 1: community and the trans community, which is also a member
Speaker 1: of l g b t Q, they are like the
Speaker 1: like the mob about this bitch. I don't want to die.
Speaker 1: I don't what nobody to like it me listen. First
Speaker 1: of all, God won't allow anybody to cancel us, first
Speaker 1: of all. And the second thing is the basic thing
Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle was trying to communicate is that you're black
Speaker 1: before you gay. He really wasn't talking about the gay community.
Speaker 1: He really was talking about white folks. He really was
Speaker 1: talking about white people in that. I don't know what
Speaker 1: the fun y'all were watching. And if you're watching something
Speaker 1: with a confrontation on mine, you already gonna be on
Speaker 1: some bullshit, especially with a comedian, because I mean, he
Speaker 1: made a lot of jokes that were misogynistic, and I
Speaker 1: wasn't like fun, Dave Chappelle, I have a real buzzy,
Speaker 1: like you know, I didn't do that man, No, we
Speaker 1: could be like that with them, like we got real
Speaker 1: pussy over here, like yeah, you know what he said,
Speaker 1: Like it's beyond pussy or impossible pussy. I'm scared. Don't
Speaker 1: laugh too hard a bit. We're gonna be hell no,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have no episode next week. Listen, the
Speaker 1: fucking show is fighting if I try to cancel Dave Chappelle.
Speaker 1: Hell no, when Dave Chappelle did, he intentionally did that
Speaker 1: show to cause an uproar, and he knew were the
Speaker 1: last one for a while. He said it when he
Speaker 1: first started. And it's the falter. It's like, this is
Speaker 1: an end game. I'm not working with y'all people no more.
Speaker 1: Don't funk with me. I'm sorry, bitch me and you.
Speaker 1: This is the beginning, this is the opener. So don't
Speaker 1: get us. Cancel if they want to cancel that, so
Speaker 1: be it for laughing at some ship girl. What are
Speaker 1: you yelling at me? Shut up? I never been scared
Speaker 1: of nobody. Hell I'm not about the people. Bully me.
Speaker 1: All right, you guys, we'll be back. We're gonna pay
Speaker 1: some bills real quick, all right. Um, So to kick
Speaker 1: today's topic of discussion off, we did get and Ask
Speaker 1: a Black Friend. Um, and y'all know Columbus Day was
Speaker 1: also on Monday, which they've also changed the kind of
Speaker 1: to Indigenous People's Day. That's what I would be more
Speaker 1: aligned with because I don't know who the fun Columbus
Speaker 1: say never been in America. So it's Indigenous People Day
Speaker 1: in Savage Cracker Day basically. Okay, I like the balance.
Speaker 1: All right, So, um, first of all, I want to
Speaker 1: thank our listener for sending in this acts of black
Speaker 1: uh friend questions for this week. So here it is.
Speaker 1: So I have a question for Ask a Black Friend segment.
Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on. I know you're going,
Speaker 1: and I want to interject. You said x a Black friend,
Speaker 1: like chop them down. We're not killing those niggas on
Speaker 1: this show. First of all, you know, I'm look, we
Speaker 1: we we make four words in the one all that
Speaker 1: ship like whatever first and Guiche is a government language. Okay,
Speaker 1: so it's English anyway. So here's what she says. Since
Speaker 1: where society removing Confederate statues as we should, what role
Speaker 1: does the Gateway arch in St. Louis play? How long
Speaker 1: until it's also removed? Not trying to play devil's advocate,
Speaker 1: but seems like a very slippery slope. Growing up, my
Speaker 1: history class wasn't as informative as it is today. But
Speaker 1: isn't that what we need to learn even as we
Speaker 1: get older, to learn from the mistakes of our past,
Speaker 1: even at its most gruesome. I celebrate forty five years
Speaker 1: in this world and try to make it better than
Speaker 1: what it was before me. My area isn't very well versed, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: but that doesn't stop me from loving others more than myself.
Speaker 1: I truly love your podcast and look forward to listening
Speaker 1: to you ladies each week. Keep fighting a good fight.
Speaker 1: Always know that my heart and house is open. I
Speaker 1: hope you like coffee, so that's why I asked a
Speaker 1: black friend question for this week. There we go, Okay,
Speaker 1: I believe the statues and stuff. I mean, we know
Speaker 1: what they represent, right M within a reasonable means, yes,
Speaker 1: take them fucking shut down. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 1: Like time change, history changes, I mean, hit what excuse me?
Speaker 1: History doesn't change. But there's also the truth though the
Speaker 1: whole fucking arch though that I don't know how long
Speaker 1: that's gonna take you to take it down. I mean,
Speaker 1: if we're going there, we might as well just bull
Speaker 1: those the whole country over and start over. Honestly, so
Speaker 1: this but I get what you're saying. I get what
Speaker 1: you're in that, and I mean I feel like you
Speaker 1: are playing Devil's Advocated a little bit because that is heavy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's a lot to knock down. But I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: I get what you're going for. Yeah, I lived in St.
Speaker 1: Louis for five years. I've been up in the arch.
Speaker 1: That's a major Like, it's a big structure, and at
Speaker 1: this point, it represents the current state I mean of St.
Speaker 1: Louis because I mean, we could just change what it
Speaker 1: represents instead of trying to knock that whole motherfucker down. Um,
Speaker 1: those monuments of a person who represented, uh, you know,
Speaker 1: the oppression of black people, those are easy to take down,
Speaker 1: and it's an actual person. You can't change who a
Speaker 1: person is, you know. You can't take a statue of
Speaker 1: Robert E. Lee and be like, nah, we're gonna call
Speaker 1: him Robbie now and he represents this. No, it's the
Speaker 1: same motherfucker every time. But the Golden Arches we can,
Speaker 1: we can, we can change what it represents. I feel
Speaker 1: like that would be a better idea than the Golden
Speaker 1: Arches and St. Louis Archer. Bitch, I'm hungry McDonald. What
Speaker 1: the hell just happened? Which I did not have breakfast yet? Okay, Look,
Speaker 1: so the history of the arch is the arch was
Speaker 1: put up and it displaced a lot of indigenous Black
Speaker 1: African Americans. Um when it was resurrected, so it displaced
Speaker 1: a lot of people to put this to put the
Speaker 1: arch up right, and didn't let him work on it.
Speaker 1: Didn't even let him get paid to help put the
Speaker 1: motherfuck up. Yeah. So this this is why the our
Speaker 1: listeners asking, you know, should the arch then to be
Speaker 1: taken down? I don't think we're gonna go that far.
Speaker 1: Like Tam said, you might as well take the whole
Speaker 1: country down, because there's a lot of things that still
Speaker 1: represent hatred. You know, you can't change the people, you know.
Speaker 1: So but thank you for listening in and thank you
Speaker 1: for the coffee. Send me your address, I'll pull up.
Speaker 1: I do enjoy coffee that French vanilla crema with that too.
Speaker 1: Thank you say that. I mean this is a great
Speaker 1: segue actually, because we are talking about the hainiest crimes
Speaker 1: that have been committed against black men in America all right,
Speaker 1: it says. Shocking new details were revealed surrounding the tragic
Speaker 1: death of Gilanni Day. A corner's report states that the
Speaker 1: young man's organs and eyeballs were missing when he was
Speaker 1: found last month, and an eye opening report by the
Speaker 1: Chicago Sun Times the LaSalle County Corner revealed Gelanni Day's
Speaker 1: autopsy report, where it described the condition of his body.
Speaker 1: Day's liver, spleen, and other organs were missing, along with
Speaker 1: his teeth and eyes. A second report was conducted by
Speaker 1: the Famili's private forensic pathologists, who says Day's jawbone was
Speaker 1: sawed out, sawed out, sawed out, bitch, And this is
Speaker 1: on Hollywood Unlocked. This is crazy. So we this this
Speaker 1: story isn't new to us. Black men have been going
Speaker 1: black men and women because there's a lot of black
Speaker 1: women missing. But um, black men have been mysteriously hung
Speaker 1: around the country over the last few years. I mean
Speaker 1: it's been happening since forever, but you know, in the
Speaker 1: media in the last few years. Um, girl, this made
Speaker 1: me feel so sick in my damn's stomach. It's disgusting.
Speaker 1: What about what about the young boy Kendred Johnson and
Speaker 1: like two thousand thirteen where they found his body rolled
Speaker 1: up in the mat in the gymnasium. And I feel
Speaker 1: like they took his organs out too, without his family's consent. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so that was involved. Asta. So ge Lonnie day body
Speaker 1: was found, no organs, job On saw it out allegedly,
Speaker 1: um eyeballs and teeth missing. So he was reported as
Speaker 1: a missing person early September. It says his body was
Speaker 1: found September for right, So they had his body all
Speaker 1: that time, they just didn't tell his family. Um. The
Speaker 1: story actually got you know, more news coverage because people
Speaker 1: were comparing him being missing to the young white woman
Speaker 1: whose body was found in Wyoming. We talked about that,
Speaker 1: talked about her last week. UM hm, why is there
Speaker 1: no sense of urgency when black people go missing? In America?
Speaker 1: There is um a whole organization called the Black and
Speaker 1: Missing m We literally have to find ourselves. You know,
Speaker 1: there's nobody helping to find and locate missing black children,
Speaker 1: missing the hundreds of thousands of thousands of missing black women,
Speaker 1: and with trafficking at all time high, it's just some
Speaker 1: ship that makes you go, hmm, what are they doing
Speaker 1: with us, So I know he was found in a
Speaker 1: body of water. I was thinking maybe something attack at them,
Speaker 1: like maybe you know, somebody obviously killed him, right, he
Speaker 1: ended up in the water. But then maybe something bit
Speaker 1: his face started eating him in the water. But obviously
Speaker 1: if it's jawline was sold out, Yeah, it would be
Speaker 1: somebody killed him, immediated his body, right and if if,
Speaker 1: if it was something that ate him, I don't think
Speaker 1: the organs would be missing in its entirety, like so perfect.
Speaker 1: You know, I think someone they killed him to take
Speaker 1: his organs, and you think it's some old rich fucker
Speaker 1: who's dying and needs healthy body parts. What what was
Speaker 1: that movie get Out? And this is some real life
Speaker 1: get Out ships. All fiction comes from some fact that
Speaker 1: people want to call me a conspiracy theorist. This ship
Speaker 1: goes on. This is why they go to Africa and
Speaker 1: they do all are testing on vaccines and all that
Speaker 1: ship on the black people over there, because we are
Speaker 1: the dominant gene. So they got to see what these
Speaker 1: things due to us, right because they can't they can't
Speaker 1: withstand this ship. So if you need new eyes exactly,
Speaker 1: I remember one fourth of July UM weekend um, they
Speaker 1: were saying like, some are fifty sixty something people got shot,
Speaker 1: some got killed in Chicago that particular weekend. Right, a
Speaker 1: white van or excuse me, a black van riding around
Speaker 1: just randomly shooting people. If you are and I just
Speaker 1: want you all to think about this for a second.
Speaker 1: If you are a millionaire, say you like got a
Speaker 1: billion dollars and you have a young child dying in
Speaker 1: and needs a kidney, right, the only thing you can't
Speaker 1: sell like legally are human organs. There's a real, live
Speaker 1: black market for human organs, and especially in Chicago and
Speaker 1: places where you could just blame random murders on gang
Speaker 1: violence while people continue sleep go missing. Somebody's paying for
Speaker 1: this ship like it's it's big in China, while would
Speaker 1: try not think it's big over here. And the one
Speaker 1: thing black, the one excuse me, the one thing. America
Speaker 1: has always been in the industry of its trafficking humans. Right,
Speaker 1: That's one of the oldest professions, next to prostitution. About
Speaker 1: say Pap and his Pusseeason prostitution. Yeah, but America has
Speaker 1: always been in the business of trafficking humans. So when
Speaker 1: we see all this traffickingness and people missing, this is
Speaker 1: this is normal. What better group to do it too?
Speaker 1: Then to the group, right, the minority franchise African American.
Speaker 1: And this is why if I were the vice president
Speaker 1: of America, I understand where Kamala Harris got up and
Speaker 1: she said, you know, don't come That's the only thing
Speaker 1: you could tell these people. Listen, don't come here, man,
Speaker 1: these people are not playing fair. Don't come here. They're
Speaker 1: gonna separate you from your children. Your children gonna end
Speaker 1: up and assist them. I'm documented I feel like they
Speaker 1: end up with pedophiles. Look at the legislation and stuff
Speaker 1: that's being passed. And I'm not saying like the gay
Speaker 1: community is aligned with being um pedophiles. That's not what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but that particular group of people they want
Speaker 1: to align themselves with the LGBTQ community as if being
Speaker 1: a pedophile is a sexual preference. Right, I see that exactly,
Speaker 1: So that the lgbt q Q community should be concerned
Speaker 1: with that, I'm sure they are. I'm sure you see.
Speaker 1: So now these people want to legalize pedophilia. Whose children
Speaker 1: are they gonna have? Who's child are you'all y'all gonna
Speaker 1: get Okay, let's just say for instance, Pedophila is legal.
Speaker 1: Whose fucking kid are y'all going to get ahold of?
Speaker 1: It's gonna be these undocumented kids that come across the
Speaker 1: fucking border and this government of Zenca who's with and
Speaker 1: they separate these children and these kids end up in
Speaker 1: the hands of these predators, predators. Look how many jo
Speaker 1: children's children in foster care and exactly look how many judges, lawyers,
Speaker 1: police officers get caught up in these um child sex
Speaker 1: trafficking rings and ship like that. It's scary, But I mean,
Speaker 1: think about Henrietta Alex what they did to her body.
Speaker 1: They took her DNA and they've been testing it for
Speaker 1: however long now, for years and years and years, and
Speaker 1: the family don't have ship now. They've been trying to
Speaker 1: sue forever, but they they're suing now, which as they should. UM.
Speaker 1: I don't believe that she died at John Johns Hopkins Hospital.
Speaker 1: I believe she was murdered. If she had sales that
Speaker 1: were immortal, which means you can recreate this actually has
Speaker 1: several cancer right, they can recreate what she would have
Speaker 1: never died. If what y'all saying it's true, y'all had
Speaker 1: to kill her to use her for something ends. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's very possible. And I just feel like, you know,
Speaker 1: with all, let me go, Let me go on, deep deep,
Speaker 1: deep deep deep down the rabbit hole. There we go, y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all got so we are drink, Go ahead and hit
Speaker 1: it a drinking right now. Okay, what if while y'all
Speaker 1: are trying to find y'all ancestry and y'all putting your
Speaker 1: DNA out there and all that ship niggas go to
Speaker 1: prison and get your d NA. I strongly believe that
Speaker 1: the powers that be are looking for a particular bloodline
Speaker 1: of people. We already know Black Americans as special, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. And I feel like when people
Speaker 1: go missing, I don't believe it's a random um killing.
Speaker 1: I feel like they know exactly who they're looking for
Speaker 1: and they pluck them because all information we put out
Speaker 1: there on social media, like they know who we are,
Speaker 1: they know I'll boglines, they know us better than we
Speaker 1: know ourselves. Well, let me just tell y'all this, I
Speaker 1: eat pork. My guy is very unhealthy. I smoke my cigarettes,
Speaker 1: but I smoke. Y'all don't want me. It would be
Speaker 1: a waste of time. Hey, y'all don't want me because
Speaker 1: you're gonna die trying to get me. And that's just
Speaker 1: that on that I'm overweight. I have a four diet.
Speaker 1: I'm over thirty five. That should protect me, girl. I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's scary out here, man. And it's another
Speaker 1: another young man who also went missing in Arizona, the
Speaker 1: guy Daniel Robinson. So um. It says that his car
Speaker 1: was discovered by a rancher on July nineteen, about three
Speaker 1: miles away from his work site when he was last seen. Um.
Speaker 1: The vehicle had suffered crash damage, and a pile of
Speaker 1: his clothing and belongings were discovered nearby. Arizona Buckeye Police
Speaker 1: Assistant Chief both Sanders told cy and Then that his
Speaker 1: officers have covered all of their bases in the search
Speaker 1: for Daniel Robinson. Mind you, his daddy had to travel
Speaker 1: to Arizona and recruit people to go out and look
Speaker 1: for him. To his son himself. You know, they weren't
Speaker 1: even looking for him. Daniel Robinson, it's his name. This
Speaker 1: is another missing black man who needs to be on
Speaker 1: our radar. And I mean after after somebodys missing so long,
Speaker 1: It's like, what's the likelihood of them even being alive? Right,
Speaker 1: so then your your family or even being found at
Speaker 1: all their body or anything. Yeah, So then basically your
Speaker 1: family just gets to, you know, get to preparing for
Speaker 1: the worst news ever or never have any news. Can
Speaker 1: you imagine, like your loved one, they just go about
Speaker 1: their day and they just ever come back. They vanished,
Speaker 1: and you just never hear or see for them again,
Speaker 1: and you never find out what happened to them. That's
Speaker 1: got to be one of the most gut wrenching experiences
Speaker 1: and it happens to so many of us. And I
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry if you know that that kind of pain.
Speaker 1: I'm very sorry to you. But I'm about to place
Speaker 1: Devil's Advocate a little bit here because we talk about
Speaker 1: our missing blacks, and we talk about black people being
Speaker 1: killed at the hands of law enforcement. What are we
Speaker 1: doing about what when we do it to ourselves? What
Speaker 1: can we speak to our own killing in our community?
Speaker 1: The music that promotes killing, that's when we're taking a
Speaker 1: conversation at Okay, So, how here's how I feel about that.
Speaker 1: People commit sin. Sin is always going to be committed.
Speaker 1: It's just the fact that people commit um crimes in
Speaker 1: close proximity, So where they are right your community, it's
Speaker 1: gonna be in your community. If it's a community of Asians,
Speaker 1: there's going to be crime there. But what happens to
Speaker 1: black people in America is that we're more publicized. When
Speaker 1: we do some ship, it's gonna be on the news,
Speaker 1: They're gonna keep playing it on Instagram. It's gonna, you know,
Speaker 1: keep playing on CNN and Fox News like it's just
Speaker 1: gonna keep playing it playing plays. So everybody gets this
Speaker 1: image in their head that it's just black people committing crimes,
Speaker 1: and it's just not true. White people commit crimes, Asians
Speaker 1: commit crimes, Hispanics commit crimes. Everybody commits crimes. What I'm
Speaker 1: saying is sending people are gonna always send. There's gonna
Speaker 1: be nothing any group, any one group of people will
Speaker 1: ever be able to do. To calmat that. Do you
Speaker 1: feel like black music hip hop promotes murder more than
Speaker 1: any other genre of music. Absolutely it does. Do you
Speaker 1: think that influences our youth in a way. When I
Speaker 1: was younger, Yeah, And when I was younger, I would
Speaker 1: argue with my MoMA and tell her like she would
Speaker 1: be like turn that wrap ship off and that mind
Speaker 1: you you cussing at me while talking about the cussing
Speaker 1: in the music. But I never understood it until I
Speaker 1: got older. You do some drugs and you're turning to
Speaker 1: fucking rap music on and now y'are heading in the
Speaker 1: car to go ruin the rest of your life or
Speaker 1: someone else's. Yeah, so of course the music plays a
Speaker 1: big role in it. We got to change the music
Speaker 1: that I mean, that would that would be a start.
Speaker 1: It would be a start changing the music. But you
Speaker 1: got niggas and so much money. They don't they would
Speaker 1: never right. And then they got the people who promoted
Speaker 1: like they want to keep us at this low vibration.
Speaker 1: They want to keep us here in this low space.
Speaker 1: I guess is everything in moderation. Because we like that music,
Speaker 1: we like I know. That's why I'm I mean, I'm
Speaker 1: a hypocrite when I say that ship because I'll be
Speaker 1: righting out there in the club with my fake gun
Speaker 1: in my hand, like shooting in the club, you know,
Speaker 1: to the song. But in real life, I would never
Speaker 1: harm anybody unless they're trying to harm me, because I can,
Speaker 1: I can car compartmentalize the music from my reality. But
Speaker 1: some people can't, and especially you, And that's the scary part.
Speaker 1: And then you consider that we have a portion of
Speaker 1: our youth that has no regard for life, and then
Speaker 1: we want other people to regard our lives. They just
Speaker 1: need guidance. Because here's the thing. The gangs, those are
Speaker 1: our warriors. That's how I see them. They're just misguided.
Speaker 1: They need to be organized. It was like this whole
Speaker 1: big thing going around by a month ago to let
Speaker 1: Larry Hoover out of prison because he's supposed to be
Speaker 1: like the savior for black people. First of all, what
Speaker 1: somebody else, please, somebody else to organize these niggas because
Speaker 1: we need, we need our warriors. They're just misguided, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. A lot of them don't have families,
Speaker 1: so they find families within the gangs or within the neighborhoods.
Speaker 1: The group of people more opportunities. So along with changing
Speaker 1: the music, more opportunities, and about changing the mindset, because
Speaker 1: you know, you got these young people, and most of
Speaker 1: them are young that are not afraid to take life right,
Speaker 1: they're not afraid to take life that could take a life.
Speaker 1: Go home, eat a turkey sandwich, watch Dave Chappelle comedy
Speaker 1: series and go to bed and just be fine. But
Speaker 1: George Zimmerman is still walking around this motherfucker, Like where
Speaker 1: is our warriors for ship like that? To protect and
Speaker 1: serve the black community, not to kill each other. That's
Speaker 1: all I mean. It's just stressful, man, It's just really
Speaker 1: real stressful being black in America. It's lit this ship
Speaker 1: dangerous as fuck. Yeah, it is dangerous because we gotta
Speaker 1: watch out for it for our own people. We gotta
Speaker 1: watch out for them people. It's just you know, when
Speaker 1: I lived away from Charleston and I would come home,
Speaker 1: you know, the weekends just a party or something like that.
Speaker 1: Like I would literally have adjust, like if I want
Speaker 1: to go to the club or something like that, I
Speaker 1: would adjust my whole ship because I might have to
Speaker 1: be a bit up because people just so fucking unruly
Speaker 1: and just nasty, Like black women are so nasty towards
Speaker 1: each other sometimes. Man. Black men like just always looking
Speaker 1: for a problem. You took the gun to the club
Speaker 1: because you already just mad and you wish a nigga
Speaker 1: would for no reason, like you just angry because you
Speaker 1: just don't have the resources you think you should have.
Speaker 1: Like the energies has to just that has to be refocused,
Speaker 1: Like how the witchcraft has been done on us? Man?
Speaker 1: How though, that's the thing? How how did we we
Speaker 1: would need some type of major paradigm shift in the
Speaker 1: consciousness of blacks happening. It's happening. It's happening. I believe
Speaker 1: it's happening. I believe. Um, you you don't be on
Speaker 1: Clubhouse like that, but I believe like platforms like Clubhouse
Speaker 1: allow people to meet their tribe of people and then
Speaker 1: they can organize outside the I believe there's a lot
Speaker 1: of information being spread amongst black people in the way
Speaker 1: that we were never never able to do in the past. Um,
Speaker 1: even with podcasts, you know what I'm saying, like just
Speaker 1: us being being able to talk and people listen, and
Speaker 1: you know maybe when we do live shows and ships
Speaker 1: like that, people pull up. Yeah. But then yeah, that's
Speaker 1: very true. But then I also think about have you
Speaker 1: ever looked at the story of King von when y'all
Speaker 1: just just get a chance, just look at like his
Speaker 1: life and his lifestyle and what was going on with
Speaker 1: them young people in Chicago. Man, they was on something different, different,
Speaker 1: Like they was literally out here killing like it was.
Speaker 1: But we're talking about Chicago. Chicago has been like that forever.
Speaker 1: It's just a bad spirit in Chicago. Let's think about
Speaker 1: the mob and how they were killing in Chicago. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: it just seems like it's the culture, and it's has
Speaker 1: always been the culture in Chicago, not just black people.
Speaker 1: The stuff that happened, it happens to black pomen America
Speaker 1: is not by mistake. It's all by design. On the inside.
Speaker 1: I just feel like Kobao Jr. When he came in
Speaker 1: the house and started punching, Like I really feel like that.
Speaker 1: But it's like, what can I do? Man? We can
Speaker 1: only start with the youth, because once somebody gets a
Speaker 1: certain age is like, man, you just can't even do
Speaker 1: ship with them. You gotta start with the youth. And
Speaker 1: when you mean, you know, and I find it hard
Speaker 1: to talk to them sometimes, Like these kids. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about little kids. I'm talking about you know, kids are
Speaker 1: most impressionable from ages they say like three to seven
Speaker 1: or something like that. I'm talking about little kids. He's teenagers. Man.
Speaker 1: I was outside trying to rap to these little kids.
Speaker 1: I said, rapp, I sound like somebody Auntie. I was
Speaker 1: trying to talk to these teenagers that be riding the
Speaker 1: bites in the street downtown Charlotte, and these little nicks
Speaker 1: was not trying to hear nothing I had to say.
Speaker 1: And then they rolled off on a little break and
Speaker 1: he was like, you got a fat ass, though, I'm
Speaker 1: like a fuck fun these kids. Fun, these kids. That's
Speaker 1: how I feel. So I don't know, man, girl, let's
Speaker 1: face some bills real quick. We'll be right back. It's
Speaker 1: a little heavy episode, tam but necessary. But I want
Speaker 1: to challenge everybody to go visit the Black and Missing, Inc.
Speaker 1: Dot com website. UM, let's not wait on Instagram or Facebook,
Speaker 1: follow alert whoever to tell us about you know, what's
Speaker 1: going on our community. UM, you could visit that website.
Speaker 1: They have all the missing black people, um CARLINI United States.
Speaker 1: I mean there's a there's another black woman who's currently
Speaker 1: missing right now. She's been missing since UM September eighth.
Speaker 1: Her name is Sydney Palmer. And another woman, Ashley got Lorie,
Speaker 1: she's been missing missing from Houston, Texas UM since September four. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't even see this stuff in the media.
Speaker 1: There's also websites like um our Black Girls, dot com,
Speaker 1: in pr dot org. So there's other resources out there
Speaker 1: where we can keep on top of these stories. And
Speaker 1: I mean, just take a look at the people, look
Speaker 1: at their stories. Shop Hopefully some of these people are alive.
Speaker 1: You might run into them, but you just got to
Speaker 1: know the faces. Though. When you see people so tam
Speaker 1: you also know. They say that black people make up
Speaker 1: thirty five per cent of the missing persons reported in America,
Speaker 1: but only cent of the country. Yes, over half of
Speaker 1: the incarcerated, but only thirteen percent of the country. We
Speaker 1: it's just everything. Lord, help us understand what you're trying
Speaker 1: to tell us. In this country, we are just behind
Speaker 1: enemy lines. It feels like it. Black women die more
Speaker 1: during pregnancy than any other one. It's more black people
Speaker 1: dying from coronavirus. We're going to more. No, No, that
Speaker 1: coronavirus is not your If y'all visit the CDC website,
Speaker 1: white people dying from corona more, I mean, they'll say
Speaker 1: it's more white people, but yeah, the the six does
Speaker 1: not show that, Um, black black people. I'm sorry that
Speaker 1: black people are dying more. Um. You know what I
Speaker 1: want to do right now, I want to call all
Speaker 1: fucking witches calling all witches, calling all black witches in America.
Speaker 1: What we need to get together and do something. Man,
Speaker 1: that's a j y'all. I don't don't know about that
Speaker 1: calling all black witches. Yes, hit us up at we
Speaker 1: talk about podcasts, A JA C C A j Okay,
Speaker 1: y'all hit us up because lit and we got to
Speaker 1: figure something to funk out with you. All right, So, y'all,
Speaker 1: on a lighter note, let's get back to our regularly
Speaker 1: scheduled ratchet. Um, let's go into our dumb bitch segment.
Speaker 1: Please dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb
Speaker 1: bitch at least once or twice. All right, here he
Speaker 1: goes you guys, Um says, hey, guys, I want to
Speaker 1: tell my story and maybe get some advice. I've been
Speaker 1: dealing with this man on and off for six years.
Speaker 1: He recently moved to Los Angeles and I live on
Speaker 1: the East Coast, so we don't see each other as often.
Speaker 1: I started seeing a military man five months ago, and
Speaker 1: he treats me so good and things are going great. Anyway.
Speaker 1: To make a long, long crazy story short, I slept
Speaker 1: with both of them within the same week unprotected, and
Speaker 1: they both shot up the club. Now out Now I'm
Speaker 1: pregnant and I don't know who the father is. But
Speaker 1: that ain't the worst part of it. The boot from
Speaker 1: l A found out about the military boom and now
Speaker 1: he says, I need to pay him five k by
Speaker 1: Halloween or he will contact the military booth to let
Speaker 1: him know that we are still fucking Should I pay him?
Speaker 1: I really, I really love the military boot and I
Speaker 1: think he can provide a good life for me and
Speaker 1: my new child. Please help. Wait a minute, okay, so
Speaker 1: why is she being extorted for five thousand dollars? Does
Speaker 1: she we need someone? Why is she being extorted? So
Speaker 1: she says, the l A booth found out about the
Speaker 1: military guy, and he said give him that five k
Speaker 1: by Halloween or a he gonna tell that nigga that
Speaker 1: she she out here fucking Wow. Is she married to
Speaker 1: the guy in the military. No, it says they've only
Speaker 1: been dealing with each other for five months. Wow. Okay,
Speaker 1: So basically, you don't you need to have an abortion? Hey, look, bitch,
Speaker 1: Usually we are pro I don't know, like we pro
Speaker 1: choice and pro life. It just depends on the situation,
Speaker 1: Like women should have the choice right and this's like,
Speaker 1: what is happening, bitch? If you want to save yourself
Speaker 1: some embarrassment, like how pregnant are you? Right? It doesn't say,
Speaker 1: it doesn't say like how how are you? Girl? If
Speaker 1: this is an ugly position to be in because you
Speaker 1: can pay this man five thousand dollars and then the
Speaker 1: baby be his and now you don't gave him money
Speaker 1: and got to be stuck with him for life because
Speaker 1: you're pregnant by him. No, she just gave his ass
Speaker 1: a down payment on y'all support. Give him that baby.
Speaker 1: Get your day. I'm not paid. No, I'm not. I
Speaker 1: will not being storted by terrorists. We do not negotiate
Speaker 1: with terrorists here in the United States. I would block him.
Speaker 1: And if he tell say it ain't you, do not
Speaker 1: deny that it was not me. He could see him
Speaker 1: to be the messages between y'all that still ain't me
Speaker 1: photoshop is real. I don't know, girl, that's an ugly situation.
Speaker 1: But you you really out here with a nigga who
Speaker 1: will try to give five K? How did you sound like?
Speaker 1: He broke exactly? And he sounds and sounding like why
Speaker 1: does he even know about the other guy? I wonder
Speaker 1: if the guy in the military, I'm assuming that's her boyfriend,
Speaker 1: because why does this side dude think he can extort
Speaker 1: her out of five thousand dollars or he's gonna tell
Speaker 1: on her to this guy the FU I like, look,
Speaker 1: I three, okay, I'm not paying five thousand and nobody
Speaker 1: about no deed. Like we need to start giving real advice.
Speaker 1: So do we have some real helpful advice for our listener? Okay,
Speaker 1: go to the abortion clinics. No, that's not my advice
Speaker 1: because motherhood, that's a blessing from God. If you decide
Speaker 1: that you want to keep that child, by all means,
Speaker 1: keep the child, but you might have the suffer the repercussions.
Speaker 1: I would not tell you to pay that man nothing
Speaker 1: because he could still tell whether you give him that
Speaker 1: five thousand or not. You know, now you five thousand short.
Speaker 1: Even if you got that, you know you five thousand short,
Speaker 1: and the military nigga're gonna find out. So or he
Speaker 1: could always hold that over your head. When held low
Speaker 1: on money again, he could come back and be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need another this month is slow, and it's
Speaker 1: like she he probably knows she can get money out there.
Speaker 1: The guy he's basically storing, the guy who could also
Speaker 1: be possibly be the baby's father. Right, this is messy. Listen, ladies,
Speaker 1: if you're gonna have sex and multiple people use a
Speaker 1: condom with at least one or both, like Tammy always
Speaker 1: be saying I used kind of everybody. Whatever happens sometimes
Speaker 1: you know, it's a it's a drunk night, whatever it happens.
Speaker 1: You've grown, people do ship slip a slide, and yeah,
Speaker 1: somebody you got to use a condom with. You can't
Speaker 1: just be enjoying all the day and raw dick, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't even know what raw dick feels like.
Speaker 1: No more. I've been getting kindall penis for years. Like
Speaker 1: I don't even want to have sex because I got
Speaker 1: to use a condom. I don't want to. Yeah, girl,
Speaker 1: but you don't want to end up your ship like this,
Speaker 1: you know, hell no, not at this age. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you why. I always, always, always use a condom
Speaker 1: because I just imagine myself, like in a hospital bed,
Speaker 1: dying from something that I could have prevented, and with
Speaker 1: my family around me, and they're like, oh, she's dying
Speaker 1: from sick dick. I don't you know. I don't want
Speaker 1: scare of that. It's so terrified. Ah, y'all better stay
Speaker 1: prayed up. Well, Halloween is around the corner, baby, So
Speaker 1: I don't know either you're gonna get it? Are you
Speaker 1: gonna trick? Are you gonna get tricked? Because it ain't
Speaker 1: no treat for you in this situation. Is it gonna
Speaker 1: wiggle and walk? You're going to hell? This is not funny. Yes,
Speaker 1: when guys, yeah, women, we'll be making fun of abortion.
Speaker 1: We do make fun of it, and it's not funny.
Speaker 1: It's a very very serious matter and we shouldn't be
Speaker 1: laughing about telling a woman to go and get an abortion.
Speaker 1: But it's a really a real reality for a lot
Speaker 1: of women. Like things happen. You may even plan the pregnancy,
Speaker 1: right what this man and he finds out you're pregnant,
Speaker 1: and he wakes up like he never knew how women
Speaker 1: get pregnant and he could he can be indifferent about it.
Speaker 1: And now you're stuck with this decision to make because
Speaker 1: I'm not into forcing anybody to do anything. So we
Speaker 1: end up in the fucking dumbest situation. Sometimes unintentionally, this
Speaker 1: particular situation, I mean, you have a sex and multiple
Speaker 1: people you ejaculating you other China, Right, what did you expect?
Speaker 1: So either gonna be a woman have your child? Tell
Speaker 1: both men, Hey, I'm pregnant and I was sleeping with
Speaker 1: both of you. You could do that. That's an option
Speaker 1: that that would be the most mature thing to do, honestly.
Speaker 1: But but I don't know. Bitch at your mama because
Speaker 1: this is rough. That's a child. Do you already have kids?
Speaker 1: It doesn't say. It doesn't say. He a message back
Speaker 1: and tell us if you have kids already. Um, but
Speaker 1: either way, I mean, that doesn't really matter you. UM,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't advise you to abort. That's not my real
Speaker 1: I mean, it was funny when I said it the
Speaker 1: first time. But if I'm being in all honesty, that's
Speaker 1: up to you if you want to keep the baby
Speaker 1: or not. But it sounds like you do because you're
Speaker 1: saying a good life for me and my new child.
Speaker 1: So that means like you've already made your mind up
Speaker 1: that you're going to have your child. But if you
Speaker 1: even let that man know that that may not be
Speaker 1: his showd You can't be planning a future with him
Speaker 1: when you could possibly be carrying another carrying another man's show.
Speaker 1: That's very deceitful. It's just mean and nasty and it
Speaker 1: and it hurts men. A lot of men deal with
Speaker 1: that ship. That's how Marry You Gotta has a whole
Speaker 1: TV show about it, Like you need to be honest
Speaker 1: with him from day one and just deal with whatever
Speaker 1: the repercussions of your choices. But don't send that nicko
Speaker 1: five thousand. I will say that, I send him a dollar.
Speaker 1: You're gonna need that for your baby. Congratulations to you,
Speaker 1: though motherhood is beautiful and good luck. Write us back
Speaker 1: and tell us what happens. Don't get that n no
Speaker 1: money girl, all right, Ah, this is a heavy episode,
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I just encourage everybody to go
Speaker 1: look out there and see about our people. Man, check
Speaker 1: on your people, talk to your people. I think a
Speaker 1: lot of times people may be going through things and
Speaker 1: they could possibly take off, but then they end up
Speaker 1: in a situations somewhere. That's what happens to a lot
Speaker 1: of young women I know for sure. Make sure people,
Speaker 1: good man, check on their mental health. Let's let's just
Speaker 1: love one another and hugs a lot of hugs. Man
Speaker 1: hug saves lives, m when you be going through it
Speaker 1: and somebody hug you, don't you just break down as
Speaker 1: soon as that's what sometimes I'll be like, don't touch
Speaker 1: me because I'm gonna cry. You gotta hug your people. Man,
Speaker 1: shoot energy right quick. Yeah. But we thank you guys
Speaker 1: for tuning in, and if you enjoy this episode, please
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