WEBVTT - Ep. 39 "Black and Missing"

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<v Speaker 1>We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who

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<v Speaker 1>talked back and we're back. What's up, y'all? Is your

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<v Speaker 1>girl a J? Welcome to a new episode that we

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<v Speaker 1>talked back A and it's Tam bam y'all. Hey, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>I love y'all. Let's love a J. How was your weekend? Um? Saturday?

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<v Speaker 1>I spent time with my family hanging out. I saw

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<v Speaker 1>some family on the scene. Awhile debated about Christianity, the government, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>the vaccine sounds like a three hours, sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>good old AJ time for about three hours. Girl, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so sick of talking to people. I'm gonna just not

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<v Speaker 1>talk to people no more. You're gonna talk to people

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<v Speaker 1>on this show because we're under contract. Hey, Like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Did if I getting paid, I'm not talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry because I'm is. I just want to be

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<v Speaker 1>surrounded by like minded people. That's the way. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to listen. Here's here's who I am. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the type of person who tries to force my

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<v Speaker 1>point of view on people. My ego is just not

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<v Speaker 1>that big. So I usually wait for people to come around,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'll have a little random, littlebate, debates arguments, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not talking about that ship no more. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when that person then comes around, then we'll have a

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<v Speaker 1>discussion about it. But I'm no longer interested in trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make my fucking see the light. I'm just not. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I like being in the room of diverse

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<v Speaker 1>opinions just because it's just helps with growth for me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I already know I'm argumentative, right, so to avoid

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<v Speaker 1>any unnecessary stress, I just don't want to debate. Speaking

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<v Speaker 1>of stress, this weekend, one of my friends um almost

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<v Speaker 1>had a stroke only forty years old. Blood pressure was

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand over two thousands, something crazy like that. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he almost went into board the line. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what it was, called borderline stroke or something like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It had to be admitted to the hospitals. And he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to open the club. He's they got all these

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<v Speaker 1>different businesses running at the same time, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk to you guys about stress. Man, you

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<v Speaker 1>can chase all the money in the world, but if

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<v Speaker 1>you're dead, you can't have none of it. Exactly. Cut

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<v Speaker 1>all that dumbass salt out of your diet. Start eating

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<v Speaker 1>to live and not living to eat and minimize your stress. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>for real, that's that's my that was my weekend. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out here running around buying stress. I mean, heart monitors

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<v Speaker 1>offer Amazon and all ship for this nigga because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>worried about him. You know, it's forty medication or something

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<v Speaker 1>he is now and he's not even fat. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>not know he had high blood pressure? He was in

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<v Speaker 1>the mall, going in the mall, going to buy him

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<v Speaker 1>some ship and almost fainted and they had a health

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<v Speaker 1>him with a glass of water. He went to the

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<v Speaker 1>hospital and they his blood pressure and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>astronomically high. So you guys, I'm just that's a word

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<v Speaker 1>of advice. Take care of yourself because we can go

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<v Speaker 1>up out of here. You know, I got a blood

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<v Speaker 1>pressure cut because I can. That's what I bought him. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can feel like I don't have high blood pressure

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<v Speaker 1>per se, but if I get like upset, my should

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<v Speaker 1>be elevated so quick like to why, I just gotta,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, stop talking, completely shut down to come back,

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<v Speaker 1>because man, I got multiple people in my family who

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<v Speaker 1>had strokes like around my age. So y'all take care

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself. So let's talk about a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>stupid internet ship right quick this week. You know what's

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<v Speaker 1>the stupid ship? Oh um? Well, I don't really think

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<v Speaker 1>this is stupid, but so a lot of people did.

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<v Speaker 1>There is a video that was going around of Bernice

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<v Speaker 1>Burgos and her daughter and they did like a TikTok

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<v Speaker 1>about whiling out and ship. And then it was the

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<v Speaker 1>video of them together in the club and the daughter

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<v Speaker 1>was like rolling her hips to the music and Bernice

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, cheering her own and ship. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's people that feel a way about mother daughter duo

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<v Speaker 1>being out playing together. My girl, people, so fu stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, we're in our thirties and Granny's right now,

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<v Speaker 1>are our age? You know what I'm saying, middles late

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<v Speaker 1>thirties at this point. It is what it is. But

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<v Speaker 1>people just did not just start having babies young. She

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<v Speaker 1>had her child young, and she grew up with her kids,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm pretty sure they're really really close. Bernie says,

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<v Speaker 1>she's in her forties now, the right. Yeah, but her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter is like something like that, yeah, with the child.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is the two grown ups, yeah, the two adults.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not like her sixteen year old daughters, and my

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<v Speaker 1>mom is My mom is sixty eight, and I definitely

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<v Speaker 1>be tworking in the kitchen with her. I'm sorry. There's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing wrong. There's nothing wrong with having a good relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm not your little friend. Okay, some moms don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to be your little friend, but some mom's kids,

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<v Speaker 1>it's okay. It's not a big deal to me. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't see nothing wrong with it. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess they feel like Bernice needs to grow up because

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<v Speaker 1>she's a grandmother. Like no ship, you only as old

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<v Speaker 1>as you feel. Who defines what that looks like? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely don't. I don't know. That's just not one

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<v Speaker 1>of the things I give a funk about to even

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<v Speaker 1>comment on. My fingers don't allow me to be a hater.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, my mom is a lot of fun. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if she'll go to a stripple up with me,

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<v Speaker 1>but she'll she'll do just about anything or any drugs

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<v Speaker 1>with me either. Now I think about, she really ain't

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do ship. She's still a ton of fun, still

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of fun. Look now you see how they're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to cancel Dave Chappelle Now that's some real bullshit.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know who the hell is organization is,

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<v Speaker 1>the National Black Coalition whatever, Like y'are not speaking for me,

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<v Speaker 1>You don't represent me. Why why I'm scared to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about this ship many because the elves g bt Q

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<v Speaker 1>community and the trans community, which is also a member

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<v Speaker 1>of l g b t Q, they are like the

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<v Speaker 1>like the mob about this bitch. I don't want to die.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't what nobody to like it me listen. First

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<v Speaker 1>of all, God won't allow anybody to cancel us, first

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<v Speaker 1>of all. And the second thing is the basic thing

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<v Speaker 1>Dave Chappelle was trying to communicate is that you're black

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<v Speaker 1>before you gay. He really wasn't talking about the gay community.

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<v Speaker 1>He really was talking about white folks. He really was

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<v Speaker 1>talking about white people in that. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>the fun y'all were watching. And if you're watching something

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<v Speaker 1>with a confrontation on mine, you already gonna be on

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<v Speaker 1>some bullshit, especially with a comedian, because I mean, he

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<v Speaker 1>made a lot of jokes that were misogynistic, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like fun, Dave Chappelle, I have a real buzzy,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, I didn't do that man, No, we

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<v Speaker 1>could be like that with them, like we got real

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<v Speaker 1>pussy over here, like yeah, you know what he said,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's beyond pussy or impossible pussy. I'm scared. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>laugh too hard a bit. We're gonna be hell no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna have no episode next week. Listen, the

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<v Speaker 1>fucking show is fighting if I try to cancel Dave Chappelle.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell no, when Dave Chappelle did, he intentionally did that

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<v Speaker 1>show to cause an uproar, and he knew were the

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<v Speaker 1>last one for a while. He said it when he

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<v Speaker 1>first started. And it's the falter. It's like, this is

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<v Speaker 1>an end game. I'm not working with y'all people no more.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't funk with me. I'm sorry, bitch me and you.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the beginning, this is the opener. So don't

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<v Speaker 1>get us. Cancel if they want to cancel that, so

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<v Speaker 1>be it for laughing at some ship girl. What are

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<v Speaker 1>you yelling at me? Shut up? I never been scared

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<v Speaker 1>of nobody. Hell I'm not about the people. Bully me.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, you guys, we'll be back. We're gonna pay

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<v Speaker 1>some bills real quick, all right. Um, So to kick

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<v Speaker 1>today's topic of discussion off, we did get and Ask

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<v Speaker 1>a Black Friend. Um, and y'all know Columbus Day was

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<v Speaker 1>also on Monday, which they've also changed the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>to Indigenous People's Day. That's what I would be more

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<v Speaker 1>aligned with because I don't know who the fun Columbus

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<v Speaker 1>say never been in America. So it's Indigenous People Day

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<v Speaker 1>in Savage Cracker Day basically. Okay, I like the balance.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So, um, first of all, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>thank our listener for sending in this acts of black

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<v Speaker 1>uh friend questions for this week. So here it is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I have a question for Ask a Black Friend segment.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, hold on, hold on. I know you're going,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to interject. You said x a Black friend,

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<v Speaker 1>like chop them down. We're not killing those niggas on

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<v Speaker 1>this show. First of all, you know, I'm look, we

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<v Speaker 1>we we make four words in the one all that

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<v Speaker 1>ship like whatever first and Guiche is a government language. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's English anyway. So here's what she says. Since

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<v Speaker 1>where society removing Confederate statues as we should, what role

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<v Speaker 1>does the Gateway arch in St. Louis play? How long

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<v Speaker 1>until it's also removed? Not trying to play devil's advocate,

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<v Speaker 1>but seems like a very slippery slope. Growing up, my

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<v Speaker 1>history class wasn't as informative as it is today. But

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<v Speaker 1>isn't that what we need to learn even as we

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<v Speaker 1>get older, to learn from the mistakes of our past,

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<v Speaker 1>even at its most gruesome. I celebrate forty five years

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<v Speaker 1>in this world and try to make it better than

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<v Speaker 1>what it was before me. My area isn't very well versed, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't stop me from loving others more than myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I truly love your podcast and look forward to listening

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<v Speaker 1>to you ladies each week. Keep fighting a good fight.

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<v Speaker 1>Always know that my heart and house is open. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you like coffee, so that's why I asked a

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<v Speaker 1>black friend question for this week. There we go, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe the statues and stuff. I mean, we know

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<v Speaker 1>what they represent, right M within a reasonable means, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>take them fucking shut down. You know what I'm saying?

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<v Speaker 1>Like time change, history changes, I mean, hit what excuse me?

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<v Speaker 1>History doesn't change. But there's also the truth though the

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<v Speaker 1>whole fucking arch though that I don't know how long

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<v Speaker 1>that's gonna take you to take it down. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if we're going there, we might as well just bull

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<v Speaker 1>those the whole country over and start over. Honestly, so

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<v Speaker 1>this but I get what you're saying. I get what

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<v Speaker 1>you're in that, and I mean I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>are playing Devil's Advocated a little bit because that is heavy. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's a lot to knock down. But I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get what you're going for. Yeah, I lived in St.

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<v Speaker 1>Louis for five years. I've been up in the arch.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a major Like, it's a big structure, and at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, it represents the current state I mean of St.

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<v Speaker 1>Louis because I mean, we could just change what it

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<v Speaker 1>represents instead of trying to knock that whole motherfucker down. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>those monuments of a person who represented, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the oppression of black people, those are easy to take down,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's an actual person. You can't change who a

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<v Speaker 1>person is, you know. You can't take a statue of

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<v Speaker 1>Robert E. Lee and be like, nah, we're gonna call

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<v Speaker 1>him Robbie now and he represents this. No, it's the

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<v Speaker 1>same motherfucker every time. But the Golden Arches we can,

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<v Speaker 1>we can, we can change what it represents. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that would be a better idea than the Golden

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<v Speaker 1>Arches and St. Louis Archer. Bitch, I'm hungry McDonald. What

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<v Speaker 1>the hell just happened? Which I did not have breakfast yet? Okay, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>so the history of the arch is the arch was

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<v Speaker 1>put up and it displaced a lot of indigenous Black

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<v Speaker 1>African Americans. Um when it was resurrected, so it displaced

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people to put this to put the

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<v Speaker 1>arch up right, and didn't let him work on it.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't even let him get paid to help put the

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<v Speaker 1>motherfuck up. Yeah. So this this is why the our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners asking, you know, should the arch then to be

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<v Speaker 1>taken down? I don't think we're gonna go that far.

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<v Speaker 1>Like Tam said, you might as well take the whole

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<v Speaker 1>country down, because there's a lot of things that still

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<v Speaker 1>represent hatred. You know, you can't change the people, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So but thank you for listening in and thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for the coffee. Send me your address, I'll pull up.

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<v Speaker 1>I do enjoy coffee that French vanilla crema with that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you say that. I mean this is a great

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<v Speaker 1>segue actually, because we are talking about the hainiest crimes

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<v Speaker 1>that have been committed against black men in America all right,

0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:20.360
<v Speaker 1>it says. Shocking new details were revealed surrounding the tragic

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<v Speaker 1>death of Gilanni Day. A corner's report states that the

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<v Speaker 1>young man's organs and eyeballs were missing when he was

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<v Speaker 1>found last month, and an eye opening report by the

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<v Speaker 1>Chicago Sun Times the LaSalle County Corner revealed Gelanni Day's

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<v Speaker 1>autopsy report, where it described the condition of his body.

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<v Speaker 1>Day's liver, spleen, and other organs were missing, along with

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<v Speaker 1>his teeth and eyes. A second report was conducted by

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<v Speaker 1>the Famili's private forensic pathologists, who says Day's jawbone was

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<v Speaker 1>sawed out, sawed out, sawed out, bitch, And this is

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<v Speaker 1>on Hollywood Unlocked. This is crazy. So we this this

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<v Speaker 1>story isn't new to us. Black men have been going

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<v Speaker 1>black men and women because there's a lot of black

0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:10.720
<v Speaker 1>women missing. But um, black men have been mysteriously hung

0:14:10.800 --> 0:14:13.840
<v Speaker 1>around the country over the last few years. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's been happening since forever, but you know, in the

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<v Speaker 1>media in the last few years. Um, girl, this made

0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:25.040
<v Speaker 1>me feel so sick in my damn's stomach. It's disgusting.

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<v Speaker 1>What about what about the young boy Kendred Johnson and

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<v Speaker 1>like two thousand thirteen where they found his body rolled

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<v Speaker 1>up in the mat in the gymnasium. And I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they took his organs out too, without his family's consent. Yeah,

0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:45.720
<v Speaker 1>so that was involved. Asta. So ge Lonnie day body

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<v Speaker 1>was found, no organs, job On saw it out allegedly,

0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:55.480
<v Speaker 1>um eyeballs and teeth missing. So he was reported as

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<v Speaker 1>a missing person early September. It says his body was

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<v Speaker 1>found September for right, So they had his body all

0:15:02.000 --> 0:15:06.920
<v Speaker 1>that time, they just didn't tell his family. Um. The

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<v Speaker 1>story actually got you know, more news coverage because people

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<v Speaker 1>were comparing him being missing to the young white woman

0:15:17.600 --> 0:15:20.000
<v Speaker 1>whose body was found in Wyoming. We talked about that,

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<v Speaker 1>talked about her last week. UM hm, why is there

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<v Speaker 1>no sense of urgency when black people go missing? In America?

0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:34.360
<v Speaker 1>There is um a whole organization called the Black and

0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:39.000
<v Speaker 1>Missing m We literally have to find ourselves. You know,

0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:43.320
<v Speaker 1>there's nobody helping to find and locate missing black children,

0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:48.080
<v Speaker 1>missing the hundreds of thousands of thousands of missing black women,

0:15:48.240 --> 0:15:51.600
<v Speaker 1>and with trafficking at all time high, it's just some

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<v Speaker 1>ship that makes you go, hmm, what are they doing

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<v Speaker 1>with us, So I know he was found in a

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<v Speaker 1>body of water. I was thinking maybe something attack at them,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe you know, somebody obviously killed him, right, he

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<v Speaker 1>ended up in the water. But then maybe something bit

0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.160
<v Speaker 1>his face started eating him in the water. But obviously

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<v Speaker 1>if it's jawline was sold out, Yeah, it would be

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<v Speaker 1>somebody killed him, immediated his body, right and if if,

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<v Speaker 1>if it was something that ate him, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>the organs would be missing in its entirety, like so perfect.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I think someone they killed him to take

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<v Speaker 1>his organs, and you think it's some old rich fucker

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<v Speaker 1>who's dying and needs healthy body parts. What what was

0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:40.840
<v Speaker 1>that movie get Out? And this is some real life

0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:44.840
<v Speaker 1>get Out ships. All fiction comes from some fact that

0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:48.360
<v Speaker 1>people want to call me a conspiracy theorist. This ship

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<v Speaker 1>goes on. This is why they go to Africa and

0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:55.360
<v Speaker 1>they do all are testing on vaccines and all that

0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:58.640
<v Speaker 1>ship on the black people over there, because we are

0:16:58.720 --> 0:17:01.960
<v Speaker 1>the dominant gene. So they got to see what these

0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:05.080
<v Speaker 1>things due to us, right because they can't they can't

0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:10.400
<v Speaker 1>withstand this ship. So if you need new eyes exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember one fourth of July UM weekend um, they

0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:19.280
<v Speaker 1>were saying like, some are fifty sixty something people got shot,

0:17:20.240 --> 0:17:25.000
<v Speaker 1>some got killed in Chicago that particular weekend. Right, a

0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:28.080
<v Speaker 1>white van or excuse me, a black van riding around

0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:31.679
<v Speaker 1>just randomly shooting people. If you are and I just

0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:33.320
<v Speaker 1>want you all to think about this for a second.

0:17:33.840 --> 0:17:36.399
<v Speaker 1>If you are a millionaire, say you like got a

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<v Speaker 1>billion dollars and you have a young child dying in

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<v Speaker 1>and needs a kidney, right, the only thing you can't

0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:50.560
<v Speaker 1>sell like legally are human organs. There's a real, live

0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:54.919
<v Speaker 1>black market for human organs, and especially in Chicago and

0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:57.840
<v Speaker 1>places where you could just blame random murders on gang

0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:03.439
<v Speaker 1>violence while people continue sleep go missing. Somebody's paying for

0:18:03.480 --> 0:18:06.640
<v Speaker 1>this ship like it's it's big in China, while would

0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:08.360
<v Speaker 1>try not think it's big over here. And the one

0:18:08.359 --> 0:18:10.480
<v Speaker 1>thing black, the one excuse me, the one thing. America

0:18:10.520 --> 0:18:15.320
<v Speaker 1>has always been in the industry of its trafficking humans. Right,

0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:19.680
<v Speaker 1>That's one of the oldest professions, next to prostitution. About

0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:24.880
<v Speaker 1>say Pap and his Pusseeason prostitution. Yeah, but America has

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<v Speaker 1>always been in the business of trafficking humans. So when

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<v Speaker 1>we see all this traffickingness and people missing, this is

0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:34.399
<v Speaker 1>this is normal. What better group to do it too?

0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:41.240
<v Speaker 1>Then to the group, right, the minority franchise African American.

0:18:41.840 --> 0:18:44.680
<v Speaker 1>And this is why if I were the vice president

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<v Speaker 1>of America, I understand where Kamala Harris got up and

0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.520
<v Speaker 1>she said, you know, don't come That's the only thing

0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you could tell these people. Listen, don't come here, man,

0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.640
<v Speaker 1>these people are not playing fair. Don't come here. They're

0:18:55.640 --> 0:18:59.439
<v Speaker 1>gonna separate you from your children. Your children gonna end

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<v Speaker 1>up and assist them. I'm documented I feel like they

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<v Speaker 1>end up with pedophiles. Look at the legislation and stuff

0:19:06.560 --> 0:19:08.800
<v Speaker 1>that's being passed. And I'm not saying like the gay

0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:13.080
<v Speaker 1>community is aligned with being um pedophiles. That's not what

0:19:13.119 --> 0:19:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm saying, but that particular group of people they want

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<v Speaker 1>to align themselves with the LGBTQ community as if being

0:19:21.320 --> 0:19:26.760
<v Speaker 1>a pedophile is a sexual preference. Right, I see that exactly,

0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:30.480
<v Speaker 1>So that the lgbt q Q community should be concerned

0:19:30.520 --> 0:19:33.960
<v Speaker 1>with that, I'm sure they are. I'm sure you see.

0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:38.480
<v Speaker 1>So now these people want to legalize pedophilia. Whose children

0:19:38.520 --> 0:19:41.680
<v Speaker 1>are they gonna have? Who's child are you'all y'all gonna

0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:45.080
<v Speaker 1>get Okay, let's just say for instance, Pedophila is legal.

0:19:45.560 --> 0:19:47.919
<v Speaker 1>Whose fucking kid are y'all going to get ahold of?

0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:51.399
<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be these undocumented kids that come across the

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<v Speaker 1>fucking border and this government of Zenca who's with and

0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:57.800
<v Speaker 1>they separate these children and these kids end up in

0:19:57.800 --> 0:19:59.879
<v Speaker 1>the hands of these predators, predators. Look how many jo

0:20:00.160 --> 0:20:05.919
<v Speaker 1>children's children in foster care and exactly look how many judges, lawyers,

0:20:06.320 --> 0:20:10.320
<v Speaker 1>police officers get caught up in these um child sex

0:20:10.359 --> 0:20:14.200
<v Speaker 1>trafficking rings and ship like that. It's scary, But I mean,

0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:18.800
<v Speaker 1>think about Henrietta Alex what they did to her body.

0:20:19.200 --> 0:20:22.240
<v Speaker 1>They took her DNA and they've been testing it for

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<v Speaker 1>however long now, for years and years and years, and

0:20:25.960 --> 0:20:30.840
<v Speaker 1>the family don't have ship now. They've been trying to

0:20:30.840 --> 0:20:37.120
<v Speaker 1>sue forever, but they they're suing now, which as they should. UM.

0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:41.720
<v Speaker 1>I don't believe that she died at John Johns Hopkins Hospital.

0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:46.080
<v Speaker 1>I believe she was murdered. If she had sales that

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<v Speaker 1>were immortal, which means you can recreate this actually has

0:20:50.960 --> 0:20:54.480
<v Speaker 1>several cancer right, they can recreate what she would have

0:20:54.520 --> 0:20:57.680
<v Speaker 1>never died. If what y'all saying it's true, y'all had

0:20:57.720 --> 0:21:01.280
<v Speaker 1>to kill her to use her for something ends. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very possible. And I just feel like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>with all, let me go, Let me go on, deep deep,

0:21:07.240 --> 0:21:10.920
<v Speaker 1>deep deep deep down the rabbit hole. There we go, y'all,

0:21:11.920 --> 0:21:14.200
<v Speaker 1>y'all got so we are drink, Go ahead and hit

0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:20.280
<v Speaker 1>it a drinking right now. Okay, what if while y'all

0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:24.600
<v Speaker 1>are trying to find y'all ancestry and y'all putting your

0:21:24.760 --> 0:21:27.199
<v Speaker 1>DNA out there and all that ship niggas go to

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<v Speaker 1>prison and get your d NA. I strongly believe that

0:21:32.119 --> 0:21:37.360
<v Speaker 1>the powers that be are looking for a particular bloodline

0:21:37.720 --> 0:21:41.159
<v Speaker 1>of people. We already know Black Americans as special, you

0:21:41.160 --> 0:21:44.080
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. And I feel like when people

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<v Speaker 1>go missing, I don't believe it's a random um killing.

0:21:49.880 --> 0:21:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I feel like they know exactly who they're looking for

0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:56.479
<v Speaker 1>and they pluck them because all information we put out

0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:59.000
<v Speaker 1>there on social media, like they know who we are,

0:21:59.280 --> 0:22:01.359
<v Speaker 1>they know I'll boglines, they know us better than we

0:22:01.440 --> 0:22:05.119
<v Speaker 1>know ourselves. Well, let me just tell y'all this, I

0:22:05.240 --> 0:22:11.600
<v Speaker 1>eat pork. My guy is very unhealthy. I smoke my cigarettes,

0:22:11.720 --> 0:22:15.359
<v Speaker 1>but I smoke. Y'all don't want me. It would be

0:22:15.359 --> 0:22:22.080
<v Speaker 1>a waste of time. Hey, y'all don't want me because

0:22:22.119 --> 0:22:25.199
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna die trying to get me. And that's just

0:22:25.280 --> 0:22:32.479
<v Speaker 1>that on that I'm overweight. I have a four diet.

0:22:33.119 --> 0:22:43.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm over thirty five. That should protect me, girl. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It's scary out here, man. And it's another

0:22:46.240 --> 0:22:49.159
<v Speaker 1>another young man who also went missing in Arizona, the

0:22:49.200 --> 0:22:53.120
<v Speaker 1>guy Daniel Robinson. So um. It says that his car

0:22:53.320 --> 0:22:56.640
<v Speaker 1>was discovered by a rancher on July nineteen, about three

0:22:56.680 --> 0:23:01.440
<v Speaker 1>miles away from his work site when he was last seen. Um.

0:23:01.480 --> 0:23:04.639
<v Speaker 1>The vehicle had suffered crash damage, and a pile of

0:23:04.720 --> 0:23:09.959
<v Speaker 1>his clothing and belongings were discovered nearby. Arizona Buckeye Police

0:23:10.000 --> 0:23:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Assistant Chief both Sanders told cy and Then that his

0:23:13.440 --> 0:23:17.720
<v Speaker 1>officers have covered all of their bases in the search

0:23:17.760 --> 0:23:20.800
<v Speaker 1>for Daniel Robinson. Mind you, his daddy had to travel

0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:24.760
<v Speaker 1>to Arizona and recruit people to go out and look

0:23:24.800 --> 0:23:26.879
<v Speaker 1>for him. To his son himself. You know, they weren't

0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:31.080
<v Speaker 1>even looking for him. Daniel Robinson, it's his name. This

0:23:31.280 --> 0:23:33.960
<v Speaker 1>is another missing black man who needs to be on

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:37.320
<v Speaker 1>our radar. And I mean after after somebodys missing so long,

0:23:37.400 --> 0:23:41.280
<v Speaker 1>It's like, what's the likelihood of them even being alive? Right,

0:23:41.800 --> 0:23:45.119
<v Speaker 1>so then your your family or even being found at

0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 1>all their body or anything. Yeah, So then basically your

0:23:49.280 --> 0:23:51.679
<v Speaker 1>family just gets to, you know, get to preparing for

0:23:51.720 --> 0:23:55.680
<v Speaker 1>the worst news ever or never have any news. Can

0:23:55.680 --> 0:23:58.760
<v Speaker 1>you imagine, like your loved one, they just go about

0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:01.280
<v Speaker 1>their day and they just ever come back. They vanished,

0:24:01.359 --> 0:24:03.480
<v Speaker 1>and you just never hear or see for them again,

0:24:03.520 --> 0:24:06.440
<v Speaker 1>and you never find out what happened to them. That's

0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:09.040
<v Speaker 1>got to be one of the most gut wrenching experiences

0:24:09.760 --> 0:24:11.720
<v Speaker 1>and it happens to so many of us. And I

0:24:11.920 --> 0:24:15.359
<v Speaker 1>and I'm sorry if you know that that kind of pain.

0:24:15.480 --> 0:24:18.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm very sorry to you. But I'm about to place

0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:22.680
<v Speaker 1>Devil's Advocate a little bit here because we talk about

0:24:22.680 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 1>our missing blacks, and we talk about black people being

0:24:26.160 --> 0:24:28.960
<v Speaker 1>killed at the hands of law enforcement. What are we

0:24:29.000 --> 0:24:32.399
<v Speaker 1>doing about what when we do it to ourselves? What

0:24:32.480 --> 0:24:35.879
<v Speaker 1>can we speak to our own killing in our community?

0:24:36.160 --> 0:24:40.119
<v Speaker 1>The music that promotes killing, that's when we're taking a

0:24:40.160 --> 0:24:44.240
<v Speaker 1>conversation at Okay, So, how here's how I feel about that.

0:24:45.280 --> 0:24:48.960
<v Speaker 1>People commit sin. Sin is always going to be committed.

0:24:49.160 --> 0:24:53.439
<v Speaker 1>It's just the fact that people commit um crimes in

0:24:53.560 --> 0:24:58.320
<v Speaker 1>close proximity, So where they are right your community, it's

0:24:58.320 --> 0:25:00.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna be in your community. If it's a community of Asians,

0:25:00.680 --> 0:25:02.600
<v Speaker 1>there's going to be crime there. But what happens to

0:25:02.640 --> 0:25:06.960
<v Speaker 1>black people in America is that we're more publicized. When

0:25:06.960 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 1>we do some ship, it's gonna be on the news,

0:25:08.520 --> 0:25:11.040
<v Speaker 1>They're gonna keep playing it on Instagram. It's gonna, you know,

0:25:11.119 --> 0:25:13.280
<v Speaker 1>keep playing on CNN and Fox News like it's just

0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 1>gonna keep playing it playing plays. So everybody gets this

0:25:15.640 --> 0:25:18.400
<v Speaker 1>image in their head that it's just black people committing crimes,

0:25:18.640 --> 0:25:23.440
<v Speaker 1>and it's just not true. White people commit crimes, Asians

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:27.760
<v Speaker 1>commit crimes, Hispanics commit crimes. Everybody commits crimes. What I'm

0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:30.760
<v Speaker 1>saying is sending people are gonna always send. There's gonna

0:25:30.800 --> 0:25:34.280
<v Speaker 1>be nothing any group, any one group of people will

0:25:34.359 --> 0:25:37.879
<v Speaker 1>ever be able to do. To calmat that. Do you

0:25:37.920 --> 0:25:43.760
<v Speaker 1>feel like black music hip hop promotes murder more than

0:25:43.800 --> 0:25:48.000
<v Speaker 1>any other genre of music. Absolutely it does. Do you

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:52.000
<v Speaker 1>think that influences our youth in a way. When I

0:25:52.119 --> 0:25:55.080
<v Speaker 1>was younger, Yeah, And when I was younger, I would

0:25:55.119 --> 0:25:57.000
<v Speaker 1>argue with my MoMA and tell her like she would

0:25:57.040 --> 0:25:58.800
<v Speaker 1>be like turn that wrap ship off and that mind

0:25:58.800 --> 0:26:02.560
<v Speaker 1>you you cussing at me while talking about the cussing

0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:06.040
<v Speaker 1>in the music. But I never understood it until I

0:26:06.080 --> 0:26:08.560
<v Speaker 1>got older. You do some drugs and you're turning to

0:26:08.640 --> 0:26:10.639
<v Speaker 1>fucking rap music on and now y'are heading in the

0:26:10.720 --> 0:26:14.159
<v Speaker 1>car to go ruin the rest of your life or

0:26:14.200 --> 0:26:18.359
<v Speaker 1>someone else's. Yeah, so of course the music plays a

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:21.399
<v Speaker 1>big role in it. We got to change the music

0:26:21.480 --> 0:26:23.160
<v Speaker 1>that I mean, that would that would be a start.

0:26:24.160 --> 0:26:27.080
<v Speaker 1>It would be a start changing the music. But you

0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:29.560
<v Speaker 1>got niggas and so much money. They don't they would

0:26:29.600 --> 0:26:33.160
<v Speaker 1>never right. And then they got the people who promoted

0:26:33.359 --> 0:26:36.359
<v Speaker 1>like they want to keep us at this low vibration.

0:26:36.760 --> 0:26:38.560
<v Speaker 1>They want to keep us here in this low space.

0:26:38.880 --> 0:26:41.960
<v Speaker 1>I guess is everything in moderation. Because we like that music,

0:26:42.119 --> 0:26:44.600
<v Speaker 1>we like I know. That's why I'm I mean, I'm

0:26:44.640 --> 0:26:47.000
<v Speaker 1>a hypocrite when I say that ship because I'll be

0:26:47.160 --> 0:26:49.960
<v Speaker 1>righting out there in the club with my fake gun

0:26:50.000 --> 0:26:52.719
<v Speaker 1>in my hand, like shooting in the club, you know,

0:26:53.200 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 1>to the song. But in real life, I would never

0:26:57.520 --> 0:27:00.280
<v Speaker 1>harm anybody unless they're trying to harm me, because I can,

0:27:01.200 --> 0:27:05.280
<v Speaker 1>I can car compartmentalize the music from my reality. But

0:27:05.440 --> 0:27:11.320
<v Speaker 1>some people can't, and especially you, And that's the scary part.

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:15.439
<v Speaker 1>And then you consider that we have a portion of

0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:19.160
<v Speaker 1>our youth that has no regard for life, and then

0:27:19.720 --> 0:27:22.159
<v Speaker 1>we want other people to regard our lives. They just

0:27:22.240 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 1>need guidance. Because here's the thing. The gangs, those are

0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:31.920
<v Speaker 1>our warriors. That's how I see them. They're just misguided.

0:27:33.080 --> 0:27:35.760
<v Speaker 1>They need to be organized. It was like this whole

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:37.920
<v Speaker 1>big thing going around by a month ago to let

0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:41.280
<v Speaker 1>Larry Hoover out of prison because he's supposed to be

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:44.040
<v Speaker 1>like the savior for black people. First of all, what

0:27:46.920 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 1>somebody else, please, somebody else to organize these niggas because

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.119
<v Speaker 1>we need, we need our warriors. They're just misguided, you

0:27:53.160 --> 0:27:54.840
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. A lot of them don't have families,

0:27:54.840 --> 0:27:58.120
<v Speaker 1>so they find families within the gangs or within the neighborhoods.

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:02.399
<v Speaker 1>The group of people more opportunities. So along with changing

0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:06.359
<v Speaker 1>the music, more opportunities, and about changing the mindset, because

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:09.639
<v Speaker 1>you know, you got these young people, and most of

0:28:09.680 --> 0:28:12.600
<v Speaker 1>them are young that are not afraid to take life right,

0:28:12.640 --> 0:28:15.240
<v Speaker 1>they're not afraid to take life that could take a life.

0:28:15.280 --> 0:28:18.520
<v Speaker 1>Go home, eat a turkey sandwich, watch Dave Chappelle comedy

0:28:18.560 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 1>series and go to bed and just be fine. But

0:28:21.760 --> 0:28:25.560
<v Speaker 1>George Zimmerman is still walking around this motherfucker, Like where

0:28:25.680 --> 0:28:29.080
<v Speaker 1>is our warriors for ship like that? To protect and

0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 1>serve the black community, not to kill each other. That's

0:28:32.320 --> 0:28:37.160
<v Speaker 1>all I mean. It's just stressful, man, It's just really

0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:42.280
<v Speaker 1>real stressful being black in America. It's lit this ship

0:28:42.360 --> 0:28:47.680
<v Speaker 1>dangerous as fuck. Yeah, it is dangerous because we gotta

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:49.880
<v Speaker 1>watch out for it for our own people. We gotta

0:28:49.920 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>watch out for them people. It's just you know, when

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I lived away from Charleston and I would come home,

0:28:56.360 --> 0:28:58.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, the weekends just a party or something like that.

0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:01.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I would literally have adjust, like if I want

0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:03.040
<v Speaker 1>to go to the club or something like that, I

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:06.640
<v Speaker 1>would adjust my whole ship because I might have to

0:29:06.640 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 1>be a bit up because people just so fucking unruly

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:14.040
<v Speaker 1>and just nasty, Like black women are so nasty towards

0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:18.560
<v Speaker 1>each other sometimes. Man. Black men like just always looking

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:20.880
<v Speaker 1>for a problem. You took the gun to the club

0:29:20.920 --> 0:29:23.760
<v Speaker 1>because you already just mad and you wish a nigga

0:29:23.800 --> 0:29:27.200
<v Speaker 1>would for no reason, like you just angry because you

0:29:27.400 --> 0:29:30.520
<v Speaker 1>just don't have the resources you think you should have.

0:29:31.120 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Like the energies has to just that has to be refocused,

0:29:35.080 --> 0:29:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Like how the witchcraft has been done on us? Man?

0:29:38.520 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 1>How though, that's the thing? How how did we we

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:43.640
<v Speaker 1>would need some type of major paradigm shift in the

0:29:43.680 --> 0:29:48.120
<v Speaker 1>consciousness of blacks happening. It's happening. It's happening. I believe

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:51.920
<v Speaker 1>it's happening. I believe. Um, you you don't be on

0:29:52.000 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 1>Clubhouse like that, but I believe like platforms like Clubhouse

0:29:55.680 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>allow people to meet their tribe of people and then

0:29:58.200 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 1>they can organize outside the I believe there's a lot

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:04.840
<v Speaker 1>of information being spread amongst black people in the way

0:30:04.880 --> 0:30:08.880
<v Speaker 1>that we were never never able to do in the past. Um,

0:30:08.920 --> 0:30:11.880
<v Speaker 1>even with podcasts, you know what I'm saying, like just

0:30:12.080 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 1>us being being able to talk and people listen, and

0:30:15.400 --> 0:30:17.520
<v Speaker 1>you know maybe when we do live shows and ships

0:30:17.560 --> 0:30:20.880
<v Speaker 1>like that, people pull up. Yeah. But then yeah, that's

0:30:21.000 --> 0:30:23.720
<v Speaker 1>very true. But then I also think about have you

0:30:23.800 --> 0:30:26.520
<v Speaker 1>ever looked at the story of King von when y'all

0:30:26.560 --> 0:30:29.320
<v Speaker 1>just just get a chance, just look at like his

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 1>life and his lifestyle and what was going on with

0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 1>them young people in Chicago. Man, they was on something different, different,

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 1>Like they was literally out here killing like it was.

0:30:40.960 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 1>But we're talking about Chicago. Chicago has been like that forever.

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:49.080
<v Speaker 1>It's just a bad spirit in Chicago. Let's think about

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:52.160
<v Speaker 1>the mob and how they were killing in Chicago. Unfortunately,

0:30:52.200 --> 0:30:54.240
<v Speaker 1>it just seems like it's the culture, and it's has

0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:57.600
<v Speaker 1>always been the culture in Chicago, not just black people.

0:30:58.120 --> 0:31:00.800
<v Speaker 1>The stuff that happened, it happens to black pomen America

0:31:00.880 --> 0:31:04.560
<v Speaker 1>is not by mistake. It's all by design. On the inside.

0:31:04.920 --> 0:31:08.280
<v Speaker 1>I just feel like Kobao Jr. When he came in

0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:11.880
<v Speaker 1>the house and started punching, Like I really feel like that.

0:31:11.920 --> 0:31:17.080
<v Speaker 1>But it's like, what can I do? Man? We can

0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:19.760
<v Speaker 1>only start with the youth, because once somebody gets a

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:23.480
<v Speaker 1>certain age is like, man, you just can't even do

0:31:23.560 --> 0:31:26.720
<v Speaker 1>ship with them. You gotta start with the youth. And

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:28.520
<v Speaker 1>when you mean, you know, and I find it hard

0:31:28.520 --> 0:31:31.120
<v Speaker 1>to talk to them sometimes, Like these kids. I'm talking

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:33.040
<v Speaker 1>about little kids. I'm talking about you know, kids are

0:31:33.080 --> 0:31:36.520
<v Speaker 1>most impressionable from ages they say like three to seven

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:40.920
<v Speaker 1>or something like that. I'm talking about little kids. He's teenagers. Man.

0:31:41.760 --> 0:31:43.960
<v Speaker 1>I was outside trying to rap to these little kids.

0:31:44.040 --> 0:31:47.520
<v Speaker 1>I said, rapp, I sound like somebody Auntie. I was

0:31:47.520 --> 0:31:49.600
<v Speaker 1>trying to talk to these teenagers that be riding the

0:31:49.720 --> 0:31:52.920
<v Speaker 1>bites in the street downtown Charlotte, and these little nicks

0:31:53.000 --> 0:31:55.080
<v Speaker 1>was not trying to hear nothing I had to say.

0:31:55.240 --> 0:31:56.920
<v Speaker 1>And then they rolled off on a little break and

0:31:56.920 --> 0:31:59.600
<v Speaker 1>he was like, you got a fat ass, though, I'm

0:31:59.600 --> 0:32:08.720
<v Speaker 1>like a fuck fun these kids. Fun, these kids. That's

0:32:08.720 --> 0:32:13.680
<v Speaker 1>how I feel. So I don't know, man, girl, let's

0:32:13.720 --> 0:32:19.960
<v Speaker 1>face some bills real quick. We'll be right back. It's

0:32:20.000 --> 0:32:24.160
<v Speaker 1>a little heavy episode, tam but necessary. But I want

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:27.280
<v Speaker 1>to challenge everybody to go visit the Black and Missing, Inc.

0:32:27.440 --> 0:32:33.360
<v Speaker 1>Dot com website. UM, let's not wait on Instagram or Facebook,

0:32:33.840 --> 0:32:36.880
<v Speaker 1>follow alert whoever to tell us about you know, what's

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:40.600
<v Speaker 1>going on our community. UM, you could visit that website.

0:32:40.800 --> 0:32:46.840
<v Speaker 1>They have all the missing black people, um CARLINI United States.

0:32:47.360 --> 0:32:49.640
<v Speaker 1>I mean there's a there's another black woman who's currently

0:32:49.680 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 1>missing right now. She's been missing since UM September eighth.

0:32:55.200 --> 0:33:00.320
<v Speaker 1>Her name is Sydney Palmer. And another woman, Ashley got Lorie,

0:33:00.880 --> 0:33:06.800
<v Speaker 1>she's been missing missing from Houston, Texas UM since September four. So,

0:33:06.840 --> 0:33:09.280
<v Speaker 1>I mean, we don't even see this stuff in the media.

0:33:09.800 --> 0:33:15.440
<v Speaker 1>There's also websites like um our Black Girls, dot com,

0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:20.320
<v Speaker 1>in pr dot org. So there's other resources out there

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:22.800
<v Speaker 1>where we can keep on top of these stories. And

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:24.720
<v Speaker 1>I mean, just take a look at the people, look

0:33:24.760 --> 0:33:28.040
<v Speaker 1>at their stories. Shop Hopefully some of these people are alive.

0:33:28.160 --> 0:33:29.520
<v Speaker 1>You might run into them, but you just got to

0:33:29.560 --> 0:33:32.480
<v Speaker 1>know the faces. Though. When you see people so tam

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:35.880
<v Speaker 1>you also know. They say that black people make up

0:33:36.000 --> 0:33:40.680
<v Speaker 1>thirty five per cent of the missing persons reported in America,

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:45.360
<v Speaker 1>but only cent of the country. Yes, over half of

0:33:45.400 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 1>the incarcerated, but only thirteen percent of the country. We

0:33:50.040 --> 0:33:54.880
<v Speaker 1>it's just everything. Lord, help us understand what you're trying

0:33:54.920 --> 0:33:58.400
<v Speaker 1>to tell us. In this country, we are just behind

0:33:58.520 --> 0:34:02.320
<v Speaker 1>enemy lines. It feels like it. Black women die more

0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:06.240
<v Speaker 1>during pregnancy than any other one. It's more black people

0:34:06.320 --> 0:34:11.520
<v Speaker 1>dying from coronavirus. We're going to more. No, No, that

0:34:11.600 --> 0:34:14.759
<v Speaker 1>coronavirus is not your If y'all visit the CDC website,

0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:20.759
<v Speaker 1>white people dying from corona more, I mean, they'll say

0:34:20.800 --> 0:34:23.680
<v Speaker 1>it's more white people, but yeah, the the six does

0:34:23.719 --> 0:34:28.200
<v Speaker 1>not show that, Um, black black people. I'm sorry that

0:34:28.239 --> 0:34:32.120
<v Speaker 1>black people are dying more. Um. You know what I

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>want to do right now, I want to call all

0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:39.160
<v Speaker 1>fucking witches calling all witches, calling all black witches in America.

0:34:39.680 --> 0:34:42.520
<v Speaker 1>What we need to get together and do something. Man,

0:34:44.880 --> 0:34:47.120
<v Speaker 1>that's a j y'all. I don't don't know about that

0:34:47.680 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 1>calling all black witches. Yes, hit us up at we

0:34:50.160 --> 0:34:58.520
<v Speaker 1>talk about podcasts, A JA C C A j Okay,

0:34:58.840 --> 0:35:00.520
<v Speaker 1>y'all hit us up because lit and we got to

0:35:00.560 --> 0:35:06.080
<v Speaker 1>figure something to funk out with you. All right, So, y'all,

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:09.200
<v Speaker 1>on a lighter note, let's get back to our regularly

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:18.160
<v Speaker 1>scheduled ratchet. Um, let's go into our dumb bitch segment.

0:35:18.239 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 1>Please dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb

0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:28.040
<v Speaker 1>bitch at least once or twice. All right, here he

0:35:28.040 --> 0:35:31.560
<v Speaker 1>goes you guys, Um says, hey, guys, I want to

0:35:31.600 --> 0:35:34.880
<v Speaker 1>tell my story and maybe get some advice. I've been

0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:37.400
<v Speaker 1>dealing with this man on and off for six years.

0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.360
<v Speaker 1>He recently moved to Los Angeles and I live on

0:35:40.400 --> 0:35:43.320
<v Speaker 1>the East Coast, so we don't see each other as often.

0:35:43.880 --> 0:35:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I started seeing a military man five months ago, and

0:35:47.200 --> 0:35:51.120
<v Speaker 1>he treats me so good and things are going great. Anyway.

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:54.720
<v Speaker 1>To make a long, long crazy story short, I slept

0:35:54.719 --> 0:35:57.840
<v Speaker 1>with both of them within the same week unprotected, and

0:35:57.880 --> 0:36:02.000
<v Speaker 1>they both shot up the club. Now out Now I'm

0:36:02.040 --> 0:36:04.400
<v Speaker 1>pregnant and I don't know who the father is. But

0:36:04.440 --> 0:36:06.839
<v Speaker 1>that ain't the worst part of it. The boot from

0:36:06.960 --> 0:36:09.759
<v Speaker 1>l A found out about the military boom and now

0:36:09.800 --> 0:36:12.040
<v Speaker 1>he says, I need to pay him five k by

0:36:12.080 --> 0:36:15.920
<v Speaker 1>Halloween or he will contact the military booth to let

0:36:16.000 --> 0:36:20.000
<v Speaker 1>him know that we are still fucking Should I pay him?

0:36:20.080 --> 0:36:22.880
<v Speaker 1>I really, I really love the military boot and I

0:36:22.920 --> 0:36:24.960
<v Speaker 1>think he can provide a good life for me and

0:36:25.040 --> 0:36:30.560
<v Speaker 1>my new child. Please help. Wait a minute, okay, so

0:36:30.600 --> 0:36:33.279
<v Speaker 1>why is she being extorted for five thousand dollars? Does

0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:37.080
<v Speaker 1>she we need someone? Why is she being extorted? So

0:36:37.440 --> 0:36:39.600
<v Speaker 1>she says, the l A booth found out about the

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:44.120
<v Speaker 1>military guy, and he said give him that five k

0:36:44.400 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 1>by Halloween or a he gonna tell that nigga that

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:50.880
<v Speaker 1>she she out here fucking Wow. Is she married to

0:36:50.920 --> 0:36:53.759
<v Speaker 1>the guy in the military. No, it says they've only

0:36:53.800 --> 0:36:58.680
<v Speaker 1>been dealing with each other for five months. Wow. Okay,

0:36:58.760 --> 0:37:05.880
<v Speaker 1>So basically, you don't you need to have an abortion? Hey, look, bitch,

0:37:06.160 --> 0:37:08.640
<v Speaker 1>Usually we are pro I don't know, like we pro

0:37:08.800 --> 0:37:11.200
<v Speaker 1>choice and pro life. It just depends on the situation,

0:37:11.200 --> 0:37:14.359
<v Speaker 1>Like women should have the choice right and this's like,

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:18.400
<v Speaker 1>what is happening, bitch? If you want to save yourself

0:37:18.440 --> 0:37:23.840
<v Speaker 1>some embarrassment, like how pregnant are you? Right? It doesn't say,

0:37:24.040 --> 0:37:30.200
<v Speaker 1>it doesn't say like how how are you? Girl? If

0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:33.000
<v Speaker 1>this is an ugly position to be in because you

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:35.239
<v Speaker 1>can pay this man five thousand dollars and then the

0:37:35.280 --> 0:37:38.239
<v Speaker 1>baby be his and now you don't gave him money

0:37:38.239 --> 0:37:39.919
<v Speaker 1>and got to be stuck with him for life because

0:37:39.920 --> 0:37:42.439
<v Speaker 1>you're pregnant by him. No, she just gave his ass

0:37:42.440 --> 0:37:45.000
<v Speaker 1>a down payment on y'all support. Give him that baby.

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 1>Get your day. I'm not paid. No, I'm not. I

0:37:51.719 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>will not being storted by terrorists. We do not negotiate

0:37:54.440 --> 0:37:57.879
<v Speaker 1>with terrorists here in the United States. I would block him.

0:37:58.080 --> 0:38:01.880
<v Speaker 1>And if he tell say it ain't you, do not

0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:07.000
<v Speaker 1>deny that it was not me. He could see him

0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:09.279
<v Speaker 1>to be the messages between y'all that still ain't me

0:38:09.400 --> 0:38:14.759
<v Speaker 1>photoshop is real. I don't know, girl, that's an ugly situation.

0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:17.560
<v Speaker 1>But you you really out here with a nigga who

0:38:17.600 --> 0:38:20.560
<v Speaker 1>will try to give five K? How did you sound like?

0:38:20.600 --> 0:38:23.920
<v Speaker 1>He broke exactly? And he sounds and sounding like why

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:26.359
<v Speaker 1>does he even know about the other guy? I wonder

0:38:26.400 --> 0:38:28.719
<v Speaker 1>if the guy in the military, I'm assuming that's her boyfriend,

0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:32.160
<v Speaker 1>because why does this side dude think he can extort

0:38:32.200 --> 0:38:35.160
<v Speaker 1>her out of five thousand dollars or he's gonna tell

0:38:35.239 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>on her to this guy the FU I like, look,

0:38:40.600 --> 0:38:44.640
<v Speaker 1>I three, okay, I'm not paying five thousand and nobody

0:38:44.640 --> 0:38:48.720
<v Speaker 1>about no deed. Like we need to start giving real advice.

0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:53.480
<v Speaker 1>So do we have some real helpful advice for our listener? Okay,

0:38:54.320 --> 0:38:59.360
<v Speaker 1>go to the abortion clinics. No, that's not my advice

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:03.360
<v Speaker 1>because motherhood, that's a blessing from God. If you decide

0:39:03.400 --> 0:39:05.319
<v Speaker 1>that you want to keep that child, by all means,

0:39:05.440 --> 0:39:08.160
<v Speaker 1>keep the child, but you might have the suffer the repercussions.

0:39:08.280 --> 0:39:10.120
<v Speaker 1>I would not tell you to pay that man nothing

0:39:10.160 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 1>because he could still tell whether you give him that

0:39:12.320 --> 0:39:15.520
<v Speaker 1>five thousand or not. You know, now you five thousand short.

0:39:15.920 --> 0:39:18.239
<v Speaker 1>Even if you got that, you know you five thousand short,

0:39:18.680 --> 0:39:22.239
<v Speaker 1>and the military nigga're gonna find out. So or he

0:39:22.280 --> 0:39:24.319
<v Speaker 1>could always hold that over your head. When held low

0:39:24.360 --> 0:39:26.799
<v Speaker 1>on money again, he could come back and be like, yeah,

0:39:26.800 --> 0:39:31.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna need another this month is slow, and it's

0:39:31.080 --> 0:39:33.799
<v Speaker 1>like she he probably knows she can get money out there.

0:39:34.480 --> 0:39:39.120
<v Speaker 1>The guy he's basically storing, the guy who could also

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:43.600
<v Speaker 1>be possibly be the baby's father. Right, this is messy. Listen, ladies,

0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:45.600
<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna have sex and multiple people use a

0:39:45.640 --> 0:39:48.440
<v Speaker 1>condom with at least one or both, like Tammy always

0:39:48.440 --> 0:39:52.480
<v Speaker 1>be saying I used kind of everybody. Whatever happens sometimes

0:39:52.719 --> 0:39:56.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's a it's a drunk night, whatever it happens.

0:39:56.320 --> 0:40:01.240
<v Speaker 1>You've grown, people do ship slip a slide, and yeah,

0:40:01.440 --> 0:40:03.279
<v Speaker 1>somebody you got to use a condom with. You can't

0:40:03.320 --> 0:40:05.960
<v Speaker 1>just be enjoying all the day and raw dick, I

0:40:05.960 --> 0:40:08.160
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't even know what raw dick feels like.

0:40:08.200 --> 0:40:16.239
<v Speaker 1>No more. I've been getting kindall penis for years. Like

0:40:16.320 --> 0:40:18.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't even want to have sex because I got

0:40:18.040 --> 0:40:22.680
<v Speaker 1>to use a condom. I don't want to. Yeah, girl,

0:40:22.719 --> 0:40:24.600
<v Speaker 1>but you don't want to end up your ship like this,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hell no, not at this age. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>tell you why. I always, always, always use a condom

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<v Speaker 1>because I just imagine myself, like in a hospital bed,

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<v Speaker 1>dying from something that I could have prevented, and with

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<v Speaker 1>my family around me, and they're like, oh, she's dying

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<v Speaker 1>from sick dick. I don't you know. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>scare of that. It's so terrified. Ah, y'all better stay

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<v Speaker 1>prayed up. Well, Halloween is around the corner, baby, So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know either you're gonna get it? Are you

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<v Speaker 1>gonna trick? Are you gonna get tricked? Because it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>no treat for you in this situation. Is it gonna

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<v Speaker 1>wiggle and walk? You're going to hell? This is not funny. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>when guys, yeah, women, we'll be making fun of abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>We do make fun of it, and it's not funny.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a very very serious matter and we shouldn't be

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<v Speaker 1>laughing about telling a woman to go and get an abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's a really a real reality for a lot

0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:33.560
<v Speaker 1>of women. Like things happen. You may even plan the pregnancy,

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<v Speaker 1>right what this man and he finds out you're pregnant,

0:41:37.320 --> 0:41:40.080
<v Speaker 1>and he wakes up like he never knew how women

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<v Speaker 1>get pregnant and he could he can be indifferent about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And now you're stuck with this decision to make because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not into forcing anybody to do anything. So we

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<v Speaker 1>end up in the fucking dumbest situation. Sometimes unintentionally, this

0:41:52.640 --> 0:41:55.080
<v Speaker 1>particular situation, I mean, you have a sex and multiple

0:41:55.160 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 1>people you ejaculating you other China, Right, what did you expect?

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<v Speaker 1>So either gonna be a woman have your child? Tell

0:42:05.600 --> 0:42:10.400
<v Speaker 1>both men, Hey, I'm pregnant and I was sleeping with

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<v Speaker 1>both of you. You could do that. That's an option

0:42:13.640 --> 0:42:16.200
<v Speaker 1>that that would be the most mature thing to do, honestly.

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<v Speaker 1>But but I don't know. Bitch at your mama because

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<v Speaker 1>this is rough. That's a child. Do you already have kids?

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't say. It doesn't say. He a message back

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<v Speaker 1>and tell us if you have kids already. Um, but

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<v Speaker 1>either way, I mean, that doesn't really matter you. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't advise you to abort. That's not my real

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was funny when I said it the

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<v Speaker 1>first time. But if I'm being in all honesty, that's

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<v Speaker 1>up to you if you want to keep the baby

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<v Speaker 1>or not. But it sounds like you do because you're

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<v Speaker 1>saying a good life for me and my new child.

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<v Speaker 1>So that means like you've already made your mind up

0:42:58.520 --> 0:43:00.759
<v Speaker 1>that you're going to have your child. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>even let that man know that that may not be

0:43:03.000 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 1>his showd You can't be planning a future with him

0:43:05.239 --> 0:43:08.759
<v Speaker 1>when you could possibly be carrying another carrying another man's show.

0:43:08.880 --> 0:43:12.960
<v Speaker 1>That's very deceitful. It's just mean and nasty and it

0:43:13.000 --> 0:43:15.200
<v Speaker 1>and it hurts men. A lot of men deal with

0:43:15.239 --> 0:43:17.080
<v Speaker 1>that ship. That's how Marry You Gotta has a whole

0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:19.800
<v Speaker 1>TV show about it, Like you need to be honest

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<v Speaker 1>with him from day one and just deal with whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the repercussions of your choices. But don't send that nicko

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<v Speaker 1>five thousand. I will say that, I send him a dollar.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna need that for your baby. Congratulations to you,

0:43:33.080 --> 0:43:36.120
<v Speaker 1>though motherhood is beautiful and good luck. Write us back

0:43:36.160 --> 0:43:38.719
<v Speaker 1>and tell us what happens. Don't get that n no

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<v Speaker 1>money girl, all right, Ah, this is a heavy episode,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't know. I just encourage everybody to go

0:43:49.360 --> 0:43:52.880
<v Speaker 1>look out there and see about our people. Man, check

0:43:52.880 --> 0:43:55.799
<v Speaker 1>on your people, talk to your people. I think a

0:43:55.800 --> 0:43:57.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of times people may be going through things and

0:43:57.640 --> 0:43:59.799
<v Speaker 1>they could possibly take off, but then they end up

0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:03.040
<v Speaker 1>in a situations somewhere. That's what happens to a lot

0:44:03.040 --> 0:44:06.440
<v Speaker 1>of young women I know for sure. Make sure people,

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<v Speaker 1>good man, check on their mental health. Let's let's just

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<v Speaker 1>love one another and hugs a lot of hugs. Man

0:44:14.719 --> 0:44:17.880
<v Speaker 1>hug saves lives, m when you be going through it

0:44:17.880 --> 0:44:21.560
<v Speaker 1>and somebody hug you, don't you just break down as

0:44:21.560 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 1>soon as that's what sometimes I'll be like, don't touch

0:44:23.640 --> 0:44:31.160
<v Speaker 1>me because I'm gonna cry. You gotta hug your people. Man,

0:44:31.600 --> 0:44:35.399
<v Speaker 1>shoot energy right quick. Yeah. But we thank you guys

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