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Speaker 1: girl a J? Welcome to a new episode that we

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Speaker 1: talked back A and it's Tam bam y'all. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. Let's love a J. How was your weekend? Um? Saturday?

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Speaker 1: I spent time with my family hanging out. I saw

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Speaker 1: so sick of talking to people. I'm gonna just not

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Speaker 1: on this show because we're under contract. Hey, Like, that's

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Speaker 1: about it. Did if I getting paid, I'm not talking.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry because I'm is. I just want to be

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Speaker 1: not trying to listen. Here's here's who I am. I'm

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Speaker 1: like I'll have a little random, littlebate, debates arguments, and like,

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Speaker 1: I like, I like being in the room of diverse

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Speaker 1: of stress, this weekend, one of my friends um almost

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Speaker 1: you're dead, you can't have none of it. Exactly. Cut

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Speaker 1: There is a video that was going around of Bernice

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Speaker 1: trying to cancel Dave Chappelle Now that's some real bullshit.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know who the hell is organization is,

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Speaker 1: You don't represent me. Why why I'm scared to talk

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Speaker 1: I don't what nobody to like it me listen. First

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Speaker 1: Dave Chappelle was trying to communicate is that you're black

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Speaker 1: Hell no, when Dave Chappelle did, he intentionally did that

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Speaker 1: So I have a question for Ask a Black Friend segment.

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Speaker 1: I believe the statues and stuff. I mean, we know

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Speaker 1: him Robbie now and he represents this. No, it's the

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Speaker 1: was younger, Yeah, And when I was younger, I would

423
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: argue with my MoMA and tell her like she would

424
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 1: be like turn that wrap ship off and that mind

425
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: you you cussing at me while talking about the cussing

426
00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 1: in the music. But I never understood it until I

427
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: got older. You do some drugs and you're turning to

428
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 1: fucking rap music on and now y'are heading in the

429
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,159
Speaker 1: car to go ruin the rest of your life or

430
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 1: someone else's. Yeah, so of course the music plays a

431
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:21,399
Speaker 1: big role in it. We got to change the music

432
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: that I mean, that would that would be a start.

433
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: It would be a start changing the music. But you

434
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,560
Speaker 1: got niggas and so much money. They don't they would

435
00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 1: never right. And then they got the people who promoted

436
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,359
Speaker 1: like they want to keep us at this low vibration.

437
00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: They want to keep us here in this low space.

438
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 1: I guess is everything in moderation. Because we like that music,

439
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 1: we like I know. That's why I'm I mean, I'm

440
00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:47,000
Speaker 1: a hypocrite when I say that ship because I'll be

441
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,960
Speaker 1: righting out there in the club with my fake gun

442
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:52,719
Speaker 1: in my hand, like shooting in the club, you know,

443
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:57,240
Speaker 1: to the song. But in real life, I would never

444
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: harm anybody unless they're trying to harm me, because I can,

445
00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: I can car compartmentalize the music from my reality. But

446
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 1: some people can't, and especially you, And that's the scary part.

447
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 1: And then you consider that we have a portion of

448
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:19,160
Speaker 1: our youth that has no regard for life, and then

449
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,159
Speaker 1: we want other people to regard our lives. They just

450
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: need guidance. Because here's the thing. The gangs, those are

451
00:27:27,640 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: our warriors. That's how I see them. They're just misguided.

452
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: They need to be organized. It was like this whole

453
00:27:35,760 --> 00:27:37,920
Speaker 1: big thing going around by a month ago to let

454
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: Larry Hoover out of prison because he's supposed to be

455
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: like the savior for black people. First of all, what

456
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 1: somebody else, please, somebody else to organize these niggas because

457
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: we need, we need our warriors. They're just misguided, you

458
00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. A lot of them don't have families,

459
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,120
Speaker 1: so they find families within the gangs or within the neighborhoods.

460
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: The group of people more opportunities. So along with changing

461
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: the music, more opportunities, and about changing the mindset, because

462
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 1: you know, you got these young people, and most of

463
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 1: them are young that are not afraid to take life right,

464
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 1: they're not afraid to take life that could take a life.

465
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: Go home, eat a turkey sandwich, watch Dave Chappelle comedy

466
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 1: series and go to bed and just be fine. But

467
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: George Zimmerman is still walking around this motherfucker, Like where

468
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,080
Speaker 1: is our warriors for ship like that? To protect and

469
00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: serve the black community, not to kill each other. That's

470
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: all I mean. It's just stressful, man, It's just really

471
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 1: real stressful being black in America. It's lit this ship

472
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: dangerous as fuck. Yeah, it is dangerous because we gotta

473
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: watch out for it for our own people. We gotta

474
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: watch out for them people. It's just you know, when

475
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: I lived away from Charleston and I would come home,

476
00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: you know, the weekends just a party or something like that.

477
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 1: Like I would literally have adjust, like if I want

478
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 1: to go to the club or something like that, I

479
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 1: would adjust my whole ship because I might have to

480
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: be a bit up because people just so fucking unruly

481
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: and just nasty, Like black women are so nasty towards

482
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 1: each other sometimes. Man. Black men like just always looking

483
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: for a problem. You took the gun to the club

484
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: because you already just mad and you wish a nigga

485
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: would for no reason, like you just angry because you

486
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: just don't have the resources you think you should have.

487
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: Like the energies has to just that has to be refocused,

488
00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 1: Like how the witchcraft has been done on us? Man?

489
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: How though, that's the thing? How how did we we

490
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: would need some type of major paradigm shift in the

491
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: consciousness of blacks happening. It's happening. It's happening. I believe

492
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: it's happening. I believe. Um, you you don't be on

493
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,160
Speaker 1: Clubhouse like that, but I believe like platforms like Clubhouse

494
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: allow people to meet their tribe of people and then

495
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: they can organize outside the I believe there's a lot

496
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: of information being spread amongst black people in the way

497
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: that we were never never able to do in the past. Um,

498
00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: even with podcasts, you know what I'm saying, like just

499
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 1: us being being able to talk and people listen, and

500
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: you know maybe when we do live shows and ships

501
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: like that, people pull up. Yeah. But then yeah, that's

502
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 1: very true. But then I also think about have you

503
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: ever looked at the story of King von when y'all

504
00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: just just get a chance, just look at like his

505
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: life and his lifestyle and what was going on with

506
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 1: them young people in Chicago. Man, they was on something different, different,

507
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: Like they was literally out here killing like it was.

508
00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: But we're talking about Chicago. Chicago has been like that forever.

509
00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 1: It's just a bad spirit in Chicago. Let's think about

510
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,160
Speaker 1: the mob and how they were killing in Chicago. Unfortunately,

511
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:54,240
Speaker 1: it just seems like it's the culture, and it's has

512
00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: always been the culture in Chicago, not just black people.

513
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: The stuff that happened, it happens to black pomen America

514
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: is not by mistake. It's all by design. On the inside.

515
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 1: I just feel like Kobao Jr. When he came in

516
00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: the house and started punching, Like I really feel like that.

517
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: But it's like, what can I do? Man? We can

518
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 1: only start with the youth, because once somebody gets a

519
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: certain age is like, man, you just can't even do

520
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: ship with them. You gotta start with the youth. And

521
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: when you mean, you know, and I find it hard

522
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: to talk to them sometimes, Like these kids. I'm talking

523
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,040
Speaker 1: about little kids. I'm talking about you know, kids are

524
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:36,520
Speaker 1: most impressionable from ages they say like three to seven

525
00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: or something like that. I'm talking about little kids. He's teenagers. Man.

526
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: I was outside trying to rap to these little kids.

527
00:31:44,040 --> 00:31:47,520
Speaker 1: I said, rapp, I sound like somebody Auntie. I was

528
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,600
Speaker 1: trying to talk to these teenagers that be riding the

529
00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: bites in the street downtown Charlotte, and these little nicks

530
00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: was not trying to hear nothing I had to say.

531
00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: And then they rolled off on a little break and

532
00:31:56,920 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: he was like, you got a fat ass, though, I'm

533
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: like a fuck fun these kids. Fun, these kids. That's

534
00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: how I feel. So I don't know, man, girl, let's

535
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: face some bills real quick. We'll be right back. It's

536
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:24,160
Speaker 1: a little heavy episode, tam but necessary. But I want

537
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,280
Speaker 1: to challenge everybody to go visit the Black and Missing, Inc.

538
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 1: Dot com website. UM, let's not wait on Instagram or Facebook,

539
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: follow alert whoever to tell us about you know, what's

540
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: going on our community. UM, you could visit that website.

541
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: They have all the missing black people, um CARLINI United States.

542
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: I mean there's a there's another black woman who's currently

543
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 1: missing right now. She's been missing since UM September eighth.

544
00:32:55,200 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 1: Her name is Sydney Palmer. And another woman, Ashley got Lorie,

545
00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 1: she's been missing missing from Houston, Texas UM since September four. So,

546
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:09,280
Speaker 1: I mean, we don't even see this stuff in the media.

547
00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 1: There's also websites like um our Black Girls, dot com,

548
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:20,320
Speaker 1: in pr dot org. So there's other resources out there

549
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,800
Speaker 1: where we can keep on top of these stories. And

550
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: I mean, just take a look at the people, look

551
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: at their stories. Shop Hopefully some of these people are alive.

552
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: You might run into them, but you just got to

553
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: know the faces. Though. When you see people so tam

554
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: you also know. They say that black people make up

555
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: thirty five per cent of the missing persons reported in America,

556
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: but only cent of the country. Yes, over half of

557
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: the incarcerated, but only thirteen percent of the country. We

558
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: it's just everything. Lord, help us understand what you're trying

559
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 1: to tell us. In this country, we are just behind

560
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:02,320
Speaker 1: enemy lines. It feels like it. Black women die more

561
00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:06,240
Speaker 1: during pregnancy than any other one. It's more black people

562
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: dying from coronavirus. We're going to more. No, No, that

563
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: coronavirus is not your If y'all visit the CDC website,

564
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 1: white people dying from corona more, I mean, they'll say

565
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: it's more white people, but yeah, the the six does

566
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: not show that, Um, black black people. I'm sorry that

567
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 1: black people are dying more. Um. You know what I

568
00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: want to do right now, I want to call all

569
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: fucking witches calling all witches, calling all black witches in America.

570
00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 1: What we need to get together and do something. Man,

571
00:34:44,880 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: that's a j y'all. I don't don't know about that

572
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: calling all black witches. Yes, hit us up at we

573
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: talk about podcasts, A JA C C A j Okay,

574
00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 1: y'all hit us up because lit and we got to

575
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 1: figure something to funk out with you. All right, So, y'all,

576
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:09,200
Speaker 1: on a lighter note, let's get back to our regularly

577
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: scheduled ratchet. Um, let's go into our dumb bitch segment.

578
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 1: Please dumb bitch stories, because we've all been a dumb

579
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:28,040
Speaker 1: bitch at least once or twice. All right, here he

580
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: goes you guys, Um says, hey, guys, I want to

581
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: tell my story and maybe get some advice. I've been

582
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 1: dealing with this man on and off for six years.

583
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: He recently moved to Los Angeles and I live on

584
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: the East Coast, so we don't see each other as often.

585
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: I started seeing a military man five months ago, and

586
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 1: he treats me so good and things are going great. Anyway.

587
00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 1: To make a long, long crazy story short, I slept

588
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: with both of them within the same week unprotected, and

589
00:35:57,880 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 1: they both shot up the club. Now out Now I'm

590
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: pregnant and I don't know who the father is. But

591
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: that ain't the worst part of it. The boot from

592
00:36:06,960 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: l A found out about the military boom and now

593
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 1: he says, I need to pay him five k by

594
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:15,920
Speaker 1: Halloween or he will contact the military booth to let

595
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:20,000
Speaker 1: him know that we are still fucking Should I pay him?

596
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,880
Speaker 1: I really, I really love the military boot and I

597
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 1: think he can provide a good life for me and

598
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: my new child. Please help. Wait a minute, okay, so

599
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 1: why is she being extorted for five thousand dollars? Does

600
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: she we need someone? Why is she being extorted? So

601
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 1: she says, the l A booth found out about the

602
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:44,120
Speaker 1: military guy, and he said give him that five k

603
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: by Halloween or a he gonna tell that nigga that

604
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: she she out here fucking Wow. Is she married to

605
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: the guy in the military. No, it says they've only

606
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: been dealing with each other for five months. Wow. Okay,

607
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:05,880
Speaker 1: So basically, you don't you need to have an abortion? Hey, look, bitch,

608
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: Usually we are pro I don't know, like we pro

609
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: choice and pro life. It just depends on the situation,

610
00:37:11,200 --> 00:37:14,359
Speaker 1: Like women should have the choice right and this's like,

611
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: what is happening, bitch? If you want to save yourself

612
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: some embarrassment, like how pregnant are you? Right? It doesn't say,

613
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:30,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't say like how how are you? Girl? If

614
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: this is an ugly position to be in because you

615
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,239
Speaker 1: can pay this man five thousand dollars and then the

616
00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: baby be his and now you don't gave him money

617
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:39,919
Speaker 1: and got to be stuck with him for life because

618
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,439
Speaker 1: you're pregnant by him. No, she just gave his ass

619
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: a down payment on y'all support. Give him that baby.

620
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: Get your day. I'm not paid. No, I'm not. I

621
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: will not being storted by terrorists. We do not negotiate

622
00:37:54,440 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: with terrorists here in the United States. I would block him.

623
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,880
Speaker 1: And if he tell say it ain't you, do not

624
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: deny that it was not me. He could see him

625
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: to be the messages between y'all that still ain't me

626
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:14,759
Speaker 1: photoshop is real. I don't know, girl, that's an ugly situation.

627
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: But you you really out here with a nigga who

628
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,560
Speaker 1: will try to give five K? How did you sound like?

629
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 1: He broke exactly? And he sounds and sounding like why

630
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,359
Speaker 1: does he even know about the other guy? I wonder

631
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 1: if the guy in the military, I'm assuming that's her boyfriend,

632
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: because why does this side dude think he can extort

633
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 1: her out of five thousand dollars or he's gonna tell

634
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Speaker 1: on her to this guy the FU I like, look,

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Speaker 1: I three, okay, I'm not paying five thousand and nobody

636
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:48,720
Speaker 1: about no deed. Like we need to start giving real advice.

637
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: So do we have some real helpful advice for our listener? Okay,

638
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:59,360
Speaker 1: go to the abortion clinics. No, that's not my advice

639
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 1: because motherhood, that's a blessing from God. If you decide

640
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 1: that you want to keep that child, by all means,

641
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: keep the child, but you might have the suffer the repercussions.

642
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:10,120
Speaker 1: I would not tell you to pay that man nothing

643
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: because he could still tell whether you give him that

644
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: five thousand or not. You know, now you five thousand short.

645
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,239
Speaker 1: Even if you got that, you know you five thousand short,

646
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: and the military nigga're gonna find out. So or he

647
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,319
Speaker 1: could always hold that over your head. When held low

648
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:26,799
Speaker 1: on money again, he could come back and be like, yeah,

649
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need another this month is slow, and it's

650
00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 1: like she he probably knows she can get money out there.

651
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: The guy he's basically storing, the guy who could also

652
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: be possibly be the baby's father. Right, this is messy. Listen, ladies,

653
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: if you're gonna have sex and multiple people use a

654
00:39:45,640 --> 00:39:48,440
Speaker 1: condom with at least one or both, like Tammy always

655
00:39:48,440 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 1: be saying I used kind of everybody. Whatever happens sometimes

656
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:56,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's a it's a drunk night, whatever it happens.

657
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 1: You've grown, people do ship slip a slide, and yeah,

658
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 1: somebody you got to use a condom with. You can't

659
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 1: just be enjoying all the day and raw dick, I

660
00:40:05,960 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't even know what raw dick feels like.

661
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 1: No more. I've been getting kindall penis for years. Like

662
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,000
Speaker 1: I don't even want to have sex because I got

663
00:40:18,040 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: to use a condom. I don't want to. Yeah, girl,

664
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: but you don't want to end up your ship like this,

665
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: you know, hell no, not at this age. Let me

666
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,320
Speaker 1: tell you why. I always, always, always use a condom

667
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,799
Speaker 1: because I just imagine myself, like in a hospital bed,

668
00:40:33,880 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: dying from something that I could have prevented, and with

669
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: my family around me, and they're like, oh, she's dying

670
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:42,960
Speaker 1: from sick dick. I don't you know. I don't want

671
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:51,600
Speaker 1: scare of that. It's so terrified. Ah, y'all better stay

672
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 1: prayed up. Well, Halloween is around the corner, baby, So

673
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: I don't know either you're gonna get it? Are you

674
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,279
Speaker 1: gonna trick? Are you gonna get tricked? Because it ain't

675
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,840
Speaker 1: no treat for you in this situation. Is it gonna

676
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: wiggle and walk? You're going to hell? This is not funny. Yes,

677
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:17,280
Speaker 1: when guys, yeah, women, we'll be making fun of abortion.

678
00:41:17,320 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: We do make fun of it, and it's not funny.

679
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: It's a very very serious matter and we shouldn't be

680
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,280
Speaker 1: laughing about telling a woman to go and get an abortion.

681
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 1: But it's a really a real reality for a lot

682
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: of women. Like things happen. You may even plan the pregnancy,

683
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:37,320
Speaker 1: right what this man and he finds out you're pregnant,

684
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 1: and he wakes up like he never knew how women

685
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: get pregnant and he could he can be indifferent about it.

686
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: And now you're stuck with this decision to make because

687
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: I'm not into forcing anybody to do anything. So we

688
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:52,600
Speaker 1: end up in the fucking dumbest situation. Sometimes unintentionally, this

689
00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: particular situation, I mean, you have a sex and multiple

690
00:41:55,160 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: people you ejaculating you other China, Right, what did you expect?

691
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,479
Speaker 1: So either gonna be a woman have your child? Tell

692
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 1: both men, Hey, I'm pregnant and I was sleeping with

693
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 1: both of you. You could do that. That's an option

694
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 1: that that would be the most mature thing to do, honestly.

695
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 1: But but I don't know. Bitch at your mama because

696
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 1: this is rough. That's a child. Do you already have kids?

697
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: It doesn't say. It doesn't say. He a message back

698
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:37,440
Speaker 1: and tell us if you have kids already. Um, but

699
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: either way, I mean, that doesn't really matter you. UM,

700
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,600
Speaker 1: I wouldn't advise you to abort. That's not my real

701
00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:46,160
Speaker 1: I mean, it was funny when I said it the

702
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: first time. But if I'm being in all honesty, that's

703
00:42:50,360 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 1: up to you if you want to keep the baby

704
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 1: or not. But it sounds like you do because you're

705
00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: saying a good life for me and my new child.

706
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: So that means like you've already made your mind up

707
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 1: that you're going to have your child. But if you

708
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 1: even let that man know that that may not be

709
00:43:03,000 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: his showd You can't be planning a future with him

710
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:08,759
Speaker 1: when you could possibly be carrying another carrying another man's show.

711
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: That's very deceitful. It's just mean and nasty and it

712
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: and it hurts men. A lot of men deal with

713
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: that ship. That's how Marry You Gotta has a whole

714
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 1: TV show about it, Like you need to be honest

715
00:43:19,840 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: with him from day one and just deal with whatever

716
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 1: the repercussions of your choices. But don't send that nicko

717
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: five thousand. I will say that, I send him a dollar.

718
00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna need that for your baby. Congratulations to you,

719
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 1: though motherhood is beautiful and good luck. Write us back

720
00:43:36,160 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: and tell us what happens. Don't get that n no

721
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 1: money girl, all right, Ah, this is a heavy episode,

722
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I just encourage everybody to go

723
00:43:49,360 --> 00:43:52,880
Speaker 1: look out there and see about our people. Man, check

724
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 1: on your people, talk to your people. I think a

725
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: lot of times people may be going through things and

726
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,799
Speaker 1: they could possibly take off, but then they end up

727
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:03,040
Speaker 1: in a situations somewhere. That's what happens to a lot

728
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 1: of young women I know for sure. Make sure people,

729
00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: good man, check on their mental health. Let's let's just

730
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: love one another and hugs a lot of hugs. Man

731
00:44:14,719 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 1: hug saves lives, m when you be going through it

732
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 1: and somebody hug you, don't you just break down as

733
00:44:21,560 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 1: soon as that's what sometimes I'll be like, don't touch

734
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: me because I'm gonna cry. You gotta hug your people. Man,

735
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,399
Speaker 1: shoot energy right quick. Yeah. But we thank you guys

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Speaker 1: for tuning in, and if you enjoy this episode, please

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00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:40,799
Speaker 1: tune in every Thursday on the I Heart Radio app

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Speaker 1: is your co host AJ Holiday two point oh on Instagram.

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