1 00:00:02,080 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: What's up this clip service. I'm Angela Ye, I'm Gigi Maguire, 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: I'm Luril eight. Dophin is here with us. I'm glad 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: to hear because it's a new year, and yes, it's 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: a new US and Lely from SWV is gonna be 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: joining us, but she's just running a little bit late. 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: But I know you from being on Steve Harvey Show 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: and from being on the Breakfast Club and doing the 8 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: de Herbs cleans anywhere. Um, it was good when I 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: did it last year, and I'm actually about to set 10 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:29,800 Speaker 1: another one this week because I had a lot going on. 11 00:00:30,080 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 1: The beginning of the year is always tough for me 12 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 1: because it's my birthday. It's, you know, right after Thanksgiving, Christmas, 13 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: New Year's my birthday, and then the whole beginning of 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 1: the year has been like grandnees. It's been um super 15 00:00:42,800 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: Bowl weekend and it's at weekend coming. Yeah, it's so 16 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: much going on. So I think around this time, like 17 00:00:50,760 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 1: February is always the time that I try to start 18 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: my detox, you know. So for the ladies Stephanie and Gig, 19 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever met them before. Stephanie, 20 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 1: I mean I'm sorry. I'm sorry, hil Real. You know 21 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: you guys have never met before, but I know you 22 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 1: are interested in the detail. Yes, yes, can you explain 23 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: what our cleans is all about? The deer for a 24 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: body clans basically what it can do. It's going to 25 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:18,720 Speaker 1: clean out all your major limit of channels. That's your 26 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: god blaud of your heart, your liver, your calling, your splining, 27 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: your lungs, your kidneys, your adrenal glands, you're blood in 28 00:01:23,280 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: your skin. Along with that process, we want you to 29 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 1: eat a certain break. You can't always eat the same 30 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: foods to give you the notion to cleans during your clans, 31 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,640 Speaker 1: so you gotta make a change. And the change that 32 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:35,240 Speaker 1: we ask you to make is all raw food diet, 33 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: so that means fresh fruits, vegetables, raw nuts, and raw seeds, 34 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: smoothie salads, things along those lines only. And we can't 35 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: any of it. Can't cook it because when you cook things, 36 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 1: people don't understand you kill ninety percent of the value 37 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 1: within those things. So we're just trying to fortify your 38 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: system with nutrients and vitamins and and things along along 39 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: those lines so your body can feel better. And something 40 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: like this, like for men, this can help with their 41 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: taste erection, the way they taste everything. It actually changed 42 00:02:07,160 --> 00:02:15,679 Speaker 1: everything about you. To be honest, we're working all that fart, 43 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 1: but not just yet, but definitely rejuvenate in your body 44 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: is definitely gonna push it in that direction. Directions definitely 45 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: gonna help you with directions for sure, because that's circulation, 46 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:28,960 Speaker 1: and when you're eating healthier and you're doing things like that, 47 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 1: you're your blood is moving a whole lot better and 48 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: that whole, that whole area is built on circulation. So 49 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: what about for the people that are like, Okay, I 50 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: could do the veggies, I could do see in, but 51 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: I can't say smoking weed. That's always tough. You gotta 52 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 1: remember you're putting something inside of your lungs that's not 53 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 1: really totally beneficial. I would just say try to re 54 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:52,920 Speaker 1: reframe from it for at least twenty days, just so 55 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: you can see the true power of the clans and 56 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: you can know what it's like to actually cleanse and 57 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: be healthy. And then when you do, if you do 58 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: decide to go back to smoking or things along those lines, 59 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: then you can kind of feel what that feels like 60 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: and if it feels drastically different maybe you'll make a change. 61 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: Do you have to ease into this cleanse? Like you 62 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: can't just go from like you know, some people said 63 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:14,359 Speaker 1: the cleansing, like I'm gonna just eat everything I want 64 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:18,880 Speaker 1: to eat anything. How does that way? Well, you know 65 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: what is everybody's different for me. I can cut it 66 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: off tomorrow, you know, just like a bad breakup, boom, 67 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:32,799 Speaker 1: it's over. If you you just move on. When it's over, 68 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:34,679 Speaker 1: it's over, so you move on. Some people got to 69 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 1: ease into it. They're like, you know what, I'm gonna 70 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: eat salads at lunchtime every single day and then next 71 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: week I'm gonna do something at dinner and kind of 72 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 1: ease their way into it. It's really really up to 73 00:03:44,240 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 1: the individual. So what do you change your phone number? 74 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: Stop answering call, stop answering text messages. I'll go to 75 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 1: the party anyway, none of those things attend I'm talking 76 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: about with the breakup. Stop talking to you today. He 77 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: was like, no, I still go out. I gotta go 78 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: get somebody to replace the one I stopped trying phone call. 79 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: Damn No. But seriously, because you just said that, you 80 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: you're able to do that right, and it's hard for 81 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: us to just cut it off center myself a pretty 82 00:04:14,400 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 1: uh no, don't do it. I'm talking about the eating. 83 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: I was talking about the break up. You're no longer 84 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 1: talking about kind of bad I do, But you don't. 85 00:04:25,200 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: You eat all meats. I don't eat pork and I 86 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: rarely eat red meat. Still eat I'll eat it once. 87 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 1: But I was that I don't eat. I eat mostly seafood, 88 00:04:35,839 --> 00:04:41,120 Speaker 1: then chicken, and then I no, but do it. Yeah, 89 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: that's what I was about to say that I probably 90 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: would be. It probably wouldn't be as hard for me 91 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: to ease into it because I already I'm already fresh, 92 00:04:48,400 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: this fresh that non GMO work. Like you know, I 93 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: drink a lot of water. I don't drink soda or 94 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 1: anything that's like processed. I don't. Yeah, So I think 95 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: that um a cleanse maybe to make me stop smoking? 96 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,920 Speaker 1: What about do say? Because that's I can go without drinking. 97 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if I can go out drinking and 98 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: I don't think that clarified without drinking without both. Yeah, 99 00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never tried that. When I was pregnant. 100 00:05:15,360 --> 00:05:17,440 Speaker 1: That was four years ago. Now, Adie, how is it 101 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,520 Speaker 1: for you if you're dating a woman who doesn't have 102 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: like great eating habits. Does that bother you at all? Um? 103 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:27,120 Speaker 1: You know what really bothers me if they don't work out, 104 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: because I'm always worried about the future, Like what she 105 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,960 Speaker 1: donna look like? You know five years from now? Is 106 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: she gonna be big? I mean, but you think are 107 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,719 Speaker 1: made in the kitchen. So it definitely definitely starts there 108 00:05:39,839 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: night when people talk about weight loss and things like that, 109 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 1: it is diet. Yeah, that's definitely. But if she's not 110 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: working out either and she's eating bad, what about like 111 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: if she eats like a lot of bacon, and you 112 00:05:54,880 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: know that's such that is such a good questions. So 113 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 1: I I've never had fortune this very day, no bacon, 114 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: none of that stuff. And I did have a girlfriend 115 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 1: and she tried to bring it up in the house 116 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 1: and I found a certain kind of way. Yeah, it 117 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: changed me. I was like, yeah, I was like I 118 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: don't know about this one, Like I just you know, 119 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:24,479 Speaker 1: you could do it at your house, but at my 120 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:26,000 Speaker 1: house it's a little different. You can't have the whole 121 00:06:26,000 --> 00:06:28,240 Speaker 1: house smelling like them. I like the smell make you 122 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: sick when y'all eat that stuff no more? And then 123 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: you smell it. It's kind of just like a stomach 124 00:06:33,560 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 1: turn and kind of thing. Remember I had a roommate 125 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: and she used to make like bacon in the kitchen 126 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 1: and I'll come in the door and I can smell 127 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: that ship as soon as I walked in. And I 128 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,239 Speaker 1: used to be like, this is disgusting. And I dated 129 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: a guy who ate like bacon, cheeseburgers and stuff like that, 130 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: and I didn't even want to kiss him. Afterward. I'll 131 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,920 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, and then I would be like, if 132 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: you keep on eating baking, I can't take your dick 133 00:06:54,640 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 1: into go and ven you. Yeah, you know they can do. 134 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 1: But you know, what I think is what a lot 135 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: of people get confused about is that they go vegan 136 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 1: or whatever the case, and then they start eating all 137 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: that soy soy, this soy that. Yeah, that's I can't 138 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 1: mess with nothing that so And it's like to me, 139 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 1: women are not even supposed to have so it, right, Well, 140 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,680 Speaker 1: men aren't really. Yeah, men aren't really supposed to have 141 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: because too much of esrogen in it. And then it 142 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:36,000 Speaker 1: starts to kind of change you your whole body chemistry 143 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,680 Speaker 1: based upon that, and yeah, stuff like that starts to 144 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 1: happen for you. Yeah, and that's with your hormonal system. 145 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:47,760 Speaker 1: And so is the number one genetically modified uh so 146 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: called planet Yeah food on the planet Yeah, or impossible Burger, Yeah, 147 00:07:52,760 --> 00:07:55,040 Speaker 1: it just doesn't make impossible. Burger only supposed to have 148 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:59,720 Speaker 1: like one too soy in it, and Beyond doesn't, right. No, 149 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: Yond it's probably a lot stronger in that area, for sure, 150 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 1: because it's built. They're more built around soy, and Impossible 151 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:08,880 Speaker 1: kind of stayed away from it. I thought it was 152 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: the other way I isolate protein or something like that. 153 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 1: What for Beyond Beyond? I think Beyond has more soy 154 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 1: than Impossible, for sure, because I looked it up on 155 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: their website and I swear it said that they don't 156 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: use soyer yeah anymore. No, Beyond is the one that's 157 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: supposed to have none impossible, And that's what I ask 158 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: a little bit. I'm not sure because I'll tell you this, 159 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: but but my rule is always like I eat them 160 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 1: every now and then, but not very oft Yeah, me too. 161 00:08:37,800 --> 00:08:41,200 Speaker 1: But I purposely stayed away from impossible because when I 162 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 1: look at that, looks at us. So so let me know, 163 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: because I think it's definitely wanted too, for sure. Shane. 164 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: You know Beyond they recently got bought out. Yeah see, 165 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: now I might have to slap somebody. So yeah, let's see. 166 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 1: Any time I eat any of that stuff, it makes 167 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 1: me feel weird. I have a very sensitive stomach off top, 168 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:07,960 Speaker 1: so when I eat stuff that I'm not supposed to, 169 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: I know right away. So I think with the Beyond 170 00:09:11,760 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: or the Impossible, it stiff makes me feel a little weird. 171 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 1: So I'm like, it's not all that so that I'm 172 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: trying to see because I want to make sure that 173 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 1: I'm not thinking that this is the wind if it 174 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 1: has soy or not in it. But okay, so say 175 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 1: it has no soy, no GMOs, no soy or no gluten. 176 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 1: That might be different than from when I looked at 177 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: it last time. Yeah, I think they did change. It 178 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 1: scared me. I was about to go pull up on 179 00:09:34,720 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 1: the owner. You feel that it's good it uses P 180 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:42,080 Speaker 1: protein instead of soy protein, okay, which p's not bad 181 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,000 Speaker 1: for you. They were scared. Yeah, because that's really weird. 182 00:09:45,080 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I eat when I decided to do it. 183 00:09:47,800 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: I don't the impossible. I stay away from the impossible. 184 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,640 Speaker 1: I hate when places have that. Now I want to 185 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 1: do um a little story which you is called true sex. 186 00:09:57,800 --> 00:09:59,840 Speaker 1: And this is where we take an article it has 187 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: to do with sex or you know, the romance, and 188 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,559 Speaker 1: you give your opinion on it. So they had did 189 00:10:05,600 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: this topic on Reddit what makes you lose romantic interests? Immediately? Right, 190 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: and they talk about the top three reasons that people 191 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: lose romantic interests in the person. What do you think 192 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,120 Speaker 1: the number one reason is that people lose romantic interest 193 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: if you had to say, if you're dating somebody, things 194 00:10:20,880 --> 00:10:24,600 Speaker 1: are going smooth, cleanliness, this happens. Oh that's a good one. 195 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: That wasn't in the top three, but I can see 196 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:35,760 Speaker 1: that as a good reason. Cleansiness, hygiene, he said, cleanses. Yeah, 197 00:10:35,800 --> 00:10:38,880 Speaker 1: somebody with like a dirty house. Yeah, dirty house is disgusting. 198 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: Dirty alright, So I'll tell you the number three reason 199 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: is they don't have an opinion. Right. You know, you 200 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: ask somebody like, so, what do you want to do? 201 00:10:48,360 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what do you want to do? How 202 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:53,320 Speaker 1: are you? I know somebody like that? Yeah you know 203 00:10:53,440 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: who I'm talking about, And I'm like, he's so dumb, yeah, 204 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: so annoying. Like we like people to be decisive, and 205 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's a woman thing, is that 206 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:05,959 Speaker 1: a man thing too? Like men can be decisive, but 207 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: most of the time they're trying to cater to you 208 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 1: guys to some degree, and that's where they probably you know, 209 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,840 Speaker 1: fall short because it gets frustrating when you're like, Okay, 210 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 1: so what should we watch? Whatever you want to watch. 211 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 1: It's like I would love for you to just make 212 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: a decision. Like even when you try to have a 213 00:11:19,880 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 1: intelligent conversation and you want feedback, that person I'm speaking 214 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:25,720 Speaker 1: of will watch something like so what did you think 215 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: about it? And then they'll just like spit back everything, rebating, 216 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:30,080 Speaker 1: and they just watch I'll tell a story and then 217 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: they're like, yeah, I agree, that's retorted and that's crazy, 218 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: and like no, like interaction and what we're talking about, 219 00:11:36,679 --> 00:11:38,840 Speaker 1: like we're having it. It's a two way thing, and 220 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,079 Speaker 1: it's just like so annoying. See you know what it is. 221 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: You gotta pick better, damn it. Man, look at her 222 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: like I just be bored. You know, sometimes we just 223 00:11:52,320 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: be bored. That's a good point though, Yeah, maybe I'll do, 224 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: but it's it's she got it's quite annoying. So your 225 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: opinion now, but you know what do you want to 226 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:09,640 Speaker 1: be single for a while after having been locked down 227 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:12,160 Speaker 1: for a while. Yes, so that's a conscious thing, like 228 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,959 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to turn down everything everything, how you 229 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 1: feel turned down, every advance, I'll turn them all down. 230 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 1: I only like people that I know, how long would 231 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 1: you in your relationship? Ten years on? And all just 232 00:12:23,840 --> 00:12:28,079 Speaker 1: recently broke off about five months ago. Yeah, so now 233 00:12:28,160 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: she's just living single. She guys like a whole different life. Yes, 234 00:12:32,880 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: like a completely different life. Lely, Hey you, this is 235 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:49,079 Speaker 1: ad Dolphin. This is Leally, and you know, Hi, I'm 236 00:12:49,080 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 1: glad you excited. I'm glad you walked in right now 237 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: because we were just talking about a topic and then 238 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: to it. And this is based off of and this 239 00:12:57,400 --> 00:12:59,319 Speaker 1: is our true sex um. This is based off a 240 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: Reddit article what makes you lose romantic interests immediately in 241 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: a person? And I was given the top three reasons 242 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 1: that they gave on the website. Number three reason was 243 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:10,040 Speaker 1: the person doesn't have an opinion. So you're basically like, 244 00:13:10,360 --> 00:13:11,439 Speaker 1: what do you want to do? I don't know what 245 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:13,160 Speaker 1: do you want to do? Or what do you want 246 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: to eat? What do you want to eat? I can't 247 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 1: I can't have too many options you need to. I 248 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 1: like a dictator. I like some to decisive because I 249 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:28,040 Speaker 1: will be like, okay, um I want I love seafood, 250 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:32,319 Speaker 1: I love soul food. We'll be there all day. Ship 251 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:36,840 Speaker 1: was just talking about diets. Yeah, is there anything you 252 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: don't eat? Are you like I don't need pork? I 253 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: either hate it once or twice. I probably did it 254 00:13:54,559 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: again eating as like it has to be right after 255 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:06,920 Speaker 1: the shower or are you like, definitely come on now, 256 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: ain't nobody eating all they now definitely got to have 257 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 1: a shot like stuff like that. I don't think women 258 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: like stuff like that. Sweaty as Yeah, because like with 259 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,120 Speaker 1: guys even like I feel like getting out the shower 260 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: and you all cool, but they be wanting you to 261 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: come straight in the house. That get too been had 262 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 1: all day? Yeah, so if it just happens to slip 263 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:31,080 Speaker 1: back there and then it just did some of the 264 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: guys like that's salty all day, like the all day 265 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 1: like that too. That's truly. It is like a little 266 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: sweaty ball, a little post your salt. It's like season 267 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 1: what if he has tell stuck in his but man, 268 00:14:53,680 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: that's real nasty. That means he took a dump that 269 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:04,520 Speaker 1: means it's an extra piece a ship together. We got 270 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: to wash that all. Have you ever had to be 271 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: like take a shower? I just know, like a guy, 272 00:15:10,440 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: I always do like little tests. I could smell a 273 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: guy from a mill away and that ship don't smoke good. 274 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,200 Speaker 1: It ain't happening because that's a turn off completely. You 275 00:15:21,240 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 1: ain't getting no nothing all right. But the number two 276 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: reasons what makes you lose romantic interest is when they 277 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:33,520 Speaker 1: don't know the difference between being funny and obnoxious. Well, 278 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 1: because people have different levels of sensitivity. It's never stopped 279 00:15:42,440 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: anything that I had going on, though, but I do 280 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: that like sometimes like I think I'm being yeah, I'm joking, 281 00:15:50,040 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: and then I noticed a person's face and I'm like, 282 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 1: to get your little dick out of here. There's one 283 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 1: particular time I could think of with this guy and 284 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 1: he like, I guess he had took his jacket off 285 00:16:04,920 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 1: and I can see his tattoo, and I'm like, let 286 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: me see. So I left. I was like, what you 287 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 1: got this in jail? But I didn't think, you know, 288 00:16:13,280 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just thinking I'm making a joke. When 289 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: I tell y'all like months later, he was like, yo, 290 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: you just say really insensitive things like that one time 291 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:25,600 Speaker 1: he said my look like I got it in jail, 292 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,120 Speaker 1: and I'm like, yo, this really hurt his heart like 293 00:16:28,480 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: something that I was joking. Literally, I didn't mean nothing, 294 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: buy I thought it was just a funny. Joe happen 295 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 1: to me all the time. I always extra, you know, 296 00:16:38,200 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: I'm just always extra, and you have to literally tell me, okay, funny, 297 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:47,440 Speaker 1: you have to turn it on, and then I'll start 298 00:16:47,480 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 1: feeling bad. I'm a human being, damn it. Yeah, I 299 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 1: messed up all the time. Is not really like that. 300 00:16:57,520 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm nice, but I am nice. I've seen 301 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: you be very mean, but that's on purpose, not like 302 00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 1: thinking she's being funny, right, I am nice. Crazy can 303 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:15,159 Speaker 1: be mean though, and there can be and her together. 304 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: You don't want to be the victim. Yeah, I think 305 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: people be looking like they really want to fight us, 306 00:17:20,240 --> 00:17:25,520 Speaker 1: but then they can't, like like be people were cool 307 00:17:25,560 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: and it's kind of funked up, but we can't stop. 308 00:17:28,440 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: It's like once one good going to start laying into it. 309 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 1: It's really bad. How do you feel about that? Have 310 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,439 Speaker 1: you ever been in that situation where you're, yeah, I 311 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:39,439 Speaker 1: dated this one girl, um, she thought she was funny, 312 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:42,600 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? She thought she was funny. 313 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 1: She was really obnoxious. I didn't really particularly like it. 314 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 1: I left her. Well, and that's one day. Yeah, I'm 315 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 1: just like, yeah, I'm good. Did she say something to 316 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:56,879 Speaker 1: hurt your feelings? Where to get that you in jail? 317 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,359 Speaker 1: She can't hurt my feeling At some point, it's just like, okay, 318 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 1: you're not good at it. You know, some people just 319 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:07,640 Speaker 1: not good at it, right, and you just be looking 320 00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:10,280 Speaker 1: at them like now, I think that polom is when 321 00:18:10,359 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: the person is funny and other people are laughing, right, 322 00:18:14,000 --> 00:18:16,120 Speaker 1: That's when you're the only one who's sober and we're 323 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: drunken on shrews and laughing like, oh ship, the joke 324 00:18:20,880 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: is on me. A good all right. And the number 325 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 1: one reason it says that people lose romantic interest, according 326 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,760 Speaker 1: to Reddit, when they turn a conversation that into a 327 00:18:28,800 --> 00:18:31,879 Speaker 1: conversation about themselves. So if you cast somebody and like, 328 00:18:31,920 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: oh my god, I had the worst day of work. 329 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: I had the worst day too. Let me tell you 330 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 1: what happened. I know somebody like that. Yeah, well we 331 00:18:41,600 --> 00:18:48,119 Speaker 1: all know that's not like a nastisis right, Yeah, I 332 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: know people like that too. You'll be like telling the story. 333 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,200 Speaker 1: They ain't got nothing to do with anybody, be like, oh, yeah, 334 00:18:53,200 --> 00:18:56,440 Speaker 1: this is so sad this person done in like speaking, Yeah, 335 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:03,720 Speaker 1: I tell you the other day I frowned. He's like, 336 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: how did this become a value? All right? Now? How 337 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: do you think that real life sex differs from porn? Right, 338 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: because a lot of people get a lot of their tips, 339 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 1: especially early on in life. Like you watch porn and 340 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: you're like, oh, I'm gonna try that, But in real 341 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 1: life sex is nothing like what you see in porn. 342 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:24,720 Speaker 1: So what's the difference between Well, besides, yeah, you're also 343 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: like a Barbie doll bending like your late ago like 344 00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:32,479 Speaker 1: this here here, and regular normal people and then they 345 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 1: all kinds of like orgies and ship Like. Yeah, I 346 00:19:35,840 --> 00:19:38,679 Speaker 1: think porn it lets me know what I should be 347 00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 1: doing as a woman, Like, like I have this alter. 348 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 1: I have an alter ego and her name is Sister 349 00:19:46,080 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: Hot Pussy. Yeah, I literally have to turn into Sister 350 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 1: Hot Pussy to really do like have great sex. But 351 00:20:01,520 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 1: the big dick. You know, it took me a long 352 00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:11,160 Speaker 1: time to really master the art of sucking dick. Really, yeah, 353 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: I could when you sing yeah, that's different. But you know, 354 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 1: but when sister Hot Pussy shows up, it's like, oh, 355 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 1: it's going back. When did you get this name? Pretty? 356 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: What was just saying hot pussy and then sist So yeah, yeah, 357 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: and you know the show all the time, but she 358 00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:46,040 Speaker 1: always has like I have this volga mouth, like my 359 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: mouth is just sucking retarded, right, But the sexual side, 360 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,840 Speaker 1: I have to name her something so that she can 361 00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 1: come out and he can come out. Like she's open 362 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,240 Speaker 1: to whatever, whatever feels good. Since the Hot Pussy is on, 363 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: sometimes when I hear stories involving me, I was like, 364 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:08,560 Speaker 1: was that me? Or to stop? You know that I'm 365 00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:15,880 Speaker 1: playing since the hunt? So when you said she wasn't 366 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:18,120 Speaker 1: good at sucking dick, like what were you doing wrong? 367 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 1: Had like I just you know, dick coming so many 368 00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:27,120 Speaker 1: different sizes and they just they just you know, they 369 00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:31,400 Speaker 1: disrespectful with the ship today, you know, like I'm forty six, 370 00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: don't be fucking trying to devote me and it hurts, 371 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: like so they just disrespectful with us. So I have 372 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 1: to like, okay, is he trying to play me? Trying 373 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: to kill me? My head? They don't feel good, like 374 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 1: like okay, now I have this new thing where the 375 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 1: girl is laying on on her back and they just 376 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,800 Speaker 1: want to be on top with it, the whole ship 377 00:22:01,040 --> 00:22:03,480 Speaker 1: all the way out here. Okay, what do I go 378 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:08,720 Speaker 1: for me? You mean and tell me sister enjoy struggles 379 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 1: with that too, like that, but it's hard, like and 380 00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 1: disrespect for your like laying there looking up like why 381 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:26,399 Speaker 1: is this happening? Like you was like you gott you 382 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 1: take for me? Like I just feels different. You know, 383 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 1: has anybody ever done anything in the bedroom? You like? 384 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: Does he like me? Why is he doing this? Choke? 385 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,720 Speaker 1: I felt a little too hard. Is he trying to 386 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,920 Speaker 1: kill Yeah? I'm like one time I did think someone 387 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,119 Speaker 1: was trying to kill me. I was like, is he gettat? 388 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 1: Carried away? Like like I couldn't breathe and I really 389 00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:52,439 Speaker 1: stopped talking. No, my safe word would leave me. The 390 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 1: I was that because I couldn't breathe for real, like 391 00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:58,240 Speaker 1: and I never experienced nothing like that before. You were like, 392 00:22:58,240 --> 00:23:01,280 Speaker 1: I'm blue. Yeah, oh that was it for me because 393 00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 1: one more time, I just don't know. They don't know 394 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,439 Speaker 1: how to make love today. They are hard. Sorry, you've 395 00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: got to be the only guy here defend that because 396 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,840 Speaker 1: she's really saying a lot of these guys don't know 397 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,000 Speaker 1: how to make love. Well, well, you know what, there's 398 00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: no class for us. You gotta kind of remember that. 399 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:24,040 Speaker 1: So we're a lot of times we are learning from 400 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 1: porn and other bad experiences in life. So there's no 401 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,440 Speaker 1: class teaching us how to have sex, you know, how 402 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: to make love, how to funk, how whatever you want 403 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,240 Speaker 1: to call it. No one's there's no one teaching us that. 404 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: So sometimes it takes it takes time for us to 405 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,840 Speaker 1: figure out what about the person that you would you're 406 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: having in the course with, Like it's all about that energy, 407 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,359 Speaker 1: and she's we're gonna let you know where to go. 408 00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna let you know when it feels good. But 409 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: y'all just do don't be paying attention attention, That's true. 410 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:59,359 Speaker 1: A lot of it is I say, a woman's body, 411 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: she was her body will tell you what's yes and 412 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,680 Speaker 1: what's no. But sometimes guys misinterpreted no as a yes 413 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 1: from your body. Like you know, they might be like 414 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,000 Speaker 1: for instance, like if he's eating you out and then 415 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,000 Speaker 1: it's a little too rough, and they might think you're 416 00:24:12,040 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: moving because you like get away from me. So I 417 00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 1: have to control communicator. I just tell you what's happening. Okay, 418 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 1: I'm moving because I'm trying to adjust. Okay, what it's 419 00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,840 Speaker 1: sad because to me, that's gonna kill the move even 420 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:29,199 Speaker 1: worse because you already sucking it out. But then I'm 421 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,359 Speaker 1: gonna make you feel that. But if she don't speak up, 422 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: she ain't gonna never get him. There, you got you 423 00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: gotta got to speak up, especially in the beginning. How 424 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:40,439 Speaker 1: old is this man that doesn't know? I don't know, 425 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:48,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Not No, That's why you have 426 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:52,399 Speaker 1: to control the head game, like we talked about it 427 00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:55,119 Speaker 1: on your show, The Face Bath. I have to be 428 00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: on top of the guy and I have to control 429 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,120 Speaker 1: the head and all of that ship because he just 430 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 1: messes up. So you was complaining about the guy being 431 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:07,919 Speaker 1: on top of you, but I'm not choking his ask. Okay, 432 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:13,320 Speaker 1: well your ask maybe if it's back. When I'm saying 433 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:21,159 Speaker 1: like that, I didn't want to say anything. Like you know, 434 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,480 Speaker 1: when you put too much pressure on a click, it's 435 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: too much. I'll just be doing too much too soon, 436 00:25:28,320 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: like you have to pace yourself. Well a d when 437 00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: did you learn how to make love? And was it 438 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: women instructing you or how did that happen? I think 439 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,080 Speaker 1: it's probably more what said, you got to really pay 440 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:42,160 Speaker 1: attention to your partner. If you pay attention to your partner, 441 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 1: then it's gonna turn out all right. But like you know, 442 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: people moving around square man punching you things like that, 443 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,879 Speaker 1: they're probably not having a good time punching you. That'll 444 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 1: do it fighting. Did anybody ever tell you like while 445 00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,879 Speaker 1: you went down, Like, no, that's not got it. So 446 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna put that time. I'm gonna put that out 447 00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 1: there in the world. I'm amazing. No, that don't. Every 448 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 1: pussy is different. I happen't tell me. I'm good at that. 449 00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:22,440 Speaker 1: And honey, pussy looks different and it feels different, alright, 450 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,120 Speaker 1: So that sounds good. Everybody don't like the same thing. 451 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 1: Some people. You could be a dazing again and do 452 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,879 Speaker 1: what you do to one woman and then you go 453 00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,439 Speaker 1: to the next woman and you try to do that 454 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 1: and she's not going to receive you know, she's not 455 00:26:34,440 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 1: gonna receive it the same because I feel like g 456 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,239 Speaker 1: would like for a guy to be on top of 457 00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:45,760 Speaker 1: her and like, you know, shoving and like to cry 458 00:26:45,760 --> 00:26:50,000 Speaker 1: while she that. Yeah, yeah, I want my nose running, 459 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:54,200 Speaker 1: my eyes watering. I don't want to be able to breathe. Yeah, no, 460 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:56,760 Speaker 1: not those kinds of not emotional to you. She wants 461 00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: to die, Like, yeah, that's how you know you're the 462 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,440 Speaker 1: and that's how you know it's really She didn't, I said, 463 00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,439 Speaker 1: I don't think I would want my nose running, or 464 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,880 Speaker 1: like that's what work. You're not doing it good enough. 465 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 1: I feel like that just stopped all of this throat. 466 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 1: It's all connected. So when you I feel like it comes, 467 00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: I did it good enough. I just don't want to 468 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: cry and have my nose running. That's how you're going, 469 00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:21,680 Speaker 1: all right. I don't know. It's been a time where 470 00:27:21,680 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: I really had to stop, like, no, I'm sorry. I 471 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,679 Speaker 1: got me too for sure. Yeah, I can't breathe too 472 00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:31,040 Speaker 1: much snow because it's just too Yeah, really, clearly, where 473 00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,879 Speaker 1: are you let me clean my fast? Don't ask to stop. 474 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,440 Speaker 1: I don't ask. Don't want to almost die having said, 475 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,719 Speaker 1: but I mean, it's all about how you feel. I 476 00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: don't want to be I don't want my nose running now. 477 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:48,919 Speaker 1: That happen every single time. But when it's a good situe, 478 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 1: where are you going in? Yeah? I love to see 479 00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:04,639 Speaker 1: you only want be there there. Oh my god, you 480 00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,320 Speaker 1: get you more subscribers. Okay, well it's not that's not 481 00:28:08,359 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 1: what's happening over there. It's not that. One of the 482 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,960 Speaker 1: things you won't do in the bad room, really, Sister 483 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 1: Hot Pussy. Sister Hot Pussy will probably Okay. One thing 484 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 1: I well, I haven't done is two men double penetration. Okay, 485 00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 1: I will fucking die. I'm scared to do that, but 486 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: I think I want to try it before I die. 487 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:50,560 Speaker 1: But I think I want to try it before like 488 00:28:50,960 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: bad years old and she died from two died from. 489 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 1: That's terrible. But that's probably the only thing I haven't 490 00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,880 Speaker 1: done really. So other women, God, oh that's old. Yeah, 491 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 1: that's a giving Yeah the old news girl. Yeah, that's 492 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: definitely so you like you know, Oh, I tried it before. 493 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 1: It depends on how big the guy is thought, because 494 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: that should hurt. I don't can't. But it's something that 495 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 1: I want to love. Yeah, I want to like it, 496 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:32,320 Speaker 1: but I'm not there yet. I'm really not there yet. 497 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: I tried it. It's nice. I love a finger to 498 00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:38,120 Speaker 1: old finger two or three or four. You gotta get 499 00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 1: you gotta get some butt plugs and some silicone based 500 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 1: lo a butt plug and silicone based loop and just 501 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 1: just relax your jaws and then and then don't click 502 00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:57,520 Speaker 1: your jaw. We learned that from and I tried the 503 00:29:57,560 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: many works. Yeah, she said, if you want to have 504 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 1: any else, you have to relax your jaw because it's 505 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:07,440 Speaker 1: connected to your butt. Its health. It's ain't a healthy 506 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: is it healthy? It's a detox. Yeah, my god, that's 507 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:16,960 Speaker 1: a full body clean. I don't know, but like an enema, 508 00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: you gotta do it before. Yeah, it's a lot of 509 00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:24,120 Speaker 1: work before you do a sure. Really what if you 510 00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: just do it and didn't sound good? That's crazy because 511 00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,040 Speaker 1: when I just did it, Yeah, I just did it 512 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,720 Speaker 1: and I was trying. Was it like full throttle? You 513 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 1: gotta know like it happens. I was just junk. Yeah, 514 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: I smach empty stomach or like not eating a lot 515 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 1: of bullshit. That's for damn. I'm sure you know. Make 516 00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,920 Speaker 1: sure that you had one of those good days when 517 00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:49,440 Speaker 1: you had a good ye morning. I wasn't going to 518 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 1: say that. I was just gonna say, like a healthy day, 519 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 1: like you if you ate like good that day, not 520 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 1: like shipped with cheese and beans, and you know what. 521 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,719 Speaker 1: But now, but even if I'm gonna have sex, like 522 00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,960 Speaker 1: and I know it's gonna be crazy, then that day 523 00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: I'm not really gonna eat a lot of stuff anyways. Okay, okay, 524 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,680 Speaker 1: I feel like if on a full stomach, I can't square. 525 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: Oh that's interesting, that's me. I don't know. Listen, I've 526 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,240 Speaker 1: never squared it, so I don't know what. Yeah, on 527 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: a full stomach, I can't square or anything. Yeah, I 528 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: mean I like to see girls. Look at you. This 529 00:31:30,360 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 1: is the second time you could join my fans only. 530 00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 1: But you said you'd like to see girls. Yeah, it's sex. 531 00:31:39,160 --> 00:31:42,360 Speaker 1: It's very sexy. What do you think it ain't do it? Should? 532 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: I want to learn how to do it? So you 533 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:46,400 Speaker 1: watch people to figure out how to help in person 534 00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 1: on you. No, I've never had that happen before. But 535 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, another thing you never had happened. Oh yeah, yeah, 536 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: but that would be interesting. Now what women would you 537 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,360 Speaker 1: rather be the one any pussy other one getting your pussy? 538 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,000 Speaker 1: Eight or both? It depends. Man, I'm a free agent. Okay, 539 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: I'm open to anything. I mean, whatever, whatever the vibe is, 540 00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:14,600 Speaker 1: it's just you just gotta go flow and just let 541 00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 1: it happen. I can't think about it, because sex wouldn't 542 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,640 Speaker 1: be special if you put too much thought, you know, 543 00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 1: you would give it too much air time. Jack, gotta 544 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: just do it. Just go for it. Is that a 545 00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,120 Speaker 1: good amount of a d Listen, you only live once. 546 00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 1: Go for it. Have you ever had a bad anal 547 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: experience with the woman? Um? No, sure. The only bad 548 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:47,440 Speaker 1: experience I had a I had a threesome with two 549 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:59,280 Speaker 1: sisters each where they they were real sisters. It was 550 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 1: from Paris that happened. That was but that was kind 551 00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:08,040 Speaker 1: of like that one look disgusting. So are you sure 552 00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,760 Speaker 1: that was really? So? They was eating each other out 553 00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,600 Speaker 1: all day? And then what were you doing during that time? 554 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:25,000 Speaker 1: I was horrified while he was still funing. Then were 555 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: you able to finish? Of course? That horrified. When I 556 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,720 Speaker 1: think terrified, I think it did goes limp. Did they 557 00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 1: look alike like twins? Yeah, they look like sisters. That 558 00:33:36,920 --> 00:33:41,080 Speaker 1: would have freaked me out of ship. Maybe you know, 559 00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:44,400 Speaker 1: I go far and that's a little bit too. She's like, 560 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:51,280 Speaker 1: just fine, I said, they're maybe you can be twin brothers. 561 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 1: Hey whatever, She's like, I don't think you try about 562 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:59,040 Speaker 1: before I die. I don't know if I can hang. No, 563 00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: I'm not going to for so DP means that they 564 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: put one of your but in one of your vagina, 565 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:06,520 Speaker 1: or had one in the bank and one in the thinks. Okay, 566 00:34:08,480 --> 00:34:12,320 Speaker 1: at no point they don't touch, They're gonna be touching. 567 00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:18,520 Speaker 1: They're lapping each other. That might be even saying, oh yeah, 568 00:34:18,719 --> 00:34:27,760 Speaker 1: that would be nice to watch. Yeah, once the balls 569 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 1: into the room, that's parties over. What is it like 570 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:36,280 Speaker 1: the baddest woman period? Like you love this like looking 571 00:34:36,360 --> 00:34:39,320 Speaker 1: woman and then but you had to have sex and 572 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:45,760 Speaker 1: her at the same time as someone else and another guy. Yeah, 573 00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm passing up on this one. Not so. You never 574 00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,759 Speaker 1: ran a train on a girl. I never signed up 575 00:34:51,760 --> 00:34:56,239 Speaker 1: for trains. A bunch of them in college, but they 576 00:34:56,280 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: didn't look that much fun. You know, wants to be 577 00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:02,959 Speaker 1: the who wants to be the kaboot? Yeah, who wants 578 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 1: to be the kaboth? I'm cool finisher. You've never done that, though, 579 00:35:08,719 --> 00:35:12,640 Speaker 1: because that's another thing on your list, right, No, a train? 580 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,000 Speaker 1: Oh no, I never did that. Okay, can see there's 581 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,759 Speaker 1: other things you have, angels. It's pulling out everything that 582 00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,200 Speaker 1: Let's see the train ship and you don't know about 583 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,319 Speaker 1: even the people I know who's done trains, they ain't 584 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 1: do it in a house like they did the ship 585 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 1: in like the staircase back alley. Yeah, I got to 586 00:35:31,239 --> 00:35:34,960 Speaker 1: be difficult hotel. They at the bottom of the step, 587 00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 1: the bottom back in the schoolyard. And all right, so 588 00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 1: you also have your book, right, I regret the day 589 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 1: I lost my virginity And which is a really um, 590 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:52,359 Speaker 1: I think interesting title for a book, and just off 591 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,560 Speaker 1: the title alone, we were talking about losing our virginity 592 00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:59,399 Speaker 1: and whether or not we regretted that day. So lur yah, 593 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:05,239 Speaker 1: did you regret your virginity when you when? Yeah? Right now? 594 00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 1: I mean not right now? No, now, I still want 595 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 1: to be a virgin today, but like at that time, 596 00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 1: what I've waited longer? Hell yeah. And I think a 597 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:18,040 Speaker 1: big part that I had to do with it was that, um, 598 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 1: like I went from the seventh grade to the ninth grade. 599 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:23,560 Speaker 1: I adn't go to the eighth grade. So I think 600 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 1: me being around like older girls didn't make it any better. 601 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,520 Speaker 1: And then my sisters were older, Like everybody around me 602 00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 1: was older, so they was already having sex boyfriends. I 603 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 1: was kind of like the one that was like not 604 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,759 Speaker 1: doing any I didn't even have my first kiss till 605 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,880 Speaker 1: I was like thirteen fourteen, like and then I had 606 00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:51,799 Speaker 1: sex right after they kissed you in the ux No no, yeah, 607 00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,960 Speaker 1: but that is why everybody else was kissing and ship 608 00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 1: when I was younger. I ain't do like maybe like 609 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:01,280 Speaker 1: a quick peck kissing. I don't know. Yeah, me neither. 610 00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,759 Speaker 1: Yeah no, I wasn't so you were so if you 611 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:05,839 Speaker 1: could not have done it, then you know I would 612 00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,200 Speaker 1: have definitely. It wasn't worth it. What happened like it 613 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 1: was just whack, Like the dude was whack, like just everything, 614 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 1: Like if I say him right now, I will walk 615 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:19,359 Speaker 1: past him like him. Um yeah, I would know him 616 00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:21,800 Speaker 1: like he had like there was like a big family. 617 00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, I felt like he tried 618 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: to reach out to me on social media, not like recently, 619 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:29,360 Speaker 1: but some years ago, and I was like he probably 620 00:37:29,360 --> 00:37:30,840 Speaker 1: like I heard you on lips ever saying that you 621 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: only since we already fuck. I don't like you, and 622 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:41,720 Speaker 1: I wish I never had sex with him. Yeah, I'm sorry. 623 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 1: I broke up with him like right after, to be honest, 624 00:37:46,760 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: and I didn't even want to have sex anymore for 625 00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,080 Speaker 1: a long time. Yeah, that's happened to me. I heard, yeah, 626 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,799 Speaker 1: hurt me. Iut didn't feel good. And when I did 627 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 1: have sex again, I studied like it was whack. It 628 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 1: took a while, like from me because get into that. 629 00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:00,400 Speaker 1: Who do you have to really teach you, like with 630 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 1: the right And a lot of guys when they're younger, 631 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: they don't know what they're doing either, right, they didn't 632 00:38:04,600 --> 00:38:07,560 Speaker 1: know he was imagine both of you don't know what 633 00:38:07,560 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 1: you're doing. Right. He knew what he was doing, well, 634 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 1: he knew, but he sat like stocking me. It was weird, 635 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: like just really weird. But but what about you, a 636 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: d because for men, I think probably in general, it's 637 00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 1: a different experience. But you know, do you regret the 638 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,040 Speaker 1: day you lost your virginity? Not at all all looking 639 00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 1: forward to I don't think, well, oh she did you 640 00:38:32,680 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 1: the babysitter? Like most guys, it was a girl. Actually, 641 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,560 Speaker 1: where was she in the fifth grade? Fifth grade? Yeah? 642 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 1: I know the girl was crazy. But you know, no 643 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,200 Speaker 1: guy regrets losing his virginity. But you guys are playing 644 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:56,239 Speaker 1: house or I think he's playing doctor, doctor doctor exactly 645 00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 1: how you don't usually you do? We didn't played doctor 646 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: like that of my house. I never played doctor in 647 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:04,879 Speaker 1: my life. I mean we played all kinds of ship 648 00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,160 Speaker 1: because we have nothing else to do. Yeah, that is 649 00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: so young, though. Imagine did your parents know at all? 650 00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: Not at all? You never told them, No, they know now? Well, yeah, 651 00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 1: so it was that the only time you guys did 652 00:39:20,200 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 1: it or did y'all like, so you probably took her 653 00:39:24,040 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 1: virginity to No. I think she has sex from my 654 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:30,840 Speaker 1: friend around the corner. Yeah, that's a girl was getting 655 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 1: I think. Damn. Alright, So what about you, Gig? We know, 656 00:39:40,800 --> 00:39:42,640 Speaker 1: I I know. But for people, you know, do you 657 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,960 Speaker 1: regret the day you lost you? Every day? The real way. 658 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,640 Speaker 1: I can't say they were virginity the real way or 659 00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:54,600 Speaker 1: the lesbian way because she works. I was really really 660 00:39:54,600 --> 00:39:59,520 Speaker 1: really like really young, like single digit and then um, 661 00:39:59,560 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 1: a few years later, I was like eleven or twelve, 662 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:05,480 Speaker 1: and I intended to have have sexual sex. But I 663 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:08,399 Speaker 1: don't think we really did it. Like, I don't think 664 00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 1: it actually went in. I think we were just like 665 00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:14,400 Speaker 1: dry humping and he came and sexual sex. I just 666 00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:18,480 Speaker 1: wanted to. I don't know, And then um, I did 667 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 1: it again when I was thirteen, was like my freshman 668 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 1: in high school. Boyfriend like he was a basketball player 669 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:25,839 Speaker 1: and I was a cheerleader. He was like the cute 670 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:28,840 Speaker 1: freshman couple. So that was okay, And then I started 671 00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 1: the girl man and I learned everything and that's what 672 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,759 Speaker 1: I was, watching porn and doing drugs and having a 673 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,120 Speaker 1: good old time. He should probably be under the jail, 674 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,719 Speaker 1: but he taught me a lot. Okay, well that was 675 00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:45,240 Speaker 1: synozis really you lost your virgin to a woman? Also? Yeah, 676 00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:51,800 Speaker 1: Unfortunately I was molested by my uncle's wife at seven 677 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,960 Speaker 1: years old, so that was my first sexual experience ever. 678 00:40:56,800 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 1: So as I grew up and when I got to 679 00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:02,160 Speaker 1: middle school, I started boys started liking me, but I didn't. 680 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:06,239 Speaker 1: I couldn't relate. I'm like, why why does he like me? 681 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,479 Speaker 1: So then I will find myself. You know. After sex 682 00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,560 Speaker 1: education classes and stuff like that, I realized what happened 683 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:15,439 Speaker 1: to me. I was violated, so I tried to get 684 00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:18,600 Speaker 1: that thought of being with a girl out of my head. 685 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: So I just was like, come on, you want to 686 00:41:21,040 --> 00:41:24,440 Speaker 1: do it, let's do it with guys. So I you know, 687 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: it was just like this whole crazy experience, right, and 688 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:31,840 Speaker 1: looking back, that's when you really realized how that affected you. 689 00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:36,360 Speaker 1: D for sure. For sure, I was in relationships that 690 00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: I cried like I was literally and all of this 691 00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:42,120 Speaker 1: is in the book. So I cried being in some 692 00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,400 Speaker 1: of these relationships because I didn't understand what was happening. 693 00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,320 Speaker 1: So um, but you know, some of the stuff was fun. 694 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 1: And your relationship with your dad didn't help either when 695 00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,040 Speaker 1: it came to wanting to be with somebody that dad 696 00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,440 Speaker 1: left when I was ten, So I was like running 697 00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: into the arms of the wrong guys, perfectly older men, 698 00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,640 Speaker 1: you know. So it was just typical teenager from the Bronx, 699 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,360 Speaker 1: you know, just going through life the best way I 700 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: could and just you know, just trying to grow up, 701 00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:17,000 Speaker 1: and that whole time knowing that you had talent to Yeah, yeah, 702 00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 1: I had the vision to start a group and I 703 00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,919 Speaker 1: knew Coco Cocoa new Ties from Brooklyn, and we made 704 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,480 Speaker 1: it happen. We didn't know what was going to happen, 705 00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:32,120 Speaker 1: but y'all did that? Ain't God? And then that's when, 706 00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 1: oh my god, you got a different kind of dick then, 707 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:47,120 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, you have some It was it 708 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 1: was good, it was good. It was nice. I have 709 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:56,959 Speaker 1: something compared to look hello where it still back there? 710 00:42:57,640 --> 00:43:01,879 Speaker 1: But they just belong to other people. Do you think 711 00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 1: that name could be faithful? No? But that was an 712 00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: easy answer. No, I don't think if they want to. 713 00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: I don't think they want even if they don't physically 714 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: do the act. I think they're thinking about some other Well, 715 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,640 Speaker 1: if you think it, you might as well do it. 716 00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,320 Speaker 1: Sometimes men, let me tell you something. And I'm a woman, 717 00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 1: I know instantly who I'm sucking and I've never been wrong. 718 00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 1: Every guy that I ever wanted to bone ebone, I 719 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 1: thought about it, and I'm like, damn, I really want 720 00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:45,680 Speaker 1: that guy, you know, And whatever percentage she was able 721 00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 1: to give it to me, I took it. What if 722 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,040 Speaker 1: he was in a relationship, you didn't care. I took it. 723 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 1: Damn that that's young young lately like I was, did 724 00:43:56,239 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: you have women like coming at you every I went 725 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:07,240 Speaker 1: through with mine? Get fights? I'm almost I've gotten in fights. 726 00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,560 Speaker 1: I've almost gotten in fights. But then you had those 727 00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,120 Speaker 1: guys who were a lot too. They were a lot 728 00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:16,040 Speaker 1: of just get some extra pussy every time, and that's 729 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 1: and that's what happened. Like He'll be like, yeah, you know, 730 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: we ain't fucking I ain't really fucking hell. You know 731 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,920 Speaker 1: we were talking back then, it was like we talked 732 00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:26,440 Speaker 1: to each other, but they were if I could tell 733 00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:30,879 Speaker 1: y'all some stories Jesus would like, but I can't say 734 00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 1: his name. But I was dating this this R and 735 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:38,120 Speaker 1: B guy and his girlfriend, Oh my god, was in 736 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 1: a business too, and we almost got into squabble that 737 00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:47,000 Speaker 1: Um I'm not saying okay because I'm already thinking about 738 00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:51,960 Speaker 1: a couple. They was in love, but he just it 739 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:55,200 Speaker 1: was just bad. Are they doing a bio pick on them? Tom? 740 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:03,040 Speaker 1: But it was just crazy, like that was twenty one 741 00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:06,000 Speaker 1: year old. I was fucking crazy. Did you ever be 742 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,640 Speaker 1: like I want to go back and apologize to that person? Yeah, 743 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 1: I've had a lot of those moments, because you know, 744 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:14,080 Speaker 1: you don't you do ship when you're younger. You're not 745 00:45:14,160 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 1: realizing that you're gonna you're not gonna stay young, You're 746 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:20,279 Speaker 1: gonna eventually mature and going too this woman, and you're like, 747 00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,440 Speaker 1: you don't want the ship to happen to you. So 748 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 1: when it starts happening, even today, I'm like, ship, that's 749 00:45:25,239 --> 00:45:33,640 Speaker 1: calm you fuck okay? Fuck it is it people that 750 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,800 Speaker 1: still mad at you to this day. I'm sure people 751 00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 1: hate me. When you hate I'm telling you people hate 752 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:44,719 Speaker 1: me to this day for some dumb ship that I 753 00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:58,200 Speaker 1: didn't fucking ninety nine. You gonna apologize to Lialia. I'm sorry, 754 00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:04,040 Speaker 1: y'all get on to me, but you know I didn't though, 755 00:46:04,120 --> 00:46:08,759 Speaker 1: But ever affected you, like work wise, where somebody might 756 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 1: be like I don't want to be on this show 757 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: or I don't know if if it, if it happened, 758 00:46:14,080 --> 00:46:17,360 Speaker 1: was that deep, but I'm sure, like you know, and 759 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,719 Speaker 1: then being in a group, I'm a little different. Like 760 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:25,359 Speaker 1: I worked with two great girls. They very private and conservative, 761 00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: like I've always been like, yeah, like just let's have fun, right, 762 00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:34,359 Speaker 1: But you know that ain't everything that I do. They 763 00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: always it always gets back to them, you know, as 764 00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,359 Speaker 1: if like that to this day that your girl, I'll 765 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,719 Speaker 1: say something like they'll call them like why she? Why 766 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:47,160 Speaker 1: she say that? Why she? I mean, come on a group, 767 00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:49,759 Speaker 1: somebody that you might have passed up back in the 768 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 1: day that you feel like then I should have sho 769 00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:58,759 Speaker 1: that's a good question. I don't know how mean you 770 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:08,640 Speaker 1: didn't do it. So Michael Jordan's you fucked up this story. 771 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: You got to hear this story. You can't hear this story, 772 00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:17,719 Speaker 1: But you had the opportunity. I have the opportunity. I 773 00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: don't know what opportunity I had, but all I know 774 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:25,000 Speaker 1: is that I had another lame ass dude in my 775 00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:29,680 Speaker 1: house and he called and I couldn't take the call. 776 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:40,480 Speaker 1: I was fucking sick. I've been trying to find that motherfucker. 777 00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 1: You had a call back the next day, but I mean, 778 00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,640 Speaker 1: you know this was he was at the peak of 779 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:52,920 Speaker 1: his career. You lose. Yeah, I fucked that up. Where's 780 00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 1: the guy that was in your house in jail? Oh 781 00:47:56,920 --> 00:48:03,120 Speaker 1: my god, the big one. Oh man. I was so 782 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 1: and I wasn't even like really in the relationship. It 783 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:10,080 Speaker 1: was just I just didn't want to be talking to 784 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:19,279 Speaker 1: another dude while you should have been. You would have 785 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:20,799 Speaker 1: told right Ry who was on the phone. He told, 786 00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:27,440 Speaker 1: can you get me the ones? What about you cast 787 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,359 Speaker 1: step on somebody? And you was like, damn, I missing 788 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:35,799 Speaker 1: an opportunity. No, I don't think. So I took all 789 00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 1: my shots. They went in. Yeah, they didn't all go in, 790 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:44,520 Speaker 1: but I definitely took all my shots. How can you 791 00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:48,880 Speaker 1: tell when a woman is interested in you? Um, sometimes 792 00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,560 Speaker 1: you know the chemistry that's going on. If they're you know, 793 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 1: touchy feely, if you can can kind of see it 794 00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,720 Speaker 1: in their eyes. Sometimes sometimes women get real real quiet 795 00:48:58,760 --> 00:49:01,239 Speaker 1: when they really really like you. It's it's all kind 796 00:49:01,239 --> 00:49:03,960 Speaker 1: of different things. Do you get real quiet when you 797 00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:07,360 Speaker 1: like someone? If I don't, if I don't really know, 798 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:11,040 Speaker 1: I never quiet said, no, that's not you. We're never 799 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,960 Speaker 1: I get real quiet. You know, I'm funny like. It's 800 00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,440 Speaker 1: definitely if we're doing an interview or something, if I 801 00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,799 Speaker 1: know I'm coming to meet somebody. But if it's like 802 00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,280 Speaker 1: you're just around and I'm around, and we're both in around, 803 00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,839 Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna be quiet unless you start to say 804 00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: something to me. Then I could carry a conversation. But initially, no, 805 00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:32,839 Speaker 1: you got to start a conversation with me. All right, 806 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 1: what about you? You get quiet? I can't get quiet, 807 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,799 Speaker 1: but not when I don't know. I'm you'll know, I'm 808 00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,200 Speaker 1: like Odie, open like I don't care. Nothing makes me 809 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:48,520 Speaker 1: embarrassing and nervous. Gemini, well that part Lely. You don't 810 00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,960 Speaker 1: get quiet, do you when you like Sometimes it depends 811 00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:55,120 Speaker 1: if he's a conservative guy, I gotta fill him out. Um, 812 00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 1: but I'm pretty much you're gonna know instantly if I 813 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:07,399 Speaker 1: like you, because I'm one, I'm going to tell you here, 814 00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:09,680 Speaker 1: like body language is always a good way. And if 815 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,239 Speaker 1: you smell good, Like I could be on the elevator 816 00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:15,160 Speaker 1: and if it's a fine guy and he smelled good, 817 00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:18,040 Speaker 1: I'll be like, damn, can I just smell you? Well, 818 00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:21,680 Speaker 1: that's so good? And then he knows that there's a 819 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:26,480 Speaker 1: there's a chemistry. Yeah. Do you ever have awkward encounters 820 00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:29,759 Speaker 1: whereas moments where maybe they get quiet and then you're like, 821 00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:32,359 Speaker 1: well what am I about to say? It doesn't that's 822 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:35,400 Speaker 1: never happened to you. Like I've been around somebody that 823 00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:37,719 Speaker 1: maybe you will start talking and then after a while 824 00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 1: I'm just like, I don't have anything else to say 825 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,160 Speaker 1: to this person because that person doesn't have an opinion 826 00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 1: of their own exactly what we were talking about initially 827 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:47,919 Speaker 1: the person or on the phone. I think it's more 828 00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,400 Speaker 1: in person than on the phone. I could think I 829 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:52,239 Speaker 1: could more because if I'm on the phone, I be like, 830 00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:55,200 Speaker 1: all right, well, see that's definitely great at that all right? Well, 831 00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,520 Speaker 1: in person to get awkward, and I think that's what 832 00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,359 Speaker 1: makes it weird and hard at because you can't right, well, 833 00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,600 Speaker 1: something in your face. I guess I'll just sit here. 834 00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:04,960 Speaker 1: You can always just pull out your phone and go 835 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:10,920 Speaker 1: on Instagram. That's so rude. I hate when people do that. 836 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,759 Speaker 1: I hate that I do that. I do, but it's rudely. 837 00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:17,200 Speaker 1: It's been around somebody like that, Like I have to 838 00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:19,759 Speaker 1: speak to you over the phone if you're not a 839 00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:23,440 Speaker 1: good conversationalist, I can't. I can't do it. When's the 840 00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,920 Speaker 1: last time you really was like I could see myself 841 00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:30,880 Speaker 1: with this person ship? The last time I thought I 842 00:51:30,880 --> 00:51:32,839 Speaker 1: could see my soul with this person that sh it 843 00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:40,439 Speaker 1: ain't working recently. Do you know what you're looking for? 844 00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:45,120 Speaker 1: I do know what I'm looking for, But the perfect 845 00:51:45,200 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 1: guy that i'm looking for I could never have. Why 846 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:53,280 Speaker 1: you say that answer, because he's he's with somebody else, Oh, 847 00:51:53,320 --> 00:52:02,080 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan's like, no, not everybody. Well, no, it's you know, 848 00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:04,360 Speaker 1: you could see a guy from a distance and you 849 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,760 Speaker 1: could be like, Wow, I love how he handled his family. 850 00:52:06,800 --> 00:52:10,640 Speaker 1: I love her, you know, yeah, that type of guy. 851 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:14,640 Speaker 1: That type of guy. I just yo, it's a shortage. 852 00:52:15,560 --> 00:52:25,239 Speaker 1: These men ain't ship to everything. It's too hard for nothing, 853 00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 1: no experience. I can't argue with saying like it's a 854 00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,520 Speaker 1: drought all right, So do you have friends that you 855 00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:34,319 Speaker 1: feel like a good guys? Honestly? Absolutely? Because and then 856 00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,239 Speaker 1: you have while you feel like I got definitely got 857 00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:39,839 Speaker 1: some friends that ain't ship, right, I got a little 858 00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 1: bit of both. Okay, do you tell them they're not ship? 859 00:52:43,280 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: They already know, they're aware, they are definitely aware. You 860 00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:51,200 Speaker 1: think you have more friends that are good or or 861 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:54,520 Speaker 1: any ship. I think I think I have more friends 862 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: that are good, honestly. And the reason, well, I just 863 00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,640 Speaker 1: think the guy that's out there, you know, all and out. 864 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,320 Speaker 1: It takes a lot of means to be that guy. 865 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,839 Speaker 1: That guy gotta have stuff that other stuff that come 866 00:53:06,840 --> 00:53:09,560 Speaker 1: along with and to be that guy. And most of 867 00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,400 Speaker 1: my friends aren't doing that well enough to be that 868 00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:19,440 Speaker 1: guy that definitely, with success, it makes you worse. Oh yeah, no, 869 00:53:20,160 --> 00:53:26,719 Speaker 1: it creates, It creates, yeah, it creates. It creates this thing. 870 00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:30,520 Speaker 1: Sometimes it can you know, sometimes people implode and just 871 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,480 Speaker 1: go crazy with it. I've definitely seen that a lot. 872 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 1: They can't handle it. Literally. You think you could be 873 00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 1: with a guy who you have to support. Should I 874 00:53:40,200 --> 00:53:45,080 Speaker 1: have been with the motherfucker I'll talk about now that No, no, no, no, 875 00:53:45,680 --> 00:53:48,879 Speaker 1: I need a man. I need a man that's gonna 876 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 1: take full responsibility and take care of me. I mean, 877 00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,719 Speaker 1: of course, as a woman, I'm gonna do my point. 878 00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:57,520 Speaker 1: I'm anna plan b chick like I'm gonna always have 879 00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:00,080 Speaker 1: the plan be if his ship go low, I'm and 880 00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:02,040 Speaker 1: be like, yo, but we got this, you know. But 881 00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm sick of taking care of these motherfucker's right, I mean, 882 00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:10,240 Speaker 1: from buying lunches and dinners and I'm like, they couldn't 883 00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:11,960 Speaker 1: even get lunch. Let me tell you something. And my 884 00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:20,399 Speaker 1: body that is one of the special get me so 885 00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 1: much because they're like, Yo, you could funk with any dude, 886 00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,320 Speaker 1: You could funk with anybody, Like why are you? Because 887 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,600 Speaker 1: you know, I just always like to give the guy 888 00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,879 Speaker 1: a chance, even if he don't have much, like I'll 889 00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 1: be I mean, we did the Essence Music Awards and 890 00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,440 Speaker 1: I went right off the stage, gotten a little mode 891 00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:40,520 Speaker 1: to go funk with some dude and sleep on his 892 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:48,320 Speaker 1: flooring cot yeah, yeah, yeah, keep so many, keep it 893 00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:52,080 Speaker 1: real yea yeah, but that is old now and you 894 00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:53,880 Speaker 1: went through so who was there for you when you 895 00:54:53,960 --> 00:54:56,239 Speaker 1: went through your rough time when you didn't have a 896 00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 1: place to stay. I did what my family was, but 897 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:02,399 Speaker 1: they didn't know. They didn't know anything. I went through 898 00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:06,640 Speaker 1: that whole journey by myself pretty much and figured it out. 899 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 1: Why didn't you want your family to know? Because it 900 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: was embarrassing and my family, you know, when you you 901 00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:16,080 Speaker 1: don't want to and still so much pain and pressure 902 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 1: because they worry about me. I'm the baby, so they 903 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,400 Speaker 1: always worried about me. So when I went through my 904 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,200 Speaker 1: little journey, I just felt like it was something I 905 00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 1: had to go through on my own and come out 906 00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,200 Speaker 1: of it on my own because everybody's not gonna understand 907 00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,480 Speaker 1: your story and I didn't want to be a burden 908 00:55:31,640 --> 00:55:34,680 Speaker 1: on anybody. I had to figure this ship out, and 909 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:36,520 Speaker 1: in doing that, I have to figure out how to 910 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:39,040 Speaker 1: ship happened in the beginning, Like why how did it 911 00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:43,440 Speaker 1: get to this point? So, hey man, that is awesome. 912 00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,280 Speaker 1: That's all I can say. You know what. I admire 913 00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 1: that you're like you just when I got a regular job, 914 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 1: and you're like, I would do that if I had 915 00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:53,640 Speaker 1: to exactly. Some people they're like, look, I was famous, 916 00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:57,000 Speaker 1: I can't let people see me. I didn't care. I 917 00:55:57,120 --> 00:55:59,799 Speaker 1: didn't care. It came to a point where you had 918 00:55:59,880 --> 00:56:02,440 Speaker 1: to put yourself to the side. I had two kids. 919 00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:07,600 Speaker 1: They don't understand that famous ship. They need to that 920 00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:09,799 Speaker 1: famous ship went out the window. And it was really 921 00:56:09,880 --> 00:56:13,240 Speaker 1: hard because I had people like they would talk about 922 00:56:13,280 --> 00:56:16,120 Speaker 1: me so bad. They would call my job just to 923 00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,960 Speaker 1: hear me answer the phone. It was terrible. Really, oh 924 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:23,680 Speaker 1: yeah they called. Oh they called me the has been 925 00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,520 Speaker 1: And I am so built. I'm built like a fucking brick. 926 00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 1: And that's why I always like to tell women like you. 927 00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:34,560 Speaker 1: When people tell me about their their problems, what they're 928 00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:37,080 Speaker 1: going through, I'm like, that's it. I wish I would 929 00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,880 Speaker 1: through that ships. Meanwhile, yes, come on, and they're singing 930 00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 1: at the exactly exactly, but that's even more embabrassing because 931 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:49,000 Speaker 1: you're like sitting at your cubicle and ship. You're like, 932 00:56:51,120 --> 00:56:55,160 Speaker 1: you know, but it's me. And I think it's so 933 00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:58,920 Speaker 1: unfair that even with the guy who who was on 934 00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 1: the Cosby Show and they made a big deal because 935 00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,359 Speaker 1: he was working that trade to Joe, and we make 936 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 1: it so bad that somebody have to get a job, 937 00:57:09,640 --> 00:57:12,040 Speaker 1: and we don't, you know, we just all feed into it. 938 00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:15,640 Speaker 1: We don't help the situation because we promote that bullshit. 939 00:57:15,800 --> 00:57:18,560 Speaker 1: We laughed too, you know, we're looking at him like, 940 00:57:18,640 --> 00:57:21,280 Speaker 1: oh ship. People feel like it was messed that that 941 00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:26,439 Speaker 1: somebody put that on. So that's the world we're living 942 00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:29,240 Speaker 1: now is terrible. So you have to at the end 943 00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:32,000 Speaker 1: of the day, you have to love yourself. You have 944 00:57:32,120 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 1: to be able to stand alone and do what you 945 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:36,600 Speaker 1: have to do for yourself and your family. And it 946 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,680 Speaker 1: doesn't matter where everybody say, because they're gonna remember that ship, 947 00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 1: but they're gonna forget it. No much shit happened t 948 00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:44,440 Speaker 1: twenty years ago. We don't give a damn. We don't 949 00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 1: give a damn what happened two weeks ago, yesterday. It's 950 00:57:47,760 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 1: a moment. You know, it's a part of your journey, 951 00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,440 Speaker 1: and that your journey ends up being a great story. 952 00:57:52,640 --> 00:57:56,480 Speaker 1: So what did your daughter say, like, um, your oldest 953 00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,960 Speaker 1: when she has said here, like everything that you went 954 00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:01,439 Speaker 1: through that she might not have even realized at the time, 955 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 1: My daughter told me, and well, I never forget this. 956 00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,640 Speaker 1: My daughter was eight years old and we were staying 957 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: in a story of projects and she wrote a letter, 958 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:16,280 Speaker 1: she expresses herself on paper, and she said, I hate 959 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:20,240 Speaker 1: my life. I wish we have money like we used to, 960 00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:25,600 Speaker 1: and I'm tired of people laughing at me. So our 961 00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:30,880 Speaker 1: kids feel everything we're going through, you know, So that 962 00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:35,320 Speaker 1: right there gave me the power and the strength to 963 00:58:35,480 --> 00:58:38,800 Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, i gotta come out this ship, if 964 00:58:38,880 --> 00:58:43,200 Speaker 1: not for me, for my kids, for kids. And I did, Yes, 965 00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:47,360 Speaker 1: you did, and we're beds being one of the best 966 00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:52,000 Speaker 1: groups of all time. Have an amazing personality too, And 967 00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,440 Speaker 1: that's one of the things we love about you, how 968 00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:57,760 Speaker 1: candid you are, how funny you are, because it helped me. 969 00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,120 Speaker 1: It gave me life like I had. I cried so much, 970 00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 1: I was so sad, and I'm like, you know what, 971 00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:06,920 Speaker 1: if I'm not gonna I'm not gonna cry. I made 972 00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,760 Speaker 1: the decision. I'm not gonna cry anymore. I'm gonna laugh. 973 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be funny. If I feel like I can, 974 00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:15,520 Speaker 1: I can, kid, That's what I'm gonna do to make myself, 975 00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:18,040 Speaker 1: to bring myself joy. And I think that's the one 976 00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,600 Speaker 1: thing that we forget. We depend on everybody else to 977 00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 1: bring life to us. Not mean I'm gonna laugh, I'm 978 00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:29,040 Speaker 1: gonna have a good time. And I don't drink or smoke. 979 00:59:29,080 --> 00:59:31,240 Speaker 1: I don't do none of that ship. But when you 980 00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:34,120 Speaker 1: around me, you're gonna feel comfortable. You're gonna feel good. 981 00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:37,040 Speaker 1: It's a no judgment zone. And that's how I like it. 982 00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,760 Speaker 1: But speaking of it earlier, you alluded to eating. But 983 00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 1: right now, come on, the first time you did that, 984 00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:49,280 Speaker 1: did you voluntarily voluntarily do that? Or did he like, no, 985 00:59:49,600 --> 00:59:53,800 Speaker 1: I didn't, I just did it. You do that because 986 00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 1: when you're when you're when you're sexual, if you like 987 00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:00,760 Speaker 1: write shit, if you lick balls, you look at the 988 01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:06,960 Speaker 1: same because it right there in your right now they 989 01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:13,280 Speaker 1: right there. Balls are not in but it's like a 990 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:19,680 Speaker 1: studio apartment. It's like a Murphy Bad. You got a 991 01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 1: wall in between. Definitely, that's the tain. Let us see, damn, 992 01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:32,840 Speaker 1: let the ball ball? And how did he react? Like 993 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,560 Speaker 1: the first Like, you know, a guy's very open to 994 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:40,040 Speaker 1: of course, you know, if I'm gonna go that flow downtown, 995 01:00:40,320 --> 01:00:50,120 Speaker 1: if I'm gonna go downtown, hey, well the conversation I've 996 01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,160 Speaker 1: had to take in place, I know what he was 997 01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:55,200 Speaker 1: willing to deal with and how far he was going 998 01:00:55,240 --> 01:00:57,840 Speaker 1: to go. So I was like, you know what, he's 999 01:00:57,840 --> 01:00:59,920 Speaker 1: a special guy to me. Right now, let me just 1000 01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:05,800 Speaker 1: look a little ass. You had this conversation. I had 1001 01:01:05,880 --> 01:01:10,440 Speaker 1: that conversation. Everybody, I'll just be doing that first, what 1002 01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,360 Speaker 1: you're doing surprise. I mean I I think if you 1003 01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:16,440 Speaker 1: have a conversation, just like a guy might want to 1004 01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:19,400 Speaker 1: be but then if you try it, he yet you 1005 01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:24,040 Speaker 1: have quiet as a surprise you have yeah, because he 1006 01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,640 Speaker 1: would be too uneasy. I mean the first time ever 1007 01:01:27,480 --> 01:01:30,000 Speaker 1: is something different. Like the first time ever, I was 1008 01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:33,919 Speaker 1: like coached, like you know what you should do type ship. 1009 01:01:34,400 --> 01:01:36,920 Speaker 1: But like from then on, if I decide like I'm 1010 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:39,720 Speaker 1: gonna do it, it's never like hey, I have to 1011 01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:45,040 Speaker 1: talk with you. Right, But that was the one relationship, right, 1012 01:01:45,280 --> 01:01:48,400 Speaker 1: the first one that if so, then after that, anybody 1013 01:01:48,440 --> 01:01:50,840 Speaker 1: else you dated surprised, No, no, no, no, excuse me. 1014 01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:55,000 Speaker 1: I don't just go around looking everybody. This is a 1015 01:01:55,080 --> 01:02:04,760 Speaker 1: special treat for for that select you. Surprise, Yeah, surprise, 1016 01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:09,240 Speaker 1: surprise to surprise. And like it said, I been sucking 1017 01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,320 Speaker 1: the deck and then balls and then then you know 1018 01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:17,480 Speaker 1: it's right there with their neighbor. You do it like 1019 01:02:17,680 --> 01:02:20,080 Speaker 1: burned out. What's the position he's laying on his back 1020 01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:22,200 Speaker 1: and you're in there or is it so many different? 1021 01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 1: It's because if you would and you know, you like 1022 01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,360 Speaker 1: like he's laying down and you're you're giving them head 1023 01:02:29,480 --> 01:02:32,080 Speaker 1: or whatever and then you you pick his I'm a 1024 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:34,640 Speaker 1: little aggressive pick it up. I picked his legs up 1025 01:02:35,960 --> 01:02:40,600 Speaker 1: and put it over your shoulders. So I'm like what 1026 01:02:40,760 --> 01:02:46,600 Speaker 1: they do when you're a compromise They like, but he's 1027 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:48,960 Speaker 1: got his stomach. Can you do That's not picked them 1028 01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,800 Speaker 1: all the way up to here, it's just like raised 1029 01:02:50,840 --> 01:02:53,400 Speaker 1: them a little to give you something, so you donner 1030 01:02:53,440 --> 01:02:55,680 Speaker 1: while he's been laying on his stomach. No, but I 1031 01:02:55,800 --> 01:03:02,920 Speaker 1: want to try. That's good because you know from the 1032 01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:07,320 Speaker 1: side from the back, and got to set the dick 1033 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:11,520 Speaker 1: from the back, and it's easier to do what eighty is. 1034 01:03:11,560 --> 01:03:14,760 Speaker 1: It's all true. Listen, I should definitely. I ain't never 1035 01:03:14,880 --> 01:03:21,280 Speaker 1: had surprise. It definitely gotta be a conversation. Why that's 1036 01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:25,560 Speaker 1: the conversation god, cause a lot of gods think it's 1037 01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:32,920 Speaker 1: not and it's not gay. They are not gay sex, 1038 01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:36,520 Speaker 1: Like when you know when you watch your girl, like 1039 01:03:36,800 --> 01:03:40,760 Speaker 1: everything should just that just anything. I'm nothing could be 1040 01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:43,680 Speaker 1: gay with this girl. I don't get this beyond me 1041 01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:56,120 Speaker 1: its title No, but but she's right though you can't. 1042 01:03:56,240 --> 01:04:00,520 Speaker 1: That's just that's an awkward conversation. Like, hey, listen, next 1043 01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:02,640 Speaker 1: time we have sex, can I stick my finger? Yeah? 1044 01:04:02,760 --> 01:04:06,560 Speaker 1: I hate that. That's that's so funny. It's not like 1045 01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:12,800 Speaker 1: conversation like, let's do it. I've never seen that. But 1046 01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,240 Speaker 1: you know, you might just be talking to your you know, 1047 01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:18,560 Speaker 1: your boyfriend girlfriend and you're having that kind of conversation. 1048 01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,000 Speaker 1: Things you've done in the past, things you've been open to, 1049 01:04:21,120 --> 01:04:24,400 Speaker 1: and things along those conversation happen, right, But yeah, it'll 1050 01:04:24,440 --> 01:04:28,440 Speaker 1: come out of acts like hey, so seven, do you 1051 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: think it'll be okay if I stick my tongue in 1052 01:04:30,400 --> 01:04:33,040 Speaker 1: your after I eat dessert. I'm gonna eat that ass. 1053 01:04:33,920 --> 01:04:41,120 Speaker 1: That's not Oh my gosh, well, guys, that she got 1054 01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:53,880 Speaker 1: as I actually am starving. Yea healthy y'all know. Y'all 1055 01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:55,560 Speaker 1: know I was on the plane and the train in 1056 01:04:55,600 --> 01:05:00,480 Speaker 1: the automobile. Hood I need a meal? Is gonna pull 1057 01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:04,400 Speaker 1: up and ask you question? Now, do you discourage people 1058 01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:08,920 Speaker 1: from eating pussy when they're on detox? Definitely? Definitely, just 1059 01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:12,120 Speaker 1: the way we stay away from him because other toxics 1060 01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 1: are coming out of You're not you're supposed to have 1061 01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:18,320 Speaker 1: sex during that. There you go, you're not. Did you 1062 01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:29,360 Speaker 1: know any days? Shit? Did it like one day? Your finger? 1063 01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:36,120 Speaker 1: You have ever done a tox Oh god, I have 1064 01:05:36,240 --> 01:05:42,880 Speaker 1: a nasty story. This is so nasty. Oh gosh. Okay, 1065 01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:48,320 Speaker 1: So I was, man, this guy was being intimate or whatever, 1066 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:51,440 Speaker 1: and you know, guys be all into it. They'd be like, damn, baby, 1067 01:05:51,480 --> 01:05:54,320 Speaker 1: you're pussy so wet, it's so wet. It's nice. And 1068 01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:57,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, baby, yeah, but I went to the 1069 01:05:57,720 --> 01:06:02,800 Speaker 1: bathroom and my period came down. So he just he 1070 01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:09,479 Speaker 1: was my personal human tampon three minutes his mouth. Yeah, 1071 01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:15,720 Speaker 1: he did mean no, I'm just it was it was 1072 01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 1: flowing like it was wet. It was when he was 1073 01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:20,240 Speaker 1: eating her pussy and was saying how wet and good 1074 01:06:20,280 --> 01:06:21,800 Speaker 1: it was. Didn't know that it was. He didn't know 1075 01:06:21,840 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 1: that it like he didn't give a funk, like you 1076 01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:29,400 Speaker 1: know what you how fucking at first. Now I'm the 1077 01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:32,880 Speaker 1: only one that got through going down. Baby, he was 1078 01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:39,680 Speaker 1: going and you were, okay, I don't care. He wasn't. 1079 01:06:39,880 --> 01:06:41,800 Speaker 1: Did you kiss him? After that? She was going to 1080 01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:46,360 Speaker 1: say that because that's what I know about, And he 1081 01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:48,800 Speaker 1: didn't have a problem with it. He was like, fucking 1082 01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:52,440 Speaker 1: you know, like, I know, motherucker did this before. He's like, 1083 01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:56,920 Speaker 1: you my favorite group. Yeah, exactly. Again. The next year, 1084 01:06:57,600 --> 01:07:01,640 Speaker 1: I asked you a question for us to end with um. 1085 01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,560 Speaker 1: I've been dating this guy since November nineteen. I met 1086 01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:07,040 Speaker 1: him online and he seems nice. Whatever I want to do, 1087 01:07:07,320 --> 01:07:09,280 Speaker 1: we do it. Anywhere I want to go, we go. 1088 01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:11,960 Speaker 1: He would pay for everything. He's not a bad looking guy. 1089 01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:14,960 Speaker 1: My only issue is that he is short. He's five 1090 01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:17,320 Speaker 1: ft six and I'm five for four. I'm not used 1091 01:07:17,320 --> 01:07:19,920 Speaker 1: to dating anybody short. I do like him. Our conversations 1092 01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,040 Speaker 1: are great. He can't be a little annoying, but he's 1093 01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:24,160 Speaker 1: a nice guy. What should I do? She acts like 1094 01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:31,200 Speaker 1: she five ten, comes to them all and make him 1095 01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:34,640 Speaker 1: buy you a whole bunch of flags and sneak you good. Yeah, 1096 01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:37,280 Speaker 1: that's fine. That ain't bad. That's not bad. Now what 1097 01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:41,880 Speaker 1: if she was like, I'm six ft two shorter than you. 1098 01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:45,400 Speaker 1: Never well, you are just acting like this and you're 1099 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:49,600 Speaker 1: standing your reservations because they're basically she's short. Though she's 1100 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:53,280 Speaker 1: shorter than him, it's not like he's she's five ten 1101 01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:57,160 Speaker 1: or five nine and he's four eleven. You know, but 1102 01:07:57,520 --> 01:08:00,120 Speaker 1: I can't date I can't date a guy short me. 1103 01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:02,280 Speaker 1: What about if he's talk but he's got short arms 1104 01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:13,400 Speaker 1: like a dinosat y'all, y'all know my theory about the 1105 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:17,560 Speaker 1: short guys they tripods. So she said, short guys have 1106 01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:25,160 Speaker 1: big dick. Short ones. Anyone one look story about the 1107 01:08:25,240 --> 01:08:28,240 Speaker 1: big feet ship. That's a lot like the height on 1108 01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:32,519 Speaker 1: somebody else. Yeah, but I hands if anything, because it'll 1109 01:08:32,520 --> 01:08:34,519 Speaker 1: be weird if they got little hands in there jetting 1110 01:08:34,520 --> 01:08:36,439 Speaker 1: off a big dick. So I think it would have 1111 01:08:36,560 --> 01:08:41,439 Speaker 1: to balance. Okay, you know they said, what is it 1112 01:08:41,520 --> 01:08:43,920 Speaker 1: If your index finger is longer than your ring finger, 1113 01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:45,519 Speaker 1: that means he has a big dick. I think that's 1114 01:08:45,680 --> 01:08:48,800 Speaker 1: or the other way. What are you doing over there? 1115 01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:59,080 Speaker 1: This finger is longer. I'm not everybody before have sex. 1116 01:08:59,400 --> 01:09:02,120 Speaker 1: That would be weird. So you got an answer. Actually, 1117 01:09:02,120 --> 01:09:05,840 Speaker 1: I gotta see what the dick looked like. It gotta 1118 01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:09,000 Speaker 1: be pretty. I have to know what the funk I'm 1119 01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:14,960 Speaker 1: working with because I like intimate sex. That can you 1120 01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:20,559 Speaker 1: have sex without kissing? No? No, that's why I don't 1121 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,479 Speaker 1: get that much action because I I gotta. I love 1122 01:09:23,600 --> 01:09:27,640 Speaker 1: to kiss that. I love that more than being penetrated. 1123 01:09:28,120 --> 01:09:30,720 Speaker 1: Oh you know what I wanted to bring up, jes 1124 01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,120 Speaker 1: you have sent us a question that you wanted to ask. 1125 01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:36,120 Speaker 1: You want to ask it? Um, but wait, I'm sorry 1126 01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:38,600 Speaker 1: what about a nasty kiss, like you know how some 1127 01:09:38,760 --> 01:09:43,360 Speaker 1: people can't kiss. Oh you, that's never happened to you. 1128 01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:48,240 Speaker 1: I never now if he knows how to, because I'll 1129 01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:51,679 Speaker 1: just if he got a little rhythm going, I could, 1130 01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:54,920 Speaker 1: I could keep vote with him and it feels good, 1131 01:09:55,920 --> 01:09:58,519 Speaker 1: then it is on. But if he's like all over 1132 01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:01,160 Speaker 1: your face and if he's just can't you gotta bring 1133 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:02,920 Speaker 1: it in. You gotta control. You gotta take controls like 1134 01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:06,840 Speaker 1: dancing people. You gotta take control over the situation. Bring 1135 01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:09,639 Speaker 1: it to a place of enjoyment. Sorry, back to your question. 1136 01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:14,400 Speaker 1: I sent it to Angela. It was it was something 1137 01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:18,479 Speaker 1: about cheating men. A man cheating, Um doesn't mean he 1138 01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:20,600 Speaker 1: doesn't love you? Or how can he say that he 1139 01:10:20,680 --> 01:10:23,320 Speaker 1: loves you? And I don't know and Cheatah? How can 1140 01:10:23,360 --> 01:10:24,519 Speaker 1: a man look you in your eyes, tell you that 1141 01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:26,200 Speaker 1: he loves you and be cheating on you the whole time? 1142 01:10:26,600 --> 01:10:28,679 Speaker 1: Does a man cheating on you mean that he doesn't 1143 01:10:28,680 --> 01:10:30,920 Speaker 1: love you? If a man is cheating on you, he 1144 01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:35,439 Speaker 1: probably doesn't love you. That was the BOTM. I just 1145 01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:37,720 Speaker 1: job because these guys would be like, I love you. 1146 01:10:37,920 --> 01:10:41,200 Speaker 1: It didn't mean anything, you know, that's usually what they say. 1147 01:10:41,320 --> 01:10:46,439 Speaker 1: I ain't never cheating on somebody I didn't love. Wow, Okay, 1148 01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:48,840 Speaker 1: Well for all the guys out there cheating on your 1149 01:10:48,880 --> 01:10:53,400 Speaker 1: girlfriends right now, I don't know because men are built differently. 1150 01:10:54,479 --> 01:10:57,800 Speaker 1: I don't. I can't believe because I've had a guy 1151 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:01,360 Speaker 1: that cheated on me, and once I found out he 1152 01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:04,160 Speaker 1: cheated on me, and I decided that I was going 1153 01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:08,120 Speaker 1: to remove myself from the relationship. He's straightened his ass up, 1154 01:11:08,640 --> 01:11:11,640 Speaker 1: you know, he finally admitted to all the things that 1155 01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:13,639 Speaker 1: you were doing, and he just never thought he would 1156 01:11:14,000 --> 01:11:17,400 Speaker 1: get caught. You know. 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