Speaker 1: Second date, up date. We've read some articles lately where
Speaker 1: more and more people are getting offline and trying to
Speaker 1: meet people. IRL.
Speaker 2: I'm glad you added line to the end of that
Speaker 2: sentence out in.
Speaker 1: The real world trying to find people to date. But
Speaker 1: question is like, where do you go? Because Jose's already
Speaker 1: locked down all the taco bells and free clinics in
Speaker 1: his area. Oh yeah, so what's left for the rest
Speaker 1: of us dudes. Well, one of our listeners says he
Speaker 1: figured out the untapped hotspot where no guys are going yet,
Speaker 1: but high quality women are all around him, So let's
Speaker 1: find out where this is. Welcome to the show, Scott.
Speaker 1: How you doing, man, I'm doing good.
Speaker 3: How you guys doing?
Speaker 4: Why do I have a feeling Scott that the women
Speaker 4: don't want you wherever you're going? I mean, if it's
Speaker 4: all women, it's usually like mean to be that way.
Speaker 4: I'm imagining he's in a bed with like ten women surrounding.
Speaker 5: Him right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't make fun of me until you hear what
Speaker 3: I have to say.
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you, are you out here?
Speaker 1: You do reserve the right to make fun of you.
Speaker 1: Where do you go to find single available women?
Speaker 3: Okay, where I go my secret? I go to te shops,
Speaker 3: the beverage tea Okay.
Speaker 4: Those are women dominated. I don't know that I've been
Speaker 4: in a T shop. Are the women like your age?
Speaker 4: Like old women.
Speaker 3: Are like the thing? Right now? It's really trendy, Like
Speaker 3: a lot of young people are at tea shop.
Speaker 4: Okay, I want to go to one.
Speaker 1: It's kind of health forward to where.
Speaker 4: Are you picking up your loose leaf?
Speaker 5: Huh?
Speaker 4: Is that what you're doing? Yeah, I'm just trying to
Speaker 4: get in on the trends. I'm fine with men in
Speaker 4: they're just not broken.
Speaker 1: So how does this work? Picking up girls at the
Speaker 1: T shop?
Speaker 3: All right? Well, I have I have a bit of
Speaker 3: a system.
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you do?
Speaker 3: I go to a tea shop. I go after work
Speaker 3: and like the you know, late afternoon okay, Okay, got
Speaker 3: a little notebook and I just sit down kind of
Speaker 3: in the middle area, you know, like sort of in
Speaker 3: a big open neutral area.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, So you're sitting clearly in plain sight of everybody.
Speaker 1: That's your plan, and.
Speaker 3: Basically you make yourself visible. Okay, and you've got your
Speaker 3: notebook out there, like, oh, what's you working on? Women?
Speaker 3: Just get curious. Oh wait a.
Speaker 4: Minute, Okay, so you look uninterested in them.
Speaker 1: In them, and you you're smart, you're writing that.
Speaker 3: He knows how to write.
Speaker 4: He's just signing his name over and over again in
Speaker 4: the books.
Speaker 1: They don't know. Does that work for you a lot? Scott?
Speaker 3: Yeah, usually just sort of say I'm a part time
Speaker 3: writer for a magazine.
Speaker 4: I'm not you lie? Why do you lie? Why do
Speaker 4: you just say?
Speaker 1: Well, did you hear do you see how Alexis perked
Speaker 1: up when you said.
Speaker 2: Magazine to be featured in the magazine? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Clearly.
Speaker 4: Do they ever ask you what magazine and you write for?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Usually I'm just like, oh, you know, it's like
Speaker 3: a poetry magazine. I like that they wouldn't know.
Speaker 6: Problem I see a poetry magazine that likes romantic just
Speaker 6: get better.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're clearly trying to disarm these ones. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I don't know about the lie, but the rest of
Speaker 2: it sounds okay to me. How many times does this
Speaker 2: worked that you've actually met someone this way?
Speaker 3: It's worked in terms of like an icebreaker, But there's
Speaker 3: only been one time where I've like really gotten stuck
Speaker 3: on somebody that I really.
Speaker 1: Liked hopefully that's the one that we're calling today.
Speaker 3: Her name is kN Zach ken Zach.
Speaker 2: Okay, it couldn't decide between Kendall and Zack Kenzy.
Speaker 1: Maybe you know, how did you and ken Zach come
Speaker 1: to be?
Speaker 3: Well, you know, she was by herself there. I was
Speaker 3: by myself there, And one of my things that I
Speaker 3: do is I ask when I order tea for extra
Speaker 3: lemon slices, so in case someone doesn't have a lemon place,
Speaker 3: I can offer them one.
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever heard a guy say, hey,
Speaker 1: do you need some extra lemon slices? I've got some
Speaker 1: for you shop.
Speaker 4: Is that Is that what you use on ken Zach?
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I absolutely offered her a lemon slice, and
Speaker 3: that's what started the talking. Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean, I think if you're at a bar with
Speaker 2: the vodka soda and someone offers you lime, you're all
Speaker 2: about it.
Speaker 4: It was kind of the same thing. I just tried
Speaker 4: so hard to relate.
Speaker 1: But it's weird if a guy that pulls a line
Speaker 1: out of his pocket and gives me okay, check of approval.
Speaker 1: So she took your lemon slice and then you two
Speaker 1: were on the path to love.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we talked for a guy. I don't like twenty
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, but longer than like strangers at a tea
Speaker 3: shot normally would would talk.
Speaker 4: Like, okay, it felt like a date. You didn't go
Speaker 4: out again after this?
Speaker 3: Well here's the thing. Hey, let's hang out again sometime,
Speaker 3: but I got to run. I have a deadline. It's
Speaker 3: good to tell people you have a deadline. It makes
Speaker 3: you seem important.
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm smart.
Speaker 1: It's not your first roadio.
Speaker 3: Okay. And then we exchanged numbers and we hung out
Speaker 3: one time after that at a different tea place.
Speaker 4: Did did tea again?
Speaker 3: Yeah, we were at one time, but it's like kind
Speaker 3: of didn't count because it was really short.
Speaker 1: How sure are we talking?
Speaker 3: Like within ten minutes? But she got a text and
Speaker 3: said it was an emergency and she had to leave.
Speaker 3: And that's the laugh i've heard of her.
Speaker 1: Oh that's hardly anything even accomplish in that time.
Speaker 2: Maybe when she first met you, she was tea drunk
Speaker 2: and she had those tea goggles on.
Speaker 4: I didn't know what you really looked like drinks.
Speaker 3: Why am open to all possibilities here?
Speaker 6: Okay, even if you're not on some long all right,
Speaker 6: you're just adding more words that the editors are going
Speaker 6: to have to cut out of just before we send
Speaker 6: it on to any of this.
Speaker 2: Don't don't do not end this by saying we're going
Speaker 2: to get the tea next I'm done.
Speaker 4: I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: That might give for a while and don't come back.
Speaker 1: But sorry, Scott, back to you. How long has it
Speaker 1: been since that last date happened, that ten minute date?
Speaker 3: Like two weeks.
Speaker 4: There's been Yeah, no follow up up?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: Do you believe in the emergency or do you think
Speaker 2: it's as real as your magazine writing?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I want to believe it. You know, maybe like
Speaker 3: she had a real emergency, like someone passed away and
Speaker 3: she's just been dealing with that and like doesn't have
Speaker 3: time for me. Like like if that's what it is,
Speaker 3: I want to know that, so like I could be
Speaker 3: there for her if I need to be. But also
Speaker 3: it can like ease my stress about it.
Speaker 1: That's right. Okay, Sorry to end it on a sad note,
Speaker 1: but we're gonna bring it back up. Do your second
Speaker 1: date update with ken Zach. Right after this second date update,
Speaker 1: I was looking for music to play for a tea house,
Speaker 1: and I'm sure we could find something. This is what
Speaker 1: I came up with, old like Chinese ancient music.
Speaker 4: This is an old English English.
Speaker 1: I had dis labeled this coffee house in the system, which.
Speaker 4: Is different than I should label it nap time.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 1: It's a sleepy piano, ye turn up. Yeah, it's not
Speaker 1: good enough, I know that. But this team movement is
Speaker 1: just so far ahead of us. We're late to the game. Yeah,
Speaker 1: because one of our listeners, Scott. So that's how he
Speaker 1: meets women lately. He goes out to tea shops posts
Speaker 1: up right in the middle with a notebook out and
Speaker 1: tells the ladies that he's a writer for some fancy
Speaker 1: poetry magazine.
Speaker 2: Which nobody questions because nobody can actually name a poetry magazine. Ye.
Speaker 1: No, he just makes him sound sophisticated and deep. You
Speaker 1: ever heard of poetry magazine. That's how he met a
Speaker 1: woman named ken Zach recently ended up turning that into
Speaker 1: a second tea time hangout. Second one ended kind of quickly, though,
Speaker 1: so hopefully we can get ken Zack back on the
Speaker 1: phone and get this parties started.
Speaker 2: That was my one time already, and that was kind
Speaker 2: of cute, But that was literally sitting.
Speaker 1: Down with tea. So Scott, we've got all our jokes
Speaker 1: out of the way. How are you feeling.
Speaker 3: I'm killing all right, doing pretty good.
Speaker 4: Okay, are you gonna have your pinky up when you
Speaker 4: make this call?
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be as classy as I can be. I'll
Speaker 3: tell you that.
Speaker 1: Okay, glossy, but don't be chy.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's good. Can I ask her real quick?
Speaker 2: In all honestly, do you think she Google searched your
Speaker 2: name and figured out you're not a writer?
Speaker 3: Not ten minutes into the day.
Speaker 4: Not ten minutes into the day. Wait, why would you
Speaker 4: show up for this? Yeah, that's true, that's true.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, we won't out you. I mean you're gonna
Speaker 2: be out it at some point.
Speaker 1: On her own.
Speaker 4: So I can't keep up that line for too long.
Speaker 1: Brook has anymore of her spiked teas. You don't know
Speaker 1: what she's gonna say in a second. But here we go.
Speaker 1: Let's call Ken's I keep forgeting her name, ken Zach.
Speaker 1: We're called ken Zach. Let's see what she has to say.
Speaker 3: Here we go.
Speaker 1: Hell else, Hi, we're looking to speak with ken Zach.
Speaker 4: Sorry?
Speaker 5: Who is this?
Speaker 1: This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning at Kenzach. The whole show is here, is
Speaker 1: this ken Zach?
Speaker 5: Uh? Yeah, I'm kind of busy. I don't know if
Speaker 5: I what is this about.
Speaker 1: Oh, that's okay, we're real quick. Yeah, we're gonna make
Speaker 1: this real fast. We're doing something called a second Date Update,
Speaker 1: and we're trying to help out one of our listeners
Speaker 1: get back in touch with you after you went on
Speaker 1: a couple of dates with him.
Speaker 5: Okay, I don't I don't know, Like, do you have
Speaker 5: a name? Who is it for?
Speaker 3: It was?
Speaker 1: It was a few weeks ago that you last met
Speaker 1: up with him. His name is Scott.
Speaker 5: Do you remember, Oh, you mean the guy that I blocked, Yes.
Speaker 3: Blocked him.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, the guy from the tee shop, the very one.
Speaker 4: Wait a minute, he said.
Speaker 2: You left the date like the second time you guys
Speaker 2: hung out ten minutes in.
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh so you talked to him.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We have a little bit of background before we
Speaker 1: call you, just to try and figure out, like what
Speaker 1: happened on your date.
Speaker 5: And can I asked, like what he told you?
Speaker 1: What's the bullet point? Reta two dates at teahouses separately.
Speaker 2: The first time you guys talked for twenty third minutes
Speaker 2: and seemed to really connect.
Speaker 1: And the second one you left after about ten minutes
Speaker 1: because you got a text.
Speaker 5: Right, Okay, Well, so basically, I mean I don't know
Speaker 5: if the first one was like we met at the
Speaker 5: teahouse and like talked for a little while and then
Speaker 5: we decided to hang out again. So he got to
Speaker 5: the second hang before I did, and already like got
Speaker 5: the tea and had it on his table.
Speaker 4: So I did you think that was rude that he
Speaker 4: had already ordered without you?
Speaker 5: I was a little surprised, but like it wasn't a
Speaker 5: huge like that's not a wasn't a deal breaker for
Speaker 5: me or anything.
Speaker 4: Okay, So that's that's not the reason.
Speaker 1: Well, we're trying to help him figure out if there
Speaker 1: was some sort of issue that happened.
Speaker 5: So basically we chat for a few minutes and then
Speaker 5: I turned to look up. There's like a menu on
Speaker 5: the wall that's like facing away from it's like away
Speaker 5: from where I'm sitting. So I'm like turning away from
Speaker 5: the table and looking at the menu, Okay, And when
Speaker 5: I turned back around, I don't think he was like
Speaker 5: quite ready for me to turn back around.
Speaker 1: What what do you mean?
Speaker 5: Because I well, so, like I turn around and I
Speaker 5: noticed him like he was dropping a blue pill into
Speaker 5: his tea.
Speaker 1: Into his into his own tea.
Speaker 5: Huh yeah, well I didn't have one yet.
Speaker 1: Would what kind.
Speaker 4: Of expectations would you have it at tea date?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 5: That was my question. I was like, I don't know
Speaker 5: what he's expecting to happen, but like that immediately threw
Speaker 5: me off.
Speaker 4: Are you sure it wasn't like a sugar cube or
Speaker 4: you know something that.
Speaker 1: Maybe you just a normal multi vitamin perhaps.
Speaker 4: But why wouldn't you just take it? Why did you
Speaker 4: dissolve it in your teeth?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: I had all those same questions. It's definitely threw me off.
Speaker 5: But I was like, maybe I didn't see what I
Speaker 5: thought I saw. Maybe it was or something. So I'm
Speaker 5: like trying to keep the conversation going, And a few
Speaker 5: minutes later he tells me like, hey, like it's coke.
Speaker 5: I just got the backseat of my car upholstered. We
Speaker 5: could go check it out.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, how could.
Speaker 4: You be so unclassy? Show what?
Speaker 1: You don't believe him? You don't think he really got
Speaker 1: his car reupholster.
Speaker 4: Who cares to see that?
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 5: It was very odd and it sounded like a line.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I just very awkwardly pretended I had.
Speaker 1: I think we can all definitely see how that looks bad.
Speaker 1: But there is a chance that a totally logical, reasonable
Speaker 1: explanation exists.
Speaker 4: For this, the really honest guy totally.
Speaker 1: And he just happens to be on the other line
Speaker 1: right now listening to this. Cally stops there.
Speaker 3: Hey, hey, ken Zach, have it going?
Speaker 4: Did you just hear what she said?
Speaker 3: Is that what you think you saw me putting a
Speaker 3: pill in the drink?
Speaker 5: What I think I saw? Are you saying like, I
Speaker 5: don't know what I saw?
Speaker 3: What do you think you saw?
Speaker 4: Why is getting higher there? Man?
Speaker 1: I think he's like trying an exit strategy right now.
Speaker 5: Honestly, this is not really helping your case right now.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I.
Speaker 5: Think I saw.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's weird. I don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't know, do you recall any of the details
Speaker 1: of like putting something into your own tea? I mean,
Speaker 1: I wish you could just say it was a skittle
Speaker 1: or something like.
Speaker 4: There's no blue skittles eminent someone.
Speaker 5: I would love to hear a different explanation of what
Speaker 5: it was.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what happens interesting?
Speaker 4: How long it's taken to you to what.
Speaker 1: Was happening in your mind? Scott?
Speaker 4: Okay, here give it to Scott.
Speaker 1: It's a long story. He needs a big breath. It's
Speaker 1: the story, man, Go ahead, Scott? What was going on?
Speaker 3: I just don't know why you'd be offended by someone
Speaker 3: who just wanted to be prepared. Why always be ready?
Speaker 3: That's my motto.
Speaker 1: You can't walk.
Speaker 6: Around always ready like that.
Speaker 2: Shop.
Speaker 4: That's so gross.
Speaker 1: That's objectively not good.
Speaker 2: Date behavior, and it's such a turn off.
Speaker 3: You know, journalists got to learn things.
Speaker 5: Were a poet?
Speaker 4: Are you honest about anything? Scott?
Speaker 3: I really did have the back seat of my car reupholstered.
Speaker 3: It's really nice back there.
Speaker 1: He wasn't all right?
Speaker 4: Well, why was it bad to begin with?
Speaker 1: Back there?
Speaker 3: I just like to treat people right. I don't know
Speaker 3: what the problem is, Okay, it will never happen in
Speaker 3: the backseat to treat anyone right.
Speaker 1: We don't know that until we have because we always
Speaker 1: we always time, we always offer to send out for
Speaker 1: to send you guys out for a second date. That
Speaker 1: we would pay for.
Speaker 3: I didn't know that you saw what you saw. It
Speaker 3: was supposed to be just chill, herbal.
Speaker 1: Tea and chill.
Speaker 3: I would love to hang out again, if you're.
Speaker 4: Up for it, she interrupted.
Speaker 1: Them, Scott that that's going to be a no. It
Speaker 1: sounds like I'm sorry she saw too much?
Speaker 4: What are you doing man for me?
Speaker 5: Why did you wait till I got there?
Speaker 1: You walk into the freaking shop that she walks in?
Speaker 1: He said, like, full attention.
Speaker 3: You gotta plan these things out.
Speaker 4: You didn't.
Speaker 1: All right, we've learned. We've learned some stuff, Scott, too much.
Speaker 4: I don't want to learn it anymore. That's enough of
Speaker 4: a lesson. I'm not going to That was too much tea.
Speaker 2: Too much tea was too hot, freaking Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: In the that's the problem with people who stretch the truth.
Speaker 1: You're ride and hide talking about a job that you
Speaker 1: don't even have, and that the first bump in the road.
Speaker 1: Suddenly you're flailing trying to come up with an explanation
Speaker 1: for the performance enhancing pills you've slipped into your own
Speaker 1: cam A meal tea.
Speaker 4: It's still so.
Speaker 1: It's why.
Speaker 2: It's daytime and a t shot I.
Speaker 1: Mean, sometimes things sound good to you in your mind
Speaker 1: in the moment, and then you do it and you're like,
Speaker 1: I was so stupid, Why.
Speaker 4: Did I do that? You can't get it?
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm just going to go into details that I
Speaker 2: don't need to go into.
Speaker 4: I just I hope he learned his lesson. Yes, you know,
Speaker 4: that's what I hope.
Speaker 1: That is the goal of these segments is if we
Speaker 1: can't get you a second date, will at least try
Speaker 1: and get you something to work on yourself. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: don't put pills in your own teeth.
Speaker 4: On yourself.
Speaker 1: Not the message everybody needs, but at least somebody had
Speaker 1: to hear.
Speaker 4: It's like those laws and you're like, who did this?
Speaker 1: There's a sign of this shop now no bill.
Speaker 4: Yeah, one of those moments.
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