WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mr. Tea and the Not-So Secret Drop

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. We've read some articles lately where

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<v Speaker 1>more and more people are getting offline and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>meet people. IRL.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad you added line to the end of that

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<v Speaker 2>sentence out in.

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<v Speaker 1>The real world trying to find people to date. But

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<v Speaker 1>question is like, where do you go? Because Jose's already

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<v Speaker 1>locked down all the taco bells and free clinics in

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<v Speaker 1>his area. Oh yeah, so what's left for the rest

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<v Speaker 1>of us dudes. Well, one of our listeners says he

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<v Speaker 1>figured out the untapped hotspot where no guys are going yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but high quality women are all around him, So let's

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<v Speaker 1>find out where this is. Welcome to the show, Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, man, I'm doing good.

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<v Speaker 3>How you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Why do I have a feeling Scott that the women

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<v Speaker 4>don't want you wherever you're going? I mean, if it's

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<v Speaker 4>all women, it's usually like mean to be that way.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm imagining he's in a bed with like ten women surrounding.

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<v Speaker 5>Him right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, don't make fun of me until you hear what

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<v Speaker 3>I have to say.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, thank you, are you out here?

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<v Speaker 1>You do reserve the right to make fun of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Where do you go to find single available women?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, where I go my secret? I go to te shops,

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<v Speaker 3>the beverage tea Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are women dominated. I don't know that I've been

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<v Speaker 4>in a T shop. Are the women like your age?

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<v Speaker 4>Like old women.

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<v Speaker 3>Are like the thing? Right now? It's really trendy, Like

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of young people are at tea shop.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I want to go to one.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind of health forward to where.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you picking up your loose leaf?

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<v Speaker 5>Huh?

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<v Speaker 4>Is that what you're doing? Yeah, I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 4>get in on the trends. I'm fine with men in

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<v Speaker 4>they're just not broken.

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<v Speaker 1>So how does this work? Picking up girls at the

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<v Speaker 1>T shop?

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<v Speaker 3>All right? Well, I have I have a bit of

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<v Speaker 3>a system.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what do you do?

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<v Speaker 3>I go to a tea shop. I go after work

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<v Speaker 3>and like the you know, late afternoon okay, Okay, got

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<v Speaker 3>a little notebook and I just sit down kind of

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<v Speaker 3>in the middle area, you know, like sort of in

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<v Speaker 3>a big open neutral area.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, So you're sitting clearly in plain sight of everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>That's your plan, and.

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<v Speaker 3>Basically you make yourself visible. Okay, and you've got your

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<v Speaker 3>notebook out there, like, oh, what's you working on? Women?

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<v Speaker 3>Just get curious. Oh wait a.

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<v Speaker 4>Minute, Okay, so you look uninterested in them.

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<v Speaker 1>In them, and you you're smart, you're writing that.

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<v Speaker 3>He knows how to write.

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<v Speaker 4>He's just signing his name over and over again in

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<v Speaker 4>the books.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't know. Does that work for you a lot? Scott?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, usually just sort of say I'm a part time

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<v Speaker 3>writer for a magazine.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not you lie? Why do you lie? Why do

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<v Speaker 4>you just say?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, did you hear do you see how Alexis perked

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<v Speaker 1>up when you said.

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<v Speaker 2>Magazine to be featured in the magazine? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly.

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<v Speaker 4>Do they ever ask you what magazine and you write for?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Usually I'm just like, oh, you know, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>a poetry magazine. I like that they wouldn't know.

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<v Speaker 6>Problem I see a poetry magazine that likes romantic just

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<v Speaker 6>get better.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're clearly trying to disarm these ones. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know about the lie, but the rest of

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<v Speaker 2>it sounds okay to me. How many times does this

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<v Speaker 2>worked that you've actually met someone this way?

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<v Speaker 3>It's worked in terms of like an icebreaker, But there's

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<v Speaker 3>only been one time where I've like really gotten stuck

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<v Speaker 3>on somebody that I really.

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<v Speaker 1>Liked hopefully that's the one that we're calling today.

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<v Speaker 3>Her name is kN Zach ken Zach.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it couldn't decide between Kendall and Zack Kenzy.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you know, how did you and ken Zach come

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<v Speaker 1>to be?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, she was by herself there. I was

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<v Speaker 3>by myself there, And one of my things that I

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<v Speaker 3>do is I ask when I order tea for extra

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<v Speaker 3>lemon slices, so in case someone doesn't have a lemon place,

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<v Speaker 3>I can offer them one.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've ever heard a guy say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you need some extra lemon slices? I've got some

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<v Speaker 1>for you shop.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that Is that what you use on ken Zach?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? No, I absolutely offered her a lemon slice, and

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<v Speaker 3>that's what started the talking. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think if you're at a bar with

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<v Speaker 2>the vodka soda and someone offers you lime, you're all

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<v Speaker 2>about it.

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<v Speaker 4>It was kind of the same thing. I just tried

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<v Speaker 4>so hard to relate.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's weird if a guy that pulls a line

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<v Speaker 1>out of his pocket and gives me okay, check of approval.

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<v Speaker 1>So she took your lemon slice and then you two

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<v Speaker 1>were on the path to love.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we talked for a guy. I don't like twenty

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<v Speaker 3>thirty minutes, but longer than like strangers at a tea

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<v Speaker 3>shot normally would would talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, okay, it felt like a date. You didn't go

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<v Speaker 4>out again after this?

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<v Speaker 3>Well here's the thing. Hey, let's hang out again sometime,

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<v Speaker 3>but I got to run. I have a deadline. It's

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<v Speaker 3>good to tell people you have a deadline. It makes

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<v Speaker 3>you seem important.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I'm smart.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not your first roadio.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. And then we exchanged numbers and we hung out

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<v Speaker 3>one time after that at a different tea place.

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<v Speaker 4>Did did tea again?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we were at one time, but it's like kind

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<v Speaker 3>of didn't count because it was really short.

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<v Speaker 1>How sure are we talking?

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<v Speaker 3>Like within ten minutes? But she got a text and

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<v Speaker 3>said it was an emergency and she had to leave.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's the laugh i've heard of her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's hardly anything even accomplish in that time.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe when she first met you, she was tea drunk

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<v Speaker 2>and she had those tea goggles on.

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't know what you really looked like drinks.

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<v Speaker 3>Why am open to all possibilities here?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, even if you're not on some long all right,

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<v Speaker 6>you're just adding more words that the editors are going

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<v Speaker 6>to have to cut out of just before we send

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<v Speaker 6>it on to any of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't don't do not end this by saying we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to get the tea next I'm done.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>That might give for a while and don't come back.

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<v Speaker 1>But sorry, Scott, back to you. How long has it

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<v Speaker 1>been since that last date happened, that ten minute date?

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<v Speaker 3>Like two weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>There's been Yeah, no follow up up?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you believe in the emergency or do you think

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<v Speaker 2>it's as real as your magazine writing?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? I want to believe it. You know, maybe like

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<v Speaker 3>she had a real emergency, like someone passed away and

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<v Speaker 3>she's just been dealing with that and like doesn't have

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<v Speaker 3>time for me. Like like if that's what it is,

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<v Speaker 3>I want to know that, so like I could be

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<v Speaker 3>there for her if I need to be. But also

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<v Speaker 3>it can like ease my stress about it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. Okay, Sorry to end it on a sad note,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're gonna bring it back up. Do your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update with ken Zach. Right after this second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking for music to play for a tea house,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm sure we could find something. This is what

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<v Speaker 1>I came up with, old like Chinese ancient music.

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<v Speaker 4>This is an old English English.

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<v Speaker 1>I had dis labeled this coffee house in the system, which.

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<v Speaker 4>Is different than I should label it nap time.

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<v Speaker 5>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a sleepy piano, ye turn up. Yeah, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>good enough, I know that. But this team movement is

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<v Speaker 1>just so far ahead of us. We're late to the game. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners, Scott. So that's how he

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<v Speaker 1>meets women lately. He goes out to tea shops posts

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<v Speaker 1>up right in the middle with a notebook out and

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<v Speaker 1>tells the ladies that he's a writer for some fancy

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<v Speaker 1>poetry magazine.

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<v Speaker 2>Which nobody questions because nobody can actually name a poetry magazine. Ye.

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<v Speaker 1>No, he just makes him sound sophisticated and deep. You

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard of poetry magazine. That's how he met a

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<v Speaker 1>woman named ken Zach recently ended up turning that into

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<v Speaker 1>a second tea time hangout. Second one ended kind of quickly, though,

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<v Speaker 1>so hopefully we can get ken Zack back on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and get this parties started.

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<v Speaker 2>That was my one time already, and that was kind

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<v Speaker 2>of cute, But that was literally sitting.

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<v Speaker 1>Down with tea. So Scott, we've got all our jokes

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<v Speaker 1>out of the way. How are you feeling.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm killing all right, doing pretty good.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, are you gonna have your pinky up when you

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<v Speaker 4>make this call?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be as classy as I can be. I'll

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<v Speaker 3>tell you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, glossy, but don't be chy.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's good. Can I ask her real quick?

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<v Speaker 2>In all honestly, do you think she Google searched your

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<v Speaker 2>name and figured out you're not a writer?

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<v Speaker 3>Not ten minutes into the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Not ten minutes into the day. Wait, why would you

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<v Speaker 4>show up for this? Yeah, that's true, that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, we won't out you. I mean you're gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be out it at some point.

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<v Speaker 1>On her own.

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<v Speaker 4>So I can't keep up that line for too long.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook has anymore of her spiked teas. You don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what she's gonna say in a second. But here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's call Ken's I keep forgeting her name, ken Zach.

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<v Speaker 1>We're called ken Zach. Let's see what she has to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell else, Hi, we're looking to speak with ken Zach.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 5>Who is this?

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<v Speaker 1>This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning at Kenzach. The whole show is here, is

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<v Speaker 1>this ken Zach?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh? Yeah, I'm kind of busy. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 5>I what is this about.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's okay, we're real quick. Yeah, we're gonna make

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<v Speaker 1>this real fast. We're doing something called a second Date Update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're trying to help out one of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>get back in touch with you after you went on

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of dates with him.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, I don't I don't know, Like, do you have

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<v Speaker 5>a name? Who is it for?

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<v Speaker 3>It was?

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<v Speaker 1>It was a few weeks ago that you last met

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<v Speaker 1>up with him. His name is Scott.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you remember, Oh, you mean the guy that I blocked, Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Blocked him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, the guy from the tee shop, the very one.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait a minute, he said.

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<v Speaker 2>You left the date like the second time you guys

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<v Speaker 2>hung out ten minutes in.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, oh so you talked to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. We have a little bit of background before we

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<v Speaker 1>call you, just to try and figure out, like what

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<v Speaker 1>happened on your date.

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<v Speaker 5>And can I asked, like what he told you?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the bullet point? Reta two dates at teahouses separately.

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<v Speaker 2>The first time you guys talked for twenty third minutes

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<v Speaker 2>and seemed to really connect.

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<v Speaker 1>And the second one you left after about ten minutes

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<v Speaker 1>because you got a text.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Okay, Well, so basically, I mean I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>if the first one was like we met at the

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<v Speaker 5>teahouse and like talked for a little while and then

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<v Speaker 5>we decided to hang out again. So he got to

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<v Speaker 5>the second hang before I did, and already like got

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<v Speaker 5>the tea and had it on his table.

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<v Speaker 4>So I did you think that was rude that he

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<v Speaker 4>had already ordered without you?

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<v Speaker 5>I was a little surprised, but like it wasn't a

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<v Speaker 5>huge like that's not a wasn't a deal breaker for

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<v Speaker 5>me or anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So that's that's not the reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we're trying to help him figure out if there

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<v Speaker 1>was some sort of issue that happened.

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<v Speaker 5>So basically we chat for a few minutes and then

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<v Speaker 5>I turned to look up. There's like a menu on

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<v Speaker 5>the wall that's like facing away from it's like away

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<v Speaker 5>from where I'm sitting. So I'm like turning away from

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<v Speaker 5>the table and looking at the menu, Okay, And when

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<v Speaker 5>I turned back around, I don't think he was like

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<v Speaker 5>quite ready for me to turn back around.

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 5>Because I well, so, like I turn around and I

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<v Speaker 5>noticed him like he was dropping a blue pill into

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<v Speaker 5>his tea.

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<v Speaker 1>Into his into his own tea.

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<v Speaker 5>Huh yeah, well I didn't have one yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Would what kind.

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<v Speaker 4>Of expectations would you have it at tea date?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 5>That was my question. I was like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>what he's expecting to happen, but like that immediately threw

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<v Speaker 5>me off.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you sure it wasn't like a sugar cube or

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<v Speaker 4>you know something that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you just a normal multi vitamin perhaps.

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<v Speaker 4>But why wouldn't you just take it? Why did you

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<v Speaker 4>dissolve it in your teeth?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I had all those same questions. It's definitely threw me off.

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<v Speaker 5>But I was like, maybe I didn't see what I

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<v Speaker 5>thought I saw. Maybe it was or something. So I'm

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<v Speaker 5>like trying to keep the conversation going, And a few

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<v Speaker 5>minutes later he tells me like, hey, like it's coke.

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<v Speaker 5>I just got the backseat of my car upholstered. We

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<v Speaker 5>could go check it out.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, how could.

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<v Speaker 4>You be so unclassy? Show what?

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<v Speaker 1>You don't believe him? You don't think he really got

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<v Speaker 1>his car reupholster.

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<v Speaker 4>Who cares to see that?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It was very odd and it sounded like a line.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I just very awkwardly pretended I had.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we can all definitely see how that looks bad.

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<v Speaker 1>But there is a chance that a totally logical, reasonable

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<v Speaker 1>explanation exists.

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<v Speaker 4>For this, the really honest guy totally.

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<v Speaker 1>And he just happens to be on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>right now listening to this. Cally stops there.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, hey, ken Zach, have it going?

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<v Speaker 4>Did you just hear what she said?

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<v Speaker 3>Is that what you think you saw me putting a

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<v Speaker 3>pill in the drink?

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<v Speaker 5>What I think I saw? Are you saying like, I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know what I saw?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you think you saw?

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<v Speaker 4>Why is getting higher there? Man?

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's like trying an exit strategy right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, this is not really helping your case right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I.

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<v Speaker 5>Think I saw.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's that's weird. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know, do you recall any of the details

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<v Speaker 1>of like putting something into your own tea? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you could just say it was a skittle

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<v Speaker 1>or something like.

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<v Speaker 4>There's no blue skittles eminent someone.

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<v Speaker 5>I would love to hear a different explanation of what

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<v Speaker 5>it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what happens interesting?

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<v Speaker 4>How long it's taken to you to what.

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<v Speaker 1>Was happening in your mind? Scott?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, here give it to Scott.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a long story. He needs a big breath. It's

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<v Speaker 1>the story, man, Go ahead, Scott? What was going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I just don't know why you'd be offended by someone

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<v Speaker 3>who just wanted to be prepared. Why always be ready?

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<v Speaker 3>That's my motto.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't walk.

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<v Speaker 6>Around always ready like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Shop.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so gross.

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<v Speaker 1>That's objectively not good.

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<v Speaker 2>Date behavior, and it's such a turn off.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, journalists got to learn things.

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<v Speaker 5>Were a poet?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you honest about anything? Scott?

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<v Speaker 3>I really did have the back seat of my car reupholstered.

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<v Speaker 3>It's really nice back there.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't all right?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, why was it bad to begin with?

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<v Speaker 1>Back there?

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<v Speaker 3>I just like to treat people right. I don't know

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<v Speaker 3>what the problem is, Okay, it will never happen in

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<v Speaker 3>the backseat to treat anyone right.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know that until we have because we always

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<v Speaker 1>we always time, we always offer to send out for

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<v Speaker 1>to send you guys out for a second date. That

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<v Speaker 1>we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know that you saw what you saw. It

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<v Speaker 3>was supposed to be just chill, herbal.

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<v Speaker 1>Tea and chill.

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to hang out again, if you're.

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<v Speaker 4>Up for it, she interrupted.

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<v Speaker 1>Them, Scott that that's going to be a no. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like I'm sorry she saw too much?

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<v Speaker 4>What are you doing man for me?

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<v Speaker 5>Why did you wait till I got there?

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<v Speaker 1>You walk into the freaking shop that she walks in?

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<v Speaker 1>He said, like, full attention.

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<v Speaker 3>You gotta plan these things out.

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<v Speaker 4>You didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we've learned. We've learned some stuff, Scott, too much.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to learn it anymore. That's enough of

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<v Speaker 4>a lesson. I'm not going to That was too much tea.

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<v Speaker 2>Too much tea was too hot, freaking Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>In the that's the problem with people who stretch the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ride and hide talking about a job that you

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<v Speaker 1>don't even have, and that the first bump in the road.

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<v Speaker 1>Suddenly you're flailing trying to come up with an explanation

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<v Speaker 1>for the performance enhancing pills you've slipped into your own

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<v Speaker 1>cam A meal tea.

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<v Speaker 4>It's still so.

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<v Speaker 1>It's why.

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<v Speaker 2>It's daytime and a t shot I.

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<v Speaker 1>Mean, sometimes things sound good to you in your mind

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<v Speaker 1>in the moment, and then you do it and you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was so stupid, Why.

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<v Speaker 4>Did I do that? You can't get it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm just going to go into details that I

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<v Speaker 2>don't need to go into.

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<v Speaker 4>I just I hope he learned his lesson. Yes, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I hope.

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<v Speaker 1>That is the goal of these segments is if we

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<v Speaker 1>can't get you a second date, will at least try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you something to work on yourself. Yeah, just

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<v Speaker 1>don't put pills in your own teeth.

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<v Speaker 4>On yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Not the message everybody needs, but at least somebody had

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<v Speaker 1>to hear.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like those laws and you're like, who did this?

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<v Speaker 1>There's a sign of this shop now no bill.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, one of those moments.

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<v Speaker 1>So make sure that you're emailing the show so we

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