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Speaker 1: radio stations. French Good Morning everybody. It is Tuesday, September thirteenth.

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Speaker 1: The French show is on six h six High Kaylin

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Speaker 1: owner Bonner, Jason Brown, Rufio Kaky's here. Good morning job Shelley.

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Speaker 1: In a little bit, let's see the first song of

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Speaker 1: the day. In just a second, the Entertainment Report and

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Speaker 1: trending stories headlines to start to your teasday all coming up?

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Speaker 1: What are you working on, Kaylin? Well, let's talk about

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Speaker 1: the Emmys. Shall we shall we we shall we Shall?

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Speaker 1: You actually watch a good amount idea of these. I

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Speaker 1: noticed that I noticed that I was sort of for once,

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Speaker 1: I kind of like knew what was going on one

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Speaker 1: of these awards shows. There's one that I've been telling

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Speaker 1: you to watch and you kind of have watched in

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Speaker 1: the middle watch it, but it was one of the

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Speaker 1: biggest winners. I hate to say it, people nobody listens.

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Speaker 1: I didn't watch it either. She's for the guy that

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Speaker 1: watches every thing I know, but normally the stuff I

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Speaker 1: watch doesn't want to winning any awards or being nominated.

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Speaker 1: And I read something today about how like a lot

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Speaker 1: of Americans think that these awards shows are ridiculous. I

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Speaker 1: kind of agree, Like I just I can't sit through

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Speaker 1: I can sit through the Grammys, I can sit through

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Speaker 1: any Awards show that has performances, but I have a

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Speaker 1: hard time with like just the speeches and the thing.

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Speaker 1: And I realized that somebody's greatest moment of their life

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Speaker 1: and the holy thing, I'm not, you know, I just

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Speaker 1: don't need to watch it. I think this is getting

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Speaker 1: woo woo. But I think, like society as a whole,

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Speaker 1: we're just like going through a change collectively, and like

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Speaker 1: these were realizing like what is stupid and what doesn't matter?

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like there's just it used

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Speaker 1: to be such a big deal and there weren't other

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Speaker 1: things to do or watch. And now I think that's why,

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Speaker 1: because when they're only four TV networks or whatever, I mean,

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Speaker 1: there are people listening who don't even know that. But

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Speaker 1: they didn't used to be cable, right, it was like

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Speaker 1: your only option. I always hit cable in my life,

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Speaker 1: but that you know, for a while, they're only like

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Speaker 1: a few channels you could watch and so and and

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Speaker 1: you didn't have social media and all of the overexposure

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Speaker 1: to celebrities, so that might be the only time you

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Speaker 1: would see them with their spouses or significant others or

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Speaker 1: whatever they're gonna wear, you know, So maybe that was

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Speaker 1: it was a big event, there was something to watch.

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Speaker 1: But now we see them every day on any number

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Speaker 1: of different platforms, and it's like, I just don't I

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Speaker 1: love the Red Carpet. I still watch that and then

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Speaker 1: I turn it right on off. But right on off

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Speaker 1: you say goodbye. That's another thing on a Friday eat

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Speaker 1: or so let's keep it real. First song of the

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Speaker 1: day French show. I've heard that Brits say Eric Pridds

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Speaker 1: and the Americans say Eric Princess. I'm going with Prids.

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Speaker 1: But sometimes it's one of those things like where you

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Speaker 1: say the way it's supposed to be, but then the

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Speaker 1: way that everyone else is, like the vernacular that everyone

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Speaker 1: else is adopted. Then you said, like the idiot, even

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Speaker 1: though you're saying it correctly. Like back when I was

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Speaker 1: doing Fogo Day shown commercials and they insisted I call

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Speaker 1: it Fogo Day Show own because that's the proper pronunciation.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. And I said to the marketing people,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, look, I get it. I get that. I

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Speaker 1: get that's what it's called, but that's not what it's called. Right,

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Speaker 1: we don't call it that? Could everybody calling me or

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Speaker 1: you know they're calling away? Well where'd I win? A

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Speaker 1: place too? Where'd I win? And when I get to

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Speaker 1: go have dinner? Wears a new spot, I'm like, no

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Speaker 1: fucking to chow you know where they like? Oh where

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Speaker 1: they call it meat? Right? Oh? My guy that places him.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I know it is, I know it was

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Speaker 1: the whole thing, but no, I'm just laughing. I'm watching

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Speaker 1: this video of Jason Brown this morning on our Instagram

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Speaker 1: frend show Radio. What um, what inspired this? Kiki? He said,

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Speaker 1: well he did right, yes, and where do we think?

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Speaker 1: There was almost an accidental crunch show. So I didn't

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Speaker 1: realize that you could see as far down on me

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Speaker 1: this morning because I didn't have any pants on. So

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Speaker 1: I was like, wait, let me rewatch. That looks like

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Speaker 1: some boxers and are you a boxer? Guy? I sleeping those?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I didn't know that boxer beats in the day,

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Speaker 1: boxers in the night. I feel like I know a

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Speaker 1: But the things I know about me and Kiki. It'll

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Speaker 1: even know because they're comfy. You talk to somebody, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I've been talking to a lot of you for a decade.

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Speaker 1: It's like, I don't know, it's just this stuff. I

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Speaker 1: just know stuff. Well, we all kinds of stuff. Wear

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Speaker 1: shirt to bed, yeah, I wear you guys know, I

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Speaker 1: a full outfit, and I wear the same I have

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Speaker 1: house clothes. Two red shirts that I wear. They're like

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Speaker 1: warned to crap. They're just like so warm, it's like

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Speaker 1: It was from the series video because when I'm at home.

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Speaker 1: It's like one of like three shirts I were because

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Speaker 1: they're just ratty and like they're so comfortable. I can't

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Speaker 1: the other one's got harambe on it. Yeah, yeah, they're

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Speaker 1: from I bought them at the same time. But you

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Speaker 1: decide what was going to be the house t shirts? Well,

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Speaker 1: because they're just so worn. I can't really wear them

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Speaker 1: like out, so you used to you retire them at one?

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Speaker 1: Retire them? Yeah? Can I get you some new house clothes?

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Speaker 1: You close? You can if you want. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: love house clothes, but I don't know, it's just it's

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Speaker 1: a comforting to me. And I washed them and I

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Speaker 1: they're so comfortable and I wear them at home and

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of upset when they need to be washed

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Speaker 1: because I can't wear them. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm also

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Speaker 1: the guy that will get completely naked in front of

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Speaker 1: the washing machine so that everything is in there, because

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Speaker 1: like it would bother me to do an entire load

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Speaker 1: of laundry, but then what I'm wearing would then go

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Speaker 1: in the hamper when that's done. So they were like

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Speaker 1: I hear the hampers empty, but then I'd be putting

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Speaker 1: Like I gotta do it all at once, so the hampers,

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Speaker 1: I need the hamper to be empty for a little while.

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Speaker 1: I just see him there, your tall self, tall naked itself. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you you wrap yourself naked like you're just walking

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Speaker 1: around for the whole cycle. So like today I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: to switch it to the drive. Well, I will for

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Speaker 1: this because that way I'm not getting anything dirty on

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Speaker 1: laundry day. That's like the end of like when I

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Speaker 1: do laundry, that's like the end of the cycle. Like

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Speaker 1: this the clothes cycle. You know what I'm saying, Like

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Speaker 1: I know not to wear this again because it's in

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Speaker 1: what I'm going for is the feeling of the empty hamper.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna I got a diswasher full of stuff.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home today. I'm gonna empty the dishwe

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Speaker 1: I forgot to start that last I'm gonna do the

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Speaker 1: the oh god, mine becomes a science project because I

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Speaker 1: use so few dishes. Yea, that like it's a science project.

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Speaker 1: But the wash it. Yeah, But then like I'll go

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Speaker 1: washing machine will be empty, you know, the dishwasher, and

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Speaker 1: then I'll be doing laundry, empty hamper, towels in there, everything,

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Speaker 1: And then I did my sheets yesterday, so then when

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Speaker 1: a day of like I have done all of my

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Speaker 1: laundry that I can possibly do. I understand that, But

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Speaker 1: why can't you just put on another like the house clothes,

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Speaker 1: because then at some point instead of walking around, well,

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's true. But no, but

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Speaker 1: but I've been wearing them. They're in the rotation, so

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Speaker 1: now they got to be washed because it's the end

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Speaker 1: of the rotation. You wash them after everywhere. The house clothes, well, no,

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Speaker 1: I watched them like every other day, but but or

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Speaker 1: at least I rotate them. But you gotta remember, I

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Speaker 1: go home and put them on, I wear them the

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Speaker 1: rest of the day, right, so they need to be watched.

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Speaker 1: You can wear it instead of being naked. I admired this.

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Speaker 1: I've never achieved an empty hamper in my life. It's

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Speaker 1: an amazing feeling. It's a wonderful feeling. I got to

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Speaker 1: try it. So is Friday around eight o'clock, take a

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Speaker 1: am eight or nine, and just wait to be exhausted.

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Speaker 1: And the whole time, you know, the alarm is not

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Speaker 1: going off. The next day. What time you wake up

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Speaker 1: in the morning, Saturday morning, what time are you up?

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Speaker 1: Eight thirty nine, nine thirty ten. I can sleep right there.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes I'll get up a like eight something, you know

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Speaker 1: I'll do Sometimes I'll get up it and no one

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Speaker 1: cares about this. But sometimes I'll get up at like eight,

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Speaker 1: I'll order breakfast. Breakfast will arrive, I'll eat it, I'll

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Speaker 1: go back to bed. Yeah, that's how I do anyway,

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Speaker 1: morning everyone should order the night before, like pre like

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Speaker 1: pre order, so someone knocks on any door, it wakes

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Speaker 1: you up at eight, then it's right way there. Can

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Speaker 1: you do that? Yeah? You could do that on the app. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: some places will let you order an advance on huh

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Speaker 1: oh my god. That's another to hear you a threat

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Speaker 1: show on one h three five. Kiss at them. This

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Speaker 1: is what's trending. Man says the first time of the

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Speaker 1: day had me feeling like I needed a pleather skirt

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Speaker 1: and glow sticks. What you did you do? You did so? Yes,

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Speaker 1: West Loop Tom, I'm team empty hamper as well. He

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Speaker 1: can't let jim clothes sit around. Well, he has OCD two.

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Speaker 1: I remember one time I posted a picture of my

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Speaker 1: freezer and everything was facing one way and there was

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Speaker 1: like one thing that wasn't that really bothered. So I

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Speaker 1: think he has OCD a little bit too. Yeah. You know.

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Speaker 1: It's the thing is you got to you gotta enjoy

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Speaker 1: the little things in life. You gotta say were the

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Speaker 1: little things in life. That's what I've learned. That's my

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Speaker 1: advice of the day. That's my thing, you know, like

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Speaker 1: like the empty hamper, the empty dish washer, the first

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Speaker 1: sip of coffee, sleeping in. When you go to a hotel,

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Speaker 1: splurge on room service. I know it's expensive, but do

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Speaker 1: it anyway, because when else is someone going to bring

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Speaker 1: it on a tray. You know, I've never had room service.

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Speaker 1: You never had room service, you of all people. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's expensive, yeah, but so is eating at a restaurant.

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Speaker 1: But I don't room Yeah. But I'm saying, if you're

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Speaker 1: not the only one that like she gets hammered too,

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Speaker 1: real well actually new trending stories to how about that.

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Speaker 1: Chicago native and jazz legend Ramsey Lewis has passed away

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Speaker 1: the age of eighty seven. According to his Facebook page,

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Speaker 1: he died peacefully at his home in Chicago yesterday. He

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Speaker 1: survived by his wife, Janet, and his two daughters and

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Speaker 1: three sons. Ramsey's passion for music was truly fueled by

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Speaker 1: the love and dedication of his fans across the globe.

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Speaker 1: He loved touring and meeting music lovers from so many

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Speaker 1: cultures and walks of life. It was our family's great

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Speaker 1: pleasure to share Ramsey in this special way with all

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Speaker 1: of those who admires his admired his God given talents.

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Speaker 1: Were forever grateful for your support. His wife is one

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Speaker 1: of his daughters, I believe, said them. He was born

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Speaker 1: in Chicago in nineteen thirty five and grew up in

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Speaker 1: Cabini Cabrini. Green. The pianist got his start with the

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Speaker 1: Ramsey Lewis Trio, which released their debut album in nineteen

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Speaker 1: fifty six. In two thousand and seven, he was honored

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Speaker 1: with a Legendary Landmark Award for being one of the

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Speaker 1: living Treasures of Illinois. So rip to a legend Ramsey Lewis.

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Speaker 1: Downers Grove Public Library has decided to cancel its Drag

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Speaker 1: Queen Bingo due to the severity of the threats made

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Speaker 1: against the library. What The full statement can be read

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Speaker 1: at the bottom of well, I guess there was an

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Speaker 1: article on this on a wg NDS website if you

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Speaker 1: Public Library. But the decision comes out two weeks after

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Speaker 1: the library double down on holding the event, with guests

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Speaker 1: reaching capacity in anticipation. Had Drag Queen Bengo proceeded as plan,

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Speaker 1: that would have taken place on October eleventh, which is

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Speaker 1: National Coming Out Day, A private donor was funding all

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Speaker 1: of it. Not a single tax dollar was spent on

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Speaker 1: the event's organization. But it's not happening now. I hate that.

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Speaker 1: After the Bears took care of business on Sunday in

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Speaker 1: the season opener against the forty nine is One north

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Speaker 1: Side Institute is offering free hot dogs if they unexpectedly

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Speaker 1: make the playoffs. On Twitter Sunday after the game, the

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Speaker 1: winner Circle said, the rain hasn't stopped us or the

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Speaker 1: Chicago Bears free char dogs before the first playoff game.

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Speaker 1: Let's do this right, okay. And then I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you remember chocolate shakes too. It does not say that,

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Speaker 1: does not say that. And then there was that four

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Speaker 1: year old boy who went viral after losing his hot

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Speaker 1: dog at the White Sox game. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: you saw the video of that. They invited him to

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Speaker 1: come hang out um and do all that so um.

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Speaker 1: Billionaire Jeff Bezos his space travel company had their first

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Speaker 1: rocket launch failure on Monday, but nobody was aboard only

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Speaker 1: science experiment, and it looked like the top of the

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Speaker 1: landed safely. Even though the rocket party got messed up,

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Speaker 1: so the Blue Origin rocket veered off course over West Texas.

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Speaker 1: About a minute after liftoff, The capsule's launch a board

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Speaker 1: system immediately kicked in several it's later the capsule parachuted

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Speaker 1: into the remote desert floor. The crew would have been

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Speaker 1: on board, they would have felt a serious jolt, but

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Speaker 1: kind of an anomaly with the flight. Wasn't planned. The

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Speaker 1: an hour at twenty eight thousand feet, but I guess

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Speaker 1: the people on board would have been okay. If you're

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Speaker 1: following along with the Queen Memorial two week long ceremony,

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Speaker 1: the latest on him is from England to Scotland. Thousands

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Speaker 1: of mourners are lining up for hours to pay their

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Speaker 1: respects to Queen Elizabeth. The second her coffin will be

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Speaker 1: flown to London today, which is the latest leg of

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Speaker 1: a five hundred miles ceremonial journey that takes the late

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Speaker 1: monarch to her final resting place in Windsor. So. They

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Speaker 1: cart her around all over the place and people can

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Speaker 1: go stand there and take goodbye. Something like that. Two

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Speaker 1: weeks long, this thing how many events? And you gotta wonder.

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Speaker 1: King Charles is like I should have passed this on

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Speaker 1: to my kid. There's a lot of stuff. There's a

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Speaker 1: like seventy seven years old, and he's gonna start up working.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna be warm out, I know, and then a

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Speaker 1: damn thing. It's like I gotta walk this whole thing,

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Speaker 1: I know, like crowns heavy Man and The Wall Street

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Speaker 1: Journal revealed internal documents from Meta that show instagrammers spend

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Speaker 1: seventeen point six million hours a day on reels, which

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Speaker 1: is less than one tenth of the one hundred and

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Speaker 1: ninety seven point eight million hours TikTok users spend each

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Speaker 1: day scrolling, half of which is rufio. Meta characterized the

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Speaker 1: viewing hours data is outdated and not global in scope,

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Speaker 1: and also didn't give different numbers. The creators share the

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Speaker 1: same video across multiple apps, and it got millions of

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Speaker 1: views in every platform except Instagram, So nonetheless, the staggering

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Speaker 1: number here is that TikTok users spend one hundred and

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Speaker 1: ninety seven point eight million hours odd day scrolling through

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Speaker 1: a bunch of stuff that you didn't know, Yes we do.

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Speaker 1: You needed to know. National bald Is Beautiful Day today,

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Speaker 1: National Celiac Disease Awareness Day today as well. The entertainer

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Speaker 1: Uppo Kaylin has that next yet to Jack Harlow in

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Speaker 1: two minutes Fred's show one Kism. The latest entertainment news

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Speaker 1: is on the Fred Show. The Emmy Awards went down

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Speaker 1: and last night hosted by Keenan Thompson, The White Lotus,

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Speaker 1: Ted Lasso and Succession were the big winners. I'll just

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Speaker 1: give you some highlights of other winners and we can

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Speaker 1: post the full list. Murray Bartlett and Jennifer Coolidge, who

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Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with to comb Best Supporting Actor and Actress

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Speaker 1: in a Limited Series for White Lotus, and the show

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Speaker 1: also won Best Limited Series. Ted Lasso voted Best Comedy,

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Speaker 1: Jason Sadikis and Brett Goldstein one for Best Lead Actor

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Speaker 1: and Supporting Actor in a Comedy. The show also won

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Speaker 1: Best Direction of a Comedy, Jeane Smart to Comb Best

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Speaker 1: Actress in a Comedy for Hacks, Zendeia, Best Actress in

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Speaker 1: a Drama for Euphoria, I mean she had to win,

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Speaker 1: and Julia Garner Best Supporting Actress in a Drama for

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Speaker 1: Ozark Michael Keaton to come Best Lead Actor in a

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Speaker 1: Limited Series or Anthology Series for four TV movies. These

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Speaker 1: are long category things for Dope, Sick and Lizzo's Watch

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Speaker 1: Out for the Big Girls. One an Emmy for Best

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Speaker 1: Competition Program which we love, um some other winner succession

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Speaker 1: Squid Game SNL last week Tonight with John Oliver Um,

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Speaker 1: like I said, we have the entire list up on

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Speaker 1: Fredshow Radio. Jason, how's your money? How are your funds

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Speaker 1: right now? Not good? Okay, not good? Okay, Well, we

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Speaker 1: gotta we gotta search the couch cushions because we gotta

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Speaker 1: buy some stuff for Taylor. Oh the versions of the yeah, Jason, Yeah, painting.

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Speaker 1: You know, maybe we could share some of the stuff,

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Speaker 1: you know, pass it back and forth or something. Um.

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Speaker 1: But Taylor Swift's upcoming album Midnights. We'll have a lavender

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Speaker 1: edition vinyl in four custom colors, and a special CD

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Speaker 1: that has three bonus tracks, so we need them, like

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Speaker 1: we have to hear bonus tracks all right, because you

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Speaker 1: won't be able to get those anywhere else. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: only at Target now. Unique collectible disc artwork, we need

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Speaker 1: that and collectible lyric booklets. Never before seeing photos, so

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Speaker 1: we won't hear the songs or see the photos. If

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Speaker 1: we don't buy it at Target, we can pre order

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Speaker 1: it all now. The CD will run US thirteen ninety nine,

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Speaker 1: the vinyl twenty nine ninety nine. She does me dirty

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Speaker 1: because I did this for folklore and then literally a

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Speaker 1: week later it will You could stream them, you can see,

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, and I'm like, damn it. But

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Speaker 1: the photos, the photos, photos and photos, the poster, the lyrics,

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Speaker 1: because you know how somebody else will scan by the

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Speaker 1: way the copy you guys. She used to and I

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Speaker 1: don't know if she still does it, but in her

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Speaker 1: lyric booklets, like when I would buy the CDs, she

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Speaker 1: used to capitalize random letters throughout all the songs, and

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Speaker 1: when you decode it, it was like a special message.

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Speaker 1: So I would sit in like college in high school,

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Speaker 1: and I would decode it and like a saw on

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Speaker 1: like her song on one of her songs was about

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Speaker 1: a guy named Sam, so like the lyrics would say,

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Speaker 1: like Sam, Sam Sam, and so I would sit there

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Speaker 1: and decode at like little Ralphie in the Christmas Story

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Speaker 1: in the bathroom, like be sure to drink your oval

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Speaker 1: team over here. That's exactly what it would have. I

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Speaker 1: got to ask you, though, like, and I I respect her.

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Speaker 1: I mean, this is brilliant marketing, right, It's she's a sage.

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Speaker 1: It's brilliant. No, Like, I'm I respect what respect is due.

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Speaker 1: But at what point do you guys start to get

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Speaker 1: a little pissed that likes it? Sort of seems like

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Speaker 1: she's sleeping your queen. Are you kidding? Do you? That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's layers on layers on layers, and granted,

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Speaker 1: no one's forcing you to buy any of it, but

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Speaker 1: you kind of feel left out if you don't, and

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Speaker 1: it sort of feels like multi level marketing in some ways.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like do you really need new sneakers?

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Speaker 1: Do you really need a clean hamper? It's just our

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Speaker 1: way of life. We love her, my clean hamper is

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Speaker 1: not costant causing me to insufficient funds that we all

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Speaker 1: have our splurges. Yeah, but I I mean, but it's

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Speaker 1: not even like it's and I get the sneakers, you know,

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Speaker 1: in that example, and I'm being really literal here, they

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Speaker 1: get rereleased. I know, I know, But what I'm saying

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Speaker 1: is like you're you're literally buying the same thing four times. Yeah, point,

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Speaker 1: what are you saying? What are you at all? Like

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Speaker 1: when you buy four different vinyls, are you expecting it? Like?

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Speaker 1: What's really different between these two? These four of the colors?

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Speaker 1: And then you're buying you're buying four of antiquated technology exclusive.

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Speaker 1: You don't know money, I play that, Kevin, Why are

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Speaker 1: you yelling at us? You're getting really upside. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I understand that people have hobbies and they buy too

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Speaker 1: much of all kinds of things. I just I don't

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Speaker 1: buy four of the exact same thing rereleases that again,

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Speaker 1: so you gotta buy four more. I feel bad for

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Speaker 1: if I'm a parent, at least you have your own

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Speaker 1: expendable income that you earn. If I'm if I, if

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Speaker 1: I gotta daughter, and she's like, I need four more

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Speaker 1: vital my parents. And then you try to reason with

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Speaker 1: a kid like, well you don't need it because what

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Speaker 1: Italian has it or whatever. It's like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: we don't need to tell my company vinyls about Okay,

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Speaker 1: So you know it's ridiculous. You know it's ridiculous. It's

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Speaker 1: her ridiculous, but it's like now it's like my duty,

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Speaker 1: Like it comes out and I'm like, I need to

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Speaker 1: buy it. Like, what do you do once you have them?

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Speaker 1: Do you? Just? Like I had to buy a new

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Speaker 1: shelving unit for all the vinyls that I bought. It

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Speaker 1: my record play so they're on display. I display, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I display some of them. Yeah, actually behind me in

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Speaker 1: my when I take calls at home. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to buy every single color. I just need these lyric

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Speaker 1: booklets and you know, release tracks. Yeah. Well, the other

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Speaker 1: thing I could argue is that, Okay, maybe they're collectible

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Speaker 1: and potentially worth money someday, but they're overproduced. I mean,

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Speaker 1: it's not even like there's limited quantity of these things

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Speaker 1: like she runs out, okay, but I mean the limited

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Speaker 1: quantities a million piece or whatever. I mean, she's making

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Speaker 1: a ton of these things. It's not like it's you know,

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Speaker 1: they're five hundred or a thousand of them. I mean

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Speaker 1: she's making and then she rereleases them. So I guess

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying is they're not gonna be worth anything.

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Speaker 1: There's too many out there. I hope she's not going

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Speaker 1: to rerecord these new albums she owns that I don't

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Speaker 1: think you know, I would be one way in the

632
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Speaker 1: digital age, you don't know what you endeavor. It's just

633
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Speaker 1: just love. Did you buy your layers? Did you buy

634
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: a cassette tape decket for your car? No, I don't

635
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Speaker 1: have it. I don't buy the tapes. I don't have

636
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Speaker 1: a tape player or else I would if I had

637
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Speaker 1: an she's coming out with one. She coming out with

638
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Speaker 1: a tailor tape player to install in your car. My

639
00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,720
Speaker 1: parents got like twenty in the basement. They don't throw

640
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: anything away. God, it might take you up on that. Yeah,

641
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:42,479
Speaker 1: I just I do love all your layers. That just

642
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: I don't know love us. At a certain point, it's like, okay,

643
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 1: enough is enough. The thing too, the merch hasn't even

644
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: dropped yet, like we haven't merged this era, like it's

645
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 1: friend vinyl CDs. Like I'm not getting on the merch

646
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,320
Speaker 1: if it's ugly, But listen, can you take a picture

647
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: of everything you own? Taylor s with in like one photo,

648
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: Like I have a closet at home in Michigan. That's

649
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,800
Speaker 1: all of every For a while, I got every single

650
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 1: magazine because I've liked you since she was fifteen, So

651
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:14,719
Speaker 1: I have all kinds of stuff in that whatever. Honestly,

652
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:18,600
Speaker 1: you're right, thank whatever happen. I do think enough is

653
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: enough at some point, and I do think people are

654
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 1: spending thousands of dollars on all kinds of different stuff

655
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: real quick. Speaking of music, Usher is celebrating the twenty

656
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Speaker 1: fifth anniversary of his album My Way, which I day, Okay,

657
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: all right. He's releasing a deluxe edition and a mini documentary.

658
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,080
Speaker 1: It first dropped in September of ninety seven and had

659
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Speaker 1: bangers like you Make Me Wanna Nice and Slow and

660
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 1: of course My Way. The new album is slated to

661
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Speaker 1: ship early next year. There's gonna be some exclusive tricks,

662
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 1: and the documentary will explore the making of the album

663
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: and its legacy. That is out Friday, which will be

664
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 1: really cool. Well, and you got an album, You're gonna

665
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: have a CD that you can get cassette. You can

666
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: get a track, you can get real too, real. That

667
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: was a great album. You can get remembers. It's coming

668
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: on all that, all right. It's coming on Hit Clip,

669
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:26,520
Speaker 1: coming on one of those Lime Wire two. Yeah, it's

670
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Speaker 1: coming on one of those things that you look and

671
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Speaker 1: you click whatever those things are. They're coming on that too,

672
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Speaker 1: So that's right exactly. A light bright you gotta light

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Speaker 1: bright for it's coming on that, it's coming on magnet doodle. Heck, yeah,

674
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Speaker 1: let's go. We got it out. No not okay, I'm

675
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,080
Speaker 1: gonna check it online today A full list of the

676
00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 1: Emmy winners and Jimmy Kimmel getting dragged. It's on French

677
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: radio dot com. Yeah. I kind of get why he's

678
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: being dragged too. I don't think you meant harm. I

679
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 1: agree with you guys, but there, we'll do it next

680
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: hour and that was enough morning. Charlie Pooth Chunk Cook

681
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,200
Speaker 1: left it right. Fred Show is that one three five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago number one music station, six fifty five

683
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Speaker 1: blogs will do them next day or go, let's debate

684
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: someone's relationship drama. I've got panic tickets The Entertainment of

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Speaker 1: Port coming up. Also, we're up to an eight fifty

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Speaker 1: in a couple of minutes show w K Chicago Kiss

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Speaker 1: FM and I Heart Radio station. It's the French Morning Everybody. Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: September thirteenth, The Fridge Show is I'm so glad you're here. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Panic at the disco tickets. Got Jack's Pumpkin pop up

693
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Speaker 1: tickets later on this week. By the way, free trip Friday.

694
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Speaker 1: You should know about seven thirty on Friday, Universal Orlando,

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Speaker 1: all expenses paid. We'd like to send you there. That's

696
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,640
Speaker 1: very exciting. I was genuinely surprised at some of the

697
00:36:05,680 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 1: reactions to while waiting by the phone from yesterday. Not

698
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 1: a lot of it. I'm sorry to I hate to

699
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: disappoint any of our haters, but it wasn't that much.

700
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: But people were really triggered. Some people were really triggered

701
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 1: that we were defending the guy who wore nail polish

702
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 1: on the date and calling a lady judgmental for not

703
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: liking him because of that. And the thing is like,

704
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 1: first of all, nobody has to like anybody. No one

705
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 1: also has to agree with us. But you got you

706
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: gotta have understood that the contradiction there, Like this is

707
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 1: a woman who said on the call that she liked

708
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 1: chatting with him, was attracted to him, liked everything about him,

709
00:36:47,600 --> 00:36:51,359
Speaker 1: even enjoyed the date, just couldn't get over his fingernails.

710
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: That's crazy to me, Like, that's silly to me, you

711
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, how so it wasn't like

712
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: you weren't attractive to him because of the fingernails, Well,

713
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: then don't go out with them again. The no one's out,

714
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: We're going to go out with anybody. It just sounds

715
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,319
Speaker 1: crazy to me when you go through this whole list

716
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,439
Speaker 1: of things that you liked about somebody and then you didn't,

717
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I mean, and how is it?

718
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 1: How is a fingernail painting any different than the colored

719
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,839
Speaker 1: shirt they wore or the kind of shoes they wear.

720
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: And of course everybody has the right to disqualify anybody

721
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 1: in dating. That's dating. But I also think it struck

722
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,480
Speaker 1: me is a little bit hypocritical, a little bit contradictory.

723
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,160
Speaker 1: And that was what I was pointing out. It was like,

724
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,600
Speaker 1: how can you really like you're gonna just qualify somebody

725
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,879
Speaker 1: because of that, Like I don't know, Like that would

726
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: be like saying I won't go out with a woman

727
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: who doesn't paint her nails, Like really, I mean, you

728
00:37:41,000 --> 00:37:43,360
Speaker 1: can like that, And of course you can say like, okay,

729
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 1: well I'm not going out there anymore. I'm never gonna

730
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 1: go out there. You have that, right. I just think,

731
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 1: like I think a lot of people would tear me,

732
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,120
Speaker 1: tear me up on on this show if I came

733
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: in here. It was like I met the woman in

734
00:37:52,520 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: my dreams, but she doesn't have French nails like I

735
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: know would like it wasn't he like this guy had

736
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 1: dirty nails, as if to indicate that he had like

737
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,799
Speaker 1: poor hygiene. Right, But she were saying that she she's

738
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:17,200
Speaker 1: still allowed to have her press. That's what I was

739
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: still allowed to have her. No one didn't say that. Okay, yeah,

740
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 1: making sure because you know you're you're allowed to like

741
00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: certain things in that like certain things. But it is

742
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 1: a little close minded. That was all. That was all

743
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,279
Speaker 1: I was pointing out. You're saying you wouldn't do that, right,

744
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 1: she is totally entitled to do that. But it's weird

745
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 1: how people are reacting online. I would correct, Yeah, I mean,

746
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: but I feel like that's that was clear. I don't know,

747
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 1: it's a little bit crazy. It's like and of course

748
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 1: this isn't an indentured servitude. No one's required to go

749
00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: out with anyone ever again, right, I mean, trust me,

750
00:38:46,080 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 1: I've been single for a long time. I've been just

751
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: qualified for less. I've just qualified people for less. It's

752
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: a vibe. I get it. But but I would have

753
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,280
Speaker 1: I would have respected her for saying and I appreciate

754
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,680
Speaker 1: her honesty, but I would have affected her more for

755
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:04,399
Speaker 1: saying I just wasn't feeling it overall. Yeah, I think

756
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: the issue with the saying he wasn't manly because his

757
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: nails were painted. Yeah, um, because I don't think that

758
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: defines your manliness. But if she's like, I'm not attracted,

759
00:39:13,080 --> 00:39:16,000
Speaker 1: that's okay. And then Caitlin, we had people going, uh,

760
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 1: you know, well, you know there are two genders and

761
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: all this other stuff. I'm like, what what does that

762
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,319
Speaker 1: have to do with this, Like, Okay, we don't need

763
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 1: to get those people are idiots. We can have that's

764
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: a totally different conversation, by the way. Um, but but

765
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 1: not it wasn't even I don't know, it's crazy. People

766
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 1: are crazy. Um. I was a little surprised at a

767
00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: little surprised at the reaction. And apparently we're very soft

768
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 1: apparently for or I am or I've gone lib somehow

769
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: because I because I don't particularly understand how people can

770
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 1: be so so so closed minded, but whatever, whatever, sensitivity

771
00:39:48,920 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 1: is a superpower. Being soft is okay, I'm a softie. Yeah,

772
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,520
Speaker 1: oh I'm not soft. I just I just think. I

773
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: just think I'm I'm able to point out I'm sensed

774
00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: to him. I wouldn't say so, I'm a little I'm

775
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 1: a little rigid, I think sometimes, but I think I was.

776
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,799
Speaker 1: I was just pointing out what seemed to me to

777
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 1: be sort of crazy. It's like as a single guy,

778
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: especially because it's like, I know how hard it is

779
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 1: to meet someone. Are you telling me you liked everything

780
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,000
Speaker 1: except for that? Come on, man, Yeah, they talk better

781
00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,040
Speaker 1: than they tume. On the radio. Blogs on the Friend

782
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 1: Show like running our diaries, except we say them aloud.

783
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:24,160
Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Camelt's got one go, dear blog.

784
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:27,479
Speaker 1: So I've been saying in a couple of hotels this week,

785
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: just having some issues with my apartment. But we we

786
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,000
Speaker 1: got to discuss the vibe at the hotel bar. Okay,

787
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: because now I'm a barfly at these hotel bars and

788
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: the scene is hella entertaining. Like even if I go

789
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 1: back to my apartment, I might frequent these hotel bars,

790
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 1: because you got a real cast of characters. Okay, you know,

791
00:40:47,600 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 1: you got people working on their laptop, you got the

792
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: wasted people. You got the people in town for the

793
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: TEP work convention who never get out of the house.

794
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 1: Like why they're in the big city on the weekend

795
00:40:57,600 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: or on the weekday. You know, we're mingling with other

796
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,360
Speaker 1: type aware of professionals from across the country. Yeah, a

797
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: lot of people here for the Bears game. It's just

798
00:41:05,840 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: very interesting. And then I get involved also in like

799
00:41:08,280 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: the behind the scenes work drama, you know, like the manager,

800
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:15,880
Speaker 1: a bartender. They're letting me in on everything. It is

801
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 1: just you know, they're fighting and which staff member is

802
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 1: a beach and this and that and oh my god.

803
00:41:21,920 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: I was fully involved, and I was drunk by the

804
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: time I left. But there was one damn wasted guy

805
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:32,959
Speaker 1: that was about to get zaspa. Yeah, he was about

806
00:41:32,960 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: to get merged. So he this drunk. I wobbles in

807
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 1: with a girl that we don't know if it's his girlfriend.

808
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: I assume it's his girlfriend. They're sitting there, they're getting drunk,

809
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 1: and I have my laptop because I was trying to

810
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 1: get stuff done, and he kept telling me you're not

811
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: gonna work, no more work. I was like, dude, like

812
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: a have to work. I mean, I'm glad that you

813
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 1: can just get drunk, you know whatever. And the waitress

814
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 1: is like, yeah, I'm at work too. Whatever. He reaches

815
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: over across me and the manager who's sitting next to

816
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:59,799
Speaker 1: me is working on the schedule. He slams his lap

817
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:04,359
Speaker 1: hop on this guy's hands, and while he's doing that,

818
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 1: he's massaging my shoulders from behind, and I'm calmly like,

819
00:42:09,520 --> 00:42:11,720
Speaker 1: get your hands off me. And I'm trying to diffuse

820
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:14,440
Speaker 1: because this manager, this dude was already having a bad day,

821
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: and I thought, oh my god, he's gonna beat this

822
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:19,480
Speaker 1: guy up. Okay. So the drunk guy and everybody was like,

823
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:21,239
Speaker 1: we would have stood up for you. We thought they

824
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 1: thought he knew me by the way he was like massage,

825
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:25,760
Speaker 1: I know. So I took his hand off me whatever.

826
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: So I thought, okay, it's time for me to get

827
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: out of this bar, okay. And I thought I'm gonna

828
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: go get myself some five guys. Okay, what a delicious choice,

829
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,680
Speaker 1: you know, And I get the veggie sandwich. It's really good.

830
00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 1: I love the cheese, love the bun anyway, So this

831
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:44,399
Speaker 1: this drunk guy follows me to five guys, walks into

832
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,800
Speaker 1: five guys behind. We have ourselves a stalker and I

833
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,359
Speaker 1: I was just I've obviously been going through a lot,

834
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: so I like was not really piecing everything together. He

835
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: walks in. He tells the lady in the front that

836
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: we're on the same tab. I go, lady, because women

837
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,640
Speaker 1: to women like, you know, I mean you. I said,

838
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: I don't know this man, like, please, can we do something?

839
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,359
Speaker 1: And she's like, got you? Um. And then he walks

840
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 1: up to me after I order, and he goes, you

841
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,439
Speaker 1: and I are getting a drink and oh, and I said,

842
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: I said, you're gonna stop touching me and then he goes,

843
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:17,400
Speaker 1: it's not that serious. Oh, it's not that serious. So

844
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, what so this God bless this woman

845
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,080
Speaker 1: and the bar everyone was so they kicked him out

846
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 1: and then I saw him talking to women outside and

847
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: I thought, dear God, somebody walked me back to this hotel.

848
00:43:29,520 --> 00:43:32,439
Speaker 1: I think he was staying there. But I think it's

849
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 1: like people when they're not in their home city, they

850
00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 1: feel like they can act out because that no one

851
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 1: it will, like they can live like an alter ego

852
00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:42,279
Speaker 1: or they can let let they can let themselves go

853
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: because no one that they know is around, you know

854
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 1: what I mean. Because that's the thing about hotel bars

855
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:51,080
Speaker 1: that it's like every people in there that they're away

856
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: from their families, they're away from their significant others or whatever,

857
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: so they can have a little too much and like

858
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:56,920
Speaker 1: they go back to the hotel room and it's like,

859
00:43:56,960 --> 00:43:59,560
Speaker 1: no one's gonna know. Oh, Mike. I Meanwhile, the girlfriend,

860
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 1: she wasn't mad when he was touching me. She wasn't

861
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: saying anything. Eli had a girlfriend. She yes, she was

862
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 1: sitting with him. You join, I'm you know, I'm all set.

863
00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:11,719
Speaker 1: You know, I just wanted to eat my five guys

864
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 1: in peace. But I'm surprised rufis and asked what hotel

865
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 1: this is so we can go down to get the

866
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 1: free waffles and stuff. Yeah, there wasn't any free waffles.

867
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 1: I wish there was, though I needed one after that.

868
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: But holy help. But yeah, I think my new thing

869
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,240
Speaker 1: not at that hotel anymore, but is hotel bars because

870
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: I am in it. I'm in the gossip. The people

871
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:32,080
Speaker 1: watching is fantasticatual making. There was a woman mad that

872
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 1: we didn't have. We had music videos on and there

873
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:38,319
Speaker 1: was a woman mad. We didn't have tennessee there. Well,

874
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 1: they let me in the group. You're part of the staff.

875
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: They let me in the group. I'm the bartender. She

876
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 1: helped me out with my situation. Like it we it's

877
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: a it's a collective thing. On that schedule the manager

878
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,920
Speaker 1: was working on. Yeah, yeah, listen, I was helping the

879
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 1: manager because there was another guy yelling at him and

880
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: how he was managing it was lit. You're not just

881
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: her guest, your your family. Now. They love me there

882
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: and they they re pour me extra wine because they

883
00:45:01,680 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 1: love me so much. There is something about about the

884
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 1: hotel environment, especially on weekdays, because these people are in

885
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:11,320
Speaker 1: town for work, you know, and they got the corporate card,

886
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: and things get a little out of hand. It's a

887
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 1: group of people they'd never be together nor right exactly.

888
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,080
Speaker 1: They never see them again. So what does it matter?

889
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 1: What does it matter what I do, Big city. I'll

890
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 1: pride never seeing these people ever again. If you need entertainment,

891
00:45:23,760 --> 00:45:30,520
Speaker 1: they said, the hotel bars, Oh listen, just count extend

892
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:34,319
Speaker 1: to all of us. Yeah, what time's happy at your

893
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 1: bar today? They start early, We start early, and the

894
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: food's good. So hey, listen, catch me at the hotel bar, Jes,

895
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 1: I have to put on your room. I'll put it

896
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 1: on your tab in your room, chasing your blood. Thank you,

897
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: dear blog. So I'm starting to think that someone has

898
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:59,759
Speaker 1: a hacks on me, like a voodoo heckshow. I don't

899
00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 1: get a little what Kaylin and Paulina say, who woo,

900
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,799
Speaker 1: But I'm starting to believe in it because I don't know,

901
00:46:03,880 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 1: like what I did to deserve this. So I've been

902
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 1: limping around for a couple of weeks, like I thought

903
00:46:08,239 --> 00:46:09,799
Speaker 1: I rolled my ankle. The doctor thought it was something

904
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 1: else whatever, So I've been dealing with that. So I

905
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, I feel better. I'm gonna go cut

906
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,920
Speaker 1: the grass because Mike has felt very like, oh, you know,

907
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 1: I need to. He's been doing it because I just

908
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: literally can't walk when I'm home, like my foot's up

909
00:46:20,440 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: in the air. So I go, I'm out cutting the grass.

910
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm almost done. I go and put the grass cutter away.

911
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 1: Baby comes and stings me on my ankle like the

912
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: same place that hurts. And I haven't been stung by

913
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: be since I was like a toddler, Like oh no, oh,

914
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: you're starting to feel better. Oh no, no, no, through

915
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 1: my sock stung me. I was like, are you for real?

916
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,080
Speaker 1: Like this is it's like, so I think I need

917
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: a cleansing when I need to send me to whoever

918
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 1: you go to get cleansed, because yes, right, there's like

919
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: some weird juju follow me around. We need sage and

920
00:46:56,640 --> 00:46:58,200
Speaker 1: I packed it so I don't know where it is.

921
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,560
Speaker 1: But no, he's sage. She needs. There is a thing

922
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,480
Speaker 1: where you'd go Olympias. We need everything I can Olympia

923
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:05,239
Speaker 1: about every two months. It's that the thing where you

924
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,800
Speaker 1: sit on the on the thing and it like everything

925
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: drains out of your body. Well she does we need private? Yes?

926
00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: Would that help him? If he had a yoni that

927
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:24,759
Speaker 1: could help? I don't know it anywhere react I don't know.

928
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 1: Thought that cleansed you inside? And I don't know. I

929
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:29,840
Speaker 1: thought they got rid of the voodoo stuff. Hey it

930
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:35,719
Speaker 1: does help? So yes, like if removing to you're gonna

931
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 1: hit at my girl Christina Puzio, she's gonna. Yes, we

932
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,280
Speaker 1: love her, we stand she's gonna do the egg Olympia

933
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: and she learned us from like some like Empia. I

934
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: love them, I know it delicious. They're going to cleanse

935
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: you from the dude when you open it though, like

936
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: you see the one that egg. I didn't know that.

937
00:47:58,680 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 1: I'll keep playing when me and Christina actual, yeah, look

938
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: it up. It's a Mexican tradition. Yes, she cracks it open,

939
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: and crack it open. It's yolk. What do you want

940
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:11,880
Speaker 1: your you look at the the bubble. It's a Mexican tradition.

941
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:13,719
Speaker 1: I'm German. I don't know. I don't know what they all.

942
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: I don't know me. You guys gonna be on game, okay,

943
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: so they protected. I have my bracelets blas well. I

944
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:22,200
Speaker 1: can't possibly know all of the traditions from every culture.

945
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: It's like, hey, how do you know? How do you

946
00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: know it's not something like a higher power like the

947
00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: bea stung you because it's telling you, hey, your ankles now,

948
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: really that grange back down? You gotta get it checked out. Still,

949
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 1: that's a good way to look at it. That is

950
00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:37,960
Speaker 1: a good I didn't I just always look at the

951
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:42,200
Speaker 1: words like, oh you're you're it's hurting again. I'm gonna

952
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 1: make sure you gotta go check it out. You know

953
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: what it is? Because I made fun of the bee

954
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 1: lady on the ear the other day and they were

955
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,520
Speaker 1: just taking it out on you. The bees were listening

956
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:53,759
Speaker 1: on iHeart Radio and it was a wonderful day with

957
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:58,879
Speaker 1: the bean stop stop for me. Jason Brown's maybe it's

958
00:48:58,880 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: one of the queens, but you know, yeah, it's the

959
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: b It's a wonderful date. Stay or go after post below.

960
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: Three minutes away, Commercial Freak joined The Fred Show one

961
00:49:17,800 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 1: five nine one one five. Happy birthday, Aaron mccaffy Meal.

962
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:27,839
Speaker 1: She's UH listener number two right or three three three

963
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:32,600
Speaker 1: because it goes Danita West Loop Tom Aaron McCaffey Meal,

964
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: and then we have ten out of listeners. I can

965
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: name all those two, but not their birthdays. Also, Happy

966
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:43,240
Speaker 1: birthday to uh David. David wanted to say happy birthday

967
00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: to him, so shout out to David, so I didn't

968
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:51,960
Speaker 1: forget Happy birthday. Hey, Marissa, good morning, welcome to the program. Hi, Hi,

969
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:54,319
Speaker 1: thanks for taking her call. You don't know what it

970
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 1: is our pleasure? What's going on stair go? I want

971
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 1: to hear what's going on in your relationship. You're your

972
00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,799
Speaker 1: dilemma and then we'll solve it for you right now,

973
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:07,719
Speaker 1: right you were here and now Okay, Well it's um,

974
00:50:09,200 --> 00:50:12,720
Speaker 1: I have a bit of a situation. My husband, Jared,

975
00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:16,200
Speaker 1: who I love very much. We've been married for three

976
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 1: years and we have an overall happy marriage, but recently

977
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:29,080
Speaker 1: I Jared has Jared is a widower. He has been

978
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: married before we got married, and I know all about

979
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 1: his ex wife. She passed away while they were married,

980
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 1: and it's never been a problem actually him talking so

981
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 1: openly about their relationship with something that really brought us

982
00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: closer during our courtship. And recently I walked in on

983
00:50:53,680 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: Jay pleasuring himself to photos of his late wife, and

984
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:06,840
Speaker 1: I know, photographs or on his phone. I'm trying to

985
00:51:06,600 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: under I'm trying to I'm trying to set a little

986
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: bit like how did you know this was so? Well? Um,

987
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 1: it was actually in our guest bedroom. Um, they were

988
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: hard copy photos. Um. We actually just moved into a

989
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: new house. So it was kind of that much was

990
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 1: stranger because I came up the stairs and I was

991
00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: hearing a familiar sound and I was kind of like, oh, hey,

992
00:51:31,480 --> 00:51:34,520
Speaker 1: like getting ready to find something else in our bedroom.

993
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: But he wasn't in our bedroom. He was in the

994
00:51:36,280 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: guest bedroom where we have just you know, some photos

995
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 1: of family and whatnot. There's a corner you know, on

996
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 1: the bureau that's kind of dedicated to his ex wife

997
00:51:45,800 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: or his former wife Janice. And yeah, I don't know

998
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:54,960
Speaker 1: what would I don't know what would provoke him to

999
00:51:56,840 --> 00:52:00,480
Speaker 1: I mean, he we wanted. I asked him about it,

1000
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: and you know, he just said that it's nothing to

1001
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: worry about. It's that he does time to time to

1002
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: feel close to her, which you know, I understand they

1003
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 1: were together for a lot of years and I have

1004
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:15,280
Speaker 1: the utmost sympathy for him. But I'm feeling self conscious.

1005
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm feeling self conscious. I know she's not a physical

1006
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:20,799
Speaker 1: threat to my to my marriage with Jared, but I

1007
00:52:20,840 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 1: am like, I'm horrified. I'm I'm self conscious when I

1008
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: don't want him to like set to me. I need

1009
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: to know it's just normal, it's just interesting, man. And

1010
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: should I stay in this or should I go? I

1011
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: mean we've we just bought a new house, were we

1012
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,319
Speaker 1: been married for three years? You know, I feel like

1013
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: I have a lot invested in this, and at the

1014
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 1: same time, like, how can I compete with this woman

1015
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:49,879
Speaker 1: who is not here? I have no control over how

1016
00:52:49,960 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 1: often he dubbed this to himself in with her in mind,

1017
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:59,360
Speaker 1: and I'm I'm having I could use some help on

1018
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: obligated because I don't know. I'm not sure if anyone's

1019
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: ever been through this before we've If you've been widowed

1020
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 1: and you've moved on and you see someone else mad,

1021
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: do you still think about that other person? Because you know,

1022
00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: I'm sure in a lot of cases everything was okay.

1023
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: I know some people who have been widowed sadly and

1024
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:20,480
Speaker 1: their relationships were fine, they would still be married more

1025
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,880
Speaker 1: than likely, or at least at least they would have

1026
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:25,520
Speaker 1: been married longer than that period of time. So it's like,

1027
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:29,280
Speaker 1: when that's taken from you in that way, it doesn't

1028
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 1: necessarily mean that that connection or that feeling is gone,

1029
00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 1: because it's not as though there was dysfunction, right, It's

1030
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:38,960
Speaker 1: just ended. And so I don't know how you manifest that, Like,

1031
00:53:39,000 --> 00:53:42,600
Speaker 1: I don't know that I couldn't speak to what it

1032
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: means for how he feels about you or doesn't feel

1033
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,359
Speaker 1: about you, or why he feels a need to do

1034
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:49,600
Speaker 1: that or not do that, you know, because normally I

1035
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:53,040
Speaker 1: would say, well, okay, so he uses other stimulus in

1036
00:53:53,160 --> 00:53:56,719
Speaker 1: order to, you know, please himself, right, Okay, well that's

1037
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,080
Speaker 1: pretty common. A lot of men and women do that.

1038
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: But you don't necessarily know these people. There's no emotional connection.

1039
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 1: It's simply visual stimulation. In this case, it's visual stimulation

1040
00:54:07,520 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: with someone with whom he had a previous connection. Now

1041
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: she's gone, so she's not a threat to you, as

1042
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: you mentioned, right, but she knows he's probably still grieving.

1043
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: But emotionally, is he unable to let go of that

1044
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:25,399
Speaker 1: connection such that he's not able to fully connect with you?

1045
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:30,440
Speaker 1: Or is this just is this the same as is

1046
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: this as benign as somebody who thinks I mean, let me,

1047
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: I'm not sure any of you will answer honestly, because

1048
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure it doesn't sound good. But in a relationship,

1049
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,279
Speaker 1: have you ever thought about being with someone simply for

1050
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 1: the physical purpose of your alone time? Have you ever

1051
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:53,280
Speaker 1: thought about an experience with someone you've been with prior? Oh,

1052
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: and again I don't. I don't necessarily think that that's

1053
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,080
Speaker 1: a bad thing. I think you can love and connect

1054
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: with someone and occasionally in simulation elsewhere I don't, And

1055
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,360
Speaker 1: you don't necessarily talk about that. That's like a you know,

1056
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 1: kind of stuffing you keep internal. But I mean it

1057
00:55:07,040 --> 00:55:10,399
Speaker 1: could be just as simple as they had they had

1058
00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:13,400
Speaker 1: a connection in that way, and he thinks about it sometimes.

1059
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of a nine way here that

1060
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:19,279
Speaker 1: this could come up, But I would I'm curious because

1061
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,280
Speaker 1: I would really like to know from somebody who's banning

1062
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:24,319
Speaker 1: this situation. I mean, those feelings probably don't don't just

1063
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: go away, but does that mean you can't have them

1064
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,960
Speaker 1: for someone else. I don't think feelings go away quickly

1065
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,600
Speaker 1: for anybody, right, even if it's just a regular X.

1066
00:55:32,000 --> 00:55:34,879
Speaker 1: But this is so, this is so deep to me

1067
00:55:35,280 --> 00:55:39,040
Speaker 1: because the person has died, So there's a deeper longing

1068
00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: that he's going to always feel for this woman. And

1069
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:43,759
Speaker 1: as his wife, I would be concerned. Can I ever

1070
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,000
Speaker 1: not feel that place? Because you can't? But will he

1071
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,480
Speaker 1: ever feel deeply in love with me? Or is he

1072
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 1: always going to be heartbroken and longer for this other woman?

1073
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:54,320
Speaker 1: So marriage is a sacred thing. I'm not going to

1074
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: tell you to leave your marriage, but I would definitely

1075
00:55:56,200 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: like he would have to seek like deep counseling before

1076
00:55:59,160 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: we could even move forward, because that's disturbing to like,

1077
00:56:02,200 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: that is disturbing to me. But that's an interesting point

1078
00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,240
Speaker 1: that you make Like I also wonder for somebody who's

1079
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: been widowed and things were going well or it was

1080
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 1: a happy dynamic, I wonder, is it just do you

1081
00:56:13,520 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: just have to accept if you're the next person, do

1082
00:56:15,800 --> 00:56:17,560
Speaker 1: you just have to accept that that door is not

1083
00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:20,560
Speaker 1: fully closed emotionally? Yeah, but do you just have to

1084
00:56:20,600 --> 00:56:22,759
Speaker 1: deal with is that just? Is that just part of

1085
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: you know, we all come I hate to use the

1086
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 1: word baggage because it has a negative connotation, but we

1087
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:30,680
Speaker 1: all come with something, you know, history, right, And so

1088
00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:32,720
Speaker 1: when you marry somebody who was in a happy marriage

1089
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:36,800
Speaker 1: that ended tragically, is it just do you just accept

1090
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: that this is this is a happy situation too, and

1091
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 1: and and it's fulfilling, and it's we're present and we're here.

1092
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: But yet because that door wasn't slammed shut, then I

1093
00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:52,560
Speaker 1: can accept you still loving the person. But I cannot

1094
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:57,240
Speaker 1: accept you pleasuring yourself to their photos Like I can't.

1095
00:56:57,320 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't take that. Yeah, it's tough. Rufio

1096
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: also like, if he's doing that, you know, by himself,

1097
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: how do you know he's not thinking about his ex

1098
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 1: wife while you two are together? You know what I'm saying? Like,

1099
00:57:10,200 --> 00:57:12,000
Speaker 1: while you guys are doing it. Let's not compound the

1100
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 1: presure understanding. But like your other point is like if

1101
00:57:16,320 --> 00:57:19,000
Speaker 1: he was not ready to move on from his ex wife,

1102
00:57:19,040 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: why get into another late? Like why move on with

1103
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: another person and get a new wife and everything like

1104
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,360
Speaker 1: that if you're not ready to move on? And I also,

1105
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 1: I don't mean to judge anyone. I do not know

1106
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 1: what this is, like, I cannot speak to it. But

1107
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:34,560
Speaker 1: the people that I know who have been in this

1108
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:37,120
Speaker 1: situation also don't have a shrine to their ex in

1109
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: a guest room. Yeah. And also, grief is not linear

1110
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:42,920
Speaker 1: and never goes away. So I think if you marry

1111
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: someone who is widowed, you have to kind of understand

1112
00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:48,480
Speaker 1: that the pleasuring yourself. I didn't know if that was

1113
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: a part of grief, But grief never goes away ever, No,

1114
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't. But that pleasure and thing that's a part

1115
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 1: of grief that I cannot right Well, lost people that

1116
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: were not pleasuring ourselves too, But okay, no judgment, I

1117
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:03,760
Speaker 1: guess I don't I don't know, Marissa, I'll tell you what.

1118
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:05,440
Speaker 1: Let me take some phone clothes on this, because like

1119
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 1: this is one of those where I can I can

1120
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 1: I think we're all pointing out like different possibilities here,

1121
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 1: but none of us have ever actually been through this. Yeah,

1122
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: so I don't know what that's like. But Marissa, I

1123
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 1: wish you the best and have the radio one. Let's

1124
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: see what's going on. Yeah, that's why, thank you, Thank you, Marissa.

1125
00:58:20,680 --> 00:58:23,479
Speaker 1: Actual photos too, Like, like that was even more wild.

1126
00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: I thought I was watching a laptop or well. No,

1127
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 1: apparently we have a whole. We have a whole, you know,

1128
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:33,840
Speaker 1: section of the guest I don't want to stay in

1129
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,560
Speaker 1: that guest room, right, No, Like, why I gotta say it.

1130
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:38,520
Speaker 1: I'm here, I am to see you know this couple

1131
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:39,720
Speaker 1: on that I'm in the guest room. When you get

1132
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 1: one hundred photos of this other brand and again, like,

1133
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 1: I don't think that the person goes away. I mean,

1134
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 1: I'm sure that there are I'm sure you keep photographs,

1135
00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: and I'm sure a photograph or something, But you're talking

1136
00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:51,200
Speaker 1: about a whole. She's talking about like a whole kind

1137
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,600
Speaker 1: of shrine. Horner of the room was dedicated to a

1138
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,400
Speaker 1: strong person. I think to marry someone who's been and

1139
00:58:56,440 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: I think that's the moral of the story here is

1140
00:58:58,480 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: is whatever he's going through, I don't necessarily think means

1141
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 1: he doesn't feel a certain kind of way about her.

1142
00:59:04,800 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 1: I don't think it necessarily takes away from the connection

1143
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 1: that he has with this woman. I just think you

1144
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,520
Speaker 1: have to accept the fact that that probably who knows,

1145
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:15,760
Speaker 1: that could have been a lifelong, functioning relationship had it

1146
00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 1: not ended the way that it did. And so you

1147
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:21,320
Speaker 1: just kind of have to accept that. But then and

1148
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 1: and I hate, I hate to think of a tragic

1149
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:26,720
Speaker 1: situation as the reason why other people come together. But

1150
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 1: the truth is, this woman's not here anymore now they're together,

1151
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: so maybe you know, this is this is the path

1152
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: that life is taking them on together, and it just

1153
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: is Hey Kyle, Hey, what's up? Hey Kyle, what do

1154
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:43,240
Speaker 1: you think stay or go? I think he should say,

1155
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,640
Speaker 1: you know, I agree with what you're saying earlier about

1156
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: the fact that you know, he's still you know, maybe

1157
00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: never got that closure. But she also said that they

1158
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 1: just moved into a new house, and I think that,

1159
00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:54,040
Speaker 1: you know, there's a lot of change when that happens.

1160
00:59:54,080 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: I think he's really trying to hold onto something familiar. Okay, yeah,

1161
00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: yeah maybe so maybe so thank you, Kyle. The good

1162
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:05,160
Speaker 1: day he holds Okay, I have another concern. I have

1163
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: another concern that has nothing to do with his scenario,

1164
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,360
Speaker 1: his his predicament. My my, my concern is in a

1165
01:00:12,440 --> 01:00:15,439
Speaker 1: married relationship, like a married couple, is the guest room

1166
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,320
Speaker 1: like the the pleasure room, because if it's like the

1167
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 1: accessory pleasure room, like that's where I stay when I like,

1168
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying like that, I'm saying, if

1169
01:00:26,480 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: you're married, is that where you go to, like you

1170
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:33,200
Speaker 1: know yourself, that's where everybody else has to stay too.

1171
01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,640
Speaker 1: I hope that he thought she wasn't home or something

1172
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 1: like a real room. I'll never look at the guests.

1173
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,720
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, burn it down, sell the house. I

1174
01:00:41,720 --> 01:00:43,479
Speaker 1: don't care if you just move like I just stayed

1175
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 1: to my sister's guest room and my sister's married. My

1176
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:48,520
Speaker 1: brother in law, is that where he goes to? You know,

1177
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 1: you do still do that when you're married, I know,

1178
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 1: I guess, you know. I always thought it happened when

1179
01:00:54,960 --> 01:00:57,720
Speaker 1: the other person wasn't around, But now I realize maybe

1180
01:00:57,720 --> 01:01:03,560
Speaker 1: that's where it happens, is in the guest room. Hey Bianca, Hi,

1181
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: Hi Bianca, good morning. So just to recap, if you're

1182
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:09,120
Speaker 1: just tuning insta or God. This woman UM has married

1183
01:01:09,240 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: a man who he is I guess his wife or

1184
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 1: girlfriend prior passed away. He's a widower and she caught

1185
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:21,440
Speaker 1: him doing things to himself while looking at a picture

1186
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:25,520
Speaker 1: of his deceased X and she's worried about it. What

1187
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:32,280
Speaker 1: do you think? I think? UM, I think it's very odd. UM.

1188
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 1: I lost my husband when UM I was in we

1189
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 1: have three kids. I'm in a relationship now and I

1190
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: would UM, I seek pleasuring yourself to someone who UM

1191
01:01:46,200 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: is passed on. It is not normal. I think it's

1192
01:01:50,960 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: it's weird. Now. I think it's one thing to you

1193
01:01:52,720 --> 01:01:55,480
Speaker 1: know great. I mean you can do that within partner

1194
01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:58,439
Speaker 1: and talk about them. But there I think I still

1195
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:01,520
Speaker 1: mind that and where because and become you know, disrespectfully.

1196
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: You still want to be you know, conscious of the

1197
01:02:04,560 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 1: of your new partner's feelings, right, beyonc. This might be

1198
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 1: too personal. You don't have to answer. But do you

1199
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:14,840
Speaker 1: ever think of your of your former as it was

1200
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 1: a husband, your husband, you lost your husband? Do you

1201
01:02:16,480 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: ever think of your former husband in those times where

1202
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 1: things were good, real good? I mean I think about

1203
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: him like when uh, you know, like good times that

1204
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:33,120
Speaker 1: we had, but like intimately with my new partner. Absolutely

1205
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,680
Speaker 1: not like I more so think about like the family

1206
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 1: with the kinds that we had. Okay, yeah, yeah, no, no,

1207
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 1: I understand. I just I wonder, like again, when and

1208
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: maybe this matters, it doesn't matter, but were you guys

1209
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 1: happy when he passed? To me? Were things? Would you

1210
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: probably still be together or was it dysfunctional? Or does

1211
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:58,200
Speaker 1: that matter? Um? So we were happy? Um, Now, we

1212
01:02:58,360 --> 01:03:01,520
Speaker 1: did have a so I I lost my husband to suicide,

1213
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: so we did have a argument, um before his passing.

1214
01:03:07,000 --> 01:03:11,080
Speaker 1: But um, before that, we you know, we had a

1215
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,200
Speaker 1: good relationship. He was he was kind of like my

1216
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: best friends. So but you know, I mean, like we

1217
01:03:18,120 --> 01:03:20,920
Speaker 1: we were happy and everything, but we you know, that

1218
01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:25,760
Speaker 1: last moment before he passed. Um, I'm very sorry to

1219
01:03:25,760 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: hear that. I just kind of wonder if if if

1220
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,160
Speaker 1: that matters to people who have lost somebody, if if

1221
01:03:31,280 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 1: if everything's going blissfully well, like in the case that

1222
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of. I know somebody who when things were

1223
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,560
Speaker 1: going very well. They were high school, they were college sweethearts,

1224
01:03:39,560 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: and it was you know, and then he died in

1225
01:03:42,120 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: a plane crash, and it was like I don't know

1226
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 1: how you shut that off, you know what I mean?

1227
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:48,479
Speaker 1: I just and that's why I asked, because maybe maybe

1228
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 1: if things were highly dysfunctional and it were headed in

1229
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: one direction, not to say that that person's passing isn't

1230
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:58,000
Speaker 1: still equally tragic, because it is, but maybe then it's like, well,

1231
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:00,920
Speaker 1: it's easier for me to disconnect from the romantic part

1232
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 1: of that relationship because that part wasn't there. But it

1233
01:04:03,640 --> 01:04:08,160
Speaker 1: sounds like in this case it was yes, yes, Um,

1234
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:10,600
Speaker 1: I mean it was you know, just you know, every

1235
01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 1: couple has an argument and you know they have their fight. Sure,

1236
01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: I never expected our fight too. It could be the

1237
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:20,160
Speaker 1: outcome of y was afterwards. So well, Yeng, I'm so

1238
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:23,000
Speaker 1: sorry that that's tough. That's really really hard, and I'm sorry,

1239
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:26,400
Speaker 1: but thank you for sharing. So were You're welcome, have

1240
01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 1: a good day. Thank you for calling. Um. Oh, we

1241
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 1: had another Calen, except a spelled differently, Cela n Man.

1242
01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:35,320
Speaker 1: You're the second Calen I ever met. How you doing,

1243
01:04:37,160 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 1: I'm glad? How are you very well? So? What do

1244
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 1: you stay? Go? What's your what's your take on this

1245
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:45,520
Speaker 1: this situation? I think she should stay. Um. I called

1246
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,920
Speaker 1: because I don't have any correlation with this. But my

1247
01:04:47,960 --> 01:04:50,960
Speaker 1: mom lost my dad and they were together for twelve years.

1248
01:04:51,360 --> 01:04:54,720
Speaker 1: She still says to this day that that was her soulmate. Um,

1249
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 1: but I would say that she should talk it out

1250
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: with her husband and just kind of get an idea

1251
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: of why he's doing this and kind of figure out

1252
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,240
Speaker 1: if they can move forward and maybe get couples counseling. Right,

1253
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: I gotta keep it real with you, Klin. That would

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01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 1: bother me more than the physical, Like it would bother

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01:05:13,080 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: me way more to meet someone who was And I

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01:05:16,280 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 1: don't I don't blame your mom and I can't take that,

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01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:22,560
Speaker 1: you know. I wouldn't deny her that emotion. But like

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01:05:22,560 --> 01:05:24,360
Speaker 1: if I met a woman who's like, I like you

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01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 1: and you're great and I love you even but this

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01:05:27,200 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 1: other person who passed was my person, that would bother

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01:05:30,720 --> 01:05:33,959
Speaker 1: me way more than than catching her or doing something

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01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:36,600
Speaker 1: with a picture, you know what I mean, of course,

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Speaker 1: And that's why my mom is still single. Yeah. Well,

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01:05:39,560 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry for that, you know, because she does

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01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: have a right to be happy and to move on

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01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:46,480
Speaker 1: and to have that again. I just think if if

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01:05:46,520 --> 01:05:48,800
Speaker 1: that person said that to me, as much as I

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01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:53,840
Speaker 1: would appreciate the honesty. I would that would the emotional

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01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 1: connection would bother me way more than any sort of

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01:05:56,800 --> 01:06:01,440
Speaker 1: you know, stimulus. Oh, I agree, And my mom has

1271
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:05,160
Speaker 1: dated but they just haven't worked out. And yeah, it

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01:06:05,240 --> 01:06:07,920
Speaker 1: would bother me as well. I get what you're saying. Yeah,

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01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 1: thank you so much, Calen, have a good day you too.

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01:06:12,120 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 1: Is it Coursair? Is that is your name? Courser? Yeah?

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01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 1: Of course there. Hey, how you doing. I can't say

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01:06:17,720 --> 01:06:20,280
Speaker 1: I've ever heard of that name before. Um, so what's

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01:06:20,320 --> 01:06:24,120
Speaker 1: your take on this? Good morning? Welcome? Good more efforts once?

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01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 1: I thank for shouting out the Illinois mets All counsel

1279
01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:28,360
Speaker 1: of the association the other day. I really do appreciate it.

1280
01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 1: You got what my take is. She should ultimately stay,

1281
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:34,320
Speaker 1: but with conditions, because that's like what you guys were

1282
01:06:34,320 --> 01:06:37,400
Speaker 1: talking about. That is not a healthy way of coping,

1283
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: especially what he mentioned that he was doing it to

1284
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 1: feel closer to Decea's wife. That shelped me that there's

1285
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:47,680
Speaker 1: probably some potential attachment that she's going on that he

1286
01:06:47,720 --> 01:06:50,760
Speaker 1: would need further help with. Yea, So it's possible then,

1287
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:53,360
Speaker 1: that you know, she could say, look, I we didn't

1288
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,680
Speaker 1: ask her. We don't know if if she confronted him.

1289
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 1: I mean, I know he probably is aware that she

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01:06:57,440 --> 01:07:00,080
Speaker 1: saw it, so what would be the stat but go

1291
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 1: to him as his look, I'm not really super comfy

1292
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:04,960
Speaker 1: with what I saw, Like, can we work through this

1293
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 1: together in therapy or something like that? Yeah, definitely, because

1294
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: I know she mentioned that once she asked about he said,

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01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:14,680
Speaker 1: that's not something to worry about. He was just doing

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01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: it to feel closer to his deceased wife. But if

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01:07:17,720 --> 01:07:19,920
Speaker 1: that's the case, the ultimately it sounds like he's not

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01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 1: one hundred percent over her to really be fully committed

1299
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 1: in this new relationship. That interesting. Interesting. Thank you, of course, Sarah,

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01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 1: Illinois Mental Health Association. Many of us on this show

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01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:33,840
Speaker 1: keep the mental health industry in business on our own,

1302
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,440
Speaker 1: so we appreciate you, and you should appreciate us quite frankly,

1303
01:07:37,480 --> 01:07:41,840
Speaker 1: because we really we get to that co pay right away.

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01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 1: It does not take long at all. All right, definitely

1305
01:07:45,400 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: appreciate thank you, guys. I have a good day. St Yeah, yeah,

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01:07:47,960 --> 01:07:53,040
Speaker 1: that's yes. My best friend lost her boyfriend and is

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01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: with someone new. And she doesn't do this, but her

1308
01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 1: new boyfriend is really has been supportive and allows her

1309
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 1: to talk about him and stuff just but the way

1310
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 1: that she remembers him is like just once a year

1311
01:08:04,800 --> 01:08:07,360
Speaker 1: on the anniversary of his passing, she gets out his picture,

1312
01:08:07,480 --> 01:08:10,320
Speaker 1: she watches their shows, she listens to their music, and

1313
01:08:10,400 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: she has that day and her partner's understanding of that.

1314
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:17,799
Speaker 1: So maybe that's like more of a hoping to grieve,

1315
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:20,640
Speaker 1: but I don't think she's still You can ask for it,

1316
01:08:21,880 --> 01:08:24,400
Speaker 1: he can do it well, he can grieve all year long.

1317
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:26,839
Speaker 1: But I'm saying I think maybe that's more healthy practice

1318
01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:31,360
Speaker 1: than the sexual aspect. Yeah. Sometimes I just think you

1319
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,600
Speaker 1: need to just wait and to heal yourself before you

1320
01:08:34,640 --> 01:08:38,800
Speaker 1: move on, you know, because a person, do you ever heal?

1321
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 1: Though from that I wonder. I don't know, you don't heal,

1322
01:08:40,920 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 1: but you need to go through some extensive therapy for

1323
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:47,360
Speaker 1: me too, he does not. Yeah, So Adriana, good morning,

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01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:51,240
Speaker 1: you've been through this. Yes, UM, my husband past three

1325
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: years ago and we were high school sweethearts so much. Sorry,

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01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't, Um, I can't, uh, you know,

1327
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:04,040
Speaker 1: like say that it's easy. It's obviously not easy to

1328
01:09:04,080 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 1: move on. UM. I haven't moved on yet. UM, and

1329
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:10,400
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not not looking forward to move on.

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01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:16,719
Speaker 1: But at least I can say that, um the shrine thing. Um,

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01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:20,880
Speaker 1: at least in my Hispanic community. UM, you know, uh,

1332
01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:26,360
Speaker 1: in the Hispanic community, that's common. I have a shrine. Um,

1333
01:09:26,800 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 1: and um, you don't stop thinking about them no matter what.

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01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,320
Speaker 1: If you moved on, Adriana, in another relationship, would you

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01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 1: continue to have that presence of your X or would

1336
01:09:36,080 --> 01:09:38,479
Speaker 1: you would you minimize it slightly to make the other

1337
01:09:38,479 --> 01:09:42,600
Speaker 1: person feel comfortable. Well, I mean I can understand that

1338
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:46,519
Speaker 1: the other person would need to feel comfortable. Um, but

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01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:51,800
Speaker 1: as UM, I guess to me, I'm not ready to

1340
01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:55,400
Speaker 1: move on and I'm not gonna um. So so that's

1341
01:09:55,439 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: just a decision that I choose. Um. That sounds like

1342
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:01,760
Speaker 1: the key though, you know what I mean, Like it

1343
01:10:01,800 --> 01:10:04,679
Speaker 1: sounds that you're aware that you're not ready. Maybe maybe

1344
01:10:04,720 --> 01:10:09,040
Speaker 1: he wasn't ready and isn't willing to face exactly. Yeah. Yeah,

1345
01:10:09,080 --> 01:10:11,960
Speaker 1: and he just wanted to, I guess, open up a

1346
01:10:12,000 --> 01:10:16,599
Speaker 1: possibility and then you know it ended up in a relationship. Yeah.

1347
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:20,439
Speaker 1: But um, but she's she's very I heard her what

1348
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:23,760
Speaker 1: she said, you know, like, that's very that's great of

1349
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:27,880
Speaker 1: her that she accepted his grief and he's there. I mean,

1350
01:10:28,080 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't think it's a threat, um,

1351
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:35,880
Speaker 1: just because um, you know I do it myself. But

1352
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:39,719
Speaker 1: it's um. Like I said, my mom was my high

1353
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:45,120
Speaker 1: school sweetheart. Um, we were together twenty one years. Well well, well,

1354
01:10:45,320 --> 01:10:47,639
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry for your loss, but I do appreciate

1355
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: you calling and sharing. Thank you so much, have a

1356
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 1: good day. Thank you. I'll take one more. Like that's

1357
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 1: really sad, But you know, the big difference there is

1358
01:10:56,439 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 1: that she's admitted that she's doing this stuff, but she's

1359
01:10:59,760 --> 01:11:02,839
Speaker 1: also with somebody else, which I think is a key difference.

1360
01:11:02,880 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: Hey Lauren, Hey, good morning. Hi Laurens. Their go you

1361
01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:11,639
Speaker 1: get the final say what do you think? I think?

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01:11:12,080 --> 01:11:15,800
Speaker 1: I think what she led into obviously is weird and awkward. Um,

1363
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:19,639
Speaker 1: but when you're when with someone who's lost the love

1364
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,400
Speaker 1: of their life, you're always going to be that second best.

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01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 1: You're never going to live up to that person when

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01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:29,000
Speaker 1: you're in that relationship. And from my experience, seeing my

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01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 1: mom go through that with my sec dad, like she'll

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01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:35,000
Speaker 1: never be the love of his life and it's very

1369
01:11:35,080 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 1: obvious in their marriage, and so UM that's me. I

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01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 1: couldn't I couldn't imagine. And I agreed with Tiki. You know,

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01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,679
Speaker 1: get counseling, make sure that you are one hundred percent

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01:11:46,800 --> 01:11:49,679
Speaker 1: ready to move on, because when you just get back

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01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:53,799
Speaker 1: into it after losing that that significant part in your life,

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01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:56,760
Speaker 1: and then you try to replace that part, it's just

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01:11:57,200 --> 01:12:01,559
Speaker 1: it seems like an insurmountable thing to have to go through. Lauren,

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01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 1: I'm still worried about what's going on in the guest

1377
01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 1: room with a lot of my married friends. Okay, really

1378
01:12:07,320 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 1: concerns me. I'm married and I have a guest room,

1379
01:12:10,760 --> 01:12:14,160
Speaker 1: and you would be safe at our house. Okay, Wow,

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01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:16,519
Speaker 1: that's good, you know, Lauren, maybe I'll stay with you

1381
01:12:16,840 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 1: from now on when I he another place to stay.

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01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:21,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, I have a good day bye. I'm like,

1383
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:23,879
Speaker 1: if this is where married people are doing the FreeCom

1384
01:12:24,160 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 1: if this is where the chase, this is where like

1385
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 1: the rubber sheets come out and stuff, I'm like, I

1386
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:31,720
Speaker 1: don't think, I'll say, I don't know, I'll know the

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01:12:31,800 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 1: hotel is much safer, though not at all. Entertainment import

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Speaker 1: went down last night, and y'all, Jimmy Kimmel is getting

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Speaker 1: dragged to hell, and I think he deserves it. So

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Speaker 1: as a winner, Queen to Brunson was giving her acceptance

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Speaker 1: speech if you missed it, for some stupid reason, he

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01:13:17,360 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 1: laid on the stage for like an awkwardly long time

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01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 1: as she was winning the Emmy for Writing on a

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Speaker 1: Comedy Series, and she tried. She literally had to like

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01:13:26,240 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 1: step around him, and he obnoxiously just refused to move.

1404
01:13:30,640 --> 01:13:34,120
Speaker 1: Will Arnette tried to literally move him. She tried to

1405
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 1: crack a joke like hey, wake up, like I'm winning.

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01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: She tried. Everybody was trying. Obviously, people are really pissed

1407
01:13:44,560 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 1: on social and listen, let's call a spade a spade.

1408
01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:50,040
Speaker 1: He stole her entire moment, a moment that she probably

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01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:52,679
Speaker 1: waited her entire life for and she will never get back.

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01:13:52,760 --> 01:13:55,479
Speaker 1: So while I don't think he is a bad person

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01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 1: or has bad intentions, I cannot bring my mind to

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01:13:58,520 --> 01:14:01,360
Speaker 1: the place. But thought that was a good idea. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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01:14:01,640 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 1: it went too far. It started off Will and Jimmy

1414
01:14:04,320 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 1: Kimmel came out to present the award, and he's just

1415
01:14:07,640 --> 01:14:10,280
Speaker 1: like I had too many skinny margharitas after losing his

1416
01:14:10,360 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 1: category joke, and then it was a bit he laid

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01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:16,760
Speaker 1: down and they announced the winner, and then like, get

1418
01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:18,559
Speaker 1: up and get out of the wind. Rights over right,

1419
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 1: none of that matters. Looks like a jerk, because it's

1420
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:23,639
Speaker 1: like he's part like he's part of it, and he's

1421
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:25,479
Speaker 1: just like, my hands are cleaning this bra, I'm out

1422
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 1: of the way. Yeah, I hate to be I feel

1423
01:14:27,520 --> 01:14:29,439
Speaker 1: bad for him a little bit, just because you know

1424
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:32,679
Speaker 1: how I'm the friend that plays too much sometimes. So yeah,

1425
01:14:32,840 --> 01:14:35,200
Speaker 1: so I know he didn't have bad intentions, No, but

1426
01:14:35,240 --> 01:14:37,519
Speaker 1: he's gonna be thinking about this and feeling bad for

1427
01:14:37,640 --> 01:14:42,040
Speaker 1: a long time, right, like right, but got up? Can

1428
01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 1: you imagine thinking, Okay, she's giving her speech, let me

1429
01:14:45,000 --> 01:14:47,800
Speaker 1: keep this joke going, Yeah, because like that, you have

1430
01:14:47,840 --> 01:14:49,880
Speaker 1: to be pretty self centered to think I really need

1431
01:14:49,920 --> 01:14:52,519
Speaker 1: this bit to land. Yeah, I don't know. For me,

1432
01:14:52,680 --> 01:14:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm pissed he stole her moment, But yes, I don't

1433
01:14:54,960 --> 01:14:56,439
Speaker 1: think he's a bad person. I don't think he meant

1434
01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:58,360
Speaker 1: to steal her moment. But that's what he did, and

1435
01:14:58,400 --> 01:14:59,760
Speaker 1: he will be thinking about it for a long time

1436
01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:02,479
Speaker 1: because people aren't gonna let him forget no real quick

1437
01:15:02,520 --> 01:15:05,599
Speaker 1: to say that Kanye West is frustrated with Adidas and Gap,

1438
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:09,040
Speaker 1: that's an understatement. He said, they're my new baby mamas.

1439
01:15:09,080 --> 01:15:11,040
Speaker 1: I guess we're just gonna have to co parent those

1440
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: three fifties. He's gonna let his contracts run out and

1441
01:15:14,840 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 1: then he wants to go things alone, try to do

1442
01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 1: it alone. But obviously he does have contracts with these

1443
01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:23,800
Speaker 1: two huge companies. He said, we create, recreated ideas that

1444
01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:26,519
Speaker 1: will change apparel forever. Now it's time for me to

1445
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 1: make a new industry. No more companies standing between me

1446
01:15:29,360 --> 01:15:31,800
Speaker 1: and the audience. But they're going to stand in his

1447
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:34,360
Speaker 1: way for a minute because his deal with Adidas expires

1448
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 1: in twenty twenty six, and his contract with Gap doesn't

1449
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:40,559
Speaker 1: run out till twenty thirty, so he's gonna be waiting

1450
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:44,120
Speaker 1: a while. Yeah, you know, but they're his new baby mamas.

1451
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:47,439
Speaker 1: I mean, Kanye just needs to just work for Kanye.

1452
01:15:47,560 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 1: Every time he gets in a partnership with anybody, it

1453
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:52,160
Speaker 1: doesn't work out. You know what. I don't think he

1454
01:15:52,200 --> 01:15:53,599
Speaker 1: was the kid in school that could do a group

1455
01:15:53,680 --> 01:15:57,600
Speaker 1: assignment at all. You know. So we know Gildan T

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01:15:57,760 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 1: shirts for four hundred dollars from like with I'm holding it.

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01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 1: He says he wants to go on his own, but

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01:16:03,880 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: he kind of needs Adidas in Gap to like produce

1459
01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 1: him to make it. He didn't say like I made

1460
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:13,559
Speaker 1: them money and they made me money. That was more

1461
01:16:13,560 --> 01:16:16,360
Speaker 1: self aware than I thought he could ever be. Yeah, um,

1462
01:16:17,200 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: but I swear something he's gonna come out and be like,

1463
01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:21,800
Speaker 1: you know, all that stuff I made it was ugly,

1464
01:16:21,840 --> 01:16:23,519
Speaker 1: and I just wanted to see if you all were cheap,

1465
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 1: and you are, and you spend a lot of money

1466
01:16:25,320 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: on it, and you'll look to dope. Some of it's

1467
01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:29,679
Speaker 1: just like rich. I think he's kidding. I'm not putting

1468
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 1: that on my feet. I'm sorry. Hey, I will say

1469
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:33,760
Speaker 1: those damp slides are the most comfortable thing I own.

1470
01:16:33,880 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: I never want It's like I'm walking on clouds. Well,

1471
01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:40,080
Speaker 1: so that's how Ruful feels about Crocks too. Yeah, it's

1472
01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:43,200
Speaker 1: almost there. I almost got Jason. He keeps seeing there

1473
01:16:43,360 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 1: I have to you're sexually active. Please don't do that

1474
01:16:47,720 --> 01:16:50,840
Speaker 1: online Today the fullest of Emmy winners are on Friend Show.

1475
01:16:50,920 --> 01:16:54,960
Speaker 1: Radiology does depending on the day. Yeah, so the Friend Show,

1476
01:16:59,720 --> 01:17:04,000
Speaker 1: Fish Shelley. Currently. You know we're in a good space.

1477
01:17:04,000 --> 01:17:05,400
Speaker 1: But if I see you when crocks, I'll know that

1478
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:07,400
Speaker 1: you're not. You can you can put the crocks this

1479
01:17:07,479 --> 01:17:20,200
Speaker 1: sport mode, you know, put the show. Let's welcome you, Challenger.

1480
01:17:20,240 --> 01:17:23,240
Speaker 1: Today we got Lewis. We got a whole boy, Lewis.

1481
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 1: How are you doing. I'm doing well. Thank you about you, Lewis.

1482
01:17:27,920 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 1: Welcome to the program. Let's learn all about you. Tell

1483
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:34,599
Speaker 1: us some stuff. Oh well, right now, I just wrought

1484
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:37,960
Speaker 1: Beyonce off of her daycare job and I'm on my

1485
01:17:38,000 --> 01:17:41,639
Speaker 1: way home. She had a bread winner, Shet. She out

1486
01:17:41,680 --> 01:17:44,040
Speaker 1: there making all the money. Lewis, you you're just hanging

1487
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:48,320
Speaker 1: out eating bonbons all day. Now. I'm gonna doing my

1488
01:17:48,360 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 1: one day off today, and good for you. I was

1489
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:55,080
Speaker 1: gonna say, you can if you're dropping the wife off.

1490
01:17:55,120 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 1: Then you go home and chill. You got a good gig.

1491
01:17:56,960 --> 01:17:58,519
Speaker 1: I like it. I'm happy for you. You're going to

1492
01:17:58,560 --> 01:18:05,800
Speaker 1: the gifts room, my guy, No dead wife, stay out

1493
01:18:06,560 --> 01:18:11,280
Speaker 1: with any pictures of exits. Okay, you don't meet it, Hey, Shelley,

1494
01:18:11,280 --> 01:18:12,840
Speaker 1: if I come stay with you as your guest room

1495
01:18:12,880 --> 01:18:18,080
Speaker 1: safe guest room, I was gonna face it's the couch safe,

1496
01:18:18,120 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 1: but I know the answer, so no, it's not. No,

1497
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:25,760
Speaker 1: No couch is safe. Um that's the thing. You go

1498
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 1: to your friend's houses and you sit on the couch

1499
01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:29,519
Speaker 1: all the time. You know. Anyway, are you worried about

1500
01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:34,599
Speaker 1: the guest room? Yeah? Yeah, Um, let's play the game, guys.

1501
01:18:34,640 --> 01:18:37,920
Speaker 1: Eight fifties Surprised six, twenty four and forty two is

1502
01:18:37,920 --> 01:18:43,800
Speaker 1: Shelley's impressive record nine game wins. Treat you guys, ready, Okay, yeah, right,

1503
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 1: get the Hello Shelley. All right, let's uh, she's gone.

1504
01:18:51,040 --> 01:18:54,920
Speaker 1: Question number one which Blink one eighty two drummer played

1505
01:18:55,000 --> 01:18:57,719
Speaker 1: at the Tommy Hill figure show for New York Fashion

1506
01:18:57,760 --> 01:19:08,080
Speaker 1: Week three. Okay, all right, let's regroup here which singer

1507
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:11,679
Speaker 1: said the infamous red scarf from her song All Too

1508
01:19:11,760 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 1: Well is just a metaphor. Kelly Rippa said she blacked

1509
01:19:18,360 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 1: out during sex with her husband and woke up in

1510
01:19:20,520 --> 01:19:23,639
Speaker 1: the er who she married to? And it's not Dick

1511
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:33,160
Speaker 1: Cheese Crest three two fun. Tom Brady's wife was noticeably absent.

1512
01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:36,599
Speaker 1: Tom Brady's wife was noticeably absent during his season opening

1513
01:19:36,640 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 1: game name his wife three? Come on, my dude, by

1514
01:19:46,680 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 1: the way, I know that, like we I know we

1515
01:19:50,240 --> 01:19:52,719
Speaker 1: have some context here. But he did look kind of sad.

1516
01:19:53,000 --> 01:19:56,439
Speaker 1: He didn't look he didn't look like a different person.

1517
01:19:56,520 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't know, but he wasn't exuding that sort of

1518
01:19:59,000 --> 01:20:02,120
Speaker 1: tom Brady or I don't know. Something's up with that.

1519
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:05,960
Speaker 1: And this actor and filmmaker known for his media movies

1520
01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:11,760
Speaker 1: celebrates his fifty third birthday today. That's two, all right,

1521
01:20:11,800 --> 01:20:14,000
Speaker 1: you got two. It's not gonna hold up Lewis, but

1522
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:22,840
Speaker 1: let's see you have your cut. Even a sport Mode

1523
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 1: two is as good as he could do. It took

1524
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:30,720
Speaker 1: a long time, Okay, yeah, it did him. Yeah, we

1525
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:32,760
Speaker 1: tried to give him every opportunity. But it's okay. We

1526
01:20:32,800 --> 01:20:36,040
Speaker 1: still love Lewis um which Blink one eighty two drummer

1527
01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:38,439
Speaker 1: played at the Tommy Hill Figure Show for New York

1528
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:42,360
Speaker 1: Fashion Week Chas Sparker. By the way, you get that big, big,

1529
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:44,280
Speaker 1: huge thing of spit that just went like I just

1530
01:20:44,400 --> 01:20:46,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, I get you didn't. I'm sure it's

1531
01:20:47,120 --> 01:20:48,960
Speaker 1: that we can do the replay because she's filming. I mean,

1532
01:20:49,000 --> 01:20:50,840
Speaker 1: I just get really into this game and it's just

1533
01:20:51,040 --> 01:20:54,799
Speaker 1: I'm just so like ready to go this way. Really,

1534
01:20:55,720 --> 01:20:57,479
Speaker 1: it didn't get it didn't hit you. I don't know.

1535
01:20:57,560 --> 01:20:58,760
Speaker 1: You said it went this way and it was a

1536
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:03,120
Speaker 1: big thing of spit. Did you feel it? Yikes? Really no,

1537
01:21:03,160 --> 01:21:05,439
Speaker 1: I didn't feel it. This lady who eaton cheos at

1538
01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:09,280
Speaker 1: work all day, touching everything you worried about that, I know. Okay,

1539
01:21:09,800 --> 01:21:14,960
Speaker 1: get out of go charge your car, which sing that's

1540
01:21:15,000 --> 01:21:16,800
Speaker 1: that's my that's my only disc for your phone, And

1541
01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:19,120
Speaker 1: go charge your car. That's a big dis which. Singer

1542
01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:21,439
Speaker 1: said that the infamous red scar from her song All

1543
01:21:21,479 --> 01:21:24,719
Speaker 1: Too Well is just a metaphor Taylor Swift. Yeah. Kelly

1544
01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:26,960
Speaker 1: Rippa said she blacked out during sex with her husband

1545
01:21:27,080 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 1: and woke up in the er. Who is she married to? Mark?

1546
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:34,320
Speaker 1: Tom Brady's wife was noticeably absent during his season opening game.

1547
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 1: Name his wife and this actor and filmmaker known for

1548
01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:43,080
Speaker 1: his media movies, celebrates his fifty third birthday today. Tyler Perry,

1549
01:21:43,280 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 1: here you nice job, Lewis. My dude, you have to say,

1550
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:49,960
Speaker 1: my name is Lewis. I got showed up on the showdown.

1551
01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:54,800
Speaker 1: You know the rest. All right, that's stick. My name

1552
01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:57,240
Speaker 1: is Lewis. I got showed up on a showdown and

1553
01:21:57,320 --> 01:22:07,439
Speaker 1: I can't hey with the gorilla who was sick everybody.

1554
01:22:07,840 --> 01:22:09,360
Speaker 1: You made up for it right there, man, that you

1555
01:22:09,360 --> 01:22:11,559
Speaker 1: made up for a lackluster performance with them. I'm gonna

1556
01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,320
Speaker 1: give you tickets to a Jack's Pumpkin pop up. It's

1557
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:17,760
Speaker 1: uh September twenty second through October thirty first. It's a

1558
01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:19,559
Speaker 1: good time. They got drinks, they got all kinds of

1559
01:22:19,560 --> 01:22:22,720
Speaker 1: stuff there Jack's Pumpkin pop Up dot com. Thanks to

1560
01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:25,000
Speaker 1: a boys group. You got tickets to that just because

1561
01:22:25,000 --> 01:22:29,800
Speaker 1: I like the gorilla. Did a good job with the gorilla, Lewishama,

1562
01:22:30,000 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: thank you. There you go, man, he smack. Yeah, he's

1563
01:22:35,280 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 1: a thirteen loyal right yeah he is. Yeah, stay right there,

1564
01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:43,040
Speaker 1: Lewis fantastic, all right. Nine hundred tomorrow Shelley ten game

1565
01:22:43,040 --> 01:22:45,200
Speaker 1: win streak. What's coming up on your program? Later on today?

1566
01:22:45,280 --> 01:22:47,200
Speaker 1: Ten to noon on one or three point five fim

1567
01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:51,320
Speaker 1: for that air You're gonna be God smacks so fairly.

1568
01:22:51,360 --> 01:22:54,080
Speaker 1: According to a new study of my husband lost brain

1569
01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:55,920
Speaker 1: cells after having a baby. So I don't know, I'll

1570
01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:58,120
Speaker 1: tell you more about that. And then I also had

1571
01:22:58,160 --> 01:23:01,479
Speaker 1: Jack's pumpkin pop up tickets and uh, I have another

1572
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:04,360
Speaker 1: pair of tickets that's escaping me at the moment. Dead Mouse,

1573
01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:11,639
Speaker 1: that's actually that's it Roy his dead Mouse plan Eric Eric?

1574
01:23:12,880 --> 01:23:14,760
Speaker 1: Is it him and Cascade or just dead Mouse? Just

1575
01:23:14,880 --> 01:23:19,080
Speaker 1: dead Mouse? Five? All right? I like Dead Mouse? Where

1576
01:23:19,640 --> 01:23:22,600
Speaker 1: the thing you guys still does huh even though we

1577
01:23:22,640 --> 01:23:24,000
Speaker 1: all know what he looks like. You got a fan

1578
01:23:24,080 --> 01:23:27,040
Speaker 1: in there? Oh yeah, I like dead Mouse. Um with

1579
01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:29,760
Speaker 1: the velt. I like that song the velt. No no

1580
01:23:29,760 --> 01:23:32,519
Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no no yes.

1581
01:23:32,760 --> 01:23:33,960
Speaker 1: And have you ever watched it? I know we've talked

1582
01:23:34,000 --> 01:23:35,519
Speaker 1: about it before, but have you ever watched the video

1583
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 1: where he um? There's a video on YouTube where Dead

1584
01:23:38,479 --> 01:23:43,360
Speaker 1: Mouse had fans submit the vocals for his song, and

1585
01:23:43,560 --> 01:23:45,799
Speaker 1: it is a video of him in his studio listening

1586
01:23:45,800 --> 01:23:48,000
Speaker 1: to the vocals that wound up being on that song

1587
01:23:48,080 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: for the first time, and it was just a fan

1588
01:23:49,439 --> 01:23:52,080
Speaker 1: that just submitted it, and it's just him freaking out,

1589
01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:54,439
Speaker 1: like him and his wife that he couldn't believe. He

1590
01:23:54,439 --> 01:23:56,080
Speaker 1: calls her in the room because he's like, this is

1591
01:23:56,200 --> 01:23:58,639
Speaker 1: random person recorded the vocals. He's like, this is exactly

1592
01:23:58,680 --> 01:24:00,200
Speaker 1: what I wanted. And then he put it on that

1593
01:24:00,240 --> 01:24:01,479
Speaker 1: song and the song was a hitt. And I don't

1594
01:24:01,479 --> 01:24:03,519
Speaker 1: know what happened to that person, but somebody on the

1595
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:06,000
Speaker 1: internet get paid. I help. But anyway, that's a great

1596
01:24:06,320 --> 01:24:08,519
Speaker 1: you ever met? Uh? Because you know, like dead Mouse

1597
01:24:08,560 --> 01:24:10,639
Speaker 1: and then you have like Marshmallow who also wears a mask,

1598
01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:12,439
Speaker 1: like have you ever met these guys? And then they

1599
01:24:12,479 --> 01:24:14,599
Speaker 1: talked through the mask. I just got the biggest kick

1600
01:24:14,600 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: out of it. What you did an interview with them

1601
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:18,599
Speaker 1: and they wore the mask. I didn't interview with Marshmallow once,

1602
01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,200
Speaker 1: and he was like, huh, how long does it take off?

1603
01:24:21,600 --> 01:24:23,880
Speaker 1: They got the helmet. I've never seen what he looks like,

1604
01:24:24,200 --> 01:24:26,200
Speaker 1: because I know what we know what dead Mouse looks like. Yeah,

1605
01:24:26,200 --> 01:24:27,840
Speaker 1: he does take it off more, I think, but yeah,

1606
01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:29,439
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I laughed trying to think

1607
01:24:29,439 --> 01:24:34,680
Speaker 1: of a better Every interviewed anybody in costume, like how

1608
01:24:34,720 --> 01:24:39,920
Speaker 1: are you going. No, that's a great impressive impression of

1609
01:24:41,080 --> 01:24:51,640
Speaker 1: somebody inside, so funny, kind of funny that it was

1610
01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 1: so funny. I'm trying to remember there's a showy you

1611
01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:08,479
Speaker 1: need some sleep, grant, we're doing impression. Yeah, Okay, are

1612
01:25:08,479 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 1: you okay? No, tap the microphone three times if you

1613
01:25:14,560 --> 01:25:19,000
Speaker 1: need help. Halfway there was only two times. There's only

1614
01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:21,320
Speaker 1: two taps. Okay, Shelly, we love you. Go to take

1615
01:25:21,360 --> 01:25:30,040
Speaker 1: a nap or something. Okay. Everything carries on. Shelley is

1616
01:25:30,080 --> 01:25:40,120
Speaker 1: officially lost WK Chicago Kiss FM and I Heart Radio station.

1617
01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:43,960
Speaker 1: It's Fred morning. Everyone just want to say hi and

1618
01:25:44,040 --> 01:25:46,760
Speaker 1: thank you for having us. We're so glad you're here.

1619
01:25:47,400 --> 01:25:50,559
Speaker 1: It's the Tuesday Freend showing eight oh six. New episode

1620
01:25:50,560 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 1: of the Tangent Our Officer Uncentered podcast is up a

1621
01:25:52,760 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 1: little bit of an update on Paulina's promise as we're

1622
01:25:57,200 --> 01:26:02,200
Speaker 1: calling you, Paulina's promise, he's promise coming you soon coming

1623
01:26:02,200 --> 01:26:06,439
Speaker 1: to one person, it just sounds like a movie. No,

1624
01:26:06,840 --> 01:26:11,200
Speaker 1: don't look at me. Pauline has a promise in theaters

1625
01:26:12,000 --> 01:26:20,400
Speaker 1: coming somebody string. Are you making a movie? Girl? I

1626
01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:23,439
Speaker 1: didn't know we were filming. Not the first time. Please,

1627
01:26:24,280 --> 01:26:32,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna guest bedroom staying there, bring a ring, cameras back,

1628
01:26:36,840 --> 01:26:39,760
Speaker 1: bring it all back, all the equipment to bring ring light.

1629
01:26:41,920 --> 01:26:44,160
Speaker 1: They out there on the front. Yeah. Whatever, that's how

1630
01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:47,760
Speaker 1: they do it. Pauline promise on the iHeart Radio have

1631
01:26:49,960 --> 01:26:53,280
Speaker 1: Search for the Fridge show. You gotta do the breathw thing.

1632
01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:56,519
Speaker 1: If someday one day I can't wait. One day I'm

1633
01:26:56,520 --> 01:26:58,120
Speaker 1: gonna get to do a movie trailer and one day

1634
01:26:58,160 --> 01:27:01,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do I'll be the voice of a turtle, okay,

1635
01:27:02,040 --> 01:27:04,360
Speaker 1: or something. If you honestly don't like I don't think

1636
01:27:04,360 --> 01:27:07,720
Speaker 1: your life mission will be fulfilled? No, like truly no.

1637
01:27:07,880 --> 01:27:10,080
Speaker 1: But my agent doesn't do it. An I gotta hire

1638
01:27:10,080 --> 01:27:12,439
Speaker 1: a new agent. My agent doesn't do anything like nothing.

1639
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:15,240
Speaker 1: I gotta hire a new agent. I'm serious, man, Like

1640
01:27:15,280 --> 01:27:18,600
Speaker 1: I actually the voice of a turtle right now? All right,

1641
01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:21,759
Speaker 1: you can't choose one. You could be an animated character

1642
01:27:21,880 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 1: in a movie or the Cubs thing Cubs first page

1643
01:27:25,760 --> 01:27:28,519
Speaker 1: animated character in the movie all day. Okay, the Cubs

1644
01:27:28,520 --> 01:27:31,360
Speaker 1: are upsetting me cus they don't even respond to my tweets.

1645
01:27:31,479 --> 01:27:32,760
Speaker 1: The other day I say, hey, can I have one

1646
01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 1: of those uh? I talk about about the Cubs all

1647
01:27:36,360 --> 01:27:38,840
Speaker 1: the time. Yeah, they're a client of the radio station.

1648
01:27:38,920 --> 01:27:40,559
Speaker 1: I go, can I have a Cookie Monster babble head?

1649
01:27:40,640 --> 01:27:43,439
Speaker 1: No response, It's like, what come on, you guys. I'm

1650
01:27:43,479 --> 01:27:47,439
Speaker 1: a fan, right if I guarantee. I hate to be

1651
01:27:47,520 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 1: like this, but I guarantee if the White Socks had

1652
01:27:49,560 --> 01:27:51,720
Speaker 1: Cookie Monster babblehead and I go, hey, White Socks, can

1653
01:27:51,760 --> 01:27:54,879
Speaker 1: I have a Quikie Monster babble head, I'd have one delivered.

1654
01:27:55,240 --> 01:27:58,200
Speaker 1: That's when they gave me first pitch. I'm I'm a

1655
01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:03,400
Speaker 1: Cubs fan. These guys Kinki, what a they doing? I mean,

1656
01:28:03,479 --> 01:28:05,840
Speaker 1: South Sag gonna hold it down for you baby all day,

1657
01:28:05,960 --> 01:28:08,640
Speaker 1: so it would appear this house. He does hold it

1658
01:28:08,680 --> 01:28:14,160
Speaker 1: down for me, baby. It does appear that way. Yes,

1659
01:28:16,400 --> 01:28:18,760
Speaker 1: but I would take this is no offense to the Cubs,

1660
01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:20,640
Speaker 1: of course I would like that to happen too, But

1661
01:28:20,720 --> 01:28:24,519
Speaker 1: I would take animated figure in a movie because of royalties.

1662
01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:26,280
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, yeah, you get up there in that

1663
01:28:26,400 --> 01:28:29,519
Speaker 1: Disney Pixar something like that. Yeah, right, we do like

1664
01:28:29,560 --> 01:28:32,000
Speaker 1: a toy story merch, you know, one through ninety seven

1665
01:28:32,080 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 1: or whatever, and exactly how to use your voice in

1666
01:28:34,080 --> 01:28:37,400
Speaker 1: the merch in the video game. Heh hell, yeah. Everything.

1667
01:28:37,800 --> 01:28:41,280
Speaker 1: Someday that's a dream come true. Someday, Rufio, it'll happen.

1668
01:28:41,720 --> 01:28:44,639
Speaker 1: The entertainment reports coming up. We got good news stories

1669
01:28:44,640 --> 01:28:46,559
Speaker 1: waiting by the phone on the way as well. Fun fact,

1670
01:28:46,560 --> 01:28:48,679
Speaker 1: what are you working on? Calm for the port ladies.

1671
01:28:48,760 --> 01:28:51,280
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you another reason. I know Kiki agrees

1672
01:28:51,280 --> 01:28:54,519
Speaker 1: that you should not date a man with social media.

1673
01:28:55,360 --> 01:29:01,800
Speaker 1: Get out of here, okay, but you all can have it. Yes, yeah,

1674
01:29:01,960 --> 01:29:08,240
Speaker 1: we're not kidding exactly. Or double tappened, Rufio. There's nothing

1675
01:29:08,280 --> 01:29:12,800
Speaker 1: wrong with the double double click. He happens. Give me

1676
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:16,080
Speaker 1: click on Instagram with his mouse. I do, I do.

1677
01:29:16,280 --> 01:29:20,000
Speaker 1: That's fine, don't worry, don't worry about it. He's my

1678
01:29:20,080 --> 01:29:23,920
Speaker 1: apple to c It's fine. It's all good. Nice Only

1679
01:29:23,960 --> 01:29:26,800
Speaker 1: Rufio got that joke with us, all right, that would

1680
01:29:26,840 --> 01:29:29,439
Speaker 1: make sense though, good news, happy story shout out United

1681
01:29:29,439 --> 01:29:32,280
Speaker 1: Auto Insurance seven seven three two or two five thousand.

1682
01:29:32,360 --> 01:29:36,719
Speaker 1: They got you covered. Shut go calin some happy stuff,

1683
01:29:36,720 --> 01:29:38,800
Speaker 1: would you find? Yes. A nurse is being hailed a

1684
01:29:38,880 --> 01:29:41,559
Speaker 1: hero when her quick thinking helps save the life of

1685
01:29:41,600 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 1: a newborn baby on a flight to Florida. Tamra Pozzino's

1686
01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:48,799
Speaker 1: heroic ash actions were praised online by he and Cassette,

1687
01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:53,720
Speaker 1: who is a meteorologist for a station in Orlando, and

1688
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:57,280
Speaker 1: he just was coincidentally sitting by her on the same flight,

1689
01:29:57,320 --> 01:29:59,519
Speaker 1: so he was able to like cover it. Um Ian

1690
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:02,599
Speaker 1: posted a video to Twitter taken during the aftermath of

1691
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 1: the heart wrenching incident, where Tama was able to successfully

1692
01:30:06,000 --> 01:30:10,040
Speaker 1: help three month old Angelie, who stopped breathing. No word

1693
01:30:10,080 --> 01:30:12,519
Speaker 1: on why she stopped breathing, but people on the flight

1694
01:30:12,600 --> 01:30:15,439
Speaker 1: said that her little lips started to turn purple. The

1695
01:30:15,720 --> 01:30:18,920
Speaker 1: parents of three month old Angelie were so scared. They've

1696
01:30:18,960 --> 01:30:21,639
Speaker 1: never seen this happen before, obviously, and they are now

1697
01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:25,320
Speaker 1: praising the positive energy of the plane and the heroic

1698
01:30:25,400 --> 01:30:28,439
Speaker 1: actions of Tama for saving her little life. Oh you

1699
01:30:28,479 --> 01:30:31,280
Speaker 1: know that reporter sitting there's like that, I'm out of Orlando.

1700
01:30:31,360 --> 01:30:33,680
Speaker 1: Bass gonna get me a job at Saint Louis now.

1701
01:30:33,760 --> 01:30:38,160
Speaker 1: He's a meteorologies whatever. He's like, I guess a viral

1702
01:30:38,200 --> 01:30:41,080
Speaker 1: story happening right now. He loved it. I'm going to Sacramento.

1703
01:30:43,360 --> 01:30:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm out of here if this is going on my

1704
01:30:46,000 --> 01:30:50,040
Speaker 1: reel right right now, and he covered it. I used

1705
01:30:50,040 --> 01:30:52,800
Speaker 1: to think like that when I wasn't working in Chicago. Really,

1706
01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:56,120
Speaker 1: every anything that would happen that could potentially be viral

1707
01:30:56,160 --> 01:30:59,360
Speaker 1: of it in any way, I'd be like, oh, hell yeah,

1708
01:30:59,800 --> 01:31:06,679
Speaker 1: I'm making news. Baby. Finally it happened. By the way,

1709
01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:09,080
Speaker 1: I just looked at the picture of the you know

1710
01:31:09,120 --> 01:31:11,800
Speaker 1: what a Laura keet looks like. You know what a

1711
01:31:11,800 --> 01:31:15,679
Speaker 1: parakeet looks like. It's like a bird, very beautiful colored bird.

1712
01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:19,320
Speaker 1: But this is a sweet story. Every day an Australian

1713
01:31:19,320 --> 01:31:22,360
Speaker 1: couple is visited by some unexpected but very welcome gas

1714
01:31:22,360 --> 01:31:24,720
Speaker 1: a group of while Lora keats that live in the

1715
01:31:24,720 --> 01:31:27,080
Speaker 1: trees across from their apartment's balcony. So it started in

1716
01:31:27,080 --> 01:31:30,320
Speaker 1: twenty twenty one. Georgia and Christian left their door open,

1717
01:31:30,360 --> 01:31:33,479
Speaker 1: so these Laura keet birds flew into the apartment as

1718
01:31:33,479 --> 01:31:36,080
Speaker 1: they were having lunch, and they've been letting themselves in

1719
01:31:36,160 --> 01:31:39,559
Speaker 1: every single day ever since. They watched TV with them.

1720
01:31:39,840 --> 01:31:42,559
Speaker 1: They stood on the couch. They can touch them, they

1721
01:31:42,600 --> 01:31:45,040
Speaker 1: can hold them, they can feed them. They love to

1722
01:31:45,080 --> 01:31:47,640
Speaker 1: beg for grapes and sometimes they're very loud, but the

1723
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:52,439
Speaker 1: visits brighten their day and they all just come in

1724
01:31:52,520 --> 01:31:55,920
Speaker 1: all different personalities that make them unique. They're easy to recognize.

1725
01:31:55,920 --> 01:31:57,840
Speaker 1: I'm not a big bird guy, but I think that's

1726
01:31:57,880 --> 01:32:00,680
Speaker 1: kind of cool. Every single day. It's like that story

1727
01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:02,559
Speaker 1: that we did a couple of weeks ago. Kee don't

1728
01:32:02,560 --> 01:32:04,439
Speaker 1: if you heard this one, but there's an owl that

1729
01:32:04,520 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 1: visits this very old woman every single day, every single day, wow,

1730
01:32:08,240 --> 01:32:10,759
Speaker 1: and sits there with her at her apartment, and people

1731
01:32:10,800 --> 01:32:13,000
Speaker 1: think that's her husband who passed away. I was gonna say,

1732
01:32:13,040 --> 01:32:14,519
Speaker 1: I'm the type of person I think that that's a

1733
01:32:14,600 --> 01:32:16,599
Speaker 1: sign of an angel. Like there's a rabbit that comes

1734
01:32:16,600 --> 01:32:19,559
Speaker 1: to my backyard every single day and even when my

1735
01:32:19,640 --> 01:32:21,880
Speaker 1: dog comes out in the yard, he'll just like stand still,

1736
01:32:21,920 --> 01:32:23,720
Speaker 1: but he won't leave. So I'm like, that's one of

1737
01:32:23,720 --> 01:32:26,160
Speaker 1: my Yeah, And that's what I think it's going on

1738
01:32:26,240 --> 01:32:28,519
Speaker 1: with these birds. They come in every single day. They

1739
01:32:28,560 --> 01:32:31,559
Speaker 1: feel safe, and they bring happiness and it's some kind

1740
01:32:31,560 --> 01:32:34,800
Speaker 1: of a reminder of something and I love that. Now.

1741
01:32:34,840 --> 01:32:36,559
Speaker 1: If it were like a pigeon or something, I'd be like,

1742
01:32:36,600 --> 01:32:39,280
Speaker 1: I don't know, for like a rattles naing something. I mean,

1743
01:32:41,439 --> 01:32:43,360
Speaker 1: they gotta be a Laura kid owl. I mean, give

1744
01:32:43,360 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 1: me something I don't feel threatened by. If you're trying

1745
01:32:45,360 --> 01:32:48,639
Speaker 1: to send me a message she'd add my grandfather, it's

1746
01:32:48,880 --> 01:32:54,720
Speaker 1: fly where you left waiting by the phone? How you doing?

1747
01:32:55,000 --> 01:32:58,400
Speaker 1: I'm we're great, thanks for being on the show. Welcome

1748
01:32:58,439 --> 01:33:01,080
Speaker 1: to Waiting by the Phone. So what's going on with Victor?

1749
01:33:01,479 --> 01:33:03,880
Speaker 1: Give us some background info here, how you guys met,

1750
01:33:03,920 --> 01:33:06,680
Speaker 1: About any dates that you've been on, anything that may

1751
01:33:06,720 --> 01:33:10,800
Speaker 1: have happened, and how we can help. Okay, Well, I

1752
01:33:10,920 --> 01:33:16,800
Speaker 1: met Victor on Hinge and he techneologic date and that

1753
01:33:17,000 --> 01:33:20,960
Speaker 1: was having a great time because we talked afterwards and

1754
01:33:21,120 --> 01:33:26,320
Speaker 1: even started to plan another date. But then out of nowhere,

1755
01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:30,439
Speaker 1: he just stopped responding and ghosted me, which is so

1756
01:33:30,520 --> 01:33:34,400
Speaker 1: weird because we were really vibing. Huh. Okay, So you

1757
01:33:34,439 --> 01:33:37,719
Speaker 1: really felt like everything was going great, the communication was good,

1758
01:33:38,439 --> 01:33:40,960
Speaker 1: you were attracted to him, you felt that that was reciprocated.

1759
01:33:41,000 --> 01:33:42,720
Speaker 1: I mean, you're looking back on this and it was

1760
01:33:42,760 --> 01:33:45,280
Speaker 1: like this was all good. What's the problem. Yeah, it's

1761
01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:49,679
Speaker 1: almost like did I dream it? I Like, yeah, what happened?

1762
01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm super confused. Yeah, And obviously it's frustrating when you

1763
01:33:54,320 --> 01:33:56,320
Speaker 1: meet someone that you like, you know, because the dating

1764
01:33:56,320 --> 01:33:58,599
Speaker 1: apps can be so monotonous and it can be kind

1765
01:33:58,600 --> 01:34:01,240
Speaker 1: of hard to focus on one person or whatever else.

1766
01:34:01,240 --> 01:34:03,000
Speaker 1: So when you do go out with somebody and they're cool,

1767
01:34:03,560 --> 01:34:05,200
Speaker 1: it's frustrating because you don't want to have to go

1768
01:34:05,280 --> 01:34:08,719
Speaker 1: back and start over all over again. Yeah, so let's

1769
01:34:08,760 --> 01:34:10,280
Speaker 1: call this guy Victor. We'll see if we can get

1770
01:34:10,320 --> 01:34:12,679
Speaker 1: him on the phone. Since you can't, we'll ask some questions.

1771
01:34:12,680 --> 01:34:14,439
Speaker 1: You'll be on the phone as well, and hopefully we

1772
01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:16,120
Speaker 1: can straighten this out and set you guys up on

1773
01:34:16,240 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 1: another date that we pay for. All right, good, I'm

1774
01:34:19,120 --> 01:34:21,600
Speaker 1: gonna play one song. We'll come back and do it. Okay,

1775
01:34:21,680 --> 01:34:23,519
Speaker 1: let's see what's going on Part two of waiting by

1776
01:34:23,520 --> 01:34:25,960
Speaker 1: the phone after Glass Animals in three minutes, then panning

1777
01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:28,559
Speaker 1: get the disco tickets too, and the Entertainment Report fun

1778
01:34:28,600 --> 01:34:31,960
Speaker 1: fact coming up as well. Glass Animals were commercial free

1779
01:34:32,000 --> 01:34:33,840
Speaker 1: on the Frend Show for the next thirty minutes, and

1780
01:34:33,920 --> 01:34:35,559
Speaker 1: so you don't have to go anywhere one oh three

1781
01:34:35,640 --> 01:34:38,280
Speaker 1: five Kiss at them Chicago's number one hit music stage

1782
01:34:38,280 --> 01:34:41,759
Speaker 1: in Hey Gia. Yeah, all, welcome back. Let's call Victor.

1783
01:34:42,439 --> 01:34:45,240
Speaker 1: You guys, you met online, right, and you went on

1784
01:34:45,280 --> 01:34:47,240
Speaker 1: a date and you felt like everything was going well.

1785
01:34:47,240 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 1: You met on Hinge. I should say Hinge because I

1786
01:34:48,960 --> 01:34:51,439
Speaker 1: guess online might be like match or something. But you

1787
01:34:51,439 --> 01:34:54,840
Speaker 1: met on the app hinge, Yeah, and you thought everything

1788
01:34:54,880 --> 01:34:57,439
Speaker 1: went great, except you haven't heard from this guy for

1789
01:34:57,479 --> 01:35:00,240
Speaker 1: another date and you're kind of frustrated and pause you

1790
01:35:00,280 --> 01:35:02,960
Speaker 1: want to know why? Yeah, exactly, let's call him now.

1791
01:35:03,040 --> 01:35:15,840
Speaker 1: Good luck? Thank you? Oh hi is this Victor? Oh? Yes, yes, Victor,

1792
01:35:15,920 --> 01:35:17,600
Speaker 1: good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling from the

1793
01:35:17,640 --> 01:35:20,120
Speaker 1: Fred Show one or three five Kiss FM in Chicago.

1794
01:35:20,439 --> 01:35:22,439
Speaker 1: My whole team is here, and I'm sorry to bother you.

1795
01:35:22,760 --> 01:35:24,160
Speaker 1: I do have to tell you, though, that we are

1796
01:35:24,240 --> 01:35:25,920
Speaker 1: on the radio at this time. I would need your

1797
01:35:25,920 --> 01:35:27,960
Speaker 1: permission to continue with the calls. That okay if we

1798
01:35:28,520 --> 01:35:32,600
Speaker 1: talk on the show for just a second here. Oh yeah,

1799
01:35:31,160 --> 01:35:34,639
Speaker 1: that's it, Thank you very much. We're calling on behalf

1800
01:35:34,640 --> 01:35:37,360
Speaker 1: of a woman named Gia who met you one hinge

1801
01:35:37,880 --> 01:35:41,880
Speaker 1: and you guys went out one time. Do you remember her? Oh? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1802
01:35:42,040 --> 01:35:45,280
Speaker 1: remember you do? Okay? All right, Well you don't that

1803
01:35:45,360 --> 01:35:47,640
Speaker 1: sounded kind of optimistic there, like it didn't sound you

1804
01:35:47,680 --> 01:35:50,479
Speaker 1: normally we get like a oh yeah, I remember her.

1805
01:35:50,560 --> 01:35:52,960
Speaker 1: But she reached out to us and she wanted to know,

1806
01:35:53,200 --> 01:35:55,439
Speaker 1: you know, she thought the date went well, that you guys,

1807
01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:57,719
Speaker 1: went on, Um, she had a good time, was hoping

1808
01:35:57,720 --> 01:35:59,559
Speaker 1: to see you again, says that you haven't reached out,

1809
01:35:59,600 --> 01:36:02,800
Speaker 1: haven't spotted to her at Also what's going on? Yeah,

1810
01:36:02,920 --> 01:36:05,719
Speaker 1: actually that's that's a crazy thing. You know. I thought

1811
01:36:05,720 --> 01:36:08,439
Speaker 1: that it was was really fun. You know, I even

1812
01:36:08,520 --> 01:36:10,360
Speaker 1: myself thought I was. I was thinking about it, I

1813
01:36:10,400 --> 01:36:13,360
Speaker 1: seeing her out again. But you know, just she just

1814
01:36:13,400 --> 01:36:16,240
Speaker 1: got a little too weird for me at the end. Okay,

1815
01:36:16,479 --> 01:36:20,639
Speaker 1: started asking me, I started taking these personal tests if

1816
01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:23,479
Speaker 1: she wanted to get to know me better, which just

1817
01:36:23,520 --> 01:36:25,240
Speaker 1: did not make sense. And you know, at first I

1818
01:36:25,280 --> 01:36:27,760
Speaker 1: thought she was just hiding around, But next thing, you know,

1819
01:36:27,800 --> 01:36:29,720
Speaker 1: she was sending me links to like a Myers a

1820
01:36:29,720 --> 01:36:33,360
Speaker 1: Bridge personality tests, an Enagram test. When she pulled out

1821
01:36:33,360 --> 01:36:39,320
Speaker 1: like one of those war shots. Is that what she's like?

1822
01:36:39,360 --> 01:36:41,720
Speaker 1: What do you see here? Yeah? Yeah, Like she even

1823
01:36:41,840 --> 01:36:45,439
Speaker 1: made me taking emotions folkus test and I was just like,

1824
01:36:45,840 --> 01:36:48,320
Speaker 1: what the heck are you? You gotta be freaking kidding me.

1825
01:36:48,439 --> 01:36:52,840
Speaker 1: But you know, next thing I realized she wanted what

1826
01:36:53,040 --> 01:36:56,240
Speaker 1: was she looking for, like official compatibility? She wanted to

1827
01:36:56,240 --> 01:36:58,120
Speaker 1: see sort of what your scores were, to see how

1828
01:36:58,120 --> 01:37:01,360
Speaker 1: they mesh with her. Yeah, yeah, well, I don't even

1829
01:37:01,400 --> 01:37:03,240
Speaker 1: know if she was thinking the test herselves, but like,

1830
01:37:03,280 --> 01:37:05,280
Speaker 1: I just felt like I was just sitting there staring

1831
01:37:05,320 --> 01:37:07,000
Speaker 1: at a screen thinking these tests. Like I felt like

1832
01:37:07,000 --> 01:37:09,519
Speaker 1: I was back in school. Um gine, let me bring

1833
01:37:09,560 --> 01:37:13,400
Speaker 1: gene in. What Okay, first day and at the end

1834
01:37:13,439 --> 01:37:15,639
Speaker 1: of the day, you want him to do all this stuff?

1835
01:37:15,880 --> 01:37:18,880
Speaker 1: What's the objective to see how well? I assume you've

1836
01:37:18,920 --> 01:37:20,599
Speaker 1: done them, and then you know what it means if

1837
01:37:20,640 --> 01:37:23,120
Speaker 1: they based on what he gets and you get them,

1838
01:37:23,160 --> 01:37:26,519
Speaker 1: if you guys are a good match. Yeah, Like he

1839
01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:29,519
Speaker 1: said that he wanted to get to know me better

1840
01:37:29,800 --> 01:37:31,920
Speaker 1: and that I should get to know him better, so

1841
01:37:32,000 --> 01:37:38,800
Speaker 1: it was likely though wait, what naturally? Okay, hang on

1842
01:37:38,840 --> 01:37:43,120
Speaker 1: a second, naturally is hinge natural? Like it's no natural?

1843
01:37:43,200 --> 01:37:45,519
Speaker 1: But afterwards, when we met him person, you know, you

1844
01:37:45,560 --> 01:37:47,400
Speaker 1: get to you get to meet a person, you get

1845
01:37:47,439 --> 01:37:49,080
Speaker 1: to talk to them. You don't ask him to sit

1846
01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:51,880
Speaker 1: for hours staring at a screen taking some tests, like

1847
01:37:51,920 --> 01:37:53,880
Speaker 1: you know that can be ambiguous. But I do kind

1848
01:37:53,880 --> 01:37:56,719
Speaker 1: of agree with him though, Like I mean, I suppose

1849
01:37:56,760 --> 01:37:59,160
Speaker 1: at some point you could learn about communication styles or whatever,

1850
01:37:59,160 --> 01:38:00,880
Speaker 1: but like, don't you would first at least wanted to

1851
01:38:00,880 --> 01:38:03,479
Speaker 1: feel organic and not what you got a good enough

1852
01:38:03,520 --> 01:38:05,640
Speaker 1: score on the Myers brig so we you know you

1853
01:38:05,680 --> 01:38:08,320
Speaker 1: know what I mean like that? Well, yeah, both we're

1854
01:38:08,360 --> 01:38:11,439
Speaker 1: talking organic. Why are we on Hinge? That's not organic?

1855
01:38:11,479 --> 01:38:14,080
Speaker 1: That's an app? I mean, I just have so much

1856
01:38:14,120 --> 01:38:17,559
Speaker 1: time creating that profile and adding all that information. It's

1857
01:38:17,600 --> 01:38:20,519
Speaker 1: like if if if you weren't into you know, being

1858
01:38:20,560 --> 01:38:23,559
Speaker 1: honest and transparent, and why would you go on an

1859
01:38:23,560 --> 01:38:25,840
Speaker 1: app and dis close all this information about yourself but

1860
01:38:25,920 --> 01:38:28,840
Speaker 1: not willing to take it first? Think about it. This

1861
01:38:28,920 --> 01:38:32,040
Speaker 1: is just for us to just barely gett introduction to

1862
01:38:32,280 --> 01:38:37,960
Speaker 1: rank right personally. Took me hours to feel my profile. Yeah,

1863
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:40,160
Speaker 1: we we both did. But that's that's the thing. That's

1864
01:38:40,160 --> 01:38:42,519
Speaker 1: what attracted it to each other. We got attracted because

1865
01:38:42,560 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 1: of that. Now when we met in person, Well, everybody knows,

1866
01:38:45,680 --> 01:38:48,639
Speaker 1: everybody on these dating apps knows that you should take

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Speaker 1: an IQ test and then put that score on your

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Speaker 1: Hinge app. I mean, because everyone's going to tell the

1869
01:38:53,640 --> 01:38:56,439
Speaker 1: truth about that, and and god forbid, your IQ is low?

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01:38:56,840 --> 01:38:59,800
Speaker 1: Not going out with you? Yeah, well you can see

1871
01:38:59,840 --> 01:39:02,479
Speaker 1: her a lot of time. Yeah, okay, I mean, but

1872
01:39:02,479 --> 01:39:07,240
Speaker 1: who's gonna say they have low IQ? They're dating. Yet

1873
01:39:07,800 --> 01:39:10,559
Speaker 1: people aren't even honest about their heights. We're honest, yeah,

1874
01:39:10,640 --> 01:39:13,120
Speaker 1: but I mean it's like, oh wow, that person is

1875
01:39:13,160 --> 01:39:16,559
Speaker 1: really authentic. Yeah, but you know, if you're self conscious

1876
01:39:16,600 --> 01:39:20,679
Speaker 1: about having a low IQ, maybe that's attractive somebody each other.

1877
01:39:21,320 --> 01:39:23,599
Speaker 1: I gotta be honest with you in person as well.

1878
01:39:23,640 --> 01:39:26,360
Speaker 1: And when that was being honest, like that's okay to

1879
01:39:26,400 --> 01:39:28,360
Speaker 1: take a couple of tests, that's fine. But if you're

1880
01:39:28,360 --> 01:39:33,360
Speaker 1: asking me to take test I don't know. I don't know.

1881
01:39:33,439 --> 01:39:35,840
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe like learning about love languages and stuff,

1882
01:39:35,840 --> 01:39:39,000
Speaker 1: I can see that. But if if the chemistry isn't

1883
01:39:39,080 --> 01:39:42,320
Speaker 1: organically there on a first date, the physical attraction is

1884
01:39:42,320 --> 01:39:45,280
Speaker 1: that organically there, I don't care what your IQ score is,

1885
01:39:45,280 --> 01:39:48,080
Speaker 1: it's not gonna matter. Yeah. Well, I thought that I

1886
01:39:48,080 --> 01:39:50,839
Speaker 1: thought that stuff was there. I thought that the connection

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01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:52,960
Speaker 1: was there, and that's why all the other stuff seemed

1888
01:39:53,000 --> 01:39:55,840
Speaker 1: to be like important to find out. You just got

1889
01:39:55,920 --> 01:39:58,240
Speaker 1: focused on the on these tests and they just threw

1890
01:39:58,400 --> 01:40:00,200
Speaker 1: me off and I was just like, this is this

1891
01:40:00,240 --> 01:40:01,680
Speaker 1: is a little too awkward for me. But this is

1892
01:40:01,720 --> 01:40:03,760
Speaker 1: like a job interview, Like tell me about a time

1893
01:40:03,760 --> 01:40:10,400
Speaker 1: when you were challenged by a partner something I don't know.

1894
01:40:10,439 --> 01:40:12,519
Speaker 1: It depends on the results of the tests. We're gonna

1895
01:40:12,520 --> 01:40:15,240
Speaker 1: need to see those results. Presidents only eight years. I

1896
01:40:15,280 --> 01:40:17,240
Speaker 1: want to be in a relationship for more than eight years.

1897
01:40:17,240 --> 01:40:20,160
Speaker 1: So yeah, it should it should be something, but not

1898
01:40:20,320 --> 01:40:24,360
Speaker 1: like that. Look, I don't gee, I appreciate what you're

1899
01:40:24,400 --> 01:40:26,800
Speaker 1: trying to do here. Um. I can see also how

1900
01:40:26,800 --> 01:40:29,200
Speaker 1: it comes off a little mechanical and inorganic, So I

1901
01:40:29,600 --> 01:40:33,559
Speaker 1: look definitely different styles here. I don't say. It doesn't

1902
01:40:33,560 --> 01:40:36,040
Speaker 1: sound Victor like you'd be interested in taking all of

1903
01:40:36,040 --> 01:40:38,920
Speaker 1: these tests and reporting back for a second date. No, No,

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01:40:38,960 --> 01:40:40,519
Speaker 1: I don't think I want to be part of some

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01:40:41,120 --> 01:40:43,679
Speaker 1: scientific tests or something like that. Like, I don't even

1906
01:40:43,680 --> 01:40:46,080
Speaker 1: know if this is an actual real test. Okay, what

1907
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:49,960
Speaker 1: is this? Hey, you might find somebody who's who takes

1908
01:40:50,000 --> 01:40:51,559
Speaker 1: the same approach that you do to all of this,

1909
01:40:51,920 --> 01:40:54,840
Speaker 1: a more analytical approach, and maybe maybe it works out. Okay,

1910
01:40:54,840 --> 01:40:57,040
Speaker 1: but it doesn't sound like it's Victor at all. No,

1911
01:40:57,160 --> 01:41:01,360
Speaker 1: not at all. He sounds like a low IQ individual. Damn. Okay,

1912
01:41:01,400 --> 01:41:04,240
Speaker 1: Well we don't actually know that because some things but

1913
01:41:04,320 --> 01:41:06,280
Speaker 1: the test though Friday and he's not doing too well. Yeah,

1914
01:41:06,280 --> 01:41:08,000
Speaker 1: well we don't know that. We never saw the results

1915
01:41:08,000 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 1: of the test. All right, okays, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 1: Invest elects at both of you. Panna get the disco

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Speaker 1: tickets next, the Entertainment Report, Fun Fact, trending stories, all

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Speaker 1: coming up commercial free on The Friend Show one h

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Speaker 1: three five, Kiss at them. Thank you for waking up

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Speaker 1: with us. How about some tickets to Panna get the disco?

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Speaker 1: Shall we you see September seventeen, ticketmaster dot com you

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Speaker 1: want to buy tickets is still available? Thank you, Live

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Speaker 1: Nation calling number twenty five. You win right now. Be

1924
01:41:32,920 --> 01:41:36,240
Speaker 1: nice to Benham and that Benjamin. Actually you don't have

1925
01:41:36,280 --> 01:41:38,960
Speaker 1: to be. I walked by to the studio and granted

1926
01:41:39,000 --> 01:41:40,400
Speaker 1: there was nothing going on at the moment, but he

1927
01:41:40,439 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 1: was watching like fortnit videos or something. I don't know

1928
01:41:42,520 --> 01:41:47,400
Speaker 1: what he was watching, something like working hard. Everything's just

1929
01:41:48,880 --> 01:41:51,719
Speaker 1: I think he's planning his next vacation. Yeah, exactly, because

1930
01:41:51,720 --> 01:41:55,479
Speaker 1: he doesn't work Fridays or Mondays. I love I love

1931
01:41:55,560 --> 01:41:58,320
Speaker 1: this internship. I love it for him. I love this kid.

1932
01:41:58,400 --> 01:42:01,120
Speaker 1: So it's fine where he works Friday he does. Yeah. Oh,

1933
01:42:01,160 --> 01:42:04,160
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that he's able to work that in Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1934
01:42:04,200 --> 01:42:05,840
Speaker 1: I told you. He texted me the other day he said,

1935
01:42:06,439 --> 01:42:08,000
Speaker 1: you should have me on the tangent. I'm like, oh,

1936
01:42:08,040 --> 01:42:11,720
Speaker 1: should we? Oh I didn't tell you this. No, yeah,

1937
01:42:11,720 --> 01:42:13,120
Speaker 1: he texts me the other day, you should have me

1938
01:42:13,160 --> 01:42:17,080
Speaker 1: on the tangent. Oh where should we? Okay, Well, maybe

1939
01:42:17,120 --> 01:42:19,160
Speaker 1: one day we will, you know, maybe maybe one day

1940
01:42:19,160 --> 01:42:21,599
Speaker 1: we'll have a nice, sweet, sentimental tangent where I mean,

1941
01:42:21,640 --> 01:42:24,200
Speaker 1: it's hard to believe. I'm sure somehow it would wind

1942
01:42:24,280 --> 01:42:27,400
Speaker 1: up going to the gutter. But maybe we'll. Maybe we'll

1943
01:42:27,439 --> 01:42:30,080
Speaker 1: have a nice tangent where we talk about how I

1944
01:42:30,120 --> 01:42:32,880
Speaker 1: know him, you know, and why he's a specially young

1945
01:42:32,920 --> 01:42:35,320
Speaker 1: man to me. M But damn it, he needs to

1946
01:42:36,000 --> 01:42:39,720
Speaker 1: work hard. You know. I got a teach him. He's

1947
01:42:39,720 --> 01:42:41,920
Speaker 1: doing a great job. Friend, I gotta teach him. So

1948
01:42:41,960 --> 01:42:43,519
Speaker 1: I just kind of I gotta be harder on him

1949
01:42:43,560 --> 01:42:45,080
Speaker 1: like my own son, you know what I mean. Like

1950
01:42:45,120 --> 01:42:48,120
Speaker 1: my father was always harder on me than everybody else

1951
01:42:48,160 --> 01:42:50,760
Speaker 1: in his factory. So I gotta be harder on this kid.

1952
01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:53,760
Speaker 1: And plus he knows all these famous people. We're not

1953
01:42:53,800 --> 01:42:57,400
Speaker 1: getting any any hook up here, you know, put him

1954
01:42:57,439 --> 01:43:00,360
Speaker 1: on the tangent. The king hasn't called in here, you know,

1955
01:43:00,920 --> 01:43:03,640
Speaker 1: none of the princes, I mean supposedly he's got to

1956
01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:05,559
Speaker 1: have the next week off because he's going to the

1957
01:43:05,640 --> 01:43:08,680
Speaker 1: queen's funeral. That's what he said. That's what he told me.

1958
01:43:08,960 --> 01:43:11,200
Speaker 1: He's walking right behind the casket. That's what I heard.

1959
01:43:11,200 --> 01:43:14,479
Speaker 1: I heard he was a Paul bearer. Oh, that's what

1960
01:43:14,560 --> 01:43:19,280
Speaker 1: I heard. So the latest entertainment news is on the

1961
01:43:19,280 --> 01:43:21,599
Speaker 1: Fred Show. The visual on that just makes me look

1962
01:43:22,120 --> 01:43:24,200
Speaker 1: not not that she's dead, but seeing him holding the

1963
01:43:24,280 --> 01:43:29,360
Speaker 1: cast right. Yeah, oh man, No, he's just no gloves.

1964
01:43:29,360 --> 01:43:32,800
Speaker 1: He doesn't baby, I mean, what do you mean, he's

1965
01:43:32,800 --> 01:43:35,880
Speaker 1: still American. He could do it ever he once right,

1966
01:43:36,080 --> 01:43:38,960
Speaker 1: he's been mean, not Benjamin. He's gonna rock Cardinals here.

1967
01:43:39,200 --> 01:43:42,439
Speaker 1: He's gonna wear a Cardinals jersey. Yeah, that's what he's

1968
01:43:42,439 --> 01:43:45,120
Speaker 1: gonna wear. You're gonna wear what's that guy's name that

1969
01:43:45,160 --> 01:43:47,679
Speaker 1: they worship over there. Well, there's a few pool hosts

1970
01:43:47,680 --> 01:43:50,280
Speaker 1: and then uh, Mark McGuire, Mark McGuire. He's gonna wear

1971
01:43:50,280 --> 01:43:52,960
Speaker 1: a Mark McGuire jersey to be the Paul bearer at

1972
01:43:52,960 --> 01:43:56,120
Speaker 1: the queen's funeral. Listen, we're not surprised one thing. We

1973
01:43:56,120 --> 01:43:57,720
Speaker 1: gotta we gotta give this kid a dress code. He

1974
01:43:57,760 --> 01:44:01,160
Speaker 1: can't be out here rocking Cardinals here another thing. You know,

1975
01:44:01,439 --> 01:44:03,200
Speaker 1: we're like a Bears fan. I'll give him that. He's

1976
01:44:03,200 --> 01:44:06,040
Speaker 1: a Bears fan, but we got die hard Socks fans.

1977
01:44:06,040 --> 01:44:08,360
Speaker 1: We got diehard Cubs fans in here. And this dude,

1978
01:44:08,439 --> 01:44:11,960
Speaker 1: the intern comes walking around in a Cardinals jersey every

1979
01:44:12,040 --> 01:44:14,920
Speaker 1: day so flippantly. I would never have done that when

1980
01:44:14,920 --> 01:44:16,439
Speaker 1: I was an intern. I would have been so afraid

1981
01:44:16,479 --> 01:44:18,719
Speaker 1: to tebe, would have been mad at me. This guy,

1982
01:44:19,000 --> 01:44:22,479
Speaker 1: you don't care, no fear none, stray savage. I kind

1983
01:44:22,479 --> 01:44:26,040
Speaker 1: of respected a little bit, but not a lot, a

1984
01:44:26,040 --> 01:44:29,120
Speaker 1: lot a lot soun of down that. That's a small

1985
01:44:29,200 --> 01:44:30,920
Speaker 1: room over there. His head's getting pretty big right now.

1986
01:44:30,920 --> 01:44:34,240
Speaker 1: I'll talk of you should have me on the tail?

1987
01:44:34,280 --> 01:44:39,519
Speaker 1: Should I should we He's dying right now, so run

1988
01:44:39,520 --> 01:44:47,519
Speaker 1: of this room is it's not all about you. He

1989
01:44:47,560 --> 01:44:50,320
Speaker 1: did tell me that the other day. Wow, he told

1990
01:44:50,320 --> 01:44:52,599
Speaker 1: me it wasn't all about me. But and it sometimes

1991
01:44:52,600 --> 01:44:54,280
Speaker 1: I think it is and it's not. And that's not

1992
01:44:54,400 --> 01:44:58,479
Speaker 1: terrible advice from my twenty one year old. It's rush

1993
01:44:58,520 --> 01:45:01,479
Speaker 1: you by Jersey Mike's Lizzos. Watch out for the big

1994
01:45:01,479 --> 01:45:04,240
Speaker 1: Girls beat out drag Race. They were usually winning this

1995
01:45:04,360 --> 01:45:09,040
Speaker 1: category in the Best Competition series at the Emmy's last night,

1996
01:45:09,040 --> 01:45:16,479
Speaker 1: and her speech was powerful. I'm very emotional and the

1997
01:45:16,880 --> 01:45:19,559
Speaker 1: trophy is nice, but my emotion is for these people

1998
01:45:19,600 --> 01:45:22,840
Speaker 1: who are on the stage with me, the stories that

1999
01:45:22,920 --> 01:45:27,040
Speaker 1: they shared. They're not that unique. They just don't get

2000
01:45:27,040 --> 01:45:36,800
Speaker 1: the platform telling stories. Let's just tell more stories. When

2001
01:45:36,840 --> 01:45:39,479
Speaker 1: I was a little girl, all I wanted to see

2002
01:45:39,600 --> 01:45:44,200
Speaker 1: was me in the media, someone fat like me, black

2003
01:45:44,280 --> 01:45:53,000
Speaker 1: like me, beautiful like me. If I can go back

2004
01:45:53,040 --> 01:45:55,479
Speaker 1: and tell a little Lizzo something, I'd be like, you're

2005
01:45:55,520 --> 01:46:00,599
Speaker 1: gonna see that person, but don't have to beat you. Yes,

2006
01:46:01,479 --> 01:46:07,479
Speaker 1: um where I'm a big girls? Are they here so much? Yeah?

2007
01:46:07,600 --> 01:46:09,600
Speaker 1: She read her the Girls from the show, so I

2008
01:46:09,640 --> 01:46:11,479
Speaker 1: told her she'd go in by the way, I mean,

2009
01:46:11,520 --> 01:46:12,560
Speaker 1: she was up for six of them, so it was

2010
01:46:12,560 --> 01:46:14,519
Speaker 1: a pretty good bet. But I told her when I

2011
01:46:14,520 --> 01:46:16,200
Speaker 1: talked to her last week, I told her she gonna win,

2012
01:46:16,240 --> 01:46:17,919
Speaker 1: and I told her she gonna get one of those egots.

2013
01:46:18,240 --> 01:46:20,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she don't wind up what it meant because

2014
01:46:20,160 --> 01:46:23,400
Speaker 1: she has a Grammy. Yep, she now has an Emmy. Right,

2015
01:46:23,479 --> 01:46:26,120
Speaker 1: she just needs Tony and an Oscar. She'll get in.

2016
01:46:26,720 --> 01:46:30,840
Speaker 1: She to at some point, you know, she'll be on

2017
01:46:30,880 --> 01:46:33,280
Speaker 1: Broadway and she can obviously sing. I mean, she's very talented,

2018
01:46:33,320 --> 01:46:34,880
Speaker 1: so I can see the Tony. I don't know how

2019
01:46:34,880 --> 01:46:36,760
Speaker 1: she'll get the oscar, but she could egot, she can

2020
01:46:36,840 --> 01:46:38,760
Speaker 1: make an original song, or she could act too. She's

2021
01:46:38,760 --> 01:46:41,240
Speaker 1: a good act. There you go, she definitely can do that.

2022
01:46:41,479 --> 01:46:43,960
Speaker 1: The show, by the way, was about her auditioning a

2023
01:46:43,960 --> 01:46:45,840
Speaker 1: group of women for a chance to go on tour

2024
01:46:45,920 --> 01:46:50,439
Speaker 1: with her, so well, well deserved. Congrats to her britty spears.

2025
01:46:50,560 --> 01:46:52,840
Speaker 1: Dad Jamie still thinks that she should have to sit

2026
01:46:52,880 --> 01:46:56,080
Speaker 1: for a deposition, and according to new legal documents, he

2027
01:46:56,080 --> 01:46:58,720
Speaker 1: says that it's unfair that the court ruled that he

2028
01:46:58,800 --> 01:47:00,920
Speaker 1: had to sit for one Well, an can get away

2029
01:47:00,920 --> 01:47:06,280
Speaker 1: without having to, So he is appealing that decision. You know,

2030
01:47:06,360 --> 01:47:08,519
Speaker 1: he's citing all kinds of legal things, but basically he

2031
01:47:08,560 --> 01:47:10,320
Speaker 1: wants her to sit and have to answer to all

2032
01:47:10,360 --> 01:47:13,080
Speaker 1: the things that she publicly accused him of. So I

2033
01:47:13,120 --> 01:47:15,320
Speaker 1: will update you on that when I figure all that out.

2034
01:47:15,560 --> 01:47:18,599
Speaker 1: The streets are talking, y'all, and they're saying that Kendall

2035
01:47:18,680 --> 01:47:24,120
Speaker 1: Jenner's boyfriend, Devin Booker is a dirty little cheater. Remember

2036
01:47:24,360 --> 01:47:27,679
Speaker 1: there were rumors of a breakup kind of recently, they're

2037
01:47:27,720 --> 01:47:29,800
Speaker 1: very much though back together. I mean they were just

2038
01:47:30,120 --> 01:47:33,000
Speaker 1: photographed kissing I think like a day or so ago.

2039
01:47:33,560 --> 01:47:35,439
Speaker 1: But this gossip blog, and I don't know if you

2040
01:47:35,520 --> 01:47:39,719
Speaker 1: guys ever read it, demis so they post anonymous tips,

2041
01:47:39,720 --> 01:47:41,280
Speaker 1: and the way they get away with it is they

2042
01:47:41,320 --> 01:47:44,800
Speaker 1: never ever ever use names, but they make it very

2043
01:47:44,840 --> 01:47:47,160
Speaker 1: obvious who they're talking about. So they wrote a certain

2044
01:47:47,240 --> 01:47:50,080
Speaker 1: A list basketball player was getting cozy at his pool

2045
01:47:50,160 --> 01:47:53,200
Speaker 1: party last week with someone other than his very famous

2046
01:47:53,240 --> 01:47:56,920
Speaker 1: reality star girlfriend. The worst part he was shamelessly giving

2047
01:47:56,920 --> 01:48:00,839
Speaker 1: out bottles of her drink of choice as any favors.

2048
01:48:01,600 --> 01:48:04,519
Speaker 1: He was serving her eight one eighth tequila. Y'all, Oh

2049
01:48:04,640 --> 01:48:08,320
Speaker 1: my god, as long as he balls out, that's all

2050
01:48:08,400 --> 01:48:12,559
Speaker 1: you care about. As long as he Hey, they're not together,

2051
01:48:12,640 --> 01:48:14,760
Speaker 1: that's that's they're going to be in the finals. Oh.

2052
01:48:15,120 --> 01:48:20,000
Speaker 1: I don't blame that. Nobody should ever cheat. But the

2053
01:48:20,040 --> 01:48:22,160
Speaker 1: thing about these rumors is like you just never know.

2054
01:48:22,960 --> 01:48:25,400
Speaker 1: I'm not making excuses for the guy because maybe he's cheating,

2055
01:48:25,400 --> 01:48:27,400
Speaker 1: but I also it's like sometimes they're not together and

2056
01:48:27,439 --> 01:48:29,479
Speaker 1: then he's I mean, who, I don't know, Yeah they

2057
01:48:29,479 --> 01:48:31,840
Speaker 1: are right now, and he was, you know, doing naughty

2058
01:48:31,840 --> 01:48:34,360
Speaker 1: stuff at a pool party. Um. It also did say

2059
01:48:34,400 --> 01:48:37,160
Speaker 1: that he's very much known around the Instagram model community.

2060
01:48:37,800 --> 01:48:40,719
Speaker 1: UM as someone who is a cheater. This I don't

2061
01:48:40,720 --> 01:48:43,880
Speaker 1: really know if I believe, but influencer Ava Louise was

2062
01:48:43,920 --> 01:48:47,080
Speaker 1: best known for licking a toilet seat during the earliest

2063
01:48:47,120 --> 01:48:49,800
Speaker 1: stages of COVID. You guys remember her, She did accuse

2064
01:48:49,920 --> 01:48:52,320
Speaker 1: him of cheating. Back in January. She shared DMS of

2065
01:48:52,400 --> 01:48:55,679
Speaker 1: him allegedly asking for her number, but she did cover

2066
01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:57,960
Speaker 1: up the timestamps, so we don't know if that was

2067
01:48:58,040 --> 01:49:00,519
Speaker 1: when they were together. I don't trust and idiot who

2068
01:49:00,520 --> 01:49:04,160
Speaker 1: licked a toilet seat on a plane during comm real credible,

2069
01:49:04,240 --> 01:49:06,200
Speaker 1: So that's I had to add that in there. But no,

2070
01:49:06,280 --> 01:49:08,519
Speaker 1: I do not believe that last part, but I could

2071
01:49:08,560 --> 01:49:11,320
Speaker 1: see him being known around the Instagram model community. More

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Speaker 1: to check on online today, a full list of winners

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Speaker 1: from the Emmy's Last Night, and y'all, Jimmy Kimmel is

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01:49:17,960 --> 01:49:20,320
Speaker 1: he's gonna have to sit and think about what he's done.

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Speaker 1: He's getting dragged. It's on Frenshaw Radio dot com. Hey Jordan, Yes, sir,

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01:49:26,040 --> 01:49:28,800
Speaker 1: someone else who's known around the Instagram model community. From

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01:49:28,800 --> 01:49:32,799
Speaker 1: what I understand Jordan in uh Sherville, Indiana. Oh yeah,

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01:49:32,800 --> 01:49:34,559
Speaker 1: how you doing, man? I hear you, I hear you,

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01:49:34,640 --> 01:49:37,240
Speaker 1: and the all the Instagram models are trying to get

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01:49:37,240 --> 01:49:40,320
Speaker 1: with you, Jordan. That's why here. You know, I've been

2081
01:49:40,360 --> 01:49:43,479
Speaker 1: hearing the same thing. My dms have been flooded recently.

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01:49:44,120 --> 01:49:46,000
Speaker 1: I know, I know that's what I'm hearing. Man, if

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01:49:46,000 --> 01:49:47,840
Speaker 1: you've gotta need to spare, you know how, let your boy.

2084
01:49:48,120 --> 01:49:50,400
Speaker 1: But um you you can take one of them to

2085
01:49:50,479 --> 01:49:52,600
Speaker 1: panic at the disco, okay, because you're gonna go on

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01:49:53,240 --> 01:49:56,840
Speaker 1: this weekend. Yeah, man, so thank you. So I never

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01:49:56,880 --> 01:50:00,840
Speaker 1: win anything. This is amazing. Thank you so much. Jordan

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01:50:00,920 --> 01:50:05,120
Speaker 1: really felt some bliss deep down there. I mean, you

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01:50:05,200 --> 01:50:08,280
Speaker 1: really well. I love that kind of appreciation. What what Jordan?

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01:50:09,560 --> 01:50:11,559
Speaker 1: Now I'm set on a little panic though, because I

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01:50:11,600 --> 01:50:13,599
Speaker 1: got a sword through my MS and find my date.

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01:50:13,680 --> 01:50:15,599
Speaker 1: I can understand why. I mean, when you have so

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01:50:15,640 --> 01:50:17,479
Speaker 1: many new choose from, you don't want to choose poorly.

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01:50:17,600 --> 01:50:20,479
Speaker 1: But anyway, have a great time man. Ticketmaster dot com

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01:50:20,520 --> 01:50:22,559
Speaker 1: Live Nation, thank you. Everyone else can buy their tickets there.

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01:50:22,600 --> 01:50:24,360
Speaker 1: You're going for free this weekend. You see, have a

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01:50:24,360 --> 01:50:27,600
Speaker 1: great day, man, Thanks for listening. You too. All right,

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01:50:27,640 --> 01:50:40,040
Speaker 1: Sarah Dara learn so much. Are we tired of this yet?

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01:50:40,120 --> 01:50:43,479
Speaker 1: Do we still like this? Like it? What's the reaction?

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01:50:44,560 --> 01:50:46,519
Speaker 1: What's the reaction? Like on the social student, this whole

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01:50:46,520 --> 01:50:49,280
Speaker 1: thing started as a joke. I was making fun of somebody. Yeah,

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01:50:49,320 --> 01:50:51,280
Speaker 1: just I was being silly. I was being a funny guy,

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01:50:51,400 --> 01:50:53,320
Speaker 1: you know. And now look at this. Well I heard

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01:50:53,320 --> 01:50:55,720
Speaker 1: it's a giving it is. It is the thing song

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01:50:55,800 --> 01:51:01,519
Speaker 1: for me. You heard it's giving, giving what it's supposed

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01:51:01,560 --> 01:51:04,519
Speaker 1: to give you what people need, You're giving it. Okay,

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01:51:04,720 --> 01:51:07,559
Speaker 1: Well I'm good. Just just not a degree friend, Okay,

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01:51:09,479 --> 01:51:11,800
Speaker 1: you know, I was just a serious question here, Like,

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01:51:11,800 --> 01:51:13,439
Speaker 1: like I said, this started as a joke and we're

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01:51:13,439 --> 01:51:16,080
Speaker 1: still doing it. So it's a great conversation starter. Thank

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01:51:16,120 --> 01:51:17,960
Speaker 1: you so much. And again, you know you hear this

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01:51:18,000 --> 01:51:19,640
Speaker 1: every day and then you can go to work or

2113
01:51:19,640 --> 01:51:21,280
Speaker 1: on your zoom call it or whatever and you can

2114
01:51:21,320 --> 01:51:24,040
Speaker 1: say it's very interesting things like did you know a

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01:51:24,120 --> 01:51:26,519
Speaker 1: kangaroo had three vaginas? That was something that you you

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01:51:26,600 --> 01:51:28,439
Speaker 1: taught me and I'll never be able to forget. I

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01:51:28,800 --> 01:51:31,519
Speaker 1: certainly did. And you could bring that up at your

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01:51:31,520 --> 01:51:34,479
Speaker 1: next dinner party. Yeah I did. I brought it up

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01:51:34,479 --> 01:51:37,599
Speaker 1: at my last dinner party. I always have having dinner parties,

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01:51:37,640 --> 01:51:41,040
Speaker 1: dinner party and just think of the conversation and then

2121
01:51:41,080 --> 01:51:43,519
Speaker 1: he seems so interesting. It's like, how did you know that? Well,

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01:51:43,680 --> 01:51:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm a I'm a worldly woman, and I would love

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01:51:45,920 --> 01:51:47,439
Speaker 1: for you to tell people that you heard about on

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01:51:47,439 --> 01:51:49,080
Speaker 1: the Friend Show. But you don't have to. You can

2125
01:51:49,120 --> 01:51:51,200
Speaker 1: meet your little secret if you want to. It's a

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01:51:51,200 --> 01:51:54,320
Speaker 1: good conversation while you're serving customers at the bar. Yeah,

2127
01:51:54,320 --> 01:51:59,799
Speaker 1: exactly your new job. Yeah, she's referring to the bar staffing.

2128
01:52:00,320 --> 01:52:06,480
Speaker 1: It's a collective things been there once. They're my friends.

2129
01:52:06,479 --> 01:52:09,880
Speaker 1: Like when John Taffer, John Taffer goes another bar for

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01:52:09,960 --> 01:52:12,519
Speaker 1: the Bar Rescue, he refers to himself, he refers to

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01:52:12,520 --> 01:52:14,160
Speaker 1: the team as we Yeah, you know, because he's a

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01:52:14,240 --> 01:52:16,559
Speaker 1: part of the team. John Taffer is here. I hope

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01:52:16,560 --> 01:52:18,880
Speaker 1: the figure out that schedule. I actually did. He was

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01:52:18,880 --> 01:52:20,639
Speaker 1: sitting right next to me. We both had our laptop

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01:52:20,680 --> 01:52:23,160
Speaker 1: side hustle. There. It is right their hotel bar. In fact,

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01:52:23,200 --> 01:52:24,880
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be upset if you did work at a

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01:52:24,920 --> 01:52:26,960
Speaker 1: hotel bar once a week because the stories that you'll

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01:52:27,000 --> 01:52:30,400
Speaker 1: come in with. Listen, I've thought about I've honestly thought

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01:52:30,400 --> 01:52:32,960
Speaker 1: about a side hustle before, where like what if I

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01:52:33,000 --> 01:52:34,920
Speaker 1: went and did some job like that where I could

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01:52:34,920 --> 01:52:37,000
Speaker 1: just mind for content. Yeah, I don't want to do

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01:52:37,040 --> 01:52:38,720
Speaker 1: the dispensary anymore. I want to be at the bar

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01:52:38,720 --> 01:52:40,919
Speaker 1: with the drunks at the hotel. I think the dispensary

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01:52:40,960 --> 01:52:43,040
Speaker 1: would be also a good place to mind for content.

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01:52:43,120 --> 01:52:45,160
Speaker 1: All kinds of folks going to the dispensary. Yeah, but

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01:52:45,200 --> 01:52:48,040
Speaker 1: they're not. Their inhibitions aren't as low. When you're you're buying,

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01:52:48,080 --> 01:52:51,320
Speaker 1: you're out, you know, I got the drunks, and so

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01:52:51,360 --> 01:52:53,080
Speaker 1: they're telling me what happens. True. You ever notice when

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01:52:53,120 --> 01:52:55,479
Speaker 1: you go to the dispensary. I've heard this about it

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01:52:55,520 --> 01:52:58,960
Speaker 1: if you go, is that everything you buy is the

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01:52:59,000 --> 01:53:02,439
Speaker 1: best thing in the story. Like they are, they are passionate.

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01:53:02,520 --> 01:53:05,240
Speaker 1: They are so excited. I've never bought something and they're

2153
01:53:05,280 --> 01:53:08,639
Speaker 1: like this is okay. Like every time I buy something,

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01:53:08,680 --> 01:53:10,559
Speaker 1: it's like, oh my god, this is the best, this

2155
01:53:10,720 --> 01:53:13,679
Speaker 1: is so what a great choice. You know. But maybe

2156
01:53:13,680 --> 01:53:15,880
Speaker 1: maybe it's true, maybe everything I buy is a great choice,

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01:53:16,600 --> 01:53:19,839
Speaker 1: or that I've heard people bought it's a great choice.

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01:53:19,920 --> 01:53:22,599
Speaker 1: I thought you didn't go in there. Well its legal

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01:53:22,680 --> 01:53:27,080
Speaker 1: fan I know like ye anyway, I go, I told

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01:53:27,080 --> 01:53:29,160
Speaker 1: you about it. Surprise, there's not an app. There's not

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01:53:29,200 --> 01:53:31,320
Speaker 1: a delivery app for that. You well, you have to

2162
01:53:31,400 --> 01:53:33,200
Speaker 1: have to see your idea and stuff. So I heard,

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01:53:34,840 --> 01:53:37,920
Speaker 1: and you know, I still have a Detroit, Michigan license,

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01:53:38,000 --> 01:53:40,479
Speaker 1: and so I can't buy the same amount that Illinois

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Speaker 1: residents can buy him. It's gets me into a little

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Speaker 1: bit of a pickle something. Hey Illinois, right, sir? One more,

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01:53:54,360 --> 01:53:59,760
Speaker 1: hey sir, not one of these weirdos are following you

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01:53:59,800 --> 01:54:21,000
Speaker 1: on you out max it out? Um? Did you guys

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01:54:21,040 --> 01:54:25,880
Speaker 1: know that a woodpecker has a very very long tongue

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Speaker 1: and it uses its tongue to protect its brain oh

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01:54:31,000 --> 01:54:35,000
Speaker 1: from all the hammering. So having its tongue wrapped around

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01:54:35,000 --> 01:54:38,120
Speaker 1: the back of its brain doesn't give a woodpecker somewhere

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01:54:38,120 --> 01:54:41,000
Speaker 1: to store it's long appendage. It also helps protect the

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Speaker 1: bird's brain from injury during high speed pecking. So when

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01:54:49,760 --> 01:54:55,600
Speaker 1: the muscles have surround the woodpecker uh highoid bone contract,

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01:54:56,040 --> 01:54:58,080
Speaker 1: they don't just cause a woodpecker to stick out of

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01:54:58,080 --> 01:55:01,160
Speaker 1: its tongue. That tensing up, I should also helps hold

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01:55:01,160 --> 01:55:04,360
Speaker 1: the school and spine snugly in place as the birds

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01:55:04,400 --> 01:55:07,560
Speaker 1: beat collides with the tree, just like a seatbelt keeps

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01:55:07,560 --> 01:55:10,720
Speaker 1: you from flying forward if someone slams on the brakes.

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01:55:11,200 --> 01:55:14,640
Speaker 1: How do they know this Because Chinese students use special

2182
01:55:14,720 --> 01:55:17,040
Speaker 1: high speed cameras to take slow motion three D videos

2183
01:55:17,040 --> 01:55:19,800
Speaker 1: of this, so they wrap their tongue around their head

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01:55:20,160 --> 01:55:29,840
Speaker 1: before they go at it. Hell yeah, hell yeah. So

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01:55:30,000 --> 01:55:33,440
Speaker 1: there you go. Go go on, go forth into your

2186
01:55:33,480 --> 01:55:35,840
Speaker 1: day to day and if someone calls you a woodpecker,

2187
01:55:35,880 --> 01:55:43,640
Speaker 1: then be flattered. Flattery one three five. This is what's

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01:55:43,680 --> 01:55:46,520
Speaker 1: trend all right. Some sad news today. Chicago native and

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01:55:46,600 --> 01:55:49,480
Speaker 1: jazz legend Ramsey Lewis passed away at the age of

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01:55:49,680 --> 01:55:53,000
Speaker 1: eighty seven. According to his Facebook page, he died peacefully

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01:55:53,120 --> 01:55:57,520
Speaker 1: at his home in Chicago yesterday. He survived by his wife, Janet,

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01:55:57,960 --> 01:56:00,839
Speaker 1: his two daughters, and three sons. One of his daughters

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01:56:00,840 --> 01:56:04,440
Speaker 1: posted Ramsey's passion for music was truly fueled by the

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01:56:04,480 --> 01:56:06,640
Speaker 1: love and dedication of his fans across the globe. He

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01:56:06,720 --> 01:56:09,920
Speaker 1: loved touring and meeting music lovers from so many cultures

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01:56:09,920 --> 01:56:12,640
Speaker 1: and walks of life. It was our family's great pleasure

2197
01:56:12,880 --> 01:56:15,680
Speaker 1: to share Ramsey in this special way with all those

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01:56:15,720 --> 01:56:19,040
Speaker 1: who admired his God given talents were forever grateful for

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Speaker 1: your support. He was born in nineteen thirty five and

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01:56:22,760 --> 01:56:25,840
Speaker 1: Cabrini Green the pianist, got his start with the Ramsey

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01:56:25,920 --> 01:56:28,720
Speaker 1: Lewis Trio and they released their debut album way back

2202
01:56:28,720 --> 01:56:33,040
Speaker 1: in nineteen fifty six. Downers Grove Public Library has decided

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01:56:33,080 --> 01:56:36,240
Speaker 1: to cancel its Drag Queen Bingo events because of the

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01:56:36,280 --> 01:56:40,200
Speaker 1: severity of the threats made against the library. The library's

2205
01:56:40,240 --> 01:56:43,320
Speaker 1: full statement can be read on their website. The decision

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01:56:43,360 --> 01:56:45,440
Speaker 1: comes not two weeks after the library double down and

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01:56:45,520 --> 01:56:49,560
Speaker 1: holding the event with the guests list reaching capacity in anticipation.

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01:56:49,840 --> 01:56:52,960
Speaker 1: The Drag Queen Bengo was to have taken place on

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01:56:53,000 --> 01:56:55,920
Speaker 1: October eleventh, National Coming Out Day, and by the way,

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01:56:55,960 --> 01:56:58,440
Speaker 1: it was a private donor who was funding it. Not

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01:56:58,600 --> 01:57:01,480
Speaker 1: one single tax dollar was going to be spent on

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01:57:01,520 --> 01:57:03,960
Speaker 1: the events organization. Again, I don't know why, I just

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01:57:04,000 --> 01:57:06,400
Speaker 1: bothers anybody. I'm sure I'm gonna get emails about that

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01:57:06,480 --> 01:57:08,360
Speaker 1: today too. It's like I got an idea, you don't

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01:57:08,400 --> 01:57:11,400
Speaker 1: like it, don't go how about that? It's just bingo.

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01:57:13,080 --> 01:57:16,080
Speaker 1: But they're gonna be drag queens there, so oh no,

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01:57:16,920 --> 01:57:18,840
Speaker 1: that's my thing about this. If you don't like it,

2218
01:57:18,840 --> 01:57:22,560
Speaker 1: don't go like. This isn't me promoting any one agenda

2219
01:57:22,680 --> 01:57:27,000
Speaker 1: or another. All I'm promoting is if it doesn't concern you,

2220
01:57:27,080 --> 01:57:30,640
Speaker 1: who cares, like, let the people do it who it concerns,

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01:57:30,680 --> 01:57:32,560
Speaker 1: and then don't attend if you don't want to go,

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01:57:33,040 --> 01:57:35,880
Speaker 1: and because you're not going to change anybody's mind on

2223
01:57:36,080 --> 01:57:39,440
Speaker 1: any of this stuff. So yeah, I mean it's just

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01:57:39,480 --> 01:57:43,960
Speaker 1: a more proactive productive way. You don't like it, don't attend,

2225
01:57:44,000 --> 01:57:47,200
Speaker 1: don't support it. Fine, Um, the Bears secure business on

2226
01:57:47,240 --> 01:57:50,480
Speaker 1: Sunday somehow in the season over against opener against the

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01:57:50,520 --> 01:57:52,080
Speaker 1: forty nine. I mean, it was so ugly. It was

2228
01:57:52,120 --> 01:57:54,240
Speaker 1: so ugly on so many levels. It was raining, it

2229
01:57:54,320 --> 01:57:58,640
Speaker 1: was like a lake. Yeah. The football wasn't very good either.

2230
01:57:59,280 --> 01:58:01,440
Speaker 1: I make it half. Hey, this is what I'll say

2231
01:58:01,520 --> 01:58:04,520
Speaker 1: as a Bears fan, a diehard Bears fan. Did you

2232
01:58:04,560 --> 01:58:06,880
Speaker 1: notice how the first half didn't look great? In the

2233
01:58:06,920 --> 01:58:10,680
Speaker 1: second half they did something called making adjustments which some

2234
01:58:10,800 --> 01:58:14,520
Speaker 1: former coach mister Baldy never did, and boom they won

2235
01:58:14,520 --> 01:58:17,800
Speaker 1: the football game. Well, anything is better than what we had. Yeah,

2236
01:58:17,840 --> 01:58:19,720
Speaker 1: they were showing the stats. We were last place and

2237
01:58:19,840 --> 01:58:22,120
Speaker 1: like everything on the offensive side, it don't matter. We

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01:58:22,160 --> 01:58:25,880
Speaker 1: won the football, so I mean to prior. Oh yeah

2239
01:58:25,920 --> 01:58:31,000
Speaker 1: with your board like the first places, man, I'm supporting

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Speaker 1: your arm. Um, yeah, we'll see it looked the first half.

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01:58:35,920 --> 01:58:37,400
Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, another season of this

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01:58:37,440 --> 01:58:40,200
Speaker 1: and we won. So we won. Uh. This being said,

2243
01:58:40,320 --> 01:58:45,000
Speaker 1: the winner circle is saying free char dogs before the

2244
01:58:45,080 --> 01:58:49,040
Speaker 1: first playoff game. So free char dogs for everybody if

2245
01:58:50,080 --> 01:58:51,800
Speaker 1: we go to the playoffs, which is we got a

2246
01:58:51,840 --> 01:58:54,040
Speaker 1: long way to go, but hopefully. Um and by the way,

2247
01:58:54,040 --> 01:58:55,600
Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, if you saw that viral video

2248
01:58:55,600 --> 01:58:57,280
Speaker 1: of a four year old boy the socks game the

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01:58:57,360 --> 01:58:59,840
Speaker 1: hot dog fell out of the bud. Yeah, they treated

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01:58:59,880 --> 01:59:02,760
Speaker 1: him and I guess recently to hot dogs, which is good.

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01:59:03,040 --> 01:59:04,880
Speaker 1: Those guys are really clever and they're really good on

2252
01:59:04,920 --> 01:59:06,960
Speaker 1: social media. By the way, very funny the White Lotus

2253
01:59:06,960 --> 01:59:09,920
Speaker 1: Ted Lasso succession all big winners at the Primetime Emmy

2254
01:59:09,960 --> 01:59:13,680
Speaker 1: Awards last night. Jeff Bezos, his Space travel company, had

2255
01:59:13,680 --> 01:59:16,839
Speaker 1: their first rocket launch failure on Monday. Nobody was aboard,

2256
01:59:17,400 --> 01:59:20,920
Speaker 1: just science experiments. However, had there been people aboard? The

2257
01:59:20,960 --> 01:59:24,040
Speaker 1: little crew module popped off the top and came down

2258
01:59:24,080 --> 01:59:27,840
Speaker 1: with parachutes onto the desert floor. So he would have

2259
01:59:27,840 --> 01:59:30,200
Speaker 1: gotten jolted pretty good, but you would have lived, which

2260
01:59:30,240 --> 01:59:33,040
Speaker 1: I guess is good. From England to Scotland, thousands of

2261
01:59:33,080 --> 01:59:35,120
Speaker 1: mourners are lining up for hours to pay their respects

2262
01:59:35,120 --> 01:59:37,839
Speaker 1: to Queen Elizabeth the Second, of course Benhamen that Benjamin

2263
01:59:37,880 --> 01:59:40,800
Speaker 1: will be there next week to holding actually as a

2264
01:59:40,840 --> 01:59:44,200
Speaker 1: pall bearer. Her coffin will be flown to London on Tuesday,

2265
01:59:44,640 --> 01:59:46,640
Speaker 1: which is the latest leg of a five hundred miles

2266
01:59:46,640 --> 01:59:50,120
Speaker 1: ceremonial journey that takes the late monarch to her final

2267
01:59:50,280 --> 01:59:55,080
Speaker 1: resting place in Windsor. And TikTok users spend one hundred

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01:59:55,120 --> 01:59:59,760
Speaker 1: and ninety seven point eight million hours a day scrolling

2269
01:59:59,800 --> 02:00:04,920
Speaker 1: through through whatever. And I spend one hundred and ninety

2270
02:00:04,960 --> 02:00:08,600
Speaker 1: million of those hours each day scrolling through whatever. I

2271
02:00:08,600 --> 02:00:10,880
Speaker 1: can't believe you don't get that guy that just pops up. No,

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02:00:11,000 --> 02:00:12,280
Speaker 1: So I guess I'm not as bad as I think.

2273
02:00:12,320 --> 02:00:14,640
Speaker 1: I like, Hey, you've been scrolling for way too long.

2274
02:00:14,720 --> 02:00:20,040
Speaker 1: Take a break. Eat. Yeah, person, I've never seen it. Wow,

2275
02:00:20,400 --> 02:00:23,120
Speaker 1: I've never seen it. Well, I'm trying to think what

2276
02:00:23,160 --> 02:00:24,720
Speaker 1: am I what TikTok in my own now? That was

2277
02:00:24,720 --> 02:00:28,080
Speaker 1: just completely random. I can't remember now, Yeah, you got

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Speaker 1: a weird out. Something pops up the other day that

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, this is interesting. It's I tend

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Speaker 1: to gravitate towards something I don't know anything about. Did

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Speaker 1: you think that in your inner model? Yeah, well this

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Speaker 1: is interesting. I'm like, oh, this kind of learn something, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's cool. It's what I mean. You know, sometimes it's useless,

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Speaker 1: and sometimes I'm like, you know, sometimes just bam a

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Speaker 1: rush and I'm like yeah, and then sometimes that's other

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Speaker 1: stuff and I'm like, well, that's really interesting. I don't

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Speaker 1: know that you loved Bama Rush. I'll tell you. I

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Speaker 1: can't watch you anymore though, because now that the suspense

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Speaker 1: is over, you know, now these girls are like trying

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Speaker 1: to be influencers and they're being rather successful because they

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Speaker 1: got millions of followers during Bama Rush. But I can't

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Speaker 1: watch it anymore. I'm a ot D from Shallow Oista,

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Speaker 1: Shallow Winston got these racelets from Shallow Oista or whatever.

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Speaker 1: I can. God bless him, but I can. National bald

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Speaker 1: is Beautiful Day, National Seeiac Disease Awareness Date Today. Blogs

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Speaker 1: are next? What else do I have for you? I've

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Speaker 1: got the entertainmer of Port coming up. We're back in

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Speaker 1: a couple of minutes on the French Show show Chicago

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM and I Heart Radio station. It's the French

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Speaker 1: Morning Everybody, Tuesday, September thirteenth, nine oh five French shows

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Speaker 1: on Kaylin Hello, Owner Boner, Hey, jb Rufio, Hey, Paulina Rowe. Hi.

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Speaker 1: You keep on Shelley tender Noon Here in a little bit.

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Speaker 1: She sounds a little LOOPI to day too. I think

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Speaker 1: she's laughing in sleep, so should be interesting. Maybe she'll

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Speaker 1: do her m marshmallow voice for the entire show from

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Speaker 1: tender Noon. The Enterta're reporting about top fifteen minutes after

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Speaker 1: we do some blogs. What's coming up, Kaitlin. We got

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Speaker 1: to talk about Jimmy Kimmel. Wasn't on purpose? Is he toned? Deaf?

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Speaker 1: Are we mad? I'll talk about all Yeah, they do

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Speaker 1: better than they type. These are the radio blogs on

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show, so I like running in our diaries,

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Speaker 1: except we say them allowed to be called the blogs? Kiki,

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Speaker 1: Yes you got one. I have one, dear blog. Oh lord, okay,

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Speaker 1: don't judge me, please, y'all. But my sister is out

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Speaker 1: of town this week, so my brother and I kind

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Speaker 1: of on duty to get my nephew back and forth

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Speaker 1: to his little league football. And if you've ever been

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Speaker 1: involved in this, you know it's like a job. Like

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Speaker 1: it's three or four times a week. There's a game

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Speaker 1: every Sunday, rainer shine. It's really serious. And the last

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Speaker 1: game was Sunday, and I just really came to the

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Speaker 1: realization that I'm tired. I'm tired of little league football.

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Speaker 1: Please sign after one week? Yes, okay, you signed the

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Speaker 1: kids up for something else. I have all nephew. You.

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Speaker 1: So I've been going to games my entire life. Um,

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Speaker 1: and it's just like, do they need to be four quarters?

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02:03:06,400 --> 02:03:09,320
Speaker 1: Like I think two is gonna you know, like you

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02:03:09,320 --> 02:03:11,840
Speaker 1: should just play two quarters too, Like they're just running

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Speaker 1: back and for if they don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 1: The parents and coaches are all up setting up tight.

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02:03:16,920 --> 02:03:19,240
Speaker 1: It's like tent. You know, you gotta go on guard.

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Speaker 1: You never know if you're gonna have to fight or like,

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Speaker 1: because they take it so serious. Yeah, it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: the one that's gonna pop off at any moment. You

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Speaker 1: have to watch out for him, not gonna watch from

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Speaker 1: the car. See. Yeah, So you're the you're the parent

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Speaker 1: that probably got kicked out or calls a penalty or

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Speaker 1: whatever it's called. And first of all, I don't know

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Speaker 1: anything about football. I have to listen to Jason Sports

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Speaker 1: Reports to I go with the knowledge of you know,

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Speaker 1: Jay Sports Reports. But I'm there, so I don't even

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Speaker 1: know what team is, what position he plays. It's a lot,

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Speaker 1: and it's just stressing me out and upset me and

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Speaker 1: my homegirls. So I I just would like to put

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Speaker 1: this out there. Parents, I am totally fine with some

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02:04:00,120 --> 02:04:04,720
Speaker 1: poorting your kids at their piano lessons, their recitals, other

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Speaker 1: things than just football. Yes, of all the things, though,

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Speaker 1: I mean like early on musical lessons could be painful

2349
02:04:13,920 --> 02:04:18,160
Speaker 1: because I mean, you know, you gotta start somewhere doors,

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02:04:18,320 --> 02:04:22,880
Speaker 1: Like I would rather sit indoors than just outside freezing

2351
02:04:23,280 --> 02:04:25,760
Speaker 1: kids running around. I do think, Kigi, that's the one

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Speaker 1: thing that as a kid that you take for granted

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02:04:28,400 --> 02:04:30,879
Speaker 1: is how much of a commitment it is for your parents.

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Speaker 1: Exactly as well. I didn't really Again, I had great

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Speaker 1: parents and they just did stuff the right way, and

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02:04:39,120 --> 02:04:41,800
Speaker 1: I for the most part, my friends did too. So

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Speaker 1: it wasn't until I got older that I realized that

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Speaker 1: there are people whose parents do not attend games. Yes,

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Speaker 1: they do not want to drive them around. They do

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Speaker 1: not you know, commit themselves to the things that their

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Speaker 1: kids want to accomplish. And so you know you're learning.

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Speaker 1: I am and hadsu to my sister who literally does.

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02:04:58,400 --> 02:05:00,879
Speaker 1: It's like she's like the team mom. She vice and snacks.

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02:05:01,200 --> 02:05:04,400
Speaker 1: It's so high stressed. I don't need this with us,

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Speaker 1: like I can't. So just please, parents, think of something else.

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Speaker 1: And I put a poll up so I'm not alone

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Speaker 1: on this because the Paul was very close about people

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Speaker 1: who are holding these games. Okay, so and you're gonna

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Speaker 1: try and institute it. We're gonna play two quarters instead

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Speaker 1: of four. Yes, that's what I'm vote for. We gonna

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Speaker 1: put it in action. Alderman, Yeah, older woman, listen first,

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Speaker 1: ordering business, make that happen. Okay. I agree, Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: you're gonna win on that platform. I think, what if

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Speaker 1: she builds you guys a dome for your you know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, if they want to take us to Arlington,

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Speaker 1: I'm fine with your girls tired. I would say we

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Speaker 1: should build an or have an ordinance to build a bar.

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Speaker 1: But that's totally gonna make the loud mouse worse exactly

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Speaker 1: we can't do that. Yeah, we can have Kaylyn work

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Speaker 1: it though the old fly her team from the hotel bar.

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Speaker 1: See it's a collective effort. Now for Klan Dear blog,

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Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. And the reason I think I'm pregnant is

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02:06:01,800 --> 02:06:03,960
Speaker 1: because the last couple of days I've been having some

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Speaker 1: very strange cravings, and the last couple of days that

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Speaker 1: I'm making a conscious effort to intermittent fast like really

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Speaker 1: like really really like not not I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: eat breakfast at four in the morning, but I am

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02:06:16,760 --> 02:06:19,400
Speaker 1: going to eat a breakfast burrito and then take a

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Speaker 1: nap at eleven kind of thing. Like that's not exactly

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Speaker 1: how that works. Yeah, but what happens is I do

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Speaker 1: really well all day and then at about seven PM.

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Speaker 1: The last couple of days, I just I have these

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Speaker 1: crazy cravings. The good news is I haven't fallen succumb

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Speaker 1: to them. But like last night, I wanted green olives

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Speaker 1: with pimentos and pretzels in the worst way. That's all

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Speaker 1: at eight o'clock at night, that's what I wanted. You're

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Speaker 1: definitely pregnant. And then what was it the night before?

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02:06:54,600 --> 02:06:56,800
Speaker 1: I wanted something else that was totally random. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what it was. Are you late on your period? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm about it. I'm about eighteen. That will let me think, here,

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Speaker 1: I'm about twenty five years late. Yeah, no on it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I haven't something I don't know. But I still have

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Speaker 1: the I have the ups and downs without question. Yeah,

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02:07:13,560 --> 02:07:15,840
Speaker 1: but as far as the actual process itself, about twenty

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Speaker 1: five years behind on that any moment now, I'm sure.

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Speaker 1: But and that will be very surprising and shocking. Yeah,

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02:07:22,040 --> 02:07:25,000
Speaker 1: but that This is the problem that I'm having with

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02:07:25,040 --> 02:07:26,920
Speaker 1: this is that I get to the end of the

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Speaker 1: day and I'm really hungry, and so I have to

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02:07:29,720 --> 02:07:33,360
Speaker 1: just go to bed, which has been working. But you

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Speaker 1: know that's for me to go the whole day and

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Speaker 1: do a good job with this fasting and like eating

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Speaker 1: responsibly and only to blow it in the last hour.

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Speaker 1: Is that's the temptation. And I have to somehow figure

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Speaker 1: out how to curve the last hour to you know,

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02:07:50,520 --> 02:07:53,360
Speaker 1: so you're you're still in your inner you're still in

2417
02:07:53,400 --> 02:07:57,240
Speaker 1: your eating window, but you want to eat something technically,

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Speaker 1: So what I'm doing is I'll eat like all consume

2419
02:08:00,840 --> 02:08:04,120
Speaker 1: like a protein shake after work instead of like something

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02:08:04,120 --> 02:08:07,000
Speaker 1: bad look like a like a greasy as breakfast burrito,

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02:08:07,320 --> 02:08:09,520
Speaker 1: and then I don't. I won't eat anything until dinner,

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02:08:09,600 --> 02:08:12,240
Speaker 1: and then I'll eat like a sensible dinner and that's it.

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02:08:12,840 --> 02:08:16,280
Speaker 1: We're done. We're done. But like the olives and the pretzels,

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02:08:16,320 --> 02:08:19,400
Speaker 1: is that really a bad snack? No, well they're high

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02:08:19,440 --> 02:08:23,040
Speaker 1: in calories and fat. Okay, So well those pretzels are

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02:08:23,080 --> 02:08:25,800
Speaker 1: and I think the olives are high in calories, are

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02:08:25,880 --> 02:08:28,640
Speaker 1: awesome for you. I think they're high in something. Now,

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02:08:28,680 --> 02:08:31,640
Speaker 1: where's the fasting part, like when you're sleeping, so you know,

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02:08:31,720 --> 02:08:35,800
Speaker 1: so like I'll go Yeah, so I'll go seven pm

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02:08:36,080 --> 02:08:41,480
Speaker 1: two eleven am and without eating, shake just water and

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02:08:41,520 --> 02:08:45,400
Speaker 1: black coffee. That's it, and then I'll eat. I'll have

2432
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Speaker 1: the shape. But then, see, that's your problem in this

2433
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Speaker 1: window for in a minute fastening, you're supposed to be

2434
02:08:50,080 --> 02:08:52,120
Speaker 1: eating through this window. You're not supposed to continue to

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02:08:52,240 --> 02:08:54,960
Speaker 1: fast like you should be snacking throughout the day on

2436
02:08:55,000 --> 02:08:57,440
Speaker 1: small things and then have your dinner so you won't

2437
02:08:57,760 --> 02:08:59,560
Speaker 1: feel the need to be more hungry. That was some

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02:08:59,640 --> 02:09:01,440
Speaker 1: point that the point of fasting was not to eat

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02:09:01,520 --> 02:09:04,400
Speaker 1: at all. Yeah, No, the fastening part is like, so

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Speaker 1: from seven pm to eleven am that's your fasting time,

2441
02:09:07,920 --> 02:09:10,720
Speaker 1: and then from eleven am to seven pm is you're

2442
02:09:10,760 --> 02:09:12,720
Speaker 1: eating time. Oh, I thought you could fast. I thought

2443
02:09:12,720 --> 02:09:14,640
Speaker 1: you could do more than one fast. I thought you.

2444
02:09:15,000 --> 02:09:16,600
Speaker 1: I mean, there are some people to go thirty six

2445
02:09:16,640 --> 02:09:19,960
Speaker 1: straight hours, right, But I'm just saying I can't do

2446
02:09:20,320 --> 02:09:23,800
Speaker 1: to curb a hunger towards the end of the night.

2447
02:09:23,800 --> 02:09:26,360
Speaker 1: You should be eating like small snacks like whatever, like

2448
02:09:26,680 --> 02:09:30,240
Speaker 1: nuts and fruit and vegetables and stuff like that, instead

2449
02:09:30,240 --> 02:09:32,120
Speaker 1: of just having like a like a protein shake, because

2450
02:09:32,120 --> 02:09:34,120
Speaker 1: that's not going to really fill you up. Now, I'll

2451
02:09:34,160 --> 02:09:36,720
Speaker 1: tell you though, I will tell you this. It does

2452
02:09:36,800 --> 02:09:38,760
Speaker 1: not take long. It only takes a couple of days

2453
02:09:38,760 --> 02:09:40,760
Speaker 1: from me personally, It only takes a couple of days

2454
02:09:40,800 --> 02:09:43,240
Speaker 1: to see a huge difference and love. Yeah, I mean

2455
02:09:43,480 --> 02:09:46,080
Speaker 1: if I cut out the BS like and that's the thing,

2456
02:09:46,120 --> 02:09:48,280
Speaker 1: by the way, it's easy for me because I go

2457
02:09:48,400 --> 02:09:53,000
Speaker 1: from complete BS just a crap show of just a

2458
02:09:53,120 --> 02:09:57,320
Speaker 1: nuclear waste dump of food. I'm either on or off,

2459
02:09:57,840 --> 02:10:00,640
Speaker 1: and right now I'm off. I'm off with the nuclear

2460
02:10:00,640 --> 02:10:02,680
Speaker 1: we the nuclear waste dump has been turned off. And

2461
02:10:02,720 --> 02:10:04,760
Speaker 1: so it doesn't take but like maybe three or four

2462
02:10:04,840 --> 02:10:08,680
Speaker 1: days to feel slimmer to look less bloated. So it

2463
02:10:08,720 --> 02:10:10,840
Speaker 1: pays off. But the first couple of days are rough.

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02:10:11,080 --> 02:10:13,280
Speaker 1: I don't want you to be so concerned with calories though.

2465
02:10:13,400 --> 02:10:15,520
Speaker 1: I want you to just eat good stuff in your window,

2466
02:10:16,040 --> 02:10:18,360
Speaker 1: you know, eat an early dinner and then fast until

2467
02:10:18,400 --> 02:10:21,120
Speaker 1: after the show, and then just eat good quality stuff

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02:10:21,160 --> 02:10:23,400
Speaker 1: you can still eat, babe. Come on, well, I gotta

2469
02:10:23,400 --> 02:10:27,120
Speaker 1: start somewhere, and that's where I'm starting. Don't don't, don't

2470
02:10:27,160 --> 02:10:33,080
Speaker 1: cop call what whoa you? Oh? Yeah, come on, I

2471
02:10:33,120 --> 02:10:37,800
Speaker 1: learned my lesson to did you? Did you? Though I

2472
02:10:37,840 --> 02:10:41,280
Speaker 1: seem to remember a few days ago even then, push

2473
02:10:41,360 --> 02:10:46,080
Speaker 1: the old dump button right anyway, piece me with all

2474
02:10:46,120 --> 02:10:47,960
Speaker 1: of you have to be around me. Well, I try

2475
02:10:48,000 --> 02:10:50,520
Speaker 1: and figure this out. Harry Styles one h three five

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM, Chicago's number one hit musing station, Fred's Show,

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having us on today. We're

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Speaker 1: back tomorrow, Game Show Wednesday, nine hundred bucks with Showbiz Hill.

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Speaker 1: He Definitely Gonna Be Pauline is on at eight oh

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Speaker 1: five tomorrow. New Waiting by the Phone, Panic at the Disco.

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Speaker 1: Tickets tomorrow, lots of stuff if you if you missed

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Speaker 1: any part of the show, it's on the iHeartRadio app

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Speaker 1: search for The Fred Show. The tangent Our Affair Uncentsored

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Speaker 1: podcast is up as well. Fredshow radio dot com, Fredshare

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Speaker 1: Radio on Instagram. Lots of behind the scenes content The

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Speaker 1: Fred Show TikTok. We're everywhere, so check us out. Show

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Speaker 1: by Shelley without a lot of sleep. I think is

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Speaker 1: up next until noon. Should be good. I think she's

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Speaker 1: got Marshmallow on the show to I think I mean Marshmallow.

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Speaker 1: I think she's broadcasting from the marshmallow helmet helmet thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's untill noon. We'll see you tomorrow. Bye guy. By