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Speaker 1: My wife married the man that she cheated with, and

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Speaker 1: now my daughter wants him to walk her across the

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Speaker 1: aisle at her wedding. Okay, fine, but now you're in

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Speaker 1: for a nasty surprise.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Honestly, the Matthee mathin here.

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Speaker 3: I'm not I'm not this this, I'm feeling bad for

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Speaker 3: daughter's ungrateful.

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Speaker 1: Dude, that daughter's ungrateful. Don't you know? Cheaters should not

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Speaker 1: be rewarded with the ale walks.

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Speaker 2: That's that's true.

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Speaker 1: They should be an isle end and be separated from everyone.

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Speaker 3: Abandoned, abandoned, foodless, waterless. Yeah, die of dehydration, castrated in

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Speaker 3: the middle of the street. That balls rolling like ball bowling,

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Speaker 3: balls down the alley, down down the sandy shores, into

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Speaker 3: the ocean, never to be seen again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, flo floating like coconuts from island to island. Fifty

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Speaker 1: have three children with my ex Tracy fifty female, and

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Speaker 1: the three children are Michael twenty eight, Linda twenty five female,

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Speaker 1: and Victoria twenty three female. We split because Tracy had

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Speaker 1: an affair with Stamps fifty five male, to whom she

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Speaker 1: is now married. That's gonna hurt bro when the affair

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Speaker 1: when the affair man is like who she marries?

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Speaker 3: Can we can we just call the men who are

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Speaker 3: like basically called men mistress too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need to like make that a thing. Well

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Speaker 1: there's like miss mistress.

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Speaker 2: Is that actually a thing?

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Speaker 1: I know because you got miss mistress? Yeah, mister yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: misterress mistress.

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what it's going to called. We never shared

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Speaker 1: with the kids the reason for the divorce, as I

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Speaker 1: didn't want them to blame either of us. Yikes, dude,

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Speaker 1: Oh he is too kind.

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Speaker 2: That's tricky, bro, Yo, that's tricky.

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Speaker 1: I say. They'll keep the kids in the dark. Tell them,

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Speaker 1: especially if you're adults're like twenty eight dude, Yeah, be like, yo,

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Speaker 1: you're mom cheated with Stan and now they're married.

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Speaker 2: She got her her package stuffed. Ugh.

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Speaker 1: This backfired as the kids saw their mom move out

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Speaker 1: of the house into a small apartment and me keep

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Speaker 1: living in the house and be married two years after

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Speaker 1: the divorce. So it's like like the kids are like,

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Speaker 1: from their perspective, it's like Dad kept the house kick

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Speaker 1: mom out. Now he's getting remarried.

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Speaker 2: Also, probably they don't have like a good excuse, so

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Speaker 2: they're like.

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Speaker 1: Why, Yeah, why would you do this, dad, I just

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Speaker 1: kick mom out.

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Speaker 2: Yikes.

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Speaker 1: So they always saw me as a bad guy. Stan

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Speaker 1: and Tracy let them pretty much do whatever they wanted,

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Speaker 1: and I had to be the disciplinarian who made sure

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Speaker 1: the homework was done, appointments were made, and deadlines were met.

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Speaker 1: He's like the dad that actually cares, you know. It's

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Speaker 1: like like I want your future to be okay, literally,

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Speaker 1: and then the mom's like, do whatever you want. You know,

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Speaker 1: cheat on your homework, like I cheated on my husband.

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Speaker 2: That's an all timer right there. That was slick. That

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Speaker 2: was slick.

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Speaker 1: My two oldest eventually came to realize that I was

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Speaker 1: not the bad guy. With age comes a wisdom, I guess.

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Speaker 1: My son found out when his mother had put nothing

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Speaker 1: away for college for him, as outlined in our divorce decree,

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Speaker 1: and she told him to take out loans. My daughter

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Speaker 1: when she realized that her grades were going to keep

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Speaker 1: her out of her desired program in school. So like

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Speaker 1: they're finding out basically as like the mother is failing her, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like failing them. My two oldest my youngest never came around,

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Speaker 1: so it was a surprise when her boyfriend asked for

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Speaker 1: my blessing to ask for her hand mat wage. When

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Speaker 1: I expressed that I didn't think she'd care about my blessing,

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Speaker 1: he said, she insisted on it. Okay, So it's like

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Speaker 1: it sounds like the relationship maybe is being repaired.

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Speaker 2: I'll see.

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Speaker 1: She began spending time with me, being polite to my wife,

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Speaker 1: and it felt wonderful to have my daughter back. I

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Speaker 1: went with them to the I went with them to

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Speaker 1: book the venue, and they'll be getting and they'll be

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Speaker 1: getting married next summer. I paid the deposit and the

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Speaker 1: first installment.

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Speaker 3: MM.

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Speaker 1: The real reason okay, I guess it's closing up is

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Speaker 1: good fresh money.

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Speaker 2: I love you, daddy. Just cutting a watch.

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Speaker 1: Up. I noticed that she was becoming less communicative again,

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Speaker 1: recently ignoring my texts or giving one word replies and

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Speaker 1: not coming over as much. On Monday, my son sent

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Speaker 1: me a post from Instagram. My youngest had an engagement

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Speaker 1: party this weekend to which I was not invited. And

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Speaker 1: after he pays for everything for the wedding, he's not

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Speaker 1: invited to the engagement party.

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Speaker 2: That's ridiculous, dude.

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Speaker 1: Also, how do you think that's not going to catch

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Speaker 1: up with you?

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Speaker 2: Actually, though you're an idiot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like all right, like, if you're gonna

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Speaker 1: play this game of cozing up to dad just to

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Speaker 1: have him pay for everything, like, at least wait until

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Speaker 1: everything has been paid for it.

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Speaker 2: At least do it well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do it well? Come on, like, don't get like

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Speaker 1: halfway down the finish line and not cross it right,

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Speaker 1: just just literally spike the touchdown at the fifty.

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Speaker 3: Yard, give him just enough to where he gets to

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Speaker 3: the wedding is over, and then be like bye, I

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Speaker 3: hate you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, see you could do that, and then your evil

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Speaker 1: plan would have worked. But alas, which is stupid. One

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Speaker 1: of the photos was her with stan Stand the freaking cheater,

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Speaker 1: and it read anyone can be a father, but it

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Speaker 1: takes a real man to be a dad. This amazing

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Speaker 1: guy has been my dad for fifteen years. This amazing

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Speaker 1: guy has been my dad for fifteen years, even though

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Speaker 1: he didn't have to be. I am so blessed to

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Speaker 1: have him walk down the aisle with me next year

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Speaker 1: Daddy's Girl Future missus X. My kids wanted for nothing

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Speaker 1: their entire lives because I never let them go without.

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Speaker 1: Even when they wouldn't talk to me, I made sure

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Speaker 1: their needs were met I texted Tracy to ask why

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Speaker 1: it was not included, and she replied that Victoria didn't

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Speaker 1: want my wife there because she wanted a drama free day.

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Speaker 1: My wife has literally never started drama in her life.

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Speaker 1: I asked if Stan and I would both be walking

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Speaker 1: her down the aisle, which I love, How like op

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Speaker 1: is just like making compromises, Like okay, like maybe like

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Speaker 1: we can both do it.

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Speaker 2: Already with the man who stuffed my wife.

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Speaker 1: Tracy didn't respond, but Victoria called me demanding to know.

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Speaker 1: But Victoria called me demanding to know what my problem was.

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Speaker 1: I repeated my question and she replied that no, Stan,

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Speaker 1: her dad would be walking her down the aisle. I

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Speaker 1: told her, if that's what she wanted, I would be

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Speaker 1: fine with it. I told her to let Stan know

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Speaker 1: the next payment for the wedding is due in November.

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Speaker 1: Like drop, Stan and Tracy do not have the money

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Speaker 1: for this wedding and think I'm being an asshole, Linda says.

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Speaker 1: If I do this, Victoria will never speak to me again.

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Speaker 1: Michael is on my side.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, man, I mean this.

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Speaker 3: He just needs to come clean and say what actually happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just because, like I mean, now his reputation is

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Speaker 1: at stake. Yeah, because Tracy the ex wife, is like

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Speaker 1: doing nothing to I guess, like right, the wrongs and

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Speaker 1: like the misinformation that's going about. Yeah, and so I

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Speaker 1: think now he needs to step up to the plate.

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Speaker 3: Also, how is it like I get that if they

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Speaker 3: can't afford the whole wedding, but why isn't it like like, okay,

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Speaker 3: we'll contribute what we can, like okay, Stan and Tracy

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Speaker 3: will contribute like a small bit, and then Op will

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Speaker 3: contribute more.

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Speaker 1: Have no idea something buzz is all left up at

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Speaker 1: up to the max.

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Speaker 2: Sam