1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, Thank you for listening to us. 2 00:00:03,520 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest. My name is Ryan. Chrissy 3 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 1: and Tanya with the back room. Hello guys, Hello, Hello, 4 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: there's quite a group here. You gotta realize it's a group. Yeah, 5 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: quite a hang in the morning. Bam. All right, let's 6 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: see this is stuff here on the line. Hello, Steff, 7 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,159 Speaker 1: It's Seacrest. How are you hey. So I'm calling in 8 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: with a bit of a unique issue. Um, So I 9 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: have this incredible partner. Um, we get along so well 10 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: and every way that matters. He's just like he's my person, 11 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,040 Speaker 1: and we've been together for a long time, and we're 12 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: kind of at that point where, like, you know, we're 13 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:57,360 Speaker 1: ready to move on to the next stage. We've been 14 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: living together for about a year and a half and 15 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 1: everyone's kind of cheasing us without marriage, and so we 16 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: sat down to have a conversation about it the other 17 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: day and me, being kind of shy and reserved, mentioned 18 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:13,920 Speaker 1: that I would just love to have a really intimate 19 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: destination elopement somewhere, something really simple and sweet, and then 20 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: maybe have a party back home for all of our 21 00:01:21,800 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: friends who wanted to show up. And he is not 22 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: going to have that at all. He's saying, I want 23 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: a big wedding. He's very extroverted, has a huge family, 24 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: lots of friends, and wants a ginormous wedding, and so 25 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:42,680 Speaker 1: we just could not find like a happy medium at all. 26 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, we kind of left at this 27 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: sad place where we're like, well, if we're happy now, 28 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: we don't want to start a marriage where one of 29 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:54,320 Speaker 1: us starts it unhappy, you know, like not having our 30 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: dream day. So I think I need some advice. Well, 31 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 1: you've called the right show, because Steph, I have a 32 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: clear view of you being absolutely right with what you 33 00:02:05,920 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: want to do. Now, no disrespect to his big family, 34 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: but your way of doing it alleviates a lot of drama. 35 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: And I'm just gonna tell you to be honest with you, 36 00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have some people disagree with me on 37 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: this show. But many, many, many, many many many people 38 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: called him saying, oh, my wedding is so stressful because 39 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: of this, that and the other. And then we say 40 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: is it big They're saying yes, So I am an 41 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 1: advocate of the disappear, go away Elope and then have 42 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: a party with everybody after Yeah, exactly, but what if 43 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:43,600 Speaker 1: he just refuses to do it. I mean, like, this 44 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: is my person. I love him to death. He's like 45 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,160 Speaker 1: the most amazing man in the world. But I like, 46 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: do we just not get married? Do we just kind 47 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 1: of live happy ever after? Like this I thought. I 48 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 1: also think there's no why do you have to get married? 49 00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: If you think that you can be happy and trusting 50 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: and committed in the relationship you're in, then why change 51 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: it if you don't feel like you have to. I 52 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 1: mean I don't. I mean, sis, what do you think? I, honestly, 53 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:13,800 Speaker 1: which is shocking, agree with Ryan because I know, I know, 54 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 1: because I feel like the whole big traditional wedding like 55 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,120 Speaker 1: it doesn't need to be the answer. I know he 56 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: wants all the family there and whatnot. But you could 57 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: Elope and do something beautiful, you know, destination like you said, 58 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: with just maybe your parents and like the very tight 59 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 1: knit core of the family and then you throw that 60 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: big party. I mean, like, look at Paris Hilton. She 61 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: had three different weddings, like one on the Santa Monica 62 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:44,920 Speaker 1: Peter everyone. I'm just saying that the world of like 63 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: traditional weddings is out the window. It's like you can 64 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 1: do whatever you want. You don't have to be married 65 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:52,840 Speaker 1: to be happy with somebody. That's true too. Oh, here 66 00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: we go, Well, because I just I don't want to 67 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: plan a wedding that I don't want. And can you 68 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: propose as a compromise, the core elopement the core, yes, 69 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: Disney said, and then a big celebration with the other 70 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: friends and family. Isn't that a good compromise? I thought? So? 71 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 1: Did you say that we're gonna send you this audio 72 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: and just play it back for him. He's supposed to 73 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 1: be hard. Maybe once he once he hears from you guys, 74 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 1: he'll he'll finally hear me. But when I told him, 75 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,239 Speaker 1: when I told him that he could plan it, he said, cool, 76 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:34,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a bring your own beer barbecue at 77 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: the skate park. And I said, no, well, bait, that 78 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: could be the party. Well, that could be the party. 79 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: Do the wedding the way you want? Didn't That could 80 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: be the party? I think so too. Everyone wins, Hey, 81 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: if you need someone have your back, you reach back out. 82 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: I'll talk to him back with him. All right, thank 83 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:54,000 Speaker 1: you guys, so much, good luck. Bye. Here's the thing. 84 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 1: It's like that's something they can work through. But it 85 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 1: does kind of suck to start off like that. I'm 86 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 1: seeing it two different ways, right, It worries me. It's 87 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 1: not if it's not that, it's something else. Relationships are compromised, 88 00:05:04,839 --> 00:05:07,599 Speaker 1: so you need to work it out otherwise you're not 89 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: meant to be together. On air with Ryan Seacrest, So 90 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: Sisney was saying, she's got an article about soft launching. 91 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 1: This is the new thing that people are talking about 92 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: if you're in a new relationship, I mean soft launching 93 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 1: their introduction to other people on your social to the world. Yeah, 94 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: making it public. It's essentially like a normal soft launch 95 00:05:31,560 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: would be for I guess a business, okay, but you 96 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 1: adapt it to your relationship. And so for some I 97 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: feel like, you know, posting your significant other just out 98 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: of like when do you decide, when do you decide 99 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: that that's the moment that you actually want to go 100 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: ig official. So it's soft launching like showing their ankle 101 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 1: or in their shore, but maybe something a little bit 102 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 1: more creative, like it's like you post two coffees, or 103 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: like a shadow of a person's down or just like 104 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: their hand, or if it's a sunset, it's the back 105 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,719 Speaker 1: of their head. Yeah, you know, and it's like subtle 106 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: things that you kind of start like putting there and 107 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,080 Speaker 1: it just kind of gets people excited because they're like, 108 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: all right, well that's official now. Even though people want 109 00:06:13,520 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 1: to soft launch, what's the some people do now here? 110 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:17,599 Speaker 1: It's interesting you bring that up because I am not 111 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,240 Speaker 1: one of those people. I couldn't wait to show Michael off, 112 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 1: like I was just like, look at my boyfriend, I 113 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: have one, he's real, right, So it was just different 114 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: for me. But I understand that maybe if you date 115 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 1: a lot, like you don't want to just jump in 116 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:32,720 Speaker 1: after each person that you kind of fall for, so 117 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: a soft launch could work for that reason. I think Tanya, 118 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,599 Speaker 1: you were pretty good at soft launching your relationship with Robbie. 119 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: I think yeah, because for Soul, it's like you're single 120 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,679 Speaker 1: for so long, so it's like kind of like scary 121 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: to put somebody else on there like that, do you 122 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like, oh, this is him and 123 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 1: he's also a private person, so it was kind of 124 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: scary in that way. Yeah. But the soft launch to 125 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 1: me is so cute and I love when people do 126 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: it because it's like, oh, you see an arm, or 127 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: you see a leg or you see a thing. Yeah, 128 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: you created with but yeah, don't. Some people pretend soft 129 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,680 Speaker 1: launch like they set that up, but they're like, I'll 130 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: order room service sometimes if I have to travel and 131 00:07:08,360 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 1: they'll ask me for how many people, and I'll say 132 00:07:10,120 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: for two. But that's not soft launching. I'm just like 133 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:15,320 Speaker 1: saying that because I ordered too many things. So it's 134 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: funny you say that. Kelly Flanagan, I don't know if 135 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: you remember her from the Bachelor, she actually posted a 136 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 1: picture of like a guy's leg, like, well they were 137 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 1: watching TV and she was and she wrote soft launch 138 00:07:25,120 --> 00:07:28,160 Speaker 1: on the Instagram and then she later posted like just kidding. 139 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,239 Speaker 1: It was like, I don't know, this is a partner. 140 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 1: That's what's the point. Too much time? Too much time today, 141 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 1: on my hand, I love a soft launch. Here's your 142 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: morning hack. You have an issue with anything, you want 143 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 1: to get customer service on the line, it rings, you're 144 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: on hold. It's just it really is so frustrating. They 145 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,680 Speaker 1: say avoid Mondays. Those are the busiest days to call 146 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: customer service. Late at night, no good, very few people working. 147 00:07:57,160 --> 00:08:02,120 Speaker 1: Your best bet for customer service. Check it Wednesday at 148 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: two thirty. Here's why I don't know. Okay, is that 149 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: when you make your dentist appointments to thirty on Wednesdays? 150 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 1: Tooth thirty? Did you hear that? I have missed it 151 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: because when she said dentists, I know she made a 152 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: dad joke. She said, what is that when you make 153 00:08:22,600 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: your dentist poement's tooth urdy? Oh my god, like your 154 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: tooth hurts? Right. I don't even I don't even think 155 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: we deserve to give you a quote today. No, I 156 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 1: want to hear the quote. Feeling beautiful has nothing to 157 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: do with what you look like headlines Well, thousands of 158 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: LAUSD service workers overwhelmingly approved what has been described as 159 00:08:50,360 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: a historic labor agreement, with over of members voting in 160 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:59,960 Speaker 1: favor of the deal. The roughly thirty percent thirty thousand 161 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 1: union members cast ballots on the proposed contract in person 162 00:09:03,360 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 1: and online from April third through the seventh. The deal 163 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: must now also be approved by the LAUSD Board of Education. 164 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: The La City Planning Department released a revised draft of 165 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: their proposal al Fresco Ordinance regarding outdoor dining on private property. 166 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: Mayor Karen Bass said that she supports outdoor dining and 167 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: is pushing city departments to work together to make the 168 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:29,040 Speaker 1: process simpler to navigate. And we all saw the news 169 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 1: over the weekend Taylor Swift and Joe Alwynn have broken 170 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: up after six years of dating. The split comes as 171 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: Taylor is, of course, traveling the country for her sold 172 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 1: out aristour, of which Joe hasn't been spotted at. Taylor 173 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:48,080 Speaker 1: has not yet spoken publicly about the breakup on air 174 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 1: where Ryan seacrests Ryan Seacrest here and Tony Ween must 175 00:09:56,160 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: talk about Sonny's teeth issue. Well, it's not about the issue. 176 00:10:01,280 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 1: It's about what I'm trying to do with them. It's 177 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:05,880 Speaker 1: very normal for puppies to lose their teeth. Oh, I 178 00:10:05,920 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: don't know if Georgia had lost her teeth. Did she 179 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:12,120 Speaker 1: did to me that I should? I should have told 180 00:10:12,120 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: the tooth fairy so Georgia could have gotten a dollar 181 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: a dollar treat. So what's going on? How are you 182 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:20,920 Speaker 1: doing as a dog parent? This is all new to you, 183 00:10:20,960 --> 00:10:22,839 Speaker 1: and I know there were some stumbles out of the gate. 184 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 1: But how are you doing? Altanya? Oh? I mean I'm 185 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: a complete mess, Like God was how are you complete? Math? 186 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 1: I cried taking her to the vet to get her vaccines, 187 00:10:34,360 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 1: Like I am not okay? Like, I am very attached 188 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 1: and obsessed with her. It's weird and so um. She's 189 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: been losing her teeth, which is very normal because we 190 00:10:43,800 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 1: were taking these training courses online and they've said, your 191 00:10:47,480 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: puppies will start to lose their teeth. You probably won't 192 00:10:49,360 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 1: notice because it just gets caught in their toys, you know, 193 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 1: things like that. But I am like helicopter mom and 194 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: I find them. I like, look through all her stuff 195 00:10:58,800 --> 00:11:01,760 Speaker 1: and I'll find the teeth. And so the other day 196 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: my boyfriend Robbie found it and he's like, oh my gosh, 197 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 1: I'll get her tooth. And then he threw it in 198 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 1: the trash can and I was like, what, thank you? 199 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 1: You guys really need some I don't need to spend 200 00:11:11,200 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: some time with them. I was like, why are you 201 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: throw it in the trash? I should save her teeth, 202 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: and we should you save the teeth? Are you thank you? 203 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 1: Are you that? What are you gonna do with your 204 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:32,480 Speaker 1: dog's puppy teeth? I thought, oh, I could make it 205 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: into some jewelry. And you're even more insane than time. No, 206 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: it's very cute. I think it's very cute to have 207 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,720 Speaker 1: your dog find the dog's tooth under their puppy pillow 208 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 1: and get a tree. What tiny wants to make a 209 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: peeka shoe? What do you call those peka booze? What 210 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,560 Speaker 1: do those go to? Those necklaces? To call it? With 211 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: the shells you want to make? I don't think I 212 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: could make it that big because her teeth are very 213 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 1: very small, and I've only gotten a couple of them. 214 00:11:58,480 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: But I was thinking I could get them into some 215 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 1: up earring or like lock it or something. I don't 216 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:07,760 Speaker 1: know them. Where did my dog's teeth go? I don't 217 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:11,479 Speaker 1: even remember Georgia losing You're probably in her toys. Yeah, 218 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,280 Speaker 1: so she lost her teeth, but I never knew about it. Yeah, 219 00:12:14,360 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: because when their puppies are so small, like little sharp 220 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: little thorns. Yeah, sometimes she looks at me strangely because 221 00:12:21,280 --> 00:12:23,559 Speaker 1: she probably like, dude, you didn't even like acknowledge the 222 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: fact that I had my teeth lost? And did you 223 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 1: ever notice that she like when Sunny loses a tooth, 224 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: she does a lot of stuff with her tongue, Like 225 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: she'll start just kind of like her tongue will just 226 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 1: be out and doing weird things like when I got 227 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 1: my braces off kind of Yeah, I'm just wondering how 228 00:12:36,960 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: you and Robbie, Not that you're ever going to be 229 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: parents together, but how that's gonna go where life's curious 230 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:45,440 Speaker 1: total opposites. I don't know if I ever get to 231 00:12:45,440 --> 00:12:47,840 Speaker 1: see that chapter, but it's gonna be an interesting chapter 232 00:12:47,920 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: for sure. Yeah. I can't believe you want to make 233 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: a necklace out of it, though, something kept throw them away? Yeah, 234 00:12:57,480 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: I don't know about throwing them oyts, and that seems harsh. 235 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:04,000 Speaker 1: What about like when it comes to your kids? I'm 236 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: not going to tell the tooth fairy. Yeah, so the 237 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,520 Speaker 1: tooth Fairy keeps the teeth forever. Of course, the tooth 238 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:10,920 Speaker 1: Fairy keeps the teeth in fairyland. Uh huh, Okay, where 239 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: do you think the teeth go? I guess they go 240 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:17,079 Speaker 1: to the tooth Fairy, Well, the tooth fairy, if you mark, 241 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: we should have the tooth Fairy on at some point, 242 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: Na's the tooth Fairy where the tooth Fairy catalogs all 243 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 1: these teeth. But this is there's a place just you know, 244 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: where Santa has his elves the tooth Fairy has. Let 245 00:13:26,600 --> 00:13:28,360 Speaker 1: me just tell you, I think the tooth Fairy eventually 246 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: gives them back to the parent at some point, because 247 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 1: my mom definitely still has them in a box and 248 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: she tried to give them to me. Well, she's nice, 249 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: that's good. She's being she was crazy, No, she's not 250 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 1: crazy now. Michaela is new to the show. Yeah, and 251 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 1: we've been prying into her life for a little bit. 252 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 1: Matter of fact, we met her mom. I think were 253 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: too soon. I think we met your mom too soon. 254 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,760 Speaker 1: That's fine, and I usually meet everyone on this TS 255 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: mom's a little ways in, but we went right into 256 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 1: it with your mom. Maybe partly was because you know, 257 00:13:57,600 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 1: we need to look out for you and she's trusting 258 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 1: us to do that. But how's it going so far 259 00:14:02,080 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: being a new member of the producing staff? Michaela, Oh, 260 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: it's great. I love everybody. I'm enjoying it. But what's 261 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: the worst part? Then there's not one yet, there's not 262 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,320 Speaker 1: she's been long yet. She's smart. I want to hear 263 00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,319 Speaker 1: when there's not so like a fun meeting and like 264 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 1: a not fun meeting. Um, all right, so your mom 265 00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: is again now that we've opened the door to her 266 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 1: being a part of this show, she has reached out 267 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: to you and said that she wants to meet these 268 00:14:25,320 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: guys you're dating on social media. Yes, yeah, she's coming 269 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: this weekend. And you know the guy told you about. 270 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 1: But you remind me who you told me about and 271 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: where you met him. We met on a hinge and yeah, 272 00:14:35,640 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: he was the one that was a little bit shorter 273 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: than I thought. Oh so you because she MICHAELA does 274 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: not like dating a guy that's under five eight or something, right, 275 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: as long as he's taller than me. But I was 276 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: just shocked that I wore heels and he was a 277 00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 1: lot shorter than what he had said, taller than him. 278 00:14:52,480 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 1: But it was okay. So now your mom wants to 279 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: meet him. Yes, her excuses that she lives three thousand 280 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: miles away and she doesn't think she's gonna have another chance. 281 00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 1: She wants to judge him, see if he's good for 282 00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,360 Speaker 1: me before you kick him to the curb. She wants 283 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:07,080 Speaker 1: to see if the guy is worthy. Yes, yeah, have 284 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:09,840 Speaker 1: you gone out with the guy? Yeah? So we like 285 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:14,040 Speaker 1: five dates? So it is so you are breaking your 286 00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: own rule. Yeah, but he's a great guy, So I 287 00:15:17,360 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 1: mean I have to kind of the great guy component 288 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 1: can overrule the high component. I'm living breathing. I hope 289 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: that love respects the soul. So it's always so uncomfortable 290 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 1: for the guy when he has to meet the girl's mom. Right, 291 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,600 Speaker 1: So how are you going to set that up? I 292 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: don't know. That's why I don't know what to do. 293 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: Like I feel like that's like the next step. So 294 00:15:40,440 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 1: I didn't know how he felt about actually introducing him. 295 00:15:44,160 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 1: I think it's cool, but you see to like make 296 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 1: it in an environment where it's busy casual, like a 297 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 1: Mexican restaurant where it's dark and busy, okay, and maybe 298 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,400 Speaker 1: it's more of your friends too. It's like a group yeah, 299 00:15:54,480 --> 00:15:58,360 Speaker 1: grouping Okay, yeah, I didn't mean my roommate. So so 300 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:00,400 Speaker 1: I think that it's all. I think it's fine because 301 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:02,360 Speaker 1: your mom's gonna be visiting all that. I throw out 302 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: the old rule that you gotta wait to introduce to 303 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,760 Speaker 1: parents because life is too short. Now with COVID and 304 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 1: restrictions and traveling, it's like, you get the shot, go 305 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: for it. But creates some atmosphere and energy that takes 306 00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: a little bit of pressure off of him because he's 307 00:16:13,840 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: probably gonna be terrified, right, He is gonna be terrified, right, 308 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 1: I mean, the guy's already been told he's too short 309 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: and he's still fighting back. I don't think MICHAELA told 310 00:16:22,800 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: him himself too short. Hopefully he doesn't city. This is 311 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: the problem with this is a problem working. I'm gonna 312 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 1: tell you right now, MICHAELA. All disclaimer is that once 313 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 1: this stuff goes out on the air, we can't be 314 00:16:32,960 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 1: responsible for any tragedy that happens in your personal life. 315 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: I mean kind of true. You don't seem so excited 316 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: about him now, MICHAELA. Ryan what I mean. I think 317 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: he's a little bit more and to me than I 318 00:16:47,440 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 1: am him. But it's more of me being scared because 319 00:16:53,200 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: of previous relationships. You know, I have fair you know, 320 00:16:55,560 --> 00:16:57,240 Speaker 1: so I think that's why, and I'm scared to like 321 00:16:57,520 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 1: go to the next step, which is fair. But don't 322 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: let that be an issue for him because he's a 323 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: new guy. He's not that guy r right, so he 324 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: couldn't You can't like let him reset the clock? Yeah 325 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,359 Speaker 1: reset this is It's gonna be so fun having someone 326 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: new to go down all these paths with. I know 327 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 1: it's a big brother complex, right, I always have to 328 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:19,080 Speaker 1: have the younger sister, right, you were going this was 329 00:17:19,160 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 1: tiny a few years ago. I get having a wall. 330 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:24,480 Speaker 1: I get having a wall up, and I think it's 331 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 1: fine because he'll just chip away at it slowly. Right, 332 00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:28,879 Speaker 1: all right, So is there anything else we can do 333 00:17:28,960 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: for you? I mean, I guess he's meeting my mom 334 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 1: this weekend. Yeah, yeah, And create the right atmosphere ticking 335 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: pressure off the guy and tell him he's not that short. 336 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:42,400 Speaker 1: He doesn't even know that. I need to tell him. 337 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 1: He needs to know what's happening behind his back. Well, 338 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:49,360 Speaker 1: thanks for joining us again, Thank you, good luck working here. 339 00:17:52,080 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 1: It's time for Ryan's Rhodes is one h two point seven, 340 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 1: Kiss FM. Dear Ryan and Sisity. My husband works from 341 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:01,080 Speaker 1: home and our neighbor came by to pick up a check. 342 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,680 Speaker 1: She left forty minutes later wearing different clothes. I want 343 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: to find out what's going on Leslie in Whittier. So Leslie, 344 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,000 Speaker 1: thanks for coming on. You know, one of the things 345 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: we were thinking here what could be a reason? How 346 00:18:15,359 --> 00:18:18,720 Speaker 1: an explanation? And one of the things we thought about was, 347 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 1: you know, living in la sometimes, well this is your neighbor. 348 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:26,120 Speaker 1: Though We've gone to friends houses and changed and showered 349 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 1: because we wanted to stay on one side of town 350 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 1: without having to go home in between, So we've done 351 00:18:32,480 --> 00:18:37,240 Speaker 1: that before. What do you think's going on here? Honestly, 352 00:18:37,440 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 1: I don't really know what to think. I mean, I'm 353 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 1: kind of in shocked by this whole thing. She was 354 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: three houses down. If you need to change clothes, like 355 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:50,400 Speaker 1: go home, you know, yeah, that is that this doesn't 356 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 1: really work out for that scenario. So do you think 357 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:56,080 Speaker 1: she what are the clothes she what'd she come in 358 00:18:56,840 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: she come out wearing? She came in in her work clothes, 359 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,679 Speaker 1: which was like a skirt and a blazer and like 360 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: a top, and she came out wearing sweatpants and a 361 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: T shirt that looked oddly familiar, like there were your 362 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,040 Speaker 1: husband owns? No, not mine, thank god, Oh my god. 363 00:19:13,040 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 1: If she came out in one of my shirts, I 364 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: would have lost it. But they looked familiar. They're they're 365 00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:20,639 Speaker 1: either junk clothes that we've had, or that my husband's sweatpants, 366 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 1: which he never really wears. And what did your husband 367 00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:28,040 Speaker 1: say about all this? I mean, he says that nothing happened, 368 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:32,399 Speaker 1: that she's just a talker and still and then he 369 00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: says that he was making a smoothie and didn't put 370 00:19:36,400 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 1: the lid on the blender and turned it on and 371 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:42,480 Speaker 1: then she got covered in smoothie. Come on, and so 372 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 1: she hadn't had sweats with her No, she did not 373 00:19:46,480 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 1: walk in, just in her workcloase. She didn't have her 374 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 1: purse or anything. Now, so let's they need you to say, Ryan, 375 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: you my permission to call, and then your husband's name 376 00:19:54,520 --> 00:19:58,480 Speaker 1: on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission 377 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: to call right now on Kids FM. Okay, we're gonna 378 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: do that now. All right, be very quiet until we 379 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: hear who he sends a roses to and what he 380 00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: puts on the card. Okay, okay, all right, here we go. 381 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: Hi is this Joel? Yeah, Hi Joel. My name is Janelle. 382 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: I'm calling from Beautiful Blooms. We're a flower shop that 383 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: services the Whittier area and the reason I'm calling today 384 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 1: is because we have a promotion for local residents. It's 385 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,639 Speaker 1: pretty cool. It's a free dozen red roses that you 386 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: can send to anybody that you'd like. Is that something 387 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: you'd be interested in? I don't know how you got 388 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:52,160 Speaker 1: my information, but there's there isn't anybody that you would 389 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 1: want to send flowers to. They're absolutely free. I don't 390 00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 1: need any cash from your credit card in for anything 391 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:57,840 Speaker 1: like that. We just hope you like our roses and 392 00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,080 Speaker 1: come back as a returning customer. Aren't that point? All right? 393 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:03,879 Speaker 1: Is this? Is this like a scam? You need the 394 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 1: last four digits to my soul? Sialo. No, I don't 395 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,159 Speaker 1: need any information from you, not just the person you 396 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 1: want to send flowers to today bringing up their day? Okay, yeah, yeah, 397 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,360 Speaker 1: send them to my wife then? And what's her name? 398 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:24,959 Speaker 1: Three her? Hello? Yes, what's your wife's name? Jewel? Are 399 00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:30,160 Speaker 1: you there? Yes, Leslie? Sorry you're calling not a great time, 400 00:21:30,200 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: but oh I'm sorry. Um, what would you like to 401 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 1: put on the card for Leslie? Uh? Say, uh? You 402 00:21:40,400 --> 00:21:45,040 Speaker 1: you're the best, just like you like you the best? 403 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:50,240 Speaker 1: Or you're the best? You the best? You the best? Okay, 404 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,640 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that I didn't call it a good time? 405 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:58,600 Speaker 1: Is everything okay? Yeah? Yeah, Just you know I'm a 406 00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: busy person. Hello, Joel, if you just have one more second, 407 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,080 Speaker 1: I know you're tied up there. It's Ryan Seacrest, your 408 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:09,639 Speaker 1: voice of being broadcast on the radio, and we have 409 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: your wife Leslie on the line, and quickly, Joel. She 410 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:16,880 Speaker 1: would like to know if I may Leslie, She would 411 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: like to know what happened in the forty minutes? Your 412 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,520 Speaker 1: neighbor came over the other day and changed her clothes? 413 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:26,359 Speaker 1: Can you explain that? What are you? What are you 414 00:22:26,400 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: talking about? Well, Leslie, you tell him you you saw 415 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: the ring doorbell video? How is this on your business anyway? 416 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 1: So I just want to hear the truth from you. 417 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 1: So come on, just tell us all, tell us exactly 418 00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: what happened came over when Lindsay came over the other 419 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 1: day to get to check. Why did it take forty 420 00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:49,600 Speaker 1: minutes for her to get there or to be there? 421 00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: And why did she leave wearing sweatpants and looking completely 422 00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: different than when she came in. Tell me she was 423 00:22:57,119 --> 00:22:59,240 Speaker 1: picking up a check. We bought some chairs from the 424 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 1: charity off and what what? What is this? What is this? 425 00:23:03,560 --> 00:23:06,120 Speaker 1: This is Ryan's Roses. Your voice is on the air. 426 00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,040 Speaker 1: Everything you were saying is being broadcast. So what happened? 427 00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: Why did she change your clothes? It seems a little 428 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 1: strange that she changed. Did something happen with you and 429 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 1: this woman? Yeah, yeah, yeah, something good happen. I explained 430 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,719 Speaker 1: this to my wife. I said that you know, you know, 431 00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: no offense, but this is ridiculous that I'm on the radio. 432 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,720 Speaker 1: But y'all, just in the interest of time and the 433 00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,600 Speaker 1: security of your marriage, did you cheat on your wife 434 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:32,400 Speaker 1: with your neighbor? No? I did not. No I was No, 435 00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,919 Speaker 1: I did not, absolutely not. So would you do I 436 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,400 Speaker 1: think if it were me, you heard Joel, he answered 437 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: the question, I would go to your neighbor and talk 438 00:23:41,640 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 1: to your neighbor about this a little bit and say 439 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: made you feel uncomfortable and watch your neighbor's body language. 440 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 1: When your neighbor responds, oh, yeah, don't you worry, I'll 441 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,600 Speaker 1: go ask her and I will be watching. Joel. I 442 00:23:53,600 --> 00:23:56,320 Speaker 1: don't think I believe you, but I don't know you. 443 00:23:57,119 --> 00:24:01,360 Speaker 1: Let's say thank you very much. Yeah, all right, let's 444 00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:04,920 Speaker 1: go back to Ryan's roses. Here at Kiss, Leslie writes 445 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,359 Speaker 1: in about Joel her husband and says, you know what 446 00:24:07,480 --> 00:24:09,639 Speaker 1: the neighbor. I saw it on the ring doorbell camera. 447 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:12,320 Speaker 1: The neighbor came in, stayed forty minutes, came out with 448 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 1: a different pair of clothes. I think she's cheating with 449 00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 1: my husband. So, Brenna, what did you think you heard this? 450 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 1: The guy said Joel. The husband says, oh, no, she 451 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:24,200 Speaker 1: had to change because the smoothie exploded. In the machine 452 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 1: and it got all over her clothes changed in the 453 00:24:26,080 --> 00:24:29,880 Speaker 1: sweat where the sets come from. Oopsie, Yes, I think 454 00:24:29,920 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: the smoothie excuse is the dumbest excuse that I have 455 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:34,919 Speaker 1: ever heard in my entire life come out of a 456 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: man's mouth. Like listen, it's dumb to begin with. But 457 00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 1: if it was real, why didn't she just go three 458 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:48,000 Speaker 1: like houses down exactly? I just I don't even I 459 00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 1: was gonna ask him more questions, but I don't believe him. 460 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 1: I just don't believe him. So I think he's lying, 461 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,840 Speaker 1: and I think that something did go on, And why's 462 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 1: she hanging out? Like if she was picking up a 463 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,840 Speaker 1: check or dropping off a check, be done with it, 464 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:04,919 Speaker 1: and especially if he gets spilled on, then leave all right, 465 00:25:04,960 --> 00:25:09,920 Speaker 1: thank you Brennan for calling. Yeah, so she found all this. 466 00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:15,000 Speaker 1: If you're just listening, she Leslie saw all of this 467 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 1: happen on the ring doorbell camera. Oh, let's just paint. 468 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: I think it's clear, and it picks up audio all 469 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 1: the things. So she was in there, forty minutes went 470 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 1: by and she comes out in sweatpants. You don't need 471 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:34,639 Speaker 1: forty minutes, Tony, No, you don't need forty minutes right 472 00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: to pick up a check. Also, when you spill stuff 473 00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:39,679 Speaker 1: on yourself and you're not at home, you just brush 474 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: it off. And you also, if you're almost three houses down, 475 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,960 Speaker 1: you just go there. Yeah, yeah, I don't like it sooner, Tubs, 476 00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 1: Why are you standing up? What's going on over there? 477 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:50,439 Speaker 1: You're making me nervous? Tubs is hovering just because just 478 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:52,160 Speaker 1: because you have all your shots doesn't mean you can. 479 00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 1: We should be hovering over each other, not a dog. Well, 480 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,360 Speaker 1: he's standing there like he's about to hand me something. 481 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: Is there there? Break? He news? What's happening? What he 482 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 1: just got the name? He's uh, he's doing double duty. 483 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: He's printing sheets and passing them over and he's engineering 484 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,159 Speaker 1: the show. Feet baby. Yeah, well, let me see what 485 00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 1: you're about to give me. Let's see what's coming out? 486 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:19,960 Speaker 1: Are you sorry? Is the gold bracelet? What's that gold bracelet? 487 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: You've got a Bengal? Yeah, that's not. What do you mean? 488 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,919 Speaker 1: That's not? That's not you know. I cleaned out my 489 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: drawers the other day and I found this from a 490 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:33,960 Speaker 1: couple of years ago, and I was just testing it. 491 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 1: I'm giving a test drip, just ran. It is a Bengal. 492 00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: It's not a Bengal. It's good. Honestly, I think I 493 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:44,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I think this is not one you want 494 00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,160 Speaker 1: to ask who makes it for Robbie? No, no, no, 495 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:50,880 Speaker 1: no no, but I do like your shoulders are redoubled 496 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,680 Speaker 1: up and the gold watch. Wow, you're feeling the watch? Nice. 497 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 1: Cleaned out my drawers and I found all these breaks. 498 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:58,960 Speaker 1: I got a couple other bracelets. I remember my brace 499 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,359 Speaker 1: of face. Ye, a bunch of them. This reason I 500 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:04,600 Speaker 1: wear for some feedback, guys. I appreciate the feedback on 501 00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: the side. Put on the side with the really, yeah, 502 00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: I think it needs to be stacked rats the watch. 503 00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:14,200 Speaker 1: All right, look, guys, let's stay on task here. Bengal 504 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,439 Speaker 1: definition a rigid bracelet or anklet. I'm not wearing an anklet. 505 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:24,440 Speaker 1: Hell look one or two seven at Kiss FM. Hello 506 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,440 Speaker 1: Nikki and Huntington Beach. How are you this morning? I'm 507 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,679 Speaker 1: doing fantastic. How are you? We're doing well. So your 508 00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: husband threw away a gift that was given to you. 509 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: What happened? Oh my gosh. My best friend gave me 510 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,200 Speaker 1: a perfume for my birthday back in November and it 511 00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 1: was an Ariana Grande perfume. But I absolutely had been 512 00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:48,600 Speaker 1: like wanting like forever. And so backtrack a little bit 513 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: to the house that I grew up in. My mom 514 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: had really bad allergies when it came to by certain 515 00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 1: like smells, you know, like Verry vanilla, So I knew 516 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,479 Speaker 1: about that. My husband has sort of the same thing, 517 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 1: So I knew, like I needed to keep his allergies, 518 00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:04,920 Speaker 1: you know in mind, you know, and certain perfumes like 519 00:28:05,200 --> 00:28:08,520 Speaker 1: kind of flared up his allergies. So when my best 520 00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: friend bought it for me, at first he didn't mind 521 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: the smell of it, but then after a certain period 522 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: of time, he was like, oh, don't wear it in 523 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: the house anymore, like, don't spray it. And so I 524 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,160 Speaker 1: respectfully was like, Okay, I won't spray it and the house, 525 00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,680 Speaker 1: I'll do it, you know, outside of all Now backtrack 526 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 1: to maybe about two to three months ago, he threatened 527 00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,800 Speaker 1: me by saying he couldn't stand the smell anymore, and 528 00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:33,680 Speaker 1: he actually hid the bottle. Then, about a week or 529 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,879 Speaker 1: two ago, my best friend and I went to Disneyland 530 00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,840 Speaker 1: and I left the perfume on the counter. I got 531 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: a text from him saying that the house raps for 532 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: the perfume, and I told you not to wear it, 533 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 1: I said, I told him. I was like, I just 534 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,280 Speaker 1: left it on the counter so I didn't have to 535 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 1: take it with me. I never sprayed it. So I 536 00:28:51,680 --> 00:28:54,080 Speaker 1: sent him a muffle the next day saying, hey, where 537 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,520 Speaker 1: is the perfume bottle? I said, because I wanted to 538 00:28:56,640 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: give it to somebody that could wear it. He threw 539 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 1: the bottle away. What I should Now when you say 540 00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: he threatened you, what do you mean he threatened you? 541 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: So he had told me, like, please don't wear it 542 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,240 Speaker 1: or else I'm going to do something about it. He's like, 543 00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:15,800 Speaker 1: he's like, we're talking about a bottle of perfume. Right, 544 00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm clear on this, yes, yes, Now how big of 545 00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: an issue on a scale of one to tend Nikki? 546 00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 1: Is this in your relationship? Um, it's not big, but 547 00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,840 Speaker 1: it was just I honestly was not expecting him to 548 00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: throw it away. I wasn't expecting him like he's like 549 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 1: I put in there. Yeah, I'm only asking Sisney because 550 00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:37,719 Speaker 1: she's married, and I feel like I need a husband 551 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: wife a view on this, and I don't because to 552 00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,360 Speaker 1: me it seems like not a big deal. Uh, well, 553 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,120 Speaker 1: not a big deal. It's like, what I'm gonna go 554 00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: in and throw away one of your cologns, like it 555 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:51,600 Speaker 1: isn't big, Like I don't think I would let it 556 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:53,000 Speaker 1: get to that place. If you don't really like the 557 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,280 Speaker 1: scent or the cologne or your allergic whatever, then I 558 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: shouldn't be wearing it because I'm trying to get you 559 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 1: to be interested in my pheromone. It needs asked, Like 560 00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,840 Speaker 1: you can't just throw somebody's things away. No, he he 561 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,680 Speaker 1: threw it away, like we went to Disneyland all day 562 00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:09,600 Speaker 1: and I literally just left it on the counter, and 563 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: so you down a bottle of perfume. I'm not seeing 564 00:30:12,960 --> 00:30:17,080 Speaker 1: the bigness in that. It's the it's the betrayal. Well, 565 00:30:17,200 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't leave him over this. I think 566 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: you need to address the premise of why you're upset. 567 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 1: But this, to me, on a scale of all the 568 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: things that we've talked with people about and frankly, what's happening, 569 00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm not so. I'm just not that worried. I think 570 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna make it through. I know, I know, and 571 00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,080 Speaker 1: I know they'll make it. Jamie. We've been together for 572 00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: ten years, and we've been married for almost six and 573 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:39,240 Speaker 1: a half kind of stuff. Y'all should have a little 574 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: battles over right, this that fun stuff. But I would 575 00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 1: never throw something of him. You're a better person, I 576 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,600 Speaker 1: mean that's you know that yet down to his level? 577 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,200 Speaker 1: Well good luck, you know, and uh yeah, go get 578 00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,000 Speaker 1: another bottle and run through a cloud of it. Yeah, 579 00:30:56,080 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: let him deal. Thanks for calling. I mean, look, I've 580 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: been in relationships. I know what's stressful, that's not. Yeah, 581 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:07,560 Speaker 1: that was a very unique conversation that we did. Not 582 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 1: I have never heard that one before. Haven't you ever 583 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: hid something from Michael because you didn't want to eat it, 584 00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 1: or you didn't want to play with it because it 585 00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: was loud, or is a drum set he was using 586 00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:18,920 Speaker 1: in the middle of the night. Haven't you done that? 587 00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 1: No on air with Ryan Seacrest. Let me grab Valerie 588 00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: here if you could just take a second to talk 589 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,920 Speaker 1: to Valerie in Los Angeles. Valerie, Good morning, Hi, good morning. 590 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: How are you guys. We're doing well? Thank you for asking. 591 00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 1: So you are calling because your date thought you were 592 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:44,240 Speaker 1: ordering six pieces of wings, but you wanted eight instead. 593 00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:48,160 Speaker 1: Could you please explains? Okay, So I met this guy 594 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:51,360 Speaker 1: on cinder and he asked me we wanted to go 595 00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 1: on a date, and I said, yeah, we went on 596 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: a date and we want to wok at some wings 597 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 1: and basically asked him, okay, so I wasn't an order 598 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: and he's like, oh, so you're gonna get eight wings? Right? No, 599 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,960 Speaker 1: he asked me, I'm gonna get six wings, and I'm like, 600 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 1: oh no, like I was gonna get eight wings. So 601 00:32:05,640 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 1: then yeah, Like I felt kind of weird after that, 602 00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: and because eight or six, Yeah, I was like yeah, 603 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: because I wanted like yeah, He's like, oh no, like 604 00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,400 Speaker 1: you're gonna get six, right, I was like no, Like 605 00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:22,480 Speaker 1: in my head, right, I was like no, So first 606 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: of all, six wings, eight wings is not enough. You 607 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:30,040 Speaker 1: need a dozen? You ordered by the dozens wings? Yeah, 608 00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 1: but we went a wing stuff It was not a 609 00:32:32,840 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: wing spot, No, it was that wing stuff stuff you 610 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:41,040 Speaker 1: could order yeah, six, eight, ten. So I see opposite. 611 00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: If you and I valle route and you ordered a six, 612 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: I'd order you at twelve, right. I just feel like 613 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: a guy shouldn't ask, like, if you're on a date, 614 00:32:49,920 --> 00:32:52,520 Speaker 1: let's the girl, you know, order whatever she wants to order. 615 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,960 Speaker 1: So it's kind of rude. It's kind of petty. Two 616 00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,680 Speaker 1: wing difference. So what happened? You got the six or 617 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: you get eight? No, I ended up getting the eighth, 618 00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,600 Speaker 1: but I saw awkward after that? You get me? Yeah, 619 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,720 Speaker 1: like did you eat the ax? That? What's kind of rude? 620 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: Like leaves to right? They want to the last two? Yeah, okay, 621 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: can I get a brownie? Or can I not get 622 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: a brownie? You have an ask for permission. This is 623 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 1: not a great relationship, not a way to start one. 624 00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:25,360 Speaker 1: If you get the ask, I get a quarter brownie? 625 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 1: I know. But the ordering on a date is always 626 00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: that it's so awkward. But that's like so rude of him. 627 00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: He like shamed her totally self conscious to order what 628 00:33:36,280 --> 00:33:40,560 Speaker 1: she actually wanted to order him again. Right, No, Look, 629 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: that's the thing that he's asking me if I want 630 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:43,959 Speaker 1: to go on a second date. I mean we got 631 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: along well and everything, but after that, I'm just like, 632 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 1: why don't you respond? You mean a full date? You 633 00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: want go on a half day? Right? You know? Don't 634 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: want to you know, put you out? That's I don't 635 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 1: know what to do, should him or not. I don't 636 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,840 Speaker 1: like his pettiness and I don't like you feel like 637 00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:00,760 Speaker 1: you have to ask for permission in order of brownie 638 00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: for me, because if he's doing that, now, who knows 639 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,920 Speaker 1: how controlling he's going to be down the road with 640 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 1: who you can be, who you can hang out with, 641 00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,719 Speaker 1: Like six hot and six medium, that's the way you 642 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:17,839 Speaker 1: order wings, not six that's a red flag. Huh, it's 643 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 1: a red flag. Yeah, all right, thanks for calling down 644 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:25,160 Speaker 1: run the opposite direction. Speaking of wings, okay, they maybe 645 00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: like if you're gonna have your last supper, your last meal, 646 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,640 Speaker 1: they may be on my list. I love buffalo. No, 647 00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: not for me either. I don't even like work for 648 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: my I'm not a bone a meat on the bone 649 00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: type of person. Gets all stuck in your teeth. They 650 00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 1: have like fingers. There's the drumstick and then there's like 651 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,160 Speaker 1: the wingy wing wing No, and then like the juice 652 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 1: all in your fingers. Oh that's the best I need, 653 00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 1: like a like I'm doubt, Like, if that's what we're eating, 654 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:55,480 Speaker 1: I'll eat it. It's not my go to choice. What 655 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 1: about boneless wings, they're okay, that's just a nugget with 656 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:02,799 Speaker 1: the buffalo wild wing sauce. All right, fine again, if 657 00:35:02,840 --> 00:35:08,080 Speaker 1: it's there, I do frank sauce. Yes, Okay, you give 658 00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: it a whole bottle of Frank sauce in like a 659 00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: croc pot and stick like a chicken breast in there 660 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,040 Speaker 1: and cook that's its wings. Yes, and you put it 661 00:35:17,080 --> 00:35:18,520 Speaker 1: like on top of like salads and like shrut it 662 00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 1: and you put it on top of salads. It is bombay. 663 00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 1: You may have just inspired my next food post on 664 00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 1: the list, But I'm gonna make Frank's buffalo sauce slow 665 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: cooked chicken salad. Yeah, inspired by someone I know two 666 00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:43,640 Speaker 1: point seven it's kiss Him. Are you guys in the 667 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 1: mood to sing right now? Okay? Or are you in 668 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:51,600 Speaker 1: the mood to play game game or or or or 669 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 1: or are you in the mood to give relationship advice? Oh? Okay? 670 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,800 Speaker 1: Are we yeah? Okay? You picked more us well, No, 671 00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:05,799 Speaker 1: I was seeing it all up, Cassie, Cassie, Cassie. We're 672 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,279 Speaker 1: here for relationship advice or we can sing for you. 673 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:11,880 Speaker 1: I wasn't in the mood for a game, okay, Cassie. 674 00:36:11,920 --> 00:36:14,840 Speaker 1: You never know what you're gonna get. So your boyfriend 675 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: is too much of a mama's boy and that's causing 676 00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 1: a problem in your relationship. I need to know more. Yes, yeah, 677 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:22,439 Speaker 1: so we've been together for a year and he's such 678 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:24,560 Speaker 1: a great guy, Like I honestly think he could be 679 00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,040 Speaker 1: the one. But he's way too much of her mama's boy. 680 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:30,040 Speaker 1: And he's twenty eight years old and he still lives 681 00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:33,360 Speaker 1: with her, which is fine, Okay, that's no judgment, but 682 00:36:33,600 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: you need to explain more. I need to understand why. 683 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:39,360 Speaker 1: So it's just she just has control over him. For example, 684 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,360 Speaker 1: he still has a curfew um and has to be 685 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 1: home by ten. I think, is like, I just feel 686 00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:49,320 Speaker 1: like I'm dating a teenager um and we have to 687 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,080 Speaker 1: have like all the doors open if I go over 688 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: and hang out, she'll like come and constantly check on 689 00:36:53,520 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 1: how old boy well I have. I've changed my opinion 690 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:02,320 Speaker 1: three times now. It could be culture. Is he a 691 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: different culture? No, he's not. Um so Cassie, I think, 692 00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:12,719 Speaker 1: And again I'm biased. Every woman should want a mom. 693 00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:16,600 Speaker 1: I agree the ten o'clock curfus might be a deal breaker. 694 00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: Then I was like, except for that much of one 695 00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 1: I know. And he's an account and so he could 696 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,440 Speaker 1: totally afford to move out on his own, which I 697 00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,200 Speaker 1: always tell him, like why don't you do that? Just 698 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 1: is he saving because he's an accountant and he sees 699 00:37:29,239 --> 00:37:32,480 Speaker 1: all the dollars sign and exactly and she I think 700 00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 1: he uses that like the money over his head. But 701 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:37,879 Speaker 1: why doesn't he like rent a room every other stay 702 00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 1: with you. I don't think his mom lets him. And 703 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:44,640 Speaker 1: we even went I didn't went away with his family, 704 00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 1: and I had to share a room and a bed 705 00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,600 Speaker 1: with his grandmother. No, a room and a bed with 706 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: his grandma. Is yeah, instead of him his mom pushing 707 00:37:55,719 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 1: too hard, she blew it. No, okay, the vacation, not 708 00:38:00,239 --> 00:38:01,960 Speaker 1: being able to sleep in the same room. I understand 709 00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 1: Michael and I could not sleep in the same grandmother. Look, 710 00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: Michael and I could never sleep in the same room 711 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,600 Speaker 1: until we were I think married, even when we were engaged, 712 00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:14,080 Speaker 1: but it was not allowed with Michael's nada. No, Michael's 713 00:38:14,120 --> 00:38:15,800 Speaker 1: parents didn't care. It was my side of the family 714 00:38:15,840 --> 00:38:17,879 Speaker 1: that cared well. When they would get to the house, 715 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:19,840 Speaker 1: my dad's the first thing he would say is like, Michael, 716 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 1: I have your room in the bonus room. And it 717 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 1: was like the nasty pull out couch that's just uncomfortable. 718 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:28,319 Speaker 1: And that's where Michael slept forty every time. Yeah. Yeah, 719 00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,920 Speaker 1: but I feel like it's these things that make everybody 720 00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:33,279 Speaker 1: married too young, and then that's what happens when you 721 00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: get divorced because you got married too young, because you 722 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 1: couldn't sleep in the same room. And Cassie, have you 723 00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,320 Speaker 1: addressed this with him to say, I love you and 724 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: you're great and your relationship with your mother is of 725 00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:49,319 Speaker 1: great value. But isn't it a little too much? It's 726 00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:54,120 Speaker 1: certainly like imposing a little bit on our freedom. Yeah. No, 727 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,200 Speaker 1: I've talked to him about it, but he still hasn't 728 00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,120 Speaker 1: like changed anything or even talk to his mom. So 729 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: so that he's gonna have to make a choice. M hm, 730 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: That's what I'm worrying about. I just think you're gonna 731 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,320 Speaker 1: have to say it, look bro, and choose your own words. 732 00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 1: But I gotta be honest with you. This is now 733 00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:19,279 Speaker 1: impacting us and us in not a way that's productive. 734 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,279 Speaker 1: So we need to make a choice here. How are 735 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:25,239 Speaker 1: we going to live our lives together or not? Do 736 00:39:25,360 --> 00:39:28,560 Speaker 1: you have your own place? I do? Yeah? And does 737 00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:31,040 Speaker 1: he come and spend time with you at your place? Often? 738 00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,960 Speaker 1: He does, but like I said, he usually leaves by ten. 739 00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:36,920 Speaker 1: You need to turn it up, you need to wear 740 00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 1: the lingerie. You need to really know. But he needs 741 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,760 Speaker 1: to make him not want to leave. Look what you're missing, 742 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,879 Speaker 1: Then he'll talk to his mom. Yeah. If he leaves 743 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,560 Speaker 1: after that, then well that's what I'm saying. He's closed. Yeah. Well, Cassie, 744 00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:51,080 Speaker 1: I think you I think you know, you kind of 745 00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:53,720 Speaker 1: have to say. Look, be clear, this is a problem. 746 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,120 Speaker 1: Either it's gotta get better or this is not going 747 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,799 Speaker 1: to work out. That's the net net net net net. Hmm. 748 00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,440 Speaker 1: I'm bummed because I love a mama's boy. I do 749 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,080 Speaker 1: too because I want my son to be a mama's boy. 750 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,800 Speaker 1: But I won't be this intense. I don't know, and 751 00:40:10,120 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, look my mom, wasn't that my mom? 752 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:17,080 Speaker 1: Like eventually she just gave up. I don't know if 753 00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: you want to hang that long. All right, Well, Cassie, 754 00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:24,800 Speaker 1: good luck with this. Oh five hundred buck spring cash. Next, 755 00:40:26,360 --> 00:40:32,799 Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, Well there you go. Is it for us? 756 00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 1: You come in, you think, oh, we got all morning together, 757 00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:36,440 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden, when time flies, it 758 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 1: flies by. Right, I have a good one. This is 759 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,880 Speaker 1: kiss FMLA. Thanks for listening so on Air with Ryan Seacrest. 760 00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: Make sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow.