1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: The latest dating trend. You guys ready, I'm going to 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:04,480 Speaker 1: start your week with the latest dating trend. And we 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: talked about this flocking. We talked about flocking. I got 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: so many things on my list, I don't even I 5 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: can't remember what we did and didn't do. I can't 6 00:00:09,920 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: remember we were on the air, off the air. I 7 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: can't remember if I was talking to myself or not. 8 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:18,599 Speaker 1: Flocking is a gen Z dating term. Instead of using 9 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: dating apps, people are traveling to meet potential partners in 10 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,680 Speaker 1: real life. They'll book a trip to a fun place 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: like a beach down or a city with lots of 12 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: bars to increase their chances to finding romance the old 13 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,480 Speaker 1: fashioned way by actually talking to people face to face. 14 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: So there are travel sites like Priceline that are even 15 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 1: offering special deals to support the trend. So you ditch 16 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 1: the app, you would spend money, You would buy a 17 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:46,199 Speaker 1: flight I guess, by yourself, and then fly somewhere and 18 00:00:46,240 --> 00:00:48,520 Speaker 1: then just post up somewhere else and hope that somebody 19 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:50,879 Speaker 1: would talk to you, because I guess people will talk 20 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 1: where you're from. I mean, I don't know. I just 21 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: seems a little flawed to me, Like in a lot 22 00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:58,760 Speaker 1: of ways like, okay, so I get it, Like maybe 23 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: you want like a different pool people. Okay, fine, but 24 00:01:02,080 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: then then you okay, let's say you go to wherever 25 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,880 Speaker 1: and you meet someone, then they live there and you 26 00:01:06,920 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: live somewhere else. So now we're all automatically up against 27 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 1: that challenge. The whole new set of problem was that 28 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:17,200 Speaker 1: you're unlocking. I think it's just flawed flocking. Can we 29 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:18,959 Speaker 1: go back to can we go back to? Uh? What 30 00:01:19,080 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: is the word? Like a playoff of am I like slow? 31 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: Like flocking like you fly, you're flying somewhere, you'll fly 32 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: like a bird flocking Like, oh yeah, I'm slow, Okay, 33 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: I got it. Yeah, what what is the what is 34 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: the yes? Sorry? I thought you'd be into this because 35 00:01:39,520 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 1: it's travel related, and I thought, like, you know, you mean, 36 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: but I don't. I don't. I do love, but I don't. 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: I don't like get on the plane and fly to 38 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: you know, Cleveland or whatever, and then go post up 39 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: at a random neighborhood hoping someone will talk to me 40 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 1: Like what I mean, Well, I flew to Cleveland and 41 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 1: I posted neighborhood, borrowing people would talk to me. I 42 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: read this on Friday. It was flo I need to 43 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: do it. I need to adopt this trend. No. I 44 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: mean it's one thing if I think if you're traveling 45 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: and then you get on the dating apps or you 46 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: or you're more likely to maybe be out socializing doing 47 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: fun things that you may not do on an average 48 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 1: weekend when you're at home, and then you meet someone. 49 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 1: That's different. But I'm not going to travel with the 50 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: intention of hopefully speaking to a human who wants to 51 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 1: date me. I would if I was single and wanted 52 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 1: to live elsewhere, I would set my location to that 53 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,239 Speaker 1: place and see what kind of pool they got. But 54 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: this is start something there. This is no dating apps. 55 00:02:34,160 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 1: This trend is no dating apps. So like this this 56 00:02:36,360 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: trend would that wouldn't imply Yeah, I'm just saying that's 57 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: what I would do. If I wanted to move to Miami. 58 00:02:40,720 --> 00:02:43,520 Speaker 1: I would say it in Miami because I always pictured 59 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,960 Speaker 1: you being with somebody who like you just meet via 60 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: airport or like, I don't know, somewhere like on a trip, 61 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: like I really do picture you. No, I agree with you. 62 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: I think that could totally have it has happened before. Yeah, 63 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: But what I'm I'm not the purpose of this would 64 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: be to take the trip to do that. And well 65 00:02:58,720 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: the other thing is like, okay, so a beach town, 66 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: Like I don't know. I go to Pensacola, you know, 67 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,760 Speaker 1: I fly to bes Well, I think it is a 68 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,640 Speaker 1: beach at Pensacola. I fly at Pensacola, right, and I'm like, here, 69 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: I'm in Pensacola. Now I'm in a beach town. Well, 70 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: everyone else is there on vacation too, So then I 71 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 1: don't even know where the hell you live, Like, I 72 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: don't you know? And then is it giving long term 73 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: or is it giving kind of one offs like a 74 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 1: question like we're having fun now and then I have 75 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: to go back to my husband or wife, you know 76 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: kind of thing, like I don't know. It seems flawed 77 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: in many many ways. Well, I don't know. If I'm 78 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 1: you meet Brandon people on vacation and they're in vacation 79 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: mode and they're like, we are do vacation things. So 80 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm not sure that I'm not sure about this one. 81 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:38,960 Speaker 1: The other thing I've noticed is that if if as 82 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: as a man, if I do travel and I set 83 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 1: my apps somewhere else and I match with people and 84 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 1: then I get home, I either get quickly unmatched or 85 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: like kind of told off, like oh, so you don't 86 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: even live here? Oh so oh? I like It's like 87 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: as a guy, if I go to New York City 88 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: or New York, New York City, if I go to 89 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: New York and if I go to Dallas and I 90 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 1: changed my stuff to Dallas and then I come back, 91 00:04:08,200 --> 00:04:09,840 Speaker 1: it couldn't be that I wanted to see who was 92 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:12,760 Speaker 1: out there in Dallas. It was Oh, it implies that 93 00:04:12,800 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: I just wanted to get some, like for the weekend. However, 94 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: living in a big city like we do, it happens 95 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: all the time, like this weekend. I guarantee if I 96 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 1: were on the dating apps that I would have matched 97 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: with several people who don't live here, who are in 98 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: town for a lot of pelluca doing the same thing. 99 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: But as a but but I guess women, I wouldn't 100 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: say that to a woman. I wouldn't be like, oh, 101 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: you were obviously trying to get some maybe you were 102 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: so what true? But people I've gotten told off before 103 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: like oh, you know, that's not really cool. You know, 104 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:42,600 Speaker 1: like you don't even live here, you know, and you're 105 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: matching with people, it's what do you mean? Like? Women 106 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: do it and By the way, when did it become 107 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 1: so criminal to go on a dating app and be 108 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: very transparent about the fact that you were just looking 109 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:56,359 Speaker 1: to meet someone and see what happens wait over the 110 00:04:56,360 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: course of the time that you're there. I mean, if 111 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: that's not for you, then then you once you discover that, 112 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 1: then you can unmatch them and move on. I think 113 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 1: the problem would be if you were married, or if 114 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: you were a scammer, or if you were not transparent 115 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: about the fact that all you were trying to do 116 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: is stick and move, you know what I mean. I 117 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: don't know when this became so criminal. We're having this 118 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 1: conversation last week off the year, But when when it 119 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,960 Speaker 1: becomes so bad to just be transparent about the fact 120 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 1: that you want something casual. If you don't want something casual, 121 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 1: then then just unmatch the person or just don't talk 122 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,839 Speaker 1: to them, right. I think it's a great thing to be, 123 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: you know, transparent. Don't waste my time that I'm on 124 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: the app. SCE, when did you become the expert on 125 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,040 Speaker 1: this topic. I don't waste anybody's time, be honest. Well, 126 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: I mean I don't. I'm not saying that you just 127 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,320 Speaker 1: lead and come right out and say that's what I want. 128 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: But I mean, I don't I guess even if you did. 129 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: But people are like, oh, that's that's how you wind 130 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: up on those websites apparently tea app or that's how 131 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: you wind up on there, and people like dog you. 132 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: But it's what I don't. I guess. I don't know 133 00:06:00,440 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: why that, Like, people can't just ask for what they 134 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:06,479 Speaker 1: in a in a not disgusting way, right, But you 135 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 1: shouldn't be on like married. You know, I want to 136 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,280 Speaker 1: be married dot com and you know you just love 137 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 1: that saying I'm doing it right now, So I'm not 138 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,599 Speaker 1: mean you don't want to be married. You say you 139 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: said I shouldn't be on it. No, you should not, 140 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 1: and you just want to stick and move, you know, 141 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: But I want to stick in move dot com too. 142 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 1: What if I'm on both