1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,640 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,920 Speaker 2: Hi everyone, and welcome to the almost of his podcast. 4 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to start with big news, big exciting news 5 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 2: that I know Ben is going to really appreciate. Ben. 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 2: Guess what. I I don't like Braiden anymore. There's no okay, 7 00:00:20,360 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 2: I have no sympathies for Braiden. Okay, I'm not saying 8 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 2: that I never really liked it, liked him, but like, 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 2: I have no sympathies anymore. 10 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 3: Okay, you want to hear something weird? 11 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:30,760 Speaker 2: Oh god, now you have sympathies. 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 3: I don't think he was completely in the wrong during 13 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:35,160 Speaker 3: this episode. 14 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,959 Speaker 2: Why we're gonna get this. We'll get into it now. 15 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: You want to wait, you want to hold on. 16 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,160 Speaker 4: We're gonna get into that and talking about the Golden 17 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 4: Bachelor and breaking down Bachelor headlines. Let's start out with, Yes, 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 4: the big announcement that happened this week, We've been waiting 19 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 4: for you here in the Almost Famous podcast. It was 20 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 4: great to hear the host of Good Morning America be 21 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 4: genuinely excited about the concept of this show. 22 00:00:59,200 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 3: You could you. 23 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 4: Could tell that they're like, this is just interesting, no 24 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 4: matter what like, even if the show is like really 25 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 4: awkward and weird, it's an interesting concept. 26 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 3: The Golden Bachelor was announced. 27 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 4: We got our first interview with him. His name is 28 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 4: I believe is it Gary or Jerry. 29 00:01:18,520 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 2: It's Gary Gary. It looks like Jerry. 30 00:01:22,080 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. I know he's from Indiana. 31 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:25,000 Speaker 2: So you're right. 32 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 4: I was right Hudson, Indiana, which I've been to. It's 33 00:01:28,920 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 4: not very far from my hometown. He when he was 34 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:36,160 Speaker 4: sharing his story, actually, my mom and I were watching 35 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 4: it and a tear came to my eye just even 36 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:41,800 Speaker 4: hearing the fact where he was like, I have her 37 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 4: picture in my closet. We were like high school sweethearts. 38 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 2: Wait, I have my picture. I have her picture in 39 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: my closet. 40 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 4: Well yeah, right where he gets ready in the morning, 41 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 4: he has a picture of his wife and he looks 42 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:55,600 Speaker 4: at it because they asked like, how would she feel 43 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 4: about this, and he's like, we always said, whoever goes first, 44 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 4: we want to other to be happy, and I I 45 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 4: know she's like my biggest fan, and his daughters are 46 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 4: the ones that signed him up. 47 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,840 Speaker 3: He seems excited. 48 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 4: It's just so interesting, Like I love that he has 49 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:13,959 Speaker 4: hearing aids and. 50 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,359 Speaker 3: I love me too. 51 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 4: I just love it and a good looking fella. I 52 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 4: have high hopes me too. 53 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 2: So I was reading the responses from the official Bachelor 54 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,640 Speaker 2: page once they put up his picture, and I was like, 55 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 2: are they deleting any bad comments because there is truly 56 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,600 Speaker 2: none to be found. People are really excited. I don't know, 57 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. You know, people can always find flaw 58 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:42,799 Speaker 2: in anything, but everybody seemed really stoked. There were a 59 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 2: couple that were like, this will save the franchise, and 60 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 2: most people shocked that he is almost seventy two years old. 61 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 2: He does look like he looks great. 62 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 3: Looks fantastic. 63 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 4: Now, I'm telling you this, if anybody has a negative comment, 64 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 4: they can hate the Bachelor, they can hate the Bachelorette. 65 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 4: They can be upset at the franchise for all the 66 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 4: things that the franchise has done and not done. 67 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 3: I get that, Okay, that's fair. 68 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,520 Speaker 4: But if you are upset with a guy in his 69 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 4: seventies and women in whatever age range they're going to 70 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 4: come into trying to have a second chance at love 71 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 4: and doing it on a television show, that could end 72 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 4: up being one of the coolest, most exhilarating. Adrenaline rushed 73 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 4: like moments in his life, doing interviews with Good Morning America, 74 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:32,720 Speaker 4: going on probably talk shows. If you're gonna have negative 75 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 4: comments on that, you are a human I don't want 76 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 4: to meet. 77 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 2: Is what's his occupation? 78 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I'm sure if you're tired, you. 79 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 2: Think he's retired. We don't know what his former occupation is, 80 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 2: but he's retired, so you know, he just. 81 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:48,840 Speaker 3: He has a lank house. He's fine right now. 82 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: Whoever gets to be with him, they just get to 83 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 2: like not even worry about that stuff. 84 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 4: So it's such a cool concept. We're really pumping for him. 85 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 4: We'll hope to bring on the podcast here very soon. 86 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 3: A get older, the end of guy. 87 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 2: You need to talk to this man? 88 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 4: Oh, I would love to. And here's the thing. I 89 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:10,640 Speaker 4: cannot wait. It's gonna be a really interesting thing in 90 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 4: five seasons from how to see what people's critiques are of, Like, 91 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 4: you know, everybody has critiques of a show they watch, 92 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 4: Like what is gonna be the thing that people are 93 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 4: annoyed by when they when it comes to the contestants 94 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 4: and lead because you know, one thing they have to eliminate. 95 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 4: Nobody is there for the wrong reasons. Nobody is there 96 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 4: to get fame. If you're there to get fame in 97 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 4: your seventies, you are like sorely mistaken. 98 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 3: It's it would be exhausting. 99 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 4: Like I think they're just there gonna have a cool experience, 100 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:39,599 Speaker 4: shake life. 101 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 3: Up a bit. 102 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, find love, and if they don't find love, they 103 00:04:42,560 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 4: can tell their friends and family. 104 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 3: I mean the watch parties, Ashley. 105 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 4: Can you imagine like the watch parties of the kids 106 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,520 Speaker 4: and the grandkids and the families and the sisters and 107 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 4: the cousins and the brothers sitting around watching the TV 108 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 4: Like it's gonna be amazing. 109 00:04:57,640 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 2: Usually it's what are my parents gonna have the And 110 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 2: then it's gonna be like one of my kids gonna 111 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 2: think he has two grandkids, and you know, this is 112 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 2: just gonna be This is gonna be so much fun. 113 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 2: We got to have him on here, you guys. I 114 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 2: did start the petition that we mentioned on Friday when 115 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 2: we recorded that podcast exclusively about this show, and we 116 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:25,840 Speaker 2: have over two thousand signatures. It's only been up on 117 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 2: Instagram for about twelve hours now, So go to my 118 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:33,760 Speaker 2: Instagram sign the petition for Ben to become the host 119 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 2: of this There is still no host attached to it. 120 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 3: You know that. 121 00:05:38,960 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, which is crazy that they did the announcement without 122 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,160 Speaker 2: even being like ready enough to shoot for there being 123 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,159 Speaker 2: a host, So you know for a fact from production 124 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 2: that they have not made a final decision on host. 125 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 3: I don't know. I was asking you, I don't know yet. 126 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:56,440 Speaker 2: Oh well they would say. 127 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, they would have hosted by Jesse Palmer. Yeah, hosted 128 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 4: by Pat say Jack something like that. 129 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 2: Pat say Jack is retiring from Real Fortunes so he 130 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 2: can host the Golden Bachelor. 131 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 132 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 2: Can we just like think about the Golden Bachelorette for 133 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 2: a second. If this show does do you well. 134 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 3: It's I mean, I'm telling you, actually. 135 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 2: People are gonna love it no matter what. 136 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 4: I am gonna be the biggest fan of this show. 137 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 4: It is gonna be like my guilty pleasure. You're gonna 138 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 4: see me more excited for Like, I think there's gonna 139 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 4: be watch parties again for the. 140 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:31,480 Speaker 3: Bachelor, and I think it's gonna be the gold back. 141 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 4: I think people are gonna get together together to watch 142 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 4: this show again, which has not happened in years. It's 143 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 4: gonna be an interesting thing. You know, what are the ratings? 144 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 4: What is the response on social media? That kind of stuff, 145 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 4: But either way, we're very excited. The Golden Bachelor has 146 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 4: been announced. He is a Hoosier. He's from about forty 147 00:06:51,200 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: five minutes from where. 148 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 3: I grew up. 149 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,480 Speaker 2: Is wild? It just like she leaves on a lake 150 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: house forty five minutes from your hometown. You are made 151 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 2: for this. And what we said on Friday, Yeah, there's 152 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 2: there's an inside source that that that says that production 153 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 2: is calling him the older version of Ben Higgins. So 154 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 2: so what are they thinking? Not just having you sign 155 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: the papers right now? But anyway, let's move on to 156 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 2: Charity season. Are you ready? 157 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 3: I am so ready? 158 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 4: What an episode not for Here's my overal thoughts in 159 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 4: the episode. 160 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 3: Not the most entertaining episode, there's. 161 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,360 Speaker 2: Okay, So glad that you said that, because I was like, 162 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 2: why do I keep dazing out? 163 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 4: Well, the end, you know, the end really picked it up. 164 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 4: We'll start with Darren Washington. It looks freezing, but it 165 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:41,200 Speaker 4: looks beautiful. 166 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 3: I mean, mm hmmm. 167 00:07:45,320 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 4: Dunton gets the uh but uh the first uh one 168 00:07:50,080 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 4: on one of the episode. 169 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 3: We were excited for doing to get this date. 170 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 4: We we've been looking forward for more time with him 171 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:58,239 Speaker 4: and Charity together. 172 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 2: Oh yes, so so glad that he has the state, 173 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 2: And I'm actually so glad that Xavier gets the second 174 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: date because those one on ones I think really saved 175 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 2: the episode. Saved the episode because it gave us so 176 00:08:10,080 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 2: much quality. 177 00:08:11,600 --> 00:08:12,679 Speaker 3: It did give us quality. 178 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 4: Ashlely My take though I've always been a fan of Xavier. 179 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 3: We'll get into that later. 180 00:08:19,040 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 4: But with Doton, I really want to see their connection 181 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,280 Speaker 4: when it comes to conversation. 182 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 3: Am I crazy? Disagree with me? 183 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 4: Here? Am I crazy to think that their conversations don't 184 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 4: feel as natural as I would want? 185 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:36,719 Speaker 3: Now? 186 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 4: It is the first one on one, is their first 187 00:08:38,480 --> 00:08:41,199 Speaker 4: time together, but it felt like a first date to me. 188 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 4: Like I know everybody is saying, hey, this is it, 189 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 4: this is over. 190 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 3: I'm not there yet. 191 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:48,560 Speaker 4: I'm not saying this thing is closed out because it 192 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 4: felt like they're Their connection is obviously there, but their 193 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 4: chemistry when it comes to how comfortable they are isn't 194 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 4: there yet, which is natural and fair. 195 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 3: It's it's early on. 196 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 4: Still I think it can progress that, but I'm not 197 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 4: sold out that he is, yes, one hundred percent the guy. 198 00:09:05,160 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 2: What conversations are you referring to, like the bungee jumping 199 00:09:08,200 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 2: era conversations or the later of the night. 200 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 4: Later in the night, I know they open up, but 201 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 4: it felt like it felt like a conversation where it's like, 202 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 4: you tell me your story, I tell you mine. You 203 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,640 Speaker 4: tell me your response, I'll tell you mine. Like it 204 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 4: felt very much like a first date conversation of here's 205 00:09:27,760 --> 00:09:31,160 Speaker 4: who I am, which is awesome, Here's who I want 206 00:09:31,160 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 4: to be, here's what I'm looking for. 207 00:09:32,880 --> 00:09:33,959 Speaker 3: It didn't feel like. 208 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,680 Speaker 4: The hey, let's you know, joke around, like let's have 209 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 4: like we're comfortable with moments of silence. Yet they're just 210 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 4: not there yet. I don't expect there yet. It's a 211 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 4: first date. But that's also why I'm saying I'm not, like, 212 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:49,160 Speaker 4: I'm not one hundred percent convinced that he is going 213 00:09:49,200 --> 00:09:52,120 Speaker 4: to be her choice at the end, because we haven't 214 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 4: seen them get comfortable yet. 215 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 2: Okay, I think what you mean is like, it's not 216 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 2: flirty conversation, it's not really romance. The conversation I am 217 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 2: going off a lot of my feelings about their connection 218 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 2: because she is so freaking giddy. Yeah, and because there's 219 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:10,360 Speaker 2: a lot of substance to the conversation and he just 220 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 2: feels strong and loyal, He like just really gives off 221 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 2: husband vibes. 222 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 3: M I think he does. I think he's really in 223 00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 3: the charity. 224 00:10:22,480 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 4: I don't think that there's gonna be any like red 225 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 4: flags pop up. I don't think there's going to be 226 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 4: like a massive exit for him where she's upset. In fact, 227 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 4: I don't see that really happening for the rest of 228 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:38,600 Speaker 4: the season with anybody that we are very like sold 229 00:10:38,640 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 4: out on. I just think there's some other people that 230 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 4: are equally as connected her. I actually think that her 231 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 4: time with Xavier felt more comfortable for me personally as 232 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:52,840 Speaker 4: I watched than Dotin's time. Okay, but to get into it, 233 00:10:52,880 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 4: they did bungee jump. They're both freaking out. I would 234 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 4: have been freaking out. Good for them to do it, 235 00:10:57,840 --> 00:10:59,960 Speaker 4: do it together. I do think that helped that they 236 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 4: are kind of tied onto each other, felt very dangerous, 237 00:11:03,160 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 4: felt like their heads could smack together. 238 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 3: For me, I was nervous the whole time. 239 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yes, I was like, how uncomfortable is this 240 00:11:11,480 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 2: to just have to like hold yourself against somebody else. 241 00:11:15,160 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 2: But again, at the same time, you don't want to 242 00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 2: do it alone. 243 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 3: No, if I'm going down, I'm going down with whoever 244 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:22,800 Speaker 3: is forcing me. To do this. 245 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 2: I know. I'm glad I got to do it the 246 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 2: second time because the second time cou would actually be 247 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:31,439 Speaker 2: fun once you you really trust that rope. 248 00:11:31,360 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, coo. 249 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 4: See that's the difference between them and I though. If 250 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,360 Speaker 4: I do it once, I'm going to say I did it, 251 00:11:36,400 --> 00:11:37,200 Speaker 4: I survived it. 252 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 3: I'm good. 253 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,560 Speaker 4: Like I can tell people I bungee jump. To do 254 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:45,680 Speaker 4: it twice just seems reckless. But the drone shot of 255 00:11:45,679 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 4: that bridge, that bridge is so high, so far above 256 00:11:49,360 --> 00:11:51,880 Speaker 4: the river. That was an incredible feat for the two 257 00:11:51,880 --> 00:11:53,960 Speaker 4: of them. I know people out there probably like, I bunge, 258 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 4: you jump all the time. I skida whatever. You guys 259 00:11:56,080 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 4: are impressive. I'm saying that was a cool moment. You 260 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 4: could tell they're both nervous. They both did. 261 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 3: I mean, Charity had tears in her eyes. Poor girl. 262 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,400 Speaker 2: I know, I felt really bad. I was thinking that 263 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 2: there was somebody who in their bios before the show started, 264 00:12:09,559 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 2: so the bungee jumping was like their biggest fear. I 265 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:16,679 Speaker 2: don't think it was Yeah he didn't they bring oh 266 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 2: he's They may should have made a bigger deal out 267 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:19,839 Speaker 2: of that. 268 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 3: Well, just don't tell the show that you're scared. Of anything. 269 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly, say you love snakes and spiders and heights 270 00:12:26,960 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 4: and you're never being closer poing like, don't give them 271 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 4: any ammunition. 272 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 2: Right, Okay, anyway, it's a great bonding first date. You 273 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:40,760 Speaker 2: can't deny that. Once you do tackle that together, you 274 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 2: can do a lot physically and overcome a lot of fears. 275 00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,840 Speaker 2: So then, yeah, the conversation later was around a campfire 276 00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 2: and he was talking about immigrating to America and the 277 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 2: fact that his is like a lottery and his aunt 278 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 2: had set him up the family just she found a 279 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 2: certain lottery and said, like, I have a good feeling 280 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 2: that you should do this, and that's how he became 281 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 2: an American citizen, which is really awesome. And then Charity 282 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: was discussing how she was the area that she grew 283 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 2: up in. She always felt like maybe she was a 284 00:13:27,200 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 2: little bit different because I feel like there's probably not 285 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:35,040 Speaker 2: as many black people in that area. And she said 286 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:39,280 Speaker 2: that she became very achievement oriented. She had to be 287 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:40,920 Speaker 2: the best at everything. 288 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you can see that in her right. 289 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 4: My wife is very achievement orient Like she was a 290 00:13:47,280 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 4: college athlete, she was you know, four h She has 291 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 4: this like drive to be. 292 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 3: No, I don't want to say perfect. I don't think 293 00:13:55,800 --> 00:13:57,160 Speaker 3: that's her expectation. I don't think she can. 294 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 4: But she has a drive to be really good at 295 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 4: everything she does. And it's exhausting right now that I 296 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 4: live with somebody like that. She's tired often. And there's 297 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 4: also confusion that comes with that, because truth is, you 298 00:14:09,440 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 4: are going to be great at everything, and when you 299 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 4: do the kind of fall short and whatever that is, 300 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 4: you really get upset about it. You beat yourself up 301 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 4: over it a lot. And so I and I see 302 00:14:19,000 --> 00:14:21,760 Speaker 4: that in Charity, right, you see it and just you 303 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:26,800 Speaker 4: know so far like even how these moments of drama 304 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 4: and arguments now you can see them crushing her because she, 305 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 4: I think, takes it on herself. She holds that very 306 00:14:34,320 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 4: personal and I'm hoping she can get free of that 307 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 4: here as a season goes on. But I do think 308 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 4: those are two big things for the two of them 309 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 4: to get out there now again. Now we can see 310 00:14:47,080 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 4: them start to get comfortable and connect. Charity understands his backstory, 311 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 4: don't understand who Charity is as a person. Now you 312 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:56,320 Speaker 4: can see them flirt a little bit. We can see 313 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 4: like some just like talks about dreams and whatever their 314 00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 4: future hold. 315 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:04,200 Speaker 3: I still have him obviously in my top three. There's 316 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:05,200 Speaker 3: no question about that. 317 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 2: I'm just devil's advocation. 318 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just not I'm just not convinced that Xavier 319 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 4: wouldn't be my number one Overdotan right now. We'll get 320 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 4: into that here in a second. But their date goes well, 321 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 4: we can say that it is a very healthy date. 322 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:25,200 Speaker 4: He does get the rose, he's safe to the end. 323 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 4: Final thoughts on doting for me Ashley is, I'm very 324 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 4: glad right now that he is he When all this 325 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 4: drama goes down the house, you just don't see him around. 326 00:15:39,400 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you don't see him at all, to 327 00:15:43,160 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 2: the point that, like I forgot that he was even 328 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 2: a part of those moments. 329 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 4: I bet he's sitting on the couch having a cocktail, 330 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 4: being like you fool, you got to do I'm going 331 00:15:53,920 --> 00:15:54,440 Speaker 4: to sit here. 332 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 2: Yes, that's very attractive, right the best. 333 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 4: Yes, Actually maybe you know in life you want to 334 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,840 Speaker 4: protect you know your partner, you want to stand up 335 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 4: for them. But like in this situation, in this environment, 336 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 4: I think he's socially aware enough to be like, this 337 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 4: isn't my role, Like I don't have to right now. 338 00:16:12,880 --> 00:16:15,760 Speaker 4: There's a bunch of dudes like trying to puff their 339 00:16:15,840 --> 00:16:17,920 Speaker 4: chests up. I don't need to be that guy. 340 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 2: Yeah that's Aaron. 341 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 3: Yeah. 342 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 4: If I ever needed to be that guy, I can 343 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 4: be that guy. But right now I don't need to 344 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 4: be that guy. They seem to think they have this 345 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 4: under control. So still like the guy, still think he's 346 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:35,960 Speaker 4: around for a long time. And uh, and I'm very 347 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 4: excited that Charity seems very smitten. I'm very excited that 348 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 4: she has a couple of guys that she is just 349 00:16:41,160 --> 00:16:41,960 Speaker 4: like I'm into. 350 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:44,160 Speaker 3: Okay, So then me get to the group day, actually 351 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 3: get away. 352 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 2: Okay. So the guys are supposed to go find food 353 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 2: in the in the forest, and they're led by these scouts. 354 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 2: They're not exactly girl scouts. What kind of scouts are they? 355 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: Are you familiar with those? 356 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 4: I don't know exactly what kind of scouts they are. Really, 357 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 4: They're very charismatic and very good on camera. I wouldn't 358 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:08,199 Speaker 4: be surprised if they were like a made up branch 359 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:08,560 Speaker 4: of the skin. 360 00:17:10,600 --> 00:17:14,080 Speaker 2: Okay, yes they were. They took their job very seriously, 361 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 2: and the girls like could not with braiden, which is 362 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,520 Speaker 2: actually hilarious. So they all go out try to find, 363 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:22,920 Speaker 2: you know, foods that they'd be able to survive. They're 364 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 2: really supposed to prove their masculinity here and their provider instincts, 365 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 2: and yeah, Joe even says that he's kind of terrified 366 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:36,320 Speaker 2: of them. I love these girls for this moment. Yeah, 367 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:39,320 Speaker 2: they're great. They're great. So what I think of when 368 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 2: I think of this this scene is that Braiden comes 369 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:44,399 Speaker 2: back and he proved. He shows the food that he 370 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,600 Speaker 2: brought back and he had a bite taken out of it, 371 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 2: which is absolutely no shock. And I'm also thinking in 372 00:17:49,359 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 2: this moment that Braiden is becoming Chad Johnson. I'm pretty 373 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 2: sure that he had seen those episodes and he wanted 374 00:17:57,400 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 2: to slowly become a Chad Johnson character, because remember when 375 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: Chad would be like Milk's Delicious, and then he was 376 00:18:04,119 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 2: being like a grizzly bear basically when they were on 377 00:18:06,760 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 2: their their cabin woodsy date yea week. Yeah, so I 378 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 2: feel like he's totally becoming Chad. And then I would 379 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 2: think of how tannered. 380 00:18:17,320 --> 00:18:18,440 Speaker 3: Be a weird move. 381 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 2: Who wants to who wants to be a Chad You're saying, yeah, well, 382 00:18:23,960 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 2: Chad is memorable. Here we are, like seven years removed, 383 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 2: still referring to Chad. If you're gonna be on TV, 384 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 2: I guess create a character from yourself. 385 00:18:35,920 --> 00:18:38,960 Speaker 3: I'm not I mean, I think you're not that person. Well, no, 386 00:18:39,160 --> 00:18:41,399 Speaker 3: I just I don't know if Braid's actually trying to 387 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 3: do anything other than be himself. Again. 388 00:18:44,359 --> 00:18:47,359 Speaker 4: I'm more in favorab Braiden towards the end of this 389 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,760 Speaker 4: episode than I think I've ever been before. But during 390 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 4: this moment, I really think he is one of those 391 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 4: people who get sucked into the moment and he kind 392 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 4: of loses himself in the moment, and he thinks he's 393 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 4: funnier than he is is. 394 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 2: He definitely thinks he's funny, and he and. 395 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:05,560 Speaker 3: He and I think it comes from a good place. 396 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 4: I think he thinks the louder he is, the more 397 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,919 Speaker 4: fun he's having, the more he's engaging in the experience, 398 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:17,440 Speaker 4: the more he is being his biggest and fullest self, 399 00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 4: the more fun Charity probably will have and the other 400 00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 4: guys will have because they're like, this is so much, 401 00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 4: this is the best, Like we're. 402 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 3: All enjoying this. 403 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 4: I think he's trying to show very outwardly and very 404 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 4: annoyingly that he's enjoying this or that he's in it. 405 00:19:32,080 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 2: But it also Teeter Totter's just as an audience member. 406 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:38,520 Speaker 2: It's kind of funny because he's being super obnoxious to 407 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 2: the point where it's kind of funny. It's just not 408 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 2: attractive though, No, it's not attractive, Like I don't want 409 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 2: to date a guy like that, but I may want 410 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 2: to watch him on a reality show. 411 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:48,640 Speaker 4: Sure, it's like it's like watching a middle schooler run 412 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:50,919 Speaker 4: through the Yeah, Like, I mean, that's what my buddies 413 00:19:50,920 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 4: and I did when we're in middle school and the 414 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:56,560 Speaker 4: camp counse services like, hey, guys, calm down, you're being weird. Stop, 415 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,880 Speaker 4: like take it back three steps and like start over. 416 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,000 Speaker 3: I found this, you. 417 00:20:02,920 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 4: Know, this day intriguing because the show didn't set them 418 00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,199 Speaker 4: up with food, and these guys are eating everything. And 419 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 4: I spent a lot of time as a kid. I 420 00:20:11,400 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 4: live in Denver now, I spend a lot of time 421 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,520 Speaker 4: in the woods. You should not be eating everything that 422 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,960 Speaker 4: goes on a tree or every mushroom that's popping out 423 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 4: of the ground. That's not a good that's not smart. 424 00:20:20,600 --> 00:20:24,360 Speaker 4: So I'm hoping you're mushrooms a food expert there where 425 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:26,240 Speaker 4: the guys would like pick it and be like good 426 00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:29,240 Speaker 4: or bad and maybe like that's fine, you can chew 427 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 4: on that, but we don't see it. So it just 428 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,359 Speaker 4: looks like to me that these dudes are just you know, 429 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 4: tearing away. 430 00:20:37,160 --> 00:20:37,800 Speaker 3: The other side. 431 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 4: The funny part for me was Aaron b was gonna 432 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,320 Speaker 4: try to catch a fish. I don't know what he's thought. 433 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 4: I thought he I think he thinks he was gonna 434 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 4: do with their hands. That would have been awesome. Never 435 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 4: see now when successfully pulled off before. But I would 436 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 4: have loved for him to catch a fish because I 437 00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 4: would love for him to see how he's presenting a cold, 438 00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 4: raw live fish to the girls and to Charity. 439 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, and what stands up to me is Tanner's presentation 440 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: of his Charcoieri board. That was really a kind of adorable. 441 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 2: I find Tanner to be kind of adorable. He has 442 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: absolutely no shot in this thing, but like I like him, 443 00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: and he's. 444 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 3: A good. 445 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 2: Do you feel big romance from him. They're not even 446 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 2: presenting him like that. You can tell on the show 447 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 2: like how they present somebody. But I enjoyed, like when 448 00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:24,680 Speaker 2: he's on my screen, he's like lighthearted and it feels 449 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:29,160 Speaker 2: like it brings a levity. Uh what else was worth 450 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: mentioning besides the questions? So the girls ask questions and 451 00:21:35,480 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 2: they go to Braiden and what Brayden say. He's like, 452 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:41,960 Speaker 2: I just want to find a connection. Be content, be content. 453 00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 2: Oh my dude, dude, he just keeps her rubbing it in. 454 00:21:46,400 --> 00:21:48,920 Speaker 2: He's like, I just want you to know very clearly 455 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:54,040 Speaker 2: that I am not necessarily here for a minutes at least. 456 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:55,840 Speaker 2: I know that's what I've been saying. 457 00:21:55,960 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 4: She's getting it. It just really feels like to me, 458 00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 4: Braiden is he he hasn't made like a good choice 459 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 4: since like really he stepped out of Limo. I mean, 460 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:12,920 Speaker 4: he did do fine on night one, but I had 461 00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:18,760 Speaker 4: my concerns. The guy just continues to do the wrong 462 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,400 Speaker 4: thing or the most annoying thing or the thing that's 463 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 4: going to make the house the most upset. I don't 464 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 4: know if he realized how upset all the guys were at. 465 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 2: Braiden until the moment where we had braid and Braiden 466 00:22:33,320 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 2: Brand and Braiden on all the boards. 467 00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:35,400 Speaker 3: Yeah. 468 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:37,280 Speaker 4: What a weird question, Like if you had to survive, 469 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:39,199 Speaker 4: who would you eat first? Like what a weird way 470 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 4: to phrase that. It just made me the Yellow Jacket 471 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,720 Speaker 4: Show and that kind of freaked me out. 472 00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,360 Speaker 3: To that show freaks me out, perfect. 473 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 2: Way to pinpoint the villain in case Charity wasn't already aware, 474 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 2: which I think she was, but she was also I 475 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,800 Speaker 2: think a little bit sad to see that like everybody 476 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 2: was against him. 477 00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 4: Everybody was against him. Well, we're going then into the 478 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 4: night time portion of date right away. Right this all 479 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 4: escalates to the moment we've all kind of been wondering 480 00:23:08,280 --> 00:23:10,400 Speaker 4: when it was going to happen. The guys are talking 481 00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 4: to Braiden. Braiden is trying to defend himself well at 482 00:23:15,040 --> 00:23:17,399 Speaker 4: the same time kind of digging himself into a bigger hole. 483 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 4: He's still being very honest, so he's still being very 484 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 4: clear about his intentions, and it would be great to 485 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:25,160 Speaker 4: get him on the show at some point and understand 486 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,280 Speaker 4: exactly what he was there for then, because if he 487 00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:28,879 Speaker 4: was there just for a good time and to have 488 00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 4: a good experience and to be really happy that he 489 00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:34,160 Speaker 4: did it, that's one thing. But if he was really 490 00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 4: ever there for Charity, that's a question I still have 491 00:23:37,480 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 4: on my mind. But she walks in on it, confronts 492 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 4: her right away, pulls him aside, and that's where their 493 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:47,200 Speaker 4: conversation starts. 494 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 2: And to me, what encapsulates it all is when he well, 495 00:23:53,280 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 2: he tells her I like you, but I don't know 496 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 2: where this is going basically, and it's just like okay, 497 00:24:02,880 --> 00:24:07,320 Speaker 2: that just okay, I like you, but just eliminate him 498 00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 2: right here. But like he also put himself in the 499 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 2: position and the power position. I think that he wanted 500 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,000 Speaker 2: to self eliminate in that moment because he knew that 501 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,760 Speaker 2: she was going to eliminate him, if not in that moment, 502 00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 2: that probably later in the episode, later in the week, 503 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:25,879 Speaker 2: and that was a dick move, right. Did you find 504 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:26,800 Speaker 2: that he was doing that? 505 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 3: I did. 506 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:30,920 Speaker 4: I mean, I think it's again he was definitely trying 507 00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:37,159 Speaker 4: to defend himself and he definitely felt at this moment like, hey, 508 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 4: my leash here is short and I don't have a 509 00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,320 Speaker 4: lot of room left in this experience, so let me 510 00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 4: go out. However I want to go out. We can 511 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,960 Speaker 4: get into later on when he comes back and why. 512 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 4: I think that how he exited was exactly why he 513 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:56,360 Speaker 4: came back to kind of apologize and to say, hey, 514 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,440 Speaker 4: I don't know I've had a few days or a 515 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:00,760 Speaker 4: few hours to think about this. I was I was wrong. 516 00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:03,920 Speaker 4: I did some stupid stuff here. That's why I don't 517 00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 4: blame him for coming back. I think it's a very 518 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:07,879 Speaker 4: fair thing for somebody to do, especially somebody that has 519 00:25:07,920 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 4: to cause so much chaos and so much confusion for her. 520 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 4: We'll talk about that here in a second. But yeah, 521 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 4: he definitely was, but he has eliminated it. He goes home. 522 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:20,680 Speaker 4: He does give the great little cliffhanger that we all 523 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:21,960 Speaker 4: love where he says, is this over? 524 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,080 Speaker 3: I don't know, man, That's what he says. I don't know, man, 525 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 3: It's over. 526 00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,239 Speaker 2: So when it comes down to it, Brandon signed up 527 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 2: for a show where like the main point is to 528 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,360 Speaker 2: get engaged at the end, and every single week he 529 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 2: was like, I don't really know if I like the 530 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,679 Speaker 2: point of this show, you know, like I really just 531 00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 2: want contentment at the end of this maybe just want 532 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 2: to date, like see if I like someone, you know, 533 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,119 Speaker 2: if I like someone, that's cool. 534 00:25:58,760 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 535 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,240 Speaker 4: I was just waiting for him to be like, you know, 536 00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:05,119 Speaker 4: what would be awesome, Charity. I think you're awesome, But 537 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 4: what I'm really here for is like more of a selection, 538 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 4: so I would I would love to go on Paradise. Like, 539 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:12,920 Speaker 4: if you want to keep me around long enough for that, 540 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:13,960 Speaker 4: that'd be really cool. 541 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 3: I'd appreciate it. 542 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:17,440 Speaker 4: And then then you can say goodbye to me whenever 543 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 4: you want, but just keep me along long enough to 544 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 4: come to Paradise. 545 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,359 Speaker 3: I believe he will be in Paradise. 546 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:24,439 Speaker 4: I believe he fulfilled his mission by going on a 547 00:26:24,440 --> 00:26:27,280 Speaker 4: show and causing enough stir up that he will be 548 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,679 Speaker 4: sent to the beach. And who knows what he's like 549 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 4: on the beach. I hope it's a good redemption story 550 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 4: for him. We wisht upon everybody, but right now, Braiden 551 00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,960 Speaker 4: is going home. Everybody in the house is excited. I 552 00:26:39,000 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 4: think viewers are excited because it didn't feel like the 553 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 4: show stretched out the Braiden storyline one week too. 554 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 3: It felt like this is the week that needed he 555 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:47,639 Speaker 3: needed to go home. 556 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,680 Speaker 4: We didn't, you know, he didn't consume our television all 557 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 4: the time. We did have great moments with some other guys, 558 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,119 Speaker 4: including Xavier, who gets the next date now for the 559 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,840 Speaker 4: rest of the group date, Actually, no really memorable moments 560 00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:04,719 Speaker 4: for me, other than a few of the guys do 561 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:09,679 Speaker 4: make a connection like, you know, Joey continues to be 562 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:10,880 Speaker 4: really good at kissing. 563 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 3: Charity, and you know, Sean you know, continues to kind 564 00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:16,560 Speaker 3: of be there. 565 00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 2: I don't see, like what was Sean right? Sean is 566 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:24,119 Speaker 2: still around and like to fast forward to the end 567 00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 2: of the episode, he like gets to the top six 568 00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:33,639 Speaker 2: six left, right, Sean, there's something like to caricature about 569 00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,080 Speaker 2: this guy to take seriously. 570 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:36,399 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. 571 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:38,560 Speaker 4: I don't disagree with Braydon when he says that he 572 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 4: kind of like reminds him of the like the prince 573 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 4: from Shrek or whatever they guys. 574 00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 2: Well, he doesn't, does he. That's like really not a 575 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 2: compliment because people always say no, but because everybody makes 576 00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:54,159 Speaker 2: fun of like when their hair, Prince Barguad, So like 577 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 2: when your hair when you're a girl and like your 578 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,000 Speaker 2: hair is like really limp and like just to your 579 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,399 Speaker 2: shoulders and it's the center par and you feel like 580 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 2: it's not styled. Like that's when you make fun of 581 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,159 Speaker 2: yourself and you say you look like Prince Farquad. But 582 00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 2: but the thing is so like he's like never this 583 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 2: Lord Farkwad, Lord farkwah, thank you Hannah, Lord Parkuad. Yeah, 584 00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,360 Speaker 2: but like I guess like he's but he is Lord 585 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,720 Speaker 2: Farkwad at the same time, because he's just like ridiculous, 586 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,000 Speaker 2: and he does kind of have a character face where 587 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,040 Speaker 2: he looks like he's more of like a cartoon right, 588 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 2: not likely in a bad way, Like he's an attractive guy. 589 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:36,200 Speaker 4: Of course, he's an attractive guy and he's but yes, 590 00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:38,640 Speaker 4: I mean he does. He's definitely playing that role. He 591 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 4: definitely isn't doing anything to help himself from looking like 592 00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:47,440 Speaker 4: Lord Farquad. He has the haircut, he has every I mean, 593 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,280 Speaker 4: he has everything that you would expect, and he still 594 00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 4: wears a. 595 00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 2: Scarf, yeah, which is Kashmir. You know. That's why his 596 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 2: scarf is different than Brandon's scarf. He does lean into it. 597 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,959 Speaker 2: So as long as he's self aware, I'm cool it. 598 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 2: If his hair wasn't swoopy, I'd also be able to 599 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,400 Speaker 2: take it more seriously, Like if you just have like 600 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 2: a normal haircut, like you or Jared, I'd be like, oh, yeah, 601 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 2: like this dude, but like he's such a cartoon character 602 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 2: with his swoop. 603 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 4: I want the moment where we see him. 604 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 3: Hair using the hair dryer and like doing the flips. 605 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, well you know, what happens and it's on camera. 606 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:28,400 Speaker 3: That's that doesn't come naturally. Yeah. 607 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 4: No, so the havior date, Yeah, Xavier date when I 608 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:36,120 Speaker 4: was excited for all season. I've been a fan of 609 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 4: I've been a fan of Xavier since really Weak two. 610 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 2: So I liked Xavier since his opening package. I knew 611 00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,800 Speaker 2: that he got into science because his mom has an 612 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:52,880 Speaker 2: autoimmune disease. I just of course that's like awesome that 613 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,120 Speaker 2: he would want to get into it to see what 614 00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 2: he can do to help people, including his mom, in 615 00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,120 Speaker 2: the future. So I've been keeping an eye out for 616 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:03,920 Speaker 2: him because of that, but I didn't remember that was 617 00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 2: the reason until he brought it back up on this date. 618 00:30:07,280 --> 00:30:10,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, he's always kind of been that sneaky like front 619 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 4: runner here for me where ever since Dodgeball. He was 620 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 4: really like good at Dodgeball, but he was also very 621 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:20,960 Speaker 4: like fun and competitive. I think he showed a great 622 00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 4: side of himself because he didn't win the MVP, and 623 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:29,760 Speaker 4: I think he should have obviously, and so that was 624 00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,959 Speaker 4: kind of there. He handled that well. I didn't remember 625 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:37,640 Speaker 4: about the autoimmune disorder that his mother had until he 626 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 4: did bring it up. 627 00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:44,959 Speaker 3: But he you know, there's this there's this element of people. 628 00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 4: I think when you sit down with him and they've 629 00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 4: gone through that kind of pain. I remember a few 630 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 4: seasons ago with Sarah, who's dad headed a less like 631 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,959 Speaker 4: there is a like you grow as a human, especially 632 00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,440 Speaker 4: when a loved one is sick and you're caring for them, 633 00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 4: and then when you choose to do something about it. 634 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,040 Speaker 4: I just think that it's you know, it's not only respectable, 635 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 4: it's admirable, and it's then it's just like I watch 636 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 4: these leaders in life kind of and all, and I 637 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 4: think he's always kind of been that. 638 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 3: I believe he will stay that. 639 00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,160 Speaker 4: That's why you know he has always been up there 640 00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 4: for me, because because if Charity doesn't choose him, I 641 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,160 Speaker 4: don't think it's going to be for any reason. 642 00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 3: Other than maybe she likes like has a connection with 643 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:23,960 Speaker 3: somebody more. 644 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:26,600 Speaker 4: But he will be the type of guy who could 645 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 4: be this next bachelor, who could be the lead of 646 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:34,800 Speaker 4: a season and be fantastic. And I think that's kind 647 00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 4: of where he's sneaky at. He's either the pick or 648 00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:37,719 Speaker 4: I think he's the next Bachelor. 649 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 3: And I'll say that. 650 00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 2: Right, yeah, I would not mind that at all. He 651 00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 2: has such a good heart and It's funny because the 652 00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,640 Speaker 2: first part of this date, we're not thinking about that. 653 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 2: We're thinking about him being a flirt. 654 00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 3: We're thinking about him. 655 00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,240 Speaker 2: Over complimenting her. That's an issue with her. And I'm thinking, 656 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:01,720 Speaker 2: for a second, over complimenting her physical appearance. That's an issue. 657 00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 2: And then I thought, Okay, would that annoy me on 658 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:09,240 Speaker 2: a first date? And I guess to a certain extent, 659 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 2: like if you're just giving so many compliments about how 660 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:15,280 Speaker 2: pretty you are, then you're like, okay, okay, all right, 661 00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 2: I thank you, But yeah, you do really want them 662 00:32:18,600 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 2: to compliment your inside, your personality as well your intelligence. 663 00:32:24,920 --> 00:32:26,959 Speaker 2: I think that it was probably just a way of 664 00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:31,880 Speaker 2: making her feel comfortable, but for her it was raising 665 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 2: a red flag, which I think, you know a lot 666 00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: of people wouldn't really raise a red flag on a 667 00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,000 Speaker 2: first date, but it was because I think that this 668 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 2: deep rooted fear of infidelity for her, which reminded her 669 00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:47,240 Speaker 2: of her past her ex and like maybe she thought that, oh, 670 00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:51,360 Speaker 2: compliments about my physical appearance? Is he just going to 671 00:32:51,360 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 2: be so like physically oriented and I do have to 672 00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 2: worry about him cheating on me? Did you understand that 673 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:59,360 Speaker 2: thought process of hers? Because they didn't really spell it out. 674 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 2: I'm just assumed. I mean, that was kind of what 675 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 2: you was thinking. 676 00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 3: I think is exactly what she was thinking. 677 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 4: I mean, I think there's like I have my pet peeves, right, 678 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 4: there's very They're very clear, and after you've listened to this 679 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,040 Speaker 4: podcast long enough, you know what those are. 680 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,080 Speaker 3: You have yours. We all have those like little things 681 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 3: in our mind that kind of set us off and 682 00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 3: like make us, yeah, take a step back. And for her, 683 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 3: I'm sure some guy. 684 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 4: Was like very complimentary of her, said a lot of 685 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:28,400 Speaker 4: great words, but failed her in you know, some way, 686 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 4: and she's spoken to that and she hasn't spoken and 687 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:34,920 Speaker 4: enough clarity about it there we like really know the storyline. 688 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:38,400 Speaker 3: She just kind of like mentions it. Probably doesn't want 689 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:39,720 Speaker 3: to get into the depths of it. 690 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,719 Speaker 4: Or at least not yet, but I do think that's 691 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 4: probably what was happening. And so she hears that and 692 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 4: she's hesitant, and she's like, Hey, this good looking guy 693 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 4: who's really charismatic, he's really smart, is showing very similar 694 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 4: signs to a guy I dated in the past and 695 00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 4: that didn't go well for me. And I bet also 696 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:01,360 Speaker 4: she went on of the season thinking I'm not going 697 00:34:01,400 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 4: to date people that I've typically dated because that's never 698 00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:05,640 Speaker 4: worked out for me. So I want to date somebody different. 699 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,160 Speaker 4: But he's not different. He's the type of guy I 700 00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:08,799 Speaker 4: always go for. 701 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:12,560 Speaker 2: Until the dinner part and then she was like total 702 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:16,920 Speaker 2: change of mind when he started talking about his parents, 703 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,440 Speaker 2: who have been married for thirty years. Her parents, remember, 704 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 2: have been married for like forty seven forty three, some 705 00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:29,240 Speaker 2: crazy number for their age and her age an impressive number. 706 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:33,080 Speaker 2: And thirty years for him and his parents, and his 707 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 2: dad is the main caregiver for the mom and that 708 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,240 Speaker 2: obviously shows so much. And that's the kind of marriage 709 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 2: that you want. And it's nice that they both can 710 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:50,200 Speaker 2: bond over their parents' relationship being so strong. And I 711 00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 2: think that always. Do you do you think it's wrong 712 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,640 Speaker 2: for me to say that. I think that two people 713 00:34:54,640 --> 00:35:01,520 Speaker 2: that come from to healthy parental marriages, they can go 714 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 2: into a serious relationship easier. 715 00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,760 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I mean I think that's I think they've 716 00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,399 Speaker 4: had it modeled for them. I think you know you've 717 00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,440 Speaker 4: seen it. You know it can happen, like you've seen 718 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,600 Speaker 4: the difficulties, but you've also seen the beauty of it. 719 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:18,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's definitely something to look at. 720 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:21,080 Speaker 4: And then I think in their case, from what it 721 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,000 Speaker 4: sounds like, their parents really like each other still, right, Like, 722 00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:27,480 Speaker 4: you've still very much in love and like with each other. 723 00:35:27,520 --> 00:35:30,440 Speaker 4: And I think that's something to strive for, because if 724 00:35:30,440 --> 00:35:32,880 Speaker 4: you spend forty three years with somebody who has literally 725 00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,200 Speaker 4: seen you naked and unashamed and seen every side of 726 00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:37,760 Speaker 4: you and every part of you, and you still. 727 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 3: Like them, you're still the biggest fan. 728 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 4: I think it's something like we all could dream for, right, So, yes, 729 00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 4: and so he does show a different side, or a 730 00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,960 Speaker 4: side that maybe proves to her, hey, he isn't like 731 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 4: everybody else. And and the day ends in a rowse 732 00:35:53,600 --> 00:35:56,359 Speaker 4: Xavier is going to be there a while, and that 733 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:00,920 Speaker 4: gets to the cocktail party. Actually, the cocktail party is 734 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,080 Speaker 4: really not a cocktail party about Braiden, and again it's 735 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:07,760 Speaker 4: all about Braiden. Again, it's his last stand. He comes 736 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:10,200 Speaker 4: into the room kind of just walked by the guys, 737 00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 4: interrupts a moment with John, who unfortunately goes home, which 738 00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,400 Speaker 4: is wild to me because they're making out. 739 00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 2: Okay, So my issue was that John was like, you 740 00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 2: interrupted my time, like he was so offended, which I 741 00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:30,719 Speaker 2: understand you should totally be offended by Braiden, this guy 742 00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,120 Speaker 2: who was eliminated earlier in the week, taking your time. 743 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 2: But my question to you, John is truly, truly were 744 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,360 Speaker 2: you going to talk to her anymore? Or are you 745 00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,760 Speaker 2: just going to continue making out? Because normally the making 746 00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:46,000 Speaker 2: out portion of time alone when you're dating is like 747 00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:47,960 Speaker 2: what ends your time together? 748 00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:48,399 Speaker 4: Right? 749 00:36:48,760 --> 00:36:52,319 Speaker 2: You never like talk and then make out and you 750 00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:56,839 Speaker 2: know what, let's go back to this talking thing. Especially 751 00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,719 Speaker 2: on The Bachelor, you just don't do it. That's the 752 00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,120 Speaker 2: way you wrap up your time. 753 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 4: And you don't have that much time. We saw what 754 00:37:03,160 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 4: forty five seconds of their time together. I mean that's 755 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 4: at least one third of what he would probably get either. 756 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 2: Way, somebody else is gonna interrupt. 757 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, he's lucky to get any moments. 758 00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:17,239 Speaker 4: It is interesting though, that she was making out with 759 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,040 Speaker 4: him like this and he still goes home. 760 00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,000 Speaker 2: I was thinking that that I wanted to ask you 761 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:23,840 Speaker 2: and be like, Ben, would you ever make out with 762 00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 2: somebody like that and then eliminate them? I don't really 763 00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:28,600 Speaker 2: had to have. 764 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:31,720 Speaker 4: I had to have, but like you, like, you don't 765 00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:35,239 Speaker 4: want to, you don't like to. It's usually because you 766 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:36,879 Speaker 4: have nothing to talk about, and there's no connection there, 767 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 4: so you're like, exactly, we call it here, or we 768 00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,359 Speaker 4: just start kissing for the next two minutes, and then 769 00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 4: somebody comes and interrupts it. 770 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 3: I know. 771 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,600 Speaker 2: I was like, John, if you're really that offended by 772 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 2: your time being taken over, you definitely should have been 773 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 2: spending your time talking. 774 00:37:51,200 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 4: Braiden is not the reason that John at home. Let's 775 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,919 Speaker 4: just make that No, he's not the reason that John 776 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,680 Speaker 4: at home. Braiden does come in, they sit down and talk. 777 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 4: I don't necessarily have a problem with his conversation with her. 778 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,560 Speaker 4: I don't have a problem at all. I do think 779 00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,200 Speaker 4: it's always weird when somebody comes back. But I do 780 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 4: feel like he left and probably felt pretty guilty, wanted 781 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:15,799 Speaker 4: to clear some eric, wanted to kind of make this 782 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:19,399 Speaker 4: all make more sense. It's still Braiden, so like, none 783 00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:21,200 Speaker 4: of this is going to be like not a little 784 00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,520 Speaker 4: bit annoying and not a little bit weird. But he 785 00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 4: did it, And the response from the other guys is 786 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,640 Speaker 4: what I say, is when we were talking about last 787 00:38:31,640 --> 00:38:34,319 Speaker 4: week and I said, hey, I don't really like I'm 788 00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:37,400 Speaker 4: not like in love with this cast because they just 789 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:41,400 Speaker 4: seem to want to heighten the moments of drama and chaos, 790 00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 4: like these dudes are there. All they had to do 791 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:45,600 Speaker 4: was sit back on that couch and let him walk 792 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:46,720 Speaker 4: out the door and get in the bus. 793 00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 3: And leave instead. I don't know what they were wanting 794 00:38:49,719 --> 00:38:51,160 Speaker 3: to do. Were they wanted to tend. 795 00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:54,200 Speaker 4: To apologize, were they wanting to like fight him one 796 00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 4: on fifteen, like. 797 00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,799 Speaker 2: They go, I've never been this mad, this upset in 798 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,399 Speaker 2: my entire life. I know, guys, you think really need 799 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,040 Speaker 2: to get some respective. 800 00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:06,640 Speaker 3: Marriage. 801 00:39:06,640 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 4: Then I want to know the guy, like, what do 802 00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,000 Speaker 4: you mean you haven't got that mad at anything? 803 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,920 Speaker 3: There's no injustices in this world. 804 00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:16,040 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. I was like, you guys 805 00:39:16,080 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 2: really need to prioritize what's important in this world. 806 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 4: Some dude is living rent free in his head, and 807 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:23,560 Speaker 4: I know Aaron b says that it's not. 808 00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 3: It is because that dude had. 809 00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 4: Every opportunity to like be the front runner, to have 810 00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,279 Speaker 4: the best connection with Charity, to really be the man 811 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:38,439 Speaker 4: and all of this since week one, and he has 812 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:39,399 Speaker 4: came really close. 813 00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 3: Now he hasn't yet, but he came really close. 814 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 4: To letting Braiden ruin that all because Braiden did live 815 00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 4: rent free in his head. I don't know what they 816 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,319 Speaker 4: were doing. It wasn't a good look. I don't think 817 00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:52,359 Speaker 4: for any of those guys who went out there and 818 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:54,480 Speaker 4: yelled at him. I get that he's annoying. I get 819 00:39:54,480 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 4: that he's on your nerves. I get that he came back. 820 00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 4: I understand all of that. I understand it's frustrating. But, 821 00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:01,360 Speaker 4: like I said, the dots of the world and I 822 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 4: don't remember seeing Ze. 823 00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:06,360 Speaker 2: It wasn't there. I don't remember either of them present. 824 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,160 Speaker 3: Joey was Joey not there. 825 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:13,160 Speaker 2: He he wasn't in the forefront of my mind when 826 00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:14,800 Speaker 2: I'm thinking back on that scene. 827 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 4: It's just it's frustrating that they did that because it's 828 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,640 Speaker 4: it just doesn't make a lot of sense. 829 00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,040 Speaker 3: But they did it. And I that's why I. 830 00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,000 Speaker 4: Think we could literally right now say, okay, who wrote 831 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 4: who walked out to that bus, who was yelling into 832 00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:33,439 Speaker 4: the bus that, like, we can eliminate that those guys 833 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:34,960 Speaker 4: are here at the end, because I don't think Charity'd 834 00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:35,480 Speaker 4: probably into it. 835 00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:36,960 Speaker 3: If she was standing there, she would be like, yeah, 836 00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:37,800 Speaker 3: get them boys. 837 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree she They definitely seem more bothered than 838 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:45,440 Speaker 2: she doesn't, and he was the one who basically eliminated 839 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:51,360 Speaker 2: himself on her Aaron b loves to freaking hate Branden. 840 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 2: He secretly loves the he does love the drama or 841 00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,440 Speaker 2: you know, big proving like he's a big man. That's 842 00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,719 Speaker 2: what braid is and said, I do feel like he's 843 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 2: got that like he wants to prove it. He's kind 844 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 2: of macho. 845 00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,919 Speaker 4: It was only it was been the only time since 846 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 4: we since the show started that I've been like, okay, 847 00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,280 Speaker 4: I get Braiden here, like I see I'm on Braidon's side, 848 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,640 Speaker 4: like I would be the being the bus being like, hey, 849 00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,200 Speaker 4: can you shut the door so I can leave, Like 850 00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:19,719 Speaker 4: I'm ready to go. I've gotten everything out of me 851 00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:22,560 Speaker 4: that I need to. He just I think at that 852 00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:26,520 Speaker 4: point it felt weird. And again I don't know what 853 00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:28,319 Speaker 4: they were wanting to do. Were they wanting to beat 854 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 4: him up? Is that really what they thought? Or are 855 00:41:30,600 --> 00:41:33,640 Speaker 4: they just all trying to get like their voices heard. 856 00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:39,319 Speaker 2: Well, okay, so their interpretation is that their interpretation was 857 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:42,040 Speaker 2: that Charity eliminated him, not that he like kind of 858 00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 2: self eliminated. So maybe they were riled up with the 859 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,000 Speaker 2: fact that like he tried to come back when she 860 00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:49,600 Speaker 2: didn't want him around anymore. 861 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,360 Speaker 4: Well, on the other side of that too, is I 862 00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,400 Speaker 4: think they were a little upset that they felt like 863 00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:58,759 Speaker 4: John didn't get the time he deserved, And I think 864 00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:01,520 Speaker 4: they were wrapping their up in their frustrations at John 865 00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:03,880 Speaker 4: thing at the time he deserved, which again is weird 866 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:04,120 Speaker 4: to me. 867 00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:06,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's that's what it was. They were trying to 868 00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 2: defend him. 869 00:42:06,719 --> 00:42:10,480 Speaker 4: Yeah. I sat on the Bachelorette I remember very clearly, 870 00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,480 Speaker 4: and similar situations erupted right where somebody. 871 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:16,680 Speaker 3: Didn't get the time that they wanted to have with 872 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:17,600 Speaker 3: Kaitlyn at the time. 873 00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,920 Speaker 4: And as bad as I felt, I was pretty through it, 874 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 4: like why would I want any of these other dude? Like, 875 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,319 Speaker 4: I am so happy that it wasn't me, But I'm 876 00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 4: sitting there going like, why is anybody protecting John? 877 00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:29,920 Speaker 3: Let John stand up for himself. 878 00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:33,719 Speaker 2: Do you know why? Because they wanted to get they 879 00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,760 Speaker 2: wanted to get fire air or something. They just wanted 880 00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,160 Speaker 2: to they wanted to kind of enjoy drama for a second. 881 00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 2: But mostly they defended him because they knew he stood 882 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 2: no chance. Like he kept saying, I'm on the topping 883 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,000 Speaker 2: block and everybody else knew that he was on the 884 00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,000 Speaker 2: topping block, so yeah, they'll just they'll get riled up 885 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 2: for that. But what if that happened to Doan? What 886 00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 2: did that happened to Xavier? What if that happened to Joey? 887 00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:59,000 Speaker 2: There's no way that they're going all after him. 888 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 3: No, they're like that that's the best. Thanks Braden, thank you? Yeah? 889 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,760 Speaker 2: Uh is there anything else I want to say about 890 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,279 Speaker 2: Braiden before he actually makes his final goodbye? I mean 891 00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,320 Speaker 2: the ear rings this week where those were those were outrageous? 892 00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, what was his final stand? He needed he needed 893 00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 3: to do something big? But no, he is now eliminated. 894 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:23,799 Speaker 3: Braidon is no longer with us, along with. 895 00:43:25,600 --> 00:43:31,719 Speaker 2: Don who else, Caleb the wrestler, and Michael who. I 896 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:33,799 Speaker 2: truly looked at Michael this episode and I was like, 897 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:34,560 Speaker 2: who are you? 898 00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:38,280 Speaker 3: We haven't seen we haven't seen you once, We have. 899 00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:41,360 Speaker 2: Not seen any connection there. I'm wild out at the 900 00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 2: fact that we have six guys left, and let's count 901 00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:48,560 Speaker 2: them now. We have Doton, we have Xavier, we have Joey, 902 00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 2: we have Sean and Tanner and Aaron b We've never 903 00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,799 Speaker 2: been down to six by the going into week five, 904 00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:04,359 Speaker 2: never ever kind of love it, kind of love it. 905 00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're gonna get to know these guys very well. Ashley, 906 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 4: who's your top two, let's say your top three at this. 907 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 2: Point in order, don't number one. I think she likes 908 00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 2: Joey over Xavier, but those are my three, Okay. 909 00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:23,880 Speaker 3: I'm gonna go Xavier, Doton, Joey. 910 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 4: I really don't know if there's anybody outside of those three. 911 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,759 Speaker 3: There's nobody even close in my mind right now. 912 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 2: That's another thing that's unique to this season. I'm looking 913 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,719 Speaker 2: at these guys going into week five. We still have 914 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:42,000 Speaker 2: so many weeks left, and nobody stands a chance outside 915 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:42,480 Speaker 2: those three. 916 00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:44,880 Speaker 3: This is this will. 917 00:44:45,120 --> 00:44:49,279 Speaker 2: Honestly, I couldn't call it. So it's a week cast. 918 00:44:49,800 --> 00:44:55,240 Speaker 2: These guys might be really nice, but you think about 919 00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 2: your cast compared to. 920 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 3: It's a week cast. But I think it's a strong 921 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:00,720 Speaker 3: top three. 922 00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,759 Speaker 2: That's what I mean. Like, that's fine. That's what I 923 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 2: said last week. Like I feel bad because eh to 924 00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,839 Speaker 2: the majority, but all that really matters is that she 925 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:12,560 Speaker 2: has her few very strong contenders. 926 00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:15,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, Because I mean we're saying Sean, Aaron, b and 927 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:19,000 Speaker 4: Tanner don't don't really have a shot, And I think 928 00:45:19,040 --> 00:45:21,759 Speaker 4: that's I think it's true. I don't even see any 929 00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:25,239 Speaker 4: of them making a run at this thing. I think 930 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:30,759 Speaker 4: Tanner still has the potential, but we'll be interested to 931 00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:31,359 Speaker 4: see she. 932 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,239 Speaker 2: Goes on a one on one with Sean. You can 933 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:34,880 Speaker 2: see that in the scenes in the next episode. 934 00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:35,799 Speaker 3: I don't think it goes well. 935 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 2: I'm assuming he's not gonna get a rose at the 936 00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 2: end of that. I love the fact that we're going 937 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 2: in with such few people though, because this is kind 938 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 2: of what I've been asking for, so that the ending 939 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 2: can be really focused on the ones that matter. 940 00:45:50,840 --> 00:46:03,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's been a great season so far. We're really 941 00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:07,840 Speaker 4: happy with the season and watching it, We've been entertained, 942 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 4: we've been intrigued, and I think the love stories now 943 00:46:10,040 --> 00:46:11,840 Speaker 4: are really going to blossom. And I think that's always 944 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:13,680 Speaker 4: the most fun part and always the most intriguing part 945 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:17,600 Speaker 4: and also the most part warming and wrenching part of 946 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,680 Speaker 4: the show. So we'll be back next week breaking down 947 00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 4: another episode of this season. We don't miss a week, 948 00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,759 Speaker 4: but we do have bachelor headlines to get into Ashley. 949 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 3: And there are some big ones this week, including this one. 950 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:32,960 Speaker 4: Sean Booth has announced that he is going to be 951 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,919 Speaker 4: a dad, that the woman who will be the mother 952 00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 4: is eighteen weeks pregnant. He is beyond thrilled. Shawn is 953 00:46:40,440 --> 00:46:42,720 Speaker 4: thirty seven years old. He is quote is he's always 954 00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:47,319 Speaker 4: wanted to be a dad. He said, he's ecstatic that 955 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 4: she's going to be a great mother and everybody is 956 00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:54,720 Speaker 4: really excited. So again big headline of Bachelor Nation, Sean 957 00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:57,799 Speaker 4: Booth has announced on his podcast that he is going 958 00:46:57,840 --> 00:46:58,359 Speaker 4: to be a father. 959 00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:04,800 Speaker 3: Bachel Crawley expecting first baby be a surrogate with Ryan Dawkins. 960 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 2: Maybe this brings them together, who knows, but this is 961 00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:11,239 Speaker 2: pretty big. Bachelor Baby is Sean Booth is going to 962 00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,279 Speaker 2: be a dad at thirty seven years old. 963 00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:18,120 Speaker 3: Bachelor Nation's Clear Crawley expecting first baby be a surrogate 964 00:47:18,280 --> 00:47:19,280 Speaker 3: with Ryan Dawkins. 965 00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 2: We're so excited. I kind of felt this was coming. 966 00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:28,880 Speaker 2: Claire didn't really say anything when we were in Santa 967 00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:32,480 Speaker 2: Barbara with us. She didn't say anything, you know, verb 968 00:47:32,880 --> 00:47:37,640 Speaker 2: shouldn't say anything. But I had this feeling that there 969 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,280 Speaker 2: was news like this coming. We were talking about baby 970 00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 2: products and stuff like that, and I'm just so excited 971 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,480 Speaker 2: to see it's for real, for real, it is happening. 972 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:49,360 Speaker 2: They are they're expecting. We don't know if it's a 973 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:55,960 Speaker 2: girl or a boy. Do in January, I think, And yeah, 974 00:47:56,160 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 2: the baby's being carried via surrogate. I'm so excited for them. 975 00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:05,719 Speaker 2: They're going to be the most amazing parents. Clara's like 976 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 2: the most maternal person that I can think of, and 977 00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 2: I'm just really excited. They're doing it with the egg whisper, 978 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 2: the whole Sarahate process, and that's who Sarah Harron has 979 00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 2: been working with on her fertility journey as well. 980 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:21,640 Speaker 3: Super excited for the two of them. 981 00:48:22,400 --> 00:48:25,600 Speaker 4: We mentioned it last week, didn't really know what was 982 00:48:25,640 --> 00:48:28,320 Speaker 4: going on, but we have more clarity this week because 983 00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:30,040 Speaker 4: you look into it and we did. 984 00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:34,240 Speaker 3: And here is the update. Kim Kardashian tricks Chris Jenner 985 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:39,040 Speaker 3: into calling Disney VP over fake the Bachelorette gig. It's 986 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:40,919 Speaker 3: a prank. According to US Weekly. 987 00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:45,279 Speaker 2: Yes, it is a prank. So Kim just played a 988 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:47,360 Speaker 2: joke on her mom, Chris Pretanny's she was going to 989 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:51,800 Speaker 2: be the bachelorette on the new episode. They basically have 990 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,279 Speaker 2: that tease that they show or she's like telling the 991 00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:57,320 Speaker 2: whole family. She goes, I have some very important info. 992 00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:01,600 Speaker 2: I talked to Rob Mills, but she they said that, 993 00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:05,560 Speaker 2: you know, Chris was not thrilled by the news. This 994 00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:09,879 Speaker 2: is not the right move for Kim, and she calls 995 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:15,880 Speaker 2: the Chris Jenner calls Rob Mills and says that she's like, 996 00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,960 Speaker 2: I just need to wrap my head around something like 997 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,080 Speaker 2: this because it's not really the space that I saw 998 00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,120 Speaker 2: Kim in. She does have four kids in a very 999 00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:27,320 Speaker 2: busy life. And then she goes, I watched the show. 1000 00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 2: I love the show, but did I want my daughter 1001 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:33,240 Speaker 2: on it? Oh? Hell no, It's funny because I mentioned 1002 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:37,760 Speaker 2: this on Friday. I'm pretty sure she was for Chloe 1003 00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:42,600 Speaker 2: doing it a couple of years ago. And then the 1004 00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:47,120 Speaker 2: joke continues. He goes, we're working on all the scheduling now, 1005 00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:53,040 Speaker 2: we're like ninety percent there for Kim, but the budget 1006 00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:56,040 Speaker 2: is subject to negotiation. We'd probably need to work that 1007 00:49:56,200 --> 00:50:00,920 Speaker 2: out with you. That's Rob Mills responding, And eventually it 1008 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,040 Speaker 2: gets revealed that it's all a big joke. 1009 00:50:04,040 --> 00:50:05,520 Speaker 3: So good, that's a good joke. 1010 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,880 Speaker 4: I love that Chris Jenner was fully confused for a 1011 00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,400 Speaker 4: second and thinking that Kim Kardashian would actually be a 1012 00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:17,799 Speaker 4: bachelorette on you know, I bring the show back, just 1013 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,040 Speaker 4: give it, you know, one of the world's biggest celebrities. 1014 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:24,680 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelor. Then Kim Kardashian, We are back, Baby, we 1015 00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:25,320 Speaker 2: are back. 1016 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,439 Speaker 3: Final, speaking of him back. 1017 00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,600 Speaker 4: Final big headline is Nick Vile surprises his mom by 1018 00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:34,839 Speaker 4: buying back family lake house thirty two years after losing it. 1019 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 4: I know he's been working on this for a while. 1020 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,880 Speaker 4: I knew this was something he dreamed of. I didn't 1021 00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,560 Speaker 4: know it had happened. But it's a big deal. In 1022 00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 4: congratulations to him for making this happen. It's a really 1023 00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:46,399 Speaker 4: cool gift. 1024 00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:50,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so let me just read verbati what Neck says, 1025 00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:55,480 Speaker 2: after losing the house thirty two years ago, I finally 1026 00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 2: bought it back into the family. I had recurring dreams 1027 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,760 Speaker 2: my entire life since we lost the house in nineteen 1028 00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:04,960 Speaker 2: ninety about somehow the house being back in our family. 1029 00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,920 Speaker 2: I always woke up from this dream. I'm living a 1030 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,759 Speaker 2: literal dream now, no more waking up from this one 1031 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,360 Speaker 2: than He has the tattoo of the lake house that 1032 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:21,160 Speaker 2: his father his grandfather built in nineteen sixty five. He 1033 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,000 Speaker 2: was nine when they lost the house. He says that 1034 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,440 Speaker 2: this place was always the version of heaven in his mind, 1035 00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,040 Speaker 2: and he just bought it back and he gave it 1036 00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,799 Speaker 2: to his mom, surprises mom with a letter letting her 1037 00:51:32,880 --> 00:51:37,520 Speaker 2: know that he bought the house back after thirty two years, 1038 00:51:37,560 --> 00:51:41,200 Speaker 2: and now he's going to share those memories with Natalie 1039 00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:44,440 Speaker 2: and their kids and all the other nine kids that 1040 00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:46,840 Speaker 2: his mom has and their families. This is like the 1041 00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:50,080 Speaker 2: most special thing ever. From on a personal note, yes, 1042 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,200 Speaker 2: I've known that Nick's been trying to work to get 1043 00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:54,400 Speaker 2: this house for a while. I don't want to like 1044 00:51:54,640 --> 00:51:58,719 Speaker 2: throw info that I vaguely remember out there. I'm just 1045 00:51:58,760 --> 00:52:01,120 Speaker 2: going to let Nick tell his and he has on 1046 00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:04,440 Speaker 2: TikTok and Instagram. You can watch them on his podcast. 1047 00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:08,400 Speaker 2: It's really really special to him. I'm just like so stoked. 1048 00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 2: It was cool because I texted him last week just 1049 00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 2: randomly just being like hey, talking about you love you, 1050 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,480 Speaker 2: miss you, what are you up to? And he goes, 1051 00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:18,000 Speaker 2: I'm at the lake House and I go, what you 1052 00:52:18,080 --> 00:52:20,719 Speaker 2: got it? And he that was a couple of days 1053 00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,719 Speaker 2: before he announced to everybody that he had bought it back. 1054 00:52:22,760 --> 00:52:23,800 Speaker 2: It's really really exciting. 1055 00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:25,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a big deal. 1056 00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:27,640 Speaker 4: I mean he cares about it because he got a 1057 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:29,440 Speaker 4: tattooed on his arm before you even owned it, so 1058 00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:33,520 Speaker 4: that's you know, or on his chest maybe you know that. 1059 00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:36,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know. This is something special. So congrats 1060 00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:40,840 Speaker 3: to him and Natalie and the whole family making this happen. 1061 00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,160 Speaker 4: Well, this has been another episode of the Almost Famous podcast. 1062 00:52:44,200 --> 00:52:47,000 Speaker 4: We are always so thankful and so happy to be here. 1063 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,640 Speaker 4: We will be back next week talking about the Bacheler right, 1064 00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:52,480 Speaker 4: talking about all the headlines, everything breaking down. We will 1065 00:52:52,520 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 4: be continuing to up to you on the upcoming Golden 1066 00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:58,759 Speaker 4: Bachelor and everything happening within bacher Nation. 1067 00:52:58,880 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 2: But until then, I've been then, I've been actually seeing 1068 00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 1: Followed the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous Podcasts on 1069 00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:10,960 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.