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Speaker 1: We're a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. So you know,

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Speaker 1: Then let me look. At that point, I'm dead. So

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Speaker 1: what's been up? Sis? What's up? Sis? You always got

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Speaker 1: something going on? What did you say? Cause got loud?

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Speaker 1: You know, I've been having a great week, okay, you know,

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Speaker 1: Do you have any like giving it low key? What

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Speaker 2: I don't know what I'm gonna do for New Year's

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Speaker 1: You better use the big words. I mean, beach, that's

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Speaker 2: When he gets inaugurated on I definitely think that he's

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Speaker 2: Now, I don't really like to make New Year's resolutions.

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Speaker 1: I said I was never gonna wa synthetic Whigs again,

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Speaker 1: all right here. I said that it was pool okay.

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Speaker 1: But my New Year's resolution is I want to stop

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Speaker 1: Like we get a contract, They're like, give us our money.

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Speaker 2: You do know that if you sign a contract, it's

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Speaker 1: I'm going to finish our contract and I'm going to

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Speaker 1: Because I will honestly say, do I feel like I

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Speaker 1: Of like sexual relationship. No.

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Speaker 2: But but if you have an issue with every man

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Speaker 1: But I've never felt like I have daddy issues though, because,

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Speaker 1: I think like they're like you're looking for somebody to

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Speaker 2: I don't think that that's what daddy issues is. I

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Speaker 2: They just don't be realizing it. Mm you know what

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Speaker 1: Cause it's kind of like.

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Speaker 2: You could just tell by how they go about their relationships,

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Speaker 2: Or if I did feel like I had found somebody

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, well, let me like really kind of

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Speaker 2: You don't feel like that has affected your dating relationships

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Speaker 2: What makes you like, I guess with the situation that

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that's somebody that's still in my life.

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Speaker 1: like I like when people show me love. That's more

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Speaker 1: It's just I mean, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I told he really needs I think the only daddy

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Speaker 1: issue I probably really have is maybe if my daddy

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Speaker 1: what would your daddy have to do with that? Maybe

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Speaker 3: But how would he find out that she was eating ass?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I told my mom, I don't think you

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Speaker 1: There's certain things that I told my mom, but I

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Speaker 1: That's the only thing. I just don't even know where

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Speaker 2: Like, so you feel like because I'm trying to figure

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Speaker 1: What you eating ass? You here's the free.

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Speaker 2: They don't your daddy brot into this school. You're trying

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Speaker 1: I was trying to relate to the girls that lost

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Speaker 1: damn it, Fuck I'm.

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Speaker 3: Anyway anyways, bring that ship back.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, So all in all, do you feel

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Speaker 1: I do feel like the main difference is, like I

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Speaker 1: because I feel like you were put on more game.

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Speaker 1: If anything, I felt like I missed that game like

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Speaker 1: you'd be going hard on these niggas, right, because I

434
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Speaker 1: feel like, because your daddy already told you, like draaddy's

435
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,639
Speaker 1: niggas ain't shit. You know, I never had somebody like

436
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:19,800
Speaker 1: in my ear levels like growing up and put me

437
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Speaker 1: on game with stuff like that. So I feel like,

438
00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 1: if anything, that's like the main difference between us. But

439
00:20:26,040 --> 00:20:29,600
Speaker 1: it's not like an issue. Oh yeah, no, no, I'm

440
00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:31,680
Speaker 1: not saying that. That's what you said to me. That's

441
00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,800
Speaker 1: not like necessarily having daddy issues. That's just how we

442
00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:38,520
Speaker 1: were raised. But I don't think like but everything else,

443
00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:43,439
Speaker 1: we're pretty similar like that, and our households were completely different.

444
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Speaker 1: Like you grew up in the city. I grew up

445
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 1: in the country. I grew up around all white people.

446
00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:49,960
Speaker 1: You went to a predominantly black school.

447
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Speaker 2: Right, Well, well like when I was like in elementary

448
00:20:53,440 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 2: and middle school, yeah, denominantly like but high school I

449
00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:57,600
Speaker 2: went to a area.

450
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Speaker 1: Yeah, like middle school. So yes, like we grew up

451
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:02,840
Speaker 1: totally different, and we have a lot of the same value.

452
00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 1: I know, we really do.

453
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Speaker 2: And that's why I that's why I be saying, like,

454
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:08,520
Speaker 2: you really can't judge people based off of stuff like that,

455
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Because you would think that

456
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: I grew up probably completely different than I did. Are

457
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 2: you grew up completely different than you did? Just based

458
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Speaker 2: off of our beliefs and like how we.

459
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Speaker 1: Feel about she.

460
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Speaker 2: But I feel like life shape your experience. I feel

461
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:24,400
Speaker 2: like a lot of the time, I don't know, but.

462
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Speaker 1: Honestly, and that's why I go so hard on these

463
00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,000
Speaker 1: men as far as like, I believe you're supposed to

464
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Speaker 1: take care of your household and take care of this

465
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Speaker 1: cause guess what, at the end of the day, No, my

466
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:34,560
Speaker 1: daddy wasn't here. But when my dad passed away, my

467
00:21:34,640 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 1: mom was good. Yeah, left her hell of bread. She

468
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,760
Speaker 1: was able to go back to Orange, build her a

469
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Speaker 1: huge ass house, make sure me and my sister was

470
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Speaker 1: taking care of even after death. My daddy was taking

471
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Speaker 1: care of his household. So that's why exactly. So that's

472
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Speaker 1: why I'm like, Yeah, my mama had this, That's exactly

473
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Speaker 1: what the fuck I want. Yeah, he was taking care

474
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Speaker 1: of her while she was, while he was alive, and

475
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Speaker 1: after he passed. So yeah, I'm gonna go hard because

476
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Speaker 1: I never saw my mom settle. My mom was not

477
00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 1: settling for just any man. After my dad passed, I

478
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,880
Speaker 1: remember her dating probably like one guy. But that's because

479
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: she don't take no shit. And I'm the same way,

480
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 1: got the same birthday. That's so y'all say what y'all

481
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:19,920
Speaker 1: want about me. But I know what I want out

482
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Speaker 1: of life and I know what I expect and I

483
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Speaker 1: know what I deserve and my mom instilled that on

484
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Speaker 1: me because that was what was instilled in her. So yeah,

485
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Speaker 1: that's that's my mood about it. That's all I got

486
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Speaker 1: to see.

487
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Speaker 2: Definitely, I don't be feeling like it's like a huge

488
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Speaker 2: difference either, you know. I don't know this maybe for

489
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,880
Speaker 2: some people because like you said, your dad lift your

490
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 2: mom a lot of money. But I feel like so

491
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Speaker 2: maybe for some people maybe the financial aspect of like

492
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:46,560
Speaker 2: growing up with two parents versus growing up with one parent,

493
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Speaker 2: he's a little bit different.

494
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Speaker 1: I guess, Like I said, I have more than like

495
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Speaker 1: I said, not.

496
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Speaker 2: For you, not in your situation, but a lot of

497
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Speaker 2: the time they does affect people's upbringing, you know what

498
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Speaker 2: I mean. And you growing up in a one parent household,

499
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Speaker 2: say your mom don't really have no itgtion, you don't

500
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 2: have your dad or whatever, your mom working like three jobs, damn.

501
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: And thatwas being the niggas that be like my mama

502
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 1: worked three jobs and she was a hustler. Yeah, the

503
00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: bitch was depressed. We say that all the time. They'd

504
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,680
Speaker 1: be like, you homes don't want to work. My mama did,

505
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 1: very not happy with life. It's not about not wanting

506
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Speaker 1: to work.

507
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Speaker 2: I think as you get older, you realize you're supposed

508
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 2: to work smarter, not harder.

509
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Speaker 3: And I'm not saying your niggas almost was dumb. That

510
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:26,200
Speaker 3: ain't what I'm saying.

511
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Speaker 1: That's not like what you're saying.

512
00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 3: No, that's not what I'm saying.

513
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:33,199
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is now we have more opportunities and

514
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 2: we know so many different ways to get you dumb.

515
00:23:38,280 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: Stop saying I'm not calling her dumb. I'm not calling

516
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Speaker 1: Bridget dumb.

517
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Speaker 2: Damn anyways, bitch, I feel like these days in twenty twenty,

518
00:23:47,080 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 2: is so many ways you can get money. So number one,

519
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:56,000
Speaker 2: we know a pleathorough ways to get money to where

520
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 2: we don't have to work.

521
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Speaker 1: Three four jobs.

522
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Speaker 2: But bitch working three four jobs right now, Bro, you just.

523
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 1: Ain't figured it out.

524
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 2: You ain't figured out how to connect the pieces and

525
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:07,040
Speaker 2: connect the dies, because ain't no way in hell you

526
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 2: should be working three jobs I'm talking like job jobs

527
00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:14,000
Speaker 2: where you're going clock in, not having like three different hustles,

528
00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:16,679
Speaker 2: right job, you know what I mean. So it's just

529
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 2: like I just feel like these days, if you're doing it,

530
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,520
Speaker 2: you just ain't figured out the blueprints. But back then,

531
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: that's what a lot of women had to do, and

532
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: so I feel like a lot of time kids and

533
00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 2: households suffered because.

534
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: You didn't really have no parent there at all.

535
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Speaker 2: So I feel like in situations like that, maybe it is,

536
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,320
Speaker 2: you know, a little bit different growing up with two

537
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Speaker 2: parents versus growing up with one.

538
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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, I agree with you on that, But like

539
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Speaker 1: I said, as far as the I can only speak

540
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,399
Speaker 1: on my experiences, I do think people need to stop

541
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: throwing that out there, like, oh, she has daddy issues,

542
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 1: she has daddy issues, and that's just not the case

543
00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 1: for everybody, right right, you know, I agree. So let

544
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 1: us know if y'all got daddy issues and you like

545
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,119
Speaker 1: sucking too much dick because your daddy wasn't there, and

546
00:24:58,200 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: let me know, maybe I can help you with a

547
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: little and we're gonna get through these problems together.

548
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:08,239
Speaker 2: Look at it, hey, y'all, it's your girl, Drea. I

549
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,119
Speaker 2: just wanted to talk to y'all real quick about a

550
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 2: program that Lex and I have been mentioning a lot,

551
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 2: you know, for the past few months, and I hope

552
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:19,479
Speaker 2: y'all been listening, because we both use this program and

553
00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:21,840
Speaker 2: we love it, and we know a lot of people

554
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 2: in our lives that use it as well, who have

555
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,640
Speaker 2: told us that it's completely changed their life.

556
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Speaker 1: And just helped with a lot of the issues that

557
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Speaker 1: that were dealing.

558
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 2: With, such as depression, stress, anxiety, you know, relationships, self esteem.

559
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Speaker 1: All of that.

560
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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you sign up for betterhelp dot com. They're

561
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Speaker 2: gonna link you with a licensed professional counselor who's gonna

562
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Speaker 2: be able to help you with anything that you're dealing with.

563
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Speaker 2: Is very convenient, very professional, and very affordable.

564
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Speaker 1: So all you have to do is go to betterhelp.

565
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Speaker 2: Dot com backslash poor Minds and sign up and you'll

566
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Speaker 2: get ten percent off of your first money. Now, don't

567
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 2: say that we never gave y'all nothing, because we keep

568
00:26:03,760 --> 00:26:05,800
Speaker 2: trying to put y'all own. Don't miss out on your

569
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 2: blessing NIGHTE bye.

570
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:11,679
Speaker 1: We love to help out our people. Okay, what's the

571
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:15,919
Speaker 1: next topic? Girl beach? It won't open on my phone

572
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: why you ain't say that. I was trying to be

573
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Speaker 1: that this is very unprof.

574
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Speaker 2: I wanted to also talk about getting more support, like

575
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 2: why are you getting more support from like your peers,

576
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 2: you know, your family members, your friends while you hustling

577
00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 2: versus once.

578
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Speaker 3: You make kads Oh.

579
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Speaker 1: I think this is a great topic. This is a

580
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,879
Speaker 1: great topic, especially for us. I feel like it's a

581
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: lot of reasons why. One of the main things we

582
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 1: say this all the time on the show. People love

583
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 1: to see you doing well as long as you're not

584
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 1: doing better than them, that's the first thing. I think.

585
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 1: That's more so people that you're in the same realm

586
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,359
Speaker 1: as that are doing the same you know thing, is

587
00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 1: you okay? A lot of times as a creative people

588
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:05,800
Speaker 1: don't want to see you take that next step because

589
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 1: a lot of times it changes what do you mean?

590
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 1: Like if you think about like like somebody like Whiz Khalifa.

591
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: This is my best example to use all the time

592
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: because that's one of my favorite artists. But like when

593
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: he dropped cushion OJ like he was in his bag,

594
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,000
Speaker 1: like that's one of his best projects to me personally.

595
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: But it's like when you look at his music, like

596
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: when black and yellow drop. He started doing more like

597
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: commercial things. So a lot of times people feel like

598
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: when creatives are artists or celebrities, whatever that you're doing,

599
00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 1: they take that next step to the next level. They change, Like, bitch,

600
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: if we sign like an HBO dial, I'm still be

601
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,280
Speaker 1: talking about eating nash and sucking dick. You know, some

602
00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: people just stay true to who they are. But you

603
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 1: know they feel like, oh, if poor Minds gets on

604
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,239
Speaker 1: fucking Netflix, they not gonna be who they are no more.

605
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 1: They gonna change. So we want them to stay right here.

606
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: So a lot of times it's not necessarily coming from

607
00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,560
Speaker 1: a bad point of view. Sometimes people just don't want

608
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: the formula to change.

609
00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 2: But then also you have to wait and see, you

610
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,399
Speaker 2: know what I mean When you're talking about, oh, I

611
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 2: feel like if they get they reach this level of success,

612
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 2: things are gonna change. You don't know that until you

613
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:08,880
Speaker 2: see it happen, you know what I mean. Like, y'all

614
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 2: can't be out here praying for people down tall.

615
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:13,800
Speaker 1: Well, I won't say they praying for a downfall.

616
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:15,840
Speaker 3: They just mean that's not like these niggas praying on

617
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 3: your Jon fall.

618
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Speaker 1: On all ten. Bitch, I stood tall, no no, for real. Honestly,

619
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Speaker 1: I feel like for the most part, our fans have

620
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: been happy, Like they're happy that I talk about.

621
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Speaker 3: I said, numerous different people in your life.

622
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 2: I didn't say our fans. I said friends, family.

623
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Speaker 1: Oh well, honestly, the people around me, they ready for

624
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: me to like have some money. They like, bitch, we're

625
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:41,960
Speaker 1: tired of you. When it's three dollars, it's time for

626
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:45,080
Speaker 1: you to upgrade your life. You thirty one? You are

627
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 1: thirty one. My mom was like, what ain't the fuck

628
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: are you doing? You know, like some people really be like, Okay, Lex,

629
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: it's time to grow up and do something, and I

630
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: can do something with yourself. But getting back to the

631
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: first point, like I said, I do see a lot

632
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Speaker 1: of people, you know, not showing so much love as

633
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: I thought we Yeah, but like I said, a lot

634
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,480
Speaker 1: of times that just comes from people feeling threatened.

635
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 2: You know, why do you feel like people feel threading?

636
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 2: How can people feel threading when you unite a threat

637
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: to them?

638
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: Because first of all, we're not even supposed to be

639
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 1: in this space. Why are who says who technically but

640
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 1: sas whole? But that's what I'm saying. Listen to what

641
00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Threa, two girls, that just we don't have

642
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: no knowledge of nothing, and look what we've made hold on.

643
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: We do got knowledge. Talking about knowledge as far as

644
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: the podcasting industry are doing, bitch, we sat down in

645
00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 1: your living rooms with a fucking that was bought for us,

646
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,400
Speaker 1: hooked up to yoll. We didn't know what the fuck

647
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 1: we were doing. You gotta realize people are coming into

648
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 1: this space, Uh, fifteen grand in the hole just on equipment.

649
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. That's they first mistake though,

650
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:52,959
Speaker 2: and we can tell them now.

651
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: Now. All I'm saying is a lot of times people

652
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: be like, what the fuck these two holes sitting down

653
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 1: on this topic. We've seen it. Somebody tweeted that and that, Oh,

654
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: these are the kind of podcasts y'all listen to. Somebody

655
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: tweeted that about it.

656
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 2: Nobody listens to their podcast. But that's what the person

657
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 2: you're talking about.

658
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,240
Speaker 1: That's neither here nor there. But I just feel like

659
00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: a lot of times where people feel like you don't

660
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 1: deserve to be where you are, But as a matter

661
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:22,680
Speaker 1: of fact, we do, though, Like you.

662
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 2: Don't know, grinded to get here. We don't rhyme I

663
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,360
Speaker 2: mean not, but for real, you know what I mean,

664
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 2: we definitely worked hard to get where we are right

665
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: now and where we're going. If that's something that definitely

666
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 2: gets on my last fucking RB when people try to

667
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 2: act like all we only be getting certain opportunities, are

668
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 2: doing certain shit because we look a certain way. That

669
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:46,680
Speaker 2: doesn't have anything to do with it facts. I mean,

670
00:30:46,720 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: I definitely feel like to a certain extent, I'm not

671
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 2: gonna lie. I think that sometimes they can contribute a

672
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 2: little bit to why people want to listen to the show,

673
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,480
Speaker 2: because niggas will see what we look like.

674
00:30:57,160 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: Like ill let me sing with them five house honestly,

675
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,920
Speaker 1: and you I don't even lead with my looks. I'll

676
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:05,760
Speaker 1: be like, man, I mean, but it's.

677
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,120
Speaker 2: Not about it's to me, it's not about you. Nobody

678
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 2: really leads what they looks. I feel like, I don't

679
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 2: think that that's true. I feel like, if you look good,

680
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: you look good, that's the first thing people gonna look at.

681
00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:18,440
Speaker 1: That doesn't mean that that's what you're leading with, you

682
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,080
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, I guess I just feel like.

683
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 2: But you look good, so nigga's gonna look at that first.

684
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 2: They go look at that ass this she they ain't

685
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 2: gonna be like them.

686
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: I want to pay a pretty penny ayes on me.

687
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: They're not gonna be like dang.

688
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:35,479
Speaker 2: I wonder if she intellectual, Like nobody thinks that when

689
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 2: they look at you, that is true. You know that's

690
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 2: not true. Nobody looking at you, I wonder. I don't

691
00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:46,200
Speaker 2: wonder if she intellectual. Some niggas look at me and

692
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 2: they be like, I wonder what her thoughts on global warming?

693
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 1: They do nobody. I want to know that. They want

694
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: to know what's something? More more, they be like, damn,

695
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: baby girl, what you think about?

696
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 3: Literally nobody, no nigga has.

697
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 1: Niggas be like, damn, I wonder, like, what's something? Later?

698
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sure as the date goes on they like,

699
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,480
Speaker 2: dang she's smart as fuck, or dang, she's very intelligent

700
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:15,080
Speaker 2: and funny and hilarious. But in the beginning, absolutely the

701
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 2: fuck night. If that was a nigga, that ain't what

702
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:18,680
Speaker 2: I be thinking.

703
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: What you would be thinking.

704
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 2: I'll be looking at show titties the whole time. First

705
00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 2: of all, that was on the day I do wear this.

706
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: On days that would be looking at your cities, I

707
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: would not be thinking about like wondering what you're thinking about,

708
00:32:31,760 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: unless you're trying to think about fucking when we leave.

709
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: Anyways, back to what we were saying, I think a

710
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 1: lot of times and then another thing is a lot

711
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: of times people feel like you'll get out of touch.

712
00:32:47,080 --> 00:32:49,719
Speaker 1: I think one of my favorite things about like social

713
00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 1: media is like artists that I listen to or other

714
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:54,320
Speaker 1: podcasts that I listen to, like I can tweet them

715
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: and they'll say something back to me and like that

716
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 1: feeling like, oh, that's my friend, that's my because I'd

717
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: be responding to everybody as much as I can. I

718
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: do too, and I love talking to them. So I

719
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 1: know sometimes people feel like, oh, I hope they stay

720
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: like this because they're cool when they're successful, but they're not.

721
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 1: It's not to where I can't still talk to them.

722
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:10,600
Speaker 1: I mean, but I.

723
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 2: Feel like that's more so something like people not really

724
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 2: talking one on one with people. I don't think that's

725
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 2: so much people losing touch. It's just kind of like

726
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:26,880
Speaker 2: the bigger, the more your face, the more the more

727
00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:30,160
Speaker 2: your fan base grows, it gets harder and harder to

728
00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: talk to people. It becomes overwhelming because I'm not gonna lie,

729
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,120
Speaker 2: like even right now, in the space that we're in now,

730
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 2: sometimes it's a little overwhelming trying to respond to everybody.

731
00:33:39,080 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 2: I still do eat, you know what I mean, to

732
00:33:41,320 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 2: the best of my ability, but it's hard.

733
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: I mean, what else you're gonna be doing y'all be

734
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 1: having to do, I'll be having I know that.

735
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 2: I just I just always have wondered why that is,

736
00:33:56,160 --> 00:33:59,120
Speaker 2: because I just find it so odd when people feel

737
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 2: intimidated or threading by people, like it is if we

738
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 2: can't all get money, even if we all are working.

739
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 3: In the same space and doing the same thing.

740
00:34:06,320 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

741
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:09,160
Speaker 2: But even outside of that, because I'm more so I

742
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:11,319
Speaker 2: was thinking about people who don't even do the same

743
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 2: shit as you.

744
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:12,719
Speaker 1: Who don't support you.

745
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 2: What you mean, like people who are not even doing

746
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 2: the same thing as you. Because we just touched on, like, okay,

747
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 2: maybe sometimes people who are in the same space with

748
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:23,560
Speaker 2: you don't really support you as you get bigger because

749
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:25,399
Speaker 2: they feel like you're a threat, right right, But I'm

750
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,120
Speaker 2: talking more so about people who not even doing the

751
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,279
Speaker 2: same shit as you, that don't support you as you

752
00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:31,320
Speaker 2: can seue to get bigger.

753
00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: Why do you think that is? It goes to the

754
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,160
Speaker 1: same thing, like, it doesn't matter what you're doing, just

755
00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: think in general, Yeah, like you doing they don't want

756
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: to see you doing better because sometimes people are jealous,

757
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 1: Like sometimes people genuinely do not be happy for other

758
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 1: people bruh, Like it literally burns them up on the inside.

759
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: Like me, I'm the type of person when I see

760
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 1: somebody doing something good, especially somebody that I fuck with,

761
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna retweet everything I see on my timeline. I'm supporting,

762
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: Like anytime somebody send me a text like, oh, can

763
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: you retweet this? Right, I retweet everything. I have twenty

764
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 1: thousand followers on Twitter, one hundred thousand some on Instagram, Like,

765
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 1: I'm going to promote my friend shit as much as

766
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: you want me to. I feel like we're both pretty

767
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:10,400
Speaker 1: good with that.

768
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, whenever our friends come out with stuff, Oh yeah,

769
00:35:13,160 --> 00:35:14,200
Speaker 2: I know, we always.

770
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: That's easy for me. Support is the easiest thing you

771
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: can do. It's free. A retweet is and honestly, now

772
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,319
Speaker 1: pray when when I be there, And that's funny. A

773
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,560
Speaker 1: post on my on my page on my page told

774
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 1: promote a product is twenty five hundred dollars right now.

775
00:35:28,960 --> 00:35:30,720
Speaker 1: So the fact that I'm doing that for my friends

776
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 1: and doing that shit for free. Bitch, I'm supporting you.

777
00:35:33,080 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: I mean facts, bitch. You know I feel the same way.

778
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,160
Speaker 2: Like I could be charging Hella fucking money to post

779
00:35:39,200 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 2: this shit for you, but you know, I'm posting it

780
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 2: because I fuck with you.

781
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,959
Speaker 1: I just I don't know. But a lot of people

782
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 1: don't view stuff like that because a lot of people

783
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 1: just some people are just haters and sometimes you're friends.

784
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 2: But but you know, it's crazy that a lot of

785
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: people who are super successful say, like, you don't really

786
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:58,440
Speaker 2: be finding out who'll be haters until you get to

787
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 2: that point where you're becoming super so for successful, because

788
00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 2: then you start to see people true colors. Because I

789
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 2: feel like it's easy for people to disguise it as

790
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:10,040
Speaker 2: they're supporting you as you're coming up, because because I

791
00:36:10,080 --> 00:36:12,240
Speaker 2: think to a certain extent, people don't really be believing

792
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 2: that you're gonna get there, oh really, So it's like

793
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 2: easy to support you when you're doing It's like, okay, whatever,

794
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 2: let me go.

795
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: On here dropping my album first of all?

796
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:28,160
Speaker 2: Your album, yes, I do, you don't listen to it?

797
00:36:28,480 --> 00:36:30,399
Speaker 2: Why we not listen to it? I really don't think

798
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: you're gonna drop an album. Though it's not about me

799
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: not believing in the album. I don't think it's ever

800
00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 2: gonna be an album.

801
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 1: But I don't do it to me what you're just

802
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:41,719
Speaker 1: saying other people are doing.

803
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: Because you've been talking about creating an album for like

804
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 2: three years old, I haven't you made. You got in

805
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 2: the studio, you wanted to do this, and we started

806
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 2: doing this like four months after you moved here. So

807
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: I just don't think you're gonna create an album. But

808
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 2: if you do, I'm gonna support it.

809
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 1: But I don't have.

810
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 2: Nothing to do with like not believing in you. I

811
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 2: just like you have any your space and opportunity, and you.

812
00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: Have it, so I see how it is be your

813
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,839
Speaker 1: own co host. But yeah, I don't know.

814
00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 2: I just think that's really really weird though that people

815
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 2: we're gonna mindset not being haters towards people.

816
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: We're gonna work work on it people that are hating.

817
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,680
Speaker 1: You know. That's about to say we not haters. No,

818
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,400
Speaker 1: I'm not a hater. If I see anything like I

819
00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,440
Speaker 1: said that, I support, I retweeted. I do all that shuff.

820
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: I love showing love. I love to show love love.

821
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: I'm a loving ass. Beer are very never was me,

822
00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: oh sorry, feeling okay, So now we're gonna get into it.

823
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: Hey love it? Hey all right. So today I wanted

824
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: to talk about shower sex because I saw a girls

825
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:02,240
Speaker 1: say she was like it was this little video on Instagram,

826
00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 1: and she was gonna say, there's nothing better than after

827
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: coming home from a long, hard day at work, getting

828
00:38:09,600 --> 00:38:12,680
Speaker 1: in the shower and just getting all soaked up and

829
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:15,240
Speaker 1: then just having your nigga come in there and y'all

830
00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: just make sweet love in the shower under the blue

831
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 1: the week the wheat love. And I was like, bruh,

832
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: shower sex is the absolute worst thing that's ever happened

833
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 1: to me in my entire life. I've never enjoyed it,

834
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 1: never enjoyed it.

835
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 2: I don't think it's like the worst thing ever, but

836
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,719
Speaker 2: I mean definitely not something that I just be like, cool.

837
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:39,800
Speaker 3: Let's have shower seek.

838
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 1: Like I feel like, I never say that.

839
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 2: It's like if we end up having shower sex, then cool,

840
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. But I'm never gonna suggest

841
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 2: that we gonna have six in the shower, never gonna

842
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,280
Speaker 2: suggest that we gonna have shikes in the shower.

843
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 1: I'll say this though, First of all, I feel like

844
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,760
Speaker 1: getting water in them gianna that make sure vagina dry.

845
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why it's weird people's obsession with having sex

846
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 2: and jacuzzies in pool.

847
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: That ship is not lig that ship is not That's

848
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 1: how I know y'all ain't got that wop.

849
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:15,320
Speaker 2: They probably be getting a chlorine chlorine.

850
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:17,759
Speaker 1: Well, I'll say this, I feel like sex and the

851
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 1: shower is so overrated. Now it's cool to start it off.

852
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: You know, I sucking dick a little bit, get the

853
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:25,640
Speaker 1: balls a little bit. I let me think what can

854
00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,360
Speaker 1: I do to kick it off? First of all, I

855
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: come all over and then I lick it off to

856
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: get in my bar mode. Y'all know I'm a bar

857
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: so anyway, So I feel like sex and the shower

858
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: is shut up. I feel like it's cool to start

859
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:47,960
Speaker 1: off with like you know how we start kissing, you know,

860
00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 1: touching on a little titty, fell on the little garfield.

861
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, get the ship popping. We

862
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:55,800
Speaker 1: washing each other down. But you're building up those moments

863
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 1: so we can go get in the fucking bed. Yeah,

864
00:39:58,200 --> 00:40:00,239
Speaker 1: I'm not having no car sex. I'm not having sex,

865
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 1: no shower. I'm not having sex and no top. Now.

866
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes I had car staks recently, and I know we

867
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: talked about these online.

868
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:11,480
Speaker 1: Car I would rather not disclose it. I mean, I

869
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 1: guess I could tell you what kind of car was.

870
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 2: Truck, But yeah, I had car stacks recently and I

871
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 2: was meaning to tell you about this. I think we

872
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 2: had talked about this on the episode and we both

873
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,319
Speaker 2: said that it was trashing. You to sure to be happy,

874
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 2: but but can you wag like can you wave that if.

875
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 3: It's like a lambo truck or something, or and lick

876
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 3: your balls a little bit?

877
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 1: But I'm six five, two ninety The fuck I look

878
00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: like trying to fucking a lambo bro? You could sucking

879
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:44,960
Speaker 1: a g wagon? I can, but I'm big, No, bitch,

880
00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,319
Speaker 1: I'm too big for that shit. Please take my old

881
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: big ass a front seed. No, see cause you're like

882
00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,720
Speaker 1: five to one. Bit but he not, he wasn't.

883
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 2: I you fucking now you asked it too many questions.

884
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: You ain't sleep no, But I'll say this. I am big,

885
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 1: I'm old, I'm lazy, I'm not flexible. I'm more flexible,

886
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,200
Speaker 1: but I'm not trying to have sex nowhere but the bed,

887
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: the bed, the bed, That's it. That's it. I'm not

888
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: doing that ship bro in the bed. If you want

889
00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:24,759
Speaker 1: a fucking porn star something, go get that ship because

890
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: it ain't mean nigga. You gonna get your nut, all right,

891
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 1: But I feel gucci.

892
00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 2: But when I had sex in the car, I was

893
00:41:31,040 --> 00:41:33,400
Speaker 2: pleasantly surprised because I had to have sex in a

894
00:41:33,440 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 2: car since I was probably like, I don't know, like.

895
00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: Twenty one, twenty two, something like that stop fucking line

896
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,799
Speaker 1: you had sex hanging out of the car about two

897
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 1: years ago. That was hanging out the car, not in

898
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:47,600
Speaker 1: the car beach. We was outside. If you want to

899
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 1: be taken, we was outside waiting. If you're really trying

900
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: to be technical, they wouldn't. This time. The doors was

901
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:01,880
Speaker 1: closed and I was in that beg living that life,

902
00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:06,759
Speaker 1: sister girl. I couldn't up, I really couldning ug. But yeah,

903
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: it was what.

904
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 2: It was good, And I was pleasantly surprised because I

905
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 2: just had it in my mind that like car Saks

906
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 2: was trash, you know, so maybe you need to have

907
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 2: a better shower sex experience. Mean, I mean, don't get

908
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:21,879
Speaker 2: me wrong, I'm definitely not about to start having car

909
00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:22,919
Speaker 2: six all the time.

910
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 3: It was just better than what I thought it would be.

911
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: I'll say this, if we're in a shower, we can

912
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,680
Speaker 1: do a few little pumps and let's get out. Okay,

913
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: but we're not about to have the whole session in there,

914
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,479
Speaker 1: because if you pumping me, most likely i'm bent over.

915
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,520
Speaker 1: You don't have to be.

916
00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 2: That's the only way I imagine having sex in the

917
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 2: shower unless they.

918
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 1: Have like the light. But my back hurt going back.

919
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 1: I'm old, I'm lazy, and I'm tired. Take me to

920
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,520
Speaker 1: the bed. What if he got a bed? No, I'm

921
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:50,440
Speaker 1: not doing none of that.

922
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,520
Speaker 2: Ship bro Okay, I'm trying to fuck you in the shower.

923
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: I'm just asking for the people. I'm just saying, just like,

924
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 1: come on, man, it's gonna be real quick. I ain't

925
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: gonna go there load. Come on, baby, just a little nib.

926
00:43:08,000 --> 00:43:14,359
Speaker 1: It's not a little nipple. You has flag. I haven't flashbacks.

927
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 1: That's why I got mad. Bitch, fuck you had that, nigga,

928
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: I don't.

929
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:22,479
Speaker 3: I don't be liking shower six.

930
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,239
Speaker 1: So shower sex is a no for me? Is it

931
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: a no for you? Yeah, it's a no for me

932
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: to bitch. Okay, let's move on.

933
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:29,680
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

934
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:32,879
Speaker 1: So now we're gonna get into dubob.

935
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 3: Hey, you want to go first?

936
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: I feel like you said you had a few I do.

937
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 2: So my first vibe escaped by Bell.

938
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: Okay, little Bell. If y'all know who Bea is, Bea

939
00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 1: is the girl that had that verse. What was his name?

940
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,719
Speaker 1: What she was? Right? So Bell was the girl's verse.

941
00:43:54,719 --> 00:43:56,439
Speaker 1: She kind of sounds like Rihanna to me when she run.

942
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:57,120
Speaker 1: Yes she does.

943
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,320
Speaker 2: She's a She's an artist that lives. I think she

944
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: lives in La but yeah, I like her music. She

945
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:06,120
Speaker 2: a pretty girl, So yeah, shout out to be a

946
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: shout out to be And then Meek Mill came out

947
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:13,879
Speaker 2: with a little He came out with a little mixtape

948
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 2: with four.

949
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: Songs on it.

950
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 3: Oh okay, that's what everybody quarantine peg.

951
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,920
Speaker 2: So he has four songs on it, and I really

952
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 2: liked the song with him and forty two Doug Is

953
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 2: called GTA.

954
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:27,360
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, shout out to me, shout out to meet mine.

955
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 1: My bop of the week. I hope I didn't do

956
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: this one already. I don't think I did. It's a

957
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: song called all About You by Leon Bridges and Lucky Day,

958
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: so I'm a huge Lucky Day fan. It was so random,

959
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: Like we went to Joe Budden's pool party. I want

960
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 1: to say, like a year or two ago. I can't

961
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: remember when it was, but like, Joe is so funny,

962
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 1: like he's hilarious and ago he had fucking Lucky Day

963
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: perform at his pool party. Like mind you you know,

964
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: pool party is supposed to be turning Lucky Days in

965
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: the background singing his ass like, so it was. That

966
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: was when I was first introducing him. So I love

967
00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 1: Lucky Day. He always has fire projects. But yeah, he

968
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: has a song with Leon Bridges. It's called all About You.

969
00:45:07,640 --> 00:45:09,879
Speaker 1: So if you're on your R and B tip, that's

970
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 1: a good song that you definitely need to get into. Okay,

971
00:45:13,560 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: how do you feel about the Grammy nods?

972
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,200
Speaker 2: A little bab you should have been nominated for Rap

973
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 2: Album of the Year, Rap Album of the Year, and

974
00:45:21,440 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: Artists of the Year.

975
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, absolutely.

976
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: Like I feel like they definitely snubbed him.

977
00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 1: With some of the Walker definitely got snubbed as well

978
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 1: an R and B Album of the Year. Ohkay, you

979
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,360
Speaker 1: got my bitch fun You're.

980
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:39,080
Speaker 2: Right now, You're right? No, but wait no, what what

981
00:45:39,200 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 2: album did she come out with this year?

982
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: Walker? Yeah, that was twenty nineteen.

983
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 3: It was so that was the Grammys.

984
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: That was no not if you you have to turn

985
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: your music in by a certain point. So that's her

986
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,120
Speaker 1: album came out like I think it came out like

987
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: September October. It was so it was too late so

988
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: she could probably this Grammy, know what I'm saying. So

989
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: yuh so I think she could submit it for this

990
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 1: year either way though she was. Yeah. I mean, that

991
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:08,800
Speaker 1: was definitely a very very very good album. Tyler was snubs.

992
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: That was a very good, very good album. Wow, just

993
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: sleep on the girls. But Chloe and Holly got nominated,

994
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:19,840
Speaker 1: y'all know, shout out to them. Who else, may y'all know,

995
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:24,600
Speaker 1: I'm a hobby man got nominated, then got nominated. It

996
00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 1: was somebody else we was talking about earlier, I think too,

997
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: but I can't remember who it was.

998
00:46:29,520 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. The only person that I'm

999
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:33,320
Speaker 2: just kind of a little bit upset about is like

1000
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 2: a little baby. You know, his fans, y'all know, I

1001
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 2: love a little baby. I call his fans babonators. Are

1002
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 2: you a baby?

1003
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:41,319
Speaker 1: Do you called him there? Or is that what they

1004
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 1: really called? I called him? But I think I'm not.

1005
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,120
Speaker 1: I can't even say I can't.

1006
00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 2: Even say it's a baby.

1007
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,279
Speaker 1: Justin Bieber had believers. Why can't little baby have baby Nator?

1008
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: He can. I'm just not about to be calling you know,

1009
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm you love a little baby. I do love little baby,

1010
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 1: but bit she I'm not about to be going.

1011
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 2: Around tell the people, yeah, I'm a babonator, just like

1012
00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 2: you be sounding craziest look talking about I'm a bar

1013
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:11,720
Speaker 2: But Barns are real.

1014
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,560
Speaker 1: I'm sure the babonators are too. I just ain't one

1015
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: you are you need anyway?

1016
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 2: But yeah, I was very upset about that. Are you

1017
00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 2: up like so other than Towna Taylor and Summer Walker?

1018
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 2: Are you upset about anybody else not being nominated that

1019
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 2: you feel like you should have been?

1020
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, am I upset? No, because I really don't care

1021
00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: like that. I don't care about anything. But I'm damn

1022
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: shame as far as R and B. Like I said,

1023
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,400
Speaker 1: I feel like Kilanie maybe got snub snubbed as well

1024
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: because her album was really good. I'm happy giving On

1025
00:47:46,200 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 1: is nominated. That's what I'm looking.

1026
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 3: For in the category.

1027
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: But honestly, I don't know all the artists I listened to.

1028
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,960
Speaker 1: I know they wasn't gonna get nominated anyway, So well,

1029
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: why do you say that? Because I just know they're

1030
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: the underdog. I mean cause I listened to people like that.

1031
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's not mainstream. My Grammys

1032
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: is made make it always you know. Yeah, I mean

1033
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:09,600
Speaker 1: it was not mainstream but three years, but he's mainstream now. Yeah,

1034
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:11,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's just it is

1035
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,959
Speaker 1: what it is. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. All is.

1036
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 2: Here, and talk to y'all really quick about this all

1037
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Speaker 2: natural supplement that LyX and I have been using lately.

1038
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1039
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1040
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1041
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to tell y'all this shit works. Okay, Your

1042
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:40,000
Speaker 2: men and your girl not gonna be able to get

1043
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,440
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1044
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,759
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1045
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:48,520
Speaker 2: say I never gave y'all nothing. Go ahead and type

1046
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 2: in poor minds when you check out and get you

1047
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 2: a little discount.

1048
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:56,760
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, so now we're gonna get into the questions

1049
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: a portion of the show. Make sure you email us

1050
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 1: at ask poor at gmail dot com if you want

1051
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 1: your question answered on this show. We're trying to catch

1052
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,600
Speaker 1: up as much as we can. We're getting to all

1053
00:49:06,640 --> 00:49:08,440
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1054
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1056
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Speaker 1: Popper Patreon member, then you get to skip the line

1057
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Speaker 1: and get your question answered first. Okay, so let's get

1058
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: into this letter. It says, hey, y'all, I love you too.

1059
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: Y'all so beautiful and keep me laughing, working my abs out,

1060
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,560
Speaker 1: and making me skinny. I appreciate y'all. I need friends

1061
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 1: like you in real life. Okay. I need you to

1062
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: please give me tough love. I know I did ain't

1063
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 1: shit type of activities. I fell for this married man.

1064
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:47,160
Speaker 1: I ain't know he was married at first, but when

1065
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: I found out I ain't here, he don't wear a ring,

1066
00:49:53,760 --> 00:50:03,240
Speaker 1: I came off. Okay, I came out of a terrible

1067
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 1: relationship and he gave me hell of attention. Anyways, I'm

1068
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: done with him, but I need someone to tell me, bitch,

1069
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 1: stop wasting your time. You ain't getting shit, Not that

1070
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to. He's like my homie, you're wasting your time.

1071
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 1: We fuck when I'm in town or he's here. He

1072
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:21,359
Speaker 1: don't do anything extra for me. Well, now you lost me, Sis,

1073
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:25,840
Speaker 1: I was with you to that part. He got money.

1074
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: He spoils his wife with his sheet and asks girl,

1075
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: what they got to do with you? Of course you

1076
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:33,719
Speaker 1: don't spoil his wife. I can't believe this. He just

1077
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 1: buys us food, pays for my gas, and pays for

1078
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 1: shit whenever we're together, but nothing for real. I do

1079
00:50:39,920 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: love him, Drell stop. Oh my god, I do love him,

1080
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: but I'm trying to be logical about this and drop

1081
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: it now. It's been two years. I just need someone

1082
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 1: who's opinion I value to tell me as it is.

1083
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: Thanks love, y'all. I'll leave my ig so you can

1084
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: decide if I'm here or not. Stop. I'm sorry.

1085
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: I fell asleep because, bitch, that was some bullshet. She

1086
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 2: said she wanted tough love, and you're telling me to stop, bitch. Now,

1087
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,840
Speaker 2: I fell asleep on that bullshe because what the fuck,

1088
00:51:16,880 --> 00:51:17,600
Speaker 2: What the fuck?

1089
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,320
Speaker 1: What you mean he's married?

1090
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 2: You fucking out him. He ain't giving you no money.

1091
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:24,919
Speaker 2: And if you killed, I'm about to be even more mad.

1092
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 2: I'm about to be even more piecetos. Pull it up,

1093
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 2: Pull it up.

1094
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:34,760
Speaker 1: She is cute girl. I thought, Yo, you are actually

1095
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,880
Speaker 1: really fucking beautiful too. That girl you're looking having a

1096
00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 1: live studio audience. I about to leave you. Oh yeah,

1097
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: you're a beautiful girl. I feel like you are a

1098
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 1: beautiful girl. You gotta know your work, you know what

1099
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 1: I mean?

1100
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 2: Like niggas, Oh, I just get I feel like I

1101
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,400
Speaker 2: be sounded like a type recorder saying this because I

1102
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 2: say it's so much. But Nigga's gone always do the

1103
00:51:58,960 --> 00:52:01,840
Speaker 2: bare minimum. Niggas loves to do the bear man.

1104
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not promoting fucking married men. That is

1105
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: not what I'm saying. But if you're gonna fuck a

1106
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:13,799
Speaker 1: married man, says you need to be having bills paid first,

1107
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:14,840
Speaker 1: you need to.

1108
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 2: You but but I will, but but but again, lex

1109
00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 2: is right, you know what I mean, because of course

1110
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 2: we don't be trying to judge all of whatever. You

1111
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:25,799
Speaker 2: gotta live your life how you see feet. So it's

1112
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 2: like if you but if you so, if you are

1113
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:30,840
Speaker 2: gonna be fucking married man, she is right, bitch, at

1114
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:33,160
Speaker 2: least get some money. You just letting this nigga pump

1115
00:52:33,239 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 2: and dump you. That's his wife, and you said he

1116
00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:41,120
Speaker 2: got money and ship too, Like you have to be

1117
00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 2: paying me hush money.

1118
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:51,279
Speaker 1: Hush money. She's still not gonna shut up tell but

1119
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 1: I okay, So, yeah, you gotta leave this situation alone.

1120
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: He's not gonna leave his wife. Nothing is gonna come

1121
00:52:58,719 --> 00:53:00,560
Speaker 1: from it. I was gonna say, like I said, I

1122
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 1: was gonna be like, Okay, at least you're getting your things,

1123
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 1: but you're not even getting shit from it? Are you

1124
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 1: getting this some wet ass move on? That's crazy. I

1125
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,279
Speaker 1: just danging you just so pretty girl?

1126
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 2: This? Yeah, unfortunately, that's crazy. That's what's unfortunate about it.

1127
00:53:14,520 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 2: All right, go ahead, So yeah, next question, getting a BDB.

1128
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:23,839
Speaker 2: Being a Bbwhydrea and Lex, I love listening to y'all.

1129
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 2: I'm a BBW and I want a BDB. I often

1130
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 2: hear y'all giving advice on getting a BDB, but never

1131
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 2: in the press. Oh, I think we read this before.

1132
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 2: I think this was Oh she had patre Oh we

1133
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:41,319
Speaker 2: did Okay, sorry, y'all, never mind, next question. He told

1134
00:53:41,360 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 2: me to stop giving him head. Hey, y'all, my name

1135
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: is Cayla. I'm twenty one years old and I'm a

1136
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 2: huge fan of the show. I'm gonna try to keep

1137
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,120
Speaker 2: this short. So I'm at this dude crib. We hook

1138
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 2: up every now and then, maybe twice, someone casual type

1139
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 2: shit wear in his living room doing the ibvis and

1140
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 2: his phone rings. It was his cousins that he hadn't

1141
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 2: heard from in a while or something like that. So

1142
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 2: we stop and he answers the phone. He's talking to

1143
00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 2: his cousin and I just had the archs to suck

1144
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 2: his deck while he was on the phone. I always

1145
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 2: found that sexy and I wanted to try it on him.

1146
00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:13,760
Speaker 2: He actually got a call from his mom a previous

1147
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 2: time during our sessions, but I thought it would be

1148
00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:17,800
Speaker 2: kind of weird to suck his deck while he was

1149
00:54:17,880 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 2: on the phone with his mom. Anyways, I go to

1150
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,839
Speaker 2: suck his deck, but he pulls away. I try one

1151
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 2: more time. The nigga literally pushed me away and told

1152
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 2: me to stop. I really felt some type of way,

1153
00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:30,560
Speaker 2: like what God doesn't want their dick suck.

1154
00:54:30,400 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: While they're on the phone.

1155
00:54:31,800 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 2: My whole mood was killed, and I literally, while he

1156
00:54:34,840 --> 00:54:37,360
Speaker 2: was still on the phone, got dressed and grabbed my keys.

1157
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 2: We got into an argument, him saying, how you gonna

1158
00:54:40,600 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 2: get mad that I don't want you giving me head

1159
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 2: while I'm on the phone.

1160
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 1: What the fuck?

1161
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:48,960
Speaker 2: I left anyway and kind of stopped talking to him

1162
00:54:48,960 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 2: and looking back on it, do you guys think I overreacted?

1163
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:55,760
Speaker 1: And should I respect these wishies? I don't know. For him, Okay,

1164
00:54:56,080 --> 00:55:00,160
Speaker 1: So it's funny because I do that too, sometimes be

1165
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,759
Speaker 1: doing it too. But if a god tells you stop,

1166
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with you. It depends, Like

1167
00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: if he's on the phone and it's not an important

1168
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:09,279
Speaker 1: phone call, he'll probably let you do it. Maybe the

1169
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:11,480
Speaker 1: phone call was something important that he wanted to focus

1170
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,840
Speaker 1: on the phone call. I definitely think you overreacted, because,

1171
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:17,400
Speaker 1: like I've been with Rapper Bay before and I was

1172
00:55:17,440 --> 00:55:18,400
Speaker 1: like trying to say it was like.

1173
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,919
Speaker 2: Get your That's definitely happened to me before. So because

1174
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:25,239
Speaker 2: I think sometimes niggas be having like serious conversations, you

1175
00:55:25,320 --> 00:55:28,080
Speaker 2: know what I mean, And if you get your dicksuk

1176
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:32,080
Speaker 2: you start feeling good, you probably can't he can't fight

1177
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,400
Speaker 2: the urs, you know what I mean to my own issuit.

1178
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 2: So that's probably why he wanted you to stop. I

1179
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:39,080
Speaker 2: don't think that you should have stopped talking to him

1180
00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:39,799
Speaker 2: because of it.

1181
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:42,239
Speaker 1: Though, you know what I mean. It has nothing to

1182
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: do with you, girl. He was probably just trying to

1183
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:47,560
Speaker 1: have a serious Grandma probably just died and they talking

1184
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:51,200
Speaker 1: about old Shirley. I'm not saying something like that could

1185
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:52,920
Speaker 1: have happened. They could be like, Shirley died here on

1186
00:55:52,960 --> 00:55:59,120
Speaker 1: the phone, exam and they're like, Shirley, it's dead. Why

1187
00:55:59,160 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: are you grunting?

1188
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, I definitely think that you should probably you know,

1189
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,759
Speaker 2: talk to him, because I don't think that's the reason

1190
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:06,880
Speaker 2: we stop talking to Yeah.

1191
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: That's definitely not a reason I'm talking nobody. Like I said,

1192
00:56:09,719 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: that's been done to me plenty of times, but I

1193
00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: didn't take it to heart. Nigga was just on the

1194
00:56:12,920 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 1: phone trying to get something done. Right. Okay, So this

1195
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:19,000
Speaker 1: one says, is my best friend really my best friend?

1196
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:22,239
Speaker 1: Or is it just the title? Hey, ladies, let's get

1197
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 1: straight to the point. I'd like to stay anonymous. I'm

1198
00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 1: twenty one years old and I have this friend who

1199
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,600
Speaker 1: I've been friends with for over six years. Lately, I've

1200
00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,240
Speaker 1: been feeling like she tries to throw the BFF title

1201
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: down my throat because although I am an amazing friend

1202
00:56:35,040 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 1: to her, she is not one to me. Energy is

1203
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 1: never reciprocated. Whenever she needs me, I'm there for her

1204
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: with no hesitation. I'm there when she's going through hard

1205
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 1: times and need a shoulder to lean on and throughout

1206
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,080
Speaker 1: all of her accomplishments. But whenever I need her for

1207
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: advice and emotional support or want to share good news

1208
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:55,800
Speaker 1: with her, she becomes very dismissive and nonchalant. It bothers

1209
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 1: me so much because I'm the type that takes my

1210
00:56:58,320 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 1: friendships very seriousnsidering that I'm a lot younger than my

1211
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:05,720
Speaker 1: siblings and I've always wished I had a sister my age.

1212
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,480
Speaker 1: I definitely addressed how I felt to her a few times,

1213
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,960
Speaker 1: and each time she disregarded everything I said to talk

1214
00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:14,800
Speaker 1: about herself, and every time I try to distance myself,

1215
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 1: she comes to me on some I miss my BFF. Shit,

1216
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 1: what would you guys do in a situation like this?

1217
00:57:20,880 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 1: Should I cut her off? I appreciate you ladies so much.

1218
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:26,160
Speaker 1: Keep grinding queens and I attached the photo of me,

1219
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: so this is they do be cute. Look up, Okay,

1220
00:57:32,960 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: we see you. I feel Yeah, y'all know the dreams.

1221
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: I feel like this because I'm y'all know me, I'm

1222
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 1: the communicator. So the fact that you've tried to communicate

1223
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,840
Speaker 1: with her and she still kind of brushed things out

1224
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,320
Speaker 1: the rug. One thing about me. I'm gonna try to

1225
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 1: tell you something, but I'm gonna try to tell you

1226
00:57:53,000 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 1: something you get really one time. Yeah, once I told

1227
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,440
Speaker 1: you how I feel about something and you continuously do

1228
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 1: that shit. That lets me know you you don't give

1229
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:02,120
Speaker 1: a fuck about what I got going on and what

1230
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: I have to say. So you already told her how

1231
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: you felt and she didn't take in consideration that she

1232
00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:10,400
Speaker 1: doesn't want to change. Let's move on. Yeah, I agree

1233
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: with that.

1234
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 2: I wouldn't just and I've never just cut one of

1235
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 2: my friends off without having a conversation to them prior

1236
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 2: about the things that bothered me.

1237
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: You know what I mean.

1238
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,560
Speaker 2: But yes, the person is still doing the same. She

1239
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 2: she don't give a fuck, She don't value y'all friendship.

1240
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 2: She just don't want you to stop fucking with her,

1241
00:58:25,960 --> 00:58:27,880
Speaker 2: and that's why she be trying to throw around the

1242
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 2: BFF titling. She because people like to people be knowing

1243
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 2: that they tra Yeah, people be knowing that they trash

1244
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 2: people and then be trying to make you feel bad

1245
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 2: because you donepeethy and you move in different.

1246
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:40,360
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So fuck that whole cut

1247
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 1: her ass off, wouldn't why so harsh because that's what

1248
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:45,040
Speaker 1: she is.

1249
00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:48,480
Speaker 2: She fucks that hole because she's an unsupported friend. She said, Well,

1250
00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 2: she be telling her stuff and she need to advice

1251
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:52,760
Speaker 2: the beach be all on Shalani.

1252
00:58:52,880 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: She yea, I think what a lot of people need

1253
00:58:56,280 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: to realize that sometimes people grow apart and that's okay.

1254
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:02,960
Speaker 1: Like I feel like a lot of my friends that

1255
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 1: I was friends with at like twenty two to twenty three,

1256
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 1: we're not friends friends anymore, but we're still cool. But

1257
00:59:08,080 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: sometimes people just outgrow each other. Y'all may be just

1258
00:59:10,360 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: interested in different things, and y'all are in different chapters

1259
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: in your life. So it's okay to move on from

1260
00:59:15,240 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: a friendship.

1261
00:59:15,920 --> 00:59:18,480
Speaker 2: Life's too short to be friends with. How they really

1262
00:59:18,520 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: don't like you lucky? Yeah, And I feel like to me,

1263
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 2: did kind of sound like that too, because why would

1264
00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:25,600
Speaker 2: you not be be and supportive of your friend.

1265
00:59:25,760 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's crazy.

1266
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:32,400
Speaker 2: Next question, flood out Edtiquette's ooh Heydrea and Lex.

1267
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,800
Speaker 1: I'm a listener from London. So last year I went

1268
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 1: to a car. Is it a car in Ghana? I

1269
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 1: don't know for Christmas?

1270
00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 2: It's not like Lego, so I know Lex will know

1271
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 2: when I say it's no. She said it's a lot

1272
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 2: like Lego, so I know Lex will know when I

1273
00:59:52,280 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 2: say it was liddy. The place was full of bdb's

1274
00:59:55,040 --> 00:59:57,360
Speaker 2: low key. Before that trip, I had never had a

1275
00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:59,760
Speaker 2: guy buy me anything more than a Michael Korr's watch.

1276
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 2: I was on some real independent type shit. It never

1277
01:00:02,480 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: allowed a man to buy me anything. I had random

1278
01:00:05,720 --> 01:00:08,840
Speaker 2: niggas begging to pay for my food and restaurants. Now

1279
01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 2: I got a door saddle and a little Gucci purse

1280
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 2: for free, and I didn't have to give up the

1281
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,640
Speaker 2: wop either. Anyways, in Ghana, I met a guy from

1282
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 2: New York and we got to talking. I think he's

1283
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,440
Speaker 2: a I think he's what you guys would call a scammer.

1284
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:24,680
Speaker 2: A few months back, I saw in his ig story

1285
01:00:24,720 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 2: that he's ready to go back to Ghana, so I

1286
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 2: messaged him to let him know I would be going

1287
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 2: this to December also, and straight away he said he

1288
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:33,360
Speaker 2: would pay for my tiki. I led him buy the ticket,

1289
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 2: and come to find out, he spent five hundred pounds

1290
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: on the tiki from a low budget airline.

1291
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,640
Speaker 1: The flight was the flight I was ready to buy was.

1292
01:00:41,640 --> 01:00:44,280
Speaker 2: My own money was going to be eight hundred pounds minimum,

1293
01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,320
Speaker 2: and my being ungrateful, I didn't ask him to pay

1294
01:00:47,360 --> 01:00:50,320
Speaker 2: for the flight. He offered, I'm just disappointed it was

1295
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,160
Speaker 2: with the low budget airline. But my friend said because

1296
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,120
Speaker 2: he's American, he wouldn't know what the best airlines would be,

1297
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 2: So she's suggesting that I upgrade to business class. But

1298
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 2: I'm still mad that I even had to do that.

1299
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,280
Speaker 2: So now I'm ready to go to Ghana in December.

1300
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 2: I guess so because he paid for my ticket, Am

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01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,080
Speaker 2: I wrong for wanting to find more bdb's once I

1302
01:01:09,160 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 2: get to Ghana? He already knows I'm gonna stay with

1303
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 2: my girls regardless, or do I have to stay loyal

1304
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 2: to him because I didn't ask for him to pay

1305
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:16,680
Speaker 2: for my ticket at all?

1306
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: He offered, thank you for answering my question. This is me.

1307
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:22,920
Speaker 1: I know you like to see what the listeners look like. Damn,

1308
01:01:23,400 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 1: the girls is bad today. I didn't see I know.

1309
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll say I feel like, first of all, you

1310
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 2: don't got to be loyal to that niggas because he

1311
01:01:39,760 --> 01:01:43,640
Speaker 2: books your flight. But I will say this, I think

1312
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:47,000
Speaker 2: you should link with him. You don't think you should

1313
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 2: just ghost the nigga because he booked a flight that's

1314
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 2: cheaper than what she was gonna book for youasetu if

1315
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 2: I do think that that's fucked up. But I feel

1316
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 2: like as far as like when you say loyalty, I

1317
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:57,640
Speaker 2: don't think you have to spend all of your time.

1318
01:01:57,880 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 1: You don't have to be up under him the whole

1319
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:01,960
Speaker 1: entire trip because I know the bdb's gonna be out there, Sisney,

1320
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:03,800
Speaker 1: I want to miss out on a bigger bag because

1321
01:02:04,240 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 1: but honestly, I feel like a lot of times I

1322
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:10,320
Speaker 1: will say that him being American, he probably didn't know

1323
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:12,240
Speaker 1: it was a low budget airline. He probably just picked

1324
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:14,520
Speaker 1: the lowest ticket price that he saw, you know what

1325
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Because it's like you don't really know what

1326
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 1: airlines are good or bad or another. Because so I

1327
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,560
Speaker 1: would say he probably just got the cheapest flight and

1328
01:02:21,600 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: didn't know it wasn't really paying attention, but I.

1329
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,920
Speaker 3: Would tell him that I upgraded my flight he ask

1330
01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 3: him for the money.

1331
01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what That's what I did on my trip

1332
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:31,840
Speaker 1: to Miami because I told you that nigga had me

1333
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,440
Speaker 1: fucked up. Yea Miami trip I talked about h'm on Patreon.

1334
01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 1: But but also my friend told me that as well.

1335
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:38,840
Speaker 1: She was like, bitch, you gotta let these niggas know.

1336
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:41,320
Speaker 1: And I dare started letting these niggas know, like I

1337
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 1: don't sit at the back of the plane when I

1338
01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 1: booked myself, Like so either you about to have me

1339
01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: on the back of the plane on Spirit when you

1340
01:02:47,280 --> 01:02:50,240
Speaker 1: find me something. No, So it's okay with letting a

1341
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: man know what you want, because guess what, if you

1342
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,160
Speaker 1: want to fuck with you enough, he gonna do it.

1343
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:56,200
Speaker 1: And if he know another nigga will I agree.

1344
01:02:56,280 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 2: I just feel like you just need to have a

1345
01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 2: conversation with him and kind of just let him know, like, hey,

1346
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:03,120
Speaker 2: you know, I upgraded my flight, my seat on my

1347
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 2: flight or whatever, and it was this amount of money.

1348
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:05,720
Speaker 1: Can you give me the money?

1349
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 2: Big? And I'm sure he shouldn't have a problem with

1350
01:03:08,000 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 2: it if he a real bd B be a real bdbda.

1351
01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:11,520
Speaker 1: But that's how you be finding out.

1352
01:03:11,520 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 2: That's how you weed out the real from the fate,

1353
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,479
Speaker 2: the real from the gotta say, you gotta say sheet

1354
01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 2: because if a nigga is not a real bad be,

1355
01:03:18,200 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 2: he gonna be you know, he's gonna be like, damn,

1356
01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:23,160
Speaker 2: what the fuck, He's gonna pull out them.

1357
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:30,440
Speaker 1: Okay, So thank y'all for the questions this week. That

1358
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:34,280
Speaker 1: was for right, Yes, that was a question. What are

1359
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: you gonna sing this week? I'm gonna sing something real quick,

1360
01:03:38,280 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: make it real quick. This is for you, This is

1361
01:03:40,920 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 1: for me. It is dedicated to me. Oh okay, huh, baby,

1362
01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:52,480
Speaker 1: I got your money. And don't you ever I said that, baby,

1363
01:03:52,560 --> 01:03:55,040
Speaker 1: I got your mone So tell us what that means.

1364
01:03:57,640 --> 01:04:01,400
Speaker 1: Tell people what I got your money means? No drama

1365
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: thought that the reason she was saying, it's been nice

1366
01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:08,600
Speaker 1: talking to you guys. We will see y'all next week.

1367
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: I was about to tell y'all.

1368
01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 3: Messy as b sh that was good.

1369
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:30,439
Speaker 1: Oh we got it here,