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Speaker 1: second Day. I can't tell you much about the guy
Speaker 1: that's on the phone that wants to do a second
Speaker 1: date up day today, but I can tell you this,
Speaker 1: he owns a bad leather jacket. Really, why do I
Speaker 1: say that? Because he met the girl that he wants
Speaker 1: to call today at a singles event, one of those
Speaker 1: singles mixers. And every time you go to one of those,
Speaker 1: just a bunch of dudes wearing bad leather jackets all
Speaker 1: the time. Every time I've seen one of those horrible
Speaker 1: leather jackets. Chuck, how you doing? I'm good, guys, How
Speaker 1: are you good? Are you owner of a bad leather jacket? No?
Speaker 1: I do not. I do not own a love jackets.
Speaker 1: But I did notice a bunch of really bad Yeah. See,
Speaker 1: can look at any one of those things. It's just
Speaker 1: guys with greasy hair and bad leather jackets. So tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about the girl that you met
Speaker 1: at this singles mixer. What's her name. Her name's Rebecca. Rebecca,
Speaker 1: all right. And when I first started talking to her,
Speaker 1: like the first time I met her at this thing,
Speaker 1: I was kind of nervous, and I really don't think
Speaker 1: that I came across very like charismatic or confident. You know.
Speaker 1: I really didn't really have much to say, so the
Speaker 1: first meeting didn't really go too well. Then I got
Speaker 1: to talk to a few more girls, and I warmed
Speaker 1: up a little bit, you could say, and I gave
Speaker 1: a little more confidence. And then the second time I
Speaker 1: went to talk to Rebecca, it went a lot better,
Speaker 1: a lot smoothly. I'm always surprised that people actually meet
Speaker 1: somebody that they want to date at these events, because
Speaker 1: I've hosted a lot of them, and I haven't actually
Speaker 1: seen success stories Like what about her stood out among
Speaker 1: the group? Well, this was my first time going to
Speaker 1: one of these events, and I actually brought a friend
Speaker 1: in lack of I didn't want to go by myself,
Speaker 1: So I really don't have much experience with these things.
Speaker 1: But which good out about Rebecca was just because she's
Speaker 1: very classy, you know, she was well dressed, she was
Speaker 1: very pretty. She came across like really intelligent, you know,
Speaker 1: like more so than me probably. So what did you
Speaker 1: guys do when you actually went out? Well, I wanted
Speaker 1: to take her somewhere kind of classy, you know, because
Speaker 1: I thinkured she was a smart classy check. So I
Speaker 1: actually heard about this ARTI hibbit. I think that's a
Speaker 1: pretty classy saying that there, you know, art exhibbit, kind
Speaker 1: of an original first day sort of thing. And you
Speaker 1: impress her a little bit by going like, hey, I'm cultured,
Speaker 1: I know about all the art in town. Baby. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So we go to the to the art exhibit, you know,
Speaker 1: and you know, luckily they had a few drinks. They
Speaker 1: had some like wine there, and we had a few
Speaker 1: a few drinks while we looked at some art and
Speaker 1: we you know, talked about the sculptures in the painting.
Speaker 1: Is that we saw who was more interested in the
Speaker 1: actual art like you were her? Well, I don't know,
Speaker 1: like I pretended that I was interested. I don't really
Speaker 1: know anything about art. And certainly after a couple of
Speaker 1: glasses of wine and I decided to sort of talk
Speaker 1: like I actually don't know. There was something sitting in
Speaker 1: front of like a painting breaking it down, and you
Speaker 1: have no idea what you're talking about. Yeah, Like I
Speaker 1: would take a look at like one of the paintings
Speaker 1: and I would be like, oh, I really liked this
Speaker 1: avant garde style and the use of pistels, And were
Speaker 1: you just sort of spouting any art word you've ever
Speaker 1: heard pretty much chotts idea who the artist was? You know,
Speaker 1: what sanctuary was? May could have been painted yesterday. Though.
Speaker 1: Do you think she saw through it as like maybe
Speaker 1: you're trying a little too hard, or you were a
Speaker 1: fraud or anything. That was my initial thought as to
Speaker 1: why she's not returning my calls a task because we
Speaker 1: had a pretty good time, you know, I would seems
Speaker 1: so anyway, we shared a kiss at the end, Oh
Speaker 1: you did. Yeah, we had a kiss and that was
Speaker 1: it though, I mean there was no hot action as
Speaker 1: you will. Yeah, but things went well. And asked her
Speaker 1: if I could give her a call, and she was like, yeah, sure, okay,
Speaker 1: So it must not have gone too bad though, if
Speaker 1: she's willing to kiss you at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: and my experience, if a date doesn't go well, most
Speaker 1: girls are not open to a kiss. It's so weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree, I don't know what went wrong. You know.
Speaker 1: I do think though, I think it would have been
Speaker 1: more attractive if you would have just said, hey, listen,
Speaker 1: I think you're classy. I don't know a whole lot
Speaker 1: about art. Let's experience this together. Like, why weren't you
Speaker 1: just honest about it? Yeah, that would have been a
Speaker 1: great idea, Brooke, I hadn't thought of it. Unfortunately, I'm
Speaker 1: not that bright. I don't know. I just I feel
Speaker 1: like maybe I didn't come across very genuine on the day,
Speaker 1: you know, and maybe she saw through that. And I
Speaker 1: just want the opportunity to, you know, maybe take her
Speaker 1: at again and perhaps show her like the real me.
Speaker 1: You know, what is the real you? The real me
Speaker 1: is a guy who likes uh to drink and play
Speaker 1: pool and walking forth and watch stupid movies. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: I will say, in a couple of minutes we've talked,
Speaker 1: I think you're really likable. You are, well, thanks, I appreciate.
Speaker 1: I agree. I may not I may not be the
Speaker 1: sharpest bold in the drawer, but I do you know,
Speaker 1: I got lots of friends. All right, Well, we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back, call her and see if that's
Speaker 1: the reason. In your second date update, Okay, okay, great,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on looking cubile. In the morning,
Speaker 1: Chuck is on the phone with us and he wants
Speaker 1: to do a second date update to a girl named Rebecca.
Speaker 1: They met at a singles mixer ended up going out
Speaker 1: to an art exhibit, and Chuck thinks that he's screwed
Speaker 1: up because at the art exhibit he tried to act
Speaker 1: like he was refined and knew all about arts didn't
Speaker 1: know anything about it, so he thinks that she was
Speaker 1: able to spot that he was lying and isn't calling
Speaker 1: him back. Chuck, I really want you to be successful
Speaker 1: in the second date update. Yeah, that would be nice.
Speaker 1: I'm pulling for you on this one. I want to
Speaker 1: get you a second date with this girl really bad.
Speaker 1: Not necessarily because I want you to go out with her,
Speaker 1: but I don't want you have to go to any
Speaker 1: more singles mixers because I know they are pretty bad.
Speaker 1: You said, this is one of the first times you've
Speaker 1: been and you don't own a bad leather jacket. And
Speaker 1: we talked about how everybody at singles mixers has bad
Speaker 1: leather jackets. And I know if you keep going to these,
Speaker 1: you're going to acquire one of those. And I want
Speaker 1: to keep you from getting a bad leather jacket. Well,
Speaker 1: I appreciate that, no problem. I'm just trying to save
Speaker 1: you from that leather jacket. That's all I'm trying to
Speaker 1: do here. All right, man, are you about ready to
Speaker 1: give a call? Let's do it? Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Rebecca please? This is she? Hey Rebecca,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who is Jewbil from Brooke and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm calling you because one of our
Speaker 1: listeners recently send us an email about you, and I
Speaker 1: wanted to ask you some information about me an email
Speaker 1: about me? Yes, it's a segment that we do on
Speaker 1: our show. It's called the second Date Update. It's basically,
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: then don't call them back, they email us to see
Speaker 1: if we can get you on the phone and ask why. Okay, okay?
Speaker 1: Have you been out on a lot of dates recently?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say a lot, but I've definitely been dating.
Speaker 1: I'm single, So all right, Well, this guy's name is Chuck.
Speaker 1: You know Chuck? Is that a Yes? You know him?
Speaker 1: And you're not impressed by Chuck because that's what it
Speaker 1: sounded like to me, Or you don't know who Chuck is.
Speaker 1: I know who Chuck is. Okay, I'd appreciate it if
Speaker 1: you could just like just tell us maybe why you're
Speaker 1: not calling him back. I mean, he said, you guys
Speaker 1: met at a singles mixer and ended up going to
Speaker 1: an art exhibit. That's true, Okay. He said at the
Speaker 1: art exhibit, he was trying to act like he was
Speaker 1: smart and knew everything about art, when in fact, he
Speaker 1: really doesn't know much at all, And he thinks that
Speaker 1: you saw through that and that's why you're not calling
Speaker 1: him back. I thought he knew a lot about art, so, oh,
Speaker 1: you did really off. I thought he knew what he
Speaker 1: was talking about. I mean, I don't know too much
Speaker 1: about art either, so maybe that's that's awesome. Okay, So
Speaker 1: there's some common ground between you guys. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: we had a good time. He's very charming and a
Speaker 1: little rough frond the edges, but in a way that
Speaker 1: was nice and what I liked. So if the date
Speaker 1: went really well, then why did you sound so disgusted
Speaker 1: when I brought up his name? Well, he kind of
Speaker 1: crewd me out, I mean, and not for anything that
Speaker 1: happened on the date. The day went well. I came home,
Speaker 1: I felt good, you know, went to bed, and the
Speaker 1: next morning I got up and logged into my Facebook
Speaker 1: and I had a ton, like hundreds of notifications, and
Speaker 1: I was like, what the what's going why? And he'd
Speaker 1: gone through like every single profile photo that I've ever
Speaker 1: posted and liked them. So all were him liking my
Speaker 1: photos and they were photos I like swear to you
Speaker 1: from like the beginning of my Facebook, like lifetime, Like
Speaker 1: I mean when a Facebook starts, this must have been
Speaker 1: from like two thousand and six or seven. Like he
Speaker 1: even before that, like, oh man, anytime anybody's ever been
Speaker 1: on my thing? And I get a like from like
Speaker 1: five years ago. I oh that's creepy. No, no, it's
Speaker 1: totally creepy. And what's worse, he didn't didn't just stop
Speaker 1: at Facebook though, he went to my Instagram and like,
Speaker 1: let's a few comments too. I'm like, oh, posting like
Speaker 1: kind of been a way that was seemed aggressive almost.
Speaker 1: It was like thank god I didn't have a Twitter
Speaker 1: account or like what would he do from ten years ago?
Speaker 1: I mean, you're telling me that you didn't look up
Speaker 1: all of his old pictures and Instagram. Well that's good.
Speaker 1: I did look at photos, but I didn't like like him,
Speaker 1: and I did not go back to like the beginning
Speaker 1: of his face prof and be like, oh, you look
Speaker 1: adorable as a twenty four year old or whatever. You
Speaker 1: know how whenever Facebook started. But that's like a huge
Speaker 1: dredge flight in either I mean, whether or not he
Speaker 1: knows the etiquette. Thank you for sharing that with us.
Speaker 1: By the way, there is a difference between just looking
Speaker 1: at the photos. We know everybody social media stocks. We
Speaker 1: know that there's a difference between looking at it and
Speaker 1: a difference between liking those pictures every single one and
Speaker 1: old ones. I think that that is too fun. You're
Speaker 1: telling me that if somebody went on your Facebook, a
Speaker 1: guy that you dated, and started liking pictures from like
Speaker 1: five years ago. And how many pictures do you have
Speaker 1: in your Facebook, Rebecca, Oh my god, I mean like hundreds,
Speaker 1: like over a thousand for sure. Like he didn't like
Speaker 1: over a thousand photos, though he liked like six hundred
Speaker 1: of my normal photos, like photos taken photos I posted
Speaker 1: all of my photos. Wow, I think there was even
Speaker 1: a few events that he like wiped on the way
Speaker 1: that must have taken him a lot of time. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's even creepier. I mean that makes me want to
Speaker 1: not friend anyone ever. Like, you know what, this might
Speaker 1: creep you out too, because he's actually on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you. Let me
Speaker 1: get this straight. You don't like the fact that I
Speaker 1: liked your stuff? A bad way to say it on
Speaker 1: the internet if you didn't want people to look at
Speaker 1: it and like comment on it. On this, I just
Speaker 1: wanted to know well about you, you know, I really,
Speaker 1: I really liked you. I wanted a little background on you,
Speaker 1: you know. I mean it's like six hundred of my photos,
Speaker 1: like enough background, Like how much background did you need?
Speaker 1: Like did you need to go back to what I
Speaker 1: looked like in two thousand and six and like enjoy
Speaker 1: that moment of my life? Like I never assumed that
Speaker 1: someone was going to go back and like every photo
Speaker 1: and leave comments like I mean, Chuck, you found a
Speaker 1: photo of me when I was twenty four and blonde
Speaker 1: and posted some something like hey blonde bombshell. I mean,
Speaker 1: like you posted that on that, Like why would you
Speaker 1: do that? It's true, you were a blonde bombshell. I
Speaker 1: wasn't a line. Forgive me for thinking that you were
Speaker 1: attractive at age twenty four, but it was weird you
Speaker 1: posting on these photos from I mean on my Instagram too, Like,
Speaker 1: how long did it take you to do that? You
Speaker 1: sifted through six hundred photos at least? You? Are you
Speaker 1: up all night? Well? I don't really sleep very much,
Speaker 1: so I was just up online, you know, and just
Speaker 1: shifting through photos. Oh my god? Does that not creep
Speaker 1: anyone else? Am I alone? And then I kind of
Speaker 1: still think that he's likable and that you should give
Speaker 1: him a chance. I know that sounds crazy, and I
Speaker 1: know it's really creepy, but he really doesn't sound like
Speaker 1: he gets it, Like, Chuck, do you just not understand
Speaker 1: how social media works? Well? Apparently I don't. I mean,
Speaker 1: if you're not supposed to like things, I mean, why
Speaker 1: is there a like futton if you're not supposed to
Speaker 1: use it? You're supposed to that fair? I don't want
Speaker 1: to because you're supposed to use it sparingly, check like
Speaker 1: use the like button like a precision sniper one shot, right,
Speaker 1: you don't just go through with a sim automatic weapon
Speaker 1: just blow a bunch of likes across somebody's Facebook page,
Speaker 1: it's gonna creep them out. I thought it was a
Speaker 1: nice thing, you know. I mean, if somebody went through
Speaker 1: my photos and likes them that were comments on them,
Speaker 1: I lose these like really flattered. I mean, that's why
Speaker 1: they're up there so people can enjoy them. I was
Speaker 1: surprised that Rebecca didn't like any of my photos. I mean,
Speaker 1: I looked at your photos, but I didn't like go
Speaker 1: through it and like them all because, I mean, like,
Speaker 1: it's so creepy. I don't creepy creepy? Or is he
Speaker 1: just more honest than any of us, because at least
Speaker 1: he admits that he went through and stopped it instead
Speaker 1: of pretending like he didn't. Rebecca, I would love to
Speaker 1: ask if you'll go on a second date with Chuck.
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. I promise I won't like you,
Speaker 1: and then I'll go back and I'll stay up all
Speaker 1: night and I'll unlike all the photos if you want
Speaker 1: that makes you feel better. I mean, I did have
Speaker 1: a really good time. That totally creeps me out, But
Speaker 1: I maybe you are just more honest than the rest
Speaker 1: of us. Their Facebook stocking. Okay, so you'll go out
Speaker 1: with Chuck again? I think yes, I think congratulations, Chuck,
Speaker 1: you got your second date. Really, I want to point
Speaker 1: out you did get a date by a go going
Speaker 1: all right, whatever it is. You'll take a broken jubil
Speaker 1: in the morning when your legs don't work like they
Speaker 1: used to before