Speaker 1: What's up? What's time? It is? Let's service at me
Speaker 1: and Lage. I'm stup in Santiago. I'm glariow Ntanna. That's
Speaker 1: your what's up? Y'all? Listen, we're all at home. And
Speaker 1: he just said he just had the bubble guts. He's
Speaker 1: in salad. This is cool coffee, Wow, I said, don't. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's more like toss the coffee. They got this cool
Speaker 1: little coffee shop that's still open. Why I don't know,
Speaker 1: but is it really? Well, my juice bar is still open,
Speaker 1: and that's considered, and it said, I guess food places
Speaker 1: as long as you take it to go things like that,
Speaker 1: it can still stay open. Yeah, your juice bar is
Speaker 1: like legit essential though, all right, any anything with health
Speaker 1: products right now is essential. So yeah, so now we
Speaker 1: are appreciative of that. So, and we're appreciative of you.
Speaker 1: To Jenna, we start, you've been doing all kinds of
Speaker 1: fun things online since this coronavirus pandemic has started, you know,
Speaker 1: just making sure you stay in touch with people. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean as soon as this this ship hit, I knew, like, okay,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a while a lot of people are like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna be out for a few weeks. I was like, Nah,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a few months at least, and it's
Speaker 1: gonna affect everybody, you know, especially as artists. We have
Speaker 1: to find new ways to connect. You don't got events,
Speaker 1: we don't have festivals. We can't tour for at least
Speaker 1: a year. So I was like, all right, for me,
Speaker 1: let me be more active online than ever before. Everybody's
Speaker 1: doing that finding the ways. You have these characters that
Speaker 1: you have to Um, you then broke out the Afrow.
Speaker 1: You then broke out of Boston accent. Yeah. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: you have done a lot of some acting. Do you
Speaker 1: have anything coming up in the future that you may
Speaker 1: be doing a little bit more acting on? So I
Speaker 1: got stuck in a late because which is a great
Speaker 1: place to be. I'm glad, I'm grateful I'm here. But
Speaker 1: I came for auditions, but a lot of them obviously
Speaker 1: have not transpired, and like the last two months, um so,
Speaker 1: So I was like, you know what, I got all
Speaker 1: these characters from being around different neighborhoods of my whole life,
Speaker 1: and so Cheaper Company is a show where we we
Speaker 1: me so Charlie, Charlie. It was Sugarie Joe obviously is
Speaker 1: seventies a guy. He was actually wearing this this best
Speaker 1: I got from my homie um. And the second character
Speaker 1: was Charlie of Cyrus, which is like a Boston hotel.
Speaker 1: He's from. Think about Boston people don't really black and
Speaker 1: brown people don't talk the way like all the Walberg
Speaker 1: films sound like, unless they live in the suburbs. So
Speaker 1: so I because that accident is funny, and I was like,
Speaker 1: let me take a Boston suburban black person and make
Speaker 1: him a hotel, you know what I mean, because it
Speaker 1: doesn't that's not usually our hoteps talk. How do Brooklyn
Speaker 1: people talk? Brooklyn people where we're we're in Brooklyn. Let's say,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do no best stop because I'm I
Speaker 1: live in East Flatbush. But there you go. That's yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Flatbush? You know you know
Speaker 1: what ship is out here? You know, you know, you know,
Speaker 1: but that ship that's ship busting, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's just everything is here. It's like it's it's it's
Speaker 1: small cone because we're in the bush, like Flatbush zombies.
Speaker 1: It's just it's all like at least where we are,
Speaker 1: it's all the weed, the weed dealers that we had
Speaker 1: that people as low key kids. I'm in the thirties.
Speaker 1: When you start going to nineties, is that Brownsville, it's
Speaker 1: a whole different like the nineties has been, Like that's
Speaker 1: so deep. Now you really have real music right now,
Speaker 1: Like that's that's why drill music is coming out of
Speaker 1: certain spots. It's where it's least gentrified, and that's why
Speaker 1: you get like it's like, is really doing drills right now?
Speaker 1: It's not. They're so deep in it. It's like they
Speaker 1: ain't even been on the internet. Like the way they talked,
Speaker 1: it's like wow, Like it reminds me of old New
Speaker 1: York and I appreciate it so much, like we haven't
Speaker 1: had nothing like that for years. But we also appreciate we'
Speaker 1: hearing on your music on Insecure. We know you have
Speaker 1: the song things where that came on last night's episode
Speaker 1: and we are big, big fans of the show as well.
Speaker 1: So it's your playing this fire, Yeah, it's you. It's
Speaker 1: lame things the way to people like what it is
Speaker 1: for people who don't know about energy and stuff. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and your what's your name? Marie Condo? That her last
Speaker 1: name y'all know, I'm talking about the she I want
Speaker 1: to believe. I believe that she's from Japan. I know
Speaker 1: she's East Asian and she has a show on Netflix
Speaker 1: about tidying up your spot. Y'all know I haven't seen
Speaker 1: it neither, but you let me. This is a great
Speaker 1: time for people to figure out how to clean up
Speaker 1: their energy. But go ahead, okay. Um. So, punctual is
Speaker 1: this idea that if you clean up your space and
Speaker 1: kind of be more of a minimalist, especially with furniture,
Speaker 1: then there's a natural airflow and the natural flow in
Speaker 1: your place that will create life in your environment. But
Speaker 1: I was using it in terms of design, like style,
Speaker 1: how you feel, um, the functuate your mind. I was
Speaker 1: taking functually out of this furniture, and I made this
Speaker 1: dance record, like an Afro func slash hip hop dance
Speaker 1: record called punctuay Um. It's not like Super Deep or
Speaker 1: nothing like that, but it's just for right now. For
Speaker 1: people just need to be liberated. They need to feel light,
Speaker 1: they need to feel like they're going outside. I don't
Speaker 1: know where y'all stationed, but I'm in Atlanta in Jersey.
Speaker 1: I don't need to interrupt me. But I have to
Speaker 1: say this. This is the first time that I moved
Speaker 1: into an apartment. I didn't really rush to furnish it.
Speaker 1: And the energy in here is so it's it's been
Speaker 1: amazing for me. I've had the best luck ever. I
Speaker 1: didn't put a mirror in my bedroom and everything's been
Speaker 1: going really well. No, because I haven't. I swear my
Speaker 1: my living room is like a photo studio and it's
Speaker 1: just so airy, and I feel like there's the energy
Speaker 1: in here is amazing, So don't fill it up. Like no,
Speaker 1: I think something. You need to watch this nex. I
Speaker 1: really I can't. I'm blanking on the name, but I
Speaker 1: think I got it right. She would she she comes
Speaker 1: into the space and she like she praised in it,
Speaker 1: in your in your house, and she comes to the
Speaker 1: space of like hoarding people. So she comes and kneels down,
Speaker 1: like gives herself to the space and then she just
Speaker 1: gets rid of all your ship. So you, just like
Speaker 1: Angela would die. I already know I'm a hoarder. I'm
Speaker 1: a hoarder. See the bar in the books right there,
Speaker 1: which is clean, but I'm imagining all the stuff that's
Speaker 1: not in frame right now, do you know what, what's
Speaker 1: your record? I felt like when even when you put
Speaker 1: the record on, because like I played it and I
Speaker 1: was playing it like back to back, and out of nowhere,
Speaker 1: you just started dancing, and I'm like, what am I
Speaker 1: doing right here? Looks like you're you dance right and
Speaker 1: you're the because you had a lot of women that
Speaker 1: you had dancing on you and that you were dancing
Speaker 1: went and that was going viral. So could you have
Speaker 1: a relationship with a woman that can't dance as well
Speaker 1: as you? M good questions? Wow, that's the question. No,
Speaker 1: I couldn't learn one one. I don't think I'm not
Speaker 1: like an amazing dancer, but I feel like it's it's
Speaker 1: kind of like everything like cooking, right, I couldn't be
Speaker 1: with a woman who can't cook, but I could be
Speaker 1: with a woman who doesn't cook. Like it's just weird
Speaker 1: for me, is like a human being to not really
Speaker 1: know how to cook. I don't care if you're into that.
Speaker 1: And now I'm not one of those guys all the
Speaker 1: time at least. Yeah, yeah, I just know it's like
Speaker 1: a basic thing, like what is she's really good at
Speaker 1: ordering food for you? And it always knows what you like,
Speaker 1: really good at Yeah, what is she gonna like? I
Speaker 1: know he's gonna love this. Cook this on the side.
Speaker 1: Does that with us, right, Stephanie, I can't cook. I
Speaker 1: can't cook. That's what I'm saying. You can cook, but
Speaker 1: you don't like I can cook. I'm not cooking, like
Speaker 1: even now, Like I have meal plan, which is such
Speaker 1: a it sounds like the most the most luxurious thing
Speaker 1: to have in a global pandemic right now. But but yeah,
Speaker 1: I just don't with dancing, you have to be able to,
Speaker 1: like at least move a little bit, because then, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I don't know if you can
Speaker 1: in the bedroom, but I don't need you to dance
Speaker 1: like all the cool dances like function. I bet you
Speaker 1: aren't even like dancing the regular dances. A little tooth,
Speaker 1: that little one, yeah, a little something, you're okay, you
Speaker 1: know she don't got a boom cat all over a
Speaker 1: little group. She started popping. That's a little I gotta
Speaker 1: call you out on something that you said, okay about
Speaker 1: lying in you did admit a liar, and a woman
Speaker 1: asked you about that and you said I had to.
Speaker 1: And by the way, it kind of was conflicting because
Speaker 1: she asked you about lying, and a liar would have said, no,
Speaker 1: I don't lie, but you, being an honest liar that
Speaker 1: you are, said I have to let you know I
Speaker 1: am been a lot to you. Yeah, the verbatim, I said,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep it a hundred. I am gonna say
Speaker 1: a lie to you, like at some point, I'm not
Speaker 1: saying that I'm a liar. I'm just saying or whatever,
Speaker 1: maybe I am. He said you was a manipulator, though
Speaker 1: I have been gonna get into that. Everybody says, oh no,
Speaker 1: and all of you are me being a hundred of
Speaker 1: saying I'm going to lie, is me being honest. Nobody
Speaker 1: does not lie in as soon as you enter a relationship,
Speaker 1: you're already in a lie because you're like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: going to only give my all, only be attractive to you,
Speaker 1: or only one to ever be with you. It's already
Speaker 1: already a lot like look all right now, like right, somebody, Now,
Speaker 1: let me tell you. The first line by a mass
Speaker 1: manipulator is always I'm gonna keep it one hunted. As
Speaker 1: soon as that to you, you know there's a manipulation
Speaker 1: coming in. You know what I mean, but but but
Speaker 1: they never say that, you know a lot like that's
Speaker 1: the thing. I'm just being. I don't want to what
Speaker 1: I'm in a point in life. I don't want to
Speaker 1: make a promise I can't keep, So I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: tell you forever, I'm not gonna lie. There's always little
Speaker 1: white lies at very least if not, you know sometimes Okay,
Speaker 1: well let's get some examples. Let's just say that you
Speaker 1: and your lady are you guys are already out right
Speaker 1: on a date. Nothing she could do about it at
Speaker 1: this point, and she's like, does this outfit make me
Speaker 1: look back? And it kind of does, right, You've seen
Speaker 1: her wear more flattering things for her figure. Would you
Speaker 1: answer that question? I would lie, for sure, that's a
Speaker 1: perfect answer. But there's no way I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: her the truth. There's this movie called The Inventional Lie
Speaker 1: where like it takes place before humans figured out lie,
Speaker 1: like how to a lie? And so is hilarious, But
Speaker 1: people would answer that question like for real and honestly,
Speaker 1: and it's just not worth it, Like why would I
Speaker 1: make it feel that way? Way to get her to change?
Speaker 1: Before you leave the house? Did you put that up? Yeah?
Speaker 1: A good way a good way to have to mention it.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think you can be honest in the crib,
Speaker 1: but you know you can be like, Yo, have you
Speaker 1: remember that dress you for, you know, our last anniversary?
Speaker 1: I kind of I'm feeling that really, Oh you think
Speaker 1: I look, yeah, I love that one. I just love
Speaker 1: you can just and that and I don't know where
Speaker 1: it were. It's still But that's that's the good. That's manipulation. Ship.
Speaker 1: I didn't I tell people this. I'm not a liar,
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna tell on myself, So you just
Speaker 1: avoid it. You're a deceiver, but I just telling myself.
Speaker 1: So you can't be honest. You can't completely completely be
Speaker 1: honest all the time. Everybody lies a little something and
Speaker 1: then and then, and then there's also where you have
Speaker 1: to process some ships. So like something happens, you feel
Speaker 1: kind of way, but you don't know how to approach it.
Speaker 1: So you end up deceiving a person not telling them
Speaker 1: maybe for a week or two, and then you come
Speaker 1: back and they're like, yeah, why don't you tell me
Speaker 1: in the first place? And you're like, I had to
Speaker 1: process it, but the whole time process and you weren't
Speaker 1: telling the person anything, so like this, this is what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like, it's we all manipulate, we all deceive,
Speaker 1: all lie And I don't think it's always terrible. I
Speaker 1: think that's there's that it's actually a value of mine.
Speaker 1: There's like little white lies, and then there's harmful lies. Right,
Speaker 1: it's to this line. So let me ask you this.
Speaker 1: You're dating a girl and she asked you, do you
Speaker 1: think my friend looks better than me? And she does it,
Speaker 1: then it's live live. No, Well, if I think her
Speaker 1: friend looks better than her, then maybe I should be
Speaker 1: dating a friend. I agree, Like, she can give me
Speaker 1: your number, because I'm like, if if there's I don't
Speaker 1: want to date a woman within a friend circle that
Speaker 1: I'm not most attracted to, there may be a woman
Speaker 1: who's like traditionally pretty, she looked fly, like great, cool,
Speaker 1: But I should be more attractive to my woman. What
Speaker 1: if you didn't meet her friends till later? Though? You
Speaker 1: know how sometimes you meet a girl and then you're like, damn,
Speaker 1: I should have dated her friend. That is true, that
Speaker 1: definitely happening. That's definitely happened. And then when you then
Speaker 1: you feel bad in your whole mind. Yeah, already I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have been at that. I should have waited the
Speaker 1: early early thought happen. Yeah, uh, you know whatever, it's
Speaker 1: all good. And also you know, y'all, y'all know I
Speaker 1: don't like I'm open to both monogamy and polyamory. So yes,
Speaker 1: you know, there's there's always you know, nobody are nowadays
Speaker 1: right and men. It's actually it's women, and especially in Brooklyn.
Speaker 1: Brooklyn is where I learned all this. I'm from there too.
Speaker 1: I ain't learned that ship neither. You know what No,
Speaker 1: you slap, but that's like that's like best side all
Speaker 1: the way for you for Green East, Flatbush and Easter
Speaker 1: doesn't like CANNOSTI I don't know what that word means
Speaker 1: right now, but in the in the hipster areas that
Speaker 1: she started coming in California and ship and in infiltrated
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. But I'm telling you there was a lot
Speaker 1: of women. Women put me on the shippulated right now
Speaker 1: because we are being manipulated. But what is even your type?
Speaker 1: I want to know what your type is, like, what
Speaker 1: type of woman? Like man? It varies like uh, it veries,
Speaker 1: It depends on the space I'm in, Like when I
Speaker 1: was younger. I only dated hood rats for a minute.
Speaker 1: Swear like if you if you didn't have like a
Speaker 1: gold tooth, and like like seven taxs and and hoop
Speaker 1: earrings with your name in it. I wasn't dating that
Speaker 1: was that was early on. And then then I got
Speaker 1: into like the mystic gypsy kind of women and that
Speaker 1: we're like would vacuum their house and then bust stage
Speaker 1: out while listening to trap music. That whole means um
Speaker 1: that now now, And I said this like I've been
Speaker 1: saying this all week because it's something I really realized recently.
Speaker 1: Right now, I'm just looking for a kind of kind
Speaker 1: of women, Like women in general, to me, are are
Speaker 1: more thoughtful than men. But I used to put your
Speaker 1: sophistication and your streets above kindness, and now I put
Speaker 1: kindness above those you want basically like a mystic kind hardress.
Speaker 1: Yeah perfect, that sounds perfect. Yeah, actually that's it. I
Speaker 1: would take that any day, like you need to be no,
Speaker 1: it sounds like hard. Three is hard. Three is three
Speaker 1: is hard. I just need her to be in different
Speaker 1: spaces because I'm not. I'm not. I don't live in
Speaker 1: one world I live in like I'll get bored I
Speaker 1: get bored with women who only know like I date
Speaker 1: like a business professional, corporate woman who talks like this
Speaker 1: and use the shirt lips like you know, like that's cool.
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna be there in that world the
Speaker 1: whole time. So when we go to the nineties in Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: can you are you okay? You adapt? Are you comfortable?
Speaker 1: I don't need you to dreak, but yeah, you see
Speaker 1: you see one fire, you see some pill, you see something,
Speaker 1: and you're like, oh my god, we're gonna get yeah, relaxed,
Speaker 1: like it's okay, and vice versa, Like I can't take
Speaker 1: somebody some of the women I used to date to
Speaker 1: some of these like galas, they're just not gonna survive.
Speaker 1: All right, now, let me ask this back to the
Speaker 1: line thing. Let's just say and asked you, is this
Speaker 1: the best pussy you ever had? And it's really not.
Speaker 1: It's trash. Are you gonna tell her? Yes? As a
Speaker 1: matter of fact, you have to fake with orgasm? Oh damn, damn,
Speaker 1: I don't think how did how does it? He just
Speaker 1: stopped you? I know how he does know? How? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know. Earlier today I had to get it in
Speaker 1: myself you had a rub one out before, so you
Speaker 1: know right now if you see you know that's why
Speaker 1: you don't see nothing coming out of me. But God,
Speaker 1: you never just pretended that you came, but you didn't. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think men pretend like I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't. I guarantee you they have do. Yes, we've
Speaker 1: had men on lips every day that you think that
Speaker 1: they pretended. Yeah, I never, I never. I need put
Speaker 1: that in my arsenal now I never did that. That's
Speaker 1: a tool. Okay, No, I mean the best pussy I
Speaker 1: ever had. I have to tell her that, Yeah, are
Speaker 1: you gonna lie? Are you gonna tell the truth? Yeoh?
Speaker 1: If she put me on the spot, I might. I might.
Speaker 1: I might tell the truth. I know I know myself
Speaker 1: because after I'd be like, and she said something much
Speaker 1: the best pussy you ever had? I'd been like, uh,
Speaker 1: I mean, who was the best pussy that you ever had? Like?
Speaker 1: What was the experience? Like? Do you remember I was young? Yo,
Speaker 1: I was a teenager, Like I had a high school sweetheart.
Speaker 1: She was Jamaican. She's amazing. And I think because it
Speaker 1: was so early and because it was just yeah, it
Speaker 1: was like euphoria. I never felt anything like that, Like
Speaker 1: I felt like it was like cosmic and ship, right,
Speaker 1: my ship disappears into a woman and then like yeah,
Speaker 1: so that was that was the best. But I didn't
Speaker 1: even know what I was doing them, but it just
Speaker 1: felt like the best. We were listening to the Maxwell Ship,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, like love loving Basketball, don't
Speaker 1: make you feel like it's the best, even though it's
Speaker 1: not just a song. What I'm saying like so funny
Speaker 1: because I think I lost my opportunity to that song
Speaker 1: and I was probably like the best, said that was
Speaker 1: the best sex I ever had at the time. At
Speaker 1: the time, if you lost your virginity work, I was like,
Speaker 1: when did you figure out what you were doing? Like,
Speaker 1: you know, because there's always that moment you're like, I
Speaker 1: didn't this time. It took yeah, like ten years later,
Speaker 1: Like there's no way, Like even in uh in college,
Speaker 1: I was like I was definitely thottish test in in college,
Speaker 1: and I mean the front of the first two years
Speaker 1: that that was my little run around, I still wasn't
Speaker 1: doing it right. It was it was year you know
Speaker 1: what it was. I had to make the transition from
Speaker 1: trying to just fuck too. Serving a woman's like actually
Speaker 1: focusing on the woman like so many because we grow
Speaker 1: up on pulling. So many of us we come up
Speaker 1: and like we think it's a hammer and a rabbit
Speaker 1: and the like move slower, move slower, move your hips,
Speaker 1: like think about her, slow down if you need to,
Speaker 1: because don't come before her. Focus Like my whole mindset
Speaker 1: right now. When I'm with the woman and I go far,
Speaker 1: I imagine Chakras on her, like I try to imagine
Speaker 1: everything about how I can please her. So that that
Speaker 1: that switch took like easily ten years from being a
Speaker 1: young teenager and to my twenties, because you don't want
Speaker 1: to be on the blogs now and they'd be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I as sextually was awful, Like he
Speaker 1: don't believe that. Yeah, I mean that's just inevitable. Somebody's
Speaker 1: gonna say something. What about the first time you ate pussy?
Speaker 1: Do you remember that? Oh my god, I was terrible.
Speaker 1: I was. I'm way better now, but like, man, I didn't.
Speaker 1: It didn't Again, you look at polling and sex that
Speaker 1: so the way that what they're doing a point, it
Speaker 1: just be it doesn't make sense. Like if I can
Speaker 1: tell now that those women are probably tickled by the
Speaker 1: way these guys are going down. At some point, I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not she's like laughing. She's laughing, like but I
Speaker 1: know she's laughing because it's actually ticklesh and not doing
Speaker 1: a job. So she's like, I gotta keep together. Um,
Speaker 1: but this guy is terrible this ship. I didn't like
Speaker 1: it at first because I also thought like certain rappers
Speaker 1: were saying they didn't need pussy and anything. Wayne really
Speaker 1: pushed he loves eating and it helped me so much,
Speaker 1: So thank you little Muen. Well maybe it's all his raps.
Speaker 1: That's it. He did, because if you look at rappers
Speaker 1: before then, like a lot was like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: eat that ship. It was like, now I don't go
Speaker 1: down there. And then she she give me head, but
Speaker 1: I don't give her head. It was like hard and
Speaker 1: then Wayne made a hard to eat so it took
Speaker 1: me a while. And then you know what it is communication?
Speaker 1: Communication during the act. A lot of people don't want
Speaker 1: to you just especially if you just meet somebody's a
Speaker 1: little awkward to be like, but all you have to
Speaker 1: do is like what you what do you like? And
Speaker 1: tell me, tell me what go there, go there. You
Speaker 1: have to ask and to the men that are watching
Speaker 1: um and the women who have never eaten, you have
Speaker 1: to ask, like what feels good consistently so that you know,
Speaker 1: because otherwise you're just gonna be guessing. And then you
Speaker 1: don't like the person because it wasn't compatible. You feel
Speaker 1: like it wasn't But no, it wasn't about compatibility. It
Speaker 1: was about communications. Anybody I described somebody how to go
Speaker 1: down on you, is it last pleasureable? Do you think?
Speaker 1: Because I think that it would be like me trying
Speaker 1: to focus too much, like the left to the right,
Speaker 1: little harder right there, Like instead of somebody that just
Speaker 1: knows what they're doing, I think that people will know
Speaker 1: what they're doing. Some people know what they're doing in general,
Speaker 1: but they everybody is a little different, Like you can't
Speaker 1: just apply every single woman. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: So it may be less posible to you. Maybe you
Speaker 1: just don't like talking too much because you just want
Speaker 1: to focus. But if you were with somebody knew you
Speaker 1: can't like and I have no idea what relationship you're at,
Speaker 1: what's your status is, But if you're with somebody, I'm
Speaker 1: not nodding it's corone. I'm so, but there's five. There's
Speaker 1: five of us on the show, and we all like
Speaker 1: getting our pussy in different and I'm missing someone. Huh,
Speaker 1: it's four of us. It's four of us on the show.
Speaker 1: This girl she had think that only day about d
Speaker 1: I love you between how you got y'all said, there's five, Well,
Speaker 1: there's four. Yeah, I like different things. Yeah, what are
Speaker 1: the differences? Um? Well, I don't like when people like thrust.
Speaker 1: I don't like when people use their finger. At the
Speaker 1: same time, I like it like nice and gentle. I
Speaker 1: always compare it to like a little kitten laughing some
Speaker 1: milk out of a bowl, you know what. That's how
Speaker 1: Andrew's so funny. I like it really rough, Like I
Speaker 1: like to get bit a little bit sucked really hard.
Speaker 1: I'm psycho. I just I don't mind a finger. I like, like,
Speaker 1: I like variety of things, but like you have to
Speaker 1: eat me out till I come, that's for sure. I
Speaker 1: just feel like if you know what you're doing down there,
Speaker 1: because I've never had to be taught how to give head,
Speaker 1: Like nobody ever had to say to me, like that's
Speaker 1: not what, that's not right doing, Like that's not for me.
Speaker 1: I should like born with that knowledge if I was
Speaker 1: born as what they say about me. They're fair about me,
Speaker 1: they do Angela and step and they always say like
Speaker 1: I was born on how to give up. But I
Speaker 1: just look at it like I know I didn't have
Speaker 1: to be taught, so you figure it out too, and like,
Speaker 1: I don't have no problem talking to you later, but
Speaker 1: not while we're having sex, like if I'm all talking
Speaker 1: about as far as moaning or like saying your name
Speaker 1: stuff like that, but if it's like I want you
Speaker 1: to do it like this, unless it's like harder when
Speaker 1: we're like like I'm about now. You know that's weird
Speaker 1: to me because I already did it, Like what do
Speaker 1: you want to think? Do you think that it's it's
Speaker 1: easier to like how did you learn how to give that?
Speaker 1: You study? You looked at you watch some point now
Speaker 1: like okay, I've seen porn. I've seen porn obviously, and
Speaker 1: I just what I thought about it, honestly, is like
Speaker 1: how would I want to feel? How would I wanted
Speaker 1: to feel my deck? Like yeah, I'm like I'm like
Speaker 1: if I was a penis, how would I want to fail?
Speaker 1: So my first thing was like cover your teeth because
Speaker 1: you don't want to scrape the teeth. And then everything
Speaker 1: else I feel like, just flow like she came out
Speaker 1: sucking on an umbilical coursebody like how somebody squirms, how
Speaker 1: they moan like I feel like you just have to
Speaker 1: listen to their body or you do. I feel like
Speaker 1: guys different guys like to get their dicks up differently too, Yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah we do, we do. You don't like use two hands,
Speaker 1: Some guys want you to just use on one hand.
Speaker 1: Someone they don't know what they want and tell them
Speaker 1: they get it, you get what I'm saying, Like is
Speaker 1: the thing I feel like maybe because a man is
Speaker 1: more like he's his whole, his body parts private out
Speaker 1: that big private jet, the African thing, but a woman
Speaker 1: is inside I'm saying, she's you can't see everything, So
Speaker 1: I'm wondering, like, because men are studying other men in porn,
Speaker 1: maybe they can't really see where their tongue is. They can't.
Speaker 1: They don't other than the kitten licking the bowl, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can see that, but when you watch the woman
Speaker 1: and point, you can see it. Like everything she's doing,
Speaker 1: it's all out there and all and I wonder it's
Speaker 1: a little bit more difficult for us to learn because
Speaker 1: we're like, you can't unless you had like this like
Speaker 1: camera right up there watching every movement of the time.
Speaker 1: But some of them are bad listeners. And if we
Speaker 1: say like it's about listening to the body, I feel
Speaker 1: like they're just so busy worrying about what they want
Speaker 1: to do or like what they think is right, that
Speaker 1: they don't, you know, communicate with your body, because at
Speaker 1: times like that squirm is more like but they think
Speaker 1: you can tell the difference if you pay attention. I
Speaker 1: don't like the way to eat pussy and porn. They
Speaker 1: never know what the fun they're doing imporn. It doesn't
Speaker 1: look like they're always like, uh, that's how you pussy.
Speaker 1: The women's pussy better important than men do. Yeah, it's done.
Speaker 1: It's a good way to learn from a woman that
Speaker 1: the last episode of Insecure, East was upset about the
Speaker 1: fact that she really like trained her dude Lawrence to
Speaker 1: be in this new relationship that he's in now he's
Speaker 1: like a better guy. Was there a woman that trained you,
Speaker 1: you think to be the man that you are today
Speaker 1: and you get credit to Definitely, Definitely I was in
Speaker 1: a long term relationship with a woman who she really
Speaker 1: shaped me, Like she took me from my like teenage
Speaker 1: self into young adulthood. She she taught me cultural things
Speaker 1: like this simple ship, like I didn't know about wine.
Speaker 1: I didn't know, um like what I should do on
Speaker 1: the day. I was very shy. I come from being
Speaker 1: like a very shy kid. And she would take me
Speaker 1: to advanced concerts which I've never been to. It I
Speaker 1: was broke. She was paying for the ship. We would
Speaker 1: go and she'd be like, yo, you need to put
Speaker 1: yourself forward. That's the manager right there. That's the green
Speaker 1: room where there. Let's talk to the security. Get yourself
Speaker 1: in there. That's so and so, Like you need to
Speaker 1: meet you know if it's like some o g rapper, like,
Speaker 1: oh that's black thought right there, go talk to him
Speaker 1: and let her right. She was like, you bet we
Speaker 1: still we still know, we're still great friends. Like that's
Speaker 1: my best friend. So yeah, yeah, I have. I have
Speaker 1: good relationship with with every woman that I've been with.
Speaker 1: To be honest, why didn't it work? I mean I
Speaker 1: think you you grow and you find out, um that
Speaker 1: maybe I look at everything like the chemistry experiment, like
Speaker 1: some some some people you just know the top you're
Speaker 1: gonna be like this other times, like you put two
Speaker 1: substances together, they made chill for a second, but then
Speaker 1: they boy all over over time. That's how that that's
Speaker 1: how we were, like we we were too similar in
Speaker 1: certain ways that we were cool. But you leave us
Speaker 1: in the pot too long, we're gonna keep button heads.
Speaker 1: But like that's that's that's the the O G best
Speaker 1: friend and like your girls, Yeah she does, she does,
Speaker 1: and she'll tell me, like, what's great it is like
Speaker 1: I consult her, she consults me. I consult her. So
Speaker 1: she's meeting a new guy SHO should or women. I'll
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I know, you know, be careful because
Speaker 1: you have a habit of doing this. And then she'll
Speaker 1: tell me like, yo, don't confuse um your business practices
Speaker 1: with your relationship practices. I know how you like to
Speaker 1: do that. So she she finds she's like a therapist
Speaker 1: for me in certain ways, which prevents me from being
Speaker 1: like this insecure I need therapy guy and placing that
Speaker 1: on a new level. So like and insecure. Have you
Speaker 1: ever um gone back to an X for like comfort,
Speaker 1: because it seems like he got out of or he's
Speaker 1: having a little bit of trouble in his situation and
Speaker 1: he's it looks like he's running back to his act.
Speaker 1: So have you ever ran back to an act and
Speaker 1: actually end up going back to them? Oh? Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: where I'm most savage, Like my, yeah, that's my My
Speaker 1: funk ups in life are usually not in the relationship,
Speaker 1: that in that gray area after the relationship. I'm I'm
Speaker 1: such I'm a determined person. So when she don't work,
Speaker 1: I don't get why it doesn't work. So I'll go
Speaker 1: back and then you know, you get lonely and so
Speaker 1: you I'll go back and I'll try to and this
Speaker 1: is where the manipulation comes in. That's the negative part
Speaker 1: of it. And I'll reel them in, make them trust
Speaker 1: like this could work, and I actually do believe it
Speaker 1: in the moment, but there's a but there's a reason
Speaker 1: why I didn't work in the first place. It never
Speaker 1: works out. And that's where it gets ugly because I'm
Speaker 1: dating people while I'm trying to reel and you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I don't do this no more like I'm done.
Speaker 1: Like I got I realized I'm really good with black
Speaker 1: and white ship the agreement has got to be clear.
Speaker 1: If it's not clear and as great, it's gonna be. Lady,
Speaker 1: say you feel about a guy you're dating betting friends
Speaker 1: with his ex and like, no, no, it's not happening.
Speaker 1: I can have sex with any of my exes right
Speaker 1: now if I wanted to. Hell, you know, don't talk
Speaker 1: to your ex girlfriend please for me, I feel like
Speaker 1: this one. Once you've been my ex, we're not friends anymore.
Speaker 1: That's it. So why would I let my man be
Speaker 1: friends with his ex? It doesn't make any sense because
Speaker 1: you're secure. You're secure if you If y'all was really
Speaker 1: secure about about your partners, you wouldn't be worried about
Speaker 1: I know, but it's not. I don't mean I trust
Speaker 1: my man. I just don't trust the dirty slust that
Speaker 1: he was with before me. You know what I'm saying now,
Speaker 1: I get with saying. I get what she's saying. But
Speaker 1: you feel I definitely feel you, But I just think
Speaker 1: just the fact of um, just anything like for what
Speaker 1: all y'all obviously broke up for a reason. It didn't work,
Speaker 1: So what are you doing? Like if y'all want to
Speaker 1: be yeah, being corgeous if you have a kid together,
Speaker 1: that's something else. But like being cordial is fine. But
Speaker 1: as far as like I feel like being like really
Speaker 1: tight friends, that's just weird to me. And I just
Speaker 1: feel like maybe even a certain level of respect maybe
Speaker 1: if I meet her or something like that. I don't know,
Speaker 1: but it's just like what are you What are y'all doing?
Speaker 1: What if she's like married or something already, why it's
Speaker 1: weird to me that for me I had And I'm
Speaker 1: not just talking about like women I dated. I'm talking
Speaker 1: about women I really had a serious relationship with. If
Speaker 1: I invest in time with them, am I gonna just
Speaker 1: throw them to the side, Like because you did that
Speaker 1: with the relationship, that kind of relationship. I didn't want
Speaker 1: to throw them away as friends. To me, it also
Speaker 1: shows like what he how that how that person is
Speaker 1: who could be towards you? Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: You know with me, here's what you get, Here's what
Speaker 1: you get with me. You know you know that I'm
Speaker 1: still gonna be good to their families. I still take
Speaker 1: care of them. I still like I'm not going over
Speaker 1: and holding them in my lap and doing the same things,
Speaker 1: but at least I'm in touch I'll still face time
Speaker 1: them and I know I know their their community, their
Speaker 1: friend circle. I'm not gonna just throw them by the
Speaker 1: wayside because that that that relationship meant something to me.
Speaker 1: So if I'm with the woman now and she sees that, yeah,
Speaker 1: it maybe like damn, I hope he never goes back.
Speaker 1: But if she's secured with me, if I'm secured with myself,
Speaker 1: then then I think that it's all positive. It's it's
Speaker 1: nothing and she can. I know women that I've I've
Speaker 1: dated who will then ask one of my ex is
Speaker 1: about me? And and that's kind of what you know
Speaker 1: you see in insecure right now? Yeah, yeah, that's you
Speaker 1: know you don't want to hear that story. I'm actually
Speaker 1: right now. I want women to know everything about me
Speaker 1: early on because eventually I want to form some sort
Speaker 1: of union or marriage. And honestly, the quicker we can,
Speaker 1: we can get through all the trauma and all the yeah,
Speaker 1: all the bullshit like just know me, Like no, you
Speaker 1: can ask you anything. I feel like friends, you know,
Speaker 1: access should be enemies, because then there's something wrong, there's
Speaker 1: something there's something bad there. But you know, to be
Speaker 1: speaking all the time. I mean, if you see challa, Hey,
Speaker 1: what's up are you doing? No problem with that, but
Speaker 1: to have an ongoing relationship after you broke up, you
Speaker 1: might as well have stayed together. Well, what are you
Speaker 1: worried about? I don't think it's even a wor thing. Girl,
Speaker 1: It's so for me. I don't feel like it's necessarily
Speaker 1: a worried thing. But I just know, like I said,
Speaker 1: I know how my excess felt about me, or like
Speaker 1: I've had my like a ex the other day hit
Speaker 1: me talking about something I love you, and it's like
Speaker 1: I had to block him because it's like, bro, Like
Speaker 1: what if I moved on and had a whole another
Speaker 1: relationship and now my man just seen that on the phone.
Speaker 1: You get what I'm trying to me? Yeah, that's me.
Speaker 1: You know what else I think to Like, I have
Speaker 1: a wreakingto I'm cool, but I respected they're in a relationship,
Speaker 1: and I never want the woman to feel uncomfortable. So
Speaker 1: I would like set some boundaries where I know, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: he's in a relationship. I don't want anybody to think anything.
Speaker 1: I don't want his girl to be upset. So I'll
Speaker 1: check in, you know, if there's like an event, I
Speaker 1: might invite you to my birthday. Pritay all good and
Speaker 1: it's like her, But I'm also not gonna be like
Speaker 1: calling you at midnight. But that makes sense. But you
Speaker 1: can't control people actions. So whether they're friends with their
Speaker 1: ex or whatever, if they're gonna sunk, they're gonna suck
Speaker 1: somebody regardless. So it's not like I'm gonna dive myself
Speaker 1: in front of a friendship. But I just know about temptations,
Speaker 1: and I know how it is when you know how
Speaker 1: someone is in the bed or when you're getting lonely
Speaker 1: and they're there for you and being close. It's just
Speaker 1: a temptation factor and it's just kind of like if
Speaker 1: it didn't work, let it go, feel like it doesn't count.
Speaker 1: If you suck your exit like it didn't count. That's
Speaker 1: I do that, and it's not still to the day.
Speaker 1: But no, but yet, you know, for ther y'all know,
Speaker 1: for the longest, I've always felt like that. But now
Speaker 1: like I learned my lesson because of a situation that
Speaker 1: I had where I took back an act. But like
Speaker 1: I used to be like that. I used to be
Speaker 1: like you should have a sex. I used to give
Speaker 1: that advice out like you should have sex with your acts.
Speaker 1: At least you're not adding a body or something like that, right,
Speaker 1: you know whatever. But that's not that's not a good
Speaker 1: way to think because you're still giving your energy to
Speaker 1: somebody that doesn't deserve it. So let me let me
Speaker 1: ask you all this. So, so let me ask you
Speaker 1: all this about the function way of of human beings. Right,
Speaker 1: do you think that people are hard wired for monogamy?
Speaker 1: I think I think when people get to a certain
Speaker 1: age in it and it's like a lot of effort
Speaker 1: to try to do too much. I think people do.
Speaker 1: I know for myself, Like when I was younger, I'll
Speaker 1: date several people, have a good time, But as you
Speaker 1: get older and busier and you want to settle down.
Speaker 1: I think it's just like the knowing that you have
Speaker 1: this one person that you have to deal with, it
Speaker 1: just feels better to me. I feel you you get like,
Speaker 1: getting busy is a huge factor. Sorry, you you're about
Speaker 1: to say something no, no, no, go go no. I
Speaker 1: mean like, but even with that, you're you're you're trying
Speaker 1: to say that every like this person is enough to
Speaker 1: satisfy all your needs. Yeah, I feel that way also
Speaker 1: because I just said like, I'm more about being probably comfortable.
Speaker 1: If I decided to be with you now, then that
Speaker 1: means that that's something real. When I was younger, I
Speaker 1: didn't take certain things into consideration. I just was having
Speaker 1: a good time and like we could date for two
Speaker 1: weeks and yeah my boyfriend. Now it's like, okay, we
Speaker 1: have to date for a year before I feel like
Speaker 1: that next. Yep, that's how I am for me. Once
Speaker 1: you have sex with me, you're my boyfriend. That's it.
Speaker 1: Like sex not your mind. Now you come on. I
Speaker 1: feel like I feel like I feel like God has
Speaker 1: a very funny sense of people, Marie. He made women
Speaker 1: more intuing monogamy and manner like what what I want
Speaker 1: to be with everybody? I don't feel like all men
Speaker 1: are like that. Mendo like that more monogamist and we
Speaker 1: are women not to not to death. But I'm saying
Speaker 1: some of the I'm actually I'm great at monogamy. Okay, yes,
Speaker 1: the longest eight years Okay that it was like some
Speaker 1: marriage ship and I never cheated in eight years. Wow,
Speaker 1: that's amazing. So you could be with one person married
Speaker 1: and no one else and that could be your hall.
Speaker 1: Uh you know, I don't know. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: don't know anymore I do. I do know this, like
Speaker 1: when i'm if I commit in monogamy not cheating, like
Speaker 1: I've never cheated my life, I don't and I don't
Speaker 1: think I would. But but when I think about marriage
Speaker 1: long term and so that do us part, that's that
Speaker 1: just sounds right for failure, Like it just it doesn't
Speaker 1: you grow, You evolved the same person that you marry,
Speaker 1: the same person that you met when you dated, when
Speaker 1: you fell in love. It is not the person that
Speaker 1: you're gonna be with over the years. Like people change
Speaker 1: months a month, people change year to year for sure,
Speaker 1: and ask people evolved, you can't expect them to be
Speaker 1: locked into some agreement. So to me, I want to
Speaker 1: be with a woman who can evolve over time, and
Speaker 1: it's okay with a little bit of uncertainty down the
Speaker 1: line initially foundation develop it. I actually I don't have
Speaker 1: time to be running around with a million women. I
Speaker 1: don't want to anymore. And honestly, I never really was
Speaker 1: that guy anyway. I would love to lock something down.
Speaker 1: I just know that over time, like the agreement has
Speaker 1: to change. I believe in agreements, so say and I
Speaker 1: actually don't care about certain things. I don't care if
Speaker 1: a woman I'm with is gonna occasionally make make out
Speaker 1: with somebody. I really don't care. Oh my god. I mean,
Speaker 1: look if she you know, if she has that, I
Speaker 1: try to stay away. But to me, I'm not mad
Speaker 1: at that. I'm not mad at if she if she's
Speaker 1: an amazing woman and I'm feeling it like whatever, I
Speaker 1: really I'm open to certain things like it just does.
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter every every time. I don't need you
Speaker 1: to be a standard orthodox person. That's the thing. As
Speaker 1: long as we can come up with a deal. Even
Speaker 1: I'm cool, I can see me down the line being
Speaker 1: with a woman with even if it's my wife, and
Speaker 1: striking an agreement where she can be with other men
Speaker 1: as well. Like I don't. I'm not tripping off that
Speaker 1: that she doesn't kill me. What I care about is
Speaker 1: that we hold each other down. We we support each other,
Speaker 1: We're there when we need. We know that none of
Speaker 1: these other relationships are as strong as ours, y'all. I
Speaker 1: don't know if y'all watch House of Cars when it
Speaker 1: was popping um, and you know their relationship was weird,
Speaker 1: the Underwood family. But no other relationship that they had
Speaker 1: because they were like polyamorous, Um, no other relationship could
Speaker 1: penetrate there for most of the shame. And that's that's
Speaker 1: kind of how I look at it. No matter what
Speaker 1: the foundation is the foundation. But I do feel like
Speaker 1: sometimes there's always signs of weakness where you feel like, um,
Speaker 1: maybe the other relationships starts to make you feel better
Speaker 1: than that one. And I think that's where a woman
Speaker 1: it's always gonna feel away about, because that's kind of
Speaker 1: like when a woman brings another woman into the bed
Speaker 1: for a threesome and it's like, okay, I want to
Speaker 1: three something, you want to three some cool, Now we
Speaker 1: do the threesome, and then what happens. Then man goes
Speaker 1: out and impregnates the girl on the side, and you
Speaker 1: know something like that, all the women falls in love
Speaker 1: with too. Yeah, but nine times out of turn, it's
Speaker 1: always the man that messes up, goes behind the back
Speaker 1: and ends up getting the side check, or the threesome
Speaker 1: girl pregnant or it's sucking her behind the back. So
Speaker 1: that's what the problem is. I don't think it's ever
Speaker 1: that women will look at it like we won't ever
Speaker 1: accept something like that. I think it's like when it
Speaker 1: comes to things like that and you're like, all right,
Speaker 1: well say you kiss somebody cool, I don't know about it.
Speaker 1: Next thing you know she's your wife too, then that's
Speaker 1: a problem, you know what I mean. And I don't
Speaker 1: know if that's the conversation here having with them, like
Speaker 1: they're just gonna be somebody that I fun here and there,
Speaker 1: or is it like I'm getting another girlfriend, I'm getting
Speaker 1: another wife. You know what I mean? You gotta I
Speaker 1: think you got up front as well as possible. That's
Speaker 1: the main thing. One thing I found out is if
Speaker 1: you can be upfront, women are much more not like
Speaker 1: to not like they're gonna agree with everything, but they're
Speaker 1: much more open than You never know what a woman
Speaker 1: will are. She might be like I'm down that I'd
Speaker 1: rather know, or or she'll be like, look, I'm glad
Speaker 1: you told me that, but I don't ever want to know.
Speaker 1: And make sure there's a week in between anybody and
Speaker 1: only on the road and don't fall up. That's very specific.
Speaker 1: Now I would be like, you can't eat her pussy,
Speaker 1: that would be a rule, and you have to wear
Speaker 1: a condom. Like to me, those are more and more
Speaker 1: a rule than anything. Yeah, I feel you feel relationships. Man. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I'm okay with that, but I'm saying
Speaker 1: if those were more so something that somebody laid out
Speaker 1: other than I'm just going behind your back and cheating
Speaker 1: on you, at least they're giving you. Yeah, I agree
Speaker 1: with and you can't buy have a no kiss and
Speaker 1: you can't buy. But I think also getting tested. You
Speaker 1: have to get tested within like a certain range too,
Speaker 1: because I mean, I've obviously worked out in agreements and
Speaker 1: I made sure the worst the worst thing to do
Speaker 1: is the worst feeling to have is feeling like you
Speaker 1: put a woman's body and health at right and she
Speaker 1: didn't know it. That's the first thing we say to Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've always made sure to get tested and and that's
Speaker 1: how you know what I mean, I've remained disease free. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it is now last question before because I know you
Speaker 1: know we're almost at an hour. This is only supposed
Speaker 1: to be half an hour. But what would rules be
Speaker 1: if a woman could see other men? Like, what would
Speaker 1: you tell her the rules out for her to be
Speaker 1: able to do that. Here's a little trick this is
Speaker 1: I've noticed that the more open, and I am the
Speaker 1: less the woman wants to go out and be with
Speaker 1: a million people. If I'm like, yo, I here's what
Speaker 1: I care about. UM, I only care about that you're
Speaker 1: you're safe, you get tested. UM, if you start to
Speaker 1: have developed feelings, just tell me early, like I'd rather
Speaker 1: have that early. I just want to know up front. Um,
Speaker 1: I actually like to know. I like to know the guy. Wow. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that might that might be some control ship, to
Speaker 1: be honest, like, that might be some territory ship. What
Speaker 1: did he see you? I didn't know? Yeah, sounds like that.
Speaker 1: Sounds like a reverse psychology. That's how you back. I
Speaker 1: preface it's a little, but my rules are simple, like
Speaker 1: I just don't I would like I feel confident in
Speaker 1: and me and me and her. I know that what
Speaker 1: how I am, I'm unique enough for her and she's
Speaker 1: unique enough for me. So I'm not really threatened by
Speaker 1: by anybody. UM. I just needed I just needed to
Speaker 1: be safe and I needed to not be UM like
Speaker 1: I wanted to know. I want to know what it is.
Speaker 1: So if it's developing into something more than just casual
Speaker 1: sex or something just like, protect my heart, don't just
Speaker 1: protect my body. Protect my heart on movie dates and
Speaker 1: watching Insecure together. Yeah, TikTok Yea said, I think honestly
Speaker 1: on the front end is everything. But here's the thing
Speaker 1: about honestly on the front end, it takes something Like
Speaker 1: I said earlier, it takes kind of process. I realized, like,
Speaker 1: and if you date like an introvert, it's even worse
Speaker 1: because they won't even tell you for for months and months.
Speaker 1: And so I I used to do this thing in
Speaker 1: relationships that I got from this book called the Spirit
Speaker 1: of Intimacy where every month we would have this ritual together,
Speaker 1: like we put candles in the circle would be bass
Speaker 1: naked um back to back, and we would lay out, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta do that. So once you give your sacrament
Speaker 1: and ancestors, you talk about your relationship and you talk
Speaker 1: about things that you made. Uh, it's a safe space
Speaker 1: basically for y'all to to express this. So that way,
Speaker 1: every month, no matter what, y'all have a space where
Speaker 1: y'all communicate. And that when I did that, my relationships
Speaker 1: were so strong. And when I failed to do that,
Speaker 1: that's when things got weak because that resentment starts growing
Speaker 1: because y'all, y'all say some things that happened halfway through
Speaker 1: the month, So I think putting, yeah, putting those practices
Speaker 1: in a huge relationships, especially if you're dating the introver.
Speaker 1: All right, well, we appreciate that. That sounds really good.
Speaker 1: You didn't naked invent your candles. In a second, he's
Speaker 1: gonna be like, Jamnie, I just wanted to talk about
Speaker 1: that should be your next listening session, like just everybody
Speaker 1: sit in the room but naked, like listen to the
Speaker 1: album the last night. Well, Stanner, we appreciate you so
Speaker 1: much and I always appreciate your honesty and fund conversations.
Speaker 1: So we'll be following and making sure we tune in
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