WEBVTT - Episode 246: Came Out Suckin’ (Feat. Jidenna) 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:04.240 What's up? What's time? It is? Let's service at me 0:00:04.280 --> 0:00:09.640 and Lage. I'm stup in Santiago. I'm glariow Ntanna. That's 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:17.800 your what's up? Y'all? Listen, we're all at home. And 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:19.799 he just said he just had the bubble guts. He's 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:29.200 in salad. This is cool coffee, Wow, I said, don't. Yeah, 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.080 it's more like toss the coffee. They got this cool 0:00:32.120 --> 0:00:35.400 little coffee shop that's still open. Why I don't know, 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:40.680 but is it really? Well, my juice bar is still open, 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:42.839 and that's considered, and it said, I guess food places 0:00:42.840 --> 0:00:45.400 as long as you take it to go things like that, 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:48.159 it can still stay open. Yeah, your juice bar is 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:52.160 like legit essential though, all right, any anything with health 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:56.520 products right now is essential. So yeah, so now we 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:59.840 are appreciative of that. So, and we're appreciative of you. 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:02.280 To Jenna, we start, you've been doing all kinds of 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:06.040 fun things online since this coronavirus pandemic has started, you know, 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:09.440 just making sure you stay in touch with people. Yeah. 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:13.839 I mean as soon as this this ship hit, I knew, like, okay, 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:15.960 it's gonna be a while a lot of people are like, yeah, 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.800 we're gonna be out for a few weeks. I was like, Nah, 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:21.480 it's gonna be a few months at least, and it's 0:01:21.520 --> 0:01:24.800 gonna affect everybody, you know, especially as artists. We have 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:27.600 to find new ways to connect. You don't got events, 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:30.160 we don't have festivals. We can't tour for at least 0:01:30.200 --> 0:01:32.480 a year. So I was like, all right, for me, 0:01:33.560 --> 0:01:36.640 let me be more active online than ever before. Everybody's 0:01:36.880 --> 0:01:40.280 doing that finding the ways. You have these characters that 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:43.600 you have to Um, you then broke out the Afrow. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:49.560 You then broke out of Boston accent. Yeah. Yeah, and 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:52.520 you have done a lot of some acting. Do you 0:01:52.640 --> 0:01:55.920 have anything coming up in the future that you may 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:59.080 be doing a little bit more acting on? So I 0:01:59.120 --> 0:02:02.160 got stuck in a late because which is a great 0:02:02.160 --> 0:02:05.360 place to be. I'm glad, I'm grateful I'm here. But 0:02:05.440 --> 0:02:10.320 I came for auditions, but a lot of them obviously 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:15.200 have not transpired, and like the last two months, um so, 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:16.960 So I was like, you know what, I got all 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:20.640 these characters from being around different neighborhoods of my whole life, 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.880 and so Cheaper Company is a show where we we 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:36.200 me so Charlie, Charlie. It was Sugarie Joe obviously is 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.600 seventies a guy. He was actually wearing this this best 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:43.280 I got from my homie um. And the second character 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:46.359 was Charlie of Cyrus, which is like a Boston hotel. 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:50.280 He's from. Think about Boston people don't really black and 0:02:50.320 --> 0:02:54.280 brown people don't talk the way like all the Walberg 0:02:54.400 --> 0:03:00.560 films sound like, unless they live in the suburbs. So 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.200 so I because that accident is funny, and I was like, 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:08.400 let me take a Boston suburban black person and make 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:10.160 him a hotel, you know what I mean, because it 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.239 doesn't that's not usually our hoteps talk. How do Brooklyn 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:20.480 people talk? Brooklyn people where we're we're in Brooklyn. Let's say, 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.800 I'm not gonna do no best stop because I'm I 0:03:26.880 --> 0:03:33.600 live in East Flatbush. But there you go. That's yeah, 0:03:33.639 --> 0:03:36.720 you know what I mean, Flatbush? You know you know 0:03:36.720 --> 0:03:39.920 what ship is out here? You know, you know, you know, 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.200 but that ship that's ship busting, you know what I mean. 0:03:42.240 --> 0:03:46.320 It's just everything is here. It's like it's it's it's 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:49.400 small cone because we're in the bush, like Flatbush zombies. 0:03:49.480 --> 0:03:52.600 It's just it's all like at least where we are, 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:55.160 it's all the weed, the weed dealers that we had 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:57.840 that people as low key kids. I'm in the thirties. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:01.720 When you start going to nineties, is that Brownsville, it's 0:04:01.760 --> 0:04:05.680 a whole different like the nineties has been, Like that's 0:04:05.720 --> 0:04:10.600 so deep. Now you really have real music right now, 0:04:10.840 --> 0:04:13.560 Like that's that's why drill music is coming out of 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:17.400 certain spots. It's where it's least gentrified, and that's why 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:21.200 you get like it's like, is really doing drills right now? 0:04:21.320 --> 0:04:24.280 It's not. They're so deep in it. It's like they 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:27.720 ain't even been on the internet. Like the way they talked, 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:31.320 it's like wow, Like it reminds me of old New 0:04:31.400 --> 0:04:34.479 York and I appreciate it so much, like we haven't 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:37.520 had nothing like that for years. But we also appreciate we' 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.400 hearing on your music on Insecure. We know you have 0:04:39.480 --> 0:04:41.920 the song things where that came on last night's episode 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:44.920 and we are big, big fans of the show as well. 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:49.560 So it's your playing this fire, Yeah, it's you. It's 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:51.400 lame things the way to people like what it is 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:55.280 for people who don't know about energy and stuff. Yeah, 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:59.120 and your what's your name? Marie Condo? That her last 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:02.320 name y'all know, I'm talking about the she I want 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:05.720 to believe. I believe that she's from Japan. I know 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:09.360 she's East Asian and she has a show on Netflix 0:05:09.400 --> 0:05:12.719 about tidying up your spot. Y'all know I haven't seen 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:19.600 it neither, but you let me. This is a great 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:21.760 time for people to figure out how to clean up 0:05:21.760 --> 0:05:25.960 their energy. But go ahead, okay. Um. So, punctual is 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:30.039 this idea that if you clean up your space and 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.560 kind of be more of a minimalist, especially with furniture, 0:05:34.000 --> 0:05:36.640 then there's a natural airflow and the natural flow in 0:05:36.640 --> 0:05:39.440 your place that will create life in your environment. But 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.160 I was using it in terms of design, like style, 0:05:42.560 --> 0:05:46.279 how you feel, um, the functuate your mind. I was 0:05:46.320 --> 0:05:49.400 taking functually out of this furniture, and I made this 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:53.679 dance record, like an Afro func slash hip hop dance 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:57.560 record called punctuay Um. It's not like Super Deep or 0:05:57.640 --> 0:05:59.800 nothing like that, but it's just for right now. For 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:02.600 people just need to be liberated. They need to feel light, 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.720 they need to feel like they're going outside. I don't 0:06:05.760 --> 0:06:11.080 know where y'all stationed, but I'm in Atlanta in Jersey. 0:06:11.520 --> 0:06:13.960 I don't need to interrupt me. But I have to 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:15.880 say this. This is the first time that I moved 0:06:15.880 --> 0:06:19.720 into an apartment. I didn't really rush to furnish it. 0:06:19.839 --> 0:06:24.840 And the energy in here is so it's it's been 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.479 amazing for me. I've had the best luck ever. I 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:30.960 didn't put a mirror in my bedroom and everything's been 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:37.080 going really well. No, because I haven't. I swear my 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.160 my living room is like a photo studio and it's 0:06:39.200 --> 0:06:42.240 just so airy, and I feel like there's the energy 0:06:42.240 --> 0:06:45.840 in here is amazing, So don't fill it up. Like no, 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:49.760 I think something. You need to watch this nex. I 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:52.080 really I can't. I'm blanking on the name, but I 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:54.640 think I got it right. She would she she comes 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:58.040 into the space and she like she praised in it, 0:06:58.279 --> 0:07:00.480 in your in your house, and she comes to the 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:04.000 space of like hoarding people. So she comes and kneels down, 0:07:04.120 --> 0:07:06.560 like gives herself to the space and then she just 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:09.960 gets rid of all your ship. So you, just like 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:14.000 Angela would die. I already know I'm a hoarder. I'm 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:19.320 a hoarder. See the bar in the books right there, 0:07:19.680 --> 0:07:22.960 which is clean, but I'm imagining all the stuff that's 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:27.400 not in frame right now, do you know what, what's 0:07:27.400 --> 0:07:29.640 your record? I felt like when even when you put 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:31.760 the record on, because like I played it and I 0:07:31.760 --> 0:07:34.120 was playing it like back to back, and out of nowhere, 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:36.120 you just started dancing, and I'm like, what am I 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:39.960 doing right here? Looks like you're you dance right and 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.320 you're the because you had a lot of women that 0:07:42.440 --> 0:07:44.760 you had dancing on you and that you were dancing 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:48.679 went and that was going viral. So could you have 0:07:49.280 --> 0:07:52.040 a relationship with a woman that can't dance as well 0:07:52.080 --> 0:07:56.360 as you? M good questions? Wow, that's the question. No, 0:07:56.560 --> 0:08:04.600 I couldn't learn one one. I don't think I'm not 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:07.240 like an amazing dancer, but I feel like it's it's 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:10.880 kind of like everything like cooking, right, I couldn't be 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.640 with a woman who can't cook, but I could be 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:17.559 with a woman who doesn't cook. Like it's just weird 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:20.080 for me, is like a human being to not really 0:08:20.120 --> 0:08:22.040 know how to cook. I don't care if you're into that. 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:25.400 And now I'm not one of those guys all the 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.480 time at least. Yeah, yeah, I just know it's like 0:08:28.520 --> 0:08:31.520 a basic thing, like what is she's really good at 0:08:31.600 --> 0:08:33.480 ordering food for you? And it always knows what you like, 0:08:36.840 --> 0:08:40.960 really good at Yeah, what is she gonna like? I 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.080 know he's gonna love this. Cook this on the side. 0:08:47.960 --> 0:08:51.840 Does that with us, right, Stephanie, I can't cook. I 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:54.840 can't cook. That's what I'm saying. You can cook, but 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:57.720 you don't like I can cook. I'm not cooking, like 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:02.160 even now, Like I have meal plan, which is such 0:09:02.200 --> 0:09:05.720 a it sounds like the most the most luxurious thing 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:09.760 to have in a global pandemic right now. But but yeah, 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:12.880 I just don't with dancing, you have to be able to, 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:15.000 like at least move a little bit, because then, you 0:09:15.000 --> 0:09:16.280 know what I mean. I don't know if you can 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:23.000 in the bedroom, but I don't need you to dance 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.360 like all the cool dances like function. I bet you 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:29.679 aren't even like dancing the regular dances. A little tooth, 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:37.320 that little one, yeah, a little something, you're okay, you 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:47.440 know she don't got a boom cat all over a 0:09:47.440 --> 0:09:56.440 little group. She started popping. That's a little I gotta 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:59.480 call you out on something that you said, okay about 0:09:59.679 --> 0:10:04.160 lying in you did admit a liar, and a woman 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.080 asked you about that and you said I had to. 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:09.240 And by the way, it kind of was conflicting because 0:10:09.600 --> 0:10:12.360 she asked you about lying, and a liar would have said, no, 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.280 I don't lie, but you, being an honest liar that 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:17.400 you are, said I have to let you know I 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:20.800 am been a lot to you. Yeah, the verbatim, I said, 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:23.400 I'm gonna keep it a hundred. I am gonna say 0:10:23.400 --> 0:10:25.800 a lie to you, like at some point, I'm not 0:10:25.840 --> 0:10:29.760 saying that I'm a liar. I'm just saying or whatever, 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:32.480 maybe I am. He said you was a manipulator, though 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:39.000 I have been gonna get into that. Everybody says, oh no, 0:10:39.480 --> 0:10:45.880 and all of you are me being a hundred of 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:49.719 saying I'm going to lie, is me being honest. Nobody 0:10:49.840 --> 0:10:53.600 does not lie in as soon as you enter a relationship, 0:10:53.960 --> 0:10:57.120 you're already in a lie because you're like, oh, I'm 0:10:57.160 --> 0:11:01.360 going to only give my all, only be attractive to you, 0:11:01.440 --> 0:11:04.199 or only one to ever be with you. It's already 0:11:04.640 --> 0:11:14.400 already a lot like look all right now, like right, somebody, Now, 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:16.200 let me tell you. The first line by a mass 0:11:16.320 --> 0:11:21.680 manipulator is always I'm gonna keep it one hunted. As 0:11:21.760 --> 0:11:25.599 soon as that to you, you know there's a manipulation 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:28.559 coming in. You know what I mean, but but but 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:31.040 they never say that, you know a lot like that's 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.400 the thing. I'm just being. I don't want to what 0:11:33.520 --> 0:11:34.880 I'm in a point in life. I don't want to 0:11:34.880 --> 0:11:37.440 make a promise I can't keep, So I'm not gonna 0:11:37.559 --> 0:11:40.800 tell you forever, I'm not gonna lie. There's always little 0:11:40.840 --> 0:11:45.960 white lies at very least if not, you know sometimes Okay, 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:48.120 well let's get some examples. Let's just say that you 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:50.640 and your lady are you guys are already out right 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:52.560 on a date. Nothing she could do about it at 0:11:52.559 --> 0:11:55.400 this point, and she's like, does this outfit make me 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:57.400 look back? And it kind of does, right, You've seen 0:11:57.440 --> 0:12:00.360 her wear more flattering things for her figure. Would you 0:12:00.360 --> 0:12:07.400 answer that question? I would lie, for sure, that's a 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:10.880 perfect answer. But there's no way I'm going to tell 0:12:10.880 --> 0:12:13.800 her the truth. There's this movie called The Inventional Lie 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:18.280 where like it takes place before humans figured out lie, 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:21.320 like how to a lie? And so is hilarious, But 0:12:21.400 --> 0:12:25.480 people would answer that question like for real and honestly, 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:27.560 and it's just not worth it, Like why would I 0:12:27.600 --> 0:12:30.680 make it feel that way? Way to get her to change? 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:40.439 Before you leave the house? Did you put that up? Yeah? 0:12:40.960 --> 0:12:44.680 A good way a good way to have to mention it. 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.679 I mean, I think you can be honest in the crib, 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:50.720 but you know you can be like, Yo, have you 0:12:50.720 --> 0:12:54.559 remember that dress you for, you know, our last anniversary? 0:12:54.960 --> 0:12:57.200 I kind of I'm feeling that really, Oh you think 0:12:57.200 --> 0:12:59.800 I look, yeah, I love that one. I just love 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:07.320 you can just and that and I don't know where 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:13.560 it were. It's still But that's that's the good. That's manipulation. Ship. 0:13:14.440 --> 0:13:17.280 I didn't I tell people this. I'm not a liar, 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:20.240 but I'm not gonna tell on myself, So you just 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:27.800 avoid it. You're a deceiver, but I just telling myself. 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:30.320 So you can't be honest. You can't completely completely be 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.960 honest all the time. Everybody lies a little something and 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.160 then and then, and then there's also where you have 0:13:35.240 --> 0:13:38.760 to process some ships. So like something happens, you feel 0:13:38.800 --> 0:13:41.040 kind of way, but you don't know how to approach it. 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.600 So you end up deceiving a person not telling them 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:46.240 maybe for a week or two, and then you come 0:13:46.280 --> 0:13:47.760 back and they're like, yeah, why don't you tell me 0:13:47.760 --> 0:13:49.800 in the first place? And you're like, I had to 0:13:49.840 --> 0:13:52.679 process it, but the whole time process and you weren't 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:55.960 telling the person anything, so like this, this is what 0:13:56.000 --> 0:13:59.720 I mean, Like, it's we all manipulate, we all deceive, 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:03.400 all lie And I don't think it's always terrible. I 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:06.000 think that's there's that it's actually a value of mine. 0:14:06.160 --> 0:14:09.720 There's like little white lies, and then there's harmful lies. Right, 0:14:11.240 --> 0:14:13.240 it's to this line. So let me ask you this. 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.680 You're dating a girl and she asked you, do you 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.439 think my friend looks better than me? And she does it, 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:23.640 then it's live live. No, Well, if I think her 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:26.480 friend looks better than her, then maybe I should be 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:35.320 dating a friend. I agree, Like, she can give me 0:14:35.320 --> 0:14:40.440 your number, because I'm like, if if there's I don't 0:14:40.480 --> 0:14:42.920 want to date a woman within a friend circle that 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.120 I'm not most attracted to, there may be a woman 0:14:45.120 --> 0:14:48.240 who's like traditionally pretty, she looked fly, like great, cool, 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:53.520 But I should be more attractive to my woman. What 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:55.200 if you didn't meet her friends till later? Though? You 0:14:55.200 --> 0:14:57.240 know how sometimes you meet a girl and then you're like, damn, 0:14:57.280 --> 0:14:59.840 I should have dated her friend. That is true, that 0:15:00.240 --> 0:15:04.520 definitely happening. That's definitely happened. And then when you then 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:07.920 you feel bad in your whole mind. Yeah, already I 0:15:07.920 --> 0:15:13.160 shouldn't have been at that. I should have waited the 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:18.600 early early thought happen. Yeah, uh, you know whatever, it's 0:15:18.600 --> 0:15:20.640 all good. And also you know, y'all, y'all know I 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:26.880 don't like I'm open to both monogamy and polyamory. So yes, 0:15:26.960 --> 0:15:32.600 you know, there's there's always you know, nobody are nowadays 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:39.000 right and men. It's actually it's women, and especially in Brooklyn. 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:46.600 Brooklyn is where I learned all this. I'm from there too. 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:53.880 I ain't learned that ship neither. You know what No, 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:57.360 you slap, but that's like that's like best side all 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:02.160 the way for you for Green East, Flatbush and Easter 0:16:02.280 --> 0:16:05.360 doesn't like CANNOSTI I don't know what that word means 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:09.280 right now, but in the in the hipster areas that 0:16:09.400 --> 0:16:13.080 she started coming in California and ship and in infiltrated 0:16:13.080 --> 0:16:15.040 in Brooklyn. But I'm telling you there was a lot 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:20.840 of women. Women put me on the shippulated right now 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.800 because we are being manipulated. But what is even your type? 0:16:24.840 --> 0:16:26.760 I want to know what your type is, like, what 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:33.120 type of woman? Like man? It varies like uh, it veries, 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:36.640 It depends on the space I'm in, Like when I 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:40.560 was younger. I only dated hood rats for a minute. 0:16:41.320 --> 0:16:44.120 Swear like if you if you didn't have like a 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:50.040 gold tooth, and like like seven taxs and and hoop 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:53.040 earrings with your name in it. I wasn't dating that 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:56.200 was that was early on. And then then I got 0:16:56.200 --> 0:17:00.360 into like the mystic gypsy kind of women and that 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:06.000 we're like would vacuum their house and then bust stage 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:10.960 out while listening to trap music. That whole means um 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:14.439 that now now, And I said this like I've been 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:18.720 saying this all week because it's something I really realized recently. 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:21.280 Right now, I'm just looking for a kind of kind 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:24.520 of women, Like women in general, to me, are are 0:17:24.760 --> 0:17:29.400 more thoughtful than men. But I used to put your 0:17:29.440 --> 0:17:34.520 sophistication and your streets above kindness, and now I put 0:17:34.600 --> 0:17:40.240 kindness above those you want basically like a mystic kind hardress. 0:17:41.680 --> 0:17:49.720 Yeah perfect, that sounds perfect. Yeah, actually that's it. I 0:17:50.480 --> 0:17:54.240 would take that any day, like you need to be no, 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:58.240 it sounds like hard. Three is hard. Three is three 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.320 is hard. I just need her to be in different 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:03.960 spaces because I'm not. I'm not. I don't live in 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:06.679 one world I live in like I'll get bored I 0:18:06.720 --> 0:18:08.840 get bored with women who only know like I date 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:12.760 like a business professional, corporate woman who talks like this 0:18:12.840 --> 0:18:16.040 and use the shirt lips like you know, like that's cool. 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:19.720 But I'm not gonna be there in that world the 0:18:19.760 --> 0:18:24.240 whole time. So when we go to the nineties in Brooklyn, 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:29.320 can you are you okay? You adapt? Are you comfortable? 0:18:29.320 --> 0:18:36.440 I don't need you to dreak, but yeah, you see 0:18:36.520 --> 0:18:39.720 you see one fire, you see some pill, you see something, 0:18:39.760 --> 0:18:44.200 and you're like, oh my god, we're gonna get yeah, relaxed, 0:18:44.280 --> 0:18:47.280 like it's okay, and vice versa, Like I can't take 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:50.159 somebody some of the women I used to date to 0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:53.800 some of these like galas, they're just not gonna survive. 0:18:54.760 --> 0:18:56.280 All right, now, let me ask this back to the 0:18:56.320 --> 0:19:01.040 line thing. Let's just say and asked you, is this 0:19:01.080 --> 0:19:03.000 the best pussy you ever had? And it's really not. 0:19:03.840 --> 0:19:06.720 It's trash. Are you gonna tell her? Yes? As a 0:19:06.720 --> 0:19:11.280 matter of fact, you have to fake with orgasm? Oh damn, damn, 0:19:11.440 --> 0:19:16.320 I don't think how did how does it? He just 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:23.160 stopped you? I know how he does know? How? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, 0:19:23.200 --> 0:19:25.800 you know. Earlier today I had to get it in 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.679 myself you had a rub one out before, so you 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:31.320 know right now if you see you know that's why 0:19:31.359 --> 0:19:33.960 you don't see nothing coming out of me. But God, 0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:41.080 you never just pretended that you came, but you didn't. No, 0:19:43.920 --> 0:19:46.800 I don't think. I don't think men pretend like I don't. 0:19:46.840 --> 0:19:50.280 I don't. I guarantee you they have do. Yes, we've 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:51.760 had men on lips every day that you think that 0:19:52.080 --> 0:19:55.840 they pretended. Yeah, I never, I never. I need put 0:19:55.840 --> 0:19:59.400 that in my arsenal now I never did that. That's 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:02.560 a tool. Okay, No, I mean the best pussy I 0:20:02.720 --> 0:20:05.879 ever had. I have to tell her that, Yeah, are 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:10.159 you gonna lie? Are you gonna tell the truth? Yeoh? 0:20:10.240 --> 0:20:13.040 If she put me on the spot, I might. I might. 0:20:13.119 --> 0:20:18.960 I might tell the truth. I know I know myself 0:20:20.520 --> 0:20:23.600 because after I'd be like, and she said something much 0:20:23.640 --> 0:20:26.520 the best pussy you ever had? I'd been like, uh, 0:20:29.000 --> 0:20:36.639 I mean, who was the best pussy that you ever had? Like? 0:20:36.680 --> 0:20:40.000 What was the experience? Like? Do you remember I was young? Yo, 0:20:40.480 --> 0:20:43.320 I was a teenager, Like I had a high school sweetheart. 0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:47.879 She was Jamaican. She's amazing. And I think because it 0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:53.119 was so early and because it was just yeah, it 0:20:53.240 --> 0:20:56.280 was like euphoria. I never felt anything like that, Like 0:20:56.760 --> 0:20:59.439 I felt like it was like cosmic and ship, right, 0:21:00.240 --> 0:21:04.240 my ship disappears into a woman and then like yeah, 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:06.600 so that was that was the best. But I didn't 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:08.240 even know what I was doing them, but it just 0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:11.160 felt like the best. We were listening to the Maxwell Ship, 0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:21.879 you know what I mean, like love loving Basketball, don't 0:21:21.920 --> 0:21:23.760 make you feel like it's the best, even though it's 0:21:23.800 --> 0:21:27.280 not just a song. What I'm saying like so funny 0:21:27.280 --> 0:21:29.400 because I think I lost my opportunity to that song 0:21:29.480 --> 0:21:33.399 and I was probably like the best, said that was 0:21:33.480 --> 0:21:36.359 the best sex I ever had at the time. At 0:21:36.400 --> 0:21:40.199 the time, if you lost your virginity work, I was like, 0:21:41.840 --> 0:21:45.320 when did you figure out what you were doing? Like, 0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:47.280 you know, because there's always that moment you're like, I 0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:51.440 didn't this time. It took yeah, like ten years later, 0:21:51.520 --> 0:21:56.360 Like there's no way, Like even in uh in college, 0:21:56.400 --> 0:22:02.760 I was like I was definitely thottish test in in college, 0:22:02.760 --> 0:22:05.080 and I mean the front of the first two years 0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:08.560 that that was my little run around, I still wasn't 0:22:08.600 --> 0:22:10.720 doing it right. It was it was year you know 0:22:10.760 --> 0:22:14.240 what it was. I had to make the transition from 0:22:14.240 --> 0:22:20.520 trying to just fuck too. Serving a woman's like actually 0:22:20.560 --> 0:22:23.640 focusing on the woman like so many because we grow 0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:26.200 up on pulling. So many of us we come up 0:22:26.280 --> 0:22:30.520 and like we think it's a hammer and a rabbit 0:22:31.359 --> 0:22:36.119 and the like move slower, move slower, move your hips, 0:22:36.160 --> 0:22:38.960 like think about her, slow down if you need to, 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:43.679 because don't come before her. Focus Like my whole mindset 0:22:43.800 --> 0:22:46.480 right now. When I'm with the woman and I go far, 0:22:46.560 --> 0:22:50.159 I imagine Chakras on her, like I try to imagine 0:22:50.720 --> 0:22:55.119 everything about how I can please her. So that that 0:22:55.119 --> 0:22:58.359 that switch took like easily ten years from being a 0:22:58.359 --> 0:23:00.719 young teenager and to my twenties, because you don't want 0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:01.960 to be on the blogs now and they'd be like, 0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:05.600 oh my god, I as sextually was awful, Like he 0:23:13.720 --> 0:23:18.640 don't believe that. Yeah, I mean that's just inevitable. Somebody's 0:23:18.640 --> 0:23:21.320 gonna say something. What about the first time you ate pussy? 0:23:21.680 --> 0:23:24.640 Do you remember that? Oh my god, I was terrible. 0:23:26.000 --> 0:23:32.439 I was. I'm way better now, but like, man, I didn't. 0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:35.240 It didn't Again, you look at polling and sex that 0:23:35.680 --> 0:23:39.440 so the way that what they're doing a point, it 0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:42.320 just be it doesn't make sense. Like if I can 0:23:42.359 --> 0:23:45.600 tell now that those women are probably tickled by the 0:23:45.600 --> 0:23:49.000 way these guys are going down. At some point, I'm like, oh, yeah, 0:23:49.080 --> 0:23:53.160 that's not she's like laughing. She's laughing, like but I 0:23:53.240 --> 0:23:57.920 know she's laughing because it's actually ticklesh and not doing 0:23:57.920 --> 0:24:01.320 a job. So she's like, I gotta keep together. Um, 0:24:01.400 --> 0:24:05.000 but this guy is terrible this ship. I didn't like 0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:08.200 it at first because I also thought like certain rappers 0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:12.479 were saying they didn't need pussy and anything. Wayne really 0:24:12.600 --> 0:24:17.520 pushed he loves eating and it helped me so much, 0:24:17.880 --> 0:24:27.080 So thank you little Muen. Well maybe it's all his raps. 0:24:27.119 --> 0:24:30.240 That's it. He did, because if you look at rappers 0:24:30.240 --> 0:24:32.520 before then, like a lot was like, yeah, I don't 0:24:32.520 --> 0:24:34.840 eat that ship. It was like, now I don't go 0:24:34.920 --> 0:24:36.920 down there. And then she she give me head, but 0:24:36.920 --> 0:24:41.760 I don't give her head. It was like hard and 0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:44.680 then Wayne made a hard to eat so it took 0:24:44.720 --> 0:24:47.680 me a while. And then you know what it is communication? 0:24:48.880 --> 0:24:52.200 Communication during the act. A lot of people don't want 0:24:52.240 --> 0:24:54.159 to you just especially if you just meet somebody's a 0:24:54.160 --> 0:24:56.560 little awkward to be like, but all you have to 0:24:56.560 --> 0:24:58.159 do is like what you what do you like? And 0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:09.040 tell me, tell me what go there, go there. You 0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:12.880 have to ask and to the men that are watching 0:25:13.440 --> 0:25:15.960 um and the women who have never eaten, you have 0:25:16.080 --> 0:25:19.840 to ask, like what feels good consistently so that you know, 0:25:20.040 --> 0:25:23.240 because otherwise you're just gonna be guessing. And then you 0:25:23.280 --> 0:25:26.120 don't like the person because it wasn't compatible. You feel 0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:28.159 like it wasn't But no, it wasn't about compatibility. It 0:25:28.200 --> 0:25:32.520 was about communications. Anybody I described somebody how to go 0:25:32.680 --> 0:25:35.960 down on you, is it last pleasureable? Do you think? 0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:37.960