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Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

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Speaker 3: But we're not just scrubbing in because it's Becca Tilly's bird.

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Speaker 1: Speech.

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Speaker 2: Speech, speech speech, I'm thirty seven.

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Speaker 3: Wait, do you want to open your cupcakes? Maybe put

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Speaker 3: some frosting on your nose.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to do that, but thank you. Tanya

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Speaker 2: brought me a bunch of hefty amount of mini cupcakes.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to get thirty seven. But that is felt silly.

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Speaker 2: That feels Oh that feels excessive. Yeah, how many is

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Speaker 2: this twenty four?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That feels perfect. Yeah that's the age I feel mentally. Yeah, physically, yeah,

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Speaker 2: thirty seven. I'm excited. I'm excited to be here. Another

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Speaker 2: year of life with the people I love, Phoebe and

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Speaker 2: just more things look forward to.

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Speaker 3: What do you want to bring in for this new

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Speaker 3: year of life?

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Speaker 2: Mmm? I would say my focus this year is going

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Speaker 2: to be I want to be better at making decisions. Oh,

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Speaker 2: explain well, I'm just thinking like if we're getting like eventually,

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Speaker 2: I'm sure this year will be the year that we

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Speaker 2: start wedding planning and I want to like be in

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Speaker 2: a headspace of saying what I want. And you're good

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Speaker 2: at that. Now, that's so funny. Someone said that to

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Speaker 2: me the other day and I don't, Oh, that was

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Speaker 2: you Mark. He asked if I had an opinion on

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Speaker 2: a chair situation or something, and I was like, I

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Speaker 2: don't care. I just want to if I don't, I

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Speaker 2: genuinely really don't care about a lot of decisions that

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Speaker 2: are day to day stuff, but I want to if

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Speaker 2: I do care, I want to let myself care without

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Speaker 2: feeling that I'm doing something wrong by caring, if that

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Speaker 2: makes sense, Like being assertive and what I want, Like

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Speaker 2: you want your dress shorterer, I'm gonna say I want

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Speaker 2: If I want my dress shorder him shorter, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: say I want my dress him shorter.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, don't get me wrock for my wedding.

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Speaker 3: I was very vocal.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Glinda and the wedding are different. But I was

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Speaker 2: just saying I want to be and I also want

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Speaker 2: to be just like I want to have like peace,

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Speaker 2: and I want my relationships to have just a lot

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Speaker 2: of love and joy and like put time and care

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Speaker 2: into the relationships that I have. That's what I want

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Speaker 2: to focus on.

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Speaker 3: Okay, what do you want to leave behind?

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Speaker 2: Mm? I don't know. I'll think about it.

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Speaker 3: Nice.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't know. I was doing like a soul

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Speaker 2: searching episode Today's. I wasn't prepared.

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Speaker 3: No, you don't know what I'm gonna throw at you.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, wedding planning in twenty twenty six, Well.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure. I'm sure we'll start like, well, at least

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Speaker 2: have to start thinking about location and stuff, because I

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Speaker 3: You really don't.

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Speaker 2: Oh really, I mean that's what everybody says. You have

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Speaker 2: did a year out?

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Speaker 3: We did it five months before.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well yeah you did do it pretty so stressful

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Speaker 2: for you. Let's I don't want to be stressed doing

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Speaker 1: Stressed months having that window and trying to choose this one,

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Speaker 1: then that one was looking rocky for a second. You're

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Speaker 1: looking at Plan B like that was a stressful time. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: a year out, I feel.

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Speaker 5: Like it's gonna be a little more chill.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw someone say, like, just go ahead, make

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Speaker 2: all the decisions, as many decisions as you can. Ride

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Speaker 2: off the bat and that way, when it gets closer

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Speaker 2: to the date, you're not scrambling trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: like last minute details that really aren't, you know, like

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Speaker 3: And I also feel like go with your gut is

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Speaker 3: we both robbing and I were like, this feels so us.

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Speaker 3: Like this, this just felt every part about it, every

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Speaker 3: yet we still planned a whole weekend to like tour

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Speaker 3: I we knew in our gut that like that was

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Speaker 2: I think you listen to it, but then you allowed

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Speaker 2: yourself to have other options, so you weren't going what if.

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Speaker 2: I think, that's fine?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what you've got telling you now?

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Speaker 2: I literally haven't checked in with her to see I

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Speaker 2: think I think, what do you think everyone thinks? Hawaii? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so predictable, might need to go, might need to pivot

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Speaker 2: just because everyone thinks it's gonna be St.

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Speaker 1: Paul, Minnesota, really keeping guessing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so well, the the decision will be like where

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Speaker 2: what do we want the backdrop to be? Do we

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Speaker 2: want it to be ocean? And we wanted to be

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Speaker 2: trees and mountains? You know, So that's really what it's

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Speaker 2: gonna come down to, and then trying to find a

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Speaker 2: place that matches that vibe, which Hawaii does have all

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Speaker 2: those things.

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Speaker 3: Did you do La? Could you see yourself getting married?

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Speaker 2: No? No? Really really? Shall we play games or something? Well?

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Speaker 1: I have a couple of things. I have a celebrity

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Speaker 1: birthday game that's specific to today your birthday. And I

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Speaker 1: also put together some Becca Tilly trivia which we call

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Speaker 1: Beka tilvia. Wow, that and Tanya could play to see

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Speaker 1: who knows you better? I assume Tanya does, but you

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Speaker 1: never know.

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Speaker 2: Wow, let's do that.

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Speaker 3: Let's do let's play that game, because then I always

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Speaker 3: look like such.

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Speaker 2: A Let's do Let's do one game now and then

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Speaker 2: maybe at dear Bonia and then another game.

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Speaker 1: Great, okay, let's start with the trivia.

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Speaker 5: You'll be fine.

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Speaker 3: You answers already that would have been that would.

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Speaker 5: Shashu?

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Speaker 1: Should we give Easton first guests on these and then

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Speaker 1: you can clarify if he gets it wrong or vice versa,

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Speaker 1: or just yell it out. I just yelled at, yelled out, Hey,

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Speaker 1: Becca Tilly was originally on? Which season of The Bachelor? Numerically?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Oh god? Which season? Was it?

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Speaker 1: Twenty one Easton twenty two nineteen? The answer, so we

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Speaker 1: give it to Tanya because she was closest.

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Speaker 2: No one, Okay, nobody got that right. You don't get

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Speaker 2: a point if you don't get.

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Speaker 1: A round fair enough? Zero?

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Speaker 2: Is that? Honestly? Both of you should have known.

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Speaker 5: All right?

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Speaker 2: I was on so I it was Chrysals, Yeah, nineteen

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Speaker 2: season twenty.

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Speaker 5: All right, how tall is Becca? In inches?

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Speaker 3: Five?

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Speaker 1: It's correct, It's not an inches, but that's correct. In

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Speaker 1: what city was Becca born? Now this one may have

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Speaker 1: changed because I was an older website. So you can

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Speaker 1: tell us the answer. How many tattoos does Becca here?

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Speaker 5: Zero?

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Speaker 2: Well, so I don't. I don't have anybody. I mean

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Speaker 2: I technically had two. They had faded, faded, moved, No

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Speaker 2: I had they were like, uh, they were called like

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Speaker 2: flesh tone colors or something, and then they like in

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Speaker 2: the sun and stuff. They just eventually faded of. I'm

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Speaker 2: so shocked. I never knew this. Wow. I had a

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Speaker 2: little tiny Jesus fish that was like.

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Speaker 1: Literally this big and right there on your wrist.

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Speaker 2: Wrist, and then I had a uh, it looked like

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Speaker 2: I took lipstick and kissed my wrist right here, so

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Speaker 2: it was like a lipstick kissing prend.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, wow it was. And then my sister and

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Speaker 2: I got it.

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Speaker 5: That's cute.

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Speaker 2: It's gone. My eyebrowser technically tattooed. Yeah there, that's what

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Speaker 2: I can still say too. I've talked about this before.

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Speaker 3: Your tattoos a plenty.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I'm not disappearing. I never know you have.

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Speaker 3: Jesus fish tattoo on your What is this part of your.

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Speaker 1: Rest risk innerest interest?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just a reminder. I can't say that you you

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Speaker 2: could for a long time, you could see it, but

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Speaker 2: it's fully gone.

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Speaker 1: Here's a couple more from the questionnaire Becca filled out

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Speaker 1: when she did the Bachelor. Name any of the four

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Speaker 1: things Becca lifted on her Bachelor questionnaire as things she

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Speaker 1: can't live without.

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Speaker 3: Jesus, wrong, TV, her family, family.

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Speaker 1: No, TV's family, Yes, TV. I'm going to give it

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Speaker 1: to you. She said Netflix, I'm going to give you

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Speaker 1: that one.

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Speaker 2: What questionnaire is this?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 1: I guess it was five things. There's five things on you.

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Speaker 1: You got one, you got you got family, and you

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Speaker 1: got Netflix.

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Speaker 3: So we can just keep going.

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Speaker 1: Sleep not on there, Taylor Swift.

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Speaker 5: Not on there?

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Speaker 1: Talk about no no, no, food is food is one

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Speaker 5: Yeah, water, sleep, I'm what.

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Speaker 2: This questionnaire is? I have no memory of this.

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Speaker 1: And then she also said friends not to the TV

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Speaker 1: show like and Wi Fi? Simple, simple, gal, you said that?

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Speaker 1: All right, well here's the last one. But you may

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Speaker 1: not even know this one yourself. On that same questionnaire,

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Speaker 1: what animal did Becka say she would like to be? Oh?

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Speaker 2: Dolphin?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know Becca bass All.

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Speaker 2: I was playing. I was like, what did I say? Why?

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Speaker 1: Fire?

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Speaker 2: So? Why my Netflix? Are really strange?

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Speaker 1: Food? Family, Friends, Wi Fi?

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Speaker 5: Netflix?

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Speaker 4: I can we haven't done this before. This is such

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Speaker 4: a fun idea.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and I can't believe Jesus wasn't on there.

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Speaker 2: It's just a given. I didn't need to put it

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Speaker 2: on the questionnaire, right.

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Speaker 5: That's what he came.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Wow, that was interesting. I wonder how I wonder

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Speaker 2: if that was for.

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Speaker 5: What?

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Speaker 2: What was it? Does it say the source of what

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Speaker 2: that's wrong?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 1: I think doesn't everyone have to do that when you

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Speaker 1: go on The Bachelor?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I don't know if it's public knowledge. Did

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Speaker 2: that get.

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Speaker 1: It's on Bachelor Nation wiki?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Wow?

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Speaker 1: Maybe they did and it was from ABC?

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Speaker 5: Do they got it from ABC dot com?

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Speaker 2: Oh? They probably used it as like you know when

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Speaker 2: they do the people's bios and stuff. But how uninteresting

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Speaker 2: that they use.

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Speaker 1: Well, so let's keep going since now you don't know.

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Speaker 5: So your biggest.

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Speaker 3: Nope, something happening, smelly breath, gas, spilling something on yourself?

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Speaker 5: No? What did you say for that? You're getting warmer?

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Speaker 5: No, it wasn't that wasn't.

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Speaker 2: I still.

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Speaker 2: What did I list? Oh? My god, this is crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I should have guessed that all right.

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Speaker 2: So they could. I couldn't have even guessed this myself.

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Speaker 3: You were how old when she was feeling when you

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like a totally different person at twenty five.

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Speaker 1: Bonya Jordans, says hi Becca easton Marcantania. Sorry, Tanya, I

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Speaker 1: am new to dating women, and I need some help

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Speaker 1: I've known I've had an interest in women for years.

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Speaker 1: Last year I took the leap and officially started going

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Speaker 1: on dates with them. I'm so used to dating guys

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Speaker 1: the first came when dating women, how do you know

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Speaker 1: who does what? I feel like there's been several dates

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Speaker 5: Help.

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Speaker 1: I love this podcast so much, so thank you for

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Speaker 1: being amazing. Love you all, Jordan.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny.

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Speaker 3: I'm curious this too.

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Speaker 2: To be honest, I my whole thing is, I'm so

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Speaker 2: I've been I didn't even go on dates. I didn't

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Speaker 3: You still were dating her early on.

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Speaker 2: I know, but I'm saying, like I it wasn't I

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Speaker 2: because my whole life I was very much a gender

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Speaker 2: I can do what I want, Like I can make

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Speaker 2: We would be like, just go for it. What's the

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Speaker 2: worst that could happen there's no chemistry or it doesn't

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Speaker 3: I thrived up dating men in my modern woman's sense,

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Speaker 2: And my thing with the anything that's like a gender role,

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Speaker 2: I don't do that, but that's trash too.

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Speaker 3: We actually don't have those at all with either. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: That's how we are. It's like, what where do you?

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Speaker 2: What are the things that you enjoy more? What are

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Speaker 2: if you want to kiss her, then kiss her.

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Speaker 1: Excellent advice. I want to read this one from anonymous,

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Speaker 5: That's helpful.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, beca how appropriate for today? Hello Becka Easton

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Speaker 1: Marcantania point on, thank you for such a wonderful podcast.

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Speaker 1: The truly is hard to be in a bad mood

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Speaker 1: when listening to your episodes. I listened attentively to all

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Speaker 5: It was so personal to me.

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Speaker 1: It felt like I'd be handing over my agency to him,

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Speaker 1: under celebratory, not painful circumstances. But as the months wore

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Speaker 1: to take Becca's advice and stride. The sooner you tell

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Speaker 1: through the call, and one of them said, Becca Tilly

452
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Speaker 1: says that the sooner you do it, the sooner you

453
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Speaker 1: start the healing process. Thankfully, he responded really well, with

454
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 1: lots of apologies and love. I told my mom a

455
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,119
Speaker 1: few months ago, so they both know now. Thank you

456
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 1: so much, Beca, for being so open about the hard

457
00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:39,359
Speaker 1: parts of family relationships and forgiving me the courage I

458
00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 1: needed to reach out a hand in mind, in mind,

459
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 1: and thank you all for being so caring and for

460
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,880
Speaker 1: putting wise words out into the ether where they find

461
00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:49,000
Speaker 1: folks who need to hear them. Ah, My love, A

462
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:50,360
Speaker 1: grateful scrubber.

463
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Speaker 2: Man I'm so happy that you. To me, that's so

464
00:21:56,920 --> 00:22:00,439
Speaker 2: brave to have a hard conversation like that kind of

465
00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:04,520
Speaker 2: hear the truth of where your dad stood with you know,

466
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: trans people, and being able to also not only share

467
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 2: the such a huge part of who you are, but

468
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 2: also acknowledge that what he said hurt you like that

469
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: shows the relationship that you have with your family. And

470
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 2: obviously what a way he responded, I know, beyond like

471
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Speaker 2: I know that that we shouldn't be impressed by the

472
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Speaker 2: bare minimum, but for him to acknowledge his part in

473
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 2: hurting you and and also accepting you is such a

474
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Speaker 2: honestly rare gift that a lot of people don't have.

475
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Speaker 2: So I'm so happy it went well. And I'm so

476
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 2: proud of you because you not only shared something very

477
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Speaker 2: personal and such a big part of yourself, but you

478
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 2: also held him accountable and hopefully moving forward there's more

479
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 2: openness and being able to share the reasons why you

480
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Speaker 2: stand for what you stand for. And I am just

481
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 2: so incredibly proud of you, and I'm so honored that

482
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Speaker 2: I had anything to do with that.

483
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Speaker 3: Yeah, that was such a beautiful story, like bottom middle end,

484
00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 3: I know, just like yeah.

485
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,480
Speaker 2: And hopeful and it makes you, I think.

486
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Speaker 6: It like you do something so scary and it turned

487
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Speaker 6: out so well, I know, and now you don't have

488
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Speaker 6: to tiptoe around or feel like you're walking on eggshells

489
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 6: around you know, your parents.

490
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Speaker 3: And I feel like a lot of people keep stuff

491
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Speaker 3: in because they're scared of like the responds and this

492
00:23:25,560 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 3: response was so great.

493
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, there are so many people who just get influenced

494
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Speaker 1: by media, podcasts, friends, relatives, whoever it is, and they

495
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 1: develop these feelings about trans people, are gay people, or

496
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Speaker 1: whatever it is. But then when it happens in their family,

497
00:23:41,080 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: when it's their child, their grandchild, everything changes and they realize,

498
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Speaker 1: you know what.

499
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:46,640
Speaker 5: It's not a big deal.

500
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Speaker 1: I wish everybody could imagine what it would be like

501
00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 1: for it to be in their family, because then maybe

502
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 1: they wouldn't have these feelings to begin with. But some

503
00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:55,760
Speaker 1: people have the journey they have to go on. So

504
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 1: I think you have to give people grace.

505
00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 2: And unfortunately, sometimes it doesn't change anything, you know, And

506
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 2: that's the truth. And I think that when you choose

507
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,440
Speaker 2: to share these things, like for anyone who's listening who

508
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 2: thinks like that might not be my story, that's okay,

509
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 2: and you still you should do it when you're ready

510
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 2: and you are prepared for all outcomes, because sometimes it

511
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 2: doesn't go as smooth and they're not as accepting. But

512
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 2: I think that there's so much beauty and just being

513
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 2: able to share it with you and at least at

514
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 2: the very least it makes them think. It makes them think, Yeah,

515
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 2: it might not change anything, it might not go in

516
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:33,520
Speaker 2: the direction you hope for, but it puts like a

517
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 2: little rock in their shoe where they will think about

518
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 2: it differently because it's someone that they love. So thank

519
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 2: you Anonymous for sharing that was really really special. We

520
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 2: love you, we love you. I'm proud of you, and

521
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:49,120
Speaker 2: we love you and I love you. Okay, we will

522
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:53,000
Speaker 2: be back with Tanya's favorite game, Yes, the birthday game

523
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 2: that she rarely wins but loves to play. Anyway, that

524
00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 2: story all right, we are back with another game.

525
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:19,119
Speaker 5: Well, a couple.

526
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:22,160
Speaker 1: Would you rather before we play the game back? Would

527
00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: you rather open presence in front of everyone or have

528
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:26,119
Speaker 1: to make a speech at your party?

529
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:28,640
Speaker 3: Speech?

530
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 2: I think speech.

531
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Speaker 1: Would you rather get a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift

532
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 1: or a heartfelt handwritten letter from Haley.

533
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,960
Speaker 2: Like for my birthday, a surprise appearance from Taylor Swift.

534
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 3: The sheer length that took you to answer that is disturbing.

535
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,880
Speaker 1: Would you rather have your friends roast you or give

536
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: you a sappy tribute?

537
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 2: Roast? Woo?

538
00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 1: I probably roast is fun in the the first couple

539
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: of jokes I have being like.

540
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,160
Speaker 2: I want to Yeah, they could go a little too.

541
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Would you rather have to eat only cake all

542
00:26:08,720 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 1: day on your birthday?

543
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 5: Or not be allowed to eat cake at all?

544
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 2: Do you have other sweets? Can I have other sets? No?

545
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,240
Speaker 3: It's either all cake all day or no cake at all?

546
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 1: No sweets, you think because you have pie, because candy.

547
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 5: Donut?

548
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 2: If I can have other sweets, I'll say no cake

549
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:26,479
Speaker 2: at all?

550
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 5: All right?

551
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:29,800
Speaker 1: And would you rather have a birthday dinner with your

552
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: younger self or your eighty.

553
00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 5: Year old self?

554
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 2: My younger self?

555
00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 5: To give her advice?

556
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 2: Just to have a chit chat with her little shot

557
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 2: investment tips? Yeah, I just yeah, some investment tips and

558
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,680
Speaker 2: just to really think about her answers and the questionnaire

559
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 2: for ABC.

560
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,480
Speaker 4: Some castide people are gonna ask you some questions.

561
00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 5: Think about that.

562
00:26:58,359 --> 00:27:01,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, just give some better answers, all right?

563
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: Here we go a birthday game, so I limited it

564
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: to today and then time you got mad. So we're

565
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: gonna do the whole weekend. Here we go, Bay, how

566
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 1: old turning?

567
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:10,520
Speaker 5: Today?

568
00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 1: It's this we're starting with huh.

569
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:13,760
Speaker 5: Always start with you.

570
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 1: Here.

571
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:14,960
Speaker 5: We're gonna tell you.

572
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:20,200
Speaker 1: Becky Easton, all right, Matthew Morrison from Glee, Matthew.

573
00:27:19,920 --> 00:27:22,400
Speaker 2: Morrison is the same birthdays, same.

574
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: Birthday as you. Congratulations?

575
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 5: How old is he today?

576
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 3: Forty eight? Today?

577
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 1: He's not Becca?

578
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,200
Speaker 2: Oh he? I think he's probably forty four.

579
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 5: Forty four Easton?

580
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:34,520
Speaker 4: He is forty three?

581
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: Is forty seven? That's the point for Tommy.

582
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:37,960
Speaker 2: Wow.

583
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 3: I was gonna say forty seven, wow, and then I

584
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:43,200
Speaker 3: thought she's a little older.

585
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 1: How about Janelle Parish? Remember Janelle Parish? Pretty little liar's

586
00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: got to seek great God to keep bat.

587
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 5: How old is she? Thirty?

588
00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 2: Guy?

589
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 5: Becca?

590
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 2: Thirty eight, thirty eight?

591
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 4: Easton thirty seven.

592
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: Years thirty seven?

593
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 2: Very nice.

594
00:28:04,440 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 3: I would have said thirty nine. Anyway, No, we heard.

595
00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:08,680
Speaker 5: Easton?

596
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,400
Speaker 1: How old? It's Henry Winkler today. He was the Fox,

597
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 1: he was in Barry, he was in lots of fun stuff.

598
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 4: Henry Winkler is.

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00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: Seventy five, Okay, Tanya seventy nine, Becca.

600
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 2: Eighty one.

601
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,399
Speaker 1: He is eighty today. I have to give it to

602
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 1: Tanya because she went.

603
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 2: Over who was losing? Oh oh, I see, I'll.

604
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: Only enforced the going over prices right role in the

605
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: case of a time. Gavin Rossdale from Bush. This is yours,

606
00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 1: Tanya Gavin Rossdale formally married to Gwen Stefani. How old

607
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: is he today?

608
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 3: Fifty four?

609
00:28:54,160 --> 00:29:00,240
Speaker 1: Becca fifty six? Easton fifty five sixty that's a that's

610
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: the point right there.

611
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 3: Oh my god, although I don't like him.

612
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, nanny issues there. Birthday final one from today and

613
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: then we move on to tomorrow. Model Ashley Graham. Ashley

614
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: Graham's been on our show. I do believe, yes, not

615
00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: me this Easton? No, this is yeah, this is Becca Yeah,

616
00:29:18,040 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: Ashley Graham.

617
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:25,120
Speaker 2: Yep, Ashley Graham is she's probably yeah, she's I'm gonna

618
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 2: go forty one.

619
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Speaker 5: Forty one Easton.

620
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 4: Uh, I think she's younger than me. Oh so that

621
00:29:32,240 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 4: makes her thirty four Tanya.

622
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna guess thirty five.

623
00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: She is thirty eight today. Oh my god, what did

624
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: you say? Forty forty one and Houston thirty five. So

625
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: with the tie and Tanya went under Oh wow, Tanya

626
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: three Becca one Easton one, as we go to tomorrow's birthday.

627
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: Tomorrow is Willow Smith's birthday?

628
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 5: Easton?

629
00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: How old is Willow Smith?

630
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 5: Tomorrow?

631
00:29:55,800 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: Will Smith is twenty two? Okay, Tanya, this is tough.

632
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 2: Twenty four Becca twenty.

633
00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: Three, twenty five is running away with this one. Yeah,

634
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: it's not over yet. Do I have a lot of

635
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 1: four to one to one tough to be? Well, we'll

636
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: see Becca vanilla Ice has a birthday tomorrow.

637
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 2: He sure does.

638
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: Rolling It is five point zero with the top wreck

639
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: top down so his hair can blow.

640
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:34,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was thinking about. I'm gonna say

641
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 2: fifty six.

642
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 5: He's not fifty six Easton.

643
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: Uh, he is fifty one, okay, Tanya, noa, that's the one.

644
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say forty nine.

645
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: He's fifty eight point with Becca, and I feel like

646
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 1: a comeback is starting. Wow Easton too one two three

647
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: one two three, Uh, this is Becca's I just went

648
00:30:59,240 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 1: you did Easton Dermott mulroney.

649
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 4: Who's that remember of Hunting Wives?

650
00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 1: Hunting Wives my best friend's wedding?

651
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Dermott.

652
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 1: He was in Must Love Dogs. Yeah, you know him.

653
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: From the main guy from my best friend's wedding.

654
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 5: He's the guy. Yeah, the other one, the.

655
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 3: One who's getting married, the one who's best friend. He's

656
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:22,200
Speaker 3: Julie Roberts's best friend. Yes, okay, got it.

657
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:22,800
Speaker 1: How old is he?

658
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 5: Easton?

659
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:25,720
Speaker 4: Let's see, and if you're my mom, he is not

660
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 4: Benjamin Bratt. We are getting to a lot of our

661
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 4: Dermott mulroney is sixty four.

662
00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: Sixty four, Tanya sixty one, Becca fifty nine, sixty two. Tanya, yay,

663
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: that maybe the dagger, but we'll keep going. Tanya, Penn badgely.

664
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:48,440
Speaker 5: Star of you.

665
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 3: He's thirty eight.

666
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 5: He's thirty eight.

667
00:31:50,720 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: Becca thirty nine.

668
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 5: He is thirty nine.

669
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 2: Very nice.

670
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: Easton, No wait, I'm all confected. Who Becky Jenny McCarthy

671
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: on Saturday has a birthday?

672
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 5: How old is she turning?

673
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:17,520
Speaker 2: Jenny McCarthy, she's.

674
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: Forty eight, forty eight. Easton, she's fifty two, all right, Tanya,

675
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: fifty fifty three.

676
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 5: That's the point for Easton, Thank god. Easton.

677
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: How about Tim Cook, the CEO of Apple Apple CEO,

678
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:30,520
Speaker 1: Tim Cook.

679
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,920
Speaker 2: We have any visuals he's about to step down. Give

680
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 2: me a friend.

681
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 1: He's a major deal in this world. Yes, alright, I'm

682
00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:42,720
Speaker 1: giving you a photo of Tim Cook.

683
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 5: All right, there he is, that's Tim Cook right there?

684
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all right?

685
00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: How old is Tim Cook?

686
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 4: Tim Cook? Tim Cook is? He is a sixty eight?

687
00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 2: Okay, Tanya seventy five, Becca sixty five.

688
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:03,560
Speaker 1: He's sixty five.

689
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 5: Now and we have a game.

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00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: Kanya has five, Becca has four, Easton has twos.

691
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 5: I'm telling you it's gonna be closed. Now.

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00:33:13,160 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: We go to I don't know who do we go

693
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 1: doing this?

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00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: One? Know me?

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00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: Tanya on Sunday? It is David Schwimmer's birthday. How old

696
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: is David Schwimmer?

697
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: Fifty four?

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00:33:26,720 --> 00:33:32,240
Speaker 5: She says, fifty four. We go to Becca fifty two,

699
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 5: fifty two and Easton fifty six.

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00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 1: He's fifty nine. That's the point for Easton. Rebecca is

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00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: still in this. I may need more names now, let's

702
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 1: just end it now. I think I'm going to have

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00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 1: one more here, and then I have to find another

704
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: one because then we're, you know, we have the three

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00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 1: with the rounds.

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00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 3: I think everybody say, I ay.

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00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 5: I mus stop the count all right?

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00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: Beca Yeah, Nelly has a birthday of this weekend?

709
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 5: Howel is Nelly?

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00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: WHOA Nelly is fifty one.

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00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:16,479
Speaker 1: She's saying Nelly is fifty one and he is fifty one.

712
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: And it is now tied at five apiece, and I

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00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: have one more name for you, and this will be

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00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: the tiebreaker. I do a little obscure on this, but

715
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:26,879
Speaker 1: I think this person might have been on our show.

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00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:33,000
Speaker 1: So obscure Easton, you'll start on this one, okay, Paramo Brown,

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00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 1: Karama Brown, he has wey yep uh Karamo.

718
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 4: Is he was just on? Are you Charlotte?

719
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: Another will determine it right here, unless eastern winds, then

720
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,000
Speaker 1: I might have to find another name.

721
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 4: Karamo is uh Karama's forty.

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00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,719
Speaker 1: Nine, forty nine, all right, Tanya forty three, forty three,

723
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: Becca forty five.

724
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 5: We have a winner.

725
00:34:58,920 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 3: Who is it?

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00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 1: Karama Brown on Sunday is turning forty four? Tie goes

727
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: to Tanya underneath and Kanya okay, Nail, that.

728
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,400
Speaker 2: Really was It was exciting.

729
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 3: I'd like to thank my brain for being so honest

730
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:29,319
Speaker 3: today and my guessing and my gut ability to go under,

731
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:30,560
Speaker 3: to always go under.

732
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 2: Yes, it's a good lesson in life. Always go under.

733
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,800
Speaker 1: Okay, stop, we have to stop. I made a mistake.

734
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 2: But what how old is he?

735
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, forty five.

736
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 1: Yes, he's thirty forty five.

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00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:50,160
Speaker 5: Becca is actually the winner. I'm sorry. I'll explain.

738
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: On this website it says their current age, so it

739
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,880
Speaker 1: lift says Karamo Brown forty four.

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00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 5: I forgot to add the woman. He's turning forty.

741
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,440
Speaker 1: Five on Sunday. So Becca got it exactly. You're right,

742
00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:03,880
Speaker 1: and she on her birthday has won the celebrity birthday

743
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:06,399
Speaker 1: and that comeback of the year.

744
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:12,400
Speaker 2: I would like to think Mark stupid.

745
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:15,520
Speaker 5: La Land of the birthday game.

746
00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:18,759
Speaker 2: That was the best gift to add.

747
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: Shoot, dang, I apologize. It was an honest mistake. I

748
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: do that a lot. I just gotta add one, so

749
00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:30,840
Speaker 1: it's one.

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00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:37,760
Speaker 2: More the chances. Thank you everyone.

751
00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 4: I never forget this moment.

752
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 3: I was writing such a high I'm gonna to make

753
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 3: so many decisions today. My gut is good, like but.

754
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 5: It's be his birthday.

755
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 1: You gotta be happy for her.

756
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:53,359
Speaker 3: Not okay, I gotta go.

757
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 2: She's mad. Her life. Advice is still always going on.

758
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 2: Always go under, but you might lose if you do that.

759
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:03,359
Speaker 3: Sometimes you gotta go over.

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00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, everybody, Well, thank you for the birthday celebration.

761
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 2: Thank you for the victory. Thanks for the weird questionnaire

762
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 2: that I have in the past. That was good and

763
00:37:17,200 --> 00:37:17,960
Speaker 2: I love you all.

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00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 3: Happy, happy birthday, Happy