1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:01,840 Speaker 1: Caitlin, Are you in love? Is it true? Are you 2 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: in love? Oh? I heard I heard a room where 3 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: you're in love? Is that true? Did? 4 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 5 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: That would be news to me and not with me, 6 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: which a lot of people will be upset to hear. 7 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: But no, I'm reading this thing on that you were 8 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:17,959 Speaker 1: talking about how there's a guy who's trying to go 9 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: out with you. Oh yeah, and yet you're not all 10 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: that attracted this person. But yeah, you're considering like, well, nice, 11 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: it's a nice person. So maybe if I, you know, 12 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:31,200 Speaker 1: if I go out with this person enough times, then 13 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,959 Speaker 1: do I do I become attracted because the person's nice 14 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: to me? Is that? Is that kind of where you're at? Like, 15 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: what's the scenario? 16 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, So I feel like the way it's always worked 17 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 3: for me, and like I it's different for everyone. But 18 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: like every time I've ever like been in love or 19 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:48,720 Speaker 3: fallen in love, I've like known at the second I 20 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:51,200 Speaker 3: met someone kind of like I just have this feeling 21 00:00:51,240 --> 00:00:52,919 Speaker 3: and I'm like or at least we're going to date 22 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:54,279 Speaker 3: and have like some sort of you know what I mean. 23 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: There's like this instant feeling of chemistry. But I hear 24 00:00:57,440 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: a lot of people talk about how like they grew 25 00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:02,160 Speaker 3: to be attracted to their partner or they like we're 26 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: friends first. 27 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 2: Like I've never had that situation. 28 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:06,840 Speaker 3: And there is a guy that's been trying to take 29 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 3: me out for a really long time, and like he's 30 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:11,160 Speaker 3: the best person of all time, but like I've just 31 00:01:11,200 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 3: never like grown to like be attracted. 32 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 2: To someone like that or like look at someone like that. 33 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 3: So I guess I was just curious if you guys 34 00:01:18,240 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 3: ever have like tried something on for size and. 35 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 4: Then were friends for a long time. Yeah, right, we 36 00:01:24,280 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 4: were childhood friends. Yeah, he tried to date me for 37 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 4: a while and know but. 38 00:01:29,360 --> 00:01:32,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, now you know what changed that? What made you mad? 39 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 4: If I say, what changes that? The timing was perfect, right, 40 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 4: The timing just lined up. What he says is that 41 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 4: life had to humble me. So like I thought that 42 00:01:49,200 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 4: was too good for him, you know, I thought like 43 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:54,280 Speaker 4: he wasn't like good enough and back in the day, 44 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 4: and He's like, and you got with a guy who 45 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 4: treated you like crap, and now you realize that, you 46 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, should have given me a chance 47 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 4: all along. But I still believe that timing just happened 48 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 4: to line up but yes, he says, life standing to 49 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:06,560 Speaker 4: humble me. 50 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 1: So that's my question. Then three five, I'm curious if 51 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,839 Speaker 1: if you haven't an example one way or the other 52 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: of you weren't attracted to somebody physically, but they were 53 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: nice and then they kind of just crept up on 54 00:02:22,280 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: you and before long you're like, now I'm attracted to them? 55 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: Or were you? Are you really attracted to them? You 56 00:02:27,200 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 1: just value all the other stuff better, and it's like, well, 57 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: not my type. But it's fine because I'm with you guys. 58 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: And obviously I'm not in a position to say that 59 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: I've been successful because I well, I don't think I've 60 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 1: been very I don't know if I've been unsuccessful romantically, 61 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 1: but I haven't been successful. I think a lot of 62 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: it is self induced. It's just what I'm looking for 63 00:02:43,360 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: when I'm after. But I tend to want to lead 64 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 1: with chemistry, like I tend to believe because the relationships 65 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: that I've had, they usually started with me like thinking 66 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,920 Speaker 1: that that person was just, you know, pretty amazing to 67 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: look at and like the vibe, you know, and then 68 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: it goes from there. I can tell you the pitfall 69 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: there as I've dated to not so great people, so, 70 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: you know, because I thought they were hot, and maybe 71 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: I emphasized like the physical part of it, and then 72 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 1: you know, the physical part of it's good or great 73 00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 1: or okay or whatever, and then you realize, well, I'm 74 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: not really there's not a lot of compatibility here otherwise, 75 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,080 Speaker 1: so I guess you could see it. I mean, of course, 76 00:03:17,080 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: a balance of both is perfect, right, But I don't know, 77 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 1: you know, maybe if he's a great guy and there's 78 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 1: a lot of amazing features about him, there's some of 79 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 1: the quote unquote hot guys that you dated don't have. 80 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess maybe, like what if you 81 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,760 Speaker 1: emphasized those features and then I guess suppose maybe you 82 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: become more attractive as you become But at the same time, 83 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: you already know the character of this person. You know, 84 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: you've already said in this thing that he's a great person, 85 00:03:42,080 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: and you're still not there. So I guess you'd be 86 00:03:44,560 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: forcing it in my opinion, Yeah. 87 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I guess what I wascused because you always 88 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 3: hear people are like, you know, oh, you have to 89 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 3: give this person a chance, and like I sound douche 90 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 3: when I'm like no, Like I know, like when I know, 91 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 3: I know, but you know, I just I don't know. 92 00:03:57,600 --> 00:03:59,840 Speaker 4: But do you lead with looks first? Like you have 93 00:03:59,920 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 4: to be overly like they have to be so attractive for. 94 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,040 Speaker 3: No, No, I don't lead with looks at all, because 95 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 3: there's a ton of like hot people that I'm not 96 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 3: like attracted to. I lead with a feeling. It's always 97 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 3: I just have this feeling. I can't describe it. 98 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 1: I'm with you though, I'm with you. 99 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you line my exes up like there's a 100 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 3: ginger in there, you know, like there's the whole rainbow. 101 00:04:19,480 --> 00:04:21,880 Speaker 3: So I mean, listen, I'm serious, like we got every 102 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 3: kind of guy. So it's not like a physical thing. 103 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:26,200 Speaker 3: It's more of like a personality and a feeling. 104 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 2: I guess I. 105 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: Feel like I get a bad rap because as a 106 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: forty three year old guy who's been single my whole life, 107 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: I'm looking I'm looking for a feeling I'm looking like 108 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: And so if I go on ten days, for example, 109 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 1: I get that feeling one or two times maybe maybe 110 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 1: maybe not even that, And it's nothing personal. It's just 111 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,720 Speaker 1: that like at this point, I've been single for this long, 112 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:50,480 Speaker 1: why would I why would I partner up with somebody 113 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: that I didn't feel really like over the top about, 114 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,240 Speaker 1: I guess, and I don't necessarily want to have kids. 115 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: I don't have to have kids, which talks about that, 116 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 1: So it's not like I'm necessarily looking for someone, you know, 117 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 1: and compromising on something so that I can have a 118 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: kids in a family or whatever. But I don't know. 119 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 1: I think people are like, no, but you got it 120 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 1: to your point. You got to give him a chance, 121 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: You got to go out with him several times. You 122 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: gotta do this, You gotta do that. It's like, do 123 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 1: you if you're not feeling it? I suppose you could 124 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 1: talk yourself into it, but then there are other people going, well, 125 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: then you're missing it because you know, maybe there's a 126 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: great person out there who doesn't meet all your criteria 127 00:05:26,080 --> 00:05:27,920 Speaker 1: or for whom you don't get this quote unquote feeling. 128 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: But yet maybe I don't know, maybe it does grow Samantha, Hi, 129 00:05:32,720 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey. So what are the 130 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: chances that you that you like someone as a human 131 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: and then but don't find them attractive and then grow 132 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: to find them sexually attractive in addition to liking them 133 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 1: as a human. 134 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 5: Super common The. 135 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 2: Guy that I'm in love with. 136 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 5: I met in twenty twenty, and the first night that 137 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 5: I met him, I absolutely hated him at a person. 138 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 5: In general, he was just very off putting. He was 139 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 5: very loud and like annoying to me, and that I 140 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 5: last being like, I hate this guy. This guy stuck. 141 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,039 Speaker 5: But he was in the friend group and like, you know, 142 00:06:10,160 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 5: three fourty years later, now I'm dating him and I'm 143 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 5: in love with him. 144 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 2: Did you think he was hot when he was annoying? Like, 145 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 2: were you like, oh, damn, he's fine, but he would 146 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: shut up, you. 147 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 5: Know, no, no, and granted, like he's cute, but he's not. Definitely, 148 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 5: he's definitely not hot. Love him, love him? 149 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 2: Okay? So okay, yeah, so that's like but that you're 150 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:30,560 Speaker 2: still fulfilled. 151 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, I mean he's okay, he's like, okay, look, 152 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 5: he's a great person. He's super funny, he's super sweet. 153 00:06:40,520 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: It's my partner, right. 154 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 1: I hope he's not listening. If somebody were like, you're 155 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 1: just okay, like honesty too, we're a little ugly to somebody, yes, okay, 156 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: but hold on, hold on, Samantha. Is there is there 157 00:06:57,720 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: a part of you that is there any part of 158 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: you that be settling, like convincing yourself that he's a 159 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,560 Speaker 1: great guy and he has all these other qualities, so 160 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: I need to like him physically, like I need to 161 00:07:08,040 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: be into him that way. No. 162 00:07:10,360 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 5: No, because with them we were friends for several years, 163 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 5: and over the summer, I just kind of realized that, like, 164 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 5: like I started to feeling I was like, oh, I 165 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 5: think I might like actually. 166 00:07:20,200 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: Really like that guy. Okay, all right, fair enough, Thank you, Samantha. 167 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 5: Thank you guys are a great gay you. 168 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: Too, Yeah you too, Thanks for listening. And to your point, Caitlin, 169 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 1: I think it's also like it may not even necessarily 170 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: be that it's the hottest person, but there's like some 171 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 1: of the people I've dated or not. I mean I've 172 00:07:34,920 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: dated casually dated people that are way better looking than 173 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: people that I've dated actually dated, And I think it's 174 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: like it's just a vibe. I mean, you either like 175 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: there's either like an initial excitement and a like a 176 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: drive to be with that person and to like see 177 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 1: more of them. Right, I can't describe it. It's not 178 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: always that they're the hottest person in the world. It's 179 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:00,680 Speaker 1: just like there's an intangible there. But again, I think 180 00:08:00,720 --> 00:08:04,280 Speaker 1: people chase after that feeling and like I've chased at that, 181 00:08:04,320 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: I'm feeling my whole life, and yet I still haven't 182 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 1: found the person. So maybe i'm looking for Maybe that 183 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: feeling is not real. Maybe that's lust and that's not sustainable. 184 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't have the. 185 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 3: Answers, Yeah, because like it's not I'm not, Like my 186 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: feeling is not a superficial one, like I don't want 187 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 3: to be with like the guy, the cookie cutter, like 188 00:08:19,520 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 3: hot dude, right, Like I just go. 189 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: Off those vibes. But you're right. 190 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: I mean I've dated some real keepers, so maybe I'm 191 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 3: doing it wrong. That's I guess why I was maybe 192 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 3: trying to switch the game up. 193 00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: I just think like if there's I don't know how you. 194 00:08:34,240 --> 00:08:38,400 Speaker 1: I don't know how you you fake sexual attraction. I 195 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:39,840 Speaker 1: don't know how you. I don't know how you fake 196 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: like that feeling. 197 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 3: I know people are telling me to do it, and 198 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 3: people are telling me not to do it, So I'm 199 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,360 Speaker 3: feeling a little confused. 200 00:08:48,040 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: Yeah, it kind of it feels like settling in some ways, 201 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: like well, there's no vibe, but like they're a nice guy, 202 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: so maybe I'll just force it I don't. I don't know. 203 00:08:57,920 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: I guess I could. I'm obviously wrong, Selma. How you 204 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 1: doing good? 205 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 5: How are you guys? 206 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: Hey? Good morning. Do you believe that you can like 207 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: a person as a person and then the sexual attraction 208 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: grows that that didn't exist initially? I do? 209 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 6: Crazy story. I met my now husband, we just got 210 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 6: married in September. I met him, thank you. I met 211 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 6: him when we were in fifth grade, and I thought, 212 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 6: you was this doesn't sound terrible, but the ugliest kids. 213 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:33,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't sound great, salm, but it doesn't that right? No, No, I. 214 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 6: Had eyes for the other guys and I don't know. 215 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 6: We just started talking and I fell in love with him. 216 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 7: We're twenty five now. 217 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 6: He's the only guy I've ever dated. But yeah, I've 218 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,680 Speaker 6: grown to love the person that he is, So I 219 00:09:47,720 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 6: don't like, do believe that you're not attracted to someone 220 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 6: at first, but you know their personalities or everything will 221 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 6: definitely make you love them. 222 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, hie, fair enough, thank you, have a good day. 223 00:09:59,000 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 7: I love them. 224 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: I love you, guys, thank you, thank you, love you too. 225 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: I've also heard the thing. I'm sure a lot of 226 00:10:03,280 --> 00:10:05,360 Speaker 1: people have that, like well, I used to date bad 227 00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 1: boys and now I don't. Like if I'm dating somebody 228 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 1: and they're like publicly saying like, well, I used to 229 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 1: date you know, kind of bad boy pricks, but now 230 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 1: I got him. You know that I would be like, oh, so, 231 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: so I you're not that attracted to me, Like, like, 232 00:10:19,280 --> 00:10:22,440 Speaker 1: I guess you decided like that you'll that you'll lower 233 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: the level of sexual attraction in order to get somebody 234 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: who's like a decent human being. Right, It wouldn't make 235 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 1: me feel good to hear that. 236 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 3: Like imagine if like someone said to you, yeah, you 237 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 3: grew on me, or like someone's. 238 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:34,360 Speaker 2: Telling a story about how you guys, you know, I 239 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 2: wasn't into it at first, but over time you really 240 00:10:36,640 --> 00:10:38,559 Speaker 2: just grew on me, Like for me down some sort. 241 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,880 Speaker 1: Of road, it really happens. So it happens that that happens, 242 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:44,000 Speaker 1: and sometimes. 243 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 4: You realize that those are the best people in the 244 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 4: best relationships, Like. 245 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 2: Fredd, you should try it. 246 00:10:48,760 --> 00:10:51,199 Speaker 4: And I think you guys are looking for initial feeling 247 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 4: that that vibe that is true. If you never get 248 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 4: that over time, then you shouldn't meet with that person, right, 249 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:58,000 Speaker 4: But I think sometimes you do have to get to 250 00:10:58,040 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 4: know a person a little bit more or to give 251 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:03,120 Speaker 4: them a shot as in a relationship, and then you 252 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 4: might really feel that and then you'll be like, oh, 253 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:06,560 Speaker 4: this is my person. 254 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, but here's a theory. Like in my life, 255 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:10,320 Speaker 1: I can think of a few off the top of 256 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: my head, I've dated women who are not only attractive 257 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: but also great human beings. I can think of two 258 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: or three right now that I desperately. In fact, one 259 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: I've gone back to like two or three times over 260 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: the past fifteen years. Like because I desperately, I shouldn't 261 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: say desperately, I really wanted it to be a thing 262 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: because it works on paper and the person's not bad looking. 263 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about it works on paper, but 264 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: I'm not attracted. It's all there, but that just it 265 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:41,439 Speaker 1: never works like that, whatever it is that's missing, the vibe, 266 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: the intangible, the feeling, it's just not one hundred percent there. 267 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 1: So like I guess it really doesn't matter always if 268 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: they're hot, if they're not high, if they're if their 269 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 1: mother Teresa or a really horrible person, I don't know 270 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 1: that it matters because like there's just a thing. I 271 00:11:57,200 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: feel like that if you don't have it, there's no 272 00:11:59,720 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: hook and I don't know that you can. You might 273 00:12:02,800 --> 00:12:04,880 Speaker 1: be able to convince yourself that it's a good option 274 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: or that it had or that it's a lot of 275 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 1: what you want, but I don't know, Like trust me. 276 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 1: A couple of these people, I'm like, man, I really 277 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:14,800 Speaker 1: wish you were it. I really wish that I couldn't 278 00:12:14,840 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: live without you kind of thing, but I don't know 279 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: it just for some reason, it doesn't. It doesn't happen, 280 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,960 Speaker 1: So I guess. I guess based on that. Then you 281 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 1: don't want to convince yourself that you'd like someone that way, 282 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 1: because it's not devaluing them. It's just saying, hey, this 283 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:30,319 Speaker 1: is this probably isn't my person. 284 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I also wondered, like just out of like 285 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 3: kindness to him, like if people are like just give 286 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:37,640 Speaker 3: it a shot, go on the date, Like is it 287 00:12:37,760 --> 00:12:40,439 Speaker 3: rude to take that date, like leading someone on if 288 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 3: I know that I don't feel it at that time? 289 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 3: You know, like I would never want to use someone. 290 00:12:44,360 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: If they've been asking you out for a long time 291 00:12:46,360 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: and then you finally say yes as an experiment. I 292 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:51,680 Speaker 1: think that's actually not cool because that persons If it 293 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:54,079 Speaker 1: were me and I've been asking somebody out for years 294 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:55,439 Speaker 1: or whatever and they say no, and then all of 295 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: a sudden they say yes, I'm going to assume I'm 296 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 1: going to assume something has changed, like, oh, now you 297 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: see it, you know, and I'm gonna think I've got 298 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: a shot. And if all it is is like I'll 299 00:13:06,840 --> 00:13:12,960 Speaker 1: see you know, like, yeah, you got But you have 300 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: a history with this person though. What I'm saying is 301 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:18,079 Speaker 1: you stand to lose the friendship by hurting this person 302 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,079 Speaker 1: for believing that they might have a chance after you 303 00:13:20,200 --> 00:13:21,880 Speaker 1: telling them no for for a long time. 304 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're not. 305 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 3: Super good friends though, Like it's just someone I know 306 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 3: is a great person. 307 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 1: And you shouldn't be mad. 308 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 4: Look, friends, I gave you a chance when you back 309 00:13:30,120 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 4: in a friends and it didn't work out, just like 310 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:34,880 Speaker 4: that back over. 311 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, there is no guy. I'm sure 312 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: the same is true for women. But there is no 313 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:48,280 Speaker 1: guy that wants to be refriend zone. There's nothing worse. 314 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 1: There's nothing worse. 315 00:13:51,920 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 4: I didn't let you get out the friends on you 316 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:55,440 Speaker 4: saw where it's like over here, opportunity. 317 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know you got your shot. It didn't work out, right, 318 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:07,200 Speaker 1: that's it. Oh how you doing? Good morning? Hey, So 319 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:08,880 Speaker 1: what do you think is it Is it possible that 320 00:14:08,920 --> 00:14:12,160 Speaker 1: a person that is a good person can grow on 321 00:14:12,200 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: you physically like the physical attraction can grow. 322 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:22,560 Speaker 7: I'm gonna tend to disagree with that. In my own experiences, 323 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,920 Speaker 7: I think that once you found your person, you're gonna 324 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 7: know right away. You're not going to be confused about 325 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 7: the situation. 326 00:14:28,640 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 1: You're going to know if. 327 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 7: You're attracted to that person, if that's someone you potentially 328 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 7: want to be with. And in my own experiences, I 329 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,600 Speaker 7: found that over time, even if you give them that 330 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 7: chance and yes they are a good person, in the end, 331 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 7: I found I've liked the attention to give me more 332 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 7: than I actually like them. 333 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: Hmmm. Interesting, Okay, okay, yeah, because I want to believe 334 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: that it's all going to come together. But at the 335 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 1: same time, as a guy who tends to value the connection, 336 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,680 Speaker 1: the vibe or the attraction or whatever, that can fizzle 337 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: pretty quickly. And if there's nothing behind it, if there's 338 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 1: not like a goy, no connection with the person. They're 339 00:15:04,440 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 1: a good person, you trust them, you like them, well 340 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: then then it doesn't really matter how much you like 341 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: them physically, because I don't think that's sustainable forever, you know, 342 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 1: like eventually it's like, well, you look great naked, but 343 00:15:15,160 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 1: like you're kind of an idiot, you know, and so 344 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 1: you know, I don't I don't know. I couldn't be 345 00:15:18,880 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: with you, not not you Abby, You're you look great 346 00:15:20,640 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 1: naked and you're not an idiot. But I mean I'm 347 00:15:22,240 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 1: just saying, yeah. 348 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 7: But don't waste any time. 349 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: Oh there you go, thank you, thank you, Abby. Yeah, 350 00:15:30,720 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 1: take it for a test drive. 351 00:15:31,680 --> 00:15:31,840 Speaker 6: You know. 352 00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:33,440 Speaker 1: You'd be like, hey, you're a good person. Take your 353 00:15:33,440 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 1: clothes off. Le's see what happened one Yeah, yeah, just 354 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,520 Speaker 1: take it for a spin. And then at the at 355 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,480 Speaker 1: the end you could be like, look, you got to 356 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: hit it. And I decided that. So what's in it 357 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:46,800 Speaker 1: for you is you got to hit it? And what's 358 00:15:46,840 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: in it for me is I know? No, I definitely 359 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:51,200 Speaker 1: don't want you by Oh my god, you guys back 360 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,800 Speaker 1: to the friend zone. Okay. So I no, that would 361 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: that would really upset me because then I would be like, 362 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 1: not only does she not like me, but she doesn't 363 00:15:58,240 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 1: think I'm good and bad? I mean, oh my god, 364 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: it would the complex I would have if if somebody, 365 00:16:02,720 --> 00:16:05,520 Speaker 1: if a woman I was pining over was like, all right, 366 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 1: let's go for a one time. And then I get 367 00:16:07,680 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: my one time and I'm like, this is everything I 368 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:11,600 Speaker 1: ever wanted. And then the person's like, still don't like 369 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: you like that? 370 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 6: You know? 371 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:16,640 Speaker 2: So God, Okay, I don't really know what to do still, 372 00:16:16,680 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 2: but yeah, this. 373 00:16:18,640 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: Was entirely unhelpful. You know what, my gut tells me 374 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: that you should keep going with your gut. That's what 375 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: I think. What's my gut? I can't help you there, 376 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: Fred show is I it feels good? All right, good news, 377 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: happy stories. We share them with you every day on 378 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 1: the show. Around this time, Canla? What'd you find? So? 379 00:16:36,880 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 3: The Marlins have actually hired the first woman as director 380 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:41,160 Speaker 3: of player development. 381 00:16:41,200 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 2: Where are the Marlins and what sport today play? Jason? 382 00:16:44,120 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 2: Marlins are in Maryland? Okay? 383 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:56,920 Speaker 1: Of course they play basketball in the MLB. MLB, they 384 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: play basketball. 385 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 3: The Miami Marlins are signing Yankees minor league manager Rachel 386 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 3: Bolkovic to become their director of player Development. She finished 387 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 3: her second year season as a manager at Class A 388 00:17:10,480 --> 00:17:13,399 Speaker 3: Tampa in September. She debuted with a team in April 389 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:15,520 Speaker 3: of twenty twenty two with a win as the first 390 00:17:15,520 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 3: woman to manage a MLB affiliate. Before that, she was 391 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 3: even the first woman to serve as a full time 392 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 3: minor league strength and conditioning coach, then the first to 393 00:17:25,040 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 3: be full time hitting coach in the minors with the Yankees, 394 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:30,320 Speaker 3: and now she's going to go on to you know, 395 00:17:30,359 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 3: make more history, which is pretty awesome. 396 00:17:32,280 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: Nice, that is cool. So we referenced this last week. 397 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: But among the oldest video games in society, this is 398 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: for you, Kiki, and only you. Oh. Tetris has never 399 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:48,960 Speaker 1: been beaten before by a human until now, So, nearly 400 00:17:49,000 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: forty years after his development in Oklahoma, team is believed 401 00:17:51,600 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 1: to be the first person in history to ever be Tetris, which, 402 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: for those gamers in the reading audience or I guess 403 00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:01,360 Speaker 1: listening in this case, means that you have to get 404 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 1: a nine score for so long that the low tech 405 00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 1: hardware can't even continue to process that, and then the 406 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:14,679 Speaker 1: game freezes and then you win. So a thirteen year 407 00:18:14,680 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: old boy, Willis Gibson is the first person ever to 408 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:21,360 Speaker 1: provide proof that the human eyes, brains, and fingers achieved this. 409 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 1: He videotaped himself doing him Also a sweet story, his 410 00:18:24,720 --> 00:18:27,720 Speaker 1: dad passed away, but he was dedicated to this goal, 411 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: and he said that he thought his dad would be 412 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:32,520 Speaker 1: very proud of him for accomplishing this. And the video, 413 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: which I think we have up at Fredshire Radio dot 414 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: com from last week is I mean, this kid loses 415 00:18:37,600 --> 00:18:40,200 Speaker 1: his mind when he beats this game and it's so sweet. 416 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: He like, basically she said, I'm gonna faint. I'm gonna faint. 417 00:18:43,800 --> 00:18:45,400 Speaker 1: That's gonna be to which she finally. 418 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 4: Beats his level of Donkey Kong's freak out. Yeah, I'm 419 00:18:49,119 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 4: gonna be crying, freaking out, sliding down the wall. 420 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 1: Please please take video. I mean, I'm sure he will 421 00:18:56,000 --> 00:18:58,760 Speaker 1: be video. There's really no part of your life that's 422 00:18:58,800 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 1: not on video. But I mean make sure this video 423 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: is that and uh, get that up there. I can't 424 00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 1: wait till you have a Twitch account now because it's 425 00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: just another platform there. It's coming, so get ready. Yes, 426 00:19:10,240 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 1: yeah Kiki's Twitch gamer stream. Yes, yes, yes, you roasting 427 00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,399 Speaker 1: a bunch of twelve year olds and them roasting you. Gosh, 428 00:19:19,440 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: she would pay. Yeah, it's coming. Well, that's that's only fans. 429 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 1: Maybe we should have an only fans of Kiki video gaming. 430 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: That's quite the category. Like Jason's cousin stop I won't 431 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: be doing what she doing. Okay, we all got to 432 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: make a living. You can play those video games and 433 00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 1: make money at the same time. Things a little differently 434 00:19:45,359 --> 00:19:48,560 Speaker 1: than you're used to. Let's see Game Show Wednesday. Definitely 435 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 1: gonna be fun and Kiki karaokee playing nice more thread show. 436 00:19:52,680 --> 00:19:55,639 Speaker 8: Next, it's the fread Show. 437 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:58,840 Speaker 1: Do you have what it takes to battle? 438 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 2: I'm only gonna be Paulina, not today. 439 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 1: Hey. Hey, hey, hey, let's go. Let's sing your song. Paulina, 440 00:20:10,040 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: it's your game, it's your song, take it away. 441 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:16,160 Speaker 7: I'm gonna seing this cause it's my year. 442 00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 2: I'm coming for everything you said I couldn't have even 443 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:24,399 Speaker 2: with this big old pregnant belly. Mama gotta get that bread. 444 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 1: Hey, what up? 445 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 2: Fred Show? 446 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:26,320 Speaker 7: Hey? 447 00:20:26,840 --> 00:20:32,280 Speaker 1: Hey, hey, that's right baby. Some shoes your record? 448 00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 7: Yeah? 449 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,080 Speaker 1: You do realize you win nothing in this sh Yeah, 450 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:39,480 Speaker 1: So anyway, I need to keep your job. Shoes right, 451 00:20:39,480 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 1: Shoes coming sixty five and seventy four is your record? 452 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 1: A two game win streak though, for Shelley and you 453 00:20:45,400 --> 00:20:50,360 Speaker 1: excuse me for Paulina and your challenging today is Britney. Hi, Brittany, Hi, 454 00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:54,400 Speaker 1: Good morning Britney. Welcome, thanks for listening, Thanks for calling. 455 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 1: Tell us all about you please. 456 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:00,960 Speaker 6: I live throw and I have a seven year old 457 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:01,919 Speaker 6: daughter named Jade. 458 00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 7: We're in the car. 459 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,919 Speaker 6: She's getting ready to go to school right now, and 460 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:05,439 Speaker 6: now she's. 461 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:09,680 Speaker 1: No, Hi Jade, Well, thank you for listening. And uh, 462 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 1: it's five general knowledge questions. What did Jade say? What 463 00:21:13,000 --> 00:21:13,520 Speaker 1: does she want? 464 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 8: Hi? 465 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 2: She's at that age where everything I do embarrass with her. 466 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: So play against Paulina. Let's see how that might might. Yeah. 467 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 1: I feel like if she's seven and embarrassed by everything, 468 00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,760 Speaker 1: I feel like that's gonna last about seven years, isn't 469 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 1: it like the daughter is embarrassed by mom? Yeah? Yeah, okay, 470 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 1: well sounds great. Let's play the game. Five questions you 471 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: guys ready, Yes, good luck? Good luck? I mean the 472 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,359 Speaker 1: parenthood sounds so great, Like you get the three and 473 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:50,040 Speaker 1: ager you know my nieces three Polly just roast every 474 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,439 Speaker 1: just roast everybody now and then soon as she'll get 475 00:21:52,480 --> 00:21:54,719 Speaker 1: to the point where we're all a bunch of idiots. Yeah, 476 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 1: like yeah, no, it's great. And then then they start 477 00:21:57,080 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: getting moody and like temperamental and I amazing, I can't wait. 478 00:22:01,160 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 1: Here we go. Question number one, tortilla minestroni and Italian 479 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:13,440 Speaker 1: wedding are all types of what tortilla minestroni a food? 480 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 1: More specifically, more specifically. 481 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 2: Three? 482 00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:25,520 Speaker 3: Two, Italian wedding and wed one? 483 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 1: But yeah, four more questions. We're good, We're good, We're good. Regroup. 484 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 1: How many days are in a leap ear? 485 00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:37,480 Speaker 7: Twenty nine? 486 00:22:38,960 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: What kind of fruit or vegetable is used to make 487 00:22:41,560 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: a pickle a cucumber? 488 00:22:46,240 --> 00:23:00,200 Speaker 8: Ron Weasley and hermione hermi own need hermione, hermione, hermione. Okay, 489 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:04,160 Speaker 8: rufio shut up at someone who doesn't know dorky stuff. Okay, last, 490 00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 8: because I don't know dorky stuff. It's like you're a dork, 491 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:09,200 Speaker 8: you should know dorky stuff. I'm not anyway, pim. Those 492 00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 8: those people are the best friends of this fictional character. 493 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 2: Harry Potter. 494 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:22,359 Speaker 1: And how many syllables are in the word alphabetical? Five? Okay, 495 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 1: so that was the three. I got a three. 496 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:31,080 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sorry if it up. 497 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:33,680 Speaker 1: Okay. 498 00:23:34,359 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 5: And what makes her words is that I have pneumonia 499 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:38,720 Speaker 5: right now and I can't breathe, but it's so funny. 500 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:39,639 Speaker 2: Be careful. 501 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 1: I went with the fanatics. I tried to do the 502 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 1: fanatics because she gave them to me. And I'm like, 503 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: I've read the first book, but I'm not that big 504 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,080 Speaker 1: of a I mean, I'm a dork, but I'm not 505 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:49,880 Speaker 1: that big of a dork. Step three is the scored 506 00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,480 Speaker 1: to beat? Okay, three, got it? Yeah, I would say 507 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,879 Speaker 1: that I'm sexually active, but I'm really not. And Rufio 508 00:23:55,119 --> 00:24:00,560 Speaker 1: is so so that never mind wins. Yeah, Tortilla, Paulina, 509 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: Ministerroni and Italian wedding are all types of what soups 510 00:24:05,960 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 1: shout out Jason love soup. How many days are in 511 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: a leap year? 512 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 8: Oh? 513 00:24:14,480 --> 00:24:17,240 Speaker 2: That would be I hate this question. 514 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 5: Is it. 515 00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: Twenty nine? No, that would be a three hundred and 516 00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,600 Speaker 1: sixty six is the answer, because and sixty five the 517 00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: extra day? Three sixty six. What kind of fruit or 518 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,280 Speaker 1: vegetables used to make a pickle? 519 00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:36,959 Speaker 2: Fruit or vegetable used to make a pickle? 520 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:52,600 Speaker 1: Oh? A potato? A potato pickle? It's nothing from my money, 521 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:59,800 Speaker 1: he gets back. Cucumber. It's a cucumber. What a potato? 522 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:00,439 Speaker 7: Come on. 523 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 1: To a quickle? You just never know? 524 00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 8: Now? 525 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,760 Speaker 2: That would be something? 526 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, anything, I think hermions. 527 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:12,280 Speaker 5: How to do that? 528 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:16,880 Speaker 2: Oh God, you try to help. 529 00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:24,320 Speaker 8: And you know Ron Weasley and Hermione many Granger, I don't. 530 00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:25,760 Speaker 1: Know if you're maybe it was and it doesn't matter, 531 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: dorky ask people are the best friends? Are best friends 532 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: of this fictional. 533 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 2: Character Harry Potter? 534 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody knew what I meant. Anyway, it doesn't matter. 535 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,200 Speaker 1: And how many syllables are in the world? Wait, hold, 536 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: do you have to get this? You have to get 537 00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 1: this such a time? How many syllables? Syllables? Hermione? How 538 00:25:42,760 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: many syllables are in the word alphabetical? 539 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:47,680 Speaker 6: Five? 540 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:54,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a time. Yeah, no, I do the clap 541 00:25:54,080 --> 00:25:57,159 Speaker 1: things alpha betic. Oh, yeah, that's how I would do it. 542 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:02,359 Speaker 2: But anyway, a timely wrong. I'm sorry if I did? 543 00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,960 Speaker 1: What the hell off? R? How many syllables is that checks? 544 00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:12,439 Speaker 1: Can you imagine? Can you imagine, guys, if we pointed 545 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: out everything that Rufio said that was wrong? Can you 546 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: imagine Donkey Kong hotm the same guy the restaurant and 547 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:30,720 Speaker 1: clos making fun of me for not when's the last 548 00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:35,159 Speaker 1: time you read a whole book? Anyway, I don't know, 549 00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:37,560 Speaker 1: I don't know what the help her, I don't know it. 550 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,120 Speaker 1: I think one time I was afraid I had her manony, 551 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,720 Speaker 1: and it turned out that I didn't. I went to 552 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: the doctor and they told me that I was I 553 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,400 Speaker 1: was not. I didn't have that, So I was very excited. 554 00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,320 Speaker 1: But for a minute there I was worried. Okay, look 555 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:53,560 Speaker 1: that's a tie. I'm sorry you did not win the game. 556 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,359 Speaker 1: But I don't know what Brittany, I don't know what 557 00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:57,919 Speaker 1: we say at the end of it, just like. 558 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 7: I'm just feeling way better about the twenty nine days 559 00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 7: thing because she didn't get it either. 560 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:13,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, No, it's true. It's true. It's true. Yeah, it's true. Well, hey, 561 00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,639 Speaker 1: thank you so much for listening, for playing. You and 562 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: Jade have a great day. Hang on, okay you too. 563 00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,040 Speaker 1: All right, good three game win streak for Paula sixty 564 00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,840 Speaker 1: six seventy four is your record now win never sixty six. 565 00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 1: Nice job, Thank you, Thank you everybody. 566 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 2: I'm feeling good about this game this year. 567 00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 1: That potato winkle got me though. 568 00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. I want to say, you thought a potato actually 569 00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:37,920 Speaker 3: turned into a pickle or you thought it just like 570 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 3: assisted in the helping. 571 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:40,600 Speaker 1: The making us. 572 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:44,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe like you fermented or something old. 573 00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 1: Now we're getting into it. Fermentation. This is okay. Wow, 574 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:54,440 Speaker 1: this is more scientific unexpected scientific ferment. That's four it okay, 575 00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: Jesus game show which that continues can't carry okay, another 576 00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: very easy game. Yes, all you have to do is 577 00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: predict whether Kiki knows the words to the songs that 578 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,639 Speaker 1: we are selecting. We have a classic as always, we 579 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: have a current as always, and we have a karaoke 580 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:14,240 Speaker 1: classic as always. Eight five. If you want to play, 581 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,200 Speaker 1: we'll do it after Tay mccraig back in two minutes. 582 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:23,600 Speaker 1: On the French Show, Fred Show is on. Good morning everyone. 583 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,000 Speaker 1: It is Wednesday, January tenth. The French Show is here. 584 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: Hi Kaitlin, Hi, Jason Brown, Hello, Hello there Rubio. Hi, 585 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:36,159 Speaker 1: Paulina is here. Hi kay kay, good morning. If you 586 00:28:36,200 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: missed any part of the show today, Kiki karaoke definitely 587 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 1: gonna be Paulina new waiting by the fun Well that 588 00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 1: was coming up in just a second. A lot of 589 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: people talking about that. We got a lot of text 590 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,280 Speaker 1: about waiting, a lot of opinions, but it's all the 591 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:49,480 Speaker 1: iHeart app search for the Friend Show on Man. Also 592 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: a new episode of the Tangent Are Off Air Uncensored podcast, 593 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: the first of twenty four that's up on the iHeart 594 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: app as well. So waiting is next, the Entertainment Report 595 00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: after that, what are you working on? 596 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,400 Speaker 3: Wil nos X is going back to school and you're 597 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 3: actually not going to believe what he's majoring in. 598 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: That's what I'm going to do.