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Speaker 1: Hi, Welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 1: The Carol Markowitz Show now airs Wednesdays and Fridays, So

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Speaker 1: you get this non political podcast, the Carol Marcowitz Show,

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Speaker 1: where I interview political people about non political topics on

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Speaker 1: Wednesday and Friday, and then you get normally the political

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Speaker 1: and Thursday. The only day you don't get me is Monday.

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Speaker 1: A question that I've been asked more than once now is.

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Speaker 2: This, Hi, Carol?

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Speaker 1: I love your monologues. I have two kids, sixteen and fourteen.

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Speaker 1: There are good kids, but rebelling against what we've been

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Speaker 1: teaching them at home. We're still hopeful that our values

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Speaker 1: will translate as they get older, but sometimes it seems

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Speaker 1: like they are challenging us just for the sake of it.

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Speaker 1: How do you know your children won't rebel from what

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Speaker 1: you teach them? Well, I definitely don't know that, and

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Speaker 1: I imagine they will rebel at various points in their lives.

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Speaker 3: They already do so.

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Speaker 1: Some times my fourteen year old challenges things I say.

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Speaker 1: Often it's actually worse for me when she doesn't challenge

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Speaker 1: what I say. But I can tell she disagrees. It's

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Speaker 1: far better to have the lines of communication open. I

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Speaker 1: guess the thing with kids is that, of course they're

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Speaker 1: going to go on their own path, and even the

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Speaker 1: things they might want for themselves could not turn out

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Speaker 1: as planned. So if my kids decide they don't want

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Speaker 1: to get married and have children, if they end up

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Speaker 1: being woke leftists with bad ideals, I'll love them and

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Speaker 1: embrace them all the same. And if things don't work

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Speaker 1: out the way that they want them to say that

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Speaker 1: they do want marriage and children, but it just doesn't

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Speaker 1: happen for them, I'll do my best to try to

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Speaker 1: help them and support them in whatever way I can.

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Speaker 3: And look, I'll be surprised.

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Speaker 1: If they go against everything that we've talked about in

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Speaker 1: our home throughout their lives, but I'll understand that it's

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Speaker 1: their life to live. Beyond that, I think it's important

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Speaker 1: to Understan and the teenagers are trying on personalities. I

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Speaker 1: remember living in Scotland when I was nineteen and being

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Speaker 1: really irolly about America. It was just so uncool, man.

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Speaker 1: But by the second time I lived in Scotland at

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Speaker 3: You also have.

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Speaker 1: To just let these kids go through their phases and

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Speaker 1: All of this said, it's important to keep talking to

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Speaker 3: My guest today is Justine Brooke Marie.

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Speaker 1: She's the MRCTV host and blogger. Hi, Justine, so nice

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Speaker 2: Hey, Carol, thank you so much for having me so.

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Speaker 1: As I was looking into for this interview, I discovered

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Speaker 1: that you had kind of an unusual past here. You

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Speaker 1: were a beauty queen.

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Speaker 3: Yep.

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Speaker 1: I am you I I'm Beauty Queen or where is it?

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Speaker 4: I was Miss Central Jersey in Missy Jersey competition this

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Speaker 2: Every year I win a local title and.

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Speaker 4: Then there's the state competition, and every candidate has to

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Speaker 4: compete with a platform or a community cause minds on

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Speaker 4: free speech.

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Speaker 3: Some people say maybe in.

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Speaker 2: Order to win the state title, I tod which to.

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Speaker 1: Like environmentalism right clogori changed mental health LGB alphabet. That's great.

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Speaker 2: How did you get into that?

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Speaker 4: When I was in high school, it was we're all

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Speaker 4: And I had a friend who she was Miss teen Jersey, USA,

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Speaker 4: I asked my mom, hey, this sounds really fun. And

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Speaker 4: I originally joined as a teenager for this idea of

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Speaker 4: the glitz and the glamour and my mother, who let

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Speaker 4: me do acting all those years. At first, she was

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Speaker 4: a little bit against it because she knew really know

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Speaker 4: turned out to be something entirely different because the organization.

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Speaker 3: I joined Miss America.

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Speaker 4: It's the oldest competition in this country. It's it's an

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Speaker 4: iconic competition. It devolved, not devolved, It was evolved into

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Speaker 4: more about showcasing your talent, showcasing how well rounded young

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Speaker 4: women can become.

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Speaker 2: So it was a little bit of a boot camp.

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Speaker 4: I found it into becoming a young adult member of

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Speaker 1: That's that's very interesting, Like would you recommend it to

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Speaker 4: Is that? Like?

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Speaker 1: Do you consider it a positive?

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Speaker 4: Certainly, there's I've had a wonderful time, a wonderful about

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Speaker 4: ten years of an experience in the pageant world, and

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Speaker 2: Guys as the pageant world is to girls.

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Speaker 4: And you're actually less likely to have a daughter compete

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Speaker 1: Of course, Yeah, that makes sense. How did you become

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Speaker 2: In high school. It seems everything started for me.

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Speaker 1: I think that's in high school good, and not a

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Speaker 1: lot of people have that early start. I feel like

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Speaker 4: I was dragged around by my parents actually to local

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Speaker 4: local politics. But I saw how my school, even then,

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Speaker 4: saw how you really.

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Speaker 2: Couldn't say anything.

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Speaker 4: Even back then, I was always an advocate for free speech.

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Speaker 4: I come from a family who they all we love

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Speaker 4: activist during my years in college, I became a free

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Speaker 4: speech advocate, and my reporting on my school's violation of

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Speaker 1: And did that make you very popular in the blue

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Speaker 4: Nope, it made me even more unpopular at my college

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Speaker 4: was trying to cover more of these BLM style, mostly

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Speaker 4: Yep, they were pretty active even when I was in

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Speaker 4: When I was in high school, that was the big

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Speaker 4: also when clown costumes were being canceled on Halloween, because all.

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Speaker 2: Costumes, really I remember no one of being canceled exactly.

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Speaker 2: Everything's cultural proporation.

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Speaker 4: Clowns were bad because some stupid kids were dressing up

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Speaker 4: So I dressed up as a clown for the Halloween

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Speaker 3: Still got to go to college.

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Speaker 2: That's amazing.

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Speaker 4: I know. I was a little bit surprised because I

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Speaker 2: Like this might this might be it. This an entire school.

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Speaker 4: Even the teachers gathered around in diversity meetings for that

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Speaker 2: This was after I won. They gave me the scariest

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Speaker 4: The same teachers who reward me with that the next

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Speaker 4: day because some kid posted some blm docs like posts

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Speaker 4: about me and my family my mom my pageant. Suddenly

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Speaker 1: Right, that's how communism works. You get each other into

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Speaker 3: Exactly exactly.

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Speaker 4: But I learned at a young age how how scary

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Speaker 4: or ending everything you're doing, you have to just wait

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Speaker 1: Your mom would be worried about your wearing the Jewish

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Speaker 1: But if my daughter is taking the subway, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It makes complete sense, and it's it's also a reason,

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Speaker 2: A lot safer being able to work a.

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Speaker 1: You know, at one point you said into Semitism, it

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Speaker 1: It's not the hatred that we all should be worried about.

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Speaker 3: And it's thanks to your wonderful governor. He's pretty great.

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Speaker 2: But it's okay to pummel Jews in the street, in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I went through the numbers.

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Speaker 3: It's it's far.

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Speaker 1: protect what matters most. So you're pretty young, But what

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Speaker 1: advice would you give your sixteen year old self? Like,

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Speaker 1: what would a sixteen year old Justine need to know?

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Speaker 4: So I would say three things. The first thing is

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Speaker 4: life is too short. Speak now or forever hold your piece.

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Speaker 4: And I wish that I was a little bit pushier

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Speaker 4: I would tell my sixteen year old self, good things

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Speaker 4: come to those who are moderately pushy.

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Speaker 2: You have to ask for them.

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Speaker 4: And I wish that I kept relationships with friends and

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Speaker 4: I didn't have so much pride to apologize to friends

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Speaker 4: touch with people with.

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Speaker 3: Whom I disagree.

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Speaker 4: My uncle recently was diagnosed with a stage four type

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Speaker 4: of lung cancer.

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Speaker 2: Thank you and knock on wood.

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Speaker 3: I think he's going to be okay.

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Speaker 2: I hope he seems a.

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Speaker 4: Lot better than I thought he did initially initially, but

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Speaker 4: he completely disagrees with me on politics.

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Speaker 3: He is on the left.

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Speaker 2: The one thing we agree on is the right to

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Speaker 4: So I wish that instead of arguing with him so

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Speaker 4: much at family holidays, maybe we could reconcile. But then

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Speaker 4: that being said, I think when I argue with him,

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Speaker 4: it keeps him alive.

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Speaker 3: I like that, uncle, I am keeping you alive by

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Speaker 3: arguing with you exactly he I think he's feel like

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Speaker 3: I hope.

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Speaker 2: He feels the same way. I hope so too, unless

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Speaker 2: I'm annoying him to death.

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Speaker 1: Yeah bit, yes.

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Speaker 2: Well this has been great and us here with your

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Speaker 2: best tip for my listeners on how they can improve

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Speaker 2: their lives.

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Speaker 4: One small tip is that, especially for ladies, the ladies

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Speaker 4: room is not the place to share your secrets because

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Speaker 4: I've experienced. That also, if for everybody, if you're going

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Speaker 4: to make a big decision, and you were asked to

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Speaker 4: make a decision, let's say at nighttime, wait until the

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Speaker 4: morning when you have a clear head.

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Speaker 3: If you want to send an email to someone.

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Speaker 4: Or a tweet and you're high on emotions, wait until

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Speaker 4: you have a clear head in the morning. And then

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Speaker 4: I would also say to everybody what I would have

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Speaker 4: said to my sixteen year old self is life is

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Speaker 4: too short to be offended. Also, it's okay to be

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Speaker 4: moderately pushy, ask for the things you want. Don't wait

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Speaker 4: on something, and that's after I just said wait on

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Speaker 4: sending an email, but of course.

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Speaker 3: I mean significently.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, don't wait to take an opportunity, right.

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Speaker 1: Well, don't gossip in restrooms, sleep on it, and be pushy.

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Speaker 1: Those are three really good pieces of advice. She is

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Speaker 1: Justine Brooke Murray. She's MRCTV host and blogger. Check her out.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Justine, Thank you, it was great

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Speaker 1: speaking with you. Thanks so much for joining us on

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Speaker 1: the Carol Marco which show. Subscribe wherever you get your podcasts.