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Speaker 1: There was a problem where take you left?

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Speaker 3: Are you ready because it's coming at your hot ladies

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Speaker 3: and gentlemen.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to cool Moms.

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Speaker 3: I'm Joe Gadda, I'm Steve Byrne oh and we have

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Speaker 3: a guest of us that have a special guest that

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Speaker 3: by accident literally.

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Speaker 4: Texting I accident, yeah, but from n SYNC Chris Kirkpatrick's

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Speaker 4: here today a gentleman.

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Speaker 2: I met you in Pittsburgh.

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Speaker 4: We're both from Pittsburgh and we we initially met every other,

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Speaker 4: you know, Joe saying how do you how do you

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Speaker 4: guys meet? And I just thought it was a funny story.

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Speaker 4: How one week we're playing one week you're doing this.

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Speaker 4: You can explain, you know, we're playing flag football field

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Speaker 4: and then the very next week.

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Speaker 1: Next week softball. I break my hand, which was really

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Speaker 1: We played flag football with Deebo, Ben heinz Woard, Troy Polamalo.

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Speaker 4: All the DJ Harrison heinz Ward, all these guys and

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Speaker 4: him and I and Pat Monna hand.

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Speaker 1: We were put on the Generals right, they had their

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Speaker 1: own team that they selected. They were their team, but

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Speaker 1: they did give us coach Tomlin, but he kept calling

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Speaker 1: us the generals. I'm like, we can hear you, like,

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Speaker 1: you know, you're saying that out loud, right, it's right.

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Speaker 1: And we had a bunch of YouTubers and we just

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Speaker 1: kept pretending like there weren't enough flags to go around. So,

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Speaker 1: oh no, he's going in no flags. He can't go

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Speaker 1: in the.

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Speaker 2: Games around flag football event, literally the flag on the play.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I couldn't make a touchdown right now because

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Speaker 1: you can't tackle me. I'm tackleable.

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Speaker 4: So then a week later, but so a week later,

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Speaker 4: he's I'm literally watching I'm a Jimmy Kimmel's. Okay, they

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Speaker 4: have this huge screen at Jimmy Kibble's and you can

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Speaker 4: watch all the games and stuff. So for some reason,

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Speaker 4: TMZ's on and they show they show Chris at a

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Speaker 4: charity softball event in Nashville, and he gets he like

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Speaker 4: he goes crashing the home plate.

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Speaker 1: Right, No, No, I was home plate. I was catching

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Speaker 1: I think you know, I've been telling it. I actually

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Speaker 1: just got the cast off. But I think this guy wasn't.

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Speaker 1: He was really really sweet guy, really nice guy. Looper right, Looper,

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Speaker 1: I think his name was really nice guy. We were

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Speaker 1: talking beforehand, but I was playing catcher because I thought

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Speaker 1: this is fun. I know most of my friends were

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Speaker 1: actually on the other team, so I just wanted to

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Speaker 1: talk smack the whole time to all of them. So

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what better place than the catcher than the

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Speaker 1: talk smack. So I'm sitting there talking smack and I

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Speaker 1: think our team was winning, like fourteen, fifteen to three

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Speaker 1: or something like that, and there was a play coming

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Speaker 1: in and I saw this guy run and I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 1: he's not an athlete, Like I can see him rounding third.

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Speaker 1: This is not his thing. So I see where home

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Speaker 1: plate is and I took like two steps behind home plate,

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Speaker 1: like even if there's a play, he's going to slideway

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Speaker 1: make a play. And I don't know how long it took,

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Speaker 1: but in my head it was a really long time

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Speaker 1: because I had a conversation with the pitcher in my head, going,

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Speaker 1: you know what, fifteen to two. I think we're good.

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Speaker 1: This guy getting in, let's just I'm not wearing equipment.

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Speaker 1: You know, none of us are really athletes, so to speak.

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Speaker 1: Let's just let him have this, but no, he goes

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Speaker 2: Was like falling wrong. Yeah, falling wrong.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens at our age. You know. It's like

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Speaker 1: you get you get to this age and it's not anymore.

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Speaker 1: It's like that curb is a lot higher than it

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 2: It's like I sit down to put my socks on. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: oh well I sit down and you gotta get.

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Speaker 1: Up yourself and get up yeah, or anything with your

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Speaker 3: You my kids like, dude like tie his own shoes.

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Speaker 3: I'm like when it was like four, like tyr old shoes?

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Speaker 3: She was like I don't. I'm like I can't get

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Speaker 3: I can't get up. But do you want me to

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Speaker 1: I hate did we become parents too. That's the worst part.

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Speaker 1: It's like, you know, all the things you're saying to

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Speaker 3: I got my wife yesterday because she my son said

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Speaker 2: You know, mom, sometimes I'm scared of you.

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Speaker 3: And my wife went, you should be and I, oh

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Speaker 3: my god, did you just see something?

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Speaker 2: Hysterically lamp all together? It was so funny. But that

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Speaker 1: Wait till your father gets home. That was our old

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean I was afraid of my mom

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Speaker 1: Really, I only have my mom so did thirty years

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, I don't think this is happening.

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Speaker 2: Your full ship, your water gets home. I'd love to

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Speaker 2: meet him. Yeah, yeah, tell me trickle Christmas gifts, Christmas

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Speaker 2: breaking vases on purpose. Maybe this is how I'm going

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Speaker 1: She was well, I probably don't want to call her out,

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Speaker 1: but you know that's that was a time when we

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Speaker 1: got hit. Yeah, Yeah. My sisters were stupid and decided

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Speaker 2: I've got a helmet, kids are happy, and he's the

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Speaker 2: only one crying. It was beautiful. So what year was

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Speaker 1: We just met like two months ago?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and and and you know again, I was going

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Speaker 1: Big cast on and yeah, okay, can we talk about this?

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Speaker 1: We really haven't seen each other. First of all, the

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Speaker 1: Red Clay Strays.

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Speaker 2: I believe ador. Yeah it's a band.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, the band that was there. They're doing their

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Speaker 2: I got a text. I think I'm out of town.

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Speaker 4: But these guys incredibly gifted, like really stripped down roots

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Speaker 2: So funny because then they saw and they came to

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Speaker 4: They came to my show, and then they met and

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Speaker 4: they did Christier's.

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Speaker 1: Podcast after that they thought they were performing.

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Speaker 2: We Love Gotcha.

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Speaker 4: But then yeah, but what we hung out that night

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Speaker 4: was one of those nights where everything.

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Speaker 2: Well. First of all, First of all, Bill came together.

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Speaker 2: Here, and your name was going to be so oh.

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Speaker 1: I saw it. It just dropped all the knowledge, all

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Speaker 1: And he's like, so, here's what we're gonna do. And

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Speaker 1: I'm looking around like you're gonna die after this. And

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Speaker 1: You're like, no, no, no, no, stay here, stay up here.

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Speaker 1: And I love you. Know, some of my best friends

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Speaker 2: He's stay here. But something did a great job selling

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Speaker 1: I did a great job merchant making it valuable.

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Speaker 1: But no, that's it doesn't matter because I was thinking

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Speaker 1: at that point it had been four weeks, maybe four weeks.

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Speaker 1: And he's standing there and he goes, hold on, I

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Speaker 1: and you know, it was normal night at Zany's the balcony.

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Speaker 1: and they're telling old stories. Remember when you were drunk, Steve,

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Speaker 1: and you were in the house for two days. And

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Speaker 1: I met Steve a couple of weeks ago, and you're

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Speaker 1: all like old buddies, old professional buddies who do this

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Speaker 2: Felt so bad for you. You just looked out of place.

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Speaker 2: The highway.

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Speaker 1: I thought I held my own a little bit. I

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Speaker 2: You were great, though, And then and then Bert had

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Speaker 4: I think I had asked you a question because literally

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Speaker 4: successful one of all of us. Sure, I mean for sure,

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Speaker 4: I mean going back how many years now? I mean fifteen,

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Speaker 1: name Drop and it's a lot of fun. It's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: name Drop and all we do is we bring a

440
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Speaker 1: bell and it's me and Brian mcpaden, who used to

441
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Speaker 1: be one of the mt v v j's on those

442
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Speaker 1: days of t r L and stuff, and you know,

443
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Speaker 1: we've had some great guests and we basically he starts

444
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Speaker 1: in with just the normal, Hey, how are you doing?

445
00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,879
Speaker 1: This is all about, you know, your life. We talk

446
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Speaker 1: about them a little bit, and then we just want

447
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Speaker 1: to hear stories. Then it's just like tell us stories

448
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Speaker 1: that when you're out promoting stuff you don't normally hear

449
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Speaker 1: because you know, you guys, you do the circuit and

450
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Speaker 1: you're like, oh man, I just ran into so and so,

451
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Speaker 1: but I'm here talking about the new X Men movie

452
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Speaker 1: or you know whatever, not that you guys would be

453
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Speaker 1: an x Men, but you know it's it's one, but

454
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Speaker 1: you know it's Jason and your punchline. That was a

455
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Speaker 1: great show. You like, that's a great but yeah, that's

456
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Speaker 1: and that's.

457
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Speaker 4: Basically perfect because it's an excuse to actually, yeah, normally

458
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Speaker 4: you're inhibited to not I shouldn't say this or whatever.

459
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,680
Speaker 4: But but that's the one spot. And I thought that

460
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Speaker 4: was such a great a great idea for a podcast.

461
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Speaker 2: You're encouraged to do it. Yeah, you're encouraged.

462
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Speaker 1: And you guys know, being in the business, it's like

463
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Speaker 1: you're talking to some of your friends sometimes and you

464
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Speaker 1: feel like a heel because you're like, oh my god,

465
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Speaker 1: I'm name dropping Joey Fatone. You know, not that I

466
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Speaker 1: would do that, but you know, it's like one of

467
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Speaker 1: those things that you're like, do I and I've done it.

468
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Speaker 1: Like and being a parent now it's it's even more

469
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Speaker 1: crazy because now you're dealing with your.

470
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Speaker 2: Kids kids at the birthday party.

471
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the birthday party is talking to them and you're there,

472
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Speaker 1: they're telling stories.

473
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Speaker 2: From the office.

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Speaker 1: You're like Bob Barker.

475
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Speaker 2: Bob from the office analy No one else here knows

476
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Speaker 2: the Mandalorian. Do you validate? I'll be in the alley

477
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Speaker 2: well and then you you may Jiggy, how do you know?

478
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Speaker 2: Don't you guys have a connection here?

479
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I used to do like a charity event for Team

481
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Speaker 5: Gamez in the fall, so I used.

482
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Speaker 1: To do like, yeah, yeah, I knew I recognized you.

483
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Speaker 5: I used to like bomb at the comedy at the

484
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Speaker 5: pairings party the night before the golf event, which was

485
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Speaker 5: always set up for like the worst environment for stand

486
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Speaker 5: up to be, like the prime ribs out and the

487
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Speaker 5: sponsored by Europe just like eat ship. But uh yeah,

488
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Speaker 5: but the golf was where it was always fun. But

489
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Speaker 5: I went to college to Orlando, so we're at Rolins College.

490
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Speaker 1: I went to actually transferred over to the night school

491
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Speaker 1: in Rowlands, n You used to have a night school

492
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Speaker 1: Hamilton Hole. Yeah, when I went to Hamilton home, I

493
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Speaker 1: went to But so when I said Valencia, you knew

494
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Speaker 1: what I was talking about? Yeah Valencia. Yeah, se community

495
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Speaker 1: college made I.

496
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Speaker 4: Phone of this of the show is really Joe and

497
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Speaker 4: I always got doble maternal advice before we dip into

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Speaker 4: it here with Mark, what are some thoughts the minute

499
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Speaker 4: we bring up, like when you think of your mom

500
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Speaker 4: and your what are.

501
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 2: Just she's alive.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that makes of them to you.

503
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Speaker 2: Thanks for bringing up.

504
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: We did have a scare though, Yeah, Scar, she got it. Yeah,

505
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,160
Speaker 1: she got a pacemaker put in a few weeks ago,

506
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Speaker 1: and she's been you know, saying.

507
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Speaker 2: Now she's got to be pulled out of the security lines.

508
00:23:26,840 --> 00:23:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it's with her anymore.

509
00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 4: Blooper ran into her, bring her out.

510
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Speaker 2: Became Blooper.

511
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Speaker 1: She was playing shortstop Blooper.

512
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Speaker 2: That's the villain Jamison. I got to stay away, I thought.

513
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Speaker 2: But so she's ok now, but what are you? What

514
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Speaker 2: are you?

515
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Speaker 1: What are like besides for the batons?

516
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: And yeah, yeah, yeah of course.

517
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Speaker 1: And she you know, it was I have four sisters

518
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Speaker 1: and I'm the oldest, and I was. She was sixteen

519
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,080
Speaker 1: when I was born, so you know, we kind of

520
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: grew up a little bit together, and you know we

521
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 1: spent a lot of times struggling very badly in trailer

522
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Speaker 1: parks or welfare or whatever. It was so but really

523
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Speaker 1: really strong person, like you know, she always she had

524
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Speaker 1: to play the father and mother. My dad. I still

525
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Speaker 1: talk to my dad. He was apparently I think he was,

526
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Speaker 1: but he was in the Peace Corps, you know, he

527
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Speaker 1: traveled a lot, so he was kind of hippyish and

528
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,439
Speaker 1: did his thing, which was awesome. And now we have

529
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Speaker 1: a relationship again with that that I have my son.

530
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Speaker 1: But yeah, my mom has always been that solid person.

531
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Speaker 1: So to see things that happened to them now you're like, oh,

532
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Speaker 1: you know, Mom, why do I have to walk you

533
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Speaker 1: onto the plane. I'm like, you're a mom, Like you're

534
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Speaker 1: the one that right any batons on you or anything

535
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: already checked, he's gonna be okay.

536
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Speaker 3: If you were like, if like you had, would you

537
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Speaker 3: say that your mother was somebody would seek advice from,

538
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Speaker 3: like when you were.

539
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Speaker 1: I think it was almost deeper than that, Like it

540
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Speaker 1: wasn't even advice. It was like everything I knew was

541
00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:20,199
Speaker 1: because of my mom, Like everything I believed, you know,

542
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:21,960
Speaker 1: I grew up now and I think about some of

543
00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 1: the things that I used to think as a kid,

544
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Speaker 1: and I was like, man, the Backstreet Boys don't have

545
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: great music. You know, it's she, you know it was.

546
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: She was very very hippie liberal, you know, that type

547
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Speaker 1: of deal, and I'm more middle of the road. And

548
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 1: it was weird to hear her takes on certain things,

549
00:25:47,520 --> 00:25:50,040
Speaker 1: like I remember one in particular about golf courses and

550
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: how you know they're horrible things for the I'm like,

551
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Speaker 1: they're actually good for the environment. And I'm a member now,

552
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 1: you know, So there's a lot. I don't think it

553
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Speaker 1: was advice as much as it was just like everything

554
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: I learned about life came through her.

555
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Speaker 3: You know, her to see your success had to be

556
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 3: super sweet then too, because she saw, Yeah.

557
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Speaker 4: It was.

558
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:11,640
Speaker 1: It was amazing.

559
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Speaker 2: That's great.

560
00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 1: It was amazing. The whole family too, you know, all

561
00:26:14,720 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: that side of the family, there's all musicians. And of

562
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: course there was the first part, Oh, he's never gonna

563
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:22,840
Speaker 1: make it. He doesn't have the talent that cousin Joey

564
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,120
Speaker 1: does or whoever, you know. But then it was can

565
00:26:25,160 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 1: we get tickets to the show? Whatever the big worldly

566
00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 1: dome is in the place.

567
00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 2: Were playing this stadium.

568
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Speaker 4: What was the first thing you like, like, as you're

569
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Speaker 4: attaining success and you you finally get like a foothold,

570
00:26:40,040 --> 00:26:41,960
Speaker 4: You're like, I think I'm gonna be good. What was

571
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 4: like that first thing you did for your mom?

572
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: I bought her house. I bought her house, and like

573
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Speaker 1: it almost made me cry because I had it all.

574
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: I went and looked at the house, and she's still

575
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Speaker 1: in the house today. I went and looked at houses

576
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Speaker 1: and then I went and bought a welcome Matt and

577
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Speaker 1: I taped a picture of the house underneath the welcome.

578
00:26:59,040 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 2: At no Way.

579
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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I had her open the big package and

580
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: she's a welcome at My Mom's like, well, you know

581
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 1: this is going to go good in my apartment or whatever.

582
00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, hey, am I going It'll be fine?

583
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: So yeah, that was, dude, what great?

584
00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:13,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's incredible.

585
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,520
Speaker 1: And I bought all my sisters a car, their first cars,

586
00:27:16,560 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 1: so that's great.

587
00:27:17,240 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: Oh that's awesome, man.

588
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, we really it was. It was

589
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,720
Speaker 1: hard sledding, it was. And especially it's crazy because I

590
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:26,960
Speaker 1: didn't grow up in a big city.

591
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Speaker 2: You know.

592
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:30,920
Speaker 1: I grew up in a farmtown in farmtowns in Pennsylvania, Ohio.

593
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:34,679
Speaker 1: And it's always hard to describe to people because you know,

594
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,720
Speaker 1: I lived in We lived in trailer parks there. We

595
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: had one trailer had a hole in the side and

596
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:41,119
Speaker 1: when it snowed, we'd pile up the laundry so the

597
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 1: snow didn't come into the trailer. You know, we had

598
00:27:43,080 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 1: no money. And when you're country poor, it's different than

599
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: city poor. City poor. You go to school and you

600
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,719
Speaker 1: get free lunches. Well, you and about eighty of your

601
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,920
Speaker 1: buddies are all hanging out with your free lunches, going

602
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: what did you get today?

603
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Speaker 2: Would you? You know?

604
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 1: Your country poor is just you. Yeah, and they hand

605
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,960
Speaker 1: you those brown tickets instead of the red tickets, and

606
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 1: you got to go through. I didn't eat, you know,

607
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:04,360
Speaker 1: I was like playing in the gym. I'm like, it's

608
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,959
Speaker 1: too embarrassing. So yeah, so she really was like the matriarch.

609
00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 4: And to have her to have a child at sixteen,

610
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 4: you know, you think back like your father's in the

611
00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:14,920
Speaker 4: Peace Corps. Just I don't know the backstory, but obviously

612
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 4: it's so easy for us to go it was a

613
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 4: different time.

614
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it really was a different time.

615
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,159
Speaker 4: But still to be sixteen years old, to have not

616
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,680
Speaker 4: a penny in your pocket and bring up four four kids,

617
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 4: five to five kids us, my god, can you imagine

618
00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 4: being sixteen? And I can't even I can't even write

619
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Speaker 4: my head around that.

620
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: I can't even I can't even imagine tying if I

621
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 1: could tie my shoes when I was sixteen.

622
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 2: I was like, I want to help them. I want

623
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Speaker 2: to get up.

624
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:46,520
Speaker 1: Yes, sixteen, I mean even even in college, you know,

625
00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: I remember, you know, certain scares if you had a

626
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 1: girlfriend or something. She's like, I think I'm pregnant. Like, no,

627
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:54,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm doing, no idea, what is

628
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: going to happen to my world?

629
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Speaker 2: You know this is right.

630
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 1: I waited till I was old. Yeah, to have kids.

631
00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: I know what I'm doing that.

632
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 2: Yeah.

633
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: First first, so he's six, so six, Yeah, twelve years ago.

634
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 1: I'm good with Matt. I went to Valencia. I just

635
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: have one.

636
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

637
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,720
Speaker 4: Well, we can't thank you enough for being here. This

638
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 4: is the part of the show. Get maternal and channel

639
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,719
Speaker 4: our moms and give some advice. Mark, you're gonna walk

640
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 4: us through here.

641
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, I got our first question come from Scottie B

642
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 5: on the email.

643
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:28,800
Speaker 2: The email.

644
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 3: We should plug the email. The email is too cool.

645
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 3: Moms pod at gmail dot com. You want to give

646
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 3: us your queries and dilemmas.

647
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 5: With queries and dilemas, I thought we'd go with one

648
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 5: from entertainment first, since we have Chris here. So this was, Hey, moms,

649
00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 5: you guys have bodyguards when you're performing? Has anyone ever

650
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 5: tried to jump on stage and how did you handle it?

651
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I mean, I think he's probably gonna have the

652
00:29:46,840 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 2: worst point. It's like, yeah, they rushed Zany's.

653
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:54,360
Speaker 1: I was selling merch out of my trunk at the

654
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: side door and Zany's.

655
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Speaker 4: And I never had to I never had to kick

656
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 4: throat a girl on the a twelve years girl in

657
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Speaker 4: the throat.

658
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:01,240
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I imagine it's got to be especially a peak.

660
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 4: You guys are just getting hounded every every opportunity. You

661
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 4: just just gotta girls pound on the door everyway.

662
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 3: I'd like to tweak that a little bit for you,

663
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 3: like when it was the first time you realized you

664
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 3: needed security.

665
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:18,160
Speaker 1: Uh So we first we actually started in Europe. So

666
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: we went over to Europe and that's where we you know,

667
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: got our feet wet the first time we went over there.

668
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: I remember we didn't have security and we were with

669
00:30:25,720 --> 00:30:28,040
Speaker 1: the we just signed with this German record label. We

670
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 1: were at the show and they're like, yeah, get up,

671
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 1: do a song. Do song. And I don't know if

672
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: that was German.

673
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 2: I probably just sound Japanese.

674
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, well everything sounds Japanese too, But it was like

675
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: really one of the I'm horrible with accident. But they're like,

676
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: you know, go go sing, do what you do. We're like,

677
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,400
Speaker 1: all right, we got a couple of a cappella songs

678
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,239
Speaker 1: and we're done doing the acapella songs. And there were

679
00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: girls everywhere screaming, and the record label people are like

680
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: pushing them away, and they've got like Orlando Magic jerseys

681
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 1: and all this. We're like, they know us, they were

682
00:30:57,880 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: from Orlando. This is so crazy, Like, how'd you guys

683
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: know us? They're like, no, it's the Backstreet Boys are

684
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: over here, That's all. I was like, But there's you know,

685
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 1: there's been a lot of we One of the biggest

686
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,000
Speaker 1: scares I remember because we always had security every time.

687
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 1: In those days. It was really crazy. You couldn't go

688
00:31:14,160 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: to malls anymore or anything like it out the back.

689
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: I went to electronics boutique one time and I had

690
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:22,239
Speaker 1: to go out there. I was buying dreamcasts for all

691
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 1: my security guys. I love that's how long ago it was,

692
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: but I had to go out the back door. But

693
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: there was one time we were doing a show in Atlanta,

694
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 1: and I remember this and a mom had ended up

695
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: calling and turning her own son into the police because

696
00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: he had a detailed map of where security was everything

697
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,600
Speaker 1: and a gun like a whole revolver and was going

698
00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,320
Speaker 1: to come in and kill us during that show. So

699
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: that was you know, that was the first time that

700
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: I had ever really hit like, wow, we suck that bad.

701
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, at least go like get justin or

702
00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: something like he's a cute one. Just what am I?

703
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: What am I threatening you?

704
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 2: I'm just electronics.

705
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: I'll gets you a dreamcast. Mom made me carry around batons.

706
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 2: I did, I did a we You know.

707
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,959
Speaker 3: The difference I think, uh with the fame that I

708
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 3: have that you have is that I.

709
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 2: Was assuming you guys, I'll just leave.

710
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you could just stand there with a microphone,

711
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 1: he's got first and it's gonna be great.

712
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 3: I think that the thing I will too is that, well,

713
00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:28,320
Speaker 3: you you were different than this. That's why I said

714
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 3: that you played a character on TV. You played Steve,

715
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: but like I always myself and you were yourself in

716
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,400
Speaker 3: a band like and we were always compared to actually

717
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,440
Speaker 3: a band more than a comedy troupe, you know, because

718
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 3: we were ourselves. We weren't playing characters. So people felt

719
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 3: like there's a familiarity to you, like when we walk

720
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 3: you get bat let's get a picture like that kind

721
00:32:48,360 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 3: of stuff, which is different.

722
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,880
Speaker 2: People had a quick level of that with you. They

723
00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: have to place you, you know what I mean. They have

724
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 2: to be like, oh, that's the guy. He's from the

725
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: show to you know something. He plays s like that.

726
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 4: Even though your name was Steve, Well, I think still

727
00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,959
Speaker 4: just comedy. I my kids, you know, we'll go out

728
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 4: to the mall well and there's always somebody that says something.

729
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 4: But it's always I always tell my kids, I'm familiar,

730
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 4: I'm not famous. That's a great place to be because

731
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 4: it's always how do I know you?

732
00:33:14,680 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 2: And then that's where.

733
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: Is that why you always wear your driver's license on

734
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 1: your shirts? You know me from your IMDb please?

735
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's wearing sunglasses.

736
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 5: You know.

737
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:33,080
Speaker 1: It's funny though, is when when when I after we met,

738
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: I came back and I'm like, and of course, Josh,

739
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,440
Speaker 1: first of all, it's so weird that I was making

740
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 1: fun of you for getting William hung out there to

741
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: replace me, because Josh texts me, are you getting Steve

742
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:44,960
Speaker 1: to replace me? Doing the zanies?

743
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 2: Okay and all that.

744
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: But you know, talking to him. It's it's just always

745
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 1: it's it's crazy that you know, I met you, and

746
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: I felt like we've been old friends. And I told

747
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 1: I told my friends and they all went nuts. You know,

748
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,120
Speaker 1: they all were like, oh my god, dude, I know him.

749
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 1: And my mom friend Kevin Little. I don't know if

750
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:08,080
Speaker 1: you know who Kevin Little. He's lives in Orlano. You

751
00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: know Kevin, right, So that's probably how you guys have met,

752
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: because Kevin was talking about you, and I told him

753
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:15,400
Speaker 1: I knew you. I think we text you. We were

754
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 1: in the backyard or something, we were texting you. He

755
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,880
Speaker 1: was up. But yeah, it's it's cool because you know,

756
00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: with with us, it is us, but and now with

757
00:34:23,239 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 1: you it's you though too. You know, you're with people

758
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 1: people know you from comedy and and I can't imagine

759
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,920
Speaker 1: being a comedian and the stuff that you guys do,

760
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: like how hard that schedule is, and and and hearing

761
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: the stories. Oh they got to do it. They want

762
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: me in for a tough ten or what you call

763
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 1: a titan, a tough, tight fifteen whatever. Sometimes it's tough

764
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:46,360
Speaker 1: to say, titan.

765
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 4: When did you This is I just want to ask

766
00:34:50,280 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 4: you because when you're sitting at a cappelle. What was

767
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 4: the first time you heard you guys collectively together and

768
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 4: you just thought, holy shit, like this is we got

769
00:34:58,800 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 4: something here?

770
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 1: Like this all I loved a cappella groups, like I

771
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 1: grew up on acappella music. I was always a big

772
00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: fan of harmonies and boom yea, I sang it, I

773
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:13,600
Speaker 1: sang do wop at Universal Studios. Oh really yeah, they

774
00:35:13,600 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: were called the Hollywood high Tones. So I and I

775
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:19,080
Speaker 1: also did Christmas carols with an a cappella groups. So

776
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 1: I when Christmas comes around, I know every word to

777
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: every Christmas song, all these old fifties and sixties songs.

778
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 1: So I always liked that kind of music. So I

779
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: was put in choir in high school. In college, I'd

780
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: be putting these bands together. And then when this guy

781
00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: Lou came and was like, I'll put money behind it,

782
00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: I'm like, this is my thing, and so many I

783
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,840
Speaker 1: mean I was with. I tried to make it happen

784
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,719
Speaker 1: for a couple of years before you know, Justin and

785
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: JC were even in the band, and then when we

786
00:35:46,719 --> 00:35:48,799
Speaker 1: got Joey, it was still a couple more years I think,

787
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 1: till we got Lance. So but we all. You know,

788
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: I think the first time we sat down, and it's crazy,

789
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: how weird You run into a stairwell or or somebody's

790
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 1: bathroom at a hotel where there's good acoustics and you

791
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 1: have that good reverb and you do harmonies, and it's just,

792
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:06,680
Speaker 1: you know, everybody thinks they're going off to do coke

793
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: to Stirwell, let's do a line of.

794
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 2: Guys, I'm.

795
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:21,879
Speaker 1: It's cool, dude, I just had an eight.

796
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:29,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's great, It's gonna be great, all right.

797
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 1: I hope that helps you budding singers out there.

798
00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 2: Lines of.

799
00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 5: Uha on email Earth, No, it's but the why Usula?

800
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 2: She has us up on the email.

801
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: She's gotta she's got a question about college.

802
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 5: She's afraid about going to college because of taking out

803
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 5: loans and they tend to build up, and she doesn't

804
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,280
Speaker 5: want to be burdened with a large son of debt

805
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:57,399
Speaker 5: and taking out that much money, and she doesn't want

806
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:01,000
Speaker 5: to be overwhelmed and feel burdened by paying back from thought,

807
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 5: what is your thought on this significant amount of a

808
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 5: loan and going to college in general?

809
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: What should I do? I still think college serves its purpose,

810
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 3: but I don't think you got to pay to play,

811
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 3: and you shouldn't put yourself out too bad because you'll

812
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 3: get the same exp What do you'll get away from college?

813
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 2: We spoke about this before.

814
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 3: I think the social aspect, and you grow up and

815
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 3: you're able to solve problems on your own, not being

816
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 3: in your parents' house, or face your own challenges, gett

817
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 3: charge your old schedule.

818
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 2: All that stuff helps you in life, not necessarily the curriculum.

819
00:37:30,960 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 3: So wherever you could get that experience for the best

820
00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:35,120
Speaker 3: price would be my advice. I wouldn't go out taking

821
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 3: out one hundred thousand dollars loans to go to a

822
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 3: better school. I mean because you know, like we talked

823
00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 3: about it off air before, I have an accounting degree.

824
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:43,359
Speaker 3: You know, we all went to college for different things,

825
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,440
Speaker 3: and we don't. You don't necessarily end up where you start.

826
00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, how often do you use that accounting degree and

827
00:37:47,920 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 1: what you do?

828
00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 2: No?

829
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,399
Speaker 3: I mean I'm good with math, and I use math,

830
00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 3: that's it. But I don't even bounce my own checkbook.

831
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, crept stable, I use the number of.

832
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: There's apps for that.

833
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I agree with you.

834
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 4: I think college is it was a great experience, but

835
00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 4: you know I had friends. I got to get into

836
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,319
Speaker 4: Notre Dame, I got to get into Michigan, and then

837
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 4: they end up going to like West Virginia and they

838
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 4: still had just as good of a time. But it really,

839
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,520
Speaker 4: I think, really it's more about that independence. Is about

840
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 4: all the social interaction and the friends I had in

841
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 4: college I still have to this day. So I uh,

842
00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 4: it was a great experience. But I went to Kent State.

843
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 4: By no means is it like a premier school by

844
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 4: any but but I go back, I'm like, pretty nice

845
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 4: and it was very affordable.

846
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:33,239
Speaker 2: I mean it was like, I think it was like

847
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 2: eight grand a year while it was going on.

848
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: So you're saying, forget the education, find the best party school,

849
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 1: and yeah, yeah, you got to make some friends, you

850
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 1: got to make some relationships.

851
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would.

852
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 3: I would say if you're already worried about being in

853
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 3: the hole and own your mom money, like, don't start

854
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 3: you're gonna start college. We're gonna be regretting it from

855
00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 3: day one. That's gonna be tough. So I think if

856
00:38:52,280 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 3: you're try to, you're gonna do it. Find a way

857
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 3: that you're okay with entering that part of your life

858
00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 3: because you're just gonna be dragging around being like already

859
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 3: under the weight of this.

860
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:04,480
Speaker 4: So it's like there's the business of colleges nowadays where

861
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 4: they're offering like high rise apartments and everything that's on

862
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 4: the campus, and so you're paying for a lot of

863
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 4: the you know, the bullshit that you don't need that's

864
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 4: not really part of the curriculum of the education process itself.

865
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 2: So be weary of that.

866
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:19,719
Speaker 4: And I think when you're choosing a school, it's like,

867
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 4: what do you if you really know what you're focused on,

868
00:39:22,480 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 4: If like ex school specializes.

869
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 2: In why one hundred percent go for it. You're passionate

870
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:28,640
Speaker 2: about it. Why not?

871
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:31,239
Speaker 4: But for the most part, I think college really is

872
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 4: about the experience. And I mean half the people I know,

873
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:39,160
Speaker 4: I'd say more than half don't even do anything affiliated.

874
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 2: Or associated with their degree. So our generation versure.

875
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: We were probably the generation that you know back in

876
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: the back, as my son calls them, the olden people days.

877
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: You know, those days the college education meant something and

878
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, they went there, they went there. But

879
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:57,320
Speaker 1: there's so many careers now where you know, you have

880
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: to know what you want to do first, like you

881
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: were saying, and if you know what specialized thing you

882
00:40:02,320 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: want to get into. Maybe there's al alternative things now

883
00:40:06,080 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 1: that you can go through. There's so many, you know,

884
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 1: even the tech colleges, even the little things where you're

885
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: getting that experience.

886
00:40:13,200 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 2: You know, I.

887
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:17,360
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm in a weird business, but you know, I

888
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,160
Speaker 1: know in our business a lot of times it's not

889
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 1: oh yeah, we need a new guy for this video.

890
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: Where did you go to college? How much experience do

891
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: you have or how much you know? And it's the

892
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 1: experience that really, you know, is what they focus on.

893
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 4: Entertainment industry, by the way, like no need just just

894
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 4: p A p A from the jump and learn it

895
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 4: all from the from the upswing.

896
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 1: I heard an accounting college will really get you.

897
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 2: Get your career, get your.

898
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 1: All right.

899
00:40:54,200 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 5: This one is it's anonymous, anonymous. We haven't got one yet.

900
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:03,239
Speaker 2: That's anonymous.

901
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 5: Uh okay, so anonymous ass. I've been a strange from

902
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 5: my family for the past two years ish. My parents

903
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 5: are very conservative Catholics, and I was kicked out in

904
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 5: early twenty twenty two because I came out as a lesbian.

905
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:18,719
Speaker 5: I thought I had basically accepted the situation for what

906
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:23,840
Speaker 5: it was and just focus on myself in education. Recently,

907
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 5: I graduated with the engineering degree and got accepted into

908
00:41:26,160 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 5: two top PhD programs in my field. So how can

909
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 5: I overcome the desire for external validation and love, specifically

910
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 5: from a parent. How can I fill that void in

911
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 5: my life from my parents rejection that they caused? Thank

912
00:41:40,560 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 5: you for being the coolest moms ever?

913
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 1: Anonymy that I.

914
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:49,360
Speaker 2: Would say, have you tried liking men? They have camps

915
00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: for the well, send you a camp. We'll send you

916
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: a link. Now, I would say, first of all, you

917
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 2: should you.

918
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 3: Should be congratulating yourself with taking the leap and doing

919
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 3: what you did. That's unbelievable. Power taking the power of that,

920
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:06,000
Speaker 3: the the just not knowing how it's going to pan out,

921
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 3: and to come to such a level and make that happen.

922
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 2: That's kudos to your round of the balls room. The

923
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,120
Speaker 2: mom's for you there. So if you need a validation,

924
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 2: there's your there it is. I think I think you've

925
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 2: already done it.

926
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 3: I do get the idea about the love we all

927
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:19,680
Speaker 3: want to make our parents, that's innate in humans. But

928
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:22,160
Speaker 3: sometimes your parents don't deserve that love if they don't

929
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 3: accept who you are. And that's the hardest pilled as well.

930
00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: Sometimes it takes time though too.

931
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 4: Yes, sure, right, there's you know where you're at in

932
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:30,520
Speaker 4: the world, but sometimes it takes somebody else, you know,

933
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 4: a little bit to catch up.

934
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 2: They catch up.

935
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:35,440
Speaker 4: So I think you you you, you know, obviously unbelievable

936
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:39,719
Speaker 4: to do, have been accepted in two different programs, right, yeah,

937
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 4: you're on your way so professionally and independently. It sounds

938
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 4: like she's definitely on her way to doing exactly what

939
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 4: she needs to do to provide a great background for

940
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:52,439
Speaker 4: herself and a profession for herself. And I think via

941
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 4: that as you get older, you know, bring your parents

942
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 4: back in the fold for sure.

943
00:42:57,719 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 2: Checking in is fine, but you can't make people love you. Yes,

944
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 2: but why do you look at me like that way?

945
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:06,759
Speaker 2: Because I didn't want to say anything. Sorry, I got it,

946
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 2: I got it, I got it, I get it, I

947
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 2: get it.

948
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 1: I know where you're going.

949
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 2: I would say, that's that's my two cents. It is.

950
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: It is sad though, too, that because you know she's

951
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: taking this as her burden and it's actually her parents burden. Yes,

952
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: you know, And that's that's the hardest part is you

953
00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: can't change, you know, spots as they say or whatever.

954
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 1: You know, it's like, but it's her parents, Like it's like,

955
00:43:31,000 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 1: that's your child. You know, you have kids like that,

956
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,320
Speaker 1: that's the most important thing, Like you accept them for

957
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:39,320
Speaker 1: who they are and whatever.

958
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 4: It is all a sad like I don't care. My

959
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 4: kids are right over in the other office.

960
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 2: I don't care if my son.

961
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 4: I don't care if he grows up and he becomes

962
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 4: cis gender and marries an individual that is transition from

963
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 4: another sex into whatever sex that that individual is now

964
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 4: attracted to, and they get married under the banner of

965
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 4: a Catholic church, as long as they're the same race.

966
00:44:04,239 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 2: I don't care. I was, and I couldn't agree more

967
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:18,720
Speaker 2: my shot.

968
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I do think that's a very good point

969
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:27,600
Speaker 3: my friend here makes about it being not that your

970
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 3: birden can carry, but it's all you know, So I

971
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:32,959
Speaker 3: think you're right too to see people time to change,

972
00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 3: especially if they're so hard coordinate beliefs, and when they

973
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:36,960
Speaker 3: realize their beliefs are wrong, then you'll be.

974
00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 2: There to laugh at them.

975
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: Or give them tickets to your show.

976
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 3: Gota give you a point to come and give you

977
00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,520
Speaker 3: a clean point. Because there was a camera issue and

978
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 3: we don't want everybody to know that.

979
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:51,040
Speaker 2: Let's leave it in.

980
00:44:55,320 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 5: Okay, last question, Last question, Last question. Teresa hits us

981
00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,320
Speaker 5: up on the Instagram account. She's got a toddler. She

982
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 5: got a toddler that's three on Instagram?

983
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:06,240
Speaker 2: What do we jiggy?

984
00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 5: Two cool moms pod there, she's got a toddler. She's

985
00:45:11,880 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 5: got a toddler that's three. She takes the toddler to

986
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 5: the store. Any advice on how to handle the kids

987
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 5: in the store. She hates sitting in the cart and

988
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 5: loves walking around with mommy, so she wants to hear

989
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 5: from her two cool moms how to handle kids in

990
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:25,280
Speaker 5: the store.

991
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 2: Gotcha, that's always that gives a lot of people anxiety.

992
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 3: I am on the team, especially like when I see

993
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:32,759
Speaker 3: people come on on a plane with a kid or

994
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:34,799
Speaker 3: the word a kid, I'm like, they have a kid,

995
00:45:34,880 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 3: that's it.

996
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:35,440
Speaker 2: You know.

997
00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 3: I think a lot of it is put out by

998
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:39,160
Speaker 3: people on their self and they're like, you know, just

999
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 3: let your kid. If you kid wants to walk around,

1000
00:45:41,000 --> 00:45:42,320
Speaker 3: let your kid walk around with you. You know, just

1001
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:43,360
Speaker 3: make sure you know where they go. Put one of

1002
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 3: those weird leashes on them, you know, something like those

1003
00:45:46,640 --> 00:45:47,040
Speaker 3: whole poons.

1004
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,479
Speaker 2: You see Disney kid will walking around.

1005
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:54,640
Speaker 6: He's trying to im I'm Asian, so we just blow

1006
00:45:54,760 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 6: dart with Jimmy's got too far. Yeah, so I would

1007
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:05,359
Speaker 6: do the I would.

1008
00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:05,759
Speaker 2: I would.

1009
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 3: You're gonna expend more energy fighting what a kid wants

1010
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:11,400
Speaker 3: to do, and the result at the end is like

1011
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 3: because you think they have to be in the cart.

1012
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,080
Speaker 3: But if I always try to take a step back

1013
00:46:15,080 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 3: and be like, why why are you having this fight

1014
00:46:16,840 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 3: because you think your kid should be in the cart?

1015
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 2: You can't clear doesn't want.

1016
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 3: To be put the food in the cart. Like, I'm

1017
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,160
Speaker 3: just as long as the kid's safe and whatever.

1018
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,480
Speaker 2: I think.

1019
00:46:23,520 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 3: You expend a lot of energy as a parent trying

1020
00:46:25,680 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 3: to make it the way you think it should be

1021
00:46:26,920 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 3: instead the way it's easiest for everybody, right.

1022
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 1: Or make it a game, you know, if whatever you

1023
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: need those kids that age, you know my son, I know, well,

1024
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: first of all, he always I'm like, don't you like

1025
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 1: riding at the front of the cart, So he'd stand

1026
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 1: on the front of the cart, so he'd always put

1027
00:46:42,400 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: his foot down. I'd run him over and it's like, oh,

1028
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 1: it's too much. But you know, whatever you need, like

1029
00:46:46,520 --> 00:46:49,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna need this, so maybe have them go, oh,

1030
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: could you find me this? And so it makes them

1031
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: feel like they're being grown up and they're doing something

1032
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: and kind of keeps them around to like, oh, I

1033
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 1: got to be here because dad might need this or

1034
00:46:58,800 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 1: he might need this.

1035
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think if you can be inclusive, you know,

1036
00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 2: and making part of the process.

1037
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 4: But I think also when you're out in public, you

1038
00:47:05,040 --> 00:47:07,520
Speaker 4: always feel like this inhibition of like insecurity, like I

1039
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 4: don't want to bother anybody. But every time I'm at

1040
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:11,839
Speaker 4: the airport and I see a parent and their kids

1041
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 4: are running around, it's like, I totally get it. Let

1042
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,760
Speaker 4: them burn it all off because they're gonna be confined

1043
00:47:15,760 --> 00:47:17,600
Speaker 4: for like four hours. So I think you have that

1044
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 4: free license. But then we have friends like.

1045
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:23,920
Speaker 2: He walk like, give me your kid, help you you're

1046
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:24,439
Speaker 2: flying today.

1047
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 4: But I don't say I'm Steve Burne. I say hi,

1048
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 4: I'm Kevin Spacey Asian Kevin Spacey.

1049
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 2: I think I think you're due.

1050
00:47:36,160 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 3: I think I think you're right though, because there's nothing

1051
00:47:38,719 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 3: feels better as a parent, especially in those younger years.

1052
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 3: You know, we our kids a little bit older and now,

1053
00:47:43,239 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 3: so we got past a lot of it, but like

1054
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,160
Speaker 3: the two and whatever, when your kid is just you know,

1055
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 3: they're horrendous humans and you're like, oh, and somebody just

1056
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 3: comes up and was like, I got you pal, like

1057
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 3: just a look dad across, you know, a dad in

1058
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:55,920
Speaker 3: their trenches together and stuff like that.

1059
00:47:56,120 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: But there's also a difference between single people or people

1060
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 1: with no kids and people with kids, for sure, because

1061
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:04,239
Speaker 1: I was I was there back in the day. You

1062
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:05,960
Speaker 1: see a kid or you see, oh, I'm going on

1063
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: a plane, this baby's gonna cry. Now that you're a parent,

1064
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 1: you're like, oh, man, I got you. Whatever you I'll

1065
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: trip him if he starts running this way to get away,

1066
00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:21,600
Speaker 1: because when you know, you know, when you see those

1067
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:24,320
Speaker 1: glares too, you're like your dog parent, aren't you.

1068
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 4: You're a parent with you see that stress, you see

1069
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 4: the frustration, you're like, totally get it.

1070
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 2: You totally remember those years. And it's when you're in

1071
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 2: the thick of it, you're in the trench.

1072
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 4: You're like, God, it's it's the worst, but remove from

1073
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,359
Speaker 4: it because it's every year is different, right, every year kid.

1074
00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 4: Those first three or four though, the first two especially,

1075
00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:45,560
Speaker 4: God bless the women.

1076
00:48:45,320 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 1: Because they're too dumb to know what they're running away from?

1077
00:48:51,040 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 2: What is this?

1078
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: What does this do?

1079
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 2: Dad?

1080
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 1: On the planet life? How many times you see these moms?

1081
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 1: You know, if you're on the plane, you see a

1082
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: mom come with like four kids and she's got them

1083
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:08,359
Speaker 1: wrangled and you're just like wow, yeah, like superhero right there,

1084
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: how do you do that?

1085
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 4: Totally wrangle in them all under control? But then the

1086
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 4: minute they come in, just put in the ipadsye.

1087
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:17,759
Speaker 2: So I would I would say to.

1088
00:49:17,880 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 3: Our our friend that you should probably try to make

1089
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 3: it the least stressful for both you and your child

1090
00:49:23,719 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 3: and keep the kids safe, and then that's going to

1091
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 3: be the easiest way to be out in public with

1092
00:49:28,040 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 3: the kid.

1093
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 2: That's my point.

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Speaker 1: And if you see Steve, don't let your.

1095
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 2: Kid in dark. All right? Well that's it. This was great.

1096
00:49:36,960 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 4: Thank you so much for come by, and again everybody

1097
00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 4: can camp up with you at your podcast.

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00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: Name drop the Pop two thousand Tour or whatever. If

1099
00:49:47,239 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 1: I'm in town.

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00:49:48,239 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 4: Pop through two thousand tour though, because I remember you

1101
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 4: would posted something And I was at the airport in

1102
00:49:53,200 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 4: Nashville and I saw the guy from LFO walking by

1103
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:59,720
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my god, because summer girls own.

1104
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 2: Benjamin and I would play it.

1105
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 4: We'd be on tour and Sullivan's son and that was

1106
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,840
Speaker 4: the song we'd play all the time in the in

1107
00:50:04,920 --> 00:50:07,640
Speaker 4: the car to just goof and we just rap and

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00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:09,680
Speaker 4: Roywood Junior the.

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00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 2: Black on the Daily Show. I hated that song hat.

1110
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Speaker 4: It, So we played all the time, just a message.

1111
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,200
Speaker 4: And so I would watch the video all the time

1112
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh my god, that's from LFO.

1113
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:23,120
Speaker 4: So you tour though with other other members of boy bands?

1114
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Speaker 2: Is that the purpose of it?

1115
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: And who? Basically it's kind of boy bandish, but it's

1116
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:30,759
Speaker 1: like Ryan Cabrera's on it. We have bb Mac, we

1117
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:36,000
Speaker 1: had LFO myself, we had smash Mouth, we have Mark

1118
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: McGrath from Sugar a right, you know. So I kind

1119
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 1: of look at it more as like that old TRL

1120
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Speaker 1: collection thing.

1121
00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 2: It's like a mini festival.

1122
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 1: Everything random you get. It's like who's number one today?

1123
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:48,279
Speaker 4: Oh?

1124
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:49,439
Speaker 1: Is it going to be bb Mac?

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Speaker 6: Is it?

1126
00:50:50,520 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 4: What?

1127
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:50,920
Speaker 5: Is it?

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Speaker 2: So it's fun.

1129
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot of fun.

1130
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:55,439
Speaker 4: And if you're you would that's one of those things

1131
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 4: you go to and you would be like, oh my god,

1132
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 4: I know every single song here.

1133
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know all the songs. This was so it

1134
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: was like right down memory lane. Yeah, you guys look

1135
00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,520
Speaker 1: so pretty good for being old, and say with me.

1136
00:51:06,120 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, he broke his hand trying to do a backslip.

1137
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 4: Well, thank you again name drop and then the name

1138
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 4: of the tour again is top two thousand, Pop two thousand.

1139
00:51:15,520 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for being here today. Love it

1140
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: the best, you know what, Thank you, Steve. I agree

1141
00:51:20,440 --> 00:51:24,240
Speaker 2: you are a great too. And h three cool moms today,

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00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 2: Yes moms today. All Rights