Speaker 1: Brooking jewels second day. Not many people know this, but
Speaker 1: people who work in the service industry are incredibly frisky.
Speaker 1: Oh that's right, and right now we got a frisky
Speaker 1: waiter on the phone. His name is Greg. Sorry, he
Speaker 1: also has allergies. Who man, he brings sexy to the table.
Speaker 1: He brings sexy to the table, Sir, Yes I do, Yes,
Speaker 1: I do. Anyway, my whole intro is ruined now because
Speaker 1: of my allergies and my sneezing fit, so let's just
Speaker 1: talk to him. His name is Greg. What's up Greg? Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: how are you guys doing today? My allergies are flaring up.
Speaker 1: And I had this whole intro planned where I was
Speaker 1: going to call you a frisky waiter and her a
Speaker 1: lustful waitress and tell a story about you guys met
Speaker 1: real quick. But unfortunately my sneezing got the best of me.
Speaker 1: So you're gonna have to do that. Greg. Well, I
Speaker 1: like it because I think I might have some allergic
Speaker 1: to women are allergic to me, so maybe you guys
Speaker 1: can help me out. Oh Greg, look at you, king
Speaker 1: of the segue for us. I'm trying wow save the intro,
Speaker 1: So you guys can send me. Yeah, all right, we
Speaker 1: can stop now, Greg's enough. So Greg, you're a waiter. Yes,
Speaker 1: I am a waiter. I'm probably one of the best
Speaker 1: waiters around that like the same. But yes, I am
Speaker 1: in the service industry. Are you frisky or was I right?
Speaker 1: Are you frisky? I'd like to think that I'm frisky,
Speaker 1: but I mean I don't know. Um I try, I
Speaker 1: definitely tell. And is this lovely waitress that you went
Speaker 1: out with? Is this a a co worker? Well? No, not really.
Speaker 1: I was just at the restaurant she worked at. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right as a customer. Yeah. Yeah, I was out
Speaker 1: with some friends and we were just having some dinner
Speaker 1: and some drinks and she ended up being our waitress.
Speaker 1: Weird waiters and waitresses eat at other restaurants. I know,
Speaker 1: we have mind blowing Yes, we do occasionally be like
Speaker 1: radio people listening to other radio stations happen. So do
Speaker 1: I mean were you struck by her immediately when she
Speaker 1: came up to your table? I mean, before she came
Speaker 1: up to my table, I saw her if it almost
Speaker 1: had my fingers crossed that she would be our waitress.
Speaker 1: She was, you know, really looking good that night. Okay,
Speaker 1: And did you just flat out ask her out on
Speaker 1: the spot or I did not. I um, actually, i'd
Speaker 1: had it happened a couple of times to myself. Women
Speaker 1: had left her name and number on the receipt after
Speaker 1: they signed for it, so I kind of stole her
Speaker 1: idea and I did that, you know, I left greg
Speaker 1: and then left my phone number at the bottom of
Speaker 1: the receipt when I paid the bill, and that actually
Speaker 1: worked it did? She actually text me like two days later.
Speaker 1: It was she I got a text and I didn't
Speaker 1: even know who it was because I silly enough forgot
Speaker 1: her name. And then I was like, who is she
Speaker 1: look at Cynthia and then I was like, oh, yeah, dude,
Speaker 1: that's amazing. I've tried that so many times and I
Speaker 1: know you're gonna be surprised by this. Never once I was.
Speaker 1: I think it was a smiling face. I say, you know,
Speaker 1: I took it up a name, number and a smiling
Speaker 1: face and probably a big tip to go with it,
Speaker 1: because no goal is going to call you back if
Speaker 1: you don't tip. Well, yeah, I want I want to
Speaker 1: easy thirty percent that night. Okay, so what did you
Speaker 1: guys do when you went out? So we both know
Speaker 1: of this really high end restaurant we've been wanting to
Speaker 1: go to. I actually one of my buddies works there.
Speaker 1: It's usually like really hard to get a reservation, so
Speaker 1: he was able to, you know, get us in for
Speaker 1: a table for two. So I thought that was, you know,
Speaker 1: going to really impress her. And sweet was she impressed
Speaker 1: she went? So I want to say she was impressed.
Speaker 1: She ended up going obviously, I thought that is impressed.
Speaker 1: And how was the actual date while you were there?
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean it was cool. Honestly, I don't
Speaker 1: eat at high end restaurants. So all the food was
Speaker 1: really interesting and you know, it was like a six
Speaker 1: course meal. Everything it was nice and paste out. I
Speaker 1: thought we had really good conversation. Yeah, I mean you're
Speaker 1: talking like a marathon. Did her though, if you're talking
Speaker 1: six courses. There's a lot that can go wrong when
Speaker 1: you're committing what three hours to a meal? Four hours? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was about two and a half three hours easily. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was getting there and going through old courses, so yeah,
Speaker 1: it was there was a lot of room for failure
Speaker 1: in it. But I don't know if I was blind
Speaker 1: to it, but I never saw anything go wrong. I
Speaker 1: felt weird about it? Okay, was what was the highlight
Speaker 1: for you? My highlight was the dessert. It was almost
Speaker 1: like they were reading my mind because they brought this
Speaker 1: an amazing chocolate, three layered cheesecake. I think I hate
Speaker 1: to interrupt you there, Greg, but I think Brooke was
Speaker 1: asking about the highlight with her and not the food.
Speaker 1: Oh well, I didn't even tell you. If she shows
Speaker 1: up dressed to the nines and she's sitting across with
Speaker 1: me and it was just almost froze me in time.
Speaker 1: Then I'm looking at her and can't believe that I'm
Speaker 1: with her. The anticipation is actually killing me right now.
Speaker 1: So what happened? Did your kiss? Did you go home together? Now?
Speaker 1: So we finished and a walk or to her car,
Speaker 1: and then I think we're going in for the kiss.
Speaker 1: She turns to the side and just keeps me a
Speaker 1: hot Wow. I thought, you know, maybe, Okay, it was
Speaker 1: our first date and I like that about her. Maybe
Speaker 1: you know she's playing a little hard to get it.
Speaker 1: She gave me a taste, but you know, it's like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna give you your dessert per se on
Speaker 1: the first date, because she really went for a side
Speaker 1: hug like you were saying, it's a first date. Not
Speaker 1: everybody kisses on a first date. She gave me the hug,
Speaker 1: and it kind of motivates you more, you know, to
Speaker 1: try that. All right, now, you've you've got me, and
Speaker 1: I'm really into you even more at this point because
Speaker 1: you know, I haven't chasted the forbidden fruit. It don't
Speaker 1: call it that, right, I'm really motivated. Okay, And how
Speaker 1: how many have you talked since that day? Only text message?
Speaker 1: I reached out. I text her, you know, just said
Speaker 1: I had a great time. She didn't hear from her,
Speaker 1: and nothing's materialized into meeting up again. Okay, Well we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back, and then call her and
Speaker 1: see if we can find out what happened in your
Speaker 1: second date update. All right, okay, thank you so much
Speaker 1: brooking Cubile in the morning. We've been doing second day
Speaker 1: updates for a long time now, and I feel like
Speaker 1: something keeps getting disrespected over and over again. Really, what's that?
Speaker 1: The side hug? Every time somebody gets a side hug,
Speaker 1: they always take it as a brush off. But you
Speaker 1: know what, maybe the side hug is the new second base. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: probably not. Yeah, it's actually a terrible thing to get
Speaker 1: a side hug after a date. And that's what happened
Speaker 1: to Greg, who was on the phone right now. He's
Speaker 1: a waiter and was in another restaurant and actually hit
Speaker 1: on the waitress by writing his phone number down on
Speaker 1: the receipt. She ended up calling him and they went
Speaker 1: out to a very fancy restaurant. But by the end
Speaker 1: of the date she just gave him a little side
Speaker 1: hug and now she stopped talking to him. Is there
Speaker 1: anything that you would do differently second time around? Greg?
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe not take her to the fancy restaurant.
Speaker 1: So I had something to shoot for. Okay, I see
Speaker 1: you started off too hot? Maybe yeah, yeah, maybe I
Speaker 1: came in too big. All right, Well I doll her
Speaker 1: phone number right now. See if we can get her
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out if you gave it
Speaker 1: to her too big. Usually not a problem, but maybe
Speaker 1: this time it is. Okay. Let's go all right, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: May ask me to Cynthia. This is she, Hey Cynthia,
Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm sorry what this is Jebil from
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewbil in the Morning. The radio show, Um Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: why why are you guys calling me? Well, I'm calling
Speaker 1: you because we recently got an email about you from
Speaker 1: one of our listeners. I'm sorry, what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: Who is this again? This is Jewbil from Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewil in the Morning. It's a radio show. We do
Speaker 1: a segment on our show called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out on a date with
Speaker 1: somebody and then end up not talking to them after,
Speaker 1: we call you to find out what happened. So we
Speaker 1: got an email from a dude named Greg. Uh. I'm sorry, No,
Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. Thank you though, but
Speaker 1: we just have We just have a few questions. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about okay. We just want
Speaker 1: to ask you a couple of questions so that you
Speaker 1: can find out what happened. That's all. What Well, she
Speaker 1: just hung up, she laughed. Did she hello? Hey? Greg?
Speaker 1: Was that a sufficient enough answer for you? When she
Speaker 1: said she didn't want to talk about me? I was
Speaker 1: suppe we could take a little deeper, but apparently she
Speaker 1: really doesn't want to talk about me. Are you hold on? Greg?
Speaker 1: Are you because a lot of times we do these
Speaker 1: things and then you aren't telling us something that you
Speaker 1: should be telling us. No, I'm an open book. I'm
Speaker 1: looking for answers honestly. I mean, if I could give
Speaker 1: more information, I would put it all out there. I mean,
Speaker 1: can you please call her back? Call her again? All right,
Speaker 1: I'll do the fund him and try one more time. Okay,
Speaker 1: thanks Juble. Yeah, I'm sorry. I just I really don't
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. I really don't well what
Speaker 1: I mean if I can. Sorry, I just don't really
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. I'm super embarrassed. Wait, you're embarrassed.
Speaker 1: You know. It's it's my fault. He doesn't have to worry. Wait,
Speaker 1: are you doing anything wrong? Are you in a relationship
Speaker 1: or something? No, No, it's something like that. It's just
Speaker 1: it's on me. You know. It was my mistake. I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have gone out with him. Not his fault, totally mine.
Speaker 1: Is it because you guys both work in the service
Speaker 1: industry or something? You have a rule like you don't
Speaker 1: date other people in the service industry or something? You know,
Speaker 1: cops are I was like, I don't date other cops.
Speaker 1: Did they say that? I think so? Yeah? Okay they
Speaker 1: did they say that, Cynthia. No, No, No, it's not
Speaker 1: that at all. Oh good, I messed up. You messed up? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I messed up. He doesn't think you messed up. He
Speaker 1: thinks that you were. I mean, from the sounds of it,
Speaker 1: he thinks you're perfect. Okay, that's wait, so that's not
Speaker 1: a good thing. No, No, that's fine, it's fine. It's
Speaker 1: just it's just really awkward. Well, can you just tell
Speaker 1: us anything because he's really curious, like he's been beating
Speaker 1: himself up trying to figure out what happened because he
Speaker 1: really liked Okay, Well, I definitely don't want to feel bad.
Speaker 1: So what is it? Okay? Um, did he tell you
Speaker 1: guys how he asked me out? Yeah, he said that
Speaker 1: he left his phone number on the receipt when he
Speaker 1: was sitting at your table, and we were all shocked
Speaker 1: that you bought that. You that you wrote him back.
Speaker 1: I did, and it's probably the last time I'll do
Speaker 1: something like that. Huh. So you regretted the date from
Speaker 1: the moment you texted him after he hit on you. Okay,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. The night before, when I was working,
Speaker 1: another guy left to his seat and he did pretty
Speaker 1: much the same thing. He left his name and his number.
Speaker 1: So I thought I was calling the other guy. He's
Speaker 1: really attractive. You know, he's definitely more attractive to me
Speaker 1: than Greg is. Oh no, you mixed him up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so when I contracted Greg, I thought I was contracting
Speaker 1: the other guy, and I didn't realize it until I
Speaker 1: was on the day eighth. Yeah, I got the receipts
Speaker 1: mixed up. Great's fine, he's fine. It's just not as
Speaker 1: cute as the other guy. He's fine. No, I don't
Speaker 1: know what to do though. I just feel really awkward
Speaker 1: thinking about it. So that's why you want to talk
Speaker 1: about it. I was really uncomfortable. Okay, But okay, I
Speaker 1: get I get like that would be a really weird
Speaker 1: moment when you show up to a date thinking one
Speaker 1: guy is going to be there and a totally different
Speaker 1: guy is going to be there. Yeah, but Greg sounds awesome,
Speaker 1: and he pulled all these strings for this great date
Speaker 1: for you. He said, you guys had chemistry. I mean,
Speaker 1: but I just kept thinking while I was eating, you know, God,
Speaker 1: this would taste so much better if I was with
Speaker 1: the other guy. Yeah. I'm sure there's research somewhere that
Speaker 1: food tastes better when you're with a hotter person. I
Speaker 1: agree with you on that. Okay, yeah, did you out
Speaker 1: of curiosity? Did you ever go out with the other guy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I did, I did really well. Okay, Well listen, the
Speaker 1: truth is Greg's date was so much better than the
Speaker 1: hotter guy. Yeah, and I feel bad, but the hotter
Speaker 1: guy was hot. So I wait, even though you had
Speaker 1: a better do with Greg, you still want to pursue
Speaker 1: hot man. Yeah, it's really hot. He must be, all right,
Speaker 1: I hope you're not looking for a relationship that is
Speaker 1: so shallow. Yeah. No, I'm not trying to be in
Speaker 1: something really serious, you know. Right now, I just want
Speaker 1: date hot guys. Well, Cynthia, I've been there. I do
Speaker 1: need to let you know that Greg is actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening right now and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. What hey, Cynthia, not that attractive Greg? Sorry?
Speaker 1: What sucks. Yeah, I'm a little loss for words right
Speaker 1: now because, like wat, Greg, you heard everything you were
Speaker 1: like heard unfortunately, but yes I heard that you heard
Speaker 1: everything that I was saying to them from attractive hotter
Speaker 1: ud would have been better without me, but oh yeah,
Speaker 1: so I am so sorry. I had no idea I
Speaker 1: would have been like that sort of honest. I guess
Speaker 1: if I had known you were listening, You're a really
Speaker 1: nice guy. I'm so, I'm really sorry. Why didn't you
Speaker 1: just say something when you first saw me and you
Speaker 1: realize you made a mistake. We could have win our
Speaker 1: separate ways. I didn't know what to do. I was
Speaker 1: I was sort of horrified, and the mistake was on me,
Speaker 1: and I didn't want to be rude, you know, And
Speaker 1: the restaurant was nice. I'd never been there before. I'd
Speaker 1: always wanted to go. You didn't want to be rude,
Speaker 1: and then you go through the whole dinner and let
Speaker 1: me pick up the tab and you didn't want to
Speaker 1: be rude. I mean, you out you know it was
Speaker 1: a date. I didn't know what to do with a
Speaker 1: date with the wrong guy. You didn't know that, you
Speaker 1: didn't man just say means you think it's at the end,
Speaker 1: you know, if you knew, and you didn't want to
Speaker 1: tell me, you you know, like, oh, let me get
Speaker 1: or at least offered. You didn't even reach through anything.
Speaker 1: I just picked it all up and think we were
Speaker 1: on a date. I know, but you weren't. Didn't mean
Speaker 1: to be on the date with me, you meant to
Speaker 1: be on the worst date with the hotter guy. You
Speaker 1: know again, I'm so sorry. I don't even want to say.
Speaker 1: This is so uncomfortable. And you said like that my
Speaker 1: date was better, Like, I mean, I know your date
Speaker 1: sit there? You know that makes no sense. You could
Speaker 1: be like you can grow to be more attracted to
Speaker 1: people not with me, you know, I kind of like
Speaker 1: I see it and I know it. What is it?
Speaker 1: Could I like get a haircut? Was it my clothes with? No? Greg?
Speaker 1: You're great, There's nothing wrong with you. You're great. Wrong
Speaker 1: with you? You've ever been there, you know, where you're
Speaker 1: with someone but the entire time you're thinking about someone else.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, you know it was it was just that's
Speaker 1: how it was all night. I have been there for
Speaker 1: the past days thinking about you, and now I get
Speaker 1: this earthquake hitting me. There's no way you could like
Speaker 1: open up your eyes, up your heart, maybe give him
Speaker 1: another chance. Well, you know what, I would be totally
Speaker 1: willing to go out with Greg again, you know, like
Speaker 1: on a fun friend dated. Fun. Well, then how about it, Cynthia,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Greg again on
Speaker 1: a fun friend date. We will pay for it. I
Speaker 1: totally go out with Greg on a fun friend date. Yes, Greg,
Speaker 1: what do you think about the fun friend date? I
Speaker 1: don't want going on I on a pity date with you, Cynthia.
Speaker 1: Why why don't you guys just give it to Cynthia
Speaker 1: and her new hot guy. They can use it, so
Speaker 1: it's just not getting used. I mean, at least she'll
Speaker 1: enjoy herself. Oh my god, that's a great idea. My.
Speaker 1: There you go, Cynthia. And since it sounds like your
Speaker 1: current hot dude is a horrible date, or we'll give
Speaker 1: you at least a decent gift card somewhere. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: thank you, Greg. What about do I get it? I'm safe?
Speaker 1: I mean, this is the biggest slap on my face,
Speaker 1: your face, you know, it's just it's like you said,
Speaker 1: why waste it? You know, we can use it for
Speaker 1: other things. You know, we don't have to pay for
Speaker 1: your date with the hot guy. But he's really hot.
Speaker 1: All right, Cynthia, then you know what's sold. All right,
Speaker 1: We'll send you out on a date with the hot dude. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Even Jewel can't refuse a hot man. I can't. In
Speaker 1: the morning, I got a text in at seven eighty
Speaker 1: five to nine two. That just says the worst part
Speaker 1: is I know Greg, it's broken jewel in the morning,
Speaker 1: talking about today's second date update. This dude named Greg
Speaker 1: wanted to call Cynthia. They're both waiters. He was actually
Speaker 1: at the restaurant she works at, hit her up, and
Speaker 1: they went out on a date. When we got her
Speaker 1: on the phone, we found out that she actually thought
Speaker 1: she was going out with another guy because another dude
Speaker 1: had slid his number to her too, and she thought
Speaker 1: she was texting that dude and not. So she showed
Speaker 1: up and had a less hotter version to go on
Speaker 1: a date with. But she did end up going on
Speaker 1: a date with the hot guy and said even though
Speaker 1: he's not as cool as Greg, he's a lot hotter,
Speaker 1: so she'd rather date that guy instead. I feel so
Speaker 1: bad for Greg. I mean, I know people are texting
Speaker 1: in right now that they want to go out with him,
Speaker 1: but still that's even a pity dates. This is how
Speaker 1: guys are though. She just as a male mentality, like
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, she's annoying, she won't do this and that,
Speaker 1: but she's hot, so I'll take her. It's everyone's mentality.
Speaker 1: Every once in a while, you need hot and dumb. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's true. But unfortunately for Greg, he had to find
Speaker 1: out that he's average and pretty fun to be around,
Speaker 1: and he lost out to hot and dumb. We all
Speaker 1: have everybody texting in at seven, eight, five nine two
Speaker 1: right now is on Greg's side and said that she's terrible.
Speaker 1: At least she was honest about it though, But the end,
Speaker 1: when we asked if they go on a date, she
Speaker 1: said that they'd go on they could go on a
Speaker 1: friend date, a fun friend date together, and he wasn't
Speaker 1: interested in that though. Yeah, he got he got screwed
Speaker 1: over twice. Yeah, and not in a good way. No,
Speaker 1: definitely not. Remember, if you want to do a second
Speaker 1: day update, all you have to do is email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back. Two point five percent