WEBVTT - Dating With Intentions 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:05.720 Talk, Talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with 0:00:05.800 --> 0:00:12.240 an opinion to talk. What's up, y'all? We back? Thank 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:14.000 you for tuning in for a new episode that We 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:17.480 Talk Back, a show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers. 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:20.960 It's your co hosts a j holiday. What's up fake 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:26.960 tap and every fake TAPU and everybody in between. I 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:30.200 love y'all, man, I love y'all. I'm hungover right now. 0:00:31.000 --> 0:00:33.600 It was just my birth, just like an ongoing thing 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:37.519 for you though, like girl, No, hey, y'all noticing a 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:42.680 pattern anybody. I don't be hungover every Monday. Just intervention, monch, 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:46.080 It's Tuesday. So now y'all sit as a d M 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:49.560 or at us on something. Let us know if Tam 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:53.560 be fucking drunk every time? Y'all hear you? If you say, 0:00:53.600 --> 0:00:58.280 I do you a mother? Lie? So I have one 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:03.720 maybe two drinks? So what I'm alcoholic now? The whole 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:09.600 world of Ash Traded Eddie Caine, Yo, how the hell 0:01:09.680 --> 0:01:12.839 you be remembering these goddamn movies like that? I don't okay, 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:14.440 I gotta be watching it. I'd be like, oh, that's 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:16.920 my favorite part. I love them. I love them. You know. 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:20.399 I'm a movie buff. How was your weekend, No, bitch, 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:23.400 how was your weekend? Telling it was my birthday? I 0:01:23.480 --> 0:01:25.520 hate you missed it, but I understand going to see 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:28.880 your a ninety five year old aunt y'all. Yes, honey, 0:01:28.920 --> 0:01:31.520 but I had so much fun. I love. I want 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:33.840 to be a birthday. I want to be a birthday. 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:37.039 Birthdays everybody just love it on you and giving you 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:40.600 shit and poor liquor down your throat, eat your koochie, 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:44.800 all kind of things you know I got. I'm in 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:47.840 a forday, I got so many roses in my apartments. 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.760 I live in a forest right now, so it's just 0:01:51.160 --> 0:01:54.800 cake and shit over here and balloons everywhere. Don't eat it. 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:57.880 I hate girl, This cake so good. I got two 0:01:57.960 --> 0:01:59.840 cakes and both of them are delicious. 0:01:59.880 --> 0:02:02.320 But I'm gonna send them to my friends school tomorrow 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:06.080 because my friend baby school. Let me say that, because 0:02:06.080 --> 0:02:08.320 I can't eat no more. My double chin is doubling 0:02:08.880 --> 0:02:10.160 like a motherfucker right now. 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:14.080 But it's okay. You've been seeing them a little chin straps 0:02:14.080 --> 0:02:18.440 on Instagram. Getting one. It don't work. I don't know. 0:02:18.480 --> 0:02:21.160 That'shits so uncomfortable. I'll be taking that neck brace off 0:02:24.000 --> 0:02:27.079 the ship. Women go through dog I know, I put 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:28.679 that ship on. My mama call me. She's like, what 0:02:28.760 --> 0:02:30.480 wrong with you? Why are you sound like that? I 0:02:30.560 --> 0:02:36.639 was like, what are you talking about? I'm fine, barely 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:41.440 could move your motherfucking mouth. And then shit, shave goodness? 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:45.560 What about shadd shame? How was Florida Joe? We went 0:02:45.600 --> 0:02:47.840 to Jacksonville. My aunt actually lives right by the beach. 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:51.280 She is ninety five, so living by herself, walking around. 0:02:51.560 --> 0:02:53.880 I had just seen her recently at my uncle's funeral 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:55.320 a couple weeks ago. I was like, man, I'm gonna 0:02:55.320 --> 0:02:59.119 come see you. So we orchestrated that and went down 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:01.280 there and hung up with her. So now I'm gonna 0:03:01.320 --> 0:03:04.800 go back because she has all the family pitches. I 0:03:04.840 --> 0:03:06.880 need to collect all that shit because she is ninety five, 0:03:07.840 --> 0:03:10.600 and I feel like I'm slick the family historian. I 0:03:10.639 --> 0:03:13.120 got my older cousin who is too, But we need 0:03:13.160 --> 0:03:15.880 to hold on to those things like family is fucking important. 0:03:15.919 --> 0:03:18.760 I feel like we be forgetting our heritage where we 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:21.519 come from. You gotta get with the elders and see 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:25.720 what is photo albums are of the past, you know exactly. So, yeah, 0:03:25.760 --> 0:03:28.680 she got all these old ass pitches everybody obituary like 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:31.360 we could put a whole puzzle piece together. Her house 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:34.960 is like a damn museum a ship, yiad that of 0:03:35.000 --> 0:03:37.040 course the government down there trying to take her house 0:03:37.640 --> 0:03:42.000 because it's right on the right by the beach hard 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:46.800 Rock Cafe where her house is and some shit like that. 0:03:46.800 --> 0:03:48.880 That's what they're doing. You've seen that old lady in 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:54.040 Hilton Head. They're trying to take her family property. Is 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:57.440 supposed to be helping her keep her ship. That's good man, 0:03:57.440 --> 0:04:00.680 because you know like Gallagalla Island. So y'all, y'all remember 0:04:00.720 --> 0:04:03.480 the cartoon Gallagalla Island that's based off of the Fusky 0:04:03.520 --> 0:04:08.040 Island right outside of Charleston, South Carolina. And these people 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:13.960 have inhibited this area for ever. Yeah, right, so now 0:04:14.440 --> 0:04:18.520 they have increased a lot of people's taxes three hundred 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:22.279 plus percent to acquire their property. That's stealing. Like I said, 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:25.200 how like, how do we sue the counties? Right right? 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:30.279 That's American as apple pie. That's ship right there, boy, stealing, stealing? 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:34.640 Can I take your ship and make it legal eminent domain? 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:36.120 That type of shit need to get They need to 0:04:36.120 --> 0:04:38.200 get rid of that type of stuff. You can just oh, 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.080 we need to put a highway. We need to put 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.240 a highway through this bitch. We just take y'all proper right. 0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:45.599 So why did the government Why I can't imminent domain somebody? Shit, 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:49.040 I'm gonna go imminent domain a car out this motherfucker 0:04:49.880 --> 0:04:51.239 and say, shit, the United. 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.960 States do it all the time. I discovered it, right, 0:04:54.040 --> 0:04:57.440 it's mine. It was just sitting here by itself. We needed. 0:04:57.440 --> 0:05:00.400 No one was claiming it. We needed it. So now 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.240 they got they got squatters long like squatter's rule. So 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:05.719 like say, for instance, you're going to moving on somebody's 0:05:05.800 --> 0:05:08.359 land or somebody's house and you've been there for ten years, 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:11.520 it's your shit, right, even if they was paying taxes 0:05:11.560 --> 0:05:15.520 on it, it's still your shit. This shit is wicked shit, Wow, 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:20.560 American listen, then the next ten years, I want to 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:24.719 be out of America. Like I had actually commented on 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:28.240 Rihanna's page the other day, I was like, girl, you 0:05:28.279 --> 0:05:31.760 don't know know, uh, single Baysians, I'm trying to get citizenship. 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:35.680 I swear to God, like you know, she's from Barbados, 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:37.359 And I heard it was real hard. They don't just 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:40.080 be given citizenship to anybody but like that is a 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:41.919 goal in life for me. Like I want me a 0:05:41.920 --> 0:05:45.560 beach house with a little boy, dark skinned, with blonde hair, 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.760 and my motherfucking husband on the beach in Barbados. Like 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:52.600 that's goals for me. I think I could do it. Yeah, 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:53.479 why not? 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.880 I don't know about the blonde hair, but everything else 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.320 is very achievable. I mean even the blond hair if 0:05:59.320 --> 0:06:00.919 you want to do a little bleach on your baby. 0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:03.160 But I don't think that's a good idea. But you know, 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:05.840 the ocean turns people here blonde. And like this this 0:06:05.920 --> 0:06:08.040 guy I have right now, he has some really nice 0:06:08.080 --> 0:06:11.279 brown hair. I think we could possibly produce it. I 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:16.800 don't know you will alot with that. Let's get into 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:21.120 stupid internet news, y'all. Listen, we got a few things 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:22.560 going on this week. What are we not going to 0:06:22.600 --> 0:06:26.479 really talk about? Is uh that Carrie Russell shit. I 0:06:26.480 --> 0:06:31.680 want to see how that unfolds before we completely Yeah, 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:42.440 wis enlist or Baptist. But I'm glad she's home. But y'all, yeah, man, 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.839 so sexy Radit is catching some backlash for going to 0:06:45.960 --> 0:06:49.360 high school. For going to a high school, she was there, Okay, 0:06:49.360 --> 0:06:52.800 to give our free haircuts and bundles to the students 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:54.880 for promp because she says she says she remembered what 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:57.160 it felt like, you know, not having and wanting those 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:00.280 things when she was in high school. But she came 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:03.680 in crunk into the gymnasium and it sounded like they 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:07.359 might have been playing, uh, what's the song with Booty 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:12.800 Whole Brown? But she wasn't performing. I didn't Them kids 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:16.400 don't know that song. They know that song exactly, and 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:19.239 it's not her responsibility for them not to know it. Okay, 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:21.920 if y'all want her to, she's not the parent. But 0:07:21.920 --> 0:07:23.240 what I'm trying to figure out? 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:26.040 What's Saint Louis School got a prom in the motherfucking 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:26.640 middle of July. 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:30.520 I'm confused. Maybe it's for it, maybe it was just 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:32.640 maybe it just resurfaced. I don't know. I don't think 0:07:32.680 --> 0:07:37.120 it was recent. It may have just resurfaced. Yeah, well yeah, 0:07:37.480 --> 0:07:42.880 so them kids need hair, they need bundles. So absolutely, absolutely, 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:46.520 as long as she ain't and performing that song give 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:51.040 back ship. If I signed up got that permission, ship slipped. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.240 I wish my kid might be in the gymnasium with 0:07:53.320 --> 0:08:03.360 them performing that bullshit. I wish I might. I'm feeling 0:08:03.400 --> 0:08:06.720 a little uneasy, Like, okay, there's a little bit. I 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:10.200 think somebody said it was Keilani's baby, but she like 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:12.680 like the little video. She was like, wait, look a 0:08:12.760 --> 0:08:15.320 fud the hoochie daddy. She do her little face like that. 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:17.880 Like I like that part because of that little video 0:08:17.920 --> 0:08:21.040 and his baby singing it. But like the whole song 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:23.440 itself that they we talked about this like the lyrics, 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:25.400 she ain't really saying shit. Here's the thing. 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:28.400 The lyrics that we are allowing our kids to listen 0:08:28.440 --> 0:08:31.560 to right now makes me scared to be an elderly person. 0:08:33.600 --> 0:08:34.439 When I get old. 0:08:34.480 --> 0:08:37.280 These are the people that's gonna be running the country 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:39.280 and taking care of us. 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:42.880 I'll be pretty sure our parents thought the same about 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:46.400 us because a lot of our generation, our generation, we're 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.880 gonna be in church. Well, y'all gonna be in church 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:51.719 with six inches. Well, your back gonna be bad from 0:08:51.760 --> 0:08:54.640 the heels, and you're gonna have sexy tattooed on your neck, 0:08:55.480 --> 0:08:57.440 you know what I'm saying, With your gloves on and 0:08:57.480 --> 0:08:59.880 shit like that's how we gonna look tatted up. Yeah, 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:04.959 but here's the thing, they'll be growing up with a 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:08.080 booty hole tattooed on their side of their nick because 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:14.480 shut up. That grew up too. Yeah, I mean we 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:18.800 had music. Sukiana was in London. Did you see that video? 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:22.400 Sukiana went to London and she was like outside talking 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:26.079 about eating a nigga ass in the middle of the afternoon, 0:09:26.160 --> 0:09:32.520 walking down the street, embarrassing me. I was embarrassed me too. 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:34.960 I did have second I saw that video and I 0:09:35.000 --> 0:09:39.600 did have secondhand embarrassment for sure. I don't know. 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:42.560 I think she's just liked to stay trending. I think 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:45.400 she just I don't think this is really who she is. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:47.800 I think she just, you know, keeps doing things to 0:09:47.840 --> 0:09:48.920 stay trending or something. 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:50.920 Because but I just saw a video with her going 0:09:50.960 --> 0:09:52.840 hand because you know, her and Tasha k Hathen going 0:09:52.840 --> 0:09:55.680 at it, and she was saying like, y'all think y'all 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:58.920 hurting me, calling me disgusting. I know, I'm disgusting, Like what, 0:09:59.280 --> 0:10:01.480 like this is this is actually who she is? I 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:03.400 think we just have to accept the fact that we 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:06.480 are seeing who she is. I am. Now, she could 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:10.120 be a different person on a different day and different situations, 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:13.079 but this is definitely a part of her personality, that's 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:14.880 what she is. Well, I just want to say, and 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.080 this might sound very unto your me and I don't care. 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:20.880 Y'all better stop eating each other. Ass that's where duty 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:25.400 come from. Dodo, you're gonna. 0:10:25.120 --> 0:10:30.640 Lick that why it's so many other healthier places on 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.959 the body to lick. I'm just saying that when you 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:36.000 bitch just in the hospital with Ekoli, just go ahead 0:10:36.040 --> 0:10:37.720 and play Sukiana over the. 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:41.800 What Rika Badu said, Erica Badu said, I need a 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:45.960 rim job? Yeah, dukie Duca. Is that what she's saying. 0:10:47.160 --> 0:10:51.440 I don't know. I think so what a rim job? Yeah, 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.599 but just don't be the eater. At least let it 0:10:57.679 --> 0:10:59.520 be a clean one. I don't know. 0:11:00.559 --> 0:11:02.960 I feel like after two steps from the shower, your 0:11:03.040 --> 0:11:04.640 booty hole is again a booty hole. 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:12.080 Hit the air foot steps, it's back being an asshole. Babies, 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:19.240 you're gonna have to live that thing in the water 0:11:19.720 --> 0:11:23.840 under the shower. Can't rip it out the plastics. It 0:11:23.840 --> 0:11:26.960 ain't no ripping it out the plastics. They hit their oxygen. 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:34.680 Back to being the asshole. Okay. So speaking of the music, 0:11:34.760 --> 0:11:37.839 me just add this on so fabulous fabulous receipt has 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:41.000 been receiving like mixed mixed reactions after claiming there's only 0:11:41.080 --> 0:11:44.760 one style of female rap slash hip hop being promoted. 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:48.120 So he tweeted, actually it was an Instagram post. He said, 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.680 love hearing female rappers take us talk us some real shit. 0:11:52.160 --> 0:11:55.400 Women are so strong, have so many stories and perspectives 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:58.479 that we need to hear in pure form. No disrespect 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:01.400 to any female rappers out but I think there's only 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:04.400 one style of female rap slash hip hop being promoted 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:10.000 programmed and looked that as successful. Now it's true, true, 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:13.360 but he's getting backlash from some people about it. And 0:12:13.440 --> 0:12:15.640 I liked how he Yeah, I like how he tried 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:18.000 to prime it up and was really like nice. I 0:12:18.040 --> 0:12:21.079 felt I received it too, because I think we're all 0:12:21.080 --> 0:12:23.320 still in the same age group with him as well 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:26.240 kind of so I feel the same way, like there 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:29.640 are different type of rappers out here, but it does 0:12:30.400 --> 0:12:35.160 seem to like, right, there's a certain thing being promoted. 0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:39.360 Absolutely so we got you know, sexy Red, which I'm 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:42.720 proud of any accomplishment, any black woman that's getting money, 0:12:42.720 --> 0:12:44.760 I'm here for it. But you don't get to hear 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:47.800 Lady London. You don't get to hear Chica. You don't 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:52.560 get to hear a lot of these artists that don't yeah, 0:12:52.920 --> 0:12:56.000 that don't get use sex. They're not blowing up, they're 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:58.880 not being promoted. So I agree with him. 0:12:59.120 --> 0:13:01.480 So now they have this all sample sized to show 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.559 the rest of the world, Oh, this is black women, 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:07.360 and it's just not true. We are very much so multifaceted. 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:11.080 We come in all shape, size, of color, sexuality, We 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:13.680 don't all do the same shit. But if this is 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:16.800 all they see and then you got Sukihna over in Europe, Lord, 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.560 you know what I'm saying, They're only seeing this one 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.360 type of person. So it's almost like I want us 0:13:22.360 --> 0:13:24.760 to be presented like when they see us, like it's 0:13:24.840 --> 0:13:31.920 just rich bitch energy, like rich bitch, grown woman energy, right, 0:13:32.040 --> 0:13:35.640 not like ratchet energy, which we're always displayed as. So 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.120 they can get a different perspective of who we are 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:43.000 because going there, we're showing them exactly we are also 0:13:43.160 --> 0:13:45.400 other things and that just needs to be displayed on 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:48.360 But do we support those artists the same way? We 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:51.080 have to, you know, take some accountability for that, Like 0:13:51.160 --> 0:13:55.440 do we want a rhapsody song? Like do we want 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:57.920 a cheek a song. You know, are we going? Are 0:13:57.920 --> 0:14:00.360 we gonna go in the club and dance to a 0:14:00.440 --> 0:14:04.480 Rhapsody song? Talk about self? I really we don't. We 0:14:04.520 --> 0:14:08.240 don't like that shit. It's not that we don't like it. Again, 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:10.800 this is what's promoted. Is what's being promoted right now. 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:13.840 Me personally, my music selection isn't even rap like that, 0:14:14.520 --> 0:14:16.079 you know what I'm saying. I like R and B. 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:18.439 I like old school. I like nineties R and B. 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.440 I like old school, old school, old school Isley Brothers 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:25.440 type shit. And I really the only time I listen 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:27.840 to rap is if it comes on in a bar, club, 0:14:27.880 --> 0:14:31.200 get crownk with your friends, or at the gym. Yeah, Like, 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.160 I don't just be listening to rap. And no, I'm 0:14:33.160 --> 0:14:36.359 still not listening to Rhapsody at the gym. No, I'm 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.880 a whole I need to beat. It's the beats for me, 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:41.320 not really the lyrics. It's like how that beat goes 0:14:41.440 --> 0:14:45.040 so I can get my momentum going to That's it. 0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.520 I literally be in the bathroom rapping in the mirror 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:48.240 with my guns. 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:53.240 So I don't know, it just makes me feel so gangster. 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:59.840 I would never hurt anybody though. Now you're adding a, 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:08.840 you are so gangster? Did that? Girl? You hear this, bitch? 0:15:14.440 --> 0:15:15.640 I think all I've never done that. 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:17.440 I've never been in the mirror with my gun. I'll 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:19.680 be with my fingers finger guns. 0:15:20.280 --> 0:15:25.760 Oh absolutely, I'm spraying the whole building. Bitch. Everybody, you 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:32.360 better move ship, you better watch out. The finger guns 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:40.880 get active. Let's be clear, Yes, but y'all, all our 0:15:40.920 --> 0:15:44.840 topics are kind of Intertwina day, I was gonna move 0:15:44.880 --> 0:15:48.560 on to Kiki right quick. All right? So, okay, so 0:15:48.600 --> 0:15:52.200 we all know what Kiki has has going on with 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:57.520 the baby daddy and usher study girl. Right. So, recently, 0:15:58.160 --> 0:16:04.080 the actress performed at the Brocoln City Festival. Where's that DC? Right? 0:16:04.560 --> 0:16:10.640 So a shit? She was performing a song right, so 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:14.040 she went in. She added some extra lyrics, little booties matter, 0:16:14.160 --> 0:16:16.680 My son gave me some mass I'm my own boss 0:16:16.920 --> 0:16:19.240 and I got my own cash. I don't need a nigga. 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:21.960 I don't need a nigga. Only thing I need is 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:25.160 a bag. That's this is what she raps on stage. 0:16:25.520 --> 0:16:29.240 Her outfit was looking like blah blah blah. I feel 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:35.360 it's giving social engineering at this point. The minute I 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:38.200 saw it, I didn't like it. I didn't want that 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:42.760 to this to be the narrative, but you know, this 0:16:42.800 --> 0:16:46.320 should happened all the time. So she was like, I'm 0:16:46.320 --> 0:16:49.600 bougie and hood Kiki. You are not hood Kiki. You 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:53.800 are from Nickelodeon. Come on, so what are we now? 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:57.840 What are we using Kiki the Internet sweetheart to spread 0:16:57.960 --> 0:17:00.840 to the world about black women. We need our men, 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:04.320 like this show in particular. For sure. We don't never 0:17:04.359 --> 0:17:07.000 be on a hate niggas train, you know what I'm saying, 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:10.280 Because we want men in our lives. We talked about them, 0:17:10.320 --> 0:17:13.600 I mean, but we love equally. We talked about women too, 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:17.760 like yeah, I wanted them to fix it instead of 0:17:17.800 --> 0:17:22.560 you know, keep moving on. Yeah, because this right because 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:25.720 here now is another thing for the men write in 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:29.240 certain type of community communities right to say, well, look 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:33.959 see see, how y'all do us fuck these niggas. I 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:35.480 just need We don't need a man, We just need 0:17:35.520 --> 0:17:41.560 a bag single promoting single parent hoodhism. Like that's not 0:17:41.880 --> 0:17:44.080 the goal, man, that's not the goal. And I feel 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:47.159 like she's being used. I feel like I don't I 0:17:47.160 --> 0:17:49.800 don't think this is happenstance. Y'all know how I feel. 0:17:49.920 --> 0:17:53.600 Y'all side spread misinformation. But I want you to go 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:57.679 check out the Tavistock Institute. Okay, just go google it, 0:17:58.400 --> 0:18:01.199 read about it, and see how black communities have been 0:18:01.240 --> 0:18:04.760 being programmed since the early nineteen hundreds. Just go check 0:18:04.800 --> 0:18:07.840 it out. This shit is fucking real. What's happening. It's 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:10.960 social engineering. And being an independent woman was the dumbest 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:14.840 shit I ever bought. I never be on that type 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:15.480 of type of job. 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:18.439 Listen, when I was young, like when I was in college, 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:20.720 I was like, yes, I'm gonna be an independent woman. 0:18:20.840 --> 0:18:24.040 I'm gonna do everything for myself. Now I'm sitting here like, man, shit, 0:18:24.200 --> 0:18:29.879 somebody get in here with me. The shit they're calling 0:18:29.920 --> 0:18:31.760 me gonna force somebody in there with you. Well, I 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:36.920 can't wait. Just don't let it be a nigga, a 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:42.879 little homeless. When if somewhere that kind girl, you gotta 0:18:42.920 --> 0:18:45.280 be inviting man day the energy were trying to put 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:47.680 out there, not in twenty twenty three and beyond. That's 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:50.439 not the rhetoric I want to see black women pushing. 0:18:50.840 --> 0:18:53.240 I've never said I don't need a man ever a 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:55.560 day of my fucking life. I've never said I'm a 0:18:55.640 --> 0:19:00.680 strong black woman. I'm not a self proclaimed strong black woman. Okay, 0:19:00.720 --> 0:19:03.280 let's be clear and we talk back though. That's the 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:04.760 only thing we're gonna do. I think a lot of 0:19:04.760 --> 0:19:10.320 times people just don't want to hear. Sometimes when people 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:14.520 are not ready to take accountability, right, the truth can 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:17.600 sound like an attack. A lot of times black men 0:19:17.640 --> 0:19:19.600 they say black women don't take accountability. Y'all don't have 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:23.520 a problem with that shit too. Like for the most part, Yeah, 0:19:23.880 --> 0:19:26.520 so when we're voicing our opinions about stuff, because I 0:19:26.520 --> 0:19:28.439 think even when we tell people what the show name is, 0:19:29.800 --> 0:19:33.080 we're still not those black women that y'all think, right, Okay, 0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:37.879 we love our black men, We love and support y'all. 0:19:38.320 --> 0:19:40.080 Y'all be fucked up, we be fucked up, but we 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:44.399 still love you, baby, exactly like I. I don't like. 0:19:44.520 --> 0:19:46.960 I don't like what they doing with Kiki. I don't 0:19:47.040 --> 0:19:50.480 like her new transition that like I was rooted for 0:19:50.520 --> 0:19:52.800 her last week at the Baby Daddy thing, like trying 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:54.840 to when she trying to play when she was like 0:19:55.320 --> 0:19:57.680 my mother and she's saying, Stevie, wonder. 0:19:57.680 --> 0:20:02.200 I leave it right there, because yeah, I can fix 0:20:02.280 --> 0:20:03.680 this and be a family. 0:20:06.040 --> 0:20:08.600 I don't I don't like this because I mean, there 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:11.600 was things that happened in the nineteen hundreds that pushed 0:20:11.600 --> 0:20:13.479 black men out the home. A lot of them were 0:20:13.560 --> 0:20:15.200 leaving on their own. We're not going to just put 0:20:15.200 --> 0:20:17.760 all of it on the government or on black women. 0:20:18.320 --> 0:20:21.000 Those systems were put in place because black men were 0:20:21.200 --> 0:20:23.800 leaving their homes, let's be clear. And I think a 0:20:23.800 --> 0:20:25.840 lot of times men leave the home when they just 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:28.480 can't figure out how to provide with all these things 0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:31.560 stacking up against them. They can't get a job, they 0:20:31.600 --> 0:20:33.639 can't take care of their family. So it's easier to 0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:36.720 not see your family struggle than to actually be there 0:20:36.760 --> 0:20:39.639 and try to whether they're storing with them, and a 0:20:39.640 --> 0:20:42.160 lot of them run like this is cowardism, that's all 0:20:42.200 --> 0:20:45.320 it is, right, But I don't. I don't think black 0:20:45.359 --> 0:20:48.800 women should ever and the internet nobody. I've seen some 0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:50.600 people see it the way we're talking about it, like 0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:53.520 this is a problem, right, But then you have a 0:20:53.520 --> 0:20:56.000 lot of people like yeah, girl, because fuck these and 0:20:56.080 --> 0:21:00.159 be the main ones crying by your damn self at night. Bitch, Okay, 0:21:00.320 --> 0:21:10.720 how can you pillow me her body? Jesus shut up right? 0:21:11.359 --> 0:21:16.639 Oh my insert story, don't trust no nigga and then 0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:22.000 be crying as soon as the story stops. Shut up, man, 0:21:22.119 --> 0:21:32.000 just such a damn actress. Cut it out while curving everybody. Okay, everybody, 0:21:32.040 --> 0:21:34.280 I'll be trying with the I'll be trying with these 0:21:34.320 --> 0:21:37.680 black men. You'll be trying with the wrong people. Get 0:21:37.720 --> 0:21:40.760 you a regular nigga and stop playing with these niggas 0:21:40.760 --> 0:21:43.040 who think they the bitch. To think they're the bad bitch. 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:45.160 Like they're literally looking in your marror what you standing 0:21:45.240 --> 0:21:47.280 next to them, and they probably think they're cuted than 0:21:47.320 --> 0:21:53.120 you too. Ain't no way these ugly hey, girl, may 0:21:53.200 --> 0:21:56.440 be making nigga money, be making these niggas hallucinated. Let's 0:21:56.480 --> 0:21:59.280 be cleaire. Rick Ross was out here calling Tony Braxton 0:21:59.480 --> 0:22:03.840 old nigga. That's your age group, that's your generation. What 0:22:03.880 --> 0:22:06.040 are you talking about, nigga? We see you dive in 0:22:06.040 --> 0:22:11.600 that pool. You old too, Hey, you Melton, Let's be clear, niga, 0:22:11.600 --> 0:22:14.760 you lay an ice cream cone in this hot ass weather. 0:22:15.720 --> 0:22:21.560 Tootsie Row. I love Rick Ross. I love Rick Ross, 0:22:21.560 --> 0:22:29.200 but let's money be giving these niggas audacity, a lot 0:22:29.240 --> 0:22:33.280 of audacity. Like this week we're talking about dating with intention, y'all, 0:22:33.680 --> 0:22:36.439 what is it? What is that exactly? What does it 0:22:36.480 --> 0:22:38.760 mean to date with intention? How does that look? What's 0:22:38.760 --> 0:22:41.520 some pointers on dating with intention? Can you date multiple 0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:44.560 people with an intention? Because when you are dating, you know, 0:22:44.680 --> 0:22:47.320 you might want to date a few people to see 0:22:47.320 --> 0:22:47.760 what's what. 0:22:48.080 --> 0:22:50.199 Yeah, we're trying to bring the Black family back together, 0:22:50.640 --> 0:22:51.960 so y'all, yeah, man. 0:22:52.320 --> 0:22:57.159 We got to get them relationships together. Man, that's a religion, relationships, 0:22:57.600 --> 0:23:02.080 relationships the sun, and that's my religion. Y'all. We be back. 0:23:06.600 --> 0:23:10.680 What's up, y'all? We back? Hey, y'all. It's easy and 0:23:11.840 --> 0:23:14.639 it's a j y'all. We have a lot of conversations 0:23:14.640 --> 0:23:18.840