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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all. It's your girl lex P and.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl Dray and a call.

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Speaker 1: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds,

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Speaker 1: where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. What's up, girl,

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Speaker 1: I ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 1: guests today. Y'all be tripping.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all now, the ain't even mad and

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Speaker 2: poor crew.

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Speaker 1: I love y'all. Y'all know at this point we are family.

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Speaker 1: You know, we're right here, we see each other. But

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Speaker 1: y'all be embarrassing. That's when company comes, y'all do every

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Speaker 1: time y'all be in the time, it's like, who is it?

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Speaker 2: Y'all ain't got no medlers?

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Speaker 1: Know the cour room? No the courroomy I like you

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Speaker 1: like that. I'm telling y'all listen now, y'all know we

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Speaker 1: are trying to grow the family, so we gotta do

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Speaker 1: what we gotta do. But y'all know we always gonna

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Speaker 1: come back with the little solo. We're gonna have our

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have our time together. But when we have gas,

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Speaker 1: y'all don't even be watching the episodes.

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Speaker 2: Because maybe y'all love a solo.

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Speaker 1: They watch literally maybe five seconds, Like we'll be as

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Speaker 1: soon as we say we gotta guess next week, they'll

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Speaker 1: be like, we'll be back. We just gonna stop putting

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Speaker 1: the gift in the caps. Were gonna let them sneak

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Speaker 1: up on y'all. Right, We're gonna have like the thumbnail

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Speaker 1: just be so that they click on it, and then

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Speaker 1: we gonna have them come in after the first ten

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Speaker 1: minutes so then we can get our views. Now. They

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Speaker 1: gotta trick them, you know, like they do for kids.

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Speaker 1: They like put spinach in the chicken and blend it

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Speaker 1: up and make a chicken nutts.

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Speaker 2: Yep, that's what we gotta do.

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Speaker 1: That's what we gotta do to them. We gotta put

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Speaker 1: it in and put a little spinach in the smooth.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, put a.

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Speaker 1: Little spinach in the smooth Like a little bad needs.

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Speaker 4: A little pop pop.

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Speaker 1: That's what I be doing a poenie y'all. Y'all need

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Speaker 1: a pop pop. Okay, But we got a solo today

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Speaker 1: for y'all. So young girl, what you been to Oh, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean we've been working. We're recording.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we've been working and recording, working being at Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have been. I think we're just getting geared up

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Speaker 1: because you know, like tour has started technically because we

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Speaker 1: already did LA, but tour is really really really about

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Speaker 1: to start in August. Yeah, Like well, so by the

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Speaker 1: time they watched this, it's August tour is like really

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Speaker 1: like a little break, I guess in September. But see,

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Speaker 1: that's why I'm mad because my friend is going to

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Speaker 1: the Usher concert in Paris in September and she didn't

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Speaker 1: and it's like sold out now. So I was like, damn,

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Speaker 1: I coudn't know that gonna be sold out though, because

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Speaker 1: he only having two dates Broo.

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Speaker 2: Somewhere else, I hated. I can't remember the other place.

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Speaker 1: I mean, but he's having another show, so you got it,

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Speaker 2: I think we should go to that show because we

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Speaker 1: Oh, we gotta get our tickets like tomorrow. Yeah, It's

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Speaker 1: like it's like when he comes back from Europe from

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Speaker 1: He's having like two more dates in October and then

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Speaker 2: You think it's gonna go on.

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Speaker 1: He has to. He has to. Yeah, there's no way

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Speaker 1: There's no way if he doesn't, maybe he might take

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Speaker 1: know some people do residencies years. He definitely needs to

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Speaker 1: I hate to say this, and I know we don't

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Speaker 1: people is acting up over these situations. I see y'all

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Speaker 1: But y'all and at the end of the day, one

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Speaker 1: of the celebrities are there. But then too people be

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Speaker 1: acting like this is what niggas did back in the day.

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Speaker 1: Oh tell pintograms used to be kissing women on stage

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Speaker 1: the original Love TK y'all, he was talking about you, niggas,

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Speaker 1: real though, that's what I'm saying, Like niggas being doing this,

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Speaker 1: That's what R and B is about. You supposed to

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Speaker 1: That's why when we go to R and B concerts,

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Speaker 1: O COOCHI ain't what no more?

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Speaker 2: Can we please?

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Speaker 5: Do?

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Speaker 2: You promise? You gotta make a promise before you what

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Speaker 2: I'm about.

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Speaker 1: To say no, because you might tell me to do

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Speaker 2: It's not something I don't. We gonna do it together?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay? Can we please go to like a R

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Speaker 2: Yes, you gotta wear wedges.

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Speaker 1: I like a little we do that. We gotta wear

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna wear a little top head.

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Speaker 1: I'm weak. You remember my aunt had a top head

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Speaker 1: on and you're like, who?

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Speaker 1: Like, that's when you know you're getting a little old

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Speaker 2: No, not your auntie.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying like, that's like all niggas. She like all

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Speaker 2: Maybe that's a pimp laugh.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Girl?

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Speaker 2: No they don't.

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Speaker 1: You never seen Spice Adams, that guy that does the video.

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Speaker 2: He'd be like, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I like you

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Speaker 1: That's how old niggas laugh.

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Speaker 2: Trust me, they be laughing like that too.

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Speaker 1: Though you said, yeah, maybe I was thinking about that

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Speaker 2: What's his name?

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Speaker 1: Macaron is his name? But anyways, but yeah, I feel

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Speaker 2: Looking constant pain because she was like horny.

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Speaker 1: You look, that's what he.

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Speaker 2: Look horny like.

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Speaker 1: You was making that face for real.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, No, I don't make that face for real.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like, honestly, you should go to an

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 1: Like R and B concerts are supposed to be sexy,

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Speaker 2: I would like to see all Mario do this.

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Speaker 1: like balancing, you know, I feel like a Mario has

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I feel like let's bring back the sexy

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Speaker 1: I haven't yet. I haven't seen the full thing. I

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Speaker 1: get back focused. So other than that happens if this,

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Speaker 1: Me Andre want to have abs by December. So we're

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Speaker 1: the calorie. So, uh, Todd, what are we drinking today?

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Speaker 2: The nice and Slow all right.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so this one has tequila for Drea, vodka for lex.

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Speaker 1: We have some muddled lemon and some muddled halopenions. You know,

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Speaker 2: I love a muddle, a.

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Speaker 1: Splash of pineapple juice, and then of course some so

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Speaker 1: mixy high biscuits syrup which you get at somixy dot com.

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Speaker 1: But we put all of that together and it's nice

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Speaker 1: and slow. Got a little spice but then that little

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Speaker 1: of those calories out.

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Speaker 1: On, spicy toppy cut down and y'all know, per usual,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell y'all every week. I'm telling y'all, y'all

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Speaker 1: want to get the vibes going after dinner, drink, You're

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Speaker 1: Hey you coffee? This is my coffee? Ben Hell Yeah,

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Speaker 2: We want LS, we want LS.

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Speaker 1: We always get flags. We do.

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Speaker 2: Sure, you know deals pik like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how we laughing today. That is top him

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Speaker 1: you sounded like him from the posture. Yeah, make this episode. Okay,

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Speaker 1: For the first topic today, Diane Sawyer, Amen's Barbara Walters

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Speaker 2: Bro.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking.

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Speaker 2: My name start? Oh, okay, yeah, Doprah, Doprah, yeah girl.

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Speaker 2: You know what you give me? Remember Barney Hugh from Martin.

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Speaker 1: I used to love Tom Joynan.

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Speaker 1: That's his name, Neil show God. But that's my friend. Like,

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Speaker 1: He just ain't even the word yeah speaking of them

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Speaker 1: I just think that's more of like a personality trait.

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Speaker 1: Somebody just needed to feel something and that's really the

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Speaker 1: I'm so deserving of great things, a great life, a

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Speaker 1: I feel like niggas doesn't. It's the niggas that I

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Speaker 2: And it's like, and it took for you to leave.

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Speaker 1: It took for me to leave. And now he's feeling it, bitch,

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Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, I know he be singing songs.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I see, you would have to put that man

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Speaker 2: It's still and it be his song too, not a

437
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 2: song from the round dad.

438
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 1: Now see how you take shit. But I will say this,

439
00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,679
Speaker 1: when you accept crumbs from somebody because you feel like

440
00:21:56,440 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 1: I want, I just I'm okay with this because it's

441
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:02,119
Speaker 1: better than nothing. Think about this. If you had to

442
00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: choose a.

443
00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:09,439
Speaker 7: Freaking porterhouse with a lopster mash asparagus, this little crab

444
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 7: cake on the side, I'm telling you, are you gonna,

445
00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 7: are you gonna to me?

446
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:19,440
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something? I wait, I'll wait, I'll

447
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 1: wait for that versus somebody taking a rich cracker and

448
00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 1: just doing like this in front of me. So you're

449
00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: gonna take that them little crumbs? Are you gonna wait

450
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: for the full course meal? You can have cracker dust?

451
00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 1: Cracker dust, But that's what I was accepting. I was

452
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:34,680
Speaker 1: accepting cracker dust.

453
00:22:35,080 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, damn. Should they be the name of the episode,

454
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:38,440
Speaker 2: cracker dust.

455
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 1: But a lot of probably like Violet, that's what we

456
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: want to do, Violet, come on. But it's the truth.

457
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 1: It's the truth. And I feel like a lot of

458
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:55,439
Speaker 1: women do that, me included. But I'm so glad that

459
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 1: we're in this space now because you know what, I'll

460
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: say this about the show too. I love the fact

461
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: that poor minds grow so much and we're now in

462
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:03,879
Speaker 1: a space to where we can keep it real and

463
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: keep it honest. Because Poor Mind started off like you know, us,

464
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,120
Speaker 1: just talking shit and being like, you know, having fun.

465
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:13,240
Speaker 1: Then when it started catching a little traction. I don't

466
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:14,679
Speaker 1: know about you. I can't speak for you. I can

467
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 1: speak for myself. I felt like I had to talk

468
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,000
Speaker 1: to a BDB. I had to be like, oh my gosh,

469
00:23:20,000 --> 00:23:22,080
Speaker 1: your nigga did this for me. I had to show

470
00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: my gifts, and I had to show things that people

471
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 1: were doing to me because I was like doing for

472
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:27,479
Speaker 1: me because I was like, oh, I got to live

473
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: up to this image I created. But now I feel

474
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: like I have a man now that does spoil me materialistically,

475
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: gives me everything I want, but he pours into me.

476
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: But I don't give a fuck about showing it off

477
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,680
Speaker 1: because that's for me to enjoy, you know. And I'm

478
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 1: glad that we're in a space to where we can

479
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 1: also talk about what we were really going through in

480
00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 1: our experiences with these people, because yes, get you a

481
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: man that's ambitious and that has but also don't accept his.

482
00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 2: Cracker does bitch, don't accept cracker.

483
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 1: I had a man that was paying my rent, making

484
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: sure I was good during the pandemic because I didn't

485
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 1: have I have pretty much lost everything. I didn't have

486
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,399
Speaker 1: no income coming in. I need this money.

487
00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 2: I need this money.

488
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,159
Speaker 1: But it was cracker dust bitch. Yes, I got my

489
00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,720
Speaker 1: rent paid, but that wasn't enough. I was not fulfilled.

490
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: I was getting a piece of this man, and it

491
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,159
Speaker 1: was like for me, one thing that I learned, especially

492
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 1: with my energy and my manifestations, my faith in God

493
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: and my praying I have learned patience. I'm learning patience

494
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 1: and to wait for what, wait for the reward. I'm

495
00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: not gonna eat this cracker dust because I know that

496
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:39,280
Speaker 1: pulled the house right there. Crackers for the girls. It's

497
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: not for the girls. Stop accepting that crackerd.

498
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:42,159
Speaker 2: Don't do that.

499
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 1: Don't do that.

500
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:44,080
Speaker 2: You deserve better.

501
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 1: We all do. But when you.

502
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,360
Speaker 2: Dusk, No, we don't want no dust at all.

503
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 1: I want to be so for I look at that

504
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 1: dust like who else? Fun good though? I mean, I

505
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 1: love the little ritz with a little spin dip, but.

506
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 2: What about a club curs.

507
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:12,199
Speaker 1: We gotta get the mess bad. I'm sorry, I'm angry,

508
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: buttery anyway, I feel like so, I don't so much

509
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:21,879
Speaker 1: feel like I had to talk to like a bd B.

510
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,880
Speaker 2: I think that's just my personality.

511
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:27,879
Speaker 1: Like again, I feel like I have just always loved

512
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,840
Speaker 1: like Boston niggas right like I love me a bost nigga.

513
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: It ain't never been no pressure because those are naturally

514
00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 1: the type of niggas that I felt pressure to post

515
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: what they were doing. No, no, no, no, I know I

516
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 1: get what you're saying. I was just about to say, though,

517
00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,640
Speaker 1: I feel like I naturally just love dealing with them

518
00:25:44,680 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: type of niggas.

519
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 2: Anyway.

520
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: But I think that when I was younger, the things

521
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: that I was willing to put up with for the

522
00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: lifestyle or to be a Jason to the lifestyle or

523
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: be adjacent to the niggas with some bullshe yes, Then

524
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: now that I'm older, it's like, bitch, I would never

525
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: even none of that shit, none of that shit. And

526
00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 1: then it got me so fucked up, Like I'm so

527
00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: cool with setting boundaries with people, and I'm so cool

528
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 1: with like, if this don't work for you, and if

529
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: you're not fucking with it, that's fine.

530
00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 2: You could go or I will go.

531
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 1: One of us can go, though, because we both can't

532
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,120
Speaker 1: stay here, right. But I want you to talk about

533
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: your boundaries too, and talk about how important it is

534
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:36,679
Speaker 1: to set boundaries. I think it's very important to set boundaries.

535
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: People are only going to do what you allow them

536
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:45,600
Speaker 1: to do. If you let somebody know that you're not

537
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,560
Speaker 1: putting up with certain shit, this is where you draw

538
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,000
Speaker 1: the line. If they care about losing you, they not

539
00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 1: gonna restick. They're not gonna fuck that up. But you

540
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: gotta set the boundary, though. Hell, And I think That's

541
00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 1: where a lot of people feel is with setting the

542
00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:03,920
Speaker 1: actual boundary. When I was younger, I think I'm very

543
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: flighty that ain't necessarily sitting boundaries though, Like I think

544
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: niggas would know I would leave, but not because I'm

545
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 1: sitting a boundary and letting it be known. Okay, if

546
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: you do this to me, I'm not fucking with you

547
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: no more. It was more so like, oh, if you

548
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 1: piece me off, or if you don't give me some money,

549
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm if you don't do what I want you you

550
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 1: don't know what I want you to do, I'm a

551
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:24,159
Speaker 1: blockw you gonna have to reach me not talking to

552
00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:26,360
Speaker 1: you no more. But then you know if you come

553
00:27:26,440 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: back and do what I asked you to do initially. Right,

554
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: So it really so it really wasn't setting no boundaries.

555
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: Now it's like if I'm gonna let you know number

556
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: one upfront, what I'm cool with and what I'm not

557
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 1: cool with, Like we're gonna have those conversations. I think

558
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 1: uncomfortable conversations build healthy relationships, So come on with it. No, seriously,

559
00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 1: you have to have an uncomfortable conversations with people you

560
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: It's no way that you can feel like you have

561
00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: a healthy relationship with anybody in your life, and y'all

562
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: ain't never had an uncomfortable conversation. I mean, and you

563
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:01,960
Speaker 1: can even say that for friendships.

564
00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: That's why I said relationship period.

565
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,479
Speaker 1: It's an amount of uncomfortable conversation we have had. We

566
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 1: I done had uncomfortable conversations with my mama, I done

567
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 1: had uncomfortable conversations with my other friends. I just think

568
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: it's you. You have to set boundaries with people. You

569
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:17,919
Speaker 1: have to let people know what you're okay with and

570
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: which you're not okay. Well, I'm not saying that you

571
00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: should go into a first date like laying down the law, right,

572
00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: you know, but no, no, no, I feel like that's

573
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: two streats. No, not not saying like on the first day,

574
00:28:31,000 --> 00:28:33,800
Speaker 1: but you should let them know your intentions and then

575
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 1: once y'all get to it, you gotta let boundaries be known.

576
00:28:36,320 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 2: No, no, yeah, what you what you want.

577
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 1: But I'm talking about like when I speak on boundaries

578
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: when it comes to an actual like romantic relationship, I

579
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: think those are things that should be said when y'all

580
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 1: start to feel like Okay, I like you, where's this going?

581
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:57,280
Speaker 2: Okay, where's this going like, okay, so these are my

582
00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 2: non negotiables.

583
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: What's yours? Mmm, this is what I'm willing to deal with.

584
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,200
Speaker 1: This is what I'm not willing to deal with. I

585
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,920
Speaker 1: think that's some bullshit. It's like a tweet they be

586
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: going around all the time where people be like, don't

587
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 1: tell your new nigga what yr XDC you because then

588
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 1: he gonna feel like there's a reason to be that's

589
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: some dumb ass showing that a nigga did to me,

590
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,840
Speaker 1: because you know, you need to know what this is

591
00:29:20,880 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 1: what triggers.

592
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 2: Me, and if you try me, I will walk away

593
00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:25,280
Speaker 2: from you.

594
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,280
Speaker 1: Let me tell you this. I just had a situation

595
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:31,480
Speaker 1: with my man and he triggered me, but he didn't

596
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 1: know he triggered me. Yeah, and I was so upset.

597
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 1: I was so mad because I got triggered and then

598
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 1: I responded like he was my ex. I responded to

599
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:48,160
Speaker 1: him like he was my ex, and it caused a

600
00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: whole new issue and I was like, you know what,

601
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,200
Speaker 1: let me step back. Let me step back. Because I

602
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: talked to my therapist, she was like, you need to

603
00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,440
Speaker 1: stop because I'll be telling my theory that She's like,

604
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,080
Speaker 1: this is a good man girl, he being you.

605
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 2: Know, he been.

606
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 1: You know, he's telling you communicate with him. He's letting

607
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: you know. And one thing I will say that I

608
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: love about him is that he's like, this is a

609
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,479
Speaker 1: safe space. If I do anything that bothers you, just

610
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: tell me. I'm not gonna hold it against you. I'm not.

611
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 1: We need to talk about this, like what's the issue.

612
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: What's the problem with saying, hey, this hurt my feelings?

613
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: So I told him that he had triggered me. I

614
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm done. I can't do this.

615
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: I need to you know. And he was just like,

616
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 1: what the hell did I do? He had no idea,

617
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: And so when I brought it up to him, he

618
00:30:33,240 --> 00:30:35,959
Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, he was like, I was just

619
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:37,959
Speaker 1: x Y and Z. I ain't think nothing of it.

620
00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 1: Like and so in my head, I'm like over here

621
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: like in the bad tossing turning this nigga, just like

622
00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 1: watching fucking Godfather, And shit, I.

623
00:30:46,800 --> 00:30:49,480
Speaker 2: Have a question, what I dare you to eat the halapenno?

624
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 2: How much some cucci?

625
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:57,040
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, that's a colopenion. Let me get a

626
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: great time, because I'm gonna tell you what this whole

627
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: d no I finished my story. I can't remember where

628
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: we were at, but I had a spot. I had something.

629
00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 1: I had something spicy, my drinks. She was like, I'll

630
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: give you one hundred dollars if you eat that hallowpeeno. Bitch.

631
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: I don't give how much these a checks is. Bitch.

632
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,120
Speaker 1: I picked up that Halloween O so quick. She was like,

633
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:16,760
Speaker 1: now my fifty dollars, fifty dollars.

634
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 2: Give me my hondle, and then she put it down.

635
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:21,640
Speaker 2: She don't want fifty.

636
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 1: I don't want fifty. I want that hound. When you

637
00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: were come too good for a hot fift you said

638
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:30,600
Speaker 1: a hundred, but I changed my mind. Figure out that

639
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: that could fill up your gas pane. Bitch, you still

640
00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: ain't eating.

641
00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 2: You're not a real eater.

642
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: You better ask about no. Okay, but anyway, that wait,

643
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 1: let me let me just finish, okay. So the reason

644
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: I was saying that was just because have like projecting

645
00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 1: your old feelings that somebody else had on It's not

646
00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: fair to them. Somebody is gonna trigger you. People are

647
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: gonna trigger you, but they don't know because honestly, he

648
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 1: said he was What he said to me was a joke,

649
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: but I took it so wrong and I was like,

650
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: hold on, man, this is not him. You cannot do that.

651
00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's why it's important. Hey, these

652
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 1: are my triggers because this is what my ex used

653
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: to do to me, and this is what hurt me,

654
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 1: and this is what broke me down. So now he

655
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I didn't know. He was like, why

656
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: you just didn't tell me. I can't read your mind.

657
00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on unless you tell me.

658
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,280
Speaker 1: It was a good conversation and now that's why. That's

659
00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: my man, my man, And so real quick before we

660
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 1: move on to the next topic, just going back to

661
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: what I was saying about setting boundaries and like, you know,

662
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: teaching people how to treat you. I feel like when

663
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: I was younger, like I would stop talking to people

664
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: or cut them off because then I felt because I

665
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 1: feel like that was my liverage, Like Okay, I'm gonna

666
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 1: cut you off. Y'all want to do what I want

667
00:32:57,880 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 1: you to do. But then I know, like, niggas fuck

668
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: with me, so you won't come back, and you don't

669
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: want to fuck with me, so you gont period, so

670
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:06,720
Speaker 1: you won't come back, and you're gonna do what I want.

671
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:07,680
Speaker 2: Then we can be cooling in.

672
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 1: But now I'm in a place where it's like you're

673
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 1: allowing this respects as long as somebody gives you what

674
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: you want.

675
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:17,400
Speaker 2: Right, So now I'm in a.

676
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: Place where it's like, hain't no nigga, Like, if you

677
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 1: got me fucked up, you got me fucked up, because

678
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: I don't need shit from no niggas anything that somebody

679
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 1: do for me anything. And don't get me wrong, like

680
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: that's a part of a relationship that's important to me

681
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: because I feel like give giving is one of my

682
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: love languages, and I just like nice things and shit

683
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 1: like that. But I'm gonna only deal with somebody who

684
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,120
Speaker 1: does nice stuff for me. But like, just because you're

685
00:33:43,120 --> 00:33:46,000
Speaker 1: doing something for me, don't mean that I'm gonna put

686
00:33:46,080 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: up with your bullshit. And if you fuck up, you

687
00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 1: can't think that you're gonna buy something and then you're

688
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:52,440
Speaker 1: gonna come back into my life. And I said all

689
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: of that to say, I used to date this guy,

690
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 1: and our relationship was very much back and forth like that,

691
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 1: back and forth like that, and then I cut him off.

692
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:04,600
Speaker 1: Finally we stopped talking. And then remember he bought me

693
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: a purse, and then he thought, oh, yeah, because normally

694
00:34:08,640 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 1: in the past, that's what it would be, like you

695
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: buy me something, or you give me some money and

696
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 1: we back or you pay my bills, we back to

697
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 1: what we used to be. But it was like he

698
00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: did that shit, and I'm still like, no, I'm not

699
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: fucking with you, and I hadn't fucked with that nigga

700
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:25,680
Speaker 1: sins and I'm not going to because it's like, you're

701
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 1: not going to disrespect me. You can't think that you

702
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 1: could just buy me, And I think that I never

703
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 1: was a person who could be bought, but I think

704
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: that when you're younger, you just won't.

705
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: She yeah, and you can't afford it.

706
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,759
Speaker 1: So it's like it's crazy because it happened to me

707
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: when we went out with Football Bay a few months ago.

708
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 1: And you know, he always still to this day friendly

709
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: cash at me, buys me things, gives me things. I

710
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: still took my black ass home because like, thank you.

711
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 1: But you can't send me money and think like, oh,

712
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:57,319
Speaker 1: everything's good or it's gonna pick up where we left off.

713
00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 1: That's not that. But I think a lot of that

714
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 1: comes with, like you know, evolution and growth and loving

715
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 1: on yourself, pouring into yourself realizing what you're worthy of

716
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 1: and what you really deserve, because yeah, you deserve nice

717
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: shit like you deserve if that's the type of girl

718
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: you are, if that's what you like and that's what

719
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: makes you happy, if you like material shit, if you

720
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,920
Speaker 1: like bags and you like shoes, and you like jewelry,

721
00:35:21,000 --> 00:35:23,240
Speaker 1: or you like cars, whatever the case, when you deserve

722
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,879
Speaker 1: all that shit, but you also deserve a nigga who

723
00:35:25,880 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: respects you and you also, you also shouldn't have to

724
00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 1: not deal with a nigga who respects you and love

725
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: you and cater to you and nurture you and pour

726
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 1: into you so you can get those things. It shouldn't

727
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: have to be a you shouldn't have to. I agree,

728
00:35:41,680 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: But you know what else helped me to lead on

729
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 1: my friends.

730
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: And boss up.

731
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: I was gonna say that too, boss up, because the

732
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: thing about it, and we can speak on that shit now,

733
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 1: boss up and get that shit to yourself and you'll

734
00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,240
Speaker 1: be surprised.

735
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 2: It's like you run across.

736
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: But not only that. I just and I want to

737
00:35:57,280 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: say leaning on my friends too, because I love the

738
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: way my friends love me. So it taught me and

739
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 1: they gassed me up. And y'all build me up so

740
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 1: much to where it's like I don't need a man

741
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: to make me feel good about myself because I started

742
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 1: feeling good about myself because I have women around me,

743
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: I have my community, and y'all just make me feel

744
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 1: like y'all let me know, like, girl, you that bitch?

745
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 1: You really that? So I'm like, damn, these girls pouring

746
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: to me so much. So now I'm saying that to myself.

747
00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: So if a man don't see that, if you don't

748
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 1: love me as much as my friends love me, you

749
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 1: gotta move around. Yeah, because my friends love me down

750
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: and I'm cool with my I love being around my friends.

751
00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:39,799
Speaker 1: I'm not male centered at all, So you can go.

752
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,839
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. All my friends will beat

753
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 1: the beach about me period. Maybe to hell y'all and

754
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: for real, I'm serious, Like, yes, you have to get

755
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 1: you a circle of people who like big you up

756
00:36:54,480 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: the way that you need to be begged up.

757
00:36:56,680 --> 00:36:57,479
Speaker 2: Like see how.

758
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: Kellen did Old Boy in the past rememb when we

759
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,839
Speaker 1: got into it, would charged that gallant, you're gonna make

760
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,160
Speaker 1: him leave me? She was like fuck that, no, And

761
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:07,960
Speaker 1: Kellen is killing killing.

762
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 2: I love killing.

763
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: She was so emotional at our l a show because

764
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 1: she's so proud of us. Like everybody desire friends like that,

765
00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,279
Speaker 1: Like if your friend ain't crying in your live show,

766
00:37:18,440 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: what do you doing?

767
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:19,600
Speaker 2: What are you doing?

768
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 1: Because my friend and Killer be at every live show

769
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 1: Kila has been to like Bob shows for real.

770
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 2: Jordan Jordan's and his ball all of our merger.

771
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:32,400
Speaker 1: Jordan got everything in his clubs, all the teas and

772
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 1: Lauren and mind you, my best friend is married to

773
00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:37,280
Speaker 1: and he'd be wearing my ass on his T shirt.

774
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 1: Lauren came to the first live show ever and his

775
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: wife she she love you now. So yeah, I like,

776
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,319
Speaker 1: our friends are so supportive and they love us. Yeah

777
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: that's what. That's what's helped me heal as well and

778
00:37:52,040 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 1: getting my confidence back and you know, getting back to me. Hey, y'all,

779
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,439
Speaker 1: So make sure y'all go to my website Muse Beauty

780
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: Collection dot com and get your limited edition Drea Call

781
00:38:33,760 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 1: t shirts.

782
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 2: This is one of the shirts and then Lecks had

783
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 2: on the other shirt.

784
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 1: And they're limited edition, y'all, so once they sell out,

785
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:45,359
Speaker 1: they gone www dot Musbauty collection dot com. Get your

786
00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 1: T shirts, get your lip gloss period. What's up y'all.

787
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:58,680
Speaker 2: It's your girl lex Pee and is your girls ring

788
00:38:58,760 --> 00:38:59,080
Speaker 2: the call?

789
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: Y'all know Orlando. We owe y'all, So we coming back

790
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 1: in a big way. August tenth, Poor Minds is coming

791
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: to Orlando for our live show. Yes, we're coming to

792
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 1: Orlando Improv. I cannot wait to see all of y'all faces.

793
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 1: You know. Unfortunately we had to reschedule these days, so

794
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,880
Speaker 1: I'm super excited to come out and see y'all. Doors

795
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: open at seven, Yes, and the show starts at a

796
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 1: and we back a bigger than end. But let me

797
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: tell y'all, y'all should be happy because this show this

798
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: round is super lit. So Orlando, August tenth, Doors open

799
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 1: at seven, show starts at eight Orlando Improv. We'll see

800
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 1: y'all and we all side bookie period. Put it on

801
00:39:40,560 --> 00:40:42,160
Speaker 1: because we're coming. Okay, we gotta move on to the

802
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: next one. I'm gonna let you introduce this one to

803
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 1: this one. Why come on, Doprah, thank you, thank you,

804
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:55,400
Speaker 1: Tom Lawn Lawn Joiner, Lawn Joiner.

805
00:40:55,440 --> 00:40:57,040
Speaker 2: I like, I like it is cute.

806
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk about for the second topic.

807
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:07,200
Speaker 1: You know, I think sometimes people only want to date

808
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:12,439
Speaker 1: people because you dated it, or because somebody that they

809
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 1: might like want to be like or look up to, or.

810
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 2: Have beef with animosity towards that person.

811
00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 1: You only want to date somebody because that person was

812
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 1: dating you wasn't even interested in any girl, or you

813
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,799
Speaker 1: wouldn't even interested in that girl. You would have never

814
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:33,359
Speaker 1: looked Koway, you would have never looked his way. But

815
00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: now you want to date them because your enemy used

816
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: to fuck with me.

817
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 2: And I think that's sick.

818
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,280
Speaker 1: It's so sick. Let me tell you, I have never

819
00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 1: maybe I have experienced it, but I didn't know about it.

820
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:49,120
Speaker 1: But a close friend of mine actually told me. She

821
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you need to stop dealing with this person,

822
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: because I actually had somebody say to me, oh, yeah

823
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: you know x y Z. Yeah he used to fuck

824
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 1: with lex and I fuck with him too. And she

825
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: was like, the whole conversation was not so much of

826
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,319
Speaker 1: the nigga that she fucking with, but it was like

827
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: how she's fucking with and I hate to say this

828
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: because I don't look at myself like that, but how

829
00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: she was fucking with lex PA's nigga. She was like,

830
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 1: that's how the whole conversation was.

831
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 2: What you look at yourself as line.

832
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 1: I mean, I look at myself as a regular girl.

833
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: I just happen to have a podcast. You know that,

834
00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:24,440
Speaker 1: thank God does you know pretty well for itself. But

835
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:28,240
Speaker 1: I'm not fucking out here, like I ain't no fucking Beyonce.

836
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: I know, Rihanna, I'm a regular. I'm still a regular person.

837
00:42:31,080 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's giving Houston. Piance.

838
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: Piance is wild. You've lost it. You've lost it, Beyonce.

839
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:41,400
Speaker 2: But like, but but like shakes.

840
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: Orange, I'll take the Orange texas peance because Orange they

841
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: know the keys the girl. But anyways, I said all

842
00:42:51,080 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: that to say, like, it was so weird to me

843
00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: because she was like, the whole conversation wasn't about Oh

844
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:57,520
Speaker 1: that she found this guy that she's dating and she

845
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,840
Speaker 1: really likes him, the ball Ball. It was like, yeah, this,

846
00:43:00,000 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: this is a Lex p Man. She be talking about

847
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: him on the show all the time. Yeah because Lex,

848
00:43:04,280 --> 00:43:06,919
Speaker 1: And yeah because you know I because I follow Lex

849
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: and I know she'd be with him and this and

850
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 1: this and but but I be with him too. She

851
00:43:10,320 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: was like, the whole conversation was about you, and it

852
00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 1: was so fucking weird.

853
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 2: And tomato, Tomato, because.

854
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, at this point, Uh for

855
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: my EXX, you can keep that nigga like literally, But

856
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 1: that's why I say, especially now in this space, it's important.

857
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,040
Speaker 1: I gotta I have to have a stiff ass nigga

858
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,840
Speaker 1: because don't get me wrong, I love everybody who loves me.

859
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 1: But there are we always say there are little one

860
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: two's out there that kind of watch the show, but

861
00:43:36,920 --> 00:43:38,479
Speaker 1: they were really not fans of us. They just trying

862
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:42,160
Speaker 1: to see what's going on. And a lot of the

863
00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: girls out there be fine, wo may be fine, women

864
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: be looking good, So I need a man around me.

865
00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 1: That's not what you because you sometimes a girl was

866
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 1: sliding your DMS, you thinking that she all about you,

867
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 1: and it's just a bad bitch. Whole time. She's just

868
00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,359
Speaker 1: trying to fuck with you because she heard dre used

869
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: to fuck with you, or she know that you fuck

870
00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: with dress, so she's trying to see if you don't

871
00:43:58,760 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: go so she can put it so she can send

872
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: it to somebody. You know, them little small blogs to

873
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: be posting us and posting our business and shit like that.

874
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 1: It'd be crazy, Like literally somebody posted a my man

875
00:44:10,400 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 1: had posted. He never posts. He is not an online nigga.

876
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: He finally made a post and obviously he had posted

877
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 1: there from our trip, and somebody commented on there and

878
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I would slide in your d MS,

879
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: but I know you lex man. How did y'all find him?

880
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: Poor crew decorm? What did we just talk about? How

881
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 1: did y'all find him? How? I've never added this nigga never?

882
00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: Like we talk a little bit everything now online like

883
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,839
Speaker 1: where people can see. But it's not like I talked

884
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,440
Speaker 1: to everybody online wanting to fuck with somebody because I

885
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 1: fucked with him, when I'm gonna lie about fucking with

886
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: him anyways. It's crazy cause I'm gonna be like girl

887
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:52,320
Speaker 1: who I never fucked with, I never fucked, will never never.

888
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 2: Who who told you dig.

889
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:58,560
Speaker 1: Who said that fature of me? Who said that he

890
00:44:58,600 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: got my number in his phone? Never seen him?

891
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:03,239
Speaker 2: I never seen that man? He do got y'all number?

892
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:05,800
Speaker 2: That's not my number?

893
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:15,879
Speaker 1: What do they call you? Like this? Hello? But what's

894
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,279
Speaker 1: crazy about it? Like sometimes y'all know me, but y'all

895
00:45:18,320 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: can comment on nigga pics that could have been two

896
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: three niggas ago.

897
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 2: Like me, I'm telling you, I'm gonna lie. I don't.

898
00:45:26,360 --> 00:45:29,960
Speaker 1: I mean, if it's not my current nigga, I don't

899
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 1: like I'm not claiming them to be how many.

900
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 2: Three? How many niggas you fucked?

901
00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 1: Three?

902
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 5: Three?

903
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know I'm really on three. I don't know

904
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: about you.

905
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 2: No, I'm really on three. I'm really on three. This

906
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: could be good girls.

907
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, I feel like I think it's a weird territory.

908
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: But honestly, not even for us. I feel like a

909
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,680
Speaker 1: lot of times y'all see women and I can only

910
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,239
Speaker 1: speak for women because I'm a woman and the only

911
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:05,640
Speaker 1: date man. Yes, this is the second time you've kind

912
00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 1: of been trying to throw that kouchie at me, and

913
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: I don't like that. I'm not trying said this.

914
00:46:12,640 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 2: I said, are you being.

915
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: Winked?

916
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:20,040
Speaker 2: I did not wink at you. I said, are you

917
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 2: my last?

918
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 6: Probably sc but no, I say that now.

919
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: The reason I'm just speaking on women because, like I

920
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: can say, I see it. I see a lot of

921
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,880
Speaker 1: girls on Instagram. It's very few women that I follow

922
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: that I'm like, damn, she really living that life and

923
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 1: whoever she fuck with is really doing their job. But

924
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 1: I know that a lot of times you a lot

925
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 1: of people follow them because they want to know who

926
00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:50,560
Speaker 1: she fucked with and how they can get their hands

927
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 1: on somebody like that, and ooh, let me find out

928
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 1: who she is. I've literally seen a girl post her

929
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: nigga because she was getting things and things, and she

930
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: finally posted him that nigga. Followers went up dramatically just

931
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: because I went to go peep and see, and I

932
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:06,879
Speaker 1: was like, you bitches be weird. And I know y'all

933
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: was sliding his dems. I've seen women a lot be like, damn,

934
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 1: I posted my nigga. I see women say that in

935
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: that close Perrier, i' posted my niggas and all you

936
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: bitches started sliding his dms. And I'm seeing this from

937
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 1: like of course, like popular women and popular girls. But

938
00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 1: that's why. And I don't even put myself in a

939
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 1: category as like a popular girl, but like you know,

940
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: people know who I am. So I just feel like

941
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: I have to protect my piece because why do you

942
00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: want somebody because they're doing this for her? Because just

943
00:47:30,320 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 1: because they're doing that for her don't mean he gonna

944
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,959
Speaker 1: do that for you. And then if he's still dealing

945
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,640
Speaker 1: with her, you don't know what the situation is. So

946
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: that's you trying to just get them. Uh what we

947
00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: call it the crack of dust. You trying to get

948
00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,080
Speaker 1: that motherfucking crack of dust because you see her eating

949
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 1: that poor to house steak and it's getting weird. It's

950
00:47:48,600 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 1: getting weird. So I feel like a lot of times

951
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,280
Speaker 1: people do that. It's very weird behavior. I cannot relate

952
00:47:56,800 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 1: anytime I even see. I seen a girl post a

953
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: story the other day. She said, Now, I don't know

954
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: if the story was real, because you know a lot

955
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 1: of people be lying for engagement. I'm not saying that

956
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: she is, but I don't I don't know whatever. But

957
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: the story was basically that her man took her and

958
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 1: her friends out to celebrate something and he paid for everybody,

959
00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:16,400
Speaker 1: and then after the fact, one of her friends was

960
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: like hitting her man up, and then basically the friend

961
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:21,839
Speaker 1: was like, oh, we're not friends, you just my associate

962
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: type shit. Like I said, I don't know how true

963
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: the story is or what how exactly how it happened,

964
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: but I feel like, first of all, why are you

965
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,120
Speaker 1: inviting somebody out that's just your associate. That's what was

966
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: kind of like, is this story real to not happen? Bo?

967
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 2: I don't know friends.

968
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like we all hang with a

969
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: socid sometimes, ain't everybody ain't sho close friends. I get it,

970
00:48:44,719 --> 00:48:47,200
Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna lie dref. I'm celebrating us like

971
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: having a sold out to or something, and my man

972
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 1: is like, I want to take you and your friends out.

973
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: I'm invitying you, Lauren Kila, my sister, and I saw

974
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 1: a friend. But I'm saying other people, I'm not inviting associates,

975
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 1: other people that you're cool with, friends that I know

976
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:11,759
Speaker 1: that live in Houston, that if we had something I

977
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,280
Speaker 1: could think of an associate.

978
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 2: Though no, yeah, Ellie is a friend.

979
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like, you have other people that you're

980
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: cool with to where it's like maybe you might not

981
00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: hang with them on a normal basis, but you would

982
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 1: invite them out to celebrate that cool. But also they

983
00:49:23,600 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 1: would never be like trying to holler at my man

984
00:49:26,200 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 1: and be like, oh, well we're associates, we're not friends. Well,

985
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: first of all, I've been trying to holler at my man.

986
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 1: We were not gonna be nohy no more. I'm not

987
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,320
Speaker 1: even gonna say no no, I'm not even gonna address it.

988
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna cut. You all love that my man

989
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: is a snitch.

990
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 2: He gonna tell me, No, my nigga like that too.

991
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 1: My nigga is so. I just think that behavior is

992
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:52,440
Speaker 1: like weird, It's like and that's my biggest fear though.

993
00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 2: All my nigga's Ben's niches. Though, when I really think

994
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 2: about it, do you.

995
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 1: Fear that, like you're a man fucking a listener? Because

996
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,000
Speaker 1: one of my homegirls who has a podcast that's happened

997
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 1: her before her man fucked the listener, was like, of course,

998
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 1: I mean he didn't know it, but after it all

999
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 1: came out, it like came out like he was low key,

1000
00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 1: like she was lokey, kind of obsessed with her type. Shit.

1001
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 1: That's crazy as fuck, right. I think men gonna be men.

1002
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: I think as a woman, you not. I don't know what,

1003
00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:24,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to say these.

1004
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 2: I just think that.

1005
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,880
Speaker 1: You always gotta worry about your nigga possibly fucking somebody.

1006
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:40,239
Speaker 1: Oh I'm not and I'm not saying that like all me,

1007
00:50:40,360 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 1: because I remember we used to say this all the

1008
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: time on the show I'm an X tie Ty.

1009
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:45,440
Speaker 2: Do you think all me and Chet.

1010
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: At some point in their lives, Yes, Okay, That's where

1011
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 1: I'm at with it now too. I feel like we

1012
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:58,719
Speaker 1: used to always say all men cheat. I think that

1013
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:00,759
Speaker 1: if a man find a one and that he really

1014
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 1: love and he really care about. But I think everybody

1015
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,240
Speaker 1: as a person who has cheated.

1016
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:10,919
Speaker 2: Am I a cheater? Would I consider myself a cheater? No?

1017
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 1: Because I don't cheat consistently. I haven't done it all

1018
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,640
Speaker 1: the time. I haven't done it in every relationship. I've

1019
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 1: done it before, and I think that everybody has done

1020
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,799
Speaker 1: some form of cheating before, even if it wasn't like

1021
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: the physical act. You was texting somebody who you knew

1022
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:30,880
Speaker 1: you shouldn't have been texting because.

1023
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: You was in a relationship.

1024
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: You might have went on a day you knew you

1025
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: shouldn't have went on a day you ain't tell your

1026
00:51:35,120 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: nigga about that day, or you ain't tell.

1027
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:37,279
Speaker 2: Your girl about that day.

1028
00:51:38,560 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: As a former cheater former, I'm not cheating, cheater.

1029
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:45,279
Speaker 2: No, I'm not.

1030
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 1: Lying to you. If if you can take me from

1031
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,400
Speaker 1: you called us I'm not going bro and I have

1032
00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 1: not ever. You know, I ain't never said that. No

1033
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:58,759
Speaker 1: fact I'm not. I'm not going like I am not

1034
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 1: going just because like I said, I feel like I've

1035
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: never really been in a healthy situation. It's so healthy

1036
00:52:05,200 --> 00:52:07,720
Speaker 1: and it's fun, and I feel like this is my friend.

1037
00:52:08,480 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: Like remember how me and you met and we just

1038
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:12,880
Speaker 1: like hit it right off the bat. We was friends

1039
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: like we met and we were friends like we were

1040
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:15,640
Speaker 1: like texting.

1041
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 2: I mean actually.

1042
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 1: What we were friends? Actually we met and then we

1043
00:52:22,719 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 1: just used to look at each other at work for

1044
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:27,080
Speaker 1: like three mons I'm talking about when we and then

1045
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: I told her I had some money for her, and

1046
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:36,200
Speaker 1: then she was like a light that's that is not

1047
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:36,720
Speaker 1: how it happened.

1048
00:52:36,920 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 2: How it happened we had it was a.

1049
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: Slow day at work, and then we had a conversation

1050
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:45,839
Speaker 1: after that slow day. Then we started making money together. Well,

1051
00:52:45,880 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 1: first of all, I'm playing it's definitely not but no,

1052
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:50,880
Speaker 1: for real, real, we really was working together for like

1053
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 1: three shouldn't never talked to each other, but you know,

1054
00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 1: that's how both of us are. We're not really friendly

1055
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 1: people talk And.

1056
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:59,040
Speaker 2: I told you I can I go ahead.

1057
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,840
Speaker 1: We was real cool, and then you became the manager

1058
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:05,480
Speaker 1: and then I was like, oh, I gotta be cool

1059
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:13,240
Speaker 1: because I'm gonna come late. I will never be on time.

1060
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:20,080
Speaker 1: But this is my friend. Remember I would always take sure.

1061
00:53:20,080 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: I'd be like, how is it is it busy? You'll

1062
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:25,240
Speaker 1: be like, no, you can come in to hour, cool cool,

1063
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: busy hour. So Lex is a really hard worker, like

1064
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:35,840
Speaker 1: you really was like a bartender and you became no boy.

1065
00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:38,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not kidding. I feel like where I'm

1066
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 1: at in my life right now, I think everybody, even

1067
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:41,960
Speaker 1: on the staff, can say that about me, like I'm fun.

1068
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,720
Speaker 1: Don't get it twisted back when I'm talking business, bitch,

1069
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: I think everybody comes busney. Yeah, and a lot of

1070
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,440
Speaker 1: times when things go wrong, they be like, oh, like,

1071
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:52,799
Speaker 1: let me call Lex and tell her like this. I'm

1072
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: very like, I'm like, I'm like that. I've always been

1073
00:53:57,120 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: that way. Every time I've had a job, I've always

1074
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,319
Speaker 1: been I get promoted like this. That's just always been

1075
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 1: my my work ethic. But going back to what I

1076
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:09,319
Speaker 1: was talking about, after we had our first conversation, even

1077
00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:13,440
Speaker 1: though maybe you were using me me too, because I

1078
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: had and she had that body ey eat, I was

1079
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:20,239
Speaker 1: still boy. I was still a little boxed and I

1080
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 1: wasn't really giving a body like I was now. But yeah,

1081
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 1: it was we wasn't boxing, I wasn't boxy. But I wasn't.

1082
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,520
Speaker 1: It wasn't given like it is now. But anyway, after

1083
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: that first conversation, we was locked in. So I said

1084
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 1: all that to say, I have that same vibe from him,

1085
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,359
Speaker 1: like that's my friend. Like when we like got into

1086
00:54:36,400 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: our little tidbit and we didn't talk like that, I said,

1087
00:54:38,239 --> 00:54:40,640
Speaker 1: oh my god, like I miss my friend. Something happened

1088
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:42,839
Speaker 1: today and I need to tell him what happened. So

1089
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:48,320
Speaker 1: I feel like, yeah, I think cheating has been China huge.

1090
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 1: I'm not going like I said, I'm not going. I'm

1091
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: really not and I'm not gonna lie. Every time I've cheated,

1092
00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: it wasn't like And I know this is an excuse

1093
00:54:57,280 --> 00:54:59,480
Speaker 1: I'm not making. I'm not trying to make it seem like.

1094
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,839
Speaker 1: But women cheat for different reasons. I believe now there

1095
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 1: are women who cheat just because they horny. But every

1096
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 1: time I can honestly say I've cheated, it was.

1097
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,880
Speaker 2: That's a terrible reason to cheat.

1098
00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, But men cheat because they're horny.

1099
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 1: Women cheat because there's something missing emotionally and they're looking

1100
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,440
Speaker 1: for something that their partner is not giving them. Because

1101
00:55:20,440 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: I can honestly say, I know I to be saying

1102
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: I'm a cheater. I'm a cheater I have honestly, this

1103
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:27,839
Speaker 1: is me being honest because I joke about it a lot.

1104
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 1: I have cheated in two of my relationships, and that's

1105
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: me being honest. Two I swear God too. That's it.

1106
00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 1: And the both times I cheated? What why are you laughing?

1107
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 4: It's the truth because I'm just laughing.

1108
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 2: You try so hard to convince me like I haven't

1109
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 2: been here.

1110
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: The whole time.

1111
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:52,320
Speaker 2: No, it has.

1112
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:55,799
Speaker 1: But I'm laughing because you're really because you lost so much.

1113
00:55:56,280 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: I like it's it has only been two times. So

1114
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: I will say the two times I did cheat, it,

1115
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 1: I did cheat. I was looking I was missing things emotionally.

1116
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: I was looking for something to make me feel, like

1117
00:56:11,880 --> 00:56:14,799
Speaker 1: you said earlier, making me feel something like I make

1118
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: you feel. Yeah, but that's what I'm saying. That time

1119
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 1: I was kind of a little male centered. I used to

1120
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:20,960
Speaker 1: be very male centered. I did. I used to.

1121
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 8: Y'all, Okay, this is the I told you won't this

1122
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,040
Speaker 8: the third time I told y'all, this bitch won't me.

1123
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:35,000
Speaker 1: Girl?

1124
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 2: First of all, want.

1125
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm kidding. You want to be my

1126
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,040
Speaker 1: You know why you want to be my?

1127
00:56:43,120 --> 00:56:46,800
Speaker 4: Girl, because I give off their energy.

1128
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: What energy, I'm gonna take care of you. I make

1129
00:56:50,600 --> 00:56:52,000
Speaker 1: my bitches feel good.

1130
00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: Like I cannot with you.

1131
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, back to the top, Back to the topic.

1132
00:57:01,239 --> 00:57:04,760
Speaker 1: I had said what I said about like cheating and stuff,

1133
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 1: because I just was basically saying, I feel like, period,

1134
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,160
Speaker 1: you always gotta worry about your nigga going.

1135
00:57:11,560 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 2: Cause nigga's gonna go. But not worried, bitch, I ain't worried.

1136
00:57:18,840 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like you know that I ain't

1137
00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 1: never worried, but it's still like it's a possible, like

1138
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be surprised.

1139
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 2: I feel like certain women.

1140
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: I feel like for some men, like it's some niggas

1141
00:57:30,400 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: who won't go for any girl, like they just horny,

1142
00:57:33,000 --> 00:57:34,960
Speaker 1: like they just want some policy. And then I think

1143
00:57:35,000 --> 00:57:38,120
Speaker 1: it's certain niggas like it has to be a specific

1144
00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:38,720
Speaker 1: type of girl to.

1145
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 2: Peak their entries.

1146
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: You know what I learned.

1147
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:45,640
Speaker 2: But if it's the right one, a nigga might go.

1148
00:57:45,800 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 1: A nigga gonna go. But guess what, let me tell

1149
00:57:47,560 --> 00:57:49,960
Speaker 1: you something that I've learned too. And this is why

1150
00:57:50,000 --> 00:57:51,960
Speaker 1: I love the fact that my confidence is back, and

1151
00:57:52,000 --> 00:57:53,000
Speaker 1: I really, I.

1152
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 2: Truly believe it's of the meg.

1153
00:57:55,320 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: I am that girl. I am so serious personality, fire, body, fire,

1154
00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:08,640
Speaker 1: pussy fire, look good everything. I am an escape. When

1155
00:58:08,640 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 1: you with me, we can be in my living room

1156
00:58:10,120 --> 00:58:12,479
Speaker 1: watching Netflix. You're gonna feel like you're on vacation. Bitch.

1157
00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: I'm a vibe, I'm a good time. I know my energy,

1158
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: I know who I am. So yeah, you may wander off,

1159
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:19,120
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you I'm gonna be going and you're

1160
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 1: gonna miss me. You're gonna be on my phone rapping versus,

1161
00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 1: just like my ex woods because they always want to

1162
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: come back. And you know, a lot of times people

1163
00:58:25,600 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 1: say hold on because people say, oh, he just coming

1164
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:31,120
Speaker 1: back because you're convenient. No, he coming back because I'm different.

1165
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm different and I know I am, but I know

1166
00:58:33,720 --> 00:58:36,040
Speaker 1: my value and I know my word. That's why I'm

1167
00:58:36,080 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: not accepting the let's move on.

1168
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 2: And that was a word. That was a poem that

1169
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 2: it cracker dust very poetic. Yes, that that was real good.

1170
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 2: I felt that I'm empowered.

1171
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:07,080
Speaker 1: You should be. Yes, you are I am. I look

1172
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:15,480
Speaker 1: good face card never don't look personality, tin, ambition chin everything,

1173
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: tin cool chie tin. I'm telling you everybody, I mean,

1174
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 1: I'm not perfect, but I'm worth it. What makes you say?

1175
00:59:27,400 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 2: Is it worth it?

1176
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: Let me work it, flip it and reverse it. If

1177
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 1: they said that, she said, it's yours if you get

1178
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 1: the thing. Well, she said, I put my thing down,

1179
00:59:45,080 --> 00:59:47,440
Speaker 1: flipping and reverse it and reverse it.

1180
00:59:48,160 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 2: Somebody said this, that's the thing. I mean, that's what

1181
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 2: they said on film.

1182
00:59:52,560 --> 00:59:59,160
Speaker 1: And now can you please come on? Can we say

1183
00:59:59,200 --> 00:59:59,640
Speaker 1: that today?

1184
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 2: You don't.

1185
01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: Today? Sorry, I don't know.

1186
01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:07,240
Speaker 2: Okay, is your vagina dry?

1187
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 8: Oh no, get into the bed ow the bed bow

1188
01:00:13,520 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 8: the about about about about bow about bum bum bum

1189
01:00:18,320 --> 01:00:21,960
Speaker 8: bum boum boum boum bumix.

1190
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 2: Okay, is your koochie dry?

1191
01:00:27,080 --> 01:00:31,240
Speaker 1: Do you have the sahara between your thighs and it's

1192
01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 1: not pleasing to the eyes. Oh, you can't make that

1193
01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 1: nigga dick rise. You gotta you gotta answer, and when

1194
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 1: you look at it, it's gonna make you cry.

1195
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:49,120
Speaker 2: But that pussy should be crying.

1196
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,920
Speaker 1: But it's too busy.

1197
01:00:55,200 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 2: And he told you it was good, but he was lying.

1198
01:00:58,320 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 1: Oh, so let's get into the reasons Angelo. Why why

1199
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:13,800
Speaker 1: oh that was a good death? Y'all's good?

1200
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 2: Okay? Why with your couchie dry?

1201
01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 1: What is your drink? Let's get into it, okay, because honestly,

1202
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:23,680
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of women we talk about

1203
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 1: ED a lot and stuff, so we want to talk

1204
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: about vaginal drying and things that could cause it. So

1205
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:32,800
Speaker 1: a lot of times this has nothing to do with

1206
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:37,640
Speaker 1: you. You know, you can't help it. Our body has functions. Okay.

1207
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,840
Speaker 1: So it's crazy because that clip that we had that

1208
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: went viral and we were talking about wet kouchie and

1209
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: you know, using loube and it's okay, drinking water. A

1210
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:50,160
Speaker 1: lot of girls is like coaches, stay wet, puts it

1211
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: too good, and it's like, okay, that's cool. But let's

1212
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 1: be honest. None of y'all are really like you know,

1213
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,120
Speaker 1: everybody got good kouchie. If you say everybody got a

1214
01:01:58,120 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: good PITCHI cuchie. But I wanted to talk about the reasons,

1215
01:02:01,200 --> 01:02:04,000
Speaker 1: the medical reasons why you can.

1216
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 2: Have d I'll be thinking I'll be creaming, but y'all

1217
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:10,479
Speaker 2: us we.

1218
01:02:10,440 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 1: Are, y'all pin it's real bad. You said I'm not

1219
01:02:18,440 --> 01:02:21,520
Speaker 1: gonna say it, and it was bad.

1220
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:23,520
Speaker 2: He sent it to me. I know you got it

1221
01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:24,880
Speaker 2: in my god.

1222
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: I said, oh, Baddy, that's not why are you had

1223
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:31,400
Speaker 1: to go to the bathroom and it looked like you

1224
01:02:31,520 --> 01:02:37,280
Speaker 1: just drank Hennessy. It was. I mean, yes, she's broke

1225
01:02:37,280 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: an incredible Okay, So the first reason why your vagina

1226
01:02:44,800 --> 01:02:46,880
Speaker 1: could be dry. So this goes off to the men,

1227
01:02:47,360 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 1: I said, Oh, this goes out to the men. If

1228
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:54,480
Speaker 1: you just had a child with your baby, mama, your wife,

1229
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 1: your girlfriend, whatever, and you're like, okay, it doesn't feel

1230
01:02:57,400 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 1: the same. Breastfeeding causes vaginal drawing. Never knew that. So

1231
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:06,520
Speaker 1: if you're having trouble, you know, getting you repped up

1232
01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:09,040
Speaker 1: a bit and your breastfeeding, that could be you know,

1233
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 1: an issue with it. You know, birth control pills. I

1234
01:03:13,440 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 1: personally stopped taking birth control pills years ago. I didn't

1235
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,439
Speaker 1: like the effects that it had on my body. It's

1236
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:21,080
Speaker 1: very natural to have a period and do all that.

1237
01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I just let my body do what it's

1238
01:03:23,160 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 1: gonna do. Same I don't. I don't take anything altering

1239
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 1: to my body to the point so I don't even

1240
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: take talmo. I don't take no type of medicine when

1241
01:03:31,400 --> 01:03:36,959
Speaker 1: I feel sick, healthy remedy meat, yeah, like, I don't.

1242
01:03:37,000 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: I just want my body to heal itself. So if

1243
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: you take birth control though, and your coochie draw. That's

1244
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: why why it's.

1245
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:48,960
Speaker 2: All right.

1246
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:55,520
Speaker 1: Cancer treatments including chemotherapy and hormone therapy. Diabetes diabetes. Remember

1247
01:03:55,520 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 1: when you said titties di beat die beat us. And honestly,

1248
01:04:01,480 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: that's another reason why some people can't get no sugar load.

1249
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:07,880
Speaker 2: And I mean for real.

1250
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 1: Though right now, some people have diabetes and they can't

1251
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: help it. But when I feel like, if you have diabetes,

1252
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:17,360
Speaker 1: because you know of weight gain and overeating, that's something

1253
01:04:17,400 --> 01:04:20,560
Speaker 1: that can be controlled. So we definitely gotta do better.

1254
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:22,640
Speaker 1: We talked about this on our past episode a long

1255
01:04:22,640 --> 01:04:26,040
Speaker 1: time ago about our health as black people.

1256
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,360
Speaker 2: We need to We're gonna have a nutritionish on the show.

1257
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 1: Yes, we definitely need to have nutritions on the show

1258
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:32,760
Speaker 1: because I think that's very important. So a lot of

1259
01:04:32,760 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: times diabetes, I can't speak for all the cases, and

1260
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 1: I'm not, but I feel like and the people that

1261
01:04:38,720 --> 01:04:42,120
Speaker 1: I know personally that have diabetes, they developed it and

1262
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: it was something that they could have prevented from eating rites.

1263
01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, my dad had My dad had diabetes.

1264
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 1: He got diabetes when he was like in his twenties

1265
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 1: or thirties, and then he didn't like really make it

1266
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:55,040
Speaker 1: any better because he used to be we used to

1267
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:56,120
Speaker 1: be finding honey.

1268
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:56,840
Speaker 2: Buns in his drawer.

1269
01:04:57,120 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 1: We why you got it in there? You ain't supposed

1270
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:05,280
Speaker 1: to be eating it. But anyways, medications including anti estrogen

1271
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:10,920
Speaker 1: medications treating uterine fibroids or endometriosis, certain inside depressings, and

1272
01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 1: anti histamines treatment for itchy eyes and running noses. So obviously,

1273
01:05:16,640 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: if you're having things you're taking medication to treat fibroids

1274
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:24,280
Speaker 1: and things like that, that's understandable. But or I would say,

1275
01:05:24,960 --> 01:05:28,640
Speaker 1: itchy eyes maybe, but I feel like, look, don't y'all

1276
01:05:28,640 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 1: be in the comments calling me doctor sibb now, But

1277
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 1: I feel like everything that goes wrong with your body

1278
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:33,160
Speaker 1: if you eat s.

1279
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:36,000
Speaker 2: You never seen nobody in the comments calling you doctor.

1280
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,680
Speaker 1: I never said that, but I said, don't y'all start

1281
01:05:38,720 --> 01:05:44,959
Speaker 1: calling me that now because you loved the lie they did?

1282
01:05:45,200 --> 01:05:52,240
Speaker 1: People who know me do be calling me doctor LEXI. Oh,

1283
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:55,440
Speaker 1: I'm a medical MD.

1284
01:05:57,120 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 2: Who be calling you? People who you say? People that

1285
01:06:02,040 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 2: know you?

1286
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:11,120
Speaker 1: So I don't know everybody you know anyway, Like I said,

1287
01:06:11,160 --> 01:06:14,040
Speaker 1: but I do feel like anything I like outside of

1288
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,200
Speaker 1: like your body doing things like you know, like if

1289
01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:19,440
Speaker 1: you have fibroids you can't control. That's like doctor, I'm

1290
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:21,919
Speaker 1: I'm not too deep in that bag. But I do

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01:06:21,960 --> 01:06:24,240
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of the lifestyle I was living

1292
01:06:24,440 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 1: caused a lot of my fiboards. So I'm not gonna

1293
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 1: get too deep in that, but I feel like everything

1294
01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:30,720
Speaker 1: can be helped with your body by the things you

1295
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:31,520
Speaker 1: eat and consume.

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01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 2: I'm a strong I agree with that.

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01:06:33,680 --> 01:06:36,760
Speaker 1: So I feel like all these things can be prevented

1298
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 1: if you are taking care of your body. Well, this one,

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01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 1: this one. I won't say cancer and things like that,

1300
01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:46,000
Speaker 1: because you know cancer causes different things. But the fibroids

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01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:48,840
Speaker 1: and the answer histamines cause you're trying to treat itchy

1302
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 1: eyes and running nose like stuff like that. Yeah, like

1303
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:57,160
Speaker 1: you can find altered Come on, doc pe Okay, Now,

1304
01:06:57,160 --> 01:06:58,560
Speaker 1: I'm not a doctor, not because y'all can be in

1305
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: a clients like that. I ate a banana and I

1306
01:07:01,040 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: steel beach. I say all that, Okay, So it also

1307
01:07:05,520 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 1: says removal of your over What.

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01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 2: The fuck do a banana?

1309
01:07:10,640 --> 01:07:11,920
Speaker 1: Or was it? It's carrots?

1310
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:15,680
Speaker 2: And that's why you ain't no motherfucking doctor.

1311
01:07:17,000 --> 01:07:17,720
Speaker 6: I got it wrong.

1312
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:18,640
Speaker 2: It's the hot biscuit.

1313
01:07:20,320 --> 01:07:21,560
Speaker 4: I'm drinking high biscuits.

1314
01:07:21,600 --> 01:07:26,120
Speaker 2: So what the banana gotta do? What you're seeing, it's

1315
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 2: carrots now, it's it is carried facts.

1316
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:32,360
Speaker 1: That's why bugs Bunny got away with everything because he

1317
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:41,360
Speaker 1: could see the things he used to get what's up? Yeah, anyways, okay,

1318
01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:46,520
Speaker 1: removal removal of your ovaries or prick toomy. Okay, I've

1319
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 1: never heard of that. I didn't.

1320
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 2: I haven't either. Drowning shrindering children children syndrome.

1321
01:07:55,760 --> 01:07:58,320
Speaker 1: And that's j O we gonna feel it. It's j

1322
01:07:58,480 --> 01:08:03,200
Speaker 1: O g R e N syndrome and I'm art of

1323
01:08:03,280 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 1: immune is disordered. That can cause dryness throughout your body.

1324
01:08:06,240 --> 01:08:08,800
Speaker 1: Well obviously you can't control that, cause that the syndrome.

1325
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1326
01:08:10,240 --> 01:08:14,200
Speaker 1: Not being sexually arouse, y'all, nigga just sucks. Got using

1327
01:08:14,280 --> 01:08:17,560
Speaker 1: send it or perfume, soap, sprays and wash it's around

1328
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 1: or in yeo vagina lead that pussy alone. Like we

1329
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:26,320
Speaker 1: told y'all. We tell y'all that all the tongue stop

1330
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:29,160
Speaker 1: using them yonie eggs them wipes and this and the that.

1331
01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: A little water, you know what I'm saying. A little

1332
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:35,400
Speaker 1: pH soap, I mean that's made for the vagina. That's

1333
01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 1: all you need. But you don't gotta put it in there.

1334
01:08:37,400 --> 01:08:40,720
Speaker 2: Do one more palm. Leave that pussy A leave.

1335
01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:46,960
Speaker 1: That pussy alone when you go home, make sure you

1336
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:52,320
Speaker 1: leave that pussy. Oh, cause if it's sunky, it can't

1337
01:08:52,320 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 1: come in my zone mmm mm.

1338
01:08:57,000 --> 01:09:03,559
Speaker 4: And if you don't what I know, these nickers, they

1339
01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 4: gonna smell it.

1340
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:10,839
Speaker 1: In your zone. When they enter.

1341
01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:16,959
Speaker 2: Your ball, your home, they can.

1342
01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 4: Smell your motherfucking zone.

1343
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:23,640
Speaker 1: And when you take it off, we smell it on

1344
01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:26,080
Speaker 1: the floor because of their throng.

1345
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 2: Oh jeez, it's the green smoke. Oh my god coming up.

1346
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:42,439
Speaker 1: It's okay, it has to rhyme, it has to rhyme. Okay, Okay,

1347
01:09:42,479 --> 01:09:43,040
Speaker 1: let's start over.

1348
01:09:43,120 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay.

1349
01:09:45,240 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 1: When your couchie is really dry your home, you gotta

1350
01:09:50,560 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 1: know that he ain't gonna want a ball.

1351
01:09:54,560 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 5: And when he don't want a bone.

1352
01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 1: He can't get in his zone.

1353
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:00,680
Speaker 5: Mm.

1354
01:10:00,880 --> 01:10:05,360
Speaker 1: And if he can't get in his song, we gonna

1355
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:09,719
Speaker 1: send him on a drone and he gonna go far away.

1356
01:10:10,320 --> 01:10:13,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, because now he can't stay.

1357
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:19,559
Speaker 1: Yeah, he can't stay because it's sank m every and

1358
01:10:19,600 --> 01:10:24,280
Speaker 1: we ain't talking about that dance because that day't be

1359
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:30,320
Speaker 1: really loud and of that s I'm proud, But yo,

1360
01:10:30,439 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: pussy got a cloud, oh Jesus, and.

1361
01:10:33,560 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 2: The cloud is really really dark mm.

1362
01:10:37,360 --> 01:10:42,520
Speaker 1: And you knew this from the start. And then couchie

1363
01:10:43,000 --> 01:10:46,920
Speaker 1: tool dry and too taught, and you wonder why you

1364
01:10:46,960 --> 01:10:50,519
Speaker 1: got them flies? Hm h and now you sitting there

1365
01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:58,840
Speaker 1: wondering why mm. And it's burning my eyes that we

1366
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:05,160
Speaker 1: gotta we need to go to the queen. Now it's

1367
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 1: given because have you ever been around some coochie so

1368
01:11:09,360 --> 01:11:14,160
Speaker 1: stinking make your Jesus Okay, now you're taking too No,

1369
01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 1: we are away over time, so let's move on.

1370
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:22,639
Speaker 2: Over my head.

1371
01:11:22,880 --> 01:11:26,519
Speaker 1: She's too horny. What's up, y'all? Is your girl lex peace?

1372
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:28,880
Speaker 2: And it's your girls righting the call and.

1373
01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:33,240
Speaker 1: Miami we're coming to turn up. I'm excited.

1374
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:34,639
Speaker 2: I'm excited too.

1375
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 1: We've been long overdue for a Miami show and I

1376
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:40,800
Speaker 1: can't wait to see y'all. It's a perfect way to

1377
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: kind of, I guess in the summer because the summer

1378
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:46,839
Speaker 1: almost be over and it's like August thirteenth.

1379
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're gonna be in Miami.

1380
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 1: Miami and Props shows doors open at Sibbing Show Birthday. Yes,

1381
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: And I'm telling y'all. Look, this is right before my

1382
01:11:54,880 --> 01:11:56,720
Speaker 1: birthday too, So y'all know I'm finna.

1383
01:11:56,400 --> 01:11:57,559
Speaker 2: Be listing the net.

1384
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:02,240
Speaker 1: I'm I'm put it on for Miami. I'm telling y'all listen.

1385
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:07,280
Speaker 1: August thirteenth. Doors open at seven, show starts at eight.

1386
01:12:07,600 --> 01:12:10,880
Speaker 1: Miami Improv. Y'all please do not miss this show. Y'all

1387
01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:13,759
Speaker 1: know we're gonna have people popping up, rolling up on us, Miami.

1388
01:12:13,800 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 1: It's gonna be fun.

1389
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 2: Oh, welcome to Miami Heerie. So I'm Miami. That's you know,

1390
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 2: let's be what the all people to be there or

1391
01:12:22,000 --> 01:12:28,200
Speaker 2: be fre what was g alright?

1392
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:30,320
Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? Atlanta?

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01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 2: Guess what?

1394
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:34,920
Speaker 9: August eighteen, I will be at center stage.

1395
01:12:35,000 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, pull up on me.

1396
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 9: At the end of the day, I'll be at center

1397
01:12:38,120 --> 01:12:39,679
Speaker 9: stage fucking talking about hell yeah.

1398
01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 1: Full with pull up on me. I'm in the O.

1399
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, Center stage type shit.

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01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 1: Pull up on me. You know what I'm saying, No

1401
01:12:46,240 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: capin gonna be done.

1402
01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:49,280
Speaker 2: Ain't oh some of the codes shit you ever hear?

1403
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:54,080
Speaker 1: You heard? Pull up on me? August eighteen, center stage, Lanta, Jordan,

1404
01:12:54,320 --> 01:13:01,719
Speaker 1: here you come out about eating healthy and being fit?

1405
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 1: Is like it's hard to do it by yourself. So

1406
01:13:04,160 --> 01:13:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm just so happy that I got the whole team involved. Bro,

1407
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 1: this is cracky b you know, she used to be

1408
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 1: a food friendly environment. She need street like you need

1409
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 1: the calm down because you wasn't even working out four

1410
01:13:21,120 --> 01:13:21,559
Speaker 1: months ago.

1411
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 2: I'm carrying this gallon of water. There's sequila. I'm like,

1412
01:13:25,160 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 2: I can't even make drinks.

1413
01:13:26,640 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 1: The guests don't want to be on no diet, freaking

1414
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:47,759
Speaker 1: ain't even hemmy. Okay, so now we gonna get into

1415
01:13:48,120 --> 01:13:55,600
Speaker 1: the bope about about about by about Okay, so my

1416
01:13:55,720 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 1: bop of the week. Y'all know I love me some afrobeads,

1417
01:13:58,800 --> 01:14:01,400
Speaker 1: and I will say this, the closest people to me

1418
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 1: in my life are people that I have similar music

1419
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: tastes too. I've noticed that y'all. If you date somebody,

1420
01:14:08,120 --> 01:14:10,920
Speaker 1: y'all have similar music tastes. Just trust me on this.

1421
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 1: Even your friends like me Andrea, we don't listen to

1422
01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: the same things all the time, but when I get

1423
01:14:16,000 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 1: in her car, I'm feeling it's a vib you know,

1424
01:14:19,360 --> 01:14:22,439
Speaker 1: vice versa, Like we always feel the vibes. So I

1425
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,080
Speaker 1: really feel like there's some science in that that I

1426
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:27,840
Speaker 1: don't know what it is, but everybody that I listen

1427
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 1: to the same type of music, we get along. So

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01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:33,640
Speaker 1: my bop of the week is come Over by Melvido.

1429
01:14:33,920 --> 01:14:37,599
Speaker 1: It's a afrobeat song, it's a vibe. It's definitely given

1430
01:14:37,600 --> 01:14:39,360
Speaker 1: a sexy time like this is the song that you

1431
01:14:39,439 --> 01:14:42,479
Speaker 1: listen to when you and your nigga on vacation, y'all

1432
01:14:42,520 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 1: got a view of the beach, or y'all sitting in

1433
01:14:44,240 --> 01:14:46,840
Speaker 1: the hot tub together looking at a view wherever y'all

1434
01:14:46,880 --> 01:14:49,680
Speaker 1: at play come Over by Melvido. I'm telling y'all it's

1435
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,640
Speaker 1: gonna be sexy time. It's some motherfucking vibe. It's some

1436
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:56,640
Speaker 1: mother fucking ob I'm gonna work on a like Afrobeats

1437
01:14:56,720 --> 01:14:59,240
Speaker 1: sexy Time playlist for y'all. I feel that R and

1438
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,080
Speaker 1: B list going crazy, the R and B playlist, it's

1439
01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 1: this is probably my best R and B playlist today.

1440
01:15:05,080 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie really fucking fire, so y'all make

1441
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: sure y'all get that in the bio, my R and

1442
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: B playlist. But yeah, I'm gonna work on the Afrobeats

1443
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 1: like sexy Time because they be having the vibes too.

1444
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:29,360
Speaker 5: It's getting like you know, I don't know, girl, Come on, what's.

1445
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:29,720
Speaker 1: Been listening to?

1446
01:15:29,960 --> 01:15:34,040
Speaker 2: Girl? I love this song and he's very trendy. But

1447
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 2: I like it, Barbie girl.

1448
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,160
Speaker 1: I'm not a main like, but I like.

1449
01:15:40,280 --> 01:15:41,960
Speaker 2: I mean, first of all, it's Nikky.

1450
01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:46,000
Speaker 1: Nikki, it's fucking Nikki.

1451
01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:49,840
Speaker 2: And then and I like Ice like.

1452
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 1: I feel like people be trying to play with her,

1453
01:15:51,520 --> 01:15:56,479
Speaker 1: but like, and she be having some catchy music. This

1454
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:59,200
Speaker 1: is what I have to say about Ice Spice. A

1455
01:15:59,240 --> 01:16:01,760
Speaker 1: long time ago, Party said, Hey, I'm not here to

1456
01:16:01,760 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 1: be a lyricist. I ain't no J Cole, ain't no Kendrin.

1457
01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:06,200
Speaker 1: I'm here to get the party fucking turn. It's the

1458
01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:08,120
Speaker 1: same thing for Ice Spice. She here to get the

1459
01:16:08,120 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 1: party fucking turn. I feel like Nikki is in a

1460
01:16:10,400 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 1: different line because she's gonna get the party turn, but

1461
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,960
Speaker 1: she gonna give you bars. She's in her own lane

1462
01:16:15,000 --> 01:16:17,479
Speaker 1: for that reason. So I feel like, let's give Ice

1463
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:20,360
Speaker 1: Spice what she deserves. She got she getting us turned

1464
01:16:20,400 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 1: off like damn. And I feel like it's a very

1465
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 1: catchy song. You know, it's a fun song. It's a

1466
01:16:25,920 --> 01:16:30,679
Speaker 1: summer song, like it's getting ready with your girls. No, well,

1467
01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:33,400
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say, like, I always like listen to

1468
01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:36,439
Speaker 1: Ice Spices, but I see it. I get it. I'm

1469
01:16:36,479 --> 01:16:38,720
Speaker 1: not a hater, but yes, that me a get ready

1470
01:16:38,760 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 1: with your girl.

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01:16:39,560 --> 01:16:42,080
Speaker 2: It's cute. It's a cute little vibe. It's a cute

1472
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:45,679
Speaker 2: bo boy. And so I like you shout out, shout

1473
01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:47,880
Speaker 2: Ice Spice.

1474
01:16:48,120 --> 01:16:53,240
Speaker 1: The poor crew love. I'm a Barbie girl. And that

1475
01:16:53,320 --> 01:16:55,720
Speaker 1: was a ball back in the day.

1476
01:16:55,800 --> 01:16:57,880
Speaker 2: We was no it was and then you know the

1477
01:16:57,920 --> 01:17:02,000
Speaker 2: Barbie movie, the Barbie movie or I want to see it.

1478
01:17:02,080 --> 01:17:04,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I'm not I don't want to

1479
01:17:04,080 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: see it. I'm gonna go see it. I'm probably gonna

1480
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:07,799
Speaker 1: wait till it comes out like on Hulu or something.

1481
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:11,040
Speaker 1: But the marketing for this movie, I have seen marketing

1482
01:17:11,120 --> 01:17:14,519
Speaker 1: like this since fucking I don't even remember. Since I've

1483
01:17:14,520 --> 01:17:16,440
Speaker 1: seen marketing. They don't market movies.

1484
01:17:16,160 --> 01:17:18,799
Speaker 2: Like since I've seen marketing marketing.

1485
01:17:21,640 --> 01:17:24,640
Speaker 1: I was trying to say a movie, but it's the Habiscuits.

1486
01:17:26,439 --> 01:17:31,320
Speaker 1: It's it's biscuits. But yeah, I haven't seen marketing like

1487
01:17:31,400 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 1: this since I don't remember when. Honestly, I've never seen

1488
01:17:35,040 --> 01:17:37,519
Speaker 1: marketing like this in my adult life. I can say

1489
01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:39,160
Speaker 1: because this is how they used to do movies. They

1490
01:17:39,200 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 1: used to do rollouts some mother. I mean I have

1491
01:17:42,080 --> 01:17:47,320
Speaker 1: seen everybody from the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Nikki

1492
01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:50,719
Speaker 1: Ice Spice, I mean they've got everybody. I literally turned

1493
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:54,880
Speaker 1: on my TV. My TV popped up with an advertisement

1494
01:17:55,560 --> 01:17:57,920
Speaker 1: like here and played the trailer. I'm like, what the

1495
01:17:57,960 --> 01:18:02,639
Speaker 1: fuck is this? Speaking of real quick, speaking of Beverly

1496
01:18:02,720 --> 01:18:03,560
Speaker 1: Hills Housewives.

1497
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:06,839
Speaker 2: I just started watching it again.

1498
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the time see thank you because when I

1499
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:15,960
Speaker 1: say watched Beverly Hills, watch vander Pump yeah, except me

1500
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:18,439
Speaker 1: like I'm crazy because don't get me wrong, Real house a,

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01:18:18,840 --> 01:18:21,080
Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Atlanta is always gonna be my number one,

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01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:26,000
Speaker 1: but Beverly Hills, Big Tea their number one. It's like this,

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01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,679
Speaker 1: it's a lot of tea going on. And I remember

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01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:34,840
Speaker 1: how much I don't like Commune girl. Oh you and

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01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 1: know seasons?

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01:18:36,120 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm like, I started over. I started from season.

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01:18:40,000 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 1: Oh girl, you just fucking wait. She gonna really show you.

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01:18:44,280 --> 01:18:46,760
Speaker 2: She gonna piece me. I know because she doesn't piece

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01:18:46,840 --> 01:18:48,680
Speaker 2: me off. I know what's gonna happen, but I just

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01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:49,880
Speaker 2: wanted to rewatch it.

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Speaker 1: It's about to get real nansal Okay, So now we're

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01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:56,120
Speaker 1: gonna get into our favorite segment of the week. It's

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01:18:56,160 --> 01:18:59,519
Speaker 1: the poor your heart out segment if you oh yeah,

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01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:03,759
Speaker 1: I will I'm sorry of the week. It is music

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Speaker 1: none other than Musbauty dot com Musbauty Collection dot com.

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01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:13,480
Speaker 2: But see, I be having to like remm. It's not called.

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01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:16,440
Speaker 1: Muse Beauty Collection. That's just the name of the website.

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01:19:17,000 --> 01:19:20,280
Speaker 1: There's just mus Beauty. So that's actually glaze. But it

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01:19:20,320 --> 01:19:23,559
Speaker 1: ain't really clear no more so it's okay, it's gonna

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01:19:23,560 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 1: come clear. It is see I be dab in mind,

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01:19:27,600 --> 01:19:29,760
Speaker 1: oh cause I feel like that make it no like

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01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 1: that way it don't take the color off your lips already.

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01:19:32,680 --> 01:19:38,400
Speaker 1: Well you know, okay, so teacher, okay, i'm'a show you.

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01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:41,320
Speaker 1: So this is actually one of the Matt equilyipsticks. It's

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01:19:41,360 --> 01:19:45,400
Speaker 1: called Cider. This is like my favorite go to matt

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01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:48,160
Speaker 1: equilipstick that I have right now. And then it's this one,

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01:19:48,200 --> 01:19:50,600
Speaker 1: and then it's another one called rose, and I like

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01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:53,400
Speaker 1: to use the chestnut liner and then I use either

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01:19:53,479 --> 01:19:56,000
Speaker 1: cider or rose, and then.

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01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,400
Speaker 2: I use glaze and I put it on top.

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01:19:59,479 --> 01:20:02,200
Speaker 1: Except like I said, I dat mine because I don't

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01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:03,360
Speaker 1: be wanting it to mess up.

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01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:05,600
Speaker 5: They sharing.

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01:20:08,880 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 10: Like what drinks the same nigga, We've way too fucking

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01:20:22,320 --> 01:20:24,880
Speaker 10: much anyway, So yes, that's my anem of the week.

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01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:28,160
Speaker 2: And y'all gotta get the chestnut liner.

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01:20:28,200 --> 01:20:30,559
Speaker 1: I'm actually gonna do a TikTok this week and I'm

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01:20:30,560 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 1: gonna show like the difference between like mine chestnut from

1539
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:37,960
Speaker 1: Mac and like Charlotte Tilbury because mine is a really

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01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:40,799
Speaker 1: good dupe and and it's cheaper.

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01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:43,839
Speaker 2: So yeah, So that's.

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01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:50,360
Speaker 1: About putting news on Amazon MM and you know, you

1543
01:20:50,400 --> 01:20:53,640
Speaker 1: can drop it off at their warehouse so it'll be

1544
01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:55,639
Speaker 1: on crime so when people order it, it'll get there

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01:20:55,680 --> 01:20:57,720
Speaker 1: the next day when you drop your stuff off.

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01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:09,120
Speaker 2: M I like, that's why I keep your Atlanta. Yeah,

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01:21:09,160 --> 01:21:09,840
Speaker 2: I'm just saying.

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01:21:09,920 --> 01:21:10,639
Speaker 1: I'm just saying.

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01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:24,040
Speaker 11: I'm just saying, you know, you know, yeah, yeah, but

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01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:26,360
Speaker 11: do something with MEWS for my birthday.

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01:21:26,600 --> 01:21:30,519
Speaker 2: We don't see a little collection, a little one, you know.

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01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:33,559
Speaker 1: Okay, So now we gotta pour your heart out. If

1553
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 1: you want your question to answer on the show, make

1554
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 1: sure you email us at ask poor Minds at gmail

1555
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 1: dot com. Patreon members, make sure you put that in

1556
01:21:40,880 --> 01:21:43,519
Speaker 1: the subject that you're a Patreon member. And you get

1557
01:21:43,520 --> 01:21:46,120
Speaker 1: to skip the line and all that good stuff. Make

1558
01:21:46,120 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 1: sure y'all sign up for our Patreon. We updated weekly

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01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:55,240
Speaker 1: with bonus exclusive content. So we got the questions today.

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01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 1: You want to start, you want me to start a

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01:22:00,920 --> 01:22:01,519
Speaker 1: I got one?

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01:22:01,720 --> 01:22:04,799
Speaker 2: Okay, Hey, Lex Andrea.

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Speaker 1: First, I want to start by saying, y'all are my

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01:22:06,920 --> 01:22:09,040
Speaker 1: best friends in my head, and I love y'all as

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01:22:09,080 --> 01:22:11,880
Speaker 1: a duo. Y'all's dynamic reminds me of me and my

1566
01:22:11,960 --> 01:22:14,599
Speaker 1: best friend, but unfortunately she is no longer with us.

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01:22:14,840 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry, that's so sad. It is so when

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01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:22,600
Speaker 2: I watch y'all, it warms my heart. AnyWho.

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01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:25,360
Speaker 1: I watched the last episode with Shen and it was fire,

1570
01:22:25,439 --> 01:22:27,479
Speaker 1: by the way, but it made me think and reflect

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01:22:27,520 --> 01:22:28,920
Speaker 1: on my recent experiences.

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01:22:29,200 --> 01:22:31,160
Speaker 2: Like Lex, I am very much.

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01:22:30,920 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 1: Of my men, my me and my men, but I

1574
01:22:33,240 --> 01:22:36,400
Speaker 1: was recently in a very toxic relationship and after two years,

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01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:38,280
Speaker 1: I found out this man was cheating on me with

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01:22:38,360 --> 01:22:39,120
Speaker 1: multiple women.

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01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:41,240
Speaker 2: And this was the second time I find out.

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01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:44,640
Speaker 1: Mind you, I finally got fed up and lift his

1579
01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:47,479
Speaker 1: trifling ass, but it definitely fucked up my confidence and

1580
01:22:47,479 --> 01:22:50,479
Speaker 1: self esteem. Like I know I'm dead girl, but I

1581
01:22:50,560 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 1: lost her in this relationship, but I'm slowly making my

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01:22:53,360 --> 01:22:56,280
Speaker 1: way back to her. My question is to you both,

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01:22:56,600 --> 01:22:59,000
Speaker 1: what do you do for yourself to regain your confidence

1584
01:22:59,080 --> 01:23:01,639
Speaker 1: and change the near of being down bad for their

1585
01:23:01,680 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 1: men to being down bad for yourself and reclaiming your

1586
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:09,599
Speaker 1: self worth. Teach me your ways lol PS seeming love

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01:23:09,680 --> 01:23:10,719
Speaker 1: and prayers to you both.

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01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:11,559
Speaker 2: Love y'all.

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01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:14,840
Speaker 1: I think I touched on that a little bit earlier

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01:23:14,840 --> 01:23:21,559
Speaker 1: in the episode. I think leaning on my friends and

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01:23:21,800 --> 01:23:26,680
Speaker 1: therapy helps me, but also just talking to yourself positively.

1592
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:29,160
Speaker 1: And I say this all the time. Y'all. Get a

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01:23:29,240 --> 01:23:33,880
Speaker 1: journal every time, so I write in my journal daily.

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01:23:33,920 --> 01:23:35,599
Speaker 1: Now you have to build up to that. It's very

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01:23:35,640 --> 01:23:37,360
Speaker 1: hard to write in a journal daily because sometimes you

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01:23:37,360 --> 01:23:40,000
Speaker 1: don't feel like it. But I will say when I

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01:23:40,040 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 1: was at my lowest point, I was writing in my

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01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:45,559
Speaker 1: journal daily. So now when my ex does things that

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01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: used to get me back in, I go back and

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01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:49,559
Speaker 1: I read my journal and I remember how he made

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01:23:49,560 --> 01:23:52,320
Speaker 1: me feel. And if I can sit down with the

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01:23:52,400 --> 01:23:57,120
Speaker 1: clear head and write, hey, you're miserable. I hate it

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01:23:57,160 --> 01:24:02,200
Speaker 1: here and I'm literally unhappy. I'm depressed, I don't feel good.

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01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:04,920
Speaker 1: I look in the mirror and I don't recognize who

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01:24:04,920 --> 01:24:08,559
Speaker 1: this person is. I'm literally really, I am so happy

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01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:10,400
Speaker 1: right now. But when I sat down the other day

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01:24:10,479 --> 01:24:13,640
Speaker 1: and I read my journal entries, I cried because I

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01:24:13,640 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 1: felt so and I apologized to myself because I was like,

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01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:19,760
Speaker 1: why when you writing your journal do you play the

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01:24:19,800 --> 01:24:23,120
Speaker 1: Malicia music? But you know what I do.

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01:24:23,280 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm doing that.

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01:24:24,000 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 1: You know what I do? Do I'm not I swear no,

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01:24:26,520 --> 01:24:33,400
Speaker 1: no listen. Sometimes he likes, shut the fuck up, you

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01:24:33,439 --> 01:24:33,840
Speaker 1: don't play?

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01:24:34,800 --> 01:24:35,760
Speaker 2: Sometimes I do.

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01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 1: Because why now, I will say this get me in

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01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:51,759
Speaker 1: the zone to write no listen?

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Speaker 4: I do.

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01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:55,160
Speaker 1: I do play music when I'm writing to my journal,

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01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:57,000
Speaker 1: and I listen to the music that I feel at

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01:24:57,000 --> 01:24:59,360
Speaker 1: the moment. So what I do is I write the day,

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01:24:59,479 --> 01:25:02,200
Speaker 1: I write the time, I write the song that I'm

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01:25:02,240 --> 01:25:04,640
Speaker 1: listening to, and I write the lyric that resonates with

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01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:07,080
Speaker 1: me most. So I do do that, and then I

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01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:09,720
Speaker 1: write my journal entry so I can remember exactly what

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01:25:09,840 --> 01:25:12,880
Speaker 1: moment it wasn't exactly how I felt. So that helped

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01:25:12,880 --> 01:25:15,040
Speaker 1: me with my confidence too. Is I'm like, look where

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01:25:15,080 --> 01:25:17,879
Speaker 1: you are now. Every day is growth when you decide

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01:25:17,880 --> 01:25:21,240
Speaker 1: to move on and grow and feel like you really

1630
01:25:21,280 --> 01:25:24,280
Speaker 1: are that person lean on your friends, lean on people

1631
01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:26,639
Speaker 1: who really love you, lean on people who see you,

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01:25:27,280 --> 01:25:30,800
Speaker 1: lean on people who really fucking see you, and just

1633
01:25:30,920 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 1: make the process to start healing. That's what I did.

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01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:36,599
Speaker 1: But I feel like journaling is amazing. Journaling will make

1635
01:25:36,640 --> 01:25:42,040
Speaker 1: you never fuck with certain people ever again. Friends, family, boyfriends, whatever,

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01:25:42,840 --> 01:25:48,759
Speaker 1: journal everything, because you never forget journaling, doing more self care,

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01:25:48,920 --> 01:25:50,720
Speaker 1: like I feel like you as a person have to

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01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:54,559
Speaker 1: constantly poor NCO stuff. Journaling is something that I'm still

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01:25:54,600 --> 01:25:57,600
Speaker 1: working on. Like I do journal but I am not

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01:25:57,800 --> 01:25:59,719
Speaker 1: to a point to where I do it every day.

1641
01:26:00,200 --> 01:26:00,640
Speaker 2: But I.

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01:26:02,400 --> 01:26:06,200
Speaker 1: Make personal time for myself every day though I feel

1643
01:26:06,200 --> 01:26:08,759
Speaker 1: like life is crazy because.

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01:26:10,320 --> 01:26:12,200
Speaker 2: No, but sometimes I don't answer your cause.

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01:26:12,240 --> 01:26:14,519
Speaker 1: And then when you call me again, I'll answer because

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01:26:14,560 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 1: when you called me, I was reading my Bible, I

1647
01:26:17,280 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 1: was stretching, I was medita. Excuse me, I was meditating.

1648
01:26:20,960 --> 01:26:23,040
Speaker 1: I was doing like my little morning routine with my

1649
01:26:23,120 --> 01:26:26,679
Speaker 1: supplements and taking my vitamins, drinking my smoothie.

1650
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:27,519
Speaker 2: Like you have to.

1651
01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:30,160
Speaker 1: Take time to take care of yourself. You have to

1652
01:26:30,520 --> 01:26:33,479
Speaker 1: work out. I think if you feel your days, this

1653
01:26:33,640 --> 01:26:35,519
Speaker 1: is my thing. This is something that helps me get

1654
01:26:35,560 --> 01:26:37,799
Speaker 1: through things. I don't know if it'll.

1655
01:26:37,640 --> 01:26:38,080
Speaker 2: Work for you.

1656
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:41,439
Speaker 1: But when you go in through shit, if you keep

1657
01:26:41,479 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 1: yourself busy, it helps keep your mind off of the bullshit.

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01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:52,040
Speaker 1: I don't mind, don't have shit to do, but sitn't think. Yes,

1659
01:26:52,560 --> 01:26:54,599
Speaker 1: you don't have nothing to do but sit and think

1660
01:26:54,760 --> 01:26:57,120
Speaker 1: and think about what went wrong or what you could

1661
01:26:57,160 --> 01:26:59,559
Speaker 1: have did better or whatever. But if you're keeping yourself

1662
01:26:59,600 --> 01:27:02,960
Speaker 1: busy and you're constantly pouring into yourself, you're not even

1663
01:27:02,960 --> 01:27:05,920
Speaker 1: gonna have time to think about this. Sit and drink

1664
01:27:05,920 --> 01:27:08,120
Speaker 1: a lot of water because you're gonna pee all day.

1665
01:27:08,160 --> 01:27:09,720
Speaker 1: And then if you peeing all day, you ain't got

1666
01:27:09,760 --> 01:27:11,320
Speaker 1: time to think about that. You gotta pee, you gotta

1667
01:27:11,360 --> 01:27:13,000
Speaker 1: order toilet paper, you gotta do a lot of stuff.

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01:27:13,000 --> 01:27:15,760
Speaker 2: It's a lot you got to do. Then to be

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01:27:15,840 --> 01:27:16,760
Speaker 2: thinking about that.

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01:27:16,760 --> 01:27:20,360
Speaker 1: Niggas occupy your time with stuff that's self love too.

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01:27:20,479 --> 01:27:22,880
Speaker 1: I feel like us getting in the gym, Like I've

1672
01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:24,320
Speaker 1: been in the gym for the past two months, but

1673
01:27:24,360 --> 01:27:26,960
Speaker 1: now we have a trainer, Now I'm eating healthy. Most

1674
01:27:26,960 --> 01:27:29,840
Speaker 1: of my day is occupied with what I'm consuming. Did

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01:27:29,840 --> 01:27:30,799
Speaker 1: I get enough protein?

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01:27:31,080 --> 01:27:32,360
Speaker 2: Did I dark enough water?

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01:27:32,760 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 11: Yeah?

1678
01:27:33,240 --> 01:27:35,599
Speaker 1: Like I'm really trying to make myself a better person.

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01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:37,600
Speaker 1: That's what my baby consumed with I'm not consumed with

1680
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:39,920
Speaker 1: if this nigga think this and this and that about me. Hey,

1681
01:27:39,960 --> 01:27:41,920
Speaker 1: you love me or you don't. And I'm telling you,

1682
01:27:42,040 --> 01:27:48,200
Speaker 1: meditation sounds so cliche until you actually really start practicing

1683
01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:50,760
Speaker 1: this shit. And it don't have to be long, you know.

1684
01:27:50,840 --> 01:27:52,360
Speaker 1: I think a lot of the time when people think

1685
01:27:52,400 --> 01:27:55,880
Speaker 1: about meditation, people be thinking of like, oh, you sitting

1686
01:27:55,920 --> 01:27:58,920
Speaker 1: there h for an hour. It don't gotta be there.

1687
01:27:59,120 --> 01:28:01,320
Speaker 1: You could be teens, it could be five minutes. And

1688
01:28:01,360 --> 01:28:03,640
Speaker 1: then if you new to it, you could do guided meditation.

1689
01:28:03,760 --> 01:28:06,880
Speaker 1: There's plenty of videos that you could look up on YouTube.

1690
01:28:07,160 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 2: You could download.

1691
01:28:08,760 --> 01:28:11,320
Speaker 1: It's one on Netflix. You can download the calm up

1692
01:28:12,120 --> 01:28:15,559
Speaker 1: and that's free. They have free meditation little videos or whatever.

1693
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:17,560
Speaker 1: And like, you just sit there for ten minutes, and

1694
01:28:17,600 --> 01:28:21,240
Speaker 1: you will be surprised. Sitting there for ten minutes, clearing

1695
01:28:21,280 --> 01:28:24,360
Speaker 1: your mind to everything, not thinking about nothing, but just

1696
01:28:24,400 --> 01:28:27,200
Speaker 1: focusing on you, being there, present in the moment will

1697
01:28:27,320 --> 01:28:29,200
Speaker 1: change your mood so dramatically.

1698
01:28:29,200 --> 01:28:30,599
Speaker 2: When you open your eyes, you'd be.

1699
01:28:30,600 --> 01:28:34,599
Speaker 1: Like, oh, you gotta stop giving you gotta stop giving

1700
01:28:34,600 --> 01:28:37,280
Speaker 1: people the power to affect your day. Yeah, you control

1701
01:28:37,320 --> 01:28:40,040
Speaker 1: your own You control everything you control your thoughts, you

1702
01:28:40,080 --> 01:28:42,800
Speaker 1: control how you feel everything. All right, this is a

1703
01:28:42,800 --> 01:28:45,120
Speaker 1: long ass episode. They're gonna be happy about this one.

1704
01:28:45,200 --> 01:28:48,760
Speaker 2: Oh gizy we have that's not that long. I thought

1705
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:49,920
Speaker 2: she's gonna say like two hours.

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01:28:50,000 --> 01:28:52,679
Speaker 1: Question number two, Hey, Lessen Dre, I literally just stumbled

1707
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:54,679
Speaker 1: on your talk show. Thank you. It's a talk show

1708
01:28:54,960 --> 01:28:57,879
Speaker 1: when I was looking back for female podcasts on YouTube.

1709
01:28:57,920 --> 01:28:59,400
Speaker 1: And when I tell you, I've been back to back

1710
01:28:59,560 --> 01:29:02,280
Speaker 1: watching your videos, I'm obsessed. I found out that both

1711
01:29:02,280 --> 01:29:04,479
Speaker 1: of you ladies lost a parent, and I lost my

1712
01:29:04,520 --> 01:29:07,000
Speaker 1: mom a year ago, and I found comforting alcohol and

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01:29:07,080 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 1: drugs only weed. And I guess my question is, how

1714
01:29:10,000 --> 01:29:12,000
Speaker 1: do you guys find healthy waste to grieve instead of

1715
01:29:12,040 --> 01:29:14,719
Speaker 1: spiraling down? Can you give me some tips and advice?

1716
01:29:15,000 --> 01:29:17,639
Speaker 1: I'm really lost in pushing everybody who cares away from

1717
01:29:17,640 --> 01:29:19,880
Speaker 1: me because I don't know how to control my emotions

1718
01:29:20,280 --> 01:29:22,519
Speaker 1: and can't really deal with the loss of my mom.

1719
01:29:22,720 --> 01:29:25,880
Speaker 1: Anything helps, well, girl, First of all, it's the same

1720
01:29:25,920 --> 01:29:29,800
Speaker 1: way I was grieving at one point. Not drugs good,

1721
01:29:29,920 --> 01:29:33,599
Speaker 1: but alcohol. You was smoking a little one too. Weed.

1722
01:29:35,120 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 2: No, that was during the pandemic.

1723
01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:38,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're right, you're right, You're right. Yeah, my

1724
01:29:38,840 --> 01:29:43,360
Speaker 1: dad passed away like end of twenty twenty so, and

1725
01:29:43,400 --> 01:29:47,320
Speaker 1: I was just smoking weed because Beach I used to like, yeah, yeah,

1726
01:29:47,400 --> 01:29:52,960
Speaker 1: but go yeah. But anyways, But honestly, though, lex is

1727
01:29:53,040 --> 01:29:56,000
Speaker 1: right though, I'm not like I don't do drugs like

1728
01:29:56,080 --> 01:29:58,519
Speaker 1: so the fact that I was smoking weed a lot

1729
01:29:58,640 --> 01:30:01,400
Speaker 1: at one point, I had a lot going on. That

1730
01:30:01,520 --> 01:30:04,599
Speaker 1: was before my dad passed away. But when my dad

1731
01:30:04,640 --> 01:30:08,400
Speaker 1: did pass away, I was like drinking a lot, and

1732
01:30:09,080 --> 01:30:14,240
Speaker 1: I had to get to a point to where I realized, Okay,

1733
01:30:14,240 --> 01:30:17,040
Speaker 1: this isn't healthy, Like this isn't good, and like you're

1734
01:30:17,120 --> 01:30:20,599
Speaker 1: doing this to run away from your problem. That's when

1735
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:22,719
Speaker 1: I got rid of all the liquor in my house.

1736
01:30:22,880 --> 01:30:25,120
Speaker 1: I stopped having liquor in my house. I did.

1737
01:30:26,000 --> 01:30:26,760
Speaker 2: I decided that.

1738
01:30:26,760 --> 01:30:30,320
Speaker 1: I was going to do a fast and so I

1739
01:30:30,360 --> 01:30:34,920
Speaker 1: didn't drink for forty days, and just doing that really

1740
01:30:35,000 --> 01:30:38,559
Speaker 1: kind of got me back centered. I think that for

1741
01:30:38,680 --> 01:30:41,400
Speaker 1: some people though, and I will say this, for some people,

1742
01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:43,600
Speaker 1: it is really that easy. Like I think me and

1743
01:30:43,640 --> 01:30:45,240
Speaker 1: you are both kind of like that, like we don't

1744
01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 1: really have like addictive personalities. It's easy for us to

1745
01:30:48,400 --> 01:30:51,720
Speaker 1: cut off anything. I'm not sure if you're that type

1746
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:54,599
Speaker 1: of person. But I feel like maybe you should try that,

1747
01:30:55,000 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 1: and then if that doesn't work for you, then maybe

1748
01:30:56,960 --> 01:31:01,200
Speaker 1: you should like try to find a group, cause I

1749
01:31:01,200 --> 01:31:04,080
Speaker 1: think sometimes the root of a problem is like just

1750
01:31:04,120 --> 01:31:06,439
Speaker 1: cutting it off, or at least trying to cut it

1751
01:31:06,479 --> 01:31:09,120
Speaker 1: off cold turkey. And then when you can look at

1752
01:31:09,160 --> 01:31:11,519
Speaker 1: things from a clear point of view and a clear mind,

1753
01:31:12,760 --> 01:31:14,639
Speaker 1: sometimes you don't want to go back to the ways

1754
01:31:14,680 --> 01:31:17,080
Speaker 1: that you was once partaking in.

1755
01:31:17,240 --> 01:31:18,320
Speaker 2: Like that's how I feel.

1756
01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:21,559
Speaker 1: When I didn't drink for forty days, I was like,

1757
01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:22,280
Speaker 1: what the fuck?

1758
01:31:22,320 --> 01:31:24,519
Speaker 2: Why am I getting drunk every day? Why am I

1759
01:31:24,520 --> 01:31:25,719
Speaker 2: getting sucked up every day?

1760
01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 1: Then I really to be funnest once you cleaned your

1761
01:31:29,040 --> 01:31:30,479
Speaker 1: body of all of this stuff. I don't know if

1762
01:31:30,520 --> 01:31:32,040
Speaker 1: a lot of y'all have ever did that, but if

1763
01:31:32,080 --> 01:31:36,200
Speaker 1: you don't drink for like thirty days, forty days, sixty days,

1764
01:31:36,600 --> 01:31:40,439
Speaker 1: your body just feels so clean and so pure, especially

1765
01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:43,040
Speaker 1: if you eat and write and you working out and

1766
01:31:43,080 --> 01:31:45,800
Speaker 1: doing all of these things and not drinking, you just

1767
01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:47,679
Speaker 1: feel so good, and it puts you in a space

1768
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:49,479
Speaker 1: where it's like, Okay, don't get me wrong, I definitely

1769
01:31:49,520 --> 01:31:51,320
Speaker 1: want to do a little turn up sometimes, but why

1770
01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:54,400
Speaker 1: am I doing this every day? It's more of like

1771
01:31:54,439 --> 01:31:56,559
Speaker 1: I'm trying to escape something. I'm trying to get away

1772
01:31:56,600 --> 01:31:59,320
Speaker 1: from something. And you can't never deal with life's head

1773
01:31:59,400 --> 01:32:02,000
Speaker 1: on if you're constantly running away from your problems and

1774
01:32:02,080 --> 01:32:04,160
Speaker 1: trying to find an escape. And then on top of that,

1775
01:32:04,240 --> 01:32:08,280
Speaker 1: let's be real doing shit like that eventually, like it's

1776
01:32:08,280 --> 01:32:10,960
Speaker 1: fine because we're young now, but eventually it's gonna give

1777
01:32:10,960 --> 01:32:12,880
Speaker 1: you all type of health problem. You don't want to

1778
01:32:12,880 --> 01:32:14,600
Speaker 1: die young, you don't want to end up with the

1779
01:32:14,720 --> 01:32:17,080
Speaker 1: roses of the liver and all of these stuff. So

1780
01:32:17,800 --> 01:32:19,000
Speaker 1: I just think you need to try to do with

1781
01:32:19,040 --> 01:32:21,680
Speaker 1: detox and then if that doesn't work for you and

1782
01:32:21,760 --> 01:32:23,840
Speaker 1: you still feel like it's a vice and it's something

1783
01:32:23,840 --> 01:32:25,560
Speaker 1: that you're struggling with, I think you should try to

1784
01:32:25,600 --> 01:32:29,240
Speaker 1: find a group of people, like a what is it

1785
01:32:29,280 --> 01:32:33,000
Speaker 1: called AA group or something like that. Well, I'll say

1786
01:32:33,040 --> 01:32:35,960
Speaker 1: for me, when I first lost my mom, it was

1787
01:32:36,280 --> 01:32:39,000
Speaker 1: literally unexpected, like I was literally on the way to

1788
01:32:39,080 --> 01:32:45,519
Speaker 1: a photo shoot and died. So I think everybody needs

1789
01:32:45,560 --> 01:32:48,200
Speaker 1: to understand first of all, everybody agrees different, So don't

1790
01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:50,519
Speaker 1: be hard on yourself, because this is how you're choosing

1791
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:54,000
Speaker 1: a greed grieving is in stages. You're still anger, you're

1792
01:32:54,000 --> 01:32:57,120
Speaker 1: gonna be mad, you're gonna blame yourself. It's so many

1793
01:32:57,160 --> 01:32:59,920
Speaker 1: different stages of grieving. So I think, first of all,

1794
01:32:59,920 --> 01:33:02,800
Speaker 1: you need to give your always give yourself grace, and

1795
01:33:02,880 --> 01:33:07,560
Speaker 1: then understand that this is a journey, a never ending journey.

1796
01:33:07,640 --> 01:33:10,200
Speaker 1: It's never gonna end. And I at first, yeah, okay,

1797
01:33:10,240 --> 01:33:11,800
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get over this one day and I'm gonna

1798
01:33:11,800 --> 01:33:14,360
Speaker 1: be okay. No. Yeah, I came to the terms with

1799
01:33:14,680 --> 01:33:17,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to be dealing with grieving with my mother

1800
01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:20,559
Speaker 1: until the day I die, and I'm pay with that now.

1801
01:33:21,200 --> 01:33:23,760
Speaker 1: So and now I got to the point to where

1802
01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:25,760
Speaker 1: I was probably like maybe four or five months into

1803
01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:28,839
Speaker 1: her passing, and I was like, I need to stop crying.

1804
01:33:28,960 --> 01:33:31,519
Speaker 1: I cried. I was crying literally every day. It wasn't

1805
01:33:31,560 --> 01:33:33,679
Speaker 1: a day I didn't cry five months straight. I cried

1806
01:33:33,960 --> 01:33:39,360
Speaker 1: for five months straight. No cap I cried. So I

1807
01:33:39,360 --> 01:33:41,000
Speaker 1: got to a point where I was like, I need

1808
01:33:41,040 --> 01:33:44,160
Speaker 1: to stop crying. I need to be okay, But no,

1809
01:33:44,240 --> 01:33:46,400
Speaker 1: you don't. It's okay to cry, and it's okay to

1810
01:33:46,439 --> 01:33:49,400
Speaker 1: not be and it's okay to not be okay. So

1811
01:33:49,560 --> 01:33:52,880
Speaker 1: now when I you gotta let yourself feel you have

1812
01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 1: to talk about it. So for me, what I started

1813
01:33:55,280 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 1: to do is I try to put it away and

1814
01:33:58,080 --> 01:33:59,840
Speaker 1: not think about it. I try to not think about

1815
01:33:59,880 --> 01:34:02,000
Speaker 1: my because I was like, let me go on tour.

1816
01:34:02,080 --> 01:34:03,920
Speaker 1: I gotta show up, I gotta do this, I gotta

1817
01:34:03,920 --> 01:34:06,400
Speaker 1: be lex p, I gotta be funny. But you know what,

1818
01:34:07,240 --> 01:34:09,680
Speaker 1: me trying to put those feelings to the side. I

1819
01:34:09,720 --> 01:34:12,320
Speaker 1: started leaning on people. That was bad for me. I started,

1820
01:34:12,680 --> 01:34:15,000
Speaker 1: you know, drinking a lot as well. I started just

1821
01:34:15,040 --> 01:34:18,160
Speaker 1: trying to not think about it. But honestly, the more

1822
01:34:18,200 --> 01:34:21,040
Speaker 1: you think about it, the more you can grieve and

1823
01:34:21,200 --> 01:34:24,120
Speaker 1: accept the fact that she's gone. And now I can

1824
01:34:24,160 --> 01:34:26,519
Speaker 1: talk about my mom in love. When I tell you,

1825
01:34:26,560 --> 01:34:28,120
Speaker 1: I'll be thinking about shit that my mama did and

1826
01:34:28,120 --> 01:34:30,519
Speaker 1: I'll be cracking the fuck up because that lady was

1827
01:34:30,560 --> 01:34:34,000
Speaker 1: crazy as hell. But I'm to that point now, Yeah,

1828
01:34:34,040 --> 01:34:36,840
Speaker 1: because I talk about it. You have to talk about it.

1829
01:34:37,240 --> 01:34:39,600
Speaker 1: You have to, and you have to surround yourself with

1830
01:34:39,680 --> 01:34:43,160
Speaker 1: people that are okay with listening. So get a therapist

1831
01:34:43,600 --> 01:34:47,720
Speaker 1: first of all, especially a therapist that focuses and has

1832
01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:52,040
Speaker 1: a what's it called a specialty in grieving. Because I

1833
01:34:52,040 --> 01:34:54,400
Speaker 1: did have a different therapist before, but once my mom passed,

1834
01:34:54,439 --> 01:34:56,840
Speaker 1: I did have to change therapists because I needed somebody

1835
01:34:56,880 --> 01:35:00,320
Speaker 1: who specialized in grieving, because I needed to know exactly

1836
01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:02,280
Speaker 1: what to do. I mean. And then once I got

1837
01:35:02,280 --> 01:35:04,879
Speaker 1: my therapist, she was like, Okay, you're in this stage.

1838
01:35:04,960 --> 01:35:07,639
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, she let me know, Okay, you're

1839
01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:09,320
Speaker 1: in stage three. By the time I got to her,

1840
01:35:09,320 --> 01:35:11,160
Speaker 1: I was in stage three. I didn't even realize there

1841
01:35:11,200 --> 01:35:14,519
Speaker 1: were stages. So I was like, oh, I was in denial.

1842
01:35:14,600 --> 01:35:17,640
Speaker 1: It's a denial phase. So it's so much so I

1843
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:21,960
Speaker 1: feel like, reach out to professionals, talk about it, let

1844
01:35:22,040 --> 01:35:27,120
Speaker 1: yourself grieve, give yourself grace. I still cry. I you know,

1845
01:35:27,200 --> 01:35:30,479
Speaker 1: it's just crazy because you know, I'm in my mid thirties,

1846
01:35:30,520 --> 01:35:33,479
Speaker 1: I'm about to turn thirty four, and you know, I'm

1847
01:35:33,720 --> 01:35:35,960
Speaker 1: it's crazy because we're at that age, unfortunately, where a

1848
01:35:36,000 --> 01:35:37,760
Speaker 1: lot of people are starting to lose their parents. You know,

1849
01:35:37,800 --> 01:35:41,080
Speaker 1: our parents are in their sixties seventies now for some people,

1850
01:35:41,160 --> 01:35:44,639
Speaker 1: you know, your parents didn't have you necessarily young. So

1851
01:35:45,520 --> 01:35:47,760
Speaker 1: one of my very close friends from high school, I

1852
01:35:47,800 --> 01:35:51,920
Speaker 1: found out she lost her dad this past Sunday, and

1853
01:35:52,800 --> 01:35:55,439
Speaker 1: it triggered me every time somebody loses a parent, it

1854
01:35:55,439 --> 01:35:58,160
Speaker 1: triggered me because I knew him, like I used to

1855
01:35:58,160 --> 01:36:00,439
Speaker 1: be in his house, like if he used to come

1856
01:36:00,479 --> 01:36:04,000
Speaker 1: to our volleyball game. So everything's gonna trigger you for

1857
01:36:04,040 --> 01:36:08,040
Speaker 1: a while. I still cried. I literally cried yesterday behind

1858
01:36:08,040 --> 01:36:10,360
Speaker 1: my mom, you know. So, I think what it is

1859
01:36:10,360 --> 01:36:12,120
Speaker 1: is just you have to realize it's a process and

1860
01:36:12,200 --> 01:36:16,200
Speaker 1: give yourself grace and time, but understand that it's never ending. Yeah,

1861
01:36:16,240 --> 01:36:20,640
Speaker 1: but you have to find healthier ways to cope. The

1862
01:36:20,720 --> 01:36:21,920
Speaker 1: alcohol not gonna help.

1863
01:36:22,200 --> 01:36:24,680
Speaker 2: Therapy is very important. I agree with Lix on it.

1864
01:36:24,840 --> 01:36:28,200
Speaker 1: I started going to therapy maybe like two months after

1865
01:36:28,240 --> 01:36:30,960
Speaker 1: my dad passed away. I didn't wait that long, like,

1866
01:36:31,040 --> 01:36:34,519
Speaker 1: I started going immediately, and I had a counselor who

1867
01:36:35,040 --> 01:36:39,559
Speaker 1: you know, specializing grieving as well, and it helped me

1868
01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:39,920
Speaker 1: a lot.

1869
01:36:40,400 --> 01:36:42,120
Speaker 2: And then also I think it's really important.

1870
01:36:42,120 --> 01:36:44,240
Speaker 1: I'm not sure because you didn't say how your parents

1871
01:36:44,280 --> 01:36:47,240
Speaker 1: passed away, but I think that two people have to

1872
01:36:47,280 --> 01:36:52,080
Speaker 1: realize that a lot of the time, when you're grieving

1873
01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:54,719
Speaker 1: the loss of a parent, you can kind of fall

1874
01:36:54,760 --> 01:37:00,160
Speaker 1: into those same habits that got them in that perdickymun Hello,

1875
01:37:00,439 --> 01:37:02,519
Speaker 1: Like with my dad, my dad used to drink my

1876
01:37:02,600 --> 01:37:04,360
Speaker 1: whole life, and like when I was a kid, my

1877
01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:07,720
Speaker 1: mom don't drink at all, and she always bring up

1878
01:37:07,760 --> 01:37:10,200
Speaker 1: to me like she'd be like, it's so funny because

1879
01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:12,439
Speaker 1: when you was younger used to say I would never drink,

1880
01:37:12,600 --> 01:37:14,960
Speaker 1: Like I'm never gonna drink alcohol because I don't like

1881
01:37:15,400 --> 01:37:18,240
Speaker 1: how drunk daddy be and I don't like how he

1882
01:37:18,360 --> 01:37:20,680
Speaker 1: be like stumbling and like doing. And my dad was

1883
01:37:20,720 --> 01:37:23,400
Speaker 1: like he wasn't like an abusive drink or nothing like that,

1884
01:37:23,720 --> 01:37:26,200
Speaker 1: but he used to be turned looking crazy, and I

1885
01:37:26,280 --> 01:37:28,760
Speaker 1: used to be like, I'm never gonna do this shit,

1886
01:37:29,040 --> 01:37:32,840
Speaker 1: Like what the fuck he be looking crazy? And it's

1887
01:37:32,880 --> 01:37:35,759
Speaker 1: so funny because you know, you become grown, you start

1888
01:37:35,960 --> 01:37:38,559
Speaker 1: trying different things. And then I started drinking and I

1889
01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:40,160
Speaker 1: got to a point to where I was drinking a lot.

1890
01:37:40,200 --> 01:37:42,160
Speaker 1: And then I would call my mom, especially after my

1891
01:37:42,240 --> 01:37:44,720
Speaker 1: dad passed away, and I would be like crying to

1892
01:37:44,800 --> 01:37:47,160
Speaker 1: her drunk, it's fuck on the phone. One thing about

1893
01:37:47,160 --> 01:37:48,600
Speaker 1: my mom was she gonna inswer the phone when I

1894
01:37:48,680 --> 01:37:50,360
Speaker 1: call her, so it'll be like two in the morning,

1895
01:37:51,000 --> 01:37:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm drinking a fu drunk as fuck, I'm on the

1896
01:37:53,200 --> 01:37:55,040
Speaker 1: phone with her, and I'm like crying and I'm like, oh,

1897
01:37:55,120 --> 01:37:58,280
Speaker 1: I missed Daddy. She like, why do you keep drinking

1898
01:37:58,280 --> 01:37:59,960
Speaker 1: so much? Remember when you used to say you was

1899
01:38:00,080 --> 01:38:02,360
Speaker 1: never gonna drink. Remember when you say he was never

1900
01:38:02,360 --> 01:38:03,800
Speaker 1: gonna do that? And you know that that's how your

1901
01:38:03,880 --> 01:38:05,640
Speaker 1: dad got sick because.

1902
01:38:05,720 --> 01:38:08,120
Speaker 2: My dad had diabetes.

1903
01:38:07,560 --> 01:38:09,600
Speaker 1: Like I talked about earlier in the episode, and he

1904
01:38:09,680 --> 01:38:11,720
Speaker 1: had heart problems and all type of stuff, but then

1905
01:38:11,960 --> 01:38:14,080
Speaker 1: he would drink all the time. So then he wasn't

1906
01:38:14,080 --> 01:38:17,639
Speaker 1: taking his medicine because you can't mix the medicine with alcohol,

1907
01:38:17,720 --> 01:38:20,519
Speaker 1: so you having to make a decision, and he chose

1908
01:38:21,200 --> 01:38:23,840
Speaker 1: to drink, and so ultimately that's how he ended up

1909
01:38:23,880 --> 01:38:26,920
Speaker 1: having like diabetic strokes because he wasn't taking his insulin

1910
01:38:26,960 --> 01:38:28,439
Speaker 1: and he was drinking and stuff. And so my mom

1911
01:38:28,479 --> 01:38:31,240
Speaker 1: would just be like, why why do you be doing

1912
01:38:31,280 --> 01:38:36,479
Speaker 1: it when you know like the end results, And so

1913
01:38:36,600 --> 01:38:38,840
Speaker 1: you have to like ast yourself that type of stuff too.

1914
01:38:38,880 --> 01:38:41,320
Speaker 1: And it's like, I think sometimes it's hard to think

1915
01:38:41,320 --> 01:38:42,240
Speaker 1: about that stuff when.

1916
01:38:42,080 --> 01:38:43,759
Speaker 2: You young, because we so young.

1917
01:38:43,880 --> 01:38:46,640
Speaker 1: You know, you'd be like, oh, I'm healthy, I'm good,

1918
01:38:46,160 --> 01:38:48,840
Speaker 1: but you're not thinking about the effects that he's gonna

1919
01:38:48,880 --> 01:38:54,679
Speaker 1: have on you long term. Dad he got in his twenties, twenties, thirties.

1920
01:38:54,760 --> 01:38:56,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was before I was born.

1921
01:38:56,280 --> 01:38:58,840
Speaker 1: The first time my mom had her heart problems, I

1922
01:38:58,880 --> 01:39:01,519
Speaker 1: remember it was when my great aunt passed and my

1923
01:39:01,560 --> 01:39:04,120
Speaker 1: mom was literally thirty one. That was the first time

1924
01:39:04,160 --> 01:39:06,479
Speaker 1: she was Yeah, doctor was like, hey, you need to

1925
01:39:06,520 --> 01:39:09,160
Speaker 1: calm down your stress. Your blood pressure is high. That

1926
01:39:09,320 --> 01:39:13,120
Speaker 1: was the first sign, and that was what ultimately you know,

1927
01:39:14,040 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 1: so it's like passage to your body. When my mom

1928
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:18,479
Speaker 1: passed and I went to the doctor, remember I was

1929
01:39:18,520 --> 01:39:22,120
Speaker 1: having all my medical issues. I had high blood pressure.

1930
01:39:22,120 --> 01:39:25,479
Speaker 1: He was like, you're stressed your blood pressures. I was like, hey,

1931
01:39:25,560 --> 01:39:27,160
Speaker 1: I need to start eating right, I need to go

1932
01:39:27,200 --> 01:39:30,240
Speaker 1: to the gym. I was like, I'm not doing this

1933
01:39:30,400 --> 01:39:32,599
Speaker 1: to my nephews. I'm not doing this to my friends.

1934
01:39:32,680 --> 01:39:34,400
Speaker 1: I'm not doing this to my sister. Like we all

1935
01:39:34,439 --> 01:39:37,240
Speaker 1: supposed to grow old together, God willing, you know, So

1936
01:39:37,320 --> 01:39:39,080
Speaker 1: if you can do anything to prevent that, you know,

1937
01:39:39,200 --> 01:39:42,160
Speaker 1: do that, but just fine healthy ways, you know.

1938
01:39:43,280 --> 01:39:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, because you.

1939
01:39:45,080 --> 01:39:46,960
Speaker 1: Know, I think I don't want to put you on

1940
01:39:47,000 --> 01:39:48,680
Speaker 1: the spot top because then you lose you lost your

1941
01:39:48,720 --> 01:39:51,519
Speaker 1: mom as well. Yes, seven years ago, Uh, huh, And

1942
01:39:51,560 --> 01:39:54,200
Speaker 1: I went through the same process, being angry, all the

1943
01:39:54,200 --> 01:39:57,479
Speaker 1: different stages of grieving, feeling like it was my fault

1944
01:39:57,520 --> 01:40:01,599
Speaker 1: or like I should have done something more. They everything

1945
01:40:01,640 --> 01:40:04,479
Speaker 1: that they said, I one hundred percent agree. You need

1946
01:40:04,520 --> 01:40:07,400
Speaker 1: to see a therapist. I literally just cried two days ago,

1947
01:40:07,800 --> 01:40:11,240
Speaker 1: same like Reminiscent and it was like years and seven years.

1948
01:40:11,240 --> 01:40:14,080
Speaker 1: And what you said about you know that you're gonna

1949
01:40:14,080 --> 01:40:15,920
Speaker 1: be grieving your mom until the day you die.

1950
01:40:15,960 --> 01:40:16,800
Speaker 2: That is so true.

1951
01:40:16,960 --> 01:40:20,240
Speaker 1: And you're gonna always be thinking, even if it's happy thoughts. Right,

1952
01:40:20,320 --> 01:40:23,000
Speaker 1: that's a process of grieving too, because you're missing this person.

1953
01:40:23,040 --> 01:40:25,400
Speaker 1: You're thinking about this person. You want them to be

1954
01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:28,479
Speaker 1: there for these big moms.

1955
01:40:27,479 --> 01:40:28,320
Speaker 2: To celebrate you.

1956
01:40:28,560 --> 01:40:32,760
Speaker 1: So you know, stay prayed up, get that journal, get

1957
01:40:32,760 --> 01:40:35,280
Speaker 1: a therapist, and what I do. Also, I have a

1958
01:40:35,320 --> 01:40:38,360
Speaker 1: group of friends, Like you said, we're getting older and

1959
01:40:38,400 --> 01:40:40,840
Speaker 1: we have friends that are losing their parents, so we

1960
01:40:40,960 --> 01:40:42,000
Speaker 1: kind of buckle together.

1961
01:40:42,400 --> 01:40:45,439
Speaker 2: We lean and support each other so that if you're.

1962
01:40:45,280 --> 01:40:48,240
Speaker 1: Having a bad day it's Father's Day, Mother's Day, whatever,

1963
01:40:48,800 --> 01:40:51,080
Speaker 1: we stick together and we're like, hey, how are you.

1964
01:40:51,120 --> 01:40:53,240
Speaker 1: We're checking on. We're like that support group for each other.

1965
01:40:53,280 --> 01:40:56,519
Speaker 1: So I think that's also very important. It is for

1966
01:40:56,600 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 1: sure the mother's day and father's Father's hard. And then

1967
01:41:01,000 --> 01:41:03,559
Speaker 1: August is coming up, like and it's so crazy because

1968
01:41:03,880 --> 01:41:06,880
Speaker 1: lex birthday is in August, so it's always like a

1969
01:41:06,960 --> 01:41:09,280
Speaker 1: time for celebration, which I feel like it's crazy because

1970
01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:11,040
Speaker 1: it's kind of the same thing. Well, my birthday went

1971
01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:15,840
Speaker 1: because me and Lex' mom have the same birthday. Celebrate. Oh,

1972
01:41:15,960 --> 01:41:18,240
Speaker 1: your birthday was very hard for me. Yeah, at the

1973
01:41:18,280 --> 01:41:22,479
Speaker 1: same time, yeah, you know, celebrate, Yeah, but you're I mean,

1974
01:41:22,479 --> 01:41:23,920
Speaker 1: it's gonna be like that for that and it's gonna

1975
01:41:23,920 --> 01:41:25,479
Speaker 1: be like that for every And it's the same thing

1976
01:41:25,520 --> 01:41:28,320
Speaker 1: when it comes to Lex's birthday too, because her birthday

1977
01:41:28,400 --> 01:41:31,320
Speaker 1: is August. Her birthday is August seventeenth. My dad passed

1978
01:41:31,360 --> 01:41:35,439
Speaker 1: away on August nine. His funeral was on August twentieth,

1979
01:41:35,640 --> 01:41:39,799
Speaker 1: and then his birthday is August twenty sixth. So August

1980
01:41:39,960 --> 01:41:42,479
Speaker 1: is like always a crazy month for me. But then

1981
01:41:42,479 --> 01:41:45,280
Speaker 1: it's my friend birthday, so we gotta this crazy because

1982
01:41:45,280 --> 01:41:47,800
Speaker 1: April was like that too my mom. You know, it

1983
01:41:47,840 --> 01:41:50,200
Speaker 1: was like my sister birthdays in May, which is right

1984
01:41:50,240 --> 01:41:54,599
Speaker 1: after my mom. It happens like my mom's birthday, her

1985
01:41:54,720 --> 01:41:57,920
Speaker 1: death passing and then Mother's Day is all within like

1986
01:41:57,960 --> 01:41:59,200
Speaker 1: a three four week.

1987
01:41:59,160 --> 01:42:00,360
Speaker 2: That's how my dad too.

1988
01:42:00,439 --> 01:42:04,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's crazy and so yeah, and it's just hard.

1989
01:42:04,120 --> 01:42:05,880
Speaker 1: But it's like you have to have people around you

1990
01:42:05,920 --> 01:42:08,160
Speaker 1: that you can lean on. Like Ty was saying, you know,

1991
01:42:08,200 --> 01:42:11,200
Speaker 1: you have to go to therapy. You just have to

1992
01:42:11,240 --> 01:42:14,120
Speaker 1: have a good support group, and you can't fall into

1993
01:42:14,640 --> 01:42:20,479
Speaker 1: bad habits. You have to create good habits and create

1994
01:42:20,560 --> 01:42:23,599
Speaker 1: things that's gonna make you happy, Like put yourself into

1995
01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:27,320
Speaker 1: things that make you feel like you're living in your purpose.

1996
01:42:27,960 --> 01:42:32,480
Speaker 1: Don't yeah, don't go towards like the drugs and alcohol.

1997
01:42:32,560 --> 01:42:35,160
Speaker 1: That's it's not gonna get you nowhere you want to

1998
01:42:35,200 --> 01:42:38,760
Speaker 1: be is make sure you keep up with y'all getting

1999
01:42:38,800 --> 01:42:41,840
Speaker 1: my hair done, Yeah, but about yourself. Look, I got

2000
01:42:41,840 --> 01:42:43,200
Speaker 1: my hair done the other day. Shout out to co

2001
01:42:44,080 --> 01:42:46,960
Speaker 1: y'all go to Ky Johnston. Yeah, y'all get your hair braidy.

2002
01:42:46,960 --> 01:42:49,360
Speaker 1: But honestly, just keeping up with your appearance. That's what

2003
01:42:49,439 --> 01:42:52,320
Speaker 1: maybe like waking up feeling good and just being like

2004
01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:56,080
Speaker 1: and knowing that live the life that your mom will

2005
01:42:56,120 --> 01:42:58,320
Speaker 1: wants you to live. Because I think about like, you know,

2006
01:42:58,400 --> 01:43:00,599
Speaker 1: if something happened to be God for I will want

2007
01:43:00,640 --> 01:43:03,920
Speaker 1: my nephews and my friends and everybody around me. Y'all

2008
01:43:03,920 --> 01:43:05,559
Speaker 1: know what what the fuck I want you to do?

2009
01:43:06,160 --> 01:43:08,160
Speaker 1: You better go fucking do that shit because I'm be

2010
01:43:08,240 --> 01:43:11,000
Speaker 1: pissed off if you just in the house drinking and

2011
01:43:11,040 --> 01:43:12,800
Speaker 1: throwing your life away, you know what I'm saying. So

2012
01:43:13,160 --> 01:43:15,280
Speaker 1: you gotta do what you know. You know that that

2013
01:43:15,320 --> 01:43:17,519
Speaker 1: person will want you to do. Drinking cool, I mean,

2014
01:43:17,560 --> 01:43:20,280
Speaker 1: you know right now, but.

2015
01:43:22,520 --> 01:43:24,040
Speaker 2: Moderate moderation.

2016
01:43:24,240 --> 01:43:27,240
Speaker 1: Okay. So now we're gonna get to the voicemail. Y'all

2017
01:43:27,240 --> 01:43:29,720
Speaker 1: know we love a good voicemail. Listen, if y'all leave

2018
01:43:29,760 --> 01:43:32,520
Speaker 1: a voicemail, please leave us a thirty to sixty seconds.

2019
01:43:32,720 --> 01:43:35,800
Speaker 1: This is not for advice. Just get things off your chest.

2020
01:43:35,960 --> 01:43:37,720
Speaker 1: Tell us you know what you love about the show,

2021
01:43:37,760 --> 01:43:39,120
Speaker 1: what you hate about the show, what you want to

2022
01:43:39,120 --> 01:43:41,519
Speaker 1: see on the show, how you feel about us. Just

2023
01:43:41,640 --> 01:43:43,599
Speaker 1: if you want to get a story off of your chest,

2024
01:43:43,640 --> 01:43:46,400
Speaker 1: something that happened to you real quick whatever. The number

2025
01:43:46,479 --> 01:43:49,400
Speaker 1: is going to be below on the screen, so make

2026
01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:52,800
Speaker 1: sure y'all call that number and leave a voicemail. So, Dad,

2027
01:43:52,840 --> 01:43:55,320
Speaker 1: what's the voicemail today? All right?

2028
01:43:57,840 --> 01:44:01,320
Speaker 3: High expe, I just wanted to leave a quick voice now.

2029
01:44:01,840 --> 01:44:05,479
Speaker 3: I'm a huge Poor fan, I'm a huge Poor girl.

2030
01:44:06,200 --> 01:44:08,320
Speaker 3: I'm a part of the Poor crew, and I just

2031
01:44:08,360 --> 01:44:12,200
Speaker 3: wanted to drop in to give you, ladies your flowers

2032
01:44:12,320 --> 01:44:15,200
Speaker 3: while you're still here to smell them. I've been following

2033
01:44:15,240 --> 01:44:17,080
Speaker 3: you for a long time. I've been listening to the

2034
01:44:17,120 --> 01:44:20,160
Speaker 3: podcast at the very beginning, and I'm extremely proud of

2035
01:44:20,200 --> 01:44:23,760
Speaker 3: your growth. I'm extremely proud of where you are. You know,

2036
01:44:23,920 --> 01:44:26,200
Speaker 3: when you guys win, it makes us a part of

2037
01:44:26,240 --> 01:44:28,280
Speaker 3: the Poor crew, it makes us feel like we are

2038
01:44:28,280 --> 01:44:30,759
Speaker 3: winning with YouTube. So I just want to tell you, ladies,

2039
01:44:30,760 --> 01:44:33,360
Speaker 3: but I'm extremely proud of you and to keep doing

2040
01:44:33,400 --> 01:44:37,200
Speaker 3: what you're doing. You're beautiful, you all are motivational. You're

2041
01:44:37,240 --> 01:44:39,920
Speaker 3: amazing women. And I really do enjoy tuning in and

2042
01:44:39,920 --> 01:44:42,720
Speaker 3: every week to hear you and to see you on YouTube.

2043
01:44:43,000 --> 01:44:46,360
Speaker 3: And I also wanted to say thank you to Lex

2044
01:44:46,400 --> 01:44:50,599
Speaker 3: for the book that she I wanted to say thank

2045
01:44:50,640 --> 01:44:54,240
Speaker 3: you to Lex for the book that she had referred

2046
01:44:54,360 --> 01:44:55,320
Speaker 3: us to for.

2047
01:45:00,520 --> 01:45:03,920
Speaker 1: Stop Oh, she was probably talking about the art. So

2048
01:45:03,960 --> 01:45:07,000
Speaker 1: speaking of that, me Andred do have our Amazon storefronts

2049
01:45:07,040 --> 01:45:09,759
Speaker 1: link below, so anything that we do for the item

2050
01:45:09,800 --> 01:45:12,000
Speaker 1: of the week is gonna be in our Amazon storefronts,

2051
01:45:12,120 --> 01:45:15,080
Speaker 1: y'all home, the shop, links in the bio, all that

2052
01:45:15,120 --> 01:45:17,679
Speaker 1: good stuff, and I just want to say thank you,

2053
01:45:17,680 --> 01:45:19,639
Speaker 1: thank you girls. Sorry we didn't get your name. Yes,

2054
01:45:20,240 --> 01:45:22,200
Speaker 1: it's the growth, and I want to say I love

2055
01:45:22,240 --> 01:45:24,559
Speaker 1: the fact. I always say this, Poor Minds is growing

2056
01:45:24,560 --> 01:45:26,559
Speaker 1: and it's changing and it's turning into something different. I

2057
01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 1: feel like we always have our phases, and I love

2058
01:45:28,880 --> 01:45:30,400
Speaker 1: this phase right now. I feel like we're in our

2059
01:45:30,400 --> 01:45:35,160
Speaker 1: self love, healthy, healthy things phase. So show up to

2060
01:45:35,200 --> 01:45:37,320
Speaker 1: the poor crew. Y'all know we're gonna be outside. Make

2061
01:45:37,360 --> 01:45:39,760
Speaker 1: sure you go to poor Mindes dot com and get

2062
01:45:39,840 --> 01:45:43,400
Speaker 1: your tour tickets because we're finna be outside cutting up.

2063
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Speaker 1: Use Beauty collection dot com, get your things anything you

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Speaker 1: want to add? Oh, Patreon dot com, backslash poor Minds.

2065
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Speaker 1: What else? Bottom of the fucking tour tikies period. We need,

2066
01:45:55,880 --> 01:45:57,599
Speaker 1: we need y'all to come to the shop. We ain't

2067
01:45:57,600 --> 01:45:59,479
Speaker 1: trying to have five of us in the beauty the

2068
01:45:59,600 --> 01:46:03,880
Speaker 1: longer they gonna love this one yesterday.

2069
01:46:03,479 --> 01:46:08,760
Speaker 2: The tikis and we'll see y'all next week. Oh, there

2070
01:46:08,800 --> 01:46:09,080
Speaker 2: you go.

2071
01:46:09,640 --> 01:46:12,040
Speaker 1: You know what it is, Clayton Alage, this is boy

2072
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Speaker 1: money back.

2073
01:46:12,880 --> 01:46:15,040
Speaker 2: I read your part this your boy nam girl and this.

2074
01:46:15,080 --> 01:46:16,840
Speaker 9: Is boy money dagh and we all be two K

2075
01:46:17,439 --> 01:46:20,479
Speaker 9: stop man, we not be too k but we will

2076
01:46:20,600 --> 01:46:21,799
Speaker 9: be in Nash breath.

2077
01:46:21,800 --> 01:46:23,280
Speaker 2: This family business man for real.

2078
01:46:23,439 --> 01:46:26,439
Speaker 9: That's this too, is October first.

2079
01:46:25,560 --> 01:46:29,479
Speaker 1: We ain't none of that ship. There should have been

2080
01:46:29,479 --> 01:46:30,599
Speaker 1: no dancing, none of that.

2081
01:46:30,640 --> 01:46:34,559
Speaker 9: Man be some dancing working whole bunch of by him,

2082
01:46:34,680 --> 01:46:36,120
Speaker 9: mister Ski himself.

2083
01:46:36,880 --> 01:46:39,719
Speaker 1: We will be provided. Back to the topic.

2084
01:46:40,400 --> 01:46:44,439
Speaker 9: We are saying October first, Sir Nash, get where they

2085
01:46:44,439 --> 01:46:50,679
Speaker 9: could get the tickets show dot com. Click it, Yeah,

2086
01:46:50,800 --> 01:46:54,080
Speaker 9: come boy, your family to be with our family. We

2087
01:46:54,120 --> 01:46:55,200
Speaker 9: could be family.

2088
01:47:01,640 --> 01:47:03,719
Speaker 2: I'm just saying, what's up, y'all?

2089
01:47:03,720 --> 01:47:06,640
Speaker 1: Is your girl XP and it's your girl drean the

2090
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Speaker 1: call and we just wanted to come and talk to

2091
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Speaker 1: y'all and let y'all know that we do have sponsor

2092
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Speaker 1: packages available for this tour coming up. Yes, for Richard

2093
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Speaker 1: for four two. We do have sponsorship packages available. If

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Speaker 1: you would like to be a sponsor for the live tour,

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Speaker 1: all you need to do is hit us up at

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Speaker 1: Drea and Lex show at gmail dot com. That's c

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Speaker 1: R e A A N D L e X s

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Speaker 1: h O W at gmail dot com. And all of

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Speaker 1: hit us up and we gonna send you all of

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Speaker 2: For Richard, for Port too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and like she said, we have different packages available

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Speaker 1: for purchase, So make sure y'all email us. Drea Alex

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Speaker 1: What's up y'all at your girl exp is your girls

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Speaker 1: ready for this one, but we gonna give it to

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Speaker 1: y'all anyway, hovey, drop that ship from the top.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hit that ship.

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Speaker 4: Drink.

2131
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Speaker 1: Why do we come? You're supposed to be crumbling right now.

2132
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Speaker 1: Hit that ship yo, yo yo, were.

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Speaker 4: Going knees, get them knees.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, draw? Is it worth it? Let me work it.

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Speaker 1: I put my thing down, flipping number bar sick.

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Speaker 2: You're in the begining ragnet and you're the Belgian.

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Speaker 1: If it got a big let me search it and

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Speaker 1: find out how hard I gotta work. Yeah, you're going yet,

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01:49:44,439 --> 01:49:47,600
Speaker 1: and you're not gonna yet. I'd like to get to

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Speaker 1: know your sof.

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Speaker 2: I can show you. Put the pissy on you like

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01:49:50,760 --> 01:49:52,479
Speaker 2: I told you. Give me all your.

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Speaker 1: Number so I can phone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your girl, I can stay there and call me over. Yeah,

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01:49:56,600 --> 01:49:59,240
Speaker 2: not on the bed. Let me on your sofa before

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Speaker 2: you come.

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01:49:59,560 --> 01:50:00,840
Speaker 1: I need to ain't my chok child?

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Speaker 2: Your do? Are your do? Are your willow? Wone?

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Speaker 1: Chit so downtown and eat it like a bowl. Chie

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Speaker 1: See my hips and my tips. Don't you see my

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01:50:08,880 --> 01:50:11,640
Speaker 1: ass and my lips? Don't lost a few pounds in

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01:50:11,720 --> 01:50:18,400
Speaker 1: my waist for you? Time time sex me so good?

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01:50:18,400 --> 01:50:21,040
Speaker 1: I say, blah blah blah. Work here, I need a

2154
01:50:21,120 --> 01:50:24,240
Speaker 1: bless water boy, help boy, it's gonna know you?

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01:50:24,560 --> 01:50:25,439
Speaker 2: Is it worth it?

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01:50:25,640 --> 01:50:28,000
Speaker 1: Let me work it. I put my thing now flipping

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01:50:28,080 --> 01:50:33,840
Speaker 1: in my bars and here you're yeah, And if you

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01:50:33,960 --> 01:50:36,840
Speaker 1: got a big let me search you and found out

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01:50:36,920 --> 01:50:42,200
Speaker 1: how hard I got all work here? You're from you

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01:50:42,240 --> 01:50:47,120
Speaker 1: at that? Get your nails thuck, get a petticure, get

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01:50:47,160 --> 01:50:49,200
Speaker 1: your hair did, boy lifted up.

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01:50:49,280 --> 01:50:49,880
Speaker 2: Let's make a.

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01:50:49,880 --> 01:50:54,799
Speaker 1: Toast close up. Don't I look like a Barry Post?

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01:50:55,240 --> 01:50:57,439
Speaker 1: See the belver? They are playing tricks on y'all.

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Speaker 2: Girlfriend, want to be like me?

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01:50:59,200 --> 01:51:02,599
Speaker 1: Never won't find a bitch that's even better and make

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01:51:02,680 --> 01:51:07,720
Speaker 1: your hot like a Las Vegas weather while you act

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Speaker 1: dumb like oh, I thought that was that part. But

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01:51:10,439 --> 01:51:12,280
Speaker 1: I could give you what you want. I love your

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Speaker 1: braids and your mouth full of flaws. But don't don't

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Speaker 1: see you don't don't don't period, Missy. Let me tell

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01:51:22,720 --> 01:51:24,760
Speaker 1: you something, Missy. You ate this ship. I put my

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01:51:24,800 --> 01:51:29,280
Speaker 1: thing down flipping that reversity period. Poor Minds were on tour.

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Speaker 1: Poor Minds dot com get y'all tickets, because we're going up.