WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Power of the Pinky

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date. We talk a lot about how

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<v Speaker 1>hard it is in the dating world right now, especially

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<v Speaker 1>for guys to just get a pretty girl to agree

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<v Speaker 1>to a date. But you know something we rarely talk

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<v Speaker 1>about what that could be even more difficult is successfully

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<v Speaker 1>locking down that second date all on your own, because

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you just got lucky on the first one. She

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<v Speaker 1>was feeling hungry that night and just needed a free meal.

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<v Speaker 1>She was bored and was willing to lower her standards

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<v Speaker 1>just for a funny story to laugh about with all

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<v Speaker 1>of her hot, judgmental friends. Met One of our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>told us that over the last year he's been mixing

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<v Speaker 1>it up in the dating pool, trying all sorts of

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<v Speaker 1>ways to secure himself that second date. But his latest

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<v Speaker 1>foolproof plan doesn't seem to be working anymore, which is

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<v Speaker 1>why he's on the phone with us right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Makes him the fool of the fool proof plan.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like, okay, well, Jared has already called you

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<v Speaker 1>a fool before you've even sett a congratulations.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's not what I meant, buddy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 2>Mean, if you call it fool proof and it doesn't work,

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<v Speaker 2>there's only one part that ends up true in that statement.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, welcome to the show man. How you doing,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get man?

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<v Speaker 4>How you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 1>All right?

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<v Speaker 2>You got positive attitude still, that's a good thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So your email says that you're going out on a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of dates and you're trying these strategies to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure that you can secure another one. What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it'd be like so frustrating and trying to get

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<v Speaker 4>like a second date, Like we have a good first one,

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<v Speaker 4>and then so as I start talking about the second

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<v Speaker 4>and a lot of times I just get ghosted. And

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<v Speaker 4>then I was like, okay, well, at the end of

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<v Speaker 4>the first day of like shake on it, it's like

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<v Speaker 4>good eye contact. Hey, we're going to meet, let's do

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<v Speaker 4>a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Date like a business contract.

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<v Speaker 4>Right.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I'm just like trying to get that genuine vibe.

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<v Speaker 1>Going, you know, Okay, that's okay, this was working well, Alexis.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't like the business handshake at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>a date.

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<v Speaker 2>No, because the handshakes ever period. What if he changed

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<v Speaker 2>it to a pinky swear, would.

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<v Speaker 1>You be more into that?

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<v Speaker 3>Slightly better?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Some rock paper sissors again?

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<v Speaker 1>What about mouth kiss to lock in? That second dish?

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<v Speaker 2>Doesn't lock in anything the tongues for a second.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm not doing this.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, it's plain that you mentioned pinky promise because that's

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<v Speaker 4>that's what I went with, because that's.

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<v Speaker 1>Sacred, you know, Oh really you did.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, yo, pinky promise, but I'm like playful

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<v Speaker 5>with it, you.

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<v Speaker 6>Know, like, Okay, Yeah, is the pinky promise working better

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<v Speaker 6>than the handshake?

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<v Speaker 2>What's our like percentage of success right here?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>So I've tried it three times. Even one of them

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<v Speaker 5>actually turned into a pretty like decent relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So that's why you're confused why it didn't work,

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<v Speaker 2>because it worked the first three times.

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<v Speaker 4>I see, and now he's the only one did not

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<v Speaker 4>do it.

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<v Speaker 2>So who's who's this girl who's bucking the trends? What's

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<v Speaker 2>her name?

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<v Speaker 4>Her name is Mona?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, tell us about the date because that could

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<v Speaker 1>give us some clues for how this went. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys go to pf Chain's why is so specific because

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<v Speaker 1>those are my parents like to take me when we

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<v Speaker 1>do our pinky promise.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that fancy fancy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it's awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you've probably never been your parents take you to

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<v Speaker 1>like what Denny's or something.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 2>The Missouri Mule.

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<v Speaker 1>Worse. Where did you go for your date? Jared?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so we went to this uh this gold cart place.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh so fun.

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<v Speaker 2>I love go carts day. It's like ChIL go carts,

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<v Speaker 2>like the ones we have to wear a helmet because

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<v Speaker 2>they go in a full suit. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It was more like the high Octing when I had

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<v Speaker 4>like windy tracks and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's awesome. That's a fun date because it's a

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<v Speaker 2>little competitive. You're all trying something new. You got some

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<v Speaker 2>adrenaline going. Were you super competitive with her? Is that

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<v Speaker 2>maybe an issue?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I kind of like lighting it up. I was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 4>we should do a shot for every lap we do.

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<v Speaker 4>I was kidding, but I would have done it just

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<v Speaker 4>I was just trying to see what you would say.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, they frowned up drinking even if they do,

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<v Speaker 2>you do a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>No, Yeah, we did a lot.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, okay, twenty shotsol poisoning.

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<v Speaker 1>Trying to figure out how did she react to your joke, He.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like, oh, I don't think they let us do that.

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<v Speaker 5>She just kind of laughed it off.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, okay, which is what the point was, right, But

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<v Speaker 6>the business.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you guys squeeze in dinner or drinks after the

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<v Speaker 2>go carts or was the go carts in?

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<v Speaker 4>No, we we did go carts and then afterwards we

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<v Speaker 4>did little some hamburgers and milkshakes, and we did that.

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<v Speaker 4>We're there for like an hour and then headed out.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, did this pinky swear feel different than the other

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<v Speaker 6>pinky swears? Like, did you notice if she was crossing

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<v Speaker 6>her fingers with the other hand while she did it?

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<v Speaker 2>That's important.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I didn't know something like that. So, like I said,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm kind of confused. That seemed from my I thought

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<v Speaker 4>we had a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and so you pinky promised to see each other again.

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<v Speaker 1>She has not followed through on the promise. So the

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<v Speaker 1>real question is when we call her now, should we

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<v Speaker 1>do double pinky promises to really lock it in we

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<v Speaker 1>call the police and arrest.

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<v Speaker 6>Her for breaking the con Obviously, she we have to

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<v Speaker 6>cut her pinky off.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the whole point.

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<v Speaker 8>Of a pinky product.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, so we just gotta let her know, say, audios,

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<v Speaker 2>was it right hand or left hand?

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. I forgot about the rules of pinky promising.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna go get our machetes ready, we'll sharpen

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<v Speaker 1>them up and then we'll come back and we'll call

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<v Speaker 1>Mona for you.

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<v Speaker 8>Cool.

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<v Speaker 4>No, oh, yeah that's cool. But yeah, that's not like

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<v Speaker 4>a like a real thing.

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<v Speaker 7>Though.

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<v Speaker 4>They only cut off your pinky finger for the Polish, right,

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<v Speaker 4>They don't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, on this show, we do.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never broken a pinky promise before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we take it very very seriously, Jared. So, Mona's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go out with you or she's gonna pay the

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<v Speaker 1>price with your second date update right after this hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second date update. Oh, the pinky promise. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>sacred ritual that dates back hundreds, if not thousands of years.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>All the greatest rulers in history have used it to

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<v Speaker 1>achieve victory. Julius Caesar did it, Genghis Khan, Joey Chestnut.

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<v Speaker 1>Even Pinky swore right before he down sixty eight and

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<v Speaker 1>a half hot dogs at Coney Island to take home

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<v Speaker 1>the crowds.

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<v Speaker 2>It's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>But recently somebody broke the eternal bonding promise of.

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<v Speaker 8>The pinky Jared's date Mona, because she promised that she

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<v Speaker 8>would see him again after they went go karting together,

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<v Speaker 8>but clearly the power of the pinky means nothing to.

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<v Speaker 1>Her and today, pinky, we want some answers on Jared's behalf.

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<v Speaker 2>I want some blood, Jeff, take that pinky off.

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<v Speaker 1>Pinky, promise that you'll give the man a chance this

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<v Speaker 1>time and not turn on him the instant. Another females

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like to make promises I can't keep, so.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe okay, yeah, Jared, we got a maybe Brooke will

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<v Speaker 1>be on your side?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, cool guy, Yeah, I just don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>else he's done. You know, you got to hear both

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<v Speaker 2>sides of the story. One side right now. I'm all

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<v Speaker 2>for Jared, all on his side.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm like saying yes to the terms and conditions

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<v Speaker 1>without even reading yes. It sounds like it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>Jared's right what this woman has to say? All right, Jared,

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<v Speaker 1>let's call her. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't even tell you guys to talk about, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>let's do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Keep up, thank you for your contribution. Let's call this woman.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this mona?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Does this she? Aren't you? Friendly?

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<v Speaker 1>Friendly? The person who is speaking right now is the

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<v Speaker 1>lead host of a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Why didn't my other host laugh when

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<v Speaker 1>I said that, that's a weird that's my title.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Hi, Mona.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, that's your lead hosts.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're all co hosts together on Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning, and we're doing a segment right now

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<v Speaker 1>called a second Date update.

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<v Speaker 7>Have you heard a lot of people, and.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to do something where we're helping one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners to get a second date with you because

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<v Speaker 1>he had such a nice time when you hung out.

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<v Speaker 1>Originally his name's Jared.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, that's like Jared planned an awesome date for

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<v Speaker 2>you both.

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<v Speaker 1>What does mean?

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<v Speaker 7>I guess like, did he tell you that we had

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<v Speaker 7>gone go karting?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? You don't like that?

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<v Speaker 7>I thought, like soule phone on paper on paper?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what happened in real life? Helmets? Because I'm with you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we heard about most of the date from Jared

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<v Speaker 1>and the highlights were go cards, there were burgers and milkshakes,

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<v Speaker 1>and then at the very end, this is kind of controversial,

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<v Speaker 1>you pinky promised him that you would see him a

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<v Speaker 1>second time.

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<v Speaker 2>It out right?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean, you're kind of a liar, okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're trying to figure out why.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know if we can count that pinky

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<v Speaker 3>promise because I kind of like I had kind of

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<v Speaker 3>maneuver myself out of it because why well, it was

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<v Speaker 3>like he hooked the pinky, but then he also like

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<v Speaker 3>pulled me in and tries to go in for a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone does. I think he meant a kiss on

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<v Speaker 1>the hand or a kiss on the mouth. That's not

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<v Speaker 1>what I was talking about.

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<v Speaker 6>Wait, did he misread the moment because it sounds like

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<v Speaker 6>kind of a cute moment for a first kiss.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean it was cute, but maybe just a little

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<v Speaker 7>cringe because I was like, is that your move? Is

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<v Speaker 7>that what you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you kiss him? Or did you not kiss him?

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't tell us.

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<v Speaker 7>I had to swerve or curve.

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<v Speaker 4>Well is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Wait though, is it because you don't kiss on a

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<v Speaker 2>first date or is it because you don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>kiss him?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 7>I think like the bigger itck was a little bit

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<v Speaker 7>for that, So I think it was insulting injury.

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<v Speaker 1>He wasn't gonna get a kiss no matter what at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Think so it was a bigger it.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, so I know how this will sound.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not a mean or shallow person, like I'm promised, but.

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<v Speaker 7>We were we were go karting, right, so we had

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<v Speaker 7>like the full get up and everything, and it's just

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<v Speaker 7>like Jared just looked really kind of dumb, Like the

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<v Speaker 7>whole time I could see that. Yeah, it was kind

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<v Speaker 7>of a big turn off. And then we even took

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<v Speaker 7>like a felthie and he had his helmet on still.

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<v Speaker 7>So it's like it's like every time I think about.

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<v Speaker 4>Him, I think about him, and.

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<v Speaker 1>It happens all the all the reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's shallow. I just think that's one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Could happen and you just look at someone a completely

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<v Speaker 1>different But what about you. I mean, I'm sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't look like perfect in your go kart helmets,

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<v Speaker 1>just like to be.

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<v Speaker 7>Fair, it's a little hard, but I took the time

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<v Speaker 7>to kind of adjust it right, like you could fit

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<v Speaker 7>it properly. I'll put my hair in a way that

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<v Speaker 7>it would pop out kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, it's something you couldn't get over though, Like

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<v Speaker 6>you can't unsee.

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<v Speaker 2>It, Like you shouldn't see him in a go car

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<v Speaker 2>helmet that often after.

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<v Speaker 7>This, right, you know, it's just it's looms so big

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<v Speaker 7>in my in my mind, and so yeah, I know

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<v Speaker 7>I feel bad because he's been texting and I guess

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<v Speaker 7>I did pinky promise, But it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, you look super cute in your racing helmet

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<v Speaker 1>and he looks super stupid in it. So he is

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<v Speaker 1>not boyfriend material for that reason.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not second date materially here into that yet. That's

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<v Speaker 2>a long way down the road.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. It's a little harsh to my ears, but

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<v Speaker 1>my ears aren't the ones that matter really. Jared is

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<v Speaker 1>the one. Yeah, he's probably all going through it the

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<v Speaker 1>most because he's on the other line right now listening

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<v Speaker 1>to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 7>No, oh my gosh, No, that's not nice.

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<v Speaker 1>What you said wasn't very nice. But let's yeah, helmets.

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<v Speaker 2>Ugly, she said, stupid like a.

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<v Speaker 1>Difference, Jared, are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you serious? I look dumb in a go cart

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<v Speaker 4>helmet and that's why, Oh.

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<v Speaker 7>My god, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 4>We're riding go carts. Everybody looks stupid and.

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<v Speaker 5>Like an idiot writing.

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<v Speaker 7>Do you think you were pulling it off?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I didn't care how I looked. I was

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<v Speaker 4>excited to get on the gold cart and go around

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<v Speaker 4>to do laft.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't like, it's not this is the Daytona five hundred.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know, like I don't have to look you know, cool, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>I know you.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually would look pretty cool if you were writ in the.

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<v Speaker 6>Dyton I think the point is is you found a

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<v Speaker 6>guy who's willing to look dumb and do fun things

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<v Speaker 6>like that's really what you want in that partner.

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<v Speaker 1>And he's presumably not going to be wearing a helmet

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time that you guys date.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but guys, I'm looking at the Selty picture right

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<v Speaker 7>now and he just looks so dumb.

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<v Speaker 1>Photoshop it so he doesn't look anymore. Put a nice

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<v Speaker 1>head of hair on top of him.

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<v Speaker 4>But I took off the helmet, and I look good

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<v Speaker 4>to what.

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<v Speaker 7>The image has been burned into my brain. It's like

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<v Speaker 7>forever associated.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, we'd love to get the opportunity to burn a

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<v Speaker 1>brand new image into your b with no helmet on

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<v Speaker 1>his head, because we're going to offer to send you

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<v Speaker 1>on another date, and we'd pay for it.

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<v Speaker 4>And you pinky promise that's sacred.

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<v Speaker 2>You should give him another chance. He's a funny guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't unleash the wrath of the pinky gods on yourself.

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<v Speaker 7>Are so bad, Jared, I mean, if your ego is

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<v Speaker 7>at groused that badly, I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Stop looking at the picture deleted. Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you can take a beating, Jared.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell her why she should.

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<v Speaker 4>Say yes, because you know, besides, then you look at Dominah.

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<v Speaker 4>How we had a good time even after.

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<v Speaker 5>We had when we had molk chasing burgers, you were.

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<v Speaker 4>Laughing and having fun. We had a good time, you.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, Yes, I was. My mind was taken off of

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<v Speaker 7>the helmet for a little moment, So I think maybe

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<v Speaker 7>it could happen again.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Okay, that's a yes.

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<v Speaker 4>Then yay, yes, yes, yeah, that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>Pinky promise has been restored. We can put them a

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<v Speaker 1>set away, all right, and make sure you burn any

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<v Speaker 1>headgear that you own right now.

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<v Speaker 2>He's like concussions, It doesn't matter anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>Now I'm gonna wear a cowboy hat.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a bold choice.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, I don't know if.

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<v Speaker 4>You can pull that off.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, No country bars, Good luck, Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning, moving two point five, Oh man, I

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<v Speaker 1>messed up.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you mess up before we got off the phone?

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<v Speaker 2>I probably agree, But why before we.

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<v Speaker 1>Got off the phone. I should have Pinky promised with

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<v Speaker 1>her that she'll actually go through with the next day.

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<v Speaker 2>You brought it up, but I know I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>that means a lot to her these days.

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<v Speaker 1>Jeff, you don't like to hear this, but let's keep

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<v Speaker 1>the fingers out of it.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, you're probably It's like if she saw you wearing

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<v Speaker 6>those headphones, she may get this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're right, you're right. Yeah, okay, where okay? But

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<v Speaker 1>hindsight is always twenty twenty on these segments, because as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as you're done with one, you look back and

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<v Speaker 1>you go, oh, darns, why couldn't Brook have been more

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<v Speaker 1>funny there? That wasn't she more clever and more witty

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<v Speaker 1>and more complimentary of men? We just brought so many

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<v Speaker 1>regrets about that second I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a good point men they struggle. Yes, yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>always talking about too late.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, you should have said that during the second day.

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<v Speaker 4>There.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, it's like, I'll never have to bring it

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<v Speaker 2>up again.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. Luckily, despite all of our many, many collective shortcomings,

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<v Speaker 1>we still manage to get them a second. If you

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