WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Risky Joke

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<v Speaker 1>Second d I think the key to dating is you

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<v Speaker 1>have to bring a little energy and excitement to the night. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>boring night, right. You don't want to come across as

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<v Speaker 1>being boring and be willing to take a few risks. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why whenever I go out on dates, when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>with them, I always close my eyes behind the wheel

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<v Speaker 1>for ten to twenty seconds. It's just enough risk to

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<v Speaker 1>let my date know that if she sticks with me

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<v Speaker 1>in her life, things will never be boring. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna say she would die. But whatever, it's exciting,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't it? You know? Okay, it's the same mentality that

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Sawyer brought to his date. He

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<v Speaker 1>says he took a few risks and he's not sure

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<v Speaker 1>if maybe they were a little bit too much goodness.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's find out, Sawyer, how you doing? Hey, I'm hanging

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<v Speaker 1>in there. How you doing? You didn't like risk anyone's life,

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<v Speaker 1>did you? No? No? Not on this date? He pulled

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<v Speaker 1>it back for this one. So what's the name of

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<v Speaker 1>the girl you want us to call to day? Arianna?

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<v Speaker 1>I know, yeah, Jose has got a big crush on

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<v Speaker 1>Ariana Gridae, who doesn't come on. How did you meet

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<v Speaker 1>Ariana classic these days? Met on a dating app? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And how was that? I mean, like you hit her

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<v Speaker 1>up first, and you guys talked about what I did?

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<v Speaker 1>I did? I? Um, I hit her up first. I

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<v Speaker 1>said I was looking for Ariana Grande but ended up

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<v Speaker 1>with Arianna vent Here. Oh, because she's even bigger. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that's it, not like physically bigger, just

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<v Speaker 1>you know physically too. Arianna is tiny. It's true. Just

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<v Speaker 1>you made like an upgrade from Ariana Grande. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I meant. And I'm pretty sure she took it that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she kept talking to me, so okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>like a big goal all the time. Yeah, but it worked?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it work? I mean you it on a date? Right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>We did, but it almost didn't happen, you know, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she said she was about to delete the app,

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<v Speaker 1>is what I mean. We all delete the app, but

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<v Speaker 1>then you're always back on. But it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>out of what frustration frustration you're always deleted Monday through Friday,

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<v Speaker 1>uploaded again Friday. I have two drinks on Saturday. I

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<v Speaker 1>am So, what did you guys do for your date. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to show her that I was that quality guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I booked a nice restaurant. That's good. And

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<v Speaker 1>so you're I mean, you're going into this knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking more for a relationship, not for just like

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<v Speaker 1>Netflix and Chill, I am looking for a relationship. And regardless,

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<v Speaker 1>she is very attractive. Okay, if so both things, both

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<v Speaker 1>things could exist. So how did things go at the restaurant?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you started off pretty well. You know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a little nervous, but we decided, hey, why don't we

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<v Speaker 1>share a fact about each other that wasn't on the

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<v Speaker 1>on the dating app. So she says her biological father

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<v Speaker 1>is actually a sperm donor. Yeah, that's interesting, some good

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<v Speaker 1>dinner conversation right there. Yeah. So I just I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what to say. I'm just nervous. So I made

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<v Speaker 1>a joke and I don't know if it went over well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because that could be a sensitive topic. You know, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what was the joke? I said, Well, that probably increases

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<v Speaker 1>your chance of incest. Oh yeah, that would fall flat. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that in the Chris Rock special. No, how

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<v Speaker 1>did you respond to that? Well, she didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to say, so I then came back and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>is what I would have said if I wasn't one

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<v Speaker 1>of those quality guys. Yeah, one of those losers that

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<v Speaker 1>you dated on the app of the past. But luckily

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<v Speaker 1>I never would say something like that. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good say. Yeah I shifted. Yeah. Is that the

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<v Speaker 1>risk that you were talking about in your email? The

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<v Speaker 1>risk that you took? Yeah, okay, that was the risk. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Luckily that paid off. I think. Yeah. How was the

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<v Speaker 1>momentum after that? I mean she laughed and we carried

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<v Speaker 1>on and then okay, after that, it was a nice

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<v Speaker 1>walk and at the end we shared like a really

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<v Speaker 1>nice kiss. Oh really, what made it really nice? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean when one feels right and one doesn't feel right.

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<v Speaker 1>Just standing there right in front of that donation clinic,

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<v Speaker 1>it just felt right. I think. All right, so how

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<v Speaker 1>did so how did the night end? After the kiss?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that? It? I mean, yeah, it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>great walk her to her car and it was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured we'd see each other and then in a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks and since then she's getting back to me.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, the energy isn't what it was, But that

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<v Speaker 1>just seems so weird because she was going to like

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<v Speaker 1>delete the app because she was sick of playing games,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it seemed like you're not doing that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>was there anything from the night that you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>might have gone wrong and could be the reason that

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<v Speaker 1>she's happening besides the incest joke? Well, do you know

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<v Speaker 1>anything worse than that? I'm just thinking, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>did she find another nice guy on the app? And

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<v Speaker 1>you know what's going on? Soay, she's an attractive girl

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<v Speaker 1>on a dating app. Their dns are probably blown up. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. We'll play a song, we'll come back,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll call Ariana for you, and we'll try and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, okay, all right, hold on second.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually when I'm on a date and somebody drops an

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<v Speaker 1>incest joke, my shirt immediately comes on and I'm already

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<v Speaker 1>planning our second and third dates right after. Are those

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<v Speaker 1>dates with your sister or it's with whoever? Okay? This

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<v Speaker 1>incests really gets me going. But that wasn't the case

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<v Speaker 1>with one of our listeners, Sawyer Weird, who said he

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<v Speaker 1>took a risk at dinner and made a joke about

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<v Speaker 1>his date's biological dad being a sperm donor and the

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<v Speaker 1>possibility of her hooking up with a half brother somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>down the road, and now mysteriously Sawyer's not getting a

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<v Speaker 1>call back. Weird. I mean, we say that, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't actually think that that's it. Yes, see, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's her fault. You shouldn't tell a fact like that's

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<v Speaker 1>a weird fact. It is a weird fact. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you expect people to say. I don't know if anybody

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<v Speaker 1>else in the rooms thought of this, but what if

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<v Speaker 1>she did some research after the date and found out

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<v Speaker 1>Sawyer that you two are actually biologically related? Just saying

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<v Speaker 1>we've heard stranger things happen on this show. Was your

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<v Speaker 1>dad ever a donor? Not that I know of. If

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<v Speaker 1>it was the case, are you still open for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? You know, I think i'd be a hard pass.

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<v Speaker 1>I know he did. I heard it. Well, let's find

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<v Speaker 1>out for sure. We're going to call Arianna right now.

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<v Speaker 1>You're ready to do this, Yeah, let's do it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hi. This is Arianna. Oh, Hi Arianna,

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jeffrey from the radio show Brook and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. I was hoping you have a second day. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>I was hoping you have a second to talk with us? Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what can I help you with? We do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show. I don't know if you've heard of

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<v Speaker 1>it before. It's called a second date update. Okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where if you go out on a date with

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<v Speaker 1>someone and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you can email us and we'll reach out to them

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<v Speaker 1>for you to try and figure out the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>they're ghosting. So why are you calling me? Well, because

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<v Speaker 1>you went out with a guy recently and you've been

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<v Speaker 1>kind of avoiding him lately. He wants to know the

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<v Speaker 1>reason why. His name is Sawyer. Oh okay, okay, that

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<v Speaker 1>was a positive. I felt like it. Yeah. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>have a good time with h Yeah, we had a

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<v Speaker 1>nice time. She's like, yeah, yeah, that's awesome. Yeah. He

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<v Speaker 1>feels like you've been kind of hard to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of lately, and he's not sure. Why is he

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<v Speaker 1>reading that wrong? Yeah, I mean we we text and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I'm going to be in touch with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I like him. He said, you text him, But he

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<v Speaker 1>says it's not like before, Like now, it's very sparingly

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<v Speaker 1>and it doesn't seem like you're that into it? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>could you just tell him like, I'll be in touch,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in a couple of weeks, weeks and not

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<v Speaker 1>to worry. And well, we can't tell him that, but

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<v Speaker 1>it would be nice if there was a reason to

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<v Speaker 1>go along with it, Like why should he wait a

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<v Speaker 1>few weeks? Is there a reason? Um? Well, are you

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<v Speaker 1>dating someone else? No? No, actually I'm not. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell us something that we could pass along

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<v Speaker 1>to Sawyer to help him understand because he's really confused

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<v Speaker 1>after what he described as a really great date. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he says, you, guys, this kiss was amazing, that it

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty good. Yeah, okay, yeah, it does sound like

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<v Speaker 1>you're into him. And I know for a fact that

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<v Speaker 1>he likes you. So what's the problem. Okay, I just

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<v Speaker 1>need to wait until after Valentine's Day? Oh no, why

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<v Speaker 1>do you already have a date planned or something for

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<v Speaker 1>Valentine's Day? No? All right, I know this sounds crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Give me my favorite kind. Okay, So I've done the mask,

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<v Speaker 1>and with my schedule, like with work and everything and

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<v Speaker 1>family and stuff, there's no way that he and I

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<v Speaker 1>are going to be able to go on like more

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<v Speaker 1>than three days before Valentine's Day? Okay, what's all with that?

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like if we go out before Valentine's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>then he's going to feel obligated to buy me a gift,

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<v Speaker 1>and then that's going to creep me out because it's

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<v Speaker 1>too soon to buy me a gift. Oh, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of understand this. So because you can only get three

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<v Speaker 1>dates in before Valentine's Day, he would buy you a

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<v Speaker 1>gift and you wouldn't like that. I know myself, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>freak out. I'll be like, oh so clinging, I'm gone,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm gonna and I'm gonna sabotage this thing

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<v Speaker 1>before it even started, I will say. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta look at it, though, Like three dates before Valentine's Day,

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<v Speaker 1>then suddenly that like you're not in a relationship, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're not not in a relationship. You're like, as a

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<v Speaker 1>man is buying you something for free, will you take it? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Even if it was something that was really simple like flowers,

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<v Speaker 1>that would creep you out. I don't know. It just

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<v Speaker 1>it happened once in the past before and it just

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<v Speaker 1>didn't work out. And I feel like if we just

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<v Speaker 1>wait so afterwards, everything I'll be fine and we can

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<v Speaker 1>take things slow and it'll be more organic and Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you just want to take Valentine's Day out of

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<v Speaker 1>the equation. So you're not going to call him until

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<v Speaker 1>after February fourteenth? Yeah, I mean, come on, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that far away. Happy. I just okay, I mean, it

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<v Speaker 1>would just be so much better if that's how you feel, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess that's how you feel. But what do you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to tell him? I don't know, tell him

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<v Speaker 1>I'm out of town or something. You know. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't really tell him that because you kind of already did.

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<v Speaker 1>You should know. Sawyers on the other line listening, and

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<v Speaker 1>he heard everything that you just said. What, Hello, happy

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<v Speaker 1>early Valentine's Day? Oh my god, are you guys serious

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<v Speaker 1>right now? Yeah? How's it going? Hi? Far? Hi? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. I would imagine Ariana right now if you

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<v Speaker 1>felt a Valentine's Day gift was creepy, that this might

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<v Speaker 1>be a little much for you. Uh yeah, yeah, think Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say. I mean, I just look,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta be honest, like I would have I have

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<v Speaker 1>played this over in my head one hundred time. I

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<v Speaker 1>would never have thought this would have been the issue

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<v Speaker 1>getting you a gift. I have an idea. What if

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<v Speaker 1>we just don't get each other presence for Valentine's Day

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<v Speaker 1>and we just say, hey, it's just another day out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't we just you know, you're saying, still go

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<v Speaker 1>on dates before then, but agree to not give each

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<v Speaker 1>other gifts. Totally no pressure, that's just hey, with another day. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you may be the only girl that doesn't want a

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<v Speaker 1>gift on Valentine's Yeah, now, are honest thinking, Oh, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's going to set a precedent for the rest of

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<v Speaker 1>our relationship. That mean we'll always skip Valentine's Day. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not like I never want to gift. I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to gift this soon. But I also feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it's weird now because now you know, we've talked

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<v Speaker 1>about it, so now it's kind of like the elephant

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<v Speaker 1>in the room, you know. But maybe it's better. It's

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<v Speaker 1>always good to have an open line of communication with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody you're dating. And I mean, we ripped the awkward

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<v Speaker 1>band aid off for you too. I just wish we

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<v Speaker 1>could just wait until after. But I heard it and

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<v Speaker 1>I got witnesses. You said you liked me you've been

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<v Speaker 1>caught down there somewhere we're recording this. Yeah, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>never said I didn't. No, I like you. I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to wait. I just wanted to be normal. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's weird. I think you're overthinking. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>now it's weird if he buys you a gift, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's also weird if he doesn't buy you a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the middle ground there? Well, I didn't think I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be on the radio. I just thought

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<v Speaker 1>we would text for a few weeks and then I

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<v Speaker 1>would work itself out. It sounds like you really want

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<v Speaker 1>relationships to organically happen and you want to go with

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<v Speaker 1>the flow, but you were very much over analyzing all

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<v Speaker 1>of this. Yeah, I mean, Sawyer likes you, bottom line,

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<v Speaker 1>and he's darling. I don't know. I'm a quality guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and come on, you saw that on the first day.

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<v Speaker 1>I've made you laugh. Why I put this in between us.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just you know, I found something I like. Usually

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<v Speaker 1>in life I go for that, So I'm he's the

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<v Speaker 1>type of guy that can actually tell a good incests joke,

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<v Speaker 1>flip away, no matter what. Holidays on the horizon. That's why. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know unless it's Siblings Day and that might be

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<v Speaker 1>a weird one to do it on. But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he's lucky. I liked him because I let that joke

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<v Speaker 1>slide come. If you were talking to your best friend

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<v Speaker 1>right now, she would tell you to take the second date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she would tell you you're being crazy. In fact, we

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<v Speaker 1>will pay for that second date, Ariana, if you're willing

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with Sawyer one more time? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you say? What if we did it? I'm like, February fifteenth, No,

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<v Speaker 1>just go on the date. Compromise. I mean, yeah, like,

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<v Speaker 1>we will offer to pay for a day after Valentine's

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<v Speaker 1>if that's what makes you feel the most comfortable. That's

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<v Speaker 1>all I'm asking. It would be perfect, Sawyer. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think? Are you willing to wait until after Valentine's

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<v Speaker 1>Day to see her one more time? Yeah? I mean listen,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wait, because I like you, but I'm not going

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<v Speaker 1>to stop texting you, and it's not gonna make me

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<v Speaker 1>stop trying. Just so you know, so you better be strong. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well you can totally text. I mean maybe even FaceTime.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a little flirty. I don't know, guy, it

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like you're getting a little too clingy. Alright, alright, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do it or putting on the books, Valentine's Day

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