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Speaker 1: and we just say, hey, it's just another day out there.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we just you know, you're saying, still go

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Speaker 1: on dates before then, but agree to not give each

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Speaker 1: other gifts. Totally no pressure, that's just hey, with another day. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you may be the only girl that doesn't want a

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Speaker 1: our relationship. That mean we'll always skip Valentine's Day. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not like I never want to gift. I just

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Speaker 1: like it's weird now because now you know, we've talked

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Speaker 1: always good to have an open line of communication with

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Speaker 1: somebody you're dating. And I mean, we ripped the awkward

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Speaker 1: band aid off for you too. I just wish we

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Speaker 1: could just wait until after. But I heard it and

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Speaker 1: I got witnesses. You said you liked me you've been

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Speaker 1: caught down there somewhere we're recording this. Yeah, no, I

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Speaker 1: never said I didn't. No, I like you. I just

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Speaker 1: feel like it's weird. I think you're overthinking. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now it's weird if he buys you a gift, and

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Speaker 1: it's also weird if he doesn't buy you a gift.

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Speaker 1: What's the middle ground there? Well, I didn't think I

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Speaker 1: would work itself out. It sounds like you really want

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Speaker 1: the flow, but you were very much over analyzing all

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Speaker 1: of this. Yeah, I mean, Sawyer likes you, bottom line,

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Speaker 1: and he's darling. I don't know. I'm a quality guy,

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Speaker 1: and come on, you saw that on the first day.

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Speaker 1: I've made you laugh. Why I put this in between us.

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Speaker 1: Let's just you know, I found something I like. Usually

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Speaker 1: in life I go for that, So I'm he's the

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Speaker 1: type of guy that can actually tell a good incests joke,

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Speaker 1: flip away, no matter what. Holidays on the horizon. That's why. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know unless it's Siblings Day and that might be

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Speaker 1: he's lucky. I liked him because I let that joke

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Speaker 1: slide come. If you were talking to your best friend

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Speaker 1: she would tell you you're being crazy. In fact, we

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Speaker 1: will pay for that second date, Ariana, if you're willing

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Speaker 1: to go out with Sawyer one more time? What do

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Speaker 1: you say? What if we did it? I'm like, February fifteenth, No,

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Speaker 1: just go on the date. Compromise. I mean, yeah, like,

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Speaker 1: we will offer to pay for a day after Valentine's

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Speaker 1: if that's what makes you feel the most comfortable. That's

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Speaker 1: all I'm asking. It would be perfect, Sawyer. What do

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Speaker 1: Day to see her one more time? Yeah? I mean listen,

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, because I like you, but I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to stop texting you, and it's not gonna make me

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Speaker 1: well you can totally text. I mean maybe even FaceTime.

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Speaker 1: sounds like you're getting a little too clingy. Alright, alright, guys,

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Speaker 1: let's do it or putting on the books, Valentine's Day

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