Speaker 1: From Hollywood to your.
Speaker 2: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: All right, so let's get into what a lot of
Speaker 3: people are talking about. Have you seen the orange and
Speaker 3: white striped lanes on the freeway? You know they're there.
Speaker 3: That's a little bit. It's a strip of white and
Speaker 3: a strip of yellow.
Speaker 2: It's alarming like when you see it, because it's not normal, because.
Speaker 3: Orange you're not supposed to cross, and white you're supposed to.
Speaker 3: And it's a dashed white, you're allowed to change the lane,
Speaker 3: but an orange you're not allowed to change the lane.
Speaker 3: But now they've got a dashed orange and a dashed
Speaker 3: white together, and then they're dashed, and then.
Speaker 1: It's a creamsickle.
Speaker 4: It's exactly a cream sickle.
Speaker 2: And you have all these lanes and all of a
Speaker 2: sudden you're driving their white dashes, white dashes, and then
Speaker 2: you have you have not question white dashes.
Speaker 1: Let's guess what they meane.
Speaker 4: I didn't know what they meant until I read this article.
Speaker 1: Well I'm gonna guess what I think they mean.
Speaker 5: Okay, you have it in front of you.
Speaker 3: I haven't read it yet. Okay, let's see. I think
Speaker 3: it means you can change lanes but please don't.
Speaker 5: I think that.
Speaker 1: You're allowed to, but please with caution.
Speaker 3: It's a very dangerous place to change, but it's not
Speaker 3: too dangerous.
Speaker 5: To not you're warm.
Speaker 4: The caution word.
Speaker 1: Is so it's like change lanes, but be more careful
Speaker 1: than normal kind of But.
Speaker 5: Okay, do you want to guess, Tanya, does it mean
Speaker 5: like wake up? I would hope we're all awake if
Speaker 5: we're driving on the freeway, stay alert, be aware.
Speaker 2: Kind of it means caution. It's it's it's a construction zone.
Speaker 2: So it means that you're entering a construction zone and
Speaker 2: it's basically just slow down.
Speaker 1: Do they repaint them white after the construction's gone.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or maybe they're stickers. I don't know what they are,
Speaker 2: but yeah, they they they take them off after the
Speaker 2: construction and it's probably for really long constructions that might
Speaker 2: last like a year, year and a half.
Speaker 1: Lane is going to be shut down coming soon.
Speaker 2: Maybe, but it's just more like and they try to.
Speaker 2: So it's on the five in northern San Diego County
Speaker 2: where drivers began kind of like, uh, encountering these orange
Speaker 2: and white lines or striped lines, and they said they
Speaker 2: noticed that it was like a big effect versus like
Speaker 2: when you sometimes see the flashing construction marquee and then
Speaker 2: you don't know when the.
Speaker 4: Construction zone ends. So this makes it super clear.
Speaker 2: As soon as the orange stripes on the floor are
Speaker 2: gone on the freeway gone, then that means that the
Speaker 2: construction area is done with. I had no idea. I
Speaker 2: was just like, I'm glad.
Speaker 5: I know now it.
Speaker 1: Seems like a lot of work to paint them and
Speaker 1: unpaint them.
Speaker 4: Well, you gotta do what you gotta do for safety.
Speaker 3: They were saying that, like, this also helps with the flow.
Speaker 3: I guess when we see other kinds of signs, we
Speaker 3: hit our brakes, but with these things you kind of
Speaker 3: ease into it.
Speaker 1: Yes, it's more seamless for traffic.
Speaker 4: Flow exactly, and they say it really helps with brain
Speaker 4: and fog too.
Speaker 1: I've always wanted to study traffic.
Speaker 3: I also want to stay like when one person it's
Speaker 3: their breaks, the ripple effect, because you know, like one
Speaker 3: person it's their break, I know, and then twenty minutes later,
Speaker 3: the whole freeway stopped because that one person their break.
Speaker 3: I'm just going to study the flow of the rip
Speaker 3: a flow of things in traffic and how they cause
Speaker 3: you know when you're stopped in traffic and then you
Speaker 3: get to where it starts to move and it's nothing
Speaker 3: but because so many people tap their brake and ends
Speaker 3: up stacking up all the lanes.
Speaker 1: To a stop.
Speaker 2: Yes, what if there was like a way that all
Speaker 2: of our cars were like automatic to the point when
Speaker 2: you got on the freeway everyone was at the exact
Speaker 2: same speed limit, and then when you go to exit,
Speaker 2: you like hit a button and.
Speaker 5: Feel like that's the future now, yeah, I mean, and
Speaker 5: then that would.
Speaker 2: Get rid like you almost like enter like a pod
Speaker 2: on the freeway and that's your pod.
Speaker 1: How you have to so any of.
Speaker 3: The bridge engineers listening right now, Freeway engineers like to
Speaker 3: have a little dialogue. So yesterday I'm in the gym
Speaker 3: and this guy comes up to me and he says,
Speaker 3: great to see you. I'm like hey, and I don't
Speaker 3: recognize him, and he goes, you've been playing tennis. I'm like,
Speaker 3: not really, but h you know, I'm playing along like
Speaker 3: I know him right, and he goes, well, I would
Speaker 3: love to give you a lesson in great. Well that's nice.
Speaker 3: He goes, yeah, because I coached your family. I give
Speaker 3: your family some lessons. Wow, I didn't know. They didn't
Speaker 3: tell me they're taking lessons. He goes, yeah, the teenagers.
Speaker 3: I go, I don't know, don't have many teenagers in
Speaker 3: the family.
Speaker 1: What's your name? I go, Ryan Seacrest. I thought you
Speaker 1: were Jimmy Fallon.
Speaker 5: So Jimmy Jimmy Fallon.
Speaker 1: Wow. I was very flattered.
Speaker 3: I was this guy tennis pro. He's a tennis guy
Speaker 3: walking around talking about tennis. I had a whole conversation
Speaker 3: with him thinking I was someone else, and I was flattered.
Speaker 5: It's very funny.
Speaker 1: Ever, haven't you people think you're someone else?
Speaker 5: Yeah, from time to time.
Speaker 1: I thought I knew you, but no, I don't.
Speaker 4: Kind of a lot too.
Speaker 1: He didn't know who Ryan Seacrest.
Speaker 3: Is, right like, he was like, well, I mean it's me,
Speaker 3: but he didn't know exactly because he wanted to take
Speaker 3: my number to give me a lesson, because how do
Speaker 3: you spell it last?
Speaker 4: And this is his move.
Speaker 5: You should take it.
Speaker 2: You'd be like you it's not hitting on you, but
Speaker 2: I guess hitting on you to be your instructor.
Speaker 4: This is how he gets clients.
Speaker 3: Oh, so you pretended I just spelled my last name.
Speaker 3: And then it's like a funny.
Speaker 2: Story and then you're like, well, you know what, Yeah,
Speaker 2: I want tennis lessons, and then it works.
Speaker 3: I was pretty flatter becau Jimmy found like six feet tall.
Speaker 3: So you should have seen me walking around my chest.
Speaker 1: Out huh so good? So uh, Tony, you think what
Speaker 1: I'm playing tennis is a good thing for me?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I think it'd be cute for you, cute for me mine,
Speaker 5: I don't know, just like cute.
Speaker 7: Little short shorts romping around the tennis court.
Speaker 5: What if someone said that about you?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Right, Like, how is that? How is that not offensive?
Speaker 3: Should What if I just want to hit a ball
Speaker 3: over the net to get a little.
Speaker 5: Exercise, clients, and it doesn't matter what the war.
Speaker 3: Is, baggy sweats and an oversized hoodie. I'm gonna look
Speaker 3: like Justin Bieber on the court.
Speaker 5: Thank you, Justin Bieber. Whatever your heart desires.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: So, this reason I bring this up because you're considering something,
Speaker 3: and that is is working out with your partner in
Speaker 3: your case, your fiance.
Speaker 1: Is that consider quality time?
Speaker 8: Now?
Speaker 1: Why why do you ask this?
Speaker 7: Well, because we both fall on two completely different sides
Speaker 7: of this, and because we haven't had a lot of
Speaker 7: quality time together lately. And we were going into our
Speaker 7: workout class the other day and Robbie goes, I'm looking
Speaker 7: forward to having this quality time with you, and I
Speaker 7: was like, not quality time, this is this is just
Speaker 7: a necessity in our day that we happen to be
Speaker 7: able to align that means of the timing.
Speaker 4: I'm with him, take it while you can, and I'm
Speaker 4: with him.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Well it's so funny. It's like very torn. It
Speaker 5: was like fifty to fifty.
Speaker 3: No, I consider it's an activity to do together, not
Speaker 3: evenly taking a hike together quality time. No different than
Speaker 3: a pottery class together. Quality time, hike time.
Speaker 7: It's different because you can chit chat on a hike
Speaker 7: when you're in a workout class with like blaring music
Speaker 7: and like you're running on a tread.
Speaker 3: Mitch looking at your workout, I think, I think you're
Speaker 3: by the way. I think I was trying to create
Speaker 3: something here.
Speaker 1: Why I was interesting.
Speaker 7: It's not that I wasn't making it an issue, but I.
Speaker 5: Was like, you're making it an issue.
Speaker 7: I want quality time. This to me, is not considered
Speaker 7: quality time.
Speaker 3: Getting ready, putting on your workout clothes, getting in the car,
Speaker 3: going together, doing the workout high fiving after maybe grabbing
Speaker 3: something afterwards.
Speaker 1: That's the quality time.
Speaker 2: Then addition to quality time, so it is quality time.
Speaker 4: It doesn't even be your only quality time.
Speaker 3: I think it's luxury. Correct, it's in the mix, but
Speaker 3: I think it's the luxury to go be able to
Speaker 3: work out with your.
Speaker 5: Partner just like him. I can't.
Speaker 2: I could work out with Michaels. These are opposite, like
Speaker 2: I can never work out with him, He goes.
Speaker 5: Do you know how many couples wish they could work together?
Speaker 1: Healthy?
Speaker 7: You know?
Speaker 1: Healthy?
Speaker 3: We are to be able to exercise together and feel
Speaker 3: good and create wellness for us as a couple, that
Speaker 3: we is a blessing.
Speaker 1: We should be grateful, gratituding.
Speaker 5: I'm not grateful.
Speaker 7: I'm just saying it doesn't consist considered quality time.
Speaker 1: I think you're going to lose this battle too.
Speaker 5: Sorry, bring it to you guys to back me up.
Speaker 3: And then I get well, no, there's right and wrong
Speaker 3: and you're wrong, and I'm like, I don't know what
Speaker 3: you may do. This is not great, this is wrong.
Speaker 3: Send us a talkback. Okay, I'm gonna play them. Talk
Speaker 3: back me right now. Is it quality time or not?
Speaker 3: If you have the luxury and the time to be
Speaker 3: fit with your partner. I think it's a total luxury.
Speaker 5: I think it's actually a really cute date.
Speaker 1: I do too. I like it and I encourage it.
Speaker 1: So if you want to.
Speaker 3: Send a talk back, you know what to do. Why
Speaker 3: am I looking at a poll? Did we take a poll?
Speaker 9: Oh?
Speaker 7: So I went to Instagram because we were like nah,
Speaker 7: and Instagram was almost fifty to fifty.
Speaker 5: It was like fifty eight to forty.
Speaker 3: They're tilted in the wrong direction, I think, so, they said,
Speaker 3: But they said, yes, it wasn't fifty to fifty. It
Speaker 3: is fifty seven to forty three.
Speaker 1: That's not half, that's.
Speaker 5: Close to half. It's almost sixty forty. It's close to
Speaker 5: fifty to fifty.
Speaker 1: It's almost six out of four.
Speaker 3: Say in favor of quality time anyway, call us or
Speaker 3: talkback red microphone. This has gone on entirely too long,
Speaker 3: But I really am inspired by couples that get.
Speaker 1: Quality time to work out together.
Speaker 2: It's kind of.
Speaker 1: Cute, Tanya.
Speaker 3: Any wedding plans that we need to be aware of,
Speaker 3: I mean, you've changed the date but didn't tell me,
Speaker 3: and now I'm just curious, are you going to share
Speaker 3: any wedding date plans anytime soon?
Speaker 5: Right no, but right now we're exploring Cabo.
Speaker 1: I love CoA over Thanksgiving?
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, well.
Speaker 1: I'm not making that up. You were telling me about
Speaker 1: things I know.
Speaker 5: I know that was the plan for a minute and then.
Speaker 1: No, all right, I never last her day.
Speaker 5: I never locked that in.
Speaker 1: I mean, Sisney, she told me to hold my Thanksgiving.
Speaker 4: That's a big ask.
Speaker 1: Well it's a big ass. But she didn't tell me
Speaker 1: she moved to Cabo.
Speaker 5: She told you that she needed to move the dates
Speaker 5: around last week.
Speaker 1: I love Kapa. What season are we talking about?
Speaker 4: You can go any season.
Speaker 7: My big thing was the weather, and I was a
Speaker 7: word about La because it's so unpredictable. And someone's like,
Speaker 7: have you looked into Mexico?
Speaker 5: And I was like, no.
Speaker 1: The last wedding I performed at was a Mexican.
Speaker 4: Wow, you're a Mexican performer?
Speaker 1: Was my sister?
Speaker 5: I know, wish she got married in Combo too. I
Speaker 5: wish I should ask your sister if she liked it.
Speaker 5: I'm sure she she create hers.
Speaker 1: And done great. It was great. I still have my
Speaker 1: suit if at.
Speaker 2: Least you know Ryan's already done the dress rehearsal part.
Speaker 1: You know, that's exactly where to go on the day.
Speaker 3: Marc is about carrying the veil, the train, the train,
Speaker 3: the train.
Speaker 1: I not to carry the train, the train of the veil. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess what's in the back the dress of
Speaker 3: the veil. That long thing that you train. Yeah, that
Speaker 3: thing I know how to do that.
Speaker 5: Cute.
Speaker 3: Well, keep me posted. Team meeting, staff meeting, family meeting. Actually, yes,
Speaker 3: Sisney's begun to lie to her kids.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, it's not begun to lie, it's well
Speaker 2: you continue to I had well, I had to tell
Speaker 2: a little lie the other day and then I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: it's just too much to explain. So funny enough, we
Speaker 2: were talking about parking meters yesterday when I went to
Speaker 2: pick up the birthday cake for Michael. I had the
Speaker 2: twins with me, and when I get out, I realized
Speaker 2: I didn't have my wallet. Now the cake was paid
Speaker 2: for and all that, I just had to go and
Speaker 2: get it and be done. And so when I parked,
Speaker 2: we were at a meter and I'm like, we're literally
Speaker 2: just gonna run in and run.
Speaker 4: Out, and Asa is like, well, no, you have to pay.
Speaker 4: You have to pay the meter.
Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't have my wallet, I
Speaker 2: don't have a coin. I'm like, we're just gonna go,
Speaker 2: but we're breaking the law, mom, we're breaking the lawn.
Speaker 2: And I was like, it's gonna be fine. We'll just
Speaker 2: we'll pay double next time. I said something just like
Speaker 2: you can do that. And then I was like yeah,
Speaker 2: so whenever it was a stupid lie and.
Speaker 5: I just I did what I had to do.
Speaker 2: But now I'm like, dang, like this is this gonna
Speaker 2: be a snowball effective?
Speaker 3: I mean, it's a slippery slope. Next thing, you know,
Speaker 3: you're stealing power bars out of Vaughn's. I'm not stealing,
Speaker 3: and your kids are saying you can't take the gum
Speaker 3: in the power bar. That's against the law. I mean
Speaker 3: in a rush, shit, a panchion, a panic. I don't
Speaker 3: think that's uncommon for parents to do. But what I
Speaker 3: love is that you've trained your kids to call you out.
Speaker 5: Was like, like, not mellowed.
Speaker 1: You're actually gonna get me in trouble.
Speaker 5: I know.
Speaker 3: They say it's the last thing you should do before
Speaker 3: you leave the house in the morning. It will reduce
Speaker 3: your chance of getting into an accident, and it should
Speaker 3: be the last thing you do because you will get
Speaker 3: in fewer car accidents.
Speaker 1: And it's kissed your partner. Oh, kiss your partner.
Speaker 4: Yes, who doesn't do this?
Speaker 1: I can tell you I don't. I did not this morning.
Speaker 3: Well, I have a I have a higher likelihood of
Speaker 3: getting into a car accident because it didn't kiss anyway.
Speaker 1: Kiss Georgia.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I kiss Georgia.
Speaker 1: I can kiss Georgia. You ever kissed you? You ever
Speaker 1: kissed yourself like in the mirror?
Speaker 2: Right only when I was like in sixth grade and
Speaker 2: I was exactly how you practice.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was gonna say I've done that, like recently.
Speaker 7: You kiss yourself in your mirror, like you know, when
Speaker 7: you have like your affirmations on the window or like
Speaker 7: on the mirror and stuff.
Speaker 1: You actually put your lips to your lips on the mirror.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna ask you not to share that.
Speaker 5: I'm not like making out with myself.
Speaker 3: Like, No, kissing yourself as an adult is too much, Tanya, Sorry, Tanya,
Speaker 3: that's not it. Drivers get into your accidents and when
Speaker 3: they kiss their significant other before they leave house, kiss
Speaker 3: your partner before you get in the car.
Speaker 1: Every day. Today's quote, go say to this one.
Speaker 3: Saving eight dollars a day equals three thousand dollars a year.
Speaker 3: Reading twenty pages a day equals thirty books a year.
Speaker 5: Dang.
Speaker 3: Walking ten thousand steps a day equals seventy marathons a year.
Speaker 3: Never underestimate the power of small habits.
Speaker 2: Yo, the eight dollar one, that one really resonates eight bucks.
Speaker 4: In a pity bank.
Speaker 5: I need more small habits.
Speaker 10: Go kiss yourself.
Speaker 3: That's my code name. On my code name, everybody calls
Speaker 3: me a small habit.
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Speaker 2: Several northbound lanes of the five are shut down in
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Speaker 4: Only the right lane is open.
Speaker 2: Flower Street between Venice and Pegle Boulevards are also closed
Speaker 2: today due to an explosive fire in a vacant building
Speaker 2: that started around four this morning. The Rams lost to
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Speaker 2: dozens of you people gathered at Echo Park Lake Saturday
Speaker 2: morning to judge a winner in a keesl Pluma lookalike contest. Yeah,
Speaker 2: a guy named Oscar from Downey was the winner on
Speaker 2: air with a Ryan Seacretsy.
Speaker 1: Now, Sistney has a story.
Speaker 3: There's a lot of people talking about this and it
Speaker 3: has to do with texting.
Speaker 1: It's a texting Trentania says, she's guilty. What is it?
Speaker 2: Well, it's called hey hanging and it's when I mean,
Speaker 2: chances are you've been a victim of it, or worse
Speaker 2: you are a hey hangar And if that's the case, stop.
Speaker 2: It's when you just text somebody hey or.
Speaker 1: Hey, call me Hi? Yeah, like Hey, Hi, like Hi Hey? Okay.
Speaker 2: It's that first just initial hey, and then there's nothing
Speaker 2: to follow it up. So it creates a lot of anxiety.
Speaker 2: And also just for me, it's a pet peeve and
Speaker 2: it's been happening more and more and more, and of
Speaker 2: course gen Z for the first to raise their hand
Speaker 2: and be like this is not okay, especially in the workplace,
Speaker 2: because to get something like this from your boss is panicky,
Speaker 2: Like when you get a hey, call me from your boss.
Speaker 4: Your mind, Your mind spirals, and you're like, what is right?
Speaker 1: What I do wrong?
Speaker 5: Do I need nothing? Even relate?
Speaker 4: I don't know. It just kind of goes there.
Speaker 1: So I know what's a way to do it?
Speaker 2: Don't just say get get your point out in the text,
Speaker 2: like what is the point of a hey? And then
Speaker 2: why can't you just call me?
Speaker 11: Right?
Speaker 5: Why can't you just call?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I.
Speaker 5: Just stand up for the hay hangers.
Speaker 7: I would just like to say that sometimes you want
Speaker 7: a quick response. You don't want the person to think
Speaker 7: too much about the answer. So I'll do a hey,
Speaker 7: laba hey, so that I need to know that they
Speaker 7: are near their phone so that I can love my
Speaker 7: question for that. So I'm just letting you know as
Speaker 7: a hey, hangar, that is the do you know what
Speaker 7: it is?
Speaker 2: It's we have so many notifications happening on our desktops,
Speaker 2: on our phones and whatever. A hey, it's just like
Speaker 2: another notification without any sort of info behind it.
Speaker 5: But just right in with the question.
Speaker 7: You might you might you might not respond right away
Speaker 7: that you might see it, and then you know, some
Speaker 7: people look at their phones and then leave it for hours.
Speaker 5: I want to get you when.
Speaker 4: I know who you hay hang but you don't hate
Speaker 4: hang me.
Speaker 5: Well that's good.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you get you get to it. You always just
Speaker 4: kind of just hey.
Speaker 2: What's that one restaurant that you might go into six
Speaker 2: years ago?
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, what.
Speaker 3: Isn't it isn't that hay hang hey by Text's kind
Speaker 3: of like the head nod when you're in Yes, it's
Speaker 3: a head nod of text thing like I don't know,
Speaker 3: but I would say not wanting anything or need anything.
Speaker 1: It's just like I'm connected to you, bro.
Speaker 2: I just say hey back, and then I'm like, hey, hey, hey,
Speaker 2: what are we doing?
Speaker 1: Call me?
Speaker 5: Why can't you call me? No?
Speaker 1: Didn't I send you? Call me an urgent the other
Speaker 1: day or timely?
Speaker 3: I say urgent or timely when I was looking for
Speaker 3: a tailor swift starting rush rush?
Speaker 1: Yeah, which quickly?
Speaker 5: Interesting word?
Speaker 1: Rush? Call me rush?
Speaker 5: Hurry are always panicky?
Speaker 1: Don't hurry up because I think I was really rushed.
Speaker 1: So rush was only four letters. I could get type fast.
Speaker 4: The fact that you're like had thinks that is really genius.
Speaker 1: Because it's so busy up there in that head.
Speaker 5: What is going on there?
Speaker 3: It's not Sysney you were the big talk. I did
Speaker 3: a meeting with Chase Bank for advertisers. Yeah, you did
Speaker 3: a big promotion in Miami for Chase, remember that I did. Wow,
Speaker 3: we did a talk of the meeting, but like we
Speaker 3: did a big thing with Siciny and.
Speaker 5: Chase Bank in Miami.
Speaker 3: In Miami, creating a little fomo. Yeah you know, Tanya Siany.
Speaker 3: I do these meetings and I meet with potential advertisers
Speaker 3: and usually when I meet there with them, they have
Speaker 3: not advertised and they're maybe looking to advertise on the show.
Speaker 3: And so by way to the Chase family, JP, Morgan, Chase,
Speaker 3: it was a pleasure meeting all of you there. And
Speaker 3: I started the meeting by looking at everyone's socks and
Speaker 3: a lot of them I thought were gen zers and
Speaker 3: they were wearing ankle socks.
Speaker 1: And I was told that ankle socks are out.
Speaker 3: But I brought this up to JP Morgan Chase, Nice,
Speaker 3: the Chase bankers.
Speaker 1: They just sort of smiled and laughed and they.
Speaker 3: Looked to me as if I was uninformed, and I
Speaker 3: just said I read this, and Sissy and Tanya said
Speaker 3: they were kind of out.
Speaker 1: I blamed you, and that's when they said, oh, sissy.
Speaker 1: We love her.
Speaker 3: She did this amazing promotion with Chase Bank and too. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I love her, but she's wrong about the ankle socks.
Speaker 3: So you missed the big meeting JP Morgan Chase.
Speaker 4: Well, invite me happy to come next time.
Speaker 1: Well I think they uh scheduled it during your music meetings.
Speaker 3: No problem, all right, speaking of ciciny with the goods
Speaker 3: here connecting on every level. This is something that got
Speaker 3: under your skin. This's fired you up a little bit,
Speaker 3: really did, because think about this because I don't do
Speaker 3: the math.
Speaker 4: That's the thing.
Speaker 2: We rely on technology to do the math for us
Speaker 2: because we have that technology, so why not?
Speaker 4: But now I'm second.
Speaker 2: Guessing every time I leave a tip because you know
Speaker 2: how sometimes if you're in an app, or like at
Speaker 2: a restaurant or at a store, whatever, it gives you
Speaker 2: the option to leave fifteen percent, eighteen percent, twenty percent,
Speaker 2: whatever it is, you don't even think about it, right,
Speaker 2: You push the button?
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, you sign you move on with life. Well there.
Speaker 2: It came to my attention on TikTok the other day
Speaker 2: and they showed me like this, this is a certain restaurant.
Speaker 2: We're not going to call him out but this guy
Speaker 2: was showing like him paying the bill, and he's like, look,
Speaker 2: my bill is twenty seven dollars, and if I put
Speaker 2: twenty percent, it's adding eight dollars and thirty cents to
Speaker 2: this bill.
Speaker 1: And that is not what's twenty percent.
Speaker 2: So twenty percent of twenty seven should be five dollars
Speaker 2: and forty cents, not just eight dollars.
Speaker 3: No, it's calibrated wrong. Or is was this a one off?
Speaker 3: I don't know, a system wide issue?
Speaker 12: Right?
Speaker 2: So the other day, yeah, the other day I was
Speaker 2: ordering Instacart and then I went to go tip the
Speaker 2: driver and then I panicked and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: let me do the math.
Speaker 4: Now I'm wasting time doing math. It was great, it
Speaker 4: was right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is something today.
Speaker 3: Anybody who's getting their coffee, Well, coffee can pray calulate
Speaker 3: pretty well. But anywady's getting a meal today for lunch
Speaker 3: with your co workers, like, hit it and check it
Speaker 3: and check it and tell us if it's if this
Speaker 3: was like a one off er, if this is more
Speaker 3: of a system wide issue, right, well, I assume it's.
Speaker 5: You literally never checked it.
Speaker 4: I've never never in my life thought about it.
Speaker 1: Either.
Speaker 3: Businesses can get inside there and tinker with it to record.
Speaker 7: Maybe they round up what would be twenty percent of
Speaker 7: thirty dollars.
Speaker 3: Well, that would be six dollars ten times to thank you,
Speaker 3: Sisney did it much faster.
Speaker 1: That's why you advertise for the bank.
Speaker 4: Ye I chase, you got the wrong.
Speaker 1: Tay, that's what chases your came I don't know.
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I think this is like a
Speaker 3: citywide test today, Orange County, La County.
Speaker 1: Next drive through our work, I'll check it.
Speaker 5: I mean, these little dollars add up. Yeah, it's not right.
Speaker 1: I'm going to another drive through.
Speaker 5: And it's not even.
Speaker 4: About the money. I love tipping big, I really do.
Speaker 2: It's the it's the fact that they're lying to us.
Speaker 4: Yes, exactly.
Speaker 5: Wait what drive through? Are you working?
Speaker 1: Going to pop into a drive through?
Speaker 2: Love?
Speaker 1: I love doing new things for you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of. I was so into the drive through.
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna show up in another one.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I might be a fast food restaurant, might be
Speaker 1: a coffee shop. I don't know.
Speaker 2: It's gonna be a cool promotion that we could do
Speaker 2: with you. Like you never know where you're gonna pop up.
Speaker 2: But if you do pop up, you come with.
Speaker 7: Thousands of dollars r out to people like Ryan's roast,
Speaker 7: not Ryan's roast, but like roasted coffee, not like a roast.
Speaker 1: Oh sure, Ryan, Ryan through, Ryan through.
Speaker 4: You never know what he's gonna come through, and then
Speaker 4: you come through with the money.
Speaker 3: But I have to tell you I had so much
Speaker 3: fun work Stoworks drive through. I'm gonna do it again,
Speaker 3: all right. Yeah, if you have a drive through that
Speaker 3: I could drop into. I just just spent an hour
Speaker 3: or so taking orders and past I need to pass
Speaker 3: them through the window because I love looking inside people's cars.
Speaker 5: Mm hmm.
Speaker 3: That was the Because you tall, you're like higher than
Speaker 3: the car. You can see what's in between their seats
Speaker 3: and in their seats. It's rot morning. Well I did
Speaker 3: that one at Sebburts and in the morning, body's in there, jammis.
Speaker 3: A lot of people were one two point seven kiss FM.
Speaker 3: So let's get into Ryan's roses, Ryan assistant and Tanya.
Speaker 1: It's Monica and Winnette cut.
Speaker 3: She says, I walked into the bathroom while my husband
Speaker 3: was in the shower and found him.
Speaker 1: Doing this to his body. Why would he do that?
Speaker 11: What was he doing?
Speaker 1: If not for another woman.
Speaker 3: Hold on for a second, Ruby, Yes, I just saw
Speaker 3: you take a big gulp of Health Aid kombucha flavor having.
Speaker 4: This is the ginger lemon.
Speaker 5: Oh, that's a good one.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 3: It's great in the morning, it's great in the evening.
Speaker 3: But it's also great before we make a big call
Speaker 3: like this on the air.
Speaker 13: Right.
Speaker 3: It settles you, doesn't It settles your stomach, settles your nerves.
Speaker 3: Get ready, it's gets your good gut, the probiotics. Anybody
Speaker 3: else need to swig before we get into might as
Speaker 3: well pass it over here, mis traumatic phone call. All right, Monica, Hello,
Speaker 3: we're ready to tackle this.
Speaker 1: And Hi.
Speaker 3: All right, Hi, So tell Sisney and Tanya what you
Speaker 3: saw your husband doing in the shower.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so I.
Speaker 9: Needed something that was in the bathroom. I don't even
Speaker 9: remember what it was, to be honest with you, I
Speaker 9: knew that he was in the shower.
Speaker 13: I could hear it.
Speaker 11: But we're married, so who cares? And I knocked.
Speaker 9: I went in and I was really stunned to see
Speaker 9: him standing in the shower shaving himself.
Speaker 4: Why is that so alarming?
Speaker 9: Well, I mean it was his whole body, and it's
Speaker 9: his chest, his stomach because everything, and it's weird to
Speaker 9: me because he's never done anything like that before, and
Speaker 9: we have not been intimate.
Speaker 11: In a long time.
Speaker 9: It's been pretty infrequent since the kids. To be honest,
Speaker 9: I don't actually remember the last time, and I do
Speaker 9: take my share of responsibility for that. But I just
Speaker 9: can't think of a reason why a man would shave
Speaker 9: his entire body unless he's met someone new and she
Speaker 9: likes it. That's why it's alarming to you.
Speaker 3: Exactly, he's never pulished it up like that, and now
Speaker 3: she's wondering, who's who's inspiring this maintenance.
Speaker 1: So how long you've been married to him?
Speaker 9: Thirteen years?
Speaker 3: Okay, Monica walks in on her husband in a shower
Speaker 3: and he shaved his whole body. Why he's never done
Speaker 3: it before? She thinks it's because he's doing it for
Speaker 3: someone else. Monica, just thinking this through.
Speaker 2: I have one question for Monica. Monica, So that day
Speaker 2: that you saw him shaving his whole body, where were
Speaker 2: you two that night? Were you together that night? Did
Speaker 2: he say he had to be out late that night?
Speaker 4: That night?
Speaker 9: We were together that night? Okay, there wasn't a special occasion,
Speaker 9: and I did ask him. I said, you know, what
Speaker 9: are you doing? And he said that he wanted to
Speaker 9: try something new? And I said, okay, why and he
Speaker 9: said he didn't know, just because and then we were together.
Speaker 9: It's not like we tried anything new, you know, or anything.
Speaker 6: M hm.
Speaker 1: And Monica, just why do you think what's going on?
Speaker 3: It makes you think just because he shaved himself all
Speaker 3: over that he's cheating, Like you don't feel.
Speaker 1: Comfortable or confident.
Speaker 9: Well, he doesn't go to the gym, he's not a swimmer.
Speaker 9: He works in a shipping company warehouse. Like this doesn't
Speaker 9: seem normal to me. And I can't come up with
Speaker 9: any other reason because it's just really out of character
Speaker 9: for him.
Speaker 1: Let's get into it. Let's get into it. I need
Speaker 1: you to say, Ryan, you have my permission to call
Speaker 1: and then his name.
Speaker 9: Go ahead, Ryan, you have my permission to call.
Speaker 8: It.
Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna do it. Now, be very quiet.
Speaker 1: Let's sayten.
Speaker 3: He try and find out who's top of mind, what
Speaker 3: he's thinking about, who he might send the flowers to,
Speaker 3: and then we'll bring you in once we tell him
Speaker 3: he's on the air. Okay, Monica, Okay, all right, Monica
Speaker 3: and win Nekka hang tight, here we go.
Speaker 1: Good luck.
Speaker 5: So, Hi is this Jason?
Speaker 13: Uh?
Speaker 11: Yeah, it is Hi.
Speaker 2: My name is Michelle.
Speaker 4: I'm calling from Vava Bloom. How are you doing this morning?
Speaker 8: Uh?
Speaker 11: What?
Speaker 2: We're a flower business that delivers all over Los Angeles
Speaker 2: and offering a promotion today of a free dozen red
Speaker 2: roses that you can send to anybody that you'd like.
Speaker 11: So let me get this straight. So I don't understand.
Speaker 11: So I just what do I give your name an address?
Speaker 4: Yeah, we could send them to any.
Speaker 11: Roses And just what do you get out of it?
Speaker 11: I don't understand.
Speaker 2: It's a free dozen red roses that you get to
Speaker 2: send to anybody that you'd like. I would just need
Speaker 2: the name of the person. We can put a note.
Speaker 2: I'm trying to promote my business, and all I ask
Speaker 2: is that if you're pleased with our arrangements, you come
Speaker 2: back as a customer one day.
Speaker 4: We can start with the name of the person.
Speaker 5: So there's no you know what I don't need.
Speaker 2: I don't need cash, I don't need credit card info
Speaker 2: or I mean any info from you.
Speaker 11: Really, none of that you need.
Speaker 2: We can start with the name of the person and
Speaker 2: a note, and then we can figure out delivery.
Speaker 9: I tell you what.
Speaker 11: I tell you what, so send them to too?
Speaker 2: Okay, hang on one second, let me do Let's do
Speaker 2: the address a little bit later, because in the bottom
Speaker 2: part of my computer, why don't we start with the
Speaker 2: note of the person you want to send to?
Speaker 4: Who are they going to?
Speaker 11: I'd rather not put put the name on there, to
Speaker 11: be honest.
Speaker 5: Okay, I can ask why.
Speaker 11: Uh well yeah, I just you know, just can't you
Speaker 11: just maybe just I tell you what?
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 11: What time would they come about?
Speaker 2: We can have them delivered by lunchtime today? Would that work?
Speaker 13: Oh?
Speaker 11: Oh, that's that's literally perfect. Okay, So meet you out front.
Speaker 11: I'll meet you out front.
Speaker 2: Well, we can get this no going because we have
Speaker 2: like really nice cards that they get printed on. So
Speaker 2: what would you like to say on the note?
Speaker 11: No, No, it's fine. Look listen to me. I'll be
Speaker 11: in a silver SRV just right up front, and I
Speaker 11: can just take them from you.
Speaker 2: The whole point of this is to promote our delivery service.
Speaker 2: That would be really beneficial.
Speaker 11: Yeah, just so, why don't you just drop them off
Speaker 11: to me? I mean, you'll be in a van.
Speaker 3: Jason, Jason, Jason, your voice is being broadcast in the radio.
Speaker 1: I've got your wife, Monica on the line. Why are
Speaker 1: you shaving? Jason?
Speaker 3: Why are you your voice is being broadcast here, your
Speaker 3: wife is on the line. Why are you shaving your body?
Speaker 1: Entirely? It's something you've never done before, and it's curious.
Speaker 11: What the hell? How would you even know who told
Speaker 11: you that?
Speaker 1: Your wife told me?
Speaker 3: What is your wife told me that you've been shaving
Speaker 3: your body for the first time, and that's not normally
Speaker 3: what you do.
Speaker 1: And we're curious, all of us to know why you're
Speaker 1: doing that.
Speaker 11: That's none of your business. Man Like, I'm not asking.
Speaker 3: Because I want to know them, but your wife would
Speaker 3: like to know, and she's asked me to ask you.
Speaker 3: And who live at the address that you.
Speaker 1: Just gave me.
Speaker 10: That Jason confident and your dress Monica lives there, Honey, No,
Speaker 10: it's address, Jason. I can come on the address. I
Speaker 10: can find out how I can drive over there.
Speaker 1: So let's find out that address. That's not your address?
Speaker 11: I shaved? Why would you tell the radio that I'm shaving?
Speaker 1: It doesn't matter who who are you sending the roses to.
Speaker 11: Listen? It's look, it's complicated, okay, complicated.
Speaker 3: Okay, let's uncomplicate. Let's deconstruct this. Jason, you're married to Monica.
Speaker 3: Did you send the roses to Monica?
Speaker 11: I don't care about you, honey, No, no, no, did you?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 13: Yes, yes, no, fine, I'm going over there right now.
Speaker 6: You'll be there and noon, I'll be there by eight thirty.
Speaker 3: Wait, Jason, did you send the roses to Monica? The
Speaker 3: answer is no, So who'd you just send them to?
Speaker 13: You?
Speaker 11: Man? You just screwed everything up, man, I did.
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: Those are your actions, Jason, you screwed everything up.
Speaker 1: Hello, he's gone. I'm guessing he's not gonna be a fan.
Speaker 4: I'm guessing that he's a cheater.
Speaker 3: Well, I get I mean you'll react like that unless
Speaker 3: you're covering something up.
Speaker 1: Huh mm hmmm. I think we got it.
Speaker 3: But he used some unsavory language there this morning Saucy
Speaker 3: on Air with a Ryan Seacrets.
Speaker 1: On Air with a Ryan Seacret. We just had a
Speaker 1: Ryan Schrose's call. So here's the short.
Speaker 3: Monica reached out. She's like, Okay, you won't believe this.
Speaker 3: My husband of years I caught him shaving his whole
Speaker 3: body in the shower. Weird to think it's for an
Speaker 3: We get him on the line. He's not happy he's
Speaker 3: on the line. He sends the flowers to a sketchy address,
Speaker 3: not their address, not his wife's address. I asked him
Speaker 3: who he's sending him to, what's the address? All about
Speaker 3: why you're shaving yourself? And he told me I suck,
Speaker 3: so that's kind of it, and then he hung up
Speaker 3: or she hung up.
Speaker 1: He hung up, right.
Speaker 3: Turns out he's definitely sending the roses to somebody else,
Speaker 3: and based on his intense reaction to my questioning, he's cheating.
Speaker 5: I think for sure, based on that and his anger,
Speaker 5: major anger.
Speaker 1: It was kind of scary.
Speaker 4: Girl, Wasn't it totally scary?
Speaker 1: If you were me, you wouldn't want to be me. No, hm, Kamila,
Speaker 1: good morning? How are you?
Speaker 6: Good morning? I'm good. I'm better than she is. I
Speaker 6: just want to say, like, anytime a guy is making
Speaker 6: changes like that, and you all have been together for
Speaker 6: a long time, you know something.
Speaker 3: Is up, Like I don't know, Like I could see
Speaker 3: myself like getting a better body and then wanting to
Speaker 3: put oil on it and stuff, and.
Speaker 6: You're hot, like you're naturally hot, escape being married.
Speaker 1: Don't laugh.
Speaker 2: Laughing after he got chewed out by the husband, and
Speaker 2: this is exactly what he.
Speaker 4: Needs to hear.
Speaker 6: Listen, that man does not need his ego stroke. He
Speaker 6: knows he's hot. Okay, you like if you were cutting
Speaker 6: your hair, you're going through major changes like that. Also,
Speaker 6: if you've been together more than like even four years,
Speaker 6: and your man is manscaping suddenly, that's questionable, like why
Speaker 6: is he caving his I'm choking going to that woman's house.
Speaker 6: I'll drive with her if she wants, I'll give her
Speaker 6: a rut.
Speaker 3: Well, thank you for being a passionate, loyal member of
Speaker 3: this show. I appreciate your feedback on all accounts here
Speaker 3: this morning.
Speaker 1: And you take a Karen.
Speaker 4: Hoiland Park You're welcome back anytime.
Speaker 1: Who's in charge of that?
Speaker 3: Because that's good Again, the whole Ryan's roses and then
Speaker 3: not getting that body part out there, good job.
Speaker 1: You deserve a gold that's the golden star.
Speaker 4: Later that the dump button.
Speaker 1: John John Parrs stand up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, hilarious, he's standing out.
Speaker 3: Put on your mic turn your microphone on, pull it
Speaker 3: over there here it comes.
Speaker 1: I'm here.
Speaker 3: So it's kind of boring watching us every day until
Speaker 3: words like that come out right right.
Speaker 1: But I was ready for it.
Speaker 4: He's always ready for it.
Speaker 1: So explain to me how it works.
Speaker 14: Well, ron a delay, so we hear everything in the
Speaker 14: studio first before the listener hears it.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
Speaker 14: And there's a dumb button right here, a dump button,
Speaker 14: the pepeep, and it takes out whatever the caller says
Speaker 14: that shit in there. And then how does that work
Speaker 14: with the delay? Do we lose delay time for every
Speaker 14: second we dump?
Speaker 13: We do?
Speaker 3: Yeah, tubbs, whatever about that though, but oh, toms, tubbs,
Speaker 3: come on, this.
Speaker 1: Is interes fascinating tubs.
Speaker 3: So we we heard a body part there, and in
Speaker 3: Ryan's roses we heard a couple bombs, f bombs and
Speaker 3: some other things. So how many seconds do we get
Speaker 3: to dump before we have no more to dump?
Speaker 8: We have up to twenty four seconds for each button press.
Speaker 8: It takes I believe five seconds.
Speaker 1: Yeah, five.
Speaker 3: So we're pretty much walking on thin ice right now
Speaker 3: after all the dumps this morning.
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, it takes a few minutes to build that
Speaker 8: time back.
Speaker 1: Oh you recalibrate the dump. Uh no, it's just when
Speaker 1: you hit it five seconds gone.
Speaker 8: It's gonna take another few minutes and it's going to
Speaker 8: add a second or so of delay time.
Speaker 1: Is this confusing to anyone?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 9: Get it?
Speaker 11: You do?
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I used to be a bord operator for years before
Speaker 4: on the air.
Speaker 1: You didn't have all the dump dump stuff to deal with.
Speaker 4: Dump here and there, live re modes, things like that.
Speaker 3: Okay, we're getting into the weeds. I'm gonna take a break.
Speaker 3: That's Ryan's roses. That's what happens. Thank you coming, Thank you.
Speaker 5: Dumps on air with Ryan.
Speaker 1: Laura, good morning, Hi, good morning.
Speaker 3: I don't know how we're going to handle this because
Speaker 3: it's a sensitive issue. It sounds like a degenerous notion
Speaker 3: that your dad's retiring to watch your daughter, but apparently
Speaker 3: you don't want that.
Speaker 1: Tell us more about this concern.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 6: I love my dad so so much.
Speaker 12: He's a great dad, but I just don't know if
Speaker 12: I want him as my daughter's full time caretaker. You know,
Speaker 12: when he announced to us that he.
Speaker 6: Was retiring, we were so excited for him, my husband
Speaker 6: and I, and.
Speaker 12: Then when he announced that he was retiring to watch
Speaker 12: our child, I was kind of taken aback. So, you know,
Speaker 12: I'm hiring my baby this fall, and he's talking about
Speaker 12: us bringing her to watch my child at his place
Speaker 12: is just twenty minutes away.
Speaker 9: Like the logistics don't make sense.
Speaker 11: So I don't know.
Speaker 12: You're right, is a sensitive issue and I just don't
Speaker 12: know how to say, I love you, but I rather
Speaker 12: put her in daycare.
Speaker 1: Right, Wow, I know these are this is really difficult.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Is your dad young.
Speaker 12: My dad is not really that young, so that's a factor.
Speaker 2: And you know, I wouldn't trust my kids. I wouldn't
Speaker 2: trust my kids with any of the grandpas and my family.
Speaker 1: To be honest, you gotta give, you know, older parents
Speaker 1: what they want.
Speaker 2: But a newborn baby is a lot of work and
Speaker 2: there's schedules that you have to stick to, and grandparents
Speaker 2: don't stick to schedules. Like if my dad watched my
Speaker 2: kids every single day after school, he would feed them
Speaker 2: in and out, and like, who knows they watched.
Speaker 1: TV all day.
Speaker 3: I disagree because my mom was like wrote down notes
Speaker 3: about what my sister told her when Flora was a baby,
Speaker 3: and she went by the book.
Speaker 1: You were not allowed to deviate, but.
Speaker 4: That's I'm telling you cannot deviate.
Speaker 2: Sometimes grandparents have their own agenda and they're like, well
Speaker 2: this worked when I did it twenty years ago.
Speaker 7: Maybe there's like a hybrid situation that you can do
Speaker 7: because maybe your dad doesn't remember what it's like to
Speaker 7: have a full time newborn, and so maybe in his
Speaker 7: mind think he's like, oh, I'll go to certain things
Speaker 7: here and there and not be like the full time caretaker.
Speaker 3: Has he seen like can he mirror you and see
Speaker 3: what you've got to do? And then you can confirm
Speaker 3: with him that he's up for it, because maybe he'll say, oh,
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm not up.
Speaker 11: For it, right.
Speaker 12: I think a hybrid schedule is such a great idea
Speaker 12: that I didn't even know existed.
Speaker 11: So I'll have the thoughts.
Speaker 12: Good daycare is in my office when I go back
Speaker 12: to work, so maybe I'll talk to them and see,
Speaker 12: like if they have some kind of three days on,
Speaker 12: two days off type of schedule.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's a really good way to ease
Speaker 2: into it. Or maybe it's just a half day and
Speaker 2: then he picks up the baby just for three hours.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, might save you some money too.
Speaker 1: Or get on it.
Speaker 3: Don't listen to us anymore, Go get on it in
Speaker 3: good luck. Always difficult when you're dealing with family like that. Right, Yeah,
Speaker 3: I know, Oh all right, thanks for calling. I just
Speaker 3: loved that Laura called us instead a thing. Anybody else
Speaker 3: to talk about it.
Speaker 4: The best thing though, so she can't. Maybe she used
Speaker 4: that one an open mind.
Speaker 3: You know which airports lose the most luggage? Are you
Speaker 3: traveling today? Number one? Chicago loses the most luggage. Number
Speaker 3: two Vegas Y loses the most luggage. Number three San
Speaker 3: Diego loses the most luggage.
Speaker 2: Interesting, I wonder if the Vegas one is by design,
Speaker 2: because you're already there, you could shop the like should
Speaker 2: lose their luggage.
Speaker 1: La seven. It's not bad.
Speaker 3: I mean it's bad, but it's not bad. It's not great,
Speaker 3: not great. So love those little things hit my fever
Speaker 3: or on the show, Okay, let's get to it. There
Speaker 3: was a big response Tanya to whether or not you
Speaker 3: should have an indoor or an outdoor wedding.
Speaker 1: Now we talked about this.
Speaker 3: You were trying to choose between Robbie's parents backyard or
Speaker 3: a venue, right, And it sounds like you're lining more
Speaker 3: towards a venue. But I think I think I said
Speaker 3: I would choose a venue because it's a lot of
Speaker 3: pressure to put on Robbie's parents, and then after the
Speaker 3: wedding there's a lot of tear breakdown, tear down whatever,
Speaker 3: clean up, And I just don't know that they are
Speaker 3: they up for all that, Like, is that really what
Speaker 3: they want to do.
Speaker 5: They say they're up for it.
Speaker 1: They say it because they're good.
Speaker 4: But I think his mom s adjusted it right.
Speaker 5: Yeah, they would like Let they do say that they
Speaker 5: would love it.
Speaker 3: But then something's going to break, right, So I guess
Speaker 3: we asked venue or parents and is it a burden
Speaker 3: on the parents?
Speaker 1: A lot of responses, Jill said, Ryan is right, do
Speaker 1: it somewhere else?
Speaker 5: Well, Jill, I love that that was the first one.
Speaker 3: Right, this is a sample group here, Jackie said, I
Speaker 3: like the idea of his parents backyard. It's so intimate
Speaker 3: and personal and if the weather is bad, everyone heads inside.
Speaker 3: I mean, is that what his parents are going to want? No,
Speaker 3: you can't just like wing that right back to Jill.
Speaker 5: Do you want to grab a fold of chair head inside.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Susie, don't do it.
Speaker 3: Erica, Wow, we get an outdoor veting Temecula that had
Speaker 3: bad weather, get a backup playing.
Speaker 4: We definitely need a backup plan, that's for sure.
Speaker 1: Jill said, Rine's right, I'm seeing it right here.
Speaker 3: All right, Marcella says, indoors, you don't want to be
Speaker 3: walking down with sunglasses or squinting in your photos.
Speaker 5: I honestly never thought of that element.
Speaker 3: So tiny, debating parents' backyard or in a venue, I
Speaker 3: say venue.
Speaker 1: Tricia says, have it on the beach seems complicated, I know,
Speaker 1: not really.
Speaker 7: A feet in the sand kind of Bridey, start opening
Speaker 7: up your options here.
Speaker 3: Okay, take Off says I grew thrund having venue. They're
Speaker 3: paid to take care of all the set up and
Speaker 3: clean up. I'm just trying to create a less cause.
Speaker 3: I Tony, I know you well, I'm beginning to see
Speaker 3: your shoulders rise a little bit close to your neck,
Speaker 3: and that's like there's a little bit of stress that
Speaker 3: you're feeling about this whole thing, and one less issue
Speaker 3: or one less concern might relax a little bit more.
Speaker 7: Yeah, Honestly, I was getting to the point where I
Speaker 7: was like starting to feel that stress and that pressure,
Speaker 7: and Robbie's like this is fun, Like this is let's
Speaker 7: enjoy this, Let's go visit these venues, like let's enjoy
Speaker 7: And I'm like, you know what, You're right, there's no
Speaker 7: What the pressure is is in my mind is time
Speaker 7: is like time timetime, I have to do it fast.
Speaker 1: I do that, like honestly, let's drag this thing out.
Speaker 7: And also like, this is how I picked Robbie, this
Speaker 7: is how I picked him. I went through so many
Speaker 7: guys and I landed on the perfect one for me.
Speaker 7: So now I'm doing that with my venues.
Speaker 1: So are you thinking now twenty six or no?
Speaker 2: Definitely twenty twenty five do a venue to Michael and
Speaker 2: I did that one weekend and it was so much
Speaker 2: way to ten venues in one weekend.
Speaker 5: It was like, whooh, to be top of California, all
Speaker 5: the way in San Diego. Yeah, that's what I think
Speaker 5: we're gonna do.
Speaker 1: Nicole is on the line. Good morning, Nicole. You got
Speaker 1: all of us here.
Speaker 13: How are you?
Speaker 6: Hi?
Speaker 13: Ryan?
Speaker 11: Good?
Speaker 13: How are y all?
Speaker 3: We're doing fine? Okay, we're stepping in for some life advice.
Speaker 3: We're unqualified to give it, but we love to. What's
Speaker 3: the issue with your friend's boyfriend?
Speaker 13: So my friend has been dating her boyfriend for about
Speaker 13: a year now, and he just parties way too much.
Speaker 13: Like whenever they go out or do anything, they end
Speaker 13: up just having a wild night no matter what they do.
Speaker 13: And I mean I've witnessed this firsthand. Whenever they invite
Speaker 13: me out to dinner, we somehow end up going out
Speaker 13: afterwards to bars and it becomes such a crazy night.
Speaker 13: And it's honestly gone to the point where I don't
Speaker 13: want to hang out with them anymore because this has
Speaker 13: become the norm. They keep inviting me to hang out,
Speaker 13: but I keep coming up with a excuse, out your excuse,
Speaker 13: and just telling white lies because I just can't do
Speaker 13: the partying anymore and it's really exhausting. I guess I'm
Speaker 13: not really sure how to bring it up to my
Speaker 13: friend without insulting her or like her choice of her boyfriend.
Speaker 13: So what what do y'all think is the best way
Speaker 13: to handle the situation?
Speaker 11: Because I am absolutely set up.
Speaker 1: You're done two things here.
Speaker 3: One don't care like you you don't care so much
Speaker 3: about being directed and honest with them. And two, don't
Speaker 3: spend don't accept, don't spend time with them. But I
Speaker 3: think there's nothing wrong in saying, hey, look, you guys
Speaker 3: are a little wild. The tempo is a little too
Speaker 3: much for me, and you're a good friend truly if
Speaker 3: you can be open and honest and say that, don't
Speaker 3: you think, isn't it?
Speaker 2: Or you could have the self power to just go
Speaker 2: out to dinner and then not go out to the
Speaker 2: bars and all that, just call it at night, like
Speaker 2: like Tanya does that with me sometimes, you know, be
Speaker 2: like you out to dinner, like I want to keep going,
Speaker 2: and then she's like, you know, I'm done, I'm going
Speaker 2: to bed.
Speaker 4: So you just have to stop yourself as well.
Speaker 13: Call Yeah, that's so true. And I guess I don't
Speaker 13: think she realizes just how much like they really are
Speaker 13: partying and how it's truly affecting not only our relationship
Speaker 13: but her relationship with our other friends and everything else.
Speaker 3: I mean, a good friend is being a direct and
Speaker 3: honest friend, right, And so I think that you have Yeah,
Speaker 3: you have reason, you have, you have reason to to
Speaker 3: have that conversation. By the way, I would probably avoid
Speaker 3: saying it's her boyfriend also, right, I mean.
Speaker 1: On him, because becomes that becomes defensive.
Speaker 11: Yeah right, yeah, it really does.
Speaker 13: And that's where it gets like tricky, because it is him,
Speaker 13: like he's kind of the one who started this.
Speaker 11: She wasn't really like that before she.
Speaker 3: But she knows if you just say to her, look,
Speaker 3: you've seen a different side of her and it's becoming
Speaker 3: a little bit of an issue and you just want
Speaker 3: to make her ware. I think that's the best way
Speaker 3: to handle it. Be direct, to be honest. Thank you
Speaker 3: for calling, Nicole. You have a great Monday.
Speaker 13: Thank you all have a great day.
Speaker 1: Everything is as life goes on.
Speaker 3: Friends like that don't always stick around now exactly, you don't.
Speaker 3: I mean you don't have the same number as time
Speaker 3: goes on, and every now in the universe makes you
Speaker 3: edit your friends, and maybe that is somebody that doesn't
Speaker 3: need to be in her life.
Speaker 1: It's taking away from so well being and her wellness.
Speaker 1: I hate direct conversations.
Speaker 5: I keep ignoring.
Speaker 4: This could just happen naturally.
Speaker 5: That's what happened to me. Like all my friends from
Speaker 5: like ten years ago that I used to kind of
Speaker 5: party with.
Speaker 3: And all that that is going to do it for
Speaker 3: us today. Coming up tomorrow, we've got a second date
Speaker 3: up date. Have a great Monday, guys.
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