1 00:00:02,600 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod which Teddy Mellencamp and cam 2 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:08,280 Speaker 1: Ridge Edge. 3 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas in 4 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 2: a Pod with myself and I guess myself. 5 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 3: I am the only. 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: Host today, but I have a very special guest, Sonya 7 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: Richards Ross. Sonia Richards Ross is a retired Jamaican American 8 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 2: track and field athlete who competed internationally for the United 9 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 2: States and the four hundred meter sprint. Her notable accolades 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 2: in this event include being the twenty twelve Olympic Champion, 11 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: two thousand and nine World Champion, two thousand and eight 12 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 2: Olympic bronze medalists, and two thousand and five World silver medalists, 13 00:00:43,760 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 2: who with our victory in twenty twelve, she became the 14 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 2: second American woman woman to win the four hundred meters 15 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:51,159 Speaker 2: at the Olympic Games. 16 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:52,880 Speaker 3: I mean pretty much. 17 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: This girl can do a lot of things, and most importantly, 18 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,320 Speaker 2: she can forgive me for some. 19 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 3: Of the shitty things I've said about her. 20 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,759 Speaker 2: On this pod, because all in all, she is an 21 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 2: incredible woman and brings so much to the table, and 22 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: she's opening up to us on to Teas in a Pod. 23 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 2: So I am happy to have her as my guest 24 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: today to talk about all the things. Okay, Sonya, thank 25 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 2: you so much for joining us, And I have to 26 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: start with my first question being a personal related question 27 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 2: in regards to my daughter. So I was just reading 28 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: your bio and obviously, I mean, your Olympic story is 29 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: just so mind blowing to me. My daughter is ten 30 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 2: years old and she is so into equestrian. She practices, 31 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:48,080 Speaker 2: she you know, we compete, We're going to nationals next week. 32 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 3: It's everything to her. 33 00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: At what age did you start your Olympic dreams and 34 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,040 Speaker 2: what would you say was like the point where you 35 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 2: knew it was actual possibility. 36 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 37 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, Teddy, thanks for having me. I'm 38 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 4: super excited to be on. I love your podcast, so 39 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:13,280 Speaker 4: thanks for inviting me. And that's a really good question. 40 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 4: So I started actually competing in track and field when 41 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 4: I was seven. I'm from Kingston, Jamaica, and track and 42 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 4: field is like the most popular sport there, so I 43 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 4: always knew I wanted to be an Olympian. At age nine, 44 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 4: I wrote as my class assignment that I was gonna 45 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 4: be Olympic champion. 46 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,400 Speaker 1: So I always had this. 47 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 4: Big dream, but I would say, the time in my 48 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 4: life where I realized it was really possible was when 49 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:40,200 Speaker 4: I turned sixteen and my dad really challenged me to 50 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 4: be great, and I started doing a thousand sit ups 51 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 4: every day, watching film, resting, doing all the things, and 52 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 4: I had a phenomenal senior year and I was like, Okay, 53 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 4: I could definitely be an Olympic champion one day. So, 54 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 4: you know, I would say, somewhere between that range of 55 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 4: like nine and sixteen, I got into that, you know, 56 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 4: full vision that it could be possible, and I just 57 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 4: chased it with everything I read my being. 58 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 3: And how were your parents? 59 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,760 Speaker 2: Because I find myself because I wrote all growing up 60 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,960 Speaker 2: and I ride still how were your parents as like 61 00:03:10,000 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 2: the best supporters for you? Because I see myself doing 62 00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:16,800 Speaker 2: both things, like I will be either like try to 63 00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,600 Speaker 2: take a step back and let her just. 64 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 3: Live her dream. 65 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 2: But then sometimes she asked me questions and then I 66 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: feel like maybe I get too intense, and I'm like, 67 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: how do I support her but also not push her away. 68 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,440 Speaker 4: It's a really good question, and I think that my 69 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 4: parents did an excellent job and finding that balance. My 70 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 4: dad was really the one who was always very knowledgeable 71 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 4: and kind of was meeting me where I was at, 72 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 4: and my mom was always my soft place to land. 73 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,640 Speaker 4: She was always reminding me that it was just the 74 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 4: sport and I didn't have to find my identity in it, 75 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 4: and she gave me a lot of like you know, 76 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 4: reprieve from the pressure of sports. But I would say 77 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 4: the best parenting I would advice I could give a 78 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 4: parent who has a child who loves like they have 79 00:04:00,600 --> 00:04:04,920 Speaker 4: big dreams or potential is to follow their lead. So 80 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 4: I think that if you are in front of them 81 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 4: pulling them towards greatness, it's rarely going to happen. But 82 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 4: if you can inspire them and then they get this 83 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:15,760 Speaker 4: fire burning in them and they want to be great, 84 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,039 Speaker 4: and then you meet them with the knowledge, with the 85 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 4: resources all of those things, I think that's a matchmade 86 00:04:20,760 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 4: in heaven. 87 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,279 Speaker 1: But it can't be hard because sometimes you gotta let 88 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: them find it for themselves, Like you can't. 89 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 4: You can't want it more than they want it, and 90 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 4: so sometimes you got to, you know, I'll smart them 91 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 4: and find ways to get them inspired and find ways 92 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 4: for them to see that this is a great, you know, 93 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,280 Speaker 4: path for them, and then you go full force with them, 94 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 4: you know. 95 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:40,159 Speaker 1: But it has to be them leading the way. 96 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,680 Speaker 2: And was there ever a point you thought, I can't 97 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 2: do this anymore, I need to quit, like or this 98 00:04:45,440 --> 00:04:47,839 Speaker 2: is too hard or I'm missing out, Like you find 99 00:04:47,839 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: that age like around fifteen sixteen where like kids all 100 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 2: of a sudden want to start partying or want to 101 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 2: start doing this, Like how did you just stay on 102 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: the course or did you ever have that moment where 103 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,239 Speaker 2: you're like, okay, yeah. 104 00:05:01,000 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: Now you know. 105 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 4: To be honest, at sixteen, that's the only thing I wanted, 106 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 4: Like I was such I was I didn't even care 107 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:09,480 Speaker 4: about boys and none of that stuff, Like it was 108 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 4: all track and field for me. I missed prom, I 109 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 4: went to my state championship was the day of my 110 00:05:14,640 --> 00:05:17,919 Speaker 4: problem and start prom the last thirty minutes, you know, 111 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 4: And I didn't care, Like it was like it was 112 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:21,919 Speaker 4: more important to me to win states. So I didn't 113 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,200 Speaker 4: have that experience personally. Later in my career, when I 114 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 4: started suffering with injuries and all that kind of stuff, 115 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:28,520 Speaker 4: I had moments where I was like, Okay, I may 116 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 4: need to give it up, But not when I was young. 117 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:32,279 Speaker 1: It was like all I could think. 118 00:05:32,120 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 3: About it was the fire and how did you meet Ross? 119 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 4: So I met my Haney in college, so I went 120 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 4: to ut right, Yeah, we both went to the University 121 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 4: of Texas. 122 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 3: Okay. 123 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 4: I was in like, you know, we have like our 124 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 4: our athlete cafeteria, which is like just for the athletes. 125 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 1: And I'm in there and I'm eating and he walks 126 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:53,359 Speaker 1: in and I'm. 127 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:59,359 Speaker 4: Like, dude, his boy. So I called him over and teddy. 128 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:01,320 Speaker 4: The funny story is when he comes over and introduces 129 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,279 Speaker 4: himself and he tells me his name, I'm like, oh my, Literally, 130 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 4: the guy I had just broken up with was also Aaron. 131 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 4: So when he told me his name, I was like, 132 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 4: I don't need no more errands in my life. 133 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 1: Bye bye. And I just missed him. I was like. 134 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 4: And then about a week later he reached back out 135 00:06:17,839 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 4: to me and we started dating, and I was like, oh, 136 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 4: this is my good errand this is the one. 137 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 2: This is the one, And is there any like what 138 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:31,120 Speaker 2: has been the biggest challenge in your marriage to date? 139 00:06:31,240 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 3: Like was it when you were competing or is it 140 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 3: being a mother. 141 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: Or good those are three good moments. 142 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 4: Like when we were competing, I mean, our relationship was 143 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 4: just perfect, I think because you know, we got used 144 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 4: to this rhythm of like not being together and we're 145 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: so happy we're together. So that was a really good 146 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 4: time in our marriage. I would say the hardest time 147 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 4: in our marriage when we became parents. I mean, I 148 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,160 Speaker 4: think it's because fourteen years of just the two of 149 00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:01,400 Speaker 4: us being together there and like figuring it out, and 150 00:07:01,440 --> 00:07:05,440 Speaker 4: then boom, like this tornado of a kid comes into 151 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: our lives, and you know, I think we both had 152 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:10,680 Speaker 4: different expectations of how we would parent, of how we 153 00:07:10,680 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 4: would support each other, and I didn't think it was 154 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 4: gonna make it for a little bit. 155 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 3: Like those first like you know, year after having your 156 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 3: first child, you're like shit, Like what did I do? 157 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 2: Like I know, for myself, Like I had really like 158 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 2: you know, I had moments where I felt completely selfless 159 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 2: and I was doing everything for my family. And then 160 00:07:32,840 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 2: I had moments like my entire identity has just been 161 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 2: taken away and I don't know who the hell I 162 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: am anymore, and I feel lost and alone, and the 163 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 2: fact that my partner can't step in and fix these 164 00:07:44,640 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 2: holes for me would piss me off. 165 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: I I feel you. I feel you. 166 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 4: It's like one of those things that nobody really talks about, right, 167 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,960 Speaker 4: It's like get married they say, have kids, they say, 168 00:07:57,000 --> 00:08:00,160 Speaker 4: but no one prepares you for how how much it can. 169 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: Interrupt your marriage. 170 00:08:01,720 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 4: And so, yeah, Ross and I went through a really 171 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 4: challenging time of figuring out like how to communicate and 172 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 4: how to be there for each other and all the things. 173 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 4: And that's why it took me so long to have 174 00:08:11,800 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 4: another one. Like people were like, oh, I'm like, we 175 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 4: just barely figured out how we're working with this first one. Yeah, 176 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 4: I want to put us back in that situation when 177 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 4: it was still really fragile, you know. So that was 178 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 4: a big part of why it took me six years 179 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 4: to get pregnant again. And I have no shame in it. 180 00:08:27,880 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 4: I wanted to make sure my marriage was healthy and 181 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,000 Speaker 4: strong again and we had everything figured out before we 182 00:08:33,040 --> 00:08:36,680 Speaker 4: brought another very important person into our into our lives. 183 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 2: No, that makes a lot of sense before we get 184 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,840 Speaker 2: into the other items. Do you watch Real Hollswolds Orange 185 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 2: County at all? 186 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: I used to watch it more than I watch it now, 187 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: So please forgive me. I love y'all. I just you know, 188 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 1: I'll be be easy, but I'm gonna get caught up. 189 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:54,680 Speaker 1: How did we do? Did we pass and fail? Y'all's tests. 190 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:56,600 Speaker 1: How do we do? Did you you dissected the blue 191 00:08:56,720 --> 00:08:58,040 Speaker 1: the most recent reunion? 192 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 3: You know, I gotta say you looked incredible. 193 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:02,000 Speaker 1: Thank you. 194 00:09:02,040 --> 00:09:04,079 Speaker 4: I kept it simple and elegant. I said, I ain't 195 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:05,800 Speaker 4: gonna do too much. I don't want to look like 196 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:08,440 Speaker 4: I'm supposed to be like on a field, you know, 197 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,480 Speaker 4: like leading a band. Kept it simple, elegant. 198 00:09:11,880 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 2: There was a lot of feathers for me, which like, 199 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 2: I am not a feathers gal. 200 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: Yes, and feathers. 201 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,599 Speaker 2: A lot of feathers on your personal reunion? Who do 202 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 2: you think was best dressed. 203 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 4: Outside of me? You know who I really liked. I 204 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 4: liked Candy's outfit. I don't know, I don't know how much. 205 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 3: Oh I loved it too. 206 00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:32,719 Speaker 1: I love that she. 207 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 4: Just did that simple blue in the middle and it 208 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 4: was kind of like this diamond effect. 209 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 1: So I think I loved her look. Probably you know, 210 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 1: it looks looks good? All right. 211 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 2: So we're here's Orange County looks. This is my girl, Tam. 212 00:09:43,800 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: What are your thoughts? Questions? 213 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 1: Okay? What was the theme? Like? 214 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 4: Is it like you guys feel a little bit more 215 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 4: cash than we were. I think we felt we were 216 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 4: more dressed up than this but. 217 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, this I think is summer sore. 218 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, it's giving, it's giving, Okay, so giving. 219 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,480 Speaker 3: I agree, Heather. 220 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:06,679 Speaker 2: I feel like it's always like in standard she's playing 221 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: it safe. 222 00:10:07,600 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 4: She's playing it safe. And if we're gonna be in 223 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 4: a summer smar right, but why are we in black? 224 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 4: I can pick any color and you pick black. 225 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:17,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I just I definitely feel like she played it 226 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: safe and it's just like it's given like a sea. 227 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like i'd wear it to like a Gallad school. 228 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 2: This is okay, now, this is Shannon. I feel like 229 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 2: every housewife at this point has worn this dress in 230 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 2: some capacity, including ex housewives like myself, like I wore 231 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 2: but like with the little bra and the undies underneath 232 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,680 Speaker 2: what I'm like, a right, the sheer look. 233 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: I see what you're saying. Yeah, she had a little 234 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:45,880 Speaker 1: bit more underneath it. 235 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 4: But this is what I say. I like the color, 236 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 4: I like the hair. I feel like she it's a look. 237 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 4: But yees, it's not. It's not unique, it's not fresh. 238 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 2: It's giving Erica Jane hair to me, like it looks 239 00:10:57,920 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: like somebody was like I want to recreate Erica Jane's 240 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:06,080 Speaker 2: hair and this is it. So it's hard for me 241 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:11,040 Speaker 2: to like wrap my head around that. Okay, Emily, I 242 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 2: think it's just okay, it's just okay. 243 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:14,040 Speaker 1: It's to me. 244 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 4: That's also a dress that I would just wear in 245 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 4: like everyday life. It doesn't feel like it's a reunion dress, right. 246 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 247 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 2: I think she looks beautiful, but it's not anything over 248 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 2: the top. Like I think her body looks beautiful, her 249 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:30,840 Speaker 2: face looks beautiful, she looks she looks put together, but 250 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 2: there's nothing over the top top. 251 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. 252 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, well then give it to us. 253 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 2: Make that expression on top of it is real. 254 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, Gina came not she didn't come to play, honey. 255 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 1: This is giving sexy summer vibes. I think she pulls 256 00:11:54,800 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: this off. I'm here for it. 257 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:59,080 Speaker 2: I'm here for it too. I like this one. The 258 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:03,200 Speaker 2: expression looks pissed, but I like it. Okay, this is 259 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:04,680 Speaker 2: the newbie jen. 260 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:11,000 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, No, I know it's a miss. It's a miss. 261 00:12:11,720 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 1: What are we doing with these wings? 262 00:12:13,960 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 3: What is with the cape? 263 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: Like? 264 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:18,920 Speaker 2: Here's the thing, Like she has such a like stunning 265 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: physique and she works out all the time. 266 00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:24,719 Speaker 3: I can't really see your silhouette at all. 267 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then I think with the hair down, I 268 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 2: wish the hair was up. 269 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: Maybe the hair should have been up or back, like 270 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: it's also causing a distraction. Yeah, like this look didn't 271 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 1: come together. 272 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 3: No, not my favorite. 273 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: Okay, I think the dress is awesome. I just don't 274 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 2: know that I would have matched the shoes. 275 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 1: And the makeup looks so harsh, like the eyes are 276 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: so I actually saw this one on social and I 277 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: was like, ooh, the makeup should have been softer. 278 00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, why is the makeup the same colors as the 279 00:13:03,880 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 2: dress and the shoes. It's too much matchy matchy for me. 280 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: Too, MATCHI matchie. Yeah, this isn't like you said. I 281 00:13:10,240 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 1: don't mind the dress and isolation, but a simple shoe 282 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: and just softer makeup, maybe different hair. I don't know. 283 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,800 Speaker 1: It's just it didn't. It didn't all come together. 284 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 3: I agree. So who's your favorite? You're gonna have to 285 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 3: pick one. 286 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:24,719 Speaker 1: So I would say my favorite was probably one of 287 00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:25,559 Speaker 1: the first. 288 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 2: Ones we got, Tamra Shannon, And it definitely wasn't Heather 289 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: because she was in the all black. 290 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: No, not Heather. 291 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:40,160 Speaker 4: Who was the first one we saw. It might have 292 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 4: been Tamra I have to go back and look, but 293 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 4: I think Tamara was probably my favorite. I think I 294 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 4: can't remember. 295 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 2: Well, guys, you can't even say I'm biased at this 296 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 2: point because she said it, not me, But I think 297 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 2: I think she crashed. 298 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 4: You agree too, Yeah, yeah, I think I think it 299 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 4: might have been Tamra. The other girls could, but nothing great. 300 00:13:57,600 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 2: I also like to think about comfort because we sit 301 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:05,079 Speaker 2: there for eight hundred and fifty two hours. But speaking 302 00:14:05,280 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 2: of reunions, how do you feel after your reunion? 303 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 3: Do you think you've said everything you wanted to say? 304 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 2: Because at some points I was like, I need, I 305 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 2: want to hear more from you, and I don't know 306 00:14:15,800 --> 00:14:17,560 Speaker 2: if you said more in the moment, and it just 307 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:18,320 Speaker 2: wasn't there. 308 00:14:18,720 --> 00:14:20,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, but what are you saying? 309 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: So here's how I felt about it. 310 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 4: I did say more, obviously, every everybody said more. 311 00:14:26,960 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 312 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 4: I mean we should have had a three party reunion 313 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 4: because and I was shocked it was only two because 314 00:14:32,280 --> 00:14:34,200 Speaker 4: a lot happened on that reunion stage. 315 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:36,360 Speaker 1: But this is what I'll say. 316 00:14:36,400 --> 00:14:39,040 Speaker 4: I felt like the women who I came in with 317 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 4: issues with, I said my piece to them, and I 318 00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:43,840 Speaker 4: felt I was very clear right like obviously with the 319 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 4: whole Candy situation. 320 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: Our big issue was kind of. 321 00:14:46,920 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 4: Off camera with she left me off her list. I 322 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 4: left it off off my list. 323 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 3: But there's that on purpose? 324 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she she left me off her list. I 325 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 1: don't know, I mean it was that was she did 326 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: that right like? 327 00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:02,040 Speaker 4: And so to me, it's like, why if I'm not 328 00:15:02,160 --> 00:15:03,920 Speaker 4: in your FAE five and I feel like me and 329 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,560 Speaker 4: Candy were really good friends, then why would you be 330 00:15:06,640 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 4: in mine? I think that there has to be accountability 331 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 4: for what we say, and so I left her off 332 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:15,480 Speaker 4: mine own purpose. Yeah, Like that hurt my feelings when 333 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 4: I heard that she made a list without me, like 334 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 4: I'm currently on the show. And the thing that I 335 00:15:20,000 --> 00:15:23,480 Speaker 4: think Candy sometimes forgets is that her words carry. 336 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 1: A lot of weight. 337 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 4: She has a huge audience, and so when you say 338 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 4: something whether there's you know, mumblings on social media and 339 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 4: you double down, it's not a good look. 340 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:35,400 Speaker 1: So yeah, I left her off on purpose, And so 341 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 1: I explained to her. I was like, you don't and 342 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: we talked more about it. 343 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,240 Speaker 4: And I feel like the difference between me, Teddy and 344 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:44,200 Speaker 4: Lie the girls is that I don't come in trying 345 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 4: to have a big old fight, right, like if you're 346 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 4: gonna fight with me, I'm ready for it. But I'm 347 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 4: not necessarily coming in trying to make it a moment. 348 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 4: I'm trying to really tell you how I feel. And 349 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 4: so I think we had those moments her and I 350 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 4: and Kenny and I where I told Keny how I 351 00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 4: felt about her not reaching. 352 00:15:58,240 --> 00:16:01,120 Speaker 1: Out to me about the baby situation. So, yeah, you know, 353 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: it is what it is. 354 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 4: Like I'm different, yeah, you know, and I think that 355 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:07,960 Speaker 4: a lot of people want me to be that. They 356 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 4: want us to be monolithic, and they want me to 357 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:12,440 Speaker 4: have all these reads and scream and shout and stuff, 358 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 4: and that's just not who I am. 359 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:14,360 Speaker 1: I've never been like that. 360 00:16:15,000 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 3: And I less it's with your family, right right, right? 361 00:16:19,760 --> 00:16:23,560 Speaker 1: Ed, you get it, you know. So it is what 362 00:16:23,640 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 1: it is. But I thought it was a really good 363 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: reunion and I was happy. 364 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 4: I left feeling like I said what I need to say, 365 00:16:28,000 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 4: and you know, it was it was good. 366 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 2: Well, but speaking of mumblings on social media, you made 367 00:16:43,840 --> 00:16:49,320 Speaker 2: a statement on your Instagram after the reboot rumor started, Yeah, 368 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: what are your thoughts today? Because they were like implied, 369 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 2: like I saw two different you know posts where they 370 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: said this person's coming back. This person isn't blah blah blah, Like, 371 00:16:58,720 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 2: what are your thoughts today? 372 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: Well, I mean I meant what I said right, Like, 373 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:04,200 Speaker 1: nothing has been decided yet. 374 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 3: You know how many weeks posts reunion are we since 375 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 3: y'all filmed? 376 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 4: That's a good question, girl. I don't remember what I 377 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:12,080 Speaker 4: did last week, much less how long that's been. But 378 00:17:12,680 --> 00:17:14,720 Speaker 4: what month are we in? Our September? So I feel 379 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 4: like we filmed that in August, so we're like a 380 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 4: month post reunion. 381 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 2: Have you had your pre filming meeting yet? 382 00:17:22,880 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 1: Nobody has? 383 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 2: Okay, that's because that's I mean, not that that means anything. 384 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 2: I had mine and then I still got the boot, 385 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:30,400 Speaker 2: So like. 386 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: No, I just think I think the show is in 387 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: a weird spot. 388 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,400 Speaker 4: That's there's no denying that, right, Like I think that 389 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 4: the network isn't sure where they want to go. But 390 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 4: what And the only thing that I asked was are 391 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:46,359 Speaker 4: we going to know before the public knows? Because it 392 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 4: was news to me when I read it, so I like, 393 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 4: you know so and they said no, we will know first. 394 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,200 Speaker 4: So the reason I made that post was like, stop 395 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:56,479 Speaker 4: everybody putting stuff out there when it's not factual, Like 396 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 4: none of us know what's going to happen with the 397 00:17:58,160 --> 00:18:00,679 Speaker 4: show yet, so and that's still the case now, Like 398 00:18:00,720 --> 00:18:02,399 Speaker 4: I don't know what's going to happen, you know. I 399 00:18:02,400 --> 00:18:04,280 Speaker 4: think they're gonna put us on a little pause while 400 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,200 Speaker 4: they figure out the best ensemble for the show. 401 00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, like it's no 402 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:11,360 Speaker 1: one knows yet. 403 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 2: Why do you think the fans had so much criticism 404 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:17,639 Speaker 2: like that it was lacking? And what do you have 405 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 2: to say to this? Like, to me, it honestly felt 406 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 2: and I've said this, I feel like sometimes it feels 407 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:28,040 Speaker 2: like a show to me, more so than some of 408 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 2: the other casts, because it's like someone comes in and 409 00:18:31,600 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 2: they deliver what they want to fight about. But I 410 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:38,600 Speaker 2: want to see more fun. I want to see less reads, 411 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:42,639 Speaker 2: Like I want to see you guys actually liking one another. Okay, 412 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 2: So then the fights feel more authentic to me, not 413 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:48,520 Speaker 2: just like Marlow digging up shit from years ago that 414 00:18:48,640 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 2: didn't really upset her but now upset her. 415 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 4: So it's like, yeah, I mean, I certainly understand that. 416 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 4: And I think this is what I think is the 417 00:18:57,680 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 4: tricky part about the show. If I can be one 418 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 4: hundred percent authentic and clear, is that once upon a 419 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 4: time there were women who were all friends who were 420 00:19:07,840 --> 00:19:10,639 Speaker 4: in this Atlanta circle who were on the show, and 421 00:19:10,680 --> 00:19:15,159 Speaker 4: then that dynamic changed, right, and obviously they started casting. 422 00:19:14,920 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: Bringing women in to be a part of the show. 423 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 4: And so I think what happens is that as we 424 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 4: are trying to build these authentic friendships, which is what 425 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 4: was my goal coming on the show, really wanting to 426 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:29,479 Speaker 4: meet people figure out where I fit in, the fans 427 00:19:29,480 --> 00:19:31,520 Speaker 4: don't really want to give us time to do that. 428 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 4: They want to feel like, y'all, we've been friends for 429 00:19:33,880 --> 00:19:37,080 Speaker 4: twenty years, pick aside immediately, and all of those things. 430 00:19:37,080 --> 00:19:40,160 Speaker 1: When it's just not the reality of the show anymore. 431 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 4: The show no longer has six women who are from 432 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 4: Atlanta who grew up together, who ran in the same circles. 433 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:47,480 Speaker 1: It's just is not that. 434 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,480 Speaker 4: So you give us time to build those kinds of friendships. 435 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 4: And I feel the same way the fans go, I 436 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 4: don't want to come on here and make up a fight. 437 00:19:56,760 --> 00:19:59,160 Speaker 4: I want it to be real, and so I think 438 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:02,480 Speaker 4: that sometimes it just that's just gonna take time. And 439 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 4: so the network has a tough decision. Are they going 440 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:07,040 Speaker 4: to reboot the show and find six women who are 441 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,440 Speaker 4: great friends in this community or are they going to 442 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,680 Speaker 4: continue to give us time to develop those friendships because 443 00:20:11,720 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 4: I personally now Teddy feel like I know the woman 444 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,159 Speaker 4: a lot better and I can speak my piece in 445 00:20:16,200 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 4: a way that feels authentic and not. 446 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:21,280 Speaker 3: Like you're not just making up check. No, that's exactly exactly, 447 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 3: yes you. 448 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 2: Charay and Marlow got into it on the after show 449 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 2: about Martel not paying for Charret's birthday dinner. Yes, a 450 00:20:30,040 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: lot of fans wish you were more more vocal like 451 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:34,399 Speaker 2: that on the show. 452 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,000 Speaker 3: Yes, what made you more vocal after the fact. 453 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,440 Speaker 4: Because we're friends now, Like I feel like so Chara, 454 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 4: Marlon and I have developed a really good friendship, So 455 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 4: I feel like I can speak my piece in a 456 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,359 Speaker 4: way that feels authentic and not like I'm trying to 457 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 4: get this point across. And so that was a real moment, 458 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,680 Speaker 4: and those moments will happen more and more if given 459 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:57,480 Speaker 4: the opportunity to be around these women longer. So the 460 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,239 Speaker 4: reality is that wasn't filmed on the show, right we 461 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 4: Sharay invited us as real like as her friends to 462 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 4: come to dinner. This thing happens, and I'm like, girl, 463 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:10,639 Speaker 4: like you know if this were one of us, you 464 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 4: would feel the same way. So I felt comfortable sharing 465 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 4: my truth in that moment. And so, you know, I 466 00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:18,199 Speaker 4: think it's just more of what people will see if 467 00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 4: I'm giving more time to develop friendships. 468 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 1: And it was just a real authentic moment. 469 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 3: And do you think the producers play favorites? 470 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 2: And I saw that, like the executive producer Eric Fuller 471 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 2: with Marlowe and Chara, and they used proof that he 472 00:21:31,960 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 2: had favorites and then he posted fans you know, doing 473 00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,959 Speaker 2: death threats. Did the cast get together before this and 474 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,680 Speaker 2: talk about anything or was this all just like posh? 475 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? No, this was all. 476 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,240 Speaker 4: This all was a surprise to us, and I think 477 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,120 Speaker 4: for everyone watching who you know, I think. I think 478 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 4: unfortunately Eric got a really bad rap because Eric is 479 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 4: our producer that films with us, but he doesn't do 480 00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 4: post production, so he's not responsible for what makes the show, so. 481 00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:01,200 Speaker 3: He's in the moment, he's the one. Yea. 482 00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 2: So for those of you guys listening, there are producers 483 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 2: that are field producers in the field with you, helping 484 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:12,040 Speaker 2: you navigate what's going on in front of you, right, 485 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:15,160 Speaker 2: But there's also the people behind the scenes you've never 486 00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 2: seen exactly. 487 00:22:16,400 --> 00:22:18,840 Speaker 4: He's our lead producer in the field, so he's the 488 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:22,440 Speaker 4: one who is with us the whole entire series, filming 489 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,159 Speaker 4: with us, and then he hands off the footage to 490 00:22:25,240 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 4: our post producers, who they then edit the show. So 491 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,720 Speaker 4: Eric is not responsible for what goes into the show ultimately, 492 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:34,760 Speaker 4: like he's more responsible about getting the content. As far 493 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 4: as playing favorites, I don't think so. I felt like 494 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 4: a lot of times they try to make the stories 495 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,600 Speaker 4: as balanced as possible by showing people's perspectives. 496 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:47,080 Speaker 1: But I guess it just all depends. 497 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 4: On what side you're on and if you wanted more 498 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:53,480 Speaker 4: information from that person. But there certainly is no conversations happening, 499 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:56,240 Speaker 4: you know, behind the scenes or anything like. We're just 500 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 4: as surprised as the finish of the finished product as 501 00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,800 Speaker 4: the fans are. We see it the thursday before it airs. 502 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 4: No one had that, No one. 503 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 2: Has been What about Kenya getting all upset that her 504 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:08,840 Speaker 2: hair salon wasn't shown. 505 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, listen, I had a whole project that wasn't shown either. Yeah, 506 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. 507 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:17,919 Speaker 4: So it just I don't feel like I can't like 508 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 4: people have their own experiences. It is what it is. 509 00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,199 Speaker 4: I'm not gonna come and say she's lying. I don't know, 510 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 4: but all I can tell you is is that the 511 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 4: producers choose the storylines that they think the audience wants to. 512 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:35,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, and drama hit the fan at all at that event. 513 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: At Kenya's event, Yeah, No, there was no drama. 514 00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:39,600 Speaker 3: So that's why. 515 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:44,560 Speaker 4: I mean, it was a wonderful event, Like it was beautiful, 516 00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 4: shed a wonderful job decorating. We all majority of us 517 00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,720 Speaker 4: were there. I think only Drew and Marlow were missing. 518 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,399 Speaker 4: So it was the majority of the cast there. But 519 00:23:51,480 --> 00:23:55,400 Speaker 4: there wasn't like a moment that missing. Well, she didn't 520 00:23:55,440 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 4: invite Marla, that's for sure. And I think, you know, 521 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 4: this season, Drew had a lot of moments where she was, 522 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 4: you know, like just unavailable, like her and Candy. Candy 523 00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:08,760 Speaker 4: was working a lot, but Drew was going through a lot, 524 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:09,440 Speaker 4: so I don't remember. 525 00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:09,760 Speaker 1: I don't. 526 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:11,840 Speaker 4: I feel like she was invited because her and Keny 527 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 4: were in a good spot. But for some reason, she 528 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 4: wasn't there when she was filming Candy show, I think, 529 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:19,240 Speaker 4: and so she got off later something. 530 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:20,280 Speaker 1: I think she was filming the show. 531 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 2: How would you feel about fake having sex with somebody 532 00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 2: and one of your cast member's bed. 533 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:30,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 534 00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,800 Speaker 4: I told Ross I was like, this is super super cringey. 535 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:39,199 Speaker 4: Like I'm like, like, I can't imagine walking into my 536 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,720 Speaker 4: room and being like, damn, Drew was in here. 537 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 2: More or less cringey than the serenade at the reunion. 538 00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 1: It's a good question. 539 00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:53,680 Speaker 4: Oh man, that was That was horrific. Like that was 540 00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:55,439 Speaker 4: I think they're on the same level. 541 00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, did you watch the movie the Past? 542 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 1: I won't watch it yet, but I I really do 543 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,760 Speaker 1: plan to. I really want to. Me and Rosski, so 544 00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:07,360 Speaker 1: we're gonna. 545 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:08,960 Speaker 4: Watch it, Teddy, Like you do you have time to 546 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,919 Speaker 4: watch it? Like I have all of these things I 547 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:11,760 Speaker 4: need to catch up. 548 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 1: On and watch. But I feel like between my commitments 549 00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 1: for work, my family, trying to do all the things, 550 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 1: i'd be like, where is my TV? 551 00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:18,800 Speaker 3: Yeah? 552 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 2: I know the fact that I have to watch every 553 00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:25,680 Speaker 2: house Wich or I get to watch every Housewife franchise 554 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 2: for work. 555 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 3: Is you know? It is? What it is? My next question? 556 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 3: I'm sorry she drove. 557 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:34,199 Speaker 2: I know that I had times this year where you 558 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,920 Speaker 2: may have not topped my favorite. 559 00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:38,960 Speaker 3: Okay, wait we came around. 560 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: I'll forgive you. 561 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 3: You'll forgive me and listen. 562 00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:43,920 Speaker 2: Like I always say, you're only as good as last 563 00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:50,040 Speaker 2: week's episode. But somebody that talked you on driving me nuts? 564 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 3: Is Courtney? 565 00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: Oh what? 566 00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 3: Please explain? Is she better in person? 567 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:56,959 Speaker 1: Like? 568 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 2: Is it somebody that once I meet her, I'm gonna 569 00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 2: be like, oh I see her redeeming qualities? Yeah? 570 00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,320 Speaker 4: You know, I hate so I actually really like Courtney. 571 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 4: Like when I first met her, she was super sweet. 572 00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 4: I know she was super sweet. She still is. 573 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,919 Speaker 1: She checks on me all the time she has, you know, 574 00:26:15,960 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 1: this drive. 575 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: Does it feel authentic or does it feel like she 576 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 2: checks on you because she wants to be on the 577 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 2: show again? 578 00:26:21,080 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: No? No, no, one hundred percent authentic. Like I feel like. 579 00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 4: I think I think the hard part about the show, Teddy, 580 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 4: and I know you can you know, relate to this 581 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,760 Speaker 4: and understand is it's like it's like you can't win 582 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 4: for losing. No matter if you're come in strong or 583 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 4: you come in a little bit softer, people still have 584 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 4: other expectations of you. And so when she came in, 585 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 4: she had a gripe with Candy. Now, I mean, would 586 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 4: I've handled it that way? Obviously not. You guys know 587 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:54,320 Speaker 4: my personality wouldn't have happened that way. But do I 588 00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:58,040 Speaker 4: see her perspective and respect her strength for stepping up 589 00:26:58,040 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 4: and saying how she felt. 590 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,520 Speaker 1: I do you know what I mean? 591 00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 4: And I feel like she just was always willing to 592 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,879 Speaker 4: share her POV. She wasn't willing to be pushed around, 593 00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 4: even by the OG's on the show. And it comes 594 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,520 Speaker 4: across as though she's trying super hard. But to be honest, 595 00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,720 Speaker 4: I don't feel like she really cares that much. She's 596 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 4: just like speaking her piece. 597 00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 3: She's almost in like fight or flight exactly. But what 598 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 3: gave me the ick? 599 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,200 Speaker 2: Like I was still like I was giving her the 600 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 2: benefit of the doubt. But the relationship that was shown 601 00:27:29,080 --> 00:27:35,240 Speaker 2: in that dressing room between Ralph and Courtney, I don't 602 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:38,080 Speaker 2: know if I saw that shit going down with my 603 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 2: husband and another woman on my show, regardless if they 604 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 2: are cousins, right right, right or not? 605 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,680 Speaker 3: It felt intimate in a different way. 606 00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 4: Yeah, I didn't love it either. When I watched it, 607 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 4: I was like, ooh, the hook felt a little bit. 608 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 4: And then and then obviously the you know, the whole 609 00:27:56,960 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 4: I think where Courtney has gone wrong and I can 610 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 4: see that I've probably got I've done this in off 611 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 4: camera on other friendships. I think she has inserted herself 612 00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,360 Speaker 4: too much in this relationship. 613 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:09,280 Speaker 1: I think she doesn't know enough. 614 00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:12,440 Speaker 4: She's new to their to their family, and I think 615 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,920 Speaker 4: that she has just jumped on Ralph's side with very 616 00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:19,600 Speaker 4: little information, and it's hurt her, you know what I mean, 617 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:21,439 Speaker 4: Like I think she should have gotten to know them, 618 00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,159 Speaker 4: both of them, and kind of stayed out of it. 619 00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,879 Speaker 4: Because we know how marriage stuff is, like, you know 620 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 4: what I mean, Like you don't want to. 621 00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 3: Be two sides. 622 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,920 Speaker 4: There's two sides, and the persons most of the time 623 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,159 Speaker 4: going to always side with their partners, so it's like, 624 00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,480 Speaker 4: just stay out of it. So I think that's probably 625 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 4: where for most people she really messed up, was like 626 00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:42,360 Speaker 4: getting too involved in a marriage when that's it's you know, 627 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:43,600 Speaker 4: that's we shouldn't do that. 628 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 2: And when it comes to the demise of Drew and 629 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 2: Ralph's relationship, the way that they're kind of the way 630 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:04,320 Speaker 2: that I feel like Ralph came in sat on the 631 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 2: other side, like all of it. It really gave the 632 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:13,160 Speaker 2: impression that it was something that Drew created, which my 633 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,520 Speaker 2: impression maybe because I loved Drew and the times that 634 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 2: I've spent with her is that was his way of deflecting, 635 00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 2: and finally she just had enough. 636 00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:25,760 Speaker 3: But like, what is your thoughts? 637 00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:30,239 Speaker 1: And the yeah, I think so. 638 00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,120 Speaker 4: You know, I met Drew a couple of weeks before 639 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 4: I started filming for the show, and I hung out 640 00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:36,360 Speaker 4: with her once and then I hung out with her 641 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 4: and her husband twice, and I really loved them together. 642 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 4: I was like, Oh my god, they have this laugh 643 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:45,160 Speaker 4: and they just have this, you know, this genuine love 644 00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 4: that I thought was like, oh my god, Mia Ros 645 00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 4: said this is going to be like our you know, 646 00:29:48,320 --> 00:29:50,200 Speaker 4: we're gonna be friends. We're gonna be a couple of friends. 647 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,360 Speaker 4: And then I think, I think what hurt them the 648 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 4: most was that I think that they exposed too much 649 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 4: of the hardships of their marriage to the public. And 650 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,840 Speaker 4: the reality is when the Twitter world and everybody gets 651 00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:08,080 Speaker 4: involved and everybody has their opinions, it's really hard for 652 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,840 Speaker 4: you to be able to see clearly and to forgive 653 00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 4: and move on. And so I just think so much 654 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,880 Speaker 4: damage had been done on both sides. 655 00:30:16,240 --> 00:30:18,240 Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you, Teddy. There are times where 656 00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:20,280 Speaker 1: I believe Ralph, there are times I believe Drew. I 657 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,920 Speaker 1: don't I don't know, Like I don't know who is 658 00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:27,040 Speaker 1: gas lighting who. Yeah, it's just a tricky. 659 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 2: But do you think Drew is a liar? Like I 660 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 2: feel like she was called a liar multiple times. 661 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,240 Speaker 1: Success I think I think Drew lies. Yes? 662 00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:36,440 Speaker 3: Do you think Ralph lies? 663 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:38,719 Speaker 1: Yes? I think they're both liars? 664 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:42,840 Speaker 2: And have you met I know Tie were seen filming, 665 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 2: but like, have you spent time with Tie? 666 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: No? And I should say this, I don't hold on. 667 00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: I want to say this, Teddy. 668 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 4: I don't want to say that Ralph Ralph has never 669 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,800 Speaker 4: lied to me, like I don't have an experience like 670 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 4: Drew lied on me and to me, so I have 671 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 4: a personal experience of Drew lying. 672 00:30:58,400 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: I should say that I think Ralph is a liar. 673 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 4: I just think that sometimes his perspective of the experience 674 00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:05,680 Speaker 4: with his wife is skewed. 675 00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: So I don't want to call him a hard per 676 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:07,720 Speaker 1: a liar. 677 00:31:07,840 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 3: Do you think they're jealous of each other? Like it 678 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:11,840 Speaker 3: almost feels like they're on like. 679 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 2: A one upper, Like when you get to that point 680 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 2: in a marriage when you're always trying to like talk 681 00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 2: the other one. 682 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 4: It's I never thought that until the other day I 683 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,160 Speaker 4: was talking to somebody who had been around them more 684 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 4: than me, and they said the same thing, and I 685 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 4: was like. 686 00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: Damn, could that be it? Like are they jealous of 687 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:30,640 Speaker 1: each other? Are they trying to one up each other? 688 00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:33,240 Speaker 4: And I think it could be because obviously I think 689 00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,040 Speaker 4: Ralph is here for the shit, Like I think Ralph 690 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,280 Speaker 4: wants it, you know, wants to be a star. Obviously 691 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 4: Drew wants to be a star. So I think that 692 00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 4: could be a thing. Like my husband ain't trying to 693 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:42,520 Speaker 4: be no stars. 694 00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 2: So he was like he's like, I'm traveling right now, 695 00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,720 Speaker 2: I'll take a FaceTime and badly so it works. 696 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: But yeah, that could be it, Seddie. Maybe maybe it is. 697 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 4: Maybe they are, you know, jealous of each other and 698 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,920 Speaker 4: constantly trying to one up each other and it's never 699 00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 4: going to work in a. 700 00:31:58,560 --> 00:31:59,880 Speaker 3: Marriage, no, never. 701 00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 2: And then we also saw your relationship with your family 702 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 2: kind of play out on television and coming from some 703 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 2: you know a family where my dad you know, is 704 00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,560 Speaker 2: super successful and same same with you. And when I 705 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 2: was younger, I worked for him for a little bit. 706 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 2: I didn't last long because I was like, I get 707 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 2: that you're my boss in this moment, but like, also, 708 00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 2: f off like, I can't take it from you the 709 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 2: same way that I will like go in. 710 00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 3: The trenches for other people. 711 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 2: But it seems like your family did really go for 712 00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 2: it and be there for you one hundred percent for 713 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:42,800 Speaker 2: a while. 714 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:44,320 Speaker 3: What do you think was that tipping point? Do you 715 00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 3: think it was the show? 716 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,400 Speaker 4: No, so I don't I don't feel like so okay. 717 00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:52,080 Speaker 4: So what people need to understand is my family and 718 00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,680 Speaker 4: I have worked together for the majority of my career 719 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 4: and I still work with my mom. My mom is 720 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,720 Speaker 4: still my manager, Like that's still happening. I think what 721 00:32:59,800 --> 00:33:03,320 Speaker 4: made made the difference that people went it's on the 722 00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:05,640 Speaker 4: shows who were living together, like we had never all 723 00:33:05,760 --> 00:33:08,000 Speaker 4: lived together throughout our whole lives. 724 00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: This is you know. 725 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 4: I mean obviously when I was a kid, my mom 726 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 4: and dad, but when I went off to college, I 727 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,480 Speaker 4: had never lived with my parents again, and so I 728 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 4: think the dynamic of us living together and working together 729 00:33:17,320 --> 00:33:21,040 Speaker 4: would put a real strain on the relationship. And to 730 00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:24,000 Speaker 4: be honest, the only one that ended and hasn't you 731 00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 4: know been repaired in our working situation is my is 732 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:28,800 Speaker 4: my brother in law. My sister still does my hair, 733 00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,520 Speaker 4: my mom still manages my career. They've now moved out 734 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,240 Speaker 4: and we are happy campers. Yeah, but the conflict I 735 00:33:35,280 --> 00:33:37,480 Speaker 4: think just really came from us all living together and 736 00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,880 Speaker 4: being in the same space. And like my sister said 737 00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 4: on the show, it's like I don't really have boundaries period. 738 00:33:43,200 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 4: This is who I am. Like I'm like, you know, 739 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:46,600 Speaker 4: like why not, why can't we do this? And so 740 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 4: like with my husband, my sister, my brother in law 741 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 4: as my assistant, that felt overwhelming because I was always working. 742 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:54,720 Speaker 1: Them like, well, he's here, why can't we do you 743 00:33:54,760 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 1: know work? 744 00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're you're impulsive and I want something done. I 745 00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 2: want it done now, and how other people are you know? 746 00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,239 Speaker 2: I get that I can be the same way, and 747 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,640 Speaker 2: then when people check me, I saw you get emotional 748 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,400 Speaker 2: and I was like, shit, I get that way too, 749 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 2: because I'm not necessary. I can be abrasive and like 750 00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:17,239 Speaker 2: let's get shit done. But then I see it affect. 751 00:34:17,040 --> 00:34:20,800 Speaker 3: Somebody, and I'm like, oh shit, maybe I did. Maybe 752 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:21,120 Speaker 3: I did. 753 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:23,600 Speaker 4: You think people are on the same level as you, 754 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 4: and it's like the same drive and the same intensity, 755 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:29,160 Speaker 4: and people aren't like people check out, you know, like 756 00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:32,280 Speaker 4: my brand is always on I'm working twenty four seven, 757 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,400 Speaker 4: So I see it as like, you know, let's keep working, 758 00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,040 Speaker 4: and for other people it's like, no, this is a 759 00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:38,640 Speaker 4: nine to five, is a job, and I want to 760 00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:40,759 Speaker 4: be with my family now. And I was able to 761 00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 4: see and respect that, and you I have to do 762 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,480 Speaker 4: that with other people that don't live with me. I 763 00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 4: just feel like I crossed the line with him because 764 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 4: we were in the same house. 765 00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,680 Speaker 2: You know, And you said that the only relationship not 766 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:52,960 Speaker 2: repaired as him. Does that mean just in a working 767 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 2: standpoint or. 768 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:55,919 Speaker 4: That's a working standpoint, just from a working stand point. 769 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,719 Speaker 4: We haven't worked together again, but where as tight as 770 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 4: can be. Everything is great with our family. We're in 771 00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 4: a great space, I said, still with my sister and 772 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 4: my mom, So that's totally fine. But it's just that 773 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:09,880 Speaker 4: that relationship, we felt like it was better for us 774 00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,520 Speaker 4: to just be family and not work together. 775 00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:12,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes sense. 776 00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:18,400 Speaker 2: And then what made you ultimately share Like you shared 777 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:23,279 Speaker 2: pretty early when you got pregnant, which I completely understand 778 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 2: the excitement and all of that, and someone who came 779 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:30,600 Speaker 2: from having multiple miscarriages, I immediately when you did it, like, 780 00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 2: I know this sounds bad, but I was like, like 781 00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 2: I had this moment of fear because I was like, 782 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,239 Speaker 2: there were so many times that I went through IVF 783 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,399 Speaker 2: and I would tell my family and that wasn't even 784 00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:42,680 Speaker 2: on national television. 785 00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:44,920 Speaker 3: But almost I'm curious. 786 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,959 Speaker 2: Did it almost help you grieve better because you weren't 787 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 2: keeping that secret? I think so many of us that 788 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 2: have miscarriages keep it a secret, and then you feel 789 00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,440 Speaker 2: really alone. Whereas if you're on national television sharing it, 790 00:35:56,719 --> 00:36:00,200 Speaker 2: you hear how many other women have struggled with us. 791 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's a lot. It's a lot for us 792 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 1: to unpack. 793 00:36:05,320 --> 00:36:09,359 Speaker 4: So the reason I shared it early was because, like 794 00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 4: you said, I was super excited. I had never had 795 00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,080 Speaker 4: a miscarriage, Teddy, I had never like every you know, 796 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,760 Speaker 4: like if I just assumed I was gonna get pregnant 797 00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:18,720 Speaker 4: have the baby, like it didn't even cross my mind 798 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 4: that I could potentially not right, So that was kind 799 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,600 Speaker 4: of naivete of my own life experiences, And so I 800 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 4: was super excited. 801 00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:28,720 Speaker 1: My son had wanted me to be pregnant so bad. 802 00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,440 Speaker 1: So it's just like, you know, just this overwhelming of 803 00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:33,080 Speaker 1: excitement moment to know in the moment. 804 00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 4: And so and then also too, to be very frank 805 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 4: and honest, too, it was kind of like the payoff, right, 806 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,680 Speaker 4: Like I last season wasn't gonna do it, and the 807 00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:42,719 Speaker 4: season was wrapping up, and I wanted people to know, 808 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,840 Speaker 4: like we got to this point, and you know, so 809 00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 4: it was also that too that played a part. And 810 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,239 Speaker 4: if I wasn't filming, maybe I would have held it 811 00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 4: a little bit longer. But because we were filming and 812 00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:52,840 Speaker 4: it was coming to an end, I thought, Man, what 813 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:54,920 Speaker 4: a perfect way to share this with the world, like 814 00:36:54,920 --> 00:36:57,120 Speaker 4: my husband and I having another child. So there's that, 815 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:01,600 Speaker 4: and then you know, when I go through the experience 816 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,960 Speaker 4: of losing it, it was just, you know, it just 817 00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 4: it just it just rips your heart out because I 818 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,880 Speaker 4: think for most of us, when you get pregnant and 819 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 4: you decide that you're going to keep it and you're 820 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 4: going to become a mom, you feel like a mom immediately, 821 00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 4: like you start to vision having that new. 822 00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,120 Speaker 1: Person in your life. 823 00:37:18,200 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 4: And I started thinking of the nursery and all these things, 824 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:22,560 Speaker 4: and you kind of change immediately. 825 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,320 Speaker 1: And so when you lose it, it's devastating. 826 00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 4: And I think it was actually harder and it was 827 00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:31,320 Speaker 4: hard on me Teddy because so it was this was crazy. 828 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,239 Speaker 4: Not only do I have to live it in the 829 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:35,719 Speaker 4: moment where I went through this very traumatic experience of 830 00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,080 Speaker 4: having to get a blood transfusion. 831 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 1: All of that I wasn't with my husband. So I 832 00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:41,160 Speaker 1: come home, I have to live it again. Then it 833 00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:42,800 Speaker 1: comes on the show, I have to live it again, 834 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,120 Speaker 1: and then I I'm pregnant again when the show is airing. 835 00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:48,399 Speaker 1: So it's like this weird space of people being like 836 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:53,319 Speaker 1: congratulations and they're congration I'm sorry when I lost. Yeah. 837 00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 4: So it was just it was an overwhelmingly difficult experience 838 00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,879 Speaker 4: for me. And I did get a lot of love 839 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 4: support through from a lot of women like there are 840 00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,799 Speaker 4: I mean, every other woman has had this experience. It's 841 00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 4: just been insane and it makes you feel like you're 842 00:38:08,080 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 4: not alone. 843 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 1: So it did help a little bit. But it was 844 00:38:10,440 --> 00:38:12,640 Speaker 1: also you know, moments where it was really hard because 845 00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:13,480 Speaker 1: of the show, you know. 846 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,120 Speaker 2: And I think, you know, for those of you guys 847 00:38:16,160 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 2: listening who are going through these pregnancy trials and correct 848 00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 2: me if I'm wrong, but I remember feeling during my 849 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 2: miscarriages for somebody who's very type A and loves to 850 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,160 Speaker 2: win and loves to succeed and like wants to I'm 851 00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:35,320 Speaker 2: always hustling, and I remember with each miscarriage. I considered 852 00:38:35,360 --> 00:38:37,279 Speaker 2: myself a failure, like I failed at this. 853 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like I. 854 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,800 Speaker 2: Couldn't do this, I couldn't accomplish this, and that guilt 855 00:38:43,040 --> 00:38:46,080 Speaker 2: and pain when even though it was completely out of 856 00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 2: my control exactly, it really weighed on me. So it's 857 00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:55,640 Speaker 2: like those everybody grieves differently, but like for me, that 858 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 2: was such a huge part, Like even to my husband 859 00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:01,000 Speaker 2: or to my kids or my family, no matter how 860 00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 2: far along I was each time. But like if you 861 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:08,279 Speaker 2: really have a moment where you're like, am I not 862 00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:09,600 Speaker 2: good enough for this? 863 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, no for sure, Like am I not worthy? 864 00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,399 Speaker 1: Am I all those things? Yeah? 865 00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:16,680 Speaker 4: And especially like you said, a type a person who 866 00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:18,719 Speaker 4: you set this goal and you're gonna do it and 867 00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 4: you're gonna achieve it, and then it doesn't happen. 868 00:39:21,040 --> 00:39:24,800 Speaker 1: It's it's crushing. But I think for me, I'm grateful. 869 00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:27,879 Speaker 1: Like a month later after the miscarriage, we got pregnant again, 870 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:30,200 Speaker 1: so I didn't have a long time to you know, 871 00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 1: be know, did. 872 00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 3: You guys just start trying again or just not? 873 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:37,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, so you know, I haven't any iv if anything 874 00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,759 Speaker 4: is you know, I conceive naturally both times, and I 875 00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 4: remember after the miscarriage and coming home and going to 876 00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 4: doctor Jackie and she said, look, you know, there's been 877 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,920 Speaker 4: research that proves you guys can start whenever. 878 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:48,799 Speaker 1: You don't have to wait. There. 879 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 4: Used to be like, oh wait, that's IOUs about wait, 880 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,040 Speaker 4: you know, and she was like, no, if you if 881 00:39:54,120 --> 00:39:56,440 Speaker 4: you you know, if you're ready to go again, just 882 00:39:56,440 --> 00:39:56,839 Speaker 4: go again. 883 00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 1: And so we went again. And I mean immediately I 884 00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,279 Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, this is insane. 885 00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:08,319 Speaker 2: And you do Christmas, which I have to say, your 886 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:12,600 Speaker 2: kid is gonna be pissed because it means all the time. 887 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:15,800 Speaker 2: My sister is born near Christmas and she's like it sucks. 888 00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 2: She's like, all the gifts. 889 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 1: You get one thing. 890 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:24,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's but that being said, what a blessing 891 00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,319 Speaker 2: that every I mean, do you have a name? 892 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:27,640 Speaker 3: Picked? 893 00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:28,319 Speaker 1: No? 894 00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 3: No name ye? 895 00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:30,360 Speaker 1: Because I only had girl names in my head, I 896 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:31,359 Speaker 1: was hope it's gonna be a girl. 897 00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:34,240 Speaker 3: You have nothing. You don't have like a top. 898 00:40:34,080 --> 00:40:37,520 Speaker 1: Three nothing yet. No, seriously, we don't. We're gonna start thinking. 899 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,400 Speaker 4: About it soon, all right, you guys. A I know 900 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,520 Speaker 4: I wanted to be an A because my Aron Aaron Aaron. 901 00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,480 Speaker 4: So I need I need an a name, A good 902 00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:46,399 Speaker 4: a name for a boy. 903 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 2: So, guys, when you're listening, we're gonna post this, write 904 00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:52,320 Speaker 2: a list of a names suggestions. 905 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:55,319 Speaker 3: Do you like a more unique name or you want like. 906 00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,240 Speaker 4: No, because my son's Aaron, So I want something else unique. 907 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 4: I don't want it to be like traditionally. 908 00:41:01,239 --> 00:41:06,920 Speaker 3: Like my husband Andrew, like Anthony. You want something you need? Okay, 909 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:08,879 Speaker 3: all right, well I'll be thinking about it. 910 00:41:10,560 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 2: My last question for you is, because I know we 911 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,959 Speaker 2: both have to go, but what advice would you give 912 00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 2: to somebody who has gone through a similar experience. 913 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:26,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I would tell a woman who is experiencing something similar, 914 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,440 Speaker 4: like a miscarriage or difficulty. 915 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 1: Conceiving, to. 916 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 4: Give themself grace, you know, find a circle of women 917 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:44,839 Speaker 4: that they could talk to that lift them up, and 918 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:48,719 Speaker 4: to just understand that it's not their fault and it's 919 00:41:48,760 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 4: a process and at the right time they will conceive. 920 00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:54,359 Speaker 4: But you know, just give yourself grace, don't be too 921 00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 4: hard on yourself, you know, don't center and make it 922 00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,720 Speaker 4: about you, you know, just do discontinue living your life 923 00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:04,839 Speaker 4: and enjoying life, and trust the process, you know, because this. 924 00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:05,720 Speaker 1: Too shall pass. 925 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, and God willing, you know, God willing you'll be 926 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 4: able to conceive one day and start a family. 927 00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:14,280 Speaker 3: So no, that's really good advice. 928 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 2: And since since the reunion, which women do you feel 929 00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,960 Speaker 2: like you are closest with at this point? Just to 930 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,160 Speaker 2: give us a little teaser, hoping that you know everybody's 931 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:28,960 Speaker 2: back as. 932 00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 4: It, Yeah, well, I'm still super close with Marlowe. You know, 933 00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,560 Speaker 4: after going through my experience, She's the one who stepped 934 00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 4: up for me Teddy, she sent me uber eat, she 935 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:41,680 Speaker 4: sent flowers, she came. She's just been, you know, the 936 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:43,680 Speaker 4: one that's just really been there for me. So I 937 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 4: would say Marlowe, I'm the closest to I still. 938 00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: You know. 939 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,680 Speaker 4: The funny thing is I can pick on the phone 940 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,000 Speaker 4: and call any of the girls. Candy and I are cool. 941 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,640 Speaker 4: I talked to Kenya the other day. I check I 942 00:42:53,719 --> 00:42:56,799 Speaker 4: check on Drew regularly because she's always on my heart. 943 00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,800 Speaker 4: I just feel so bad for her situation and Surann 944 00:42:59,840 --> 00:43:00,359 Speaker 4: I great. 945 00:43:00,360 --> 00:43:01,600 Speaker 1: So I'm really good with everybody. 946 00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:05,520 Speaker 4: I'm probably I'm closest tomorlow undeniably, but I feel like, 947 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:07,399 Speaker 4: you know, I can reach out to any of them 948 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,279 Speaker 4: and they pick up my calls and we can talk 949 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:12,440 Speaker 4: and there's no you know, big tension there. So you know, 950 00:43:12,480 --> 00:43:14,640 Speaker 4: I still feel really good with all the girls. I'm 951 00:43:14,680 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 4: just closest. 952 00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,600 Speaker 2: Tomorlow are Ralph Andrews still living together in the same house. 953 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,680 Speaker 1: They're in the same house still. 954 00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 3: And he's in the bunk room or whatever. 955 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess he's in the basement. 956 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 4: Like they have a beautiful home and yeah, yeah, I 957 00:43:27,560 --> 00:43:29,560 Speaker 4: think I think he's in the basement. 958 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:29,879 Speaker 1: I guess. 959 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,360 Speaker 4: I didn't ask her, like I know he's not in 960 00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 4: the bedroom. But the last time I talked to her, 961 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,680 Speaker 4: which is probably a couple days ago, I was like, 962 00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:37,560 Speaker 4: oh really, and she's like, I'm like. 963 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 3: That would be hard. 964 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,440 Speaker 1: Fuck, Oh my gosh. He hasn't left. Like I know 965 00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: me and Ross were going through he'd have been like. 966 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:48,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, Like if we were at that point, there's 967 00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,800 Speaker 2: and I don't care. If I had to move my 968 00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:53,640 Speaker 2: ass into a one bedroom apartment with all my kids, 969 00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:55,360 Speaker 2: are like, get away from me. 970 00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 4: Exactly me too. I would not be looking at you 971 00:43:58,440 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 4: every day, sir. It would not happen. 972 00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:01,799 Speaker 2: No, I wouldn't want to see it. I don't want 973 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:04,040 Speaker 2: to know when you're coming home. I don't know when 974 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:04,920 Speaker 2: you're coming back. 975 00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 3: I don't want to see your face. 976 00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:09,480 Speaker 1: Either me either I would. I would I'm just like 977 00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 1: you have with my mom and my daddy, or in 978 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 1: a one bedroom if I had to. But I'm not 979 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:14,840 Speaker 1: going to be sitting in this house with you. 980 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,360 Speaker 3: No, no, no, no. 981 00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 2: So I mean everyone's different, But to me, I think 982 00:44:20,239 --> 00:44:23,759 Speaker 2: that's harder on the kids to see that separation than 983 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,360 Speaker 2: just saying it's not working between us anymore. 984 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,080 Speaker 3: We both love it. You were both there for you. 985 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:32,800 Speaker 3: But oh, one last fan question. 986 00:44:33,360 --> 00:44:36,280 Speaker 2: Sure, we did hear that the fans have been thirsting 987 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:37,360 Speaker 2: over your husband. 988 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:45,360 Speaker 3: Me too, honey, do you check his Insta? Does he 989 00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:46,719 Speaker 3: get any shady dms? 990 00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:48,839 Speaker 1: No? 991 00:44:48,840 --> 00:44:51,920 Speaker 4: No, you know, it's so funny because my husband is 992 00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,759 Speaker 4: like the most chill guy. Like there'll be videos that 993 00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,080 Speaker 4: people will create and I'll show me. He's like, he's 994 00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,279 Speaker 4: so embarrassed. He's like, my guys, it's so embarrass said, 995 00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:06,040 Speaker 4: it's crazy. You know, he's so modest. But no, nothing crazy. 996 00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,080 Speaker 4: He has come in the DMS no text messages. People 997 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 4: have been respectful, although certainly let me know that they 998 00:45:12,960 --> 00:45:14,560 Speaker 4: think he's hot stuff all the time. 999 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 2: Well let's just keep it, let's keep him humble. So 1000 00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,280 Speaker 2: you check him from time to time. 1001 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:22,040 Speaker 1: Oh, I do, don't you worry. 1002 00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:24,520 Speaker 2: And if you guys were to do a race right now, 1003 00:45:25,280 --> 00:45:26,319 Speaker 2: do you think you could beat him? 1004 00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,280 Speaker 1: Well, you know, I'm six months pregnant, so he would definitely. 1005 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:35,760 Speaker 1: I forgot Fine, I'll. 1006 00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:36,360 Speaker 3: Check you in a year and see what you said. 1007 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:38,919 Speaker 2: All right, Well, thank you so much for joining us 1008 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:43,000 Speaker 2: and sharing your experience, and we look forward to hopefully 1009 00:45:43,040 --> 00:45:43,879 Speaker 2: seeing you next year. 1010 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 1: Yes, me too. And are you on vacation honey, because 1011 00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:47,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, where are you? 1012 00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 2: Oh? I'm in Cabo right now on my all in 1013 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,240 Speaker 2: my coaches had like a thing that they ended up winning. 1014 00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:57,399 Speaker 3: So the top six coaches in my company, I took 1015 00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 3: them to Cabo. So we're here. 1016 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:02,560 Speaker 1: Oh nice, yeah's funny. Jealous. 1017 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:03,160 Speaker 3: I know. 1018 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 2: I'm in a little bit of heaven. I have my 1019 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,120 Speaker 2: aperall spreads, my iced tea. 1020 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:08,280 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh. 1021 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 1: My goodness, I love it. Well, enjoy, enjoy. 1022 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 1023 00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:13,919 Speaker 1: First, thanks for having me. 1024 00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:15,520 Speaker 3: Bye,