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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. Anytime I hear stories from friends of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>usually female, who have had like a worker over on

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<v Speaker 1>their house, either doing some construction or something and they

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<v Speaker 1>end up asking them out, it always trips me out

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<v Speaker 1>because they never say yes to the guy. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's the one time where that's actually worked

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<v Speaker 1>for that dude, and you never hear about it actually

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<v Speaker 1>working until today and today's second date update. Jane actually

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<v Speaker 1>agreed to go out with the cable guy is usually

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<v Speaker 1>probably going to be one of the creepier people to

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<v Speaker 1>come to your house. Out of all of them, who

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<v Speaker 1>you pick, I'd go with the plumber first. Jane, how

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<v Speaker 1>are you? Hey, guys, I'm good. How are you good?

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<v Speaker 1>So you actually decided to go out with the cable guy? Huh?

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<v Speaker 1>Well yeah? Even cute? I mean is that even then?

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<v Speaker 1>You know he shut up all my cables and I

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<v Speaker 1>got you're talking and she just saves me out And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like this guy's so cute and he's not

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<v Speaker 1>like a regular cable guy, Like he wasn't creepy. He's

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<v Speaker 1>better than all the other cable guys. Yeah he was.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you guys do on your date? We went

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<v Speaker 1>out for a drink and we talked about movies like

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<v Speaker 1>I just a Guardians the Galaxy and he had seen

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<v Speaker 1>it too, so we'd like talked about that, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and just like hung out. We called jokes. It's actually

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really nerdy, but I love jokes and so and

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<v Speaker 1>you love jokes too. As it turns out, weird, you're

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<v Speaker 1>one of those rare people that like jokes. Send something

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<v Speaker 1>nobody like change Jane. Well, weird that you two little

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<v Speaker 1>oddballs would find each other in a world as big

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<v Speaker 1>as this. Are you working front of me? No, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not so. You guys had drinks, enjoyed some jokes, and

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<v Speaker 1>some movie talk. Anything else happened interesting on your date?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, usual date stuff? Okay, like what's usual date

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<v Speaker 1>stuff for you? Because hey, we get a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>these second date updates, and some people's usual date stuff

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<v Speaker 1>is like unusual twelve years married stuff. No, I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>pretty basic, Like you know, it's like think of a

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<v Speaker 1>normal date with a cable guy. We talked about kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sammium channels I have. We talked about my remote

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<v Speaker 1>control and try to get some sort of free upgrade

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<v Speaker 1>off of him is doing exactly? I was like, can

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<v Speaker 1>you bundle my package you a little bit? That's obviously

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<v Speaker 1>why you're calling to do a second date update. So

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't. So he obviously hasn't called you back since

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<v Speaker 1>your date. Have you talked to him at all? No? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's you know, we do these things. I ask

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<v Speaker 1>everybody every single time. Is there something weird that could

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<v Speaker 1>have happened during your date? Did you do something weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you say something that he could have thought was weird?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't think it was weird, but when

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking to your producer ahead of time, he

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<v Speaker 1>actually did think that one part of my story was strange. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And what part of the story is that? So? I okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So maybe the only thing that maybe weirded him out

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit is that I have a happy birthday book.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a what it's a happy birthday book? What's

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<v Speaker 1>a happy birthday book? I have no idea. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little book that I keep in my purse, and

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<v Speaker 1>I write the birthdays of people I liked in it

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<v Speaker 1>so that I can remember them and wish them happy birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>So you have a book with you at all times,

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<v Speaker 1>with everybody that you feel is close to you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think birthdays are special. And he thought that was weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I mean it is kind of but not

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<v Speaker 1>bad enough to not to call somebody back to. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we've had a couple of drinks and we were just

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<v Speaker 1>like seeing from his birthday. So I asked him when

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<v Speaker 1>his birthday was, and he told me, so I wrote

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<v Speaker 1>it down the my birthday book, and that she gave

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<v Speaker 1>me kind of a weird book. So he seemed kind

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<v Speaker 1>of weird it out that you pulled out a book

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<v Speaker 1>and wrote down his birthday after he said it, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did. Did you explain to him what you were

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<v Speaker 1>doing or did he did you ask him his birthday

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<v Speaker 1>and then creepily take out a book, write it down

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<v Speaker 1>and put it away back in your purse. No, I explained,

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<v Speaker 1>I explained, Okay, do you feel like the birthday book

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<v Speaker 1>weirded him out? Well? May, Yeah, I don't think it's

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<v Speaker 1>weird because my mom used to do that. So It's

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<v Speaker 1>a second nature to me. Like my mom was a

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<v Speaker 1>very hite person who wrote people birthday cards. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>such how I was raised. Did your mom teach you

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<v Speaker 1>rules about it though, Like, you know, you don't kiss

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date, you know, birthday book on the

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<v Speaker 1>first day. No, you, guys, That's what I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to think. The only reason why I think your birthday

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<v Speaker 1>book would have weirded him out is if he thought

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<v Speaker 1>that it was all just people that were super super

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<v Speaker 1>close to you. Yeah, and then you're already including him

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<v Speaker 1>in that group of people. Did you explain to him that, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I just write down everybody's birthday because I'm a sweetheart

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<v Speaker 1>now existent pictures and cards and things like that, don't

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I did. Okay, So maybe he's thinking

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<v Speaker 1>that you might be a little clingy and someone would

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<v Speaker 1>get a little too attached too quick. Yeah, that is

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<v Speaker 1>a big jump of conclusions for writing down one birthday though,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, especially when you're drinking a little bit. How

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<v Speaker 1>drunk were you, guys? Pretty drunk? Thank you, Brook. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think now if I go out on a first

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<v Speaker 1>date with a girl and she's already solidified my name

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<v Speaker 1>in a book with my birthdate next to it. To me,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds pretty permanent already. Plus it's it's the digital

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<v Speaker 1>age where all of this information is already readily available online,

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<v Speaker 1>so it's kind of taking a special effort to physically

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<v Speaker 1>write it down in a book. That's what I like

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<v Speaker 1>about it. I can nobody write things down anymore, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's thoughtful. I think you're nice. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song. Come back, call him and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. All right, thanks, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>hang up brooking jubil in the morning date. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>just tuning in for the second date update, Jane is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us. She took a risk, a

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<v Speaker 1>big risk, and went out on a date with the

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<v Speaker 1>cable guy. He actually asked her out while she was

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<v Speaker 1>working at her house. She agreed to go out with him.

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<v Speaker 1>From her account, they had a fun time drinks, talking

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<v Speaker 1>about a lot of subjects they were both interested in,

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<v Speaker 1>including jokes, including jokes. Very into jokes, which is weird

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<v Speaker 1>because most people not into those things. Jane says. The

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<v Speaker 1>one thing, though, that did happen on their date that

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks might be the reason he's not calling her

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<v Speaker 1>back is she keeps a birthday book with her, something

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<v Speaker 1>that none of us in here have ever heard before.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little book that she keeps in her purse

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<v Speaker 1>with everybody's birthday written down in it, people who she

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<v Speaker 1>thinks is special and important in her life, so that

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<v Speaker 1>she can send them cards or whatever whenever the birthday

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<v Speaker 1>comes up. Well, at some point during the date, she

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<v Speaker 1>took out the birthday book, wrote his birthday down in it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then closed it and put it back in her purse.

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<v Speaker 1>And she thinks that maybe he's a little weirded out

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<v Speaker 1>by that. All right, Jane, are you ready to give

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<v Speaker 1>Travis a call? Yeah? Okay, anything other than the birthday

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<v Speaker 1>book that you can think about that might have gone

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<v Speaker 1>wrong on your date? No, And you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>even the birthday book was heartless, Like I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was just like you know, it was fun saying and

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<v Speaker 1>I's fun with that. All right, Well, doll the phone

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<v Speaker 1>number right now, see if we can get him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and then find out why is not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Okay, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Travis?

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<v Speaker 1>Please listen. I'm speaking Travis. My name's Jewel. I'm having

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with my cable came over and worked on

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<v Speaker 1>a little while ago. I'm not sure if you remember

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<v Speaker 1>me or not. Um, no, I'm not. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>get my cell phone number? Oh that's because what I

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<v Speaker 1>just said is completely wrong. This is actually Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two

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<v Speaker 1>point five. How are you? Um? Yeah, I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 1>still don't know who you are. Well, host the radio show,

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<v Speaker 1>and you recently went out on a date with one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners. Okay. She says that you're not calling

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<v Speaker 1>her back after your date, and so she emailed us

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<v Speaker 1>and asked if we could get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why. Her name is Jane. Jane Jane.

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<v Speaker 1>You recently went out with her after you came over

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<v Speaker 1>to work on her cable. I guess you asked her

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<v Speaker 1>out and the two you went out for drinks. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>birthday girl, Jane. That would probably be the right Jane. Listen.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked to Jane before calling you, and she told

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about your date. Said she had

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<v Speaker 1>a fun time. She said the only awkward thing would

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<v Speaker 1>be this little birthday book that she has. And judging

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<v Speaker 1>by the fact that you called her birthday girl, Jane,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm assuming that probably was a little weird to you

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<v Speaker 1>she told you about that. Uh yeah, I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>would be a little strange if I was on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with her and she did that. So was that

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<v Speaker 1>that was weird for you? Oh yeah I was. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was really weird. Actually, just because she wrote your

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<v Speaker 1>birthday down that was like too strange. Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she kept asking for birthday and like I told her,

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<v Speaker 1>and she closed the book and she said, Travis, I

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<v Speaker 1>will never forget your birthday because you were special. That's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of slurring a little bit. Yeah, that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>picture though. I do a picture to Hammer and go,

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<v Speaker 1>just like I'll never forgive Brithda you suspacion, Travis. Is

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<v Speaker 1>that how it happened? Well, yeah, I mean it's a

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<v Speaker 1>first day. I mean it's pretty weird. Anyway. She starts

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<v Speaker 1>like she forgets that she had birthdays for her like

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<v Speaker 1>her friends today's, so she starts texting them. Oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>she was texting her friends that she saw in the

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<v Speaker 1>birthday book that she has. Yeah, she like makes me

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<v Speaker 1>grab the phone and sing happy birthday to one of

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<v Speaker 1>her friends. That sucks. No, I would be annoyed with that.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she put you on the spot. And said, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the phone thing, Happy birthday to my friend Janet or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what happened? It was just kind of annoying

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<v Speaker 1>because like, we're at this bar and I'm singing happy

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<v Speaker 1>birthday to one of her friends who I've never met before.

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<v Speaker 1>Does she seem really drunk at this point? Yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because that sounds like hammered activity, like it's my birthday.

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<v Speaker 1>But and you know what we're gonna do now the

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<v Speaker 1>sun We're gonna saying happy birthday to everybody. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think that maybe she's like just trying to be playful though,

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<v Speaker 1>and still flirting with you. At first, it was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cute when she was asking me about it, but

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<v Speaker 1>then she kept asking me like if I remember her birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was a quiz, because thank Travis, when's my birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Like April nineteen guys? You know I said that a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times around the night, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>good job. So you're saying that she has a strange

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<v Speaker 1>obsession with birthdays, little bit, and she kept giving you

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<v Speaker 1>like a pop quiz that you never wanted to have. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was cute the first time, but after

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<v Speaker 1>that it was really annoying. Hey, Travis, when is her birthday? April? Mike?

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<v Speaker 1>Good job, Travis. I should also let you know that

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<v Speaker 1>she's actually on the other line listening. Hi, Travis, I

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<v Speaker 1>caught you right. Why do you hate birthdays so much?

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<v Speaker 1>Your birthday hater? I don't hate birthdays, but I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird constantly talking about birthdays. Now, who's the one

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<v Speaker 1>who's constantly talking about birthday as your birthday hater? Are you, Jane?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing? Are you? Is this like your

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<v Speaker 1>weird way of flirting with Travis for psychology? Jane, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I like him so much. Are you just

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed right now? Yeah? I mean maybe you could just

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<v Speaker 1>explain to him like you were being wasted or something.

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<v Speaker 1>I was, Travis. I'm so sorry. I feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>probably blew it with you. I just was trunk and

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<v Speaker 1>I was having fun and I thought you were on

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<v Speaker 1>the trunk train with me. Well, I mean it was

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<v Speaker 1>just really weird. It was like our first date and

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<v Speaker 1>all you want to talk about was birthdays and his

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<v Speaker 1>birthday book, and I thought it was really I got nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>I ran out of jokes to tell. So that is

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<v Speaker 1>that your backup Jane, when you get nervous, you go

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<v Speaker 1>get you run it out of jokes and then you

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<v Speaker 1>get into the birthday stuff. Oh my gosh, you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>when I get nervous, I just don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm doing. I get so confused. It's like I black

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<v Speaker 1>out from nervousness. I agree with that, Jane, because I

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<v Speaker 1>just heard you a second ago trying to flirt with

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<v Speaker 1>Travis in order to get him back about the birthday thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell that you really get flustered. I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really your problem. Yeah, all right, well let me

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<v Speaker 1>do this for you, then, Jane, let me do this

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<v Speaker 1>for you. Okay. You just sit there and hang out

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<v Speaker 1>for a second, all right, and collect yourself, okay, because

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<v Speaker 1>this might be pretty nerve racking. What's about to happen, Travis,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like it if you would go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Jane again and give her a second shot. She sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like she just does not know how to handle nerves

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<v Speaker 1>at all, and hopefully on a second date she'll be

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<v Speaker 1>a little less nervous. Would you go out with Jane again?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, one more chance? Like, how harmful can

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<v Speaker 1>it be to go out with her again? The worst

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<v Speaker 1>thing could happen is you start talking about birthdays again

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<v Speaker 1>and then you never have to call her. Just give

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<v Speaker 1>it one more shot. She just she sounds like she

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<v Speaker 1>likes you a lot and was just incredibly nervous on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date. All right, I'll do it. You'll do it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, fabulous, Jane. Congratulations you got your second date.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so excited. I promise it will be weird this

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<v Speaker 1>next day. I don't think you can make that guarantee, Jane,

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<v Speaker 1>but just embrace it. Say if I'm weird, then know

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<v Speaker 1>that underneath it all is a really cool girl who

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<v Speaker 1>just wants to hang out and have fun. Okay, yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm weird, it's just just know that underneath at all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just like a totally cool girl who just wants that.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't have to say that, Jane. Yea, I was

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<v Speaker 1>just say I was saying you could say that to Travis.

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<v Speaker 1>But we'll get through this. I feel like I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be your like dating coach, Jupil. Help me. I'm trying.

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<v Speaker 1>Jane broken Jupil in the morning,