1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:02,120 Speaker 1: Are you single and feeling out of the loop? Put 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: away that mouse and get out of the house. Join 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: in the Loop, Seattle's brand new activities club just for singles. 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: Put in the Loop Singles dot Com Today, Rink and Jewels. 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:19,520 Speaker 1: Second date Update. Anytime I hear stories from friends of mine, 6 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,159 Speaker 1: usually female, who have had like a worker over on 7 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:24,319 Speaker 1: their house, either doing some construction or something and they 8 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: end up asking them out, it always trips me out 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: because they never say yes to the guy. But then 10 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: I think there's the one time where that's actually worked 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,440 Speaker 1: for that dude, and you never hear about it actually 12 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: working until today and today's second date update. Jane actually 13 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: agreed to go out with the cable guy is usually 14 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: probably going to be one of the creepier people to 15 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,959 Speaker 1: come to your house. Out of all of them, who 16 00:00:47,040 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: you pick, I'd go with the plumber first. Jane, how 17 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 1: are you? Hey, guys, I'm good. How are you good? 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: So you actually decided to go out with the cable guy? Huh? 19 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 1: Well yeah? Even cute? I mean is that even then? 20 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: You know he shut up all my cables and I 21 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:06,200 Speaker 1: got you're talking and she just saves me out And 22 00:01:06,280 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: I was like this guy's so cute and he's not 23 00:01:09,040 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: like a regular cable guy, Like he wasn't creepy. He's 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: better than all the other cable guys. Yeah he was. 25 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,000 Speaker 1: What did you guys do on your date? We went 26 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 1: out for a drink and we talked about movies like 27 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 1: I just a Guardians the Galaxy and he had seen 28 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:28,680 Speaker 1: it too, so we'd like talked about that, you know, 29 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:32,279 Speaker 1: and just like hung out. We called jokes. It's actually 30 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm really nerdy, but I love jokes and so and 31 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: you love jokes too. As it turns out, weird, you're 32 00:01:37,720 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: one of those rare people that like jokes. Send something 33 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 1: nobody like change Jane. Well, weird that you two little 34 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: oddballs would find each other in a world as big 35 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: as this. Are you working front of me? No, I'm 36 00:01:53,680 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: not so. You guys had drinks, enjoyed some jokes, and 37 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: some movie talk. Anything else happened interesting on your date? 38 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: You know, usual date stuff? Okay, like what's usual date 39 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 1: stuff for you? Because hey, we get a lot of 40 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: these second date updates, and some people's usual date stuff 41 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:19,840 Speaker 1: is like unusual twelve years married stuff. No, I'm like 42 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: pretty basic, Like you know, it's like think of a 43 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: normal date with a cable guy. We talked about kind 44 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 1: of sammium channels I have. We talked about my remote 45 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: control and try to get some sort of free upgrade 46 00:02:30,280 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: off of him is doing exactly? I was like, can 47 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 1: you bundle my package you a little bit? That's obviously 48 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 1: why you're calling to do a second date update. So 49 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: he hasn't. So he obviously hasn't called you back since 50 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 1: your date. Have you talked to him at all? No? Okay? 51 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: And it's you know, we do these things. I ask 52 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,119 Speaker 1: everybody every single time. Is there something weird that could 53 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 1: have happened during your date? Did you do something weird? 54 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: Did you say something that he could have thought was weird? 55 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: You know, I didn't think it was weird, but when 56 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 1: I was talking to your producer ahead of time, he 57 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: actually did think that one part of my story was strange. Okay, 58 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: And what part of the story is that? So? I okay. 59 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:14,960 Speaker 1: So maybe the only thing that maybe weirded him out 60 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: a little bit is that I have a happy birthday book. 61 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 1: You have a what it's a happy birthday book? What's 62 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,519 Speaker 1: a happy birthday book? I have no idea. Yeah, it's 63 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: a little book that I keep in my purse, and 64 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:31,239 Speaker 1: I write the birthdays of people I liked in it 65 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: so that I can remember them and wish them happy birthday. 66 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: So you have a book with you at all times, 67 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 1: with everybody that you feel is close to you. Yeah, 68 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: I think birthdays are special. And he thought that was weird. 69 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean it is kind of but not 70 00:03:44,960 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: bad enough to not to call somebody back to. I mean, 71 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 1: we've had a couple of drinks and we were just 72 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,400 Speaker 1: like seeing from his birthday. So I asked him when 73 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: his birthday was, and he told me, so I wrote 74 00:03:54,320 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 1: it down the my birthday book, and that she gave 75 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: me kind of a weird book. So he seemed kind 76 00:03:59,760 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: of weird it out that you pulled out a book 77 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: and wrote down his birthday after he said it, Yeah, 78 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,040 Speaker 1: he did. Did you explain to him what you were 79 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: doing or did he did you ask him his birthday 80 00:04:08,240 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: and then creepily take out a book, write it down 81 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 1: and put it away back in your purse. No, I explained, 82 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: I explained, Okay, do you feel like the birthday book 83 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,040 Speaker 1: weirded him out? Well? May, Yeah, I don't think it's 84 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: weird because my mom used to do that. So It's 85 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 1: a second nature to me. Like my mom was a 86 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 1: very hite person who wrote people birthday cards. It's just 87 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,120 Speaker 1: such how I was raised. Did your mom teach you 88 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: rules about it though, Like, you know, you don't kiss 89 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,359 Speaker 1: on the first date, you know, birthday book on the 90 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 1: first day. No, you, guys, That's what I was going 91 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: to think. The only reason why I think your birthday 92 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: book would have weirded him out is if he thought 93 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: that it was all just people that were super super 94 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 1: close to you. Yeah, and then you're already including him 95 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: in that group of people. Did you explain to him that, hey, 96 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,039 Speaker 1: I just write down everybody's birthday because I'm a sweetheart 97 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: now existent pictures and cards and things like that, don't 98 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: I don't think I did. Okay, So maybe he's thinking 99 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:04,279 Speaker 1: that you might be a little clingy and someone would 100 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: get a little too attached too quick. Yeah, that is 101 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: a big jump of conclusions for writing down one birthday though, 102 00:05:11,720 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: I mean, especially when you're drinking a little bit. How 103 00:05:14,480 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: drunk were you, guys? Pretty drunk? Thank you, Brook. I 104 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: don't think now if I go out on a first 105 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:23,040 Speaker 1: date with a girl and she's already solidified my name 106 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:25,400 Speaker 1: in a book with my birthdate next to it. To me, 107 00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:29,599 Speaker 1: that sounds pretty permanent already. Plus it's it's the digital 108 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:32,920 Speaker 1: age where all of this information is already readily available online, 109 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,679 Speaker 1: so it's kind of taking a special effort to physically 110 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: write it down in a book. That's what I like 111 00:05:38,160 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: about it. I can nobody write things down anymore, you know. 112 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 1: I think it's thoughtful. I think you're nice. All right, 113 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: well we'll play a song. Come back, call him and 114 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:49,400 Speaker 1: get your second date update. All right, thanks, all right, 115 00:05:49,480 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 1: hang up brooking jubil in the morning date. If you're 116 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 1: just tuning in for the second date update, Jane is 117 00:05:59,800 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: on the phone with us. She took a risk, a 118 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,240 Speaker 1: big risk, and went out on a date with the 119 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 1: cable guy. He actually asked her out while she was 120 00:06:07,839 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: working at her house. She agreed to go out with him. 121 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: From her account, they had a fun time drinks, talking 122 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: about a lot of subjects they were both interested in, 123 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: including jokes, including jokes. Very into jokes, which is weird 124 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: because most people not into those things. Jane says. The 125 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: one thing, though, that did happen on their date that 126 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 1: she thinks might be the reason he's not calling her 127 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,559 Speaker 1: back is she keeps a birthday book with her, something 128 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,239 Speaker 1: that none of us in here have ever heard before. 129 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: It's a little book that she keeps in her purse 130 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 1: with everybody's birthday written down in it, people who she 131 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: thinks is special and important in her life, so that 132 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: she can send them cards or whatever whenever the birthday 133 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:43,240 Speaker 1: comes up. Well, at some point during the date, she 134 00:06:43,279 --> 00:06:46,479 Speaker 1: took out the birthday book, wrote his birthday down in it, 135 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 1: and then closed it and put it back in her purse. 136 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: And she thinks that maybe he's a little weirded out 137 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: by that. All right, Jane, are you ready to give 138 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: Travis a call? Yeah? Okay, anything other than the birthday 139 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: book that you can think about that might have gone 140 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: wrong on your date? No, And you know, I think 141 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 1: even the birthday book was heartless, Like I think it 142 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:05,919 Speaker 1: was just like you know, it was fun saying and 143 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 1: I's fun with that. All right, Well, doll the phone 144 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: number right now, see if we can get him on 145 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 1: the phone and then find out why is not calling 146 00:07:12,120 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: you back. Okay, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Travis? 147 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: Please listen. I'm speaking Travis. My name's Jewel. I'm having 148 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 1: a problem with my cable came over and worked on 149 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:31,320 Speaker 1: a little while ago. I'm not sure if you remember 150 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:35,920 Speaker 1: me or not. Um, no, I'm not. How did you 151 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 1: get my cell phone number? Oh that's because what I 152 00:07:38,600 --> 00:07:41,120 Speaker 1: just said is completely wrong. This is actually Jewel from 153 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: Brook and Jewel in the Morning. I'm moving ninety two 154 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:47,080 Speaker 1: point five. How are you? Um? Yeah, I'm sorry. I 155 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: still don't know who you are. Well, host the radio show, 156 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,680 Speaker 1: and you recently went out on a date with one 157 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: of our listeners. Okay. She says that you're not calling 158 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 1: her back after your date, and so she emailed us 159 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 1: and asked if we could get you on the phone 160 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: and find out why. Her name is Jane. Jane Jane. 161 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: You recently went out with her after you came over 162 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:12,760 Speaker 1: to work on her cable. I guess you asked her 163 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 1: out and the two you went out for drinks. Oh, 164 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 1: birthday girl, Jane. That would probably be the right Jane. Listen. 165 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:27,200 Speaker 1: We talked to Jane before calling you, and she told 166 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: us a little bit about your date. Said she had 167 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: a fun time. She said the only awkward thing would 168 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:34,200 Speaker 1: be this little birthday book that she has. And judging 169 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 1: by the fact that you called her birthday girl, Jane, 170 00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm assuming that probably was a little weird to you 171 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: she told you about that. Uh yeah, I thought that 172 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: would be a little strange if I was on a 173 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 1: date with her and she did that. So was that 174 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,840 Speaker 1: that was weird for you? Oh yeah I was. Yeah, 175 00:08:51,880 --> 00:08:54,840 Speaker 1: it was really weird. Actually, just because she wrote your 176 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:59,079 Speaker 1: birthday down that was like too strange. Well, I mean 177 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,920 Speaker 1: she kept asking for birthday and like I told her, 178 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 1: and she closed the book and she said, Travis, I 179 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 1: will never forget your birthday because you were special. That's 180 00:09:13,480 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: kind of slurring a little bit. Yeah, that's what I 181 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:19,120 Speaker 1: picture though. I do a picture to Hammer and go, 182 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: just like I'll never forgive Brithda you suspacion, Travis. Is 183 00:09:26,520 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: that how it happened? Well, yeah, I mean it's a 184 00:09:29,840 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: first day. I mean it's pretty weird. Anyway. She starts 185 00:09:33,200 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 1: like she forgets that she had birthdays for her like 186 00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 1: her friends today's, so she starts texting them. Oh no, 187 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: she was texting her friends that she saw in the 188 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: birthday book that she has. Yeah, she like makes me 189 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 1: grab the phone and sing happy birthday to one of 190 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: her friends. That sucks. No, I would be annoyed with that. 191 00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: Like she put you on the spot. And said, here's 192 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: the phone thing, Happy birthday to my friend Janet or whatever. 193 00:09:59,040 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 1: Is that what happened? It was just kind of annoying 194 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 1: because like, we're at this bar and I'm singing happy 195 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: birthday to one of her friends who I've never met before. 196 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,880 Speaker 1: Does she seem really drunk at this point? Yes, okay, 197 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: because that sounds like hammered activity, like it's my birthday. 198 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 1: But and you know what we're gonna do now the 199 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: sun We're gonna saying happy birthday to everybody. Do you 200 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: think that maybe she's like just trying to be playful though, 201 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: and still flirting with you. At first, it was kind 202 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:28,599 Speaker 1: of cute when she was asking me about it, but 203 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:31,400 Speaker 1: then she kept asking me like if I remember her birthday? 204 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 1: Like it was a quiz, because thank Travis, when's my birthday? 205 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:42,599 Speaker 1: Like April nineteen guys? You know I said that a 206 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: couple of times around the night, and she was like, 207 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: good job. So you're saying that she has a strange 208 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 1: obsession with birthdays, little bit, and she kept giving you 209 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 1: like a pop quiz that you never wanted to have. So, 210 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 1: I mean, it was cute the first time, but after 211 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: that it was really annoying. Hey, Travis, when is her birthday? April? Mike? 212 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: Good job, Travis. I should also let you know that 213 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: she's actually on the other line listening. Hi, Travis, I 214 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: caught you right. Why do you hate birthdays so much? 215 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: Your birthday hater? I don't hate birthdays, but I think 216 00:11:31,800 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 1: it's weird constantly talking about birthdays. Now, who's the one 217 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 1: who's constantly talking about birthday as your birthday hater? Are you, Jane? 218 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:43,560 Speaker 1: What are you doing? Are you? Is this like your 219 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: weird way of flirting with Travis for psychology? Jane, I 220 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 1: don't know. I like him so much. Are you just 221 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:58,320 Speaker 1: embarrassed right now? Yeah? I mean maybe you could just 222 00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: explain to him like you were being wasted or something. 223 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,600 Speaker 1: I was, Travis. I'm so sorry. I feel like I 224 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: probably blew it with you. I just was trunk and 225 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:08,959 Speaker 1: I was having fun and I thought you were on 226 00:12:09,240 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: the trunk train with me. Well, I mean it was 227 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:15,560 Speaker 1: just really weird. It was like our first date and 228 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 1: all you want to talk about was birthdays and his 229 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 1: birthday book, and I thought it was really I got nervous. 230 00:12:22,760 --> 00:12:26,400 Speaker 1: I ran out of jokes to tell. So that is 231 00:12:26,400 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: that your backup Jane, when you get nervous, you go 232 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: get you run it out of jokes and then you 233 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: get into the birthday stuff. Oh my gosh, you guys, 234 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:35,840 Speaker 1: when I get nervous, I just don't even know what 235 00:12:35,880 --> 00:12:38,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing. I get so confused. It's like I black 236 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 1: out from nervousness. I agree with that, Jane, because I 237 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: just heard you a second ago trying to flirt with 238 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,559 Speaker 1: Travis in order to get him back about the birthday thing. 239 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 1: I can tell that you really get flustered. I do. 240 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 1: It's really your problem. Yeah, all right, well let me 241 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: do this for you, then, Jane, let me do this 242 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 1: for you. Okay. You just sit there and hang out 243 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: for a second, all right, and collect yourself, okay, because 244 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 1: this might be pretty nerve racking. What's about to happen, Travis, 245 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 1: I would like it if you would go out with 246 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: Jane again and give her a second shot. She sounds 247 00:13:13,000 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 1: like she just does not know how to handle nerves 248 00:13:16,920 --> 00:13:18,679 Speaker 1: at all, and hopefully on a second date she'll be 249 00:13:18,679 --> 00:13:21,160 Speaker 1: a little less nervous. Would you go out with Jane again? 250 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, one more chance? Like, how harmful can 251 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: it be to go out with her again? The worst 252 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,720 Speaker 1: thing could happen is you start talking about birthdays again 253 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: and then you never have to call her. Just give 254 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: it one more shot. She just she sounds like she 255 00:13:35,559 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 1: likes you a lot and was just incredibly nervous on 256 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 1: your first date. All right, I'll do it. You'll do it, 257 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:47,719 Speaker 1: all right, fabulous, Jane. Congratulations you got your second date. 258 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 1: It's so excited. I promise it will be weird this 259 00:13:50,440 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: next day. I don't think you can make that guarantee, Jane, 260 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 1: but just embrace it. Say if I'm weird, then know 261 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 1: that underneath it all is a really cool girl who 262 00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:04,160 Speaker 1: just wants to hang out and have fun. Okay, yeah, no, 263 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,240 Speaker 1: if I'm weird, it's just just know that underneath at all, 264 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: I'm just like a totally cool girl who just wants that. 265 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 1: You didn't have to say that, Jane. Yea, I was 266 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 1: just say I was saying you could say that to Travis. 267 00:14:14,080 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: But we'll get through this. I feel like I want 268 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 1: to be your like dating coach, Jupil. Help me. I'm trying. 269 00:14:20,400 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: Jane broken Jupil in the morning,