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Speaker 1: Forever.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Oh hell hello, Hey.

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Speaker 3: So if my voice sounds deep as fuck, it's because

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Speaker 3: it's so early here and just wow. I just woke up,

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Speaker 3: literally rolled up out of bed and was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I got a job to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she still got the eyeburgers and everything.

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Speaker 3: Guys, I'm sure did not wash my face, did not

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Speaker 3: brush my teeth.

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Speaker 2: I am gross, gross, gross gross.

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Speaker 3: But that's good because we got a nasty ass episode today.

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Speaker 2: Is it nasty? Though? I don't. I don't know, friend,

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Speaker 2: I I think it's gonna be fun. Uh so, what's

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Speaker 2: your plan after you get out of this episode, Sidney,

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Speaker 2: You're gonna go back to sleep?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm gonna i'ma brush my teeth, I'm

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Speaker 3: wash my ass.

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Speaker 2: And I love that you have. I actually have stuff

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Speaker 2: to do.

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Speaker 3: This is crazy like being in New York There'll be

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Speaker 3: nothing to do all day and then come to La

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Speaker 3: and it's like, uh yeah, this this this, this this

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Speaker 3: god bless. But it's also like, but I'm here to rest. Okay,

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Speaker 3: I was. I was resting in New York, but now

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Speaker 3: I'm really I was really, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Super resting right the West Coast. Rest. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 2: think that's how it is for most things, like you

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Speaker 2: know how, sometimes like your phone be real dry and

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Speaker 2: you're like, wow, nobody cares about me. I guess, I

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Speaker 2: guess I'm useless. And then like you'll get a phone

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Speaker 2: call or a text and then everybody starts to blow

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Speaker 2: you up at the same time. You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Oh, is that a personal thing? What's going on? You're

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Speaker 3: blowing up over there?

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Speaker 2: Marie? What something? You know? She quite a popular But

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Speaker 2: I think also when you like, like you know how,

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Speaker 2: then you'll you'll you'll get something, and then something else

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Speaker 2: you know what I'm talking about? Like I feel like

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Speaker 2: for me anyway, you'll be Sahara desert dry for like

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Speaker 2: a minute, and then it's very wet all of a sudden. Okay,

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Speaker 2: well let's talk about it. Since what's going on first position?

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Speaker 3: What's up?

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Speaker 2: I'm not talking about anything specific, my sleepy friend. I'm

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Speaker 2: just saying that, you know, sometimes when you have nothing

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Speaker 2: like too much to do. Or sometimes when you're looking

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Speaker 2: for somebody to like chat with, maybe you'll call eight people.

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Speaker 2: I'm lying, I've never called eight people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, even your style, okay, you the fact that you picked.

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Speaker 3: So what do you do? Are you a calling person?

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Speaker 3: You're a FaceTime person because you know I'm a FaceTime person. Yes, Sidney,

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Speaker 3: I know you're a FaceTime person. You are a professional

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Speaker 3: FaceTime person. If there were stocks in FaceTime, you should

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Speaker 3: buy all the shares. But no, I feel like I'm

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Speaker 2: A FaceTime with like a couple of people, select few

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Speaker 2: people is fine, But like if I don't really talk

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Speaker 2: to you like that, I don't want to see your

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Speaker 2: ugly ass house. You know, I don't need to see

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Speaker 2: everything that you got going on in the background, is

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Speaker 3: If I can be frank, yeah, say what you say

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Speaker 3: what you want to say on the pod. You know,

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Speaker 3: this is a space, safe space. But I face time

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Speaker 3: with people because how do I say this? Niggas be

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Speaker 3: it's just going to good. And then I FaceTime and

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Speaker 3: it's like, oh, you have bowls from two weeks ago

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Speaker 3: through it and so I could tell that you have

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Speaker 2: So you know you're saying you FaceTime.

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Speaker 3: People because you care about them. Yeah, I want to

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Speaker 3: for some people like I'm not going to mention, but

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Speaker 3: see how like beautiful, she's always ready. She's always ready

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Speaker 3: when I face Timmer. She hates when I FaceTime, but

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Speaker 3: the faces be wig is laid laid or.

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Speaker 2: Very natural edges are thriving.

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Speaker 3: You know, we love that.

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Speaker 4: But there have been times that you've facetimed me Sydney,

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Speaker 4: that I have not been ready. You've actually pulled me

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Speaker 4: in the first time they did sink and cook, you

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Speaker 4: technical difficulties in the comments. You're like, Entrew join in.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh no, And suddenly I'm just broadcasted to

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Speaker 4: all your followers.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know.

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Speaker 4: And sometimes it drains your battery too, FaceTime, it.

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Speaker 3: Well, thinking about my battery, let me tell you about

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Speaker 3: one thing.

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Speaker 3: I'm in the house, a house that bored, and house

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Speaker 3: born in house bored and so all y'all motherfuckers. So honestly,

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Speaker 3: if your phone is dying, you can literally just plug

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Speaker 2: Yes you're saying that, but most of our outlets exist

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Speaker 2: sometimes in very inconvenient locations.

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Speaker 3: Oh honey, I got I got to be on course everywhere.

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Speaker 3: That's where my place looks like a trap house. Your

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Speaker 3: your house is a fire hazards truly, everything is plugged up,

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Speaker 3: every single thing, every fucking light, The vibrator is the fatcats.

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Speaker 2: You got them fat ass cats resting on the wires.

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Speaker 4: YEA.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, friend, I don't know. You should definitely have renters insurance,

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Speaker 2: do you? Girl?

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Speaker 3: Where'd you exert this week?

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Speaker 2: Let's talk about you. I don't ever like going first,

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Speaker 2: but uh, you know, because I don't ever really be ready,

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Speaker 4: No, wait, I feel like it's important to note that

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Speaker 4: this is coming out after the election.

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Speaker 1: We don't know who won.

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Speaker 2: Just by the way, oh right, right, right, right right,

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Speaker 2: This is a in ignorance is bliss episode.

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Speaker 3: We were if you came here to listen to politics,

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Speaker 3: first of all, why are you listening to this? But

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Speaker 3: because we're gonna make you feel good for an hour

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Speaker 3: or whatever or.

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Speaker 2: You know, yes exactly, so we still feel good on

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Speaker 2: this episode. We don't know, we don't know what the yeah,

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Speaker 2: we don't know nothing. But I'm going to drop off

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Speaker 2: my absentee ballot I think today God bless Yeah. I mean,

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Speaker 2: mm hmmm, Sidney, I don't know what I was an

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Speaker 3: You, I will say, I'm gonna just give you the alley.

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Speaker 3: You know you were good at like spending time with people.

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Speaker 3: You've been making sure that you you have things to

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much friend for that, for assisting me

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Speaker 2: with that layup. I appreciate you and your sports analogies. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: with Andre. Well, first I made sid can cook buffalo

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Speaker 2: how they were pretty upset that you did not show

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Speaker 2: a picture. That's I followed the Sydney recipe. Okay, Sidney

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Speaker 2: told me, you gotta you gotta.

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Speaker 3: Don't tell them, you gotta watch the show.

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Speaker 2: Well, when are you gonna make buffalo wings again? I

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Speaker 3: It, don't it look like I'm gonna do like two

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Speaker 2: Oh you about to retire.

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Speaker 3: Not retire, But just like y'all didn't got enough, You've

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Speaker 3: Oh, I feel like I met you at karaoke.

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Speaker 2: don't act like you don't be stalking the page. So

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Speaker 2: I guess that was what I was an expert in

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Speaker 2: this week is uh, whatever the hell words I just said.

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Speaker 3: But I love that for you, friend, because but I

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Speaker 3: just want to let you know if if y'all listen

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Speaker 3: trying to meet up. It's fair to call it a

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Speaker 3: cry for helps, especially after what I just said about.

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Speaker 2: You know what, today, I'm gonna let you uh, Hugh

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Speaker 2: and your morning breath had this moment because that he needed.

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Speaker 2: But uh, what were you an expert in this week? Girl?

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Speaker 3: I didn't called you every day since I've been here,

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Speaker 3: okay every day, sometimes three times a day, So the.

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Speaker 2: Entire time that you've been there, I haven't called you once.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're trying to say. No, you did call me.

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Speaker 2: You did, and I was like, damn, she must am

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Speaker 2: I not hitting her up enough. No, I needed the

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Speaker 2: wing recipe. Oh yes, I called you right, Oh that's right.

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Speaker 3: And I got mad at you because I was like, oh, bit,

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Speaker 3: you just call him for the wing recipe? Nothing. See

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Speaker 3: how I'm doing? Cool?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How are you sis? Great?

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Speaker 3: Fine?

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Speaker 2: Totally fine, totally dude.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm an expert, and I just I gotta stop

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Speaker 2: I love it. I love it for everything that we're

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Speaker 3: Uh give it up for our bougie expert Kanisha Goldsen.

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Speaker 1: White is like the wine delivery, like.

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Speaker 2: But I'm just saying, yeah, hey boo, welcome to the pocket.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, full disclosure, I.

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Speaker 2: Get all yet.

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Speaker 3: Took the dick of the mic.

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Speaker 6: I wanted to be the expert on a bunch of

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Speaker 1: Already had been done.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I feel like we didn't discuss something that I

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Speaker 6: And then finally he's like, well, like we should go out,

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Speaker 3: Fine, college, it's definitely I just got out of college

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Speaker 1: Well, the splash of cran was.

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Speaker 6: The growth for him, because it would be vodka cranberry

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, now that's now that If you see anybody

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Speaker 1: Because there's obviously levels.

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Speaker 2: It's the well for me. The cranberry is probably the

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Speaker 6: So he was white and that's what he was drinking,

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Speaker 1: So that was enough.

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Speaker 3: He said, Actually, I have to throw some other niggas

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Speaker 6: Like a lot older than me, which is crazy because

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Speaker 2: Are you?

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Speaker 1: Weirdly works for me though it doesn't. He moved to

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Speaker 6: While, and the reason why is because I was just

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Speaker 6: Still, I like get to do the creative stuff that

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Speaker 1: So that's kind of why I'm hanging out.

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Speaker 2: So a good well melanated, well moisturized are you drinking

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Speaker 2: a mall?

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Speaker 6: Was that I just asked him to bring some wine,

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you sitting in Boston with the free wine

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Speaker 2: are you from Boston?

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Speaker 1: I am again weird.

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Speaker 6: No, my mom was one of those Jamaicans that, for

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Speaker 2: She she tried to say Brooklyn and she forgot and

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think she got it wrong.

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Speaker 2: I think she was, but she stayed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you're there, You're in Boston, you're Jamaican.

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Speaker 2: I really I oh, now now all of it adds up. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 6: Criminal justice, and then I had one job at a

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Speaker 6: And I was literally just determined to be anywhere but there,

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Speaker 1: Was a concert that night. I was just like, I've

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Speaker 6: And then I hated that job so much that I

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Speaker 2: Wait, wait, let the original in Paris original. Let's talk

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 1: So many things about that show.

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Speaker 2: Did you speak French? We we croissant? Sid Sidney interrupted

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Speaker 2: your real friends to say it's not wrong.

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Speaker 3: But girl, all right, nice girl, girl?

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Speaker 2: Okay? So how long were you in Paris?

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Speaker 6: I was there for six months, I think, but I'd

441
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Speaker 6: be telling.

442
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Speaker 2: People a year. Yeah, you got around it up, like, you.

443
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Speaker 1: Know I lived in Paris for a year, now, do you.

444
00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:50,880
Speaker 2: I was in Paris for Sorry, I was in Paris

445
00:21:50,920 --> 00:21:52,880
Speaker 2: for four days, and I tell everybody I summered there

446
00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 2: last year, so I think you.

447
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:56,439
Speaker 1: Listen, was it summer?

448
00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:58,160
Speaker 2: What summer time?

449
00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:00,480
Speaker 1: I can't say. Let's just make sure.

450
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:08,760
Speaker 2: Imagine I was there of February summery, Okay, So tell

451
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 2: us about being bougie in Paris for six months. Maybe

452
00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,440
Speaker 2: that's where we start, and then yeah, take it from there.

453
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 1: So Paris was real messy, because do I get that? Yeah?

454
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Speaker 6: So Paris was messy because I had a boyfriend when

455
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Speaker 6: I went at the time, and we met when I

456
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 6: did an internship at a law firm, and he was

457
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Speaker 6: my boss, and I was like, I'm not gonna talk

458
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 6: to him. And I also just didn't get hints because

459
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:37,720
Speaker 6: I had never I was still a virgin, so as

460
00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 6: it made and then like we started dating shortly after

461
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 6: I started working there, and then that was my man.

462
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 6: That was like two thousand and seven, and then this

463
00:22:45,280 --> 00:22:48,200
Speaker 6: was two thousand, like the beginning of two thousand and nine.

464
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Speaker 6: I left on January ninth, I don't know, I remember that.

465
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Speaker 6: So I went, but before, like early early Hoe days,

466
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Speaker 6: I was just like, oh, like I want to know,

467
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Speaker 6: like who's in Paris, what they're doing, what they look like. Right,

468
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:03,040
Speaker 6: So I joined some like group I don't even know

469
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 6: what the fucking Facebook group was.

470
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: And this French dude, Jean Baptiste.

471
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Speaker 2: Girl, we don't give out all? Is that his first

472
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:13,160
Speaker 2: and left? Yes?

473
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:15,720
Speaker 1: This give us then everybody's first and last.

474
00:23:16,000 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 2: Okay, we're good.

475
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 1: He has like a poor name name.

476
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,719
Speaker 2: It's Likeste.

477
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Speaker 3: John right, Jean Jean.

478
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Speaker 1: I'm about to say his whole name too, okay.

479
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 6: But so yeah, he reached out to me and was

480
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 6: just like, oh, you know, you're the most beautiful American girl,

481
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,600
Speaker 6: blah blah blah, and my thirsty I saw that he

482
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:46,439
Speaker 6: was a creative director for like one of the biggest

483
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:47,239
Speaker 6: nightclubs out there.

484
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Speaker 1: So I was like, yes, we're trying to be bougie

485
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Speaker 1: in another.

486
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 6: Country networking, and so we networked and he spoke no English,

487
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 6: so like it was great for me because I was

488
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Speaker 6: learning a lot of French. But then it was like

489
00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 6: really annoying because the only English that he knew was

490
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 6: from like American pop culture, but like nineties pop culture.

491
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:12,760
Speaker 6: So like he wanted to talk to me about family matters,

492
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,679
Speaker 6: which I was trying to explain to him it's like

493
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 6: no longer a thing.

494
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Speaker 2: That's I like that he knew about it.

495
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 6: He was like rare, but it is also not called

496
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 6: family matters. It was if I think it was called

497
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 6: like Cci family or like, which is like yes, yes, family.

498
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: So anyway, I met and it was real cute.

499
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Speaker 6: So like he was like really busy doing stuff for

500
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Speaker 6: the club, and he had a black friend whose name

501
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 6: was Samba, was like with the culture, and he was

502
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 6: also like super creative, and so he took me to

503
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Speaker 6: this like whose next, like fashion show like thing, and

504
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 6: we went around and hung out for the day and

505
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Speaker 6: then and he lived in like the south of France,

506
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 6: and then his friend had to like leave on business,

507
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 6: so he was like, oh, like he gave you the

508
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 6: Keyston's apartment, so I like stayed in like because my

509
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 6: place was literally like an attic and like the path

510
00:25:11,240 --> 00:25:12,479
Speaker 6: room was down the fucking hallway.

511
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Speaker 1: Yes, oh, I like stay to his apartment. It was great.

512
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,400
Speaker 6: And then like when we were hanging out, it got

513
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:22,199
Speaker 6: like super awkward and it was like how do I Like,

514
00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 6: it's not really rape, but it's also like I wouldn't

515
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,119
Speaker 6: really have sex with you, but like why not?

516
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: So it was like one of those moments.

517
00:25:29,040 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 6: Where I was like, yeah, like sure, like I'll have

518
00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 6: sex with the guy, like let's just see what happens.

519
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Speaker 1: And it was the worst sex of my life.

520
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Speaker 3: And then wait, you were still a virgin at this time?

521
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 6: No, no, no, this is because I have the boyfriend

522
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 6: and so I was no longer virgin. And then I

523
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 6: came to France and then I had sex. I had

524
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Speaker 6: to have sex with the French guy, which is like,

525
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 6: it's so supers.

526
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Speaker 3: That was that was on the list.

527
00:25:50,080 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was.

528
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,160
Speaker 2: You said the sex was messy or it.

529
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 3: Was so bad, and it's like, but what made it bad?

530
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 2: On the actually, like I think.

531
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 6: There's different degrees, like varying degrees of a black girl fetish,

532
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 6: and some guys just like haven't had sex with a

533
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,520
Speaker 6: black girl at all before. Some guys only want to

534
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,679
Speaker 6: have sex with black girls. And then some guys have

535
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,560
Speaker 6: never done anything, but like they think they know what

536
00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 6: black girls want for sex. So I guess rap videos

537
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,600
Speaker 6: told him that like I wanted to be choked like man,

538
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 6: and it's like really bad and like fast and rough,

539
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 6: but like not passionate because I don't know you.

540
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 2: So that felt like college shit. Whoo, that does feel

541
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:39,200
Speaker 2: like I'm triggered. That feel real dorm room sexy as well.

542
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah it was good dorm room sex.

543
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 6: This was bad bad, like you know, like when somebody's

544
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 6: behind you and you're just like.

545
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 2: I was, you're you, you want to reach for your

546
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: phone and sometimes you saw you'd be like.

547
00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was bad.

548
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 6: It was like if I can scroll through Instagram aimlessly,

549
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 6: like with no point, I would be doing that at

550
00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 6: that time, right, And I like kind of stopped messing

551
00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:07,479
Speaker 6: with him, But then I was like, oh, cute fears

552
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 6: are great, And then I felt really bad about it.

553
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 1: But when I came home, I found out that my

554
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:12,640
Speaker 1: man was cheating on moving with some.

555
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,920
Speaker 3: But she was also cheating two sus No, that's what

556
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 3: I'm saying, So like I don't anymore. Okay, right right.

557
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: Out right right, Okay, whatever you whatever you do to

558
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 2: one side, you gotta do to the other side. It's man,

559
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 2: So you're telling me something he.

560
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 1: Knows about it. If he listens to this for whatever.

561
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 3: Reason, it don't matter. It don't matter. If it happened

562
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 3: five years ago, it don't even count.

563
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,439
Speaker 1: So years ago it didn't listen.

564
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 2: If it happened in international waters, it don't count. So

565
00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,480
Speaker 2: that's what you did is your business. And what he

566
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,960
Speaker 2: did here is actually wrong and you should have dumped

567
00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: him when you got back.

568
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,720
Speaker 3: Now, while you was popping your pussy out there, did

569
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,639
Speaker 3: you do anything of fan say, did you learn anything

570
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:55,400
Speaker 3: about the culture?

571
00:27:55,920 --> 00:27:57,400
Speaker 2: What makes you so bougie?

572
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 6: It's definitely not culture, because I feel like I'm real shallow,

573
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,640
Speaker 6: which is like a good thing.

574
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,480
Speaker 3: Okay, that's no, that's honest, that's honest.

575
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 1: I just I have like a d D and I

576
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:08,400
Speaker 1: just I don't care about ship.

577
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 6: So when I go places I don't like, I'm not

578
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 6: trying to walk. I did a pack shoes for that

579
00:28:17,800 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 6: and like do some drugs and like, ah.

580
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 2: Okay, but but these are this is yes, okay. Because

581
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,360
Speaker 2: I felt bad, I went to Paris and I went

582
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,159
Speaker 2: I went to the Louver. I didn't go in. I

583
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: stood outside and I was like, I mean, if I'm

584
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:40,480
Speaker 2: by the pyramid, I feel like I've seen the museum.

585
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: Right, I mean technically you were there. You were there.

586
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,680
Speaker 3: I was there, girl, and I was in Rome. I

587
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 3: actually went in the museum, and I'm telling you it.

588
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 2: Was They're like full of people with grubby fingers and

589
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 2: cameras and bad shoes. Oh you know what I did.

590
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 3: I did see this sixteenth chapel and that that was

591
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 3: very That was cool. Sorry, hold on, hold on what chapel?

592
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: Say it?

593
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 2: Sixteenth chapels. Did you have to see the name of

594
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 2: the chapel when you walked in the Sistine Chapels.

595
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 3: Yes, that that's what I saw.

596
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 2: Yep.

597
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 3: I had to put on pants and everything. They were

598
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 3: like you in the boom boom shorts, know, you may

599
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:31,240
Speaker 3: not see. I actually scoffed at me that I was

600
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 3: pulling up with the shorts and they were like, wait,

601
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 3: what you must be covered.

602
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 1: They're not doing that.

603
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 6: I I did go to like museum ship when I

604
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 6: was in Barcelona, but I had a gay friend with me.

605
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 1: Who like does that he needed to do.

606
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 2: That with Barcelona, But it was the same thing.

607
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: We went to the and they made us put on

608
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: pants and that's why I remember.

609
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:59,000
Speaker 2: Okay, well, they were relaxed. In Amsterdam. I went to

610
00:29:59,000 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: the Van Gold Museum.

611
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 3: I was I want to say, I was on mushrooms.

612
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 2: No, I was on I was high. I was so high,

613
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 2: and I was walking through the museum like I could

614
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 2: do this. This is this looks like some of my work. Marie,

615
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 2: you're pretty boogie too.

616
00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:13,760
Speaker 3: I love you going.

617
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: Feelie. Wigs are expensive.

618
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 6: One doesn't simply have a collection of wiggs.

619
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:25,479
Speaker 3: Oh okay, well yes, but now she is braids.

620
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 2: So she is. She reads books, and she she likes

621
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 2: incense and she she I don't know, maybe she's Buddhists now,

622
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 2: who knows who I am now?

623
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 3: But yeah, she has affirmation post.

624
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:39,960
Speaker 2: It's all over the place. She's really I'm gonna do

625
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 2: a video and it's gonna be I'm gonna introduce the.

626
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: Bring milk in the background.

627
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean, you know, I don't eat meat anymore,

628
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 2: and uh, I spoke no, but I'm saying, you.

629
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:56,760
Speaker 3: Know, okay, So we so we leave Ferrie where we're

630
00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 3: still in Boston. We come back.

631
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: I need to make sure were you doing berets in Paris?

632
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,400
Speaker 1: No?

633
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: No, so I was.

634
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 1: It wasn't good.

635
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 6: Like I wouldn't ever show you guys pictures of the

636
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 6: looks that I was turning in Paris because like I'm

637
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 6: one of those people where I feel like every year

638
00:31:14,640 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 6: like I'm doing something God blessed better than what I

639
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 6: was doing the year before. Facebook will tell you more

640
00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 6: than you need to know. But I look at pictures

641
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:25,080
Speaker 6: of like stuff I was wearing like three years ago,

642
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 6: and I'm.

643
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: Like, really, like, right, who was she? Why was she?

644
00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: So?

645
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:34,040
Speaker 6: No, none of it was cute, Like I wasn't hardly

646
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 6: that girl yet. But then like I don't know, it

647
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 6: was like years after that, like I started to like

648
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,680
Speaker 6: figure my shit out, graduated from school, became an AKA,

649
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 6: started doing all that like you know, pretty shit, and

650
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 6: then I ran my own business and.

651
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 3: Then okay, let's get into that more bouge. This is

652
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 3: top tier right here, because.

653
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 6: Like when you start making the thing about like being

654
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 6: in your thirties, like I'm people who think that like, oh,

655
00:31:58,080 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 6: like in my thirties and I'm old. Now I'm like,

656
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 6: you're literally it's like your twenties, but you have money

657
00:32:02,640 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 6: and you look better.

658
00:32:05,360 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: The chick is out.

659
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:10,640
Speaker 6: So I once I started doing the food truck and

660
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 6: I was just flewid as they come. That's when I started, like,

661
00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 6: you know, purchasing things and like hashtag luxury. And I

662
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:22,040
Speaker 6: was still dating the attorney from that first law firm,

663
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:25,480
Speaker 6: and we were still living together post cheating.

664
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 3: Post cheating. Right, well, I'm sure the house was very nice.

665
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 3: Off Okay, now what wait? I want to know? So

666
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 3: y'all y'all cheated on each other, but you were still

667
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 3: living together. But whose name was on the lease?

668
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:40,200
Speaker 1: He owned the place?

669
00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: Right, okay owned the place?

670
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:44,480
Speaker 1: Smart other.

671
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 6: The other bougie rule or like secret of mine is

672
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 6: that I have never paid rent until June of two

673
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 6: thousand and nineteen.

674
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: Excuse me, you never paid rent since? Okay? Yeah, okay, wow,

675
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 2: I'm trying to wait. What I would love to do

676
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 2: the math as well? How do you where you stayed

677
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 2: in Paris?

678
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: I have never paid rent.

679
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,040
Speaker 3: I guess, but I want to know who Okay what

680
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 3: I said you may use Okay, well tell us who

681
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 3: because I'm I'm out write it down.

682
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: I gotta be yeah.

683
00:33:22,160 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 3: Here.

684
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:28,800
Speaker 6: I lived with Tim and he owned his place like work,

685
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 6: like he's like the nicest person ever. He was like, yes,

686
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 6: yours beautiful black man, like awesome, very small.

687
00:33:37,120 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 2: I was, Wow.

688
00:33:38,360 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 6: We were together for like ten years. Stop it great great,

689
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 6: great guy.

690
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,880
Speaker 2: But are you Cicily Tyson over there? What's going on?

691
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:47,200
Speaker 3: Ten years?

692
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 1: I met when I was nineteen, Okay, so we were

693
00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: together for a really really long time.

694
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 3: Send a picture. You see a picture of this guy.

695
00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,120
Speaker 2: Also, when you said Tim, I thought Tim was for

696
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 2: sure a beige man. But I've never met a black Timothy.

697
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 2: I mean I did.

698
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 3: I went to I went to college with the Timothy

699
00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 3: and he lived on the Upper Upper east Side. He

700
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 3: had like he lived very wealthy. Dad had money and

701
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 3: he was Haitian too. What yeah, Haitian's on the Upper

702
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 3: west Side.

703
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:20,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, we got to be shocked on the podcast. I

704
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 6: thought he blocked me, but that's because I was like, yeah.

705
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: Sent you a picture.

706
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 3: Okay, So you were living with him for ten years.

707
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 1: I was living with him for like.

708
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:43,959
Speaker 6: Ten years, and so like he owned the place, so

709
00:34:44,160 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 6: he like it'd be really weird to be like give

710
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,480
Speaker 6: me money for my mortgage.

711
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 3: How old was Tim compared to you?

712
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 1: Because I think he was like twelve or.

713
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 2: This is Tim was your boss?

714
00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was my mother.

715
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:02,879
Speaker 2: Damn I gotta get a job to walk a bang

716
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 2: my bos.

717
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 6: It was like he did all of the things. We

718
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 6: like covered all of those bases, but it was like

719
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 6: it was all after the fact though. Okay I was

720
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 6: because I was so young.

721
00:35:13,719 --> 00:35:15,239
Speaker 1: I was an idiot. Like he'd be like, oh, like

722
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:16,759
Speaker 1: you know, like what are you doing tonight? Like you

723
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,759
Speaker 1: want to go to this closing and then we can

724
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,319
Speaker 1: go to dinner afterwards and be like get me.

725
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: Nails and friends closing.

726
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: Let somebody like a real estate closing?

727
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 3: Oh right, okay, cold on Sydney. You don't watch Sunset?

728
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 2: I did, But I was also like you could close. No,

729
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 2: that's close to what.

730
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:40,200
Speaker 3: You're not doing. But I know that you're not doing that.

731
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 3: Yours is very open. Okay you don't. You don't have

732
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 3: your rent paid all the way and not give up

733
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 3: not someone there.

734
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 1: So that was.

735
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 6: Until like two thousand, I would actually say, so it

736
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 6: was like re round up. So it was like tennis years.

737
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:57,359
Speaker 6: So that was like until two thousand and sixteen.

738
00:35:58,000 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 1: Okay, then I.

739
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 6: Broke up with him, like when that Drake song like

740
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:07,040
Speaker 6: All Summer sixteen came out and I was like, oh,

741
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 6: this is the Hoe anthem. Like I have been in

742
00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:13,319
Speaker 6: a relationship since I was nineteen years old with this.

743
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 2: Same day, all the twenties, all the twenties. You're basically

744
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 2: Cassie with Diddy in your twenties.

745
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 6: And so I like right before I broke up with him,

746
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 6: I remember it was like before Easter, so like early

747
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 6: early twenty sixteen. And there was this one kid, another

748
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 6: black kid that I went to school with, this dude, Courtney,

749
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 6: whose name was Mistake because.

750
00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: He's just he's garbage.

751
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 6: Ok Well, we were all like knew each other like

752
00:36:39,280 --> 00:36:41,319
Speaker 6: all of college and like on again, off again, and

753
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 6: then he would like always come to Boston then like

754
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 6: visit me. And one time he was coming and we

755
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,520
Speaker 6: like got in an argument about I forget what the

756
00:36:49,520 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 6: fuck it was.

757
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,879
Speaker 1: I think he he like.

758
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 6: Got like work rich, like his company like made some

759
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 6: deal and like all of a sudden, this like you

760
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 6: know boy from Brooklyn was like a multi millionaire.

761
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:04,879
Speaker 2: Oh what's his name? What?

762
00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 6: What what part of Brooklyn he does?

763
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:08,840
Speaker 2: Are you out? Here to help or.

764
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: What you don't worry about it.

765
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,360
Speaker 6: He's literally dating like a white girl who rides bikes,

766
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:14,480
Speaker 6: and wehear's free t shirts.

767
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 3: So a white girl who rides bikes and wears free

768
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:18,080
Speaker 3: T shirt.

769
00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: Maria is black and wears free te rides bikes. So

770
00:37:21,800 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 2: the shirt that I'm wearing was free, but I got

771
00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 2: it from a job that I.

772
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: Work in, corporate challenge. So she's she's doing that. He's

773
00:37:29,520 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: doing that.

774
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 6: But like we he was coming and visit me and

775
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 6: we it was like right after we had gotten in

776
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:37,520
Speaker 6: this big argument that like he like made all this money.

777
00:37:37,520 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 6: I was like still doing the food truck. So I'm

778
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 6: like very much like boss Bitch at the time.

779
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,840
Speaker 2: Right, and this is all in Boston.

780
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 1: This is all in Boston.

781
00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 3: This is crazy because everything you're saying does not remind

782
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:49,440
Speaker 3: me of fucking bust In at all.

783
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 2: Right, I saw the Departed Sis, I don't remember when

784
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: do the fat racist white dude? You don't, Yeah, what

785
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:00,399
Speaker 2: what part of it? What chapter is that?

786
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 1: I mean at all points they're there too, and she

787
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:04,960
Speaker 1: just doesn't mention it.

788
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,480
Speaker 2: Okay, So Courtney is coming to Boston.

789
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:10,800
Speaker 6: In Boston, we got an argument because like he said

790
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 6: something that made me feel like he had called me

791
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 6: a gold digger, and I'm like, not only I'm not

792
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:16,959
Speaker 6: trying to fuck you right now, I'm not even trying

793
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 6: to see you right now. And like I was just like,

794
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 6: so niggas get money, and like this is how you act,

795
00:38:21,920 --> 00:38:23,600
Speaker 6: like just like all of a sudden, So I was

796
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 6: mad and so like he came to Boston like twice

797
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 6: and I didn't see him, and then this was like

798
00:38:28,680 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 6: the third time. He was like, oh, like we should

799
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 6: like hang out blah blah blah. And I'm just like,

800
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,080
Speaker 6: once you say something like that, like how you take it.

801
00:38:34,040 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 3: Back right, and so to prove and to really go

802
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 3: off on him, then you became a gold digger right right, Yes,

803
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 3: I mean that's how sometimes you got to prove them right,

804
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 3: to prove them.

805
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 6: So he came to Boston and for whatever reason, just

806
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 6: like my pussy was really feeling the.

807
00:38:54,000 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 2: Moment, okay, like oh you were you were slipping sly record.

808
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 6: We literally went out to like I was just like

809
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:05,880
Speaker 6: something super casual. There's like a sushi restaurant that's like

810
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 6: at the like the first level of my gym. And

811
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:13,319
Speaker 6: he goes to the same gym in New York.

812
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 2: So like he like quinos.

813
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 6: So he walked in and parked his car in the

814
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:21,239
Speaker 6: parking lot underneath, and then like walked in to use

815
00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 6: the bathroom, and he like walked by, and I'm like

816
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 6: standing went against the wall talking to a friend, and

817
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 6: he walked from like behind me.

818
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: And like over to go to the bathroom.

819
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 6: Then he didn't see me, and I saw him, and

820
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 6: I'm like, who is this fine ass fucking black man.

821
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 6: And then like when he came out of the bathroom,

822
00:39:35,680 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 6: I saw was him and I.

823
00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:38,800
Speaker 1: Was just like, oh, so we're just like fucking soaked

824
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: when I tell you so, I'm not even lying, like

825
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 1: not even lying. I literally like soaked myself like through

826
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:47,919
Speaker 1: my fucking Ooh.

827
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,440
Speaker 2: Okay, So who would play Courtney in a movie? Sis

828
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:54,160
Speaker 2: can give us an actor or a personality.

829
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 6: I mean unfortunately, not unfortunately, but he's like giving Tay.

830
00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: Diggs like I was going to sit as like something

831
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 3: about him feels like he could be But is he tall?

832
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 6: He's I wouldn't say like he's taller than me. I

833
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:11,320
Speaker 6: wouldn't say tall. But he is just like perfect skin, beautiful, smile,

834
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 6: very smart, impeccably dressed just okay.

835
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 2: Since yeah, because you know, well, yes, where's he says?

836
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 2: He could be trash. That's fine, Marie, fix him up.

837
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:25,279
Speaker 1: Anyway. I'm with him.

838
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 6: My man is at home, and I was like I

839
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 6: cannot feel this way about another person and like also

840
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 6: be in a relationship. So literally, like that night I

841
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 6: went home and was like, we need to talk. And

842
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,680
Speaker 6: then I just like broke up with him, and.

843
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 3: Then with Tim because of Courtney.

844
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, well not because of Courtney.

845
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 6: It was like a lot of things like I had

846
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 6: been within my whole life, and like it's just like

847
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 6: if I.

848
00:40:48,040 --> 00:40:50,799
Speaker 2: Says, where were you gonna live? Where were you gonna live?

849
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 2: She figured it out. He was saving here. She was

850
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 2: saving money for ten years. She had money saved, saving

851
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 2: ship for ten years.

852
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 3: I was like, Marie, do you know this girl? Yeah, no,

853
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 3: don't let the turtleneck fool you.

854
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:11,320
Speaker 1: The spirit not paying rent?

855
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 2: She said she was going to sleep on the food trucks.

856
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 2: Is that a real bougie bitch? Have a business that

857
00:41:20,840 --> 00:41:23,439
Speaker 2: you can also sleep in? Yeah, get your own job

858
00:41:23,480 --> 00:41:25,800
Speaker 2: that does both. Yeah, it's the house.

859
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:28,839
Speaker 6: So I broke up with him that weekend, and then

860
00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 6: also fox Courtney that weekend, and then we got into this.

861
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 1: Like Roman like romance thing, like are we going to

862
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:34,600
Speaker 1: do it? What are we gonna do it? Are we

863
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: going to do it? And I was like going to visit.

864
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 2: Him in New York mm hmm.

865
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: And then I'm like and he had just bought like

866
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: this new.

867
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 2: Place, and it's like, yes, where where was it?

868
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:46,399
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know. I don't know New York.

869
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 2: What are you doing for us lately?

870
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 3: I just don't understand. But I have my friend out

871
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 3: here in Brooklyn lately.

872
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: I really don't know where he lives.

873
00:41:55,239 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 6: And I like deleted everything from him because it was

874
00:41:58,520 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 6: really one of those things.

875
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 2: This is his last name.

876
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 3: Let's go on Instagram?

877
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 2: Is it Courtney Bee? Fans, it starts to be that's insane,

878
00:42:07,040 --> 00:42:08,840
Speaker 2: Courtney Brown, Courtney Bradley.

879
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 1: I mean, I.

880
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,360
Speaker 6: Wouldn't hate if one of you followed him, because his

881
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:14,359
Speaker 6: page is private and I'm not going to follow him back.

882
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:19,919
Speaker 2: I kind of let's get Bessy, yes, drop the at

883
00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:24,479
Speaker 2: in the chatty. Oh, maybe we can have Andrew follow him?

884
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 3: Yeah?

885
00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: Work, Okay, you go.

886
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 6: This is a This is weird because I've literally been

887
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,200
Speaker 6: trying to figure out who I could get to do this.

888
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:34,760
Speaker 1: For a soul.

889
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 3: But wait, but it's private, so he might if and

890
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 3: he probably will look at Andrew's page and be like.

891
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 4: No, no, no, I have I have a completely fake Instagram account.

892
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 2: York daddy.

893
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:52,320
Speaker 3: Now I'm wet. Okay, work keeps going the culture.

894
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: So yeah.

895
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 6: So anyway, I went to his place and saw like

896
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:58,719
Speaker 6: a makeup bag in his bathroom, and I was like,

897
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,640
Speaker 6: you know what's happening here? And I was mad too,

898
00:43:03,640 --> 00:43:05,640
Speaker 6: because I'm like, we obviously fucked. I didn't come to

899
00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 6: New York for it no reason. And then I was

900
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 6: like after that, and.

901
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 3: Then what was in the makeup bag? Did you take anything?

902
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 4: Oh?

903
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,239
Speaker 1: It was white girl shit, So I.

904
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:17,919
Speaker 2: So a lot of cover girl.

905
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 6: It's like, we literally can't even use anything except like

906
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:21,760
Speaker 6: the thing that's probably gonna.

907
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:22,360
Speaker 1: Give me conjunction.

908
00:43:22,480 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 3: Bo.

909
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:28,040
Speaker 1: Right, So that was canceled and then I just like

910
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:28,880
Speaker 1: I had.

911
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 2: Like my best gidet closer to the mixis.

912
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 1: I had my best host season after that.

913
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 2: Wait, so when you saw the makeup bag in his house,

914
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,200
Speaker 2: that was over for me. Did you have sex with

915
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 2: him before you saw the bag or after?

916
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: Before? Before?

917
00:43:41,600 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 2: Okay? Okay, did he get you a cab.

918
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 1: There were two bathrooms. No, he drove me.

919
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:49,960
Speaker 6: He so then I was like leaving that day and

920
00:43:50,000 --> 00:43:54,480
Speaker 6: then he drove me to the train or I think

921
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 6: maybe I was like meeting a friend afterwards, but he

922
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 6: drove me to somewhere and I remember he like passionately

923
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:00,760
Speaker 6: kissed me before we got into the car. Was great

924
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 6: because then like two weeks later I saw it he

925
00:44:02,920 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 6: was engaged.

926
00:44:04,480 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 2: Oh cor Coorty crash mister b Wow. Yeah, Andrew definitely

927
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:15,600
Speaker 2: get on the case. But that does feel that does

928
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:20,319
Speaker 2: feel like Big Digg's energy to meet energy, cheating on

929
00:44:20,360 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: your beige boo with your black boom.

930
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 6: But then the craziest thing about it is one of

931
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,959
Speaker 6: my homegirls here because she like knows about the whole

932
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,719
Speaker 6: Courtney saga and how like love with this man I

933
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:34,319
Speaker 6: was and first like stuck in her head, and then

934
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:36,120
Speaker 6: she was talking to one of her other friends who's

935
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 6: like going through it with this guy, and then found

936
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 6: out it was the same dude, so he was coming

937
00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:44,320
Speaker 6: here and seeing too, and just at the same time.

938
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 3: Well, if you have money, man, wait, Kenisha, if you

939
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 3: came away, if you came into some money, you would

940
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:53,680
Speaker 3: be like, yo.

941
00:44:53,600 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 2: It's a plethora of bitches when I broke, So you

942
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 2: don't need money to be You even got to go back,

943
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:01,279
Speaker 2: Don't you do that?

944
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 3: Not with that Bordeaux in your hands and that that

945
00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:07,919
Speaker 3: good mic equipment you got on over there, cysts. Don't

946
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 3: you do that. You are not broke. That is a mindset.

947
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:12,359
Speaker 2: You are rich.

948
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,279
Speaker 3: To me, No, broke is not a state of mind.

949
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:15,759
Speaker 2: Don't do that.

950
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:17,879
Speaker 3: Broke is a thing, an actual thing.

951
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 2: When you put your card chip and the lady says it

952
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: got kicked, whether.

953
00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 6: Or not we're doing uber eat or a bag of

954
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 6: chips that I found in the back of the cabin.

955
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,480
Speaker 3: But that's not what you're doing, babe. So don't even

956
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:32,520
Speaker 3: do that. Not to the people. There's real broke people

957
00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 3: listening on this podcast.

958
00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 2: They're they're using their neighbor's WiFi.

959
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, and you know what, And to them, I say,

960
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,000
Speaker 6: broke is a state of mind, and.

961
00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:49,759
Speaker 3: Be upliftings uplifting please waits yet to come.

962
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:55,280
Speaker 2: So, Kenisha, when you started, when you were living rent

963
00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:59,280
Speaker 2: free for ten years and you were messaging other people

964
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 2: and living your life, what's the most uh, the nicest

965
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,240
Speaker 2: gift that you either a got for yourself or somebody

966
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 2: got for you the.

967
00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 6: Nicest gifts I got from myself that to somebody got

968
00:46:14,239 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 6: for me, I would say, is like one like I.

969
00:46:17,960 --> 00:46:20,879
Speaker 1: So that's like when I'm just like, oh, like fucking.

970
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,479
Speaker 6: Pussy power, like I can literally just like make people

971
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 6: give me things because I'm cute. Yes, And then it's

972
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 6: Boston too, so like they're all about like pedigree and

973
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 6: like where did you go to school? And oh, a

974
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 6: scholarship and I can google her though, like the like

975
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 6: older white men love that shit, and I so like

976
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 6: I was like talking to like a girlfriend and she

977
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 6: was telling me about like that website seeking arrangements and

978
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,360
Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, into like the sugar daddy business

979
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 6: and like, honestly it sucked.

980
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:51,759
Speaker 2: But like you got into the sugar daddy business, girl.

981
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:55,839
Speaker 6: So it's not sugary on the website.

982
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,760
Speaker 2: Like I didn't even know. I don't even know, you bitch.

983
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 2: You have to have know this well, Sydney. I'm not surprised.

984
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,839
Speaker 2: I don't really, I don't know need to Like nothing

985
00:47:04,880 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 2: that you're saying is making me clutch me.

986
00:47:07,160 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 1: She like Marie hasn't blinked.

987
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 2: And Sidney, I feel like you FaceTime her regularly enough

988
00:47:13,960 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 2: that I feel like you should not be surprised about

989
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:17,720
Speaker 2: these that you really shouldn't be surprised about.

990
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 3: The paying right now. So I don't know, you know,

991
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:20,720
Speaker 3: she's changed.

992
00:47:21,239 --> 00:47:23,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, this was this was a past life.

993
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 6: So like they seeking Arrangements had a blog which was

994
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 6: like it gave you like all the tips and tricks

995
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,520
Speaker 6: and all that ship And the most I did from

996
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 6: that site is I met one dude and his name

997
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 6: was Cam and he was just like, I'll give you this,

998
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 6: I'll give you that, like I had one sugar baby

999
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 6: and like she moved and so like that's what the

1000
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 6: deal was.

1001
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 1: And I was like okay. And then I met him

1002
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 1: and he was like.

1003
00:47:46,880 --> 00:48:00,040
Speaker 5: Huge, like dick, no the body man, Oh you're wishful.

1004
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:04,560
Speaker 1: Thinking that's of girthy. And I was like, I literally can't.

1005
00:48:04,760 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 6: I'm like I don't, like there's literally like ten thousand

1006
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 6: dollars a week on the table and I can't.

1007
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 2: Two thousand dollars a week. And you couldn't do two

1008
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:13,240
Speaker 2: thousand pounds for a moment.

1009
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 6: Because the other thing, too, is like Boston is super

1010
00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 6: super small, so it's like where are we gonna go?

1011
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 6: And like I'm gonna look like I'm gonna be with

1012
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,359
Speaker 6: this dude and literally, like people like Boston's not gonna

1013
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 6: be like, oh like she just has like an older

1014
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 6: man like paying for things, which is like it's a

1015
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,800
Speaker 6: fucking relationship anyway. So I'm like, I can't. I literally

1016
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 6: cannot go anywhere always it's working.

1017
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:35,840
Speaker 2: Whole hold on this damn this hold on. So literally

1018
00:48:37,280 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 2: dollars dollars a week, table.

1019
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: A week dollars on the table a week.

1020
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:44,640
Speaker 2: Sis you Goeta sat on his face? You know he

1021
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:45,239
Speaker 2: liked to eat.

1022
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:48,400
Speaker 1: No, I can I find a picture of him?

1023
00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 3: Yes, send us that photo because this is send it,

1024
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 3: send us to the group chat. Oh my god, I

1025
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:57,680
Speaker 3: mean listen, I listen. We've all had sex for free

1026
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:01,279
Speaker 3: with people that should have given in this tenth So

1027
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 3: it's kind of.

1028
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 6: Like if I literally saw this man in real life

1029
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 6: outside of the context of a blank check, I would

1030
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 6: like run in the other direction and be like something

1031
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 6: is happening.

1032
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:12,959
Speaker 3: But also, Knisha, how did you mee the point where

1033
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 3: you saw him? And then he's mentioned in the ten

1034
00:49:14,960 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 3: thousand dollars a week like if if you got to

1035
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,560
Speaker 3: the place and you see the size, I would you know.

1036
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 2: Wait, I mean, if Marie has left people hanging.

1037
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 1: On and where we met. So he was like and

1038
00:49:26,680 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: he was like one of the legit guys.

1039
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 6: So he like met and he was like, let's like

1040
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 6: meet and we'll like meet for coffee, we'll talk about

1041
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:33,640
Speaker 6: the money thing.

1042
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 1: We'll like see how you feel about it.

1043
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 6: And I think it because the other thing with all

1044
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:39,720
Speaker 6: these dudes too is they're like, oh, like I only

1045
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:42,200
Speaker 6: want someone where there's a real connection. It's like, sir,

1046
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 6: like paying women to go out to dinner with them.

1047
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,000
Speaker 6: The one is going to have a connection with you is.

1048
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,280
Speaker 3: Your bank to my my routing number, My routing number

1049
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 3: is the connection right right.

1050
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 6: So that was happening, and I like, I was just

1051
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,319
Speaker 6: like I can't. I literally can't do it. So like

1052
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 6: that literally just like came and went. I was like,

1053
00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:04,759
Speaker 6: I'm not doing it. Didn't even feel bad about it now.

1054
00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 6: I'm not even like, damn, what could I do with

1055
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 6: like ten thousand dollars a week? Like I feel like

1056
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,800
Speaker 6: winning the lottery is more likely than me like even.

1057
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: Thinking, well, have you done the math, because you could

1058
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:16,359
Speaker 2: have left that year with half a million.

1059
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 1: Dollars, says wait till I show you a picture of

1060
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 1: this man.

1061
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,439
Speaker 2: We're waiting friend, we are waiting, like I don't.

1062
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 6: I don't think that he exists on the intranet because

1063
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:26,959
Speaker 6: of what he looks like. I just go over three

1064
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,920
Speaker 6: keywords that might bring him up, and it did it.

1065
00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 6: So he also drove like a like bright yellow Ferrari

1066
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:34,439
Speaker 6: and was like the flashiest man ever.

1067
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 3: So anyway, it's going to be a sugar baby and

1068
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,879
Speaker 3: then have like like integ standards. That's weird.

1069
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 6: It's just like standards too, which is weirder like that,

1070
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 6: and be like, oh, I only want girls that are thin,

1071
00:50:47,040 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 6: like no athletic girls, please, like that's not my preference.

1072
00:50:51,120 --> 00:50:53,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, but I feel like when you have that

1073
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 2: much money, you feel and do you what industry was

1074
00:50:58,320 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 2: he in?

1075
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,360
Speaker 1: Um, I don't remember.

1076
00:51:01,360 --> 00:51:02,720
Speaker 3: I think he's not gonna say finance.

1077
00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,680
Speaker 6: It was like, no, it wasn't finance. It was like

1078
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 6: family wealth.

1079
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 1: Like he is like like oh.

1080
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 2: Generaate, oh o oh okay. So in a different vision

1081
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:12,760
Speaker 2: of him in my mind.

1082
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: Now, please just see like a snowman like you know.

1083
00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 3: In my in my head, he looks like one of

1084
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: the people from Wally in the movie that like they

1085
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 3: didn't use their legs at all.

1086
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 1: Murrie know exactly what.

1087
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 6: He looks like, you know, the bumble from those Christmas movies.

1088
00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 6: It's like that big, like snowman like creature.

1089
00:51:33,160 --> 00:51:36,240
Speaker 2: Here. I'm looking up, Yes, snowman.

1090
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:40,360
Speaker 1: Yes, he looked like that. So he was terrifying.

1091
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 6: So I moved on from that, and I was like,

1092
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,720
Speaker 6: I'm not doing this website anymore.

1093
00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna be.

1094
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:46,640
Speaker 3: Sure you want to let one big man stop you

1095
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 3: from getting your money, from getting your I didn't.

1096
00:51:49,800 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 6: I just didn't want to do the site anymore because

1097
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:52,920
Speaker 6: it was like so much aphobic.

1098
00:51:52,960 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 3: I'm just putting it out there.

1099
00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 6: Uh No, I was just I'm just always I've been

1100
00:51:58,120 --> 00:52:00,200
Speaker 6: somebody who works out every single day. So to me,

1101
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 6: it's like the mindset thing. It's like if you don't

1102
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 6: wake up early, if you're not going to get up

1103
00:52:04,520 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 6: and like do something for your body because you only

1104
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 6: have one, then like we're just not in alignment.

1105
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 2: They're also, if you can afford ten thousand dollars a week,

1106
00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 2: you could afford the lat band surgery syst you got,

1107
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,719
Speaker 2: you got have funds. I got the funds to sup yourn.

1108
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:19,520
Speaker 6: If you're literally too lazy to sit in a recovery

1109
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,680
Speaker 6: room somewhere in La for a couple of weeks and like, bye.

1110
00:52:22,560 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 3: Me build a whole We do not support the things

1111
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,200
Speaker 3: that he could have built a whole new now yeah, wait.

1112
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:28,919
Speaker 1: How much time?

1113
00:52:29,000 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 4: Like were you going to spend with him for how much?

1114
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 4: The ten thousand coss?

1115
00:52:32,080 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: Oh?

1116
00:52:32,239 --> 00:52:35,880
Speaker 6: So he was very specific, like he wanted us to

1117
00:52:35,960 --> 00:52:38,879
Speaker 6: meet up like three to four times a week, and

1118
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,919
Speaker 6: like some of it would just be like me being

1119
00:52:40,960 --> 00:52:43,239
Speaker 6: on his arm at events, which was another thing, like

1120
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 6: I don't want to get branded as being like belonging

1121
00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:48,359
Speaker 6: to this guy because then when it's over, like it's

1122
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,600
Speaker 6: just gonna be weird. Like Boston is super.

1123
00:52:50,360 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 2: Tiny, so like, oh so what saw who you used

1124
00:52:52,800 --> 00:52:53,239
Speaker 2: to be with?

1125
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:53,839
Speaker 3: Right?

1126
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:57,120
Speaker 2: Oh you're not where the slim gym no.

1127
00:52:57,160 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 6: More plus sex And to me it's like, yes, my

1128
00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 6: type is like old and rich, but like not like

1129
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:06,719
Speaker 6: we're not just gonna do anybody.

1130
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 3: But like you said, and if he emphasis on the anybody, anybody.

1131
00:53:12,239 --> 00:53:16,080
Speaker 6: He was anybody, If anybody was a person, was this man.

1132
00:53:16,520 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 2: But if his body was that big, the sex wasn't

1133
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,439
Speaker 2: gonna last that long. There's no way.

1134
00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:23,080
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to find out. That's how bad

1135
00:53:23,120 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: it was.

1136
00:53:23,600 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 6: It was like I just didn't want to see things

1137
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 6: I couldn't unsee.

1138
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:28,879
Speaker 2: You know, you know, I'm trying to make this work

1139
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:29,560
Speaker 2: for you retros.

1140
00:53:29,560 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 6: It wasn't like I just like wasn't trying to like

1141
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,080
Speaker 6: smell things that he didn't tell worthy.

1142
00:53:34,239 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, people in his cities. I know, I know

1143
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 3: skinny people that stink so.

1144
00:53:41,480 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 2: Right, No, but it was like, you know, I know

1145
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 2: men who live.

1146
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:49,279
Speaker 3: On live on a skateboard and don't wear deodorant, so

1147
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 3: that has nothing.

1148
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:53,000
Speaker 2: But those men don't have ten thousand dollars a week

1149
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: to spair.

1150
00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:57,279
Speaker 6: Now, he was I'm going to dig to find a

1151
00:53:57,280 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 6: picture of this man. He like doesn't have social media

1152
00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,160
Speaker 6: because he's just like a underground sugar daddy.

1153
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 3: You're gonna have to go on your BlackBerry to find

1154
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 3: these photos.

1155
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 2: Huh.

1156
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,000
Speaker 6: I never had a BlackBerry. I was always an iPhone girl.

1157
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: M Yeah.

1158
00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:12,480
Speaker 3: Oh so where you were born in two thousand?

1159
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, sure, I mean Sydney. I didn't have a BlackBerry.

1160
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:17,280
Speaker 1: I didn't have a BlackBerry.

1161
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 3: I had one of those like the phones that like

1162
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 3: the razor, the flip that slide. So you had a sidekick.

1163
00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, I was a sidekick, but then it was it

1164
00:54:27,760 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 6: was like not a sidekick after it was an LG.

1165
00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 1: It was an LG and I don't I forget what

1166
00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:34,520
Speaker 1: it was called a razor.

1167
00:54:34,560 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 2: I think you had a razor. No, the razor flips open.

1168
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: There was a phone with a keypad.

1169
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:42,960
Speaker 3: I don't remember that, okay, but but it.

1170
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 2: Was a touch screen outside of the slab. Wait, hold on,

1171
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:48,040
Speaker 2: we got a new development. One I got.

1172
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:49,600
Speaker 1: I got in who I met?

1173
00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,520
Speaker 3: Oh my god screenshot and.

1174
00:54:56,920 --> 00:54:59,000
Speaker 1: Wow, we're gonna connect off.

1175
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, new development.

1176
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 6: I love this for a fantastic So he's not even

1177
00:55:06,560 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 6: the focus of the story, Like I don't want to

1178
00:55:08,000 --> 00:55:10,239
Speaker 6: focus on this dude. So basically he got was my

1179
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 6: reason to get off the site. I was like, I'm

1180
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,799
Speaker 6: not doing it out here anymore. It's too much chit chat.

1181
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 6: So then like knowing like all this stuff about like

1182
00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:21,880
Speaker 6: an arrangement and how to approach it because like basically

1183
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 6: like you're an old dude with money, but like you're

1184
00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 6: looking for young women, so like there has to be

1185
00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 6: like a catch, like I want things.

1186
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: I want bags and dinners and trips and yeah, want.

1187
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,240
Speaker 6: You want somebody who's young. And when your business associates

1188
00:55:36,280 --> 00:55:37,920
Speaker 6: come in to town. You want them to bring like

1189
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 6: beautiful women around so you look cool. And I just

1190
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:42,439
Speaker 6: feel like, if you're going to pay for a drink

1191
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 6: at a bar to look cool and spend money on

1192
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 6: corporate dinners, then there's a fee attached.

1193
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:51,000
Speaker 3: To this too, Okay, And I salute you and I

1194
00:55:51,000 --> 00:55:54,040
Speaker 3: believe in that, and it's that's what it is some people.

1195
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 6: This is going to help you close the deal, like

1196
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:58,440
Speaker 6: a steak at Capitol Grill.

1197
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 3: Then I like the way you talk. I mean, you're

1198
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 3: rude as fuck, but I love you.

1199
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 2: I love it.

1200
00:56:07,440 --> 00:56:10,080
Speaker 6: Night I was there was like the IC eight and

1201
00:56:10,239 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 6: Institute of Contemporary Art does like a first Fridays, and

1202
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 6: they had a first Friday, and I hate public bathroom,

1203
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:16,759
Speaker 6: So like my friend and I were like, we're going

1204
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:18,840
Speaker 6: to go to the bathroom, but like, let's go to

1205
00:56:19,040 --> 00:56:22,319
Speaker 6: Capitol Guerrilla across the street. So I need straight Up,

1206
00:56:22,360 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 6: which is like an Italian steakhouse. So we go across

1207
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 6: the street to go there, and I'm like trying to

1208
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 6: run in really quick because I know exactly where it's at.

1209
00:56:30,400 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 6: And I run in and some other dude who's like

1210
00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:36,479
Speaker 6: just a loser in Boston caused me by my first middle,

1211
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 6: and last name, and I turn around to be like,

1212
00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 6: who the fuck is this?

1213
00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: So I go to the I literally ignore him.

1214
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:43,120
Speaker 6: Then when I come back out, he's like standing there

1215
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:44,959
Speaker 6: to say hi to me, So I say hi to him,

1216
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,840
Speaker 6: and then across the bar, I see that dude Camp,

1217
00:56:49,320 --> 00:56:51,480
Speaker 6: the sugar daddy dude.

1218
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:52,480
Speaker 1: From scene arrangements.

1219
00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 2: Okay, so he.

1220
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:54,879
Speaker 1: Tries to come over.

1221
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 6: So this dude who like call me by first, middle,

1222
00:56:57,480 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 6: and last is standing there and he's like with like

1223
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,280
Speaker 6: a bunch of other guys. And so Cam is across

1224
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:05,360
Speaker 6: the bar and he sees me talking to other guys.

1225
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:07,200
Speaker 6: So he's just like, I could buy this whole place,

1226
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,400
Speaker 6: and that's what he did, so.

1227
00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 2: He liked he said I could buy this whole place,

1228
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 2: and then he bought the whole place.

1229
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 6: And he comes over and he like introduces himself, and

1230
00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 6: I'm like hi, And I literally saw his Ferrari outside

1231
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 6: and I was like, it'd be funny if like Cam

1232
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 6: was here, but it's I'm sure other people have a

1233
00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 6: yellow Ferrari, but like that's the time I had seen

1234
00:57:29,320 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 6: one was when I was with him, right, like ugh,

1235
00:57:32,560 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 6: So he comes over, I'm just like, this is really

1236
00:57:35,040 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 6: too much a bitch just had to pee and trying

1237
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 6: to go back to this party real quick, right, So

1238
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 6: he comes over, he's doing this whole thing. I literally

1239
00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 6: I'm like trying to like I hug him and I'm

1240
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 6: like being nice and then he's just like okay, everybody

1241
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 6: dreams on me and like pays.

1242
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: Everybody who's sitting in the bar area's tam okay.

1243
00:57:55,560 --> 00:57:56,600
Speaker 2: And then like there's.

1244
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 6: Bottles of champagne and I'm like, all for what, Like

1245
00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 6: there's it was going to happen. Then nothing's going to

1246
00:58:01,400 --> 00:58:04,240
Speaker 6: happen now. Right at the time that this is going on,

1247
00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:06,640
Speaker 6: Like another group of people walk in. This is like

1248
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:09,960
Speaker 6: group of guys who are like business and one of

1249
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:11,640
Speaker 6: the guys is like from M I T. And he's

1250
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:16,080
Speaker 6: the CEO of this like AO biome company like this.

1251
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,960
Speaker 3: Like were guys and the specifics you might as well

1252
00:58:19,040 --> 00:58:23,919
Speaker 3: just give the coordinates and a social security.

1253
00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 1: It's all so long ago. I don't know what.

1254
00:58:25,520 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 2: Anything right right right?

1255
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 3: Yes?

1256
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, also yes, give us the social He.

1257
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 6: Comes in and literally like he's super sure. He like

1258
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:35,920
Speaker 6: walks like right up to me and like starts talking

1259
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:37,919
Speaker 6: to me. And I'm at this point, I'm annoyed because

1260
00:58:37,920 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 6: like I don't want to be talking to anybody, like

1261
00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:44,000
Speaker 6: I just had to pee. So now I'm drinking champagnes.

1262
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 6: I'm like a little bit nicer, and he's like, oh, like,

1263
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:47,480
Speaker 6: what are you guys doing, Like we're going to go

1264
00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:50,480
Speaker 6: to the There's like a club next door, this place, Empire,

1265
00:58:50,560 --> 00:58:54,440
Speaker 6: so we like walk over to there and he like gives.

1266
00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:56,120
Speaker 1: Me his number and then it's like blowing me up.

1267
00:58:56,320 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 6: So at this point, I'm like back in school in

1268
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 6: the NBA program and I'm living home again. I'm just

1269
00:59:02,520 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 6: like anybody who's like trying to like, you know, whine

1270
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 6: and dine me, because like once I leave, I would

1271
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:09,320
Speaker 6: leave the house at five o'clock in the morning to

1272
00:59:09,360 --> 00:59:11,520
Speaker 6: go to the gym, and then I'm like, I'm not

1273
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 6: coming back to Dorchester in the middle of the day,

1274
00:59:13,880 --> 00:59:15,720
Speaker 6: so I would like literally leave at five and come

1275
00:59:15,760 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 6: back the same time.

1276
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:21,959
Speaker 2: So I'm like, wow, to see a working woman, Yes,

1277
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:24,200
Speaker 2: you would like at five and come home at five working.

1278
00:59:25,600 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 6: So I he was just like, oh, like you know,

1279
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 6: like I want to take you out to dinner, and

1280
00:59:29,720 --> 00:59:31,360
Speaker 6: I'm like, you know what. At this point, like I'm

1281
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 6: living at home and I'm broken in board, so sure.

1282
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 6: So we go out to dinner to this restaurant committee

1283
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 6: it's like one of my favorite places in the city.

1284
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,680
Speaker 6: It's like great Greek food, which is like perfect because

1285
00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 6: we're just.

1286
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 1: Like cute culture.

1287
00:59:42,920 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1288
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: Us.

1289
00:59:45,040 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 6: So we go and I'm sitting there and I'm just

1290
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 6: like I'm having conversation with this dude and it's kind

1291
00:59:49,760 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 6: of boring and I don't care about anything that he's

1292
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:55,000
Speaker 6: telling me. So I was like, so, what are you

1293
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 6: trying to do? Like what are you looking for? And

1294
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,520
Speaker 6: he was just like, oh, you know, like what like

1295
00:59:59,560 --> 01:00:01,880
Speaker 6: I you know, enjoy your time and like you're, you know,

1296
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:04,479
Speaker 6: funny and like you're a go getter and like I just.

1297
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:05,680
Speaker 1: Like really like being around you.

1298
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 6: And I was like, well, I'm not going to be

1299
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:12,000
Speaker 6: your girlfriend, and I'm like trying to compute whether or

1300
01:00:12,040 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 6: not like we're gonna have sex ever. So I'm like,

1301
01:00:15,880 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 6: you tell me what you're trying to do and then

1302
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:18,400
Speaker 6: I can tell you what I can offer.

1303
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 2: Okay, come on, put your cards on the table.

1304
01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:25,840
Speaker 6: And I literally I was trying to find it before,

1305
01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 6: like earlier, when like I just like god, like you

1306
01:00:29,080 --> 01:00:29,800
Speaker 6: guys were talking.

1307
01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 1: There's a picture of this.

1308
01:00:31,320 --> 01:00:35,280
Speaker 6: Momentous day where so that he's literally like looking at

1309
01:00:35,320 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 6: me in shock, like what is she talking about? And

1310
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 6: it's like, it's exactly what you're thinking, you're just not

1311
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 6: going to say it. And so basically I was like, well,

1312
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:45,440
Speaker 6: here's the deal, Like, you're an old, you know, white man,

1313
01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,840
Speaker 6: and I'm hot and I'm young and I'm smart, and

1314
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:49,919
Speaker 6: I could be doing this with anybody else right now.

1315
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:55,040
Speaker 2: Oh I feel like, hey, this energy I love like

1316
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 2: a girl.

1317
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:01,720
Speaker 6: I feel like we should and a mutually beneficial arrangement

1318
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:03,640
Speaker 6: where I give you what you're looking for and you

1319
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:04,840
Speaker 6: give me what I'm looking for.

1320
01:01:05,240 --> 01:01:06,480
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, what are you looking for?

1321
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:08,360
Speaker 6: And I was like, well, I would say gifts, but

1322
01:01:08,360 --> 01:01:09,960
Speaker 6: if you just gave me money then I could buy

1323
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:10,680
Speaker 6: them for myself.

1324
01:01:11,120 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: Ooh and the.

1325
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, you know what, you should run for president?

1326
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:20,360
Speaker 2: You should have been on the ball. Not not none

1327
01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 2: of them, It should be you, Okay, the secretary of Treasury.

1328
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,000
Speaker 6: And it was really cute because it was like conservative.

1329
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 6: And I was also like at this time, I'm like

1330
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 6: giving off like this big energy, but I'm also.

1331
01:01:30,600 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 3: How old were you at this time?

1332
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:32,080
Speaker 1: You?

1333
01:01:33,760 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 3: I was, Oh, you don't say your age. That's fine, Okay,

1334
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 3: good next.

1335
01:01:38,120 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 6: No, no, I do say my age. I'm trying to

1336
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 6: think how old I was because I'm not good at math.

1337
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: That's the Oh.

1338
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,440
Speaker 2: They don't teach math in MBA program.

1339
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 3: That's weird, that's crazy, that's.

1340
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 6: That's not what I was there for. Oh, plenty of

1341
01:01:52,320 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 6: qualified white men in said program.

1342
01:01:54,680 --> 01:01:58,160
Speaker 3: Woo talk about it, about it.

1343
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:02,080
Speaker 1: I was twenty eight years young, but I also like,

1344
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 1: you know, we look young. I like I was cute.

1345
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:10,760
Speaker 6: It was twenty three passing, and so it was I

1346
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 6: think he like the first of every month he just

1347
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:15,240
Speaker 6: deposited like two thousand dollars into my bank account, like

1348
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 6: to the Bank.

1349
01:02:16,200 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 3: Of America, like Marie, and you didn't have to put

1350
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 3: no videos up once a week, no, just two thousand dollars.

1351
01:02:23,240 --> 01:02:23,560
Speaker 1: I didn't.

1352
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 6: Literally it was it was. It was fantastic. And one

1353
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,520
Speaker 6: moment he like one month, he tried to like contest

1354
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 6: it because he was like, oh, like I'm in Greece,

1355
01:02:32,320 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 6: like I'm not even here, and I was business a contract.

1356
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 6: So at the restaurant, I drafted a contract on like

1357
01:02:41,280 --> 01:02:45,600
Speaker 6: the napkin, like you know those little like with like

1358
01:02:45,600 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 6: the red lines on it like that I wrote in

1359
01:02:48,120 --> 01:02:50,440
Speaker 6: pen like a contract, and he signed it, and I

1360
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 6: just like, you're a business man. You signed a contract,

1361
01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 6: Like I don't like, maybe we can revisit it at

1362
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 6: the end of the terms.

1363
01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:00,240
Speaker 2: Girl, you know Canusia you need to come back, can

1364
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 2: do this every single week. I'm so glad that you're here.

1365
01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 2: So how did you guys get to the two thousand dollars?

1366
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:11,640
Speaker 6: He was just like what is It's not a lot

1367
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,360
Speaker 6: of money, Like well, he tried to ask me, like

1368
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:17,520
Speaker 6: what are my expenses? And I was like, that's a

1369
01:03:17,520 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 6: boyfriend question. This is a business conversation. So like I

1370
01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:22,560
Speaker 6: just feel like two thousand dollars would be like a

1371
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 6: good amount for me to do whatever I want with.

1372
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 6: It's not really a business, and like that has nothing

1373
01:03:26,760 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 6: to do with like when you see me and like

1374
01:03:28,160 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 6: take me out and like buying me gifts because like

1375
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,760
Speaker 6: I also like that shit too, and like if I

1376
01:03:32,800 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 6: don't feel good, then like I don't feel good enough

1377
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:36,640
Speaker 6: to see you, So like let's keep it.

1378
01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:40,640
Speaker 3: Cute, Yes, keep it you're low key, can be sure

1379
01:03:40,640 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 3: you're like the sugar daddy expert, but you're like that

1380
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 3: We've already had one of those, so you're like the

1381
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 3: revamped Sugax.

1382
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:53,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, I feel like this is actually this, this

1383
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 2: is the expertise, right, you haven't crazy how we went

1384
01:03:55,760 --> 01:04:01,240
Speaker 2: down this. I'm writing things down and you need me.

1385
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:07,640
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that is the title of our next episode.

1386
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:10,520
Speaker 3: I'm hot and you need me write that down, write

1387
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:12,440
Speaker 3: that down, and.

1388
01:04:11,880 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 2: This and if you want this to be mutually beneficial.

1389
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,120
Speaker 6: All these like little like talking points from the Seeking

1390
01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:20,120
Speaker 6: Arrangements website.

1391
01:04:20,280 --> 01:04:20,960
Speaker 1: So it was great.

1392
01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:22,960
Speaker 6: So I had that going on, but he was like

1393
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 6: also always like in Greece and like doing all this

1394
01:04:25,160 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 6: like business ship, so he was never around. So I

1395
01:04:28,040 --> 01:04:31,919
Speaker 6: think we did that for like six months and then

1396
01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 6: I like started seeing another dude because like you know,

1397
01:04:36,960 --> 01:04:39,120
Speaker 6: service life, like you meet all these people, and I

1398
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 6: was like working at this restaurant.

1399
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:42,080
Speaker 2: Oh that you said services.

1400
01:04:42,160 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 3: I was like, Marie, you was doing it too, you

1401
01:04:44,000 --> 01:04:46,600
Speaker 3: Sigard added service life what you was?

1402
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 6: I was the hostess at this restaurant okay in Boston.

1403
01:04:50,480 --> 01:04:55,560
Speaker 1: And it's like, I hope nobody hears. It's the food

1404
01:04:55,760 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 1: we got.

1405
01:04:56,240 --> 01:04:58,360
Speaker 2: I just want to let you know. Okay, so that's

1406
01:04:58,400 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 2: where you this is where you see Yeah, wow, work there.

1407
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: So the food.

1408
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,200
Speaker 6: The food wasn't that good, but it was like a

1409
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,560
Speaker 6: scene in Boston, like the street where it is just

1410
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 6: like one of the most trafficked locations in Boston, like

1411
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:16,840
Speaker 6: highest like walking traffic in another life, not this quarter.

1412
01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 6: And so it was like a scene and there was

1413
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 6: this guy. There's like not much that I can say

1414
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 6: about this, but there was.

1415
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 3: This out of everything that you you've been saying names

1416
01:05:27,920 --> 01:05:33,760
Speaker 3: and places and you know id TV, like I can't, Yes,

1417
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,040
Speaker 3: commercials is it the general?

1418
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:41,840
Speaker 2: Is it? Jacobean Myers? Who is this person that has

1419
01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 2: commercials on TV? Okay?

1420
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 1: Got so he so he's like coming to the restaurant.

1421
01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 6: And we had like this term called like s party,

1422
01:05:50,080 --> 01:05:52,120
Speaker 6: but it was like for VIP, it's like special party.

1423
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:54,680
Speaker 6: But like if we're at the host stand and like

1424
01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 6: it's super busy, impact that we have people on like

1425
01:05:56,960 --> 01:06:00,240
Speaker 6: a two hour waiting list, and someone hears us say like, oh,

1426
01:06:00,280 --> 01:06:01,520
Speaker 6: like you know, but we can't do that because a

1427
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 6: VIP is coming. They're going to be like all guests

1428
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:07,320
Speaker 6: should be weighed equally. It's like right, right, Like someone's

1429
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 6: gonna drop five thousand dollars, You're going to like eat

1430
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:13,479
Speaker 6: appetizers and then like pick up the receipt the you know, the.

1431
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:15,000
Speaker 2: Bill and then split the check.

1432
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,400
Speaker 6: Yes, right, so like you no, not all made equal,

1433
01:06:17,440 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 6: but like sure, So we called it an S party.

1434
01:06:20,600 --> 01:06:22,200
Speaker 6: So like I come in like I'm the hostess for

1435
01:06:22,240 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 6: the day, Like I see all the S parties. I

1436
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 6: like go talk to the manager, so like I know

1437
01:06:26,200 --> 01:06:28,640
Speaker 6: that this guy is coming in, and whenever he would come,

1438
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 6: the CEO of the restaurant group would also come and

1439
01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 6: like everyone was like shook of both guys. So the

1440
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 6: it was like summertime. So I'm working inside the restaurant

1441
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:41,320
Speaker 6: and like the patio is packed, inside is completely empty

1442
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 6: because everyone wants to sit outside because it's a scene, right,

1443
01:06:44,720 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 6: So I have like the hostess sitting outside because I'm

1444
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:48,440
Speaker 6: like I'm not going to sit in the beating son,

1445
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 6: I'm way too cute for this. I'll be in the

1446
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:52,680
Speaker 6: ac and I'll answer the phone. So I'm like inside,

1447
01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:55,000
Speaker 6: I'm on the phone. I like looked out because I

1448
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 6: see his reservation comes up. He ends up saying that

1449
01:06:57,320 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 6: he wants to sit outside. So he's sitting outside and

1450
01:06:59,520 --> 01:07:01,479
Speaker 6: look to check he's there, and like we like lock

1451
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 6: eyes immediately, I'm like that was like kind of awkward,

1452
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:05,439
Speaker 6: like he literally just like.

1453
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 1: Read my soul.

1454
01:07:07,080 --> 01:07:09,000
Speaker 6: So I'm like still inside and he like comes into

1455
01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:11,439
Speaker 6: use the bathroom, and I like the phone literally rings

1456
01:07:11,440 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 6: as soon as he walks in the door, so I

1457
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 6: pick up the phone and he like walks over to

1458
01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 6: me and like grabs like my arm, not like grabs it,

1459
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:18,439
Speaker 6: but just like touches my like.

1460
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 1: You know, forearm.

1461
01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:21,200
Speaker 6: And it's like, oh, you know, like thank you so

1462
01:07:21,320 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 6: much for like all your help today, Like it's been great,

1463
01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:25,320
Speaker 6: like you know, everybody at the table is really happy.

1464
01:07:25,880 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 1: And I was like.

1465
01:07:26,640 --> 01:07:30,680
Speaker 6: Okay, and because I'm like I'm kind of clueless, like

1466
01:07:30,760 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 6: to be honest, so like I met you.

1467
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,800
Speaker 2: And like it's sound like you blues clues, you got.

1468
01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 6: All of them, kay No, But like I just like

1469
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:42,439
Speaker 6: I'm not I just don't pay attention to people because

1470
01:07:42,440 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 6: I don't care.

1471
01:07:43,400 --> 01:07:44,920
Speaker 1: So like I just like that.

1472
01:07:45,120 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 2: And that is what is so attractive about you or

1473
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 2: appealing to you to these men is you're not paying

1474
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,120
Speaker 2: attention to them. You're not like.

1475
01:07:54,760 --> 01:07:57,360
Speaker 6: Because like everybody pays attention to them all day, Like

1476
01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 6: that's it. Like when I work, like when they get home,

1477
01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:03,560
Speaker 6: like every everybody's read. So like that happens, and then

1478
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:05,480
Speaker 6: I actually like never see the guy again, and like

1479
01:08:05,560 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 6: one of the servers like mentioned to me that she

1480
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 6: heard him say something about like the pretty girl this inside,

1481
01:08:10,840 --> 01:08:13,640
Speaker 6: but like that was it. Then like months later, like

1482
01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 6: it's starting to get cold, is like September now, and

1483
01:08:17,120 --> 01:08:19,639
Speaker 6: he comes back to the restaurant and it's at night

1484
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:22,200
Speaker 6: and they're like sitting at the bar and when the

1485
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:23,800
Speaker 6: service is like, oh my god, like that guy you

1486
01:08:23,800 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 6: know that says the thing about you is back and

1487
01:08:25,320 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 6: I'm like I really don't care.

1488
01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:27,759
Speaker 1: And he like comes in and he's.

1489
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:30,639
Speaker 6: Just like, oh, you know, like I like, you probably

1490
01:08:30,680 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 6: don't even remember me.

1491
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: Blah blah blah.

1492
01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:34,880
Speaker 6: Anyway, fast forward because this part is a long story.

1493
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:37,479
Speaker 6: But she makes me give him my number, and so

1494
01:08:37,600 --> 01:08:39,439
Speaker 6: like I write, which I would never ever do, so

1495
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:41,320
Speaker 6: like write it down on a piece of paper and

1496
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:44,000
Speaker 6: give it to him, and they're like, you know. Lincoln

1497
01:08:44,200 --> 01:08:46,559
Speaker 6: pulls up and like him and his friends therefore them

1498
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:47,920
Speaker 6: like get into the car and they're like on their

1499
01:08:47,960 --> 01:08:50,280
Speaker 6: way to like a box at the Socks game. So

1500
01:08:50,400 --> 01:08:53,400
Speaker 6: like immediately he balks at the box at the Socks game.

1501
01:08:54,400 --> 01:08:56,679
Speaker 6: So immediately he gets into the car, he text messages

1502
01:08:56,720 --> 01:08:58,480
Speaker 6: me and he's just like, oh my god, your handwriting

1503
01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:00,120
Speaker 6: is like so nice, Like I don't know where I

1504
01:09:00,120 --> 01:09:02,240
Speaker 6: should like, you know, put this in my phone and

1505
01:09:02,520 --> 01:09:04,559
Speaker 6: or like say this and frame it or something stupid

1506
01:09:06,000 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 6: rich rich guy game, right, rich guy game, Like what

1507
01:09:09,200 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 6: you want to frame the note?

1508
01:09:11,080 --> 01:09:13,439
Speaker 1: Please? Let's move on from this and cut me a check.

1509
01:09:14,280 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 6: So he invites me out to lunch, and he like

1510
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:22,360
Speaker 6: has on sunglasses the whole time, and I'm like, this

1511
01:09:22,400 --> 01:09:24,320
Speaker 6: is like really, like why won't you just like take

1512
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 6: there's like no sun in your eye, like I can

1513
01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:32,160
Speaker 6: see that, right, And they're Oakley's so that's one demerit.

1514
01:09:33,840 --> 01:09:36,639
Speaker 6: And he's like sitting there at this restaurant and he's

1515
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 6: like just like feels kind of sketchy, and he's like,

1516
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:42,479
Speaker 6: which is also my type kind of and he's like,

1517
01:09:42,720 --> 01:09:45,400
Speaker 6: you know, like trying to tell me something but not

1518
01:09:45,439 --> 01:09:47,439
Speaker 6: like getting it out, and basically is that like him

1519
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 6: and his wife are separated. And I'm just like, okay, well,

1520
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:53,240
Speaker 6: like what how much of this is my business?

1521
01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:56,320
Speaker 3: And how much of this is.

1522
01:09:55,880 --> 01:09:58,040
Speaker 6: Because I'm not trying to I'm not in that way,

1523
01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 6: Like I'm just like how much of the this is?

1524
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:02,599
Speaker 6: Like actually my business like that I need to know

1525
01:10:02,640 --> 01:10:04,960
Speaker 6: and how much of this is like truthful? Like are

1526
01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 6: you telling me that you're separated because you're lying and

1527
01:10:07,720 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 6: you're not like are you separated like an actual like

1528
01:10:10,840 --> 01:10:15,320
Speaker 6: proximity because she's not here with you and your potential mistress. Right,

1529
01:10:15,960 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 6: And he was friends with like, you know, like one

1530
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:21,400
Speaker 6: of my other good friends. I won't say what his

1531
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:25,680
Speaker 6: position or relationship was, and basically like he kind of

1532
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,360
Speaker 6: like gave me like the you know, like I trust it,

1533
01:10:28,439 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 6: like you're good to go move and I was just.

1534
01:10:30,320 --> 01:10:34,000
Speaker 1: Like, okay, Red, it is fun. And that was like

1535
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:36,360
Speaker 1: one of the best because I literally used to be

1536
01:10:36,439 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 1: like so upfront with him.

1537
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 6: I'm like, you got shit going on at home, Like

1538
01:10:39,240 --> 01:10:41,599
Speaker 6: I don't want your drama. You figure your shit out.

1539
01:10:41,600 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 6: I'm not trying to have any parts of that. And

1540
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 6: for the inconvenience of the stress that you have now

1541
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 6: brought upon me, I'd like some Stuart Whitesman over the

1542
01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 6: knee boots.

1543
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 1: Yes, I'd like to hold the black card.

1544
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:57,360
Speaker 2: You'd like to hold the black Just wait, he let

1545
01:10:57,439 --> 01:11:01,439
Speaker 2: you hold the black card, so we I'm telling you,

1546
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:04,120
Speaker 2: just answer that question.

1547
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:09,160
Speaker 6: He had a sporting event in Philadelphia and this was

1548
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:11,799
Speaker 6: like the biggest flex. So I was like still in school.

1549
01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,280
Speaker 6: So he had a sporting event in Philly and I

1550
01:11:14,400 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 6: was like in class and he text messaged me and

1551
01:11:16,439 --> 01:11:18,519
Speaker 6: he was just like and I had already known that

1552
01:11:18,560 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 6: he was like in New York at the time, and

1553
01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 6: he was like, oh, like do you want to like

1554
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 6: come to like meet me for dinner? And I was

1555
01:11:24,840 --> 01:11:27,280
Speaker 6: like like that's funny, Like how much drugs you want

1556
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 6: right now? I'm in Boston here in New York. And

1557
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:31,240
Speaker 6: he was like no, I'm serious, like I'll send like

1558
01:11:31,280 --> 01:11:32,600
Speaker 6: a car and I was like I'm not sitting in

1559
01:11:32,640 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 6: a car like from Boston to New York for any

1560
01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:38,640
Speaker 6: amount of hours like I we don't care buzz light

1561
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:41,760
Speaker 6: years driving Like no, I'm all set. And so then

1562
01:11:41,760 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 6: he ended up like getting me a flight. I literally

1563
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:47,280
Speaker 6: flew to New York like immediately after class, like boy

1564
01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 6: clothes and everything. Didn't have to worry about anything. New York,

1565
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,080
Speaker 6: had dinner, and then he was.

1566
01:11:53,040 --> 01:11:53,800
Speaker 1: Like we should go.

1567
01:11:53,960 --> 01:11:55,559
Speaker 6: You know, I have this like thing that I'm going

1568
01:11:55,560 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 6: to in Philly, like you know, I want you to come.

1569
01:11:57,600 --> 01:12:00,080
Speaker 1: And I was like okay, so then we you.

1570
01:12:00,240 --> 01:12:03,080
Speaker 6: I came back home, went to class that morning, and

1571
01:12:03,080 --> 01:12:03,559
Speaker 6: everyone was.

1572
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:05,680
Speaker 1: Like, weren't you in New York last night?

1573
01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:06,719
Speaker 2: Correct?

1574
01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:12,400
Speaker 6: Weren't you here? Weren't you doing your economics problem set?

1575
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:16,000
Speaker 6: So then I came back to Boston, packed a bag

1576
01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:18,000
Speaker 6: and went to Philly and it was just like a

1577
01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:20,520
Speaker 6: real cute like have like a suite at the Writtenhouse

1578
01:12:21,280 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 6: and he's like, you know, like you've been doing like

1579
01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:26,960
Speaker 6: a lot of movement, moving around, like I'm gonna like

1580
01:12:27,040 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 6: I set up a day for you, like at the spa,

1581
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 6: and I was literally the spa for like six hours

1582
01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:34,439
Speaker 6: and he like like, you know, here's like the spa menu,

1583
01:12:34,640 --> 01:12:36,400
Speaker 6: like let me know if there's anything that you'd like

1584
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:39,200
Speaker 6: to do, and then he like added a bunch of

1585
01:12:39,240 --> 01:12:41,720
Speaker 6: shit to it. And then I came back from the

1586
01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:44,280
Speaker 6: Spa and he was like out at his sporting event

1587
01:12:44,760 --> 01:12:46,600
Speaker 6: and I was originally gonna go, even though it was

1588
01:12:46,600 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 6: like something I didn't care about, but then it was

1589
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:51,320
Speaker 6: raining and I was like, my skin is glowing right now,

1590
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 6: like my heir, this wig is pressed.

1591
01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: For the gogs, and it was it was a bob moment.

1592
01:12:56,320 --> 01:13:02,000
Speaker 2: It was like a cute, a blunt boble moment. Blunt yeah, Okay,

1593
01:13:02,040 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 2: so you were sleeping with this guy.

1594
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,080
Speaker 6: So yeah, I was sleeping with him and the sex

1595
01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:07,519
Speaker 6: was actually good. He was like okay, like he's like

1596
01:13:07,560 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 6: a lot of we're actually still friends.

1597
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 2: So this okay friend, Hey, big hag.

1598
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 6: And when I came back from the SPA, there was

1599
01:13:17,479 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 6: literally like an envelope that said special k on it

1600
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,120
Speaker 6: and there was like one thousand dollars in cash and

1601
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:26,000
Speaker 6: a black card and was just like, you know, like

1602
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 6: one of my friends lived in Feeling. He's just like

1603
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:29,680
Speaker 6: I've arranged for like a car to pick you up,

1604
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:32,400
Speaker 6: and like she was like forty minutes away and like

1605
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 6: take you to see her. And then I like went

1606
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:38,160
Speaker 6: to see her, came back with the car into the city.

1607
01:13:38,200 --> 01:13:40,719
Speaker 6: The car literally like waited for me outside of her place.

1608
01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 2: And this is the book.

1609
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:53,960
Speaker 6: We really deserved this I didn't us. Then I came back,

1610
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 6: car dropped me off at the hotel I met one

1611
01:13:57,160 --> 01:13:57,879
Speaker 6: of my friends.

1612
01:13:58,040 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 1: Ordered lunch.

1613
01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 6: He was like, you know, like order lunch in the

1614
01:14:00,080 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 6: sweet like do whatever you want. So I ordered lunch

1615
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:05,000
Speaker 6: for us and the suite. We had lunch up there

1616
01:14:05,160 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 6: and then left went to go have a drink somewhere

1617
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:09,280
Speaker 6: and then took his card for a spin.

1618
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 2: How much money you spent on that blow with the Blackguard?

1619
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:15,559
Speaker 6: I think I spent like I didn't spend a lot.

1620
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:17,400
Speaker 6: I was because I knew him and like I knew

1621
01:14:17,400 --> 01:14:18,560
Speaker 6: we were going to keep seeing each other. So I

1622
01:14:18,600 --> 01:14:20,600
Speaker 6: think I spent like six thousand dollars like nothing like,

1623
01:14:21,000 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 6: which is.

1624
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 2: That's nuts, that's actually nothing, that's she said, nothing.

1625
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:30,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you have gone in such a rabbit hole

1626
01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:34,080
Speaker 3: of sugar daddy info that I couldn't even get to

1627
01:14:34,160 --> 01:14:36,080
Speaker 3: like where you are right now because we're already over

1628
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:36,760
Speaker 3: it now is this?

1629
01:14:37,400 --> 01:14:40,559
Speaker 2: Yeah? But honestly, everything that you said said was beautiful.

1630
01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:43,080
Speaker 2: I loved everything that I learned. It was but I

1631
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:45,360
Speaker 2: want to get to where you are right now. Well, Sydney,

1632
01:14:45,400 --> 01:14:49,640
Speaker 2: you didn't ask any questions about right now, so honestly.

1633
01:14:48,840 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 3: Well, I could not because she was she was on

1634
01:14:51,160 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 3: a roll. I got questions and I was able to

1635
01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:54,799
Speaker 3: ask for sheared.

1636
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 6: I cut the story of short as I can, and

1637
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:59,560
Speaker 6: like left out a bunch of lives embodies.

1638
01:15:00,680 --> 01:15:03,600
Speaker 2: Well, Sydney, what question did you want to close or

1639
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 2: do you feel like you needed to get to yes?

1640
01:15:06,320 --> 01:15:09,960
Speaker 3: Well, well, because right now she works with a company

1641
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 3: with luxury brands and that ties into like the bougie

1642
01:15:14,479 --> 01:15:16,280
Speaker 3: lifestyle so that she has because she has a walking

1643
01:15:16,400 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 3: closet two closets actually nothing but labels three three three.

1644
01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:24,280
Speaker 2: Oh okay, excuse me. You know what I should have

1645
01:15:24,280 --> 01:15:27,479
Speaker 2: put my boots on that that you sent me for

1646
01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 2: this for the episode down Twins. Thank you so much, friend.

1647
01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:40,720
Speaker 3: Yeah for Andrew, Yes, and he'll take some Stuart Weisman boots.

1648
01:15:42,080 --> 01:15:47,040
Speaker 6: Virginal now and I do their like social marketing and

1649
01:15:47,120 --> 01:15:51,280
Speaker 6: like creative direction and shoot production videos like all of

1650
01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:51,599
Speaker 6: the ship.

1651
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:53,280
Speaker 1: So it's a good time.

1652
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 6: It's a great quarantine job that I wasn't even looking for,

1653
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 6: like essentially they found me and I've just.

1654
01:15:58,240 --> 01:15:59,479
Speaker 1: Been doing that and we love it.

1655
01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 2: Hear so.

1656
01:16:02,360 --> 01:16:06,800
Speaker 6: Shameless plug, But like do follow at the RSN now.

1657
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:12,400
Speaker 3: And she's doing great work. She's doing so much for them.

1658
01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:15,479
Speaker 3: I mean I didn't even know about it until you know,

1659
01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:18,400
Speaker 3: you let me know about it and also sent some

1660
01:16:18,479 --> 01:16:19,040
Speaker 3: things so.

1661
01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:21,120
Speaker 1: Merchandise.

1662
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:24,400
Speaker 2: So Sidney, did you get your question now? Because I

1663
01:16:24,439 --> 01:16:25,719
Speaker 2: don't know if I heard the questions.

1664
01:16:26,120 --> 01:16:29,360
Speaker 3: I mean the question is just like having the lifestyle

1665
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:31,559
Speaker 3: that you have, you've been able to maintain it, like

1666
01:16:31,640 --> 01:16:34,599
Speaker 3: you moved into a really nice building. You have a man,

1667
01:16:34,760 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 3: you have I mean you post your apartment like I'm

1668
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 3: trying to figure out what are you trying to sell?

1669
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,760
Speaker 3: You put up everything that you have in your apartment.

1670
01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:48,720
Speaker 6: Is if anybody from Wayfair is listening, I'm trying to

1671
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:50,040
Speaker 6: get so like I.

1672
01:16:50,560 --> 01:16:53,439
Speaker 2: Wayfair is canceled, Okay, I.

1673
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 6: Don't feel like any of that. That's all like Ben debunk,

1674
01:16:56,600 --> 01:16:58,960
Speaker 6: but like we can cancel anything anything. So like, for

1675
01:16:59,000 --> 01:17:01,640
Speaker 6: whatever reason, do you feel wafaer is canceled by support.

1676
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:05,280
Speaker 2: They put in the kids?

1677
01:17:05,360 --> 01:17:09,960
Speaker 6: Children and children, I'm a hundred that's it's yeah, that's

1678
01:17:10,000 --> 01:17:12,439
Speaker 6: not real. I'm like a huge back checker on ship

1679
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 6: because like Mike social media, So I just like.

1680
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:18,639
Speaker 2: To see Andrews Andrew has a would you say, Andrew?

1681
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:21,719
Speaker 4: They were they were saying that like these rugs were

1682
01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:25,519
Speaker 4: like like thousands and thousands and thousands of dollars. Why

1683
01:17:25,520 --> 01:17:28,080
Speaker 4: would a rug be that much money if it wasn't

1684
01:17:28,120 --> 01:17:29,000
Speaker 4: like shady, but like.

1685
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:33,479
Speaker 6: It's right, But they were also like glitches like which

1686
01:17:33,560 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 6: happens on Like I'm in e commerce too, and it

1687
01:17:35,560 --> 01:17:37,720
Speaker 6: happens on my site all the time where something will

1688
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:40,599
Speaker 6: like go up twice. Or the reason why something will

1689
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:43,240
Speaker 6: show that much is because like when it posts in

1690
01:17:43,320 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 6: the back end, the inventory is showing like the cost

1691
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:50,080
Speaker 6: of the full inventory. So it'll show one rug, but

1692
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:51,880
Speaker 6: it will show you the price of everything that they

1693
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:55,280
Speaker 6: have in backstock, like altogether, so you're like technically looking

1694
01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:56,840
Speaker 6: at the price for let's say, if they have two

1695
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 6: hundred rugs right.

1696
01:17:59,800 --> 01:18:01,599
Speaker 1: Like all to the same.

1697
01:18:01,680 --> 01:18:04,599
Speaker 6: It's just like the FBI is probably listening to this

1698
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 6: podcast right now, so like if somebody FBI if an

1699
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 6: y'all are cute, you know, I mean I'm a relationship now,

1700
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 6: so yeah, that was fake, but like I'm I just

1701
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:21,479
Speaker 6: like want them to see that. Like, you know, I

1702
01:18:21,479 --> 01:18:23,719
Speaker 6: got so many people to buy a fucking green couch

1703
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:27,880
Speaker 6: after they I posted that shit, And my apartment is

1704
01:18:27,920 --> 01:18:30,360
Speaker 6: always so visible. I'm like, who else would you want

1705
01:18:30,439 --> 01:18:31,240
Speaker 6: to have a deal with?

1706
01:18:31,400 --> 01:18:32,200
Speaker 1: So let's do this.

1707
01:18:33,560 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 2: I love it. I love this so much.

1708
01:18:36,080 --> 01:18:38,679
Speaker 3: I think that you're gonna have to come back. Yes,

1709
01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 3: there's got to be a part two because there's so

1710
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 3: many unfinished things.

1711
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:46,240
Speaker 6: Maybe we need to Let's let's circle back and let's

1712
01:18:46,439 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 6: you know, like brainstorm on some talking clients so that

1713
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:50,280
Speaker 6: we can a.

1714
01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 2: Part do apart, do listen. I'm the thing for me

1715
01:18:54,439 --> 01:18:56,519
Speaker 2: that truly brought me the most joy, and I think

1716
01:18:56,560 --> 01:18:59,479
Speaker 2: I learned the most about today is drawing up a

1717
01:18:59,520 --> 01:19:02,479
Speaker 2: contract on a restaurant napkin. Yeah, I didn't even know that.

1718
01:19:05,120 --> 01:19:07,559
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put this sharpie in my clutch and every

1719
01:19:07,560 --> 01:19:09,040
Speaker 2: time I leave my house, I'm gonna take it to

1720
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:10,360
Speaker 2: the back of my phone, and every time I leave

1721
01:19:10,400 --> 01:19:12,240
Speaker 2: my house, I'm just gonna start drawing up contracts from

1722
01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:16,680
Speaker 2: random things. Yeah, this is beautiful, friend, So what is

1723
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:19,000
Speaker 2: next for you? Before we before we let you go?

1724
01:19:19,760 --> 01:19:23,040
Speaker 6: I'm literally leaving here to go to the store, the

1725
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:27,439
Speaker 6: Virginal store, and do a photo shoot for some social content.

1726
01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:32,599
Speaker 3: And that's that's that's how you flex on my way

1727
01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:34,439
Speaker 3: to a photo shoot.

1728
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: It's just for some social stuff and just like this.

1729
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:40,840
Speaker 2: Casual photo shoot. Cool, got it. Never heard of that,

1730
01:19:40,880 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 2: But thank you for time. Andrew. Do you have something

1731
01:19:44,560 --> 01:19:46,440
Speaker 2: that you have to ask because he's overwhelmed.

1732
01:19:46,479 --> 01:19:48,680
Speaker 1: He's so overwhelmed.

1733
01:19:48,720 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 4: There have been there have been like, very very few

1734
01:19:51,200 --> 01:19:55,360
Speaker 4: episodes that I felt like truly overwhelmed. This one does

1735
01:19:55,479 --> 01:19:58,120
Speaker 4: take the cake. You were absolutely the hottest guess that

1736
01:19:58,160 --> 01:20:02,800
Speaker 4: we've had on very very hot guess but personality as well,

1737
01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:06,360
Speaker 4: like just like very like Dominatrix.

1738
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 2: Five, you know, like.

1739
01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:10,760
Speaker 1: But yeah, oh my god, this is this is gonna

1740
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:13,960
Speaker 1: be good so great. We need it, and.

1741
01:20:14,080 --> 01:20:17,560
Speaker 6: You cheeres to this being the most black people that

1742
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:19,639
Speaker 6: I'll see into like Thanksgiving.

1743
01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:25,040
Speaker 2: That babe. Listen, I'm gonna reach out to Tim and

1744
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:28,120
Speaker 2: Courtney see what they're doing for Thanksgiving.

1745
01:20:28,320 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: Talking about circling back into just like a whole screen.

1746
01:20:31,840 --> 01:20:36,080
Speaker 6: Say, just take me to fifty two weeks.

1747
01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:40,160
Speaker 3: We haven't done this in a while, but I think

1748
01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:43,880
Speaker 3: you need to put your socials get tag, tell tell

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01:20:43,960 --> 01:20:46,720
Speaker 3: people where they can find you. Everyone needs to get

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01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:49,920
Speaker 3: up off their asses and follow this person because she.

1751
01:20:50,080 --> 01:20:52,759
Speaker 2: Gives She gave you all a good a good distract,

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01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:56,599
Speaker 2: a beautifully distracting episode two for a rough week.

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01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:58,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a lot.

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01:20:59,080 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 6: So you can follow at k l i z gold

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01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:06,840
Speaker 6: go o l D so kalz Gold. It's not Liz Gold,

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01:21:06,920 --> 01:21:10,439
Speaker 6: which is weird for me, but yeah at kl iz

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01:21:10,760 --> 01:21:11,360
Speaker 6: g O l.

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01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 2: D fabulous, fabulous. Anyway, keep posting the content, keep spending

1759
01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:21,760
Speaker 2: these people's money, keep I'm here for it. Oozing that

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01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:24,800
Speaker 2: black girl magic and keep being a bad bougie beach.

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01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:25,360
Speaker 2: We love it.

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01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:28,400
Speaker 3: We love yeah, and have no regrets and no apologies,

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01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:29,479
Speaker 3: you know, I mean I don't.

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01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:30,320
Speaker 1: Honestly.

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01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:32,439
Speaker 6: The theme is makes someone pay for it and for

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01:21:32,560 --> 01:21:34,280
Speaker 6: plugging like letting me tag.

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01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:38,720
Speaker 2: I feel like tag. So that's that's that's a mantra, right,

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01:21:38,800 --> 01:21:41,840
Speaker 2: that's a mantra right there, make someone else pay for it? Also, Babe,

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01:21:41,840 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 2: go ahead and drop the info of the man that

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01:21:43,560 --> 01:21:47,200
Speaker 2: was offering ten poul a week, because I might need to.

1771
01:21:48,280 --> 01:21:50,599
Speaker 1: He's Persian and his name is Cam.

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01:21:50,720 --> 01:21:52,360
Speaker 3: Oh no, thank you, I wrote that down.

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01:21:52,520 --> 01:21:57,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I want people to know Maria.

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01:21:56,880 --> 01:22:05,400
Speaker 2: Is actually says I'm literally ready to to fig someone

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01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:06,559
Speaker 2: else pay for it.

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01:22:06,680 --> 01:22:07,080
Speaker 5: Guys.

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01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:10,200
Speaker 2: I I wish I had something exciting to do after

1778
01:22:10,240 --> 01:22:13,040
Speaker 2: this episode recording, but I don't. I think I'm gonna

1779
01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:15,280
Speaker 2: lay down and think about all the bad choices that

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01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:16,040
Speaker 2: I've made.

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01:22:16,240 --> 01:22:19,720
Speaker 3: No, Marie, I mean, I think I truly think that

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01:22:19,760 --> 01:22:23,920
Speaker 3: this is the time to you know, reflect and review

1783
01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:26,400
Speaker 3: and say, what's next?

1784
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:27,000
Speaker 2: What?

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01:22:27,000 --> 01:22:30,080
Speaker 3: What can we move in this pandemic? What moves can

1786
01:22:30,120 --> 01:22:33,280
Speaker 3: we make like Canesha, What what Kanisha do?

1787
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:39,360
Speaker 2: What Cania do? That is merch yeah. Yeah. I hope

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01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:41,120
Speaker 2: that you guys learned something because I know I did,

1789
01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:45,799
Speaker 2: and I obviously hope you rate, comment, subscribe and follow Conesia.

1790
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:46,599
Speaker 2: This is fabulous.

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01:22:46,720 --> 01:22:49,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, follow that, Follow that, bitch, and you know, also

1792
01:22:50,200 --> 01:22:52,640
Speaker 3: also send us more things because I told you.

1793
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:54,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna send you all more things for you know

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01:22:54,800 --> 01:22:55,040
Speaker 1: a lot.

1795
01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:57,439
Speaker 3: Send Quanta. We'd love stuff for Kwanta.

1796
01:22:58,040 --> 01:22:59,760
Speaker 2: I would love stuff to wear for Thanksgiving.

1797
01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:05,320
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, I'm in full support of the rich Auntie vibes.

1798
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:07,520
Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely, I got you baby.

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01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:19,640
Speaker 3: Anyway, Thank you so much. This has been incredible. Bye, Forever.

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Speaker 2: Dog.

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