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Speaker 2: Hunter is on the phone today for a first Day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're

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Speaker 2: gonna find out his story and then give her a

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Speaker 2: call and see if we can figure out why she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting him and maybe get him another day if he

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Speaker 2: still wants one, Hunter Hollin's have been since you heard

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Speaker 2: from Jamie?

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Speaker 3: Well, it's been about six days since I sent a

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Speaker 3: follow up text after our date and I've heard anything.

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Speaker 1: So did you text her right after the date? Was

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Speaker 1: it days later? When did that happen?

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Speaker 3: So? I texted her two days after our date, and

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Speaker 3: it's been six days since that text.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we got a lot of exact time, Hunter, very sure.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Oh, why don't you tell us about

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Speaker 1: your date and how you met Jamie?

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Speaker 3: So we met through our mutual friend Mike, who thought,

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Speaker 3: you know, we would be a good match. We went

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Speaker 3: to an Italian spot because it just seemed, you know,

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, And.

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Speaker 3: After the date was over, you know, I felt like

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Speaker 3: we had good conversation and after the date was over,

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Speaker 3: you know, I said, oh, you know, i'd love to

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Speaker 3: think about it. But I just figured she was playing

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Did she give you that vibe that she was like

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Speaker 3: But I'm just you know, I'm just curious that I

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Speaker 3: haven't heard back anything for six days. You know, I

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Speaker 3: just figured I would have, you know, at least heard

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Speaker 1: But it turns out that that's not a common courtesy

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Speaker 1: these days. What is it about her though, that makes

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Speaker 1: you want to get a hold of her?

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Speaker 3: We were we both talked about like similar topics.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: We were both into like space conspiracies, aerospace and okay,

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Speaker 3: you know, all political stuff so like aliens. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And it's weird to find anyone that I can talk

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Speaker 4: She seemed into it though, Yeah, from what I saw, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: that'd be cool.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well is there anything that could have happened on the

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Speaker 1: date that makes you feel like, I don't know, she

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Speaker 1: would have been like, bye, sorry, Hunter, this was fun.

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Speaker 4: But not for me.

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Speaker 3: You know, maybe I'm a little bit too nerdy for

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Speaker 4: I don't think though, I think you're you, Hunt, Hunter.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll find somebody who is just just as nerdy

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Speaker 4: I guess maybe it was her. It could have been maybe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean maybe maybe I showed too much

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Speaker 1: I can see that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, she's gonna find out eventually, not a bad

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Speaker 1: Well, she also could be like a sapio sexual. You

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Speaker 1: that term before, but sao sexual. I'm totally a sapio sexual.

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Speaker 1: So I know this me too, right. Yeah, so maybe

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Speaker 1: you know, if it was too hot or six days.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to stay optimistic for you, bro,

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Keep poble live Hunter there about to call her to

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Speaker 2: play a song come back and then call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she's else why she's ghosting you, and then

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another date. Okay, okay, all right, place

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Speaker 2: don't come back and get your fort safe home. Next

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Speaker 2: Hunter is getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: still wants one after here's the reason. But before we

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Speaker 2: do that, Hunter, why don't you remind everybody of your

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Speaker 3: We went on Jamie and I went on a date

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Speaker 3: a little over a week ago. We talked about, you know,

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Speaker 1: Maybe she was abducted by aliens. That would be cool.

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Speaker 3: That would be ironic.

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Speaker 2: Becose she swoops down in a spaceship and picks you

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Speaker 1: I just got a visual. That's so funny. Also, the

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Speaker 3: Alienating, I see what you did there?

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Speaker 4: All right, Hunter? Ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna call it. Here we go. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: call right now. Hello, Hi, I speak to Jamie. Please.

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Speaker 2: This is Jamie, Jamie, how are you? My name is

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Speaker 2: Jebel from a radio show. It's called The Jubil Show.

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Speaker 2: The whole radio shows. Here Jamie, surprise.

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Speaker 1: My name is Nina. Why, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 5: Hi?

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Speaker 3: Everyone?

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Speaker 4: What's going on with not much? Just chilling? How about you?

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Speaker 5: I'm doing good, just working, you know, with them grind

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Speaker 5: how nice?

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Speaker 3: Nice?

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Speaker 2: Well, we're calling you today because we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from one of our listeners.

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's hear it.

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Speaker 2: We do a segment called the first a followup. That's

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Speaker 2: where if you go out on a date with someone

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Speaker 2: and then you end up ghosting them, they can email

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Speaker 2: why you're them. And we got an email about you

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Speaker 5: Oh no, okay, yes.

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Speaker 4: We did.

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Speaker 3: Well.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know Hunger.

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Speaker 3: He told me enough about him, so.

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Speaker 2: Fine, Okay, okay, Well he really liked you and he's

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Speaker 2: wondering why you're not calling him back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. I what an awkward time. I even how I

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Speaker 3: I just kind of.

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Speaker 5: Sat there and nodded and yeah, and he just talked.

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Speaker 3: Was very no at all ish and a lot of

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Speaker 3: And that's about the only words I could get in

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Speaker 1: So you're not super into space and stuff because Hunter

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Speaker 5: No, but he did talk a lot about aliens to

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Speaker 5: I just nodded my head and I did not know.

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Speaker 5: I couldn't get a break in the conversation to move

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Speaker 5: talking about everything he knew about. And I thank you listening.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I'm a good listener. I guess people have

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Speaker 2: Wow, you don't feel like you had a chance to

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Speaker 3: They got great. It was very it's very odd.

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Speaker 5: So I at the end of the night, I even said, yeah,

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Speaker 5: I just I would be the other time. And then

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Speaker 5: So it's been a while and I probably should have responded,

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Speaker 5: but I didn't know what to say. And oh man,

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Speaker 1: Maybe he was just really nervous.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I thought first dates, we're kind of

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Speaker 3: that's not where we were at at all. He's very smart,

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Speaker 2: Me wrong, like very smart, but maybe he hasn't dated

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of space stuff in.

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Speaker 4: Full, Jamie.

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Speaker 2: I will let you know that the Hunter is actually

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Speaker 3: I thought you were more into our conversation than apparently

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Speaker 5: No, I really have no interest in, you know, the

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Speaker 5: didn't feel compatible for another date of that kind was

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Speaker 3: It was it the topics. Were they just too kind

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Speaker 5: No, I mean, I'm just not into that stuff. And

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Speaker 3: Were the topics too intimidating. No, I don't think they're intimidating,

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Speaker 3: I thought you were really smart talking on those topics

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Speaker 3: as well. I mean I've kind of just agreed with

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Speaker 3: you and nodded and try to move the conversation forward. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so you learn into the topics I was talking about. No,

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Speaker 3: not really. Sorry, I guess that's good to know for future.

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Speaker 2: Well, I do have to ask the question, Jamie, would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another date with Hunter?

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Speaker 4: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm good, think thinks but no. Well, yeah, I'm

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Speaker 3: good too as well.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, I'm good.

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Speaker 1: I think this is great. That everybody's good success Hunter.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you learn something too on the next time or

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Speaker 1: the next time you go on a date. Maybe just

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Speaker 1: ask them what they're into. Make that one of the questions.

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Speaker 1: Make more conversational for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, do you like alien? Yeah? Okay, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: But I did want to let everyone know that they

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Speaker 3: did release seven chemtrails today, so everyone I would just

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Speaker 3: recommend everyone say at home, I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't either. Well, we'll just make sure we do that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thank you, Hunter, thank you for that.

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