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Are you there? 20 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 4: I'm here, Hello Elena. 21 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: Good morning. 22 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 2: Amy wither Right's here for one one hundred truck recks. 23 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:54,920 Speaker 1: Say hi to her? 24 00:00:55,200 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 4: Hello are you? 25 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: I'm fantastic, Elena? What are you walk here this morning? 26 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 4: Watching my nephews? 27 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: Okay, so you're busy? How old are these nephews of yours. 28 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:05,839 Speaker 4: Oh they're three and five. 29 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,800 Speaker 2: Okay, well they need to tell them. Can you tell 30 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 2: us three and a five year old occupy themselves for 31 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: a minut I don't know if you can do that, 32 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 2: but I. 33 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:15,680 Speaker 4: Don't get why they can't get off. Yeah, right in 34 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:19,080 Speaker 4: front of them. I'm like, iPad, stop touching my phone. 35 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 2: Well, let's can I read this note that you sent 36 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 2: us to the station about free rent? Yes, yeah, it 37 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 2: says Hi, I mean Fred. This month of free rent 38 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 2: would be huge for me. Unfortunately, I lost my job 39 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,959 Speaker 2: about two weeks ago and have been having trouble finding 40 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:35,520 Speaker 2: new work. I've been umping for softball games lately to 41 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: get some money on the side, but it's hard in 42 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 2: this world. I told myself, I will not give up, 43 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: and I will keep trying to find something to better myself. 44 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 2: With anything left over, I'll take my parents out to dinner, 45 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 2: because they've been holding the fort down for me and 46 00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 2: making sure that I stay on my feet. And I'm 47 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: sorry that you're having trouble right now. That's not good. 48 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 5: It's right. 49 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 4: It's the world we live in. 50 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: But it's okay it is and you're going to persevere. Amy, 51 00:01:58,640 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: what do you think we should do well. 52 00:02:01,240 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 3: She is persevering because she's watching her three and five 53 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 3: year old nephew, so she's already bitten off the right 54 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:11,079 Speaker 3: way to pull herself up. And I hope your sister 55 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 3: is paying for it. 56 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,800 Speaker 1: I was going to say that a lucrative job or not. Really, No, 57 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 1: she does. 58 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 4: She's a she's a teacher, so I give her props. 59 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: Oh wow, everyone's helping each other out. 60 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're going to do at least two months a rent. 61 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 3: So let's doubles get you twenty eight hundred bucks. Plus 62 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,520 Speaker 3: you want to take your parents out to dinner, So 63 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,040 Speaker 3: how about three thousand dollars. 64 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 1: There you go, Elena, three thousand bucks. 65 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 4: Oh my god, thank you. I don't even know what 66 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 4: to say. 67 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:40,959 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Well that's all you have to say. 68 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 2: And now you've got a couple of months you can, 69 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,239 Speaker 2: you know, hopefully use that time to catch up and 70 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 2: find a job and take your parents out to dinner too, 71 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,839 Speaker 2: which I'm going to yes, which is awesome. So thank 72 00:02:50,840 --> 00:02:53,000 Speaker 2: you so much for listening and for telling us your story, 73 00:02:53,040 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 2: and good luck with everything out there the city. 74 00:02:58,240 --> 00:03:00,400 Speaker 1: I actually do I do have a verd I do 75 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 1: have a burner. You do you do? I've never used it, 76 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: but I have one. I know you was texting the show. Yeah, no, 77 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 1: I s here. 78 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 6: That is so hands that you r. 79 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: I say, how terrible we are. Fred's show is good morning. 80 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 2: It's Friday, October twenty fourth of the French Show's not 81 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 2: Hi Kaylin yay, Hi Paulina y And that's everybody. Everybody 82 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 2: else gone. Jason's very very empty in here, it really is. 83 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,200 Speaker 2: But you know what, we'll fill it up. We'll fill 84 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:32,160 Speaker 2: up our cups. Yes, tick up space, guys. We have 85 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: big personality fellas in the other room. She Chilly will 86 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:37,119 Speaker 2: be here in a little bit. Seven hundred and fifty bucks. 87 00:03:37,120 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: You could win to start your weekend if you can 88 00:03:39,000 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 2: snap her eleven game win streak. Five pop culture questions 89 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:43,440 Speaker 2: Waiting by the phone is new? 90 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: And next? 91 00:03:43,760 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: Why does somebody get ghosted? The Friday Throwback dance party? 92 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: All kinds of stuff on their way? And the entertainment report, 93 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 2: what are you working on? 94 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 7: K bad Bunny is having a very good year. I'll 95 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 7: tell you the latest. Also, Jelly Roll's poor wife responded 96 00:03:55,880 --> 00:04:00,920 Speaker 7: to someone who is coming for her taking him back 97 00:04:00,960 --> 00:04:01,640 Speaker 7: after he seated. 98 00:04:03,680 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 2: You've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the 99 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 2: Fred Show. Hey Yan, good morning, welcome to the show. 100 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 2: How are you well? 101 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: I'll be honest, I've done better right right? 102 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 2: See now, this is the kind of this is what 103 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 2: I want to hear. I want to hear that people 104 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,799 Speaker 2: are like really distraught when they because you got people 105 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:22,479 Speaker 2: we talk about it all the time. They call up 106 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,719 Speaker 2: your hey man, great, Mike, how's everything great? Like the 107 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: person you like it is not calling you And that's that 108 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,599 Speaker 2: you wrote a radio show. So this is real. I 109 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 2: appreciate that. Yah, So tell me about Alexis. How did 110 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,560 Speaker 2: you guys meet? I want to hear about any dates 111 00:04:36,600 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 2: you've been on, and then where things are now? 112 00:04:38,320 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 8: Well, we meet pretty much how you know everybody does 113 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 8: these days the dating apps. We been out on one date. 114 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: It was you know, standard kind of first date. 115 00:04:51,160 --> 00:04:55,919 Speaker 8: We did a coffee date, casual. It was honestly great. 116 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 8: We had a lot of fun, a lot of laster, 117 00:04:59,240 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 8: few things in common. Then we started kind of sort 118 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 8: of planning another date and she straight up disappeared. 119 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 1: So I don't know what's up. 120 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 2: All right, So good first date, talk about a second 121 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: date that hasn't happened, And now I assume you've texted, 122 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 2: you've called, she's not responding now, and you want to 123 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,359 Speaker 2: know why? How do we go from planning a second 124 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 2: date to now you won't talk to me? 125 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:22,160 Speaker 1: Right? 126 00:05:22,520 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 8: Yes, it's wild, and actually it was one of the 127 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 8: things we talked about on our date about how vapid 128 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 8: the dating space is, and if you're going to be 129 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 8: you know, real about it, be honest and say what's 130 00:05:34,160 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 8: going on. You know, if it doesn't work, it doesn't 131 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 8: work cool. I don't understand how we can have that 132 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,479 Speaker 8: conversation and then she can ice me out. 133 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:43,920 Speaker 1: It's so wild? How dare she? How could she do? 134 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:45,120 Speaker 1: How dare right? 135 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 2: But let's let's the reserve judgment now until we hear 136 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 2: the whole story. We're in a call lexus in just 137 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: a second, well place, so I will come back and 138 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: we'll do it. You know, hopefully there's a good explanation 139 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:57,520 Speaker 2: as to why she hasn't reached out and she meant to, 140 00:05:57,640 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 2: and maybe we can straighten this out and set you 141 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: up on another date that we've paid for. 142 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 1: Sound good. 143 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:03,280 Speaker 8: I appreciate you guys very much. 144 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, Hey, y hey, what's going on? 145 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 4: Guys? 146 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 2: All right, welcome back, let's call Alexis you guys met 147 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:08,920 Speaker 2: on one of the apps, you went on a date, 148 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: you thought the date went well, you talked about a 149 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 2: second date. You also talked about transparency on the date. 150 00:06:13,839 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 2: You're like, hey, you know, isn't it weird how people 151 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 2: ghost each other? And are you know, no communicate whatever? 152 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 2: And then now you feel like you're being ghosted and 153 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 2: you're puzzled and you want. 154 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 1: To know why that is the story. All right, let's 155 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 1: call Alexus. Now, good luck, y on, thank you? Hello? 156 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 5: Hi? 157 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,280 Speaker 1: Is this Alexis? Yes, it is hi, Alexis. Good morning. 158 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: My name is Fred. 159 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the Morning radio Show, 160 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: the whole cruise here, and I have to tell you 161 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 2: that we are on the radio right now and I 162 00:06:45,240 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 2: would need your permission to continue with the call. 163 00:06:46,920 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: Can which aff for just a second? Would you mind? Sure? 164 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 9: Did I win something? 165 00:06:52,279 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: No? 166 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 2: Well, maybe I won't say. I won't say. I won't 167 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,520 Speaker 2: say that you didn't just yet. But we're calling on 168 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 2: behalf of a guy named Yan who you met on 169 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 2: one of the dating apps and went out with recently. 170 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:05,480 Speaker 1: Do you remember him? I hope, Oh my god, yeah 171 00:07:05,600 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: I do. 172 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 2: Okay, Well he reached out to us and said that 173 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 2: he had met you and that he enjoyed seeing you 174 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: the one time that you did go out, and that 175 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 2: you talked about another date. And he says now he 176 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 2: can't get a hold of you. So what's going on? 177 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 2: Why are you not responding to him? 178 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:25,640 Speaker 5: Okay, I if you want the truth. I just kind 179 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:26,600 Speaker 5: of thought he was shady. 180 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: Okay, why was he shady? 181 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:30,800 Speaker 8: Well, like you. 182 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 5: Said, we met on the apps. I thought that he 183 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 5: seemed nice, so why we decided to go out on 184 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 5: a date, and he just kept pushing for a day date, 185 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 5: which is not what I've typically experienced. 186 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:46,240 Speaker 1: But I thought, okay, I'll try it out. 187 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 5: And we had we had a nice time, and you know, 188 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 5: so I was like, okay, let's go on a second date. 189 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 5: But then he just kept pushing. 190 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 6: For a day date. 191 00:07:57,320 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 5: And then he said that nights were hard for him. 192 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 4: But I know he works during the day. 193 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 5: So I just saw some red flax. And I really 194 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 5: don't want to be someone's side piece. So I don't know, 195 00:08:08,920 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 5: it just it made me feel uncomfortable, and I just thought, 196 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 5: I don't need to get into something that I don't. 197 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 2: Need to be a part of, you know, Okay, so 198 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:18,200 Speaker 2: he works during the day, but he wanted a day 199 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: date and nights were off limits. And so you're jumping 200 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: Alexis to the conclusion that Yon must have a wife 201 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:28,360 Speaker 2: or another girlfriend or something, because why wouldn't he be 202 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: free at all at night? 203 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, he was really adamant about about going out during 204 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 5: the day. 205 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: Okay, only during the day. 206 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 2: All right, let me bring you on. And I forgot 207 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,480 Speaker 2: to mention the honest here, I'm very forgetful. I often 208 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: forget these things, Jean. Why are you You didn't mention 209 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: that you're unavailable any night? 210 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:47,080 Speaker 1: Ever? Why is that? 211 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 8: Well, I usually can't hang out at night because I 212 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 8: have my kid most of the time. 213 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 2: Okay, so you're a dad, which is which is a 214 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 2: reasonable explanation as to why you wouldn't be able to 215 00:08:58,040 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 2: hang out at night. When were you planning to share 216 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:02,360 Speaker 2: that with her so that it could put her mind 217 00:09:02,400 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 2: to rest or if nothing else, Because you're a dad 218 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 2: and that's, you know, a big part of your life, 219 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 2: and I would think you would communicate that. So why 220 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: maybe did we leave that out? 221 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:18,160 Speaker 8: I don't disagree, However, there are some things about my 222 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 8: life that and I'm sure other people do too, that 223 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 8: you don't give out on the first date, that being 224 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 8: the fact that I have a kid, because a lot 225 00:09:25,920 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 8: of people, you know, would just say, oh, well, I'm 226 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 8: good because you've got a kid. And it's like, well, 227 00:09:31,400 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 8: why don't we get to know each other before you 228 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 8: put zero effort into it just because I have a kid. 229 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:37,920 Speaker 6: Isn't that getting to know you? 230 00:09:38,000 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 2: Though? Like you have your parents, I mean, this is 231 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:44,079 Speaker 2: a significant part of your life. So I mean, you're 232 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:46,160 Speaker 2: saying that you don't want to be disqualified because you 233 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 2: have a kid. 234 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: But if. 235 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,680 Speaker 2: Do you believe and maybe I don't know the answer, 236 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 2: I'm asking you, do you believe that there are a 237 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 2: lot of people out there who, if they got to 238 00:09:53,480 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 2: know you, would completely change their philosophy on dating somebody 239 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 2: with a kid. Maybe, But I would also say why 240 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 2: not you know, if you're proud of being a father 241 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:04,000 Speaker 2: exactly at which I believe that you are, I'm not 242 00:10:04,040 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 2: assuming that you're not. And you have a kid, well 243 00:10:05,960 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 2: then it doesn't really matter. If someone doesn't like you 244 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 2: because you have a kid, then who cares like that? 245 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 2: Then forget them anyway? 246 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: Right? 247 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 2: Like you know what I mean? Like, why are we 248 00:10:13,920 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 2: hooking people? And then we're giving that information to them, 249 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 2: when in fact, if they don't like you and your child, 250 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:23,400 Speaker 2: then who cares anyway, it's not going to work out anyway. 251 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:28,319 Speaker 8: I suppose that's fair, But there's also I'm sure it 252 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 8: is human nature that with anything that you think might 253 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,960 Speaker 8: be a deterrent, you might keep that information even though 254 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 8: it's something that's completely out of your control. 255 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 3: You know, I don't tell people. 256 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 8: Listen, I hear what you're saying, and I don't completely disagree. 257 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 8: But I've also been out on dates where I brought 258 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 8: up the fact that I had a kid, and the 259 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 8: attitude from the entire date from that point, I'm changed. 260 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 9: And you shouldn't want to You should not want to 261 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 9: date anyone or invite anyone in your life who wouldn't 262 00:11:00,920 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 9: accept your kids. 263 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,200 Speaker 1: So it's actually something great. 264 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 9: To find out on a first day, like, oh, you 265 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 9: don't vibe with kids, Okay, you're not for me. 266 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 2: Like easy for me to say, I'm sure you get 267 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 2: disqualified or people let you down over this, but then 268 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,440 Speaker 2: again that's not the person for you. Again, easy for 269 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 2: me to say, But this doesn't I suppose there's a percent, 270 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 2: and I can ask alexis I mean, first of all, Alexis, 271 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:22,680 Speaker 2: would you have had a problem knowing that he was 272 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 2: a father? And then two would you have had a 273 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 2: problem learning that he was a father after date three? 274 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:27,240 Speaker 1: Four five? 275 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 5: First of all, I'm just shocked that I'm even on 276 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 5: this phone call right now. But I wouldn't have gone 277 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 5: out on a date with him if I know that 278 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 5: he had kids, Like, I have no problem with kids, 279 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 5: It's just not something that I'm personally, I'm very heart 280 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,960 Speaker 5: in my life right now. Yeah, Like I really like 281 00:11:43,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 5: to have known that up front. 282 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: Okay, but you're saying, yeah, right, I'm starting to interrupt you, Alexis, 283 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:48,959 Speaker 2: But Yan's op here going there? You have it, well, 284 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 2: then that's not the person for you. No, Right, So 285 00:11:51,120 --> 00:11:53,480 Speaker 2: it's not as though you're going to bamboozle a person 286 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:56,720 Speaker 2: who doesn't. You can say what you want about people 287 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 2: who don't want to date people with kids. You're allowed 288 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 2: to have an opinion about that. But it's not I 289 00:12:01,120 --> 00:12:04,679 Speaker 2: think it's a low likelihood that you fall for someone 290 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:07,040 Speaker 2: after several dates they spring this on you and then 291 00:12:07,040 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 2: they're like, oh now I don't care. Like that seems 292 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 2: like a fundamental thing that people are either into or 293 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:12,360 Speaker 2: they're not. 294 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: I mean, that's up to me. That's up to them. 295 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 8: And it's not like I was on purpose not ever 296 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 8: going to tell this person. But it's not the only 297 00:12:21,640 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 8: part of my life. And I was concentrated on the 298 00:12:24,200 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 8: things that we would have in common more so than 299 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 8: telling her the things that we may or may not 300 00:12:29,480 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 8: have in common. 301 00:12:30,720 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 2: That's a thing to have in common, right. There are 302 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:34,199 Speaker 2: plenty of people out there who are not going to 303 00:12:34,240 --> 00:12:36,880 Speaker 2: have a problem with this. Unfortunately, there are going to 304 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:38,440 Speaker 2: be people who are the same way that they might 305 00:12:38,480 --> 00:12:40,719 Speaker 2: have a problem with one hundred other things. So I'm 306 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 2: not saying that you necessarily, you know, give your entire 307 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 2: resume on a first date. But here's something about in 308 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 2: my opinion, John, here's something about you that's never going 309 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: to change. You're a father, and I'm assuming you're a 310 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 2: good father and you love your kid. So if someone 311 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 2: doesn't want to go out with you because of it, 312 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:57,079 Speaker 2: that I say that that person's not for you, and 313 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 2: you can find someone who will, because I think there 314 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:01,000 Speaker 2: are lots of people out there who would who also 315 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 2: have kids, who can relate, just better matches for you. 316 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 8: I suppose that's fair. But this is my dating life, 317 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,400 Speaker 8: you know, like I respect you, and I hear what 318 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:13,320 Speaker 8: you're saying, but you're not going out on my dates. 319 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,920 Speaker 1: You called me, Okay, you called me. You're right with all. 320 00:13:17,400 --> 00:13:20,320 Speaker 6: Have you ever been the child? Like were your parents dating? 321 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 1: Like? 322 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 6: Are your parents still together? 323 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 7: Because speaking as a kid, in that situation, you should 324 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:26,880 Speaker 7: lead with that. 325 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's a way. I think it's an 326 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:30,760 Speaker 2: interesting thing to leave out. And I understand what you're 327 00:13:30,800 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 2: saying too, But I guess my argument would be, these 328 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 2: aren't the people for you if you're forthright and they 329 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:39,199 Speaker 2: don't want to meet you. And for Alexis, she has 330 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 2: every right to say, hey, I don't I'm not interested. 331 00:13:41,760 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 2: I don't want to date people with kids. So but 332 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,439 Speaker 2: in whatever the case may be, she found the whole 333 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:47,559 Speaker 2: thing shady. Anyway, Alexis, I'll ask the question. 334 00:13:47,600 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: I know the answer. Would you like to go out 335 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: with him again? We'll pay for it? Absolutely not. 336 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:55,480 Speaker 2: Okay, that's a no. Jan I'm sorry, man. I hear 337 00:13:55,520 --> 00:13:57,880 Speaker 2: what you're saying. I just think maybe there's another way 338 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 2: to look at it, and then it avoids you from 339 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 2: constantly being let down, because I don't know that you 340 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:07,120 Speaker 2: could avoid the letdown simply by not telling someone because 341 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 2: obviously this isn't going away, so and nor should it, 342 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 2: nor should you be ashamed of it. So I feel 343 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:14,280 Speaker 2: like you lead with it. If the person doesn't like you, 344 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: you don't invest in them. Easy, right, I suppose. 345 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 8: But there are many shades of gray as humans are nuanced, 346 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 8: and that doesn't have to just be I give you 347 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 8: all the information too, you know, Like, it's not like 348 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:26,840 Speaker 8: I denied the fact that I have a kid. She 349 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 8: didn't ask me, and then I said, well, no, I 350 00:14:28,720 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 8: don't have any kids. I just didn't tell her that 351 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 8: I didn't have any kids. 352 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: Trying to tell them after the hookup. 353 00:14:33,080 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 2: I feel you, Yeah, he's trying to put it down, 354 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 2: lock him in, and then try and talk him into 355 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:38,360 Speaker 2: it not going to happen. 356 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 6: It would be on my profile, right exactly. 357 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, to some extent. Yeah, but okay, look guys, I'm 358 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: sorry it's not going to work out. Alexis Jon bested 359 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 2: luck to both of you. Alex on the text says them, 360 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:48,480 Speaker 2: it's beautiful. 361 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 1: I was a jerk to that guy. But I think 362 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: I was a jerk to that guy. 363 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 2: Someone said, as a parent another person, I'm on this 364 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 2: guy's side on a first date that is something I 365 00:14:56,680 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 2: would never mention. 366 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: I did so weird me. 367 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 2: Guys, like, if you have a kid, I don't know 368 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 2: why you would conceal that, because if you're concealing it, 369 00:15:07,600 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: then I feel like you know that there are people 370 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 2: out there who wouldn't want to date you because of 371 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 2: the kid. And if that's the case, then it's never 372 00:15:13,960 --> 00:15:16,200 Speaker 2: going to work anyway. Correct, So you don't want to 373 00:15:16,200 --> 00:15:18,040 Speaker 2: be with that person anyway. And I'm not saying that, 374 00:15:18,200 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 2: by the way, you have every right if you're dating 375 00:15:20,080 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 2: someone not to want to date somebody with a kid. 376 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 2: But if you're that person and you're out with a 377 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 2: person with a kid, then it's a very low likelihood 378 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 2: it's going to work out. 379 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 1: So why even. 380 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 9: Bother you're not going to change their mind. Like, I 381 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 9: don't know what the secret holding is about. But you 382 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:33,240 Speaker 9: know what, I used to think like that too. I 383 00:15:33,320 --> 00:15:34,360 Speaker 9: used to be like, oh, if I go on a 384 00:15:34,360 --> 00:15:36,720 Speaker 9: first date and I had a child, I wouldn't mention it. 385 00:15:36,760 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 9: You know, we'll see where this goes. But I think 386 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,440 Speaker 9: that's the first thing I'm going to mention to be honest. 387 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, nobody should feel insecure about having a kid. And 388 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,920 Speaker 2: I feel like if you're the person and again I 389 00:15:44,920 --> 00:15:46,880 Speaker 2: could be wrong about this, but if you're the person 390 00:15:46,880 --> 00:15:49,400 Speaker 2: who's not going to disclose that, then there's some level 391 00:15:49,400 --> 00:15:51,840 Speaker 2: of insecurity of being rejected because of it. Let them 392 00:15:51,880 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 2: reject you, is my point. Exactly why hide. Caitlin's entertainment 393 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,000 Speaker 2: report is on The Freas Show. 394 00:15:58,400 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 7: I told you earlier how Jelly Roll Broke my heart 395 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 7: admitted during a recent podcast appearance that he had an 396 00:16:04,440 --> 00:16:08,240 Speaker 7: affair in like twenty seventeen twenty eighteen on his wife, Bunny, 397 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,560 Speaker 7: who we all love well. Ever since, Bunny has been 398 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:15,520 Speaker 7: dealing with On top of that, people online criticizing her 399 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 7: decision to get back with him, and an Instagram story, 400 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 7: she wrote, it actually takes a stronger woman to face 401 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 7: pain head on, do the work and rebuild with the 402 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:28,000 Speaker 7: man she loves instead of running or gossiping. Growth isn't weakness, 403 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 7: it's grace, but not everyone's built for that kind of strength. 404 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:32,960 Speaker 7: I pray that you never have to feel the pain 405 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 7: because you're judging another woman's life. Jelly called the affair 406 00:16:37,080 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 7: one of the worst moments of his adulthood. Bunny says 407 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 7: that she's sharing more of her story and their story 408 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 7: in her upcoming memoirs, Stripped Down, Unfiltered and Unapologetic, and 409 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 7: set to release in February. I don't know why anyone 410 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 7: would feel like they need to comment on her decision 411 00:16:53,640 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 7: or their decision with what's best for their relationship that 412 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,360 Speaker 7: is the Internet. And it's sad that she now has 413 00:16:59,400 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 7: to go. Okay, I live through this pain. We've decided. 414 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 7: I'm assuming that he's going to go public with this 415 00:17:04,720 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 7: and then I'm going to come out with this book. 416 00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,240 Speaker 7: But I also have to live through all these people 417 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,480 Speaker 7: who don't know me, judging me and coming for me. 418 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 7: And it's just crazy. But the Internet will be the Internet. 419 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 7: Speaking of that, bad Bunny just keeps racking up the wins. 420 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:20,000 Speaker 7: After snagging the Best Artist of the twenty first century 421 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 7: at the Latin Billboards Billboard Awards, he hit the stage 422 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 7: last night as legendary Puerto Rican actress Rita Moreno handed 423 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 7: him his milestone trophy after praising him for being an 424 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 7: artist with immense strength and passion. In part, Benito said, 425 00:17:34,600 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 7: I'm aware that this could have been for any of 426 00:17:36,760 --> 00:17:39,000 Speaker 7: the artists here tonight who have inspired me, who are 427 00:17:39,040 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 7: why I'm here, and those who are dreaming of being here. 428 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,200 Speaker 7: I will always identify with those artists because I consider 429 00:17:45,240 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 7: myself a young man who continues to dream with many 430 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:50,720 Speaker 7: goals and things to do, so he just stays winning 431 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 7: no matter who does not want him. 432 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 6: At that Super Bowl halftime show, he didn't bring that up. Yep, 433 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 6: you're man, my man, my Benito. 434 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:00,199 Speaker 7: We need the photos of you and the bunny, not 435 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 7: the bunny, the carrot. 436 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 6: Carrot costume. 437 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 9: I think it's happy to bring it back out of 438 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 9: a closet. Yeah, I sorted it away, but for this 439 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:07,240 Speaker 9: moment in time. 440 00:18:07,440 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, Paulina got herself into the NBA All Star Game 441 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 2: media day and Bad Bunny was there, and she dressed 442 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:14,440 Speaker 2: like a. 443 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 6: Carrot and waved to him and screamed hisness and. 444 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 2: Thought that he would come eat the carrot, right because 445 00:18:18,840 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: he's bad Bunny. 446 00:18:19,640 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 6: But instead I escorted out, yeah to. 447 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,560 Speaker 2: Leave an actually banned from the premises, which is you know, 448 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 2: sorry about that, good luck on to a bulls game. 449 00:18:27,000 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 6: You're an icon for that. 450 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,920 Speaker 7: Speaking of the NBA, NBA star or former, I should say, 451 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:35,000 Speaker 7: Jeff Tigue says that Lebron James and his camp run 452 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 7: the NBA, and if you say anything about Lebron, you 453 00:18:37,760 --> 00:18:39,960 Speaker 7: get a phone call from his team to silence you. 454 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 7: He said, anytime you say anything about Bron, people call 455 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:44,480 Speaker 7: you and say, hey, man, you might want to chill. 456 00:18:44,600 --> 00:18:46,000 Speaker 6: Leave Lebron alone. 457 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 7: By the way, he has also been indirectly linked to 458 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:51,679 Speaker 7: that whole growing gambling scandal for the league, after the 459 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 7: FEDS accused his close friend and former team at Damon Jones, 460 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 7: of leaking his injury details to Better's. Prosecutors say that 461 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 7: Damon to a gambler to bet against the Lakers in 462 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 7: February of twenty twenty three because Lebron wouldn't play and 463 00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 7: he didn't. Damon allegedly share more injury shared more injury 464 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:13,639 Speaker 7: tips for money, but isn't accused of fixing games. Lebron 465 00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 7: himself isn't under investigation or suspected of wrongdoing. But a 466 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,399 Speaker 7: whole bunch of people are Chauncey, that was crazy, We 467 00:19:20,440 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 7: got the mafia, We have jewelry, heis. We have a 468 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:25,840 Speaker 7: lot of things going on that I never thought I 469 00:19:25,880 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 7: would say. And if you want to catch up on 470 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 7: anything from today's show or any show, you can take 471 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,920 Speaker 7: the Fred Show on demand on the free iheartradios. 472 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,160 Speaker 2: Ris is making my point and I understand what they're saying, 473 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,240 Speaker 2: But on the text about the waiting by the phone, 474 00:19:38,280 --> 00:19:40,520 Speaker 2: I'm a parent who was rejected by someone I was 475 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,199 Speaker 2: in love with because I had a child. Albeit I 476 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: told him in the beginning, he made it seem like 477 00:19:45,560 --> 00:19:47,639 Speaker 2: it was a maybe that he would date somebody with 478 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: a child. We were together for nine months, never interacted 479 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 2: with my child. There's also a slew of red pill 480 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 2: men who were adamant about single mothers basically being broken 481 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,920 Speaker 2: and unworthy of a high value man. So I see 482 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 2: father's point, and my response to that would be them 483 00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:07,159 Speaker 2: that isn't your guy, right, that's just not the people 484 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 2: think that they're wrong, and then you shouldn't be with them. 485 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,440 Speaker 2: So if you get rejected by them, so be it. 486 00:20:12,600 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 2: Audios And it's so sad. 487 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,159 Speaker 7: But pursuing something that's a maybe, you're entering into a 488 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 7: situation where you could that outcome is a possibility, right. 489 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: And you have every right to think that. 490 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 2: But if you're some well, do I think that people 491 00:20:25,720 --> 00:20:28,600 Speaker 2: who have children are not worthy of a high value individual? 492 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 2: Of course I don't think that. But at the same time, 493 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:33,879 Speaker 2: that is a thought that somebody is allowed to have. 494 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 2: They're just not your person, and why would you want 495 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 2: to be with that person anyway? Easy for me to 496 00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 2: say I didn't fall in love with them, But it's like, 497 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:42,280 Speaker 2: that's you're saying what I'm saying. 498 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:44,640 Speaker 7: People in the text are also confused. They I think 499 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 7: they thought that we were saying you should meet the 500 00:20:46,400 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 7: kid right away. 501 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:47,520 Speaker 1: I don't. 502 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 7: I don't even think you should do that forever. We're 503 00:20:49,520 --> 00:20:51,640 Speaker 7: just saying, be upfront about the fact that you have one. 504 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,960 Speaker 7: You don't have to say what you have, how many 505 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:54,239 Speaker 7: you have. 506 00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: I just think it's that wasn't even addressed. No, we 507 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 1: didn't get that. It's a thread show. Do you have 508 00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:03,400 Speaker 1: what it takes to battle show biz? Shelley in The 509 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 1: show Biz showout. 510 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:13,439 Speaker 2: Hello, Hi's seven point fifty. 511 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,560 Speaker 1: It's a good money. Carly has good money. 512 00:21:16,640 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 6: Good morning, Good morning. 513 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 2: How you doing? Tell me something about you. Fun fact 514 00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:22,400 Speaker 2: about Carly. 515 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 3: Is I ran into you and Gibson's Italia last year 516 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:30,199 Speaker 3: and it took me like twenty minutes to work up 517 00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 3: the courage to meet you. 518 00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:35,440 Speaker 2: You should always you should always come over. You should 519 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 2: always come over, especially if I look like I'm on 520 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 2: a miserable date, like if or if she looks miserable 521 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 2: which is probably more over the. 522 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:44,720 Speaker 3: Kid, we're on a date. You were on a date. 523 00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,959 Speaker 7: I waited until she went to the bathroom, though, so 524 00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 7: I didn't interrupt. 525 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:51,159 Speaker 1: Oh make it look yeah, no, wait a minute, that 526 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: you look happy. 527 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:53,800 Speaker 2: That probably could have helped me a lot if you'd 528 00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:56,320 Speaker 2: come over while she was there and maybe look good. 529 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:58,080 Speaker 2: Maybe it would have lasted longer, because I'm going to 530 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,680 Speaker 2: assure you whoever that was is long gone. So let's 531 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:03,520 Speaker 2: play the game, Carly. I'm glad you came over, by 532 00:22:03,560 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: the way, five questions, seven hundred and fifty bucks against 533 00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:09,119 Speaker 2: show BN Shelley with an eleven game win Street. Good luck, guys, 534 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:13,240 Speaker 2: all right, good luck, all right, AUDIOSOV. She goes to 535 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,600 Speaker 2: the sound boofoof. She can't hear these questions, Carly. Question 536 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:19,679 Speaker 2: number one, a freshman basketball player for Vanderbilt says, despite 537 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:23,200 Speaker 2: being named Chandler Bing, he has never seen this iconic 538 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:30,360 Speaker 2: sitcom trend. Singer Jason DeFord admitted to having an affair 539 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,080 Speaker 2: on his wife Bunny in twenty seventeen. What is he 540 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 2: better known as Shelly? I've never seen his name written 541 00:22:38,119 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 2: like that. I don't know, uh, I mean, he and 542 00:22:40,040 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 2: I are just jelly When I see her, you know, 543 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:43,120 Speaker 2: Britney spears. 544 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,480 Speaker 1: Little Sister spears. 545 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,520 Speaker 2: His little sister unfollowed Kevin Federlin and his wife after 546 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:50,200 Speaker 2: he published private text from her in his new memoir, 547 00:22:50,280 --> 00:22:51,040 Speaker 2: Name Her. 548 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 4: Sister, Jamie Lynn Spears. 549 00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:57,000 Speaker 2: The Toronto Blue Jays fans are worried about this rapper 550 00:22:57,119 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 2: showing his support, as many think he curses the team 551 00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:05,640 Speaker 2: that he roots for. Name the rapper, and singer Grimes 552 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 2: showed off her new face tattoo of a circle which 553 00:23:09,160 --> 00:23:14,360 Speaker 2: billionaire is the father of her three children? 554 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:15,920 Speaker 3: Three much. 555 00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: That is a four. 556 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:17,440 Speaker 8: Job. 557 00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 2: That is a four. You missed woman? That is really 558 00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: really good. Let's see how Shelley does. 559 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 6: How did she do? 560 00:23:22,680 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: She got a four? 561 00:23:24,119 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 4: Okay? 562 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:25,960 Speaker 1: W's everyone's so good. 563 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:28,159 Speaker 2: I know everyone's been pretty good lately. Yeah, Jah, I 564 00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 2: think they're figuring out. If they listen a little bit, 565 00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:33,280 Speaker 2: they'll have the answers. But a freshman basketball player from 566 00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 2: Vanderbilt says, despite being named Chandler Bing, he's never seen 567 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:42,360 Speaker 2: this iconic sitcom friend, that's right. Singer Jason DeFord admitted 568 00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 2: to having an affair on his wife Bunny in twenty seventeen. 569 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 2: What is He better known as Jelly roll Yeah. Britney 570 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:52,359 Speaker 2: Spears's little sister unfollowed Kevin Fetterline and his wife after 571 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,080 Speaker 2: he published private text from her in his new memoir, 572 00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 2: Name her. 573 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 1: Sister, Jamie Lynn Spears. Yeah. 574 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,119 Speaker 2: The Toronto Blue Jays fans are worried about this, this 575 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,560 Speaker 2: rapper showing his support as many think he curses the 576 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 2: teams that he roots for. 577 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: Named the rapper Drake. 578 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:09,280 Speaker 2: Drake is right, and singer Grimes showed off her new 579 00:24:09,320 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 2: face Tad two of a Circle, which billionaire is the 580 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 2: father of her three children. Ela Musk's right, that's a five. 581 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: That's a whin. Carly, it wasn't bad money was Drake. Eh, 582 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: that's okay. Though, you did a good job. 583 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 2: But you're gonna have to say, Carly, my name is Carly, 584 00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,560 Speaker 2: I got showed up on the showdown, and you can't 585 00:24:26,560 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 2: hang with the gorilla. 586 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 1: Go. 587 00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 3: My name is Carly. 588 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 6: I got showed up on the Showdown and I can't 589 00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:33,520 Speaker 6: hang with the gorilla. 590 00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, you it was good you, Carly can't hang with 591 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 2: the garrilla. 592 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 8: Boots Cats Boot Cat Cat's cat bread is going very 593 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,560 Speaker 8: long and Boots Cat Cat Cat Frank. 594 00:24:54,359 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 5: Can go bong Wow, Fred can all night with that gorilla. 595 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:06,840 Speaker 2: Hang on a second, Carly, have a great day. 596 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,440 Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for listening. I'm a little out 597 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 1: of breath. 598 00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 2: Now we're here, boys, Shelley, Yes, you get it again. No, 599 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:17,640 Speaker 2: I'm good, I'm back. 600 00:25:17,640 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 1: I'm back. 601 00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 2: A little gray per pro vision went away for a while, 602 00:25:20,520 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 2: but we're good. 603 00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:22,680 Speaker 1: No, it's okay. 604 00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:26,119 Speaker 2: Well, well yeah, eight hundred bucks is the prize win 605 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,840 Speaker 2: number one, seventy six, twelve straight. We'll play again on Monday. 606 00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,160 Speaker 2: All right, all right, sounds have a good weekend. 607 00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 6: Okay, you too. 608 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,480 Speaker 1: Enjoy the rest of your morning. Thank you. 609 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 2: Le bar in the in the wheat grass smoothies we 610 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,480 Speaker 2: have to make for you and all the rest of it. 611 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 1: Go go hit that up. 612 00:25:41,920 --> 00:25:43,840 Speaker 6: Yeah, well, you know I love a good regress. 613 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 2: Oh my god. This shark cooterie. You see the shark 614 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,400 Speaker 2: cooter we have to have for this lady every morning. 615 00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 2: It's crazy. It's like, you know, imported from Spain, and 616 00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:54,240 Speaker 2: it's crazy, Shelly, I know, no, no, it's a velvet 617 00:25:54,359 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 2: rope around and it's like god, you know, hungry. And 618 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,280 Speaker 2: then she stands behind the rope. Sometimes Shelley doesn't just 619 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 2: use savors it and looks at you while she's eating 620 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,000 Speaker 2: it like this is so good. You know. 621 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:04,800 Speaker 6: The meat carving station was a bit mon. 622 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 1: That was crazy. 623 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:08,080 Speaker 2: I know you're a carnivore, Shelley, but the meat carving station, 624 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 2: really I do. 625 00:26:09,240 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 6: I love a good meat station. I love meat. 626 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 2: I do with all the little lights over them, you know. 627 00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,240 Speaker 2: And then there's like a man with a big tall 628 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 2: chef's hat because she don't even. 629 00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 6: Have yeah, the little horseradish sauce right there too. 630 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: She won't even take the pre cut. She makes the 631 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,879 Speaker 1: guy cut everycently crazy, you know. And we had to 632 00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 1: watch this every morning. It is drool. Have a good day, Shelly. 633 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 2: Okay, Friday Throwback Dance Party. Djer Rody gets next. 634 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: More bread show next