WEBVTT - The Break-Up Month

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<v Speaker 1>From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us. With Ryan Seacrest,

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<v Speaker 1>We've got let's see this hour, next hour, in several hours,

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<v Speaker 1>several hours of things to do and connect about. So

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<v Speaker 1>is anything that you want to reach out and discuss?

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<v Speaker 1>Connect about? One or two seven at Kiss FM. Good morning,

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<v Speaker 1>How we do insist Tony? Everybody are good morning, good

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<v Speaker 1>good Um. Tate mc ray you know she's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>on later. I don't think we've ever interviewed or spoken

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<v Speaker 1>with Tate mcray on this show. Am I right by that? No?

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<v Speaker 1>She's so talented though, My gosh, she's eighteen and she

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<v Speaker 1>writes songs that we can all access well, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>an incredible dancer on top of that can all relate to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she was one of the finalists. Are very

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<v Speaker 1>well featured on So you think you can dance? When

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<v Speaker 1>she was thirteen? Mm hmmm. So we'll talk to Tate

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<v Speaker 1>McCrae a little bit later. It's always interesting should be

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<v Speaker 1>at our jingle boats. Always interesting to hear the perspective

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<v Speaker 1>of a young artist, and we've done it with Justin

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<v Speaker 1>Bieber and Taylor Swift and others along the way. As

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<v Speaker 1>it's all happening for them, as it's all breaking for them.

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<v Speaker 1>We shall be on stage. Will be on stage at

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<v Speaker 1>our Jingle Bout the Forum presented by Capital One at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the week on Friday, on the same

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<v Speaker 1>stage as BTS and Dual Lipa and so many other

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<v Speaker 1>big names. BTS Who, by the way, this past weekend

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<v Speaker 1>had four sold out shows. That's so Fi Stadium. The

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<v Speaker 1>resale value for some of their floor seats were like

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<v Speaker 1>tens and thousands of dollars for one tickets. Here's here's

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<v Speaker 1>the first song we played from Tate mccrag that we

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<v Speaker 1>have reached. You had not been through a breakup when

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<v Speaker 1>she called you broke me first. And then she got

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<v Speaker 1>a new song, another song that is out now called

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<v Speaker 1>feel Like. It's about a breakup that she guess recently

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<v Speaker 1>went through a little to you, So I'm excited to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her. Original title for that was different, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like something else. Yeah, tunny, you know, I just reading.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually there was an article and we're talking about this yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>You had just put the two families together, your family

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<v Speaker 1>and your boyfriend Robbie's family together over Thanksgiving, and there

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<v Speaker 1>was this article on tips for making a good first

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<v Speaker 1>impression on your parents family just in general. So the

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<v Speaker 1>first time you were to meet his parents, what that

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<v Speaker 1>is like? I actually, strangely, really you look forward to that.

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<v Speaker 1>I really, Oh, you thrive in that arena. I love

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<v Speaker 1>spending time with parents. I've always loved it. When I

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<v Speaker 1>was in high school, I loved meeting my girlfriend's parents.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was out of college, I loved it. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>I find we have a lot we can relate to.

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<v Speaker 1>But for utany, did you have anxiety when you were

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<v Speaker 1>going to meet Robbie's parents for the first time. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't when I was meeting them myself, but I

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<v Speaker 1>was a little bit nervous for the parents meeting each other.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but like, for some reason, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm in control when I'm meeting them myself,

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<v Speaker 1>but when they're meeting each other, you're just out of it. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>when the dads go off insidebar, you kind of want

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<v Speaker 1>to know what the topics of conversation are, right, But

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to like snoop around. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like let them do their thing. But I

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<v Speaker 1>also kind of had an eye on them at all times.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. Uh, yeah, we always you almost aren't paying

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<v Speaker 1>attention to your conversation. You're kind of listening to their conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>But in this article it tips are making a good

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<v Speaker 1>first impression on your partners family. They say, be prepared

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<v Speaker 1>for any sleeping arrangement over the holidays if you're going

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<v Speaker 1>for the first time that just go with the flow.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't fight, which seems like good advice. They say, don't

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<v Speaker 1>arrive empty handed. I think it can be anything, but

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<v Speaker 1>it could be a bottle of wine or bring a

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<v Speaker 1>dish or some small token of appreciation. And think through

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<v Speaker 1>any potential issues that may come up beforehand. So you've

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<v Speaker 1>got your response thought through. Oh right, And I think

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<v Speaker 1>when I say issues, I you know, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what that could be. But if a partners parents brings

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<v Speaker 1>up something that's sensitive or you know, like your partner

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<v Speaker 1>has been in relationships in the past right as kids, mhm,

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<v Speaker 1>and so if that conversation comes up, you wan't want

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<v Speaker 1>to think that through. You have to think everything through.

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<v Speaker 1>But also, I think the best advice, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if I took it or not, but just be,

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<v Speaker 1>don't think about things too much, just be authentically an

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<v Speaker 1>answer what really comes from your heart. Because if you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to please somebody or give like the best political answer,

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<v Speaker 1>the truth always comes out. So I think the best

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<v Speaker 1>advice is just to be yourself and speak from the heart.

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<v Speaker 1>You can't always control the situation, right, I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>know a wedding photographers. That's an interesting job because you

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<v Speaker 1>see people at their best, their happiest possibly, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you might see him again with somebody else for another

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<v Speaker 1>ceremony if you work long enough. And so there is

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding photographer there's done hundreds of weddings and posted

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<v Speaker 1>it all on TikTok. Her name is Sheila Harrington, and

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<v Speaker 1>she says these are three signs that the marriage will

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<v Speaker 1>not last after all of her experience. One if one

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<v Speaker 1>of the people in the couple takes more than three

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<v Speaker 1>photos without the other, without their partner, that's a bad sign.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like an individual photo shoot, Like individual shots at

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<v Speaker 1>the wedding when they're all dressed up. When the wedding

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<v Speaker 1>party doesn't talk about the spouse during getting ready photos.

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<v Speaker 1>What are those? Oh, getting ready photos? Like in the

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<v Speaker 1>bridal suite when all the bridesmaids are getting together. You

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<v Speaker 1>kind of just like they don't talk about the other person.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a bad time, kind of like they don't share

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<v Speaker 1>great memories of the couple's journey, they just don't bring

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<v Speaker 1>it up awkward or yeah, all right. And the final

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<v Speaker 1>sign this wedding photographer says it won't last is when

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<v Speaker 1>one of the couple spends more time with friends or

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<v Speaker 1>family at the reception than their spouse. Yeah. Those are

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<v Speaker 1>pretty obvious bad signs. No, I feel like that's the

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<v Speaker 1>majority of people. Really, don't You want to be like

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<v Speaker 1>time at the hip when you're walking around talking everybody

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much. Michael and I made it a point. We

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<v Speaker 1>said if we go, if we go more than ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes of not being together, we need to find any

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Do it with your partner anyway, then I

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<v Speaker 1>have to do it on your own. We'll try to

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<v Speaker 1>be careful. You can work on the other two. Today's

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<v Speaker 1>quote climb the mountain so you can see the world,

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<v Speaker 1>not so the world can see you. That's our quote

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<v Speaker 1>of the days, aired with the Ryan Seacrets. Let's get

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<v Speaker 1>said in a statement two cases of the omicron variant

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<v Speaker 1>were already discovered in Canada over the weekend and travelers

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<v Speaker 1>who had recently returned from Nigeria. Canada is one of

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen countries that has identified cases of the amicron variant

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<v Speaker 1>so far, and the World Health Organization says they expected

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<v Speaker 1>to spread globally. Tiger Woods says he expects to play

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<v Speaker 1>golf again, just not very often, and he doesn't see

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<v Speaker 1>himself reaching the top of the sport again because he

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing? I'm good? How are you good? You

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<v Speaker 1>can hear us? Fine? All good? I canna. We just

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<v Speaker 1>played feel like here one or two point seven kiss FM.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations on another single that everybody's talking about. Before we

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<v Speaker 1>get to your life, just specifically to that song, feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>how is your perspective differently with that song versus you

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<v Speaker 1>Broke Me First in life? I mean I wrote you

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<v Speaker 1>Broke Me First two years ago now before the pandemic.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I was sixteen. I mean I was like

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<v Speaker 1>the only different person. So I feel like I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>writing about two different stages in my life. Um, And

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's always so cool to see that music is

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it's literally my diary that I can put

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<v Speaker 1>out online and basically just like document each little section

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<v Speaker 1>of my life. So it's cool. And how do you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you can put together your diary into lyrics

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<v Speaker 1>into a song structure that can be a song that

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<v Speaker 1>becomes a hit. Do you do you know that or

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<v Speaker 1>is it just sort of happened magically for you? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you have no idea. Uh, I mean it's so hard

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<v Speaker 1>to tell. I think it's just like whatever you like

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<v Speaker 1>and whatever you want to say. I mean, that's basically

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<v Speaker 1>what I've been trying to do the last six months

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<v Speaker 1>writing my album. Basically is just figure out everything I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say at this point in my life as

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<v Speaker 1>an eighteen year old and you know what I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>through and basically just try and put in the words

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<v Speaker 1>as best as I can. And are there so many

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<v Speaker 1>things that you want to say right now? There are

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of yes, Oh my gosh. I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>the only way I can say things is like writing.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I'm really bad at explaining things in

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<v Speaker 1>real life, so writing is like the only way for

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<v Speaker 1>me to kind of get it out there. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we were just talking to a doubt about that very notion.

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<v Speaker 1>She was just saying that she can write down very

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<v Speaker 1>personal intimate feelings and thoughts about her son and her

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with her son and her family that she could

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<v Speaker 1>not sit here and talk about Really, it's just a

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<v Speaker 1>different thing. I mean, it's like it's a skill. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it's you're they're good at one or the other.

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<v Speaker 1>And I feel like writing is just like one way

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<v Speaker 1>that people can, you know, make sure that it's exactly

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<v Speaker 1>what they want to say and they're like exact perspective, um,

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<v Speaker 1>And no one can really like interfere with that. So

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<v Speaker 1>all of the I in your Shoes, all of this

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<v Speaker 1>is breaking through and happening while the world is in

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<v Speaker 1>a pandemic and you can't really go out and physically

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<v Speaker 1>connect with fans. Was that frustrating? Oh my gosh, it

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<v Speaker 1>was the worst thing ever. I Mean, the first time

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<v Speaker 1>I like got to perform he wrote me first was

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<v Speaker 1>this summer at festivals. Um, so it was wild. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like two years later. It was like two years later.

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually on a stage in front of like

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<v Speaker 1>thousands of people, and I was like, whoa. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even realize like how far this this song got like

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<v Speaker 1>in my in my head. It was like me, my mom,

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<v Speaker 1>and my brother listen and they have like a whole

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<v Speaker 1>crowd singing it back to you. Yeah, and coming up

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<v Speaker 1>on Friday, we're gonna get a chance to see you

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<v Speaker 1>and meet you in person at the Forum in Los

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<v Speaker 1>Angeles with Ed Shearon and d Alipa and BTS and

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of that kind of roster. I see you

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<v Speaker 1>smile bigger and bigger as I say that. What does

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<v Speaker 1>it feel like? Um? I mean, I just compare it

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<v Speaker 1>to the last time I performed in New York two

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. It was in front of a hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>fifty people. Um, It's crazy. It's like super weird to

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<v Speaker 1>see the comparison. It's like a really weird jump. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's obviously it's just like my biggest dreams ever.

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<v Speaker 1>And artists have given you amazing feedback, some of the

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<v Speaker 1>artists that are on the Jingle Bault tour and other

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<v Speaker 1>artists as well. What's that meant to you? It's crazy?

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<v Speaker 1>And I tell my mom, like on a daily basis,

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<v Speaker 1>like I need to keep doing reality checks because like

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely nothing feels real. Majority of the time I'm like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's actually happening? Like I don't really know the

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<v Speaker 1>difference between like what I'm thinking about like what's actually happening. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I mean they're like some of my biggest

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<v Speaker 1>idols in the world. You know, are just reaching out

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<v Speaker 1>to me and it's it's just an honor. It's how

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<v Speaker 1>does your mom keep you ground there? What does she

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<v Speaker 1>say when you guys have these conversations. I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>mostly tells me to like stay present because I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like that's you know, you spent two years locked up

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<v Speaker 1>in your house. Um, you know, just like waiting to

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<v Speaker 1>get on stage, and I think it's just like taking

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<v Speaker 1>in every surreal moment right now, Kate mcraey's with us.

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<v Speaker 1>What about your friends classics? What's that dynamic? Like? I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it was weird because as it was like, as

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<v Speaker 1>this was all happening in the pandemic, I was still

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<v Speaker 1>trying to graduate high school. So it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>that it was that weird balance between like actually like

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<v Speaker 1>doing my homework and seeing my friends and then like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, trying to build the career. So I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's weird because I think some of them are just

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<v Speaker 1>like what are you doing and what's going on? Like

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<v Speaker 1>where did you go? Because I like moved that all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, I just didn't know, um, and I yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean there's a few of them that are like

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<v Speaker 1>super supportive, and I it's just like weird because it

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<v Speaker 1>happened pretty quickly. I just there are similarities to this

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<v Speaker 1>conversation that having Tate McRae, that we had in that

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<v Speaker 1>moment with Taylor Swift back then, that we had in

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<v Speaker 1>that moment with Justin Bieber back then, and we got

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<v Speaker 1>we listen to those interviews and we look at those

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<v Speaker 1>tapes and there there are so many similarities to the emotion.

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<v Speaker 1>It's what it feels like. It's all happening so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Yeah, that's crazy, it's so crazy. Well, we

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<v Speaker 1>can't wait to see you that. Um it's gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>Friday night at our jingle ball at the Forum in

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<v Speaker 1>Los Angeles, presented by a Copit and one get some

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<v Speaker 1>tickets coming up. But hey, thanks so much for coming

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<v Speaker 1>on and chatting with us beforehand and keep it up.

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<v Speaker 1>So awesome to connect at this stage of your career.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Thank you for having me. Guys. Nice to

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<v Speaker 1>meet you. Take care of hi guys, Thank you. Bye.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh So, it is that reality of we're hearing these

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<v Speaker 1>songs and we're thinking, oh, this is all strategy or

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<v Speaker 1>this person has been doing it for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>But she's like, I'm trying to get through my exams. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this is going down, so let's get to a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Um, they went on Instagram, they met each other,

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<v Speaker 1>they hooked up, but in the email here from Mitchell

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<v Speaker 1>and Fullerton, Mitchell says they did not go all the way. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>when he tries to make future plans, she's pretty much noncommittal.

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<v Speaker 1>She says she had a great time, but doesn't say

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<v Speaker 1>much else. I thought maybe together we could charm her

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<v Speaker 1>into another date, says Mitchell. All right, let's see not

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<v Speaker 1>maybe counting on too much here, but let me bring

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<v Speaker 1>in Mitchell. Thanks for coming on, Mitchell. Let's get to

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<v Speaker 1>know a little bit more about what happened. So how

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<v Speaker 1>many times did you actually go out with her? His

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<v Speaker 1>name is Chelsea. How many times you guys go out? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we only went out one time? Really, you went out

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<v Speaker 1>one time? Yeah? Yeah? Um? You know, Um, I met

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<v Speaker 1>her on Instagram. Actually has started following her, She started

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<v Speaker 1>following me, um, and I just kind of decided to

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<v Speaker 1>message her out of the blue, you know, and um,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she responded, you know, I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of flabbergas a boy that you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we just started kind of really hitting it off

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<v Speaker 1>and then after a while, I eventually, you know, kind

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<v Speaker 1>of got up the courage to ask her out. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>so we did. We UM, we went out when out,

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<v Speaker 1>grabbed the drink, had a good time. UM ended up

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<v Speaker 1>hooking up afterwards, and UM, yeah it was. It was

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<v Speaker 1>really great. And then later I, you know, Mr, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to let you know, I like a

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<v Speaker 1>really good time with you, and she was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah it was. It was cool. I had a good

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<v Speaker 1>time too, and you know, it seems like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>she agreed that we had a good time. But ever

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<v Speaker 1>since then, you know, she wasn't really like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>shown interest in doing it again. You know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not so surprised, Mitchell, because sometimes you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with somebody wants and it is what it is, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not more than that, you know, be somebody on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>So it couldn't just be that may not have been

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<v Speaker 1>like anything went wrong, It's just that they wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>have a hang for a night and that was what

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<v Speaker 1>they were or maybe she took it too far and

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<v Speaker 1>now she's kind of like embarrassed. I don't know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's cool if that if that's what happened then,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can live with that. You know, it sucks,

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<v Speaker 1>but I can live with it. But just say that though, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>leaving somebody hanging without closing it off. I get how

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<v Speaker 1>that can stir you a little bit. All right, let's

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<v Speaker 1>uh see, so you want you said you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her again? Are you sure about that?

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<v Speaker 1>No matter what happens here? I would like to yes.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, I'm gonna put you on a hold. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back and we're gonna try and track down Chelsea.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have all of her information and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>see what we can find a hold on. One second,

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<v Speaker 1>this is kiss FM. I'm not so surprised though you

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<v Speaker 1>meet on Instagram, you hang out for a night, so

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<v Speaker 1>what right you move on? I'm I'm concerned that she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't pleased with the evening. So Mitchell basically has written

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<v Speaker 1>us saying met Chelsea on Instagram, they decided to go out,

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<v Speaker 1>they decided to hang out, and they decide to hook up.

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<v Speaker 1>And since that night, she's not really responsive. He's trying

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<v Speaker 1>to make plans with her, but she's not responding, and

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<v Speaker 1>she hasn't told him why she isn't, and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know and wants to go out with her again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's why I got it. Mitchell was excited that they

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<v Speaker 1>got together and he was into it, so he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to go on. But she doesn't seem to be that

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<v Speaker 1>into it. So what happened? That's what we're gonna try

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<v Speaker 1>and find out. Mitchell. But you want to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her again? So anything else we need to know

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<v Speaker 1>before we put her on. We have her here on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line. Um, no, nothing that I can think

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<v Speaker 1>us now, okay, cool, be very quiet while we talked

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<v Speaker 1>to her about her perspective of the night and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get you guys together. Okay, all right

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello Chelsea, Hi, Hello, Hi, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>coming on with us. It's Ryan here. You're on the air.

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<v Speaker 1>I've got city An Tania with me this morning. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're calling about you met a guy named Mitchell

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys went out on a date. M Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember him. Okay, how how was he in person? Um?

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<v Speaker 1>He was he was great, he was good. Good night.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you guys do? Uh, we just went out

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<v Speaker 1>for drinks and you know, like normal stuff you do

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. I actually, what is a normal stuff

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<v Speaker 1>like on a date these days, conversation, getting to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other, drinking a little bit, maybe hanging out after

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. And then if it goes like that,

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<v Speaker 1>which sounds well, do you make plans to do something

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<v Speaker 1>else again at some point, I mean if you have time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And did you feel that way about Mitchell? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I had a really great time. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know, it seems noncommittal. It seems

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<v Speaker 1>like when you don't you don't really want to do something.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you understand what I'm saying. Yeah, I mean he

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<v Speaker 1>he was great. It's just like the situation. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's the situation. Um well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>we had a great night, Like I definitely, I'll put

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<v Speaker 1>that out there. Um, I just don't know if it

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<v Speaker 1>was in the most ideal situation. What was that situation? Um? Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So I've followed him because his ex girlfriend went out

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<v Speaker 1>with my ex boyfriend, and so I was just curious

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<v Speaker 1>who he was and I kind of just followed him

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<v Speaker 1>just to get back at her for going out with

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<v Speaker 1>my ex. So so you followed him to get back

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<v Speaker 1>at your X. Then you actually went out with him

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<v Speaker 1>and hung out with him to get back at the

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<v Speaker 1>X or because you wanted to. I did want to

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<v Speaker 1>hang out with him, but it was just to get

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<v Speaker 1>back at her. But then we had a really good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I felt bad and I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell him, and I do like him. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>felt kind of stuck, and so I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>But is there anything wrong from wanting to know more

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<v Speaker 1>about this person when there are x is involved? You

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<v Speaker 1>just are curious and then that curiosity turns into something

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<v Speaker 1>that's fine or good or better. That's a little creepy

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<v Speaker 1>how you went about it. Please, this is not creepy,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, have you never been interested in an ex

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<v Speaker 1>Tanya to investigate? Just be curious and see, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>you've trolled for sure. This is beyond trolling. Is Chelsea

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<v Speaker 1>didn't intend to want to hook up with him? Correct? Correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Correct Chelsea? What was your plan? You were going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with him? And then like

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<v Speaker 1>was yeah, No, I wasn't going to hook up with him.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to see, like, who is this guy?

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I wanted to just get back of her,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just didn't really work that way, So I

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<v Speaker 1>ended up liking him, and I just kind of feel bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just kind of the plug. Great news, Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 1>great news, cats out of the bag. That's Mitchell is

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<v Speaker 1>right here with us, listening to every beat. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna bring him in. Mitchell, great news. Chelsea was just

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<v Speaker 1>exploratory and curious, and you delivered. So here we are. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, I mean, um, listen, um, Chelsea, I really, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, don't care about the whole X thing, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that that's over, you know. Um, I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>regret how me and Are ended things and it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of, you know, real unfortunate situation, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm not really I don't really care about

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<v Speaker 1>the circumstances that, you know, it's what happened after meeting

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah, I get it, I get it. I

0:23:21.520 --> 0:23:23.959
<v Speaker 1>think Mitchell makes the right point. However, we got here,

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<v Speaker 1>we're here, and it went better than expected. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I know, on my end, like I totally

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<v Speaker 1>did not have intentions of even going out with you again,

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<v Speaker 1>but you seem to be so awesome that like I would,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just the situation is a little a little funky,

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<v Speaker 1>so not anymore. We've unfunked the situation by throwing it

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<v Speaker 1>all out there. So now the question is when are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys gonna go out again someone, particularly if you

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<v Speaker 1>if you if you would like to go out again, Um, Jelsea,

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<v Speaker 1>I would be I'd be down for that. We know

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<v Speaker 1>we can. Um, we can do that, you know, if

0:24:02.160 --> 0:24:04.360
<v Speaker 1>you want to. If if you don't want to, that's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>In here a little commitment to the cause here, Mitchell,

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<v Speaker 1>pick up where you left off. Hey, what I mean exactly?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it'd be fine. I mean, I think it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a great time, and you know, if we can

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out and kind of get past this weird start,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'd be interested. Yeah, sure, I mean you, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you're doing anything this weekend. I'll let you guys take

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<v Speaker 1>it from here. You guys both have your phone number

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<v Speaker 1>each other's numbers, right, Yeah? Okay, Well then Mitchell Chelsea,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck on your second date. Thanks for reaching out, Mitchell, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, guys, appreciate it. On air with Ryan, just

0:24:45.880 --> 0:24:47.720
<v Speaker 1>thinking about Justin Bieber and all the hits. So we

0:24:47.760 --> 0:24:50.399
<v Speaker 1>had Tate McRae on last hour and she's at the beginning.

0:24:50.400 --> 0:24:52.840
<v Speaker 1>She got her second song out into the world and

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<v Speaker 1>remember when Justin had his first song out into the

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<v Speaker 1>world and his second song out into the world and

0:24:56.840 --> 0:25:00.800
<v Speaker 1>then look at so many hits. Right he was sixteen,

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<v Speaker 1>I think fifteen or sixteen when he was here. Very young. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it on YouTube. Everyone almost didn't even give him a

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<v Speaker 1>chance on radio, to be quite honest, because it sounded

0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:14.560
<v Speaker 1>almost like he was like too young. I think they've

0:25:14.640 --> 0:25:21.040
<v Speaker 1>learned their lesson all right. Jared is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>here one or two seven, Jared, Good morning, How you

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<v Speaker 1>doing Ryan? How's it going round? Solid? So? What do

0:25:29.400 --> 0:25:35.439
<v Speaker 1>you need advice on something? Yeah? Sosicularly what me and

0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 1>my girl about three years ago in February along with

0:25:42.280 --> 0:25:52.480
<v Speaker 1>our daughter, and then from seven years ago, about that

0:25:52.600 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 1>happened to our relationship? You know? Um? And I asked

0:25:57.760 --> 0:26:01.800
<v Speaker 1>her last night. Uh, we were talking about you know,

0:26:02.680 --> 0:26:06.080
<v Speaker 1>seven years ago. Uh, we've kind of broken off like

0:26:06.240 --> 0:26:08.000
<v Speaker 1>here and there a little bit. We started feeling for

0:26:08.040 --> 0:26:12.280
<v Speaker 1>each other, but at the same time, Uh, we kind

0:26:12.280 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>of went a semi or separate wings and so I

0:26:16.400 --> 0:26:18.840
<v Speaker 1>was hanging out with friends. She thought I was cheating

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:23.200
<v Speaker 1>on her, But every single time she brings back seven

0:26:23.280 --> 0:26:26.520
<v Speaker 1>years ago, she says, you cheated on mean you did this?

0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:30.600
<v Speaker 1>You did? She kind of ran doing like a family

0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:37.040
<v Speaker 1>member on her end, and so it's like and I

0:26:37.080 --> 0:26:40.040
<v Speaker 1>asked her, say, if you're enterppy, let's take a break,

0:26:40.400 --> 0:26:46.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, um, and then go from there and hold on,

0:26:46.119 --> 0:26:51.960
<v Speaker 1>I can't understand something. Did you cheat? No? Or did

0:26:52.000 --> 0:26:59.639
<v Speaker 1>you cheat in reaction to her doing something with somebody else? No? Yeah,

0:26:59.800 --> 0:27:01.960
<v Speaker 1>I was hanging out with a friend of mine, you

0:27:01.960 --> 0:27:04.800
<v Speaker 1>who is a girl. We didn't do anything. And she

0:27:04.920 --> 0:27:06.880
<v Speaker 1>asked me, you know, what do we do in college?

0:27:06.880 --> 0:27:10.480
<v Speaker 1>Like she's so stuck on the past. Did you say

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:14.600
<v Speaker 1>she was with a family member? What do you mean romantically? No?

0:27:14.680 --> 0:27:18.440
<v Speaker 1>Not romantically. It's more like kind of abuse, if that's

0:27:18.440 --> 0:27:21.399
<v Speaker 1>how I want to say it. A family members like

0:27:21.520 --> 0:27:26.200
<v Speaker 1>kind of confused her and um, he's in jail right now.

0:27:26.400 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>But um, because there's certain things, but all the whole

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:35.720
<v Speaker 1>families like yeah, it's it's confusing, and I'm trying to

0:27:35.800 --> 0:27:38.920
<v Speaker 1>wrap my head around it. We didn't really sleep last night,

0:27:39.600 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 1>and I don't have a trunic delivering ice, and it's

0:27:42.800 --> 0:27:47.280
<v Speaker 1>like my brains like not all there, you know, and

0:27:48.240 --> 0:27:50.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I told him I'm trying to get

0:27:50.720 --> 0:27:53.760
<v Speaker 1>her to trust me. And I said whenever happened seven

0:27:53.800 --> 0:27:58.240
<v Speaker 1>years ago. If I lied, I'm sorry. I don't think

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:02.359
<v Speaker 1>I did, And just I think it's because of a

0:28:02.440 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>family member. Data abuse is why she doesn't trust to

0:28:06.920 --> 0:28:09.439
<v Speaker 1>be in a relationship, but she wants to stay with

0:28:09.480 --> 0:28:13.280
<v Speaker 1>me because of our daughter, who said so. I think

0:28:13.280 --> 0:28:16.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm understanding a little bit about this. There's something that

0:28:16.720 --> 0:28:19.320
<v Speaker 1>she suffered from the past that's causing her in a

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:21.480
<v Speaker 1>way to react a certain way to you, even if

0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 1>it's not justified in your mind because you didn't do

0:28:25.320 --> 0:28:29.240
<v Speaker 1>what she thinks you might have done. I really, I mean,

0:28:29.280 --> 0:28:32.679
<v Speaker 1>it's kind of neither here nor there. At some point

0:28:32.840 --> 0:28:37.199
<v Speaker 1>you have to address whatever it is she's feeling about

0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:39.440
<v Speaker 1>you and whatever it is you're feeling about her and

0:28:39.560 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 1>decide whether or not you can move past it or

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:47.280
<v Speaker 1>not move past it, right, because if it keeps coming up,

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:51.840
<v Speaker 1>it's going to continue to be an issue. And you

0:28:51.880 --> 0:28:55.360
<v Speaker 1>know you can still co parent in a healthy way.

0:28:55.600 --> 0:28:57.480
<v Speaker 1>But any of the question is can you guys both

0:28:57.800 --> 0:28:59.840
<v Speaker 1>get past this past or can she get past this?

0:29:00.000 --> 0:29:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Asked and maybe she needs to talk to somebody professionally,

0:29:02.120 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 1>because I feel even uncomfortable guiding you on this because

0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:10.360
<v Speaker 1>it's so far beyond anything I could guide you about.

0:29:10.760 --> 0:29:14.200
<v Speaker 1>But I definitely think there needs to be a conversation

0:29:14.240 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 1>about whatever scarring from the past to get to the future.

0:29:20.080 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 1>So basically, just have a counselor therapists, have less open up,

0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:26.480
<v Speaker 1>figure off, have you both opened up? Have you open

0:29:26.560 --> 0:29:29.719
<v Speaker 1>up together? Have you opened up together and individually if

0:29:29.720 --> 0:29:32.080
<v Speaker 1>you need. I think that's a good idea. At least

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:33.720
<v Speaker 1>get it out there. It sounds like you're going in

0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:37.160
<v Speaker 1>the same cycle of circle. All right, that sounds good.

0:29:37.280 --> 0:29:40.360
<v Speaker 1>I guess I guess I'll start making phone calls today. Hey,

0:29:40.400 --> 0:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I wish you the best of luck. And you know

0:29:44.320 --> 0:29:46.360
<v Speaker 1>I have patience and if she's dealing with something that

0:29:46.440 --> 0:29:50.200
<v Speaker 1>she really is sounds like was so troubling in her past,

0:29:50.640 --> 0:29:54.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, really trying to understand that. Yeah, I'm trying

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:58.040
<v Speaker 1>to do. And another thing, since congratulations on your third points.

0:29:58.720 --> 0:30:02.360
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much. Appreciate that. I see you guys

0:30:02.520 --> 0:30:06.680
<v Speaker 1>on Instagram all the time. She is so cute. I

0:30:06.720 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 1>appreciate that. Thank you. Thanks, take good care. Okay, all right, guys,

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 1>thank you you too. Have a good day. By And

0:30:14.600 --> 0:30:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I just want to say on the air, I have

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:20.840
<v Speaker 1>really no I cannot guide a situation like that, I

0:30:21.400 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 1>am not qualified to understand what's happening there and pushing

0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:28.000
<v Speaker 1>the right direction other than say seek a third party

0:30:28.040 --> 0:30:30.520
<v Speaker 1>for helping, therapy and counseling, because that's probably the right step.

0:30:30.600 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 1>So if I have said anybody by anything I said

0:30:33.000 --> 0:30:36.840
<v Speaker 1>or how what I was asking, I'm doing my best.

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:39.560
<v Speaker 1>You know. Yeah, it sounds like it sounds like she

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:42.720
<v Speaker 1>really loves her, and I don't think taking a break

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:46.160
<v Speaker 1>as the answer. So I think seeking help, counseling something

0:30:46.200 --> 0:30:51.960
<v Speaker 1>like that is the right move. On air with Ryan Secrets,

0:30:53.320 --> 0:30:56.280
<v Speaker 1>So a lot of famous couples called it quits in November.

0:30:58.640 --> 0:31:00.000
<v Speaker 1>You want to talk about it first, you want to

0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:01.960
<v Speaker 1>out through it. Yeah, So I want to kind of

0:31:02.000 --> 0:31:04.360
<v Speaker 1>just like set the scene because usually this is cuffing

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:06.720
<v Speaker 1>season where people want to couple up before the holiday

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 1>so they're not alone. But I feel like this is

0:31:09.000 --> 0:31:12.600
<v Speaker 1>no sea this November. It was the complete opposite, was

0:31:12.640 --> 0:31:14.880
<v Speaker 1>clensing season. So I want to run through a couple

0:31:14.920 --> 0:31:18.200
<v Speaker 1>of our favorite couples in Hollywood. Obviously the big one

0:31:18.240 --> 0:31:21.400
<v Speaker 1>Camirica Cabo Shawn Mendez. They split after two years of dating.

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:25.880
<v Speaker 1>Tasia Adams and Zach Clark from the Bachelorette. They called

0:31:25.880 --> 0:31:28.680
<v Speaker 1>it quits after getting engaged only about a year ago.

0:31:29.640 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>Um Batcheva Heart and Ben Weinstein they divorced or they're

0:31:34.680 --> 0:31:37.680
<v Speaker 1>getting divorced after nine years of marriage. And then Kai

0:31:37.800 --> 0:31:42.920
<v Speaker 1>Gerber and Jacob Lerd he's from euphoria. They are broke

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 1>up after one year of dating. So those are some

0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:47.760
<v Speaker 1>heavy hitters. And other people did break up in November

0:31:47.760 --> 0:31:50.720
<v Speaker 1>as well, Correct and correct, there were many others the

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:54.360
<v Speaker 1>ones I picked um, but I think I realized why

0:31:54.400 --> 0:31:59.040
<v Speaker 1>November is a hot button month because I think that

0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:01.640
<v Speaker 1>people towards the end of the year, because January one

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:04.200
<v Speaker 1>is approaching, people start to think about their lives in

0:32:04.200 --> 0:32:06.200
<v Speaker 1>a different way. What did I accomplish this year? Was

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:08.280
<v Speaker 1>I happy this year? What do I want to do

0:32:08.480 --> 0:32:11.680
<v Speaker 1>this coming? And they start putting their life in this

0:32:11.760 --> 0:32:15.280
<v Speaker 1>different perspective, and I think that's when they might realize

0:32:15.440 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 1>that their partner is holding them back or not not

0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:20.760
<v Speaker 1>part of the future that they want. And that's what

0:32:20.840 --> 0:32:23.600
<v Speaker 1>happens in November. I don't disagree with that theory, because

0:32:23.640 --> 0:32:30.720
<v Speaker 1>you're starting to think about, all right, I'm considering shifting

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:33.400
<v Speaker 1>my focus. I'm considering not being with this person to

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:35.600
<v Speaker 1>drag it all through the holidays is probably the wrong

0:32:35.680 --> 0:32:38.800
<v Speaker 1>thing to do. So to have this conversation now, not

0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:43.600
<v Speaker 1>on January two, is the most genuine way to handle

0:32:43.640 --> 0:32:46.720
<v Speaker 1>it considering the time of year, right, because if you

0:32:47.200 --> 0:32:51.000
<v Speaker 1>if you get to January, we've all been these situations

0:32:51.040 --> 0:32:52.520
<v Speaker 1>where towards the end of the year you kind of

0:32:52.560 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 1>know you're not going to continue the whole next year

0:32:54.440 --> 0:32:56.360
<v Speaker 1>with that person. But you don't do it January two

0:32:56.440 --> 0:32:59.160
<v Speaker 1>because that would seem disingenuous. So you have it February one,

0:32:59.360 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 1>but then you before Valentine's Day. It just never tick

0:33:05.480 --> 0:33:09.520
<v Speaker 1>it up. Another thing to add to your theory, Tony,

0:33:09.640 --> 0:33:13.240
<v Speaker 1>is you know, all of last year I feel like

0:33:13.240 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>people probably just stuck it out and stayed together because

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:19.280
<v Speaker 1>they were in quarantine, right, and they don't want to

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:21.520
<v Speaker 1>be alone. And that carried into this year because we

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:23.960
<v Speaker 1>were still pretty locked down up until like March of

0:33:24.000 --> 0:33:27.400
<v Speaker 1>this year. Kind of so what month is the clearest

0:33:27.760 --> 0:33:30.320
<v Speaker 1>let's back it up again. Is October a clearer month? Maybe?

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:32.480
<v Speaker 1>But you have Halloween you don't want to be or

0:33:32.480 --> 0:33:34.280
<v Speaker 1>you do want to be alone friendly Maybe that's a

0:33:34.680 --> 0:33:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I think right after the four dig July, it's pretty clear. No,

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:40.640
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to be by yourself the rest of summer.

0:33:41.720 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you do. Yeah, you want to be saying something, Yeah,

0:33:44.720 --> 0:33:48.800
<v Speaker 1>bikinis and booze, Yeah, flirty. I don't really wear bikinis,

0:33:51.120 --> 0:33:54.520
<v Speaker 1>but I'm summer flings. Well, if you're gonna have a

0:33:54.520 --> 0:33:59.040
<v Speaker 1>summer flameing, you should start that in June. How long

0:33:59.080 --> 0:34:02.080
<v Speaker 1>is it fling? To you? A summer fling would be

0:34:02.120 --> 0:34:04.040
<v Speaker 1>the whole month. I thought Michael was a summer fling.

0:34:04.040 --> 0:34:05.800
<v Speaker 1>I met him in May. I met him in May,

0:34:05.920 --> 0:34:07.760
<v Speaker 1>and we kind of when we kind of broke up

0:34:07.800 --> 0:34:10.319
<v Speaker 1>in August and then got back together two hours later.

0:34:10.480 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 1>A fling is not a month. It's a season. Yeah,

0:34:14.560 --> 0:34:18.920
<v Speaker 1>a season, not a month. Summer. A month is not

0:34:19.040 --> 0:34:21.080
<v Speaker 1>a season. A season is longer flanked to me, like

0:34:21.080 --> 0:34:26.800
<v Speaker 1>three months. Yes, I think people are it's easier to

0:34:26.800 --> 0:34:29.280
<v Speaker 1>break up with somebody fits a fling after the summer

0:34:29.440 --> 0:34:30.919
<v Speaker 1>than it is if you've been with somebody a longer

0:34:31.000 --> 0:34:34.279
<v Speaker 1>time to do it in November. There's never a good time.

0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:36.279
<v Speaker 1>But I think I understand what you're saying Tony, and

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:39.239
<v Speaker 1>I agree, Well, are you guys having those conversations? I

0:34:39.239 --> 0:34:41.040
<v Speaker 1>don't mean with your signifant others. I just mean about

0:34:41.080 --> 0:34:43.279
<v Speaker 1>your life in general, Like, are you feeling like you're

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:45.800
<v Speaker 1>you're thinking about this past year, what you did accomplish,

0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 1>what you didn't accomplish, what you want to accomplish. Actually, no,

0:34:48.080 --> 0:34:49.880
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm thinking about this week is really busy.

0:34:50.000 --> 0:34:54.080
<v Speaker 1>This week, it's so busy. I'm just trying to get Yeah,

0:34:54.120 --> 0:34:56.080
<v Speaker 1>that's all it's going through my I have not crossed

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:59.280
<v Speaker 1>that bridge yet. I literally just looked at my schedule

0:34:59.280 --> 0:35:03.240
<v Speaker 1>this week. Are you kidding me? Totally? No, I'm trying

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:04.840
<v Speaker 1>to get I keep talking about jingle on, trying to

0:35:04.840 --> 0:35:08.560
<v Speaker 1>get to that. Yeah, Sarah is on our line called

0:35:08.680 --> 0:35:12.040
<v Speaker 1>one of two is getting those ginger Ball tickets Capital

0:35:12.080 --> 0:35:15.560
<v Speaker 1>one now and Sarah, how are you doing good? How

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>are you super good? So what's happening? Uh? So, super

0:35:21.200 --> 0:35:24.359
<v Speaker 1>weird thing happened at work last week. Um. I work

0:35:24.400 --> 0:35:27.560
<v Speaker 1>in a office it's like small with twelve people. Um,

0:35:27.600 --> 0:35:29.919
<v Speaker 1>and my one co worker is getting married, so he,

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:32.880
<v Speaker 1>I guess invited everyone in the office. He gave us

0:35:32.920 --> 0:35:36.600
<v Speaker 1>all saved the dates. Um, And after talking with a

0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:39.840
<v Speaker 1>few of my coworkers during lunch, I realized that on

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:44.080
<v Speaker 1>everyone else's envelope they have like their name and the

0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:46.680
<v Speaker 1>name of their partners, so they all got plus one

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:50.400
<v Speaker 1>and mine only had my name. Even though I have

0:35:50.440 --> 0:35:53.680
<v Speaker 1>a fiance that I've brought to our office parties and everything,

0:35:53.680 --> 0:35:57.480
<v Speaker 1>everyone seemed to really like him. Um, but it seems

0:35:57.480 --> 0:35:59.720
<v Speaker 1>like I didn't get a plus one to this wedding

0:35:59.719 --> 0:36:01.359
<v Speaker 1>and it like kind of far away. It's like a

0:36:01.400 --> 0:36:04.759
<v Speaker 1>four hour drive or something. So I wasn't sure if

0:36:04.800 --> 0:36:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I should like talk to the guy that's getting married

0:36:08.560 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 1>and be like, do I have a plus one or

0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:15.080
<v Speaker 1>a couple of things here? You have a fiance, so

0:36:15.120 --> 0:36:19.040
<v Speaker 1>it's not a plus one, it's your partner. Yeah, exactly,

0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:22.240
<v Speaker 1>do you want to go to this wedding four hours away?

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 1>It's a coworker. Do you want to go spend a

0:36:24.160 --> 0:36:27.600
<v Speaker 1>weekend there? I mean, you know, our office is like

0:36:27.640 --> 0:36:30.120
<v Speaker 1>really close, like we're all friends, so it would be fun.

0:36:30.160 --> 0:36:32.800
<v Speaker 1>And I thought that me and him were good friends

0:36:32.800 --> 0:36:34.960
<v Speaker 1>and that he liked my fiance. Like I was under

0:36:34.960 --> 0:36:38.200
<v Speaker 1>the impression that, you know, I think this is pretty

0:36:38.280 --> 0:36:40.880
<v Speaker 1>easy to resolve. You want to go, you feel like

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 1>your closest coworker, you feel like you can talk to them.

0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:46.399
<v Speaker 1>Might just be an oversight. I think you can clearly say, hey,

0:36:46.480 --> 0:36:49.600
<v Speaker 1>just you know, I got this without a plus one,

0:36:49.600 --> 0:36:51.520
<v Speaker 1>and my plus one, not a plus one, is my fiance,

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:54.960
<v Speaker 1>so we'd be happy to celebrate together. I just want

0:36:54.960 --> 0:36:56.839
<v Speaker 1>to make sure that's cool. I don't want to many

0:36:56.840 --> 0:36:59.239
<v Speaker 1>toes here. And I think that coworker of years it's

0:36:59.239 --> 0:37:02.080
<v Speaker 1>getting married, it's gonna oh my gosh. Of course it

0:37:02.160 --> 0:37:04.759
<v Speaker 1>might be an oversight. Maybe he just didn't realize or

0:37:04.800 --> 0:37:07.719
<v Speaker 1>you thought because we kind of we were if fiance's

0:37:07.760 --> 0:37:10.480
<v Speaker 1>we allotted our wedding, but if you were, if you

0:37:10.640 --> 0:37:12.360
<v Speaker 1>kind of like, we're dating somebody and we didn't know

0:37:12.440 --> 0:37:14.640
<v Speaker 1>them or meet meet them yet, So for example, I

0:37:14.640 --> 0:37:16.799
<v Speaker 1>would have been no plus one at her wedding. That's

0:37:16.800 --> 0:37:21.839
<v Speaker 1>what I think at that stage. Actually did just say

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:25.239
<v Speaker 1>Ryan Seacrest, Ryan Seacrest not and guessed it wouldn't have

0:37:25.239 --> 0:37:30.160
<v Speaker 1>been telling you it wasn't that morning. I'll be calling people, Hey,

0:37:30.160 --> 0:37:33.799
<v Speaker 1>you want to go to a wedding later. But I've

0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:37.000
<v Speaker 1>also I've also called my friend who was getting married

0:37:37.160 --> 0:37:39.880
<v Speaker 1>when I was first starting to date Michael, and I

0:37:39.920 --> 0:37:41.560
<v Speaker 1>wanted to bring him to her wedding, and I asked

0:37:41.600 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 1>because she did not give me a plus one, and

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to go alone. So I think just

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:47.640
<v Speaker 1>asking is not a big deal. And also if they

0:37:47.680 --> 0:37:49.880
<v Speaker 1>say no, that's weird. You don't want to be at

0:37:49.880 --> 0:37:55.360
<v Speaker 1>that wedding anyway. Yeah, it's because, yeah, they like invited

0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 1>my they invited my co worker's boyfriend that like we

0:37:58.120 --> 0:38:00.840
<v Speaker 1>all know and take. And so that's why I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like that. I think it's you. It's an oversight. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck, Sarah, go ahead and talk to that cowork

0:38:05.719 --> 0:38:09.720
<v Speaker 1>about it and tell them congratulations, thanks for taking you Bye.

0:38:10.200 --> 0:38:13.080
<v Speaker 1>It's funny how like the narrative we create is this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing they don't like my fiance. I thought they did.

0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I thought were close to the coworker. Yet it's probably

0:38:17.080 --> 0:38:19.960
<v Speaker 1>just a complete mistake because who does the wedding invitation?

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody else? The third party many times, right, Yeah, I

0:38:23.000 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 1>think so with Ryan Seacrest, you know, I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>video and I played it on Live is Killing ran

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:38.040
<v Speaker 1>the other day of Meredith and Jimmy and Flora at

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<v Speaker 1>a Safari drive through zoo. You've seen one of these?

0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:46.200
<v Speaker 1>You drive you drive through, right, Yeah, I want to

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:50.080
<v Speaker 1>drive through situations you're in the car. Yeah, what was

0:38:50.120 --> 0:38:51.680
<v Speaker 1>kind of the thing of the last couple of years.

0:38:52.160 --> 0:38:56.040
<v Speaker 1>You're in the car and up just look at the

0:38:56.360 --> 0:38:59.440
<v Speaker 1>at the animals they like walk up to you. Right. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's in the car and this camel here go viral.

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<v Speaker 1>The camel takes the whole bucket out of her hand

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<v Speaker 1>through the car window of food, not just the food,

0:39:16.600 --> 0:39:34.000
<v Speaker 1>with the whole bucket her live. I mean the camels

0:39:34.000 --> 0:39:37.720
<v Speaker 1>are like licking the car windows and the kids are

0:39:37.760 --> 0:39:43.800
<v Speaker 1>sticking their hands out with bowls of food. Move said

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:52.759
<v Speaker 1>of that word anyway, that was crazy if you do that,

0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:56.200
<v Speaker 1>but look look dangerous and fun. Yeah, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>get scared with big animal like that around the He

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:02.399
<v Speaker 1>might get scared about big animals around me. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to That's what I'm saying. I don't know, but

0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:12.960
<v Speaker 1>all right, what do you got? So the twins are

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<v Speaker 1>in the doghouse or out of the doghouse. They're out

0:40:15.960 --> 0:40:17.960
<v Speaker 1>of the doghouse now, and you know, it's it's like

0:40:17.960 --> 0:40:19.960
<v Speaker 1>every day is a new thing and that we battle.

0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:22.480
<v Speaker 1>But a few weeks ago I picked up the kids

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<v Speaker 1>from school and their teacher told me he's a hit

0:40:25.160 --> 0:40:28.719
<v Speaker 1>a student today at school. And as a parent, you

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<v Speaker 1>did never want to hear something like that. I felt

0:40:31.960 --> 0:40:36.839
<v Speaker 1>this like rush of guilt, and I was disappointed in myself,

0:40:36.880 --> 0:40:38.840
<v Speaker 1>Like I wasn't even like I was mad. I was

0:40:38.880 --> 0:40:40.480
<v Speaker 1>disappointed in her, but it was just like it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, right. So I spoke to her on the

0:40:43.440 --> 0:40:45.239
<v Speaker 1>car ride home, and Michael and I had to do

0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:47.200
<v Speaker 1>the whole like sit down in her room thing and

0:40:47.200 --> 0:40:48.759
<v Speaker 1>like talk to her about hitting. It was like the

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<v Speaker 1>first time we really had a discipline type of conversation

0:40:53.520 --> 0:40:55.480
<v Speaker 1>with her, which I don't even think got through to her.

0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:58.960
<v Speaker 1>She's three years old, um and so, but it was

0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:01.520
<v Speaker 1>a big deal and reason it was like over a toy, right,

0:41:01.560 --> 0:41:04.080
<v Speaker 1>who knows. So the very next day we go to

0:41:04.120 --> 0:41:05.880
<v Speaker 1>school and the teacher, I mean, I pick up the

0:41:05.920 --> 0:41:07.719
<v Speaker 1>kids and you're like, Asa had a really good day,

0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:10.680
<v Speaker 1>no hitting, and she when she got here, she said

0:41:10.680 --> 0:41:13.319
<v Speaker 1>sorry to the girl right away, and it was like,

0:41:13.400 --> 0:41:15.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, a great day. But Max and hit a

0:41:15.320 --> 0:41:17.840
<v Speaker 1>kid today school. And I was like, what what's happening?

0:41:18.120 --> 0:41:23.040
<v Speaker 1>Because Max and do it? And do Max? And I

0:41:23.080 --> 0:41:25.360
<v Speaker 1>think I think Michael and I gave too much attention

0:41:25.400 --> 0:41:29.760
<v Speaker 1>to Asa with all of it, Like I think so

0:41:29.960 --> 0:41:31.920
<v Speaker 1>I think he wanted us to do like the whole

0:41:32.120 --> 0:41:33.960
<v Speaker 1>sit down with him in the bedroom and talk to

0:41:34.040 --> 0:41:35.719
<v Speaker 1>him like I don't know, but it was just so

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 1>sense that that could be why I think so. But

0:41:40.080 --> 0:41:41.959
<v Speaker 1>ever since then, and it's been a few weeks now,

0:41:42.280 --> 0:41:46.080
<v Speaker 1>no hitting and we're passing, and so what's that conversation? Like,

0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:47.960
<v Speaker 1>I mean, i'd be at the door as the paraco.

0:41:48.400 --> 0:41:50.120
<v Speaker 1>What do I it's gonna be so uncomfortable? What do

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:52.200
<v Speaker 1>I sit down? Even say? Very simple, you just say,

0:41:52.239 --> 0:41:54.440
<v Speaker 1>we don't treat people that way. Do you want somebody

0:41:54.520 --> 0:41:57.560
<v Speaker 1>to hit you? You don't. It hurts. It hurts people's feelings,

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:00.560
<v Speaker 1>and we don't you know, we don't want that type

0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:04.360
<v Speaker 1>of behavior. You have to instill the yeah and the

0:42:04.560 --> 0:42:08.600
<v Speaker 1>zero tolerance policy of it, right right, but it doesn't happen.

0:42:08.960 --> 0:42:11.920
<v Speaker 1>And this is what I'm realizing, like having twins, and

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:15.680
<v Speaker 1>especially twins in the same classroom their siblings. Like I

0:42:15.680 --> 0:42:17.799
<v Speaker 1>don't know about you, but like I grew up with

0:42:17.840 --> 0:42:19.640
<v Speaker 1>my fighting with my brother and my sister, and we

0:42:19.719 --> 0:42:22.560
<v Speaker 1>always wrestled and there was always like hitting and things

0:42:22.600 --> 0:42:26.880
<v Speaker 1>like that, and so I I just like it happens

0:42:26.880 --> 0:42:28.360
<v Speaker 1>here at the house, and so we just have to

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 1>enforce it more here there exactly. But Inkling is accepted

0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:37.720
<v Speaker 1>there that could magnify itself out in the real world somewhere.

0:42:38.000 --> 0:42:40.239
<v Speaker 1>So we do we do like go to your room.

0:42:40.280 --> 0:42:42.440
<v Speaker 1>Basically anytime there is a hitting, next they go to

0:42:42.560 --> 0:42:44.279
<v Speaker 1>room for five minutes and think about what you did.

0:42:44.360 --> 0:42:48.839
<v Speaker 1>And that's what it's got consistently, consistently, consistently because yeah,

0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think that frequency of them feeling the

0:42:51.800 --> 0:42:54.000
<v Speaker 1>way they feel and have to go to the room hopefully,

0:42:54.400 --> 0:42:56.400
<v Speaker 1>but I know it's the parent, like what did I do?

0:42:56.560 --> 0:42:59.520
<v Speaker 1>What did I do in the principle's office? What I

0:42:59.600 --> 0:43:04.080
<v Speaker 1>do wrong? I mean, of course you take responsibility. Oh man, hey,

0:43:04.080 --> 0:43:05.879
<v Speaker 1>you should write all these things down so that when

0:43:05.920 --> 0:43:10.120
<v Speaker 1>Tiny and I have kids separately, we have these notes separately.

0:43:10.160 --> 0:43:13.800
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for the disclaimer. Yeah, obviously if anybody listens

0:43:13.800 --> 0:43:15.239
<v Speaker 1>to this show, they would know that. But I said,

0:43:15.280 --> 0:43:17.040
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to do it for the first day.

0:43:17.280 --> 0:43:29.120
<v Speaker 1>I really don't. I don't. Don't you remember rna Era? Yeah,

0:43:29.160 --> 0:43:35.839
<v Speaker 1>that wasn't me driving, that was someone else driving that

0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:42.960
<v Speaker 1>It was When are your kids? Would beautiful? Actually, now

0:43:43.000 --> 0:43:45.280
<v Speaker 1>that I think about it, well, how about you focus

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:48.399
<v Speaker 1>on Robbie and you and let me how that goes first?

0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:51.920
<v Speaker 1>All right? So SI has a story on Kevin Hart's

0:43:51.920 --> 0:43:56.080
<v Speaker 1>series on Netflix called True Story, where he's playing a

0:43:56.120 --> 0:44:00.520
<v Speaker 1>superstar comedian, but it's a dramatic role, and you know,

0:44:00.560 --> 0:44:03.240
<v Speaker 1>I think the intent in a way was to create

0:44:03.320 --> 0:44:08.320
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of not knowing what was Kevin Hard,

0:44:08.480 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 1>what was inspired by some of the things in his life?

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:12.600
<v Speaker 1>What are totally fictional? Now there are some things that

0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:17.359
<v Speaker 1>are pretty obviously not in Kevin Art's life. But I

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:20.200
<v Speaker 1>think it was great to see him in this dramatic role.

0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:22.920
<v Speaker 1>He mean, truly is a superstar comedian, but he's great

0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:27.160
<v Speaker 1>as a drama actor. When I started this last night,

0:44:27.600 --> 0:44:30.880
<v Speaker 1>it was PM. You guys, I did not go to

0:44:30.920 --> 0:44:33.320
<v Speaker 1>bed until two in the morning last night. You're kidding.

0:44:34.280 --> 0:44:41.480
<v Speaker 1>I went, yes, And he's incredible. This series is I

0:44:41.680 --> 0:44:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I warned you because you're going to be hooked after

0:44:43.760 --> 0:44:48.000
<v Speaker 1>the first five minutes. Um. But you like, people are saying, like,

0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:49.799
<v Speaker 1>is it based on a true story or not? It's

0:44:49.840 --> 0:44:53.000
<v Speaker 1>based on Kevin's character trying to cover up a murderer

0:44:53.560 --> 0:44:56.279
<v Speaker 1>with the help of his brother. Wesley's next so what

0:44:56.320 --> 0:44:59.800
<v Speaker 1>about that party? The murder part is not the true story.

0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:03.080
<v Speaker 1>It is like, let's obviously, but I was reading up

0:45:03.120 --> 0:45:05.919
<v Speaker 1>a little bit because I was just so curious, and

0:45:06.239 --> 0:45:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Kevin basically said, some things in here are true. So

0:45:10.640 --> 0:45:12.960
<v Speaker 1>a lot of the stuff that's kind of like the

0:45:13.040 --> 0:45:14.799
<v Speaker 1>day to day things that happened to him as being

0:45:14.840 --> 0:45:17.880
<v Speaker 1>like a big mega star are true. Five minutes in

0:45:17.960 --> 0:45:20.560
<v Speaker 1>you see a very uncomfortable situation on an airplane with

0:45:20.640 --> 0:45:24.560
<v Speaker 1>him and a fan, and that was an absolutely true story,

0:45:24.800 --> 0:45:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Kevin said, which is shocking to me because it was

0:45:27.520 --> 0:45:29.840
<v Speaker 1>it was so uncomfortable and I just can't believe that

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:31.680
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that happens to him in the real world.

0:45:32.080 --> 0:45:33.759
<v Speaker 1>So he says, the beauty of this project was that

0:45:33.880 --> 0:45:37.239
<v Speaker 1>it was a stress reliever for him, and and that's

0:45:37.280 --> 0:45:39.680
<v Speaker 1>interesting in itself because it does the opposite. As a viewer,

0:45:39.800 --> 0:45:43.200
<v Speaker 1>I was stressed out the entire time. Like you're you

0:45:43.400 --> 0:45:45.239
<v Speaker 1>get a little bit of anxiety watching this show. I

0:45:45.280 --> 0:45:47.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you like that when you watch a series.

0:45:48.000 --> 0:45:53.319
<v Speaker 1>But you know, he's the true definition of a like

0:45:53.360 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 1>a of a movie star, right. I mean, he is

0:45:56.080 --> 0:45:59.280
<v Speaker 1>a movie star, and he's so good in all those comedies.

0:45:59.360 --> 0:46:01.319
<v Speaker 1>But to see him in this kind of a role

0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:07.120
<v Speaker 1>was was really wonderful. It's really great, you know, I

0:46:07.120 --> 0:46:10.480
<v Speaker 1>think there are inklings inside the characters playing where you go, Oh,

0:46:10.520 --> 0:46:12.080
<v Speaker 1>I could see how that might have come out of

0:46:12.080 --> 0:46:13.480
<v Speaker 1>real life. Then there are those things that are like

0:46:14.680 --> 0:46:17.720
<v Speaker 1>really part of the drama that you know, it couldn't

0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:23.799
<v Speaker 1>have happened be doing a series and movies. But it's

0:46:24.120 --> 0:46:27.400
<v Speaker 1>is it called It's called true Story on Netflix right Yeah,

0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:29.320
<v Speaker 1>it's called True Story. It's on Netflix right now. It

0:46:29.360 --> 0:46:31.080
<v Speaker 1>just came out. It's already in top ten. It is

0:46:31.560 --> 0:46:40.719
<v Speaker 1>so good, Good Air with Ryan Seacrest. We're gonna we're

0:46:40.719 --> 0:46:44.960
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0:46:44.960 --> 0:46:48.480
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0:46:48.600 --> 0:46:52.080
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0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:54.799
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