Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us. With Ryan Seacrest,
Speaker 1: We've got let's see this hour, next hour, in several hours,
Speaker 1: several hours of things to do and connect about. So
Speaker 1: is anything that you want to reach out and discuss?
Speaker 1: Connect about? One or two seven at Kiss FM. Good morning,
Speaker 1: How we do insist Tony? Everybody are good morning, good
Speaker 1: good Um. Tate mc ray you know she's gonna be
Speaker 1: on later. I don't think we've ever interviewed or spoken
Speaker 1: with Tate mcray on this show. Am I right by that? No?
Speaker 1: She's so talented though, My gosh, she's eighteen and she
Speaker 1: writes songs that we can all access well, and she's
Speaker 1: an incredible dancer on top of that can all relate to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess she was one of the finalists. Are very
Speaker 1: well featured on So you think you can dance? When
Speaker 1: she was thirteen? Mm hmmm. So we'll talk to Tate
Speaker 1: McCrae a little bit later. It's always interesting should be
Speaker 1: at our jingle boats. Always interesting to hear the perspective
Speaker 1: of a young artist, and we've done it with Justin
Speaker 1: Bieber and Taylor Swift and others along the way. As
Speaker 1: it's all happening for them, as it's all breaking for them.
Speaker 1: We shall be on stage. Will be on stage at
Speaker 1: our Jingle Bout the Forum presented by Capital One at
Speaker 1: the end of the week on Friday, on the same
Speaker 1: stage as BTS and Dual Lipa and so many other
Speaker 1: big names. BTS Who, by the way, this past weekend
Speaker 1: had four sold out shows. That's so Fi Stadium. The
Speaker 1: resale value for some of their floor seats were like
Speaker 1: tens and thousands of dollars for one tickets. Here's here's
Speaker 1: the first song we played from Tate mccrag that we
Speaker 1: have reached. You had not been through a breakup when
Speaker 1: she called you broke me first. And then she got
Speaker 1: a new song, another song that is out now called
Speaker 1: feel Like. It's about a breakup that she guess recently
Speaker 1: went through a little to you, So I'm excited to
Speaker 1: talk to her. Original title for that was different, I
Speaker 1: feel like something else. Yeah, tunny, you know, I just reading.
Speaker 1: Actually there was an article and we're talking about this yesterday.
Speaker 1: You had just put the two families together, your family
Speaker 1: and your boyfriend Robbie's family together over Thanksgiving, and there
Speaker 1: was this article on tips for making a good first
Speaker 1: impression on your parents family just in general. So the
Speaker 1: first time you were to meet his parents, what that
Speaker 1: is like? I actually, strangely, really you look forward to that.
Speaker 1: I really, Oh, you thrive in that arena. I love
Speaker 1: spending time with parents. I've always loved it. When I
Speaker 1: was in high school, I loved meeting my girlfriend's parents.
Speaker 1: When I was out of college, I loved it. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I find we have a lot we can relate to.
Speaker 1: But for utany, did you have anxiety when you were
Speaker 1: going to meet Robbie's parents for the first time. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't when I was meeting them myself, but I
Speaker 1: was a little bit nervous for the parents meeting each other.
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but like, for some reason, I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm in control when I'm meeting them myself,
Speaker 1: but when they're meeting each other, you're just out of it. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: when the dads go off insidebar, you kind of want
Speaker 1: to know what the topics of conversation are, right, But
Speaker 1: I didn't want to like snoop around. I want to
Speaker 1: kind of like let them do their thing. But I
Speaker 1: also kind of had an eye on them at all times.
Speaker 1: You know. Uh, yeah, we always you almost aren't paying
Speaker 1: attention to your conversation. You're kind of listening to their conversation.
Speaker 1: But in this article it tips are making a good
Speaker 1: first impression on your partners family. They say, be prepared
Speaker 1: for any sleeping arrangement over the holidays if you're going
Speaker 1: for the first time that just go with the flow.
Speaker 1: Don't fight, which seems like good advice. They say, don't
Speaker 1: arrive empty handed. I think it can be anything, but
Speaker 1: it could be a bottle of wine or bring a
Speaker 1: dish or some small token of appreciation. And think through
Speaker 1: any potential issues that may come up beforehand. So you've
Speaker 1: got your response thought through. Oh right, And I think
Speaker 1: when I say issues, I you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: what that could be. But if a partners parents brings
Speaker 1: up something that's sensitive or you know, like your partner
Speaker 1: has been in relationships in the past right as kids, mhm,
Speaker 1: and so if that conversation comes up, you wan't want
Speaker 1: to think that through. You have to think everything through.
Speaker 1: But also, I think the best advice, and I don't
Speaker 1: know if I took it or not, but just be,
Speaker 1: don't think about things too much, just be authentically an
Speaker 1: answer what really comes from your heart. Because if you're
Speaker 1: trying to please somebody or give like the best political answer,
Speaker 1: the truth always comes out. So I think the best
Speaker 1: advice is just to be yourself and speak from the heart.
Speaker 1: You can't always control the situation, right, I guess you
Speaker 1: know a wedding photographers. That's an interesting job because you
Speaker 1: see people at their best, their happiest possibly, and then
Speaker 1: you might see him again with somebody else for another
Speaker 1: ceremony if you work long enough. And so there is
Speaker 1: a wedding photographer there's done hundreds of weddings and posted
Speaker 1: it all on TikTok. Her name is Sheila Harrington, and
Speaker 1: she says these are three signs that the marriage will
Speaker 1: not last after all of her experience. One if one
Speaker 1: of the people in the couple takes more than three
Speaker 1: photos without the other, without their partner, that's a bad sign.
Speaker 1: Oh like an individual photo shoot, Like individual shots at
Speaker 1: the wedding when they're all dressed up. When the wedding
Speaker 1: party doesn't talk about the spouse during getting ready photos.
Speaker 1: What are those? Oh, getting ready photos? Like in the
Speaker 1: bridal suite when all the bridesmaids are getting together. You
Speaker 1: kind of just like they don't talk about the other person.
Speaker 1: That's a bad time, kind of like they don't share
Speaker 1: great memories of the couple's journey, they just don't bring
Speaker 1: it up awkward or yeah, all right. And the final
Speaker 1: sign this wedding photographer says it won't last is when
Speaker 1: one of the couple spends more time with friends or
Speaker 1: family at the reception than their spouse. Yeah. Those are
Speaker 1: pretty obvious bad signs. No, I feel like that's the
Speaker 1: majority of people. Really, don't You want to be like
Speaker 1: time at the hip when you're walking around talking everybody
Speaker 1: pretty much. Michael and I made it a point. We
Speaker 1: said if we go, if we go more than ten
Speaker 1: minutes of not being together, we need to find any
Speaker 1: each other. Do it with your partner anyway, then I
Speaker 1: have to do it on your own. We'll try to
Speaker 1: be careful. You can work on the other two. Today's
Speaker 1: quote climb the mountain so you can see the world,
Speaker 1: not so the world can see you. That's our quote
Speaker 1: of the days, aired with the Ryan Seacrets. Let's get
Speaker 1: to the headlines this morning, three days until our jingle
Speaker 1: Ball presented by Capital One and Tickets next hour. What
Speaker 1: do you have? Well, the CDC is expanding its COVID
Speaker 1: nineteen vaccine booster recommendations for Americans following the arrival of
Speaker 1: the omicron variant in North America, Everyone ages eighteen and
Speaker 1: older should get a booster shot either when they are
Speaker 1: six months after their initial Fiser or Maderna series or
Speaker 1: two months after their initial Johnson Johnson vaccine. The CDC
Speaker 1: said in a statement two cases of the omicron variant
Speaker 1: were already discovered in Canada over the weekend and travelers
Speaker 1: who had recently returned from Nigeria. Canada is one of
Speaker 1: sixteen countries that has identified cases of the amicron variant
Speaker 1: so far, and the World Health Organization says they expected
Speaker 1: to spread globally. Tiger Woods says he expects to play
Speaker 1: golf again, just not very often, and he doesn't see
Speaker 1: himself reaching the top of the sport again because he
Speaker 1: doesn't think well it's realistic. Following his leg injury from
Speaker 1: his February car crash in Rancho Palas Veritas. He says
Speaker 1: he can see himself picking certain tournaments to play, but
Speaker 1: not a full time schedule. Big Bear Mountain Resort announced
Speaker 1: that their skiing and snowboarding season will kick off this week,
Speaker 1: starting Thursday, season pass holders can hit the slopes, while
Speaker 1: the general public will have to wait until Friday. The
Speaker 1: two mountains at the resort, Bear Mountain and Snow Summit
Speaker 1: include over four hundred acres, twenty six lifts, and more
Speaker 1: than fifty five runs combined. Air with Ryan Seacrest, Tait McRae, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: how you doing? I'm good? How are you good? You
Speaker 1: can hear us? Fine? All good? I canna. We just
Speaker 1: played feel like here one or two point seven kiss FM.
Speaker 1: Congratulations on another single that everybody's talking about. Before we
Speaker 1: get to your life, just specifically to that song, feel like,
Speaker 1: how is your perspective differently with that song versus you
Speaker 1: Broke Me First in life? I mean I wrote you
Speaker 1: Broke Me First two years ago now before the pandemic.
Speaker 1: I just I was sixteen. I mean I was like
Speaker 1: the only different person. So I feel like I'm just
Speaker 1: writing about two different stages in my life. Um, And
Speaker 1: it's it's always so cool to see that music is
Speaker 1: It's like it's literally my diary that I can put
Speaker 1: out online and basically just like document each little section
Speaker 1: of my life. So it's cool. And how do you
Speaker 1: know that you can put together your diary into lyrics
Speaker 1: into a song structure that can be a song that
Speaker 1: becomes a hit. Do you do you know that or
Speaker 1: is it just sort of happened magically for you? Um,
Speaker 1: you have no idea. Uh, I mean it's so hard
Speaker 1: to tell. I think it's just like whatever you like
Speaker 1: and whatever you want to say. I mean, that's basically
Speaker 1: what I've been trying to do the last six months
Speaker 1: writing my album. Basically is just figure out everything I
Speaker 1: want to say at this point in my life as
Speaker 1: an eighteen year old and you know what I'm going
Speaker 1: through and basically just try and put in the words
Speaker 1: as best as I can. And are there so many
Speaker 1: things that you want to say right now? There are
Speaker 1: a lot of yes, Oh my gosh. I mean it's
Speaker 1: the only way I can say things is like writing.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm really bad at explaining things in
Speaker 1: real life, so writing is like the only way for
Speaker 1: me to kind of get it out there. I mean,
Speaker 1: we were just talking to a doubt about that very notion.
Speaker 1: She was just saying that she can write down very
Speaker 1: personal intimate feelings and thoughts about her son and her
Speaker 1: relationship with her son and her family that she could
Speaker 1: not sit here and talk about Really, it's just a
Speaker 1: different thing. I mean, it's like it's a skill. I
Speaker 1: feel like it's you're they're good at one or the other.
Speaker 1: And I feel like writing is just like one way
Speaker 1: that people can, you know, make sure that it's exactly
Speaker 1: what they want to say and they're like exact perspective, um,
Speaker 1: And no one can really like interfere with that. So
Speaker 1: all of the I in your Shoes, all of this
Speaker 1: is breaking through and happening while the world is in
Speaker 1: a pandemic and you can't really go out and physically
Speaker 1: connect with fans. Was that frustrating? Oh my gosh, it
Speaker 1: was the worst thing ever. I Mean, the first time
Speaker 1: I like got to perform he wrote me first was
Speaker 1: this summer at festivals. Um, so it was wild. It
Speaker 1: was like two years later. It was like two years later.
Speaker 1: I was actually on a stage in front of like
Speaker 1: thousands of people, and I was like, whoa. I didn't
Speaker 1: even realize like how far this this song got like
Speaker 1: in my in my head. It was like me, my mom,
Speaker 1: and my brother listen and they have like a whole
Speaker 1: crowd singing it back to you. Yeah, and coming up
Speaker 1: on Friday, we're gonna get a chance to see you
Speaker 1: and meet you in person at the Forum in Los
Speaker 1: Angeles with Ed Shearon and d Alipa and BTS and
Speaker 1: that kind of that kind of roster. I see you
Speaker 1: smile bigger and bigger as I say that. What does
Speaker 1: it feel like? Um? I mean, I just compare it
Speaker 1: to the last time I performed in New York two
Speaker 1: years ago. It was in front of a hundred and
Speaker 1: fifty people. Um, It's crazy. It's like super weird to
Speaker 1: see the comparison. It's like a really weird jump. Um.
Speaker 1: And it's obviously it's just like my biggest dreams ever.
Speaker 1: And artists have given you amazing feedback, some of the
Speaker 1: artists that are on the Jingle Bault tour and other
Speaker 1: artists as well. What's that meant to you? It's crazy?
Speaker 1: And I tell my mom, like on a daily basis,
Speaker 1: like I need to keep doing reality checks because like
Speaker 1: absolutely nothing feels real. Majority of the time I'm like, wait,
Speaker 1: like what's actually happening? Like I don't really know the
Speaker 1: difference between like what I'm thinking about like what's actually happening. Um.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean they're like some of my biggest
Speaker 1: idols in the world. You know, are just reaching out
Speaker 1: to me and it's it's just an honor. It's how
Speaker 1: does your mom keep you ground there? What does she
Speaker 1: say when you guys have these conversations. I mean she
Speaker 1: mostly tells me to like stay present because I feel
Speaker 1: like that's you know, you spent two years locked up
Speaker 1: in your house. Um, you know, just like waiting to
Speaker 1: get on stage, and I think it's just like taking
Speaker 1: in every surreal moment right now, Kate mcraey's with us.
Speaker 1: What about your friends classics? What's that dynamic? Like? I
Speaker 1: mean it was weird because as it was like, as
Speaker 1: this was all happening in the pandemic, I was still
Speaker 1: trying to graduate high school. So it was it was
Speaker 1: that it was that weird balance between like actually like
Speaker 1: doing my homework and seeing my friends and then like
Speaker 1: you know, trying to build the career. So I mean
Speaker 1: it's weird because I think some of them are just
Speaker 1: like what are you doing and what's going on? Like
Speaker 1: where did you go? Because I like moved that all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, I just didn't know, um, and I yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean there's a few of them that are like
Speaker 1: super supportive, and I it's just like weird because it
Speaker 1: happened pretty quickly. I just there are similarities to this
Speaker 1: conversation that having Tate McRae, that we had in that
Speaker 1: moment with Taylor Swift back then, that we had in
Speaker 1: that moment with Justin Bieber back then, and we got
Speaker 1: we listen to those interviews and we look at those
Speaker 1: tapes and there there are so many similarities to the emotion.
Speaker 1: It's what it feels like. It's all happening so fast,
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, that's crazy, it's so crazy. Well, we
Speaker 1: can't wait to see you that. Um it's gonna be
Speaker 1: Friday night at our jingle ball at the Forum in
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, presented by a Copit and one get some
Speaker 1: tickets coming up. But hey, thanks so much for coming
Speaker 1: on and chatting with us beforehand and keep it up.
Speaker 1: So awesome to connect at this stage of your career.
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you for having me. Guys. Nice to
Speaker 1: meet you. Take care of hi guys, Thank you. Bye.
Speaker 1: Uh So, it is that reality of we're hearing these
Speaker 1: songs and we're thinking, oh, this is all strategy or
Speaker 1: this person has been doing it for a long time.
Speaker 1: But she's like, I'm trying to get through my exams. Well,
Speaker 1: this is going down, so let's get to a second
Speaker 1: date update. Um, they went on Instagram, they met each other,
Speaker 1: they hooked up, but in the email here from Mitchell
Speaker 1: and Fullerton, Mitchell says they did not go all the way. Now,
Speaker 1: when he tries to make future plans, she's pretty much noncommittal.
Speaker 1: She says she had a great time, but doesn't say
Speaker 1: much else. I thought maybe together we could charm her
Speaker 1: into another date, says Mitchell. All right, let's see not
Speaker 1: maybe counting on too much here, but let me bring
Speaker 1: in Mitchell. Thanks for coming on, Mitchell. Let's get to
Speaker 1: know a little bit more about what happened. So how
Speaker 1: many times did you actually go out with her? His
Speaker 1: name is Chelsea. How many times you guys go out? Um,
Speaker 1: we only went out one time? Really, you went out
Speaker 1: one time? Yeah? Yeah? Um? You know, Um, I met
Speaker 1: her on Instagram. Actually has started following her, She started
Speaker 1: following me, um, and I just kind of decided to
Speaker 1: message her out of the blue, you know, and um,
Speaker 1: and then she responded, you know, I was kind of
Speaker 1: like kind of flabbergas a boy that you know, and
Speaker 1: then we just started kind of really hitting it off
Speaker 1: and then after a while, I eventually, you know, kind
Speaker 1: of got up the courage to ask her out. Uh,
Speaker 1: so we did. We UM, we went out when out,
Speaker 1: grabbed the drink, had a good time. UM ended up
Speaker 1: hooking up afterwards, and UM, yeah it was. It was
Speaker 1: really great. And then later I, you know, Mr, hey,
Speaker 1: I just want to let you know, I like a
Speaker 1: really good time with you, and she was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: yeah it was. It was cool. I had a good
Speaker 1: time too, and you know, it seems like, you know,
Speaker 1: she agreed that we had a good time. But ever
Speaker 1: since then, you know, she wasn't really like, you know,
Speaker 1: shown interest in doing it again. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I'm not so surprised, Mitchell, because sometimes you go out
Speaker 1: with somebody wants and it is what it is, and
Speaker 1: it's not more than that, you know, be somebody on Instagram.
Speaker 1: So it couldn't just be that may not have been
Speaker 1: like anything went wrong, It's just that they wanted to
Speaker 1: have a hang for a night and that was what
Speaker 1: they were or maybe she took it too far and
Speaker 1: now she's kind of like embarrassed. I don't know, I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean, that's cool if that if that's what happened then,
Speaker 1: I mean, I can live with that. You know, it sucks,
Speaker 1: but I can live with it. But just say that though, Yeah,
Speaker 1: leaving somebody hanging without closing it off. I get how
Speaker 1: that can stir you a little bit. All right, let's
Speaker 1: uh see, so you want you said you want to
Speaker 1: go out with her again? Are you sure about that?
Speaker 1: No matter what happens here? I would like to yes.
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna put you on a hold. We'll
Speaker 1: come back and we're gonna try and track down Chelsea.
Speaker 1: I think we have all of her information and we'll
Speaker 1: see what we can find a hold on. One second,
Speaker 1: this is kiss FM. I'm not so surprised though you
Speaker 1: meet on Instagram, you hang out for a night, so
Speaker 1: what right you move on? I'm I'm concerned that she
Speaker 1: wasn't pleased with the evening. So Mitchell basically has written
Speaker 1: us saying met Chelsea on Instagram, they decided to go out,
Speaker 1: they decided to hang out, and they decide to hook up.
Speaker 1: And since that night, she's not really responsive. He's trying
Speaker 1: to make plans with her, but she's not responding, and
Speaker 1: she hasn't told him why she isn't, and he wants
Speaker 1: to know and wants to go out with her again. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's why I got it. Mitchell was excited that they
Speaker 1: got together and he was into it, so he wants
Speaker 1: to go on. But she doesn't seem to be that
Speaker 1: into it. So what happened? That's what we're gonna try
Speaker 1: and find out. Mitchell. But you want to go out
Speaker 1: with her again? So anything else we need to know
Speaker 1: before we put her on. We have her here on
Speaker 1: the other line. Um, no, nothing that I can think
Speaker 1: us now, okay, cool, be very quiet while we talked
Speaker 1: to her about her perspective of the night and see
Speaker 1: if we can get you guys together. Okay, all right
Speaker 1: we go. Hello Chelsea, Hi, Hello, Hi, thank you for
Speaker 1: coming on with us. It's Ryan here. You're on the air.
Speaker 1: I've got city An Tania with me this morning. Hi.
Speaker 1: So we're calling about you met a guy named Mitchell
Speaker 1: and you guys went out on a date. M Yeah,
Speaker 1: I remember him. Okay, how how was he in person? Um?
Speaker 1: He was he was great, he was good. Good night.
Speaker 1: What do you guys do? Uh, we just went out
Speaker 1: for drinks and you know, like normal stuff you do
Speaker 1: on a date. I actually, what is a normal stuff
Speaker 1: like on a date these days, conversation, getting to know
Speaker 1: each other, drinking a little bit, maybe hanging out after
Speaker 1: stuff like that. And then if it goes like that,
Speaker 1: which sounds well, do you make plans to do something
Speaker 1: else again at some point, I mean if you have time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And did you feel that way about Mitchell? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I had a really great time. I just I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know, it seems noncommittal. It seems
Speaker 1: like when you don't you don't really want to do something.
Speaker 1: Do you understand what I'm saying. Yeah, I mean he
Speaker 1: he was great. It's just like the situation. I just
Speaker 1: I don't know what's the situation. Um well, I mean
Speaker 1: we had a great night, Like I definitely, I'll put
Speaker 1: that out there. Um, I just don't know if it
Speaker 1: was in the most ideal situation. What was that situation? Um? Well, okay,
Speaker 1: So I've followed him because his ex girlfriend went out
Speaker 1: with my ex boyfriend, and so I was just curious
Speaker 1: who he was and I kind of just followed him
Speaker 1: just to get back at her for going out with
Speaker 1: my ex. So so you followed him to get back
Speaker 1: at your X. Then you actually went out with him
Speaker 1: and hung out with him to get back at the
Speaker 1: X or because you wanted to. I did want to
Speaker 1: hang out with him, but it was just to get
Speaker 1: back at her. But then we had a really good time,
Speaker 1: and then I felt bad and I didn't want to
Speaker 1: tell him, and I do like him. I just I
Speaker 1: felt kind of stuck, and so I just kind of
Speaker 1: But is there anything wrong from wanting to know more
Speaker 1: about this person when there are x is involved? You
Speaker 1: just are curious and then that curiosity turns into something
Speaker 1: that's fine or good or better. That's a little creepy
Speaker 1: how you went about it. Please, this is not creepy,
Speaker 1: but like, have you never been interested in an ex
Speaker 1: Tanya to investigate? Just be curious and see, I mean
Speaker 1: you've trolled for sure. This is beyond trolling. Is Chelsea
Speaker 1: didn't intend to want to hook up with him? Correct? Correct?
Speaker 1: Correct Chelsea? What was your plan? You were going to
Speaker 1: go out on a date with him? And then like
Speaker 1: was yeah, No, I wasn't going to hook up with him.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to see, like, who is this guy?
Speaker 1: And you know, I wanted to just get back of her,
Speaker 1: but I just didn't really work that way, So I
Speaker 1: ended up liking him, and I just kind of feel bad.
Speaker 1: So I just kind of the plug. Great news, Chelsea,
Speaker 1: great news, cats out of the bag. That's Mitchell is
Speaker 1: right here with us, listening to every beat. So I'm
Speaker 1: gonna bring him in. Mitchell, great news. Chelsea was just
Speaker 1: exploratory and curious, and you delivered. So here we are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess, I mean, um, listen, um, Chelsea, I really, like,
Speaker 1: you know, don't care about the whole X thing, you know,
Speaker 1: I mean that that's over, you know. Um, I you know,
Speaker 1: regret how me and Are ended things and it was
Speaker 1: kind of, you know, real unfortunate situation, you know, but
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not really I don't really care about
Speaker 1: the circumstances that, you know, it's what happened after meeting
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, I get it, I get it. I
Speaker 1: think Mitchell makes the right point. However, we got here,
Speaker 1: we're here, and it went better than expected. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I know, on my end, like I totally
Speaker 1: did not have intentions of even going out with you again,
Speaker 1: but you seem to be so awesome that like I would,
Speaker 1: but I just the situation is a little a little funky,
Speaker 1: so not anymore. We've unfunked the situation by throwing it
Speaker 1: all out there. So now the question is when are
Speaker 1: you guys gonna go out again someone, particularly if you
Speaker 1: if you if you would like to go out again, Um, Jelsea,
Speaker 1: I would be I'd be down for that. We know
Speaker 1: we can. Um, we can do that, you know, if
Speaker 1: you want to. If if you don't want to, that's fine.
Speaker 1: In here a little commitment to the cause here, Mitchell,
Speaker 1: pick up where you left off. Hey, what I mean exactly?
Speaker 1: I think it'd be fine. I mean, I think it'd
Speaker 1: be a great time, and you know, if we can
Speaker 1: figure it out and kind of get past this weird start,
Speaker 1: and I'd be interested. Yeah, sure, I mean you, um,
Speaker 1: you're doing anything this weekend. I'll let you guys take
Speaker 1: it from here. You guys both have your phone number
Speaker 1: each other's numbers, right, Yeah? Okay, Well then Mitchell Chelsea,
Speaker 1: good luck on your second date. Thanks for reaching out, Mitchell, Hey,
Speaker 1: thank you, guys, appreciate it. On air with Ryan, just
Speaker 1: thinking about Justin Bieber and all the hits. So we
Speaker 1: had Tate McRae on last hour and she's at the beginning.
Speaker 1: She got her second song out into the world and
Speaker 1: remember when Justin had his first song out into the
Speaker 1: world and his second song out into the world and
Speaker 1: then look at so many hits. Right he was sixteen,
Speaker 1: I think fifteen or sixteen when he was here. Very young. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it on YouTube. Everyone almost didn't even give him a
Speaker 1: chance on radio, to be quite honest, because it sounded
Speaker 1: almost like he was like too young. I think they've
Speaker 1: learned their lesson all right. Jared is on the phone
Speaker 1: here one or two seven, Jared, Good morning, How you
Speaker 1: doing Ryan? How's it going round? Solid? So? What do
Speaker 1: you need advice on something? Yeah? Sosicularly what me and
Speaker 1: my girl about three years ago in February along with
Speaker 1: our daughter, and then from seven years ago, about that
Speaker 1: happened to our relationship? You know? Um? And I asked
Speaker 1: her last night. Uh, we were talking about you know,
Speaker 1: seven years ago. Uh, we've kind of broken off like
Speaker 1: here and there a little bit. We started feeling for
Speaker 1: each other, but at the same time, Uh, we kind
Speaker 1: of went a semi or separate wings and so I
Speaker 1: was hanging out with friends. She thought I was cheating
Speaker 1: on her, But every single time she brings back seven
Speaker 1: years ago, she says, you cheated on mean you did this?
Speaker 1: You did? She kind of ran doing like a family
Speaker 1: member on her end, and so it's like and I
Speaker 1: asked her, say, if you're enterppy, let's take a break,
Speaker 1: you know, um, and then go from there and hold on,
Speaker 1: I can't understand something. Did you cheat? No? Or did
Speaker 1: you cheat in reaction to her doing something with somebody else? No? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was hanging out with a friend of mine, you
Speaker 1: who is a girl. We didn't do anything. And she
Speaker 1: asked me, you know, what do we do in college?
Speaker 1: Like she's so stuck on the past. Did you say
Speaker 1: she was with a family member? What do you mean romantically? No?
Speaker 1: Not romantically. It's more like kind of abuse, if that's
Speaker 1: how I want to say it. A family members like
Speaker 1: kind of confused her and um, he's in jail right now.
Speaker 1: But um, because there's certain things, but all the whole
Speaker 1: families like yeah, it's it's confusing, and I'm trying to
Speaker 1: wrap my head around it. We didn't really sleep last night,
Speaker 1: and I don't have a trunic delivering ice, and it's
Speaker 1: like my brains like not all there, you know, and
Speaker 1: you know, and I told him I'm trying to get
Speaker 1: her to trust me. And I said whenever happened seven
Speaker 1: years ago. If I lied, I'm sorry. I don't think
Speaker 1: I did, And just I think it's because of a
Speaker 1: family member. Data abuse is why she doesn't trust to
Speaker 1: be in a relationship, but she wants to stay with
Speaker 1: me because of our daughter, who said so. I think
Speaker 1: I'm understanding a little bit about this. There's something that
Speaker 1: she suffered from the past that's causing her in a
Speaker 1: way to react a certain way to you, even if
Speaker 1: it's not justified in your mind because you didn't do
Speaker 1: what she thinks you might have done. I really, I mean,
Speaker 1: it's kind of neither here nor there. At some point
Speaker 1: you have to address whatever it is she's feeling about
Speaker 1: you and whatever it is you're feeling about her and
Speaker 1: decide whether or not you can move past it or
Speaker 1: not move past it, right, because if it keeps coming up,
Speaker 1: it's going to continue to be an issue. And you
Speaker 1: know you can still co parent in a healthy way.
Speaker 1: But any of the question is can you guys both
Speaker 1: get past this past or can she get past this?
Speaker 1: Asked and maybe she needs to talk to somebody professionally,
Speaker 1: because I feel even uncomfortable guiding you on this because
Speaker 1: it's so far beyond anything I could guide you about.
Speaker 1: But I definitely think there needs to be a conversation
Speaker 1: about whatever scarring from the past to get to the future.
Speaker 1: So basically, just have a counselor therapists, have less open up,
Speaker 1: figure off, have you both opened up? Have you open
Speaker 1: up together? Have you opened up together and individually if
Speaker 1: you need. I think that's a good idea. At least
Speaker 1: get it out there. It sounds like you're going in
Speaker 1: the same cycle of circle. All right, that sounds good.
Speaker 1: I guess I guess I'll start making phone calls today. Hey,
Speaker 1: I wish you the best of luck. And you know
Speaker 1: I have patience and if she's dealing with something that
Speaker 1: she really is sounds like was so troubling in her past,
Speaker 1: you know, really trying to understand that. Yeah, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to do. And another thing, since congratulations on your third points.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Appreciate that. I see you guys
Speaker 1: on Instagram all the time. She is so cute. I
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Thank you. Thanks, take good care. Okay, all right, guys,
Speaker 1: thank you you too. Have a good day. By And
Speaker 1: I just want to say on the air, I have
Speaker 1: really no I cannot guide a situation like that, I
Speaker 1: am not qualified to understand what's happening there and pushing
Speaker 1: the right direction other than say seek a third party
Speaker 1: for helping, therapy and counseling, because that's probably the right step.
Speaker 1: So if I have said anybody by anything I said
Speaker 1: or how what I was asking, I'm doing my best.
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, it sounds like it sounds like she
Speaker 1: really loves her, and I don't think taking a break
Speaker 1: as the answer. So I think seeking help, counseling something
Speaker 1: like that is the right move. On air with Ryan Secrets,
Speaker 1: So a lot of famous couples called it quits in November.
Speaker 1: You want to talk about it first, you want to
Speaker 1: out through it. Yeah, So I want to kind of
Speaker 1: just like set the scene because usually this is cuffing
Speaker 1: season where people want to couple up before the holiday
Speaker 1: so they're not alone. But I feel like this is
Speaker 1: no sea this November. It was the complete opposite, was
Speaker 1: clensing season. So I want to run through a couple
Speaker 1: of our favorite couples in Hollywood. Obviously the big one
Speaker 1: Camirica Cabo Shawn Mendez. They split after two years of dating.
Speaker 1: Tasia Adams and Zach Clark from the Bachelorette. They called
Speaker 1: it quits after getting engaged only about a year ago.
Speaker 1: Um Batcheva Heart and Ben Weinstein they divorced or they're
Speaker 1: getting divorced after nine years of marriage. And then Kai
Speaker 1: Gerber and Jacob Lerd he's from euphoria. They are broke
Speaker 1: up after one year of dating. So those are some
Speaker 1: heavy hitters. And other people did break up in November
Speaker 1: as well, Correct and correct, there were many others the
Speaker 1: ones I picked um, but I think I realized why
Speaker 1: November is a hot button month because I think that
Speaker 1: people towards the end of the year, because January one
Speaker 1: is approaching, people start to think about their lives in
Speaker 1: a different way. What did I accomplish this year? Was
Speaker 1: I happy this year? What do I want to do
Speaker 1: this coming? And they start putting their life in this
Speaker 1: different perspective, and I think that's when they might realize
Speaker 1: that their partner is holding them back or not not
Speaker 1: part of the future that they want. And that's what
Speaker 1: happens in November. I don't disagree with that theory, because
Speaker 1: you're starting to think about, all right, I'm considering shifting
Speaker 1: my focus. I'm considering not being with this person to
Speaker 1: drag it all through the holidays is probably the wrong
Speaker 1: thing to do. So to have this conversation now, not
Speaker 1: on January two, is the most genuine way to handle
Speaker 1: it considering the time of year, right, because if you
Speaker 1: if you get to January, we've all been these situations
Speaker 1: where towards the end of the year you kind of
Speaker 1: know you're not going to continue the whole next year
Speaker 1: with that person. But you don't do it January two
Speaker 1: because that would seem disingenuous. So you have it February one,
Speaker 1: but then you before Valentine's Day. It just never tick
Speaker 1: it up. Another thing to add to your theory, Tony,
Speaker 1: is you know, all of last year I feel like
Speaker 1: people probably just stuck it out and stayed together because
Speaker 1: they were in quarantine, right, and they don't want to
Speaker 1: be alone. And that carried into this year because we
Speaker 1: were still pretty locked down up until like March of
Speaker 1: this year. Kind of so what month is the clearest
Speaker 1: let's back it up again. Is October a clearer month? Maybe?
Speaker 1: But you have Halloween you don't want to be or
Speaker 1: you do want to be alone friendly Maybe that's a
Speaker 1: I think right after the four dig July, it's pretty clear. No,
Speaker 1: you don't want to be by yourself the rest of summer.
Speaker 1: Yeah you do. Yeah, you want to be saying something, Yeah,
Speaker 1: bikinis and booze, Yeah, flirty. I don't really wear bikinis,
Speaker 1: but I'm summer flings. Well, if you're gonna have a
Speaker 1: summer flameing, you should start that in June. How long
Speaker 1: is it fling? To you? A summer fling would be
Speaker 1: the whole month. I thought Michael was a summer fling.
Speaker 1: I met him in May. I met him in May,
Speaker 1: and we kind of when we kind of broke up
Speaker 1: in August and then got back together two hours later.
Speaker 1: A fling is not a month. It's a season. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a season, not a month. Summer. A month is not
Speaker 1: a season. A season is longer flanked to me, like
Speaker 1: three months. Yes, I think people are it's easier to
Speaker 1: break up with somebody fits a fling after the summer
Speaker 1: than it is if you've been with somebody a longer
Speaker 1: time to do it in November. There's never a good time.
Speaker 1: But I think I understand what you're saying Tony, and
Speaker 1: I agree, Well, are you guys having those conversations? I
Speaker 1: don't mean with your signifant others. I just mean about
Speaker 1: your life in general, Like, are you feeling like you're
Speaker 1: you're thinking about this past year, what you did accomplish,
Speaker 1: what you didn't accomplish, what you want to accomplish. Actually, no,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm thinking about this week is really busy.
Speaker 1: This week, it's so busy. I'm just trying to get Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's all it's going through my I have not crossed
Speaker 1: that bridge yet. I literally just looked at my schedule
Speaker 1: this week. Are you kidding me? Totally? No, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get I keep talking about jingle on, trying to
Speaker 1: get to that. Yeah, Sarah is on our line called
Speaker 1: one of two is getting those ginger Ball tickets Capital
Speaker 1: one now and Sarah, how are you doing good? How
Speaker 1: are you super good? So what's happening? Uh? So, super
Speaker 1: weird thing happened at work last week. Um. I work
Speaker 1: in a office it's like small with twelve people. Um,
Speaker 1: and my one co worker is getting married, so he,
Speaker 1: I guess invited everyone in the office. He gave us
Speaker 1: all saved the dates. Um, And after talking with a
Speaker 1: few of my coworkers during lunch, I realized that on
Speaker 1: everyone else's envelope they have like their name and the
Speaker 1: name of their partners, so they all got plus one
Speaker 1: and mine only had my name. Even though I have
Speaker 1: a fiance that I've brought to our office parties and everything,
Speaker 1: everyone seemed to really like him. Um, but it seems
Speaker 1: like I didn't get a plus one to this wedding
Speaker 1: and it like kind of far away. It's like a
Speaker 1: four hour drive or something. So I wasn't sure if
Speaker 1: I should like talk to the guy that's getting married
Speaker 1: and be like, do I have a plus one or
Speaker 1: a couple of things here? You have a fiance, so
Speaker 1: it's not a plus one, it's your partner. Yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: do you want to go to this wedding four hours away?
Speaker 1: It's a coworker. Do you want to go spend a
Speaker 1: weekend there? I mean, you know, our office is like
Speaker 1: really close, like we're all friends, so it would be fun.
Speaker 1: And I thought that me and him were good friends
Speaker 1: and that he liked my fiance. Like I was under
Speaker 1: the impression that, you know, I think this is pretty
Speaker 1: easy to resolve. You want to go, you feel like
Speaker 1: your closest coworker, you feel like you can talk to them.
Speaker 1: Might just be an oversight. I think you can clearly say, hey,
Speaker 1: just you know, I got this without a plus one,
Speaker 1: and my plus one, not a plus one, is my fiance,
Speaker 1: so we'd be happy to celebrate together. I just want
Speaker 1: to make sure that's cool. I don't want to many
Speaker 1: toes here. And I think that coworker of years it's
Speaker 1: getting married, it's gonna oh my gosh. Of course it
Speaker 1: might be an oversight. Maybe he just didn't realize or
Speaker 1: you thought because we kind of we were if fiance's
Speaker 1: we allotted our wedding, but if you were, if you
Speaker 1: kind of like, we're dating somebody and we didn't know
Speaker 1: them or meet meet them yet, So for example, I
Speaker 1: would have been no plus one at her wedding. That's
Speaker 1: what I think at that stage. Actually did just say
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, Ryan Seacrest not and guessed it wouldn't have
Speaker 1: been telling you it wasn't that morning. I'll be calling people, Hey,
Speaker 1: you want to go to a wedding later. But I've
Speaker 1: also I've also called my friend who was getting married
Speaker 1: when I was first starting to date Michael, and I
Speaker 1: wanted to bring him to her wedding, and I asked
Speaker 1: because she did not give me a plus one, and
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go alone. So I think just
Speaker 1: asking is not a big deal. And also if they
Speaker 1: say no, that's weird. You don't want to be at
Speaker 1: that wedding anyway. Yeah, it's because, yeah, they like invited
Speaker 1: my they invited my co worker's boyfriend that like we
Speaker 1: all know and take. And so that's why I was
Speaker 1: just like that. I think it's you. It's an oversight. Well,
Speaker 1: good luck, Sarah, go ahead and talk to that cowork
Speaker 1: about it and tell them congratulations, thanks for taking you Bye.
Speaker 1: It's funny how like the narrative we create is this
Speaker 1: whole thing they don't like my fiance. I thought they did.
Speaker 1: I thought were close to the coworker. Yet it's probably
Speaker 1: just a complete mistake because who does the wedding invitation?
Speaker 1: Somebody else? The third party many times, right, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think so with Ryan Seacrest, you know, I saw this
Speaker 1: video and I played it on Live is Killing ran
Speaker 1: the other day of Meredith and Jimmy and Flora at
Speaker 1: a Safari drive through zoo. You've seen one of these?
Speaker 1: You drive you drive through, right, Yeah, I want to
Speaker 1: drive through situations you're in the car. Yeah, what was
Speaker 1: kind of the thing of the last couple of years.
Speaker 1: You're in the car and up just look at the
Speaker 1: at the animals they like walk up to you. Right. Yeah.
Speaker 1: So she's in the car and this camel here go viral.
Speaker 1: The camel takes the whole bucket out of her hand
Speaker 1: through the car window of food, not just the food,
Speaker 1: with the whole bucket her live. I mean the camels
Speaker 1: are like licking the car windows and the kids are
Speaker 1: sticking their hands out with bowls of food. Move said
Speaker 1: of that word anyway, that was crazy if you do that,
Speaker 1: but look look dangerous and fun. Yeah, you know, I
Speaker 1: get scared with big animal like that around the He
Speaker 1: might get scared about big animals around me. You don't
Speaker 1: want to That's what I'm saying. I don't know, but
Speaker 1: all right, what do you got? So the twins are
Speaker 1: in the doghouse or out of the doghouse. They're out
Speaker 1: of the doghouse now, and you know, it's it's like
Speaker 1: every day is a new thing and that we battle.
Speaker 1: But a few weeks ago I picked up the kids
Speaker 1: from school and their teacher told me he's a hit
Speaker 1: a student today at school. And as a parent, you
Speaker 1: did never want to hear something like that. I felt
Speaker 1: this like rush of guilt, and I was disappointed in myself,
Speaker 1: Like I wasn't even like I was mad. I was
Speaker 1: disappointed in her, but it was just like it was
Speaker 1: a lot, right. So I spoke to her on the
Speaker 1: car ride home, and Michael and I had to do
Speaker 1: the whole like sit down in her room thing and
Speaker 1: like talk to her about hitting. It was like the
Speaker 1: first time we really had a discipline type of conversation
Speaker 1: with her, which I don't even think got through to her.
Speaker 1: She's three years old, um and so, but it was
Speaker 1: a big deal and reason it was like over a toy, right,
Speaker 1: who knows. So the very next day we go to
Speaker 1: school and the teacher, I mean, I pick up the
Speaker 1: kids and you're like, Asa had a really good day,
Speaker 1: no hitting, and she when she got here, she said
Speaker 1: sorry to the girl right away, and it was like,
Speaker 1: you know, a great day. But Max and hit a
Speaker 1: kid today school. And I was like, what what's happening?
Speaker 1: Because Max and do it? And do Max? And I
Speaker 1: think I think Michael and I gave too much attention
Speaker 1: to Asa with all of it, Like I think so
Speaker 1: I think he wanted us to do like the whole
Speaker 1: sit down with him in the bedroom and talk to
Speaker 1: him like I don't know, but it was just so
Speaker 1: sense that that could be why I think so. But
Speaker 1: ever since then, and it's been a few weeks now,
Speaker 1: no hitting and we're passing, and so what's that conversation? Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, i'd be at the door as the paraco.
Speaker 1: What do I it's gonna be so uncomfortable? What do
Speaker 1: I sit down? Even say? Very simple, you just say,
Speaker 1: we don't treat people that way. Do you want somebody
Speaker 1: to hit you? You don't. It hurts. It hurts people's feelings,
Speaker 1: and we don't you know, we don't want that type
Speaker 1: of behavior. You have to instill the yeah and the
Speaker 1: zero tolerance policy of it, right right, but it doesn't happen.
Speaker 1: And this is what I'm realizing, like having twins, and
Speaker 1: especially twins in the same classroom their siblings. Like I
Speaker 1: don't know about you, but like I grew up with
Speaker 1: my fighting with my brother and my sister, and we
Speaker 1: always wrestled and there was always like hitting and things
Speaker 1: like that, and so I I just like it happens
Speaker 1: here at the house, and so we just have to
Speaker 1: enforce it more here there exactly. But Inkling is accepted
Speaker 1: there that could magnify itself out in the real world somewhere.
Speaker 1: So we do we do like go to your room.
Speaker 1: Basically anytime there is a hitting, next they go to
Speaker 1: room for five minutes and think about what you did.
Speaker 1: And that's what it's got consistently, consistently, consistently because yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that frequency of them feeling the
Speaker 1: way they feel and have to go to the room hopefully,
Speaker 1: but I know it's the parent, like what did I do?
Speaker 1: What did I do in the principle's office? What I
Speaker 1: do wrong? I mean, of course you take responsibility. Oh man, hey,
Speaker 1: you should write all these things down so that when
Speaker 1: Tiny and I have kids separately, we have these notes separately.
Speaker 1: Thank you for the disclaimer. Yeah, obviously if anybody listens
Speaker 1: to this show, they would know that. But I said,
Speaker 1: you don't want to do it for the first day.
Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't. Don't you remember rna Era? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that wasn't me driving, that was someone else driving that
Speaker 1: It was When are your kids? Would beautiful? Actually, now
Speaker 1: that I think about it, well, how about you focus
Speaker 1: on Robbie and you and let me how that goes first?
Speaker 1: All right? So SI has a story on Kevin Hart's
Speaker 1: series on Netflix called True Story, where he's playing a
Speaker 1: superstar comedian, but it's a dramatic role, and you know,
Speaker 1: I think the intent in a way was to create
Speaker 1: a little bit of not knowing what was Kevin Hard,
Speaker 1: what was inspired by some of the things in his life?
Speaker 1: What are totally fictional? Now there are some things that
Speaker 1: are pretty obviously not in Kevin Art's life. But I
Speaker 1: think it was great to see him in this dramatic role.
Speaker 1: He mean, truly is a superstar comedian, but he's great
Speaker 1: as a drama actor. When I started this last night,
Speaker 1: it was PM. You guys, I did not go to
Speaker 1: bed until two in the morning last night. You're kidding.
Speaker 1: I went, yes, And he's incredible. This series is I
Speaker 1: I warned you because you're going to be hooked after
Speaker 1: the first five minutes. Um. But you like, people are saying, like,
Speaker 1: is it based on a true story or not? It's
Speaker 1: based on Kevin's character trying to cover up a murderer
Speaker 1: with the help of his brother. Wesley's next so what
Speaker 1: about that party? The murder part is not the true story.
Speaker 1: It is like, let's obviously, but I was reading up
Speaker 1: a little bit because I was just so curious, and
Speaker 1: Kevin basically said, some things in here are true. So
Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff that's kind of like the
Speaker 1: day to day things that happened to him as being
Speaker 1: like a big mega star are true. Five minutes in
Speaker 1: you see a very uncomfortable situation on an airplane with
Speaker 1: him and a fan, and that was an absolutely true story,
Speaker 1: Kevin said, which is shocking to me because it was
Speaker 1: it was so uncomfortable and I just can't believe that
Speaker 1: stuff like that happens to him in the real world.
Speaker 1: So he says, the beauty of this project was that
Speaker 1: it was a stress reliever for him, and and that's
Speaker 1: interesting in itself because it does the opposite. As a viewer,
Speaker 1: I was stressed out the entire time. Like you're you
Speaker 1: get a little bit of anxiety watching this show. I
Speaker 1: don't know if you like that when you watch a series.
Speaker 1: But you know, he's the true definition of a like
Speaker 1: a of a movie star, right. I mean, he is
Speaker 1: a movie star, and he's so good in all those comedies.
Speaker 1: But to see him in this kind of a role
Speaker 1: was was really wonderful. It's really great, you know, I
Speaker 1: think there are inklings inside the characters playing where you go, Oh,
Speaker 1: I could see how that might have come out of
Speaker 1: real life. Then there are those things that are like
Speaker 1: really part of the drama that you know, it couldn't
Speaker 1: have happened be doing a series and movies. But it's
Speaker 1: is it called It's called true Story on Netflix right Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's called True Story. It's on Netflix right now. It
Speaker 1: just came out. It's already in top ten. It is
Speaker 1: so good, Good Air with Ryan Seacrest. We're gonna we're
Speaker 1: gonna balance out tomorrow morning. We have got more tickets too,
Speaker 1: are sold out jingle Ball right here, So keep it on,
Speaker 1: Kissing fem It's gonna be Friday before we not. Thanks
Speaker 1: for listening So On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure
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