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Speaker 1: From Hollywood. Thank you for listening to us. With Ryan Seacrest,

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Speaker 1: We've got let's see this hour, next hour, in several hours,

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Speaker 1: several hours of things to do and connect about. So

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Speaker 1: Connect about? One or two seven at Kiss FM. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: How we do insist Tony? Everybody are good morning, good

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Speaker 1: good Um. Tate mc ray you know she's gonna be

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Speaker 1: on later. I don't think we've ever interviewed or spoken

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Speaker 1: with Tate mcray on this show. Am I right by that? No?

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Speaker 1: She's so talented though, My gosh, she's eighteen and she

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Speaker 1: writes songs that we can all access well, and she's

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Speaker 1: an incredible dancer on top of that can all relate to. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess she was one of the finalists. Are very

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Speaker 1: well featured on So you think you can dance? When

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Speaker 1: she was thirteen? Mm hmmm. So we'll talk to Tate

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Speaker 1: McCrae a little bit later. It's always interesting should be

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Speaker 1: at our jingle boats. Always interesting to hear the perspective

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Speaker 1: it's all happening for them, as it's all breaking for them.

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Speaker 1: We shall be on stage. Will be on stage at

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Speaker 1: our Jingle Bout the Forum presented by Capital One at

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Speaker 1: the end of the week on Friday, on the same

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Speaker 1: stage as BTS and Dual Lipa and so many other

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Speaker 1: big names. BTS Who, by the way, this past weekend

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Speaker 1: tens and thousands of dollars for one tickets. Here's here's

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Speaker 1: the first song we played from Tate mccrag that we

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Speaker 1: have reached. You had not been through a breakup when

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Speaker 1: she called you broke me first. And then she got

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Speaker 1: a new song, another song that is out now called

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Speaker 1: feel Like. It's about a breakup that she guess recently

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Speaker 1: talk to her. Original title for that was different, I

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Speaker 1: feel like something else. Yeah, tunny, you know, I just reading.

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Speaker 1: Actually there was an article and we're talking about this yesterday.

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Speaker 1: You had just put the two families together, your family

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Speaker 1: was this article on tips for making a good first

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Speaker 1: first time you were to meet his parents, what that

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Speaker 1: spending time with parents. I've always loved it. When I

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Speaker 1: but when they're meeting each other, you're just out of it. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when the dads go off insidebar, you kind of want

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Speaker 1: first impression on your partners family. They say, be prepared

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Speaker 1: it all on TikTok. Her name is Sheila Harrington, and

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Speaker 1: she says these are three signs that the marriage will

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Speaker 1: So we're calling about you met a guy named Mitchell

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Speaker 1: I think it'd be fine. I mean, I think it'd

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Speaker 1: be a great time, and you know, if we can

427
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 1: figure it out and kind of get past this weird start,

428
00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:26,320
Speaker 1: and I'd be interested. Yeah, sure, I mean you, um,

429
00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 1: you're doing anything this weekend. I'll let you guys take

430
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: it from here. You guys both have your phone number

431
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 1: each other's numbers, right, Yeah? Okay, Well then Mitchell Chelsea,

432
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:39,160
Speaker 1: good luck on your second date. Thanks for reaching out, Mitchell, Hey,

433
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 1: thank you, guys, appreciate it. On air with Ryan, just

434
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:47,720
Speaker 1: thinking about Justin Bieber and all the hits. So we

435
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,399
Speaker 1: had Tate McRae on last hour and she's at the beginning.

436
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 1: She got her second song out into the world and

437
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 1: remember when Justin had his first song out into the

438
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: world and his second song out into the world and

439
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: then look at so many hits. Right he was sixteen,

440
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: I think fifteen or sixteen when he was here. Very young. Yeah,

441
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,639
Speaker 1: it on YouTube. Everyone almost didn't even give him a

442
00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 1: chance on radio, to be quite honest, because it sounded

443
00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: almost like he was like too young. I think they've

444
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: learned their lesson all right. Jared is on the phone

445
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: here one or two seven, Jared, Good morning, How you

446
00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 1: doing Ryan? How's it going round? Solid? So? What do

447
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 1: you need advice on something? Yeah? Sosicularly what me and

448
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:42,240
Speaker 1: my girl about three years ago in February along with

449
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:52,480
Speaker 1: our daughter, and then from seven years ago, about that

450
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: happened to our relationship? You know? Um? And I asked

451
00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: her last night. Uh, we were talking about you know,

452
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 1: seven years ago. Uh, we've kind of broken off like

453
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 1: here and there a little bit. We started feeling for

454
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: each other, but at the same time, Uh, we kind

455
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: of went a semi or separate wings and so I

456
00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 1: was hanging out with friends. She thought I was cheating

457
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:23,200
Speaker 1: on her, But every single time she brings back seven

458
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,520
Speaker 1: years ago, she says, you cheated on mean you did this?

459
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: You did? She kind of ran doing like a family

460
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: member on her end, and so it's like and I

461
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:40,040
Speaker 1: asked her, say, if you're enterppy, let's take a break,

462
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: you know, um, and then go from there and hold on,

463
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 1: I can't understand something. Did you cheat? No? Or did

464
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: you cheat in reaction to her doing something with somebody else? No? Yeah,

465
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: I was hanging out with a friend of mine, you

466
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: who is a girl. We didn't do anything. And she

467
00:27:04,920 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 1: asked me, you know, what do we do in college?

468
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: Like she's so stuck on the past. Did you say

469
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: she was with a family member? What do you mean romantically? No?

470
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: Not romantically. It's more like kind of abuse, if that's

471
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:21,399
Speaker 1: how I want to say it. A family members like

472
00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:26,200
Speaker 1: kind of confused her and um, he's in jail right now.

473
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:32,080
Speaker 1: But um, because there's certain things, but all the whole

474
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,720
Speaker 1: families like yeah, it's it's confusing, and I'm trying to

475
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,920
Speaker 1: wrap my head around it. We didn't really sleep last night,

476
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 1: and I don't have a trunic delivering ice, and it's

477
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 1: like my brains like not all there, you know, and

478
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,680
Speaker 1: you know, and I told him I'm trying to get

479
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: her to trust me. And I said whenever happened seven

480
00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: years ago. If I lied, I'm sorry. I don't think

481
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,359
Speaker 1: I did, And just I think it's because of a

482
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: family member. Data abuse is why she doesn't trust to

483
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,439
Speaker 1: be in a relationship, but she wants to stay with

484
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: me because of our daughter, who said so. I think

485
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 1: I'm understanding a little bit about this. There's something that

486
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 1: she suffered from the past that's causing her in a

487
00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 1: way to react a certain way to you, even if

488
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: it's not justified in your mind because you didn't do

489
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: what she thinks you might have done. I really, I mean,

490
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,679
Speaker 1: it's kind of neither here nor there. At some point

491
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 1: you have to address whatever it is she's feeling about

492
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 1: you and whatever it is you're feeling about her and

493
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: decide whether or not you can move past it or

494
00:28:44,120 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: not move past it, right, because if it keeps coming up,

495
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:51,840
Speaker 1: it's going to continue to be an issue. And you

496
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:55,360
Speaker 1: know you can still co parent in a healthy way.

497
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,480
Speaker 1: But any of the question is can you guys both

498
00:28:57,800 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: get past this past or can she get past this?

499
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 1: Asked and maybe she needs to talk to somebody professionally,

500
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: because I feel even uncomfortable guiding you on this because

501
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 1: it's so far beyond anything I could guide you about.

502
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: But I definitely think there needs to be a conversation

503
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: about whatever scarring from the past to get to the future.

504
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: So basically, just have a counselor therapists, have less open up,

505
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 1: figure off, have you both opened up? Have you open

506
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:29,719
Speaker 1: up together? Have you opened up together and individually if

507
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:32,080
Speaker 1: you need. I think that's a good idea. At least

508
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,720
Speaker 1: get it out there. It sounds like you're going in

509
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: the same cycle of circle. All right, that sounds good.

510
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: I guess I guess I'll start making phone calls today. Hey,

511
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: I wish you the best of luck. And you know

512
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 1: I have patience and if she's dealing with something that

513
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 1: she really is sounds like was so troubling in her past,

514
00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: you know, really trying to understand that. Yeah, I'm trying

515
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 1: to do. And another thing, since congratulations on your third points.

516
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. Appreciate that. I see you guys

517
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:06,680
Speaker 1: on Instagram all the time. She is so cute. I

518
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: appreciate that. Thank you. Thanks, take good care. Okay, all right, guys,

519
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: thank you you too. Have a good day. By And

520
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: I just want to say on the air, I have

521
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: really no I cannot guide a situation like that, I

522
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: am not qualified to understand what's happening there and pushing

523
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: the right direction other than say seek a third party

524
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 1: for helping, therapy and counseling, because that's probably the right step.

525
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: So if I have said anybody by anything I said

526
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: or how what I was asking, I'm doing my best.

527
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, it sounds like it sounds like she

528
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: really loves her, and I don't think taking a break

529
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:46,160
Speaker 1: as the answer. So I think seeking help, counseling something

530
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:51,960
Speaker 1: like that is the right move. On air with Ryan Secrets,

531
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 1: So a lot of famous couples called it quits in November.

532
00:30:58,640 --> 00:31:00,000
Speaker 1: You want to talk about it first, you want to

533
00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 1: out through it. Yeah, So I want to kind of

534
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: just like set the scene because usually this is cuffing

535
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 1: season where people want to couple up before the holiday

536
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: so they're not alone. But I feel like this is

537
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:12,600
Speaker 1: no sea this November. It was the complete opposite, was

538
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,880
Speaker 1: clensing season. So I want to run through a couple

539
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: of our favorite couples in Hollywood. Obviously the big one

540
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: Camirica Cabo Shawn Mendez. They split after two years of dating.

541
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: Tasia Adams and Zach Clark from the Bachelorette. They called

542
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: it quits after getting engaged only about a year ago.

543
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: Um Batcheva Heart and Ben Weinstein they divorced or they're

544
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: getting divorced after nine years of marriage. And then Kai

545
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:42,920
Speaker 1: Gerber and Jacob Lerd he's from euphoria. They are broke

546
00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 1: up after one year of dating. So those are some

547
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: heavy hitters. And other people did break up in November

548
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 1: as well, Correct and correct, there were many others the

549
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:54,360
Speaker 1: ones I picked um, but I think I realized why

550
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:59,040
Speaker 1: November is a hot button month because I think that

551
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 1: people towards the end of the year, because January one

552
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: is approaching, people start to think about their lives in

553
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: a different way. What did I accomplish this year? Was

554
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 1: I happy this year? What do I want to do

555
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: this coming? And they start putting their life in this

556
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: different perspective, and I think that's when they might realize

557
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 1: that their partner is holding them back or not not

558
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: part of the future that they want. And that's what

559
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 1: happens in November. I don't disagree with that theory, because

560
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 1: you're starting to think about, all right, I'm considering shifting

561
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: my focus. I'm considering not being with this person to

562
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,600
Speaker 1: drag it all through the holidays is probably the wrong

563
00:32:35,680 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 1: thing to do. So to have this conversation now, not

564
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: on January two, is the most genuine way to handle

565
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 1: it considering the time of year, right, because if you

566
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 1: if you get to January, we've all been these situations

567
00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: where towards the end of the year you kind of

568
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: know you're not going to continue the whole next year

569
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: with that person. But you don't do it January two

570
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: because that would seem disingenuous. So you have it February one,

571
00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: but then you before Valentine's Day. It just never tick

572
00:33:05,480 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 1: it up. Another thing to add to your theory, Tony,

573
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:13,240
Speaker 1: is you know, all of last year I feel like

574
00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 1: people probably just stuck it out and stayed together because

575
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: they were in quarantine, right, and they don't want to

576
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 1: be alone. And that carried into this year because we

577
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: were still pretty locked down up until like March of

578
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 1: this year. Kind of so what month is the clearest

579
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: let's back it up again. Is October a clearer month? Maybe?

580
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: But you have Halloween you don't want to be or

581
00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 1: you do want to be alone friendly Maybe that's a

582
00:33:34,680 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 1: I think right after the four dig July, it's pretty clear. No,

583
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: you don't want to be by yourself the rest of summer.

584
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 1: Yeah you do. Yeah, you want to be saying something, Yeah,

585
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 1: bikinis and booze, Yeah, flirty. I don't really wear bikinis,

586
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:54,520
Speaker 1: but I'm summer flings. Well, if you're gonna have a

587
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:59,040
Speaker 1: summer flameing, you should start that in June. How long

588
00:33:59,080 --> 00:34:02,080
Speaker 1: is it fling? To you? A summer fling would be

589
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,040
Speaker 1: the whole month. I thought Michael was a summer fling.

590
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:05,800
Speaker 1: I met him in May. I met him in May,

591
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 1: and we kind of when we kind of broke up

592
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 1: in August and then got back together two hours later.

593
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: A fling is not a month. It's a season. Yeah,

594
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: a season, not a month. Summer. A month is not

595
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: a season. A season is longer flanked to me, like

596
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: three months. Yes, I think people are it's easier to

597
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 1: break up with somebody fits a fling after the summer

598
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:30,919
Speaker 1: than it is if you've been with somebody a longer

599
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: time to do it in November. There's never a good time.

600
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:36,279
Speaker 1: But I think I understand what you're saying Tony, and

601
00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 1: I agree, Well, are you guys having those conversations? I

602
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: don't mean with your signifant others. I just mean about

603
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 1: your life in general, Like, are you feeling like you're

604
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,800
Speaker 1: you're thinking about this past year, what you did accomplish,

605
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: what you didn't accomplish, what you want to accomplish. Actually, no,

606
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: you know what I'm thinking about this week is really busy.

607
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: This week, it's so busy. I'm just trying to get Yeah,

608
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 1: that's all it's going through my I have not crossed

609
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:59,280
Speaker 1: that bridge yet. I literally just looked at my schedule

610
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,240
Speaker 1: this week. Are you kidding me? Totally? No, I'm trying

611
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: to get I keep talking about jingle on, trying to

612
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: get to that. Yeah, Sarah is on our line called

613
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: one of two is getting those ginger Ball tickets Capital

614
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: one now and Sarah, how are you doing good? How

615
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: are you super good? So what's happening? Uh? So, super

616
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: weird thing happened at work last week. Um. I work

617
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 1: in a office it's like small with twelve people. Um,

618
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,919
Speaker 1: and my one co worker is getting married, so he,

619
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 1: I guess invited everyone in the office. He gave us

620
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 1: all saved the dates. Um, And after talking with a

621
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: few of my coworkers during lunch, I realized that on

622
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,080
Speaker 1: everyone else's envelope they have like their name and the

623
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: name of their partners, so they all got plus one

624
00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:50,400
Speaker 1: and mine only had my name. Even though I have

625
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: a fiance that I've brought to our office parties and everything,

626
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: everyone seemed to really like him. Um, but it seems

627
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,720
Speaker 1: like I didn't get a plus one to this wedding

628
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,359
Speaker 1: and it like kind of far away. It's like a

629
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 1: four hour drive or something. So I wasn't sure if

630
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: I should like talk to the guy that's getting married

631
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 1: and be like, do I have a plus one or

632
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 1: a couple of things here? You have a fiance, so

633
00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:19,040
Speaker 1: it's not a plus one, it's your partner. Yeah, exactly,

634
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,240
Speaker 1: do you want to go to this wedding four hours away?

635
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 1: It's a coworker. Do you want to go spend a

636
00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 1: weekend there? I mean, you know, our office is like

637
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 1: really close, like we're all friends, so it would be fun.

638
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Speaker 1: And I thought that me and him were good friends

639
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,960
Speaker 1: and that he liked my fiance. Like I was under

640
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 1: the impression that, you know, I think this is pretty

641
00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: easy to resolve. You want to go, you feel like

642
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: your closest coworker, you feel like you can talk to them.

643
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: Might just be an oversight. I think you can clearly say, hey,

644
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: just you know, I got this without a plus one,

645
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: and my plus one, not a plus one, is my fiance,

646
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: so we'd be happy to celebrate together. I just want

647
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,839
Speaker 1: to make sure that's cool. I don't want to many

648
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: toes here. And I think that coworker of years it's

649
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 1: getting married, it's gonna oh my gosh. Of course it

650
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,759
Speaker 1: might be an oversight. Maybe he just didn't realize or

651
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Speaker 1: you thought because we kind of we were if fiance's

652
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: we allotted our wedding, but if you were, if you

653
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:12,360
Speaker 1: kind of like, we're dating somebody and we didn't know

654
00:37:12,440 --> 00:37:14,640
Speaker 1: them or meet meet them yet, So for example, I

655
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: would have been no plus one at her wedding. That's

656
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:21,839
Speaker 1: what I think at that stage. Actually did just say

657
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, Ryan Seacrest not and guessed it wouldn't have

658
00:37:25,239 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 1: been telling you it wasn't that morning. I'll be calling people, Hey,

659
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 1: you want to go to a wedding later. But I've

660
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: also I've also called my friend who was getting married

661
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: when I was first starting to date Michael, and I

662
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 1: wanted to bring him to her wedding, and I asked

663
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: because she did not give me a plus one, and

664
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: I didn't want to go alone. So I think just

665
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:47,640
Speaker 1: asking is not a big deal. And also if they

666
00:37:47,680 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: say no, that's weird. You don't want to be at

667
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 1: that wedding anyway. Yeah, it's because, yeah, they like invited

668
00:37:55,480 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: my they invited my co worker's boyfriend that like we

669
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: all know and take. And so that's why I was

670
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,759
Speaker 1: just like that. I think it's you. It's an oversight. Well,

671
00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: good luck, Sarah, go ahead and talk to that cowork

672
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:09,720
Speaker 1: about it and tell them congratulations, thanks for taking you Bye.

673
00:38:10,200 --> 00:38:13,080
Speaker 1: It's funny how like the narrative we create is this

674
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 1: whole thing they don't like my fiance. I thought they did.

675
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: I thought were close to the coworker. Yet it's probably

676
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 1: just a complete mistake because who does the wedding invitation?

677
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 1: Somebody else? The third party many times, right, Yeah, I

678
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: think so with Ryan Seacrest, you know, I saw this

679
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 1: video and I played it on Live is Killing ran

680
00:38:34,480 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: the other day of Meredith and Jimmy and Flora at

681
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 1: a Safari drive through zoo. You've seen one of these?

682
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: You drive you drive through, right, Yeah, I want to

683
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: drive through situations you're in the car. Yeah, what was

684
00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:51,680
Speaker 1: kind of the thing of the last couple of years.

685
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: You're in the car and up just look at the

686
00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: at the animals they like walk up to you. Right. Yeah.

687
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:08,280
Speaker 1: So she's in the car and this camel here go viral.

688
00:39:12,640 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 1: The camel takes the whole bucket out of her hand

689
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:16,600
Speaker 1: through the car window of food, not just the food,

690
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: with the whole bucket her live. I mean the camels

691
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,720
Speaker 1: are like licking the car windows and the kids are

692
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:43,800
Speaker 1: sticking their hands out with bowls of food. Move said

693
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: of that word anyway, that was crazy if you do that,

694
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:56,200
Speaker 1: but look look dangerous and fun. Yeah, you know, I

695
00:39:56,640 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: get scared with big animal like that around the He

696
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,399
Speaker 1: might get scared about big animals around me. You don't

697
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:09,360
Speaker 1: want to That's what I'm saying. I don't know, but

698
00:40:10,160 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: all right, what do you got? So the twins are

699
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: in the doghouse or out of the doghouse. They're out

700
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 1: of the doghouse now, and you know, it's it's like

701
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: every day is a new thing and that we battle.

702
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: But a few weeks ago I picked up the kids

703
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:25,120
Speaker 1: from school and their teacher told me he's a hit

704
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: a student today at school. And as a parent, you

705
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: did never want to hear something like that. I felt

706
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 1: this like rush of guilt, and I was disappointed in myself,

707
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,840
Speaker 1: Like I wasn't even like I was mad. I was

708
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 1: disappointed in her, but it was just like it was

709
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,400
Speaker 1: a lot, right. So I spoke to her on the

710
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 1: car ride home, and Michael and I had to do

711
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 1: the whole like sit down in her room thing and

712
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 1: like talk to her about hitting. It was like the

713
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: first time we really had a discipline type of conversation

714
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 1: with her, which I don't even think got through to her.

715
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 1: She's three years old, um and so, but it was

716
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,520
Speaker 1: a big deal and reason it was like over a toy, right,

717
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: who knows. So the very next day we go to

718
00:41:04,120 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 1: school and the teacher, I mean, I pick up the

719
00:41:05,920 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 1: kids and you're like, Asa had a really good day,

720
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: no hitting, and she when she got here, she said

721
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,319
Speaker 1: sorry to the girl right away, and it was like,

722
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,239
Speaker 1: you know, a great day. But Max and hit a

723
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: kid today school. And I was like, what what's happening?

724
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:23,040
Speaker 1: Because Max and do it? And do Max? And I

725
00:41:23,080 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 1: think I think Michael and I gave too much attention

726
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 1: to Asa with all of it, Like I think so

727
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 1: I think he wanted us to do like the whole

728
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: sit down with him in the bedroom and talk to

729
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: him like I don't know, but it was just so

730
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 1: sense that that could be why I think so. But

731
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:41,959
Speaker 1: ever since then, and it's been a few weeks now,

732
00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: no hitting and we're passing, and so what's that conversation? Like,

733
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 1: I mean, i'd be at the door as the paraco.

734
00:41:48,400 --> 00:41:50,120
Speaker 1: What do I it's gonna be so uncomfortable? What do

735
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,200
Speaker 1: I sit down? Even say? Very simple, you just say,

736
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,440
Speaker 1: we don't treat people that way. Do you want somebody

737
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 1: to hit you? You don't. It hurts. It hurts people's feelings,

738
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 1: and we don't you know, we don't want that type

739
00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 1: of behavior. You have to instill the yeah and the

740
00:42:04,560 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: zero tolerance policy of it, right right, but it doesn't happen.

741
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 1: And this is what I'm realizing, like having twins, and

742
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 1: especially twins in the same classroom their siblings. Like I

743
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 1: don't know about you, but like I grew up with

744
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 1: my fighting with my brother and my sister, and we

745
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: always wrestled and there was always like hitting and things

746
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 1: like that, and so I I just like it happens

747
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:28,360
Speaker 1: here at the house, and so we just have to

748
00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: enforce it more here there exactly. But Inkling is accepted

749
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:37,720
Speaker 1: there that could magnify itself out in the real world somewhere.

750
00:42:38,000 --> 00:42:40,239
Speaker 1: So we do we do like go to your room.

751
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: Basically anytime there is a hitting, next they go to

752
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,279
Speaker 1: room for five minutes and think about what you did.

753
00:42:44,360 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: And that's what it's got consistently, consistently, consistently because yeah,

754
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: I mean, I think that frequency of them feeling the

755
00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,000
Speaker 1: way they feel and have to go to the room hopefully,

756
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: but I know it's the parent, like what did I do?

757
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: What did I do in the principle's office? What I

758
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 1: do wrong? I mean, of course you take responsibility. Oh man, hey,

759
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 1: you should write all these things down so that when

760
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: Tiny and I have kids separately, we have these notes separately.

761
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: Thank you for the disclaimer. Yeah, obviously if anybody listens

762
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:15,239
Speaker 1: to this show, they would know that. But I said,

763
00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: you don't want to do it for the first day.

764
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't. Don't you remember rna Era? Yeah,

765
00:43:29,160 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 1: that wasn't me driving, that was someone else driving that

766
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: It was When are your kids? Would beautiful? Actually, now

767
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,280
Speaker 1: that I think about it, well, how about you focus

768
00:43:45,320 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 1: on Robbie and you and let me how that goes first?

769
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: All right? So SI has a story on Kevin Hart's

770
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:56,080
Speaker 1: series on Netflix called True Story, where he's playing a

771
00:43:56,120 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: superstar comedian, but it's a dramatic role, and you know,

772
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,240
Speaker 1: I think the intent in a way was to create

773
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:08,320
Speaker 1: a little bit of not knowing what was Kevin Hard,

774
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 1: what was inspired by some of the things in his life?

775
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:12,600
Speaker 1: What are totally fictional? Now there are some things that

776
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:17,359
Speaker 1: are pretty obviously not in Kevin Art's life. But I

777
00:44:17,400 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: think it was great to see him in this dramatic role.

778
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,920
Speaker 1: He mean, truly is a superstar comedian, but he's great

779
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:27,160
Speaker 1: as a drama actor. When I started this last night,

780
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: it was PM. You guys, I did not go to

781
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,320
Speaker 1: bed until two in the morning last night. You're kidding.

782
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 1: I went, yes, And he's incredible. This series is I

783
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 1: I warned you because you're going to be hooked after

784
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 1: the first five minutes. Um. But you like, people are saying, like,

785
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:49,799
Speaker 1: is it based on a true story or not? It's

786
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: based on Kevin's character trying to cover up a murderer

787
00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: with the help of his brother. Wesley's next so what

788
00:44:56,320 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 1: about that party? The murder part is not the true story.

789
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:03,080
Speaker 1: It is like, let's obviously, but I was reading up

790
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,919
Speaker 1: a little bit because I was just so curious, and

791
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:10,319
Speaker 1: Kevin basically said, some things in here are true. So

792
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff that's kind of like the

793
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 1: day to day things that happened to him as being

794
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,880
Speaker 1: like a big mega star are true. Five minutes in

795
00:45:17,960 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: you see a very uncomfortable situation on an airplane with

796
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 1: him and a fan, and that was an absolutely true story,

797
00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: Kevin said, which is shocking to me because it was

798
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: it was so uncomfortable and I just can't believe that

799
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: stuff like that happens to him in the real world.

800
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:33,759
Speaker 1: So he says, the beauty of this project was that

801
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:37,239
Speaker 1: it was a stress reliever for him, and and that's

802
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: interesting in itself because it does the opposite. As a viewer,

803
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: I was stressed out the entire time. Like you're you

804
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:45,239
Speaker 1: get a little bit of anxiety watching this show. I

805
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,960
Speaker 1: don't know if you like that when you watch a series.

806
00:45:48,000 --> 00:45:53,319
Speaker 1: But you know, he's the true definition of a like

807
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: a of a movie star, right. I mean, he is

808
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:59,280
Speaker 1: a movie star, and he's so good in all those comedies.

809
00:45:59,360 --> 00:46:01,319
Speaker 1: But to see him in this kind of a role

810
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: was was really wonderful. It's really great, you know, I

811
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,480
Speaker 1: think there are inklings inside the characters playing where you go, Oh,

812
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: I could see how that might have come out of

813
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: real life. Then there are those things that are like

814
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,720
Speaker 1: really part of the drama that you know, it couldn't

815
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 1: have happened be doing a series and movies. But it's

816
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 1: is it called It's called true Story on Netflix right Yeah,

817
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,320
Speaker 1: it's called True Story. It's on Netflix right now. It

818
00:46:29,360 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: just came out. It's already in top ten. It is

819
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:40,719
Speaker 1: so good, Good Air with Ryan Seacrest. We're gonna we're

820
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 1: gonna balance out tomorrow morning. We have got more tickets too,

821
00:46:44,960 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: are sold out jingle Ball right here, So keep it on,

822
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Speaker 1: Kissing fem It's gonna be Friday before we not. Thanks

823
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,799
Speaker 1: for listening So On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure

824
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