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Speaker 1: the drip ooh good points. This is the answer the

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Speaker 2: What type outfit is it? What's four?

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Speaker 1: You can fly? Don't hate the drip, don't hate the drip,

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Speaker 1: says I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now,

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Speaker 1: my happiness. Today, I get home from work and automatically

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Speaker 1: couch in a full master Chief suit. What is from Halo? Okay,

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Speaker 1: I visual it's basically while I was looking it up,

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Speaker 1: The image is kind of out there. We go, wow,

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Speaker 1: So that's it's a full I mean, four grand I

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Speaker 2: A few of its pretty sick, but I would be

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Speaker 1: It must be. Yeah, yeah, especially if they have shared income.

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Speaker 2: They have shared income. And my partner comes back with that.

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Speaker 1: Chat baby guys, Zilla's like, yeah, jellybud, that's gonna be

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Speaker 1: lit that this looks super cool. Though it does look

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Speaker 1: pretty sick. I've always wanted to get the full like

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I want like a full on like

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Speaker 2: princess dress, fire fire.

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Speaker 1: Well, babe, we'll get them some day. We don't know.

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Speaker 1: So the conversation follows. I'm like, babe, is that you?

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Speaker 1: He's like, oh, hey, babe, hell is work? I'm like, good,

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Speaker 1: what's up with the Master Chiefs suit? He was like,

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Speaker 2: Pass up, okay, And I asked, it's really nice. How

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Speaker 1: Uh? Four thousand?

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Speaker 2: And I said, no, that's funny.

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Speaker 1: How much was it really well? I said, and he said,

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Speaker 1: uh no, really it was four thousand. So at this

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Speaker 1: point I'm living, Thank you, Riley. I start yelling and

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Speaker 1: was very heated. I found out he put it on

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Speaker 1: Oh and decides that four K on a master Chief

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Speaker 3: What do I do at this point? Here we go,

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Speaker 3: So you do talk to me. You make him go

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Speaker 3: outside and work for that money. Go, go get pictures,

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Speaker 3: go to New York Times Square. I don't give the

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Speaker 3: f made that money back?

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Speaker 2: Dollar right now, right now?

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Speaker 1: That's what I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Sell it and charge it for five thousand or how bad?

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Speaker 1: Op?

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Speaker 3: How bad do you want this money back? Because like cosplay?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's what someone commented right what they said.

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Speaker 2: He only does one? He only does one cosplay.

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Speaker 1: Madam Mary. If it was a costplay from a costplay maker,

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Speaker 1: The question is you literally have our living paycheck to

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Speaker 1: paycheck incredibly, irresponded, Darlene, credit cards are not free money.

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Speaker 1: That is incorrect.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's like, I couldn't pass it up.

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Speaker 1: It was simply too too good. And I'm a little

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Speaker 1: for it. Johnny Bag says, you leave him. He's too

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Speaker 1: And again they are twenty one female and twenty two males,

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Speaker 1: need to start in of you know, that could maybe

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Speaker 1: earn his money back. Yeah, you neither need to.

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Speaker 2: You need to work.

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Speaker 1: You need to figure out how to get the money

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Speaker 2: Yes, gotta show that it's worth something.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Electric Fox says he spent four thousand dollars

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Speaker 1: on a cosplay outfit that literally achieved nothing. The only

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Speaker 1: in Halloween. This guy could be Jeff Bezos's bastard. He

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Speaker 1: still wasted four thousand dollars. He put on a likely

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Speaker 1: twenty percent interest rate credit card, probably more than twenty

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Speaker 1: thirty percent. P d. Russ says, Sell him on eBay? Yeah, nice, sweet.

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Speaker 1: Callahan says, if you sell him dressed in the suit,

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Speaker 1: that's four thousand dollars in one in your pocket. Goddamn. Also,

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Speaker 2: We've already shown, you've already established.

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Speaker 1: Uh. Salomon three five two says master Chief is the

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Speaker 1: a four K master Chief suit must be freaking awesome.

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Speaker 1: I love like how all over the place comment, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, two things can exist at the same time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is true.

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Speaker 2: Leave him and that must be a really cool suit.

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Speaker 1: None of Cohn says. That's all they say. Important. You

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Speaker 1: that is where the story lands, so funny. My job

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Speaker 2: Jaw on the floor, Oh.

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Speaker 1: God, says two says, crap, that actually looks pretty cool. Lol.

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Speaker 2: I think it's also funny that he had to be like,

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, It's like, wait, this couldn't possibly be something

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Speaker 3: Do we even have?

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Speaker 2: Yes? Break up? Break break up? Because he's making really

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Speaker 2: financially irresponsible decisions without consulting her, even though he doesn't

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Speaker 2: I don't like him.

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Speaker 1: I think he has one shot because the first conversation

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Speaker 1: his final chance, I would say, is like, all right,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you what's what right now, and

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Speaker 1: if you don't respond like phenomenally, there's the door. Yes

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Speaker 1: to my says, drop it like it's hot.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's hot.

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Speaker 1: It's hot.

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Speaker 1: Also, Devil's advocate, can you get a refund? That's a

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Speaker 3: Probably not.

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Speaker 2: I don't think. I feel like he would not be

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Speaker 1: The one that Riley pulled up, it was like the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking of. It was custom made.

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Speaker 1: I don't for four thousand, it better be custom made. Yeah, people,

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Speaker 1: it freaking better me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh yeah at four thousand.

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Speaker 1: There you go, Eric, you go. It would be hilarious

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Speaker 1: if we got suits like that, all of us and

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Speaker 2: In there would be an expensive stream.

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Speaker 1: It would be we can't do that.

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Speaker 2: But I also don't think I would I would feel

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Speaker 1: It's too much, it is.

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Speaker 2: I think I would feel twelve thousand dollars. I don't

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Speaker 1: That's a car. That's like the car of my car.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever spent more than two hundred

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Speaker 1: You know, after the post, I decided to confront my

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's like a tracking app.

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Speaker 1: Ah, I see it. I go on Life through sixty,

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Speaker 1: she she loves my suits.

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Speaker 2: That is so funny that a random comment who is

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Speaker 2: else to help him put that costume on kind of

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't know yet, but would you pull up

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Speaker 1: to the house right now?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I pull up to the house in another costume.

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Speaker 1: Nice? Oh in whoever the master chiefs? Yeah, nevosis. I

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Speaker 1: forget the people anyways. Oh in a groundhog? You don't

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Speaker 1: little like so cool? What Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was just saying, yeah, I don't know. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was reading comments.

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Speaker 1: So I text and ask him where he's at, and

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Speaker 1: he was saying, it's none of my business, all right,

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Speaker 1: What the f ever? The next day I wake up

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Speaker 1: respect boyfriend's wishes to look like his and my favorite

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Speaker 2: At that point, keep him what.

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Speaker 1: I think at first I was like, oh man, she's

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Speaker 1: There's the door. Right, I'm wrong, No, No, I can't.

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Speaker 2: That's why. Then that's why she's your ex.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into this next story that you're reading. John.

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Speaker 1: It was this is Opie's boyfriend and my husband or

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Speaker 2: No, not quite yet, because I have.

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Speaker 1: Another story, just one, just one? Is this the end

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you better make it good.

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Speaker 1: Divorce on the table because husband and I can't agree

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, you shouldn't be. But if, like, if you cannot

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Speaker 1: Maybe you should be divorced. So Sophia says divorce.

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Speaker 2: But like it shouldn't be a divorce worthy thing.

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Speaker 1: But you say divorce. You have to pick yes, divars, Okay, no,

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Speaker 1: hmm what what?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I oh no, divorce divor what what?

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Speaker 1: It's such a great name. Baby.

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Speaker 1: You want me to be happy with the neighbors for me?

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Speaker 1: What you know? You like history?

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: My wild He's like, no, it's actually not about like

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Speaker 1: Uh. It's not any X but the one he dated

440
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,159
Speaker 1: for a long period of time and loved the most.

441
00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:55,920
Speaker 1: In the beginning of our relationship, we had many problems

442
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 1: because of her, but she moved away, so the problems

443
00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,720
Speaker 1: went away. He really loves her and he never hid

444
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 1: that from me. But I thought once it was but

445
00:23:04,440 --> 00:23:07,720
Speaker 1: I thought it was over once she moved away. She

446
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,200
Speaker 1: was still exhibiting signs of loving.

447
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 2: Her, still exhibiting signs.

448
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 1: While while you were in the relationship. A man, madam, madam.

449
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,959
Speaker 1: Now he made it clear that he wants the baby

450
00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 1: to have that name, and I can name the second child.

451
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 1: When I asked him why he does want the name

452
00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:32,280
Speaker 1: so badly, he said, just because he and his ex

453
00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 1: didn't work out doesn't mean he doesn't want something to

454
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 1: keep reminding of him.

455
00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:39,639
Speaker 2: Divorce, divorce.

456
00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 1: He needs to remind her, Sophia, what do you mean

457
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: your ex girlfriend? He wants to remember the good old

458
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: days ayah, And when he leaves her to go get

459
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: her back, then the baby is named after her.

460
00:23:54,680 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, Oh my god, this man is bunkers. Leave

461
00:24:00,560 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 2: him right now.

462
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: He doesn't understand how much it's affecting me and kept

463
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 1: saying it's just the hormones.

464
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 2: Oh my god, man.

465
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 1: Is he still in love with the X or is

466
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: it normal that he wants the name our child like that?

467
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 1: Thank you? What do you mean?

468
00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 2: Is he still in love with his ex?

469
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:26,040
Speaker 1: Yes? All right, yeah, let's talk about it. So, yes,

470
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 1: he is still in love with the X. Just oh,

471
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: it just makes my skin crawl when people do stuff

472
00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: like this and they and they don't acknowledge it. He's like,

473
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 1: it's your hormones.

474
00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 2: What if anything's gonna make me beat you up?

475
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:47,800
Speaker 1: If anything? She's being massively reasonable, being like, am I

476
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 1: in the wrong? Here? Am I crazy?

477
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 3: Am I?

478
00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: Am I overreacting? Am I underreacting?

479
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: Am I underreact? Ai? U o ai u oh yeah

480
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: u oh and you are you are not u O?

481
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 2: You are no, you are you are underreacting?

482
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:12,040
Speaker 1: You are u O? What's the riley? Could you look

483
00:25:12,119 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 1: up real quick?

484
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:12,919
Speaker 2: Uh?

485
00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: The process for gaining gaining custody while still pregnant before birth?

486
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 2: Because yeah, that is My flabbers are gasted.

487
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,719
Speaker 1: My flabbers are fully all the way gasted, so gassed.

488
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:32,520
Speaker 1: Yeah this is I Yeah, I'm I would. I would, Yeah,

489
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,639
Speaker 1: probably literally divorce and just go and see if you

490
00:25:35,680 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: can get immediately full custody.

491
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 2: So that you don't freaking have to call your child,

492
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,239
Speaker 2: your ex, your you're soon to be ex husband's X.

493
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: Here we go. He makes the deal with it, right, Yeah,

494
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: are you ready, Sophia? I will give you full custody.

495
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:53,320
Speaker 1: I will give you child support. I will not fight

496
00:25:53,359 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: it in court at all. You have to name her

497
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: after my ex. You never have to worry about him

498
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: ever again. But literally, every time you call your own

499
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: flesh and blood, it's your ex toxic what you got

500
00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: for me?

501
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 3: You say yes, and you call her by her middle name,

502
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:12,080
Speaker 3: and at eighteen you can say you can change your

503
00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 3: name and I will pay all for it.

504
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:16,119
Speaker 1: Interesting.

505
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 3: Interesting, That's what I would.

506
00:26:17,280 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 2: Do if okay, But so in this scenario, the husband

507
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 2: is never going to see her again because he's probably

508
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 2: gonna color.

509
00:26:24,040 --> 00:26:26,240
Speaker 1: Completely steps out. I mean he has like he's like,

510
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: he's basically like, I'll get out of your life for good.

511
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 1: So you don't have to have to worry about she

512
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,440
Speaker 1: wants that. Well, however, you want me literally basically, what

513
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: do you want? You want except whenever you want, except

514
00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 1: your except the daughter's name has to be my first ding.

515
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 2: You're taking it making a deal with the devil.

516
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: That is making a deal with the devil. But hey,

517
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:47,960
Speaker 1: that's the deal on the table. Fair enough, fight him,

518
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: fight out, and you know the fight continues or maybe

519
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: begins because the fire strikes back. O. We have some

520
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 1: relevant comments.

521
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 2: Read them.

522
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: G Sit says, I know a woman who who wanted

523
00:27:00,600 --> 00:27:03,640
Speaker 1: to name her baby after an ex. She ended up

524
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:10,359
Speaker 1: stabbing the current boyfriend. Just putting that out there. It happens. Okay,

525
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: you know, you want to name a baby after your X,

526
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:17,480
Speaker 1: they disagree, you stab them literally. Spoon Bill says, I'm

527
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: more concerned about his lack of respect for you as

528
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: a partner, his number one, his number one, his wife.

529
00:27:22,440 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: You might try relationship counseling, but I suspect his disrespect

530
00:27:26,359 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 1: extends beyond the baby naming issue. Yeah, what's your reactions to?

531
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 2: Well, actually, okay, I think I would be okay with

532
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,199
Speaker 2: them naming it, but I wouldn't be okay like like

533
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:41,000
Speaker 2: in this scenario of fight or he leaves and you

534
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 2: get custody because it's not the exact name. I would

535
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: be okay with it, but I'd still divorce them because

536
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:48,919
Speaker 2: it's weird that they're trying to remember their X.

537
00:27:49,000 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, trying to honor their X through it. I'm trying

538
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 1: to find as.

539
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: Long as the ex died and everyone loved them, That's

540
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 3: when I'd be like, alright, cool, all right, that's.

541
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: Still it's still kind of a lot Okay, here we go. Ever,

542
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:05,640
Speaker 1: since we found out it's going to be a girl,

543
00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 1: my husband wants to name it like his ex's name. Yeah,

544
00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm I am interpreting that as the name, and op

545
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 1: he's just writing it kind of a little bit weird. Yeah,

546
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 1: like name it like like that person's Yeah, but that.

547
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,160
Speaker 3: This is what California said about custody before the baby

548
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 3: is born. In California, you cannot file for custody until

549
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 3: the baby is born.

550
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: Oh I didn't know that.

551
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: Interesting? Is there more to the story.

552
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: Uh, you bet your bottom dollar.

553
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 2: You bet your bottom dollar.

554
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: Tomorral Suore sixteen says, tell him that you want to

555
00:28:43,360 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: name your second child after one of your previous f

556
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: buddies because the spicy sleep was so good you just

557
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: want to be reminded of it even though things didn't

558
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: work out. Like, seriously, what the F is he thinking?

559
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: I don't know your husband's feelings towards his X, but

560
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:03,880
Speaker 1: it's not normal. It ain't normal. Mary Janey says, Wow,

561
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: he just told you you are second best. He is

562
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 1: he blatantly is saying that he settled with you.

563
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 2: No way, no way, no way, no way, Jose, no way, Jose.

564
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 1: But we have an update, but let's get into this update.

565
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for the late update, but the last few

566
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: weeks have been hell for me. I'm gonna write a

567
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: quick update here, mostly to thank all those for opening

568
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: my eyes about everything. I also apologize for English mistakes

569
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 1: because I'm from Italy and it's not my native language.

570
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:42,479
Speaker 1: I followed through most advice in the comments from calling

571
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 1: our friends, which also when she was saying, oh, name

572
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: him like that person that was probably a I bet

573
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: an Italian.

574
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think, yeah, I think it's naming the name,

575
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 2: asking his mom talking.

576
00:29:57,320 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: To him and and calling the X big move? Would

577
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: you have called? I don't know your husband?

578
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 2: I don't know why, why why would you call the X?

579
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 2: I don't know, just asking like Harry's still seeing him?

580
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I don't know. I don't know. Uh. This

581
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: post blew up in two days, and I then decided

582
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,959
Speaker 1: to show him comments where everyone said that we should

583
00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:25,560
Speaker 1: not name our child after an ex and also breakup.

584
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: He said, I'm listening to random social media strangers instead

585
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:34,040
Speaker 1: of my husband and called me so many bad names,

586
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 1: refuses to talk about it, and still wants to name

587
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:44,960
Speaker 1: our child after his ex divorce next thing I do

588
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: is call his mom and mutual friends. His mom called

589
00:30:48,080 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 1: me immature and said.

590
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 2: It's just the name.

591
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: Why are these people all right? And I should only

592
00:30:53,840 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: care about delivering the child healthy and not argue with him.

593
00:30:56,960 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: What were something so stupid?

594
00:31:00,400 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 3: That's why he is the way he is.

595
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: This is her fault.

596
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 1: The apple does not fall far from the tree, and

597
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: that's why I'm an orange. Actually, it would be super

598
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: hilarious if we could find costumes, so like Riley has

599
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,840
Speaker 1: a giant steak costume, I have a giant orange costume.

600
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 1: You're a worm and Sam with the pigeon masks perfect. Oh,

601
00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,520
Speaker 1: that'll be so good our friends actually, but even better

602
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,160
Speaker 1: a full on pigeons.

603
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 2: I also think it would be funny if we all

604
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,880
Speaker 2: had full on and he just had a mask full

605
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,640
Speaker 2: on what mass Well, if we had all full on

606
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 2: costumes and he just had a mask.

607
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: That wild would also be hilarious. So many hilarious angles.

608
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 3: He could put the mask on.

609
00:31:41,320 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 1: Now that's true, that's what he that would help. Our

610
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 1: friends said, he is sick. Our friends said they don't

611
00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: want to get in between us, and suggested therapy as well.

612
00:31:53,520 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: I was really desperate, so I did something I never

613
00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: would I called the X. She didn't surprise at all

614
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 1: and said she kind of knew he was going to

615
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: name the child after her, which she explained it fully

616
00:32:06,600 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: because he couldn't look at me in the eyes and

617
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: say all that. The two of them had an agreement

618
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: while they were still in love, to name their children

619
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: after each other if they don't work out.

620
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 3: What when they were like teenagers when they were sixteen?

621
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 2: Come on, if this doesn't happen, will you name your

622
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,840
Speaker 2: child after me so that we can always remember the

623
00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: beautiful time that we spent together.

624
00:32:31,520 --> 00:32:36,640
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's like so freaking beautiful, pomotic crap tears.

625
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 2: Out of my eyes too, crap tears, Oh my god,

626
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 2: crap tears out of his eyes.

627
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, because they're twenty three and twenty four. They've been

628
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: together for three years, so this X is like twenty twenty.

629
00:32:48,680 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 1: It's teens almost certainly, yay. In high school they're.

630
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: Like and she was like, yeah, I was a teenager

631
00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 2: and now I know that was stupid. And he's like, no, yeah, right, yeah,

632
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,880
Speaker 2: I'm still in love with her. I love you.

633
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,880
Speaker 1: She left him and obviously grew out of it and

634
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:13,560
Speaker 1: said she would never name her child after him because

635
00:33:13,560 --> 00:33:17,120
Speaker 1: it's absurd, but she wasn't surprised that he still wants

636
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 1: to do it. When I asked her why, she why

637
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:23,960
Speaker 1: does she say that? Well, here comes the shock. My

638
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: husband tried getting in contact with her via Facebook several times,

639
00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: asking to meet up, and she kept refusing because he's

640
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 1: a married man. W X.

641
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, w X. The X sounds much more mature than

642
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 2: he is and probably why she broke up.

643
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: With him very much. So hope you can see that

644
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:47,680
Speaker 1: she is not a bad person. And by the way,

645
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: for anyone who asked, her name is Aurora dosed And

646
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't mind naming my child Aurora because it's a

647
00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,440
Speaker 1: beautiful name. Kind of is a litaname lie and she

648
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: isn't a bad person, but I don't want to raise

649
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 1: someone who will remind my husband I'm his ex. Yeah,

650
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: that the aura is low. I thanked her for telling

651
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:13,160
Speaker 1: me the truth and asked her to inform me if

652
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 1: he tries to contact her again.

653
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 2: It.

654
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: Confronted my husband about it and told him I know

655
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: the truth. Ah, being an a hole as he is,

656
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: he admitted and said that there's nothing wrong in it.

657
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Man, He's like, no, no, you'd understand.

658
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: It's totally normal for people to want to get back

659
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Speaker 2: to with the Rexes while they're married.

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Speaker 1: He said, the baby is mine, she will look like me.

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Speaker 1: At least he gets to name name it as her,

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Speaker 1: like he promised he would.

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Speaker 2: He's completely glossing over the fact that he tried to

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Speaker 2: get with this woman. Okay, divorce him.

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Speaker 1: As if as if the baby looking like her would

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Speaker 1: have any bearance on it, any bearing on it. But

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Speaker 1: you don't know what the baby's gonna look like.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, you're so dumb, so stupid.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. I told him it's nonsense, and even

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Speaker 1: Aurora said it's stupid, but he stick to his decision.

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Speaker 1: We didn't talk much, and he spent days and nights

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Speaker 1: out with his single friends. Important. Pretty soon I got

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Speaker 1: a call from Aurora and she tells me he called

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Speaker 1: her from his friend's phone and told her how he

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Speaker 1: is single now and asked to meet up and that

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Speaker 1: he would fly up just to see her.

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Speaker 2: Freaking lied.

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Speaker 1: He freaking lied, and listen if she was if she

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Speaker 1: was down, he would have already cheated.

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Speaker 2: He would have already cheated. She had said yes, yeah.

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Speaker 2: The only things standing the way, is Aurora being a

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Speaker 2: good person.

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Speaker 1: M After all those years with no contact with her,

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Speaker 1: marriage with me, a future daughter, she is still in

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Speaker 1: his mind and he wants to meet. I'm sorry. Ope,

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Speaker 1: I think he wants to do a little.

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Speaker 2: More than more than a meter, a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: I'm completely broken. Divorce is the only thing in my mind.

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00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 1: But it will be so stressful with pregnancy and everything else.

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Speaker 1: That's true, Like, you're absolutely but it needs in your

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Speaker 1: early twenties, you're pregnant. Yeah, it's it sucks what it

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Speaker 1: needs to happen. I guess I wanted to be blind

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Speaker 1: with him, but thanks to this app, I at least

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Speaker 1: won't spend my life with someone.

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Speaker 2: You love you.

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Speaker 1: Edits also Reddit, feel free to drop names in the

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Speaker 1: comments docs.

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Speaker 2: To some effort.

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Speaker 1: Do the actually like baby names? Yeah, I was thinking Riley,

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Speaker 1: I thought the same as you. But yeah, that's what

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Speaker 1: it is. I don't want to name my child Aurora

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00:36:46,200 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 1: because it would forever remind me of this incident, and

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Speaker 1: I can't think about names. So help me out. Maybe

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Speaker 1: in this episode, maybe we pick.

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Speaker 2: We pick. I think we should. I think that is

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Speaker 2: I think that is only right.

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Speaker 1: I think that's very right relevant comments. It's from Witty

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Speaker 1: and Pithy, who says, sorry, sounds like you are still

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Speaker 1: in the crap. He said, there's nothing wrong in it.

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Speaker 1: Baby is mine. She will look like me, and at

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Speaker 1: least he gets to name it like he promised her

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00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: he would. He called her from his friend's phone and

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00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 1: told her you single now and asked to meet up,

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00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 1: and they would just fly up to meet her. I'm sorry,

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00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: but it seems like the person you married wishes he

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00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,319
Speaker 1: married someone else. It's really effed up. But I don't

717
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: think he loves you. He may never have loved you.

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00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 1: He may have just settled for you. But there are

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Speaker 1: a few wonderful things ahead of you. You can be

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Speaker 1: grateful that Aurora has been honest with you. That is

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Speaker 1: really helpful to you. You can be grateful you learn

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00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 1: the truth about your ex now and not three, five,

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00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 1: ten years time down the line. You can be grateful

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Speaker 1: for now that you're able to take care, to take

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00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,960
Speaker 1: back your life and work on creating a happy life

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Speaker 1: in the future. Ps. His mom sounds just as aft

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Speaker 1: up as he does. Ruvall says she you should name

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Speaker 1: the baby Borealis.

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Speaker 2: Just Someone in the chat said that too.

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Speaker 1: That's good, just to f with her soon to be

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Speaker 1: x I agree, nor Zeko says not Helio feminine from

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Speaker 1: the Greek name heloslos Greek god of the sun, i e.

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Speaker 1: The big shining ball of plasma, which is the ultimate.

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Speaker 2: Source of the Aurora borealities. Yeah, Helios, who before Apollo

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Speaker 2: was was the sun.

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Speaker 1: Dude, this is some Kendrick level disk stuff right here.

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Speaker 2: I like it.

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Speaker 1: The ultimate R slash malicious g.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Op's boyfriend's too stupid to get it.

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Speaker 1: Pretty funny, stupid hate you, Armanal says, well, at least now, Well,

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Speaker 1: at least now he is a piece of crap who

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Speaker 1: tries to cheat while his wife is giving birth to

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Speaker 1: his child. You deserve better name her Alicia? What and

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Speaker 1: this is all? Ohiley, did you find any another one?

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Speaker 3: Said Angelica?

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Speaker 1: Angelica, I love the names.

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Speaker 3: The only other name or Grace Grace.

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Speaker 1: I love the name Philomina.

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Speaker 3: But then one got download.

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Speaker 2: Too, can I can? I see? So we had Bory Alice,

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Speaker 2: Philamina alias what were the other last two? Alicia?

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Speaker 1: It kind of sucks that.

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Speaker 2: It's happened that.

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Speaker 1: Also, her name is Aurora, that is.

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Speaker 2: That's such a pretty name, but I also understand why

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Speaker 2: she doesn't want it.

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Speaker 1: What's what's her nickname?

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Speaker 2: Aurora Rory? Oh my god, like Gilmore Girls, Rory, I.

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00:39:51,360 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 1: Was saying, or but Rory works like or Iron Ore good.

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Speaker 2: It would be cute though.

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Speaker 1: Some cute stuff going on right there. But let's answer

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Speaker 1: the questions, the question what arguments are worth breaking up over?

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Speaker 1: I think this one, this one definitely for sure, zooming back, uh,

764
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Speaker 1: let's zoom back? Or the one with the chicken, the

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Speaker 1: chicken hater boy friend break up, definitely that one, and

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00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:28,719
Speaker 1: then finally the four K Outfit break up break up.

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Speaker 2: I think. I think we've learned that most arguments are

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Speaker 2: with but what about.

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Speaker 1: What about what type of arguments are worth? I think, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we can specify. All of these seem to root around

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Speaker 1: complete disrespect.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I agree with disrespect, complete disrespect, lack of communication,

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00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 2: and I think that if you if you're willing to

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00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:55,840
Speaker 2: have that communication with your partner, then don't break.

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00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: Up because if you don't have r e SP you're

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00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: gonna find out what it means. It means divorce, That's

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00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 1: what that means.

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00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: It means d I v O r C y d

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00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 2: I v O r C let's the rest of the song.

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00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: I am divorcing you hate me? Yeah, I hate you

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00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 1: and you hate me. That's pretty God, it's pretty good.

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00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 2: D I v oh wait, you know what it is

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00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:26,600
Speaker 2: the same.

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00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:34,960
Speaker 1: Yeah it is right. Yeah, I got hate me. That

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00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:36,560
Speaker 1: was that was good. I hate you when you hate me.

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00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,479
Speaker 1: Thank you. It's a perfect follow up line. We're gonna

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00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: our new hit single, Divorce, Divorce coming coming soon.

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Speaker 2: Soon to radio stations near you. Or like the Dwarf

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00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 2: and Hobbit Dory or that's true, the.

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00:41:52,280 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: Orphan Hobbit, you know, or orphan in the Orphan the Hobbit.

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00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:04,120
Speaker 3: This is the last one, everyone, This is it, This

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00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 3: is it, for.

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Speaker 1: Real, for real. You've got to read that story.